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IntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:01 AM
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Question For WomenIntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 12:19 AM
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IntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:24 PM
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IntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:48 PM
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IntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:41 PM
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IntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:59 PM
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IntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:46 PM
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IntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:18 PM
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PurgeIntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:06 PM
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IntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:10 PM
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DiscussionIntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:05 PM
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IntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:28 AM
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IntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:39 PM
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IntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:50 PM
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IntrepidStart/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:53 AM
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I reckon porn is acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:34 AM
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The best ways to say ""I'm sorry" is to get with him and go ass to mouth. Nothing says love like smudge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:16 AM
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Kitafile
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:53 PM
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Some childfree women are viewed negatively by other women who have had kids. Got my fair share of questions and attitudes regarding my choice not to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:49 PM
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As I get older I appreciate reptiles more and other animals that stay in their own habitat most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:21 PM
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They play an important part in the ecosystem. Same for bees which are in trouble now but no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:14 PM
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Outdoor roaches, around homes, have a higher chance of being exposed to pesticides or yard care chemicals. That is why it's a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:13 PM
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Don't forget to ear your vegetables...oops backslide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:11 PM
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Glad to see his kids following him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:06 PM
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I'm both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:57 PM
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Haven't heard "dunce" in a while. I remember your weekly thread post about feeding him/her a roach you caught. Bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:56 PM
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Tarantula, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:52 PM
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I'm the second
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:47 PM
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Well it is purge week.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:45 PM
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Fried Green Tomatoes and The Secretary
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:43 PM
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This is why not having a solid father in the family destroys the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:38 PM
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Somewhat agree but I'm an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:33 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:32 PM
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I'm 50. These young women better be scared. But I married at 18 because I wanted to be a wife. My mom divorced when I was 16 and I got to see her and other single women her age dating. Foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:28 PM
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Just laws set forth by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:38 PM
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You just get married five minutes ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:30 PM
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I'm a woman so my "intelligence" only allows to focus on limited things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:26 PM
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Glad to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:53 PM
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Democrat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:28 PM
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So that is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:27 PM
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Too late
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:26 PM
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I think older women who don't have to care for a man are happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:07 PM
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Single?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:06 PM
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Too much porn with death grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:56 PM
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One of my favorite songs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:55 PM
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Once women got economic independence, marriage isn't good for them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:37 PM
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Marriage does not exist on it's own but is defined by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:35 PM
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I love a dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:34 PM
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Lots of women aren't okay, but their men do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:27 PM
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Men free pass themselves on porn and strip clubs all the time but flip when their girl gets a benign message from a male coworker. Both sexes, if they really want to maintain monogamy, need to keep "gateway" behaviors in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:10 PM
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Yes but it is nothing mystical. I've been married to mine for 31 years. But, you cannot be swayed by "in love" when looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:06 PM
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Nah, I'm just acknowledging that AMALT is as applicable as RP's AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:09 PM
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I belong to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:07 PM
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If men are polygamous then strong temptation should be avoided. A strip club is one step closer. It is legal voyarism. You cannot trust a man not to cheat, nor a woman, even if the relationship is good. Therefore both sexes should acknowledge their sexual natures and avoid temptation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:16 PM
