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ResourcesIslandMan01/r/seduction31/03/26 07:52 PM
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Outer Game IslandMan01/r/seduction12/06/26 07:45 PM
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LogisticsIslandMan01/r/seduction26/07/25 10:39 PM
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Inner Game IslandMan01/r/seduction03/08/25 05:28 PM
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LifestyleIslandMan01/r/seduction19/07/25 03:28 PM
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Inner Game IslandMan01/r/seduction02/09/25 07:22 PM
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ConversationIslandMan01/r/seduction19/12/25 10:50 PM
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ConversationIslandMan01/r/seduction05/01/26 11:06 PM
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Outer Game IslandMan01/r/seduction18/07/25 10:35 PM
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ConversationIslandMan01/r/seduction05/04/26 03:13 PM
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ResourcesIslandMan01/r/seduction28/08/25 07:22 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationIslandMan01/r/seduction17/04/26 09:41 PM
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ConversationIslandMan01/r/seduction11/06/26 10:33 PM
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ConversationIslandMan01/r/seduction28/11/25 05:43 PM
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IslandMan01/r/seduction21/03/26 02:36 PM
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Outer Game IslandMan01/r/seduction30/07/25 09:01 PM
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Inner Game IslandMan01/r/seduction26/07/25 10:53 PM
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LogisticsIslandMan01/r/seduction26/05/26 07:08 PM
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IslandMan01/r/seduction15/06/26 05:34 PM
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Inner Game IslandMan01/r/seduction30/08/25 01:10 AM
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ConversationIslandMan01/r/seduction29/07/25 12:05 AM
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Outer Game IslandMan01/r/seduction22/02/25 08:44 PM
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-2

The last part is simply not true lol. I have great social skills I’m just an adult who’s unlucky. Like all of my groups don’t have very attractive women and most of my friends don’t go to bars and aren’t the partying type so I go alone most of the time lol
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:32 PM
8

Because they are? In my experience ugly looking girls are desperate and pretty looking ones are way more likely to have higher standards
/r/seduction15/06/26 07:58 PM
1

I mean yeah, probably lol
/r/seduction15/06/26 07:33 PM
0

Bro I am good looking, but my texting is ass. How do you think I get matches lmao
/r/seduction15/06/26 07:25 PM
-1

Ok and? Got a problem?
/r/seduction15/06/26 06:46 PM
0

Going to bars and clubs (but with friends) nerdy stuff like comic cons, video games, anime’s. Poker (but unfortunately most poker groups are dudes or old people, I only met one attractive girl there) martial arts. And being a swinger lol. In the past I didn’t have a job so I just couldn’t do all of that but I got a full time job now and I’m trying to build my wealth and afford those activities again.
/r/seduction15/06/26 06:26 PM
-1

What are you yapping out about man? You want me to go outside everyday to bars and library after work?
/r/seduction15/06/26 06:10 PM
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I have , it has helped but not enough lol
/r/seduction15/06/26 06:09 PM
-5

Can’t, it’s the new age and I have no idea where to find others besides bars, clubs and outside, I’m a bit of an introvert as well and only love being an extrovert in activities I like
/r/seduction15/06/26 06:02 PM
-3

Why would this match go nowhere? Listen man I’ve been trying to text game for years and I don’t think I got it. Some things some people never have. So what’s the problem?
/r/seduction15/06/26 05:54 PM
2

Bro… seek a therapist….
/r/seduction14/06/26 04:15 PM
1

I kinda did??
/r/seduction13/06/26 11:22 AM
-5

To be honest I think you simply struggle with reading comprehension
/r/seduction13/06/26 11:22 AM
-3

I’m asking for what has worked dummy
/r/seduction13/06/26 12:38 AM
1

Unironically I just watched a playing with fire video 😆
/r/seduction12/06/26 11:55 PM
-11

Get out
/r/seduction12/06/26 10:20 PM
-12

Youre lucky you’re saying this behind a screen.
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:50 PM
6

No, god ain’t real lol
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:49 PM
3

Ok that one makes sense. Thanks
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:13 PM
-8

From the beginning our messages were sexual, like I wrote in the post I wish I could have taken a full screenshot before she unmatched me.
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:11 PM
-1

We were discussing sex from the very beginning
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:10 PM
11

Like what?! Could you give me some examples?!
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:09 PM
-19

My brother in Christ do you have no reading comprehension?! WE WERE SEXUAL FROM THE BEGINNING!!! 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️ WEEEE AS IN BOTH OF US!
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:09 PM
1

Of course, that one is obvious but our convo was sexual from the beginning and she and I matched in only looking for casual on tinder. That’s why this took me by surprise
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:07 PM
-2

Lol yeah except the convo was sexual from the beginning and she was in skimpy bikinis in her photos as a well as the only looking for casual category
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:06 PM
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We were sexual from the beginning dude… that’s why it made no sense
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:05 PM
1

We matched in looking for casual and the conversation was sexual from the beginning
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:05 PM
2

