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| 1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traittrue, no women only care about intelligence if it got you money. girls never cared about the autistic kid in the corner who won the national maths challenge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive trait99% of lawyers aren't women? tf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Why is it considered insulting to be called "husband material" by women but it's a considered a compliment when women get called "wife material"?I haven't heard any guy say they're insulted by this... are you sure this is true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | My wife doesn’t believe that women aren’t held to the same level of accountability as men.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=usq-IHT5ARc just watch this video. she gives a lot of statistics which show women arent held to the same accountability in the criminal courts. for example women are sentenced to 63% less time for the exact same crime as a man | /r/MensRights | 20/12/21 10:13 PM |
| 6 | My thoughts on gender differences in dating and sexdepends. personally I like introverted girls. they cute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 04:34 PM |
| 2 | My thoughts on gender differences in dating and sexThe redpill teaches that women are attracted to looks, money and status (LMS). The leadership thing sounds like another way of describing social status. Is this accurate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 02:18 PM |
| 6 | My thoughts on gender differences in dating and sexSo do you mean that men need to be leaders, or just display a dominant personality which is leader - like? Personally I think women care just as much about looks as men do. I think something like 45 percent of women wouldnt even consider being with a man below average in height. Even if being a leader is important, that is mainly shown through physical attributes such as height, jawline and frame. Skinny, short dudes with a recessed chin will be seen as betas whether they act like a leader or no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 01:50 PM |
| 2 | My thoughts on gender differences in dating and sexI am an incel complaining about hypergamy. Well spotted. I think more guys should call women out for their hypergamy, frankly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | My thoughts on gender differences in dating and sexWhen no one wants you bc you're only average looking and don't make a lot of money, you don't get dates to begin with. Ive stopped trying now anyways. Juice isn't worth the squeeze | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | My thoughts on gender differences in dating and sexMen in general are worth nothing. If he has money that has nothing to do with how attractive he is sexually. It just means women can use him as a sucker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 01:24 PM |
| 3 | My thoughts on gender differences in dating and sexI disagree. I am not that bad looking, yet even after spending over 400 hours in the gym, I got zero interest from women. I've tried online dating and as a guy it's just impossible. It's so hard as an average dude to find a partner nowadays | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 01:22 PM |
| 25 | My thoughts on gender differences in dating and sexYou completely underestimate looks. Charisma is highly influenced by looks due to the halo effect. It isn't so easy for men to improve from a 6 to a 9. As for men needing to become leaders to attract women, only a small percentage of men can lead (since for every leader that, there exist multiple other people beneath him that are being led.) this essentially dooms low value men to loneliness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Why do men complain about dating when they're in their 20s? Why not wait until you're in your 30s to start dating?Exactly. Well said. People just expect men to be OK with suffering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Why do men complain about dating when they're in their 20s? Why not wait until you're in your 30s to start dating?Where is the data which says the 76.9 stat? Curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Why do men complain about dating when they're in their 20s? Why not wait until you're in your 30s to start dating?Exactly. Its not in our nature to spend our 20s celibate and alone. People just want us to shut up about our suffering like we don't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do men complain about dating when they're in their 20s? Why not wait until you're in your 30s to start dating?Yeah I'm sure men appreciate only being wanted for their money... Dumbass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Women are much less likely to be satisfied with their partner compared to men. Many women are bisexual so may want to be sexual with a girl too. They are also hypergamous so want the very best man. If their partner doesn't satisfy her hypergamy, she'll either monkey branch to the higher value male, or ask for some kind of open relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:32 AM |
| 1 | So i made a post on off my chest about how I wanna be strong and a women said i am a mysoginyst. The fuck?Women don't want low value males to improve themselves. They want us to stay down so we don't reproduce our poor genetic material. It's only natural for them. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?Women are hypergamous and men are not. Of course its harder for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:16 AM |
| 23 | Which sex has it worse in America?This is a men's rights subreddit what answer do you expect lmao | /r/MensRights | 08/12/21 09:15 AM |
| 3 | Same shit, different year.ppl disliked my comment even though it was said ironically smh | /r/MensRights | 23/11/21 07:44 PM |
| -4 | Same shit, different year.but every day is international men's day didn'tcha know? | /r/MensRights | 19/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Let people experience being male for a daygo on tinder as a male and see how much women care about you | /r/MensRights | 14/11/21 11:03 PM |
| 22 | There is recycled trope that men feared being laughed at by women while women fear being killed by them. Increasing as I read law blogs, I am ok with being laughed at.we're used to it. in general women are used to getting positive reinforcement from society, so when something changes that, it's more of a big deal for them | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".I saw that statistic. attractive men were still significantly more likely to receive messages. also that data doesn't consider the content of the messages. it could have been monosyllabic 1-word messages, or simply 'not interested'. that chart can be interpreted in different ways. women rating 80% of men as below average is very clear-cut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:15 AM |
| 1 | It's impossible for a guy to win an argument if he implies he's sexually unsuccessfulwhy do you think the 80/20 rule is vastly overestimated? how do you know a large proportion of these 69% of men aren't just sharing the bottom 20% of women and getting occasional sex? the 31% stat doesn't disprove the 80/20 rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:11 AM |
| 1 | It's impossible for a guy to win an argument if he implies he's sexually unsuccessfulbut when you consider how even ugly, obese women can get laid within 24 hours, you realise how skewed the dating market really is. if it takes 3-4 months swiping through hundreds of women and NONE of them want you, that is a uniquely male experience. occasionally you come across an outlier who will have sex with you, but that's an exception to the rule, not the rule itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:08 AM |
| 1 | It's impossible for a guy to win an argument if he implies he's sexually unsuccessfulconsidering men's high sex drive, and how many hoops men will go through just to get sex with an average-looking girl, 31% of young men not having sex in a year is pretty damn high. having sex once a year is setting the bar pretty darn low, and chances are it's with an obese/ugly woman, because women date up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:05 AM |
| 6 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gamemen use porn as a coping mechanism for being rejected by overly hypergamous females | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:48 AM |
| 18 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameI'd say the main issue is female hypergamy. allowing sexual promiscuity allowed women's hypergamy to run rampant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".OKcupid shows that women rate 80% of men as below average. I can't exactly trust your judgement given women in general have a skewed perception of male attractiveness. and what would you rate yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".and this is exactly why women end up alone when they hit the wall. gynocentrism inflates their ego, making them view the majority of men as beneath them. unfortunately there arent enough top 10/20% men to go round, so most average women screw themselves by setting such standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling"."they're not all looking for arnold schwarzenegger any more than you're all looking for michelle pfieffer". I looked up michelle Pfieffer and she isnt attractive. atleast not anymore. anyway, by that comment are you claiming that women dont have higher standards than men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:27 AM |
| 3 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling"."the person you deserve will find you" yeah and get rejected because you want chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".she isn't settling..the THINKS she's settling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".based af comment. hypergamy really distorts women's view. the fact that we live in a gynocentric society which devalues men and pedestalises women is mainly to blame I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".females are a victim of their OWN HYPERGAMY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 06:48 AM |
| -1 | Are fat man the only hope for women that want a man that does not cheat?If you don't want your man to cheat, go for good men who are kind and care for you. Many women go for the handsome bad boys and then think all men cheat. If you pick a good man as I described, even if he gets 20mil and a yacht, he won't cheat. You also have to do your part in treating him well, and it'll be reciprocated Even if he decides that he has more dating options after getting rich, and wants to be with other women, that doesn't mean he'll cheat on you. He'll just end the relationship bef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 01:39 PM |
| 5 | Are fat man the only hope for women that want a man that does not cheat?If you want a man that doesn't cheat, get with a man who is loyal. Judge men based on who they are, not how much money he has, how tall he is etc. Most Women just don't do this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 01:16 PM |
| 7 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?this is all true. female hypergamy is the epitome of female narcissism and entitlement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?they do, if they offer things other than attractiveness. but if you aren't atleast somewhat physically attractive, men won't see you as anything more than a friend. those feelings of love and wanting to be physically intimate are necessary for a healthy relationship. if you're repulsive to look at, it's physically impossible for men to get turned on by you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 08:43 PM |
| -1 | Do you guys think that young people are becoming unhappier in sex, dating and relationships in general?Yes. Men are unhappy because they can't live up to women's increasing standards, and women are unhappy because Chad won't commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Could society collapse because of picky women?he never said 'all women' did he? single motherhood is common but not every woman is a single mother. that doesnt mean it's not a problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?thing is, after they go through the 'chad' phase, they're in their 30's and no longer attractive to men. that's the typical case of 'riding the cock carousel' and then crawling back to the betabux after hitting the wall. why should a man who'll provide accept her during her worst years when she wouldn't accept him during her best years? that's a raw deal for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Why do men act like women wanting serious relationships in their 20s are crazy and too young to want marriage but shame women in their 30s for being old and “ran through”?I haven't seen men call women crazy for wanting serious relationships in their 20s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Could society collapse because of picky women?I think a lot of men are choosing to opt out specifically because of women's standards. the juice just isnt worth the squeeze anymore. oh there's plenty of OLD data on this. you can even try it yourself. set up an average-looking male account and see how it does on tinder, or any dating site. and just because the top-looking girls got more messages just means that men are more likely to simp over them. also the messages women send could be monosyllabic without any real effort put in to get to kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?very based comment. this is so true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?it's the perfect counter. i keep hearing this 'hypergamy is natural' bullshit repeated ad nauseam. I hear it by redpillers too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Could society collapse because of picky women?is there any evidence that the sexes are dating less? I think men are dating less, sure, because they can't get dates. as a male who has spoken to and been around other males, I can tell you that we love girls and want to be with them. there is absolutely no chance that the drastic increase in male virginity is down to choice. if men had the opportunity to get with girls, they would take that opportunity, no question. just because they have the opportunity to pursue doesn't mean anything. on OKc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?HAHAHAHA no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Could society collapse because of picky women?you think men will want to continue their wageslave jobs while not getting laid at all? sounds like torture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Could society collapse because of picky women?ok so why are there so many men that can't find partners if it isn't female pickyness? there's an almost equal number of men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?also because men fought eachother for mates. female apes go in heat, and will fuck any male...but usually only the strongest males reproduce because they fight off the weaker males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Could society collapse because of picky women?it's not just low-tier men that are struggling. even average men are struggling to find someone. it's not OK to set unrealistic/hypocritical standards on others, whether you're male or female. I'm not just blaming women. I think our society in general is set up in a way which facilitates/encourages female pickiness (like dating apps and feminism). In what way are my arguments illogical? what parts do you disagree with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?unfortunately this is true. this is another tragedy of female hypergamy. i'd like to think most men won't cuck themselves like this, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Could society collapse because of picky women?I'm pretty sure men had it much easier in the dating market 50 years ago. the male virginity rate has increased 3x in the past 10 or so years. it's definitely getting harder for men. if men had equal opportunity to women in the dating market, the outcome wouldn't be so many virgin men. these men aren't virgin by choice. The inequality in outcome is directly caused by inequality of opportunity in this case. it's much easier for women to find a partner. what other issues do you think cause so ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Could society collapse because of picky women?women are picky though. maybe they pick the wrong men, but that's different from being picky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?yep. sexual selection is often dysgenic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Could society collapse because of picky women?I would argue that increased female pickiness actually makes women have less choice of partners they want to be with. The picker you are, the harder it'll be to find a partner who lives up to your standards. Also I don't think women should be forced to lower their standards, I think there needs to be healthy cultural change which leads to that outcome. I strongly believe that men and women deserve equal opportunity in the dating market As for men who don't want to be fathers (or rather, men who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 03:51 PM |
