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I'll look forward to seeing it. I enjoyed your writing. I think you probably got doxxed before a lot of these challengers even joined the sub.
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 07:48 PM
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I remembered him. Some of us have been around for a long time, chipping away at this. We lurk more than we post. This guy had some good stuff.
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 11:32 PM
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I believe the second volume is a longer, updated version. The second volume is the one I watched. Imo, it goes strong on the pro-Israel stance, which isnt everyone's cup of tea. But there is some excellent content in it.
/r/RPChristians02/04/20 05:19 PM
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I recommend the documentary, Sheep Among Wolves. It describes the underground church movement in Iran. The strategy they use, though it is not mentioned in the film, is Disciple Making Movements, and Discovery questions. I highly recommend this as a way forward, small groups of disciples making disciples and multiplying. For a book, look at The Kingdom Unleashed.
/r/RPChristians02/04/20 02:20 AM
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Probably recommended by reddit.
/r/RPChristians08/03/20 03:35 PM
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I think I get the basics of it. If she left you over this, move on. It will only get worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/20 12:57 AM
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Wtf?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/20 12:48 AM
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I can't see the video. It says "removed by user."
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 01:22 PM
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Understood. Sounds like a good video.
/r/RPChristians13/12/19 05:03 PM
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I get what you're saying but think there is a broad spectrum between "Santa Baby" and Jingle Bells. You may not want to throw the proverbial baby out with the baby. That said, if you want to keep the focus on Christ, check out the older Christmas choral music from various parts of Europe. You will find beautiful, theologically rich carols, mist of which you have will probably never have heard before. You might some nice music to listen to in addition to the carols your family likes to sing.
/r/RPChristians13/12/19 01:03 PM
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I really hope he meant HB7.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 11:56 PM
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Quality, brother. Thank you.
/r/RPChristians13/07/18 02:46 AM
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This is the best response yet. Talk about living in her frame.
/r/askMRP13/07/18 02:39 AM
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This.
/r/askMRP13/07/18 02:36 AM
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Your content is great. Do you have an ETA on the book?
/r/RPChristians09/07/18 09:31 PM
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Would you consider a compilation into one volume? And, perhaps, a conversion to .mobi format so it could be read on Kindles?
/r/RPChristians08/07/18 12:00 PM
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Noticed that too. Damn near identical posts too.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 01:58 PM
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That's what I thought. Seems like some schoolyard BS.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 01:35 AM
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Nice answer. I asked in part because I'm dealing with the same. I have the goal but I'm not sure of the path, and I have a feeling that's because I'm still unclear on parts of my own path.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 02:38 PM
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On Family, what are your goals for your son? What is your plan to achieve those? I like what you wrote, and you probably have specifics, but I didn't see them. It's too important of goal to be lite on specifics with. Enjoyed your post, though.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 12:18 PM
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Thank you for your perspective. I was not aware and will look into this for myself. If you are right, that is indeed troubling.
/r/RPChristians25/06/18 03:09 AM
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I'd add Matt Chandler to this list, but otherwise, very solid.
/r/RPChristians25/06/18 02:52 AM
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You made a really good point about the possibility of Voddie being far more blue pill than I initially thought. I've thought about it. At a minimum, I think his "wifing" material can be screened out, but someone would need to be discerning about it. And you're right -- I'd be reluctant to give his family books to young men graduating high school and going to college. I encountered him after I had already been married (and was very blue pill) and found him helpful (thus, I was already far past yo…
/r/RPChristians29/12/17 01:21 PM
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Leave the house if you need to. She'll get the hint that you're moving on from it one way or the other. But if you're doing well with frame like you say you are, get her back into yours because right now you are in hers.
/r/askMRP25/12/17 02:55 PM
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Just move on from it. Tell her it's an inside joke from your class, kiss her on the cheek, wish her a Merry Christmas, and open some gifts. My guess is if you ignore it, so will she. Do what you want to do. It's your holiday too.
/r/askMRP25/12/17 02:53 PM
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I've been waiting for one of these "I'm a big and bad, but my holiday is all jacked up" posts. Merry Christmas OP!