Bro cmon, relate it to the actual post
/r/seduction12/06/26 07:50 PM
0

Kk
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:56 AM
0

Get out
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:55 AM
1

Lol what? No lol, I don’t think there’s any policy regarding it
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:54 AM
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What?
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:53 AM
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That… I do not know lol
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:53 AM
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She didn’t have it before me on the day she met me. She was a full mess. And these coworkers have been with eachother for a long time. She meets me one day then the next day she’s wearing full makeup and offering to be in charge of me. For almost double the time I would be regularly with someone 👀
/r/seduction11/06/26 11:44 PM
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What do you mean by moves 10x faster?
/r/seduction11/06/26 11:21 PM
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Holy shit… 🫩
/r/seduction11/06/26 11:16 PM
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Both the same position. Sooo not that important but semi important lol
/r/seduction11/06/26 11:15 PM
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Bro cmon, something actually creative and constructive. Plenty of people have hooked up with their coworkers
/r/seduction11/06/26 10:53 PM
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Huh, thank you
/r/seduction30/05/26 11:08 AM
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I mostly get left on read or not texted back at all. Like I have sent so many introductory on fetlife, read their profiles, tried to be unique only to get nothing back
/r/seduction29/05/26 07:43 PM
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That’s complete bs. Texting is literally the worst way to communicate with anyone and that’s been proven. Also did you skip over the part where I said I’ve been trying to improve for years?
/r/seduction27/05/26 07:58 PM
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It truly is man…. Like wtf why do you guys not take care of yourselves in any way?!
/r/seduction27/05/26 02:52 PM
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No it isn’t lol. That’s ridiculous
/r/seduction27/05/26 11:22 AM
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Feeld I have tried and again failed due to poor texting and secrets is expensive for a single male but it is on my bucket list.
/r/seduction27/05/26 01:33 AM
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But you get what I’m saying and I’m not even asking for hot! Just decent looking is more than enough, I know I’m no super model so I myself don’t need one either, but most people in kink (not swinger) that I’ve met in real life are either fat or smell bad 😭
/r/seduction26/05/26 11:07 PM
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I mean I would announce it but still be picky hahahaha
/r/seduction26/05/26 11:04 PM
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What greener pastures would those be?
/r/seduction26/05/26 07:47 PM
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I’ve tried for years to better myself at texting. It hasn’t worked and I’m tired of trying. I’m so much more charming in person than I am through text.
/r/seduction26/05/26 07:46 PM
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Congratulations for noticing that. It’s called being human
/r/seduction12/04/26 02:56 PM
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It means you think she’s more amazing than she actually is and you idolize her
/r/seduction12/04/26 02:56 PM
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Likewise! You’re a lo- s -e -r 😃🥰😘
/r/seduction05/04/26 05:45 PM
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I see, thanks brother
/r/seduction05/04/26 05:10 PM
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It’s unfortunately only solid against insults hahahah, I’ve always struggled with self esteem.
/r/seduction05/04/26 05:02 PM
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When you say progress in intimacy do you mean by touching and flirting and then going for a kiss and only if she reciprocates, then and only then do you know if she denies or accepts the attempt do you know where you stand with her?
/r/seduction05/04/26 04:30 PM
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Hmmm, you definitely have a point there, I didn’t escalate as much.
/r/seduction05/04/26 04:21 PM
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I’m sort of there, I have slept with quite a few girls I have wanted, but definitely the height thing sucks… I’m 5”7and a half (or just 7)
/r/seduction05/04/26 04:09 PM
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Interesting. I went with a sort of bad boy aesthetic that night, slipknot shirt, I have tattoos, etc but my personality is more happy go lucky, I guess the women must be disappointed lmao 😂
/r/seduction05/04/26 03:54 PM
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Not at all. You need social skills training bro, you clearly don’t know how to interact with or help other people.
/r/seduction05/04/26 03:51 PM
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Most of this just come down to practice you got this brother just be yourself. Don’t put her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction05/04/26 03:16 PM
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Bro perfect! I’m in the same place looking for the same thing, I need a wingman!
/r/seduction05/04/26 03:15 PM
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Most people don’t care, and most people aren’t taking note of you and spreading word about you. I’ve literally been to college parties where I told them I was 27 and they were cool with it so longs as I was studying (and I was) but even if I wasn’t, the frat boys only care about money 😂
/r/seduction02/04/26 12:50 PM
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Nibba the hell do you think I’m doing here???
/r/seduction01/04/26 12:55 AM
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Thanks brother!
/r/seduction01/04/26 12:42 AM
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Jax
/r/seduction01/04/26 12:41 AM
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Appreciate man, unfortunately I am in north Florida, not Miami
/r/seduction31/03/26 11:22 PM
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Where can I find college bars? Atleast where I live I don’t know any bars close to any university or college…
/r/seduction31/03/26 11:17 PM
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Florida
/r/seduction31/03/26 11:16 PM
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So if I were to search industry nights x city and place would that work?
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:27 PM
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Again, what are “industry nights”? And where do I find them?
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:25 PM
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Industry nights??? What are those?!
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:23 PM
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Hmmm interesting, I’m in the US, specifically conservative Florida, but I can try and see about the most popular bars on a weekday.
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:22 PM
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They’re usually at campus lol
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:18 PM
1