| 6 | Could society collapse because of picky women?It increases the number of single mothers because it decreases the number of fathers. Almost all women want to have kids some day, but when there are fewer and fewer men who live up to her picky standards, this is impossible, unless women share a high value man with another woman/women. Also women can use sperm donation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 03:23 PM |
| 4 | Could society collapse because of picky women?I think the data is clear on the negative effects of loneliness and fatherlessness. Also a lot of it is common sense/logical reasoning. If women are picker, less men can become fathers. I think that is safe to say. Also what pros would you identify? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Wdym | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 02:38 PM |
| 5 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Legal rights, sure, but it sure causes a boatload of harm to society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Could society collapse because of picky women?And then men who can't get a Gf are seen as losers who must just have a bad personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Is there any difference between a conservative woman and a gold digger?Men can be breadwinners without being rich. She's a gold digger, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?I don't think you know what rock bottom is, lol.. Even if you were right, it doesn't change the fact that ugly women are reproducing. So long as ugly women reproduce, we aren't gonna have the Chad world you talk about, lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Yep, that's true women are more likely to go for guys with dark triad personality types. It's mainly about looks anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Nope. Because of women's picky standards, men will have to lower their standards if they want a chance. The ugly women will get more attention than they did before, and will reproduce their trash genetic material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Nope. Because of women's picky standards, men will have to lower their standards if they want a chance. The ugly women will get more attention than they did before, and will reproduce their trash genetic material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Nope. Because of women's picky standards, men will have to lower their standards if they want a chance. The ugly women will get more attention than they did before, and will reproduce their trash genetic material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Nope. Because of women's picky standards, men will have to lower their standards if they want a chance. The ugly women will get more attention than they did before, and will reproduce their trash genetic material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Nope. Because of women's picky standards, men will have to lower their standards if they want a chance. The ugly women will get more attention than they did before, and will reproduce their trash genetic material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:33 PM |
| 8 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Relationships are about much more than just sex though. And women get super horny for attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:29 PM |
| 21 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Violence and r*pe worked from an evolutionary point of view as well. The strongest males fought off the weaker males and took the females for themselves. Obviously this isn't acceptable in a civilised society. We aren't cavemen anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:25 PM |
| 7 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Are you kidding? Guys standards are at an all time low | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Agreed. I do think that lack of sex/intimacy is important though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:08 PM |
| 17 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Both of your solutions won't work. Sex dolls and such can never replace real sex. Also, men have a desire to be loved and appreciated. At best those technologies will serve as a coping strategy. As for plastic surgery, that simply isn't going to. Be affordable, and might not even work. It could just push the bar higher for other men. Unfortunately it's looking quite bleak right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:06 PM |
| 38 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Lower birthrate means not as many people to look after us when we are older...but that's the least of the problem. Women are a lot pickier than men, and are getting more picky year on year. Theres a lot of evidence for this. (e.g. online dating statistics, male virginity rates) this means a large percentage of men wont be able to find a partner. Men who arent able to find a partner often get depressed, experience lack of motivation, and drop out of society. We rely heavily on men to build and ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 12:53 PM |
| 6 | I just don't get why feminists say the patriarchy is responsible of men's problems as wellI've spoken to many feminists and none have convinced me. If they think women contribute to those things, it's only in the sense that they have been 'brainwashed by patriarchy'. You haven't even properly countered a single point I have made so far. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/21 08:36 AM |
| 5 | I just don't get why feminists say the patriarchy is responsible of men's problems as wellI was asking how you personally define patriarchy, because different people seem to have different definitions. I don't have the time to read through a bunch of articles right now. i'd rather hear you come up with your own arguments. one thing many feminists refuse to acknowledge is the role women play in upholding some of the damaging male stereotypes you mentioned. women are attracted to men who provide, men who are strong, men who are resilient, competitive and ambitious...to say that these m… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/21 07:51 AM |
| 5 | I just don't get why feminists say the patriarchy is responsible of men's problems as wellwhat is patriarchy then and how does it cause those things? all the things you listed could be explained by us living in a society which gives less empathy to men compared to women. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/21 07:22 AM |
| 2 | I just don't get why feminists say the patriarchy is responsible of men's problems as wellmen just receive less empathy from society. it's sad but it's true. I'm not sure how you're defining patriarchy in this sense. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/21 07:03 AM |
| 3 | I just don't get why feminists say the patriarchy is responsible of men's problems as wellI believe the word you're looking for is gynocentrism. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | How Excessive Individualism Corrupts the ManosphereThat's true. Unfortunately due to gynocentrism, many women are narcissistic and just won't accept a guy they consider beneath them. That's what happens when you get constant validation and positive reinforcement from society. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | How Excessive Individualism Corrupts the ManosphereI agree, but The problem is female hypergamy, which has gotten much worse due to multiple factors including gynocentrism, exacerbated by feminism and social media. Redpillers say to learn game and self improve as a solution. This is a problem because it doesn't solve the wider problem in the dating market. Women still only go for the top 20 percent of men, so there will still be just as many lonely men and the problem persists. Female promiscuity stems from hypergamy Mathematically speaking, all… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Relationship breakups are more painful for MEN because they're more 'emotionally invested' in the relationship than a female partner.And it's women who complain about men (Chad) only wanting hookups and not wanting to commit | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 09:18 AM |
| 4 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More SeriouslyFeminism plays into the problem. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/21 04:58 PM |
| 5 | IncelsInb4 "sex isn't a need, it's a want inkwell" | /r/MensRights | 03/11/21 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Bullied for supporting men's rightsI just don't tell people Irl I support men's rights. Not worth it. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/21 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Is female hypergamy a net positive or negative for society?Id disagree with the "those women usually have about the same amount of success at dating" if you try going on a dating site as an ugly woman, you'll have much more success than an ugly man. also I often see fat girls with slim guys, but that's anecdotal. I think men generally realise that they need to do more to attract women than women need to do to attract men. https://www.statista.com/statistics/1110347/prevelance-severe-obesity-us-adults-by-gender/ I think that goes a long way in explaining… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 06:57 PM |
| -13 | Is female hypergamy a net positive or negative for society?it's a generational/age group thing, i'd say. in the past 10-20 years, hypergamy has gotten much worse I think. mainly due to social media. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Is female hypergamy a net positive or negative for society?idk man ive heard of ugly ass dudes being successful on tinder there. also I dont think im better looking than other thais.only in height, really..but you are definitely right. i just dont think that's the full story. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 06:19 PM |
| -10 | Is female hypergamy a net positive or negative for society?im talking about going for the top 20% of men. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 05:54 PM |
| -3 | Is female hypergamy a net positive or negative for society?well, maybe...but if it was just natural, you'd expect it to be the same cross-culturally, no? women in the west have much higher standards than women in, say, thailand. I know this from personal experience. I think it's largely socially driven. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 05:54 PM |
| -7 | Is female hypergamy a net positive or negative for society?well, one of the positive points I mentioned is that it could motivate men to improve themselves to get to the top 20% edit: out of curiosity, what is the data that debunks it? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Scottish ad conflating giving complements with sexual violenceYep it's only sexual harassment if he's not chad | /r/MensRights | 25/10/21 11:02 AM |
| 6 | Scottish ad conflating giving complements with sexual violenceEvidence for most women being sexually assaulted? I'm pretty sure whatever statistic that is also includes touching her waist or something super minor as being sexual assault. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/21 11:02 AM |
| 1 | HYPERGAMY IS IN DECLINE LOL (DATA AND STUDIES)Xdxdxdxdxdxdxdxdxd | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/21 10:55 AM |
| 1 | HYPERGAMY IS IN DECLINE LOL (DATA AND STUDIES)Lol, OK. Mate, bye. One piece of advice for the future though, try and use proper grammar. It'll get your points across much clearer and prevent you from looking like a clown. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/21 10:54 AM |
| 0 | HYPERGAMY IS IN DECLINE LOL (DATA AND STUDIES)27-30 isn't exactly young, and just because the average age of marriage is 27-30 years doesn't mean the average age of a married couple is 27-30 years. it just means that is the average age people have their marriage. the 11% statistic most likely includes people all the way up to great grandparents in their 80s and 90s. and yes, women will get matches no matter how bad they are because men are lonely and will unfortunately settle for that. there is no evidence that men actually prefer these wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/21 07:28 AM |
| 1 | HYPERGAMY IS IN DECLINE LOL (DATA AND STUDIES)men often have to lower their standards because women have such high standards..and yeah when men are rejected their whole life, they're gonna have low self esteem. as for society thinking women are toxic, idk where you get this bs idea. the whole 'toxic masculinity' narrative is aimed at men. there is no equivalent for women In regards to 'bad boys', idk what study you read, but there are multiple studies which prove that women are more attracted to dark triad personality traits which are bad f… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | HYPERGAMY IS IN DECLINE LOL (DATA AND STUDIES)meeting online is literally the no.1 way people get into relationships nowadays. just look at this graph news.unm.edu/news/online-dating-outstrips-family-friends-as-way-to-meet-a-partner to disregard dating apps is just dumb. also online dating doesn't just exist in a vacuum. it affects the entire dating market. just as social media effects everything irl, the opportunity to meet people online does, too. women in general have higher standards now. as for the 11% marriage thing, people who get ma… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/21 06:21 PM |
