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Fundamentals Janemba_Corvalis/r/seduction02/05/25 12:07 AM
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Janemba_Corvalis/r/seduction23/11/16 07:09 PM
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Janemba_Corvalis/r/seduction25/12/16 09:54 PM
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Trolling is what you do on the internet. Banter is not the same thing. I don’t know any millennials using rage bait and trolling in a real life conversation.
/r/seduction21/07/26 11:00 AM
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Idk I guess so. The Gen Z terminology just hella odd to me I guess. Like I would never use those words unironically.
/r/seduction20/07/26 10:15 PM
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You need to have good banter. Common knowledge. It’s not being a “troll”.
/r/seduction20/07/26 08:56 PM
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I don't even notice, honestly.
/r/seduction06/07/26 01:04 AM
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Don't beat yourself up over it. It's not that weird.
/r/seduction03/07/26 10:38 PM
127

you should focus on moving out over fuckin hoes
/r/seduction26/06/26 12:55 AM
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i didn’t say it’s worthless or unsolvable, i said it’s useless trying to analyze your texting “game”, at least in this context. We have no real idea why the girls aren’t responding. Texting is to set up plans, and should seldom be used for establishing rapport at first. You can text more later on, and will probably need to.
/r/seduction24/06/26 08:16 PM
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texting with some is a puzzle you cannot solve, and with others the pieces will fit perfect. Game is not performed over text. I think it’s useless to analyze it. Every combination of whatever you listed will work and won’t work at the same time. Like in sales jobs how they say every form of prospecting both works and doesn’t work, because it’s more about consistency than coming up with the perfect formula. Not sure how old you are but I would never call someone out of the blue. That’s applying a…
/r/seduction24/06/26 06:03 PM
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fuck someone else
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:27 AM
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bro an airplane is not the place for that kind of conversation. you can’t let one failed interaction get you down. you just have to move on
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:26 AM
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that’s like .01% of the population and they’re not gonna be single keep dreaming
/r/seduction22/06/26 01:44 AM
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maybe if you’re a kissless virgin who is absolutely terrified to talk to women
/r/seduction15/06/26 08:33 PM
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wine is an essential and i don’t even really like that shit lol
/r/seduction18/05/26 10:32 PM
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momentum
/r/seduction14/05/26 09:39 PM
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shouldn’t have walked past imo
/r/seduction15/04/26 05:23 AM
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She prob has to reject men constantly. To me, it’s not about not caring. It’s about not letting it affect you. Ofc it is a temporary shot to the ego, especially if their not respectful about it (never swoop to their level if that’s the case. always be respectful) it’s also about avoiding that what if feeling you get if you freeze up and don’t do anything. we all know and have had that feeling before. So shoot and maybe you have a pleasant convo that goes nowhere; or maybe it goes somewhere. Or m…
/r/seduction08/04/26 12:19 AM
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ya mentally ill girls, unfortunately. and i’m not saying that to be funny. that’s what happens when you hang out at punk/emo dive bars
/r/seduction02/03/26 11:41 PM
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it’s weird. maybe less weird in Texas, but no reason to believe that’s where he is from.
/r/seduction26/06/25 12:22 AM
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Gun range on the first date. Are you fucking kidding me
/r/seduction25/06/25 10:10 PM
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I assume she worked for a public school, and teachers are still paid shit under democratic leaders lol.
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:48 PM
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Finance
/r/seduction31/05/25 12:25 AM
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Long story short - she’s a 25 year old girl. Things change like the wind. Impossible for us to know what you did, so don’t beat yourself up man. It’s also possible she’s just busy.
/r/seduction08/05/25 02:33 PM
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When you meet someone special that you really like, you’ll change your mind. You have a shallow and somewhat immature perspective in my opinion, which is okay because you’re only 20. You’ll grow and opinions will change. Just do whatever you’re feeling at the moment. Unfortunately for some people life becomes more isolated and lonely as you grow old. Just one thing to consider. Also - you’re probably more likely to hear about relationship horror stories than you are the success stories. Probably…
/r/seduction06/05/25 06:11 PM
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Yeah, I know. My whole point was he encouraging entertaining other women which i am not going to do.
/r/seduction02/05/25 07:51 PM
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Are you intentionally acting dense? There’s nothing wrong with talking to others, but that’s not what he is implying.
/r/seduction02/05/25 06:04 PM
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His advice on how to keep the spark in a relationship is talk to other women. How fucking stupid can you be lmfao. Being in a relationship and being a high value man are not mutually exclusive. I can do both. I’m not interested in other girls, I want the one I have. His comment almost suggests an internal fear of abandonment. “Keep your tools sharp for when she inevitably leaves you” yeah thanks for projecting onto me bros.
/r/seduction02/05/25 03:50 PM
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emotional detachment like that will leave you feeling numb and empty. trust me bro i already lived that life. it’s a road to nowhere.
/r/seduction02/05/25 10:42 AM
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You been studying for 5+ years? or practicing seduction? 23 is still very young. I didn’t start having what I consider consistent success with seduction until I was late 20s. Got my own place, independence, etc… You’re gonna be just fine. Get your life in order and everything else will fall in place.
/r/seduction20/04/25 08:19 PM
