Guys, a story with some valuable insights and observations;

Earlier this evening I was shopping in a health food store when a girl working there (tall, dark haired, broad-shouldered 25 years old - looked like a slightly thicker Olivia Munn) approached me to ask if I needed any help.

The hair on my arms stood on end. I told her I was looking for this particular herb that’s hard to pronounce. She said she didn’t know it but would look it up.

The hairs on my neck and chest are standing up now.

She comes back and says she found what I want at another store and she can order it in for me. At this point, my whole body was vibrating, it was surreal. Then it struck me: Her voice was electrifying. I couldn’t believe this girl’s voice could penetrate and reverberate through me so completely and powerfully. I asked myself if it could be something else; “Is it just her looks? Do I just like her? Or it something else about her?” She really isn’t my type with dark hair, too tall (6’1’), B-cups, not that slim or fit, no real butt to speak of etc. - nothing physical about her was overly appealing. But her voice! It was definately rare; it had this smooth but crisp clarity, that was calm, relaxed, projective, clear and resonant all at once. All of subtle ingredients added up to this powerful and sexy voice.

So she invites me to the front of the store and she’s calling another store about this product and I comment, looking her in the eyes; “You have a very smooth phone voice, is that through practice?” She blushed and said she hadn’t but people had commented about her voice before.

I was thinking about this girls voice on the drive home because it really stuck with me.

In an odd revelation, I started realising how important voices really are: Most of the girls I really liked or had seriously dated had beautiful speaking voices. The ones that had pitchy or high voices, like a Colombian I dated last year, I didn’t think that much of. I’ve been so drawn to the Swedish girl that does the voiceovers on Volvo advertisements; “ontangkia” who now also does the voiceovers on Ikea adverts.

I’ve noticed that when I’ve met gorgeous girls that have annoying or whiney voices, sound like bogans or have ugly foreign accents (Kiwi, South African, German, Essex/East London and Chinese) - I immediately lose interest.

And am immediately very interested (often despite their looks) in well educated, relaxed, fun and melodic voices and smooth foreign accents (Irish, Scandinavian, Country/Educated British, Brazilian, Colombian etc).

I’ve also noticed: Many radio broadcasters in Australia (that aren’t comedians) solely have smooth, clear and resonant voices - they have no other actual talents and all get paid at least AUD$350k+ per year for their voices alone. This goes the same for TV personalities, presenters and journalists here in Australia.

It then occured to me that this applies to pickup aswell, for example;

When I hear JP (coach at Todd V’s company), the guy has the smoothest vocal tonality. He’s better than average looking, but not that great and he does exceptionally well with women. His vocal tone is his infields is very relaxed, seductive and playful but clear. JP uses his voice strategically in his seductions and sharply controls his tone to evoke qualification, display dominance and escalate. His precise vocal tone control is one of his main tools for success.

Vadim Dorfman (Honest Signalz) almost completely relies on his vocal tone, relaxed body language and quick thinking for his seductions. His tone is unaffected whether the girl is very interested in him or he’s being rejected harshly. Gunwitch surprisingly also has a dynamic, clear and very resonant voice that oozes character.

Whereas Chase Amante, Todd Valentine, the guys from UMP and many other pickup artists have very boring, flat, annoying or strained vocal tones that are extremely unattractive, difficult or frustrating to listen to. This would certainly work against them in seduction and I suspect is possibly one of the reasons they have become so strategically sharp in order to get to where they are now.

According to the anonymous writer of ‘Game Solved’ Vol.1-3, he said Tyler D (founder of RSD) observed that the one trick that jocks, frat bros and otherwise not too bright guys that seduce alot of college girls use is; ‘The Energy Frame Blowout’. It’s basically using the energy in your voice and strong and relaxed vocal tone to successfully “force frame” your desired frame into any interaction with a woman if it isn’t going your way or when she’s not falling into your frame. He observed that they’re “one trick ponys” but that trick works so well they really don’t need much else.

I’ve also found that even when I’m not feeling great and/or my actual game seems abit off, when my vocal tone is relaxed, calm and resonant - my seductions seem to be very smooth and successful.

Getting back to the girl in the store with the electrifying voice; she told me she’d call me personally when my product came in and asked for my name and number.

It then struck me that I liked this girls voice so much, that I could listen to her talk about any boring subject and I’d probably enjoy it just because of her gorgeous voice, despite her mostly average looks. Even her calling me about something boring is something I’m looking forward to.

I figured that if I had a voice that had the same effect on women - what a difference it would make to dating and my entire life in general.

Here’s how I’ve been (indirectly) improving my own voice and how you can too;

  1. Code of the Natural (by Rob Brinded) stretches. They relax the whole body; muscles and fascia, which in turn indirectly relaxes your neck, chest face, stomach and vocal cords. Rob was the physical coach for Chelsea FC when he made this.
  2. Tongue, mouth and neck excercises/stretches from the book, ‘The Low Down on Going Down’ by Marie Desalle & Marcy Michaels. One of them was awestruck by how well a speech pathologist man she was dating kissed her and went down on her better than anyone. So she asked a speech pathologist to co-write this book.
  3. Taking anxiolitic herbs (for relaxation) and tea for relaxing the whole body, which indirectly affects my voice being more relaxed and resonant.
  4. Meditation, yoga and massage is also indirectly helpful for a calm and relaxed body (and voice, indirectly). I’ve noticed that the most relaxed and even tempered women I’ve ever met coincidentally always practice yoga alot.
  5. Social momentum and Physical momentum: alá 60 Years of Challenge and no Micro-avoidances are also surprisingly powerful for relaxed vocal tone, even when I’m tired.
  6. Plenty of sleep (8+ hours), plenty of water/fluids, exercise/gym and sunlight (Vitamin D3) throughout the day would also contribute to better vocal tonality. I imagine healthy testosterone and hormone levels would also contribute.

Though I haven’t really done any direct vocal training or practice, I’ve never thought I needed to, although now I’ve certainly reconsidered.

If anyone has any tips, tricks, exercises or programs that have been genuinly helpful for improving their vocal tonality, please comment below with anything they would like to add.