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Ask the question again when you are 35 plus. But you will probably get it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:12 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:10 PM
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Not married, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:45 PM
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Nice one-handed typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:42 PM
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Me. I'm the bring the gun to a knife fight type and will leave you alive with a reminder of me by way of an acid splash to the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:38 PM
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With my husband for our 30 or 31st anniversary getaway. We were both in the moment and the rhythm was perfect. "Your mine." I couldn't move something that was heavy, and my husband did it for me and just took over. Tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:35 PM
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So are you returning to Islam? I'm an ex-convert.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:24 PM
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Are you Muslim?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:22 PM
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In other words, the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:50 AM
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Go lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:49 AM
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"I won't let pussy control me, I'll just die for it."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:47 AM
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My reply was to your edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:43 AM
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The same as your immigrant woman. Did you not read the sidebar?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:39 AM
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There is a 35 single mother of five waiting for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:35 AM
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Your first sentence describes an independent woman. If she will cut her family off, she will trade up and cash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:33 AM
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Then there is the extended family or childhood friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:30 AM
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Your immigrant warbride will bleed you dry. Because you are the "rich westerner" who will help support and bring the whole family over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:27 AM
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Welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:25 AM
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They just lie by omission and deception to get them to the altar. Much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:25 AM
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You are just one mailorder bride away from being betabuxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:19 AM
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Foreign women who come to a western country will eventually behave the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:16 AM
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I don't get it???? Isn't the demon Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:51 AM
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That's when I got mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:38 AM
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Interracial children won't have to worry as much about skin cancer and white people age badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:30 AM
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Had a coworker tell me I was selfish for not wanting kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:13 AM
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What happed to Lewis Cross?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:10 AM
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To my knowledge no. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:06 AM
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Importing???? Nah, this is homegrown where I'm at.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:03 AM
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No, I'm white.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:01 AM
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I did my part by not adding to the white population by being childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:59 AM
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Talking about races and not individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:54 AM
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That's why you get the tattoo and piercings after marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:50 AM
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But true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:46 AM
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My parents weren't too involved in my life and didn't care I got married. Friends were surprised by the age.. Everyone, I think, assumed I pregnant, wasn't. People gave me a harder time about not wanting kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:45 AM
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Still not sure what you are asking. I always wanted to be married and never viewed marriage as a negative or something that held you back or down. I also watched my friends hook up would losers and end up with multiple kids by different dads. Didn't look too fun or freeing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:32 AM
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Don't understand the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:24 AM
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How long have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:21 AM
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Who cleans your house? Isn't there laundry to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:19 AM
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No one believes me when I say it, but it's true. Nothing is hard about being married so long. The hardest thing in my marriage happened around year five when he told me, "I don't love you as much as I used to." And spent all his free time hanging out with friends, until 4 a.m.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:16 AM
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Thanks, but I'm not awesome at all. I knew what I wanted early and I went for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:13 AM
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Do you cook for your family and clean house and help with homework?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:12 AM
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No. And no. Having multiple sexual partners is nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:07 AM
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If you have a job, kids and a husband, how can you spend so much time on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:05 AM
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I don't feel I missed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:03 AM
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I wasn't a virgin. My husband is my second sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:44 PM
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My husband doesn't want me to discuss our sexlife so I will give enough generalities to give you an idea. Sex frequency has remained pretty much steady over the years. Both of us have moderate drives, even when dating. So we match up. Whatever he wants as long as it is monogamous he gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:00 PM