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Man just get your CFA, then you can work on everything else in life afterwards. I put my entire life on pause for a year to get the CFP. Eventually passed, and now I have time to do everything I want again, and i’m on a good career path. This is just one interaction man, you’re fine. Good luck on the exams.
/r/seduction20/04/25 08:12 PM
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hsv1 is really not a big deal. they don’t even test for it on STD tests because it’s more so considered a benign skin “infection”. think over 50% of the world carries the virus. It’s not a matter of if you get exposed to someone with it, but more so when. you could have it and not even know. Obviously type 2 is way more serious and you need to be careful about that 100%
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:31 PM
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just take care of yourself man, becoming old is inevitable - but you don't have to become ugly.
/r/seduction05/04/25 06:24 PM
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there has to be some bars or something you can go to
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:40 PM
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Brother, you are not permanently fat.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:02 AM
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only a bmw owner would believe some stupid ass shit like this
/r/seduction24/03/25 11:56 AM
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doesn’t matter had sex!
/r/seduction18/03/25 01:08 AM
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you get better. it’s not a complicated thing.
/r/seduction18/03/25 12:59 AM
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Not really, but don’t approach someone with a mouth full of food
/r/seduction03/03/25 02:41 AM
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seek therapy immediately…
/r/seduction02/03/25 10:35 PM
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Sex is all about experience and compatibility. After a while, you kinda just know what to do. But I've had some partners where it just doesn't click. Also, foreplay and aftercare are just as important (if not more important) as doing the actual deed.
/r/seduction26/02/25 12:48 AM
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a combination of 1 and 3. I never had much success living with my parents. Exponential increase once i moved out. But securing your future is the most important. Don’t bother with hookers.
/r/seduction25/02/25 09:07 PM
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I don’t fake it. It can be fun and interesting to discuss. I don’t put any weight into any of it. I know my signs, but that’s about it.
/r/seduction24/11/24 12:34 AM
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Cleanliness and living alone. Your bathroom better be 10/10. Entire place better smell nice. If she's back at your apartment the hard part is already done.
/r/seduction06/10/24 12:58 AM
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Communication. Lying or misleading will lead to the perception of being a fuck boy. Shouldn’t be necessary anyway. And in person connections will always be better imo.
/r/seduction05/09/24 01:01 AM
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Yeah i’m sure they do care about stuff like that. Probably didn’t make her feel good. Kind of obvious that was going to happen. There’s a fine line between strategically making someone a little jealous, and full on making out with another girl in front of her. But i’m not familiar with Brazilian culture. At the end of the day, probably not a big deal. You could maybe still salvage it, guess it’s at least worth a shot. There’s other girls out there.
/r/seduction01/09/24 11:42 PM
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What are you even saying
/r/seduction08/08/24 11:18 AM
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add your attitude to the list. right at the top.
/r/seduction03/08/24 01:03 AM
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Idk. You probably won’t “recover”. Shouldn’t worry about it anyway. There are billions of other girls. 2 months ago man… come on.
/r/seduction03/08/24 01:02 AM
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that’s not what coffee dates are for, if you’re trying to do that you need to pick something else. coffee dates are for first dates
/r/seduction08/07/24 10:35 PM
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jesus dude, get over it. you ruined it from the start. don’t date at work.
/r/seduction05/07/24 10:01 PM
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through personal experience i think females are awful as a wing. it’s a good idea in theory. never worked out for me. due to jealousy, among other reasons. their brains are different, doesn’t work the same as a wingman.
/r/seduction14/04/24 08:58 PM
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That’s fair. It’s just circumstantial I guess. Personally I view it as a don’t ask don’t tell situation. If you and your partner are open about those sorts of things, feel free to discuss it. I just think it’s got potential to make things weird.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:40 PM
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what good is going to come from that?
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:53 PM
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Someone's job is not necessarily a good indicator of their character. Obviously, I wouldn't really want to date someone with a dead-end job or like a prostitute or something, but each case is unique.
/r/seduction15/05/22 10:18 PM
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No, you can definitely tell a girl your job if you'd like. There's nothing wrong with sharing a relatively important aspect of your life with a girl you like.
/r/seduction15/05/22 10:15 PM
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That’s very subjective and varies on a case by case basis. If you want some objective and blatantly obvious answers, try being funny, charming and cool. These posts are useless. You’re not going to get a magic answer that’s going to get you laid. Put in the work.
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:13 AM
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go to more than 2 bars
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:27 PM
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I’ve dated girls who have done this. It never really bothered me BUT they did turn out to be narcissistic as hell. You don’t quite see it at first, but it will always come out. I mean to constantly crave that sort of attention is a huge red flag. I’d say just let them be. It’s not your battle.
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:29 PM
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Don't text her that, let her text you. It's a nice message and you mean well but I don't think it'll help IMO. You're definitely overthinking this. Judging by what I've read, this girl's gonna absolutely ruin you if y'all don't want the same thing. Tinder girls can and will pull a 180 on you. Definitely don't get as invested as you are now next time around.
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:19 AM
