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Yeah, I’ve seen it with my own eyes how left these staff are. If you actually read my comments - I said BAR STAFF (which is ALL STAFF working in the venue). If a bartender or glassy or whoever overhears what you say & doesn’t like it - they throw you out (by calling security). Security can do this aswell on their own. I’ve seen this many times with my own eyes and the people I know who work in those industries gloat about it. Are you saying my eyes are lying?
/r/seduction06/09/25 05:22 AM
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Yeah, left wing nobody on a power trip to enforce their idealogy, using the tiny amount of power she’s given. She may have been a lesbian predator trying to get something out of the girl aswell. I’d make a complaint to the club about that woman being a lesbian predator myself, and detaining a woman against her will.
/r/seduction03/09/25 02:12 PM
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No they don’t - not in Australia. Have you been to Australia?
/r/seduction03/09/25 10:33 AM
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This is silly and doubtful - I don’t think you’re from Australia if you think women warn security about this beforehand or that this woman has displayed a pattern of behaviour. That security was a jealous, left-wing activist intentionally trying to remove a white guy from the venue for any reason for whatever she could.
/r/seduction03/09/25 10:32 AM
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What he’s talking about isn’t a “Nanny state” - like in my comment on this thread: it’s jealous & envious left wing activists working in hospitality, asserting the tiny amount of power they have on anyone they can.
/r/seduction03/09/25 10:30 AM
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I’m Australian - night clubs can literally kick you out for almost any reason. There almost the only business or location where they can be viciously exclusive with who they let in the club and (more relevant to you) the behaviour of the patrons in the club and kicking those people out. Nightclubs in Australia, especially in Melbourne, are staffed with extreme leftists, some of the most left leaning people in the ENTIRE country work in hospitality in Melbourne, especially bars & clubs. I know 4 …
/r/seduction03/09/25 10:27 AM
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Who is the author of the book ‘Cad’?
/r/seduction28/05/25 04:03 AM
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I also just saw you’re a Foreign looking guy approaching American women in NYC? Yeah, mate, HUGE fear response from women. Approaching other ethnic women would greatly reduce this for you though.
/r/seduction20/04/25 01:39 AM
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I’ve already implied it in the comment, the reason this fear response is covered up by women is: They want to appear & FEEL strong - to the man AND to herself. If a man “sees her weakness” - that will mean she’s easy, scared, weak - which equates to her indirect interest in the man, which she’s not read to show yet and doesn’t want to show accidentally (in her mind, she believes this). She doesn’t know if you’re a weak guy yourself - so she doesn’t want to appear weak to a WEAK guy immediately w…
/r/seduction20/04/25 01:31 AM
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That “feeling” you get when women are cold approached is their fear which they always want to hide with another emotion; So a man doesn’t know she’s fearful: which would expose her weakness or being overwhelmed. Many (not all) modern women have been told they are equal to men and when they’re approached by a guy in a normal way, they don’t want to show they’re fear - so they mask it with anything else: disgust, annoyance, dismissive, frozen, etc. Imagine the same thing, I’m a man and women have …
/r/seduction19/04/25 10:30 PM
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This is what so many normie guys think and then they’re shocked when women who like them eventually lose interest. It’s so weird how young guys see media & television showing women jumping in guys laps - it’s not real life for 99% of men, even attractive ones. You need to smoothly escalate, and lead a woman. Saying that a woman “should lead you” is hilarious and just completely against (most) women’s nature.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/25 02:12 AM
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Oh be jealous about it. Who said 19? Making alot of weird creepy know-nothing assumptions there mate. No-one has told me it’s weird except for old ladies over 40 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:06 PM
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In a relationship with a gorgeous woman under 21 now and I’m well into my 30’s. Same with the relationship before that and the one before that and the one before that. Lol, keep losing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:56 PM
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Lol sure they do. They force themselves to sleep with older men and like it - they must be amazing actresses or prostitutes. Good company you keep with prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:54 PM
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Never heard of it happening. Wow, you women are deathly scared men in your older age group really aren’t interested in dating you. You’re so sour grapes and salty about it - making up all this nasty nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:52 PM
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You really truly don’t understand men at all. Why would men not caring about women’s career/money/education (in your mind) = Marrying a homeless woman with tonnes of debt? Lol what? It’s a NON-FACTOR in our consideration of whether we want to marry a woman or even date her. None of it makes her more or less attractive. We care more about a woman being sweet, kind, caring, feminine & conscienscious. She could have a bare minimum job if she was all of those things and the career/money is a distant…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:50 PM
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I’ve been asked this aswell like I was targeting young women. I just approached women I genuinely found attractive and they turned out to be in their 20’s. Some of them I didn’t follow up on after you talked to them and you don’t like their personality - but that’s the same with women my own age, just for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:02 PM
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No-one is going to read this over-emotional reaction - that has no logic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:00 PM
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Yep - which is why no-one cares about women’s money/career/education - it doesn’t mean much for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:00 PM
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Of course - a very bitter overly-emotional woman. Evidently you’re abit jealous men in your age demo aren’t interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:59 PM
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What are you NOT UNDERSTANDING? Men DON’T CARE AT ALL ABOUT YOUR EDUCATION/CAREER/MONEY! It doesn’t factor into ANY of our decisions. We only want women that ARE ATTACTIVE in looks and personality. Your career/money/status/education DOES NOT factor into your looks and personality being attractive to us. Or even your suitability as a girlfriend. What about this is confusing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:29 PM
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I’ve never seen that and women don’t want that. Women wanted to stay home and didn’t care about their high earning jobs - this is the way it ALWAYS goes. You clearly don’t know any high earning couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:26 PM
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And if they have kids? And the woman took time off to be with those kids (plural) when they were young children (like every high earning couple I know)?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:00 PM
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Lol they do - I’ve met the real life people myself. Do you actually know any men that became single in their 30’s? How many?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:57 PM
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Nope, I’m well into my 30’s Wait, so young men dating young women when it doesn’t work out = Probably because they’re young too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:47 PM
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No, I had long relationships with several of them and I broke up with them or moved for school (one of them). Why I broke up with them had nothing to do with their age or mine either. I’m in a long term relationship with one now. Lol, how jealous and spiteful you must be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:45 PM
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So you are saying men SHOULD make women’s career/money/education a factor when choosing a woman to marry - thereby implying indirectly that we should find it attractive (even though we don’t)?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:31 PM
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Lol men still don’t care about that. Men get robbed in divorce either way - even with a high earning woman. It’s like you don’t know any couples who both have great careers who divorces. The man always loses tonnes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:09 PM
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It’s still a non-factor - refer to my post above. Do you believe men should take women’s higher earnings, education and career into consideration as a highly positive trait for a relationship with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:57 AM
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Have you ever actually met one or more men who are in their 30’s that became single and weren’t in a relationship - who then decided to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:49 AM
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Please share exactly what women told you to your face in real life. And did you check their dating history to confirm they ONLY exclusively dated men with money?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:49 AM
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Lol why? I’m in a serious relationship with one now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:48 AM
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That’s because they often meet in university or at work in the same industry. I know this because all the doctors, vets, lawyers I know ALL MET at University when they were studying the same subjects and got married - literally all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:13 AM
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Men still don’t care enough about women’s education or career/work/money for it to move the needle on how attractive that woman is nor makes her more attractive. It just doesn’t factor into men’s attraction for women, it’s a non-factor, neither more or less attractive. This post implies, like many other women have insisted, that men SHOULD BE MORE ATTRACTED to something that is inherently not relevant to men’s genuine attraction to women. Insisting that men SHOULD consider it more attractive doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:02 AM
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You’ve admitted you no experience in this. If you did - your opinion would be more informed and relevant to this debate. Do you even KNOW any men that have become single in their 30’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:34 AM
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Thanks for bowing out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:38 AM
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You haven’t read my main comment on this thread lol. Do you have ANY experience with this at all? Do you even know a man that has become single in his 30’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:38 AM
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Thank you for your perspective and your welcome to share it. I’m also welcome to share my perspective on yours in saying your perspective is truly irrelevant because you have no experience or knowledge in the matter from real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:09 AM
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Lol sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:08 AM
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Makes no logical sense - I have dated many younger women and so have several men I know. Makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:08 AM
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How do you know that - based on what evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:07 AM
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Thank you for admitting you don’t know anything about this subject other than being emotional about something else that’s regrettably happened to you that’s not related to this subject at all. You’re supporting my posts above.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:06 AM
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Lol how? So you have no experience as a man dating younger women either? I’m sure YOUR opinion is very informed then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:23 AM
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You have no experience in this area to give any kind of informed decision - you’re not a man that has dated younger women. Do you even know, actually personally know in your own life, an older man (or more than one) in his 30’s who’s dated a single woman or a younger woman dating an older man? If not - what are you doing commenting here? It makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:22 AM
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You have no experience in this area to “trump” others - you’re not a man that has dated younger women. Do you even know, actually personally know in your own life, an older man in his 30’s who’s dated a single woman or a younger woman dating an older man? If not - what are you doing commenting here? It makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:21 AM
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Yes, myself, my friends, colleagues. Like I said in my main comment on this thread - most people don’t actually see men become single in their 30’s and 40’s. This is fairly rare in itself. And when they do - those older men aren’t that attractive and weren’t in their 20’s either or they have a tonne of baggage: Divorced, children & high debt + (often) not attractive. But I know plenty of attractive and normal guys (without baggage) that have become single in their 30’s and usually and easily. da…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:55 AM
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Lol of course you CAN comment - but I’m letting everyone know how barely informed you are since you aren’t a man that has dated or been in relationships with many younger women. I have and so have several of my male friends - and I’ve met THOSE women and talked to them about why/how they came to date. So stay in your lane and stop speaking about something you clearly have no experience in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:52 AM
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If younger women are so often creeped out - why do so many (a majority) of single men in their 30’s (when they become single) end up dating women in their early 20’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:41 AM
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As per my comment on this thread about actually dating younger women as an older guy - I just don’t think you know what most women want or how they really behave and why. You haven’t ever ever experienced dating multiple younger women before as a man - so you won’t know that none of them have dated older men before, nor were attracted to them, nor knew they would ever do that. So I think it’s completely outside your experience and potential experience to give ANY credibility to your opinion when…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:36 AM
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I’m over 30 and ALL (not some, not most - ALL) women I’ve dated between 18-25 ALL said: • they have never dated a man over 30, •never thought they would date a man over 30 •(to their knowledge) have never been attracted to a man over 30 •Have TOLD their friends/family repeatedly that they only want men 1-2 years either side of their own age, and are STRICT about this minimal age gap. Yet, here they are, happily dating a man over 30. I just don’t think women really understand who or what or why t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:20 AM
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You’re so confused here mate. I’m telling you how men actually VIEW women - all around the world. Men’s behaviour now, all around the world and throughout history, suggest that men don’t value women’s friendship as much as women value a man’s because of the above reasons I made: Value Imbalance. You can argue all you want - those are the facts. I didn’t MAKE thoss facts - just reporting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:14 AM
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Answer to your Question: Men (generally) offer more value to the world because they are required to do so to advance in life. Women don’t have this same amount of pressure to offer as much value or the actual capability to because they’re physically weaker and more emotional. It has NOTHING to do with their socialisation. Women also value relationships more - because they’re physically and mentally weaker and therefore they know they need more people to offer them protection and support. So wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:05 AM
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Ok, so I have a question for you: why do you think men SHOULD want to be friends with more than a few women despite them not offering any value or very small amount of value to their lives? Do you know what ‘Opportunity Cost’ is? It’s an economic term where we do one thing and we miss out on another. If people could spend their time with people who offer them alot of value in return for the value they offer each other - people will prefer using that time they have to do so, as opposed to investi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:56 AM
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I just answered you and you’re asking why men don’t see having MORE THAN A FEW WOMEN as friends - you claimed I said ”No Women as friends” (which isn’t true). Mate, I’m reporting the weather - I don’t make it. I’m not all men. In my life, there’s really on a few women I know that are friends that offer me value, and that’s unfortunate for me and everyone else involved. This same story is very true with most men. Do you understand the concept of value? If I give alot of value and I have a friend …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:28 AM
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Blaming this dynamic of Men not really seeking women as friends on “men were raised this way” is purely fiction and silly. That means men ALL OVER THE WORLD in every country for all of history were somehow raised the exact same way - that’s the assumption you’re making here. It’s just not true. The truth is alot simpler: Men don’t seek women as friends because men (usually, not always) don’t see value in having friendships with more than a few women. Women are more likely to want to be friends w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:43 AM
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Don’t forget the murder that this show is based on: Hassan Sentamu murder of Elianne Andam
/r/MensRights01/04/25 01:25 AM
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I think there’s alot to be said for the opposite of this: One of my ex-girlfriends had a placeholder she was “dating” when I met her - she had no interest in him but he was a simp taking her out, spending money on her - but she was playing him for the long game and hadn’t had sex with him. Then I came along and she would barely text him after our first date to only replying to him once per fortnight. There was an ex - but he was in another country on the other side of the world. That was a sligh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:49 AM
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I’ve taken quite alot of seduction techniques women used - they’re very clever with how they try to seduce me. You can use the same seduction method a women used on you directly after they use them on you and they truly won’t know you’ve just used exactly what she used on you. So, I don’t think women (usually) use these techniques consciously.
/r/seduction11/12/24 10:06 AM
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Yeah they do, from what I’ve seen of divorced women. Logically, you would think they would be in a great situation, but that’s apparently not the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:36 AM
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Yes they are from what they’ve told me. They WANT to date and settle down into s new long term relationship - but have almost no options for that. This inclination to get into a new relationship is stronger if they don’t have much money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:35 AM
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It’s not just about materials if you read my comment - these divorced women (who were the people who CHOSE the divorce & initiated it) - are doing far worse post divorce than their ex-husbands, despite her having more money, assets, time, less responsibilities than before. Their dating is usually a non-starter for years or for a long time. These women expected the OPPOSITE because they thought it would be the same as when they were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:56 AM
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I haven’t seen this situation: despite many men being divorced by their wives, their former wives THINK their lives are going to be better (from what I’ve seen) but usually are very much worse after she divorces (even with alot of money given to her by courts). Most women who wanted to get divorced - were highly misinformed and overly optimisitic about how they’re post divorce life would be. These women (I know them in my personal life) often struggle to date, go on many many unsuccessful dates …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:04 PM
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This is the exact OPPOSITE to all the divorce situations I’ve seen. The men (who aren’t financially ruined and even many of those that are) find new & much younger new wives and quickly get remarried. It’s often the former wives that flounder by going on many many unsuccessful dates with many men for years. Some of those women find another man and settle, some just keep dating and never find anyone and remain alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:55 PM
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Ahaha defeated because you know nothing. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:46 PM
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Lol, you’re showing you’re lack of experience as I thought. Who said they ALL rejected me or ALL tested me? I didn’t. How many women would YOU guess an attractive man would sleep with if he cold approached 1,000 - just out of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:35 PM
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Wrong - I’ve approached thousands of women and so have my friends. Thanks for not contributing an opinion that has any experience of being a man approaching women. Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:27 PM
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I agree with this and this has happened to me when women approach me. But what the OP is referring to is the testing and bitchiness - after the startling introduction has worn off - many women will be testy and negative, even with attractive men they like the look of after the approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:13 AM
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I don’t think you’ve cold approached too many women (as a man) nor have you seen too many cold approaches by a man to a woman. If you had, especially in clubs/bars - many women are often testing, dismissive or negative (or their friends are) upon an approach by even a man they’re very attracted to. Normally that fades and becomes more friendly after - but most women aren’t ultra friendly upon being approached by attractive men, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:11 AM
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This isn’t true - in any form. Women will test immediately most or any man that approaches her (that she doesn’t already know) in clubs/bars or in public, especially so if she’s been drinking. Guys reading this - the woman is being dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:07 AM
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Women WANT men because of our strength. Women are often very weak, which is why they’re drawn to men’s strength but simply aren’t aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:48 AM
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Really? Can you provide the numbers for how many women SAID they were drugged and how many women (after testing) were in fact drugged? It’s tiny tiny number of women actually drugged, if any, depending on where in the world it came from. MEN are more likely to be drugged in 2nd and 3rd world countries than women are in 1st world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:44 AM
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Who are you talking to “bud”? Lol Mate, I do it in Australia and Miami. Australia is harder to game ALL girls. Miami was easy. Miami is easy for american guys I met there and here. Wtf are you talking about?
/r/seduction30/08/24 07:28 AM
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I’ve been to Colombia myself - really much less game than in most other countries I’ve been to. Not sure what you’re comparing it to, but it wasn’t tough to meet and date gorgeous women there evert day from cold approach.
/r/seduction30/08/24 04:41 AM
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Yeah, male’s attention has ALWAYS been valuable to women - forever. Or you can go out to nightclubs and tell women to all go home because they don’t need to be there trying to get men’s attention: because it’s valueless to them (according to you). Go away, you’re clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:39 AM
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Absolutely zero logic in this comment whatsoever. “If men didn’t GIVE her attention in the first place - it wouldn’t have been so traumatic when it was taken away” The lady dressed as a man was a middle aged lesbian - she wasn’t getting much/if any male attention to begin with, nor wanted it. So how would it be painful for her to have male attention taken away - that she never had in the first place. I saw the doco years ago, where she explained this. Stop talking non-sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:43 AM
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It was the contrast - women ignored /were dismissive or were outright HOSTILE to this women (while dressed as a man) and the same thing happens when women pretend to be men on dating apps (for really no good reason). It’s hilarious that you’re trying to shift the blame to men here. Women pretending to be men get a taste of how poorly they get treated by other women (even with their own “great” female personality) and it really does a number on them. They realise that women have been treating oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:29 AM
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The reason this hurts & disappoints women with every woman I’ve seen do this is: these women truly believed she could use her “charming personality” to get plenty of dates with attractive women. Too many women (usually single) have been gassed up by men (who only want to sleep with them & not commit) about how great their personalities are and that’s led her to believe she would be successful on these dating apps and what she attributes her dating success to - rather than simply her looks & yout…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:11 PM
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No it isn’t - a woman saying the guy is “Nice” a less confrontational & more pleasant way of saying: “that guy is weak: not strong and not masculine, predictable & boring, too logical and doesn’t take risks & takes the safer easier route which leads to less success.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:59 PM
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The ‘Shared Narrative’ seems confusing: usually when I roleplay with women, there’s a shared narrative included in the roleplay scenario, otherwise it seems shallow and one note - rarely do guys use roleplay without a shared narrative, so this is moot. I think that’s how most people view Roleplaying with women, especially when it’s been recommended by others people teaching seduction. Your examples on the ‘Shared Narrative’ don’t clarify the technique or it’s usage at all.
/r/seduction19/08/24 02:02 PM
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You’re first issue is that you (logically) assume that because you’re friends with women - that should equate to; more dating options for you. From what you’re written - it sounds like you’re being far too logical and not being seductive. You ask ONE woman to dance and she shut you down - now you’re boo-hoo’ing on reddit? That’s all around WEAK. I’m guessing you’re not relaxed in social conversations and come across as scared, cautious and avoid risk-taking; which women view as unattractive sexu…
/r/seduction19/08/24 11:33 AM
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Keep not approaching brother. It’s helpful that you “thought about it” (logically) and made a realisation after not testing or trying to confirm that realisation. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:41 PM
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I agree with this - the upvoted comment is reductive. What he’s claiming is that if women create barriers (purposely or not) with their friends around them, large groups, phone, earphones, etc. whatever - it must mean she doesn’t WANT men to approach her, therefore it’s ALL purposeful & orchestrated intentionally by her to be this way. That’s not true in the slightest. My(female) friends (who are very attractive) have complained to me before that they don’t have men approach them and ask me why.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:08 AM
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But you don’t even need to ask her questions mate, realistically. Women find questions boring, logical (women don’t like logic & it’s unseductive). Just say, “come back to my house for a drink/some coffee/tea/food, it’ll be fun” then lead her there. No need for questions. Think about the smoothest seductive guys you know, like James Bond or whoever - are they asking women a tonne of questions or ANY questions? No, of course not.
/r/seduction02/08/24 09:51 AM
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Of course you’re confused - you ask women alot of questions because you think (logically) that’s the best way to be seductive. Do you think questions are seductive to women? Have you ever questioned a woman into bed?
/r/seduction02/08/24 09:32 AM
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You’re the one deluded if you think men believe there are many attractive virgins in first world western countries. Grow up - most women over the age of 21 in a normal-large cities who SAY they’re virgins -in fact, NOT virgins. I’ve been with some genuine virgins and it was pretty messy when we did it. But I’ve never met a virgin that liked me - but wanted to wait until marriage, it’s just not done here. You’d have to have very low desire for that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:35 AM
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It sounds abit butthurt & emotional though mate. Just a quick, “Hey mate, we’re off. Later” - and just whisk her away. She’s your friend, she’ll go with you unless she really likes the guy. If he chases after you guys, he looks weird, needy and unseductive, perhaps even creepy. No need to be pissy when you deal with this, she doesn’t even know him.
/r/seduction02/08/24 07:09 AM
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I think some guys struggle with this when they learn seduction: You’re not required to answer anyone’s questions, EVER (including a woman’s) - just because he or she asked them Just don’t answer his questions - say whatever you want to say to the woman, it makes him look weird, boring & lame to ask questions like that in that way (because it is). In this specific situation: just leave with her and be polite, “Nice to meet you mate, thanks for helping out. We’re off” - then take her away and say,…
/r/seduction02/08/24 07:02 AM
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These answers are silly & not based in reality. Most men simply don’t believe your claim to be a virgin or even your intention to remain a virgin. Most men know, in 99% of cases, when women say this, it’s to simply make herself more of a challenge, to communicate her value indirectly - with the purpose of attracting a provider, while she secretly has had sex with several other men, or continues to do so. Women break rules for men they’re attracted to - and many women who are virgins do this for …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:54 AM
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Yes, but not the norm and are simply making CHOICES to be unattractive, inside their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:40 AM
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Perfect, so that extremely hyperbolic example isn’t applicable to either of us - so why bring it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:35 AM
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So you’re CHOOSING not to be charming (which is a choice) and disgusting and overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:23 AM
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What type of man? And you admit there are more options for us men for relationship? You CAN marry someone from overseas that doesn’t care about your money or citizenship?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:12 AM
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Because being attractive (as a man) //=// Being Seductive. Most guys don’t have a problem being attractive, many are attractive enough - but they aren’t seductive (usually because they’re too tense/nervous & logical for women to find seductive or charming). I know plenty of physically handsome, tall & successful guys that struggle with women (because they’re simply too logical and unseductive).
/r/seduction27/07/24 09:32 AM
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So you’re claiming a double bind here - you either get married/in a long term relationship with a woman you don’t like that much (in your own country) Or Saddle up for trading money for a relationship wife. Brother, those ARE NOT the only two options men have for marriage OR a long-term relaitonship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:26 AM
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So what you said is they “imagine” those lines about not taking them on dates or the man being broke? Many women STILL have sex with me when I don’t pay or when we go on a cheap date - that isn’t a dinner date. Have you considered that the logical reasons you’re imagining women are rejecting you from dates is not actually why they’re rejecting you - and perhaps you’re projecting your logical reasons on women? Women don’t reject men for logical reasons like “being broke” or “not taking me to dinn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:48 AM
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I think the Analogy about interviewing for a company & dating useful. But women don’t behave like that if you’re actually being seductive and the certainly don’t think like that when dating a man, it’s so cold and logical. I’m a man - and this is certainly not been my experience of women. None of them have ever accused me or shamed me as being broke if I don’t take them to dinner or spend money on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:11 AM
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If 80% of men in the (western world) are unattractive - why are far more men than that percentage: married, in relationships or situationships with women? Wouldn’t that prove that it doesn’t matter how attractive men are to women and they want something else? Also, that figure is from a study of women looking at men’s photos and online dating: that’s hardly accurate. Here’s another thing about Ladies taking Surveys: LADIES BE LYING. Every survey/study where I see women’s verbal response to what …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:58 AM
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Go out today and be relaxed talking to 10 women then bud. I dare you. Then come back and tell us the results. Or are you a mind reading Nostradamus that can read women’s minds before approaching them: which is what you’re trying to assert you can do BUD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:53 AM
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Lol what a troll. Clearly never actually talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:32 AM
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Same question to you mate - have you ever actually tried to be relaxed & calm with women? You act like it’s super difficult to even talk to women. You know - when women are negative to you: it doesn’t mean they’re rejecting you. It means you’re butthurt while she was being emotional. So soft
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:24 PM
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Really? Have you actually tried it? Every guy I know who is “Black Pill” with Looks/Money/Status shoots themselves in the foot and is super tense and not charming when they approach women or simply rarely cold approach. They’re terrified of women testing them and fold like a cheaps suit. I’ve seen it so many times in real life with people I know, even good looking ones. I know plenty of average guys that do so much better than tall good looking guys because they’re relaxed, charming and not logi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:55 AM
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I think this post is an example of what men get wrong about women: Women already DO relax their standards on men’s finances in the modern age at 10x or 20x the rate that women did in history (pre 1960’s). The women SAYING with their words that they have enormously high standards are saying that out of emotions & frustrastion: those women never actually follow through on those high standards or laundry list. If you THINK women mostly or ALL follow through on the standards they set online or verba…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:30 AM
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What you just said makes no sense or any basis in reality - I don’t think you know women well at all or have an accurate view or them in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:52 AM
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Why provide closure to the other person though? Why does one person need to do that? To make the other feel comfortable or remove some of their tension? Why would anyone ow anyone else that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:30 AM
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Because it’s not correct - based on me having sex with many women from clubs, what women actually tell me they go to clubs for & the ALL the ways women behave. Perhaps it’s an unconscious thought to you - but it’s how women meet men. Have you ever thought that your actions & behaviour could be unconscious to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:33 AM
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It’s hilarious that you believe this - do you just take everything women say at face value?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:39 PM
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Yeah, I think the biggest element missing from all of this is: Women are really weak and thin-skinnned (from birth) - so that’s why they can’t handle rejection as well as men (who are naturally physically & mentally stronger).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:58 AM
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Every woman that’s in a situationship is by definition, dating a man “out of their league” (because he has no intention of committing: a guy IN your league would be committing to you). Many women consciously or unconsciously HOPING that the guy they are having casual sex with will commit to them at some point soon. Any woman saying otherwise is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:49 AM
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Or worse - they create a vicious victimhood story for themselves when you break up with them. That’s the worst and most common form of a woman lashing out after rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:41 AM
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No it isn’t “tied up in social conditioning” - women think everything is tied up in social conditioning. How are women ALL OVER THE WORLD somehow conditioned the exact same way for milleniums then? Could you explain that and how all of them somehow have the SAME exact conditioning - even uncontacted tribes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:29 AM
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Why are women “better off” sending signals rather than doing the approaching themselves? How would the amount of men “going along with her interest for sex/validation” meaningfully change if he approached her after she gave him signals versus after she approached him herself? So him Showing his interest by responding to your unspoken signals = Less likely to just want you for sex/validation vs. you approaching him > which means he’s more likely to NOT like you and use you for sex/validation? I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:24 AM
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A woman asking you to buy her a drink isn’t a pickup attempt, usually mate - it’s a woman scamming you for a free drink because she doesn’t want to pay for one. So you got approached by women wanting a free drink from you, not to encourage you to seduce them. A woman that wants to encourage you to seduce her will approach (as I have been many times) with asking something or commenting on something fairly innocuous: “Hey, can you tell me the time?” (She has mostly charged smartphone in her hand) …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:19 AM
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This is exactly it. I don’t understand ANYONE’S reluctance (legal, medical or men in the relationship) to get this test done. Guys, you are signing a Legal Document - a Birth Certificate stating that you are the fathers child. You cannot know that for certain without a medical test. I think the big reluctance in the medical establishment is that it would expose how many children accidentally get swapped in hospitals. Legally: I know most family courts would be a mess because they would be huntin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:08 AM
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I think this woman in the story over-reacted. I think this is common for women to do this though: when girlfriends of mine asked me what female celebrities I liked and I told them: they would always be surprised and offended if those women weren’t simply a more attractive version of them. Women don’t seem to understand men that way: just because we like a woman, a celebrity, a model, it doesn’t mean we want that in our real life or that we don’t like the personality/the way she moves/expresses h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:19 AM
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Yeah, I don’t know what argument you’re making here - it doesn’t go both ways. Women need to make the most effort IN relationships - men make alot of the effort before even meeting the woman, otherwise that woman wouldn’t sleep with him to begin with. Men don’t want to commit or are reluctant to when they don’t think they can deal with a part of a woman’s personality forever (unless that guy has low amounts of sex - a guy that most women won’t be interested in). Men have this luxury of not needi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:54 PM
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Literally zero men here are recommending to women to date or marry unattractive men. There are other countries that aren’t the USA that are on this channel - literally everywhere outside the USA has legalised prostitution and women in those places behave much like American women. It’s almost like you’re a typical american that’s never left america.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:19 PM
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It is funny that you say this because it’s NEVER (or rarely) women that DON’T want to commit to a man post (several) sexual encounters. The OP’s post is about men not committing and men having the freedom to spend as much time as we like to choose women to commit to, and women not having this much time & getting frustrated those same men won’t commit. This is the conundrum of modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:16 PM
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This is the answer: when women got the pill and thought it would be freedom for them - but it was just a great way for men to put off any responsibilities (long term relationships with women) to whenever a man is ready. IN ADDITION to a man having the ability to fulfil his sexual desires at the same time. This post is really discussing men not wanting to commit when women want them to - and why would men? Men commit to women that incentivise women to do so: and men’s commitment standards have go…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:47 AM
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Firstly, who told you cold approaching = Walking up to EVERY attractive woman you see then saying “Hey, you’re cute, can I have your number?” Have you ever actually done this many times? What were those women’s responses to you? I’m betting they weren’t “unnatural”, as you said. Secondly, just because a woman is cute or you approached her, it doesn’t mean you’re interested in her or she’s interested in you. Talk to them, see if they have the type of personality you like and be seductive while do…
/r/seduction01/05/24 07:48 AM
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Right, so you’re suggesting there’s no midway between picking a healthy normal guy on the same level as you and picking a man with mental illness and depression?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:33 PM
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I didn’t say career or money makes people confident in my comment. EXPERIENCE (in life, dating, relationships & with women) makes MOST men MORE confident when they’re older, but not all men. You can certainly be confident with zero experience and low income or unemployed but that’s a tall order for almost all men (the rare few can pull this off).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:59 PM
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I think this is a great way to have a dating scene. This explains why the french women I’ve been in relationships were so reasonable and level-headed. They didn’t really want to be “equals” in the way that they thought they could do what I so as a man though, that’s not part of it. But they didn’t mind paying their share, cooking each other food, going on casual dates for a coffee/dessert at a cafe, even when in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:18 AM
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This really isn’t true. I made another comment here outlining the positives and negatives of dating for young men and men in their 30’s. Women have NO control of their ability to attract men past 30-35 (depending on the woman). Women will never (or rarely) approach men and men have the ability to approach women to their hearts content. Therefore women have to rely on ever decreasing attention and approaches from men as they go into their 30’s. It’s really NOT the same thing for both sexes. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:10 AM
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This idea & all of these studies are far too simplistic. I was fit and above average attractive when I was young & I’m the same now that I’m in my 30’s. I dated alot higher volume of women when I was YOUNGER because of the following: They were available/accessable to me due to my friends, social circles, school, jobs, etc. More young women are single (especially through high school & university years) - so of course MORE women simply being more available at that age (not married, engaged or with…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:36 AM
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It’s not about Leading per se - it’s about doing things in strength and NOT doing things in weakness. Leading = Strength Being indecisive, not knowing what to do or how to do it, not taking responsibility = Weakness (to women) and is all the OPPOSITE to “Leading” Any time you do ANYTHING that is weak or even ADJACENT to being weak (or doing something that would mean future weakness): is when women begin losing interest in you, actually lose interest in you or begin testing you excessively (then …
/r/seduction26/04/24 05:48 AM
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What?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/24 06:21 AM
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What she wants is someone that’s more powerful than her to do her bidding but women are unhappy and become dissatisfied once she does this over and over again. Then she meets a stronger male that doesn’t capitulate to her, has his own goals and doesn’t concede to following her, ans she concedes to following him - then she either leaves her husband/boyfriend or simply cheats on him to see if this other stronger man will commit. This is why it’s a superior situation for her to be following your dr…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/24 04:54 AM
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Why do you think women were ALWAYS complaining about men NOT settling down then? Perhaps it’s biological behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:27 PM
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Then why are women complaining about men not settling down? Why are so many men of all ages (with money) not getting married or getting divorced and never marrying again?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:43 AM
