ItsMachu Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	She’s coming over but also “sorta has a boyfriend” This guy knows	/r/seduction	19/06/20 05:15 AM
1	Snapchat openers Hard for me to say bc I don’t know her or you or like what yalls back story is, inside jokes, things in common, etc. I would say in general don’t rush to message her and have a boring ass convo about nothing bc that will be a net negative situation. Are you doing anything cool today to take a pic of and post? If not do something tomorrow. Do you have any interesting hobbies? You could snap her a pic of any of those things and it might get something going	/r/seduction	28/05/20 07:56 PM
6	How To Seduce Girls Through Vibes, Energy, and Presence Sounds like you gotta pump your your inner game, which in the end is mostly self confidence. Be the person you want them to see. You said you’re naturally introverted so you’re going to have to go out of your way to be more talkative, engaging, talk to everyone in the room not just her, speak slowly, confidently and DONT MUMBLE, build your social status, surround yourself with quality friends, do fun things, have opinions on things (don’t be a push over), find hobbies and passions, smile a lot, …	/r/seduction	28/05/20 07:49 PM
1	Snapchat openers I would say be patient for her to post the right snap story that you can reply to and create a conversation with naturally. this is MUCH better than some cheeses one liner someone can tell you to say. Until then work on your own end posting cool, fun, interesting things you do to make your profile look interesting. If you’re fun and do cool things women will naturally gravitate and want to have fun with you.	/r/seduction	28/05/20 07:40 PM
1	Shoot your shot Totally possible, but not the vibe I got from her, but that being said I really don’t know her well so it’s possible. I actually didn’t text her I DMd her on Instagram	/r/seduction	28/05/20 02:44 PM
25	Best Life lesson I've learned in the past year is the power of walking away. “By walking away and never looking back you’re giving the power back to yourself “ I like this line a lot! On this topic, possibly the best piece of advice from Mark Manson is: it’s either a FUCK YES or no. If the thought of talking to me or going on a date with me or whatever doesn’t generate a response of fuck yeah then it’s a no. I don’t want to waste my time and effort with someone who isn’t into it, or is only kinda into it. I don’t want to deal with someone who doesn’t reply to texts or fl…	/r/seduction	27/05/20 08:59 PM
1	Shoot your shot Aint that the truth. Appreciate it!	/r/seduction	27/05/20 08:52 PM
1	Shoot your shot Lead the way for them bro! Lead by example	/r/seduction	27/05/20 08:51 PM
2	Shoot your shot Yep agreed. I was definitely a slow learner in this game. I didn’t begin to truly harness all of my skills and actually put it into practice until I was 20. Shake off those 2 regrets from HS. You still have so much much more to do/learn, so many more opportunities. I had those same 2 regrets of girls I had crushes on in HS and was too much of a pussy to do anything about. I regretted it/blamed myself/obsessed over the missed opportunity but until you can let that go and move on it will keep brin…	/r/seduction	27/05/20 08:50 PM
1	Shoot your shot Yeah the mental hurdles are tough dude. Just tell yourself right now that the next time you feel a connection and see an opportunity you’ll just shoot your shot. If you convince and promise yourself now, it will be easier in the moment. You won’t second guess yourself as much and it might be more natural. Good luck!	/r/seduction	27/05/20 08:43 PM
1	Shoot your shot Yeah been there done that. Agreed. But as a male nurse, surrounded by a TON of hot girls all the time with barely any competition against me (most of the other dudes are gay) it’s my main access to female interaction so it’s kinda bound to happen. I just have personal rules to not let this happen with anyone I work with directly. There’s 3,000 employees and 20 other units to dip into	/r/seduction	27/05/20 08:40 PM
1	Shoot your shot Can you elaborate more on this? I’m not sure what you mean by social circle game and value delivery system. Thanks!	/r/seduction	27/05/20 08:37 PM
2	Shoot your shot Nice man good for you. Hopefully I find something soon...not sure if I’m ready for another relationship right now but I definitely excited to start having fun and meeting girls again!	/r/seduction	27/05/20 08:35 PM