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I just ask. I also don't rely on tiktok for much of anything.
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:12 AM
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imagine saying you like someone but saying some shit like this behind their back, lol. Do better bro. You think you can do better, do her a favor and move on. fr tho what type of advice are you even expecting. She looks the way she looks. Do you want us to crowd-fund her some plastic surgery?
/r/seduction22/04/22 01:35 AM
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Don't get involved with someone you work with. Saying "met through work" is kind of vague, so that might not even be the case.
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:40 PM
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Try Hinge or Bumble, pretty similar but still significantly better. Obviously rules 1 and 2 blah blah blah.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:54 PM
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What you're describing is pretty relatable because I was similar when I was younger. I would say it's just a matter of practice. You're not good at dancing because you don't do it enough. It's honestly really easy, and the girls usually do all of the work. Any idiot can dance... seriously. Half the battle is just acting like you know what you're doing and having fun. You do not need "sexy or cool moves", you just need to be competent. Additionally, I would assume most of the people there that yo…
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:45 PM
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I suppose it could be a valuable asset, but it could also hinder you if, for example, you have a low-quality and lazy-looking Instagram. It's definitely not necessary. I haven't posted on Instagram since 2018 and my account is private. I meet people in person and through dating apps. Maybe could be used to provide a little bit of social proof, assuming you have good pictures. If we're being honest "good" social media pages will do more to attract superficial girls than it will high-quality girls…
/r/seduction02/04/22 11:19 PM
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Well, it's legal which is good... but you shouldn't ignore the fact that 18-year-olds are still very naive, and immature (some of them) among other things. In my opinion, it seems a bit predatory in certain situations and raises red flags for me personally.
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:11 PM
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I wouldn't put too much weight into what she said. That's just one person's opinion, although still valid and should be considered. The fact you let her opinion hold so much weight is probably an issue, which in itself says she is somewhat correct. Work on your self-esteem issues. Additionally, seems like you've put her on a pedestal. No wonder she thinks this way about you.
/r/seduction16/12/21 12:38 AM
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If it wasn't somewhat terrifying and concerning, I would find it hilarious how some people in this sub think getting consent is "cringe" just absolutely baffles me. I completely agree with everything you've mentioned. For as much good advice people give in this sub, there is an equal amount of horrible advice.
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:44 PM
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Context matters dude… if she likes you it I promise it is not a bad thing to ask. “I don’t ask I take” Jesus Christ some people on here are weird as fuck. You don’t need to be some alpha jock all the time bro. Talk about making them uncomfortable, you probably make them uncomfortable with that shit.
/r/seduction13/12/21 02:30 PM
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Lmfao, I mean do whatever works for you dude. Just know getting consent is not cringe.
/r/seduction13/12/21 02:27 PM
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My go-to is to just ask "Want to make out?" and it's worked every time I've tried. Let's be real, you both know why you're there. Obviously, this isn't the first thing I say. Only after she seems comfortable or whatever.
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:48 AM
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idgaf how many girls you've fucked bro, lol. You've missed the point completely if you think seduction is a competition to get the most pussy lmao. Obviously you should touch the girls, but in a non-creepy and non-aggressive way. You put it so horribly that I am actually concerned for the girls you've been interacting with because something is clearly wrong with you. Seduction is about being more in tune with yourself and your values. This is how you form organic and meaningful connections with …
/r/seduction27/09/20 12:25 AM
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I’m calling the police
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:23 PM
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Shut the fuck up
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:23 PM
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that’s definitely one way to look at things. I get what you’re saying but I do think there are some pretty objective standards for a “loser” like bullies, domestic abusers, etc, I think you can see where I’m going with this. It’s bold of you to assume I would think your friend is a loser though. I’m sure you’re both fine people. The main point I was trying to convey is that your behaviors are what makes you a “loser” and not where you live or who you live with. Anyways, have a good day!
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:41 PM
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Uhm it's kind of messed up to judge someone who still lives with their parents. I admit I'm biased because I'm 23 and still live with my parents, but let's not ignore the facts here. We're in a pandemic, unemployment is at an all time high, rent prices are also at an all time high, and most importantly you don't know the situations anyone else is dealing with! It's definitely a case by case basis. If you're just a straight up lazy loser, then that's why we're gonna move on, nothing to do with th…
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:53 AM
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Everyone's preferences are different bro, lol. Let's not act like a man jacking off to porn with a death grip on their dick is any different than whatever girls are doing to pleasure themselves. The tone of this post is just gross. Have you ever considered that maybe you're the problem? You are the common denominator here. If you don't like having sex with someone, you don't have to. You'll find someone you're more compatible with eventually.
/r/seduction22/08/20 05:31 AM
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There's nothing wrong with harassing her at work for her number if she finds you attractive. Hopefully she's not just being friendly because you're a customer.
/r/seduction11/07/19 10:48 PM
2