/r/askMRP25/12/17 02:47 PM
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You're right. It doesn't have to go that way. My point to OP was, he can do all the pre-screening for attractiveness that he wants but he can't control what happens after the marriage. Is he committed to the right path?
/r/RPChristians16/12/17 02:04 PM
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So you put a premium on screening candidates for attractiveness, marry, and then see her attractiveness take a nose dive once she has "settled down" and considers herself off the market. What do you do then? How are you going to lead yourself? Her? What about in twenty years when age diminishes natural beauty? Your post is fine, but I don't see a lot of depth in it to sustain you into a marriage. Be careful you're not "building a foundation" in r/RPChristians just to find yourself trying to pick…
/r/RPChristians16/12/17 01:17 PM
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I like thinking about these theories as different angles of view on the same thing, kind of like facets of the same diamond. I'd also expect there to be some correlation between your most prominent facets and which denomination you are a part of.
/r/RPChristians16/12/17 01:11 PM
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Family-Driven Faith and Family Shepherds are his two that are about household leadership.
/r/RPChristians14/12/17 04:23 PM
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I'm not sure about the first three, a maybe to McManus, and a huge yes to Paul Washer. Voddie Baucham would be a good one to read, too.
/r/RPChristians14/12/17 01:34 PM
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This is a very good summation of the gospel. I have a small quibble with your "note" example because I think it shades into the human effort category you admonished to avoid, but I realize the limitations in trying to explain what faith is (more than mental assent). I'm glad you included "continuing obligation." I think many presentations of the gospel leave this out because they want to steer clear of any semblance of human effort. However, the gospel, if truly understood, transforms and change…
/r/RPChristians10/12/17 12:31 PM
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I don't believe MMSLP was revised to reflect his wider demographic. The moderators still believe MMSLP has utility for this group.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/17 11:24 PM
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He wrote a second book that took his MAP ideas from MMSLP. He called the new book "Mindful Attraction Plan" and geared it towards, shall we say, a wider demographic.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/17 12:38 PM
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Are you serious? He wrote in the very first paragraph that it's a test of your self-confidence.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 12:36 PM
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Best response here.
/r/askMRP01/08/17 12:30 PM
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It's foundational theory, is what I meant. A lot of the new guys are looking for tricks and gimmicks for a soft fix. /u/88will88 had a good piece recently on taking off the training wheels. You're right, ultimately. It's really not that advanced. But it is not likely to be digested properly, at first, by 3/4 of the guys who show up here without a clue. NMMNG, imo, is more palatable for them.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 07:08 PM
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Great post. I'm looking forward to getting into Rollo's new book. This post highlighted, concisely, a few ideas to consider in raising children. Why don't you think Red Pill and parenting mix?
/r/RedPillParenting29/07/17 12:59 PM
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Same here. TRM is too advanced for the new guys; they need to be around here for awhile first. But TRM gives a deeper foundation for understanding NMMNG.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 12:46 PM
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This is a quality post. One thing I'd add is to not be surprised, when trying to form such a group, at the number of men who flat out tell you they have to get "permission" from the SO before they can, or who flake out every other time you try to meet because their SO has a headache (or some other hypochondriatic issue) and "needs" him to be at home. Finding men who meet these criteria is difficult, imo, but worth the challenge.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:56 AM
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How young are the kids? Get them playing outside and/or helping you while you work. There is almost always something the kids can do. What is your diet like? You've made a bunch of excuses--low energy being one of them. Clean up your diet and get enough sleep. Make the weekends fun. You can paint the windows over two weekends. Paint in the morning and early afternoon and surprise the family with a trip to a park for a picnic (that you've prepared) and a hike or a swim. Your wife won't care as mu…
/r/askMRP02/07/17 12:30 PM
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Sounds well thought out.
/r/askMRP21/06/17 12:18 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I can see you are working on things and not full of ego. That's a great start. Why is dread so important to you? I like your approach. My caution going forward is that you recognize you are on a journey...and the destination is out there (perhaps farther out than you know or would even like). Do not mistake "mile markers" or "stopping points" as the destination. Your MAP will take you there.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 07:42 PM
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Did you edit the OP to take out the part about her spending nights at the house of another male?
