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Are you taking her out on dates still? I think that's important. Also, if you keep initiating to no avail, stop and let her pursue you. It's good to switch roles every once in a while, and even if you're in a relationship it's still sexy when a girl thinks she has to work to seduced you. Tease her, come up from behind her and kiss her neck, and when she wants to proceed to have a heavy makeout session, gently pull back and continue doing what you were doing. Girls find it irresistible when they …
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:29 PM
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I would say most of this board is unlikely to be very attractive. There is a large segment of this PUA scene that truly believes it doesn't matter what you look like, but it's a numbers game. And then they get fooled into these fake pickup artists that have hundreds of videos of them picking up paid actresses. And they will never look inward and realize how awkward or threatening they are and instead insist they need to press harder on the gas pedal and get more aggressive and approach more wome…
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:46 PM
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This might go against the grain of this board, but I would stop relying on cold approaching women on the street, and if you do, be extremely careful to be as non threatening and instead be as warm and friendly and self aware as possible. Honestly, sign up for the dating apps and have good pictures. Of course you're getting rejected, you're stopping girls at night on the street, you're insulting them (whether playfully or not) by insulting their possibly imaginary boyfriend. If you're going to ap…
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:39 PM
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I agree with the comment you're replying to--it's spilt milk at that point. I've been in similar situations and tried to stick around, and it's always a mistake. I'm not saying that the second a guy starts talking to your girl you just walk away, but the moment it's clear that she's pursuing/dancing/kissing another guy, you are wasting your time trying to pull her away from him. There is nothing to gain from that other than to indignify yourself and make it clear that you don't have the self wor…
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:19 PM
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There's something to be said about logistics. This is a girl he just met that night, so in hindsight the better play would've been to take her somewhere you can be alone with her. Taking a girl you just met out to a dance floor and surrounding yourself with a bunch of competition is making it hard on yourself.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:10 PM
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You're afraid that you looked weak, but any other play in that situation other than moving on will make you look weak. Trying to pull her away from him would've done nothing but make you look pathetic and diminish your own dignity. You cannot force a woman to be with you. You let her do what she wants, and how she acts dictates how much time and effort you spend on her. If you let her be free, and the second you turn you back she gets with another guy, first of all, she's not a quality woman, an…
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:02 PM
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I'd drop this artifice of being a jerk and being dishonest to replicate being a charismatic man with a lot of options. You do not need to be a jerk. In fact, it is worse if you are. What you want is authenticity, and you are authentic if you date plenty of women, and are busy enough to not be around to respond to her. What does not texting back right away represent? It represents time scarcity, and in that, value. You lying and being a dick is not going to attract a high value woman, you are goi…
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:51 AM
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You're not dating, or haven't dated, many girls. You put a lot of pressure on a girl with an "I really like you text" after one date. This demonstrates to her that you don't have a lot of experience, so this one date with her carries too much weight. How does that make her feel, when she might've had a fun time, but to you, it meant way more. That's scary to her or anyone. Imagine if you went out for one beer with your good guy friend, and after a couple sips, he turns to you, looks you dead in …
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:23 PM
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This poster is weird. Just posts hundreds of random stories on r/venting. My husband is cheating on me, my girlfriend just broke up with me, I'm 13 and home schooled, etc. Seems like a waste of time to write these random inane scenarios.
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:27 PM
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To be honest, you sound like an asshole, and I'm willing to bet that it's not that your thoughts are "too deep," but that your thoughts and opinions are troubling and a turn off. The way you rattled off those examples of "shallow conversation" tells me you're a bit of an antisocial edge lord. Let me ask you this, you don't think women can make good CEOs? You spend time out of your day to judge other people's sexuality? I have a feeling you give off a pretty angry and creepy vibe to women with yo…
/r/seduction09/06/21 01:11 PM
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Lift weights. I know it sounds like a dumb cliche answer, but really. It's meditative and it'll help build confidence and blow off steam. Also, find hobbies and consistently do them. You have your IT and that's cool, so you should be passionate about moving forward in that field. But also, find a passion in something you like doing. Do you like shooting pool? Darts? Comedy? Join a group, and do that thing once every week. It sounds like it's the most oft repeated, cliche answer, but it is very t…
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:35 PM
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I've definitely seen a lack of correlation between perceived attraction to me in real life vs. on Tinder. I think that's a pretty common experience for guys on there. I can honestly say that most of the girls I've dated in real life are the same that wouldn't have swiped right on me on Tinder. Part of it I suspect is that I don't have a abundance of great, high quality pictures and I'd find it silly to hire a photographer. But it seems that in online dating women hold more of the cards.
/r/seduction30/04/20 05:27 AM
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That could go either way. Have you ever heard the number one rule of journalism is to never give away your microphone to another person? This is giving him the floor for no reason, and if he's any good he'll turn this into a great oppurtunity to show off his charm to the group. And by also showing great interest in him you risk revealing that you show great importance in him and see him as a threat.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 01:27 AM
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It's not really about female anything. You tattled on someone, that's just poor social awareness on your part. If someone is talking badly about another outside the room, you calling them out in front of both parties is being very confrontational and dramatic.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:07 AM
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Are you saying you already have a gym membership? Because your confidence can increase when you kill it at the gym.
/r/seduction19/01/18 04:35 AM
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If you want a relationship, and you don't know what you did wrong, don't worry about it. She didn't like you for you, and you don't want to be with someone who doesn't like you. She probably has a dozen options for men right now, and what you did or did not do could be something so miniscule and trivial. Any time a girl just stops being interested it's most likely that she's talking to a guy she just likes better.
/r/seduction19/01/18 04:22 AM
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He eviscerated her.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/17 05:32 AM
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Looking at her Facebook, when she's a little put together, she's pretty. Looks a little like Emily Blunt.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/10/16 04:43 AM
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There's no way that isn't fake.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 06:09 AM
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Very true. It's silly a dumb that this is a reality. The whole story of the ex partner being an enemy is a tired one.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:41 AM
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Yeah I knew something was up a few weeks ago. We made soft plans and she disregarded them to go to a boat party with "friends." I should have snuffed it out then for being rude, but this was a longer distance fwb thing. I was fucking other girls too, I just don't understand why bring happy with someone else necessitates being cold. Easier to distance yourself I guess.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:59 PM
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I think this may be closer to the solution, because that would explain why it's so abrupt and unnecessary. They think less in greys like men. I was thinking of this girl "he we had fun hanging out going out and fucking, it's too bad our schedules and lives are incompatible right now but good for her for finding someone (genuinely)." But, I think girls don't really learn to be able to think this way. Every ex has to be rationalized as a loser or a jerk, because they can't understand that you can …
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:05 PM
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I didn't dump her though, I was "seeing" her so this was a fwb thing that could maybe turn into something down the road. Honestly, I could have treated her like shit, she was on her period once and pulled the "so you don't want to hangout with me I bet" thing and I don't think I showed her that I did, although I didn't. So, MAYBE this is a revenge thing and she acted cold and sour to show me up, maybe not.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:00 PM
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That could be it. I'd find it very very strange if she saw me as needs, as days on days or even full weeks would go by between contact. I'd just hit her up to see when she was in town. But, I did break my rule and throw a couple compliments when she sent some bullshit attention whoring snaps. So, if she thought I was needy it definitely didn't take anything at all, only a drop in the bucket.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:55 PM
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You're so young dude. So young that whatever happened until this point doesn't matter. Hit the weights, and go hard after goals. You are not behind and yet you still have so much time. I'm 25 and by the time you're my age you're going to have me beat. Keep on keeping on.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 04:51 PM
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Where did you see that she cheated on him with The Rock? I've heard rumors he was fucking other girls on the side and she saw different women on his phone.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 11:46 PM
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I don't think you did much wrong OP. Keep improving yourself, but not everyone is going to want to marry you. You went for it and got your answer, and you move on. You were fucking her and had a great time, better that than a relationship or marriage with someone who doesn't want to be with you.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:35 PM
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You sound like an angry review-writing neckbeard from the Internet.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 09:17 AM
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Why did you use it if it wasn't misspelled?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:26 PM
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I know what 'Sic' is, I'm wondering why 'Sic' was used for a correctly spelled word.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 05:41 AM
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Broken, sad, defeated; he tried to find comfort in his wife's company. But "she was in no mood for sympathy(sic)". Why did you use (sic) there?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:43 AM
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What did you overreact to? It seems like, if we're being honest here, your frame got shook when she was surrounded by all these guys at the bar and you didn't know how to handle it, so you went to the extreme. Or I don't know if it was even extreme. Your "red flags" to me don't seem like red flags but just people shit, besides maybe the abusive ex bf. I'd like to know a little about what you think you could have done better.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 02:28 PM
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How old are these girls posting these? I didn't know which one was Romeo, so I thought it was the first dude that was dancing with the girl and thought, "well, he looks a lot older," and then I found out it was the little boy. That's pretty pedo.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 05:58 PM
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The OP wasn't asking if women like to do favors for men. He was asking what he should do when he feels a female coworker thinks she is successfully manipulating him. Read the question and then read the response and you'll see how it seems like he didn't know what the OP was asking.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 04:14 PM
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This had about 5% to do with the question the OP asked.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:51 AM
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The "guy I dated..." thing is so fucking true. Makes so much sense now.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:01 AM
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Don't talk about lifting, ever. I make the mistake of sometimes being cocky-funny about it, or genuinely sharing how stoked I am about it. Don't. Look jacked and don't reveal how you got there and it will driver her crazy.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 01:06 AM
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Is that a shit test at that point? Or the last thing an incredibly rude girl has the chance to say to you?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 01:42 PM
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The only lesson I took from this is to never let a woman give you that cunty condescensional speech to you. The one where they poorly pretend to care for you when they're really taking another opportunity to pumo up their ego with what they see as your beta affection.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:11 PM
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You call her your female friend instead of a plate.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 10:07 PM
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What sexual success do you have with this girl if you aren't fucking her?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 10:02 PM
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You're not good at reading sarcasm are you.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:20 AM
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Chick doesn't give a shit. Girls are cold to guys they don't find attractive. She couldn't be bothered to unmatch him and can't be bothered to not come across as rude to send a message like that.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:19 AM
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Girls can be dumb and not care about doing things the right way. If you think of it logically, you assume that she knows that she could just unmatch him. She either didn't know that and didn't care enough to find out, or just doesn't care in general about this person. Remember, girls are outright cold to guys they don't find attractive.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:17 AM
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I think real life openers are different from a message on a screen.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:14 AM
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You're thinking of it from a logical guys perspective. Girls can be illogically cold to someone they're not attracted to. They can, casually and unprovoked, say shit like "you're not my type" to a guy and not think anything of it or think it's funny when there was little reason to even announce her unattraction. Remember, girls are the gender that calls guys creeps for even trying to make a move if the guy isn't attractive.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:12 AM
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Great story. I think the most important part about walking away is that you have to mean it. You can't walk away to get a reaction out of her. You have to walk away because you're done with her for the night and you have better options. You're not thinking about winning her back by waking away.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:52 PM
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Good women want a relationship Ha. A lot of them like the status of a bf. I just got the relationship talk from a slut that "needs to be more than a notch in the belt, needs to grow close with someone", yet cheated on her past bf with multiple guys and cheated on the bf before that. Girls hate being single more than they want a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 06:52 PM
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This post is 4 months old but had to tell you that this gave me a laugh.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 07:22 PM
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Win through your actions, never through argument. God damn, I need to hammer this into my skull.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 07:33 PM