Looking at them, breathing, existing in their general vicinity. Besides just going up and initiating the talking, there's not much else you can do besides eye contact and having open and accepting body language. He'll get the memo.
/r/seduction11/07/19 10:44 PM
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ok ugly
/r/seduction08/07/19 10:51 PM
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Here's my advice: 1) Stop posting the same fucking shit. You literally post this crap 5 times every hour 2) You look fine, stop being so insecure and maybe you'll get somewhere 3) Don't tell people to get cancer
/r/seduction08/07/19 10:48 PM
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That poor tinder girl......
/r/seduction08/07/19 10:39 PM
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Nobody wants to see your stupid fucking face anymore. You literally asked me to get involved via title of your post that I see everyday.
/r/seduction08/07/19 10:35 PM
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That's you
/r/seduction08/07/19 10:30 PM
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I think you should just do your best to represent your honest self. It'll hopefully attract women who are actually attracted to you and not a fake tinder persona. Probably the best way to find a fulfilling and serious relationship, which you said is your goal. You don't even have to put that you "don't like partying and alcohol" in your bio at all. I'd say your bio should be more for telling what you do like, as opposed to what you don't like. You can always change your profile around if you're …
/r/seduction03/07/19 11:29 PM
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What the fuck type of answer are you expecting dude?
/r/seduction01/07/19 01:23 AM
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It’s not your fault she’s a fucking weirdo dude. Who cares if she’s hot. You’ll get over it.
/r/seduction29/06/19 01:04 AM
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Yeah you’re probably gonna fuck it up
/r/seduction29/06/19 01:01 AM
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Don’t have conversations over text. There’s nothing more annoying. Kills attraction.
/r/seduction27/06/19 11:41 PM
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Get someone else to take the pictures
/r/seduction27/06/19 11:39 PM
2