/r/askMRP20/06/17 12:40 PM
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A lot of this sounds like you haven't internalized things yet. What are you reading from the MRP sidebar? You're trying to manufacture an outcome rather than organically letting things arise. You don't flirt in front of her but you want female out-of-town friends to leave flirtatious comments on your Facebook page (of all things) so that your wife might catch dread. This isn't high school. Your progress will be your own. No one can give you a timeline because we can't account for any of the cont…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 12:38 PM
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I'd like to read OP's promised write-up about it. He may have found some value where I didn't.
/r/askMRP17/06/17 03:14 PM
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I've read the book. It won't help OP. Like most "relationship" books, it assumes two willing partners who will help each other feel the feelz more. He's better off following the advice here -- going all the way up the levels of dread and coming to terms with what's going on--she's contemptuous of him and has no incentive to change. He needs to make up his own mind now; the book is useless.
/r/askMRP17/06/17 12:23 PM
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Unfortunately, you don't really have much leverage then. From your description, it seems as though she holds you in open contempt. You may have progressed on your MAP; she may just not care anymore. If you don't want to leave your kids so you won't leave her, you will need to figure out how best to manage things for yourself and the kids.
/r/askMRP17/06/17 12:05 PM
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Bingo! Here's the problem. She knows you aren't serious. What boundaries and deadlines do you have in place? What does "if the relationship doesn't improve" mean? Does she know? Do you know? If you are this unhappy, it's time for the talk. If you're not ready for the talk then at least give her a "map" of your intentions. (Not your MAP, of course, but a description of what you expect and what will happen if it doesn't happen.)
/r/askMRP16/06/17 11:31 PM
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You're calling her crazy and a like a little girl but then you're censoring words in your post like we can't handle it. Maybe you're too concerned about what other people think. Maybe you need to learn STFU, DNGAF, and OI?
/r/askMRP15/06/17 11:57 PM
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Look, you write this FR like this is the first time this happened and you are completely blown away by it and taken aback and have no clue where it came from or what to do. The reality is, this happens to you often, and probably daily. Perhaps even multiple times each day. The issue is boundaries. You have exactly zero boundaries in your relationship. So, you get what you deserve. In fact, you get what you've trained her to give. What do you do? Exactly what you said--but with some teeth. So you…
/r/askMRP12/06/17 01:41 PM
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It gets better the longer you go. You're building frame right now. Once it's better established, you'll be more likely to hold it than you are now.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/17 05:10 PM
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I like your attitude, and these guys are giving you good advice. They always say "sidebar" for a reason. It works, and it weeds out those who won't put in the work.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/17 12:14 PM
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That's what I thought, too. Too much ego in the post. Looks like he's willing to learn, though, which is a good start.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/17 12:13 PM
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I think someone needs to write the 10 levels of butthurt. I think you've shown that you're trying to learn. There is no reason to beat yourself up. If you consider this a win, because you are learning things, then great! I think the biggest key is work on not needing her validation. If you run a game like this, and she doesn't respond, you need to not care. That's a hard place to get to. For me, repeated rereadings of No More Mr. Nice Guy were needed. Keep working on yourself, include her as you…
/r/askMRP01/06/17 02:17 AM
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This is why you read books digitally.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 07:32 PM
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I'll respond to your second paragraph first: keep gaming. But do so with game theory. Make sure it's a game you'll win, or you'll run into the same problems. My guess is, she does not see you as highly as you think she does. Otherwise, she would have played the game. But where she sees you, whatever she sees as your SMV, doesn't matter to you. Because the minute it does, you will begin initiating these covert contracts and other such BS. I understand your reasoning (first paragraph), and though …
/r/askMRP31/05/17 07:24 PM
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You're looking for validation from her on your "ingenious" plan. It hasn't come. Now you're playing text games trying to draw out a response from her. I'd evaluate my covert contracts and skim through NMMNG again. Also, keep moving forward according to your own agenda and forget about validation from her.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 11:32 PM
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I wouldn't hide from it. You should build it into your persona. You can be the cool single dad; that's ok.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 01:20 AM
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I do have kids. And my place is picked up, or the mess is relegated to their room. However, from the OP, it seemed as though his kids were gone. There is no reason for his house to be a mess like he implied it was. He is in a different station in life than you or I, who have a spouse in the home.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 01:19 AM
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First off, since you never know when you'll want to take someone home, your place needs to be clean and picked up. Since you're at a bar, and considering taking a woman home, I'm guessing the kids weren't there...so why was the house "particularly messy that night"? Keeping a clean home is a mark of discipline and self-respect. Second, your're looking to fit into her frame. You're moving towards an abundance mentality but not there yet. If she comes to know who you are, and isn't interested, mov…
/r/askMRP28/05/17 12:24 PM
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This is one of the worst FR's I've ever read. Get a grip and starting No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 01:52 PM
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K
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/17 12:55 AM
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Great question. The recommendation is one month of building dread for each year of your marriage where you have been BP. I think you're right on the approach of taking time. No reason why you can't read one chapter in the Professor's book and implement it for a month. Take your time to learn and implement correctly. You seem to get it. Trust your instincts.