Madam, just go on to dating apps, verify yourself, and say you’re trying to find casual sex. I kid you not you’ll have hundreds of hungry dudes dm you. Just do video chatting or texting before hand if you feel unsafe. Have a good one 🤙🏼
/r/seduction21/03/26 09:22 PM
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Hey man believe what you want. But conditions that impair your memory (like dementia) literally exist. Make of that what you will 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction21/03/26 03:47 PM
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Exactly lol…
/r/seduction21/03/26 03:34 PM
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Not how life works lol. Not everyone has the answer to everything. Plus I have bad memory lmao
/r/seduction21/03/26 03:34 PM
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Body count of 104 my guy. Good luck in therapy 👍🏽
/r/seduction21/03/26 03:19 PM
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Yeesh bro, you have issues. I am completely and utterly ok at being told the truth. Yet you still are offended. Chillax.
/r/seduction21/03/26 03:18 PM
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I ASKED if you have it, not that you did indeed have it. Bro chillax, you aren’t making me look bad here only yourself, I’m genuinely not trying to be enemies with you 😂😂😂
/r/seduction21/03/26 03:07 PM
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No you fool, I’m not the one in the wrong here. You assumed that I was being hostile when I started asking questions. I wasn’t, then when I called you out on it you doubled down on your stupidity 🤦🏻‍♂️ like bro I have no reason to lie to you, I genuinely mean it when I said that I was asking questions without malicious intent 😂
/r/seduction21/03/26 03:04 PM
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In what universe was I rude? I was simply asking questions you dork😂. Also I was specifically asking for direct.
/r/seduction21/03/26 03:01 PM
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Uhhh are you just telling me that you’re exhausted or something else? Or that you have adhd?, because I’m confused.
/r/seduction21/03/26 02:54 PM
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There’s actually been plenty lmao
/r/seduction14/03/26 06:18 PM
1

Nah, I think you’re projecting here mate… respectfully
/r/seduction12/01/26 12:09 AM
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Ok…. That was needlessly rude dude….
/r/seduction11/01/26 11:16 PM
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Woah dude, definitely need to chillax there 😅😂 I can’t be a psychopath if I’m not a narcissist either and clearly I’m not thinking highly of myself here 🤣🤣🤣💀💀
/r/seduction11/01/26 11:06 PM
1

Wait really??? That’s wild! Only married women I’ve been able to get in my experience are women in enm relationships.
/r/seduction11/01/26 04:42 PM
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What is ASPD? And no trust me they’re the ones leaving me on read and almost never reaching out, most of the time it’s me that does it.
/r/seduction11/01/26 03:48 PM
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Why would opening up with your body count be a sign of NPD or ASPD? I simply added that for background to explain my situation. Genuinely curious 🧐
/r/seduction11/01/26 02:57 PM
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Pretty sure, it’s been officially diagnosed. I don’t have BPD, I keep my emotions in check most of the time. ADHD is mostly about dopamine addiction and novelty addiction. So my pattern is consistent with the diagnosis. 🙂‍↕️
/r/seduction11/01/26 02:56 PM
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That was mean and not even remotely necessary. Lmao “people talk” no tf they don’t 🤣 I’ve almost never seen anyone recognize me unless I’m in a group that is large and regular. Also get what in order? My finances? Those are good, why would I need to move cities?
/r/seduction10/01/26 09:13 PM
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Oh you’re one of THOSE 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:20 PM
2

But damn Man I have a high drive 😭 that kills me 🥲 but I get where you’re coming from… I’ll give it a try
/r/seduction06/01/26 11:22 AM
-5

Uh huh???? Does it now??? 🙃 or maybeee just maybbeeee, you’re the one who needs the therapy??? I mean think about it, who the hell reacts to a stranger this way and makes up a fake scenario (that I see them as nothing but transactions)???
/r/seduction06/01/26 11:19 AM
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Ok d bag we get it, you’ve never been successful and don’t ever believe that men who’ve had lots of success can have flaws or fail in certain aspects, you’ve told me everything I’ve ever needed to know about you 🤣💀
/r/seduction06/01/26 02:38 AM
1

Bro… how are you meeting any of these women? I assume it must be the gym and you’re jacked right?
/r/seduction05/01/26 11:08 PM
1

How is this unethical again?
/r/seduction05/01/26 10:43 PM
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Not listening to some misandrist troll, go bother someone else lmao.
/r/seduction21/12/25 07:26 AM
1

Kinda gross to say that lol
/r/seduction21/12/25 07:23 AM
1

Yes there is
/r/seduction21/12/25 01:57 AM
1

In this post…
/r/seduction21/12/25 12:57 AM
1

I posted it.
/r/seduction21/12/25 12:20 AM
1

Done
/r/seduction20/12/25 08:40 PM
0

I don’t lol
/r/seduction20/12/25 05:33 AM
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Still tho, I don’t wish to say they should be punished, but they ought to be ashamed of themselves. Maybe give them restriction like they can only talk with one person a day.
/r/seduction20/12/25 04:30 AM
2

Thanks mate 🧉
/r/seduction20/12/25 02:38 AM
0

Most likely lmaooo
/r/seduction20/12/25 02:28 AM
-1

Thanks brother
/r/seduction20/12/25 02:27 AM
1

I tried man but this shit is soooo difficult! I’ve tried banter even with chat gpt and even after ten messages and asking her out they stop responding…
/r/seduction20/12/25 02:26 AM
2

My brother in Christ no offense but the literal title says dating apps
/r/seduction20/12/25 02:24 AM
1

How do you meet people more “naturally” besides shared spaces and group events?
/r/seduction20/12/25 12:14 AM
2