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I do not fear old age, but loss of health and job prospects that come with it. I plan on exiting shortly after my husband should that be the case. Dark romantic. Yes I consider myself old. Feeling old happened at 46 when I noticed getting jobs was harder. I have dogs, one greencheeck conure, and bearded dragons. Atheist. Least favorite country would be one of the poorer middle eastern ones. Least favorite race is African American. But note, I would not exclude them when dating or marrying. Hot p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:41 PM
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I always wanted to be married so I actually think the "eat, pray, love" types missed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:33 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:26 PM
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Swingers, open and poly. You asked...disease ridden people I would not let use my toilet or be friends with. Kids playing with matches, too dumb to realize the house they burn down will be their own. My siblings were 6 and 8 when I left. We are not close. I would rather have an infant than a toddler. Kids get easier after age force or six.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:21 PM
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I don't have one favorite thing because I like him as a whole being and not just parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:15 PM
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His morals and character.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:11 PM
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I grew up as the oldest. And my mom turned me into the nanny. So between HS, working and watching my much younger siblings I was tired of kids. My husband had a vasectomy around age 21 or 22. He too didn't want kids. And yes, people asked me for years when we were having kids. I was called selfish by a coworker for not wanting kids. But I knew the same people pressuring me would not be there to help me raise them so I didn't care what they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:06 PM
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That first comment got removed on the marriage sub. I was deliberately trying to trigger the mods. The second quoted paragraph is my real view.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:48 PM
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I didn't miss out on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:45 PM
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No kids. Yes we fart in front of the other and burp too. Both of our parents are divorced. His father walked out for another woman. My mom dumped my dad for another man. So answer is yes. FOMO. Not sure what acronym means. Our sexlife has stayed the same for the most part. He is not HL but moderate. I'm moderate but will meet his needs if he wants more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:37 PM
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I don't advise people to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:31 PM
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Because men don't want nice and sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:29 PM
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Would do it again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:23 PM
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None.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:23 PM
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Snake owners are not freaks. Certain species of snakes make wonderful pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:16 PM
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Women trade across more than up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:31 PM
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Yes. It would allow me to have resources and actively look for a better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:59 AM
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And, I've got a 2012 Toyota Corolla and 980 sq.ft. house to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:37 AM
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No. I need his health insurance coverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:15 AM
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In a LTR plan on either cheating or being cheated on happening. There is a good probability that one of you will cheat since men and women cheat at roughly the same rates. Some people cheat to stay in a relationship they find otherwise satisfying. Google it. Some people can have sex without emotional connection to their affair partner so they are not tempted by emotions to break up the existing relationship. If you do and decide you want to keep your existing relationship, never 'fess up and be …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:43 PM
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I did vegetarian for a year. Not vegan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 09:02 PM
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Took my bearded dragon outside and sat with her on the porch for an hour. Came back in to mix up her Bearded Dragon Buffet food, and she took a dump. Cleaned it up and wiped her feet, tail and vent. Fed her and spritzed water for her to drink. She's now basking on her rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 06:43 PM
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No, man just better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 10:07 PM
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Women aren't as committed as men so if course they divorce more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 10:06 PM
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The husbands are probably married to nagging wives before illness. A guy can only deal with so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 09:31 PM
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I was on the hunt for a husband the whole time. Dated and found one when young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:05 PM
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Reddit is not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 06:11 PM
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Teased is so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:03 PM
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Only if you want to get laughed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:56 PM
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"Declining religious adherence and growing acceptance of unmarried cohabitation have also played a role." The fall of Christianity and its influence contributed to the decline of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:56 PM
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No. Marriage is now too temporary of an institution to really be called marriage. I advise men especially to avoid marriage and women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:32 AM
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Not very. I married at 18 to a guy aged 19. I was middle class and he was food stamp class. Young and broke. I was looking more for character.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:11 PM
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"We would say that the parent would deserve to be shamed if it was only one parent giving up the parental role." Not me. I don't care for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:47 PM
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The bio parents should not be shamed or forced into having a relationship with the kid who was legally severed years ago. If the other bio extended family wants a relationship that is their choice which should not be imposed on the bio parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:41 PM
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He is not a member of the bio familiy. If the biological extended family wanted him or her, then the bio parents would have given the child to another family member to raise. S/he is not wanted and needs to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:37 PM
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What???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:16 PM
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The adopted kid should not have continued contact with the bio parents once they made it known he was not going to be a part of the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:14 PM