| 0 | HYPERGAMY IS IN DECLINE LOL (DATA AND STUDIES)wrong. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/02/06/10-facts-about-americans-and-online-dating/ as you can see, almost as many women have tried online dating as men. yes, more men are on the apps, but that's only because they struggle to find a partner due to women's ridiculous standards. when there is little water, there will be more demand for water when women reject the bottom 80% of men due to their hypergamy, there will be more demand for women. there's an equal number of women and men.… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/21 05:19 AM |
| 0 | HYPERGAMY IS IN DECLINE LOL (DATA AND STUDIES)Read above comment, I replied to myself by accident | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/21 10:10 AM |
| 0 | HYPERGAMY IS IN DECLINE LOL (DATA AND STUDIES)Hypergamy is dating up, are you retarded? Yes, hypergamy is the 80/20 rule. Just look at okcupid statistics. Women rate 80% of men as below average. Also the reason there are more men on tinder is because it takes longer for men to get a match (thanks to high female standards), while women get matches easily so don't spend much time on tinder before getting what they want. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/21 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Can somebody help me understand why the media predominately focuses on women's issues and effectively ignores men's issues?gynocentrism | /r/MensRights | 20/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | My feminist professor in my social work program...Damn, Good job on standing up for yourself. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/21 02:59 PM |
| 0 | HYPERGAMY IS IN DECLINE LOL (DATA AND STUDIES)In the manosphere, hypergamy just means 'dating up' in general. It doesn't just apply to money. Hypergamy is still increasing, they are just chasing the good looking guys now since social roles have changed and more women are earning their own money. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | I got slapped by a girl and laughed upon and couldn't do anything.I made a subreddit called r/gynocentrism , this seems very appropriate | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 09:57 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W]Do believe average looking women get a lot of attention?i'd need to see the actual pics to judge tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 04:01 PM |
| 0 | [Q4W]Do believe average looking women get a lot of attention?you get matched a lot because guys just have low standards. it has nothing to do with you being 'outdoorsy'. try making a similar profile for a 5/10 dude, make it 'outdoorsy' and see how many matches you get with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:51 PM |
| 7 | I made my own subreddit dedicated to gynocentrismcool, thanks for joining :) hopefully I can give the subreddit some more exposure, not sure where to advertise it though. as for bitterness/resentment, gynocentrism is caused by both men and women, and it's largely subconscious. gynocentrism is taught to us at a very young age through our culture. it takes learning and educating ourselves to break out of that matrix. I want everyone to break out of the gynocentric matrix. both of us were likely caught in it too at some point. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/21 09:41 AM |
| 4 | I made my own subreddit dedicated to gynocentrismmainly gynocentrism, although I see feminism as an extreme form of gynocentrism. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/21 09:07 AM |
| 1 | What struggles do men face purely because they are men?thing is, it's generally only unattractive men who are called creeps. hot/cute guys aren't called creepy nearly as much. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Feminists say that women want sex as much as men, they are just too afraid of men. If so, why lesbians don't have as many night clubs, hookup apps, and prostitutes as gay men?women arent afraid of men, they just have high standards. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/21 09:46 AM |
| 1 | What struggles do men face purely because they are men?having to worry about looking like a creep/sexual harasser just because you like a girl. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Have looks standards for the early 20s and below gone WAY uplooks standards have only increased for men. women's standards have skyrocketed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do we excuse women's bad behaviour by saying 'it's just their nature'but I disagree that it's just female nature. I think it is largely socially driven | /r/askTRP | 28/08/21 09:27 AM |
| 2 | My almost year-old post on Twitter got a pleasant response.lmaoo nice. can I have a link to the twitter post? I'd like to see the full arguments as well as the links to add to my arsenal. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/21 05:25 PM |
| 63 | The ideology which is been growing in teenagers now...incorrect. how to impress a girl: be good looking. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/21 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that if you suggest men have needs in relationships you are a villain?even saying "men need relationships" leads people saying shit like "you arent entitled to women" | /r/MensRights | 05/07/21 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Women have preferences, men only fetishize?honestly I'm hesitant to even flirt or make some kind of advance because I know I am below average looking so it would be considered creepy. the word 'creepy' is the main word used to demonise male sexuality. if a girl behaved the exact same way it'd not be considered creepy. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/21 07:26 AM |
| 26 | Women have preferences, men only fetishize?don't forget asians. apparently we fetishise them too. men's sexuality is generally demonised. people dont wanna view most of us as even being sexual beings. that's somehow wrong/dirty. atleast if the guy isnt v good looking. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/21 07:02 PM |
| – | The 80/20 rule has always been present in human evolution and has nothing to do with dating apps or modern social media.i dont know exactly what the stats are, but i'd imagine the number of female accounts compared to female accounts is much closer than the number of active female compared to active male accounts, because of what I said earlier. in any case, it's much easier for females to find partners irl, so many don't feel the need to go online since they already have all the guys they need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | The 80/20 rule has always been present in human evolution and has nothing to do with dating apps or modern social media.it takes much longer for men to get results on dating apps, so they end up staying on there for longer than women. women often get what they need quick so have no need for staying longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Homeless men vs homeless womenI've seen this. gynocentrism on display. yeah it would be cool to see a study. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/21 08:42 PM |
| 2 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easiertrue. there is nothing that feels better in this world than passionate sex. if men could get that as easy as women, just imagine what would happen to male suicide rates. it'd fucking plummet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 07:40 PM |
| 2 | The 80/20 rule has always been present in human evolution and has nothing to do with dating apps or modern social media.so you're backtracking on your entire post? how tf can i know what you even believe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 07:38 PM |
| 5 | The 80/20 rule has always been present in human evolution and has nothing to do with dating apps or modern social media.women go for men who are taller, stronger, and better looking than they are. if this is natural (and you literally said in the post that it is evolution) don't you think that men would evolve to live up to these standards? if the only men that get to reproduce are men that women have 'dated up' to attain, this will obviously pass on these traits to future generations of men. the vast majority of women get to reproduce because they don't have to live up to unrealistic standards. this means that w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 06:36 PM |
| 5 | The 80/20 rule has always been present in human evolution and has nothing to do with dating apps or modern social media.i know LOL. does OP believe in the 80/20 rule or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 06:32 PM |
| 6 | The 80/20 rule has always been present in human evolution and has nothing to do with dating apps or modern social media.agreed, especially with the fatherlessness and low birth rate thing. when 80% of women chase the top 20% of men, statistically there arent enough fathers to go round. this is one of the most tragic consequences of hypergamy run rampant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 05:50 PM |
| 4 | The 80/20 rule has always been present in human evolution and has nothing to do with dating apps or modern social media.women were always picky, but to an extent. men in general are biologically superior to women anyway (taller, stronger, more logical) so most men would find a partner even if women would 'date up'. men evolved to be better than women in order to live up to their pickyness. the truth is, even men who desire monogamous relationships have a much harder time finding a partner. the 80/20 rule (which honestly is probably more like the 90/10 rule now) came about due to increased gynocentrism, and social… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy"men have low standards for looks in general. sure, if men had more choices they would probably go for their looks-match instead of dating down, but the reason why men have less choices is because women are more hypergamous than men. society is 50/50 men to women so the issue isn't supply-demand. people tend to forget, too, that women enjoy sex as well, but often underestimate this because they only want sex with the hottest guys. i agree that female hypergamy mostly isn't natural though. women a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Dating subs on reddit are extremely gynocentric and create unhealthy and unrealistic viewpoints on datingdating in general is gynocentric...infact society as a whole is gynocentric. it's inevitable that you'll see shit like this on reddit and there isn't much you can do about it until our culture as a whole stops being gynocentric. it's just the norm right now; the default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | In what way are women held to 'unrealistic beauty standards' in modern western society?lol nice troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | What do women gain from being married in this day and age?what to men gain from marriage either? also, just because women CAN save and buy their own house, it doesnt change the fact that it's easier to leech off a man for it instead. many women go for the easy option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 01:52 PM |
| 2 | In what way are women held to 'unrealistic beauty standards' in modern western society?based af. kudos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 01:38 PM |
| 4 | In what way are women held to 'unrealistic beauty standards' in modern western society?well said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 01:38 PM |
| 2 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.men have much lower beauty standards than women. give me a break. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 10:59 PM |
| 18 | Men should not waste time focusing on dating appsunfortunately dating apps have made it much harder in real life, too. as you said, online dating as become one of the (if not the) most popular ways to find a partner. this goes to show how significant of an impact this has had on society. many women won't bother trying to find a guy in real life if she can just go on tinder. it's just easier. also many women will reject an otherwise good dude who is her looks-match, because she knows she can find better online. online dating doesn't exist in a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 10:04 AM |
| – | Female Privilege Exists?I've had female friends. the majority of men are invisible as a sexual prospect. that's what I meant when I said 'invisible'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 08:52 PM |
| 0 | The average woman is more attractive than the average mancomparing apples and oranges. in what way is an average woman more attractive than an average man? is it because men are fatter? men take care of themselves less? in that case, I should have just as much success as my female counterpart in OLD, as I am a healthy weight and take care of myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated.I strongly disagree on that, esp with the younger generations. I only once saw a skinny girl with an obese guy. in general I notice that when I see young couples, the guy is always better looking than I am, and I am only slightly below average. also running any online dating (not just hookup) experiments shows how much higher standards women have compared to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 02:38 AM |
| 1 | The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated.that's true to an extent. top-tier guys will settle for an average girl if she's the only option for that night but won't settle. still, I think my point stands in general. it applies to both hookups and dating. the majority of men would be very happy to get with their looks-match or a bit below | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated.men's standards on female beauty are pretty damn low, to the point where the most women can live up to the beauty standards of most men. when it comes to male success, women's standards are much higher in that regard. it's not even comparable. think about how many tinder matches even an obese woman can get. the reason women put lots of effort into appearance isn't because they are held to high beauty standards. it's because 1: they want to impress their friends. 2: they want to attract successfu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 12:29 PM |
| 7 | Why do we excuse women's bad behaviour by saying 'it's just their nature'the implication of saying 'it's just their nature, accept it' is that 'their behaviour isn't good or bad because it's natural. i think a lot of redpillers do excuse their behaviour. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 05:49 PM |
| 4 | Why do we excuse women's bad behaviour by saying 'it's just their nature'I think our mindset needs to change. yeah, you might see what I'm doing as futile, but ultimately it's necessary in the long run. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 05:37 PM |
