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Unfortunately, a huge part of my job is networking and acting important. So I have to use FB and LinkedIn to keep in touch with people. That said, here are some tips. Firstly, you have to consider it a self-updating contact book, not a source of entertainment or news. I have 1,800 friends and over 2,000 LinkedIn contacts. On FB, as soon as someone adds me or I add someone, I immediately unfollow. Out of my 1,800 friends, I get status updates from my sister, girlfriend, best friend and 2-3 other …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 04:09 PM
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Ever heard of the Dutch Survivor inadvertent gender experiment?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 08:00 PM
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I always try to stress this to my fiancé. Excuses and intentions are, after a point, just worthless - all that matters is results.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 03:34 PM
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This is a great comment, its really insightful, thanks. I love the fact that she makes me feel like the King, even though I know its a game. :)
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 10:26 PM
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The hardest part for me is simply that loving a woman like before is impossible; there is no mystery or wonder to anything at all anymore. Like I can hear my fiancé say "I love you" but I know it means "I think I love you because I know you have resources and can lead me..." Its a bit like reading a novel and deconstructing everything - it loses its poetic value. Faced with such a stark reality, its no wonder...
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 07:37 PM
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You sound close minded and set in your ways, both as it regards RP and men in general. Must be of the same faith Must be alpha Must be OK with military spouse Must.... Must.... I don't think you really tried, at all. RP is a state of mind, not a state of affairs. You are using career and family obligations to justify not trying. I am not stunning in looks or grace, but certainly not ugly With all of your constraints, you've basically priced yourself out of the market. Consider: common values are…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 03:40 PM
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Im actually never going to get "married" according to the letter of the law's default parameters which are not man-friendly, though I suppose that's another discussion - how to actually get married properly.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:31 PM
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Not really if you put in the ground work. By the time you're married, you should already be in charge of the funds and spending decisions. I actually give my fiancé an allowance out of our combined incomes, and it fluctuates on what other pressing items require funds (repairs, clothes, etc.) Her disposable is about 20-30% of her take home. She can spend it on whatever she wants, I don't ask and I don't care. For bigger items, she puts in a request and I take it under advisement. I often say no. …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:04 PM
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If you have a significant other, use his network too. My lady is a complete introvert, when I met her she had 1-2 friends she saw irregularly. I recognized the need for her to get out more, be more confident, etc., and connected her with 2-3 women extroverted women I knew. I also try to take her out when I visit my married friends so she can meet their wives. She always hates going but loves being there.. ("it makes me nervous, I dont wanna go..." to "that was fun we should visit them more often…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 05:49 PM
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I'm hitting my mid 30s and career is starting to pay off in a crazy way. I did have a small periods of promiscuity in my 20s but always kept the main focus on financials, improving life, etc. I noticed as it regards the girl game, if I wanted to now, I could outscore my 20-29 year old self with about 5% of the effort. I have girls hitting me up on LinkedIn for coffee, FB asking if I've settled down, etc. I look way worse now because I don't even have time to lift more than 2-3x a week for 20-30m…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 05:40 PM
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Makes a lot of sense. Im in my 30s and honestly, if I tried any of that Neil Mystery Jeffries stuff today, I couldn't sell it and it would not work. Just value + authenticity get me more vag throws than I can handle. No need to "game" up you value anymore if you did your homework. And there's no need to brag, if you need to brag, it`s automatically bad game. Just be high value, and because 80-85% of people are mediocre, you stand out. I don't see myself walking around asking girls if "they belie…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 06:08 PM
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This past election, I basically blogged on FB once a week analyzing both trump and hillary campaigns - what each did good and bad. I lost 38 out of 700 friends, and a few of them told me it was because I kept posting "pro trump propaganda". So I got unfriended because I simply pointed out, in my opinion, areas where Trump was outcampaigning Clinton. For example, one post compared how many campaign stops made in rust belt states (and Trump was up like 20:1). It was entirely factual. Got deleted a…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 06:02 PM
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Sad part is, about 45 seconds after the wall gets passed, they wake up and realize all these things they were told to aspire to, well, they do jack shit for their happiness.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 05:59 PM
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If you like old shows, check out I Dream of Genie.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 06:57 PM
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Well, of course its positive, but it may not be because of feminism. Its just because the population in this case is women. Literally every single girl I've slept with (20+) enjoyed rough sex. I'll let the guys with 50+ and triple digits chime in, but I doubt their experience is different. If you want to measure it, you'd have to compare the frequency of this kink in women who do and don't identify as feminists. My guess is that feminism in and of itself is not a correlating variable. In my case…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 03:09 PM
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Great point. I need to review non-holiday activities now.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 04:41 PM
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and my power rack, installed right in my home office so I can lift during all the boring conference calls. Nothing like double dipping on time.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 04:41 PM
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sounds a lot like me, I tell people that life is nothing but gray areas, and that if it were all black and white, robots would have replaced us already. also, about success, great point. I repeat this lesson to my staff quite often.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 04:06 PM
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Correct answer.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 03:48 PM
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Never say never. I'm quite centrist, could be a fiscal Democrat or a Rockefeller Republican. My girlfriend was a raging liberal near-communist when she met me. As life went on and things came up, I gave her a lot of perspectives she never had, nor would have gotten in her previous Ivory Tower liberal friends group. I never tell her how to vote, but I've noticed a change. The reality is, you can be compassionate and support a social safety net and still be RP. But a lot of progressive or non-cons…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 03:42 PM
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Never say never. I'm quite centrist, could be a fiscal Democrat or a Rockefeller Republican. My girlfriend was a raging liberal near-communist when she met me. As life went on and things came up, I gave her a lot of perspectives she never had, nor would have gotten in her previous Ivory Tower liberal friends group. I never tell her how to vote, but I've noticed a change. The reality is, you can be compassionate and support a social safety net and still be RP. But a lot of progressive ideas are b…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 03:42 PM
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Every man has the capacity to be both. What determines the path a man takes is a combination of circumstance, knowledge, nurturing, luck, etc. If you have a pack of 2 male and 3 female dogs, Male dog A will be alpha. If he get hit by a truck, his Male Dog B steps up and assumes alpha. A new dog appears and likes the 3 other female dogs, he goes through the "game" with the new alpha and wins, Dog B goes back to beta. We're not that different. Don't forget, in those tough times, even if you "lost"…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 06:03 PM
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Its 2016. The technology exists.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 12:32 PM
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Indeed; more sad is that it has no actual end. All there is, is either death, or a point at which you say "enough enlightenment" and choose to continue with the delusions that you have in the present. The only change, really, is how much pain and loneliness you want to go through to have "better" delusions than you used to. For example, RP itself is a delusion. It is a man-made label that collects a bunch of concepts for application. In that application, you find you are further along this path.…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 07:09 PM
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She misses it sometimes but she realizes that the road to enlightenment has a cost, the further along you go, the more lonely it gets.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 01:08 AM
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My girlfriend (basically wife in all but name) evolved into an RPW during the decade she has been with me, and she tried to reconnect with old college+university her friends after 10+ years, because she had found that her soc. In university she was much more pro-fem and all that package that comes with naivete of youth. 10 years on, her friends stayed in the same entrenched positions, most of them are unhappy, 3/4 divorced, and she found the experience hollow. She told me they seem like big chil…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 08:44 PM
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Maybe, but it could also mean he's totally immature and a man child. It's tough to say.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 08:41 PM
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why on Earth would you pick that handle, out of curiousity?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 07:02 PM
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one girl seriously asked me to pull hair and choke her (I did), be rough, and bite her hard enough on the back to draw blood (I didnt) while in taking her from the back, and to slap her face while from the front. She scratched me so hard I had marks on my back that were worse than the marks I get from squatting 4 plates. The rougher I got, the more she loved it. I just rolled with it, afterwards I asked her about it, since she was raised by strict German parents and was the absolute definition o…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 03:14 PM
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Damn. That is some black belt level "cut through the rationalizing bullshit" right there. Have my upvote, sir.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 03:17 PM
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Great post. I have to admit the repair+tools thing is so true. I am not a "hands on" type of guy, but I think any man who is arsed enough can perform some basic repair and odd job tasks. My g-f respects my ability to train her at the gym, dictate the schedule, and lead the finances (she once asked me if she could just give me her paycheques and I give her an allowance and manage the rest) and be the boss. But she never saw me use tools. Why would she? I lived in a condo before, and I did no main…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 09:07 PM
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Yeah, but a key difference is, American girls won't bullshit you and say "culture is important" and all that. They'll straight up tell you they are gold diggers first, and culture purists second. Chinese will act like culture is a big deal, but that goes out the window if you got $. BTW, Seoul_Brother, I dated a girl from Busan soon after the Chinese one and I also got well acquainted with Korean culture. No yellow fever at all, just happened to have sampled a good variety of oriental women by s…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 04:55 PM
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My first girlfriend in college was Chinese. I was a poor student at the time. She left me because her parents "wanted her to date a Chinese person". The next guy she met after me was 11 years older than us and was making $100,000 a year as an engineer. They told her to marry him. He was not Chinese. During the time we dated, I had spent a lot of time with her family and friends, who were all Chinese. It was through these events I realized 2 things about Chinese culture. 1) It's racist as hell 2)…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 03:08 PM
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He did learn. But it took him another try as well (Marla)
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 06:54 PM
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Ok Nicolay. You can go ahead and apply your rigid computer program logic to life. It's cool. I'll be over here living though. Maybe the discussion will inform people who are actually willing to read and learn.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 05:39 PM
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Trump never overtly said men are better. What he said is that civilization hasn't removed evolutionary influences. Which is exactly what RP Says.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 05:35 PM
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I dont know if I would frame it as "supremacy". I would just say men and women should have equal rights but should also be free to express the natural inclinations of the gender. I'd say a submissive wife isn't "inferior" to her dominant husband, she's just expressing her aspect of humanity. "Men are better than women" and all that is anger phase type stuff. At some point you need to get past that to function in a society.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 02:25 PM
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Friend zone is great for men. I put girls in it all the time. Its like my own little queue in case my girlfriend doesn't work out. She both loves and hates the fact that it exists for me. Loves it because the alpha tingles. Hates it because my gf is RP as heck and knows what women will do to each other and how little loyalty they have, being a woman herself.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 07:54 PM
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great job, now get a new t-shirt before we all barf.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 03:15 PM
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If you dont have someone to guide you, it is maybe 3 or 4 times longer to go through the process. I am speaking from experience here. Being raised with a more or less useless dad and a mom who was not really versed in masculinity (no fault of her own) vs other boys my age with "solid dads", I feel in my mid-30s I am still playing catch up in some respects because I went through all this before the Internet was so prevalent and learned it all through trial and error. I would say most American mal…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:41 PM
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My facebook profile has 721 friends. I think my feed contains the activity of less than 10 of them. Facebook is a self-updating rolodeck, nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 01:13 AM
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That's because we do other things beside pick up girls. For the record, I did the full time girls thing for the an entire summer and I approached 400 women and took home 20 girls in 4 months with rudimentary knowledge of the game, purple pill conditioning and 18% body fat (5 per month, in case your calculator ran out of batteries). So I'll return to my original statement, Mystery isn't that impressive in terms of actual game. He's impressive in how much he made off the idea of game. Notwithstand…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 09:04 PM
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The game was a great read but you should do some basic math in order to understand how over-rated game in general is. Go find the page where Mystery is advertising his bed for sale with a list of the girls he's banged in it. It's 10 or 11 girls. Now, if you spent 4 months in LA doing nothing but pick-up and you had any kind of skill, you should be doing a little better than 2.5 girls a month. Even if he shagged a few at their place, those numbers are not that impressive. As for Neil, to me he'S …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:09 PM
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US is better if you make a lot of money. Canada is better if you make little or average money. How much do doctors make? There's your answer. I know tons of Canadian doctors who have moved south, btw.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 06:54 PM
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Socialism always starts out nicely but eventually crumbles under its weight as the best minds leave and go get paid for their just rewards, while the dregs stick around and try to ride out the remaining prosperity as long as possible.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 06:52 PM
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great post. work in finance, totally agree. when I was coming up I would avoid all these events by telling my boss "You aint payin me 6 figures." One day he started to, and now I go. Im actually posting this from a work function at 7:00 PM on a Friday night.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 11:45 PM
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This is genetic bro. Its a reason among many that explains why two guys who juice the same cycle get different results.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:34 PM
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Ok and? What % were male? Margaret Thatcher's existence doesn't disprove the patriarchy.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 10:33 PM
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The chief was always a man. That's enough said.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:33 PM
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Buffalo (bison) meat is also delicious.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:32 PM
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You're young, man. The big city is a big lie. I met a great girl there and pulled her out as soon as I could.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:28 PM
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I once helped a Korean girl get into university and got a thank you fuck. I didnt talk to her for a year, went to her town, called her, got a fuck that night. I didnt talk to her for another year, she came to my town to visit her new boyfriend who lived nearby. She told him she was having coffee with an old friend, stepped out, came to my place. I got another fuck. She literally came over, fucked, and left. He thinks she is a manga princess angel unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:25 PM
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If my girlfriend's friends told her to break up with me, she would cut them off (Without me telling her to). Lately I was house-shopping and my girlfriend called her mom for advice on a house I liked. Her mom disliked it. I told her I am going to make an offer on it anyway for (reasons her mom didn't appreciate). She sided with me. Its kind of important to find a loyal girl. Loyalty doesnt just mean not eating other dick, it means she follows your decisions to the best extent she can. This girl …
/r/askTRP16/12/15 07:11 PM
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In this way, women are simpler than men. The heart, for a man, is always behind another organ (Brain, stomach, dick, whatever). For a woman, you can strike at the heart immediately and without diversion. They are not like us.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:45 PM
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Have had it on since the feature was available. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 02:58 PM
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You're like the house with a weird feature. The bad seller hides it until the last minute and receives nothing but disappointments. The good seller promotes it so that only people truly interested come looking. Own your shit. There are tons of guys who are totally OK with a high-income wife, who are OK with using the 2nd income to generate familial wealth or to outsource domestic tasks, and who can think outside the box of the domestic housewife. Current girlfriend makes 25% of what I do, but be…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 05:58 PM
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You should have seen my girl's eyes when I told her: "You're just a vulnerable little girl, who's been looking all her life for her daddy."
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 02:35 PM
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what are we doing? You always sort it out. Women, in a nutshell.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 06:52 PM
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You're like 5 editions behind, but this is great. Havent played since 1996... but thumbed through the new books at the bookstore.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 10:06 PM
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My own father was pretty useless and even though my mother tried her best, I can say it was a massssive setback. I basically had to piece together a 'father' from various people I met or encountered in my studies and professionally.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 06:09 PM
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Sure but I think this is more about the sexual strategy theory than the legality. That is to say, as a criminal you get major alpha points for being edgy... its pure asshole cred. For girls this translates directly into AF potential (as stupid as it is.) Just a demonstration that for girls, sexual strategy is not logical, its purely subconscious and emotional. For men the best strategy to get sex is to give off AF signal.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 04:31 PM
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"k"
/r/askTRP16/11/15 03:51 PM
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America itself is quite diverse too. The internet has a major urban bias. OP: I feel like american women are groomed to be pampered by and basically have control over men while in europe that is not the case and women are more groomed to be more respectful towards men. Any thoughts? This is much more true for social-media-driven, uber-connected city girls. But there are tons of country bumpkins who prefer a more masculine type who can hunt, drives a pick-up, looks farmboy strong, etc.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 03:49 PM
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You need about 12 pounds more muscle to be ready for prime time. And by prime time I mean you can impress tinder girls used to dating 150-lb weaklings. To be impressive, it takes years.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 03:46 PM
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Yep. Lots of post-wall women pick up life-long thirsties and 30+ and live happily ever after, content in the knowledge that they got to sample the full suite of dongs, positions and fetishes before settling down with "Mr. Right." or "The one who finally treats me right". I'd say if a girl is a 8+ in her 20s, she will be a 5-7 in her 30s (depending on maintenance) and that's still more than enough. It doesn't always work, but it often works.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 03:41 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FozhZHuAcCs
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 04:20 PM
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3rd Wave feminism is full of self-loathing. Of not being content with one's true nature.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 03:48 PM
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Great insight. Anyway, I think it's missing The Shark. Beeline to target, either you get caught or you don't. 0 games, all business.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 03:45 PM
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It's probably part of the due diligence anyone should do. If he has a player past, it might be the kind of thing you need to know before deciding to go all-in, don't you think?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 04:29 PM
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Its actually a really good way to find an RP girl. RP girls have internalized the reality of their value and have started working to become something beyond just a basic bitch. I told my gf once. "Even if I end up weighing 300 pounds, I'll have an easier time getting sex at 40 than you'll have getting a commitment..." :)
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 04:27 PM
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I took Kratom once and my dick grew 2 inches.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 03:27 PM
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Selected to look young, too.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 03:17 PM
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I feel like its more realistic than nihilistic. Its possible to be happy in this world even with RP glasses on.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 03:16 PM
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A a smart businessman I would buy futures in Ova. Artificial womb, sure. But we still can`t make life with artificial gametes.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 03:21 PM
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I had this conversation with my girlfriend this morning... "I noticed girls leap out ahead of boys in terms of maturity near puberty, but by their mids 20s, I think boys pass ahead and leave girls behind." "Thats not true , bla bla bla, etc." "Who still gossips at 25 or 35, men or women?"
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 06:44 PM
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Great sentence. Once you internalize a lot of TRP, you appreciate women for what they are. Mothers, wives, girlfriends, whores, ruthless schemers, subtle, nuanced, sensitive and Machiavellian to the absolute core. By selecting the best males over thousands of generations, their prerogative has made us a better species. They're quite wonderful at what they do, if you think about it. If you grasp a rose expecting only pleasure, you are disappointed when the thorns prick you. If you know how to gra…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 06:40 PM
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Omar just wants to belong to something, anything. Its not unusual for us, its part of all of us. If his dad had just told him he disapproved of his homosexuality but was still there for him, 95% of this shit wouldn't be happening. Likewise, he probably doesnt even have any true friends. Others are just using him to confirm their own delusions. Believe it or not, being gay has no real impact on your ability to embrace masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:52 PM
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If ever a post needed cliffs, this would be the one.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 09:35 PM
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Honestly, even going from 20 to 15, you will feel a lot better.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:51 PM
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Looks look at the real cabinet. By this I mean positions which actually require competence and will impact government policy. Treasury Board : Man Foreign Affairs: Man Public Services : Woman Agriculture: Man Immigration: Man Finance: Man National Defense: Man Justice : Woman Natural Resources: Man Almost every other Minister has a responsibility that ultimately reports to one of these. International Trade--> Foreign Affairs. Revenue---> Finance. Im telling you, its a cynical ploy and its workin…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:51 PM
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Relax. Its a machiavellian scheme on his part. The real power will be in the hands of Chretien's old gang (all men) who will pull the strings. They'll be telling these women where to stand, when to smile, what to say. The Liberals understand one thing: Power. They have no other principles beyond acquiring and using power, by any means necessary.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 08:01 PM
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A lot of younger guys are starting to wise up fast.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 06:55 PM
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If I had that wife, I'd put her to work but make her give me her paycheque. I'd probably spin it like the act of working itself is below me, I'm here to govern/rule. You go do the "dirty work".
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 02:41 PM
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Men earn 5% of women on Instagram. We need an equality campaign. Oh wait, I've never voluntarily been to Instagram in my life...
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 02:30 PM
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Plates are not given exclusive commitment. In fact, one of the ways to earn a plate is, when asked to commit, to tell her to her face you're not exclusive and see if she keeps coming back. So its not cheating. AMALT indeed but thats not really the focus of TRP because we know what men want and need, since, well, we're men. But some of us have been sold a bad mating strategy and AWALT is missing in that information.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 08:12 PM
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Its OK bro, you dont need to frame around me. We can keep it real. :p
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 03:24 PM
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Its not RP truth, RP deals with sexual strategy. Its more, just, common sense. But its nice to see Rhonda has some. Feminism is for losers. What's a girl winner? A girl like Rhonda. Or a girl who accepts her nature and uses her soft power to get the best possible man to take care of her. Both of those will disavow feminism in a heartbeat.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 03:09 PM
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The bee and the flower need each other. To pretend otherwise is lunacy. Men need women as prizes. Women need men for completeness.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 03:08 PM
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David Cameron, confirmed cuckservative :p
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 03:05 PM
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A lot of RP wisdom has been articulated before. Nothing new under the Sun. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/All_the_world%27s_a_stage I believe every intellectually-inclined man should read classical literature.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 03:02 PM
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Sometimes a bro's gotta eat military rations, know what Im sayin'
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:57 PM
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Its flipped upside down. You survive on 'practice girls' now, until the rare well-raised one comes along. In some cases the best you can do is a reformed (I know, I know) slut!
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 06:21 PM
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Its funny but when I was in my early 20s, no girl I met would accept being in a 3 some, being a side piece, a sister wife, etc. Now that Im in my 30s with a stable g/f, I've casually joked around with quite a few women that the sidepiece / sisterwife position is open and a surprising amount seemed curious if not open to the idea. Even my g/f has told me that if I leave her, she's basically screwed as it will be impossible for her to find a better guy, and she'd rather keep me and let me do other…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 07:12 PM
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They suck at performance driving (racing, drifting, stunting) They outperform men at chore driving, because they are less distracted. Backed up by reams of actuarial data used by insurance companies. I drove sub-8:00 laps around the Nurburging in a 911. Happy to delegate the commute to my girlfriend while I read the news in the passenger seat.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 08:25 PM
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As you get older, all your heroes get exposed as scams. Neil Strauss / Mystery Method etc, seemed so fn cool when I was a young buck. Until Mystery posted an ad to sell his bed in LA where he listed the 10 women he had banged in the bed. And I thought - 10 women while picking up full time for 4 months? That's terrible. I've slept with at least 10 women who hit on me first ! There's no doubt he's just benefiting from statistics and being an approach machine, rather than actually having a lot of s…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 08:18 PM
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A worthy post, sir. It makes no one's life better, least of all the reader's, to sit here chortling at the trials and tribulations of another lost soul. Women are humans too, and they are, in many ways, on the same journey as us, to self-realization and enlightenment. For that reason we should empathize with anyone who is misled and fundamentally denied happiness (women do need a man to be happy). I truly emphatize with the alpha widows like Jennifer Aniston and the post-wall ex-CC riders who wa…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 08:15 PM
1