I mean sure of course they are but I’m not, and I’m real tired of just even basic questions getting ignored. Is dating even worth it anymore?
/r/seduction20/12/25 12:05 AM
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F off
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:50 PM
1

I’ve tried, it’s written right there that I’ve asked for them to meet up with me early on and they never message.
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:49 PM
-3

Is that even possible?
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:48 PM
-5

Where?
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:46 PM
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Ehhhh what are you talking about? I’m talking about dating apps…
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:43 PM
1

I see where you’re coming from, I’ve tried to make mine last but I suck at doing that lol
/r/seduction02/12/25 07:30 PM
1

Hey man, the first part was cool, the second part was unnecessary, I have adhd which makes me crave dopamine and constant new experiences. And if you saw some of the other comments you’d know that I am looking for something long term.
/r/seduction02/12/25 05:31 PM
1

They always kinda have ;) hahahahah, unfortunately tho… I’m not looking anymore for serious lol.
/r/seduction29/11/25 05:11 PM
1

Absolutely my guy thank you, plus I think this can workout more because I don’t like flirting with my words but love flirting through touch.
/r/seduction29/11/25 05:08 PM
1

DUDE! You just opened my eyes here! You’re totally right! Because of my past as a salesmen even when I am nervous I’m still able to carry myself with confidence and not give off desperate vibes. Which, I guess for the women they must have been confusing me being too chickenshit to make a move as confidence that I can get any girl, ok awesome! How do I get over the fear of making the move while also being better at being able to flirt more directly and show more interest? Because I was interested…
/r/seduction29/11/25 04:41 PM
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lol, only if we’re in the same area 😂
/r/seduction29/11/25 02:45 PM
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Ugh, It’d be lucky if we met, I need a woman that can keep up with me…
/r/seduction29/11/25 02:23 PM
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lol never thought about it like that, but genuinely I do not try to be a fuckboy, I do be horny af tho 🤣
/r/seduction29/11/25 02:09 PM
1

Ehhh somewhat yes somewhat no, it’s not just about not getting results, it’s why I have such high failure rates and people constantly tell me conflicting things
/r/seduction29/11/25 01:20 PM
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Oh no I feel you bro and trust me I am NEVER doing that shit 🤣💀 I’m good with just video games, exercise and sex lol
/r/seduction29/11/25 03:45 AM
1

Ehhhh no offense brother but that’s actually part of the condition. ADHD people (especially me who has extreme adhd) are basically dopamine addicts who always seek out as much dopamine and novelty as much as possible lol.
/r/seduction29/11/25 03:16 AM
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Yeah no, I didn’t read this before but this is just embarrassing dude like genuinely really fucking embarrassing. Nobody especially in their right mind thinks to diagnose or believe that they can figure out someone just by a few text messages at first glance. Did you ever think that maybe I’m just a bad writer and didn’t know I could come across that way instead? You chose to believe the worst in me rather than actually ask why I used those words in the first place.
/r/seduction29/11/25 03:15 AM
1

Huh? Wdym? ADHD or sex addiction?
/r/seduction29/11/25 03:11 AM
0

Maybe because I clearly said that I’ve been trying to look for something serious and kept running into women that didn’t want it 🤨 what’s your fucking problem dude?
/r/seduction29/11/25 02:02 AM
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Dude, have you ever wondered that maybe you’re the problem? All I did was share my grievances without attacking anyone else. You really think I’m in the wrong here because of some of my language?
/r/seduction29/11/25 02:01 AM
-1

Respectfully disagree lmao
/r/seduction28/11/25 10:55 PM
-2

Just be able to hookup randomly with a person in a public place cuz I never have unless it’s been with someone I’ve already slept with. Like at a concert or festival or sm etc
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:26 PM
0

Dude, I just wrote this shit in notes lol. What’s the problem?
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:24 PM
1

Sorry, meant in the bar lol
/r/seduction28/11/25 07:45 PM
1

No lol, I say that but I’m really a dopamine addict because of adhd. And that’s not going away any time soon 🤣
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:53 PM
2

Maybe it’s that… maybe I just haven’t mastered the art form.
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:51 PM
1

I use tinder, bumble and plenty of other regular dating apps…
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:50 PM
0

Well sort of, the main problems is why am having bad results when trying to be more direct versus just being friendly. I wish to be more direct.
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:49 PM
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Obv lol, but this is still a new post/topic that I haven’t talked about before.
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:42 PM
0

Bruh what how? Through a post? How?
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:38 PM
1

No shit, that’s the literal entire point of this post. 🤣
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:38 PM
2

Lovely
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:12 PM
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I thank you for writing this brother but unfortunately it’s not addressing the core issue. I feel like and want like I can do both styles, however only one approach has worked (friendly) which is a problem for me since I am a very sexual guy that loves exhibitionism The points of view from the women being contradictory is the problem of the post. I love learning about others and getting to know them, But I ALSO love being horny and it someone’s just takes me a Quick Look at a woman to decide if …
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:11 PM
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Brother what? Cmon man I need something related to the post.
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:07 PM
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I see where you’re coming from, but I’m still frustrated, I’m not being overtly crass so to speak, even just calling a girl cute versus never calling anything to her at all has results in more failures. I forgot to put this but this post was prompted by many of the stories I’ve heard from Reddit, the internet, and in my personal life from friends about their slutty stories. To me I’d love nothing more than to take a pretty girl and bang her behind the bar but… as stated in this post… that hasn’t…
/r/seduction28/11/25 05:56 PM
-2