| 17 | Why do we excuse women's bad behaviour by saying 'it's just their nature'I think a lot of redpillers view these behaviours as excusable because it's 'female nature'. that is definitely the implication of the mindset, in my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Why do we excuse women's bad behaviour by saying 'it's just their nature'not even worth a response | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Why do we excuse women's bad behaviour by saying 'it's just their nature'do you think men's bad behaviour should be dismissed as 'boys will be boys' even if his behaviour is technically 'legal'? personally I don't think so. similarly, I dont think women's bad behaviour should be dismissed as 'female nature' as a similar way of excusing bad actions. personally I don't think the law should be involved much in peoples lives. at a point it goes down a slippery slope of totalitarianism. I agree with you on that. people should be allowed to be assholes, and treat people as… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 05:19 PM |
| -17 | Why do we excuse women's bad behaviour by saying 'it's just their nature'not relevant. I see this as a wider societal issue. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Why do we excuse women's bad behaviour by saying 'it's just their nature'I had a feeling someone would say this. ofcourse I used an extreme example to show my point about the naturalistic fallacy. also are you comparing boys (i.e. male CHILDREN) to female ADULTS? I literally said in the post that we are treating women like kids by not holding them accountable for their bad actions. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | I want to get rid of this incel mindsetwhat about female nature are you annoyed about? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Reducing Male Anger and Violence. Why are so many men acting out?the vast majority of men are not like this. it just happens that men are a bit more aggressive than women, and at the extreme end this means that the top 1% of aggressive people are mostly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | The real problem: The internet took a sledgehammer to the dating hierarchy.so basically the game is rigged against men ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 10:48 AM |
| 2 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.at the end you should note that most men wont be able to achieve this due to the 80/20 rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 12:17 AM |
| 9 | Average men never truly experience a women's love at its full extentlol look at all the mad people trying to demonise you for telling some truth. people don't want to admit that looks matter the most to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Average men never truly experience a women's love at its full extentthe post said "girls become these super caring and extremely nice puppy dogs when they are into a guy". nothing about going out of her way to impress you. i think it doesn't happen on purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Average men never truly experience a women's love at its full extentwomen are chadsexual. it's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 01:48 AM |
| -10 | If you had a son around the age of 16-18, what advice would you give him about life and girls ?give up. you have a poor gonial angle, circles under your eyes and all-round sub-par genetics. you will not live up to women's high standards, so try and suppress your sex drive as much as possible using various drugs so you don't go insane. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do women struggle so badly to sympathize and understand mens plights issues and problems in society and life but as men we can easily sympathize and understand womens issues and problemshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5u13_Bdw5eY this vid should be pretty insightful | /r/MensRights | 16/05/21 08:52 PM |
| 27 | I’m tired of the hate on ‘creepy’ menyeah. and most men are considered unattractive by women because of hypergamy/ the 80/20 rule | /r/MensRights | 16/05/21 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Debunking the "women attempt suicide more" myth once and for all.based af, this is what I have been trying to say for a while. yet ofcourse people continue to pedal the idea that men use more lethal methods of suicide because we're just naturally more violent than women. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Debunking the "women attempt suicide more" myth once and for all.feminists will still pedal the myth, not realising that they're essentially saying that women are really incompetent at killing themselves compared to men. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/21 02:30 PM |
| 28 | I’m tired of the hate on ‘creepy’ menthis is just how men are perceived nowadays | /r/MensRights | 16/05/21 02:10 PM |
| 19 | I’m tired of the hate on ‘creepy’ menthe word 'creep' is just used as a term to describe men who arent attractive. it's not even used as a word to describe a kind of behaviour. it's just used as a shaming word. when a man's behaviour is called 'creepy' 99% of the time it wouldn't be considered creepy if a woman did the exact same thing. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/21 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Why should a woman have sex with you? What do you have to offer her?same for guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Why should a woman have sex with you? What do you have to offer her?sex feels good for girls too lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Obese women (SMV 2/10) are now on the same level as healthy weight average men (SMV 4-6/10) when it comes to online dating. When and how did this happen?it's because female standards are much higher now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 07:33 AM |
| 3 | Female Privilege Exists?that's another way of saying "i have very high standards" but you do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Female Privilege Exists?I literally just said these men are invisible to them. women have such high standards that they don't even consider average looking men as sexual beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 08:16 AM |
| 3 | Female Privilege Exists?bruh...we do, I think. unless I'm a simulation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Female Privilege Exists?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:26 AM |
| 5 | Female Privilege Exists?when the majority of women set hypocritically high standards on men, it leads to mass male loneliness and sexual frustration. you can say "I don't care about men's wellbeing, men aren't entitled to relationships". however, if a large proportion of men can't find partners, it leads to a decreased birth rate and increased single in single mothers. it also means that many men will lose motivation to work hard to maintain society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 06:52 AM |
| 8 | Female Privilege Exists?the fact that the majority of men are not seen as sexual beings, even though they are sexual beings with sexual desires and needs, is an example of female privilege, because the vast majority of women don't have to deal with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Female Privilege Exists?what are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 12:00 AM |
| 14 | Female Privilege Exists?they end up at 30 after riding the cock carousel and wonder where all the good men have gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 10:55 PM |
| 18 | Female Privilege Exists?by 'standards' I mean, "must be 6' tall, must make more money than me, must be better looking than me" etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 10:46 PM |
| 69 | Female Privilege Exists?I bet people are gonna call you a sexist incel for speaking out about the truth. most men are invisible to women, and many women are oblivious to their unrealistic standards. that's why you're getting such responses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 3 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?if they are good looking, sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?just an example of gynocentrism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?it's just a convenient way to disregard someone's issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:58 AM |
| 1 | I agree, but cant help but see the massive double standard , does a woman lying about being on birth control count as "stealthing" under this or is that too much of a touchy double standard?if that's rape then rape isn't nearly as bad as people say it is and shouldn't be punished so harshly. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/21 06:56 AM |
| 0 | I agree, but cant help but see the massive double standard , does a woman lying about being on birth control count as "stealthing" under this or is that too much of a touchy double standard?I think it shouldn't be considered rape. but if sweden is doing this it is sexist. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | I agree, but cant help but see the massive double standard , does a woman lying about being on birth control count as "stealthing" under this or is that too much of a touchy double standard?i dont think forcing someone to have sex should be in the same category as that. neither should be considered rape. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?thanks, good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Why is the bar for men so low?women care more about looks than behaviour. simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women face some inherently unfair standards of attractiveness.women jut have higher standards in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?from my experience of being online, it's just incredibly difficult to find a partner. I've done my own tinder experiments and it's astounding how much easier it is to find someone as a woman. In real life too, it's easy to notice how much attention and social power women hold due to their sexuality. I do wish there was more recent data, though. I find it interesting how feminists like to complain about toxic masculinity and yet don't say anything about the aspects of female nature (like monkey-b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Female Hypergamy is the most taboo phenomenon in American society, despite being empirically provennot every guy ofcourse, but I'm saying in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:45 PM |
| 0 | I agree, but cant help but see the massive double standard , does a woman lying about being on birth control count as "stealthing" under this or is that too much of a touchy double standard?neither should tbh. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?Some of the high standards might be due to cultur I'd argue most. if it was mainly evolution, the stark cross-cultural differences would be less significant. overwriting evolutionary psychology isn't necessary. also if you think men just need to be better, men are naturally physically 'better' than women anyways so there shouldn't be much of a discrepancy in male/female virginity. What are you going to do about it? We can fight rape but we can barely influence the nature of women doing something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Female Hypergamy is the most taboo phenomenon in American society, despite being empirically provendamn right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 7 | I agree, but cant help but see the massive double standard , does a woman lying about being on birth control count as "stealthing" under this or is that too much of a touchy double standard?it should be illegal, but not rape. rape is meant to be someone being forced into sex. I don't think it's good to put that in the same category. some kind of paternity fraud, though. similarly I don't think stealthing is rape either. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 06:38 PM |
| 0 | I agree, but cant help but see the massive double standard , does a woman lying about being on birth control count as "stealthing" under this or is that too much of a touchy double standard?eh, not rape. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 06:36 PM |
| -3 | I agree, but cant help but see the massive double standard , does a woman lying about being on birth control count as "stealthing" under this or is that too much of a touchy double standard?maybe not as bad because if a woman gets pregnant she has to go through an abortion, but if a man gets a woman pregnant, he doesn't have consequences as bad. It's still bad, though. Especially if she ends up demanding child support. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Female Hypergamy is the most taboo phenomenon in American society, despite being empirically provenI can tell you one. ephebophilia/hebephilia is actually natural for many men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Female Hypergamy is the most taboo phenomenon in American society, despite being empirically provenI wouldn't say it's largely accepted. many people I've spoken to deny it. they say women aren't hypergamous, but just attracted to stuff like personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Female Hypergamy is the most taboo phenomenon in American society, despite being empirically provenor how symmetrical their face is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Female Hypergamy is the most taboo phenomenon in American society, despite being empirically provenyeah. also it has such a large impact on people's lives, so it's worth understanding/being aware of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Female Hypergamy is the most taboo phenomenon in American society, despite being empirically proven4 more reasons it's taboo for men to to talk about hypergamy: 1: it makes it look like we're complaining 2: it could be seen as sexist 3 (kinda 2): it's suggesting that women are at fault for men's sexual failures (and god forbid women be seen as anything but perfect angels that can do no wrong) 4: it's a controversial belief to hold. many people don't agree hypergamy exists. and might argue with you if you bring it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Female Hypergamy is the most taboo phenomenon in American society, despite being empirically provenin general men don't set high standards on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Female Hypergamy is the most taboo phenomenon in American society, despite being empirically provenI agree, it's dumb. hypergamy should be taught in schools. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 06:19 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?It's nature. I don't like it either. 