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I find universally coded girl language interesting. "I need to find myself" = I want some different cock, "I need some space" = "I'm pursuing someone else" . How can girls not know how obvious they are?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 07:13 AM
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"I need to find myself" is almost always "I need to go out and get some different cock." She needs her own place so she doesn't have her bf over her shoulders making getting thay extra cock difficult.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 07:09 AM
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She likes to be surrounded by guys she can have her pick to fuck while not having to deal with female competition. Rarely are those types of girls ever not sluts.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 05:21 PM
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I always thought your frame was your true self. Not letting someone else shake what you stand for and who you are. I don't think it means being non reactive, although you can be both. He called her out instead of backing down, and he wasn't at all shook but what she was saying. She got owned.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 05:31 AM
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He wasn't angry. He was animated, but you know she doesn't shake his frame. He was solid with what he believed. Giving in to a shit test doesn't always mean being completely non-reactive.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 05:28 AM
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Girls do that shit all the time. I'm starting to think if you fuck a girl well, that girls best friend is the easiest lay you'll ever have.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 07:22 PM
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"Why won't you hookup with me" is a panty-gushing line if I've ever heard one.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 02:59 AM
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But you're not the best. That's not possible. There will always be more attractive guys than you, who make more money than you do, who fuck your girlfriend better than you do.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 11:19 PM
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If she were taking a dance class, alright. But we all know what 90% of dancing at clubs is. It's not even dancing. It's grinding on people. Girls know this, and they're not naive to the fact that guys will be trying to grind on them at a club. That's why it's not accurate to act as if the dude just doesn't want his girl dancing.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 10:56 PM
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I thought he was directly quoting her.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 07:36 PM
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Jesus look at these 5s talk about avoiding guys.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:19 AM
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It's the fact that he stays awake to watch a fucking door all night. Blue pill or not, are you a fucking psycho?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 06:06 AM
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I think it's a good idea not to talk about it. It adds to your mystery, that you're jacked but never address it. However, unless they're skin tight Ed Hardy or Affliction t shirts, I see nothing wrong with wearing slim cut anything. Not compression fit, but nice clothes that frame your body.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 04:27 AM
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Honestly, I'm entertained reading this Internet argument, but here is where you start to sound vaginal. Suddenly, someone's personal standards are oppression? He didn't say anything about beating his GF up, just that he doesn't tolerate certain things in a relationship. His checklist is different from yours, and no girl is forced to be in a relationship with him if she doesn't agree with his beliefs. All girls shit test, but twirling your hair and flirting with a guy in front of you is disrespec…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 10:13 PM
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SHE IS SO FUCKING INTERSTING AND INSIGHTFUL SOMEONE PLEASE SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH HER.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 11:33 PM
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Guys she wants to fuck = yes plz
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 11:31 PM
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I don't know if I'm really good looking or not. I would mostly not like to know where I am on a 10 point scale, as I think that would only hang over my head and put a cap on myself of who I think I could attract. I've been told from girls that I'm very good looking, and seem to generate a lot of buzz, as douchey as it sounds. Still, I never know for sure if I truly am really good looking and as a result at-risk for trying too hard, or I'm not, and I'm not trying hard enough. It personally mystif…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 11:19 PM
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This girl says she has a boyfriend. God help him.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 05:23 AM
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But would you rather that or a girl with no sign of longterm relationships?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 01:06 AM
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One thing I admire is if she has the ability to think differently from slurry culture and friends around her. Girls, more than men, care so much about fitting in and falling in line with what her closest friends think.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 09:27 PM
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Why?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 09:25 PM
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Exactly. Whst good would it ever do stop improving because your max isn't the level of a tall model? "What's the point of getting a promotion if I will never be a millionaire?"
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 09:24 PM
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That's true, but show me a guy who eats healthy, lifts weights every day, has a 6 pack, and does everything he can to be as physically attractive to the opposite sex, and has reached his max. Most men toil in mediocrity and will never realize their potential. You may not have a model face, but you can only bitch about your looks once you are in peak physical shape. You may not be able to fuck 9s or 10s, but if you lift and are in the best shape you can be, you should be able to pull cute girls, …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 09:19 PM
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He said she was in a 10 year relationship. If she was faithful, that's 10 years for one guy. So if she started when she was 15, that makes about 4 guys per year. That is assuming she's telling the truth, which is doubtful, and who knows if she was also blowing dudes.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 09:11 PM
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Remember, some man is fucking her. She gets endorsement dick.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 12:25 AM
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Either it's that you give them too much attention and it's unattractive or you neglected them and they needed the attention they deserve.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 11:30 PM
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I wish I got "it". I just know some things for sure.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 01:36 AM
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Consistency above everything is important. Hit the gym regularly and hit your schedule. This is way more important than which program you choose. You can spend a lifetime planning out an exercise plan but all that matters is that you go regularly so you can get stronger from the lastlast. workout. Also, I highly recommend hitting the gym in the morning before you start your day. It is like a cheat code for life. Not only will you look bigger with increased vascularity, but you'll feel amazing. A…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 01:35 AM
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Move the fuck on. Keep ignoring her. Any girl that wants to castrate you by demoting you to group dates is not worth your time. You can rationalize all you want about what your next move is with her, but any move you make with her that doesn't involve ignoring her is a mistake, plain and simple. If you truly thought she was boring, then you're not missing out.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 09:32 AM
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Did you even bother to click the link? It shows pictures of her when she's 7 and 8 months pregnant. I wouldn't be able to tell looking that she's pregnant. There should have been other signs though.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 05:16 PM
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I think this is the worst advice of that thread. I've been in hipster neighborhoods and looked at all the girls surrounded by their guy friends with pencil thin mustaches and olive green military jackets and I've never questioned for a second if those girls wouldn't love to fuck a jacked gym bro. In fact, though I try to stay away from those girls, I bet it's way easy to game indie hipster girls when they're surrounded by weak, feminine, placating boys. Few things dry pussies out more than a guy…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 09:05 AM
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This is incredible. It's nice to have a good checklist of do's and don'ts. I should treat this like the pledge of allegiance in elementary school every day.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:08 AM
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Like the other guy that replied to this was sort of saying, I think a woman like that cannot be satisfied, no matter if you're an alpha or not. They get bored. I've heard girls who basically admit they always get wet for a guy then get bored eventually. I think it's borderline irresponsible to spread the notion that if a girl cheats on you, it's always because you're not alpha enough. Cheating whores will always be cheating whores.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 08:14 AM
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In my experience, without fail, if you think for a second that a girl is good/grounded/respectful, she ends up being the biggest whore.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 05:52 AM
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I can't believe she's only 24.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 11:11 PM
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I'm guessing because it gets to the point where your awesome vascular it just makes like you have weird webby veins all over. I'm sure even then some chick's would get hard over it. But the point is that chicks love 6 packs, but much more lean that that isn't the ideal.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:43 PM
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The dude is a model-looking athlete. He could fuck supermodels. If you're going to set boundaries like this, make for damn sure that she knows she's one of many waiting in line.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 09:49 PM
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Honestly one of my favorite dynamics is being the manly meat eater to the vegan/holistic/organic/farm-market girl. They love when you don't give a fuck and you're a total bro. They don't get wet for vegan dudes.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 08:21 PM
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Being more consistent (not skipping) with workouts. Focusing on my side hobby. Haven't been hitting these two hard enough, but I know when I do I'm happier so I'm trying to work on that in the coming months.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 06:55 PM
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This is where this sub confuses me sometimes. It's good that we all don't have the exact opinions--we agree on a lot of things, but I like to think we're not all stuck to the hive mind. It seems though that we'll have one thread shitting on girls who say only they have body image issues, and then this thread here where we claim that's true, and that men are more proactive. I don't know which it is.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 06:10 PM
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I would run. Most people would. This has little to do with feminism. It's all about the moment. If he pops up right in front of me with a gun, maybe I fight him out of reaction. If there's any sort of distance? Naw I'm running. Am I going to be a hero and get killed in the name of a small ass club? No. She ran away like a bitch, and she definitely should have alerted more people. However, what realistically is she going to do to a guy coming down a hallway with a gun? There's too much distance. …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 05:10 PM
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So you're saying it's basically muscle memory for high or low rep? I'm still skeptical. Because lifting 20 reps of something isn't going to give you the muscle mass of lifting heavier in the 10 rep range, right? The number of repetitions I would think has to matter at some point.
/r/becomeaman07/03/14 06:04 PM
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I don't care to Google it, but there was one where it was known that she dug up the condom from the trash can. That should end the same as this story did, but it's just for the fact that this guy didn't dump his condom juice in her (technique differing) that he gets time.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 04:50 PM
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Hasn't there been plenty of cases where a woman admittedly sabotaged birth control and the man is still responsible for the child? That's the major injustice I see here. A woman can do whatever the fuck she want with a man's seed but they can choose to shackle us with child support even if she sabotaged birth control.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 04:27 PM
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So then why are bodybuilders bigger?
/r/becomeaman07/03/14 04:12 PM
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Same here man. My game is utterly impeccable when I don't want to fuck the girl. I guess a dude should be aware of how he acts when he doesn't want to fuck the girl and try to repeat it.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 08:32 AM
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Well these last few months I began a winning tradition This a nod to Bill Burr?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 03:31 PM
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A always B be C closing
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 12:40 PM
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Always lift. Always. You never put on as much muscle as quickly as when you first start to lift. If you lift hard it's possible to lose fat and gain muscle at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 01:02 AM
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She has some nice ass legs. I'd fuck her, but yeah fully clothed on the street I wouldn't pay her much attention. Makes me wonder what 5.5-6 faces out there are have great bodies underneath those clothes.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 10:30 PM
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There's inconsistency in the writing as well. This guy seems pretty calm about this thing, even though it apparently happened 3 days prior. He says he's feeling angry, but he's basically saying "well, just thought I'd get this off my chest." I don't care to post the specific sentences that male me believe it's fake, but this does not seem like an authentic reaction to you're girlfriend fucking another guy in the same house while you're asleep 3 days ago.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 10:21 PM
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This is story is fake. C'mon now.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 10:14 PM
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She definitely went along with it. I think you're over-reading into her responses. It sounds like you think a girl has to be on her knees to show she's not in control of the conversation. Everything isn't a battle. You're going to have a bad time if you can't even have a fun silly conversation with a girl you've been dating for years. This is all this is. He's ribbing on her and giving her a hard time, playfully. She jokes back, but in her mind she knows she has nothing. At no point does she see…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 10:28 PM
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What you have to realize is there was no point in this in which he was serious. He was fucking with her the entire time. He doesn't think girls don't like sex, he doesn't actually think he she have a 2 on 1 and she shouldn't. He's a comic, and absolutely nothing he says here has any meaning other than to playfully push her buttons. It's cocky-funny, but he isn't actively doing this to prove a point. Comics like this can say all sorts of thing to fuck with you and keep a straight face. If you not…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 10:05 PM
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Can you explain why happened in the couple of weeks between her asking for you to give her another chance and you agreeing? Were you in contact in that time? Or did you agree after not talking to her for two weeks?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 02:12 AM
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When I had absolutely no idea what I was doing when it came to girls, I let one girl text throughout our date. No question I would never put up with that now, and although I learned from it if I could just go back in time and either leave her there or change our order to go and drop her ass off. It kills me how pathetic I was.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 02:09 AM
2