Buahahhaha that made me laugh a bit but for a different reason. I’m actually pretty confused by what you mean with this?
/r/seduction28/11/25 05:51 PM
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What? What are you saying here? Are you saying you’re being criticized for being nice and you should have toned it down?
/r/seduction21/10/25 08:06 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction12/10/25 10:57 PM
2

Oooh ok, so quick thing, one where are these subs? And 2 a lot of women absolutely deserve to not have the orgasms they want, why? BECAUSE THEY DONT COMMUNICATE WHAT THEY LIKE AND EXPECT THE GUY TO BE A MIND READER 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction24/09/25 11:39 PM
1

Ah I see, I thought you were insulting me lol. yeah, it kinda is, I’d wish I was in an open relationship tho lol.Remember, just because something is ideal for you doesn’t mean it’s ideal for others. I’ve already heard my ho phase and let me tell you, from personal experience developing a deeper connection with a woman is so much better than just a simple one night stand.You could still be slutty and sleep around just like me, I still love to do that, but I’d be lying if I said that hook ups alon…
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:55 PM
1

Huh? You mean how am I mentally? Eh, give or take 😂🤣 I don’t care to be fulfilled by other people now, and it’s been better for my mental health overall. Also, as you and I are talking, a girl on tinder TODAY said that she’d be down to let me explore her body for her tattoos lol (can send screenshots if you still don’t believe me)
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:43 PM
1

If you don’t wish to believe me that’s your prerogative lmao. Also saying dating apps are for losers is douchey and narcissistic. I mean without even meeting me before hand they agreed to meet at my place for some Netflix and chill. It’s certainly not the standard. But it has happened many times.
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:24 PM
1

Then you are unfortunately not the guys she wants… I’ve had more than 7-10 women just come meet me at my place, no strings attached, I am regularly called handsome. And while I’m not 10/10(not yet) I’m above average looks wise and that’s enough lol.
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:21 PM
0

I’ve gotten more than 7 this way, what are you talking about?
/r/seduction20/09/25 06:39 PM
0

I’ve gotten more than 7 lays where the girl directly comes to me. What are you on about mate?
/r/seduction20/09/25 06:38 PM
1

No, that’s your job as the commenter
/r/seduction08/09/25 12:34 PM
1

Bro what are you on about?! Trying to socialize for the sake of socializing is called being friends LMAO. What is the point of socializing then? Being goal oriented in what?
/r/seduction08/09/25 12:32 PM
1

Then clearly you don’t know what seduction is my guy.
/r/seduction06/09/25 12:32 PM
1

Who the hell said this was exclusive to women?! When in my post did it say that my only intent is romantic interest. Also, why can’t I desire friendship???? Like no seriously, explain to me how or why I can’t desire friendship.
/r/seduction05/09/25 10:33 PM
3

Oh fuck off re t ad . I am attractive, can’t you read that most people that have reached out to me have been women I’ve slept with?!
/r/seduction04/09/25 01:47 AM
3

That’s NOT AT ALL TRUE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 first you’re wrong on finance and now you’re wrong on this too?! Bros delusional 😭
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:42 AM
1

Bro, go be a finance bro somewhere else this is NOT a finance sub 🤣🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:40 AM
1

You can believe me or not it doesn’t matter, I dió ta
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:29 AM
1

I mean… I guess? But that’s not entirely true it just depends on where you live lmao
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:12 AM
1

WRONG hahhahaha I am very attractive and consistently get complimented on my looks. My looks aren’t the problem. It’s my social skills (potentially)
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:08 AM
1

You’re INSANE if you think 100k a year is lower middle class. I live with my hobbies on less than 3k a month. 10k every month would allow me to afford all of my hobbies at the same time and a crap ton of medical bills paid off!
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:05 AM
3

Bingo, you get it. 🔥
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:02 AM
3

Since when does being online and failing to maintain friendships mean I’m not an extrovert?! When I had more money I used to go to clubs DAILY and had so much fun talking and getting to know new people. Your definition of an extrovert is some magical being that is always excellent with friends but that’s not the whole truth dude.
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:02 AM
1

Where did you get this imaginary ratio from?! 🤣😂
/r/seduction03/09/25 10:59 AM
2

Why tf would I need a hair transplant?!
/r/seduction03/09/25 10:56 AM
1

What?
/r/seduction03/09/25 01:09 AM
1

All those people are very shallow tho…
/r/seduction03/09/25 12:12 AM
1

I’m an atheist 💀 you couldn’t possibly go lower 💀
/r/seduction03/09/25 12:11 AM
1

And those are?!
/r/seduction02/09/25 11:34 PM
7

Ok yeah, I’m not listening to you. You live in delusion. I’ve gotten plenty of attractive women with worser odds dude. And if they quit on me because of materialism then trust me, I never wanted them to begin with. 😂
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:55 PM
2

Ew. Shallow mindset my dude.
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:51 PM
1

Dude… I’m not rich or upper middle class and what makes you think they are better? They have standards for themselves?! Bro a lot of those people just inherit that money. Source: a semi rich kid with doctors for parents and let me tell you. Having higher earning people DOES NOT mean they are more humble and better people. If anything they are more insufferable by comparison than normies…
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:51 PM
3