2 problems with this: - I disagree that the extent of women's high standards are caused by nature. notice how male virginity rates were not nearly as high a few decades ago? I think the increase of gynocentrism/female pedestalisation (exacerbated by social media) led women in western countries to have high standards due to valuing themselves highly. I agree that it's partially nature, but predominantly not. Notice how much easier it is to get matches in south… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | MALE RAPE VICTIM dies by overdose after being falsely accused of rape himselfso does this mean false rape accusations can be more damaging that being raped itself? | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?Men need to better women have just as many opportunities as men, and yet it's men that have to put in the work to 'be better'? why should men conform to women's hypocritical standards? hypergamy is immoral as it is hypocritically setting higher standards on others than what you live up to yourself. that is not something men should be subjected to (and vice versa). either way, if all men become better, that just means the threshold for the top 20% becomes higher. it changes nothing. And yes, the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?If men are overall better educated, earn more, have higher status etc big If. a few decades ago maybe, but not anymore. women are actually getting out of uni with less degrees, and the wage gap is a myth. Women have a 10-40% higher chance of reproduction so there has to be some polygamy. what do you mean by 'higher chance of reproduction'? My experience however tells me that most women don't want a shared man true, but many more women choose to share a man compared to men who share a woman. I th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?I literally just said it's not just about sex. I am not 'reducing my needs down to sex'. I and the women I know can do it pretty easily with zero romance or love news alert: men and women are different! And if you don't care what I find attractive, why are you bringing it up as a point of argument? you are just an example of a woman that has extremely high standards. you do not, however, represent all women. I am arguing from a general standpoint. just because you don't care about muscles doesn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?As long as the average man has more value than the average woman there will always be the opportunity to date up with a single guy not completely sure what you mean by this. I need statistics on this. It's doesn't hold up with what I know from experience with women. https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=3232078 “The most surprising finding was that women are overall more comfortable with the idea of non-monogamy than men,” -lee Cunff https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n2zk7oJTcjQ this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?I don't care what you personally find attractive. apparently you hardly find any men attractive. also 'fucking' is one of the main ways men feel connected to a woman. I've seen escorts and left feeling empty, but when I'm with my gf I actually feel love. you know nothing. And it's not just about the fucking. men connect completely differently to women than men. as a bisexual you probably can't comprehend that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?Google what a monopoly I used it as a figure of speech. I'm trying to say they hold all the power in sexual selection. men compete for women, and women sit back and choose. humans are mostly monogamous women are hypergamous. they seek to 'date up'. it's statistically impossible for most women to be hypergamous and monogamous at the same time. many women would rather share a top-tier male rather than settle for their looks-match in a monogamous relationship. ideally they'd be in a monogamous rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?Women don't have a monopoly on sex. If you're an average girl and want to find a male sex partner, you can easily do it within 24 hours without having to even leave your house. If you're an average guy? you can spend days/weeks not even getting a match. women's standards are just that high. For germany 21% of the relationships come from online dating (2017). At the moment online dating will be on top due to covid. In the US, online is the no.1 way that relationships started. this was before covi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?This thread isn't a personal thread about me. it's in regards to men in general. I don't know where you live to have been approached 3 times like that, or what circumstances led to that, but it is NOT the norm for the majority of men. the 80/20 rule is real. even if it's not those exact figures, there is no denying that women hold a monopoly on the sexual marketplace and have much higher standards than men. most young people have used dating sites, and the majority of relationships nowadays star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menwell yes, it's the expectation for men to approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?you can't have the same kind of love and connection through friends, you know that. it's completely different. if humans could be satisfied through only friends, we'd never reproduce and would have died out long ago. I'm not complaining about these things, I am making observations in response to your points. You claimed that women are better looking than men because of they put in more effort. doing pilates or whatever isn's going to make a significant change to one's physique unless you're fat.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 08:21 AM |
| 2 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?Hypocrisy is a moral issue. you can be hypocritical about many things. Also I disagree that women are just hotter than men because they put in more effort. It is always men that are expected to self-improve to find a partner. I spent over 400 hours in the gym over the course of a year, and I generally see more men in the gym, even though my uni had more women. women are only expected to be a healthy weight, and even if they are obese, they'll find it easier to find a partner than a regular guy. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 08:15 AM |
| 2 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?If all men and women only went for above their looks-match, hardly anyone would ever get into relationships because there would be few situations where both partners consider the other person worthy of living up to their standards. I don't expect women to lower their standards just to appease others. I do, however, expect women to use common sense to realise the hypocrisy of setting standards on others that they don't even live up to themselves. Sure, women have the right to behave immorally as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 07:20 AM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?lol. but it's true. many guys are also into shy introverted girls because of the protector instinct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 07:11 AM |
| 2 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?All I did was suggest that women holding men to very high/unrealistic standards may be a large factor in male suicides. It's very easy for you to say you don't have a problem with it, but when I see my friends are suffering from no fault of their own, it does rather bother me. If men held women up to nearly the standards women hold men up to, there'd be outrage among women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 06:49 AM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?? I was agreeing with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 06:45 AM |
| 0 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?"This isn't based on anything". Logically, don't you think that someone who wants to kill themselves due to being miserable for a long time would do their research to try and pick a reliable method? Not in every case but in general it doesn't make sense to me, and I am saying this as someone who has a history if suicidal thoughts. I highly doubt 6/10 and 7/10 men find it easy to get a partner. I'd say 30% of men are virgins, 20% of sub-8 men pair off with the bottom 20% of women. 20% of 8/10+ me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?yep. men have a protector instinct so a depressed woman could appeal to that. I've noticed it in myself tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 06:29 AM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?looks-match means someone who is your equal in terms of looks. (e.g. if you're an average-looking woman, your looksmatch is also average in looks, but a man.) lookmatch is a well known word in this space. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menmen, there is tinder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for mentrue. halo effect 101 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menmany girls are socially awkward too. It doesn't really stop them from finding a bf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 05:56 AM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?can you stop putting words in my mouth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 05:52 AM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?just thought I'd mention, I am in a LTR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?don't think it can be chalked up to more lethal methods. people who really want to kill themselves are more likely to do their research and use reliable methods. It doesn't take much research to know that taking some pills is highly unlikely to kill you. It seems like that may be more of a cry for help rather than an actual suicide attempt, atleast in most cases. many men simply do not see any help out there. ^someone else posted this so I copied my response. also the 80/20 rule sure does exist,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 11:34 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?but if women plan it out so well, don't you think they'd succeed more? I've talked to several guys talk about suicide, and they often talk about blowing their brains out as it is quick and has a high success rate. men often commit suicide upon losing hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?oh, my bad. I must be ignorant af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 11:09 PM |
| 2 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?don't think it can be chalked up to more lethal methods. people who really want to kill themselves are more likely to do their research and use reliable methods. It doesn't take much research to know that taking some pills is highly unlikely to kill you. It seems like that may be more of a cry for help rather than an actual suicide attempt, atleast in most cases. many men simply do not see any help out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 11:08 PM |
| 4 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?yeah, imagine that... not what I said though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 11:05 PM |
| 4 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?yeah..if a guy has a healthy relationship and sex life, he's much less likely to fall into a suicidal state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?I dont think i mentioned the penis...relationships are very important. ofcourse touch and sexual needs are, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 11:02 PM |
| 1 | My game is 10x better with 'ugly' girls. How to apply the same with 'pretty' girls?if she's pretty, she has lots of guys fawning over her. she just has higher standards. the same tactics you use on ugly girls aren't gonna be as effective. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:19 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The 80/20 rule only exists because men weren’t as pressured as women to uphold their own beauty standards.I strongly disagree with this. even women who don't put in effort will have a much easier time finding a partner. men tend to lower their standards over time as they realise how difficult it is to even find their looks-match. also you're underestimating the amount of effort men put in. 'looksmaxxing' is a big thing for men. men go to the gym more than women, and actually do put in effort. men are always expected to self-improve to get a woman, while the opposite is not so true. men have to compe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?it's because of female hypergamy. if 80% of women go for the 20% of men, the remaining men are gonna have a tough time being fathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | If relationships are more valuable than wealth, then women have the most privilege'soulmate' is a myth. practically no one would find their soulmate since they have to find one person out of billions. it'd be..very unlikely statistically speaking, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 09:48 AM |
| 2 | If relationships are more valuable than wealth, then women have the most privilegeyes, due to different choices men and women make, not due to unequal opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 11:43 PM |
| 3 | If relationships are more valuable than wealth, then women have the most privilege"someone should be comparing against his previous self, rather than others". I see this phrase used before, and I agree with this when it comes to self-improvement and general mindset...however I don't agree that it is really relevant when it comes to the topic of inequality/unfair opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | If relationships are more valuable than wealth, then women have the most privilegeyeah. and the shit part is, I see more people defending hypergamy than calling it out for being bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | If relationships are more valuable than wealth, then women have the most privilegei dont think men really have an easier time making money. if they do, it's nowhere near to the same extent that women find getting relationships easier than men. the main reason men make money is because it's expected of them. men are human doings, women are human doings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | do bisexual women want 'masculine men'?how am I a dumbass? I am curious about this, it has nothing to do with the way I act. if a woman is attracted to femininity and masculinity (because she's bisexual), logically you'd think she doesn't care if the guy acts feminine or masculine, as she's attracted to both. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:47 PM |
| 4 | do bisexual women want 'masculine men'?i already have a girlfriend, and generally I act masculine. it's just a curiosity I have. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Red pill is just mostly scammers who are trying to take advantage of down on luck menI completely agree. PUA is toxic af. not just the scammers but many of the people that repeat their shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?yeah, people assume that women don't have high sex drives just because women don't have sex with them. it's like making food for someone, and if they don't like the food, assuming that person just doesn't enjoy eating food much in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex for gay men is ridiculously easy to find. Yet, there's still a huge market for M-to-M prostitution. What does this tell us about straight men, if it were also easy for them to get sex?im pretty sure that many onlyfans girls and female prostitutes would be out of work if it were easy for men to find unpaid sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | She's not yours, it's just ..."if men are the prize" that's not how gynocentrism works i'm afraid. if you're chad then maybe it makes sense, but lets be honest... the majority of women have a shitton more options than you. it's inevitable that they'll leave you for someone else in time, unless you're chad. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 11:03 PM |