/r/askMRP10/03/17 12:51 AM
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Get lost. "I won't get you pregnant until you work on your attitude toward sex." You don't have a clue. No idea why you posted. Read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP10/03/17 12:49 AM
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It's always easiest when you get home expecting to have to sort out the kids and all the nonsense at the house she "didn't get to." Just expect it. As you're driving home from work, go through all that needs to be done that night for everyone--kids, her, you--and make a plan. Execute the plan at home. She doesn't need to be informed except as it involves her directly. If she hassles you, just tell her you got it. Move on.
/r/askMRP10/03/17 12:47 AM
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I think a lot of this is common sense while being guided by the sidebar. Focus on yourself, not her, and do what seems best to you at that time; what has the most integrity to who you are.
/r/askMRP01/03/17 10:04 PM
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Do new guys even read the sidebar anymore? They read one FR, or a couple of replies given by seasoned MRPers to seasoned MRPers, and think that an abrupt change in behavior, while being coy with their wife while she is out of town, is going to create the dread to turn things around. This post is crap and self-evident. Don't be stupid, work on yourself as stated here, answer obvious questions without being a moron about it, and show her a new you when she returns.
/r/askMRP28/02/17 08:06 PM
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Nice flowchart; looking forward to your next post.
/r/askMRP15/02/17 12:49 PM
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I lmao'd at the dialogue; not sure how she took you seriously at all. There's a lot of butthurt reactionary language here. You claim you said something in a "very stoic manner." How about actually being stoic?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 03:01 AM
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She's passive agressive to the extreme. You need to set boundaries. Read the top posts about removing attention and affection (not that she necessarily cares about these). Remove yourself from her presence. And set some serious and real boundaries around these things.
/r/askMRP15/02/17 02:54 AM
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You're back?
/r/askMRP15/02/17 02:35 AM
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Thanks.
/r/askMRP13/02/17 08:44 PM
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There were some good comments in the thread. Just beware of the covert contracts and make sure that whatever you do, even if it includes her, is done for YOU, not her. Become outcome independent.
/r/askMRP13/02/17 08:44 PM
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Can't be much worse than the diarrhea of the OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/17 08:43 PM
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Go back and edit the post. Insert paragraph breaks and make this more readable.
/r/askMRP13/02/17 12:36 PM
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That, and the fact that he's writing about a possible covert contract, shows that this was a covert contract for him. The whole post chronicles his downward spiral of disappointment and disgust because of how she dressed and her expectations of cuddling.
/r/askMRP13/02/17 12:35 PM
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K
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/17 01:21 AM
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K
/r/askMRP13/02/17 01:01 AM
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Do you have a MAP in place yet? Are you working towards goals? More importantly, are you doing this for YOU?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/17 09:17 PM
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I'm going to have a burger for dinner tonight. Used to like them well done, now I get them medium well.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/17 09:16 PM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP12/02/17 09:15 PM
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Great! I especially like your third answer.
/r/askMRP12/02/17 06:53 PM
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What are you going to do next?
/r/askMRP12/02/17 01:42 AM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP12/02/17 01:36 AM
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DeepThrill, I think?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 01:14 PM
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Crap? There is an excellent front-page article right now called "Foundations." I suggest you read it and then decide if you still want to call the main sub "crap."