2	Shoot your shot Every situation is different of course. I think it’s important to remain “confident and outcome independent” in their eyes even with a denial. Also most importantly...KEEP THE DOOR OPEN. Alphas can get denied and do not care because in their mind they have plenty of other options and opportunities. Betas will get denied and crumble....get angry, jealous, etc. In this situation after i was denied I just said “okay, no stress.” I’m not going to question her being in a relationship. I’m not going t…	/r/seduction	27/05/20 08:30 PM
1	Shoot your shot Good job man, good for you in pulling the trigger and shooting your shot. The outcome of the situation is still a positive one....you had the balls to ask. Now your confidence will be up for the next one and hey, even though she has a BF maybe she has some hot friends?	/r/seduction	27/05/20 08:14 PM
2	Shoot your shot Basically you want to train your mind to not be invested in the outcome weather she says yes or no. Don’t get too high (and obsess over her) if she says yes, and don’t get too low (and depressed) if she says no. If our personal psyche isn’t rattled by getting denied (outcome independent) we will be more likely to continue to ask girls out bc in that mindset you aren’t worried if the answer is yes or no	/r/seduction	27/05/20 08:11 PM
2	Shoot your shot Yeah mental blocks are hard to get past. You know you want to do or say something but you can’t get your body to do it. try to make yourself be as outcome independent as possible	/r/seduction	27/05/20 12:27 PM
1	Shoot your shot Agreed 100% just added an edit to my original post giving more clarity on the situation. Here it is: Edit: Also to add more context I want for those who were saying I should have done this in person. ( I agree 100%) Were both nurses. She works a few floors below me. The in person convo happened at the nurses station on her unit and I was talking to her and her friend so I couldn’t ask her in person unfortunately. I knew she was at work so i went to her unit during our shift to pick up some equip…	/r/seduction	27/05/20 12:18 PM
3	Shoot your shot What do you have to lose?	/r/seduction	27/05/20 12:03 PM
3	Shoot your shot What do you have to lose?	/r/seduction	27/05/20 12:03 PM
1	How do i deal with physically agressive cockblockers?? Sounds like a perfect time to shift locations. You point out either verbally or non verbally that this guy is a total drunk asshole then suggest to go to the bar to get a drink or into another room to sit on the couch or outside for fresh air (endless options). This will also give you an opportunity to further escalate/get to actually talk to her. If she doesn’t want to move locations you could either suggest another area of the dance floor maybe? (You know how drunk girls get in that mood that …	/r/seduction	27/05/20 08:48 AM
8	Shoot your shot Being rejected does suck but the degree of how upset you will be from the rejection is directly correlated to how much effort you have put into the situation. Therefore I don’t necessarily think you have a confidence issue. I think you’re just putting too many eggs into her basket before you even know if you’re compatible or not. You’re getting too invested in the situation. You won’t even know if you are actually compatible until you go on a few dates and you won’t go on a few dates until you g…	/r/seduction	27/05/20 06:26 AM
12	Shoot your shot Exactly my point with the last part of my post. It’s happened to me plenty of times before. I’m on her radar and she sees me as someone who’s confident, knows what they want, and isn’t afraid to ask. Win win situation	/r/seduction	27/05/20 05:58 AM
12	Shoot your shot Sorry to hear that.... good news is you still have some time to have some fun with that girl so make it happen dude. Use this situation as a lesson learned to not miss the next opportunity. Worst they can say is no	/r/seduction	27/05/20 02:56 AM
21	Shoot your shot It’s all good man we’ve all been there. I’m going through a rough time as well. Just ended a 3.5 year relationship/engagement and she took our dog. I’ve been in shambles the past month and a half plus corona lock down it’s been hard to say the least. I don’t know exactly what you’re going through but keep pushing through and good luck. Make your decision right now that the next time you see your opportunity you’re going to do it! If she says no who cares! Can’t say you didn’t try	/r/seduction	27/05/20 02:52 AM