Always a solid assumption. Staying relevant beats getting a real job.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 05:01 PM
2

Instincts were largely developed for a more feral time. That is why those who correctly use intellect are almost always at an advantage today. Instinct: "Buy a corvette, show off to the ladies." Intellect: "Invest and use my instincts to identify value."
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 05:57 PM
6

One thing I found that helps is to actually own and interact with other animals (like dogs). If you can get on that instinctual level with them you learn a lot about your own nature as a beast. I personally think we are animals, but we are not just animals. That is to say we have everything animals have (instincts / the pack) but we also have a layer grafted on top of that (intellect / society). We need to operate on all levels to fully realize ourselves. Kinda beta admission: I used to be shy a…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 02:01 PM
6

As someone who competed in PLing, I will say SS is a great book for "novices" (as Rippetoe likes to say), and if you only read one book in your entire lifting life, it may as well be that one. However, it's a starting point and after 6-12 months most people need to get the fuck off the novice program and use what they've learned about their body to start experimenting and increasingly customizing for their own make-up. For example, I can tell you in more cases than not, axial loading of the spin…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 05:09 PM
1

"Question everything." - Mark Rippetoe.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 05:02 PM
1

Kratom is probably more effective.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 07:07 PM
2

Who has time to care about any of this shit
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:02 PM
3

I dunno man. There's something to be said for LTRing a palatable 7 and "renting" 9's. You get further ahead if you buy a Honda Accord in your youth and buy a track-day package than if you blow it all on a Ferrari.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:01 PM
19

Let's be honest - this is a low self-awareness creature , probably a low IQ one too. Probably the worst example of the breed, honestly. Is it another in a long series of AWALT demonstrations? Sure. But I'm not sure that's a totally representative sample of most women.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:52 PM
1

That's cool, but I'll continue to use the English language properly. You can continue to dislike it for whatever snowflake reason. Your suggestions with compound terms remind me of SJW neologisms and portmanteaus such as "mansplaining". "Morality agnostics" is probably the worst thing I've read on here in a year.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:43 PM
2

See my post in comments below, I added some more details to the story you might find amusing.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:42 PM
1

No, I get it. 1 example where I was "nice". A few examples where my friends were "assholes" Only thing that mattered: "Status". Nice or asshole is peanuts in comparison to being high status.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:37 PM
1

Finally someone who gets it.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:36 PM
2

Ok thanks I'll let him know people from reddit disagree with the meaningless title he has given himself :P By the way let me add to the story. She somehow sent out a message to her network of orbiters that she would be appearing on the No. 1's guys twitch and his viewership skyrockets. So not only did she stick to him like glue even if he was an asshole, she actually marshalled her army of betas to help him get viewers. Im not sure how twitch revenue works but I figure it made him some money for…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:35 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/FqsIxoU.jpg Yeah, it's not like she used her young, hot body and femme privilege to get ahead or anything.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 07:44 PM
-2

99% of TRP FR: "Im so alpha."
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 05:45 PM
8

I noticed my 3 LTRs all became more conservative, started voting for my political party, eating my diet, hitting the gym, adopting my opinions after 2-3 months. I wasn't preaching or anything, just being me. Girls indeed assume their place as an extension of a man's identity if given the opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 05:00 PM
26

Sons benefit from moms screening their girlfriends and showing them how to relate to women (but take advice on actually fucking girls from dad). daughters benefit from dad showing them exactly what kind of man they should marry (how many strippers have no fathers?). Really, you need a nucleus to raise a family. The traditional kind. So Im totally in agreement with you, upvoted.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 05:04 PM
2

Sublime line. Makes wading through all the usual "Im so alpha" FRs worth it.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:31 PM
12

TRP likes to say that only men love unconditionally, but I disagree. No one loves unconditionally, and that's a good thing I'm not a fan of that TRP edict. I think men sacrifice a lot of their imperative in an LTR, but no person loves unconditionally, imho.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 08:01 PM
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It's not impossible for a woman to consciously realize what her instincts are doing, and then consciously choose to remain loyal and steadfast because her word should mean something. We do this type of thing all the time when we stick to an LTR of 15+ years even though we could easily "trade up" for young pussy. It's just that this type of self-awareness in women is rarer than an honest lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 01:26 PM
4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94qGpJvLCkU
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/15 05:09 PM
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They care about different things. A girl will make major decisions quite easily about what house to buy, how to paint rooms, etc. This is the instinct to build a nest. Your job is to bring back food. "Where do you want to eat" is 2015's "What do you want me to hunt?". Imagine the absurdity of that question 5000 yrs ago. Well it's just as absurd today.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 03:38 PM
1

MacBeth is good too; listen to a woman about politics/ambition and get yourself killed. Because she had no plan for how to deal with the consequences after murder, just a short-sighted plan to seize power.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 03:36 PM
5

Yep, I read it in Grade 9 and I thank my lucky stars my English teacher left it in the curriculum. The other play we had was King Lear, which was RP as well as it regards the women manipulating their father for inheritance. Today it's ... Romeo and Juliet and Much Ado About Nothing. Learn to kill yourself over a girl and about cuckoldry. Great.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 03:34 PM
5

Its important to note that both the real Caesar and the real Mark Anthony were major alphas in their own right and both lost frame with Cleopatra. Caesar went to Egypt to annex it, and left having placed Cleopatra on the throne instead. She also conceived a son with him (BB). Antony went to Egypt after he was charmed by Cleopatra and became an enemy of the state he had won innumerable battles for. Might have been bitter that he had done 100x more than Octavian but Caesar left him nothing, but it…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 03:31 PM
3