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The problem is that women don’t believe this affects them: women think they are being treated well when they’re younger women due to their personality, femininity and charm. So, when they get older, these women reason that their personality, femininity and charm has improved or increased - therefore they will be MORE attractive to men. Unfortunately, as I’ve seen in real life, women find out the hard way after a middle age divorce or long relationship breakup - that they were never treated well …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:27 AM
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Why do you think men remarry? What’s the cause of it? Do you honestly think women wouldn’t remarry immediately if they could - middle-aged women with children aren’t exactly a catch for most men to marry after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:26 AM
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Really? Where? Why do you think men (primarily) want to settle down with women (hint; regular and consistant sex that they aren’t getting now)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:25 AM
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It’s not rationalising anything as a biological need - women’s need for relationships has been shown in studies. I asked the question because it’s a very obvious thing most people can see in their lives - women are constantly seeking relationships with people they meet, men aren’t. It’s very simple. Why aren’t men doing that - we don’t care about doing it. Women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:16 PM
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Two stories - show us the statistics mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:54 PM
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So you’re saying that women don’t have behaviours in common - if ALL women acted differently to each other without common behaviour, psychology wouldn’t exist or would all be wrong. So you’re saying that women, in general, in the world, don’t mostly want long term committed relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:51 PM
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Snagging men to commit to them? Doubtful You’re an american, I’m guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:05 PM
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Lol, completely nonsensical non-answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:41 PM
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Who do you think seeks out the highest volume of relationships of ANY kind - men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:40 PM
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No, that’s incorrect about the not wanting to have sex with others. Perhaps indirectly men desire this so they don’t lose regular access, but it wouldn’t really matter to a man if he had many women that he could have regular constitant sex with. Very clearly you’re a woman that doesn’t understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:37 PM
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For what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:35 PM
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I’m asking which gender is most likely (from your experience) to consistantly SEEK out the highest VOLUME of ANY kinds of relationships and maintain those said relationships? Doesn’t matter who the relationships are with - just who seeks the highest volume?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:34 PM
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Wow, that’s so mant - TWO whole women? In comparison to the MANY miserable single mothers you know in comparison and that I certainly have met. Engagement on social media is how you guage this? Exactly what I said - empty threats. Engagement on Social Media =//= Real Life Actions. I know Korean people, there’s plenty here. It’s a TINY group of loud women on social media. Totally irrelevant in real life. Could you please link me to where you got the number that 10% of the population is Lgbgti? Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:31 PM
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You mean the statistic with how many women are diagnosed with mental health issues in comparison to men? Or combining it with how many friends men have and comparing to women? It’s two different graphs - have you not seen these?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:19 PM
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Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:45 PM
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Do you know what incel means? They want sex/physical intimacy - not relationships. How obtuse are you? No incel that I’ve ever heard online is asking about being in a relationship, they just want regular frequent sex (like all men), but can’t get it (for various reasona).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:45 PM
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Literally completely dodged all of the statements I made. So you don’t deny that women view the whole world and their place in it through the lense of relationships - unlike men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:43 PM
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I asked this question above, in your experience, which gender is more likely to do the following: Desire to have relationships with ANYONE they can: random strangers, school or work peers, colleagues, anyone/anywhere in a social situation Are WOMEN or men more likely to want to befin some kind of relationship with the above people? You tell me from your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:41 PM
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Can you prove that MANY men PREFER monogamy over regular consistant sex with a variety of women without responsibilities or a relationship? Psychology and ALL men tell us that’s what men want. Men’s behaviour when they have alot of power in the dating market reflects the same behaviour. If a man says he “prefers” monogamy, what he means is that he prefers regular consistant sex & physical intimacy with ONE woman as opposed to: no sex/physical intimacy or RARE sex/physical intimacy. Most men just…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:39 PM
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That just sounds like a silly empty threat, as does the 4B Movement (in South Korea, pretty far away). Men know these are empty threats because women desperately need relationships with men. Have you met any women that have become single mothers by choice? They’re all miserable and they rely on a tonne of other family members and governmental financial support to even be that. You sound like you’re a very young American woman that doesn’t know alot of these women in real life and you’re here rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:33 PM
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Most men engage in long term relationships with women, not for the relationship itself like women engage in them. This is something men do that women can’t fathom - which is why women can’t understand why men want to “have fun” or why men ghost women or won’t commit to women they’re in a situationship with. Men only NEED some elements of the what women share with us in a relationship with them: mostly regular sex and regular physical intimacy. However, when men can repeatedly have regular sex/in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:55 AM
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Ok, so tell me why women ONLY care about long-term relationships with men? And can you explain to everyone here why women USE shame and guilt to oppose men not wanting long-term relationships? Because that’s what women are doing here - or don’t you know the definition of shaming and guilting?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:47 AM
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Well there are statistics - on the amount of men that can live alone or have very few friends or relationships without having mental health issues. Whereas the same can’t be said for women: lack of relationships for women = largescale mental health issues. Let me ask you - who do you see SEEKING or being agreeable to initiating or beginning relationships with ANYONE (read: ANY kind of relationships or connections with: random people, their peers at school/education, colleagues, etc) Women or men…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:44 AM
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Lol, how would anyone produce statistics on this? The only statistics are that men can live very happily with few or any friends, long term relationships, etc. but women cannot and don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:58 AM
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Who said anything about entitlement - who mentioned it and how is entitlement relevant? Women CARE deeply about relationships with people. So you don’t care deeply about any relationships with anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:57 AM
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Women view the entire world through the lense of relationships - even between objects. Men don’t view the world this way at all, which you would know if you were a man. Women become very unhealthy, mind (especially) and body when they don’t have important relationships with people, even in adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:55 AM
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Women NEED relationships - with anyone - on a biological survival level. Women NEED long term relationships with men, again, on a biological level. Men WANT relationships with women, but they don’t NEED them. That’s why so many guys are perfectly happy having their fun and many years with zero consequences to themselves - the opposite for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:53 AM
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Ok, so you think personally think masculine men are concerned about being judged negatively? I think you believe men and women think the same - this is the way women think. What do you think the short-long term consequences are for men being “judged negatively” in this case? The long term consequences for women having fun ARE judged negatively because men see women who have “had fun” as being a worse option for a long term relationship in future. Men don’t NEED or desire long term relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:33 AM
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Women evidently care because financially successful men wanting to “have fun” rather than have a long term relationship with women or providing a woman with security is against the goals of women in her group. The reason women shame and guilt men for men’s behaviour is because that aspect of men’s behaviour is oppositional to the wants & needs of herself or other women in her group. Women can’t directly tell MEN or the world that the most important thing to her is relationships and the most impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:27 AM
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What consequences do men face for wanting to “have fun” once they’ve become financially successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:19 AM
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I think this idea goes even further: • while women are more socially skilled (on average) than men - women still make alot of social mistakes, misread cues, don’t know what to say or when to say it (most of the time). •Most women THINK they can read men’s (and other women’s) minds - but they definately cannot. Men believe this lie aswell. •There are very few women that can provide fun, genuine excitement & creativity - women look to MEN as the gateway to fun and excitement in her life •Most wome…
/r/seduction10/04/24 01:09 PM
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Mate, if being Indian is better and everything about Indian culture is better/superior - ask yourself: why are you not IN India?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 01:37 PM
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Why would you care? You’re a woman. What’s the difference if men go overseas to meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:44 PM
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Yes it is stereotypical female behaviour ro NEVER or rarely accept responsibility/blame or accountability. It’s such common behaviour in women, that men simply expect it all the time. We’re SURPRISED like we won the lottery when a woman DOES take accountability and responsibility for her own mistakes rather than blaming “bad luck”/fate or someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:42 PM
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Where did we say they were “evil hoes”? My mother (and my sisters) never admit their mistakes but I love them and don’t think they’re “evil hoes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:39 PM
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Why? Are you saying men would rarely, if ever, put their kids into daycare and ALL or most of the children would be looked after by relatives? Lol, where did this come from? Could you provide stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:57 AM
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So according to you - women ONLY leave jobs for noble reasons: to care for people. When men leave jobs: it’s ONLY for selfish and lazy reasons? Never burnout, harassment, lack of payment (trademen), company downsizing, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:52 AM
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How is his misogyny showing exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:43 AM
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Men are adept at understanding non-verbal communication IF it’s a threat to them. Most men don’t feel threatened by most people so they tend to ignore or become complacent about other non-verbal communication. Men also don’t recognise differentiation in tone of voice as well as women do. Men DO read body language VERY well when they’re in potential danger or being threatened by another man or group of men like if we’re about to be attacked, in a fight or robbed - but this is very rare for us. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:24 AM
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I know, it’s embarassing for him and I think anyone paying attention to his advice is going to get worse.
/r/seduction24/02/24 10:45 AM
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Go into your workplace and tell people you know about healthy relationships considering your dad was a meth addict and your mother stayed with him. See if they’ll take your opinions on relationships seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:12 AM
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Oh, trying to run from answering a simple question about the research YOU said you did with some silly insults hahaa. Did you not do research? Here’s a test: what companies did Vasalgel approach for funding that refused and why? I know what they are but I don’t think you do because you didn’t do the research or reading like you said you did above.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:43 AM
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Oh, trying to run from answering a simple question about the research YOU said you did with some silly insults hahaa. Here’s a test: what companies did Vasalgel approach for funding that refused and why? I know what they are but I don’t think you do because you didn’t do the research or reading like you said you did above.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:32 AM
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Did you do your research? Here’s a test: what companies did Vasalgel approach for funding that refused and why? I know but I don’t think you do because you didn’t do the research or reading like you said you did above. Or were you lying about the research you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:17 AM
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How would there be a population “explosion” from lack of birth control in 2023? That’s conjecture
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:14 AM
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What are you assertating is wrong EXACTLY? Please share it with us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:12 AM
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You assert something now: Do you know men that have helped themselves WITHOUT therapy? Could you prove it here with citations and references? You don’t have any citations of course - simply more questions and no answers. Or do you think therapy is the best way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:11 AM
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Do you understand how to answer questions? Here it is again: So you think the police enforcing people rights isn’t real enforcement? Could you support your claim that police DON’T physically take people to jail at gunpoint? Please cite sources for that. what country do you live in? It must be lawless. How much of your police force is women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:10 AM
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How so? Could you tell us why - that’s a weird comment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:05 AM
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Do you know anything about Risug or VASALGEL? Have you been getting e-mails on it for decades with updates on funding like I have?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:03 AM
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What would those bigger concerns be exactly? Why not name them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:02 AM
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Another asking for a source with nothing yo contribute. What a winner you are. Ms. Never read a book Lol Keep going
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:00 AM
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Why not answer the questions? So you don’t assert anything - just ask people for citations all the time? Do you know men that have helped themselves WITHOUT therapy? Could you prove it here with citations and references? You don’t have any citations of course - simply more questions and no answers. Or do you think therapy is the best way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:59 AM
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You don’t answer questions asked. Here it is again: So you think the police enforcing people rights isn’t real enforcement? Could you support your claim that police DON’T physically take people to jail at gunpoint? Please cite sources for that. what country do you live in? It must be lawless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:56 AM
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You asserted it, not me. Your turn for citations - or do you only ask for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:54 AM
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So you think the police enforcing people rights isn’t real enforcement? Could you support your claim that police DON’T physically take people to jail at gunpoint? Please cite sources for that. what country do you live in? It must be lawless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:53 AM
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Do you know men that have helped themselves WITHOUT therapy? Could you prove it here with citations and references? You don’t have any citations of course - simply more questions and no answers. Or do you think therapy is the best way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:52 AM
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What does men oppressing you mean? What would it look like for men to NOT oppress you? Please share with us all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:51 AM
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Really? Are you a man yourself and what’s your experience of therapy? Do you know men that have helped themselves WITHOUT therapy? Could you prove that here. Or do you think therapy is the best way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:49 AM
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Women get their rights from men. How else do women get their rights if they can’t enforce them physically? Could you prove your point otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:45 AM
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This is incoherent. You do actually get your right from men. What rights do you have without men, assuming men exist in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:40 AM
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Not true - the WHOLE world would have to decide that for any of that to come true and that would simply never happen. The reason Matriachy’s don’t work is simply that they’re overtaken by invading partriachies that are more powerful (physically & strategically) than a matriachy. That’s one of many reasons why Matriarchies of historically haven’t worked: the threat of a group of men overpowering them, because it always happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:39 AM
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Then you would be put in jail by men with guns, exercising their legal power over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:34 AM
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No, women do get their rights from men. If women decided they wanted to be the leaders of a country - they would need to somehow overpower men to do so or have men willingingly hand over that power. Then those SAME women would need to defend themselves from OTHER outside or foreign (invading) groups of men (that haven’t agreed on women being leaders) from taking over their group. What do you think the result of this would be? Do you think the men in matriarchy group that relinquished their power…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:30 AM
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Yeah, it doesn’t. You’ve likely got an immensely lopsided view of the world from having a single mum who stayed with a degenerate meth addict. So, I don’t think your opinion is relevant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:16 AM
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So are you a male or female? So your Dad is a meth addict. No worries, now I know why you have such an odd sense of world - absent fatherless home due to drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:13 AM
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So answer the question then: Do you believe that, on average, men use less logic and generally behave in a less logical ways throughout their life (on average) than the average woman? So your Dad uses less logic in his life than your mother, for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:36 AM
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If the man isn’t weaker in EVERY sense - than a woman wants a man stronger than her. So, yes, that would make your argument invalid. I’ve NEVER seen a woman date or marry a man that’s weaker than her in every way. Most (if not all) women I see dating or marrying a man - that man is stronger than her in most ways, which is part of the reasons she’s most attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:35 AM
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So if a woman does many things that she doesn’t know what the motivation is - is that logical? Or is that woman simply making choices to take actions based on her own emotions guiding her, rather than logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:30 AM
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So you believe that, on average, men use less logic and generally behave in a less logical ways throughout their life (on average) than the average woman? So your Dad uses less logic in his life than your mother, for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:33 AM
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So you believe that, on average, men use less logic and generally behave in a less logical ways throughout their life (on average) than the average woman? So your Dad uses less logic in his life than your mother, for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:32 AM
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So you believe that, on average, men use less logic and generally behave in a less logical ways throughout their life (on average) than the average woman? So your Dad uses less logic in his life than your mother, for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:27 AM
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So irrational illogical behaviour based on a motivation that a woman doens’t describe outright or sometimes even know to herself - is that what you’re saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:25 AM
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Really - cashiers that are earning less than them AND SMALLER and WEAKER and shorter than her? Shorter men with less power and less money than her? Physically weaker aswell?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:08 AM
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All women prefer this, consciously or not. So you know a woman who is ATTRACTED to males that are smaller, weaker, earn less money, have less social power, less physical power, less power in all ways - is that what you’re claiming? This is why having a debate with women is silly - you don’t know most of these things consciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:57 AM
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Ok, live in fairytale land. What city do you live in - we can search the demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:34 AM
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Yes, are you saying that women (in general) don’t prefer men they date or marry to have more power than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:31 AM
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Women want a large power imbalance - with the man being much more powerful than them. This is really basic female psychology in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:22 AM
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Lol, in your dreams. Most men don’t actually marry younger women because they’re already married when they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:21 AM
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Lol, no I didn’t. If you as a woman have nothing else to offer but looks - like the poster above, than yes she needs to be concerned about aging. If you develop yourself as a woman with a great personality, then there’s no need to worry about your aging looks. Is that you? Or do you ONLY have your looks with a not so good personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:20 AM
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Simply read Evolutionary Psychology by Dr. David Buss Ph.D. It’s a proven theory now, and you saying this (likely not being truthful or of no consequence) won’t make a difference to the fact. Women don’t take responsibility or accountability for their own actions nor do they like it it in general - it has the same meaning. Why is this so upsetting to you as a woman? To learn women don’t like taking resposibility/accountability for not just themselves, but others also. Men PREFER taking responsib…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:17 AM
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You’re unhinged lol. Never said you’re a man hater. You said that I SAID men will want to DUMP older women for younger women - I never did. All men prefer younger women. You’re quoting things YOU SAID like I said them. It’s bizarre. You’re clearly have a very schizo personality with ultra low self esteem and need more help than anyone on here can give you. Get some help
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:15 AM
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The science is the truth. Do you have a better theory from another psychologist to explain why women rarely take the blame for any of their mistakes, avoid responsibility, accountability and consequences (all the same) due to their need to defend themselves from being excluded from the tribe or shunned from the tribe (on an evolutionary level)? If that’s a truthful fact (it is) why are you so defensive about it? How would that affect your life if it is true (it is)? You’re not battling me - you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:07 AM
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ALL MEN PREFER YOUNGER WOMEN. Did you not know this? This isn’t my opinion, that’s real life. Work on your personality and you won’t need to worry as much about being dumped by a man when your looks are fading. If you only have looks, and no personality, he’ll leave when the looks are gone. It’s fairly logical. You sound crackers though, so working on the personality may be a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:25 PM
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Well why would you want to discourage them? You said it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:23 PM
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I see men blame themselves constantly in real life, to their detriment. I see this with my own actual eyes, not on the internet. So I’m not sure who you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:23 PM
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Lol, yes were are slaves to our genetic evolutionary programming. It’s in our unconscious mind and can’t really by resisted, it’s there for survival. The fact you don’t know this tells me you don’t know anything about this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:21 PM
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I saw a survey, which has been removed now, that when surveyed, men preferred the APPEARANCE of an 18 year old woman (on average) but preferred a relationship with a 22 year old woman (on average). Those men were shown photos of many different women and didn’t know their actual ages - so I think that was more accurate. So, that was a larger sample size and it’s more reliable because the researchers and the people surveyed didn’t know the age of the females being shown to the men - and they were …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:19 PM
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Well bipolar and adhd are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:50 PM
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I’m sure it isn’t. All the people I know with adhd are just fine, it’s not a disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:49 PM
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Please make it make sense - and bring sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:45 PM
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That’s so perfect, and it just doesn’t matter because I don’t know them personally and they could be lying for all I know. But, the theory still stands and it’s not my theory. Please see: Evolutionary Psychology by Dr. David Buss
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:45 PM
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Why would you want to discourage them? Perhaps in spite because you don’t want to compete?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:44 PM
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Do you think having a 25 year old mother and the father of the same age would have made a difference? I think a big one. A 25 year old father and a 47 year old mother - either massive issues or not born at all. I wouldn’t think ADHD is a big issue. Tonnes of people have adhd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:43 PM
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Wait, so you said most men like prepubscent girls. Where is your evidence of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:41 PM
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Did you read Evolutionary Psychology by Dr. David Buss?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:40 PM
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Evolutionary Psychology by Dr. David Buss Ph.D is a book. Feel free to page through it and you’ll find detailed explanations of that behaviour. Lol source cited. It’s too large to fit in here. Do you have one that is better that disproves what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:35 PM
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Yes, that’s not how he says it but women do lie about their preferences unknowingly. Women don’t even know they’re lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:35 PM
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Really? Have you read his books?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:34 PM
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Perfect, you have none. David Buss is the best source - so go read him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:33 PM
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That doesn’t make sense - you’re not too bright. You’re really seething though. Men’s biological preferences are known to men though - we’re open about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:33 PM
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Yep, I know you haven’t read that book and your most are too lazy to read it. But I want you all to go read it. There’s many many long pages about this that wouldn’t fit here in these comments. So go off and read.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:31 PM
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Evolutionary Psychology by Dr. David Buss Ph.D is a book. Feel free to page through it and you’ll find detailed explanations of that behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:30 PM
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Keep asking the same question - keep getting the same reply. I’ve been asked the same question so many times and people are too lazy to look at the other comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:30 PM
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Evolutionary Psychology by Dr. David Buss Ph.D is a book. Feel free to page through it and you’ll find detailed explanations of that behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:29 PM
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Evolutionary Psychology by Dr. David Buss Ph.D is a book. Feel free to page through it and you’ll find detailed explanations of that behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:29 PM
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Evolutionary Psychology by Dr. David Buss Ph.D is a book. Feel free to page through it and you’ll find detailed explanations of that behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:29 PM
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Exactly, it’s not something I have to prove. It’s been proven by him and many others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:28 PM
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Evolutionary Psychology by Dr. David Buss Ph.D. Just read the whole book.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:27 PM
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The theory still stands. Not an argument, it’s a fact that I didn’t devise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:26 PM
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Lol, that’s the source. Great - do you have another psychologist source with a better theory to combat the theory of Dr. David Buss? I don’t think so. Please provide it if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:26 PM
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Lol, that’s the source. Great - do you have another psychologist source with a better theory to combat the theory of Dr. David Buss? I don’t think so. Please provide it if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:25 PM
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Lol, that’s the source. Great - do you have another psychologist source with a better theory to combat the theory of Dr. David Buss? I don’t think so. Please provide it if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:25 PM
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Lol, that’s the source. Great - do you have another psychologist source with a better theory to combat the theory of Dr. David Buss? Evolutionary Psychology (book) by Dr. David Buss I don’t think so. Please provide it if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:25 PM
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Lol, that’s the source. Great - do you have another psychologist source with a better theory to combat the theory of Dr. David Buss? I don’t think so. Please provide it if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:25 PM
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Lol You’re really seething that women won’t take the blame for anything and people know that. It’s almost like you’re exactly a woman that doesn’t want to admit they have an issue like they can’t take the blame for their mistakes? Just like the very well-proven theory
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:25 PM
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Lol You’re really seething that women won’t take the blame for anything and people know that. It’s almost like you’re exactly a woman that doesn’t want to admit they have an issue like they can’t take the blame for their mistakes? Just like the very well-proven theory
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:24 PM
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Lol, that’s the source. Great - do you have another psychologist source with a better theory to combat the theory of Dr. David Buss? I don’t think so. Please provide it if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:23 PM
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Lol, that’s the source. Great - do you have another psychologist source with a better theory to combat the theory of Dr. David Buss? I don’t think so. Please provide it if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:23 PM
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Great - do you have another psychologist source with a better theory to combat the theory of Dr. David Buss? I don’t think so. Please provide it if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:22 PM
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Lol, are you reading? No survey has been taken of that ONLINE sub. She was wrong. Do you have ANY sources for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:21 PM
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Lol, hahaha no it isn’t. That’s the source - do you have a better one with a better theory? Please supply it here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:20 PM
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Evolutionary Psychology by Dr. David Buss Ph.D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:19 PM
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Correct - you’re agreeing with me. I don’t trust anything women say in surveys, especially about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:19 PM
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Really? Where’s your evidence that women date the same online as they do in real life? Please cite it here!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:18 PM
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Well, please go to Harvard’s department of Evolutionary Psychology and have a debate with all of them. Lol, you’re so silly - read about it by Dr David Buss. I’m certain you don’t know more than him, and you saying you do makes it do embarassing. He says that women blame others for their own mistakes for those evolutionaruly reasons. Please tell me, do you know of another crediblr theory by another psychologist for why women don’t blame themselves for anythin, because psychologists ALL seem to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:17 PM
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No-one cares about subs mate, we care about real life. Imagine calling someone bad faith because they want to refer to real life rather than some shitty internet sub. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:13 PM
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Lol, this is way too long. I never said anything about men wanting to replace older women with younger ones. There was no mention of REPLACEMENT - where did you get that? It’s bizarre - you’re clearly prpjecting your own insecurities. Another strawman. Men prefer younger women. They always have and always will, being mad about it won’t change it. Or do you honestly think that if more older women are mad about it - that it will change men’s biological desire? It doesn’t matter if women are happy …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:12 PM
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Trust the science, or do you know better than many Harvard psychologists?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:06 PM
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Look, I know I had to flair this is a debate - but that part isn’t a debate: women never or rarely blame themselves for any of their own mistakes. It’s a biological survival mechanism. They do this because knowing or admitting they made a mistake risks exclusion from the tribe = Removed from tribe (which usually meant death for the last 100,000 years). This is an unconscious mechanism, not a conscious logical one. It’s a fact, it’s not just something that I personally think. Trust the science - …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:37 PM
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That’s exactly how humans operate - according to their unconscious biological instincts, which govern most, if not ALL, of human behaviour. How is this brand new news to you? What are you so mad about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:37 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:35 PM
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Look, I know I had to flair this is a debate - but that part isn’t a debate: women never or rarely blame themselves for any of their own mistakes. It’s a biological survival mechanism. They do this because knowing or admitting they made a mistake risks exclusion from the tribe = Removed from tribe (which usually meant death for the last 100,000 years). This is an unconscious mechanism, not a conscious logical one. It’s a fact, it’s not just something that I personally think. Trust the science - …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:26 PM
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Look, I know I had to flair this is a debate - but that part isn’t a debate: women never or rarely blame themselves for any of their own mistakes. It’s a biological survival mechanism. They do this because knowing or admitting they made a mistake risks exclusion from the tribe = Removed from tribe (which usually meant death for the last 100,000 years). This is an unconscious mechanism, not a conscious logical one. It’s a fact, it’s not just something that I personally think. Trust the science - …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:25 PM
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So you don’t think men like mostly prepubescent children now like you said in your last comment? You seem very spiteful. Perhaps you should talk to a professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:25 PM
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There is no debate about that - it’s THE working theory. Those Harvard Professors & students debated this back in the 80’s & 90’s, there has been no superceding usable theories that explain why women rarely, if ever, blame themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:24 PM
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Men making mistakes didn’t risk them being excluded from the tribe (thereby excluded from The tribe) but even if it did, men had the ability to survive of excluded, it would have been hard but didn’t mean certain death like it did for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:22 PM
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I’m not going to - you can read any one of Dr. Buss’s books and it’s discussed many times or referred to several times. It’s the working theory accepted by many esteemed Harvard Ph.D’s in that field. Do you have a better theory Ms. No education and No Ph.D? Or do you know of another theory by someone else educated on the topic that you can refer to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:19 PM
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It’s THE working theory and there isn’t a better one, and I repeated it. It doesn’t matter what I think, the science by many Professors out of Harvard and other esteemed Universities ALL agree on it. Trust the science, or do you think you know better?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:15 PM
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Lol, where did I talk about anyone dumping anyone? That’s a strawman. It’s assumed that I was talking about single older women, single men & single younger women. No evidence of anything else. Men don’t like it when women age if they have nothing else to offer but their looks. Many women don’t and are terrified of that fact as they get older. That seems to be you. Most people who leave relationships are women anyway. You sound very hateful and bitter about men in real life. Comments like you jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:11 PM
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How is it wrong? Women don’t know they’re wrong (unconsciously) = Women can’t admit they’re wrong logically = they don’t get thrown out of the tribe (therefore certain death) This is fairly basic. Perhaps read about it from the Harvard educated Ph.D professor. Are you saying he’s wrong? Or all of his Harvard colleagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:09 PM
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It’s really not relevant - no-one has taken that survey, and even if they did, it’s not reflective of our actual lives offline, so it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:07 PM
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Look, I know I had to flair this is a debate - but that part isn’t a debate: women never or rarely blame themselves for any of their own mistakes. It’s a biological survival mechanism. They do this because knowing or admitting they made a mistake risks exclusion from the tribe = Removed from tribe (which usually meant death for the last 100,000 years). This is an unconscious mechanism, not a conscious logical one. It’s a fact, it’s not just something that I personally think. Trust the science - …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:54 PM
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Look, I know I had to flair this is a debate - but that part isn’t a debate: women never or rarely blame themselves for any of their own mistakes. It’s a biological survival mechanism. They do this because knowing or admitting they made a mistake risks exclusion from the tribe = Removed from tribe (which usually meant death for the last 100,000 years). This is an unconscious mechanism, not a conscious logical one. It’s a fact, it’s not just something that I personally think. Trust the science - …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:52 PM
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Look, I know I had to flair this is a debate - but that part isn’t a debate: women never or rarely blame themselves for any of their own mistakes. It’s a biological survival mechanism. It’s a fact, it’s not just something that I personally think. Trust the science - go read the works of Dr. David Buss Ph.D + Ph.D. (Harvard & UT)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:51 PM
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I never said that older women were harbouring some or any kind of resentment to younger women. Where did I say that? Older single women ARE competing with younger single women and many of them have an overlapping group of single men to select from - is that not true? Women DO actually do nasty things to other women or about other women to outcompete them - that’s not a debate either. It doesn’t mean women ALWAYS consciously compete but they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:51 PM
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That dating app data is still not usable mate. Not relevant here. Where’s the “real life” evidence that isn’t dating app data?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:48 PM
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Look, I know I had to flair this is a debate - but that part isn’t a debate: women never or rarely blame themselves for any of their own mistakes. It’s a biological survival mechanism. It’s a fact, it’s not just something that I personally think. Trust the science - go read the works of Dr. David Buss Ph.D + Ph.D. (Harvard & UT)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:47 PM
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Look, I know I had to flair this is a debate - but that part isn’t a debate: women never or rarely blame themselves for any of their own mistakes. It’s a biological survival mechanism. It’s a fact, it’s not just something that I personally think. Trust the science - go read the works of Dr. David Buss Ph.D + Ph.D.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:46 PM
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So you think most men like women that haven’t reached puberty yet? Lol, you’re silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:45 PM
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When did you do this? Lol just now you asked 5 women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:44 PM
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You’re exactly why I wrote this on this forum. I really don’t care about TRP. Every woman I know in real life blames everyone (usually men) and everything for their mistakes. This is a biological mechanism of women to blame externally rather than themselves - it’s not debateable, it’s a survival mechanism. Please see Dr. David Buss Ph.D (Ph.D, Ph.D) - see his works and studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:44 PM
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Not really relevant - like I said in other comments: women’s selection of men to MESSAGE on online dating app is not AT ALL reflective of their dating in real life. Men’s online dating selection IS representative of what men WANT in women but may or may transpire in real life. Literally any man or woman who has been on dating apps for any length of time can tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:41 PM
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Ok, well many children born are by mothers under 35 years old. They don’t cite any references for that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:38 PM
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It is actually weird - men NEVER hear women admitting fault or mistakes. These are fairly minor and not really the mistakes we’re talking about: they had little to no consequences for making them. Admitting mistakes only matters if there is or was actual consquences to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:36 PM