2	[UPDATE] Do guys appreciate girls asking them out? Lmfao that story made a quick 180	/r/seduction	29/05/17 10:44 AM
1	[FR] she started talking about a guy she liked on a date. Didn't read anything past the title. If she talked about a guy she likes on your first date, then you my friend, are not on a date.	/r/seduction	19/10/15 04:01 PM
1	Picking up freshman as a senior in college? Bang them. Bang them all because guess what...May come rolling around really quick and then it's over. You'll never have access to that many people with so much in common. College is like shooting fish in a barrel compared to real life. Like others have said make sure your intentions are clear and let it ride dude. I was moving 1,000 miles away 3 days after graduation and I made it abundantly clear that I'm looking to have fun my senior year before I move away. Broke a few hearts along the way b…	/r/seduction	03/09/15 09:01 PM
2	How I picked up a 10 You played that fucking perfectly. Girls want what they can't have. Great post!	/r/seduction	30/08/15 10:24 PM
2	how not to get friendzoned? You've been wanting a relationship for a while and you've been getting friend zoned for a while. Do you see the correlation? I think your mindset is a little off. If you go into every situation with the mindset that you want to date them, it won't happen. Your neediness will ooze out of every single pore in your body and the girl will be freaked out/put off/etc and try to distance themselves aka friend zone you. Do they make is obvious (saying those words) that they just want to be friends or ar…	/r/seduction	30/08/15 06:58 PM
1	I've had some success at seduction, but I'm all about improvement. I've run into a few problems and would appreciate advice on how to solve them Honestly not really sure what i would do without him. Btw picked up a 30 year old w a child lastnight at the bar. Cross that off the list (I'm 23)	/r/seduction	24/07/15 03:48 PM
2	I've had some success at seduction, but I'm all about improvement. I've run into a few problems and would appreciate advice on how to solve them I've kinda been running into the same issue myself with one person in the door one person out the door. I think it has a lot to do with your comment on "girls like a player." When I was in college I was killing it and had multiple long term fuck buddies and was a very...sexual? person. I don't know if that's the right word but girls knew I wasn't fucking around. They knew I didn't want to be their friend, they knew that I wanted to get to business and bang and continue to bang. My looks are dece…	/r/seduction	19/07/15 02:06 PM
2	Glasses vs Contacts I would say in general all wire framed glasses are a no go. That being said I personally wear think black ray ban glasses often and I always have positive responses to them. I would say most thick black glasses are acceptable and can make You look more attractive if you find the right style.	/r/seduction	14/11/14 09:54 PM
1	What's your best response to "Are you flirting with me?"? response to: "are you flirting with me?" -laugh, say "yeah i am", (cocky funny attitude) "got a problem" "do you have a crush on me" - "I just met you, how am i supposed to know" wink/laugh/smile w.e - "Calling me out, huh" (cocky funny attitude)	/r/seduction	03/01/14 05:15 AM
1	How do you explain to women that you're a virgin? Never, never, never say you're "waiting for the one" that's probably the single most needy response you could possibly say. Im not saying that you should be ashamed of being a virgin, but I would suggest to just avoid the topic at all costs and just banging....simple as that. Honestly don't build it up to something that its not in your head. Just have sex once, then all problems are solved. What happens if you suck? what happens if you bust in 10 seconds? who the hell cares, practice makes perfe…	/r/seduction	03/01/14 05:05 AM
1	Those who are successfully dating more than one woman, a question. i feel like a lot of people run into this same issue, like myself. After thinking about it, and talking to a few friends guys and girls, i think ive figured it out. Its all about intentions and expectations....decently early in the "relationship"you should talk to her and find out what she is trying to get out of the relationship and what she expects. i know that i, personally am looking to juggle multiple longer term casual relationships at once. i literally say something along the lines of "im…	/r/seduction	29/12/13 06:24 AM