Sir… is higher quality people to you just people who are rich?
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:47 PM
4

And where exactly does one find “higher quality” people?
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:27 PM
7

Listen mate no offense but this isn’t the same as making sure I’m more respected, this just makes it so people use me more for what I can provide for them….
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:27 PM
14

What? Whats the first way?
/r/seduction02/09/25 07:48 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/seduction01/09/25 02:30 AM
1

Yeah I’d love to, may I dm?
/r/seduction31/08/25 06:41 PM
1

How does one better their texting skills?
/r/seduction31/08/25 06:40 PM
1

So I’m looking to not be left on read specifically. Like I’m getting left on read even when I’m not sending anything problematic.
/r/seduction31/08/25 06:39 PM
2

Thanks mate I appreciate ya
/r/seduction30/08/25 05:03 PM
1

Same bro… same.
/r/seduction30/08/25 11:45 AM
-2

Somewhat, what’s the issue, and also so this relates to general group chats where if I’m not making the effort no one is lol.
/r/seduction30/08/25 01:25 AM
-1

Also I almost got laid from one, don’t reject any avenue embrace them all lol.
/r/seduction30/08/25 01:23 AM
-2

Swinger group chats lol
/r/seduction30/08/25 01:22 AM
1

Where and how and about what?
/r/seduction30/08/25 01:19 AM
1

Dating apps but yeah my looks need work sadly…
/r/seduction28/08/25 08:47 PM
3

Bro what do you think I’m here for?! Also, when I try to immediately set up a place they then unmatch or block me for trying to hard or being too eager to meet. And it would even be a big deal it would be like hey I like how the convos going, wanna meet up at location sometime?
/r/seduction28/08/25 08:14 PM
2

Yeah but the whole reason I even started looking into text game and getting better at it was because I was getting left on read A LOT so I wanted to change that but it seems to have gotten worse 😞
/r/seduction28/08/25 08:01 PM
2

Except I’ve done that and when I forget to text the girl back they stop responding which is why I’m so confused. Like I was working one day and couldn’t respond for 6 hours and this girl stopped taking to me for 6 days.
/r/seduction28/08/25 07:47 PM
1

Potentially, a lot of the times it’s different sex styles (like a man wanting to go slow and a woman wanting it rough and fast) and the woman being too shy/ afraid of confrontation or fear for her life and she doesn’t say anything.
/r/seduction16/08/25 11:24 PM
5

Yeah
/r/seduction09/08/25 02:14 AM
1

Bro wtf is your grammar 💀
/r/seduction09/08/25 12:45 AM
1

Anyways to continue my thought I’d say unfortunately human beings with our monkey brains so you know truly ruined dating and friendships as a whole. It’s not technologies‘s fault ghosting at being non-confrontational is the standard in the United States right now and that’s explicitly what kills all types of relationships. I’ve been trying to date and get friends for years now going out all the time getting out of my comfort zone and going into every event I possibly could completely solo and ei…
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:44 PM
3

There’s this dude called life income that I blocked and that you should too because all he does is shame people with some hypothetical and idiotic scenario about “how you are always whining when you say you want someone but never can find anyone and its all your fault” when that’s simply not true. Dating friendships and relationships are much more difficult now than they’ve ever been and is a much more nuanced problem than what this guy says.
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:28 PM
1

Buddy I know you’re not that bright but I also didn’t know you couldn’t read either ;) I mean it clearly says zero fat chicks there, cmon little baby, afraid of being proven wrong? ;)
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:17 PM
2

Nah, I’m pretty successful with women, I just know that you have no idea what it’s like to be a man
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:09 PM
1

Oooo nice try buddy but most aren’t fat ;), wanna see? That’s what I thought puss y
/r/seduction05/08/25 09:20 PM
9

Stop bsing already. We all know you have barely made a move in comparison to most men.
/r/seduction05/08/25 08:47 PM
0

More than you trust me ;) got tapes to prove it too. So sybau buddy ;)
/r/seduction05/08/25 08:39 PM
4

Dude sybau he doesn’t have to do anything because of some fake rules people follow
/r/seduction05/08/25 08:17 PM
11

That’s a toxic mentality still because most women don’t make the move and you know it, can you tell me how many times you have made the move first whether it be for sex or love?
/r/seduction05/08/25 08:16 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction04/08/25 08:28 PM
2

No I haven’t, F off
/r/seduction04/08/25 10:55 AM
2

That’s not helpful, that sucks
/r/seduction04/08/25 02:41 AM
2

I have the opposite problem LMAO I never get afraid of approaching in a crowd I actually prefer it to alone
/r/seduction04/08/25 12:32 AM
2

Mine is a weird transition, I loved going to bars and clubs before I went full swinger but now? I barely go and quite suck at it now, maybe I’m being harsh on myself but it’s semi true, maybe I should return, I liked dancing there and almost always made out with women there lol.
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:50 PM
3

I’m too afraid to even approach girls I find cute out on the street bro… but I’m incredibly confident with girls out in the wild at kink clubs.
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:34 PM
3

How do I break the cycle?
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:09 PM
5

You’re right bro, gotta keep on going, and be more flirtatious as well.
/r/seduction03/08/25 05:51 PM
6

