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Basically the girl will always be into the guy first and foremost, the line is just secondary.
/r/seduction01/12/12 11:18 AM
1

Stay well clear of this board, you can be saved. brace for downvote
/r/seduction25/10/12 09:57 AM
1

Jesus that's dumb. Why you so downhill cracked?
/r/seduction18/10/12 07:01 AM
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Can't change what they're attracted to, the girl's decided in the first 5 mins who she likes just as you have there's gonna be others for you where even if your friend's around they'll be attracted to you over him, just how it goes.
/r/seduction16/10/12 11:38 AM
-4

9 is the only relevant one, also if cleaning yourself is a revelation you're probably to far gone.
/r/seduction16/10/12 11:34 AM
2

Swing and salsa dance classes have lots of free sessions for beginners and you can usually learn in one lesson! they're easy and awesome.
/r/seduction16/10/12 07:28 AM
-7

Nah I think it's a bit obsessive if you take it that far.
/r/seduction16/10/12 07:24 AM
4

Its not just girls, no one will see/hear or be able to like you if you're too shy. duh.
/r/seduction16/10/12 07:08 AM
1

The way I see it is -You're only ever going to be you- Gotta learn to deal with it sooner or later.
/r/seduction16/10/12 07:03 AM
1

You should be doing this stuff anyway, its what makes you a real person.
/r/seduction16/10/12 07:01 AM
0

Nope, never needed it.
/r/seduction09/10/12 11:49 PM
3

Tell her its not far, maybe suggest she bring some flats?
/r/seduction18/09/12 11:37 AM
2

Ask to meet there, she's probably in the same situation, most people are and walking is underrated, just talk about stuff you like and listen to her.
/r/seduction18/09/12 11:32 AM
2

The way it went for me was: learn all this stuff from seddit, RSD vids and The Game, convince myself it was working, form new identity, try it for real, meet actual girl whom I actually enjoyed spending time with, spend a year unlearning it and having a miserable time alienating all my real friends and lover, destroy and reconstruct self into who I already was before all this, finally reach happiness. If your just in it for friends you don't need to be here, do things that you enjoy and you'll m…
/r/seduction18/09/12 11:29 AM
3

Way to many fucks. Just see how it goes. You as a person and her as a person, see if you're into eachother.
/r/seduction12/09/12 12:28 PM
7

The secret behind this secret is realizing they're all just people, probably trying just as hard as you, with all the same hang ups and insecurities.
/r/seduction12/09/12 12:26 PM
1

Seems like you're simply looking for a good time and don't care about the long term. keep it up it's the right way to go, it's all about having fun after all right?
/r/seduction12/09/12 12:23 PM
5

So, nothing of any value but still worth a read?
/r/seduction25/08/12 01:22 PM
-7

Just sayin, as a seasoned RSD/PUA and has read the game, Neil Strauss is full of shit.
/r/seduction25/08/12 12:49 PM
1

You don't need a scale or ladder or anything you should just know, at some point you will both just be into it if you're both equally interested. If you're trying to gauge how interested they are into you then it's never going to be right. We have a built in faculty for knowing this. Or so my rich experience has taught me.
/r/seduction25/08/12 12:21 PM
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Just like to point out, neither of those people are hot. Feel free to disagree but I see a creepy old dude and a Jersey shore chick.
/r/seduction25/08/12 12:13 PM
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How to be christian bale... circa American Psycho.
/r/seduction24/08/12 02:36 AM
0

The most important thing. Would give more upvotes if I could.
/r/seduction19/08/12 09:53 AM
4

Oh jesus christ. They're human beings, not another damn species.
/r/seduction18/08/12 08:05 AM
-1

Seems like she's not there to game either and is still getting over some stuff. If you like her, stay with her and she'll get over it and you'll be able to make new memories. Or you could dump her and just be another evil ex story that makes her feel its all her fault.
/r/seduction13/08/12 06:35 AM
0

Sounds like you should be flattered; you're clearly a guy who's interesting and fun enough to warrant those kind of feelings, especially if you care about their feelings and honestly that's only good. You wont be any more fulfilled if you're just banging a lot of girls so maybe it should be you finding out if you actually like them first
/r/seduction13/08/12 06:30 AM
1

C'mon guys help him out; Dude, it'll happen. It'll happen better if you aren't constantly taking hints and tips from this board and just focus on your own life, being a good person that people will want to like. Remember, it should always be the girls decision, its not about manipulation. they're scared and alone just like you, just like everyone. A big part of maturity is knowing this. so just relax and don't become a freaky pickup artist who sees women as objects. No one likes them, they are n…
/r/seduction13/08/12 06:15 AM
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You are not alone. Everyone I know (myself included) who does/did PUA, RSD or some form thereof had ended up cold, alone and empty with these dead, far away eyes that seems to scream confusion at their unfulfillment. I only escaped that fate when I met the woman who changed me, who helped me come to terms with who I really was. we destroyed each other for a good year before coming to terms with ourselves and realizing this was what we wanted.
/r/seduction13/08/12 06:00 AM
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This this a thousand times this. Women are people, not robots who respond to the right code. we're all just people and the faster you come to terms with that the better you will do.
/r/seduction13/08/12 05:34 AM
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