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You can let another lady answer for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:34 PM
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Lol, the way women select men online is not representative for how they select men in real life. The way MEN select women online IS actually more representative of real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:34 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:33 PM
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Not to people that you know well - and if you’re genuinely asking. Ask your sisters or your mother or good friends. It’s personal growth - all of those women will blame men, society (also men), the world for their problems, mistakes and issues. It’s how women think naturally - see my other comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:32 PM
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Happy has zero to do with being honest about how many mistakes they’ve made in their life. Lol this whole thing is bad faith. Free free to ask 5 women each to name their previous 5 mistakes in their WHOLE life. None of them will get far and admit everything bad that’s happened to them was someone else’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:30 PM
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Where is this statistic from? Could you cite it here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:25 PM
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Which part more specifically? Or you just don’t like anyone saying anything negative about women and therefore don’t want to offer ANY rebuttal of substance?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:24 PM
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Done before - all of them copped to many. Never had a woman cop to more than 2 mistakes - even then, they were not “mistakes” and often try to blame others for one of those aswell or “share” the blame. So please - come back to me when you do the same. Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:23 PM
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Brother, the online dating statistics from the women’s side of that online dating say that women don’t even like very good-looking men their own age. Online dating statistics are hot garbage on the women’s selection side. I see young women with older men often enough and rarely the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:20 PM
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Where is women bad? Lol, which part
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:17 PM
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Feel free to ask five women in your life now for the last 5 things they did that were totally her fault and her to blame. Then share the results here. I would gamble that none of them will be able to come up with 5 things. This is a biological mechanism for women to avoid exclusion from the tribe: if women know they are to blame & admit they are = almost certainly kicked out of the tribe (which usually meant death for the last 50,000 years). It’s not a controversial fact or idea mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:17 PM
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This just seems like you’re trying to blame men for genetic anomolies when most of this is coming from women having children at much older ages and people (on average) having poorer health/poorer diets/less exercise. We all know plenty of older men that have several healthy children where he was 45-65 years old when his wife became pregnant. That’s VERY unlikely to happen for women. This post (and several others) and this reply is because you as women don’t like that men aren’t interested in old…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:34 AM
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This just seems like you’re trying to blame men for genetic anomolies when most of this is coming from women having children at much older ages and people (on average) having poorer health/poorer diets/less exercise. We all know plenty of older men that have several healthy children where he was 45-65 years old when his wife became pregnant. That’s VERY unlikely to happen for women. This post (and several others) and this reply is because you as women don’t like that men aren’t interested in old…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:33 AM
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I don’t think any of this matters to a man’s UNCONSCIOUS MIND and UNCONSCIOUS decisions which signals attraction to younger fertile women. Simply SAYING or KNOWING consciously/logically doesn’t mean our unconscious brains will comply and be attracted to a woman who our body (unconsciously) biologically registers as “not fertile” or “less fertile” or “minimal fertility”. It’s not a conscious choice men are making - it’s a deep biological and unconscious selection that we’re attracted to adult wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:37 PM
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Uggh, more useless advice ftom Rob. You don’t approach or understand what you’re talking about every time. Go away. Almost every other comment on here is useful, unlike yours
/r/seduction21/02/24 04:33 AM
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The issue that not alot of people take into consideration with women’s attractiveness for a romantic/sexual relationship is: Fertility is taken into unconscious consideration by men and it’s not something men can consciously, logically and actively can control or decide against for an older woman. For example, even if a man and a woman AGREE that they don’t want children, both parties eventually become unsatisfied with the relationship and they both don’t know why. On a deep unconscious biologic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:08 AM
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Well, that never works: when a woman complains about another woman - it very rarely escalates anywhere as no-one can play the victim in that situation. That’s why half of lesbians have been a victim of female violence but you don’t see it on the news all the time. If there’s no male to accuse of victimhood - the media or anyone else doesn’t care. They think all women are harmless until someone accuses their husband, father, son or male relative of something he didn’t do and it’s reported all ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:09 AM
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You need to read between the lines with women & surveys. What those women really meant was: “I cheated with a guy that was out of my league for commitment, but I wanted to have sex with him to put my ticket in for that commitment lottery: because you need to be in it, to win it” Women know that guy is MORE sexually attractive than their current partner but wouldn’t commit to HER. Not that he wouldn’t commit to ANY woman. He’s just unattainable for her because he has the choice to commit to a mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:20 PM
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Unfortunately the main threat modern women have if they don’t like what you’ve done or are doing (even if perfectly innocent) - is tell other people they are a victim of you and make something up - simply because they want some type of revenge for being rejected, even if it was done nicely or even implied (as above with being friends when everyone agreed).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:10 AM
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The women’s absurdly high standards & pickiness they keep talking about online and in real life is GARBAGE. Every single woman, bar none, that I know that has ever talked about their “high standards”, has NEVER in their lives reached those standards in a man and likely never will until they die. It’s honestly hilarious to hear women you know and have known for years talk about these standards for what they’ll accept in their dates/sex partners and boyfriends, when you’ve MET or KNOW all of their…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:36 AM
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Yeah, women take rejection much worse than men - they’ll try to ruin your reputation or your life, if they can. This is why women having soo much power to accuse any man of anything (it’s harder for women to accuse other women & get anywhere) - just because he rejected her (or so she thinks) and ruin his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:16 AM
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Lol you did misunderstand. They (the women) WANTED to be friends, proposed to be friends and I agreed and they later got upset when I actually only wanted to be their friend and they secretly wanted to date me - then try to destroy your reputation or do other butthurt/creepy/crazy things. No, men don’t like it when a woman friendzones them and the relationship is lopsided in value and the woman provides very little value in the friendship but expects alot more OR worse, the woman says she wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:05 PM
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Yeah, women hate when me (a man) doesn’t want to date them, to really be just friends, even when they proposed being friends. It’s so weird for a woman to be friends, agree their friends, propose to be friends and then expect you to also want to date them or have sex with them, now or later. They lose the plot and become very butthurt about it, it’s creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:43 PM
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Yes, women hate it when you genuinely want to be friends with them rather than date. It sends them into a tailspin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:11 AM
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Creepy = Ambiguous Threat. Which is exactly what she was at the time. Women are ambiguous threats to men in different ways we are to them: they can ruin our reputations and we can’t do the same back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:08 PM
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That’s creepy to me, not diagnosed sociopathy. Women do those things to other women and men more often than you think - it’s not good behaviour by them, but not uncommon and it’s not sociopathy or a very large portion of women would be sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:03 PM
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That’s just a jumble of words - none of them were sociopaths. Scorned = Hurt/rejected = She acted creepily after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:55 PM
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They were creepy, desperate actions by women is a completely different list. How is reporting you to HR or management because you weren’t interested in going out with them (not even a date - women will creepily hide that aswell)?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:09 PM
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Being a creep for a woman implies being a ambiguous threat, apparently. I don’t see people with autism as a threat in any way, nor do I FEEL they are in my presence. Perhaps you need to look at yourself and how you perceive actual threats and any ambiguous threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:26 PM
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Yeah, I noticed. Those things aren’t creepy to men though - other things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:20 AM
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I’m realizing that women don’t actually know what action women do that men find creepy in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:33 AM
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So married women aren’t threatened by attractive pick me women being around their husbands? That’s not the case from married women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:22 AM
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That’s not creepy for a woman to be a pick me - pick me girls get picked and there’s nothing dark or sinister about it. You just don’t like it because you won’t get “picked” when there’s an attractive pick me girl around. So women need to cut them down by badmouthing them online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:19 AM
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Yeah, one in your whole life - I’m sure there were no other instances of creepy women. Just that one really weird socially awkward girl. I’m betting she wasn’t actually that bad, just had autism or something. It’s the normal women doing things they know are weird & creepy but doing them anyway that are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:15 AM
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There are sooo many more creepy women and creepy things they do you obviously don’t notice - if that’s the only thing you can think of. I thought women had amazing abilities to notice others body language and signals? Lol - evidently not when it’s other women being creepy, another woman’s body language doesn’t register. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:11 AM
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You clearly have very little experience noticing creepy women - how could you? You’re a woman yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:48 AM
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I think there’s alot of things that make women creepy but are overlooked because men don’t understand or can read body language well OR men simply aren’t threatened by women in a way they FEEL might endanger their lives (meaning women are physically weak): •Constantly changing her story or not remembering an event or action she told you about (because it was a lie). •Blaming something supernatural (like a supernatural force) for something they clearly did (or forgot to do) and really believing •…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:37 AM
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Yes, but women are FAR more covert about it with many ways to make their Passport Sis goals plausably deniable. Like I know (single) women that have gone overseas for a 1.5 years to Europe to live with a plan to meet men to marry. They’ll claim it’s to “travel”, which they do some while they’re there but they ultimately either later admit they were there to meet “new” men or they’ll give many indications they were: *Living in a set place *taking a low paying job (down from a much higher paying o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:18 AM
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This is written by a man who clearly doesn’t understand women or date them now or who has only got experience using dating apps & then reading pop articles about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:41 AM
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I admit this is an interesting way to view women wanting men to commit quickly and men wanting women to have sex quickly. This sounds great in theory, but the issues arise down the line with women: on an unconscious level (that she’s unaware, doesn’t acknowledge or even understand) she will respect you less than her the man that slept with her faster and will respect you more when you take your time before getting into a relationship with her. Men who have alot to offer women do the above - they…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:09 AM
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This is extremely misunderstood because you’re taking what women SAY they want at face value. I dare you to try what your post is implying: Give your wife (or girlfriend) attention ALL day or most of the day (very needy & clingy). Then go ahead and try to have sex with her 2 or 3 or more times a day (you be the judge). You’ll likely get rejected more often then not if she’s not initiating (which is why women should be). Then come back and report how well your relationship is going when you do th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:16 AM
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Very well described, couldn’t have said it better myself.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/24 04:08 PM
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Correct, and the parts before that about momentum and after - “It’s On”, etc. That’s why I’m directing guys elsewhere - this post is so simplistic and a much lower IQ version.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/24 02:18 PM
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I’ve seen this poster plaguarised quite alot of his posts on here or on other forums (outside reddit). The ones that he’s NOT plagiarised are really basic google-able dating/seduction advice. Feel free to check for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/24 06:55 AM
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Good for you mate, I’d rather see guys learn this method from 60yoc because it’s just so much better explained and better written. Yeah, the author of this post is attempting to plagiarise this information as his own because he thinks guys on reddit are clueless and he wants to take the credit (or glory or something). It’s not good for the original author (60yoc) nor for the redpill/seduction community in general to plagiarise. I’ve seen this authors posts on other forums outside reddit and he e…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/24 04:58 AM
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Just LOL. Do you really think I’m 60 years of Challenge? Totally moronic. Stop ripping off other people and saying it’s your own. It’s so sad and ugly.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/24 03:10 AM
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This posted has lifted this directly from: Game Revision System by 60 years of Challenge (Chris Anderson). Feel free to read about it in more detail there. Not sure why the poster has not given credit to 60yoc or any of his vast amount of other writing and products - which describe this all in better and more elegant detail.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/24 02:35 AM
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All of this post is described much better in: Game Revision System by 60 Years of Challenge (Chris Anderson). You can read all about it there - that’s where this poster directly copied it from. Go ahead and read it if you unsure. Not sure why this poster is saying it’s his own. But he’s plagiarised it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/24 02:33 AM
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Hey mate, you can read all about this method in ‘Game Revision System’ by 60 Years of Challenge (Chris Anderson) - where this poater took it from. 60yoc goes into far more details and other pieces that this post. Not sure why this poster is trying to pass it off as his own.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/24 02:21 AM
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This is an overly worded version of 60 Years of Challenge (Chris Anderson) - Game Revision System’s strategy. 60yoc version is much better and had better details. How is this different? You weren’t going to give credit to 60?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/24 02:20 AM
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What he’s talking about in this post is taken directly from: ‘Game Revision System’ by 60 Years of Challenge (Chris Anderson) None of this is original and he hasn’t given credit to 60, and he didn’t come up with it independantly, that’s certain.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/24 02:16 AM
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No, women want you to believe the don’t enjoy sex - otherwise they couldn’t get anything else out of a man for sex. If you’re a woman and you love sex but you KNOW most men are thirsty for it and are perfectly willing to do other things to get your sex - why not get those other things (as a woman) AND enjoy sex - it’s a 2-for-1 for women. Women I have sex with - love it far more than me. Of course, they’ll never outright say that - because she would be giving you too much power. But the shaking …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:54 PM
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How do you explain it mate? You haven’t answered anything. People keep saying the same non arguments which is why I keep copy pasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:46 AM
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No checks-ins - pull aways. Like I said, happens during the day when no-one anywhere around is drinking. Happens to my male friends also - even the model one and he’s had it with women he is aquantances with during the day. Mate. Women’s jealousy knows no bounds - women will find ANY way they can to gaslight out of how badly they behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:58 AM
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Sure keep gaslighting sweetheart - I’m sure the girls I know are ALL lying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:51 AM
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So all the women who have told me they don’t know why their friends did that, my female friends, my sister, my ex girlfriends, girls I’ve slept with - they’re ALL lying. And when there’s no alcohol involved - it still happens. Mate, it’s juat standard you online female lying because they don’t like admitting their poor jealous behaviour. Why would women want to admit that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:47 AM
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Right, except dozens of women I’ve slept with and my female friends, old housemates and my sister has said the opposite to me. So they’re ALL lying? Also, this has happened to me DURING THE DAY - many times, with no drinks by anyone or in a drinking venue. Ahhaha good one - just gaslighting mate. Go away, this is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:40 AM
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Right, except dozens of women I’ve slept with and my female friends, old housemates and my sister has said the opposite to me. So they’re ALL lying? This has also happened several times during the day, with no drinks where no-one involved has been drinking at any time. This is how I know it’s just gaslighting mate. Go away, this is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:40 AM
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Hahaha sure it is. Except my female friends have had the same thing happen to them, and a few of my previous female housemates. Just stop while you’re ahead. Do you actually think your gaslighting is convincing anyone? You know there are so many women who do this and many of them have told me it’s for “no reason” that their friend did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:29 AM
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Lol, you’re one woman. This is many many different women in Australia. Just LOL and clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:23 AM
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Maybe, just maybe the women that slept with me and told me they had no idea why their friend pulled me away - were perhaps all telling me the truth? Or when my female friends pulled my other female friends away from men and couldn’t say why, no signals or distress or anything - perhaps it was just jealousy? Is that impossible that it was jealousy most times when women cannot explain it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:13 AM
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These women here defending need to gas light these guys and try their hardest to convince men that they got signals. Every girl I’ve slept with that was pulled away by their friend at first - gave zero signals, had no agreements beforehand, etc The same thing has happened with my female friends and my other female friends pulling them away - when you ask them, they can’t explain it. These women here are just handwaving away all those real life experiences. It’s bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:10 AM
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Lol, wow - it’s like you’re a man who’s experienced this many times. Lol, no, it’s literal dragging with no time. Have you been a man meeting many types of women and experienced this? I have and so have my friends - you’re saying my lying eyes didn’t see this many times. Go away, you’re clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:05 AM
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They don’t usually have time - they get forcibly dragged away. I don’t think you understand. Dragged. By force. By their female friend. Not gently. There’s not talking or a discussion about it, it’s simply being pulled and sometimes bruised by their (usually jealous) female friend. Women can leave at ANY time - the venues are packed with paid security, tonnes of staff, management and other people in the venue, here in Australia. It’s extemely safe, this isn’t some poor ghetto area of america whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:09 PM
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But then that girls sleeps with me and they actually tell me later they DIDN’T want their friend to interrupt them. Therefore their friend was selfish aka jealous. Male friends don’t do that to each other - or rarely do. Why do you think that is? Perhaps women are just weak - too weak to be by themselves as adults in a safe venue full of people having fun? Mate, it’s jealously mostly, with some added weakness because their female friend can’t cope with having to actually socialise with people on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:37 PM
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Why would so many of those women sleep with me if they weren’t interested? Or my friends that do this. It makes no sense. It’s ALWAYS jealousy - like I said in another comment: after I sleep with these girls and I ask them why their friend dragged them away: these girls honestly don’t know. They never signalled to them, they never called them or texted them and certainly didn’t make some silly pact or agreement at the start of the night. Most of them say some version of; “I think she was just fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:11 PM
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They weren’t “checking in” - they were grabbing them and usually abruptly drag them away. It’s not a “check in”. It’s ALWAYS jealousy - like I said in another comment: after I sleep with these girls and I ask them why they’re friend dragged them away: these girls honestly don’t know. They never signalled to them, they never called them or texted them and certainly didn’t make some silly pact or agreement at the start of the night. Most of them say some version of; “I think she was just feeling r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:08 PM
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Ok, except most of the slept with me or went on dates with me when I re-approached - by their own choice. If they had no interest in me - why sleep me that night or go on a date and sleep with me next week of their own choice? How do you explain that? We’re in Australia - if a woman gets followed by a man at a bar - she can tell ANY ONE of the 7-10 security guards and he’s ejected from the venue, banned for however long and sometimes arrested. There’s really no danger here for those women and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:58 PM
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It’s really not - not in my experience. It’s just loser jealous friends. If a woman isn’t interested, and women do this all the time, they just say, “I’m going to the bathroom”, “I’m leaving with my friends”, “I’m going home with a friend”, “I’m going over there, I’ll see you later” and if followed - tell any one of the 10 security guards there. That’s how venues are here in Australia - so the girls in the clubs here are in ZERO danger when they’re in the club. Great, so you admit I was correct …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:54 PM
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What? You’re not reading mate. None of the women who slept with me were slutty - where did I accuse them of that? How was my game bad? I slept with most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:51 PM
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How is this relevant to my comments or this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:50 PM
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They’re not - did you read the comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:49 PM
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Great, so you admit I was correct and it’s jealous friends. And SOMETIMES the girls that refuse to be dragged off by their friends (because they asked them to) are simply just ignoring their friends or being slutty? Great, so mostly just jealous friends then. Because the girls that I’ve slept with have told me they had no idea why their friend dragged them off - they never signalled them or made any prior agreements. Again, this is how I know. I had an old housemate years ago, 25 at the time, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:48 PM
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Ok, can you explain why most of those women I re-approach sleep with me (or my friends)? Do you think that amount of women would if they WERE NOT interested? It makes no sense. You’re strawmanning - if ANY woman wants to leave a 1-on-1 conversation with a man in a club or bar, she can just say (and women do this plenty), “hey, I’m going to the bathroom. See you later” or “I’m going to go see my friend and leave.” This is how I know that those women are just being dragged away by their jealous fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:43 PM
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If I (or my friends who do this) re- approach them 10-20 mins later - and me (and my friends that do the same) usually sleep with them or go on dates with them later that next week - how are they not interested buddy? I’ve done that sooooo many times, and my friends have also done it many times. If I’m with a really good looking male friend, the best looking in the venue by far, this pulling away shit still happens to him, and he re-approaches her and it goes well, so well he (and I) usually sle…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:38 PM
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So he followed her OUT of the club where there were zero security and cameras. When I and my friends meet women in clubs and their friend comes over to drag them off - we’re surrounded by people, multiple security guards, bar staff, glassies, sometimes even venue managers - how is that comparable to those stories? They’re completely irrelevant and muddying the water. Why even bother posting them? How does this this prove that women are pulling away their friends in easily one of the safest and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:35 PM
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If I (or my friends who do this) re- approach them 10-20 mins later - how is that they couldn’t find anyone “better” in such a short amount of time? But I’ve done that sooooo many times, and my friends have also done it many times. If I’m with a really good looking male friend, the best looking in the venue by far, this pulling away shit still happens to him, and he re-approaches her and it goes well, so well he (and I) usually sleep with her. Is it possible, in your mind, that most (if not all)…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:27 PM
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That makes no sense. Is it possible that it’s mostly only jealous women (or men) pulling away their friends from a man they’re speaking to - because that’s been my friends and my experiences for years? Why are you trying to do the mental gymnastics to say otherwise? What’s in it for you. Women are often very easily led by their female friends and women are often very passive. That’s likely why they get pulled away in the first place, they don’t want to be disagreeable to their friend that they l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:26 PM
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If I (or my friends who do this) re- approach them 10-20 mins later - how is that they couldn’t find anyone “better” in such a short amount of time? But I’ve done that sooooo many times, and my friends have also done it many times. If I’m with a really good looking male friend, the best looking in the venue by far, this pulling away shit still happens to him, and he re-approaches her and it goes well, so well he (and I) usually sleep with her. Is it possible, in your mind, that most (if not all)…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:23 PM
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How, if they usually sleep with me? But I’ve done that sooooo many times, and my friends have also done it many times. If I’m with a really good looking male friend, the best looking in the venue by far, this pulling away shit still happens to him, and he re-approaches and it goes well. Is it possible, in your mind, that most (if not all) times a woman is pulled away by her friend(s) - it’s simply a jealous friend? Or if it’s a male friend, also a jealous male friend and the same reason? Is this…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:20 PM
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But I’ve done that sooooo many times, and my friends have also done it many times. If I’m with a really good looking male friend, the best looking in the venue by far, this pulling away shit still happens to him, and he reapproaches and it goes well. Is it possible, in your mind, that most (if not all) times a woman is pulled away by her friend(s) - it’s simply a jealous friend? Or if it’s a male friend, also a jealous male friend and the same reason? Is this an impossible for you to entertain t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:20 PM
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But I’ve done that sooooo many times, and my friends have also done it many times. Is it possible, in your mind, that most (if not all) times a woman is pulled away by her friend(s) - it’s simply a jealous friend? Or if it’s a male friend, also jealous and the same reason? Is this an impossible thought to entertain?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:17 PM
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Lol, your comment is baffling. Her friend pulling me away isn’t rejection - it’s her friend pulling her away. It’s clearly NOT a rejection if I re-approach her 10 mins later and we sleep together (or my friend does the same). I’ve even had times when she has come back and stood right near me without the friend and kept looking at me expectantly until I initiate to re-approach. I’ve been with male friends or are BY FAR the best looking most physically atrractive male in the bar and they have had …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:03 PM
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So ALL of these many girls are simply just must be “slutty” lol. Again, did you read my other comment in this thread? How do you explain my own experience (and a few of my game friends) that most times we re-approach a woman after she’s been pulled away by a female (or male) friend(s)- then we sleep with her that night or go on a date with her later that week? We re-approach within 10-20 mins, sometimes less. How do you explain that as anything other than a female (or male) friend being jealous …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:55 PM
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Again, did you read my other comment in this thread? How do you explain my own experience (and a few of my game friends) that most times we re-approach a woman after she’s been pulled away by a female (or male) friend(s)- we sleep with her that night or go on a date with her later that week? How do you explain that as anything other than a female (or male) friend being jealous + the girl being pulled away being passive/just following her friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:53 PM
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She doesn’t “come back” - I re-approach them 10-20 mins later. Same with my male friends doing the same. So it’s not abour “not finding better” Lol - it’s not long after. Then I sleep with them that night or we go on a date later that week. Can you explain that? Why are you trying to mental gymnastics this? I’m guessing you’ve done this to your friends and you really loathe to admit you are the jealous friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:51 PM
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Again, did you read my other comment in this thread? How do you explain my own experience (and a few of my game friends) that most times we re-approach a woman after she’s been pulled away by a female (or male) friend(s)- we sleep with her that night or go on a date with her later that week? How do you explain that as anything other than a female (or male) friend being jealous + the girl being pulled away being passive/just following her friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:49 PM
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Really? Were any of these adult women in clubs surrounded by people with security & cameras? Lol, those articles aren’t that, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:48 PM
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Again, did you read my other comment in this thread? How do you explain my own experience (and a few of my game friends) that most times we re-approach a woman after she’s been pulled away by a female(or male) friend(s) - we sleep with her that night or go on a date with her later that week? How do you explain that as anything other than a female (or male) friend being jealous + the girl being pulled away simply being passive/just following her friend - like most women often do?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:24 PM
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Too scared to reject a guy? Lol, grow up. How old are these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:21 PM
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Again, did you read my other comment in this thread? How do you explain my own experience (and a few of my game friends) that most times we re-approach a woman after she’s been pulled away - we sleep with her that night or go on a datw with her later that week? How do you explain that as anything other than a female (or male) friend being jealous + the girl being pulled away being passive/just following her friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:19 PM
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Did you read my message? Why is it that (almost) every woman I re-approach after her friend(s) pulled her away do I sleep with her or go on a date with her (later that week)? Do you really think it’s common for women approach (or re-approach) men like anywhere in public by themselves? Just LOL - You’re defending this because you’re the jealous friend that’s pulled away your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:04 PM
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Lol, so why do they usually sleep with me after I re-approached them? Did you actually read my comment? Do you really think women normally approach men - that that’s common?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:02 PM
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See my comments above on this and my actual real life experience re-approaching women pulled away by their (jealous) female or male friends. Do you really think a woman (who’s known her friends longer than the man she’s talking to) is just going to say to her friend: “Fuck off, I’m really SUPER interested in this guy” Or “No way, go away bitch, I’m busy.” Or “Look, this could be my future husband. I want to fuck tonight” Of course not! You’re dreaming. Women are so passive and follow their frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:58 PM
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No, I’ve been talking to women and their (jealous) female friend(s) snatched them away rudely. She’s come to stand by me later and I’ve re-approached and slept with her that night or on a date later that week. I’ve done this, honestly, TOO MANY times to count. This has even happened where their (staight) male friend(s) [also jealous] have snatched them away and I’ve reapproached her later and voila slept with her. The “re-approaching-after-her-being-pulled-away-by-her-friend-then-me-reapproachin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:57 PM
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See my comments above on this and my actual real life experience re-approaching women pulled away by their (jealous) female or male friends. Do you really think a woman (who’s known her friends longer than the man she’s talking to) is just going to say to her friend: “Fuck off, I’m really SUPER interested in this guy” Or “No way, go away bitch, I’m busy.” Or “Look, this could be my future husband. I want to fuck tonight” Of course not! You’re dreaming. Women are so passive and follow their frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:56 PM
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See my comments above on this and my actual real life experience re-approaching women pulled away by their (jealous) female or male friends. Do you really think a woman (who’s known her friends longer than the man she’s talking to) is just going to say to her friend: “Fuck off, I’m really SUPER interested in this guy” Or “No way, go away bitch, I’m busy.” Or “Look, this could be my future husband. I want to fuck tonight” Of course not! You’re dreaming. Women are so passive and follow their frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:55 PM
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No, I’ve been talking to women and their (jealous) female friend(s) snatched them away rudely. She’s come to stand by me later and I’ve re-approached and slept with her that night or on a date later that week. I’ve done this, honestly, TOO MANY times to count. This has even happened where their (staight) male friend(s) [also jealous] have snatched them away and I’ve reapproached her later and voila slept with her. The “re-approaching-after-her-being-pulled-away-by-her-friend-then-me-reapproachin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:52 PM
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Do you really think that women, who are mostly ultra passive, are going to re-approach. See my comment for my actual real life experiences and how unbelievably successful I am re-approaching women snatched away by their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:52 PM
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No, I’ve been talking to women and their (jealous) female friend(s) snatched them away rudely. She’s come to stand by me later and I’ve re-approached and slept with her that night or on a date later that week. I’ve done this, honestly, TOO MANY times to count. This has even happened where their (staight) male friend(s) [also jealous] have snatched them away and I’ve reapproached her later and voila slept with her. The “re-approaching-after-her-being-pulled-away-by-her-friend-then-me-reapproachin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:50 PM
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No, I’ve been talking to women and their (jealous) female friend(s) snatched them away rudely. She’s come to stand by me later and I’ve re-approached and slept with her that night or on a date later that week. I’ve done this, honestly, TOO MANY times to count. This has even happened where their (staight) male friend(s) [also jealous] have snatched them away and I’ve reapproached her later and voila slept with her. The “re-approaching-after-her-being-pulled-away-by-her-friend-then-me-reapproachin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:50 PM
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These americans keep saying they do better on apps than approaching in person - I’ve never heard of any man in australia having that experience. Australian guys always do better approaching in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:53 AM
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No they don’t, you clearly don’t know much about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:29 AM
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That’s the exact opposite of my experience in Australia. Not sure how you’re presenting yourself in real life at bars but I’m guessing you need to fic your presentation, body language or confidence in person - I’d say women just aren’t responding to it. Approaching people WELL and with actual confidence in person is difficult - but once you can do it, you’ll get far far better results approaching women in person to dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:28 AM
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Yes I do think most (younger) women are bot well versed in their own sexuality because it’s hidden from them. Studies suggest women don’t even know when they’re aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:44 PM
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No there isn’t really - this girl is either lying or simply just unaware of her own sexuality. Likely abit of both. How gullible are men that take women for their word regarding their arousal? It’s pointless even asking women about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:02 AM
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Lol, all of that is completely irrelevant. Go see the males - go with all of them to the police to help them make those reports againat women you know. You won’t - but you completely dodged that in your message because you’re scared yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:16 AM
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Lol where am I a victim? Did you actually read what I said. Several of these events have happened to me (and my friends) when I was a kid in primary school or high school with adult women. Women are creeps, me (and the men I know) simply weren’t aware of why we had a bad unsettling feeling around these women or when these ADULT women did these things - and we just thought it was our own issue. Women are as big or bigger creeps than men and they are because they get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:14 AM
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Perfect, then find all the men you personally KNOW and have them make a report on all the women that have sexually assaulted them. THEN make sure you and those women you know defend those SAME men when that woman tries to destroy his life and reputation because she was accused. See how well that goes for you - I’m betting you wouldn’t have the stomach for or and those same women will destroy YOUR life simply for getting involved. Then also see how many of those reports are taken serious by polic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:55 AM
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They are - I’ve seen women beleived in my own life countless times and so has every man I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:10 AM
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No they don’t mate - not when they’re children, don’t like the woman and/or are married to the love of their lives. You must be joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:25 AM
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Again - another whataboutism for women. Women are believed about being a victim FAR more than men. The “women are wonderful” effect is also at play with all people. Who do you think is believed more: when women report their assaulted or when men report their assault? Or who do you think is believed more: when women try to destroy the reputation of a man for accusing her of assault Vs. when a man tries to destroy a woman’s reputation for accusing him of assault? Please tell us who is more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:24 AM
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Why not talk about male children - both male adults and male children aren’t really great at intepreting women’s body language signals. Yet women still harass them, assault them or are sexually predatory and creepy in both cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:57 AM
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If they don’t like the woman - it doesn’t matter whether they consider themselves victims - they have been assaulted in the eyes of the law. What about the same thing happening repeatedly to male children and teenagers? Do you think that’s ok? Do you think they aren’t also victims within the law?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:48 AM
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If you accuse a woman of sexual harrassment now - all she needs to do is deny it and begin a campaign of destroying your reputation (which women are great at & have alot of experience in) and EVERYONE believes her - sometimes even the male accusers own family find it hard to believe him. Terry Crews talked about this - his colleagues, friends and family struggled to believe him when he was repeatedly assaulted by a woman. Men just don’t report a woman because they don’t want their reputation DES…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:46 AM
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Really? So you’d go to the police with that man (if you knew the woman also) to make a sexual harassment claim with him on that woman? Would you support him in that? Women virtue signal so hard about women that don’t support men but those SAME women NEVER support men. Would you believe your male friend had been assaulted by your female friend and support him going to the police to make an accusation? Even when that same woman turns around and denies it and says she was “drunk” or “it was harmles…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:42 AM
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Plenty of responses here for why men don’t report it - why don’t you have a look through some of the male comments. You can start with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:38 AM
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This is all whataboutism defence from women: Men present a negative about women and all women have to respond with is, guilt, shame and “what about men though?”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:36 AM
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I don’t think it’s about victimisation - that’s muddying the waters. How was I to know at 10 or 11 years old (and younger - happened plenty of times) that my female teacher was being creepy? It felt weird and I didn’t like it but didn’t know why I felt so uncomfortable. Do you really think it felt good to get sexual attention from my grown adult teacher or older girls when I wasn’t sexually mature nor knew what to do about it? That’s a terrible argument and a cop out. Men don’t automatically bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:34 AM