There's nothing wrong with hanging out with her friends. You need to win them over too. I'd say to forget about escalating and focus on having a good time with her and her friends. Everything should flow naturally at that point. Also make sure she's explicitly inviting you, as in don't invite yourself. I would not bring any of your own friends. Nothing wrong with a group setting, just don't be creepy...
/r/seduction27/06/19 11:01 PM
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Why did you ask for help if you’re going to disregard it?
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:57 AM
1

Is she the only person with a vagina that you know?
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:55 AM
1

ok who cares that she cheated then
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:34 AM
2

Don't take your ex back.
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:16 AM
2

Honestly looks like you're beating a dead horse. She doesn't seem very receptive. I'm not saying to give up but it's clear sliding in her DMs won't/didn't work.
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:14 AM
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Say whatever the fuck you want, it doesn't matter
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:12 AM
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Yeah dude that’s totally what I’m saying.
/r/seduction17/06/19 07:21 PM
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Yep, you've got it exactly. Game is about being true to yourself. Doing whatever you want because you're outcome independent. It might not get you laid instantly, but you build a deeper connection with yourself and become happier overall. Letting go of my ego has been the hardest for me. Knowing you'll get rejected and keep on moving.
/r/seduction17/06/19 12:38 PM
5

"Hello _____, whats up?" ​ You already are familiar with each other. Easy as it gets.
/r/seduction13/06/19 12:56 AM
1

She's probably concerned with the fact that you keep looking at her while she's just trying to workout. You have a girlfriend dude. Focus on working out, not eye fucking women.
/r/seduction13/06/19 12:54 AM
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She shit tested you? Or you guys were actually incompatible and this was inevitable. You shouldn't want to be with someone who's constantly shit testing you anyway. Good to see you're finally going to start respecting yourself. This shit happens sometimes, and it's not necessarily anything you've done.
/r/seduction22/05/19 04:23 PM
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Yeah, I knew exactly what he was trying to get at, I just wanted to make him feel like a jackass. He’s hilariously misinformed.
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:27 PM
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bruh, what on earth is a soy level?
/r/seduction17/01/19 09:04 PM
49

Saying words usually works on guys.
/r/seduction25/12/18 06:56 AM
104

One of the driving points I've learned from seduction is that it's best to just be yourself. That's what your best at. You can't always try to force this cocky/funny persona in order to impress women. The goal is to have genuine connections, for me anyway. Not everything is a shit test. I think people get all caught up in trying to maneuver "shit tests" and ultimately lead themselves to failure. I think you are being too calculated. Be more flow-y, as in go with the flow more. You're definitely …
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:17 PM
1

Sorry, my eyes totally skipped the 2nd 'friends' in your title. Try posting some weightlifting related stuff on your story and see if they say anything. I'd strike while the iron is hot and snap them soon.
/r/seduction24/05/18 09:05 PM
1

Doesn't sound like an issue yet. Be respectful of their relationships, and hopefully they will too.
/r/seduction24/05/18 09:02 PM
1

I always say "I'm really picky" or something similar.
/r/seduction22/05/18 11:11 PM
2

Really nothing bad here. I also avoid too much texting when I'm stoned. Idk about others, but sometimes I just do stupid shit when I'm in that state.
/r/seduction16/05/18 11:16 PM
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Congrats, I'm really proud of you.
/r/seduction01/05/18 05:47 PM
8

Idk what girls think, but when I see someone wearing a shirt that purposely has holes in it, I automatically assume this person is a douche bag.
/r/seduction01/05/18 04:47 PM
9

I'm fucked... my girl is in Egypt right now.
/r/seduction15/02/18 03:53 AM
1

If she likes you, then she won't give a fuck how you found her instagram. If she thinks you're a creep and doesn't like you then oh well, onto the next.
/r/seduction27/12/17 07:59 PM
3