Snape was supposed to be revered as some noble sacrificial stalwart, all I saw was a beta cucked by James (Harry's dad) and then raising James's son out of his "love" for Lily...
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:10 PM
1

The female term would be hypergyny. ... Polygyny/ Polyandry.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:07 PM
5

The 1950s with Internet?
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:13 PM
2

I never really got why people idolize these women; from my experience they're just as AWALTish as any American girl. When I started out my career, at 24, I met a russian girl (19) who was interning at our office. We also had a russian guy working with us who was attracted to her but kinda shy. So I asked her "if Artyom walked up to you right now and asked you out would you do it?" she said sure. I relayed the message, and he did it and they went out on a date. The next day she told me he would b…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:53 PM
1

Generally, these women had to build up value because the usual value wasn't given. Margaret Thatcher, another great example. In other words, they were 'made', just like men.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:48 PM
0

"______[OP]Female 3 points 10 hours ago Thank you. No more tinder - check. That's gonna be hard." LOLOLOL
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:25 PM
7

Be yourself is GREAT advice... believe it or not, most of us are suppressing our innate jerk! That's the problem.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:23 PM
3

great reply. as usual it comes down to doing it well and thoroughly.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 08:25 PM
10

I'm not as weary of automation as I am of being off-shored. Eventually I know virtual meetings, conference calls and online communities will make location irrelevant. My job requires social skills, experience and 7+ yrs of academic training. All of which can be learned by another human who lives in a cheaper area of the world. The factury jobs were the first to go. Harder labor jobs will go soon, too. Then the knowledge jobs. Then as governments feel the sting of lost tax revenues, government jo…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 08:19 PM
3

Most of the time, if weight loss is not coming from instrinsic motivation, it is going to fail. Maybe dread game can help stimulate that, though.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 10:17 PM
1

Yep, he's just playing the part (in real life) of the accessible alpha. Same as how hot actresses say stuff in interviews like 'I like a man with humor' yet never date a poor, funny guy.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:35 PM
2

Women are sexual objects. Men are status objects. Once people understand it, they can work with it. TRP is all about raising SMV through self-improvement, a main contributor to status. Chris Pratt himself applied some pretty TRP advice lately: http://i.imgur.com/3b10jsO.jpg
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:33 PM
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We often say on the other side, don't get advice on women from women. Because women don't date or marry other women. Same applies vice versa. I'm sure some men are able to put themselves in the shoes of a woman through empathy and perceptiveness, but the truth is, that's probably 1-5% of us. And even then, that 1-5% is never going to have the same depth of understanding as another woman. So it's just easier for us to shut up in general.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 02:29 PM
0

Maybe I should note that.... by the time you lift enough to make gains, the habit of lifting and taking care of yourself is expected to be wholly internalized and no longer considered a habit. The gains in this case aren't all muscular. You're being too literal.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:24 PM
7

BUT THEY MAKE TWICE AS MUCH NOISE
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 09:24 PM
-1

Interdasting. College Sharia to end soon? It's about time.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 09:22 PM
10

A Lot of guys get going to get laid. Don't discount the power of that. And maybe they find out that it's ho-hum and ordinary, but they DO improve. As I've said to many friends... if that motivation is there, use it. Girls may come and go, but those gains are permanent.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:30 PM
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OP says not to give advice to women Guys have terrible advice for women. I see it time and time again, and you're all terrible shit at this. OP gives advice to women Women, if you take this advice- "i find book smarts to be very attractive" I promise you will waste a considerable amount of time and energy doing something that doesn't really boost your SMV. Post is good though, slight irony aside, I agree. I try to keep on the sidelines because, well, I really don't have much of an idea what it's…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 05:27 PM
1

This isn't a game subreddit, but ideally you want to avoid 'dates'. My favorite tactic back in the non-LTR days was to meet at a coffee shop, arrive late (90% of the time she'd buy her own drink if you did that), get my own coffee ($2), and then work game / life / charm. Second meeting at my place or her place. Go for smash. Regularly got laid for under $20 including gas, coffee, etc. Movie and dinner is for the 1950s when people were chaste and BB was a decent strategy. It ain't no more.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:03 PM
4

Not so sure. They might have some sort of arcane conduct rules that allow expellation for off-campus behavior. Think of it this way, there are no women in the NFL (referees aside) and players get suspended all the time for what they do to women (rightly or wrongly).
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:53 PM
5

If you were only happy, how would you know? Think of a fish that only knows being under water... it doesn't even realize that water exists. We do, because we can go in and out of water. A lot of what we 'know' is only known through contrast. So the price to pay for 'positive states' is 'negative ones'. The more you become internally-focused and not distracted by external events, the more this will be your experience.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 04:00 PM
4

Thanks for sharing. One of my old buds had a similar system. He had 1 pic of himself with a famous singer that he used to say he was that singer's guitarist. He would use his parents' Lexus and his parents' house in the burbs to act like he had major dough. He'd invite the girls over..."lets get in the jacuzzi.... oh right, I forgot to tell you to bring a bathing suit... but I wont look, I promise..." Worked over and over and over. After he was done, he would regularly black knight the F out of …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 01:33 PM
2

Roosh V faced, uh, opposition of SJWs, to a lecture.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 06:57 PM
1

The President doesn`t make laws, though.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 03:00 PM
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because it fits into their "acceptance of all" circlejerk mentalities. maybe it's the only way they can get laid, by sharing a ho. 1% chance of being the lucky sperm donor > 0% chance of passing on genes by fapping into a sock. Might be how betas made it to the next generation in the past and why cuck fetishes exist today.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 09:03 PM
3

the entire storyline with Dana Scott? Soured me on the whole show.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:25 PM
1

Your definition of ROM is too limited. ROM is the maximum path needed to attain goals. If your goal is to get stronger with healthy shoulders, you can do it without a touch... you have to go quite deep, but not so deep as to over-rotate the shoulders. No place has done as much work on benching as Dave Tate's elitefts company - not even olympic teams (because the bench isn't a contested lift). Tate himself came out of the Mecca of Powerlifting, West Side Barbell. What does elite fts sell for shou…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:16 PM
1

I'm not saying it's necessary, but I'm not saying being "big and strong" is bad either.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:09 PM
1

Again, competition advice. You could do that, but you know that'll make it more of a decline press... in which case you could just do dips. Also, you gotta consider most people are beching to develop chest muscles, not to recruit back (needed for arch), shoulders, etc. In which case a vanilla, comfortable bench is better than a competition arched bench.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 10:54 PM
2

Al Gore saved the planet with a movie and invented the internet.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:40 PM
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no, her husband is. If she'd married a commoner from the midlands with a northern tinge to his accent she'd be ancient history.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:39 PM
1

Suicide grip feels better for both benching and overhead pressing. You should generally try to bench with a spotter or within a rack so you can set guard rails to catch a dropped bar.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:37 PM
2

That is a competition rep. You build strength outside the range of motion as well, even if you never go there, or use an 'angle'. I tell people with shoulder issues to cut off the bottom inch or so of the bench.. Do you think a guy who can bench 315 with 1 inch missing is going to have a 95 lbs pound bench in that 1 inch gap??
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:35 PM
4

It does, just not 'equally'. As in, a high partner count is a red flag to a RPM seeking a PRW, whereas it's probably just a yellow or non-flag for RPW seeking RPM. You know: Men and women are different.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 08:46 PM
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I wouldn't say 'equally' undesirable, as some promiscuity helps men realize that the grass is not always greener, and learn how to make love/have sex. Don't forget that men are forged by effort and experience; some of us need to have crashed and burned a few times to become good Captains. But yes, from the point of view of a RPW, you probably want to favor serial daters over serial players.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 07:19 PM
4

My LTR and I sleep in separate rooms... people think it's weird, it's actually a life saver.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 02:51 PM
5

Yep, I noticed the same thing too about common courtesy. Hold the door open for a girl and she thinks you're going to stalk her life. Hey (wo)man, I'm just extending some basic courtesy here to another member of humanity.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 06:26 PM
2

Wait till all your tough guy friends start doing this too. He's just the first. If your friends aren't remotely RP in nature they vanish into married life. Facebook becomes and endless stream of kid pics. The times you see them, it's about daycare, baby staying up at night, wife is my "better half", brand of Huggies or whatever (yawn).
/r/askTRP03/08/15 05:15 PM
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It's worse when you try to talk to girls live. I'm over 30 and back when I was 19, girls knew how to handle a come on. They rejected gracefully or discretely allowed the game to continue with subtle cues. Now you talk to a girl, they freak out and bail unless they've had 4 glasses of wine, or you've texted for hours over some bullshit app, or they think you're a rapist.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 05:12 PM
2

Recently he expressed a desire to be friends with an ex girlfriend of his. He once told me that he would probably never feel a connection like the one he had with her. Should I be worried? He tells me I have nothing to worry about, since they were friends for 6 years before they dated (they only dated for a month). He said if she tries anything it's too bad, because he's taken. Should I be worried? I said I was okay with it but after thinking it over I'm not so sure. Next.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/15 04:55 PM
3

Though to be fair, the men's 3rd floor has as many characteristics has the women's 4th floor. Not exactly apples to apples. Forest, trees.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/15 04:53 PM
3

Hopefully you can find a widower and you won't be offended by a pre-nup. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 03:31 PM
5

Man, this is so damn true it hurts.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 06:07 PM
0

Yep. I am never pushing a stroller, ever.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:50 PM
5

French women age better; which is surprising considering how much inter-breeding there is between English and French, and the fact that the English descended in large part from Germanic tribes just like the French (angles, saxons, franks---> normans)
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:49 PM
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Girls can still maintain a healthy, pleasing phyisque, avoid 99% of cellulite, keep the bum firm and hair/nails healthy. Eating a healthy diet, not partying, not dousing onself in make-up, avoiding the Sun, cigarettes and alcohol also prolongs the youthful appearance of skin. But you know, none of that is as fun as a 'wine tasting' or 'going out with mah gurrrlls'... you don't get any validation from toiling away in the gym and kitchen.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:48 PM
1

It's also hilarious that you can post 20 times under a sponsored post that kratom is bullshit, but you post that Matt Forney is a bullshit artist and you're gone. So much for the right to disagree.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 01:17 PM
2

Im not surprised in the slightest.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 02:23 AM
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You can spin 1 plate.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 07:23 PM
2

I don't know Roosh, I've never spoken to him, I have no idea what his personal situation is. But the man has obviously spent a lot of time gazing into the abyss, and his posts have become progressively (heh) nihilistic. Perhaps the abyss is now gazing back into him? As for forney, LOL. Nothing to add, his stuff is auto-skip now.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 06:16 PM
1

The Essence; Porsche Design
/r/askTRP28/07/15 04:43 PM
1

That's a great suggestion. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 04:41 PM
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You're damn right. In addition to the article I linked... "5 Universal Truths About Perfect 10s Every Man Should Know" "How To Gain Size And Strength On Super Mandro" "5 Ways Kratom Can Help You Get Ripped, Strong, And Energized" "4 Reasons Why You Should Never Accept An Unpaid Internship" "5 Reasons Why Women In Army Ranger School Is Worse Than You Think" I didn't make up any of those. I guess when you do this, you decide between a) I am going to get a real job or set up another business with m…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 04:38 PM
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Thanks, that's an interesting POV. The thing is, how would you support most of the good authors? Some have their own blogs, but some only are active on ROK. But yeah, it's become the 'Maxim' of the manosphere. Jezebel was a bit harsh, in retrospect. The thing is, i don't read Maxim.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 04:32 PM
1

only way to seem slightly alpha... is to do it to finance a business gamble. doing it to pay rent is omega as f--k.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 06:12 PM
0

Actually, long walks are better. The issue is that not everyone has 1-2 hours a day to walk on top of lifting, so HIIT is what is used. The best activity to supplement lifting is more lifting. Decent t-nation article on walking before the site went full retard into Biotest sales mode: https://www.t-nation.com/training/get-ripped-get-walking
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 03:28 PM
6

Theoretically yes, but it's also a lot easier to do 30 mins of cardio 4x a week and eat soemthing beside tuna and celery once in awhile too. bottom line, in vs out. thermodynamics is inescapable, and the best thing for any guy is what he can sustain. I went from 300 to 180 and I ate a chocolate bar every day in that time period which I "paid" for by doing an extra 15-20 mins of cardio (in addition to my usual training). The rest of my meals were straight up bodybuilding competition meals (chicke…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 01:49 PM
1

If there is, it won't be achieved by being a boring doormat.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 03:05 PM
1

"I'm allowed to play the field and use you as a safety net, right?"
/r/askTRP23/07/15 03:03 PM
2

Make sure you are going to do it exactly as you would do it without her. That is to say, if you're going to want to arrive at 7PM and leave at 9PM do exactly that. If she whines about sticking around, leave her there (srsly). If she makes you late, say "look, I am on a schedule here," and leave (srsly). It must be clear (without it being said) that she's a bit of a pain and you're doing her a favor. Secondly, hit on / talk to other girls once there. Do not make it about her and you, in fact, you…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 02:56 PM
2

Depending on your condition, you could potentially invest or make your own power / weight track. If you live in an apartment that isnt a ground floor apartment though, probably not an option
/r/askTRP23/07/15 02:50 PM
1

Honestly, if she's pregnant, it's worse than it seems, especially family-wise. There will be a period of shock and disavowing, and then her parents will realize they will want to play a role in the kid's life. This is what happens 95% of the time, unless they hate you for some reason (i.e., different religion or race). So even if you decide to keep the child, you have to realize it's not even close to the end of the world.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 07:28 PM
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Why do you want to be spoonfed? Do you think there's some cookie cutter template men all use? There isn't. For every guy who says "get an early start", there's an inspired genius who stays up till 4 AM every day taking care of business. Your schedule is going to be a reflection of you. If you realize you need to outwork everyone to get ahead, then you do it. If you don't want to get ahead but want to excel in non-lucrative endeavours, you do that.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 07:25 PM
1