That’s my problem.. definitely suffer from low self esteem, I’m about to be 27 this year… my youth is fading… I can’t afford to keep being a coward. How do I break that cycle?!
/r/seduction03/08/25 05:50 PM
12

Yup, somewhat in the same boat here, I’ve joined many more social groups but my problem is money. Edit: I just realized social groups or hanging out with others was not my problem, it was simply lack of money and approach anxiety that was the problem, I literally went to a party yesterday with a female friend (female friends help a lot don’t lie to yourselves now) I’m just a huge wuss sadly…
/r/seduction03/08/25 05:30 PM
1

Yes, simply because I wanted some insight and advice, I didn’t get a whole lot like I wanted but I got the gist.
/r/seduction31/07/25 12:28 AM
1

Also, city centre? What’s that?
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:42 PM
2

Unfortunately… I live in a small city, soooo that costs gas and money, one of the reasons I bought my bike in the first place 😅 I can look over if there are small parks around me tho, haven’t checked that.
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:42 PM
1

You’re right, right now it’s raining like crazy but tomorrow I should have more free time, where would you recommend I go? I have a bike so I’m able to go to some grocery stores but besides restaurants, one bar next to me and grocery stores there’s not much where else to go :(
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:32 PM
2

Same brother… same…. Hasn’t gotten better either lol
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:17 PM
1

What if. You want to do something else? Like right now I just want to watch a series, I might be a little bit addicted to watching shit rn but still.
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:16 PM
1

No, most of the time it’s free for me
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:51 PM
1

All of them.
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:22 PM
43

I’d say definitely harder, on dating apps you meet soooo many women that you could potentially make your wife even, but because of technology and a massive “there could always be something better out there mentality” people can’t keep a relationship worth a damn.
/r/seduction29/07/25 04:11 AM
0

Ooooooor I’m just stating a fact and now I’m asking a genuine question because I’m curious??? You really have terrible social skills bro you gotta learn when you’re overthinking someone as evil or having an ego.💀💀💀
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:54 AM
-1

I don’t think you know what having an ego means 🤣 you’re just a lowlife who gets salty easily about anything and everything, don’t you have a hobby or sm?
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:51 AM
-1

Believe whatever you wanna believe troll 😂😘
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:48 AM
0

It doesn’t, I’m just nosy 🤣
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:06 AM
3

Bro please be a little bit more specific lmao
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:14 AM
1

How? And how did you know you were being talked about lol?
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:09 AM
1

Depends, I’m looking for a swinger woman to be in an open relationship with so if she’s uncomfortable with my body count then I don’t want her lmao
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:09 AM
1

How does one not come across as a fuckboy?
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:06 AM
1

I find that no one cares lmaooo, I have never heard my name on some community place or people recognizing me somewhere, maybe of course I’m just blind to it but still lol
/r/seduction28/07/25 11:56 PM
1

I’ve been examining and I’ve been seeing two things, neediness and perhaps in daygame out in the open I psyche myself out with the excuse of my responsibilities and with normie normal women I don’t flirt enough
/r/seduction27/07/25 07:35 PM
1

Do some guys here really do dedicate an entire Saturday or Sunday to day game?
/r/seduction27/07/25 07:18 PM
-1

Hardy harr
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:58 PM
1

No it’s definitely not that, I can chat with anyone, buuuuttt there’s not much to talk about in a bar besides flirting lol.
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:05 PM
6

I hate that… you are absolutely correct… I fucking hate it…. Because I’ve been to so many bars and clubs and the only places I like to go are swinger bars and the people there are older, but the hottest women go to the regular clubs…. I find it so difficult to keep a conversation with them, there’s barely any connection…What conversational starters do you use on women at bars? Because I fucking suck at it man…
/r/seduction27/07/25 03:52 AM
1

Only initially and that’s a big somewhat. When they don’t start showing me interest or start being flaky I stop responding to them and go for other women that do. My mindset in dating is “go with a person that is excited to go with you”
/r/seduction27/07/25 12:10 AM
1

Alright fine, I see where you’re going with this, how do I fix this then?
/r/seduction26/07/25 11:38 PM
2

What are you getting at?
/r/seduction26/07/25 11:34 PM
2

No definitely not, I actually do get my women and do filter them out, this post now seeing it doesn’t come across as desperate but in reality I do have high standards for my women it just sucks that I can’t get women that I want for a long term relationship.
/r/seduction26/07/25 11:26 PM
3

Listen mate no offense as a dude with a nearly 100 body count (yes it’s real if you don’t believe me that’s cool) this advice would sound great until you actually do want something long term, I’ve been in a long term relationship before, and it was magical, it wasn’t perfect by any means but nothing has compared to that high for me.
/r/seduction26/07/25 11:21 PM
7

Wow dude, did you just wake up and decide to be a huge d bag today?
/r/seduction26/07/25 11:16 PM
1

Ah no definitely not that, I think I’ll be in my prime in my 30s I’m just impatient 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction26/07/25 11:00 PM
3

Bro, I’m ngl you suck at giving advice…
/r/seduction26/07/25 10:58 PM
1

What does my age imply?
/r/seduction26/07/25 10:57 PM
2

Maybe.. maybe…
/r/seduction26/07/25 10:57 PM
1

You might be right, but so far, my lifestyle doesn’t have enough money to support me and have fun.
/r/seduction26/07/25 10:56 PM
2