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Do you think that men notice women’s signals and body language as well as women notice mens? Is it possible - that men simply don’t even know women are being creepy to them until later or don’t notice it until it’s very forthright - yet those same men still feel a weird uneasiness or unsettled feeling in the moment - then move on? I know this has been the case for me - now that I’m older and I understand women’s body language and signals - I notice this creepy behaviour ALL the time from women, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:28 AM
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I think the biggest reason women creepiness isn’t discussed or talked about is because men aren’t as good at reading signals as women so they don’t notice how outright creepy many women actually are - so women do get away with it. Or men say “it’s harmless” when it happens to another man, because there’s no threat of force from the women, nor could there be (technically). I’ve noticed so many women being creeps to my friends and I’ve pointed it out and they were completely unaware - but when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:07 AM
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Yeah, women follow men they’re in a relationship with. You’d know that if you’d ever been in a real relationship. You’re clueless and beyond help mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:19 PM
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You’ve made alot of bad faith assumptions here because you obviously don’t have any (or many) women in your life and haven’t historically: Who is saying men ONLY want women for sex and/or validation? I used to know guys that said this about validation. It’s so weird because I love having sex with women (as EVERY man on the planet is biologically programmed in their dna at birth) and hanging out with (quality) women is amazing, when balanced. Who said any man is CHASING women? Myself and the men …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:18 PM
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It’s great term for women to ease the reality that they are getting used for sex by a guy way out of their league who will never (or is very unlikely) commit to them. It’s simply a delusional way to label something as a type of relationship or relationship adjacent - where none exists. It’s the equivalent of women’s “Hope IS a strategy” lol. These same women will answer surveys saying they are in a “relationship” and the guy she’s in a situationship with will answer the survey as “single” - that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:18 AM
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Albert Einsteen was a strong masculine man, not some weak man that couldn’t handle dating. Most successful men get there because they are courageous. If you behave in a weak fearful way at work, then you’ll likely do the same with women. If you behave in a strong, masculine, intelligent way with at work, why can’t you do the same with women or vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:59 PM
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You’ve got it backwards - alot of the issues these men are having is that they genuinely behave in a weak, fearful, unintelligent way that lacks masculinity. What’s better for a country and the world - punishing valuable charming men or teaching otherwise weak men to be masculine and courageous?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:10 AM
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You want to see her without make-up: take them swimming at the beach Or swimming at a local lake or just swimming in some kind of water or spa for the first or second date. A sauna or steam room could work aswell. Or just give her a make-up wipe at your place and give her any excuse (situationally relevant to whatever you’re doing) to wipe off that make-up. Once you sleep with her and she stays at your house overnight, she’ll need to wipe off that make-up: hand her a make-up wipe. It may be too …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:25 PM
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It’s dropped a couple of percentage points SINCE you turned 30 where it dropped off a cliff, did your doctor tell you that? Right now, having a baby at your age - I’m guessing you’re not married or with a man now so pregnancy is even further away, is actually worse potential issues than having a baby with your first cousin (assuming you were in your early 20’s). I think when you get to your late 30’s/early 40’s, it’s similar or worse than having a child with your half sibling. Like I said in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:02 PM
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Yes, there are women that have kids over 35. Many have complications and many of those having kids over that age aren’t their first children or have alot of complications and take quite a long time to fall pregnant. 40 years old+ gets even worse. Not sure why you’re in denial about - I’m guessing you’re getting older and haven’t had any kids yet and want to believe you have plenty of time. I know women that wait until they were mid-late 30’s saying that same story to themselves - then they have …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:54 PM
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So you agree with everything I just said, you mistook the meaning of the clock and I’m correct. Pithy joke accepted ahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:43 AM
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Mate, you don’t understand what a “Biological Clock” means in this case (or any case). A ‘Biological Clock” isn’t a conscious DECISION someone makes - women only have a certain amount of eggs in their bodies to have children. Bringing a child to birth, through pregnancy, safely and with few complications becomes increasingly harder harder once a woman hits 30 and signicantly harder once she hits 35 and a lottery from 40-45 years old (unless she’s already had children before). It’s not a DECISION…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:14 AM
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Mate, the worst is when they THINK those things but don’t actually SAY them out loud, that’s even worse. They’re confused and hurt and become vengeful when you (for some delusional reason in their mind) imply that you don’t have a timeline and they honestly, in their heart of hearts, believed you wanted marriage and a child in the next 2 years or so (these are women in their late 20’s). When you have given them zero implications or indications of the future. The scorned vengefulness after the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:10 AM
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Yeah, telling women EVERYTHING - all your exact plans and hopes is a perfect thing to be attractive to women. Lol You’re a woman I’m guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:19 AM
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It’s not even about hearing that on a first or second date: it’s hearing in the first 3 Months of a relationship that she plans on having a child in the next year or two, so she needs to get married before that (hint hint) and it needs to happen or else because she has NO time to waste (hard hint hint) I’ve had women do that exactly to me, 3-4 months into relationships, it’s very unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:55 AM
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Yes, they obviously are different and it’s a “gendered thing” because women have a biological clock and if they want to have kids, the need to have them way before 35 years old. Men do not have that biological clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:53 AM
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This is the CORE requirement that I and every man I know should expect from a woman BEFORE entering a serious/long-term/committed relationship with them: closing ALL of her options, and a commitment from the woman to keeping those doors closed - or I (or the man, whoever he is) exits the relationship immediately and forever. This includes: no male friends (what serious married or committed woman has male friends - just LOL) because we all know these are backup relationship options for women, whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:10 AM
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Just LOL - you’re mock outraged because I asked you to support your own point. Hahahah at that source, what a joke. There is no proof people behaved solely based on their environment. That’s why IQ is useful. That’s ok - you’re a bad faith actor and this is pointless but funny. I’ll keep critisizing any of your comments because it looks like they’re all in bad faith and you’re butthurt that IQ’s are lower for your own people and you’re on a crusade to disprove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:31 AM
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Great, so how many women have you asked on a date in the past 12 months? Talking to women is not the same as actually taking action for what you want. If you don’t ask them out or escalate - then it doesn’t count for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:18 PM
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You’re soft and weak and what you just said confirms it. You can’t go on any dates with any women if you don’t ask them. You clearly think all these women have this magical power over you that if you get rejected, it’ll destroy you. Which is why you haven’t tried - at all. If a woman rejects your approach, so what. Onto the next one. If you have you’re own business and you approach businesses selling your product and most don’t buy it, that’s ok. You only need a few of them to buy it and you’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:17 PM
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After going the gym and putting on alot of muscle, women make it really really obvious and easy for you, even if you’re clueless. So I can’t imagine you approaching 300 women and getting nowhere, especially if you have a good physique, you went really wrong somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:53 PM
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Wow, then you’re lying about the gym, or lying about approaching that many women or your personality is absolutely terrible or just really weak. Perhaps you need to see a psychologist because you may have some serious issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:26 PM
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Just LOL! All of psychology is based on Evolutionary psychology - humans behave in consistant patterns because we were born that way. Otherwise medicine, and any biological science and behaviour science would all be completely useless. Could you provide sources and links for those sources to support your assertion that the ”vast majority of human behaviour is due to condutioning”, as you stated. We’d all love to see these sources that don’t exist. I approach a woman because I want to have sex wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:42 PM
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Really? When were you in your mid-20’s? How many times have you been to the gym to lift weights in the past 3 months? Were you lifting weights regularly when you approached those 300 women? I guarantee you weren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:25 PM
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Women’s passivity is NOT due to conditioning. Very few things about female behaviour (or male behaviour) are due to conditioning. You sound like a weird left-wing activist. Why would women being passive ”only matter if you needed their approval”. Why would approaching a woman have any relation to needing a womans approval? Do you actually go to the gym every week? How many women have you cold approached in real life in the past 12 months. I don’t think you’ve done any of those things. If you’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:24 PM
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How is cold approaching dead? How many women have you cold approached in the last year? I cold approach all the time and it’s great, no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:07 PM
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How do you think you would gain leverage with women who are extremely biologically passive. You really don’t understand women - you think they’re like men and they respond to some weird negotiation. They don’t - they would just be passive and do nothing and become more crazy and go to therapy more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:06 PM
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Really? How do you know this? How many women have you cold approached in real life (in person) in the past year? I bet less than a handful. How many times have you been to the gym in the past 3 months? I bet none. You’re not trying to help yourself and you’re moaning about it here. Grow up and take control of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:05 PM
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Operative words: On dating apps - good looking men get tonnes and tonnes and tonnes of women when approaching in person. Normal men that approach women in person: many many options. Easy Solution: Sack up and talk to women in person. They’re more scared of you than you are of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:02 PM
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This whole post and the idea behind it is so silly and misguided. You are telling on yourself - you have absolutely no idea about the nature of women. Women are extremely PASSIVE by nature, no matter who or where they are. Women really don’t want men to know how passive they are, so they do things here and there to obscure this. Men NOT approaching women just simply wouldn’t work due to women’s Biologically in-built Passivity. If you’d spent any time around women, you would be well aware of this…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:00 PM
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She responds like the child she is. I love winning. Copy + paste
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:51 AM
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Can you show where women pay more taxes into the system than they are given by taxpayers - in America, UK, Australia, NZ - I dare you. You just made an assertion that women pay more money into the tax system then they take out. So please provide links with evidence (oh, I know you won’t).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:41 AM
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My friend was dating a Bulgarian woman for several years - she was caring, sweet and physically attractive but she was RUTHLESS when it came to dating/relationships/resource aquisition from her boyfriend (my friend). If you think Eastern European or Asian women are significantly different to “Western Women” - you’re mistaken. They may be more physically attractive or he more pleasant, but they’re still women underneath.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/23 06:34 AM
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Where did you get the sources for the numbers being brought in from other places? Cite your sources here - it sounds made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:08 AM
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Where are your sources for this? Could you post a link to cite them here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:07 AM
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No-one believes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:06 AM
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Lol, so allow men to financially abort children. But women shouldn’t be able to get tax payer support for that - that would just be men supporting single mothers through taxes. You’re all strong independent women - you don’t need the biological fathers money - or taxpayers, surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:00 AM
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You asserted these people were trafficking victims first before I said ANYTHING. Please cite your sources, I’ll take your continuation not to cite any as not having them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:31 AM
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Who said “every” - LOL, I certainly didn’t. Please cite your sources here, it just sounds like you’re just trying to establish the same old tired female victim narrative with zero factual support.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:11 AM
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How is that? Please submit some stats here of the countries and genders of people in Europe claiming refugees citing “trafficking”. If no response with citations - we’ll all know you were wrong and couldn’t find evidence to support your fantasy assertion of female victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:51 AM
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Europe doesn’t have a human trafficking problem. Europe has a problem with people saying they are being trafficked so they can get assylum for citizenship. That’s the only way some countries citizens can become refugees in Europe - claiming they got trafficked. When you look at the people claiming they were trafficked, they are mostly MEN from Albania claiming this to become a refugee. You don’t know much about this clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:41 AM
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So you’re a french man living in France. I’ve dated 3 french women and they’ve ALL approached ME. They were all gorgeous. About 6 weeks ago a woman approached me when I was eating dinner - she was french. Of all the women that have approached me in my life - the majority of them have been french - and I’ve never been to France. You’re doing something wrong my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:35 PM
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It’s legal in almost every other 1st world country, including where I live: Australia. Those countries already have policies to deal with this and have been successful with those policies for many decades, so this is a poorly researched take. You’ve clearly never travelled or know much about this. I’m guessing you’re an american rhat has never travelled to another 1st world country before, which is typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:29 PM
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It’s legal in almost every other 1st world country. Those countries already have policies to deal with this and have been successful with those policies for many decades, so this is a poorly researched take You’ve clearly never travelled or know much about this. I’m guessing you’re an american rhat has never travelled to another 1st world country before, which is typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:28 PM
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You’re clearly an American and this is such a common silly American idea that makes no sense. Prostitution is completely legal in Australia. It’s also legal in many other countries, including most countries in Europe. IT DOES NOT MAKE A DIFFERENCE TO THE WAY WOMEN BEHAVE The problems with the way women behave in the modern world cannot be solved by the availability of prostitution to men. I’ve been all around America and many other countries, including my own country Australia. Women are MUCH EA…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:22 PM
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So, you still just “Whataboutism’ed” about men again. The topic of the post is about women and their delusions that society supports. Do you have anything to add to that or are you just here to defend women and to distract by saying “what about men?”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:31 AM
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You can’t give any examples, of course. The example above is some random events LOL. Any man that prioritises their emotions above all else (extremely rare) is usually in jail now or about to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:28 AM
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This is just a “Whataboutism” - what about men. The issue in OP’s post is solely concerning female behaviours. Your comment isn’t relevant to this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:30 AM
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How do these men actually prioritise their emotions over everything else in their lives exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:22 AM
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Brother, there is some tiny amounts of truth in there mixed with immature half-baked and underdeveloped ideas and attitudes. You’re clearly not well rounded and don’t have robust experience dating or in relationships with women. You’re only 22 years old - I wouldn’t expect you to. This post makes this whole sub look bad and most of this is a complete misfire. You need to do alot more thinking and experience alot more and what you think in 5+ years or more will be more truthful and certainly won’…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/23 03:29 PM
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How do real men in your real life prioritise their feelings over everything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:27 AM
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Really? How exactly do men do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:49 AM
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Where is there evidence they kill themselves over it? Men kill themselves because they think they have so many actual real world problems they believe are beyond them to solve. Women solve their problems by feeling better about the problems - not actually solving them at all. Men solve their problems by actually literally solving them in the real world, not with feeings like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:46 AM
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Really? How do you know men need emotions more than they say they do? Do you have any evidence for this “men needing emotions more than the say they do”? I think that’s just you projecting as a woman because you don’t understand (or want to understand) how men process things in their mind much differently to women. It also helps women to know what emotions men are feeling because it helps them to gain some insight into men, control of them etc. Women want to know that for selfish reasons. Men ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:43 PM
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You won’t know and you haven’t ever known. And it’s hilarious that you think you would. You’re dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:59 PM
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This is another delusion that many women think they have this otherworldly magical sense of being able to read a man’s emotions - even when a man rarely, if ever, expresses them. Women really don’t have a single clue what emotions men are feeling - ever. I know this because women complain about this ALL the time. This is why women keep asking men to tell them what’s on their mind? (translation: what are you feeling now?), what do you think about this thing I did (translation: how do you feel abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:38 PM
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You’re strawmanning and jumping to conclusions emotionally: where did anyone say that because a man has fallen out of love with his wife over time or has low emotional feelings for her that automatically = Husband is treating a woman badly/like an appliance/like a bother? Where is that stated or implied? This is EXACTLY how women don’t understand men. You likely wouldn’t even KNOW a man feel out of love with his wife or had low emotions for her - IF he did. Because men don’t show their emotions …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:10 PM
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You do realise - men OFTEN marry women they love and then LATER LATER LATER fall out of love with that woman but stay married to her because she provides for the rest of his needs. Men in western countries usually CANNOT afford to divorce every woman that we no longer love (even if she’s doing everything else we value) due to the divorce laws that would send us broke and custody of not being able to see our kids every day or just rarely seeing our own kids. That’s why if many men are getting mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:32 AM
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Sure, but that’s not saying HATE. Not loving your wife doesn’t mean you don’t “like her” or thinks she’s great in your life. There are women who don’t actually love men that marry them. I’d say the same amount goes both way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:19 AM
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Why do you automatically assume the man feels “hatred” rather than just neutral or low feelings that are somewhat positive or somewhat negative? Men won’t stay in a marriage with women they actively hate but they will stay in a marriage with a woman they have BECOME neutral in feelings to if that woman provides for wverythinf else. Men don’t prioritise feelings like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:52 AM
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You’re so ill-informed about how men operate and think. If you think not needing or having a low priortity for emotions AS A MAN is sad - you need alot maturing to do because men in real life, have a very low need for emotions. Women have a VERY high need for emotions. Women and men are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:43 AM
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You didn’t read the post properly - he talks about the man falling OUT OF LOVE with his wife at some point and still continuing the marriage. Many women believe (for any number of reasons) that a man they are about to sleep with or have slept with had many strong feelings or emotions towards her and liked her personality but never really did like it that much or simply liked it upfront but she revealed herself to be wholly unlikeable to him later, but he kept sleeping with her - because men love…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:11 AM
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This is again, as the OP pointed out, why women don’t understand men. Men don’t NEED that emotional connection to have sex with women. When men are in a marriage with a woman and they have a home, jobs & children + regular (satisfying) sex - men don’t really need to prioritise their emotions to their wife - if they have fallen out of love with her or have very little emotions for her, positive or negative. In that case, men usually pragmatically weigh uo the positives and and negatives of stayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:02 AM
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The point of this post was pointing out is that women don’t understand a woman’s sexuality and men don’t understand a woman’s emotions and subsequently - a woman’s emotional attachment THROUGH sex. This is neither casting men or women in a bad light. This is like badmouthing a weather man for telling the weather - he doesn’t control the weather, he simply reports it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:54 AM
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Another terrible take from this same author who keeps shilling total nonsense on this sub. Men and women are fundamentally at opposite ends of the spectrum on everything in relation to dating, relationships and sex. The reason that there are men AND women who are struggling - is due to them being told and believing men and women are the same or similar in regards to dating, sex & relationships. This whole post and pretty much every comment you’ve made on this sub has got bad faith, rotten femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:47 AM
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How does problem solving & intelligence relate?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/23 06:36 AM
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What intelligence part? There was no reference to intelligence.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 04:14 PM
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The biggest thing hold men back when they’re learning seduction is realising: As the man, you have all the power and you set the tone with your leadership. Everything she can do, we as a man can do MUCH better. We’re stronger, more muscular, faster, better problem solvers and we ALWAYS have a better foundation for ourselves than women. Men are internally validated and women are externally validated: meaning women NEED men and their external environments to respond to them. Men do not - we receiv…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 07:47 AM
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Where does it say “women have no capacity for choices”? A persistant and strong man leading a woman is a very compelling natural force for a woman. Women WANT to follow a strong man or strong men and the stronger the man, the more likely she is to follow. This is a weakness (and a strength) in a woman’s biological hardwiring. Women also follow strong forces that aren’t men - like their peers, education they received, news, culture, religion, media, government, television & film. All of these thi…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 04:08 AM
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The same thing goes in the opposite direction though. If you’re the strong powerful man - the women you approach are going to be quite passive to you.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 03:11 PM
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Nope, you don’t get it mate. What you said isn’t correct. Men don’t OBTAIN women by taking action. Women don’t passively SELECT. There is realy not selection, it’s more who can overhwelm her emotions and overwhelming her in other ways. Selecting and Being Passive are mutually exclusive. I understand this may be new to you, but it’s how women operate and it’s unfortunately not well known or understood by most men, even in this space
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 06:09 AM
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It’s really NOT semantics at all. Many men think they need to pursue pursue chase chase chase and pursue more. Which is completely wrong and counter-productive to seduction at best and heartbreaking, needy, weird and likely to always be rejected at worst. So no pursuing: you lead and she follows. If she doesn’t follow at all and you give her enough OPPORTUNITIES to follow - next and leave. Men should be expecting women to follow and give them opportunities to do so, but if they don’t - you go on…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 05:43 AM
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Not correct - it’s not men’s job to be the persuer but the leader. The man that danced with the engaged woman wasn’t persuing her - he did his own thing, invited her to join him, lead her, led her more, kept doing what he wanted with her there and lead more and she followed all the way through. Men should be LEADING, never persuing. Women persue us when we lead them - they persue men by following men.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 05:31 AM
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Of course, the boundary crossing is obvious. The point of my comment above is that alot of men don’t understand that women are even crossing a boundary by (unconsciously) making themselves look/appear/seem available just by passively dressing in a revealing dress, passively allowing men to approach and talk to you and passively being led by those men to do literally anything: whether it’s following that man, dancing with him, passively allowing him to escalate anything in any way with any emotio…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 05:25 AM
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Men need to understand that when women say they “won’t cheat on you” or they will be “loyal and faithful” - they usually mean that and genuinely feel it in their hearts. The issue is: Women themselves under-estimate their capacity for complete passivity and the ease they will naturally submit to a powerful, confident man that moves her emotions. How could women realistically account for that level of passivity in that situation before it even happens, so predicting it in the future. Women themse…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 05:02 AM
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This is clearly written by a woman and is exactly like Alcohol Prohibition which was just a silly failed movement by women to be authoritarians, with the governments help, to hamstring men. Requesting MORE laws and more authoritarianism in America is so outside and out of touch with other modern western countries that it’s funny. Why don’t you just make alcohol legal for people over 25? Lol Or just only make access to nightclubs and bars at 30 years old? And raise the legal age of sex to 25 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:41 AM
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Too long & boring with no substance to read - you’re clearly very triggered and older.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:01 PM
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Men who “sleep” with women with a high body count, as I do, doesn’t mean we’ll commit and marry and have children with a woman with a high body count. High body count is not a turn off sexually - it’s a turn off to men for long term partnership. Men who “don’t mind dating” women with high body counts are often using those women for sex/placeholders until they meet a better, higher quality (lower body count) woman they actually want to commit to. When men CHOOSE a high body count woman for a long…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:51 PM
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Did you not just read my last message? It’s an inbuilt biological adaptation in men: it’s like men being repulsed by elderly hideous women - it’s just not what we’re attracted to. It also indicates very low self control from those women (historically) and that soooo many men rejected them for a long term relationship means they are likely poor relationship partners. This is all instinctual for men, and has been for a very long time. This is all the same with humans all across the world for milli…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:00 PM
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Telling myself what? What I read in biology and evolution and primate behaviour textbooks? They’re wrong but you’re correct? Ahahah🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:03 PM
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Lol, no-one cares. I’m guessing you’re definately not in this 18-21 year old demographic. When DiCaprio does it - he’s certainly not a creep nor is any gorgeous male actor in their 30’s. Alot of double standards and judgement from you there. Please inform us - why is it creepy specifically when men are all attracted to young fertile looking ADULT women on a biological level?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:58 PM
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You don’t need to ask the wife to get a paternity test, you can just have the doctors order one and the mother is none the wiser. Results are back in 1-3 business days. Even if the wife was asked - if you’re so fragile to that you can’t handle being asked for a paternity test, you’re the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:56 PM
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This is such an ignorant female take. Women have this silly idea that everthing that people do comes from culture and culture/media/education/film/television influencing them or brainwashing them into doing things and behaving a certain way. That’s never been the case, at least not for men. Women are heavily influenced by these things, but only to a certain extent. Assuming that men are influenced to that level from social media/education/film/tv is just mot reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:54 PM
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Every man, no matter what age, is most attracted to fertile appearing adult women. Shaming it as creepy is laughable. I’m guessing you’re not good looking and don’t get much of this attention or just older and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:51 PM
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Yeah, men have never IN HISTORY liked women that have slept with many men. It’s an in-built evolutionary adaptation we are born with as men. You don’t like this because you know you (and many other women) have slept with many men due to poor judgement on your behalf or just being poorly behaved and many men responded by not committing to a long term relationship with you. You want to be able to sleep with as a many men as you like, be dumped by as many men as you like for your poor behaviour aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:43 PM
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Why does it sound bizarre? Women choose men as boyfriends/partners/husbands and they’re protected from men who want to harm that woman or take advantage or steal from her or whatever. This has been going on for millions of years with humans and primates. Are you saying this hasn’t happened before?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:41 AM
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Didn’t reply to my answer - what a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:39 AM
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So many of these men will talk (accurately) about women being delusional or women lying to themselves + lying to others but these same men automatically think women are going to be telling the TRUTH and NOT being delusional in these surveys or interviews they see online or their initial interactions with women. Ladies lie constantly - they do it to save face, to not get rejected, to not look embarrassed, to not get into a confrontation, to not take responsibility, to get benefits or privileges, …
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 02:38 AM
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Yep, because (check notes) other men are stronger than women STILL (surprise).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:31 AM
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It’s not women’s problem but the reasons you gave here are untrue at best and actively in bad faith at worst. I have NEVER MET a woman alive today (of ANY AGE) who has claimed or stated that they were “raised to be a mother that takes care of the kids and house”. Women aren’t RAISED that way. Women WANT to do that and have children and once they become mothers: they go back and ask their mother what they need to do and need to know. Sometimes they need their mother to stay with them to help and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:27 AM
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None of what you said is true - women like older men. I know, because I am one and so are my friends and there’s barely any issues with younger women. Secondly, those figures in that survey are clearly wrong and my guess is: the ladies were plain LYING. When men AND women in the same demographic area and age group (under 18-40 years old) were ASKED by researchers whether they were either; 1. In a Serious Relationship 2. Living with a partner in a relationship or 3. Single Surprise, many men told…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 12:47 AM
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Here’s the thing mate, if my ex-girlfriends asked me the same questions, I wouldn’t have dated them either: If I was 38 instead of 22 years old, would you still be with me? No If I had an A-Cup instead of an E-cup, would you still date me? No If I put on 30kgs of fat, would you still have picked me? No Same things but different for men. I’m sure all of us here have similar answers.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 12:56 AM
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The problem with these “studys” is that they’re in fact surveys. The problem I see with this is that the women are most certainly lying about reluctance to date/commit to men who have slept with large numbers of women. I have never seen this in real life with myself or ANY guy I know that has slept with alot of women. I have personally slept with large numbers of women and I’m upfront about it to women I date and I have NEVER had an issue with it, not ever - other than jealousy. What would be ac…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/23 12:45 PM
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All bad excuses brother. Unless they’re heavy weights, it’s only half the prescription for fitness. Covid’s over. This is why you don’t have any women in your life. Very simple answers and simple solutions.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 09:40 PM
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So you do all these things already?
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 09:39 PM
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Lol Same lame excuse EVERYONE has - “there are ZERO, literally zero available women anywhere near me”. Go to a university or shopping centre anywhere. So embarrassing. Are you going to the gym multiple times per week too? Bet you aren’t.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 08:33 PM
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Mate you should re-read the words. I bet you’re not getting any and you don’t so these basic things and you’re looking for any little thing to question because you don’t have a clue.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 08:31 PM
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None of this is related to incels or white women. Just approach any woman you find attractive - that’s what everyone should be doing. If you do all of what I said in my comment, you won’t be an incel very long. Sounds like you’re really trying to find ways to not do any of this like it’s hard.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 02:11 PM
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Did you read? Approach women YOU FIND. attractive. Is this the language police here? Do you think this is outside your ability to do what I wrote?
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 01:42 PM
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No you haven’t. I see slim guy with tiny waists and small joints and massive muscles. That’s what being slim is - low body fat. I bet you’re not approaching any women in real life. What are you the language police. Jog on
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 01:35 PM
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You must not know alot about fitness. You’ll be muscular from the weightlifting and low body fat from the low carbs & Intermittant fasting. I know because I’ve done this. I continue to do it now.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 12:07 PM
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That’s all info we all didn’t have before. Mate, to be honest, you had me at nights out by herself. Honestly, if she’s in a serious long term relationship with you and she’s going on nights out without you and with her female friends AND she cheated on another boyfriend before you AND now this incident - mate she’s done. Get out of there and ghost her now - you should have dumped her ages ago. All of those nights out with her friends without you has been slowly leading to this - she’s just being…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 07:53 AM
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No they’re not lol! I’ve only ever seen indian women with indian men or very very average white guys who certainly are NOT chads. This is hilarious.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 07:47 AM
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It could be if he can confirm it’s the truth or not. If he can’t confirm either way - then yes it’s grounds for dumping. It depends how her behaviour is elsewhere though. If this is a pattern of behaviour for her - then dumping her is long overdue. If this is a single incident, and he confirms she is telling the truth, then she should be on thin ice.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 05:06 AM
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Boys, you can be a top 10% guy somewhat easily and you don’t even realise it: Go to the gym to life weights 2x or more per week (upper & lower body) Intermittant Fasting + Low Carbs - have a window of eating of 2-6 hours or so and low carbs (only small amounts of complex). Cold Approach at least one attractive woman you like per day (7x per week/365+ women per year). In person not online apps - online give shit results and is alot of weak men trying to avoid rejection, that’s why it’s so popular…
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 05:02 AM
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Hmm, that’s true. But why not leave her immediately after telling him that? Look, if there’s any investment in this woman and he can find out and be objectively certain if she cheated by spending 20-30 mins on his way home by talking to people at the axe place + driving by the place she was pinged > I would do it. If it was just a random night she went out with a girlfriend who just got divorced and got too drunk - it’s bad form for her to get that drunk and she shouldn’t do it but if there’s no…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 04:51 AM
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If you’re a short Indian - wouldn’t it make sense to approach Indian or other South Asian women. Make it easier on yourself guys. If you think dating tall attractive white girls would be easy as a short Indian, you’re dreaming. Where did you get this silly idea? I DO actually personally know an Indian guy (grew up in Australia with me) who is 5’7”. He’s very fit & muscluar, receding hairline and makes close to $1mill per year and is extremely social and does really well with women. But he IS the…
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 02:40 PM
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If she’s your actual committed girlfriend - then I would do abit of due dilligence before demoting her. If this is just a girl you’ve been dating - yes, she should just go to “sex-only” with no questions, based on her other behaviour. It sounds like you want some closure and are curious about what happened. Drive past the lot she was “staying at” - is it even possible it’s her friends place? Is it possible that place has poor reception for her phone. Do you know this friend of hers she went out …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 09:45 PM
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Because the media is lying about “most couples” meeting in the internet or dating apps. I know ALOT of couples, and only 2 (TWO) of them met online. That’s a very very small percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:06 PM
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Lazy - do yo not understand how reddit works. Click on my username and go for it Sorry, where is your evidence - can you post it here please. I asked first. Or don’t you have any?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:04 PM
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No they don’t. Where did you get this evidence from? See my comment posted below for why women actually get into this mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:55 AM
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The reason women grow to dislike men or think there’s something wrong with men they date is a little more nuanced but is mostly correct here. It’s more a matter of women: Constantly going for men out of their league - and subsequently being dumped (main reason) Woman not offering much to men OR having so many red flags behaviours and issues that even the lower quality men don’t want to stay with them Women not improving themselves (especially as they get older and less physically attractive) and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:18 AM
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This is just one long Whataboutism that points away from women and the topic in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:13 AM
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Do you want to date white women or can you just date women who are the same or similar ethnicity to you in Australia? You’ll have alot more options here if you date within your own race.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 12:55 PM
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White Australian women ARE Europeans and yes they are. I’ve been to alot of countries and even if they’re not the hottest white women in the world (they’re not, but they’re not far away), Australian women THINK they are. I’m guessing you’re not from Australia. You also didn’t read my comment, I’m not surprised. When ethnic men go back to their ethnic home country to visit (or nearby), they realise their looks/height isn’t an issue because they’re swimming in CONSENSUAL female dating options ther…
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 07:52 AM
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As I said in another comment - everything you said is voided due to apps. Whatever these americans or brits tell you - dating apps in Australia get the worst results I’ve ever seen, I’ve tested it. You need to cold approach women in person, and cold approach women of the same race or similar and you will be swimming it it. Why go for only white girls if you yourself aren’t white?
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 01:46 AM
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You need to approach in person mate. Even hot guys here do terribly on apps. How long have you been in Australia? Dating on apps is shocking here even if you’re a tall white guy. I know tall attractive white guys and they get nothing or garbage on dating apps.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 01:36 AM
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Mate, I’m in Australia and I know tonnes of men who are under 6ft who do well dating. Only one of them is a racial minority though, but he’s extremely fit, muscular and is very social. The height isn’t so much your issue, it’s the race. You’re trying to date some of the wealthiest, most attractive (and similarly entitled) white women in the entire world. How often do you see attractive white women dating or married to non-white men of any kind or height in Australia? It’s so rare. I rarely see s…
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 01:33 AM
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Who said ALL YOUR FREE TIME? Lol It wouldn’t take that much time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:33 PM
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Why not? It’s fun right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:03 PM
1