| 0 | Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical?"go through" lol, i've tried pretending to be a female on dating sites. it's like easy mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 10:17 PM |
| 0 | Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical?did you even see the vid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?I think you're conflating desperateness with hornyness. desperateness comes from having a lack of opportunity to find a sexual/romantic partner. if women suddenly started sleeping around with every ugly guy, it wouldn't stop these guys from being horny, but they certainly would not be desperate. As I said, you can be horny and still have high standards. men generally lower their standards over time as they realise how few options they have. as for relationships, women still have higher standards… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical?yeah it sucks to actually be valued by the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?they can go for average guys, they just choose not to. I knew a girl in uni who had a very high sex drive, and would be open about all the sex she has with guys. thing is, the guys she was with were all good looking (she was average looking). it's possible she's an outlier, but I don't think so. either way, it shows that your level or horniness doesn't necessarily dictate how high/low your standards are. also being desperate doesn't come from being horny. you can be horny af, but if you get all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZTIbHIsIYw just watch this. tinder is completely different depending on your gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical?if you're a woman, tinder works just fine. the issue highlighted in this thread is male-exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical?SnowKnighton if you're a woman, tinder works just fine. this thread highlights a male-exclusive issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical?lol nice humblebragging | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical?this only applies to sub-8 men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?yeah, men usually have to lower their standards because they have such few options...and they have such few options because of women's high standards; women have more options, but only because men have to lower their standards. also after a while, lonely men will pedestalise women and this plays into the gynocentrism I was talking about. you could argue that women having more options is just a fact of nature due to men being more horny, but women's higher standards aren't just limited to casual … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Constant fear of gf cheating on me ?she's not yours, it's just your turn. you shouldn't be afraid of what is inevitable. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 11:32 PM |
| 18 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?yep, it's all true. by the way, while male disposability originally stems from our biology it's also heavily supported in our culture. I think people may try and justify male disposability by saying it's natural. also I think male disposability should be looked at as falling under the larger umbrella of gynocentrism, which permeates our society and inherently leads to females being valued above males. it also is in my opinion the main reason why women have higher standards in dating compared to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?literally none of that is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?men and women get cheated on. how are women not treated like human beings tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?no, she probably has some mental problems to overcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?oh, if men are being toxic I dismiss that too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?tinder or real life. it doesn't matter. it doesn't have to be tinder either, it could be any dating site, not necessarily a hookup site. if a woman doesn't feel valued it certainly isn't due to the fact that she's a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?nope, not true. make a tinder account as an obese woman and see the messages fly in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?lol I think I've seen this. FDS is full of narcissists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | A question about complimentsin general don't complement women. think about all the compliments they already get from men all the time, especially online. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many young men acting asexual?fear of rejection is another reason ofcourse, but I'd say the reason young men are likely acting more asexual than they were 50 years ago is due to these factors I mentioned. in the uk fairly recently a 19 yr old guy was almost sentenced to 10 yrs for touching a girls arm when she overreacted. male sexuality is heavily demonised in society nowadays. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Did I handle this correctlyhypergamy sucks man. I'm sorry you had to go through this. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?it has nothing to do with blaming women. However, when people act in an unethical or harmful way, I think it should be called out whether the perpetrator is male or female. many people seem to like viewing women as beings that can do no wrong. if you're 'hot' you probably haven't experienced the negative effects of female hypergamy, so may not have a proper perspective on these things. in general, women do go for guys who are 'better' than they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | [Instagram] Minnesota Supreme Court rules it’s not rape if victim voluntarily intoxicated | This is hugely problematic for both sexesI ran over a pedestrian in my car but I was drunk so I can't take any responsibility or self-accountability! how was I supposed to be aware of my surroundings when I can't even see straight? | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?you can call it what you want, it doesn't change the reality of how many of these women behave. if speaking the truth sounds like whining to you then whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?you don't seem to understand that most men don't care how much money you make or how tall you are. that's just projection. if you have been treated by men the way you claim to have been, clearly they didn't see you as 'top-tier'. I think many women over-value themselves due to gynocentric conditioning, and so believe the guy they're going for is 'at the same level' when in reality this is not the case. even if you happen to be an outlier which I doubt, it doesn't change the stats. anyways, it wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?who's whining? I'm answering the OP's question and you don't like my answer so i'm whining? lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 11:27 PM |
| 5 | Why are so many young men acting asexual?the OP was talking about men acting asexual. I assume he isn't talking about there being a lack of pick-up artists. in general, people are in and around their social circle, and that's how many people find relationships. however in many cases guys won't try and get with girls in their social circle for the reasons I have outlined. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?I was lucky enough to find a girl with a big heart. she isn't someone who would be considered physically attractive by many, but I would rather be with her than a model with an attitude like yours. However, I know from personal experience that the vast majority of women set hypocritical standards on men. I have friends who are perfectly good people. they may not make 6 figures, be tall or have a chiselled jaw, but they certainly wouldn't judge a woman based off such factors either. the vast majo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?"i'd like to see the on and on part" .... "I want a tall man". do you even listen to yourself? or do you really lack that much self-awareness? you judge men based on superficial traits height and money and then complain when you end up miserable and alone, and pretend like all men are trash. you're probably the type of person who would say "I shouldn't have to have a front door to my house, burglars shouldn't burgle." I'd say the same to men who go for bimbo sluts and complain when they get chea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?I don't get what your point is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:34 PM |
| 22 | Why are so many young men acting asexual?you're missing the point. you can get done for 'sexual harassment' or get shunned by your friend group when the girl complains about you making them 'feel uncomfortable' for showing sexual interest. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Having low standards doesn't make you any less shallow."women are the ones who prefer a balding fat wrinkly man" lol right. maybe if he has money. also having low standards doesn't necessarily mean you're desperate. it can mean you're more accepting too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 4 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?true. it's crazy what kind of things people seem to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 214 | Why are so many young men acting asexual?i think many men have just given up. also we don't want to come across as creepy | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 11:03 AM |
| 4 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?none of my friends are manipulative and would hurt women. we do, however, see again and again women go for handsome 'bad-boys' who they ought to know would treat them like shit...and we're the ones that have to hear the complaints from these women who rejected us for these men. the gym is only an example. self-improvement is a big thing for men. the onus is always on men to have money, be confident, have a sense of style...as you said, the list goes on and on. you seem to have a completely warpe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 10:22 AM |
| 8 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?having standards is fine, but when average women hypocritically only go for the top-tier men, it's no wonder men are alone. as for your sexist assertion about most men being selfish, lazy etc, I think that's utter bullshit. I have spent hundreds of hours at the gym improving myself, and I see more men than women at the gym. perhaps you are just too self-absorbed to realise that. men go through so many hoops to try and live up to women's standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:28 AM |
| 1 | How can western society fix gynocentrism?I don't agree that it's impossible to overcome our nature. infact, if our nature causes damage to society, it's our responsibility to overcome it. just because it's in my nature to spread my seed to every woman I see doesn't mean I can't hold myself back from raping everyone. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 09:24 AM |
| 1 | How can western society fix gynocentrism?I don't think it's impossible. If it's possible for me to see past my gynocentric nature, I don't see why others can't too. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 09:14 AM |
| 5 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?only reason women stay single is because no one reaches their standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Women in the UK are 7.6 times more likely to kill themselves, than they are to be killed by a man.so what? that just goes to show how how bad society is to women for women to kill themselves so much. owait men kill themselves 3-4 times more than women nvm | /r/MensRights | 28/03/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Let's rumble: What does it mean to not put women on a pedestal? Do any "pill" actually teach men how not to do that?I guess just not giving women special attention/empathy/validation just because she's a woman. there's a saying in the manosphere "women are human beings, men are human doings". this is because men only gain value from what they can provide/do, while women have intrinsic value. It ties in with the idea of male disposability, and is certainly nothing 'patriarchal', but more a consequence of gynocentrism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 12:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are only the victims of their own actions, yet they blame women for supposedly manipulating themwomen do manipulate men...men just need to not allow themselves to be manipulated. harry shouldnt have been so weak. as for making someone commit suicide, ofc it's someone's decision to kill themselves, but women's behaviour can often lead to that. personally I've never really had the opportunity to speak to a woman who was killed by a man...I'm sure it'd be interesting if I had the ability to speak to the dead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 12:09 PM |
| -8 | What's the average success rate when approaching women at bars?100% if you have good game i mean genetics | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?I couldn't have said it better myself. this something women need to realise. unfortunately most people don't even understand. it's like bullying someone throughout their childhood, and then expecting their friendship when it's convenient (you want their money). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 09:52 AM |
| 5 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?how can there be more women than men in the relationship/marriage market when society is 50/50 male-female? the difference is that women have high standards. they will view their looks-match as 'not good enough' throughout her best years, and all of a sudden when she hits the wall, thinks it's ok to crawl back to these guys as if she hasn't hurt them already. I should also note that if a guy does the same thing, they are just as bad. thing is, men can't date/hookup above their looks-match becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 09:50 AM |
| 26 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?they aren't forcing men to date them. the problem is for many men, the 'post-wall off the CC' is their only option. when these women were younger, they would have rejected these men due to only wanting the top 20%/alphamales. now that they are old and unattractive, they will come crawling back to those men who they rejected, who have gone through lots of pain through loneliness. it's like, only now that chad doesnt want them anymore, they're willing to settle for you. that seems pretty narcissis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 09:36 AM |