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Then don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:57 PM
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That would not apply to me since i'm childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:46 PM
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More benefits than just tax. Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:14 PM
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Just Google the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:07 PM
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But your forgot to list as a bonus not going blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:29 PM
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Does a tinfoil hat come with the "stronger life force"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:05 PM
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Legitimacy and benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:55 PM
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I wanted to spend my life loving one man and being dedicated to him as his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:41 PM
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It's what I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:38 PM
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To have a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:22 PM
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I wanted marriage but no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 11:50 AM
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I let the vet do that for my dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:51 PM
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A three-month relationship is just dating. All relationships are not meant to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:25 PM
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Are you in a relationship and how long, if so? People aren't splitting because of lack of epiphanies. Rather a lack of fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:00 PM
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Most "real relationships" aren't worth having and people are no longer forced by societal norms to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 03:45 PM
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I always wanted a husband. My life goal is to be a good wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:25 AM
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What does Covid have to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:59 PM
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I cut bearded dragon nails today.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:38 PM
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True because many young women consider 30ish men to be old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:22 PM
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I guess if all you can try to get are 30-somethings, then you won't have a comparison point to judge by.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:17 PM
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Yeah 30 is the new 20, that's what the media tells women. Psst...it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:59 PM
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Willingness to help those in need, kindness to others, empathy, even-tempered, low n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:52 PM
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I heavily screened for morals and character and sexual compatibility before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:47 PM
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"You have to be a bit unlucky to somehow suddenly look old by 35." Right....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:45 PM
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Female denial about ageing abounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:32 PM
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I was taught to hold out to make sure the guy really liked you. because guys would pretend to be into you then dump you after sex. Both sexes use each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:28 PM
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I got married at eighteen. Youth is everything as far as looks and health. Your body only goes downhill after the prime years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 02:19 PM
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I don't think a married man should have to act like they are still in the juvenile stages of dating to keep their wife. However, this seems to be the norm. So, perhaps, men who desire monogamy and a life partner who wants to grow with them should go their own way or learn to be content with serial monogamy. Society defines marriage and the institution has changed from "until death" to whenever you stop feeling it. And a non-marital relationship is just dating and you are free to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:42 PM
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It goes both ways. Many people are not their true selves when dating and revert back after "getting the guy/girl". Examples: The non-romantc guy pretends to be romantic to get the girl, but stops once he feels he has her. Example: The girl who pretends to have a high sex drive while dating reverts to her normal drive after getting the guy. Both the man and woman in the above are left wondering what happened. But the above could have been avoided by each being themselves and not acting in order t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:55 PM
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How long have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:10 PM
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N count 2, but married for a while. We both disclosed our sexual past while dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:46 PM
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Yes, two of them. One a male, red leatherback and the other a female red standard scales. Been keeping bearded dragons since the mid-90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:25 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:04 PM
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If this is your pet spider, it's safer to buy the roaches online or from the pet store.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:05 PM
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Yes, I am very bluepilled in relationships because if I can't have a real marriage based on mutual love, respect, and communication then I'd rather be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:01 PM
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I'm still debating getting a sugar glider. Last week I did a full cleaning and sanitizing for both my dragons. One proceeded to take a dump after I got everything in his enclosure cleaned and put back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:19 PM
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I think the disposable part comes in with reference to women taking jobs once predominantly male and women filing for divorce at a higher rate than men. Men are not as needed in the workplace now and are not needed for women to have families now that society is okay with single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:30 PM
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Once again, you won't get too many replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:27 PM
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Sex before marriage with their husband or their husband being their second partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:24 PM
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So you mean women who married with only one sexual partner prior to husband? But your quote in the post is referring to virgin women. So you need to revise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:20 PM
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You won't get too many replies. Not too many women now, or on here I suspect, married as virgins. I'm one of the oldest here and my n-count is 2, including husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:13 PM
3