Yes women are a monolith - that’s why medicine and psychology exist. If there were no patterns to male and female behaviour - those sciences would be nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:55 PM
1

Suuuure you don’t. You’re different to every other woman from research, or on the planet or that’s ever existed. So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:48 PM
1

There you go - proved it - he looks like a model. You fit right into the science. You’re just like every other woman in the research. Niiice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:45 PM
0

Women still get into relationships and pregnant with them. Why keep having sex with him then and what happens if you get pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:37 PM
1

No point in this - you keep strawmanning and not reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:08 PM
1

You don’t need romantic feelings - that’s not relevant. You slept with him likely because he had qualities agreeable to a long term partnership on a biological level. Or was he a disgusting homeless ugly vagrant? Why not sleep with a man like that? I know, because that goes against your biological long term imperitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:05 PM
1

Yeah, you need more than looks aka - you need a man with qualities you want in a long term partner. Aka why are you arguing with me, that’s the point I’m making and what the science says. And you don’t want to feel rejected by the men you liked that didn’t like you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:01 PM
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You didn’t read what I said. Women sleep with men they COULD potentially have a long term future with - meaning he has the qualities for this purpose. You’re arguing with the science here - these aren’t my personal ideas. Perhaps you just don’t really know or understand your own motivations clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:57 PM
1

Sure you were. You weren’t attracted to any of the gorgeous men that rejected you or weren’t interested in you or dumped you after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:53 PM
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I said why didn’t you have sex with every hot guy if it was ONLY FUN. It would hundreds OR thousands. Check your reading ability. I know why women don’t. Women just in denial. You only have sex with men that have qualities you want in a potential relationship, that’s why. You can deny it all you want but women are mostly picky for men they could have a long term relationship, even when they say just do it “just (only) for fun” and nothing more. It’s frankly embarassing that you have no self intr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:54 AM
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Did you read OP’s post? It’s not about a one night stand from a club? Give the post a read - it’s about a woman having sex with him many many times over a long period of time. Buddy, your comment here is so irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:49 AM
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Well, women get attached to most/all men they have sex with more than a few times (OP’s post is about a woman that’s had sex with him many times). The thing is, women do get attached every time in my own experience and in my friends and every guy I know. The only time they stop sex with men is when the sex was terrible, the giy turned out to be weak and she stops having sex with him and moves on. So yes, women are clueless about their unconscious needs and desires, it keeps getting proven every …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:48 AM
-5

Just more women who are clueless about themselves and how they themselves behave. Women need more from men than just looks and “just fun” and all of these women have admitted it. I’ve personally experienced it when I’ve stopped seeing several women after situationships (that they agreed to from the start) surprise later down the track they all want more than just fun sex. They want to move in, get a dog and have a long term commitment and sometimes marriage with me. Then when I stop seeing them,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:46 AM
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Made no sense mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:38 AM
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Did you read the OP’s post? It’s about a woman having sex witb him many times over and over for a long time. How is that “casual sex”? Why is every woman here conflating this OP’s post to casual or a one night stand when it’s obviously not, based on the post. Did you read it? Just more women who are clueless about themselves and how they themselves behave. Women need more from men than just looks and “just fun” and all of these women have admitted it. I’ve personally experienced it when I’ve sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:36 AM
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Really? How old are you? To meet one attractive guy per week - that’s 52 per year x 5-10 years. Mate that’s hundreds of men and women see or meet alot more hot men than that on average per week. Just more women who are clueless about themselves and how they themselves behave. Women need more from men than just looks and “just fun” and all of these women have admitted it. I’ve personally experienced it when I’ve stopped seeing several women after situationships (that they agreed to from the start…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:35 AM
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Na, not in my experience. Women need more from men than just looks and “just fun” and all of these women have admitted it. I’ve personally experienced it when I’ve stopped seeing several women after situationships (that they agreed to from the start) surprise later down the track they all want more than just fun sex. They want to move in, get a dog and have a long term commitment and sometimes marriage with me. Then when I stop seeing them, they tell everyone it was “just sex” because they’re to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:31 AM
1

Na, not in my experience. Women need more from men than just looks and “just fun” and all of these women have admitted it. I’ve personally experienced it when I’ve stopped seeing several women after situationships (that they agreed to from the start) surprise later down the track they all want more than just fun sex. They want to move in, get a dog and have a long term commitment and sometimes marriage with me. Then when I stop seeing them, they tell everyone it was “just sex” because they’re to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:28 AM
2

Saying all this other nonsense that doesn’t equate to anything. Women can’t just have “just fun” having sex - why? Because a requirement (whether women admit to it or not) is that guy needs to have the qualities of a guy she could date or commit to - he needs to have other value outside his looks. It’s really coping when women say it was “just fun” - you know why? Because women have said that about me to my friends/family members and other girls when I stopped seeing them - manyany girls have do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:17 AM
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Ah, so the requirments for “just sex” for the fun of it with an attractive guy is for him to have: (shock horror!) Traits and qualities of a guy you may want to commit to? That you could see yourself in a serious relationship with in future? That’s what I was after - ladies you’re gaslighting yourselves if you think you can have “just sex “ for the fun of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:08 AM
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Why not just answer the question? Is sex JUST FUN - like you said or it isn’t? Here’s my thought - it’s not simply JUST FUN for women, which is what OP’s post is about. Women usually only have sex with men they want something further from, or COULD have something further with later. Women want more out of sex than just the physical act and some of them (yourselves included) want more. Why do they even need to be hot? Why not just have “just sex” with above average guys? They’re still attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:06 AM
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Why not answer the question then? It just looks like you’re backing out of it now and it’s really not just fun. Alot of things are heaps of fun for me and have zero requirements. Like sex with a hot woman is fun for me - no matter what the setting or mood. You said sex with a hot guy is just fun - so what other conditions are there to make it “just fun”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:02 AM
0

So why support it from another woman if you don’t agree with it? That’s odd. This just looks like you’re encourage other women to do wreckless things so they lose value so they’re less competitive. Why wouldn’t it be fun for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:00 AM
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So what are the other requirements then? If sex with a hot guy isn’t JUST (meaning simply/only) fun - then what other conditions need to be met. “Just fun” implies there are no other conditions, or don’t you understand what words mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:55 AM
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You literally just said you disagree - you said it wouldn’t be fun. The guy was asking why a woman would have sex with him for fun WITHOUT A FURTHER SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP - or did you not read the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:53 AM
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So it’s not just fun then? It requires alot of other things to make it “fun”? You said, sometimes having sex with hot guys is JUST (SIMPLY ONLY) fun. So either you made a mistake in what you wrote or it’s not really fun UNLESS there’s tonnes of conditions on it like - you liking the guy alot and him perhaps being suitable as a long term guy, with tonnes of different attributes and qualities of that guy and the way he behaves, even if you don’t want him long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:51 AM
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So it’s not just fun then? It requires alot of other things to make it “fun”? You said, sometimes having sex with hot guys is JUST (SIMPLY ONLY) fun. So either you made a mistake in what you wrote or it’s not really fun UNLESS there’s tonnes of conditions on it like - you liking the guy alot and him perhaps being suitable as a long term guy, even if you don’t want him long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:51 AM
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They do mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:48 AM
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So you don’t think sex with hot guys is just fun and that’s not your motivation for it? Is that what you’re saying? You disagree with the woman above who’s motivation for having sex with hot guys is jaut fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:46 AM
2

So sex with hot guys IS FUN. If it’s fun, why does the guy NEED to make the right moves and why does it need to be the right setting? It’s sex with hot guys is so fun - why not have it whenever and need all of this extra stuff? It makes no sense - unless it’s not actually fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:45 AM
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Why not answer the question though?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:43 AM
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No, I asked that of you. If you fuck guys for fun - why not just fuck every hot guy that shows interest in you in your life. More fun = Better Life Why wouldn’t you want to have fun whereever you can and for free with hot guys? What’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:31 AM
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Or you’re just lying on this forum. We all know women get attached after sex - it’s part of them. Alot of women are in denial about this because they think they’re “the same” as men regarding men’s attachment after sex (very little, if any). Women hate admitting this attachment because it gives men alot of power after sex. So what’s the real reason sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:28 AM
2

So why haven’t you just fucked all of the hot guys you’ve ever met that showed interest in you if sex is so fun for you? You’d be into the hundreds or thousands of sex partners by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:24 AM
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So why haven’t you just fucked all of the hot guys you’ve ever met that showed interest in you if sex is so fun for you? You’d be into the hundreds or thousands of sex partners by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:24 AM
0

So why haven’t you just fucked all of the hot guys you’ve ever met that showed interest in you if sex is so fun for you? You’d be into the hundreds or thousands of sex partners by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:24 AM
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So why haven’t you just fucked all of the hot guys you’ve ever met that showed interest in you if sex is so fun for you? You’d be into the hundreds or thousands of sex partners by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:23 AM
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So why haven’t you just fucked all of the hot guys you’ve ever met that showed interest in you if sex is so fun for you? You’d be into the hundreds or thousands of sex partners by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:23 AM
1

So why haven’t you just fucked all of the hot guys you’ve ever met that showed interest in you if sex is so fun for you? You’d be into the hundreds or thousands of sex partners by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:23 AM
-1

So why haven’t you just fucked all of the hot guys you’ve ever met that showed interest in you if sex is so “just fun “ for you? You’d be into the hundreds or thousands of sex partners by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:22 AM
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So why haven’t you just fucked all of the hot guys you’ve ever met that showed interest in you if sex is so fun for you? You’d be into the hundreds or thousands of sex partners by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:22 AM
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But you’re selective about it though. So why haven’t you just fucked all of the hot guys you’ve ever met that showed interest in you if it’s fun for you? You’d be into the hundreds or thousands of sex partners by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:20 AM
1

I suspect this guy met your girlfriend at work and she revealed to him your weaknesses and what strengths he has over you. He now knew this and kept track of you and used those same weaknesses you have (still have from lack of improvement) and his strengths to take the next woman from you. I suspect this isn’t the first time he’s done this to a man. I could see myself doing the same thing to a guy I genuinely didn’t care for but I have so many options, I wouldn’t need to. In addition to you bein…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/23 05:53 AM
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The reason alot of people (including women) bit wanting women to be career focused is because: women who were career-focused regret it. Why? Because once they had 2, 3, 4 (or more) children, the women and mothers of those children couldn’t care less about their careers anymore. They don’t care about their careers for many many years. Most women, as soon they have a few kids, don’t go back to work because they just don’t want to OR NEED TO. Why? Because they love their many children and want and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:57 PM
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How does that overpower a mans physical strength? It doesn’t. You need a male’s sperm flr that. Do women have anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:27 AM
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Great! Please tell us what other things women do to make up for this vast inequality that men have with their physical strength over women? What do women do/have/ability that bridges that gap? Just name any, why are you avoiding it? Giving birth isn’t an answer - you need men’s sperm for that. What else?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:25 PM
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You live in fear. Men are stronger than you and women (yourself) included have literally nothing to make up for this vast physical strength difference betwen men and women. Therefore no equality exists or could possibly exist. What about that isn’t true? Please help all of us understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:22 PM
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Either this girl has a truly amazing personality or he will be leaving her very soon.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 03:51 PM
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They have smaller bodies and brains so they require less food, so that’s not an advantage. Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:37 PM
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From my experience - Stoicism is the most under-rated skill in all of Seduction. If you go for what you want and are stoic in your actions and responses to women and men - you will be hugely successful. You’ve misrepresented stoicism here to mean: passive, not leading, easily lead, following and a feminine type submission. Therefore I don’t think you understand the meaning of stoicism, nor do I think you practice it properly nor do I think you’ve read or understood material about Stoicism. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:30 AM
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Mate, that’s not something women can actually use - you need men’s sperm for that anyway. So what else can women do to be equal to men to make up for men’s physical advantage? Or is there nothing and you admit women aren’t equal to men? Perhaps women are more logical and tactical? Lol, nope. What else?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:00 AM
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Irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:44 AM
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No, that’s not correct. The difference in strength between an average elderly man and and average young man is not that much. A SICKLY elderly man, yes. But even then, the differences in physical strength between ANY male that’s hit puburty and is not very sickly is vast in comparison to an average woman. Now, why don’t you give a reason women are equal that helps them make up for the physical strength difference between men and women? Surely there must be one? Why do you keep avoiding answering…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:44 AM
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So what can the average woman do better than men that would overwhelms the average mans physical strength? What would make the average woman equal to men to make up for women’s physical strength inequality?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:41 AM
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No, but men DON’T feel this fear ever. Therefore, more inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:39 AM
0

Could you please specify exactly what strengths the average woman has over men? Particurlarly one that could overwhelm a man and his strength?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:38 AM
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Thought you didn’t read it brother - how do you know what it says? Haha you’re so weird
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 05:23 AM
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Ahaha mate, I think it’s hilarious when lazy dudes need help and you give them some help and they respond that they can’t be bothered to read. Now you know why you’re failing bud. It’ll keep being a vicious cycle of failure when you don’t read. Keep it going, but best to stay off the board though.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 05:18 AM
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This is why you’re failing with women - you can’t even read a few paragraphs. I bet you don’t have a degree or a high paying job either. You need to be able to read paragraphs to do those. Bless your heart - you’re already revealing yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 05:11 AM
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I agree with this - I’ve slept with so many women that gave me zero signals other than continuing to talk to me. As women get older - they become very skilled at deiberately hiding their interest in men. They do this for two reasons: They want to retain the power in any seduction/dating/relationship they have - if they show their actual interest - women know they will lose all power in the relationship dynamic. For when they have a boyfriend/long-term partner/husband. If they can’t hide or camou…
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 05:02 AM
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Really? Why is it that when I cold approach women - many of them date me/have sex with me and want a relationship with me? I wouldn’t even know those women if I didn’t cold approach them. I know more than a few men who are the same - of all different races. How do you explain that? For all the men agreeing with this post and this comment- Is it possible that you really need to improve your personality to a point that women actually like what your personality and the things you do while with them…
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 04:57 AM
0

Lol, mate you’re not understanding anything here. No point in you commenting further.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:31 AM
1

So you make a personal attack rather than respond to what was said. Do you have any responses to the actual questions asked or you’re just trying to dodge them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:30 AM
0

None of that is true, you’ve been misinformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:29 AM
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How are men and women physically equal? If men are physically stronger and women fear one man physically overpowering them and this is a significant fear for women everywhere they go (when men don’t have this same fear) - then men and women aren’t equal in any way, nor the same and you just admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:33 AM
1

Perfect, so you admit you’re wrong and now you know why men have sex with women and take awhile to assess them for a relationship. Perfect, that was easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:25 AM
1

Of course - all humans are equal under the law. But how are women considered equal to men in everything else if men are significantly physically stronger, in your own opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:24 AM
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Lol, you didn’t read my comment at all. You made alot of assumptions. Did you read what I said? Men can’t and WON’T decide on whether to have a relationship until after sex and even then, it’s a vetting process from there that takes time. If a woman doesn’t have what we want for a long term relationship after we start the vetting process - then that’s their issue. It doesn’t mean men don’t want a long term relationship from the start. Have you got any brothers or know any men? That’s how every m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:19 AM
1

How specifially are women equal to men though, in your opinion, if men a significantly physically stronger?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:12 AM
0

I didn’t say it did. So you think men being significantly physically stronger doesn’t mean they’re not equal to women? Tell me how
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:10 AM
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Great, so you’re not a feminist and you don’t want equality in your relationship with men you are dating/married to because men are much physically stronger - and makes them more capable of alot of other things women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:04 AM
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So you admit it then and you’re not a feminist and feminism has lied to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:03 AM
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This is projecting - men DON’T feel that fear. Women DO feel that fear - which is why we’re not equal. Men are physically stronger than women and when a man is in a physical confrontation with another man, we have a good chance, unlike a woman in that confrontation. Therefore MEN go about our lives in very low fear and insecurity due to this - whereas women are THE opposite. Do you see how this would impact a man’s life less and lead him to thinking women aren’t equal to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:03 AM
1

So men are physically stronger than women and therefore not equal? It’s just that women think they don’t NEED men when they’re constantly scared of doing ANYTHING due to fear of men they don’t know. So perhaps women and men aren’t equal and women need men (as partners) so they don’t feel that fear of men they don’t know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:00 AM
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So you admit men and women aren’t equal because men are much physically stronger than women? So feminism was lying then. A bear isn’t a human and can’t perform human tasks lol so that’s a downright laughable and irrelevant analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:58 AM
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Yeah, you’re really young: NEWSFLASH - nothing that happens to any humans is due to culture. Identical Twin studies show this over and over again. Twins that are raised with completely different families from birth and as adults when they meet - SURPRISE - act the same way, look the same, have the same intelligence, and even THE SAME INTERESTS and beliefs, even when they didn’t know each other and had different parents. Strange right? Vasagel has been struggling to get FUNDING and it’s in human …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:56 AM
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How are men and women physically equal? If men are physically stronger and women fear one man physically overpowering them and this is a significant fear for women everywhere they go (when men don’t have this same fear) - then men and women aren’t equal in any way, nor the same and you just admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:46 AM
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Well, feminism is based on women being equal to men and many women think this also mean THE SAME. But women wouldn’t fear being overpowered by one man if that was true. So you all admit, you are fearful of men because men are more powerful than you = stronger and not, in fact, equal. Thank you all for admitting feminism is a lie!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:43 AM
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Why would a man be incentivised to have sex with you but you’re not incentivised to do the same as a man? Perhaps becuase men and women aren’t equal? Are you saying feminism is lying? Are you admitting that here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:41 AM
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You sound really sensitive about this, ir sounds like someone hurt you. Who said I didn’t want a relationship with ANY of the women I slept with? Why would I ONLY want sex with them, based on my comment? Women, on my experience, women want commitment from me (a man) and a long term relationship(>leading to marriage) after I sleep with them once or twice, almost every time. I’ve only met them a few times - it’s too soon for any long term decisions, as you should know. But a long term relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:35 AM
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I know they are, I just want women to admit men are much physically stronger - and therefore we’re not equal. Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:25 AM
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Yes, I just want you to admit you fear men simply because they are in fact, much physically stronger than you - which makes men and women NOT equal. I bet you feel fear when you go out in public by yourself and it’s why you can’t walk anywhere alone at night without being terrified - your fear of being overpowered by one man alone. Men don’t feel that fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:42 PM
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Ok, so you admit men have superior physical stength to women - so men are superior there and therefore not equal to women. Glad you admitted that What exact incentive to men have to use that strength against you that’s different to a woman’s incentive, so to speak?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:29 PM
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That’s something you’ve heard from some clueless female psychologist - it’s not real life. This is just you projecting your own body insecurities onto men, as many women do often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:26 PM
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Why do you think women are taken less seriously from your experience? Like, when was the last time you saw two people with the exact same position in the same workplace where the man was taken seriously and the woman wasn’t and why do YOU think that was?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:25 PM
0

