so... i guess this is a sticking point, but when I approach usually my first thoughts are not in the realm of sexiness beyond making out.

I'm usually not concerned with taking them home and bangin them, make out pulls and numbers are great and all but I have had a fair share of flakiness for day 2s cause the girl senses I find them smokin hot but dont wanna make a two backed beast.

I am by no means a huge pimp... in fact when it comes to gals I'm pretty friggin lazy (working on it! before i get scolded :P) and a month ago got out of a 2.5 year relationship and incredibly rusty right now lol

I am however blessed with a brain that tolerates learning and knows I wont explode if I talk to some girls. And having particular tastes sometimes my brain goes,"dude! talk to that one before someone else does!"

mostly wondering if a low sex drive can fuck up sub communcation and intent, I'd like some tips on how to catch myself going too far in my own head if it can be a problem :P LMR on my behalf is a little screwed up lol

thanks guys :)