Man my life is so topsy turvy dude, I go from being a chad getting multiple women to right now had a girl obv use me as a fun distraction before cancelling our date today. I’m hella fucking fucking pissed and depressed today
/r/seduction26/07/25 10:54 PM
11

Aim for what?
/r/seduction26/07/25 10:49 PM
3

That actually proves my point completely, it’s another about the age, but the level of attraction. Sure the average Joe probably wouldn’t be give a chance, but all you’ve said is exactly what I’ve been saying that if you’re attractive enough it doesn’t matter what age you are you can still flirt with women much younger than you.
/r/seduction26/07/25 12:23 PM
2

Still not it lol. Plenty of young women would go for cavill lol.
/r/seduction25/07/25 09:57 PM
6

Ok? And? You’re telling me you wouldn’t bang Henry cavil because of his age?
/r/seduction25/07/25 08:47 PM
1

I think it’s a combination of many factors: For starters I was always a loner and a bit of a social outcast, so going to things on my own was just the standard, honestly looking back into it even on my birthdays since no one has barely gone to them I have not invited people to my birthday to have like a birthday party even in my current age (26). 2: Because of reason number one, when I go to events I go with the mindset that I’m just trying to have fun, popular to contrary belief most people are…
/r/seduction23/07/25 06:44 PM
4

Ouch dude, cmon.
/r/seduction22/07/25 12:25 AM
1

Hmmm interesting assessment. Thank you
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:31 PM
1

Yeah I will
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:31 PM
2

Thanks for understanding brother
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:05 PM
2

It is pleasant but I’ve gone through hundreds of these and it’s getting quite exhausting. Maybe I need to take a break lol
/r/seduction19/07/25 03:51 PM
2

Hmmmm I feel like I do that but maybe I don’t as much as I think I do, alright I’ll take that into account, thanks bro 😎
/r/seduction19/07/25 03:32 PM
1

I don’t start off political with anyone, however I’m concerned more about you now than me, why would you think vetting someone is a problem??? You don’t want quantity friendships you want QUALITY friendships and studies have shown that people who have similar values have better outcomes for long term relationships. What you are describing is being “friendly” and not actually being friends.
/r/seduction19/07/25 03:23 PM
1

Hmmm maybe, but you should in fact vet your friends, you don’t wish to be a liberal and make friends with a trump supporter for example.
/r/seduction19/07/25 02:25 PM
1

For the most part it’s the second one in the beginning, but I just want to hang out with them more and that can be perceived as needy, I do wish for a best friend and try to vet and test people (not in a toxic way just like asking them questions subtlety about what they believe in etc)
/r/seduction19/07/25 12:42 PM
1

What does needy behavior look like? Genuinely curious
/r/seduction19/07/25 12:01 PM
1

What are you talking about exactly? I am super confused
/r/seduction19/07/25 11:36 AM
1

No. People have to stop saying when someone wants connection and doesn’t wanna be lonely they are “needy”
/r/seduction19/07/25 11:35 AM
-3

Okayyyy buddy, do you need me to call your mommy or sm?
/r/seduction19/07/25 01:57 AM
2

Yeah but this was more about why are people not desiring me or respecting me as much as I wish for them to, like why do I keep on getting left on read so much by so many people?
/r/seduction18/07/25 11:03 PM
2

Appreciate it brother.
/r/seduction18/07/25 10:52 PM
5

I’m not that’s the funny part, I’m going to therapy now to learn how to stand up for myself WITHOUT going scorched earth on people, I have no problem standing up for myself but I go overboard a lot so it’s a skill I’m cultivating atm.
/r/seduction18/07/25 10:50 PM
1

I…. Don’t think that’s it my friend 😅
/r/seduction18/07/25 10:49 PM
1

I know that. Bruh but how difficult is it to understand that I want someone to fall in love with who is decently attractive? I’m not looking for supermodel either, just someone attractive enough!
/r/seduction23/02/25 02:53 PM
1

Dude, stop, it’s not validation, I’m not doing this for others I’m doing this for ME! I want an attractive girlfriend that I can fall in love with!
/r/seduction22/02/25 11:54 PM
0

Yeah no dude lol. I just want a physically attractive gf with the same values mate, nothing more nothing less
/r/seduction22/02/25 10:11 PM
2

Honestly I’d say my game is quite literally all over the place. One day I’m slaying the next I’m getting left on read constantly 🤣😭 it’s so weird man…
/r/seduction22/02/25 09:04 PM
1

That’s what I think, or just traditional non kinky women. But aren’t we in a very slutty time anyways? I have made out with beautiful women in clubs before, but haven’t taken a true 10/10 back home. Most of my success with beautiful women are from dating apps. I also genuinely enjoy the lifestyle, that’s what attracted me to that place in the first place.
/r/seduction22/02/25 09:01 PM
2

So what you’re saying is sex appeal is more about behavior?
/r/seduction22/02/25 08:53 PM
5

Strange, I’ve noticed the exact opposite, most women want me to use protection in FL even with just a one night stand. Strange
/r/seduction22/02/25 08:45 PM
2

What is sex appeal in this context? I seriously don’t understand it
/r/seduction22/02/25 08:39 PM
2

That is so false lol. Most people don’t give a shit, I’ve never seen anyone bring up my name and I had plenty of friends and knew quite a bit of secrets lol
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:45 AM
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