| 3 | There is a disconnect between men and women. Online dating is deepening the divide.tbh I'm surprised such a comment is coming from a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or is a "top 20% male" simply a self-respecting, normal, healthy man with his life together?thing is, many of the self-improvement people aren't saying you should only improve for 6 months. yeah you'd think it shouldn't take forever. in my case, I was a skinny 19 yr old, and after getting taken in by all this self-improvement stuff, I decided to dedicate myself to the gym. after a year, my bench went from like 10 reps with 25kgs to 7 (proper) reps with 90 kgs, and pullups went from barely any, to 8 weighted pullups with 22.5kgs + 89kgs bw...I really took this seriously. I would get the… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or is a "top 20% male" simply a self-respecting, normal, healthy man with his life together?oh, I understand it alright. looks/money/status/...but I never mentioned unconditional love. either way, the main point of my comment was about some of the toxicity in redpill. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me, or is a "top 20% male" simply a self-respecting, normal, healthy man with his life together?thanks. self-improvement is good, don't get me wrong...but this is something I also see a lot: when a guy is expressing how he's struggling to find a partner, the first thing they will hear is "you need to improve yourself if you want a girlfriend", you aren't good enough etc. but those same people will also say "self-improvement is for yourself, not a woman. it's something you should be doing anyways, stop trying to validate yourself in others". I feel like it's trying to invalidate all the eff… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 12:27 PM |
| 0 | Is it just me, or is a "top 20% male" simply a self-respecting, normal, healthy man with his life together?I never claimed to be entitled to anything. being 'deserving of love' has nothing to do with entitlement. if that's what you took from my comment, you completely misunderstanding what I am trying to say, which is about the toxic, self-hating mindset 'self-improvement' can put people in. I know for a fact that many others have experienced the same as me. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 12:06 PM |
| 6 | Is it just me, or is a "top 20% male" simply a self-respecting, normal, healthy man with his life together?same can be said for women. women often aren't financially stable, or have good social skills. it doesn't hold them back, though. they can always go on a dating app. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 11:43 AM |
| -4 | Is it just me, or is a "top 20% male" simply a self-respecting, normal, healthy man with his life together?the whole red-pill self-improvement can be toxic too tbh. the underlying narrative that if you don't lift 5 days a week, don't make lots of money and aren't better than people around you, you aren't deserving of love. even if you're a good person, it doesn't matter to them. I am a prime example of the damage this has caused. even though there wasn't much wrong with me, it made me feel unlovable, so I pouring in hundreds of hours in endless self-improvement, all for nothing. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 11:25 AM |
| 0 | Is it just me, or is a "top 20% male" simply a self-respecting, normal, healthy man with his life together?the advice about 'raising your SMV' is done mainly by PUAs trying to sell you their courses. mostly it doesn't even work. they ignore the fact that genetics play a large role in your looks. saying "if you're not a 6'4 millionaire chad you're doomed" is extreme, but if getting into the top 20 was being 'normal', the problem of male loneliness wouldn't be so large, don't you think? | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?OKcupid statistics show that women rate 80% of guys as below average. the vast majority of these guys would easily find a partner if they were born a straight female. men are already blamed for enough wrong in society, don't you think? If you want to blame guys for this, I can rephrase it; no.1 reason for inceldom is that most men aren't able to live up to women's standards. I get what you're saying though. telling incels that hypergamy is why they're incel isn't going to help them much. everyon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 10:50 AM |
| 4 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 11:34 PM |
| 13 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?don't assume that just because a woman is ugly, she'll settle for her ugly looks-match, lol. that's not how hypergamy works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do high value women date betas?what do you mean by 'high value women'. that seems rather subjective to me. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete Failurewow 200IQ, wish I thought of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 01:03 AM |
| – | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete Failureit failed at creating equality of opportunity between the genders, too. women and hot guys get all the opportunity while the rest of us...well we rot. sexual liberation didn't account for hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?brutal. getting a BJ once a year is still something atleast, better than what many guys can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 10:30 PM |
| 0 | “The biggest threat to a woman’s hypergamy is a man who is aware of his own SMV” - is this something women are conscious or unconscious of?my smv is low af, it doesnt help me knowing that | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?by reasonable I mean non-hypocritical/non-hypergamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?female attraction is based off appearance and beauty standards too, but that is often largely influenced by the culture. that's why I may be considered unattractive in the uk but attractive in asia. it shows that it is possible for women to have reasonable standards. "We are human and feel guilt, empathy and right from wrong as a collective. We are socially acclimated to act this way because it betters everyone if we share morals." Agreed. we must look past what is 'natural' if what is 'natural'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?The point I was making with asian countries is that attraction, atleast female attraction, is is often heavily influenced by culture rather than pure biology. btw I'm not sure what you meant by "Hypergamy cannot be practiced by one gender and not expected from the other" ancient societies no longer exist because they all eventually fell apart. I'm no historian, but I do know that kings would have their harems and there was a lot of civil war. monogamy was created so society could function harmon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?"I don't think its controversial to say that if you can't get laid, you're the common denominator yknow?" As previously mentioned, it's not all about getting laid, it's also about forming long-term relationships. If I had read this statement a few years ago I would have probably agreed with it. In general, it feels good to think that you have full control over whether you can be in a relationship or not. There are some asshole guys who deserve what they get, but most guys who suffer loneliness a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?The first study you posted claims that rape victims "may be blamed or not believed". The way the criminal justice system works is that an alleged perpetrator is always innocent until proven guilty. This is not something unique to rape allegations. In order to procure the truth, police detectives may ask difficult questions in order to gather as much information they can so they can make a conviction. People who do not understand this may interpret that as 'victim blaming' or being dismissed; If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?false rape accusations are more common than you might think. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1077801210387747 this study indicated that 5.9% of rape accusations are proven false. That percentage could be significantly larger when considering that many accusations cannot be proven true or false due to insufficient evidence either way. I'll also say that men who commit rape and murder make up a very small percentage of the male population. also, I haven't seen much evidence for systemic d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 01:07 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I agree that sexual assault is something that should be stopped, and women shouldn't have to deal with that. similarly, men shouldn't have to deal with false rape accusations which also disproportionately effect men. As a man, it's hard to feel that society has empathy for us when universities and mainstream media solely focus on the perceived issues women face, and any societal issues which disproportionately effect men are brushed aside due to so-called 'male privilege' and men are blamed for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?At the end of the day, nobody is really entitled to anything from anyone. However, that doesn't mean we can't be better as people. The fact that you had to go through that is upsetting and I wish you the best. Nevertheless, the vast majority of men are good people who would not do such a thing. they do not represent the rest of men, just how female abusers don't represent the rest of women. I have been treated like shit from women and men alike, which is why I try and associate with good, non-to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?When women are told by society they are oppressed, it creates a victim mentality in their head. I believe in statistics. anecdotes are anecdotes; unreliable as actual data, and trust me, men have their fair share of anecdotes too. of people invalidating their issues just as you are with men's need for an emotional connection and intimacy. would you like me to share some studies with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I've seen it too, but very very rarely. these women are outliers. whenever I see a couple, the vast majority of the time the guy looks better than me, and I am a bit below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Why do you think men don't ask for help when they're suffering? do you think if men just decided to ask for help, all these statistics would turn around and show that women are the primary victims in these cases? I can say from personal experience, and from the experience of many other men, this is not the case. men don't ask for help because there is no help out there. people don't care. people don't want to help men. There is a large empathy gap between men and women. the whole idea of 'male p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Men are more likely than women to be the victims of murder and abuse. When it comes to rape, yes, women are raped more than men, but women rarely feel the need to rape a man because she can easily have sex anyways, as men do not have very high standards. ofcourse that is no justification for rape but it has nothing to do with male domination. It's also worth pointing out that when a man is abused by a woman, it often goes unreported due to shame, or fear that they will be falsely accused. The id… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?That is not what I said at all. I was simply describing the current reality of things. Do you think it's not true? I also never called women whores. My only point is that people shouldn't set standards on others which are higher than what they live up to themselves, as this is hypocritical. The same principle applies outside of dating, too, and no matter what your gender is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Men who have trouble finding romantic partners are definitely not the minority, atleast if they are currently single now. Men who are married are mostly older, so haven't had to deal with the current dating market. I do not believe women naturally have ridiculously high standards. It happened as a result of social media and in turn increased female pedestalisation. You need to understand that this is a relatively recent thing effecting society. Many of the men in their 40s/50s who are married no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I find it interesting and quite revealing how you claim our society oppresses you and go on to say that I have a victim mentality. I haven't seen any evidence that women are oppressed any more than men. However, there is plenty of evidence that women are given special treatment, I can provide statistics if you want. (homelessness, suicide rates, criminal sentencing, etc. are all skewed to favour women.) This shows that the problem of women being valued above men goes far above and beyond the rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I am not just talking about casual sex. it's harder for men to get any kind of a relationship with a woman. Loneliness is a big issue for men. I actually think people downplay the issue. mathematically, it's guaranteed that many men will be alone if women only go for the top 20% of men. if it was all self-inflicted, why are men disproportionately effected by this issue? are all these men just lazy, sentient blobs who don't self-improve? I can guarantee you that is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I wouldn't set standards on others that I don't live up to myself. that's hypocritical. If i am a 4/10 I won't go for a 10/10. I condemn men who do this too. it isn't a gender issue, it just happens that women do it much more than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?"life's not fair" isn't an argument. it sure is convenient to say that about the grievances of those other than yourself. I'm sure if you suffered an injustice to yourself, you wouldn't appreciate such a response. Also, it's not just about 'getting a chance with stacey at her prime'. most guys would be happy with their looks-match, but even she goes for chad. It's hypocritical for women (and men for that matter) to only go for the top 20% of men when they are only average-looking. unfortunately … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?women do sexualise themselves. yes, men naturally find women sexually attractive, but many women purposefully take advantage of that instinct for self-serving causes, often exploiting the loneliness of men in doing so. Also, one reason why women are disproportionately in demand is due to their high standards in the first place. This causes more men to feel loneliness and sexual frustration, and in turn the demand increases. it's a cycle that's gotten out of hand. it could be solved if women chos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:34 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?you're missing the point. it's the same principle. it is not a terrible analogy at all. with your comment you're essentially trying to invalidate the pain many men experience due to having to live up to unrealistic standards. At least that's what it looked like you were doing. you would not use the same logic to invalidate the pain of homeless people, so it makes no sense to do it in this case, even if you consider homelessness to be a larger issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?usually women are over-sexualised because they sexualise themselves. think about the women who choose to go out in revealing outfits and go on