That’s so funny! Women want a relationship the minute AFTER you sleep with them. Why won’t women just slow down and get to know me better before wanting to get married and have my children after we have sex 1-2 times. It’s actually really demoralising to me as a man! Does she just want me for my cash and prizes and to take all of her responsibilities and shift them to me or does she just like me for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:22 PM
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Why is personal safety an issue? Aren’t men and women equal - why would you feel unsafe with only one man that is equal to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:19 PM
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Then why aren’t women doing all of those jobs then? No-one is stopping them - those jobs are ACTIVELY seeking women to do them but they can’t even pass basic tests to do them for stength. You must be really young LOL! Everything to do with computers and the invention of the internet was 99.999999% men. All of the roads, your house, your car, your smartphone, the roads and warehouses - every thing was conceived by men. Why are you so scared of men if they aren’t physically superior to you? If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:17 PM
0

What internalised misogyny do you see displayed by other women, specifically? And how do they get over this? Have you ever been spefically requested by a man to perform or carry the ‘emotional labour’? Could you tell us exactly what the words that were used to request this by the men in your life. I’ve never been told by a man that he requested a woman to perform emotional labour, nor heard a woman I actually know in real life say she has been requested to do this by a man. It’s only something I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:13 PM
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So you think that all of the men who are ALL physically stronger than ALL of the women - and men use that physical strength (along with their human brains) to keep all of the electricity, internet cables, phone lines, mining, the roads, footpaths, underground pipes, water filtrations (all needed to make the smartphone or laptop you’re on now) continue working - that doesn’t make them superior? Could apes or gorillas do that with their brains + physical strength? If you feel SO MUCH fear doing al…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:59 PM
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Why would you need the support of all of those people? Aren’t you equal to men (as a woman) and strong and independant and equally as strong as men? I don’t understand why you would feel so much fear and need so much support from someone you view as equal to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:43 PM
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What makes you think that a man would treat you as a “bangmaid” if he’s dating you for years? So you’re real fear is actually your declining fertility as you age, and running out of time to find a man that likes you for more than just sex before it becomes challenging to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:39 PM
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So this can be summed up as. Fear of being physically hurt/injured by a man (because clearly men are much physically stronger than you). You don’t want him to just use you for sex only - while not caring (much) about your personality. So you admit men are physically more powerful and in many other ways, more powerful than women. It’s positive to admit that about men, even if it is due to fear of men using that power men have against you. I think it’s safe to say that if a man is seeing you regul…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:35 PM
1

This guy isn’t that good looking and he’s the least smooth, most nervous, stiff-bodied, lacking confidence famous person (that I’ve never heard of). He spends the first few minutes of a conversation stuttering with complaints about how deeply uncomfortable he is while saying nothing of value, repeating himself. Look at the difference in their body language: he’s still, nervous, twitchy, his voice is high pitched and strained. She was relaxed when he approached him, then she seems somewhat supris…
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 11:19 AM
-1

What women really mean when they say: “I never complimented a man when I was younger but I don’t care now that I’m older” = She has no dating options now when she’s older so she needs to complement men to even get a tiny amount of potential sexual attention from a young man. Young attractive Women don’t compliment men because they usually don’t need to: it gives away their power and men smell blood in the water when they get a compliment from a young woman. If that young woman compliments you: s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:53 AM
2

Women don’t want ‘Mandatory Paternity Tests’ because it’s latent threat in that country or place they are that: If you have a baby by another man that isn’t your husband, you’re on your own (in addition to potential fraud charges, if provable) Women want to live in a world where they have less and less consequences for their actions, as the years go on. Women continue to VOTE for less consquences and protest for less consequences. That’s what most feminist lobbying is now: shaming & guilting the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:56 PM
0

Why not have a paternity test after birth? Hospitas run so many mandatory and optional tests at birth, one of the optional being parternity with a tiny added cost when conducting the mountain of other tests. Why so defensive - most women don’t even know it’s being done, so they wouldn’t be accusing a woman of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:31 PM
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It isn’t and that was a massive waste of text for nothing. You’re not convincing any man of that being selfish. A paternity test says, “I want confirmation before I sign a legal document and before I pay a large portion of my salary and saving to supporting a child over the years”. It won’t be long until every hospital in every western country is paternity testing every baby as a standard so no man has to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:28 PM
2

So you’d leave the father of your just born child because he requested a paternity test for the child prior to signing a legal document to confirm that child is his (the childs birth certificate). Shouldn’t a man (and anyone else involved) want to be certain of the childs father BEFORE signing a legal document? You know signing a serious legal document to confirm a child is your own when you don’t know is called fraud at any other point. Saying a child belongs to you or is the child of another p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:51 AM
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What do you consider men’s behaviour as “treating women like an object” and what do you personally consider normal men “treat them like a human” behaviour that you see missing from your own life? Do you know, as a man, how men treat other men? Because from my experience - when men treat women the exaxt same way they treat other men - it’s considered rude/condescending/patriarchy/mansplaining/like an object. But when men treat other men that way, men don’t care and are unbothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:45 PM
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You’re clearly delusional and you’re clearly a very young woman still living at home or living on her parents money. So you don’t need men for survival? So you, as a woman, can walk ANYWHERE in your city at any time of the day and night for as long as you need, right? You feel zero fear, zero need to any potential person to help you? You feel at ease making ALL decisions, big or small, in your life without consulting ANYONE else for help making those decisions - not calling/texting your friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:18 PM
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So you agree that men in 2023 are better than ever in history. That was a long paragraph of irrelevant whataboutisms to answer that question. You’re now asserting something different - that women now don’t NEED men for anything and women only needed men for survival in the past because they had no choice. So you think women don’t need men now in 2023. You think men don’t see that argument or hear it online. It’s been debunked and you’re clearly very young and inexperienced if you think women don…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:57 AM
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I’m curious how you think that men aren’t better partners now in 2023 (on average) than they ever were in the history of time or the history of the western world. Could you give exact reasons as to why - you just said “not really” and gave zero reasons. You just discussed what it was like for women to have no options in the past. So, please tell us what reasons men are worse partners now in 2023 than ever in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:20 AM
1

Yeah, alot of those women are married and not single and looking. And why only use America? Alot of other countries mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:21 AM
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Lol, what a terrible half-assed strawman you just made. Who said if everyone disagrees? Mate, literally no-one looks around and sees the “average woman” as you describes - as being fat and a single mum. Therefore you asserting that is the normal woman is bad faith. You know it. This circular logic is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:23 PM
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It doesn’t matter - what you said is incorrect about the average woman and writing here doesn’t convince anyone of anything - it just signals you’re a bad faith actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:11 PM
2

Oof funny - why mention that the average woman is not thin and has children? So you’re framing yourself as the better option by claiming that most other average women are overweight with a child and you don’t and aren’t. It’s a weird thing to do - men still don’t believe it. So you’re average then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:49 PM
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This is clearly a delusional overweight single mother who’s made many many poor choices. Do you really think that writing all of this = Men believe this? You know men have eyes and actually go out into the world and meet women. We know that the average woman under 25 is slim and childless and has a decent enough education to not be making so many poor decisions as you clearly have. I’m guessing you’re an American. Please feel free to take a trip to Australia - even more slim and childless women …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:51 AM
2

Lol what? 🤣 Most random comment of the year. Surely this was directed at someone else haha I don’t play in a band and never have. Get off the drugs my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:43 AM
0

Well I must be in the top 5% with more than 38 lifetime sex partners, as per this study. I passed that number 10 years ago and have kept going. I don’t feel like the Top 5% of men mate, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:41 AM
3

Really? So you can confidently (and without fear) walk anywhere in your city alone like a man can at any time of the day or night? You are certain of ALL the large and medium decisions you make that you don’t have to call your friends, your mother or your family members before you make them to consult them for their opinions and weigh in? Your confident and certain of where and what you want to eat every night? Wow, that’s not reality for ANY woman I’ve known ever. JUST LOL. You are living in fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:17 AM
1

You’re not saying anything to counter this. So you mustn’t really have anything to oppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:53 AM
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Lol how do I act like that? Obviously it’s in women’s best interest to downplay or diminish men’s power because that benefits them - they just take the lead from other women’s behaviour that they see or know. Or they just test the individual men’s boundaries to see what he believes and how far she can go to get what she wants. There’s really no need for most women to consult other women about this behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:23 AM
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You all take all these things that women SAY as gospel and true. Even if women say they’re Independent it doesn’t mean they are or can be without a man. Why do you think every woman still wants a man to marry and even date? These modern times have revealed that it was never about the money - women didn’t need the money to be with men, they needed men’s certainty, confidence, security and strength. The money was just a small thing they needed to buy some things. You guys need to recognise that AL…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:01 AM
1

Well I said the countries and my experiences in other comments. What countries and your experiences did you say? Or are you just making it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:33 AM
1

Of course not because you don’t know any other countries it happens in. Your comments are pointless, why say it and not say anything specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:24 AM
0

I already have answered in other comments on this post. Why not just say where you’ve been? You want to expose the country and cities - why not say it if they’re not good places to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:40 AM
1

Yeah, I’ve been out many many times and I saw it in Italy during the day, even on public buses. It’s bad there. I was in Canada for awhile and I never saw it anywhere. How could I see it in America so much PLUS American women saying it to me and never see it in any other countries or women tell me about it (other than Italy, India & Pakistan)? How is that possible? America and Italy are the worst 1st world western countries for this behaviour, and it’s bad there. But it’s not the same in other W…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:33 AM
0

Really? How do you know - have you been there and seen it? I have. Which other countries have you been to and seen this with your own eyes (like I have) and what cities?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:29 AM
1

Canada IS north america. I didn’t see that when I was in Canada. I’ve been to many clubs & bars in different cities in Canada. For example, When I was in Montreal, women were ALL over the men, like nothing I’ve ever seen. If anything, it was women all over men in Quebec. Very different to Australia. Italy can be bad everywhere - same with India and Pakistan. These countries are the exception - where it’s worse there than America. I didn’t see that anywhere in Sandinavia, especially Finland. None…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:20 AM
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All in America - not in any other first world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:16 AM
1

This is all in America - I’ve been to alot of countries and it only happens there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:15 AM
0

All of this definately happened in America. I’ve never seen men or heard women say that this stuff like aggressive approaching happens outside there. I’ve been to America and all other western countries aswell as many other countries and this only happens in America, out of all countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:12 AM
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Firstly, I’m certain that this event happened in America - it doesn’t happen like this anywhere else that I’ve ever been to. How do I know this? I’ve met several reasonably attractive american women that have come to Australia (where I live) and they are very suprised (for months) that men rarely, if ever, approach them. And the rare times they get approached, it’s very mildly expressed interest. They tell me that in America, they get approached everywhere. Secondly, many men often don’t approac…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:07 AM
2

Correct, so alot ot competition. It’s all relative
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:33 AM
10

All my friends are tall (6ft+) skinny white guys or muscular white guys - literally all of them in Australia. And that’s not at all their experience - matches on all dating apps are hard to come by.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 09:17 AM
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Mate, you’ve misinterpreted the material you read or learned - I’m guessing Mystery Method from more than 15 years ago that no-one uses anymore - for good reason. The goal is to be a CHALLENGE to women - to be playfully challenging in a genuine, fun way. Have fun for yourself, but not at her expense or your own expense. Women don’t want a man that’s too easy and who just likes her for the way she looks - qualify her for your own standards and what you like. No need for negs. Mystery made a mista…
/r/seduction03/10/23 04:22 PM
1

What country are you in and how old are you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:12 PM
1

Right, the point is men often grow to be much better in their 30’s (in general) than women do. It’s the exact opposite for women - most women decline in their 30’s with a much smaller amount getting better (this is honestly rare from my experience - because women rarely get better looking in their 30’s).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:15 PM
4

Yeah, I’ve had girlfriends who are in their 20’s recently and they saw photos of me when I was early 20’s and tell me I was better looking then, and I agree. But the problem is - I would never be dating them or would have had the ability and experience to meet them and keep them like I do now. While I was far more confident than anyone my age at the time, I certainly would never have appealed to the gorgeous women I appeal to now because of my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:10 AM
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I don’t think it’s really about money per se. I think men are so much more relaxed, they know more about the world, more experienced and more authority in the world. The money is a small factor in this. You must be an american because most women in Western Europe & Australia don’t care as much about money because everyone has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:43 AM
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I’m in my 30’s now and I certainly know guys that peaked in their 20’s and are very much declined now. But I would say, from my experience, MORE men have gotten better in their 30’s than they were in their 20’s - from the people I know. I think women who reply to men with ‘Whataboutisms’ about men’s declining attractiveness in their 30’s being similar to women’s are usually young insulated women that clearly don’t know alot of men in their 30’s - they’re also usually American. I’ve found the mai…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:36 AM
1

Let’s be clear: Women SAY they won’t settle and SAY they would rather be alone than be with an average man, because they’re positioning themselves in culture for a negotiation that benefits them in relationships. Women are VERY unhappy in their lives without the protection of men. She wants to have a man that fends for her, protects her, validates her, etc. that she can rely and depend on. Now, if she’s young and her father is around, he may step in when she’s single to do this. But, as women ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:22 PM
1

Most (not all) of the actions a single/unmarried man takes are for the sake of increasing his dating options now and in the future, aswell as providing for his children & family in the future. Same with single unmarried women. Realistically, using red pill and seduction information is a trojan horse for significantly improving yourself with a huge inbuilt motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:37 AM
1

Well, were they?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:38 AM
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So you’ve dated men that had male partners in their past then? No-one said anything about other sexual acts - just homosexual sex. Why conflate the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:42 AM
1

Right - I know I’ll be more honest with my friends. But if you have a GIRLFRIEND that you’re serious with - are you telling your family, co-workers and not close friends why you’re REALLY dating or why you’re about to get matried? No, of course not It’s a bit different to just a woman you’re sleeping with. You’re not going to tell them the EXACT truth about your woman you may marry. Women do this same thing when asked about men they MAY like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:56 PM
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So they were all highly intelligent and had good common sense, as you said you liked?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:54 PM
2

You still can’t actually say what you like - all you can say is what you don’t like. It’s so sad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:53 PM
2

Not really agreeing with you - men like a tiny amount of things about a woman: her looks, her being agreeable, kind and reliable/organised/conscientious. Men don’t really care about ANYTHING else outside that: men don’t care about how smart you are, your education, your career/job or where you’ve travelled to. Women seem to think we do care, we just don’t. Women care about sooo many things about a man that aren’t really that important because women are so needy for so many things from a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:51 PM
2

You didn’t say what you actually like or what arouses you. Are these characteristics ALL present in your ex-boyfriends and ex-lovers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:47 PM
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Yes, women do this all the time. They act like men are all very similar (men are mostly) and women are all these unique and act completely differently (women don’t - they all behave very similarly). Women want to promote this idea that they are completely unique and unpredictable because it promotes more power to them in dating - when the exact opposite is true: once you get to know women, they’re very predictable (other than their ever changing emotions). Women are still lovable, but very predi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:35 PM
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You’re a woman and you can tell it by this comment. Men don’t care about MOST of women’s lives other than a small part of it. Women care about most or ALL of men’s lives and scrutinise it. It’s simply different mating stategies that are commonly used for each gender. Men have a very narrow focus for what we like and need from our girlfriend or wife. With Women, it’s the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:34 PM
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What you’re sidestepping and saying indirectly here is that you don’t actually know what women like and you don’t know what you yourself actually like. You just named a bunch of things you DON’T like instead. This is the answer to the question: when women are asked what they like, they say “a spark” or a “feeling” because women don’t know themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:31 PM
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The issue that you’re referring to is that women are attracted to a man for whatever emotionally based reasons (on an unconscious level) then backwards-rationalise that attraction with some type of vague logic, after the fact. Most of the time, women don’t really know what they’re attracted to. This is fairly standard human behaviour. Men backwards rationalise why they like a woman with logic later aswell - or at least the logic they tell other people. You won’t catch even the most genuine upfro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:23 PM
1

Women are actually very predictable once you know what they want - then work backwards as to why what they want will benefit their survival. Women don’t reward men who like them too much or are too nice to them or give them too much attention - that would mean those men aren’t a challenge therefore aren’t higher value than her. It also means those men are responding and behaving from a position of fear and weakness rather than confidence and strength. If you had a meeting with Elon Musk to work …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:27 PM
1

You have things backwards. You think men are picking women who happen to have great jobs/make great money. That’s not the case: Women are choosing those men with more money than them due to men who have the potential for less money than them were not a consideration for sex or a relationship, mostly. Additionally, the law of propinquity at work: people who are around other people that are successful or in certain careers or who go to certain schools/universities are around each other very freque…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:38 AM
0

He does fit it - he settled for less because he thinks you’re the best he can get. Simple as that - alot of men don’t know their worth because they rarely approach women - it’s hard work. You’re the girl he settled for because he was too scared to approach other women and do better. Lets how for your sake he doesn’t get approached by any other younger, sweeter women with better personalities than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:59 PM
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It’s not from a “Big 5 Perspective” - that’s the meaning of the word in relation to current psychology, not some random online dictionary you pulled up. Why not respond to the pointd men’s biological programming? Or primates? So you’ve conceded that you’re wrong on those, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:57 PM
1

Why does this point matter to you? It just seems like you’re arguing and shaming all of these things because you yourself get rejected by the guys you like so you have to promote and shame men for not liking whatever you are. I’m guessing you’re a woman past 30 years old and not fit, fairly high body count and you keep being pumped and dumped by men that don’t want to commit to you. And you’re really salty about it and trying to go on a one woman crusade to stop it. You can’t change men’s biolog…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:11 AM
1

Yes, men are a biological monolith - are you reading what you’re writing? If men were biologically attracted to women that are 30-60 years old - our species would die out very soon. Why? Because it’s alot less likely to have children with women of that age, and MORE likely to birth children with serious problems. It’s a biological coding in our dna (unconsciously) to be attracted to young fertile women who are more likely to have healthy children and be energetic mothers. Do you think saying all…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:58 AM
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Do you know what conscientious means? I think you need to look up the word. Being “attractive” as a woman = Having the ideal Healthy Fertility Qualities men are looking for. Do you understand what men find physically attractive is biologically based on what women look healthiest and most likely to be able to have children. Physical Attraction isn’t a choice for us, it’s biological. We want women who know what they want and kind, conscientious, sweet, feminine AND physically attractive and youthf…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:48 AM
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So you don’t think women mature faster than men? Why do you think women find this out magically by age 25 years old? Men prefer women who are physically attractive AND have a conscientious personality. It’s like a Venn Diagram where we want both. 18-24 year old women have the best of being the most attractive so we really only want to select the ones that are conscientious from that group. Women seem to oddly think we just want one OR the other qualities, it’s not true - we want both. We want wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:04 AM
1

Yeah, silly argument
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 07:18 AM
1

What about them? Why would the human body of a woman be offensive to anyone?
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 05:17 PM
2

Was this in america? I’ve seen many girls (of various ages) go into shopping centres with their g-string bikinis and sandals on and not be thrown out. This is purely American non-sense.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 03:17 AM
1

You clearly haven’t understood - women rewarding men with toxic traits by sleeping with them and desiring them = those traits are more successful in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:56 AM
2

Most women do think the exact same way, not as a monolith, but because they were biologically coded that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:54 AM
1

Lhahhas I own a house ahahah - where did it say I didn’t? Gees you’ve made alot of assumptions. “Most people this and most people that” - mate, hilarious amounts of assumptions made by you. I’ve been proposed to several times by women. I didn’t want to marry them. I didn’t want to or need to. How does that extrapolate to dying alone 50 years from now or not owning a home? Hahahahah log off and mind your business - you’re clueless and you’re bitter that someone else (me) is enjoying their life NO…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:52 PM
1

There is nothing you can say directly, that will favour you in the minds of any listeners that will “convince them” that as a man, having standards of women you’re in relationships with, is normal. I’ve told family, (female) friends, colleagues that I have fairly normal standards for any of my girlfriends behaviour - they, despite knowing me for years, accuse me of being a misogynist. Even if you’re saying, “if she does (this thing I don’t like) well, I won’t be her boyfriend anymore because tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:17 AM
1

Heard it a million times in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:18 AM
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How is it bullshit? I’ve heard it for 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:24 PM
2

I live in Australia and I’ve never heard any woman say that there isn’t enough- it’s laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:24 PM
3

In person, online, in debates about dating, on podcasts - everywhere. Any time people ask any woman WHY they can’t figure out dating or why they’ve made so many dating mistakes - that is their response
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:55 AM
3

Where are women blaming everything else for their lack of knowledge and skills for dating and mating?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:51 AM
3

The blaming of “The reason I’m sooo bad at this is: my parents didn’t teach me or it’s the culture or school wasn’t great or this is what the media/film & television/the news has taught me” this is all a common refrain for WOMEN who want to blame anyone but themselves for being lazy and never finding out how to do this themselves. Every single time ANY woman says to this - it’s just a basic and worn excuse for their lack of responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:30 AM
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I think alot of women in the real world, and online, don’t realise that men will behave in whatever way women RESPOND to that: Makes having sex with attractive women easiest for men While still allowing men to have a life, work, do the things we enjoy and stay out of jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:05 AM
0

I didn’t say “Indicators of Interest” I mean just looking at you or making any kind of eye contact or you “catch” them looking away from you?
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:46 AM
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Do you guys actually get out and walk around in public and then find no women EVER looking at you? Seriously? There must be some good female feedback in your dating/romantic or even social lives?
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:28 AM
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No, actually most relationship start by being INTRODUCED by friends, family members or at work/school/university. Very rarely do I hear of couples in the real world that were actual FRIENDS first, then started dating. Friends introduce friends and they start dating very soon after being introduced or rarely ever later.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:02 PM
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People think that men who have low or no standards for their GIRLFRIENDS (long term commitments) is unattractive. Why? Because men have more control over that aspect. Are you a man who suffers from other people tarnishing your reputation for sleeping with “too many women”? I’m a man and I’ve never heard of that or had that happen to me or anyone I know. Even if it did - no man I know would care if someone made fun of them for sleeping with too many women. Women tend to care alot about their sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:10 AM
1

That seems to be off-topic - the point is made though: men don’t care how “long term relationships normally start” with women - they care how sex normally starts with women. So becoming “friends first” is usually not how sex happens and USUALLY not how long term relationships (on men’s terms) happens for them either, so this isn’t great advice or relevent to men. Alot of the reasons men do become friends with women is because many women TELL them that’s a great way and it allows men to avoid rej…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:27 AM
1

You see - men don’t care how relationships start with women. Men care how sex starts with women. Why? Because men know that once we’ve had sex at least once, sometimes a few times, that woman is more than likely already emotionally attached, whether she knows it or admits it. That’s the nature of women and attachment with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:33 PM
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No it isn’t explained by “women sharing men”. It’s explained by women LYING about how often they’re in serious relationships to surveys or being DELUSIONAL that the guy they’re hooking up with or they’ve been on a few dates with is her “boyfriend” to a survey. Men are alot more honest about who they are in a long-term relationship with because for men, not being in a long-term relationship isn’t something men are embarrassed about or that men interpret as a failure as a man - because men control…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:38 AM
1

I think everyone in the seduction community only discusses Social Proof/Pre-Selection as being based around a 3rd Party type of Social Proof aka other people giving you social proof by their presence. Actually, most of what seduction coaches do teach (or should teach) is: how to build Social Proof/Pre-selection when you’re solo or not with anyone you know and/or in an unfamiliar environment. The problem is: developing social proof wherever you are and in whatever environment is a far more diffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:35 AM
1

So you know these men personally and you’re friends with them and know who and how many women they’ve been with? How do you know this? Why are YOU friends with them if they’re boring and have zero personality?
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 04:24 AM
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So they have terribly boring or no personalities?
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 03:20 AM
1

Perfect - and how many other men did you sleep with that weren’t friends with you first?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:48 AM
1