Except this beta doesn't have a job.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 06:03 PM
30

"I won't tell you unless you already tell me what I've done."
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 09:23 PM
6

Still, I think the above commenter is right. He interviewed her for his position as his girlfriend. If he wanted a good girl to call his, he should have checked out and pried a bit into her "job" history.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 09:20 PM
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Well, call me a cherry picker then, but I'll take gay marriage and disregard feminism. I'm more about a general sense of equality for everyone, and that doesn't mean I don't think men should lead in their relationships.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 07:02 PM
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This thread is mostly about fucking as many different girls as you can. That doesn't sound traditionally conservative. This thread is anti marriage. That doesn't sound traditionally conservative. You could argue that that is progressive. Either way, it is pointless to assign a political party to it. That doesn't make you a man. An alpha sticks to what he wants and what he thinks is right. He doesn't think "I want a good woman who is loyal to me" and also thinks "so I have to fall in line with ev…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 09:26 PM
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Hmm. Well I guess it comes down to being my own man and not blindly following 100 percent of the views of any group. I'm not a sheep. My views more align with the Democratic party, with two being things being that I'm an atheist and I believe in Gay marriage. Feminism was never a huge issue for me even as a blue piller. I more just believe in the war against bullshit, and men's rights have a lot of bullshit to deal with. I'm honestly shocked that there would be any connection between any politic…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 08:57 PM
3