I honestly find it impossible that you don't have any "wild and/or crazy stories" I just don't find it possible. If you've gone outside of your house at any point in your life you are BOUND to have stories to tell. You probably just don't view them as interesting, or you just can't remember any at the time. You are interesting. Everyone has value, even if you cannot see it for yourself. I'm 100% certain you haven't spend your whole life dancing and studying/schooling. Did you travel to all these…
/r/seduction21/11/17 08:24 PM
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It's not that complicated... If you're having fun, chances are other people will have fun with you. Girls like to have fun. Be fun. That's it. Mysterious vibe is good. Just don't be creepy.
/r/seduction17/11/17 04:14 PM
3

You fucked up and emotionally attached yourself to a girl who's feelings were ultimately a mystery. What exactly did you both say that makes you think she rejected you? I'd say fuck it and give it one last shot, but you should start emotionally detaching yourself from this girl asap. One-itis takes it's toll on people. Also take this as a lesson. Try not to develop any strong feelings for a girl until you know you've secured the bag.
/r/seduction17/11/17 04:08 PM
1

Pursue whatever interests you. It’s up to you to get the ball rolling. Going out to that bar was a great start. If you are consistent in your efforts to change, you will see positive results.
/r/seduction17/11/17 06:02 AM
0

Try your best not to lean on any type of drug for depression relief. This includes weed, anti-depressants, alcohol, etc. Self love and happiness should come from within. Not an outside source. I'm not a professional, but any drug you put in your body has costly side-effects. What type of hobbies do you have? Any goals? Try making short term and long term goals. When you achieve these goals, make new goals. Also find some hobbies to occupy your time. Don't be scared to hit the gym more than 3-4 t…
/r/seduction17/11/17 04:13 AM
7

It’s unsaid. If she wants it you’ll know, but you have to make her want it.
/r/seduction05/11/17 10:37 PM
21

You’re one of those people who cannot take constructive criticism. That will only hold you back.
/r/seduction02/11/17 07:55 PM
18

While I do agree with this, and this probably goes without saying, but don't use this as an excuse to put off tasks of more importance, such as school or work.
/r/seduction25/10/17 03:50 PM
1

You just have to go do it. It'll feel weird until you're used to it. Try to reconnect with your friends too. Nike, just do it.
/r/seduction23/10/17 11:23 PM
11

I personally think that most (healthy) relationships fall through because you get into a routine of doing the same shit over and over. If you care for your partner, put forth the same amount of effort, and try new shit, you guys will be fine. People over complicate relationships.
/r/seduction23/10/17 09:59 PM
2

Ask her out on a date. You don't have to mention that you like her.
/r/seduction14/10/17 04:10 PM
3

Don't sweat that. She's busy AND doesn't like tea. You've just got to pick something else, at a better time.
/r/seduction13/10/17 05:38 PM
9

You're right, I've never tried it. It just seems extremely bizarre. If it works for you then by all means continue to do it.
/r/seduction12/10/17 03:54 AM
27

Sorry, but who the fuck would hold anyone's hand for an additional 30 seconds after a hand shake. Do this if you want to come off as a creep.
/r/seduction12/10/17 01:55 AM
16

She knows that she's pretty. You have to let her know you're interested in subtle ways. Sometimes I'll check a girl out, while she's looking at me. Not necessarily subtle, but gets the job done. Stuff like that. I wouldn't outright tell her unless I know it's already in the bag. They're "hard to get" for obvious reasons.
/r/seduction11/10/17 08:22 PM
132

This may be hard for you to face, but in reality nobody gives a fuck. Which means you shouldn't give a fuck either. Nobody knows you're a virgin unless you tell them. You're over thinking it. You should not be thinking about your virginity whenever you approach a girl. You should be thinking of making a real connection, and having a good time. Approach more, think less, and your problems will disappear. You can solve most your seduction problems by approaching more AKA practice.
/r/seduction03/10/17 09:01 PM
1

Sounds like you don't even know her name. I think the first step here is simply introducing yourself. After that you can casually bring something up. Recent event, something going on in town, anything....
/r/seduction03/10/17 03:46 PM
7

I think part of your problem is you think too much. I can tell you do because you have your whole routine that you do every time memorized, which is not normal. You should just go with the flow more and relax. If you have a good time and you have good body language it'll rub off onto her (heh).
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:54 PM
1