She is not your plate she is your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 07:23 PM
2

You just end up running in different circles. My own friends who did the classic BB route are almost all happy, it's just that they and I both know I have no desire to go see them to sit on a couch for 11 hours watching sports while listening to crying kids and nagging wives. We'll maybe see each other 1-2x a year, for big events like a World cup match, a boxing match, etc. Always at my house, always "no spouses or kids". Some of them have are really irked by my unmarried and relatively free lif…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 07:22 PM
2

He thought AWALT Just for clarity, you mean NAWALT.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:38 AM
3

Can't tell you what to do since I have never really had to play the game from the POV of a woman, but this jumped out at me: he would say that he doesn't know what he wants that's weasel words, I know, because i've used them myself so many times. He likes you, he doesn't love you. The time you had together, it seems, was not enough to convince him to throw down the Big C.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/15 05:38 PM
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mischievious smile, "OK". Saying "I am soo going to do it" with your eyes. And if she flips, remain unphased. I'd tell you not to fuck roommates, but honestly, you aren't going to listen.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 05:32 PM
3

That's a great list. How about adding The Catcher in the Rye? It's a really good "coming of age" read about facing the cynical realities of the world. Not specifically focused on TRP themes, but TRP is all about facing reality as well. The art of war Techically, this is self-help :0
/r/askTRP07/07/15 05:31 PM
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Feminism is mostly about a lot of women trying to lie to themselves about their nature and to find excuses for their own mediocrity. Real women are too busy to waste time on feminism. The only time successful women take up feminism is as a cynical ploy to advance in their endeavors (business, politics, networking, etc.). Did Margaret Thatcher wait around for feminism? No. Did Hillary Clinton? No. But when she saw the votes it would get, she proudly donned the mantle, despite being married for de…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 02:19 PM
1

My first g/f left me to study in a different city, where she ended up marrying a guy +10 years who was making a huge salary (later found out it was 80k, which I since surpassed....). Honestly, I didn't mind that much, I was sad for a bit but she ended up becoming a religious wingnut, she'd always been shallow and materialistic, and though she had the makings of an excellent wife, she was pretty dumb. Sweet girl, but when I look at her facebook now, (15 yrs later), I am kinda happy she married a …
/r/askTRP03/07/15 02:16 PM
2

She wasn't your best friend, man. But you are going to be happy you met her, because she was necessary for you to learn. Would you have woken up any other way? Probably not. Every one of us goes through the experience.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 06:19 PM
6

I've done it with a few women I was not attracted to. My conclusion is that they made shittier friends than men. Because even if they're not trying to fuck you, they're still women You will hear their ideas on how to be a man. They love giving you suggestions for interior decoration. My condo is simple, stark and almost spartan. "Why don't you spruce this place up? It's so... overwhelmingly masculine. All right angles and rectangles." etc etc. They feel this need to cut down players who don't wa…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 05:18 PM
1

I would rather spend the time raising my skills to play in a better league. Friends = time. Time you can spend on yourself. From a man's perspective, you can spend the time listening to a girl's "asshole stories" for a decade and then get her when she's past her best buy date, maybe, possibly (unless she just downgrades to less prime assholes). Or you can stop being a free cushion, and get yourself in gear, and elevate yourself and probably surpass whatever league she is punching in. I've seen a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 04:06 PM
1

Great answer. And yep, you can get huge legs by biking 20 miles a day for 10 years... or just squatting for 18 months, 1-2x a week.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 07:12 AM
1

Most of us are here to reinforce the concepts for ourselves, not for others.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 03:19 PM
1

I've only really had 3 LTRs in my life (spent most of my adult life "plating") and 2/3 were into it.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 11:10 PM
1

LA, NY and SF. The best American girls I met all came from small towns in the South (Texas, Georgia, Alabama), but went to university and did a decent degree (accounting, finance). Probably a good mix of southern tradition and cultural awareness. Big City american girls really suck though. No connection to nature (their own, or nature in general), tons of crazy ideas, 0 life experience and have theorized simplistic solutions to all of the worlds problems... listening to them ramble makes me want…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 11:09 PM
2

Outsource.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 05:17 PM
1

I did this program and it worked so well my g/f started using it: http://www.amazon.ca/Mens-Health-Huge-Hurry-Stronger/dp/1605299340 Interesting article on Reps for girls vs Reps for guys: http://70sbig.com/blog/2012/08/peculiarities-of-female-training/ My all time favorite workout program, though, is 5/3/1 by Jim Wendler.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 05:16 PM
1

TL;DR: Leave your comfort zone.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 04:28 PM
10

You are truly a shit lord. LOL.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 10:06 PM
-1

No one is in delusion here except you. AWALT, and the best you can do is find a self-aware girl who acknowledges it as a vestigial piece of genetic programming that may no longer be optimal for happiness (same way we don't necessarily stick our dick in every hot girl we meet....).
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:16 PM
8

People respond initially to appearance, but over time, much more to the vibe you put out. Source: A guy who was able to pull chicks at 250 lbs. If you act like THE MAN, you get treated as THE MAN. People are happy to assign you whatever role you claim for yourself. (PS I'm not 250 pounds anymore).
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 03:11 PM
2

Are you going to be the guy trying to empty the ocean with a tea spoon?
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:09 PM
1

My current g/f is as close to a unicorn as possible (I have all her passwords, she doesn't flirt, very little social media, green light to smash other girls but she is still loyal to me, 95% obedience, cooks and cleans, as RPW as it gets, etc.). You know what she told me the other day? "As soon as you find a good man it's so much easier to cheat knowing your emotional needs are taken care of. It's a lot worse having a one-night stand when you're single because you hope the guy likes you. If you …
/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:46 PM
2

Great rationalization. And when they've experienced you, what comes next? The talk. Back to square 1.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:51 PM
2

Listen to this guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 03:49 PM
1

Jersey Shore Season 1/Season 2 is Red Pill as fuck dude. Keep SMV high Don't give a shit what others think, just do your thing Plate girls - remind them they're plates by calling them a cab not 30 seconds after you come. PUA - DHV (showing abs), no approach anxiety AWALT - watch snookie bounce from guy to guy and even screw a housemate Some girls can overcome AWALT sometimes - Jenni wants to cheat on Tom, but breaks up with him first out of respect. She's still with Roger even though his SMV dro…
/r/askTRP25/06/15 03:43 PM
2

so what's the question
/r/askTRP25/06/15 03:42 PM
-2

Meaning - all these adults are out and about acting like overgrown children. And all a sane person can do about it these days is work with it by having plates.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:42 PM
8

AWALT. Some deal with it better than others. You've shown she is one of the ones who deals with it badly (disloyalty, giving in). Unless her husband was making her truly unhappy (rarely the case), she swung out of a contented, happy home to chase tingles, go for "more". So even if you give her those things, she will swing again because she doesn't understand the nature of contentment. No one is yours. And you belong to no one. But when you make a LTR deal with someone, and it's working well, you…
/r/askTRP25/06/15 03:39 PM
-1

5/3/1 by Jim Wendler. Great workout program. "it doesn't have anything to do with fatherhood." Yeah. Strong men make better dads.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 03:20 PM
-2

drugs, being out bowling at 2 AM, girls admitting to CC, etc. "Enjoy the decline".
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:18 PM
1

We really need to get to the "for dummies" level sometimes? You're right, there's no risk-free way to do it. But that is a smaller risk than never doing it, because then you make no progress at all. You must roll the dice or you may as well die. Generally speaking you need to look for red flags. Signs of craziness. Lots of exes. Emotional volatility. Lack of concern for others. Ability to suppress guilt. Ability to self-deceive. All the stuff we talk about all the time. Then you can take protect…
/r/askTRP25/06/15 03:12 PM
5

Stretching / flexibility work. Good for passing time, can bring it anywhere with you. Keeps you young. Meditation. Learn to live by "just being". Many of us can not simply "be". We lost this ability. More sleep. we would all use more. Don't forget, though, we all need downtime. Even the guys who get super ambitious and decide to self-improve every waking minute end up imploding / crashing / burning. It's about balance and consistency.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 03:09 PM
16

Sure, you can be "not lying through omission", and that's also just a strategy. With the downside being you will either end up lying or being honest eventually anyway. It's a delay tactic. In my view it's just easiest to straight up tell girls "this is just for fun." They may not like it, they may leave, but that's fine. That's the "paying up front to avoid drama later" thing. But if you like asian girls from traditional families, that is probably not going to work at all.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:05 PM
6

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1001508/
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 03:02 PM
3

It's 2 people working together, not just a man or a woman. Man keeps up his high SMV. Woman invests in him by giving up sex and caring for him and supporting him because at that point in time he was near the top of her male SMV attainable status. However, there will come a time where the woman meets a higher SMV male who is sexually available. She can choose to get his sperm and stay with her Capt (making him BB), she can choose to leave her Capt and gamble on new guy, or she can stay with Capt …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 02:55 PM
1

Here's what my gut says " You'll never know until you dominate her. Sex is the rawest expression of a couple's standing. What this is saying is "I am letting you think you're an alpha and in charge, I know you need it." In other words, she still doesn't see you as Captain. What is the most important thing for men? Sex. Where is she dominating you? Sex. My g/f likes to "take control" during sex too. She's done it with her other boyfriends. I made it clear during sex, which is the main thing she g…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 02:25 PM
14

It's just a blow to their ego, nothing more. "I thought you dated me because you liked me, not because of a fetish!". Let alone that you may actually need your fetish to be satisfied in order to like someone...
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:15 PM
41

It's a strategy, that's a strategy. Being up front is much harder initially, and much easier after. Being secretive is VERY easy up front because it fits into norms, but much more work after (plates don't ask you to eat dinner with their parents). It's down to what you prefer, and what it takes for you to be able to look in the mirror - which is deeply personal, and anyway, not really what TRP is about ;)
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:13 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9QOQNcpuiA
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:26 PM
3

I guess it's time for you to get into Tai Chi or (LIGHT) Yoga. It can still build an aesthetic, pleasing physique.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:20 PM
3

With my g/f : "Silence is golden." Out in public... I try to avoid large crowds. 99% of what is said does not need to be said.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 01:32 PM
3

Cool story. My personal best: Airport baggage claim.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 01:26 PM
3

I dated a girl like that once (up and coming performer). 5'9", blonde, decent teets, terrific smile. She ditched me for a TV producer (and ditched him too, eventually). I hadn't found TRP then but I wasn't flustered, I kinda knew "it was my turn". I think that's the best attitude you can take. If you decide to date a girl with a social media addiction, you have to roll with it. I'd certainly never elevate one of these girls to beyond plate anyway, so maintaining the necessary detachment isn't ha…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 04:44 PM
1

The Red Pill is not about PUA, MGTOW, LTRs, etc. The Red Pill is simply a collection of truths that many of us have never been taught, or haven't figured out, or haven't seen. Once you "wake up" from the "Blue Pill" matrix, your destiny is in your hands entirely. PUA, MGTOW, LTR are just different routes men take once they know exactly what they want out of life, and they operate from the perspective that TRP gives. For ex., getting married as a RP aware male is a different decision than getting…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 03:40 PM
185

You dodged a bullet man. This was one of the best events in your life.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 03:31 PM
1

I would not say that necessarily, it's just that they're not good at projecting future income and they're very risk averse. Tell them you're becoming a doctor and see. If you get into a med program, chances are you've been through a screen that allows only bright students through and there's an excellent chance you pass med school, you get a job and make money. Easy risk to take. Tell them you're becoming an artist, and the risk is too high. Too many end up starving - for every George RR Martin …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 04:02 PM
2

I don't know if it's all even worth it, men who I'm involved with have always just hurt me 1 or 2, maybe they're liars. 5+, you have to ask yourself what they all have in common (answer: You chose them). Accept that most of what happens to you, is your own fault. but what I take pride in myself is that besides working out 3-5 times a week, I dance, I do gymnastics and plan to excel in those disciplines even though I started late in life. I'm feminine but also intelligent, so a good conversationa…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/15 08:43 PM
14

Today it's a lot faster than 10-15 yrs ago. No reddit, no community, no support network. A kid without a dad was raised on rom-coms by a solipsistic mom and learned it all the hard way (either by being divorce raped, or by reasoning out the marriage was a terrible idea). In my case, the internalization process was really long and is still ongoing even in my 30s. Each day I watch my g/f and I go "deeper down the rabbit hole" Morpheus referred to. But in my 20s I remember thinking: I am working da…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 09:00 PM
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This guy's job is to calculate what risks to take. It's probably a skill that has a wide array of uses beyond financial risk. Isn't not marrying the best hedge against hypergamy, usury and divorce rap (assuming you don`t live in a jurisdiction that forcibly marries you if you let a girl crash on your couch for a week...) ?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 05:50 PM
16

Forest/trees. Its not about short hair per sé, it's about antagonizing you to see if you will put your foot down. In your case the test might be to let the hair get long, wild and unruly. My girl is as close to a unicorn as possible - and she still tests me. I don't get the hair test, the no-sex test, the guy friends test. I get the "you're not sensitive enough". My response "We can`t both be the woman."
/r/askTRP16/06/15 02:32 PM
3

Time to change venue then.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 10:33 PM
5

Yeah, language. If she 'chose a spot' near smokers. But you got the gist of it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 05:08 PM
3

My g/f smoked when I met her. I told her "it's gross and I'm not going near you if you do it." I went over once, she asked for a kiss. I tasted the ash in her mouth, I ejected. Not just from the kiss, from the whole apartment. She asked me what's up, I said "if you can't even restrain yourself before you're about to see me, to make our time together pleasant, I'm wasting my time." She quit smoking within a week. You're already at this party, so really ,all you can do is cut your losses. The abso…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 05:02 PM
1