In my life, 100% of the time someone has used the term 'smartass' as an adult, they had nothing to say to facts and logic. 'Smartass' is a vaginal word, and shame on you for using it.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 05:36 PM
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I'm not conservative. It wasn't until recently that I started to question if TRP is connected with conservatism. I don't understand why it should. I won't be taking bullshit from women and I probably will never get married, and I will never be a conservative.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 05:31 PM
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I'd be interested to have a census of truly what type of girls joined that sub. I wonder if some of these girls were actually manipulative attention craving whores in the past. Or if they're all post wall already.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:40 PM
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I see it from both sides. I did the ghosting thing. Girls are clueless. Unless she was blatantly gangbanging 5 guys around the time that you were supposed to see her, she will never know she did anything wrong. Ghosting her is pretty easy. If you use it as a tool, good. But if you use it as some subconscious way to punish her without confronting her, that's weak. If you need to get your shit, you'll probably need to communicate to her. Grab your balls, hold your frame, and talk to her telling he…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:37 PM
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"They're not ALL the same." Will somebody put that horse down?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 09:46 AM
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He gives props to guys fucking attractive women and feels good about winning in sports and the rush of high physical, manly things--what a DOUCHEBAG.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 08:54 PM
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Is "douchebag" the male form of female-peer slut shaming? That seems like the go to insult to anything that might be perceived as too masculine, and it's kind of weak when guys use it to describe other guys that for having base level masculine traits and interests.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 08:51 PM
6

Most or at last many of the writers for Mad Men are women.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 12:47 PM
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That guy is too good.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 08:49 AM
1

I don't know shit about cars, or how to fix them. I know how to change a flat, so I can save the day when that happens. God dammit all the things I wish I would have learned earlier. I wish I would have taken that auto mechanic class in high school and taken more skill work electives. It sucks that you have way more of an appreciation for certain things after the fact.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 06:41 AM
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A man cooking is only feminine if he isn't good at it. Nobody thinks a master chef is feminine. It's only feminine if you're doing it please the woman so she won't be upset with you. If you show mastery and dominance in even doing laundry, it can be masculine. Though it's pretty safe to say that you holding that power cord in your left hand as you vacuum away, will probably always appear feminine. This is just yet another reason to lift weights. No girl doesn't want to jump her man's bones when …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 06:34 AM
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It would be irresponsible for her not to mention that, though. I think you're reaching a bit there for a feminist bias. Did you read the article? It goes on to prove the point anyway, so I don't see that as her trying to shy away from the point. In the end she proved that the research was right.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 06:26 AM
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I think you need to relax the reigns a bit. Science is science, and good science takes things like this into consideration. Correlation indeed doesn't prove causation, and it was right for her to mention that. It doesn't matter anyway, as for the rest of her article she proves it to be true anyway. But this has nothing to do with women not being trusted, if you asked a man how happy he is in his relationship while he has not had sex sex for months, vs. seconds after his girl giving him passionat…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 06:22 AM
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This is a boring story, but when I was still dating my cunty ex gf (WHY did I have to be in a relationship?!) and I was leaving the gym, this sexy blonde girl that was pretty far ahead of me held the door open for me and smiled at me. It was such a cute IOI and I admired that she had the balls to give such a nice, feminine opportunity for me to talk to her. If only I had a time machine.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 11:15 AM
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I've watched a few of his videos, and he seems to hold sexual tension very well. In one of his videos he walks up to people and asks "do you think I'm attractive?" He does it to some very cute chick behind a counter, asks for number in a very cool, stable, and mysterious way. He didn't have to say something directly sexual, but he was extremely forward and held his frame, going straight for the kill. His tonality may not work for all girls, but I would say his demeanor is very sexy to most girls…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 11:03 AM
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Might get a bit pruny.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 10:50 AM
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Sorry for digging up this comment, but I wonder if his aloof attitude when asking her out was attractive. He asked her out but there wasn't an ounce of desperation. He either made a very attractive overall first impression, or he showed that he was boring after his initial gimmick. I can't say for sure which one.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 10:50 AM
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There was that time in 1st grade when he was a fucking giant.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:20 PM
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All of these female blog writers are fucking dreadful writers. Would she collapse if she just admitted that she had sex with a guy that got her wet and fucked her well? Why does everything have to be turned spiritual?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 10:13 AM
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You know he's done with you, so what does it matter? You would have had a much worse time if he didn't show emotion. If I were in his shoes I would have calmly asked you to leave and to arrange picking up my stuff. That is I'd the right thing to do from a man's POV because he has more dignity in that situation, but you know you would have been a mess of there was little reaction from him. So from your POV, I'd be happy he chose the wrong way to do it than the right way.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 06:03 PM
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You said he overreacted. And there's the fact that you made the thread in the first place. If you knew you were wrong and what he did was justified, what does explaining what he did in detail to strangers on the internet do for you but make you feel better?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 05:50 PM
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Tyler is absolutely right: fuck that guy. And those kind of comments CAN fuck you up. It's an attempt to peg you lower and to make your more "normal" with a fear of being an asshole or being "that guy." And it can really fuck your mind up because you wonder if you really are being an asshole (only an asshole would disregard people's honest opinion of them, right??).
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 04:35 AM
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It's in response to him saying she didn't protest.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 03:21 PM
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Ugh that Aunt made out with her niece while naked? Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 12:24 PM
2

I think she said near the end "I'm 17."
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 12:19 PM
2

I'm saving this as a reminder. And big up on you for keeping the smart hot Russian girl in check.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 01:37 AM
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She says she has a pretty face. Ho boy. For the love of God fellow guys, stop fucking ugly chicks. Their egos are unwarranted.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 05:41 PM
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But how is that true abundance if you're fucking unattractive girls? If you have an abundance of pretty girls to fuck, you shouldn't have to date uglies or pigs who sip on slushies and have never been in a gym in her life. These 5's and 6's are walking around with these annoyingly bloated egos because guys like YOU are settling for them.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 05:39 PM
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I like this a lot. I haven't really sat back and thought about what it truly means yet. But the gist is, if you walk away, don't walk away thinking that that will build attraction. Walk away because you don't want to be with her anymore.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 04:55 AM
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This: A week later, she packs an overnight bag to stay at a girlfriend's place, walks out to "find herself," and I tell her not to come back unless she's serious about making things right. Should be this: A week later, she packs an overnight bag to stay at a girlfriend's place, walks out to "find herself," and I tell her not to come back.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 01:47 PM
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See? It takes balls to talk about that on stage and to stick with it even when the crowd pulls back. I highly recommend Bill Burr, he's probably personally my favorite. The next time he comes near your town, see him and you won't regret it.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 06:58 PM
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I don't want to flood you with questions that you apparently get a lot of, but how do you stop yourself by try-hard negging? You get to a point when you learn that it's unattractive to kiss up to a girl and be nice to her and appease her, and then it seems it's difficult to find that balance between busting her tits a bit and relating with her and building rapport. It gets to the point when after you know a bit about negging, it sometimes is more courageous to be nice because it seems you are ri…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 06:46 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBVSfgctIpo
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 06:28 PM
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No. Bill has balls, he's far from jittery. He may talk about being anxious about his anger, but that's the point. Watch the end of "You People Are All The Same" when he talks about Arnold Schwarzenegger and Tiger Woods and gold digging whores.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 06:27 PM
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How do they respond?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 06:14 PM
1

I think the simple solution to this puzzle is that Gilbert Gottfried is a very unattractive man in his physical appearance. If we're talking stand up, if you're a reasonably attractive man and you absolutely murder a room on stage, there is no way there isn't a couple of girls in the room that don't want to face your brains out. It's powerful to be the source of such entertainment for everyone in a room. Bill Burr casually mentioned hooking up with some girl some time like "she saw me kill so of…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 11:19 PM
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She feels entitled to fit men because fit men like you are fucking fat girls like her. Dudes need to up their standards so we don't have disgusting girls that feel entitled.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 12:48 AM
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This is so fucking funny I'm in tears. And it's only a slight exaggeration of how weak some guys are.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 07:47 PM
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The biggest annoyance of hers isn't even mostly her fault, it's that everyone is so obsessed with her. What's annoying is her gross masculine things like farting and burping and thinking it's cute, and maybe the fact that she fights hard to be a normal girl next door when she's a millionaire fucking great looking alpha men.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 05:55 PM
1