How? Do you know good looking guys with no personalities? I do and their looks don’t get them far
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 02:46 AM
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Updated my comment because so many people can’t connect the dots
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:45 AM
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Women care more about your looks when your personality doesn’t inspire them. You can be the best looking man in the world, but if your personality is average, so are you.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 02:03 PM
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You didn’t read what I said or understand it. If you think women only need men during pregnancy, you’re not worth talking to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:59 PM
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Why are you determined that women don’t want long term relationships with men for survival as a innate biological need for survival? That’s very clear from all of the research. What current research suggests women want long term relationships with men as a culturally enforced choice in the modern day english speaking world?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:10 PM
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Having my time and attention (along with the opportunity cost of that wasted) wasted for not getting anything in return - is far more damaging. And not only not getting anything - but having less than what I started with. At least women are having sex in a situationship going nowhere. The chances of that converting from just sex to a more substantial relationship is far more likely (32% chance - I think was the number Dr. David Buss quoted) than a man has of converting a friendship with a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:30 AM
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Where did I say there was a “marriage gene”? Just lol. A marriage is a legally binding agreement of COMMITMENT from a man to a woman and all that comes along with that: responsibilities, leadership, resources, protection, etc. etc. Women want a long term commitment and protection for women’s survival from men - that’s a biological instinctual goal, programmed into you by dna at birth. The marriage is just a legally binding (and enforced) extension of a man’s commitment to you long-term. Surely y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:24 AM
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Women on an instinctual and biological level NEED men for survival and their DNA (at birth snd beyond) programs their bodies and minds to act consistantly with that instinct - it’s an ancient in-built survival mechanism. So asking for men to commit their time, resources, attention and to chil-rearing is an extension of that biological survival mechanism for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:34 AM
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No, just NO! This is the same silly argument women make about everything that is in their DNA from birth: “Oh, women want to do this (marriage) because CULTURE push it on them, the media, our parents socialising us and forcing us to be this way” Grow up and read some books - it’s almost NEVER culture. Women on an instinctual and biological level NEED men for survival and their dna programs their bodies and minds to act consistantly with that - it’s an ancient in-built survival mechanism. Added: …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:33 AM
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Ugggggh you’re just a bad faith actor, no point in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:48 PM
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I get plenty of success meeting women in person - where did it say there was no success? My success is WHY I’m telling men to approach women in person. Why else would I recommend that? I think other men cold approaching women bothers you because you’re so scared of it. If other men approach, you’ll need to cold approach to even compete.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 04:55 AM
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Someone sounds bitter that they’re not doing so well. = I date ALOT of women between 18-25 and I’m over 30. And I’ve been with many great women that age, including long term relationships. It’s really not that hard for me. I don’t think what anyone says here is representative of women they actually meet in real life, most single mums are on apps, not out and about during the day (solo) or out in clubs. How am I “stuck in my twenties”? Lol, according to who and what rules? You sound really salty …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:44 AM
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What does this even mean? Women getting catered to how? We don’t have bottle service or “men pay, women get in free” here. We have clubs that have promoters who definately give out free entry and some drinks but it’s only in some clubs and it’s really nowhere near like it is in America. Have either of you actually been to Australia? You clearly haven’t. I’ve been to America and the club scene IS different. Australia does have far more attractive women in it. But American women are sooooo much ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:40 AM
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I’m in Australia and there aren’t alot of guys over 30 in the clubs period. There are also very few single mums in clubs where I live - not sure what that says about wherever you are. The men over 30 that I do see are doing really really well with young women 18-25, including me. Do you live out in the backwoods podunk boondocks of the US? Weird place you must be from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:10 PM
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Ahaha - this is why you know nothing what I said - you haven’t ever cold approached. Not sure why you’re on this forum - it makes no sense. You have no clue or experience about any of these things. If you’re asserting that people behave the EXACT same way online to in-person - you’re beyond the pale brother.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:51 AM
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None of that is true and it’s all just something you think because you never actually approach women in real life. I dare you to approach 10 women this week and see if they respond the same way as on dating apps. I know they don’t - so on your bike and go approach women and prove me wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 04:23 AM
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I do terribly on dating apps - but do really well in person. How do you (or anyone) explain that? Are they a different species? I know my female friends and sister when swiping on apps have unbelievably high standards - higher than they have in their normal life - due to the fact they have SO MANY OPTIONS on these apps. Women here (in Australia) treat apps like this fantasy world where anything is possible and they can get all of the attention and validation they don’t get in real life from the …
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:00 AM
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Ok great - you’ve found apps are garbage for dating so go out and meet women in person the old-fashioned way.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 01:42 AM
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Based on what evidence? Women are attracted to men they’re attracted to and those men that approach and are available to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:43 AM
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I’m glad someone is saying what I’m saying - women’s main goal in dating is to think we men are powerless. Women advertise all of these silly rules & contradictory regulations and consequences (that never happen) for men approaching women to demoralise average men & low quality men from approaching them - with threats of “creep”, “street harassment”, weird, desperate, etc. (Really? Casually approaching a woman to talk to her is any of those things? C’mon, it’s hilarious) Women know that attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:05 AM
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Correct - generally women’s mother, sisters, female friends, female colleagues and women on TV and films remind them or show them that kids are the way - constantly. But none of that would make a difference if there wasn’t a pre-existing strong biological drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:44 PM
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The problem with all studies that SURVEY women (asking them questions) is that women lie CONSTANTLY to surveys. Why? Because they have NO IDEA what arouses them or what they respond to in men, for the most part. Even the women that DO know what they respond to usually won’t admit that to ANYONE - not even herself. Meaning she’s lying to HERSELF, delusionally. Same with using these silly online dating preferences using photos - most women respond very differenty to men in person than in photos. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:41 AM
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No, I think society (generally family & friends) plays a role in REMINDING and re-enforcing to women they have a limited time to have children - medically and time-wise and the benefits of children. People give “society” and what it says too much credit - most people like and want things on a biological level and society is there to remind and re-enforce those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:50 AM
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No it isn’t - women are aware they want and NEED babies waaaaaay before their biological clock is close to being “The Danger Zone” (mid-30’s). Most women either acknowledge outright or know internally (unconsciously) that they really want children very soon or have outright ‘baby fever’ that they’re trying to keep at bay throughout their day to day life. So this is certainly not the reason women in their 30’s do this. My theory is that women have: Alot of distractions & friends from 18-24 years …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:59 AM
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How many women are you cold approaching?
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 11:09 PM
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It’s so weird that I keep seeing these posts about how bad your (as men) behaviour is around women - this is the exact opposite of my experience. Women are qualifying themselves to me for romance when I talk to them. You must not be meeting alot of women or you just don’t understand what they want.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 01:42 PM
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Your anxiety isn’t about “coming off as a creep” is your fear of either rejection (hurts your already fragile ego) or about succeeding with the woman (and her rejecting you later with heartbreak because of your own insecurities about your uninspired lifestyle). Maybe you need to examine those things first (fragile ego and current lifestyle) and work on those and your anxiety about speaking to normal women will go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:39 AM
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Men’s natural testosterone increases with the more novel (new/unique) women they speak to: Interact with more different women = Higher Testosterone. This is just your rant about your terrifying fear of cold approaching due to the possible ego hurt of rejection, that you clearly cannot handle and are fragile about. Why would an attractive man approaching a woman be “bothering her” - women like it when men approach them - ask me how I know, I do it all the time. I see attractive men do that someti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:36 AM
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I said LARGE noses - most men consider women with large noses less attractive and more masculine. I think most men can attest to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:17 AM
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Great question - it’s about youth. Men and women’s nose and ears (and penis and vaginas) grow larger with age - they never stop growing. So for a woman: small nose, small ears and small vagina = (Signals of) Youth That’s why women with big noses are unattractive (looks older and more masculine).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:02 AM
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They do need to approach and they do in fact approach. I’m not sure what your argument is here bro. You’re projecting this envious dreamworld that you think these guys live in that really doesn’t exist. I actually know these guys and they barely get any good leads from online - it’s mostly them approaching in real life.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 04:03 AM
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Why are you still talking about online? It’s so irrelevant to this converation. I’m talking about actual men approaching women in real life - in person. Real life approaches is how most people actually end up dating - not dating apps. Most of those in real life approaches happen to be inside social circles or work or school. Why? Because most men are too afraid to cold approach, just like you.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 03:57 AM
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Being Slim + Healthy = Looking Youthful/Young Men (on a biological level) are really only looking for a very narrow range of physical qualities in a woman: Youth/Fertility & Health (Signals: Healthy Yourhful skin, long hair, flat stomach, no wrinkles, healthy slim weight, Hip to waist ratio, small nose, small ears, big eyelashes, etc.) Ovulation (Signals: Large Breasts to waist ratio, large butt to waist ratio, big lips, wide hips, etc.) And in personality: Co-operative & Agreeable Conscientious…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:53 AM
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Yes they do have to approach in real life lol. The girls on Tinder are usually fake, bots or much less attractive in person. The good looking guys I know have given up on dating apps in Australia. You’re thinking these things happen - enviously, when they really don’t.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 12:47 AM
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How many around about - in rough numbers
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 10:53 PM
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So you got SLAPPED, SPIT ON or HIT over 20 times after you approached women for conversations? Did you call the police, were they all charged? Which ones went to jail? Where did you approach them during the day to talk to them? Women usually aren’t willing to risk anything like that to someone, a man especially, that’s much stronger than them, especially when they’re out during the day. What country are you in? I just don’t believe a single word of that. Women don’t assault people, during the da…
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 10:53 PM
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So you and some other “like-minded guys” did some online dating app experiments with good looking men as photos? I thought so. Try finding actual models and having them cold approach in real life - they get rejected alot. The reason most guys, including you, do online dating is so they can avoid dealing with rejections. You don’t even see the rejections online and neither does anyone else that uses apps. In real life, you do see the rejections - as any male model will tell you, but you also can …
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 10:48 PM
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How many women have you cold approached in your life?
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 10:41 PM
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Brother - how many real life male models do you know? I’m betting none. How many of them have you seen cold approach multiple women? I’m betting none. I have though, so who would know about that experience? I would
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 04:34 PM
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It’s not just MY experiences - it’s experiences of other people I know in real life - not some dumb photo black pill dating app chadfish experiment you read about.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 04:32 PM
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Answer me this: You’re stating here that MULTIPLE women have committed JAILABLE offences due to you simply approaching them to talk to them? And this has happened to you - 30, 40, 50 or more times?
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 04:31 PM
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So, you get some not so great looks from women going about your day and that = I shouldn’t ever approach women? What are you scared of? They’re just women. Why not approach? Too scared your ego will be hurt if they reject you?
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 03:36 PM
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Chads do in fact cold approach - I’ve been with them when they do it. Every good looking guy still needs to cold approach to get the best girls he can and the MOST girls he can. They still get rejected more often than not - like every other guy. The best I’ve ever seen - was a 1 in 2 success rate - that’s 50% fail rate, so he still gets rejected by HALF of the women he approaches. You do realise - even young Brad Pitt’s get rejected all the time, it’s life.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 03:34 PM
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Na, you haven’t talked to ALOT of chads my guy. You’re talking about running photos of guys on dating apps - not real men in real life cold approaching women. I’ve been with guys that are literal full time male models - they get rejected alot, almost as much as me, when cold approaching IN REAL LIFE - not on apps. Grow up and stop making up nonsense that you’ve only seen on dating apps.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 03:32 PM
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I just don’t believe ANY of that happened to you - it’s never happened to me, any guy I know (in real life, not internet friends) and guys I’ve met who go out to meet girls. What you’re saying is clearly a lie - it’s the same nonsense repeated by every guy who is deathly afraid to cold approach. Why would a woman SLAP you for walking up to talk to her - she’s committing assault (a jailable offence) because you casually approached her to talk. Spitting? C’mon mate - another jailable offence from …
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 03:29 PM
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You are imagining things and I don’t think you actually really know any “chads” in real life. They still get rejected 50%-70% of the time they COLD APPROACH women in real life. That’s a hell of alot of rejection.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 09:18 AM
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You’re living in a dreamland! Most rejections that women give men are not harsh. I’ve cold approached sooo many thousands of women and the harshest rejections are where they just walk away and ignore you. Most women when they reject you say they have somewhere to be (and they’re nice) or they say they have a boyfriend or just give you a phone number/insta/snap that they never intend to answer so the interaction is over. Honestly, most women aren’t rude and they don’t like to confront men directl…
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 09:05 AM
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Brother, do you think “chads” don’t get rejected? JUST LOL! They get rejected all the time, they just don’t care as much because they’re certain of themselves, their future and trust they’ll meet more women and they’ll meet women they like if they just keep talking to women.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 08:48 AM
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If you’re traditional in all other aspects of your own behaviour and actions - then being traditional would be consistant with that behaviour and letting the man pay. But if you’re cherry-picking your behaviour and parts of the relationship that you want to be traditional and what you want to be modern and progressive, then you’re going to have a confused man and a confused relationship with confusing expectations and confusing roles that both parties are generally confused and unhappy.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 08:40 AM
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I think women act entitled as a guilting/shaming defense mechanism for what they really want: men’s attention, men’s utility & the resources they can extract from that. Women are biologically programmed to seek men’s attention and they do need men’s help for alot of things, no matter how much women deny it. If you look back just 200-300 years or less - women were in real trouble, on a survival level, if they didn’t get attention from ANY man - it’s a recipe for not surviving for a woman - and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:39 AM
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If you’re not the normal in that situation, i.e. you’re from a different ethnicity to the majority, then you’re results are going to be different than normal. It’s a very simple equation - you just told yourself why. Have you ever thought about going back to the place where people of your same ethnicity are - if you go there and you’re normal to them = you get normal results.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 05:47 AM
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So all of this is because short guys are complaining on this sub in an effort to lobby women into NOT liking something they like on a biological level? A trait that you can’t change in yourself? I’ve met short guys that do really well with women and I know others that are in relationships with gorgeous women and those women are often taller than them. Women care more about what you think of your own height than anything. I know SHORT and BALD men who do well with women - but they’re fit and have…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:26 PM
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How many men on here are talking about height - it’s absolutely exhausting and BORING at this point. You CAN’T change your height. It’s not constructive to continue talking about height on this forum - to what end? It doesn’t help anyone in any way - no adult can grow taller. You’re beating a dead horse repeatedly with height! There’s so many OTHER useful things to discuss here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:27 PM
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Are you a 4’11” burn victim? If you’re not hideous - you can. Where did you get this idea from if you’ve never actually cold approached? You act like women have ALL of this power - they really don’t.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 11:21 AM
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What did you risk and how? How many women have you actually cold approached in your life?
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 11:20 AM
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You’re making alot of excuses and you’ve never seen or met me or my friends - if you did, you would know that’s not true. The worst rejections I get are women that just walk away mid-sentence or say they have bf’s and scowl - that’s VERY rare and it’s the worst I’ve experienced. Most women that reject you are really nice about it, or just lie and say they have a bf. Most of men’s unattractiveness is based on their poor behaviour - not their actual physical looks. Most men are ok and aren’t hideo…
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 06:59 AM
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Approaching women in itself IS ATTRACTIVE - it’s confident and going for what you want. If you do it in a way that is, at the same time, weak (weak body language, weak vocals, asking for her time), then it becomes unattractive - which is where many men go wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 12:03 AM
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Approaching women in itself IS ATTRACTIVE - it’s confident and going for what you want. If you do it in a way that is, at the same time, weak (weak body language, weak vocals, asking for her time), then it becomes unattractive - which is where many men go wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 12:03 AM
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I’ve cold approached thousands of women and that’s never happened to me and it’s never happened to anyone I personally know (in real life) that cold approaches. Can you explain why that has never happened to me or anyone I know? It just sounds like you’re trying to justify your fears of rejection with consequences that will never happen.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 11:44 PM
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Did you read my last comment? Simply approaching in person puts you ahead of literally 95% of your male competition - if you fumble it after that with poor body language and unnattractive behaviour - that’s on you. I’m curious - how do you know this? How many women have you actually cold approached in the last year?
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 12:33 PM
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Yes they do disappear when they get off apps - I’ve seen it happen LIVE many times. I have a sister and female friends that I see the guys they swipe-reject on apps and the guys that they get approached by in real life and actually date are NOWHERE near the high level of guys they WANT on the apps. In addition: I get very few matches on apps and yet I get soooo many more women by approaching in person. Women have SO much more information that attracts them when they see you in person - literally…
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 06:01 AM
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*Only on dating apps. Look if you guys are on this sub and the only way you DATE is through dating apps - and zero cold approach or social circle - you’re getting the poor results you deserve coming to you. Solution: GET OFF THE APPS AND APPROACH IN REAL LIFE
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 04:12 AM
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Those are Australian men - I suspect if they had american fire fighters, they’d be tubbier.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 04:40 AM
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How much weight do you think men put on emotional things in a relationship versus everything else, based on your life and your experience. You made a statement about what men want - I’m asking about that statement in more precise terms
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:23 PM
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Alot of personal attacks for someone you don’t know. Name two parts of my reasoning that are wrong and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:21 PM
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I’m asking your OPINION on what percentage you THINK men want emotional things in relationships and how much of other things. Surely you have an opinion on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:45 PM
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Yeah, most women I’ve ever had sex with or dared loved sex, alot loved it more than me. I don’t think women in general value sex - because it’s just thrown at them so often for so many years. Even when they do value it, they often won’t ever tell anyone that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:38 PM
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So women have never needed men (their male partners/husbands) to survive ever in history, according to you, or only recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:36 PM
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Ok, so you’re saying it isn’t ever or isn’t often used by women to have an ltr with a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:18 PM
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Where did I say the opposite to what you just said?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:17 PM
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Why is it “demented” - which parts?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:16 PM
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Do you think I meant that women SAY they’re doing this or a woman would do that consciously? What would happen to your relationship if your wife COULDN’T have sex with you for say, the next 5 years. What would you do then? Would you still want to be in a relationship with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:14 PM
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Yeah, I’m aure 70-80 year old women have tonnes of male sexual options, just the same amount as when they were 20-25 years old. Suuure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:12 PM
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So you think men are in relationships with women for primarily emotional reasons? If so, how much (in percentages) would you say men are in relationships with women for emotional reasons and what percentage would you say the other reasons would be? Where did I say that women negotiate with men on emotional things?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:11 PM
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Already won because you everything you said, you don’t actually understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:06 PM
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Support for what? What other stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:55 AM
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Ah I just keep winning - you literally can’t explain anything you say. Why would you be able to right? Hahhaa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:52 AM
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Well what would you say men get then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:51 AM
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So tell us then why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:46 AM
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Ok - so you don’t really value sex THAT much. If you did - you would just have sex with pretty much every attractive man that asked you. No-one beleives you’ve only been PHYSICALLY attracted to only 5 people in your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:46 AM
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Ah, so you don’t know. Why would you make all of these comments if you don’t know what men want in women regarding their looks? That makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:44 AM
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So you’re a woman. What do women need men for in the modern era, according to you. And how is it that women don’t need men for survival, or the modern equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:44 AM
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Who said it wasn’t favouring him or that it’s a bad deal. So you’re a woman, what do you think men get from their long-term romantic relationships with women (assuming their is no kids involved)?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:41 AM
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You just made complaints about it. Why are you making complaints about men dating women from overseas?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:37 AM
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Trying to dodge again!! Hahaha Do you even know why men choose women based on looks first and everything else second?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:36 AM
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You mean why does the man still continue the relationship with the woman? Like what does the man gain? Did you read the whole post? That question is answered
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:32 AM
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What’s your problem with it? Most men that I know that have married women from overseas, that are my age, met (first world) European women and my mates got added EU passports/citizenship as a result - huge wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:30 AM
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What’s your problem with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:28 AM
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This is guilting men saying that looks don’t matter because they fade so might as well date a woman that doesn’t look that great to begin with (pick me! - the author lol) Do you even know why men choose women based on looks first and everything else second?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:27 AM
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I can see your point but I don’t think there’s much of an imbalance in desires as much as women want to use sex to get things from men their dating or in relationships. I don’t think women state this clearly or use these terms, but they do use sex for a purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:23 AM
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Well, you valued and enjoyed sex - you would have just had sex with any good looking (enough) man who asked you or suggested having sex, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:19 AM
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Not all not all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:18 AM
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How is that metaphor mean “sex is a cool car”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:15 AM
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So how do men need romantic female partners to survive?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:22 AM
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Haha which part can’t I explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:21 AM
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How is that metaphor or anything else in my post saying that sex is a commodity?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:20 AM
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Where are all of the women showing evidence of what this video says NOT being true? Shame, guilt & being a victim are women’s main ways of manipulating anyone into doing anything.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 07:19 AM
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For replication - as per my post. Did you read the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:13 AM
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How is it convaluted? Which part or parts exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:12 AM
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I don’t see sex as a commodity and neither do men in general. Metaphors are not to be taken literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:12 AM
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So, we’re talking about men and women in the context of romantic relationships. Where did you pull men need their mothers from? That’s completely irrelevant to this conversation regarding survival and replication and how that relates to men CHOOSING female partners for replication value and Women CHOOSING men for their survival value (on a biological level). The lack of reading from people on this platform is unmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:11 AM
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So you can’t explain what you personally said?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:06 AM
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Lol did you read this whole post or even the title?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:06 AM
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Lol, did you read the context of this? Go back and read again
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:27 AM
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How would I “advocate” something that women do. Many people have OBSERVED women’s behaviour, as have I, and I wrote about it in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:27 AM
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Can you explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:26 AM
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Where does it say that, “men date purely for sex and nothing else” as you said? Where is it even implied?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:25 AM
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Yeah, adult men don’t need women for survival. We need other men. Point proven - thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:25 AM
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Differently than who?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:22 AM
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So “sex is a commodity” - how is that implied in a metaphor?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:20 AM
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Thanks but you’re clueless. Make your own post if you have something to say so the rest of this forum can eviscerate it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:31 AM
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Thank you - my point’s been made. Older women = More sexual scarcity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:30 AM
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Who said they do? You jumped to conclusions there What you just said doesn’t make sense in the context of this post. Women use sex as an incentive to continue commitment or to even start a commitment or even to end one. I don’t think there is any men (or a small percentage) that would ever commit to a woman if there was never going to be sex or rare sex. So yes, women do use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:29 AM
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Alot of coping from you here - this is why alot of men just go overseas. Clearly women do care they have more scarce sexual options because they act on it by being in their “sexual prime”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:27 AM
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Who said they did? Most men have a scarcity of sexual options their whole life - which often gets worse as they get older. Women’s options ALSO become scarce as they get much older - how is that so difficult to admit for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:26 AM
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How so? Did you read the entire post or just the first few paragraphs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:24 AM
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Lol, you don’t comprehend words well. Women can have sex literally 20-50 times per day, so they can have sex at higher volumes than men. Women can also have MORE potential orgasms than men = More pleasure than men What didn’t you understand about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:23 AM
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So do you think men need sex to SURVIVE (as in, not die from lack of food/water/building shelter/clean air/defending from invading other people)?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:21 AM
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So you don’t think women use sex in any way to either get a man to commit to them or spend more time with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:20 AM
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Ok, so you just admitted you really don’t have alot of knowledge or experience on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:19 AM
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Ok, so men don’t need women at all for their survival. And you say women don’t need men for their survival at all? So why do women date and want to be in committed relationships with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:18 AM
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Wrong - they have much less options. You’re delusional and don’t know many actual women or men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:17 AM
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Who said men wouldn’t - the post is about men seeing sex as scarce AT ALL AGES. It’s a terrible way to divert the conversation from you. Yes or No - women have less and lower quality options for sex as they age?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:17 AM
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That would be sexual scarcity for something to reduce 85% - yeah. Like if you ate 85% less food - you’d be bery hungry. If you drank 85% less water - you’d be very unhydrated/sick. If you worked 85% less (with commensurate pay) you’d be much poorer. So, it’s still scarcity to have 85% less options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:14 AM
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Why are you returning to that about older women not wanting young men? Who cares? Scarcity = Significantly less Women have significantly less sex options as they get older - particularly past 35 years old. You saying there isn’t more scarcity is an outrageous lie. This is again, a part of how women want to keep using sex as a negotiation chip in any relationships, no matter the age of the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:12 AM
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So you don’t have any sources to cite - this is just anecdotal? Where are these people based?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:10 AM
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Where is the question answered about what individual men need from women individual female partners for their own survival answered?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:09 AM
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Where did I say that? I said they have the ABILITY TO HAVE MORE.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:34 AM
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So you have the exact same or similar AMOUNT and QUALITY of men offering you sex now as they did at 20-25 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:35 AM
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Ok, so you have the same AMOUNT and quality of men offering you sex now at 52 years old as you had at 20 years old, 25 years old, 30 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:34 AM
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You still haven’t explained how men need women for men’s individual survival now in modern times and also 10,000 years ago. (Other than for being the mother of their children when they were out of the house working in modern times or hunting for food in ancient times?) Did you not understand the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:33 AM
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So you’re saying that sex becomes more scarce then as women age or are you saying that women have the same AMOUNT and QUALITY of men wanting to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:32 AM
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How? Women have MUCH less + lower quality sexual options as they age = Scarcity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:15 AM
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You didn’t read my post - more scarcity still = Scarcity. I don’t know how many women you know but I know for a fact that women who I know who are 35 don’t have the same amount or quality of sexual options they did in their 20’s. I know women that are 45-50 years old and their sexual options are TINY in comparison to what they were in their 20’s and early 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:15 AM
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How does teenage boys have anything to do with women’s hormone’s in their 30’s & 40’s fluctuating, as you said? Can you cite sources for this or didn’t you understand the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:12 AM
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Ok - so you’re saying that there’s the same quantity and quality of men wanting to have sex with women who are 20 years old and 70 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:10 AM
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You’re asserting something different to what I’m saying. I agree with you - women have the ability to have much more quantity of sex, more often and get far more intense pleasure from it - evidence says that and I’ve experienced that myself. Women love sex, perhaps more than men, when it gives them genuine sexual pleasure - which is more scarce for them than men. Yes, unfortunately the chances most men actually sexually satisfying a woman are lower than a woman sexually satisfying a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:08 AM
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How is it treating sex as a commodity? You mean women treat sex as a commodity?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:04 AM
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So it’s the same amount and quality of men willing to have sex whether you’re a 20 year old woman or 70 year old woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:03 AM
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Can you point these men to the best way they can learn to close the orgasm gap? I’m sure you have a program or book or course you recommend to men that’s useful to help them close the gap, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:01 AM
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Where do men abandon children at alarming rates? I live in Australia and I’ve been to Western Europe and I didn’t see that. Can you cite sources for this and where it’s happaning and who is doing the abandoning?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:59 AM
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You didn’t cite any ways men need women for a man’s individual survival. Can you cite evidence that for most of history the food was gathered and not hunted? So you’re saying animals being hunted or fished or caught/trapped wasn’t humans main source of food, historically before modern era?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:58 AM
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So you’re saying that you will have just as many physically attractive young men wanting to have sex with you as you did from 20-25 years old as you do from 60-80 years old? Please cite your evidence and sources
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:55 AM
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So you’re saying that you will have just as many physically attractive men wanting to have sex with you as you did from 20-25 years old as you do from 60-80 years old? Please cite your evidence and sources
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:55 AM
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Yes, the POTENTIAL sex they could be having if they’re single.We’re referring to single women here in this post. I haven’t seen alot of evidence for women with higher libidos in their 30’s and 40’s outside of: their bodies telling them it’s their last chance(s) to have children due to their limited remaining supply of eggs and a higher scarcity of male options due aging/declining physical looks (in comparison to when they were younger)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:53 AM
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Can you cite sources of evidence for this or is this just your own experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:49 AM
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Yeah, that’s the point I made in the post. Women (and men) don’t value something that isn’t scarce. You, as a woman, value a man that is either uncommon, rare or has something positive that most other men don’t have. Men also value women that have something uncommon that most women don’t and that’s who those men often commit to, rather than just any woman willing to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:48 AM
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Of course - who said otherwise? Why would you have a girlfriend you didn’t like or who wouldn’t eventually be a good wife and mother later down the track?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:45 AM
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So you’re saying that you will have just as many physically attractive young men wanting to have sex with you as you did from 20-25 years old as you do from 60-80 years old? Please cite your evidence and sources lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:44 AM
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Who said married couples couldn’t continue to have sex at all ages? Can you cite the sources for evidence for these hormonal peaks for women as they get older?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:42 AM
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Can you explain how men need women for their individual survival now in modern times and also, for example, 10,000 years ago? (Other than for being the mother of their children when they were out of the house working in modern times or hunting for food in ancient times?)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:40 AM
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Regular Sex = The main reason most guys want or have a Girlfriend Women also pretend they don’t VALUEor enjoy sex (much) because if they act like they love it and it’s easy to gave sex with them - their sex is difficult to use as a bargaining chip for an exclusive or long term relationship or commitment from a man. It’s like if you enter a car dealership and show how much you truly love one particular car (rare car) - it’s really difficult to get the best price, terms and extras with it. Why? Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:30 AM
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You’re unhinged brother
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 06:53 AM
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The person who wrote the post is a woman who approached a man and got rejected and then she said she won’t approach men anymore. So you’re the woman that wrote that post did you?
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 03:28 AM
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The question I have: how many times did you actually hear the entire seduction, or most of it, from start to finish? If you have - what were the similarities other than this? I know a three naturals and I’ve seen them pull and heard parts of what they say but never ALL of it. So I can’t really say the things that certainly work for them and the similarities. When I ask them - they don’t really know what they’ve done or why things they did worked.
/r/seduction16/07/23 11:12 PM
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It doesn’t make sense based on the comment I wrote.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 11:01 PM
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No idea what you’re talking about - you just said babbling non-sense.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 09:00 AM
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I think this is a great lesson for all those guys in here that have only cold approached a few women and never done it again because their ego was hurt - you’re acting like a pathetic woman, not a masculine man. Keep approaching and you won’t be like this pathetic woman in the post.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 02:31 AM
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So if someone isn’t confident in an interaction, what are they? Tell us all the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:04 PM
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What about my comment was incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:03 PM
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So you’re confused why confidence is in demand? Think about the opposite: FEAR, uncertainty, hesitation, nervous, indecisive, stressed, defensive, cautious, needy, apprehensive, etc. the list goes on. People don’t trust people who display any or multiple of the above in a romantic, social or workplace interaction. People TRUST and LIKE confident people and the people that are confident like and trust THEMSELVES (generally), which usually leads to their success. You literally can’t be a strong & …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:41 PM
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Lol, you did. Where did I say “everyone has the same chances”?
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 06:04 AM
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Where did I say “everyone has the same chances” or imply it? You stated there is zero chance if you’re not tall - it’s just NOT true because I’ve seen it with my own eyes so many times, cold approach and otherwise. You are clearly not approaching many women or have fear-based negative beliefs if you think zero or very few women will consider shorter men, it’s hilariously wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 01:41 AM