I prefer stability over novelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:38 PM
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Yes, women can exhibit increased sexual desire for her partner by the addition of a new side male. I'm very boring so I enjoy monogamy and also view people as diseased. I don't get tired of my partner. See above. Been with him a while, nothing has changed for me over the years regarding my desire for him. I've been married a few years and he is my second sexual partner. I never craved variety because variety is a loss for stability and humans are nasty disease-ridden creatures and no dick is wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:30 PM
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In terms of commitment, anything short of marriage is just dating. Dating for years is just that. Living together is just that. And used to be called "playing house" Marriage is what signifies actual commitment. Stop treating as dating as marriage. You can exclusively date one another but not be seriously committed. So you need to find a partner that shares your idea of romance. Seek the partner who finds commitment itself romantic over being "romanced."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:54 PM
0

Tell your "friend" the answer is all of the above and don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 11:10 PM
1

Still bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:11 PM
1

See my first comment to you. Edit: You are correct. I should have asked how is being a "compassionate leader" and spinning plates going. How big is the collection of IOIs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:04 PM
1

So how is the compassionate "spinning plates" going?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:01 PM
1

"The heart of RP is self improvement. Lifting, becoming attractive, most importantly building a frame and becoming a responsible and compassionate leader for your family." That is not TRP. TRP does not advocate marriage. So TRP is not concerned about your marriage or family life. Even MRP doesn't advocate marriage but exists to help those in already established relationships. Both TRP and MRP don't have a problem with men "spinning plates", single or married. TRP and MRP are both amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:50 PM
1

Care to expand on that? Anything pill related?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:28 PM
10

People date and breakup all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:53 PM
8

Why should you care what other's think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:11 PM
1

Nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:15 PM
1

Except it bites and is much cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:17 PM
1

Did s/he like it and successfully keep it alive for years?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:56 PM
2

Quarantine got to you, huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:30 PM
1

Does anybody here have sugar gliders for pets?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:27 PM
5

And can't respect a guy who gets as easily triggered as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:31 PM
3

Can't respect a man who watches porn more than occasionally. Comes off as desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:18 PM
3

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:19 PM
1

"All she has to do is to stop expecting that I take on the masculine role and stay attracted to me/still love me. " What exactly does that mean or entail?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:44 PM
2

What would it take for you to marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:28 PM
2

There will be more searches for a BB since there will be an economic recession. Then when the economy recovers, back on the CC.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:44 PM
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I think the better question is, "Can women who are sexually attracted to guys who are bad for them change their attraction point based upon understanding the most likely and logical outcome of partnering with a bad boy?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:45 PM
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Yes, people who wait until older to get married do tend to have more stable marriages. I was addressing morals and character more than anything else. When young you will make bad choices due to youth and trends but these will most likely fall inline with your internal moral compass, or lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:42 PM
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No one’s fully mature in their 20s. Never trust someone who doesnt change within those 10 years. I got married young. And my morals and values are very much the same now as then. A person's interests, hobbies and career may change over the years but character should remain stable barring some drastic unforeseen event. Ex. Kid dying and needs an operation, parent who never steals robs a bank to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:16 PM
4

We practice the Billy Graham rule and have as little personal, private contact with members of the opposite sex as possible. In your personal trainer situation, I would have used a female trainer out of respect for my husband and marriage. My husband, too, practices this as much as he can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:03 PM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:33 AM
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No you said "attractive" which is not your average overweight female. I'm addressing your first part about $70k not being enough for women to view him as a BB. You are not countering what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:55 AM
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Your CMV was based on the "average" woman not a average knockout. So my reply is for the average woman in lower economic brackets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:50 AM
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The guy making $70k is very financially attractive to many women in lower income jobs such as cosmetologists, retail, office staff, childcare workers, and teachers in low paying states or private schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:45 AM
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I lost my virginity at 16 and I care about n-count. People who hold sex to be just another activity should take it further and let their BF/GF know upfront not to expect monogamy. But, they dont disclose this upfront because lots of people still want a monogamous relationship. That is why n-count interests so many people. It's not a cloud of mystery surrounding sex, but a concern for relationship fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:56 PM
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"Among tattooed women alone, several personality and tattooing variables predicted sexual openness." What are these "several personality and tattooing variables"? The study cost about $40 to get and I don't care enough to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:43 PM
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Men can't be trusted to remain faithful because of their polygamous nature. In relationships they can very much love the woman and still get side pieces, but count it in their mind as still being "faithful" because they cheated to stay married. Men cheat on their partners once older, almost as if they know that since their woman is no longer desired by many she will have no choice but to stay. Men will oogle their daughters and their daughters' friends and become predatory if given the chance to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:24 PM
1

Thanks. I've done a post "The Great Snoopy Con" a few hours ago but it hasn't shown up on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:53 PM
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It has changed my interactions with my lizards. I have always feared getting salmonella from them. Now I realize that humans give you the real nasties and are truly a filthy species. So I no longer worry about salmonella and spend more time holding my lizards. As far as human relationships, we are a species that never learns so things will remain the same. Hope is good but also blinding.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:05 AM
3