Could you elaborate a little bit? Is what you're saying that legislation can't affect social acceptance?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 05:21 PM
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Reading that was so fucking frustrating. Some people don't know how to argue and can't separate ideas.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 04:59 PM
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Nuh uh. My one night stand is the nicest, most wonderful person I know.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 04:28 PM
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Yup, because if they do lose attraction they will pick apart and find any way they can to label their ex as an asshole, even if he really was a nice guy. Come to think of it, girls are nice to their guys because they appreciate that he turns her on. When he doesn't anymore, she despises him for not.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 04:25 PM
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A couple of things I would challenge is that a girl won't cheat if you're a strong man. I don't know if that's true all the time. I think you could be alpha as fuck and some girls will cheat no matter what just because they don't want to be tied down to just one cock. Also, a girl does not get wet at the thought of you coming to talk to her. She gets wet at the thought of you talking to her if you get off your ass and take care of yourself. Might be unfair to pick that apart as it's just a simpl…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 03:52 PM
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I get it. There's an important balance between pushing yourself to be the best and accepting who you are.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 03:45 PM
1

What's wrong with gay parades though?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 03:09 PM
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Meanwhile it's never a problem for a woman to have a closet full of gigantic vibrating cocks to fulfill her needs.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 01:51 PM
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Then I just don't understand what the end point you're making is then? What did Tyler Durden mean by "is this a man?" This is indeed a very slippery slope. TRP hates fat girls who complain about "skinny privilege" and that men should accept their body even though they don't put in effort to exercise. So I guess I don't know what the moral of this is. I really don't think there is much wrong with trying to be ripped with a 6 pac. Maybe what you're saying is don't put all your self worth in your p…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 01:49 PM
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Another powerful rationalization. "I wanted cock on the side because it just felt right."
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 01:36 PM
1

And creepy will never be a fun insult. This dude's response was perfect. A shrug and a condescending grin. A girl calling you creepy will never be fun.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 01:35 PM
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And she still fucks the guy. If anything this is an example of a girl that can't get a guy out of her mind. That's a powerful neg, when after the fact she's sitting around wondering what you meant. She isn't writing a blog post about the guy at work who never insults her.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 01:34 PM
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TIL to use use the word silly more often.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 01:31 PM
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This is the shit I need to hear. Been putting about 60% effort in the gym and my diet, and telling myself I was in shape enough. Coasting by and thinking I'm in good enough shape and the good attention I already get from girls id enough, while I'm bitching about who I'm not getting attention from. No fucking excuses, I control my success, and I want more success, I have to take responsibility and earn it. No fat girl "Skinny privelage" syndrome, if I want sexier girls I have to get sexier.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 01:21 PM
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But it sounds like you are exclusive with this hoe you're talking about. Otherwise if you weren't, why would you cut off contact with her after she fucks some other guy? Or are you talking about if you're hanging out with this girl and she leaves with another guy in front of you?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 01:06 PM
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I'm actually confused. It seems there should be two schools of thought on this. Either you take charge and get rid of the guy, or you let it be and put responsibility on the girl. I'm of the thinking that, (assuming I choose to be exclusive with a girl) it shouldn't be my responsibility to stop all guys from flirting with my girlfriend. If I have to, what is she going to do when I'm not around? If she's the type of girl that would let some guy hijack our date, I don't want to be dating this girl…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 12:54 PM
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They'll take it a step further and state that the reason she's flirting with other guys is because you look through her phone.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 12:05 PM
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You got it made then. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 08:34 PM
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In my experiences, and I think others share similar experiences, she enjoys having her pick of cock. She sucks up resources from all her guy friends. She gets attention/gifts from her guy friends without having to give really anything back, and she can fuck the few guy friends she has that she finds attractive. It's super important to not be similar to her pathetic guy friend orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 05:05 PM
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That girl was in 8th grade at the time. All I want to know, is that I can fucking cry if one of my parents die. I don't have to show emotion any other time, but if I can't even fucking cry in front of a girl when my parents die, that is fucking ridiculous. I know girls shit on the weak, but a girl losing attraction for a guy because he cried when his dad dies--tell me that's an extreme example.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 08:46 AM
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This sub is based on what actually happens in real life. Advice from other places is based on the fake world they idealized in their head. In the real world, a rattlesnake is not to fuck with, because of countless instances of bad things happening when fucking with them. In the fake ideal Disney-love world, a rattlesnake bites you because you and the rattlesnake weren't meant for each other or you didn't love the rattlesnake enough.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 10:19 AM
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The female self esteem is so disproportionate. 5's and 6's are walking around thinking they are the shit, because guys with no balls hit on the all the time because they aren't good looking and should be easy. Guys need to sets their sights higher.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 01:58 AM
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"I don't like being watched." Hahahahahahahahshshahahahshaha
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 01:44 AM
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I replied with that because I thought it was a little much to call him a bozo. He learned from getting dumped and put in the hard work after that. Doesn't sound like a bozo.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 04:08 PM
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This is a genuine question: isn't fucking another man's girl rewarding that girl? Aren't you rewarding that whore with sex, and thus sponsoring that behavior?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 04:01 PM
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But why is it disgusting? Because the characters aren't great people? Isn't an interesting show well written in the sense that the characters are realistically flawed? I haven't seen the show, but I want to know what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 02:14 PM
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How could you assume he's not natural? If the dude has been lifting weights since middle school and is 28, that's like 15 years of weightlifting and training. I feel like everyone thinks that everyone's results have to be the same, and everybody's body acts the same way, and if you're not a skinny muscular twig, you must be on steroids. It's naive to think no one does steroids, but I think it's even more naive to think every 215 pound muscular dude is on steroids. It's ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 11:07 AM
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It's a little pathetic for her to expect that he would take her back though. The damage is already done. If I dump a girl for being fat, and she then gets incredibly sexy and fit, it would be very pathetic of me to expect that she would get back with me, even if I had a good reason to dump her.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:48 AM
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Right, but he got dumped for it. He got his punishment. After getting dumped for it he has the right to then change something about it, and he has no obligation to go back to his ex. She saw better options than him, and now after changing, he has a whole hell of a lot more options than her. I can see how he kind of had it coming for getting dumped, but it doesn't make him a jerk for then getting off his ass and doing something about it. She gets a better man than what he was in their relationshi…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:45 AM
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I think it's the fact that she dumped him and then she wanted to get back with him after he got fit. If I dump a girl because she's getting soft, and then she gets fit when we're not together, it would be a little pathetic of me to be calling her wanting to get back with her. What she deserves is looking at him having all the options he has now, when she was looking at her options when she was checking out other dudes in the relationship. It's all even now.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:40 AM
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Just because it's rare doesn't mean it's not possible. Some people do have good genetics. Adrian Peterson running back for the Vikings has always said he just has crazy genes and he doesn't even eat that healthy. This dude in the link weighs 200 pounds. He is no mass monster. And he's probably short. If he was super tall, I could see how everyone could blindly call steroids. But he's not. He's probably short, and he's super tan and lean. He'd probably look a lot smaller to you in person.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:33 AM
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He wasn't even that fat. And he had some muscle there before. He's probably short, and he's very very tan now. He rides the newbie gain train while adding anywhere from 1-2 lbs of muscle per month, while having a diet that is consistently strict, and that is achievable. If this dude was 6'5, I could see the steroid hysteria. But I'm guessing this dude is probably 5'8 or no more than 5'10. Everyone that keeps downvoting me is basing their opinion on nothing but a hunch. We criticize women who cha…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:22 AM
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Look at his before pictures. He wasn't a total twig. He had a bit of muscle there to begin with. And he was 203 pounds when he was fat. That points to him being a short dude. Remember newbie gains are magical. You can gain muscle just about as easily in newbie gains when you're cutting vs when you're not. So that with his diet being consistent and on point, probably being short, and being very tan and oiled up, leads to that being achievable. He's not a mass monster, he just has great proportion…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:16 AM
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Thank you. Someone with reason. If you look at his before pictures, he actually has a decent amount of muscle there. Some dudes are gifted with some natural muscularity to begin with. I know I've never naturally had muscles, I was a skinny-fat twig. All he had to have done is have a diet that is absolutely on point, lift without exception, and get incredibly tan. And be lucky with genetics, and be short. If this dude was 6'5 I would definitely be screaming 'roids.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:11 AM
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Yes it is achievable. This dude looks to be pretty short. That is a major factor on how big he's going to look. And the fact that he's super tan, and at 6 percent body fat. 18 months of newbie gains on a short frame, with a diet that is on point, can achieve this. If you saw him in person, he might look a lot smaller. It's the fact this his body fat is so low and he's so tan. And probably short.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:04 AM
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How tall are you? I figure this dude is very short, because he was 'overweight' at 203lbs. And if you look at his before pictures, it actually looks like he had a decent amount of natural muscle. He was no stick. That with the fact that his diet was on point, and he's super fucking tan now, I'd say this is perfectly achievable.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:00 AM
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HELL yeah. This pumped me up so much. Good for him, and good that he didn't even think of taking back his ex. Now she's oogling at him on the news. Brb hitting the gym.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:54 AM
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Girls use meaningless phrases like that all the time. Wouldn't NOT gangbang cheating on her boyfriend make her who she is today as well?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 01:08 PM
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Jesus. The real issue is never at hand. Guy's gf has questionable behavior/lies, the first thing that gets discussed is how the guy is at fault for not trusting her, or what way he went about finding out what she was up to. It completely ignores the issue in the first place, and it begs the question: if I start to not trust my girl, and then I find out she was cheating on me, how could I be wrong for not trusting her in the first place? "Well yeah, your suspicions were right, but you had no busi…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 12:36 PM
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You shouldn't judge her on her past. Her past is her past. It made her who she is today. She will never cheat again, unless she wants to cheat again, at which point she won't cheat again, and after that you shouldn't judge her on her past. It made her who she is today. She will never cheat again, unless she wants to cheat again, at which point she won't cheat again, and after that you shouldn't judge her on her past. It made her who she is today. She will never cheat again, unless she wants to c…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 12:22 PM
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Notice how the issue isn't her lying, it's that he didn't trust her enough. It seems like girls always want to be gifted trust without ever earning it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 12:04 PM
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The biggest thing girls will take from this is "J Law said being fat is okay, so I'm fat and it's OK." Which is hilarious because Jennifer Lawrence only has a round chubby face, and has a great, skinny body. They will never be as fit as she, but they will rationalize their terrible fitness.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 11:37 AM
1