Take her up on her offer to get "lit" if you're down for that kind of thing. I've built some good friendships/relationships smoking with people. It's a great way to bond if you two are into that sort of thing. I wouldn't recommend smoking for the first time with her though(only if you've never done it before ofc) Otherwise I think you're in a decent spot. Just gotta be persistent in your interactions with her. Don't be too strong, don't be too distant. Once you're back in the same town, then you…
/r/seduction13/07/17 01:05 AM
2

And mine is skateboarding. Maybe yours is guitar. There is something for everyone.
/r/seduction13/05/17 04:59 PM
1

I feel like that opener would just lead to either boring small talk, or much bigger conversation than you're looking to have. The point of the occasional text/snap is to just keep yourself interesting to her. Go for a bike ride and send her a snap, send her a snap of your dog, idk anything small.
/r/seduction10/05/17 06:26 PM
3

You don't have to text her much at all. Send her a text confirming the place & time for the next date and leave it at that. The less texting the better. Remain mysterious and leave her wanting more. You'll get tired of each other if you text all day. By all means feel free to send a few snapchats if you do that sort of thing, but you don't have to remain in contact with her throughout the day. Makes you look like you're needy with no friends.
/r/seduction10/05/17 06:05 PM
3

defines your jaw line, also secondarily helps your breath
/r/seduction02/05/17 04:55 AM
23

To me this is like saying 'the downside to being rich' or 'the down side to being a genius' Yeah life isn't a gold paved road for you to ride down. If you're going to have a stupid mindset like that then go ahead. You've got it so much easier and you still complain.
/r/seduction29/04/17 05:19 PM
3

Step 1: Ask her out
/r/seduction10/04/17 04:23 AM
2

Jesus Christ 12 snaps in a row? Sounds like you're bordering text buddy territory. Just ask her to do something again. If she makes up another excuse move on. You don't want to be her little lap dog.
/r/seduction02/04/17 07:13 PM
1

You have to also befriend her friends, so you can avoid the "she isn't coming home with you sorry" girls that are with her. If you're friends with her friends that shit wont happen. Also going to have to alpha male those 2 other dudes out of there. I personally don't really know what to do, but there are ways to handle this and I've seen some videos of it.
/r/seduction02/04/17 06:33 PM
2

I'm not sure what you're referring to, but based off of only the information you've given I'm 99% sure she wants sex.
/r/seduction02/04/17 05:19 AM
14

you're going to have sex whether you like it or not
/r/seduction02/04/17 04:58 AM
2

It's best to solve your self hatred problems. That's not something attractive that you will want to identify with to anyone. Until after you've built some definite comfort at least. I went through a breakup and suffered from moderate depression afterwards. Eventually I found a new girl who later became my girlfriend. I still suffer from depression and I've told her this and she's nothing but supportive. A similar situation could arise with you. Honestly it's not really good to be someone you're …
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:31 AM
1

You've fallen into the typical situation of 'if I try to escalate and get denied, my feelings will be hurt. So I'm going to do nothing and hope something happens' I've read about this a thousand times and I'm sure you have to. Nut up and make a move. In your situation I'm confident that if you play your cards right, you could fuck her at the very least.
/r/seduction28/03/17 07:04 PM
7

My personal opinion is yes you are wrong for this... Whatever though I don't judge. She probably wouldn't have agreed to coffee with you if she was happy with her current boyfriend. If you decide to go through with it I'd treat it like any other coffee date. Keep in mind though if she does this to her boyfriend now, she will do it to you too.
/r/seduction28/03/17 05:31 PM
2

A lot of people here are just trying to improve from having virtually 0 game. This could be a huge step forward for him. Absolutely no reason to be an ass-hat about his post. Who gives a fuck if he slays or not. He's making progress and if you have nothing to add or nothing to gain from reading then hit the back button.
/r/seduction26/03/17 01:54 AM
1

Might as well just approach now. At the very least it'll give you experience. Definitely work on your image though.
/r/seduction24/03/17 02:56 AM
1

Sounds fun
/r/seduction23/03/17 11:22 PM
5

You don't have to dance. Play pong(personal favorite), socialize, drink, or participate in whatever stupid college student shenanigans are going on.
/r/seduction23/03/17 11:19 PM
8