My parents divorced when I was 16. I was in my mom's room one day, snooping, and I opened up a small drawer and there was my dad's gold ring with beaded edge and my mom's engagement and wedding ring in the corner. So I wanted my husband to have a better, more expensive band and one that did not remind me of my father's and mother's failed marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 12:39 AM
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Married for 31 years. I always wear my band. My husband always wears his too. It is the symbol and reminder of my vows to the man I love. No opinion on those who don't wear them. Edit: On a side note, we don't have matching bands. Mine is plain his has designs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 10:39 PM
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I dated to find a lasting relationship. The idea of casual sex in a non-committed relationship didn't interest me. The women I do know who are having short flings are hoping that the fling will turn into a relationship. This is why women will tell other women they are being used. Many women just engage in flings in search of a relationship. From observing family members, the older the woman gets the more desperate she becomes to compete with younger women. It frustrates her because in her mind s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:39 PM
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IMO men in general, not all, are better suited to "run the world" and be in positions of authority, whether workplace, political or military than women. So I believe male happiness and life enrichment should take center stage in a relationship so that men can do their jobs better, have happy home lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:40 PM
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Marriage vows are active. I made a promise "to love" but if I withhold sexual activity so much that my partner doubts himself or my love for him, then I have failed to live up to my vows and have broken them. Most people don't understand how to actively love and this makes their vows just empty promises.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:45 PM
10

To avoid this problem it's best not to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:08 PM
0

The most logical thing for her to do if she wants marriage and a family is just get back with her BF and settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:54 PM
0

Life is not that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:17 PM
8

If I had to guess, women complain about doing chores more because "housework" reminds them that they are doing "woman's work" and they resent that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:16 PM
0

That's why you don't have witnesses. Lots of people would not be in prison if they heeded the advice of not having witnesses and not telling a "friend".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:35 AM
0

If you are going to lie about it early on, then stick to the story. No need to confess. If you go on to cheat and are remorseful afterwards and make a firm resolve not to do it again, keep that to yourself as well. The above applies to both genders, especially if already married and you want to keep the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:31 AM
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I'd want to marry this type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:02 AM
1

My view is that OP starts off describing beta and then hints at high beta and then goes another way by his ending with the question, "Will attractive strong alphas just live off the woman or women they attract?" IMO a true alpha would not even entertain such a question or be concerned about his standing with women. That is the thought process of betas, low-medium-high. Alphas are a rarity IMO and really have no reason to be concerned with gender relations.and would have no worry about relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:15 PM
2

Woman will chose women more or remain single. Alpha male is no longer needed. His day has come and gone. The old paradigm needs revision. Your lower classes of women have always worked in some capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:47 PM
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N count is very important to me. Humans are not monogamous and n-count is IMO one of the predictors of sexual fidelity to the woman. One predictor, character, morals and values are others. My husband is my second sexual partner and I am his. When looking for a husband, I ruled out guys with shaky morals and inability to stay true. My first serious BF, cheated on me. My fault because I was too young and stupid to understand the importance of male n-count and due to religious teaching thought that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:18 PM
1

This chain of back and forth was started by a reply I made to poppy_blue as follows. "I've never experienced wanting to walk away. Nor do I understand the work or hard part about marriage being a major descriptive of marriage so many people use. Either you are in or you are out." This is my view of marriage when I married and is my current view. I married at 18. Church raised and dad in the picture during formative years to keep me grounded. Parents divorced when I was 16. There was nothing to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:48 PM
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Is that a long-winded way of saying you are permanently engaged?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:40 PM
6

I thought you never planned on marrying her. Do you have a timeline for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:32 PM
5

Did you get legally married?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:28 PM
1

Married 31 years and am 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:02 PM
1

Yeah, you actually said 20 plus. I've probably got about a decade on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:54 PM
5