Wtf does 'independent' even mean anymore?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 11:23 AM
1

I'm fine with sluts, as long as you are honest, aren't manipulative, and make a somewhat decent effort at being grounded. If you use sex as a way of making yourself feel better than others, you're a shitty person. If you lie to yourself and to guys with bullshit "I just want something real, I'm looking for the one!," you're a shitty person. If you cheat, you're a shitty person. What I cannot understand is that some people just can't be decent people while having lots of sex. What's wrong with ha…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 08:09 PM
1

Love Patrice. Too much truth it hurts.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 02:33 AM
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I'M NO EXPERT. But yeah, that's what I've noticed. Except for cases of insecure jealousy with other guys, I think you should be able to plainly state your feelings in a rational, adult manner. Show your confidence by not being afraid to express your feelings and communicate. Don't consider it a weakness and it shouldn't be. Having the confidence to show some vulnerability should actually be a sign of higher maturity and confidence sometimes.
/r/seduction26/12/13 09:00 PM
10

Reveal your insecurities, but don't pout about them. Own up to them like a man. I am no super cool alpha male, but I'm discovering that it's cool as long as you don't act like you're a freak. "Yeah, I fucking cry when my dog dies. It just gets to me.". Instead of 'ugh well, UM, this might make me sound weak but I'm, yeah I think dogs dying are kind of sad. I mean not really, but yeah." Get to the point of how you feel without hesitation, be calm about it, and without apology. I think sometimes i…
/r/seduction26/12/13 03:37 PM
1

Ugh yeah man this is on the top of my list to work on. Not shying away from awkwardness. Living in the unknown awkwardness and pushing through it until you make it out okay. I try to avoid it and fill in pauses or change the subject. That is not sexy.
/r/seduction09/12/13 08:20 AM
3

This might be vague, and it's basically just inner game, but I would have from the start worked on being authentic. What I mean by that is doing things differently because I don't think my real self and my real feelings will be accepted. To stop putting on masks. "Oh I'll act like this guy to this girl. I'm insecure in my real personality so I'll fake being a dick for fear of being taken advantage of. Oh, I can't say no to hanging out with this girl even though I'm having fun hanging out with my…
/r/seduction09/12/13 08:16 AM
3

Do you have any good games/tricks to play with yourself to stop from nervously filling in silence? For example with maintaining eye contact, someone suggested playing a game of studying the eye color of every person they talk to. And is there more to knowing how often/when to pause to force a girl to have to contribute to the discussion back?
/r/seduction09/12/13 08:06 AM
1

And STOP LAUGHING TO FILL SILENCE. Jesus I do this way too often "pause after amusing thought: HEH!" URGH. There can't be many things more unsexy than being unable to handle tension and to have to fill the silence with small chuckles. Be your authentic self--if something makes you laugh, laugh. If something isn't funny enough to make you laugh, don't laugh for the sake of it.
/r/seduction09/12/13 08:03 AM
1

So you've used that approach and it worked for you?
/r/seduction22/11/13 02:01 AM
25

Maybe you think I'm saying something that I'm not. My point is that just because you find her extremely attractive, it doesn't mean that she views herself how highly YOU think of her. All in all, my point is just to not put anyone on a pedestal, especially when you think that sometimes deep down inside girls themselves think it's not warranted for them to be that highly regarded.
/r/seduction22/11/13 01:58 AM
54

I went out with a girl that had recently lost a lot of weight, and before I knew that I was wondering why such a sexy girl was going out with me. I think the importance of this is that, though she may be extremely hot, she may not know it yet.
/r/seduction22/11/13 12:03 AM
5

I'm not saying it isn't their fault, it's just that they lose more in the deal. We lose out on easy sex in our 20s. They lose out on having kids and a good lifelong partner in their 30s. IMO, the latter is a lot more high stakes. In that regard I think we could say we as men get the better end of the deal.
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:10 AM
1

But that doesn't tell why exactly they can't date younger like men can.
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:05 AM
4

What this article portrays though is that when it comes to settling down with someone, it isn't equal. Men in their 30s date younger and have plenty of years of fertile seed, and women in their 30s try to date guys who are dating girls younger than them. To simplify, men have more time and a greater chance to find a lifelong partner, whereas women get screwed in that regard (again, and exaggerated simplification). As hard as it can be sometimes to date girls as a guy in his 20s, I would much rat…
/r/seduction26/10/13 01:55 AM
1

What I don't fully understand about this, is why can't women date younger too? Which reason is it? Is it because for men, looks (and connection?) are more important than income and status (we are comfortable being 35 and dating a cute, nice undergraduate girl?)? Is it because younger men are less likely to want to date older women than women are to date older men? Because that seems like the one upper hand that men have, is that men have the option of dating younger, and women don't, which I wis…
/r/seduction26/10/13 01:33 AM
1

I just looked James Marshall up. He definitely has a great, relaxed style. Although the dude is very good looking, so I don't know how much that comes into play.
/r/seduction25/10/13 11:37 PM
1

But don't you want to hook up with any female friends you have that are attractive?
/r/seduction25/10/13 11:20 PM
3

When there is a small lull in conversation and you remain steady in that silent moment, are you making eye contact with her? Are you smiling at her, emoting nothing at all, or casually glancing off?
/r/seduction25/10/13 11:05 PM
2