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 01:53 PM
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Excuses. Go for a winter hike. Do some ice fishing (rent the equipment). Learn snowshoeing. Go ice skating. Find a hockey game if you're in a city with a team (even a minor league team). Sit in a cafe and read. Keto? Get over yourself. Order a burger with no bun, no fries. Find a great steakhouse and order a wedge salad and an awesome steak. Go to a seafood restaurant and order a dish you wouldn't order at home that fits the keto restrictions. Stop making excuses. This was a lame, low effort BS …
/r/askMRP06/02/17 01:51 PM
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Is this guy a troll?
/r/askMRP02/02/17 06:58 PM
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Check out AlphaAmazon dot com for ideas.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 06:53 PM
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Quality reply. I hope OP understands your nuance about finding balance.
/r/askMRP30/01/17 02:37 PM
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No, he read the sidebar. He didn't realize there were links to click on for the actual reading.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 02:02 PM
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Wtf happened here?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 02:37 PM
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I've had to almost completely cut out alcohol to avoid feeling like garbage the next day. Occasionally, I will have a drink on a weekend night only.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 07:05 PM
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I just chose how I am going to handle a situation and invite her to join in. Excellent. Great FR.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 07:03 PM
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I think some of the dialogue is a bit kitschy but overall a solid application of NMMNG principles, taking care of your needs first. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 02:32 PM
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Nice spice mix. Have you tried smoked paprika? I prefer that to regular paprika.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 02:21 PM
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Great response. I'm in a similar situation, about to embark on the forties and realizing that my quest to understand the purpose of life (mainly through the vehicle known as "religion") hasn't provided me the answers I'm looking for. I'm moving towards some of the ideas in stoicism for controlling myself in the face of the uncontrollable and I like your concept of "keep moving." Also, cool flair.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 02:17 PM
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She may have been surprised, or even startled, by your outburst. Make sure, if you believe she agrees you earned it, that her agreement is derived from your leadership (in spite of this instance) and not derived from fear.
/r/askMRP14/01/17 01:52 PM
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Talked to a guy just today. His car quit running. On his way home from work. He called for a ride while standing on the interstate. Ride got there, realized the guy was out of gas. This guy tells me this story with a straight face. I just nodded, chuckled, and walked away.
/r/askMRP14/01/17 03:54 AM
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That was a big reason I stepped up. I was blown away at the introductory meeting at how few men even attended, let alone were involved.
/r/askMRP14/01/17 03:50 AM
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It does inspire dread, which I welcome.
/r/askMRP14/01/17 03:49 AM
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He has a kind of fascination with construction equipment. A relative (female) laughed at him and told him he needed to "start thinking about the real world." I immediately took him home, stopping at at tractor dealership on the way, and told him he can do whatever he wants, he shouldn't let other people limit him.
/r/askMRP13/01/17 01:31 AM
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I lead his troop. You're right--I'm the only male leader in the entire program. The rest are women. Most of the dads aren't even involved; it's the moms who show up, bring the kids, and are involved. Disgraceful. I've noticed the same thing you do--most men are not role models.
/r/askMRP13/01/17 01:28 AM
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I read Raising Men by Eric Davis and thought it was decent. Supposedly Navy SEAL lessons applied to fatherhood. He emphasizes teaching your kids about risk and letting be responsible early. I just got Boys Adrift by Leonard Sax. Recommended by the Boy Scouts, and haven't started yet, but it supposedly includes a mentoring program to lead boys to men as they develop. I've found the concept of Extreme Ownership, especially the chapter about leading up and down (it is your responsibility to make su…
/r/askMRP12/01/17 05:24 PM
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This book's overrated. I prefer How to Have Confidence and Power in Dealing with People.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 01:39 PM
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I like that you're integrating spiritual into your MAP, and leading in doing so.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 03:00 AM
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Lots of DEER shot here tonight.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 02:50 AM
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This is one of the most personally challenging things I've read on MRP in awhile. my life is good enough for me now Exactly. The matrix of mediocrity. I'm guilty of all four problems. I read this last night and made immediate work applications and began searching for other career improvements and possibilities.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 01:26 PM
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