Porn is a drug. It's up to you to make an enlightened decision about consumption. Some people feel like alcohol allows them to relax on a Friday night once a week, some people use alcohol to run from their problems. In one case it's fine, in another, it's isn't. Don't try to paint everything in broad strokes, unless you have to. Life is not black and white. I can tell you in my case, porn has been really good for my sex life since I watch it with my g/f quite often. She has a bit of a cuckquean/…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:51 PM
12

If you're doing your job and established your frankness, you can just tell her she's getting fat. I know it's crazy, you think Dread game is the key. Dread game is a tool, definitely, but it can't compare to having established yourself as a guy with a bit of an asshole edge who speaks his mind and then speaking your mind. I have told my girlfriend: You can get wrinkles, fine. You can get a bit of cellulite, fine. You can dye your hair, fine. You can color your nails purple, fine. But don't you E…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:43 PM
4

Find a better alpha who is willing to LTR you? Probably the best option. My g/f was an alpha widow, but I was lucky the previous guy was not as dominant, competent, sensitive and kind (from a position of strength). He also ignored her for long stretches (weeks), and never cared about her sexual fulfilment. He just didnt have his shit together, but he had abs and fashion and could drive fast. He wasn't hard to one up with a bit of comfort game and much more life competence. One snowy day I was dr…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 04:29 PM
23

No chemistry / he didn't sound ready to lead. If I didn't like cigarettes and a date made me sit amongst smokers, I would speak up. He tolerated it to avoid conflict. Definitely not ready to be a Captain, yet.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 04:25 PM
9

OP, listen to this man. Just do what you gotta do. Verbalizing it is a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 02:30 AM
19

Misc peaked in, like, 2006. This thread would have been great even then. Nice find, OP. Still a phaggot.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 02:24 AM
5

Yep, won't be too long before bad posts appear on here that can be used as justification for censure. It's been a pleasure, boys.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 06:05 PM
4

First of all, you're the one living your life, not your dad. Figure out what would make you happiest and prioritize it. If it's not career, DO NOT prioritize career. If you want to be a housewife, your #1 priority is locking down a good man with high earnings potential. To thine own self be true. Second of all, why are you acquiring this degree, how much will it cost you, and how much do you expect to earn using this degree to get a job? If you don't know this, take a step back, figure it out an…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 06:02 PM
2

Partied and wasted too much money in my 20s. Should have gotten a head start on savings and investment. However, I sometimes wonder if it helped answer a lot of questions I needed answering - especially since when I did it, there was no TRP. I had to figure out a lot of this shit on my own.... taking women on dates, seeing how usurious and conniving they could be, seeing how the TV/movie "nice guy" thing didn't work, seeing how much time it takes to get sex and the opportunity cost of it, which …
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:11 PM
1

Don't overthink it. Just do it. All you need to do is make your intent clear and maintain the intent.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 09:55 PM
3

The best way to do it is the one aligned with your expressive talent. Some guys can do it with one look. If you catch a girl looking, you look at her until eyes meet. It's done. Some guys are brash. Like Patrice. Some guys use humor and misdirection. They'll make a joke that can be construed as dirty, when the girl gets dirty, they'll pretend it wasn't and accuse her of having a dirty mind, only to fess up that it's dirty. Some guys use body language and kino. Some guys use a combination of the …
/r/askTRP05/06/15 07:10 PM
3

So you're not getting what you want, and she's getting everything she wants. Sounds like a good deal to me. You're her sexual release time ho. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9QOQNcpuiA Here is how you deal: Make your expectations clear. If you need anal or a blowjob to keep making it worth your time, make it clear. Make her walk to the beat of your drum. She's 28 and a virgin because everyone else put up with her shit just like you are doing. My downstairs neighbor (66 year old lady) was a 36 …
/r/askTRP05/06/15 03:16 PM
4

Why didn't you close immediately? (First approach). ALWAYS BE CLOSING. Why take a side trip to argue with a girl - whose opinions are you are completely unlikely to change, and even if you could, you would gain little to nothing out of it? WHAT'S IN IT FOR YOU? Remember - when interacting with others: What's in it for me? - when interacting with women you want to fuck: always be closing. The only reason to not close is because YOU don't want to fuck her.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 03:14 PM
1

I think it depends on the context of the relationship. If we're talking two people with serious intentions, it's obviously grounds for an ejection. If we're talking two fuck-friends, you shouldn't care anyway - you're already subscribed to "she was never yours, it was only your turn".
/r/askTRP05/06/15 03:10 PM
1

I've never cheated on her, but my girlfriend (who was raised by her mom to be RP as fuck) flat out told me that if I did, she'd stay with me anyway because she doesn't think she can do better, and it's more important to have a strong, aggressive, protective man than to have a loyal but weak man. She told me she would break up with me only if I didn't tell her about it and she found out from another person.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 03:07 PM
1

You should have left after you got shoved, or, especially after you got thrown out. Literally, what did you gain aside from a broken hand? Violence is almost never useful. It's fine to be able to dole out a beating, but the need to do so occurs maybe 2-3x in a normal man's lifetime.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 03:03 PM
4

9% is enough to cause a shortage, but not enough for anyone to care about it too much or to incite government action.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 02:17 PM
1

Her: "Some advice for your future, don't tell a girl how to workout. Night!" Here is where I'd have stopped responding.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 08:55 PM
1

They're totally in their right to do that, I probably won't post there anymore after seeing wingnut's comments. I can tell you the few times I have posted, I was inboxed almost immediately for even more advice by the girls (women?) I did address, so I think there is a place for men to address women. However, I think they did the cost-benefit analysis and decided to throw away all the male posts because the signal:noise ratio in those posts wasn't favorable (aka, most of the male posts were shitt…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 08:51 PM
-1

I read all things RP - TRP, MRP, RPW, askTRP, etc. Why not? It's an interesting subject. I try to respond there as little as possible, but sometimes, they REALLY need a male perspective on things. Look at the thread about the girl who decided to have a 3-year LDR with her boyfriend and was worried about it falling apart because of an encroaching 2nd female. The relationship amounted to sex once a month for the guy and long conversations on skype. It was pure solipsism of her to assume that that …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 08:25 PM
3

You ever notice how 2 cats can fight, get the fight broken up, and 2 minutes later, they're best friends like the fight never happened? This is because cats are the masters of living in the present. Who cares about 1000 rejections that happened months,days,hours and even seconds ago? Be about what's happening, like a cat. It's not even worth remembering a rejection, unless you want to learn something from it. All that's worth knowing is that you can take a shot right now. I think in the summer o…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 08:18 PM
3

Unless you take anabolic steroids, you will only add muscle in an overall caloric surplus. In other words, don't half-ass 2 things, do one thing properly. Some beginners will add strength and make physiological adaptations during a weight loss phase, but generally speaking, you should focus on becoming as lean as you want first and then worry about strength. You may only serve one master. You can stay in touch with the others, but you must prioritize. Even if you do no cardio whatsoever and get …
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:37 PM
2

Too weak. You have to work from the frame of "she would be crazy to even ask."
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:30 PM
3

Dread game
/r/askTRP31/05/15 12:04 PM
17

3 Options: 1) Stay in the city you're in (status quo). You will likely lose this man. My 1st girlfriend lost me when she moved out of state for school; she thought she wouldn't because she was a rich, beautiful, 9/10 asian and we were each other's first everything, and I was just a poor bloke. I broke up with her anyway to be single because I was tired of wasting time on MSN/Skype/Phone with her while getting nothing in return. 2) Get him to move to your city if your career prospects are better …
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 04:41 PM
3

He may just not be the flirty type. Did he flirt when you were dating?
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 02:40 PM
6

So I was wondering if it would be a good idea to somehow indicate on my profile that I'm not into casual sex, in a tactful manner of course, just to weed out the people that I won't be compatible with. Yes, but everyone says that. EVERYONE. The important thing is that you enforce the policy on the first date. Or is that redundant to do on a site like Match? I just don't want to lead anyone on, and be forthright and clear with my expectations from the start. It's never redundant and that's what y…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 02:18 PM
44

Good men are rarer than good jobs. Your friend realizes it, you don't. Is she moving in on a good man? Probably. Dating is amoral - you're only mutual friends because of her respect for him. There's a good chance she doesn't even like you all that much, but was just accommodating him until she saw a good chance to strike. What's a good chance to strike? A guy who gets absolutely 0 domestic support, completely inadequate amounts of sex, and for whom 95% of his relationship is what fulfils the gir…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 02:05 PM
3

1) Wife is right. 2) Who cares.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 02:59 PM
1

Is the coffee time scheduled during work hours or outside of work hours? That's kind of an important detail, dude. Anyway, enough history. I get a calendar invite out of the blue last week for "coffee"- just her and I. No context on the meeting was provided by her. We don't really have any kind of direct work together, and I can't imagine what we would talk about for 30 minutes that would be work-related.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 02:53 PM
1

Try being a plumber. It's pretty easy if you stick to residential, it has a lot of engineering concepts (flow of water through an open system, water properties, pipe tension in winter). Im an accountant but if I had to go back I would be a plumber without a doubt - wading in shit doesn't bother me in the slightest and after you open your own business and establish a decent reputation it's easy-mode.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 02:51 PM
23

Facebook is a self-updating rolodex for me; nothing else. I can always reach the people I need on there, and I never post. My profile has absolutely nothing going on, either, since everything is hidden. Don't throw out the baby with the bathwater - social networks are useful if used in a balanced and effective manner. In my case, I think it's fine. If I were trying to build a cult-based youtube business (for example, like a youtube fitness channel where I am the star), I'd probably make a charac…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 06:19 PM
22

The act of her ordering food to go after a meal, on your account, is enough of a red flag for you to decline a 2nd encounter. That is straight out of the BB playbook, how did it even progress after the 1st time she did that? (This is irregardless of who the food actually was for.)
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 06:13 PM
18

Perhaps most men won't care as to the dress' appearance, some of us can appreciate the symbolism of the gesture. This gesture is the type of thing that sets the tone of a marriage - in this case, she is giving herself to his desires/tastes. In the romantic sense, she is saying she is his bride. Now what man can't appreciate that?
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 06:11 PM
22

Tid bitter, are you a tad bitter?
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 06:09 PM
1

Indeed... it's time to build the castle, which is an altogether different hunt. Stay thirsty.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 01:53 PM
23

Good post. Like anything else, success itself is addictive. Girls, goals at the gym (bench press X), etc. When I was coming off BP status myself I remember setting a goal of getting down to 200 and banging a 6. After that it was 180/8. After that it was to get 20 girls in 1 year. All done - and now that I have a LTR I sometimes really miss the hunt.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:07 PM
3

It's because married men are viewed as more "stable", less "risk adverse" and more willing to "tow the line". The company's interest is to hire docile, predictable workers. Married men fit the bill - single men are more apt to leave everything to travel or get a new career, or work less hard because they're not providing for anyone but themselves (as men MGTOW are opting out of the grind...). A non-conformist is also a loose cannon in the iron-clad corporate world. What can you do? Nothing. It a…
/r/askTRP25/05/15 06:49 PM
2

Great advice here. Most guys who lift / have manual jobs tend to like meat and cooked vegetables, I noticed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 03:36 PM
2

you dont need to overthink it - just ask him why he's not as into you. Hey may not even realize it himself.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 03:34 PM
3

Stop comparing yourself to others. Comparisons are always made with incomplete information. The Superwoman thing is a trope not a real thing; many of them have decaying family lives. 99% of it is staged. Take care of yourself first. Always. You can't be a good FO if your own life is going to shit. A good captain understand. If yours doesn't he isn't a good captain. You're doing good, keep your chin up.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 02:17 PM
3

Could be a million things, your post is honestly just not clear enough and everything in the comments is speculation. Madonna-Whore Mismatched sexual appetites and preferences Age Inner conflict or struggle on his part Affair or porn Coolidge Effect Health issue In my opinion, there are times the Captain must be addressed directly by the FO and this is one of them. Get more data.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 02:11 PM
1

Respect Sex Food Pleasant Know when to buzz off.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 10:08 PM
10

SMH here. Why does everything need to be so black and white? Brotherhoods exist and are used by men to help each other elevate themselves. The associations work when interests are aligned. Freemasons, gun clubs, men-only gyms are all example of this exact thing . Saying that men are or aren't your brothers is simplistic. It's satisfying to say it, but in fact, it's George Bush-style reductionism (you're with us or against us). Men are your brothers sometimes, and just normal asshole humans other…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 07:19 PM
1

Thanks for the insight, that's interesting. Good information if I ever have to raise a daughter.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 03:25 PM
2

try the elliptical. I was obese post-surgery in my 20s due to sedatives and it saved my life. Set it up in front of a TV and an Xbox, easy 2 hours of light activity per night.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 07:00 PM
4

I'd say a marriage with the understanding of non-exclusivity is way higher on the totem pole than a simple plate agreement. Plates spin and fall off; marriage is supposedly permanent. So you're not being spun anymore, you're technically not a plate. You can draw the circle of exclusivity big, or you can draw it small. I think you'd be surprised at how many girls care more about exclusivity of resources (money, house, kids, safety, protection) and emotional investment (love) than exclusivity of s…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 06:21 PM
3

Food Blowjobs Respect.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 06:52 PM
1

Does he go out of his way to spend time with you? Does he respond to texts/calls quickly? That's basically the easiest way to tell. Men prioritize spending time with girls they like.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 03:43 PM
5

Nah, skilled hand use is like +5... it can take a 5/10 BJ and make it 10/10. You must not have gotten a good person. For the average girl, hand use is required, I'd say. I've only had 1 g/f that's gotten me all the way there without hands. My favorites are combo BJS (Handjob+BJ at the same time).
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 03:33 PM
4

If you can’t stand going to either set of parents, get a large dog and say you can’t leave it. Oh damn. This is a great article.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 05:07 PM
2

Every one of my exes still texts me "whats up" from time to time. No brag, just kinda funny.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 04:59 PM
17