Loyal, kind, yadda yadda, is what women want for LTRs. Hot, fun, exciting is what they want for short term. Many women are still programmed to want the first based on the Disney script, but will drop the panties faster for the latter hot fun guy. If a woman is dating for the purpose of a LTR she will preference loyal guy over fun guy. Fun, hot guy has more options and her longterm investment will have a higher chance of ending due to cheating. You will only know which guy she really wants by the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:51 PM
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You've been married 20 years, from your earlier reply to my original post. So I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:41 PM
1

A while as in I've probably been married longer than you have been alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:33 PM
1

I've been married for a while. Edit: My interpretation hasn't really changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:27 PM
1

What exactly are you in agreement on?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:20 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:20 PM
1

Your attitude is weak and lacks confidence. This is the exact attitude that will prevent you from getting a woman your level or slightly below.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:05 PM
0

I don't have kids so my homemaking is not much. So I guess the answer would be yes. All I do is keep the house clean, cook and do dishes and make sure he is relaxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:11 PM
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Culture and religious influence. My husband prefers that arrangement. And he is not pussychasing nor desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:58 PM
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If I had a son, this is what I'd tell him. For life in general, be the best version of you. Let no one define you, but you. Fight fair, but be the last one standing. The above will produce confidence and help you not to appear weak and needy to women. Once you have the confidence and have become the best version of you, notice the women who notice you. Don't shoot too far above or go too far below, but know which pond is yours to fish out of. And start from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:53 PM
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RP isn't meant to be an end-all and answer to all problems but a tool box. Too many entering RP are using TRP as a shield and protection to avoid actually bettering themselves into confident, mature men or using it as their "new religion" to avoid critical thought. So I would like to change your view by saying your view is based upon guys who read about TRP and never bothered to put the work in and got stranded in the adolescent anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:18 PM
2

His location is Redditville, USA, known for its armchair doctors, philosophers, therapists, educators and other lofty armchair professional LARPing. My guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:46 AM
1

So you dumped unicorn wife because you missed out on college partying and hook ups. Monogamy is just not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:31 AM
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Doesn't change my conclusion about your second marriage. Edit: Or about monogamy being hard for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:27 AM
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Your response on that post seems to indicate that she cheated on you, which is not what you indicated as being a contributing factor to the demise if your marriage. If she cheated, she most certainly was not a "unicorn". As far as how I would feel if the same was said about women, I'd say yep they cheat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:24 AM
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Monogamy is hard for some. I, too, don't trust men because stories like yours reinforces my view of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:13 AM
1

What about marriage was holding you back? Or are you saying you wanted side pieces and she said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:54 AM
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Irrelevant to my interpretation of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:47 AM
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No. You presented your marriage as being the truth for all marriages. All I did was share an opposing view. Edit: You totally changed your response, which rendered my reply to you nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:42 AM
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I've never experienced wanting to walk away. Nor do I understand the work or hard part about marriage being a major descriptive of marriage so many people use. Either you are in or you are out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:38 AM
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I'm the OP. Been married for over thirty years and married as a teen. All pills.but no pills. People are too complex for one pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:32 AM
7

Lots are closeted tradcons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:42 PM
5

The solution is to not get married and the n-count won't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:12 AM
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Happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:19 AM
6

I love being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:52 PM
2

Observing behavior leads to TRP and FDS. I don't think healthy relationships require work as much as they require tending. The main problem with relationships are incompatibility on multiple levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:41 PM
1

You will compare the current to the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:26 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:12 PM
2

I don't debate but will comment on a discussion thread. I'm married so not much I can chime in on. But, RP is not new. If you were an high school outsider, aka "loser", not a member of the "in group" (whatever the current term is now), and observed people, you knew RP but didn't have a name for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:01 PM
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Marriage is for those who like routine and don't care for novelty, IMO. Got married as a teen and have been married for 31 years. I don't recommend marriage for most people. Society has changed too much to make a lifetime marriage feasible for most. No need to marry now since women can make a living on their own and tend to find marriage a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 07:13 PM
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