Same here with the silence. I'm not always confident enough to stay steady and hold silence in conversation. There is something sexy about being able to hold that tension. You can see the small bit of sexual tension here when there's silence. As opposed to "OH SHIT ITS QUIET FLDOGPGKRBDUJDBD SO....... UHHHHHH".
/r/seduction25/10/13 11:03 PM
2

Yeah, but girls don't have a lot of venues for good advice. We all know Cosmo magazine fills their head with awful ideas. Some girls are awful at picking up guys. I think girls that are great at picking up girls have that amazing mind trick that progresses things with a guy but convinces the guy that it was him pulling the strings all along.
/r/seduction25/10/13 09:01 PM
1

Wait for advice from a more experienced guy(not me), but: I think she just wants you to be fun and not needy. Do not act like she is your girlfriend when you guys are with friends. Just have fun. And when you get her alone amp up the sexual tension and continue making moves and physically escalating. It sounds like you're going to crash and burn hard if you ignore her 'casual' request and catch deep feelings for her and push for a relationship. Focus on just keeping things fun. What I think migh…
/r/seduction25/10/13 08:39 PM
2

Of course these roles don't make sense. But you're wasting your time bitching about them. You just have to accept it, because however bullshit it is, it is not going to change in your or our lifetime. In any culture there are different general roles for men and women. Why shouldn't women keep their hair short and guys grow theirs long? It's a waste of time arguing against the unfairness of these genderdays roles. As unfortunate as it is, you can't change them, and you're not going to go anywhere…
/r/seduction17/10/13 09:24 AM
3

Do you mean they aren't signals? Because they aren't always. But he has a point. If you really listen and pay attention, often girls do make their interest known, they just don't verbalize it. However subtle they do it, they basically stick the tee in the dirt for you to place your ball and swing away. Yeah, I wasn't going for a sexual innuendo, but it happened, and I can't change the past even if the sentence was 5 seconds ago.
/r/seduction17/10/13 09:20 AM
5

It sucks, but it's just one of those cultural standards. Women grow out their hair, and guys make the first move. It's arbitrary, but you can question it all you want and it's not going to change. Accept your role or never be fully accepted into society.
/r/seduction17/10/13 09:16 AM
2

That does hurt. I tend to think though, that if a girl is that curt with you, you have to frame it as "I don't want to be with a girl that cunty anyway."
/r/seduction17/10/13 09:13 AM
5

That coupled with "you're way too short for me" is more than just "not tonight." That's her quickly going out of her way to reject him. Although if a girl is that mean to anyone, besides being a piece of ass, she is not someone who you should be associating with.
/r/seduction17/10/13 09:11 AM
2

Keep working out. That's great. I go to the gym all the time now. What I've learned though is that being in great shape is only one portion of being attractive. Keep working out your personality as well, your beefcake physique only gets your foot in the door.
/r/seduction17/10/13 09:07 AM
8

Why is completely italicized? Did you say it in sort of a teasing sarcastic way?
/r/seduction17/10/13 08:57 AM
17

That's a great story, although both of you are insane.
/r/seduction17/10/13 08:54 AM
1

I wish I could get back to this. I feel like a few years ago when I didn't have very much self confidence and I didn't hit the gym, I had a charming sense of humor that included self deprecation. Now, I just don't have that. And I wish I had more moments when I found clever, charming ways to dig myself about something I did that gets the girl in on the laugh.
/r/seduction10/10/13 09:11 AM
1

Just curious, how tall are you?
/r/seduction10/10/13 09:07 AM
2

This is just a micro anecdote. But I used to work in a restaurant with 100 employees. By far and away the most gorgeous girl working there (movie star gorgeous--she looks like a BETTER version of Jessica Biel) was the nicest, most down to Earth girl working there. So many average to ok girls that work there with nasty, stuck-up, annoyed personalities, or nothing resembling a personality at all.
/r/seduction10/10/13 06:35 AM
8

She has a unique perspective. Lots of people talk about how certain people are privileged, but not all of them come from the point of view of the privileged, and from the standpoint that they acknowledge that they are getting an unfair amount of advantages. Most of these talks are very short, so she was probably only allotted 10 minutes. That's not a lot of time to go super in depth, especially since you have to introduce yourself and plant the base of your perspective. I'm sure if she had more …
/r/seduction10/10/13 06:28 AM
2

Guaranfuckingteed she's ONLY interested because he didn't respond. Maybe it's because I've had very bad luck lately, but so many girls can act just like this and be aggressively chatty, but the moment you change the momentum and you talk to her back like she's talking to you, BAM, all interest on her part falls off the table. This is the textbook girl who has been chased all of her life so she acts borderline crazy when you don't chase her.
/r/seduction06/10/13 07:00 AM
12

Fantastic. Some of the REALEST inside you could give. What I took away from it, is it's not that hard. What you did was portray having balls and being in the moment, and being forward. Meaning mostly just commenting on what you see in real time. Using your natural, spontaneous personality, but confident and unwavering.
/r/seduction01/10/13 06:53 AM
9

"The rest is history!"
/r/seduction29/06/13 11:23 PM
7

This is what I needed to read today. I do a lot of thinking for girls. If it's a girl I regularly see, if I get great IOI's one day, that gets completely overwritten if she appears on my head to not be very warm the next day. I need to assume attraction at all times anyway, but if I get IOI's at any point I need to not second guess that when it's not obvious.
/r/seduction22/10/12 02:00 AM
1

Where did you test this? Did you test it in a classroom or public transit type setting like the OP suggests, or did you just walk up to girls on the street?
/r/seduction05/10/12 06:22 PM
3

Great project man. I see no way that this doesn't lead to more connections or even friends.
/r/seduction09/04/11 03:55 AM
4

She obviously meant that is in she was regularly doing that with her ex boyfriend. Just like when someone says they're seeing someone they are not saying that they are literally seeing someone at that very moment.
/r/seduction04/04/11 11:38 PM
3

I struggle with this at times. I need to find a balance because sometimes I take it too far and just come off as a douche. If anyone has any tips for us please enlighten.
/r/seduction04/04/11 11:35 PM
-1

The sarcasm isn't warranted. He was making a point that even having no money shouldn't hold you back.
/r/seduction03/04/11 04:11 AM
1

Ok then that's what I'm going to plan to do thanks. I think to do that but I always get paranoid that any significant time gap between that date Thursday and another is going to stop any momentum. But I guess that convo killed momentum as well. Baby stuff but I'm still learning.
/r/seduction08/02/11 05:50 PM
1

Read the edit.
/r/seduction29/01/11 04:07 AM
1

*Read the edit.
/r/seduction29/01/11 04:01 AM
1

I just don't even... dammit.
/r/seduction28/01/11 03:14 AM
1

This is somethingI fail at sometimes. I'll go a bit overboard on the cocky-funny and come off as a douche. It takes real confidence to be nice while confident.
/r/seduction27/01/11 05:51 AM
1

Lol--I do work out. Honestly I'm in pretty good shape (although I'm cutting for the summer soon) and I am pretty confident physically--I don't believe myself to be a stunner in terms of looks but I'm 6'4, hold my head up high, and exude a pretty good level of security. BUT--starting to workout a year and a half ago was a major step to being more confident. So, that's the thing. I shouldn't have anything holding me back--I'm good looking (or good looking enough), and have a pretty good personalit…
/r/seduction26/01/11 08:51 PM
5

I just read this, and I am up for the challenge. I am posting something either tomorrow or the day after tomorrow. If I pussy out and do absolutely nothing, then I will even make a post about that, although I don't want to do that. I'm going to show up early to campus tomorrow, or go to the mall after classes, but of course keeping my eyes open at school. My goal is to get rejected.
/r/seduction26/01/11 01:01 AM
3

WTF is a super bowl final? Are you Japanese?
/r/seduction28/12/10 10:49 PM
1

No one should downvote a female perspective. However, I'm interested in knowing why you would reject a guy that said something like that playfully.
/r/seduction08/12/10 03:53 AM
1

Maybe in her mind she's thinking "well I'll see him often anyways, might as well get to know him a bit." Honestly as a guy I think I might think the same way as well. Like, there are cute girls in my classes that I don't feel rushed into asking for their numbers, because I'm going to be seeing them anyway--so it's almost pointless and maybe even awkward. Casually asking to get something to eat after your workout is the way to go.
/r/seduction08/12/10 03:51 AM
1