"Did you see my profile?" "Yeah, I love some of your older pics."
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 09:29 PM
1

Yep.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/15 05:39 PM
1

In other words, if you had just been there then and not over-analyzed, you would have dumped her. Gut says no, and you then rationalize a yes. You're contradicting yourself, here. RP = Action. BP = Hesitation.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 07:48 PM
2

The inheritance should have been pre-nupped. Jake needed you for advice. Where were you?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 03:52 PM
1

You need to move on, fast. More drama incoming.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 03:48 PM
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I hate to break it to you OP but any increase in your life success is going to cause a commensurate increase in loneliness. Old friends will, out of jealousy or feelings of comparative inadequacy, begin to snark, bitch, backbite, etc. There is going to be very little loyalty even among bros. Red Pill forces men to be the best versions of themselves in a lot of ways. This is another type of success. You will completely lose the inclination to associate with your old BP crowd and they will not wel…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:21 PM
2

alpha widower ! Now I've seen it all.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 07:09 PM
4

Men looking for LTRs are going to be looking for quality not quantity. It's more like...men will take quantity until they find quality. Easiest marker of quality is to be different than the "quantity", same as how it works for men. Most guys are not driven, lack confidence, are slovenly and unhygenic, have bland interest ("I like watching other guys play sports") and no thirst for life. A strong, fit, confident man stands out right away. Most women today are belligerent, solipsistic, brazen, ent…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/15 07:26 PM
6

It's all biological in the end. No amount of feminist speak is going to refute some basic biological conditions. Men can impregnate several women at the same time. A woman can not gestate the fetuses of several men at the same time. A man can protect and oversee many women in 1 house. OTOH, a woman can not be led by two men at once. Men are better able to generate resources because they have more endurance, strength and rational abilities then women (on aggregate). A woman is better off sharing …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 07:20 PM
6

/r/polyamory is a hornets nest of fucked up humanity. AWALT, branch swinging, cuckold fantasies, men afraid to say no to women, and special snowflake-kin run amok. That place makes my brain bleed.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 07:14 PM
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"What is my passion?" - A question only humans ask of themselves. No tree, animal, amoeba, etc., asks what his passion is and they all seem to do just fine. I guess the downside of hyper rationality is a tendency to overthink. Why must you even HAVE a passion? What if your entire purpose is to be passionless. Instead of thinking you're missing a passion, how about letting go of the concept and just doing what you please in every moment. A passion will either emerge, or it won't, but in either ca…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 10:17 PM
2

My girl eats 1 or 2, always.Her mom was still pretty smoking well into late 50s, as well. I guess I am lucky.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 10:14 PM
3

I was raised in a very feminist home Then don't beat yourself up too much, trial and error was the only way you were going to learn this. Hopefully you can find a man who understands your nature (hypergamy, AF/BB) and nurture (feminist slut values) were toxic and beyond your control. Not easy, but they're out there. Probably a recovering beta raised by a poor father who himself had to self-teach RP theory and is therefore more cognizant and appreciative of how life involves trial and error, and …
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 02:37 PM
3

Before I suggest anything - what are his interests ? How is he feeling about it ? Is he bored, or is he perfectly OK with being serious? The reason I ask is because I go through similar phases and I'm perfectly content to be left alone.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 02:33 PM
6

If you ain't cheating, you ain't trying. Every sphere I've dabbled in, the guys at the top had a "hack", "cheat", or "Edge". Business: daddy's undisclosed connections as a head start. Powerlifting : Steroids. Video games: Hacks, exploits, macro'ed keystrokes, smart macros, botting. Hard work only gets you into the Top 20%. Want to be Top 1%, you gotta use the dark arts.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 02:45 PM
3

AWALT, right here. Then I start to wonder, did I choose wrong? Am I settling? Should I have waited for something better? For reference, the guy I'm with is a solid 7 or 8, depending on who you ask, while these other guys probably fit into the 8 or 9 category The instinct to branch-swing is undeniable, isn't it? No answer for you, just so funny to see this in RPW. If he doesn't raise his SMV, you guys will be in trouble down the road. I know my girlfriend gets the fear of God in her eyes every ti…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 08:27 PM
4

I think she is using the word weak facetiously.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 08:23 PM
5

You know, at some point, dating is about having fun and finding a compatible person, not maintaining a ledger (I say this as a CPA). When I met my g/f I was making 3x her salary. I wanted to have fun doing expensive things; I knew the deal when I asked her out and never made her feel bad for "free riding" (which I honestly didn't even think of it that way, just lack a better term at the moment). I've dated tons of professionals too (lawyers, for ex.), and with them I split the bill. Since I am d…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 08:19 PM
0

Alpha is about how you act. It's a psychological state, not a physical one. Alpha is entirely self-validated; and he doesn't apologize for what he wants. Big guys grasp this easily because others are scared of them. But this doesn't have to be the case. If a big guy defers to a small guy, guess who women will prefer? Don't listen to me, though. Go read "The Game" by Neil Strauss and keep in mind the author is 5'6"
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:55 PM
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If you feel deep down she's a good girl, and you want an LTR, groom her for an LTR. AWALT and she is definitely feeling like getting slutty with you. A Lot of guys here can't handle that, but it's actually what you have to harness to lead a woman - be her "like that". TRP is what you make of it ; it's about making smart decisions. You can use it to marry, to LTR, to multi-LTR, to plate, or to monk. There's no hard and fast rule; but the fact that she hasn't slept with you is a pretty big green f…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:46 PM
4

LOL no. Women look for resources. Size is a proxy for resources most of the time, but it can come from other traits. Among humans, wealth and status are used more often than size.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 06:27 PM
5

Alpha is basically the most fit to lead the pack in its current situation; that's it, that's all. It can be the smallest wolf in the pack if he's the only one who can find food for the rest of the pack and he enforces his dominance by sharing food only with wolves who submit to him. It can be the biggest wolf in the pack if he kills all the other males. There's no such thing as a "genetic" alpha - though some personality traits make it more likely (assertiveness, for example).
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 03:00 PM
6

This should be on /r/asktrp Though the subject is a woman, no woman here has actually experienced the process of coaching another woman from the point of view of a male. But in general, you don't really explain it to a girl all that much. It's too grand of a philosophy for most girls who aren't RPWs to begin. You just do your thing. Over time, as you defeat shit tests, pass comfort tests, demonstrate leadership and willingness to make decisions, develop your strong protector instinct (LIFT WEIGH…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 02:55 PM
10

Congrats RPW, a small beacon of light in this vast desert of darkness!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 02:49 PM
1

ITT: OP discovers men have hamsters too
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 05:17 PM
1

Strive to be internally validated. IE, entirely self-validated.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 05:17 PM
1

In my youth, I used to think like this. Then I dated those girls. Now, I date girls who resemble RPWs only. He's naive.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 06:16 PM
2

It sounds like he just lacks maturity. Most good men are able to keep their steadfast resolve and remain stoic under duress. A good measure of a man is the magnitude of problems he faces while maintaining his stoic resolve. Little things upset him : Boy. Big things don't upset him : Man. I'm not sure there's a quick fix. You can try to coach him to calm down. But in some way, he has to kind of get there on his own.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 10:26 PM
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Learn how men think. It's not complicated. Once you learn the basic patterns of male thinking, men are easy to win over. 1) Men can not be serious with girls who don't make their dicks hard 2) Men like to feel like kings in their castle at home. Feed them, massage them, take pleasure in seeing to their needs. 3) Respect is more important to a man than love; even from his wife. 4) Men despise spending time talking about inconsequential things. If something is inconsequential, don't bring it up. T…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 10:21 PM
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Yoga/Meditation/Tai Chi Stretch Lots of water Lots of sleep "Who gives a fuck" attitude, be carefree. Accept the present moment, work with what life gives you. Don't try to work life into what you want. Do 1 hour of moderate activity (walking, cleaning) a day. Lift weights 2-4x a week. Maintain your bone mass, make your posture impeccable. Learn to get maximum beauty from minimum facial products Do not tan Eat lots of greens and lean meat; try to stick to foods that came in nature's wrapper, not…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 10:12 PM
1

I'm no whitey and I've hit swedish, danish and german chicks. Exude awesomeness. They're not that special.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 10:07 PM
2

The harsh answer is that you don’t deserve anything. There is nothing you can do, except become a better version of yourself. A reality of life no matter what. A lot of guys need to internalize this truth. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:13 PM
1

My point was that it has to be taken in concert with other traits. Ambition alone is not a good measure.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 05:29 PM
2

The easiest thing to do is also the hardest. TALK TO WOMEN If you are around women for any length of time, lots of women, you will see the magic of femininity evaporates. They become normal people with vaginas, that's it. In a way, it's a bit sad, to lose that sense of excitement and anxiousness, but that's where most men get after awhile - blasé about everything feminine.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 05:28 PM
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Online dating is a hydra - you cut off one head, 3 more will spawn. It may just take time but eventually all the people will congregate around a new point. That said if I were a tinder user I'd probably drop it at this point, it's going to be a sausagefest. Girls never pay for anything. EVER. My friend used eHarmony a long ass time and he would get 4-5x more dates on the weekends where they offered 2 or 3 days of "free use".
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:25 PM
6

I don't mean to sound entitled but I also have no interest in dating a man who is not willing to marry me one day. He says he doesn't date for fun and is really conservative but there's still no sign of a ring or moving in together. You're entitled to your entitlements; don't shy away from what you want. If you want to broach the subject, you should just ask if a long term exclusive committed relationship is on the table. If he seems open to it, you can drop the M word. But generally speaking, m…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 05:14 PM
5

I'm worried that I'm too picky, particularly in terms of a guy's ambitions. I guess I see it as a way to gauge maturity more than anything else, and I really don't know of very many other ways to judge maturity. Or commitment for that matter, or even level of interest. All your mistakes in 1 sentence. Ambition is a bad proxy for suitability. You know who is ambitious? Vladimir Putin Maturity is gauged by observation. Does he keep his composure? Is he rattled easily? Does he whine a lot. In other…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 07:33 PM
7

Your relationship has fundamental issues beyond the scope of this thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 07:24 PM
3

This is like, the one occasion where being the Bro Knight is the correct course of action. I mean, it's not some random dude from Reddit, this is your buddy here.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 07:22 PM
1

We're all snowflakes, don't you know?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 07:17 PM
1

Tim, sorry about the divorce. AWALT, huh?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 07:16 PM
2

The alpha can be transformed into the patriarch because he is, in a way, still acting in his own self interest. The family is a reflection of him and part of the legacy he is going to leave behind. It's still all about him. The sigma is not motivated by the same notions, at all. His selflessness can not be overcome. He wants freedom to do what he wants, when he wants. This is the antithesis of the man who takes on the mantle of the patriarch with all its attendant responsibilities and duties. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 07:14 PM
6

Ignore it "Take her" sexually whenever you want. Unless she has a medical condition, this is how it should work.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 07:05 PM
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This thread is a great example of gender strengths and weaknesses at work. The men being rational overthink the absolute shit out of "state your intentions". 90% of what we communicate is non-verbal, whether it is through posture, gesticulation, facial expressions or, as weird as it sounds, and believe it or not, the vibe we put out. You know - the one which dogs can pick up more easily than men because men are too busy out-thinking themselves and checking everything against a checklist. Meanwhi…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 06:46 PM
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Well, I can tell you what I've done for a few of my old plates: Rewrote an admission application essay from horrible to outstanding, got her into a prestigious university in Europe. She is now a marketing manager for a large auto firm. She sent me expensive French shaving cream as a gift (years later) to thank me for the help. Several sessions of powerlifting coaching and general workout theory for a plate who had a natural build for the iron. She recently completed a bunch of tough mudders / Sp…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 09:25 PM
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a) Family and kids b) Liking a hipster Pick one. These types of males are mutually exclusive. The alpha-sigma hybrid is a male unicorn. Even if a Sigma has kids, he'll be a shitty dad.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/15 06:24 PM
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Yep, this wasn't a battle you needed to fight. I mean, if he does this all the time and it adds up to something material, then speak up, sure. But for an isolated incident that meant so much (to him), you did the right thing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 11:36 PM
0

Yes. Most women suck, but living alone REALLY sucks. Get off your ass.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 08:43 PM
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I work in professional services and let me tell you what I've seen and keep seeing. Years 1-3: Women and men join "The firm", both ambitious, energetic, dynamic and starry-eyed. The men the firm selects are all, to a degree, natural alphas in their own way. Even the most reclusive and socially awkward ones have a ruthless drive within them, are aware of their deficiencies, and ready to outwork everyone under the Sun. 19 out of the 20 girls do not have the same ruthlessness. There are exceptions.…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 04:32 PM
1

Disagree. A 50 year old woman won't be able to get the same people to like her as a 20 year old. That means you maybe have 15 years to maximize your partner's value. Time constraints are largely irrelevant in this question. A 50 year old woman may not get the same man as a 20 year old woman, but she's in a market, and she's going to have to pick the best of the options in front of her. She is still playing the same game, but on a different field. She can still reject them all and try to get new …
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 10:09 PM
2

This is a non-story in my humble opinion. The male versions of this already exist anyway (seekingarrangement, etc. ) Even if this takes off, men will learn to game it. That's the nature of men. They will reverse engineer the algorithm, either logically or intuitively, and game it, like they learned game for girls (i.e., dot their linked in profiles with the buzzwords).
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 04:27 PM
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Everyone settles. The only difference is how much people lie to themselves about it. In a world of billions, you don't think you can do better than your spouse? Of course you can. But at some point if you keep looking, you never actually move on past the looking stage.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 04:28 PM
6

It's really hard to pinpoint without input from him. Honest input. Depression, stress, porn, The Coolidge Effect are all possibilities, as are physiological issues. And in truth, he probably knows what it is already, but isn't telling you because he's not comfortable with it himself. We can't do anything here but mental masturbation. You're going to have to sit down with him and get him to put his cards on the table. I know in my case, I have had moments of low libido due to changing jobs (major…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 04:25 PM
3