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Haha did you read my post - GUYS - plural. Yes, more than a few and one of them is in my family, and another 2 friends + more. Grow up and stop making excuses for yourself. You clearly are terrified of approaching women.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 10:42 PM
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No they don’t. I know guys that are short and skinny and many women welcome their approach and they date alot of gorgeous (taller) women than them. Grow up
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 01:57 PM
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How is that proof of anything? I just don’t know any men that do that. What about the women that men actually choose to marry and be their girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:03 PM
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Being a challenge as a man when interacting with women you like is a pre-requisite. Being a challenge as a man is the basis of flirting and romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:11 AM
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When women say a man is a “nice guy” it’s code for ‘undateable’ or ‘my last resort’ and it implies the following behaviour: You don’t challenge her or you’re not hard to get, you’re too available (meaning not valuable) You fear challenging women due to fear of loss You have a scarcity mindset with women - again why you fear challenging women. If you don’t like a woman’s behaviour - you set your boundaries, challenge her or drop her from your life) You allow the women you’re with to lead you more…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:37 AM
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Jut LOL - this is so silly and un-informed, it’s actually hilarious.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 06:04 AM
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You think men are influenced by what other men like in women? Please can you cite sources that prove this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:07 AM
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Like I said in my comment above - it’a very rarely the case that a woman behaves exactly like she did when they started dating - most of the time the woman ‘baited & switched’ when she revealed her true nature much later in the relationship and was diligently hiding that nature for a long time. This is why it’s better to meet your girlfriends family, LONG-TERM friends and other people in her life to get a sense of who she is before seriously committing, and also look into her past to see if ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:58 AM
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I don’t agree with this - alot of men get ‘bait & switched’ by women after the women get comfortable in the relationship. I think saying or assuming something was agreed to from the start is a cop out for the sake of blaming the man and for the woman to escape any blame or accountability for her actions, usually. I agree that if you start out a certain way and you want a dramatic change in the relationship later - then it’s fair for the other person that doesn’t want that dramatic change to opt-…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:55 AM
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I don’t know mate - I don’t think anyone I know has been with a really overweight girl. How is that relevant to this? Men are not attracted to women just because other men are. Women ARE attracted to men simply because other women are interested - or even those men are married/taken by another woman. It’s called “Mate-copying” and has been proven to mostly only occur in women. Can you cite any sources that prove men do this in significant amounts also?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:29 AM
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None of that is true - women have a biological mate-copying instinct where they are more attracted to men that are women are attracted to also. Men don’t really have this insinct - we like what we like, we don’t really care what other men say. If a man is standing in a venue surrounded by gorgeous women smiling, laughing with him and touching him, the other women in that venue will be, on an instinctual level, more attracted to him than if he was by himself. The same is not true for men looking …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:46 AM
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Lol, except ALL the men that you’ve ever dated or had sex with you have behaved like this - outright or with more subtle behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:37 AM
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Where did I say that someone would, as you said, “act however they please with no consideration for the other person” Why would you equate someone knowing they’re better than someone else to = treating them badly. There are alot of people you meet every single day that treat you politely but know deeply that they are not only better than you, but much better than you. Do all of those people treat you badly? I’m certain that’s a no. Have you ever met an extremely wealthy and powerful man? Did the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:35 AM
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That’s one very specific aspect of a man ALWAYS being better than a woman. Every girl I’ve ever seen is dating a man “better than them” - physically stronger, a better leader, makes more money, has more resources, more decisive, etc etc etc. the list goes on. Women don’t date and aren’t attracted to men that are equal or not as good as them, it’s just not reality. A woman can date a man where he behaves as her equal or he behaves like she’s better than him and those relationships don’t last - th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:27 AM
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So, anyone who acts better than you is automatically abusive - is that what you’re implying? Even if they are evidently “better than you” by all accounts by EVERYONE else - third party opinions of others?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:20 AM
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What does it usually look like when a man is treating a woman like he’s better? If an intruder breaks into the house a male/female couple shares and the man says, “You know we’re both equally as strong as each other + you’re a woman, just as equally suitable to dealing logically and strategically with physical danger as I am as a man, naturally. So, Paper-scissors-Rock to decided who goes and deals with the intruder. Great, I won. Thanks honey - you go deal with the intruder and I’ll wait here s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:35 PM
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Women date and are attracted to men that are better and stronger than them. That’s some of the main reasons for women being attracted to the men they want. Are you saying you would be attracted to a man worse than you or weaker than you or physically and mentally EQUAL to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:30 PM
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I’m quite sure that every man you have ever dated - you thought he was better than you, which is one of the main reasons you were attracted to him - he could do and be many things you could not. Otherwise, why else would you date them? Also, are you saying you were as equally physically strong as any of your male exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:28 PM
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Women want men who are better than them and men want beautiful feminine and co-operative women that respect them. If you treat and behave like you as a man believe the woman is better than you - she’ll believe it to and she’ll then beleive you don’t add sny value to her life, so why would she be in it (again, because woman want men better than them).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:26 PM
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Not at all the 1% - honestly, I think the point of this post is that that’s extremely common relationship, even for upper-middle class people. For example, almost any couple I know where the husband makes $90,000/pa (in Australia) - the wife has a job, but it’s a “nothing” and undemanding job, even when she has a degree and they have kids. So the wife contributes very little financially and her job isn’t that stressful and is shorter hours and both of them are ok with that. Wives will have a “jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:29 AM
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All of what’s being said here = (You guys saying) “We don’t really understand the nature of women” For all the RP content you’ve seen - you’ve either not believed or paid attention to what’s written about real female nature or simply don’t understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:04 AM
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When I see guys commit to one woman after not committing to another just before her, I notice the following with the woman he committed to: She’s more physically attractive or just much younger She’s got a more pleasant/agreeable/feminine personality She likes him That’s really all - there’s not much too it. Most women who do get “fuck-zoned” rather than a relationship are usually good looking enough for that guy but they’re not going to be good for a relationship due to several factors about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:52 PM
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The problem with asking people these questions is lack of nuance AND most people aren’t very articulate. When they say they want a man that’s safe, they mean SAFE in all aspects of the word: = Makes me feel safe (much larger + stronger than me) = Makes me feel SAFE around other men (is bigger, stronger & tougher than other men) = Makes me feel safe when with our social circle (he’s the leader + makes his own decisions for us & our group follows him) = Makes me feel safe with a safety net (he has…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:11 AM
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Most men don’t date fat or overweight women and don’t date smokers either. I have dates women who I told them I despise smoking and a few months into our relationship they’ll have s cheeky smoke at midnight before bed - I left them right there and then. Apparently it was a rare thing for them - doesn’t matter. Men just aren’t turned on sexually by fat women - it just our natural response. And I go to the gym consistantly and I’ve heard fat girls say that same nonsense you say and yet they keep c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:12 PM
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Most men want a Co-operative, Agreeable and feminine girlfriend/wife - that follows our lead and offers us value in doing so. The issue is that not alot of people are articulate - but very few men want a submissive & “shuts her mouth” type.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:03 AM
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I’m a man and the problem I see with my (male) friends in relationships is they want and expect everything to be relaxed, fairly easy-going, smooth-sailing if they’re behaving their best, and treating a woman “well”. Men like to have alot of quiet time and be left alone even when they live with their girlfriends/wives. The issue is: Women don’t want their life to be smooth-sailing and easy-going. Women want to be challenged, they like drama, chaos and they like to play, almost like children. Mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:26 PM
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When I said “lower value” - I was referring to lower value than a very high value man that will certainly sleep with other women + she could never replace + will dump her ruthlessly if she makes a tiny mistake. Most women can’t handle that so they aim for a man lower than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:30 PM
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I think there’s a “tipping point” women have where they know they have the best man they could ever hope to get and if they left that man because he was having casual sex with other random women discreetly, they wouldn’t be able to get another man ANYWHERE NEAR the same value. I think alot of women don’t actually want to date high value men for that reason - they know they can’t have their cake and eat it too so most women don’t want to invest their time and energy into that type of relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:59 AM
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I’m doing fine with women. If you’re not in a relationship you want with a man that fulfills your desires, there can only be a few issues: you don’t offer enough value for those men, so you can either: Increase you value somehow (get better looking/younger, be much more pleasant - getting a better job/more money won’t help) Lower your standards Cold Approach alot of men yourself until you find one you like that likes you back It’s a supply and demand issue for you and other women and you only ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:39 PM
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Why do you think they say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:10 AM
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What’s the reason? Spell it out here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:10 AM
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Well that’s a lie - there’s a difference between finding a man attractive and what a woman wants (in her mind) to engage in a relationship - there’s a HUGE GAP there. There’s a huge gap between an attractive man that women NEED and an attractive man that women WANT. The space between that gap is what everyone here is referring to. The space between what a man can offer and what a woman offer. Women really don’t offer much but demand ALOT - far beyond their needs. If as a woman - what you want is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:35 AM
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Where does it say that anyone here is asking women to be with men they’re not attracted to? Women are attracted to ALOT of men they meet - that’s not the issue women have. The issue is many women want the top 10% of men and don’t want anything less, when they’re not top 10% ladies themselves. Women want the men they date to have EVERYTHING. Not what women need but everything their silly little hearts desire. And what do most of these same women give to those men? Not much, if anything, other tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:56 AM
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Perfect - then all women can join us in campaigning to remove all laws related to men paying alimoney or any other moneys to women we’re married to when us men are no longer attracted to them after they get abit older and have children. We’ll get another wife/girlfriend who we ARE actually attracted to and our (no longer atrractive) wives will just have to deal with it. How do you think that would be when the shoes on the other foot? How do you think society would be if this happened? This is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:10 AM
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Sure, I wasn’t asking for the advice - I’m saying the standards women say they have don’t really mean much so just be your best self and don’t worry too much about what women say their standards are.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 07:57 PM
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Right - but there are alot of men out there that take what women SAY their standards are, in good faith and think they don’t measure up so they don’t even try.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 07:47 PM
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I think that’s the point - alot of men think that women actually will not settle for anything less than the standards they say they have or promote they have - but in real life: they never actually fulfill those standards and never will in future. So, my messages here are saying: take what women say their standards are with a grain of salt because those standards are NEVER fulfilled and they’re usually just delusional or wishful thinking. It’s the same thing with job ads that I have applied for …
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 07:41 PM
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So you only go for white women aswell?
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 07:00 PM
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So you only go for white women aswell?
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 07:00 PM
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It’s just experience: the amount of women I know who have told me their “standards” and then you meet their next boyfriend and/or their past boyfriends - and those guys are NOWHERE near those standards - you start to realise women are lying about those standards or it’s purely wishful thinking on the woman’s behalf. Like I have NEVER seen any woman actually fulfill the standards they say they have or come close. It’s like when you see job adverts online - the applicants those jobs actually hire …
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 06:55 PM
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Yeah, good luck with it man, I think you’ll find it uphill. Why go uphill when it’s so much easier with black women, black-latin women or even latin women? You’re making it hard on yourself
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 12:50 PM
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Here’s the secret about women & what they’re standards are: they’re lying about them and they literally never date, marry or have sex with men inside those standards. It’s called wishful delusion.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:35 AM
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Well it’s always an uphill battle because 90%+ white women only date within their race, and of the 10% who don’t, most of those generally date hispanic men.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:33 AM
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So you’ve never dated any black or latin-black women or found them attractive?
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:56 AM
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Why don’t you go to Africa to date or to countries in Latin america? Why only white women?
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:05 AM
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Sure, that’s a logical way for you to view it. But when she’s telling her side of the story to her next boyfriend(s) or future husband or even her friends, social circle and family - guess who’s getting the blame for the breakout: the male in the relationship. When the man isn’t present - she can tell her side of the story however she likes, truth or lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:29 AM
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So it’s women being sexist towards men and objectifying men in the workplace. Simply, it’s just women favouring men that are attractive and treating average or unattractive men in a horrid way. Of course it’s a double standard - if a man did this same thing to women in the workforce, he’d certainly lose his job or have a lawsuit aimed at him. I’ve seen this same behaviour in the workplace but directed at other men - I do get the special treatment usually.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 05:08 AM
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Not really mate - it’s not great but it not that bad either. If they do it - dump the woman. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:39 AM
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Did you read the list below - it’s actually more a pragmatic reasons people cheat and for women, it’s mostly based on the “grass is greener”, securing more life security, getting better genes or just their own fear/insecurity in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:23 AM
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This is a convenient reason women SAY they cheat but isn’t the real reason. This is just the virtue-signalling/politically correct/“I’m trying to blame anyone but myself” reason women give others for cheating so they can TRY to preserve some of their social value at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:20 AM
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I gave an exhaustive list of why women cheat below. The issue is that alot of people look at the reasons women SAY they cheat and not the underlying actual real life reasons. Of course women lie about them - they’re not going to admit most reasons they cheat. If a woman cheats and marries and has children and lives happily ever after with that man she cheated with and left her husband/boyfriend for - then she was successful in “cheating” so to speak. If not - then she cheated to upgrade in partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:17 AM
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Women cheat for the following reasons: She thinks she sees a good opportunity to trade up in partners (the grass is greener) and she’s having sex with the new guy to incentivise him to commit to her so once new guy is committed > then she can monkey-branch from current partner. Generally, as we all know, the new guy has no interest in committing to her or she was mistaken that he was, in fact, a trade up (why so many girlfriends come back). The man isn’t a challenge to her anymore. He was a chal…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:13 AM
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It’s perfect for men that this is being normalised. It means men can just have sex and do other dating related activities with women - but removes ANY responsibility for the man for future commitment, including monogamy, financials or really anything else but providing sex and small amount of his time. The lady, Carina Hsieh, that said she “doesn’t mind this”, is really just making excuses to stay with men that likely have no interest in committing to her long term. As does every woman who says …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:21 AM
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Honestly, there is ZERO evidence that women are anywhere NEAR as logical as men. Literally no person of any intelligence has ever said such a silly and clearly incorrect thing EVER. Please find me ANY person that has researched this that has EVER said, on camera, that men and women are equally as logical - because I’ve never heard anyone say it or imply it in real life on on camera. It’s embarassing that you even said it - you’re clearly brainwashed.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 10:07 PM
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Really? Do you have have any evidence you could cite here about men and women being equally as logical, on average, in large populations?
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 12:13 PM
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Women DO approach but it’s rare that it’s a woman I actually want and they’re fairly uncommon. Women do give signals but those signals are very subtle - they’ll stand near you, walk past you a few times, look at you when they think you’re not looking, “accidently” bump into you etc. Most of the signals I get from women are so subtle it’s hilarious. Now, I tell this to other people and they say, “No, the signals weren’t subtle, you’re just seeing something that isn’t there”. No - women I eventual…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:33 AM
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Lol, who said anything about married men? I’ve never heard any man, single, in a relationship or married ever compare women on insta to women he knows in real life, even as friends. It’s unheard of. You’re a woman justifying your deep insecurities using something that is readily available that you spend some time looking on (social media). It’s a convenient scapegoat for your own insecurities that you want to try to blame on men rather than looking at yourself and improving.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:30 PM
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The whole beauty industry? That doesn’t make sense at all. Women don’t “see the beauty industry” and think they need to look good. They want to because it improves their mating chances wnd opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:28 PM
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Lol, you’re making things up - who said it was a lab? Haha Cite evidence researched by other people obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:13 PM
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Obviously - it’s legal in most countries.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 02:12 PM
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So triggered by my comment - I nailed it.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 11:59 AM
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Well that’s the idea behind a subpoena - it’s a legal requirement for them to do something - otherwise they’re arrested for not doing it.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 11:59 AM
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Oh, I see. This is secretly a post about European women not really liking non-European man, like you, an Asian, it sounds like.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 11:25 AM
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Exactly - then it could be found out from the start. Lawyers would subpoena the mother for her sexual history in court under oath if she didn’t admit to who she thinks the father is. It’s all very simple if you get the test done when the child is born.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 10:25 AM
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Lol - where is the “rant” brother? How is it that you think the lack of europeans on TV/Films/Media will CHANGE the attraction preferences of people of other ethnicities? Tell all of us the science behind that.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 10:23 AM
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How so? I live in Australia and it’s the same in the UK, New Zealand, Canada and they all have their own predominant culture. People of other ethnicities generally respond to Europeans the same way. Every American thinks it only exists in America based on American media/Tv/Films. But it really isn’t - it’s everywhere and would be there without the films/television. The films/television have just revealed how attractive Europeans are to other nations - not pushed it on them as the default most at…
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 09:50 AM
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This is easily solved: always get a paternity test at birth PRIOR to signing the child’s birth certificate. If the child isn’t yours - you’ll find out then. Then you can have your solicitors compel the biological father via subpoena to take a paternity test and have your solicitors fees covered by the mother of the child once the biological father is found. Have it all documented legally, in case the mother of the child decides to take you to court for any kind of financial support.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 09:10 AM
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Correct - in addition to being on instagram frequently + deep insecurities over their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:05 AM
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What you’re saying is implying that people date people of other races due to the media/film/tv etc. That’s just not true. For the most part - people like other people of their own race. Other races tend to like people that have a balance of the qualities they like. You think that Anglo-European culture is “pushed” on other cultures as being the most attractice when it’s just been the opposite - it’s revealed to other cultures that hadn’t previously seen it historically.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 07:35 AM
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So you think that those women your Chad mates are bedding are telling a survey they are in long term relationships with that guy (or guys like him) at that high rate 30%+?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:06 AM
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Show the evidence that men and women are equally as logical across a large population. Please cite that evidence here - I’ll wait. Surely there’s plenty of evidence based studies about this.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 12:45 AM
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Faulty fire alarms for whole apartment buildings do this. Do you understand the analogy and how it relates to this? You saying you “felt” someone is creepy is subjective and a feeling that is a warning - not the actual thing you’re being warned about - actual physical danger. So if the physical danger part never actually happens - then the feeling was meaningless because nothing eventuated for anyone. Feelings don’t run the world - actions do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:44 AM
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Yeah, that’s what these women are doing - projecting their fears onto men and Instagram is the culprit to those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:41 AM
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Yes they do - show evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:40 AM
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So no evidence from studies or science at all that you can cite here? What evidence in you life, suggests that ALL men and women are about as equally logical?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:25 PM
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You’re not reasoning brother. You ask them to do the same thing over and over, even when they try to distract you. Who said anything about reasoning or debate? I never said that
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 07:24 PM
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But feeling fear is irrelevant if nothing objective action comes of it. Do you understand? The feeling of fear is a biological warning system that something dangerous is about to happen that could be injurious or fatal - it’s meant to warn you or prepare you before you get physically hurt or killed. Which is why women may label men creeps - an off feeling of fear that he may violate someone. So if the warning system was off/wrong and nothing ever actually harmed you or anyone else - how is the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:21 PM
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Right - but many women want to avoid those obligations or responsibilities, even on contract. And they’ll use shame, guilt and victimhood to distract people from the fact they refuse to do them. You must be fairly young - it doesn’t seem you’re understanding this.
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 07:03 PM
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Great - can you show evidence that this is true from studies? This definately isn’t true and from what I can see, is a narrative pushed by the media.
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 07:01 PM
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Did you read the results of the study? It’s women saying their in serious relationships more than men are, at a vastly different rate. It doesn’t matter if it’s a real commitment or not to a woman - women may tell other people it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:59 PM
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Yeah, women, in real life, have duties and responsibilities at their job, or as part of any kind of arrangement like a contract. So yes, you can ask them to fulfill obligations and responsibilities that they have already agreed to.
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 06:58 PM
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No you didn’t read what was said. One is subjective (hurt) vs. Objective (hurt) One is something invisible vs. Very Visible One is something that is not a crime vs. the other is a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:56 PM
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So based on what you said, you think men and women are: as equally emotional and logical as each other Women are better at understanding their emotions and dealing with them Men feel the SAME amount of emotions as women but choose to bury them (in an unhealthy or unhelpful way) Is that correct from what you just said and believe?
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 06:10 PM
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No - what you just said is not valid. You just did a false equivalence fallacy: Walking up to someone randomly and punching them in the face is NOT equivalent to a man being social, then someone ELSE feeling or perceiving him in a creepy way, whether justified or not. The punch is a very clear physical objective action being taken. Someone accusing another of being creepy and feeling a certain way is NOT an objective physical action - it’s SUBJECTIVE because it’s a feeling response to someone’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:03 PM
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So you think women and men are equally as logical as each other? How so? Shaming and guilting are just distraction tactics in alot of these cases and they’re usually done in bad faith as a distraction, e.g. they’re usually not really worth being shamed or guilted for.
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 05:15 PM
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Which parts of evolutionary psychology do you disagree with or believe are untrue? Can you name any that have been actually disproven with conclusive evidence? Can you name any specific examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:10 PM
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No to all of this. Just because one person accuses you of something (especially a way they felt or a social action) - it doesn’t mean it’s true, real or objective. Why? Because people lie and they act in bad faith. We all can’t believe everything women say is in good faith - which is the point of this point. Most of the posts of this sub are because men take what women say in good faith and at face value - believing women to be telling the truth because men mostly believe people when they say th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:07 PM
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Really? So can you tell us exactly what these men said to compare their wives to women on instagram in your own life? I’ve literally NEVER heard a man do this ever, not ever. This is a common fear among women, that I hear women talk endlessly about, that men literally never do or say. I hear soooo many women, single or in a relationship, complain about women’s photos on instagram and how “it’s unfair” and “we can’t be compared to that” but never hear actual men comparing any women they know to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:56 PM
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This study is very misleading and the fact that everyone takes those numbers in good faith is silly - women were obviously lying about being in “serious” relationships. SURPRISE! Women lie about how serious their relationships are to people who won’t investigate and find out the reality. Women lie about this all the time. How do I know this? I approach women all the time, meet them and they say they’re in a serious relationship. I don’t care and I find out later they’d been on 2-3 dates with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:46 PM
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Who said anyone is debating women? Sometimes us adults need to communicate to other adults, in this case women, their responsibilities and things they need to do, for whatever reason. When doing this - sometimes adult women wish to not have these responsibilities or duties, so they using shaming and other distraction tactics to try to avoid those things. In this case, if a woman tries to debate you about those things, would you personally just say, “You know what, fuck this, I’m not going to “de…
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 04:33 PM
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Women frequently use shaming tactics on men to distract men from whatever logic the man is leading with. Women don’t really like being logical because it’s not something that comes easily to them like it does for men. Therefore women need to change the conversation to something that’s more emotion-filled so they have a chance of coming out of that conversation with someone thinking the woman’s way/doing what the woman wants/not having the responsibility put on the woman. It’s a great tactic from…
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 05:42 AM
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Post is correct but has some errors - we’re all improving our value as men and people while learning seduction as a skillset. You act like if you get better looking/wealthier - that women approach you. Guys, I’ve got news for you: THEY DON’T (unless you’re famous). There’s a gym full of fit guys I see every day that think getting fit is going to lead to women approaching them any day now. I actually hear them talking about this - is JUST LOL! If I wasn’t laughing, I’d genuinely feel a very sad p…
/r/seduction09/06/23 02:03 PM
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None of that is proof of anything and you know it. You’re really clutching at straws to prove a point. There is no evidence the “see it to be it” method/theory is effective or ever has been. ALL and I mean all of the very well-educated and intelligent people (male & female) had mothers that stayed home or worked, at best, part time, and usually for just to help out her husbands (the father’s) company. And there’s really no evidence in any studies to say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:12 AM
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The “see it to be it” method has been debunked. Can you prove with any studies that the “see it to be it” method is effective? Can you prove that about Harvard graduates all having working mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:45 AM
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No it doesn’t - keep living in fairyland. The smartest guys I know - all their mums were stay-at-home. Dad’s worked full-time. Next
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:12 AM
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So who will be looking after the young children or will the children be in childcare - costing more than one of their parents wages to do so? Which is it? You never answered - you dodged it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:04 PM
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How is a working mother going to work when she has 2 or more young kids? It would cost much more than most people’s salaries for childcare. So, the wife will continue to work, which generally won’t cover the costs of childcare? How would that be additional money to the family from her career? It would cost more for childcare than what she earns. Secondly - none of that stuff is relevant to anyone except the ego/self-esteem of the wife/mother herself. No-one else cares about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:34 PM
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You didn’t answer the question I asked - you just asked a question yourself and then threw weird accusations. How would a a wife’s career and education help your relationship when you have 2 or more young children together? Will she have that same career when the kids get to high school after a long absence?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:45 PM
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How would her career and education help our relationship when we have 2-3+ young children together? How will that benefit our partnership or those children?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:05 PM
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This is genuinely such a difficult concept for women to understand: Men (us) want a very small range of qualities in a woman - but those qualities we do want are VERY important to us: Beauty, youth, feminine, pleasant and co-operative. Women want a broad amount of qualities in a man that are not only difficult to achieve/ become/aquire (for a man) but take alot of time. Luckily women only need a smaller amount of each of the vast list of qualities than men need of theirs for women. What men want…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:58 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction01/06/23 09:42 PM
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See my comment above mate
/r/seduction01/06/23 12:21 PM
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Nope
/r/seduction01/06/23 04:14 AM
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Exactly my point that I make all the time here. When I approach women when I go out - the most attractive woman there has always been approached multiple times in clubs/bars. I have to compete with those other club guys that have approached her or will (not her friends). I would agree with those numbers - it’s about 20%+ of men in the club approaching women. It can look like less because quite alot of those men are successful after a few approaches and they stop and disappear out of the club wit…
/r/seduction31/05/23 11:18 PM
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This is basically women saying: *“we only want to be able to choose whatever attractive men we want, from a safe long distance and have them chase us. We don’t want to do any chasing because we want to protect our fragile female egos. We also feel really uncomfortable having to say no to men that we’re not interested in - it’s awkward and us women lack confidence in saying what we want when a man is in front of us and we would rather men just line up online so we can be confident behind a screen…
/r/seduction31/05/23 11:16 PM
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I don’t see too many underweight women here in Australia and men certainly aren’t looking for that, from my experience. This is all in women’s minds. Men want big natural tits and/or big butt on women with (healthy) slim waists. Sometimes men want healthy fit/slim women but we all like a softer womanly figure. I don’t know any man that likes a muscular woman with a lifting competition build. If you don’t have big butt/slim waist body naturally, then women go to the gym to get the butt + eat heal…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:10 PM
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No more than 34% single women in reality. The point is: it looks like most women have overstated the seriousness of their “relationships” with men due to the numbers not matching.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:08 AM
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How? If you have feelings that are destructive and not constructive - it’s in good faith to expose those. Just because you have feelings - it doesn’t mean others have to respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:01 PM
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So where did you get this info from?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:52 AM
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So this lightning strike unlikely event is the reason you NEVER approach women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:49 AM
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So you got information from social media about women doing this? You have never actually experienced it yourself or know someone that has? I certainly haven’t
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:48 AM
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Why is it pathetic? Why should anyone acknowledge or repect someone’s irrational fear? Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:47 AM
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Well - where did this fear you have come from then? How many people per year are charged with harassment by police in your country for simply approaching and talking to a woman they like? Please share the statistics here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:39 AM
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You keep using these bizarre strawman comparisons that make no sense/not applicable to any of this. No-one I know has been struck by lightning. I haven’t heard of anyone that anyone I know has been struck by lightning - so I’d say if it does EVER happen - it’s a very very very unlikely scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:38 AM
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Yes, a man stalking and sexually assualting women he doesn’t know is very different to what these people have been recommending - just approaching and having a fun conversation with a woman you like during the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:59 AM
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Absolutely agree - these guys are making weak lame excuses to justify their very weak and un-masculine fear of approaching women. They need something to placate their fragile egos for why they’re not meeting the women they find attractive throughout their life. It’s honestly very sad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:58 AM
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Yes I do. Why in the world would a woman go out of ber way to publicly scorn a man that never even talked to her? Because she was perhaps giving him signals and completely ignored her or just wasn’t interested and kept going with his life. This type of case is EXCEEDINGLY RARE - so rare that you only have one case in the ENTIRE western world in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:55 AM
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Who said you’re “asking out a high number of women”? Who is labelling you creepy and desperate and how would anyone else know this? How does this information get spread around? And why would you care? If approaching some women and meeting them and having casual conversations is somehow getting you labelled as “creepy and desperate” - what are you actually doing? Can you tell me (or show me some examples) of what men that were labelled “creepy and desperate” actually said and did? Can you show me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:52 AM
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This is obviously hypothetical and not actually something you’ve done because it makes no sense and wouldn’t work - you can’t build a connection with someone over text. So I’m guessing these are your lame excuses for never approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:40 AM
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If it’s never happened to you and you don’t know anyone personally that it’s happened to - yes, it’s a crazy deranged delusion you live in. It’s just a lame excuse not to approach women (oooh, I might get arrested and thrown in hail for harassment for the crime of casually talking to a girl I didn’t know at the supermarket LOL!)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:38 AM
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Do you personally know anyone that has been arrested for walking up to and talking to a woman he likes during the day? Was that person charged by police?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:36 AM
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This is the same questions I asked in my last post. How many of these men saying that they’re “worried about a woman going to the police for harassment” have ever actually been charged of harassment? How many of you have actually had friends that have been charged of harassment for talking to a woman he wanted to get to know - it never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:35 AM
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Women don’t approach men brother - if they do, it’s very rare and those women are generally not that attractive. Who told you that women often approach men? Where did you get this information from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:29 AM
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You didn’t see a few posts brother - you saw MY post. You didn’t comment on it directly - you passive-agressively made this lame weak post that has alot of excuses in it. Questions for you about this post: How do you think you met anyone you know now? You didn’t know them before you met them but you got to know them somehow. So why can’t you approach people (women) you don’t know and find out more about their personality and values. Isn’t that the point of approaching them in the first place - t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:27 AM
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Never heard of any man (that isn’t famous) that regularly gets approached or persued anywhere in Western countries. It just doesn’t happen - and if it does, it’s very rare and with very few women and those women are not desirable to the man they approached. I’ve been approached about a dozen times before by women in my life - none of them are girls I would want to date or had any interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:14 AM
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The reasons for what these people want: Women go for tall men because they like DOMINANT men that make them feel small & feminine and powerful - it’s not about “looks” per se. They also see men that are larger than average as having higher status due to being bigger than OTHER men around. Women like men that are better than other men and have MORE STATUS than other men. It’s not really so much about looks. Women don’t go for “bad boys” per se - they go for men who view themselves as higher statu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:05 AM
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So you got arrested and charged by the police for harassment in both cases? Went to court, plead guilty and have a criminal history?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:35 AM
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How many women have you actually approached in the past year?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:20 AM
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So asking to continue a conversation with a woman over coffee later or a drink and exchanging phone numbers is “hitting on a woman” and unacceptable public behaviour to you, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:18 AM
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Acheived all of those things (doubtful) but scared of being rejected by women - what a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:16 AM
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What’s the worst that has happened to you when approaching women so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:15 AM
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Women complain about alot of things in order to get other things or to appear a certain way. For women, complaining about a man being creepy, or complaining about men approaching her or complaining about too many men looking at her or staring - it’s all a humblebrag or a “damsel in distress” gambit women use to make themselves appear higher status to whatever audience they have. Not in EVERY case but, most cases, this is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:07 AM
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What were the “hostile” reactions specifically? And why do you care if a woman is hostile to you simply approaching her to chat. If she’s being hostile to that - she’s the problem, not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:25 AM
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Yeah, I think you don’t really understand signals and you’re projecting your own security onto somethiny fairly pedestrian that never happened. Girl didn’t offer you her name (happens all the time with nervous girls or shy). Bouncer asks her something and she shakes her head (could be anything). You just made up a story in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:42 AM
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Your thoughts are the ones damaging your life - how is thinking the way you think constructive to your life? How is it helping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:40 AM
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Yeah, so you’re worried your ego would be “hit” from a few women not wanting to talk to you for their own reasons. If you’re that weak - then best of luck to you having any success in any application in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:39 AM
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