It may be all on your whiny friends, but be careful. Maybe you are coming off as a bit of a douche when you think you're just being fun and confident. Sometimes when I make an effort to exude alpha confidence, and only realize later that I was coming across as an asshole. IDK how you act or what you say so there man be no problem there--but be mindful about how you may be perceived by others.
/r/seduction08/12/10 03:19 AM
3

Honestly, in my experience, a "crush" comes from feeling initial interest, then not doing anything about it for too long, leading to you putting the pussy on the pedestal. If you've let it get to the point of having a crush, you've waited too long. Damn, great comment. I have never thought about this and I realize now not making a move early on will actually ultimately make it harder to make a move.
/r/seduction18/11/10 04:23 AM
8

It's not on until she actually shows up next week, if it's guaranteed she will.
/r/seduction27/10/10 02:23 AM
1

This is something that needs to be preached more often. It seems like dudes go by the book way way way too much and they're concerned they're not concealing their personality enough. It's so bad that I saw a FR on here where the guy fucks the HB but still questioned whether he "gamed" her enough. This seduction business needs to be about being a more confident and direct you, not molding your every action to "what a PUA would do."
/r/seduction15/10/10 03:20 AM
1

For me, kinda the eyebrows. If I don't pluck them or make some effort to get them under control, I don't look nearly as good as if I do. Them bushy uni-fuckers need to be tamed.
/r/seduction10/10/10 02:45 PM
1

Recommend any kind/brand?
/r/seduction10/10/10 02:44 PM
1

Just tease him sometimes. I think negs work just as well on guys. It shows you have a good sense of humor and it will definitely keep him on edge a bit.
/r/seduction06/10/10 03:49 AM
-1

I bet. Groooooss fifty year olds. Sarcasm. I'm interested in knowing the mindset of someone who is in his fifties but won't consider those his age. Do you not have wrinkles and sagging breasts as well old man?
/r/seduction05/10/10 05:24 AM
1

I really don't know how you should reel her in now man. Do what you want now when it comes to that. But really man, you should move on. Talk to other girls. Is this girl really worth pining for, or do you want her back because you think it's more convenient than building a relationship from scratch with another girl?
/r/seduction24/09/10 07:05 AM
2

Ideally you would have gotten a 'haha' but I think that text should work if there's still a shot. Be patient. Hopefully if there's something still there she will be wondering what's up with you. Maybe even wait more than 3 days. At this point, probably the best option would be to absolutely let her text you next, but obviously please do whatever you think will work because this game isn't universal...
/r/seduction15/09/10 06:56 PM
-2

With my type of humor, in that situation I would try to make fun of the whole gym scene by being very sarcastically cocky-funny: "Ohhhh my aching biceps...the pump is too....strong! I bet I could baaarely do 1,000 more pullups..." I think this would make you seem confident and funny, while communicating that you aren't like any of the other apparently self-centered, vain bodybuilders in the gym.
/r/seduction15/09/10 06:14 AM
2

If you hook her in with an intriguing or humorous question, and you respond to her response with something that makes her laugh, then completely cease texting her at that moment, it will automatically drive her nuts and have you on her mind. I texted a girl I hadn't talked to for a few months. As this was in my pre-alpha male/confidence stage, her attraction for me dwindled and I ultimately fucked up. But this worked absolutely beautifully. This is how it went: Me: Whaddup how you doin'? Her: Lo…
/r/seduction15/09/10 06:06 AM
1

Good way of looking at it. I honestly think I have the attitude now that there is something wrong with a girl who wouldn't like me.
/r/seduction15/09/10 05:52 AM
4

Daffodils are preferred.
/r/seduction15/09/10 05:50 AM
3

I think the problem might be that you're not being yourself. If you were confident before, keep that up and don't change yourself. Don't ever think "OK, what would the seduction advise me to do next?" Take the good life lessons that communities like Seddit actually often give, but don't formulate your interactions with women so much. Let your natural strengths and personality do their thing whilst keeping your confidence.
/r/seduction15/09/10 05:47 AM
1

It's cool. The wording just sounded a bit funny.
/r/seduction14/09/10 04:22 AM
3

Need to remember this book name.
/r/seduction14/09/10 04:16 AM
2

I'm far from a feminist (I'm a dude) but I'm kind of shocked at your objectification of women by describing them as higher or lower quality. Jesus man. We're not shopping for leather furniture here. Are they "lower quality" because of their looks? Damn. They're people, not plastic dolls.
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:55 AM
1

I know this works, because I've unintentionally used it with success with girls as a defense mechanism when I had no confidence. I would pretend to think of them and treat them as my "bro" because I didn't think they would like me and that way it wouldn't give them the satisfaction of having another guy unrequited like her. The funny thing is, this tactic spawned from my own lack of confidence actually made me attract those girls; It drove them nuts when they thought I was putting them in the fr…
/r/seduction09/09/10 01:46 PM
1

Don't listen to them it wasn't gay at all. It's all in the way you say it. It may seem lame reading it in text form, and even if it was lame in real life that seems like it was kind of the point: it was just a goofy little thing to make her laugh. And it did make her laugh. Don't listen to the douchy "always act and talk macho" bullshit. You can be fun and a bit goofy, as long as you're confident doing it and in the process making making her laugh.
/r/seduction01/09/10 02:27 AM
5

Hmm. I'm not sure you should come off that uptight. You can still stand your ground but I don't think you should come across like what she did really got to you. Give you a humorous sort of warning but in a way that it's clear you're setting the rules?
/r/seduction09/07/10 05:10 AM
1

Good work man. This goes back and forth 2 or 3 times until I decide to pull away all together and make her come to me. What specifically did you mean here? What did you do?
/r/seduction09/07/10 05:07 AM
4

Hey man, try to not overthink. I'm an overthinker myself. I thought a girl LJBF'd me when at one period she'd say "I love you!" every once in a while. Turns out she did like me, and she probably said that because she didn't think I was into her like that, and it was maybe a kind of defense mechanism like when you think you're in the friend zone with a girl so you try to assert that you are choosing to put her in the friend zone. Idk if you know what I'm talking about but pay attention to this: F…
/r/seduction05/07/10 05:58 PM
11

This is more advice for what to do in a relationship than how to pick up guys.
/r/seduction21/06/10 02:01 PM
2

That would be great dude. It would give the girls a chance to laugh and talk about all the common douchebag pickup attempts they encounter all the time while admiring you for being above all that junk.
/r/seduction18/06/10 07:26 PM
4

Don't mind the douches that call BS on this. A man has the potential to pull off something like this. Even if it is fake, it motivates me like hell and I realize shit like this is possible.
/r/seduction18/06/10 06:45 AM
1

Same thing here, although I fixate it on the big big picture like this: "do you want your future son's father to be a pussy?" Do you want your manly seed to grow up and realize his dad is a quitting little bitch that doesn't want to follow through or take risks? Well do ya punk?
/r/seduction18/06/10 06:28 AM
3

Losing losing losing losing losing losing losing. 'Loose' is never a verb. It's merely an adjective. I am sorry I am not trying to scold you but if you only knew how much this surprisingly common misspelling BUGS the hell out of me.
/r/seduction18/06/10 06:22 AM
1

Man I've been like you on and off--thinking I actually prefer being alone. But once you start talking to people you will get a taste for it and it'll come to the point where you naturally do it and naturally enjoy it. Of course you still may want your alone time here and there. But you have to try to get a taste for talking to people.
/r/seduction18/06/10 06:19 AM
4

http://imgur.com/QjXlT Use that and make it happen. I'm no wallpaper expert like you but it does seem that would look a lot better.
/r/seduction18/06/10 06:13 AM
2

Fuck yeah. Fuck.
/r/seduction18/06/10 06:10 AM
1

I'm gonna guess confidently that it's pre-written.
/r/seduction10/05/10 08:12 PM
2

"You can talk about how good auto-asphyxiation is until you're blue in the face" Oh. My. God. LMAO.
/r/seduction10/05/10 08:00 PM
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