Golden Boy. Kentaro is the master of holding frame, demonstrating value, being outcome independent, and pursuing happiness. Not obvious at the 1st 20 mins but keep watching. Some of the women though, are caricaturized, so take with a grain of salt. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CX2EFdDMUrY Always has been my favorite.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 04:15 PM
2

It's hard to say because technology will change a great many other things as well. Will there even be a need to marry and mate if eugenics and artificial insemination / gestation are the norm? What if people are happy enough with virtual reality sex robots (both men and women), so we enter post-game societies with sexual frustration being a thing of the past? Imagine for example if you like a certain camgirl, she can transmit the configuration of her digitally mapped vagina to your vagina simula…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 07:57 PM
8

I "game" with my girlfriend once in awhile too - she's range and I'm melee. It's actually really fun because she likes that I occupy mobs while she picks away at them. I find it's a bit like our real life roles as well - I usually deal with unpleasantness and do the bits where the "aggressive asshole" is required, and she's happy someone does it for her (i.e., negotiate on a new car, tell the neighbors to tone down the music, deal with mechanics, etc)
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/15 07:52 PM
-2

massage
/r/askTRP16/01/15 09:42 PM
2

^ There is no safe zone. If you slip up, the shit testing can begin. If she meets a guy she preceives as higher SMV than you, she can shit test you to confirm/dispel the perception. The day you are in the "safe zone" is the day you die.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 09:40 PM
1

AWALT, but shit testing in my experience drops off over time as your "perceived suitability for mating" is generally known and accepted and maintained. Shit tests are girls assessing something (subconsciously, usually) - but if she doesn't have a reason to shit test, she won't. If you keep the dominant position, assert yourself regularly, bang her like a champ, and pass the comfort tests the shit testing falls off a cliff. (speaking from personal exp.).
/r/askTRP16/01/15 04:10 PM
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All of the below are good, but here's one : Experience. A lot of men go red after bad experiences. A lot of intelligent guys are busy in school and not really living. They hit the market in their late 20s with all the bad indicators: girls on a pedestal, girls are angels, girls are nice. Naivete levels off the chart. They wife up the first girl who gives the a whiff of her armpit or a peck on the cheek and never really experience anything else. Math is math, life is life. I've seen this happenin…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 04:07 PM
4

This went well for you, but Tom could easily have made this blow up in your face. Asian Princess was understanding, but many girls can become jealous and unbearable and bitter and resentful (even if they agreed to non-exclusivity, it's a bit like a guy agreeing to "wait until marriage"... it happens, but it's not what the person wants). I would probably cut Tom out from this point forward, or, at the very least, tell him 0 about my dating life from this point forward.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 10:08 PM
10

No offense - I would not use this approach, mine (posted here as well) is more direct. People need to be accountable, the Captain first. This way your not directly blaming him, he doesn't see your upset instead he realizes he's going to be hungry now. When you don't own your shit, this is how others treat you. You have to own your slobby shit. If your Captain can't even handle 1 iota of criticism, he's probably not worth being First Mate for.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 10:05 PM
4

DO. NOT. GET. FAT.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 05:54 PM
12

Sometimes nagging is exactly what is needed. Ask him if he is willing to be reminded to do this properly, in order to save money. Link it to his life goals of saving / being free of debt/ etc. If he agrees, tell him you will have to remind him a lot until the habit "sticks". Get your nagging pre-approved. This is what I actually do with my girlfriend. She has permission to nag me on the following: Going to bed on time (I'm terrible at this, often get lost in a book, wikipedia, movies, etc., way …
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 05:50 PM
8

Getting married and having kids isn't a guarantee of company when you're older. I know quite a few old people whose kids have almost forgotten about them - not through malice or ill will but simply because that's how life moved. For example, my own mom left her native country an ocean and a sea away for a better life and saw her mother twice in her mother's last 30 years. In Jack's case though, he threw it all away. The love of his life was Anjelica Huston and she's still around. If he hadn't im…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:40 PM
1

bed every morning never go to sleep with dirty dishes in the sink
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 05:21 PM
2

Don't bother at your weight, you should be maximizing calories per bite not minimizing them (which is what keto does, essentially...)
/r/askTRP12/01/15 05:31 PM
1

Get a trainer, it will save you 2-5 years of trial and error. That's one thing I would do now if I could start all over. Find a guy you want to look like who seems to have the same body type as you, or find a guy who you know can produce results based on a previous body of work. Especially a guy who can produce drug-free results. If that's not an option, read, read, read. Educate yourself. TAPE YOURSELF - does your squat look good? It's a longer, harder road, but it can be done. Everyone here lo…
/r/askTRP12/01/15 05:21 PM
4

Are you working hard but not smart ? Do you just go to coffee shops, keep your head down and talk to no one with head phones on? When I see a girl doing that, I will leave her alone. Usually men will approach only after a couple of indicators of interest (a glance, a smile, body language that suggests attraction...). At the gym, I almost never talk to girls first because they always seem to be in "leave me alone" bitch mode with giant Beats headphones and a relentless scowl. Yet I've slept with …
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/15 02:55 PM
1

Doesn't work in professional services (law, accounting, etc.) either. Accountants are natural skeptics, lawyers are natural bullshitters (and can hence spot it in others).
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 11:15 PM
1

Kitchen is where easiest improvement lies here. Also, pics suck - no legs, no side, no full back.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 11:13 PM
3

I love dating shy girls - usually means they don't have a million orbiters, huge social media profile and iPhone addiction (since they have few people to text). Shy girls are conservative with their expression and I've found usually this means they are conservative with their vag as well (though this may be anecdotal). IMHO the main thing with shy girls is you can't run abrasive club-type game. You have to embody the "iron bar wrapped in cotton" - that is your approach and kino must be soft but …
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:35 PM
2

In the jungle, the Lion sleeps, f--ks, roars and chills out 99% of the time while the Lioness(es) hunt, rear kids and manage the herd. They are providing for HIM, and of course, he eats first. When does he actually do work? When the tribe's survival is on the line and he has to fight to the death with other Lions for territory or for command. That's it. And yet it's enough to establish him as the "leader" of the tribe. I don't think "providing" and "femininity" are mutually exclusive. I think a …
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 05:18 PM
1

The only real test is how true a man is to himself. The expression of that in life varies by male, and often even within the same male. That's why you can be manly while being soft and graceful (old Nelson Mandela) or violent and full of strife (young Nelson Mandela). If you're free to be yourself, you don't apologize for nor are ashamed of your needs and wants, you know your convictions and values and live them daily - you're doing it right.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 05:09 PM
5

Solid advice. I've used 'I have enough friends' a few times.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 05:03 PM
2

The past is the past; there's nothing you can do about it now. All you can do is control decisions in the here and now. "What do I have of value?" "What do I have to offer?" In my view, these are absurd questions. Making lists and defining yourself is the mark of a lost human mind that has taken over the human. It's beyond RP, it's about enlightenment. No tree asks "what do I have to offer?" if no one comes to reap its fruit; it makes fruit for the sake of it. It does not require thanks if anyon…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/15 03:27 AM
2

Check out 5/3/1 for beginners or 5/3/1 full body. keep in mind we have 40 years of lifting for a young male and it takes 10 years to hit a genetic ceiling. There's no rush to hit 500 on squat and the risk isn't worth it for many people. I love the Rippetoe program but I'd only tell REALLY weak kids or athletes to do it. Slow and steady wins the race. And leaves you less injured.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 10:40 PM
1

I'm a huge fan of Jim Wendler's 5/3/1. I did Stronglifts and Chad Waterbury's Huge in a Hurry as well, both are excellent. The reason I like Wendler is once the main lift is done for the day, you can do any accessory work you want. You can change it week to week depending on how you feel. This allows me to chart strength progression while entertaining my "program ADD". This is basically the only program I could follow for more than 6 months.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 07:27 AM
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This is a good point man. Every one of my girlfriends went after me hard to get me to commit. You could almost say I was the "gatekeeper of commitment" and she had to step up if she wanted to be more than a memory. (I say this tongue in cheek as I know it's a RPW maxim).
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 08:51 PM
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Draco was not concealing a heart of gold under all that sneering at prejudice Draco was a bitch, Snape was an ultimate bitch (taking care of his dead oneitis' child), Weasley was a bitch - Potter was merely OK. Honestly trying to think of one guy who's inspirational in that series and I can't. Dumbledore's a white knight. Sirius is probably the closest thing to cool. This is what happens when women write men.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 05:50 AM
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This should have been posted to the main subreddit (/r/theredpill) and or /r/marriedredpill Though it is kind of obvious to me; I read some of these adulating articles of foreign women and I roll my eyes. I've experienced asian, indian, western euro and eastern euro women and I'll take a RP from the West 10 times out of 10. People expecting a docile, obedient wife need to realize it's in a girl's nature to endlessly shit test until she is "conquered", aka she respects you. If you don't have a ba…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 09:08 PM
4

Sounds like typical French guy game. You've been given a plate test; how much can you tolerate? They're really big on the mushy LTRish type stuff, even if it's just for fun. Advice remains the same: State the terms you want and bail if he doesn't give them to you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 01:32 PM
4

I wouldn't hold my breath. The kind of woman who wants to be a devoted SAHM wants security of marriage, and I totally get that. She is going to raise kids, pass up hundreds of thousands of career earnings and if things go sour she'll be out in the cold if she isn't married. If I do get married, I will get a pre-nup. I've already talked about it with the g/f - but basically the gist is I will give her enough support to get back on her feet if things don't work out. (i.e., if she is a dental hygen…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 05:35 PM
3

My best friend is a 5'7" balding pudgy viet who married a 5'8" HB8 blondie with enormous tits. He's so alpha it kind of scares me sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 05:23 PM
1

I'm talking about being honest amongst each other (those who participate in the Sub).
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:36 PM
2

You know I was exaggerating right ?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:35 PM
2

Depends. In some places in Europe and in French Canada, common law relationships with kids are quite common. I know personally my girlfriend wants to quit her job and raise kids but is waiting till she is married.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 02:15 PM
3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wse_hgca220
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 05:03 AM
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The basic idea behind TRP is that relationships between men and women have to be inherently antagonistic. Supposedly, women are all unfaithful gold digging succubi who only seek to control and exploit men....and only choose partners for economical benefits. Well....it's not that they are, it's that they all can be. But once you learn to work with that, it's not that bad :p But at least we're also honest about men too - we are all horn dogs who want to impregnate everything that moves and about 7…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:52 AM
7

Holy shit dude, you're a moron. You need to realize things are not black and white. "Alpha" doesn't mean impregnate everything in sight and leave a trail of pregnant women in your wake while never taking responsibility. It is strictly a designation given to a pack leader who has the right to mate with females. The alpha position also comes with tremendous responsibility - you have to lead battles, take on challenges of other wannabe alphas and you have to maintain order in the pack. Right now th…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 02:34 AM
3

Honestly, as a man, I get where he's coming from. It's so much better when "she" is into it. If he has that requirement, it's normal for him to just wait it out. If you trust him not to sleep around, just let it be. He is making a sacrifice for the betterment of the marriage, just appreciate a Capt. who can be selfless.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 02:28 AM
2

If that were the case, the string "redpill" wouldn't be on auto-delete as each message would be evaluated for its content. The sub is pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:21 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2porp4/men_with_girlfriends_out_of_your_league_how_did/ SHE SAID YES Wow!!! What a celebration. A woman is letting you come close enough to sniff her vag!!! YES!! Congrats bro!! Better not screw it up, bring flowers, wear a suit, tell her you're the marrying kind and show her your pay stubs. - Typical /r/askmen advice and pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:20 AM
1

Eat what you want. No one is forcing food into your mouth. Learn how to say No. If people insist, don't respond. "Come on have some turkey stuffing." "No thanks." "Come on, live a little." "...." Nothing changes over holidays. The cure to oneitis is to realize she isn't special. How is that done? Dating others.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 11:07 PM
2

Play semantics game if you want. You're still interacting with pixels.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 10:56 PM
11

One year online relationship. Dude you're interacting with pixels.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 07:32 PM
2

It's not work. It's what you should be doing. Stop looking at it as work. Don't go out of your way but if it's in front of you, absolutely, you must seize the opportunity. Every one of your ancestors did. Don't let them down.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 04:59 PM
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Look at it as feedback. More tests = you're not succeeding. she is still unconvinced of your suitability. Less tests = she knows you're the man. My g/f's shit tests have gone from infrequent to almost non-existent in 5 years. She knows who the boss is.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 04:57 PM
1

You treat OL dating as plate farming, basically.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 02:53 PM
5

This sub likes to talk about the cock carousel being bad while being part of it. No, it's not bad or good. This sub is basically about acknowledging it exists and explaining the consequences of it to both genders. Every girl is free to ride it, every guy is free to be a seat on the carousel. The main thing you don't get is that the consequences are different for men and women. Because men and women have different biologies and psychological make-ups. Any adult can decide to be CC and own the con…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 02:47 PM
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Turned sideways instead of facing him and said "Sorry to disappoint but I don't think i have a witty response for you right now bro I'm pretty drunk, how's your night going?" I'm interested in deflecting that the best way and turn potential assholes into friends and gain some respect/standing. So weak. I've read blue pill supplicative field reports that made me cringe less than this. No. 1 - Stop wanting to please others. You want friends? Be interesting. Respect is earned through excellence, lo…
/r/askTRP18/12/14 02:39 PM
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Yeah but you need an aggregate measure; look at what Bob Nardelli did to Home Depot. He's not representative of the average CEO, and that doesn't discredit men from being CEOs.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 10:14 PM
5

Nothing says top-notch CEO like an active tumblr account.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 10:10 PM
5

LOL if anything other than #3.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 09:52 PM
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Regardless, it's drama. You don't need drama, let alone Facebook drama. Let BB do what BB does, makes AF easier for the rest.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 09:51 PM
2