onlyfans to get money. Because of contraception, there is no reason why women should be more choosy. you could say it's naturally inbuilt, but that doesn't make it ok to set unrealistic standards on others and be hypocritical in mate choice by always going for someone with attributes above one's own (i.e. a 5/10 demanding only 8/10s and above). If men did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?that's like saying "if homeless people lived in a mansion, they wouldn't give two shits about wellfare." that doesn't change the fact that the homelessness crisis is an important issue which needs solving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?so, expressing anger at the blatant gender-inequality men face in the dating market is just jealousy? If I express anger that men are 3-4 times more likely than women to kill themselves, am I just jealous? Just because someone is born a man shouldn't mean that they are any more or any less deserving than his female counterpart to experience love, sex and affection...but the reality is, women are hypergamous and go for the top 20%, leaving many men to rot in loneliness. Men are perfectly justifie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Isn't it hypocritical to set really high standards on other people which you dont nearly live up to yourself? If I, as an average guy, decided I was going to reject every average girl and decide that only the top 20% of attractive women are good enough for me, people would probably think i'm setting unrealistic beauty standards and being hypocritical. it also comes across as quite narcissistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?men who are 'high value' don't respect women who sleep around a lot. they will use them for a one-night-stand, but still consider them sluts and would never commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:05 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?yeah, it only benefits the top 20% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I think it's because they decide to reject the bottom 80% of men to have casual sex with the top 20% of men throughout the period where she's most attractive, and when those top 20% men don't want her anymore, she crawls back to the bottom 80% of men she rejected in search of someone who can provide for her. they no longer have any ability to properly pair-bond and it's a raw deal for most guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Flip side of the women are wonder effect, the women are terrible effectme neither. I think women should be seen in the same light as men. it just isn't the current reality in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is not to blame for any single problem in your lives - your infatuation with the internet isthat's BS. women are never called creepy. If they are socially awkward, they are considered shy and that's cute. Not to mention the fact that the onus is always on the man the make the first move and keep the conversation interesting. that's how it works; men have to impress and compete, while all women have to do is choose, without needing to put in any effort of their own. This is due to female hypergamy. the man always has to put in the effort. And no, I'm not oblivious to my own personality,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 08:28 AM |
| 1 | the economics of sexless men and the 80/20 rule: it's due to sex drive disparitiesI think supply-demand plays a role, but is not the full story. if the only human relationships that existed were casual hookups, it'd make more sense, but the 80/20 rule also applies to relationships. relationships involve love, affection and a connection, which goes far beyond simple libido. do men also desire these more than women? I'm not so sure. also, I think people underestimate women's sexual drive. just because they aren't horny for you doesn't mean they aren't horny for the top 20% of m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 12:56 AM |
| 8 | Flip side of the women are wonder effect, the women are terrible effectthe 'women are wonderful' effect isn't meant as a characterisation of women, but as a characterisation of how society perceives women. for example, when a woman commits a crime, society is more likely to feel empathy towards her, and treat her with more leniency. they may be let off easy in the criminal justice system, and their bad actions interpreted in a more positive/considerate light than if she was a man. the 'women are wonderful' effect is meant as a description of how our gynocentric soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Flip side of the women are wonder effect, the women are terrible effectThe 'women are wonderful' effect is true and real. women receive more empathy than men, are held less accountable for their bad actions and in general are treated nicer. With these factors taken into account, it's no wonder why men have to server 60% longer for the exact same crime as women https://poseidon01.ssrn.com/delivery.php?ID=02507812112107607309010106903110900911600803108505604412610110400910007307509112706503302004910211803301808802012312306609110510504106002201311908812707610010303002… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is not to blame for any single problem in your lives - your infatuation with the internet isI'm a freak? If a slightly socially awkward, below-average-looking male tried cold-approaching a girl, even if he didn't do it sexually, it would be considered creepy. (by your definition, if you aren't a so-called 'enjoyable person' whatever that means, you are a creep....even though I'm sure there are many women who are not 'enjoyable' social butterflies. if the genders were reversed do you really think she would be called a creep? even if she acted in the exact same way? think about it. peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is not to blame for any single problem in your lives - your infatuation with the internet isdo you know what the halo effect is? the word 'creep' is a word reserved for unattractive men who show attraction for women. if a woman or physically attractive man acts 'creepy' it isn't considered creepy. the word 'creep' has absolutely zero meaning when it's used to describe a type of behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is not to blame for any single problem in your lives - your infatuation with the internet isI keep hearing people say stuff like "tinder isn't real life". Tinder/online dating doesn't exist in a vacuum. most girls you meet irl have done online dating. they have social media and have experienced all the validation and pedestalisation which comes which that. do you think this'll have no effect on women's standards irl? to think that social media doesn't have a huge impact on how we act in the real world is straight up wrong. I also find the idea of walking up to random strangers in the h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is not to blame for any single problem in your lives - your infatuation with the internet is"To be troubled by the fact that women are ALSO having multiple partners as men always have done, is frankly pretty condescending, if not misogynistic." uh, when you say "men" I hope you aren't thinking about the majority of men. most men, even average-looking guys, really struggle to find a partner due to female hypergamy. it is much much harder for guys to find a partner compared to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:59 PM |
| – | Does welfare fuel female hypergamy?I think it plays into it. But mainly it's due to gynocentrism. societies value women above me, so naturally women will value themselves above men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How would you want society to address “sexlessness”?I dont think women should be forced to lower their standards, but I think when someone (man or woman) is setting standards on others (be it in dating or other areas of life) that are higher than what they set on themselves, it should be called out for being hypocritical. I think the pedestalisation of women by society (gynocentrism) is partly to blame for making women value themselves so highly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Will a large amount of men become miserable when learning about female nature?that's a nice positive mindset...the problem is, to women, you aren't the prize. they are. unless you are a particularly high-tier man, women won't see you as the prize. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | The Sarah Everard case illustrates how propaganda is made and usedwell said. "The propagandists (in this case feminists and women who approve of them)" unfortunately there are also men who approve of this. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How much work does it take for the average man to get laid?I am not just talking about sex. I believe to have a healthy mental wellbeing, just about everyone needs to have some kind of connection, intimacy and affection. Sex is important too, but it's not all about that; I have seen prostitutes and been left feeling empty. some people may disagree, but I think even the MGTOW guys crave that at a basic human instinctual level, even if they may brag about being content alone. I'm not saying women should be happy sleeping with every tom, dick and harry, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 01:10 PM |
| 2 | How much work does it take for the average man to get laid?...unless you're born a woman. if you're born female you can have sex and relationships without being exceptional. just by virtue of being born male (which is completely beyond one's control), it's going to be way harder to receive any love, affection or intimacy because of these standards. in what world is that fair on guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 2 | How much work does it take for the average man to get laid?it's ridiculous how many hoops the average guy needs to go through because of women's high standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Well at least they are admitting itfunny thing is, the women who say things like "feminism is for men to" don't actually think feminism should help men. they are just paying lip service to make it seem like feminism is somehow equal. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/21 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Can women control hypergamy?REEEEEE IF YOU'RE ALONE IT'S BECAUSE OF YOUR PERSONALITY, WAHMEN ARE QUEENS!! YOU MISOGYNIST! seriously though, as a man, I am more physically attracted to a 10/10 model than a girl who is my looks-match. In that sense, I'm hypergamous too...however I recognise that it's hypocritical to set standards above myself. If I was fat and demanded a fit girl, that's hypocritical. Similarly, women who demand men above themselves are hypocrites, and is why hypergamy is immoral. If I can use reason to no… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | ridiculous protests by feminists after Sarah Everard deathhonestly I don't know why. I'm sure there were non-prostutute women killed as well. maybe because it was a police officer who killed Sarah, they are using that as proof of institutionalised sexism/patriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/21 09:44 AM |
| 3 | ridiculous protests by feminists after Sarah Everard deathyep, it's over for the west. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/21 09:02 AM |
| 1 | ridiculous protests by feminists after Sarah Everard deathi guess it's possible to be a pretty, upper middle class white woman and a prostitute. have you seen the prices for escorts in london? they can make a lot of money. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/21 09:01 AM |
| 4 | I was refused service today in the U.K. because I’m a manthis is what happens when men are demonised by society. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | why are men overrepresented as perpetrators + victims of crime?i was talking about society in general, but yes, that's true. I wouldn't call it 'conservative', i'd just call it having unrealistic standards. but wait...actually women are liberal with sex. they have sex with all kinds of different men! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4JyO4m0U9I :') | /r/MensRights | 13/03/21 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Recently fired over a single, unfound accusation. Please help.women have way too much social power...im sorry man. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 4 | why are men overrepresented as perpetrators + victims of crime?there are already liberal attitudes towards sex. male loneliness is caused by female hypergamy. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/21 08:25 PM |
| 5 | why are men overrepresented as perpetrators + victims of crime?"i think men and women accept that violence against men is normal. whereas against women is a taboo." this is a good point. The problem is gynocentrism. people in general have more empathy for women and are more outraged when harm comes to a woman. the solution? end gynocentrism would be the simple answer...but I do not know how society can achieve such a feat. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/21 08:25 PM |
| 3 | What has feminism actually done for men?they help us overcome our toxic masculinity and aid in the plight of women. I am so thankful. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/21 02:51 PM |
| 4 | Regarding the Jenny Jones UK 6PM Curfewseems like she was just trying to do damage control after demonstrating her sexism. she definitely sounded serious. if a man said that about women there's no way that would slide. I agree though, we shouldn't take it seriously. just give her the sack and move on. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/21 02:44 PM |
| 7 | How would you say toxic femininity hurts and affects men?I think hypergamy (i.e. always 'dating up') is a good example of toxic femininity. OKCupid statistics show that women generally rate 80% of men as below average in attractiveness. when women go for the top 20% of men, it means that most men have to struggle to live up to unrealistic standards. I think this is why loneliness is such a big issue for men. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/21 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Onlyfans is making sex work mainstream. At what cost?they use their hypergamy to reject the majority of guys, and then turn around to exploit them when they're lonely. despicable. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/21 11:44 AM |
| 22 | #TooManyWomenTooManyWomen ruin men's lives through the family courts. TooManyWomen set unrealistically high standards on men. TooManyWomen abuse their social power by using their sexuality to manipulate situations. TooManyWomen believe our society somehow discriminates against them. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/21 09:56 AM |
| 4 | Female professor tells the truth: Men are far more likely to be victims of violence and murder. But oh dear — all hell breaks loose of course.when a woman dies, it makes the news as a tragedy. when a man dies, it becomes a statistic. I think that says something about which gender is seen as more valuable by society... | /r/MensRights | 12/03/21 09:42 AM |
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