3	Reading "The Game" a second time through. Getting a lot more out of it. Exactly! I really love this book, and recommend it to almost all of my friends, weather they are into pick up or not. The warning that I always give them before reading it is not to take it too seriously. Its more about the success story and the mindset the story puts you in rather than the "rules" the book preaches. With that being said its still absolutely worth the read because you can pick up great tips about increasing confidence, IOIs, opening, kino, etc. The list is endless, but you just …	/r/seduction	18/12/13 11:33 PM
2	Asking for number vs giving number I do the same thing every time. When the moment feels right you take out your phone with the key pad screen already up, and you just hand it to her. Simple as that. Just be cool, confident and nonchalant about it mad she won't think twice about it. I'm not suggesting you just walk up to random strangers and do this but if you put in a little work, open, talk, game her at all, get some IOI's, etc. you're in....and it's smooth as fuck. Some girls will react like "oh, am I supposed to give you my n…	/r/seduction	18/12/13 07:16 AM
5	My recent experience with some tips that worked amazingly for me... Nearly perfectly played sir, good shit. Going to put a few of your lines in the back of my head for future referencing.	/r/seduction	10/12/13 08:34 AM
1	How much do you drink while out? I also drink a shit ton. This is mainly because its fun, I go out to have fun with my friends, picking up girls is just a byproduct of me having fun. Myself and a large group of friends go out pretty regularly and simply have a great time, wherever we go. Because of the fun that we are having, everyone else sees this as social proof and the foot is already in the door- girls come up to us because we look fun, and they want to have fun with us. I feel like people don't stress social status enough…	/r/seduction	22/10/13 01:38 AM
2	Assholes finish first Right on dog. This is the game I use and have wild success....anyone who wants to deny it can keep lying to themselves while we pull the cream of the crop. As you said this is a perfect mentality for short term hookups, fuck buddies, and one night stands, the toughest part i run into about using this game/mindset, is once you find someone you want a long term relationship with, and begin one, you might have to tweak a few things. I look forward to reading the material you posted	/r/seduction	21/10/13 02:55 AM
5	Shy guy starting to go to bars and one thing always comes to mind...What is it with girls and douchers? You sound pretty fucking boring and negative to be honest. Maybe they look like assholes to you but they were probably having a great time. The girls are hanging out with those dudes for that exact reason.... because they're having a great time. Having your life in order is crucial to more than just pick up and it's great that you have that together but you need to get some hobbies, interests, friends etc to make you unique and different from the random dude sitting in the corner watching everyo…	/r/seduction	18/10/13 10:50 PM
1	I'm a pretty good dancer, but... try and wear certain colors that could help hide it, maybe black, dark blue etc. also maybe keep napkins or some kinda towel in your pocket? Nothing too much more i can think of..	/r/seduction	15/10/13 04:20 AM
1	[FR kind of] Questions after first night at a university thirsty Thursday party The difference between being creepy and being smooth with your escalation all depends weather or not she is into it. To someone that doesn't know pickup they could think that your being creepy when actually your saying all the right things. You're the one that has the balls to talk to her at all, they're probably jealous..Fuck them and do you. You need to care less about "what everyone thinks" and do what you want. Ask her to meet for coffee, ask them to meet for lunch, etc. those situations are…	/r/seduction	12/10/13 04:32 AM
4	A very nice breakdown of the "Be the flame" mindset. This is explained fucking perfectly. Be the star- love it	/r/seduction	12/10/13 12:05 AM
5	Told my AA to shut up, approached a girl, got rejected, feeling great! She brought up the fact that "she has a bf" as a defense mechanism because you came on to her too quickly. Maybe she has one, maybe she doesn't but when she said that you I probably would have said something like you just wanted her number to figure out when/where the party is	/r/seduction	11/10/13 11:39 PM