Disagree. Marriage, if done well, is actually better than spinning plates. Almost every successful man is married. Why? Because taking on the world with a good team mate is easier than alone. Spending 3 hours a night improving yourself, then banging your wife and hitting the sack will get you further ahead than going out every night hunting for pussy. Marriage =! Complanceny. Marriage (if done right) = Easy pussy, easy home cooked healthy meals, companionship, support through tough times. Marria…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 03:45 PM
1

The Tao of Steve - Game to establish value if you have nothing else going for you Hitch - Not putting any women on a pedestal Fight Club - Inner game / Value of being selfish Indecent Proposal - Hypergamy / Beta Most new stuff, you have to take the RP and leave the BP. At best you can find purple.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 03:41 PM
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"I wish I met you later in life" I was like, man this isn't so bad, then I read that. She is struggling between her total lack of attraction to you and her need for solid resources, which you easily provide. Women's attraction is completely independent of checking off a list of boxes she has arbitrarily compiled based on Western propaganda. She thinks she should be more attracted and can't figure out why she isn't. At this point you have to go into heavy dread. She has one foot in, one foot out.…
/r/askTRP17/12/14 02:58 PM
0

R/tinder
/r/askTRP17/12/14 02:48 PM
4

I'm not at all surprised by these findings. However I'd be wary to equate correlation and causation. I'm pretty sure more effeminate males agree to do house work more easily, and they're already the kind that girls would put in the "beta" category. I also think we have to look at frame and context. Right now I live in my condo with my g/f who had to hastily move in because she lost her apartment when her landlord sold. Things have been a bit of a disarray since March. So even though my g/f does …
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/14 02:22 PM
3

Slowly and gradually go red. She'll either get it or she won't. If she won't, find someone whose values match your own. You're not a life coach. Do not take on the burden of trying to change anyone but yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/14 02:11 PM
1

I call this tactic the "re-frame". Essentially you leave the picture and re-enter with a shock to cause a re-assessment. For ex., girl sees you after 18 months and you've lost 100 pounds, learned to play guitar and got new clothes. Re-frame. Cool to see we all kinda figure the same shit out after awhile.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 03:29 AM
2

Except she didn't. I guess that's Strike 1.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 09:27 PM
2

I'd say it's the other way around. Relationships are entirely built on compromises. You compromise spreading your seed and impregnating tons of girls, she compromises hypergamy. The thing you can't compromise on is your values. You have to know when to make a stand. If my sister-in-law came to live with us, she will be told it's my rules, I'm the boss and she pulls her weight or GTFO. No deal? Good luck with the rest of your life then. If you're doing it right, the wife should side with you, not…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 07:28 PM
0

She may just never have experienced a man putting his foot down before; or been given this boundary by a man. The real test is if you do give this boundary, does she respect it and respect you more, or does she just begrudgingly accept it and resent you? A means she is loyal and has the correct frame of mind for a LTR and just needs coaching, B means she's still into the ex and hates you for wanting to take that away, she is probably an entitled princess and therefore she is a "next". Regardless…
/r/askTRP16/12/14 07:10 PM
0

She is still interested in the ex. It's that simple. If she were devoted to you, you would be obliterating the other guys in her mind. As in, she wouldn't even care to find out what they're up to, because she loves what she's got so much the rest is ancient history. She cherishes you so much, she would not even dream of nurturing a link to the ex - of any kind, virtual or not. It's a red flag. Maybe she learned, maybe she didn't. Keep an eye out. If you see evidence of the bf/ex-bf comparison ha…
/r/askTRP16/12/14 04:30 PM
1

Make your bed room as dark as possible.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 04:20 PM
1

Bingo.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 04:14 PM
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Our firm actually hired a girl who, it was later discovered, did Lingerie modelling. As you can imagine the young male interns went postal with the white knight gestures. I was a manager at the time and I treated her like everyone else. At one point we had to move a huge file (made of many office-type boxes) from one floor to another and she was standing around doing nothing while all the other interns got to work. I looked at her sternly and yelled "M, get off your ass. Help the team". She look…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 04:00 PM
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The game doesn't stop when you get married - you still need to be an attractive and dominant man or your wife will lose respect for you. You young wolves need to understand that "game" is a useful delusion. It's what we arbitrarily distinguish as a series of behaviors and patterns we forcefully adopt to extract the most out of life. We put effort into molding ourselves to fit these ideals. At some point, you need to internalize all of this shit and it needs to happen effortlessly. You stop "game…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 03:42 PM
7

http://fullcomment.nationalpost.com/2014/12/12/chris-selley-believe-the-women-isnt-enough/ MSM is starting to come back to the middle. The tide is turning, slowly.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 03:37 PM
3

I dunno man, I ran 50g of carbs a day for a year while wrestling and I lost a TON of fat. I'm not sure where this recommendation of 100-150g a day comes from.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:50 PM
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I can't wait to get a house big enough for a home gym. So I can train in silence.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:00 PM
4

You young wolves make me laugh. Are you all going to hold out for virgins in America? Good luck. A woman is more than just a vagina; in the same way a man is more than just a wallet. Giving away a V is indeed a bad deal for a girl, but it's not * everything *. She can still give the Captain more, namely, loyalty, devotion, servitude. My g/f wasn't a virgin. Before me, she never once was properly sexed, and basically only knew the dead fish position. But she has never let a guy do what she lets m…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/14 03:31 PM
2

Mistral in classic PUA mode. Not sure this is the right audience, but LOL.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/14 03:26 PM
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The male advice below strikes me as odd, so I'm going to jump in here. You have to take some of the Red Pill with a grain of salt. A lot of the men there are new, and are still in the anger phase of the process. That means their advice will trend overly towards reactionary black-and-white decisions, intolerance to even the slightest imperfections, and a complete lack of compassion and empathy towards women (which I always felt has made me a better Captain, by the way). They also live in an ideal…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/14 02:43 PM
14

Great job. One of the reasons my g/f coasted right past the plate zone into LTR territory was because she got me food every single time I asked her to get me food and drinks. I don't even have to be working. Even if I'm playing video games, she'll do it. Since we both work, we both cook for ourselves for the week during the weekend. She always gives me a few portions of what she made so I can try it out (her recipes are usually more, uh, complex than mine). Verily, the way to a man's heart start…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 02:11 AM
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The only way to "win" the game is to leave it, bro. Once you have internalized everything, the Red Pill is over. It's just reality at that point. You're not gaming, AMOGing, Framing, Leading or any of that shit; you're just being. That's when it's over.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 08:54 PM
0

I got my girlfriend matching Harry Potter "Ravenclaw" hat and scarf. She got me the same, for Slytherin
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 04:16 PM
24

If she's early 20s and career-focused, she probably won't change until she's over the wall, has become jaded about career and needs some other affectation to fill the void in her life; cue the biological clock. In my opinion it's useless to try to change her. If you want kids, find a girl who does also.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 04:14 PM
15

Useful idiots are everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 04:12 PM
6

"Because honestly, his happiness makes me happy." 2 trait of a good woman. btw, #1 is loyalty.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/14 06:20 PM
8

Use your height as a way to filter out men who are weak enough to be intimidated by it. I used to date a girl in university, and her sister was, physically, a classic barbie (hot, blonde, big tits, legs for days, amazing calves, etc.). During the course of being at their house I bonded amazingly with the sister because she was also quite intelligent and loved to debate me on things like economy and politics. Owing to her looks she had a steady stream of dates lined up and almost every time I was…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/14 06:18 PM
21

You know, my girlfriend is very often in the mood when I'm not. I put my man pants on (or in this case, take them off) and do my job.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/14 06:26 PM
2

T'as oublié d'écrire "à bientôt"
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/14 03:16 PM
8

I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years. For a guy like me that's an eternity. The main thing for me is that I see my g/f has "bought in" to my life project and has common values. Though we both have a lot to work on and it's often 2 steps forward 1 step back, I can see an overarching trend of progress. In other words, my g/f is open-minded, willing to learn and willing to defer on areas where I clearly am more talented, skilled or useful (such as time management, gym, making money). I also hav…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/14 03:08 PM
1

She gets mad when you ask for sex, sounds like the massage is secondary as an issue. The real thing I'd deal with is - why is she mad at you for wanting to meet your needs. It's as absurd as being mad at you for being hungry if you haven't eaten all day. As to the prescription, I'll let the married guys handle it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/14 12:11 AM
2

I want to write a few article on long-term game but the 8-part series on it is pretty good. Having done both short-term and long-term game, I can say long-term is is the "true" game.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 11:06 PM
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My girlfriend's best line is : "Can we have sex please?"
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 11:05 PM
2

It's good for guys to see women like you (all of you) exist. Too many men, I feel, have "checked out of society" and become discouraged because the task of finding a suitable partner appears insurmountable. Keep at it and post updates!
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 07:04 PM
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I am happy you enjoyed my article; I found this sub while doing my research for it, actually. I've been reading the sub regularly since then. ROK, I felt, needed an injection of LTR-related material. My article was more geared towards a Captain raising a potential LTR to the position of first mate, but its definitely usable by a woman who wants to raise herself to that position. As we say on the male side of things, "pull yourself up by the bootstraps". Before my girlfriend I dated/considered/ne…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 02:46 PM
1

Great post. Comparative advantage benefits everyone in trade. My g/f is better at a lot of things I hate and can't be bothered to do. I like having her around for this reason.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:26 PM
2

My prediction is over time, you will drop her. I had 2-3 platonic female friends who all moved away for work. I enjoyed them as you did - their escapades and their endless carousel riding and hamstering amused me. I had no desire to have any of them sexually because I saw them as confused infants more than full-fldeged adults. After they left I did a little post-mortem and realized they were way too much energy for what they gave me. Unless this girl is able to have your back like a man and be l…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:23 PM
2

Good luck. men being men, your pictures will do 75% of the work. What you wrote is more about meeting a RP/Traditional/Masculine man and not turning him off immediately (a green flag profile).
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 03:10 PM
6

Wife material.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 03:09 PM
1

My apologies then. By the way great article on the cast iron.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 03:09 PM
2

My g/f likes to delve into the "when I was a child" psychobabble now and then. I don't know if this works in the F--->M direction but I usually cut it short by reminding her it's useless and we have a lot to accomplish today (gym, cooking, cleaning, work, going out, etc.) and that's not helping with anything. Guys being guys, it may be hard for the Queen to address the King without wounding his pride; however accepting truth and criticism is the mark of a good leader. If he's just blowing off st…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 03:08 PM
2

Yeah, but with a man you can at least talk about it. Which was my suggestion above. Both the plate pre-qualitifcation OR the good girl ROUTE can work but regardless it is good to put things out there with a man. We are linear thinkers.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/14 11:44 PM
5

State your terms sexual terms. The best case, he respects you as a woman of dignity. The worst case, he moves on. He never liked you that much anyway. A lot of TRP guys believe you need to be a plate, then a girlfriend. That is not entirely true. Even if he has options, if you're head and shoulders above them, he will negotiate. It's a market, after all. I waited 3 weeks for my current girlfriend, and I don't regret it. It was probably the longest I waited since my teenage years ( 9 months for 1…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/14 06:11 PM
9

First you need to understand that common interests don't guarantee attraction. Only accessibility. Accessibility without attraction = acquaintance or facebook friend you unsubscribe or eventually unfriend. Secondly, you need to understand that common values don't guarantee attraction. Only compatibility. Compatibility without attraction = friend zone. So #1 is to make sure your SMV is high (Game, fitness, inner game, etc.). After that I'd recommend doing things that are beneficial to you first a…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 04:16 PM
4

Im guessing as a RPW you dont want hook-ups and tomfoolery. So you need to get your values across, concisely and succinctly. Do not say "Im not looking for a hook-up" because EVERY.SINGLE.GIRL. says that. We all know that means "I'm looking for hook-ups but too ashamed to admit it." Be clear and specific. Separate yourself from the pack. "I am looking for a long-term relationship.. I prefer strong, protective men who are confident, in shape, and hard-working. I do not believe in casual sex, but …
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/14 03:55 PM
5

The only thing I would add is, you have to think a bit like a man to get it. Gaming men is not like gaming women. Subtlety has its place but so does directness. I know a lot of the advice on here is of the flavor "Let him be the pursuer" and that is true to some extent. You need to see if he can man up. On the other hand, a smile and a joke are not big enough clues for most men. Touch him. His shoulder. His arm. Even his face if you have to. Tell him you get scared sleeping at night (protector i…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/14 08:11 PM
6

90% of it is usually the same for every man and woman and is common red pill knowledge. Usually the man offers resources, security and emotional stability. Usually the woman offers nurturing, sexual availability and domestic bliss. There other 10% well... After that, it's down to personalities. As much as I want to reduce us all to novel tropes, we do have some individuality. As dominant and masculine as I am, I do the dishes at home because I actually love doing it and I find it relaxes me. My …
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/14 08:04 PM
1

"Have fun, babe." The rest will come from your inner game (especially the mentality of abundance).
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:45 PM
14

Here is the deal. Men will put you into one of 3 boxes (friend isn't one of them) - Nope / crazy / fat / ugly / annoying - Plate - LTR potential If you transmit that you don't respect yourself enough to set your own boundaries, get your shit together, take care of your appearance, you're a plate. End of story. - Dress like a slut - Party girl - 50 cocks by age 22 - Act boorish / loud / rude - Spoiled - Entitled - Unable to accept criticism - Lacking social skills (iPhone addiction for ex.) - Nee…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/14 04:40 PM
1

Yes and no. At one point I had a major lifting injury where I could barely do more than sit at a desk. I never gamed before, so I wanted to try it. I got myself a PC and played an MMO near-full-time (20-30 hrs a week) for a year. The negatives were obvious - I ignored my g/f too much - I got out of shape - I became detached from RL and disinterested in family - Other skills declined ( not practicing music, writing and languages) On the other hand, when I began I was a rank newb and I slowly asce…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 04:28 PM
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