Anywhere females are allowed
/r/seduction21/03/17 10:46 PM
3

Don't do it unless there are obvious IOI's.
/r/seduction13/03/17 09:24 PM
5

Probably some dudes fucking with you honestly. I did that shit all the time in high school.
/r/seduction13/03/17 04:31 PM
1

I save texts on snapchat on accident constantly.
/r/seduction13/03/17 04:29 PM
7

Damn that's pretty cool. Really goes to show that most people magnify their imperfections x100 and it really can hinder them. A good lesson learned.
/r/seduction13/03/17 03:56 AM
2

According to urban dictionary, dropping the napkin means "Excuse for ripping a loud fart that can't be masked or blamed on anyone/anything else" I'm not surprised you're not approached after that.
/r/seduction12/03/17 10:19 PM
3

Buy my plane ticket and I'm down!
/r/seduction12/03/17 10:16 PM
1

Wow no no no this is a shit test DON'T TEXT HER. Just kidding, definitely just send her a text, lol.
/r/seduction12/03/17 10:02 PM
2

I just saw this imagine on the front page and thought it fits perfectly for you. http://i.imgur.com/i0UZwme.jpg You're so afraid of not winning that you're willingly being a loser. I don't mean to put it so harsh and I'm sure you're not actually a loser, but it's essentially the same situation. Go out and try to win, and you eventually will.
/r/seduction10/03/17 03:59 AM
1

Great job on nutting up and asking. Feels great to do it even if they say no. The whole "maaaaybe" thing isn't too encouraging. I feel that if she really liked you it would've been a yes regardless of where or when. Nevertheless, even if you guys don't work out, you grew from this. So props on that. Edit: Also if you want to try and salvage this opportunity. Tell her you'll be going with or without her, and imply that you have no problem going alone, but she's obviously welcome to come. I forget…
/r/seduction09/03/17 07:21 AM
1

They're tricky, and sometimes frowned upon here. Don't walk up to any girl you think is hot, tap her on the shoulder and yap her ear off. If a girl at the gym is obviously staring at you or just giving a total green light I'd say it's fine. Last thing you want to do is get in the way of a girls workout. Just don't be that guy. Those guys are creepy.
/r/seduction08/03/17 11:19 PM
3

Not everything is a fucking shit test... Move on to the next one man.
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:10 PM
1

Even the best PUA get rejected. You'll eventually run into girls who don't reject you, especially as you keep on getting better. You'll learn more if you keep practicing like you are than you would through reading.
/r/seduction07/03/17 01:22 PM
5

Isn't that the end goal anyway? I don't say that to random guys or girls I'm not interested in.
/r/seduction07/03/17 01:20 PM
2

Someone said to me, you can always make more money, but you can't really make more time. Don't let pursuing your career swallow your life whole. It's a goal you're working towards, but the ultimate goal in life is to be happy. Who cares what your fucking job is if you're not happy in other aspects. My point is, maybe take a little bit of time out of school, and invest it into yourself in other ways.
/r/seduction07/03/17 07:34 AM
6

It's ridiculously easy, especially if you're good looking. Just send a picture of you, your dog, something cool, and say something they can respond to.
/r/seduction06/03/17 02:00 AM
9

According to law, you would've been in the wrong there. Anytime a girl is drunk be extra cautious. They could wake up the next morning and decide they regret having sex with you and you're in deep shit. Obviously I don't know this girl at all, just a heads up though.
/r/seduction05/03/17 08:21 PM
1

I feel like it's instincts when you're in the moment. Like a dog who's never swam before falling into a pool. They automatically know the doggy paddle. You'll be fine.
/r/seduction04/03/17 06:55 PM
2

What other choice do you have? Come off as happy and distracted, or come off as unhappy and desperate. I wouldn't want to be anywhere in the middle ground of the two either. I'll spare you the psychological lecture but just be happy with or without her.
/r/seduction04/03/17 06:51 PM
3

Sorry this happened buddy, but you've got to fix something. Maybe it's you?
/r/seduction02/03/17 02:59 AM
1

There are 3.52 billion women on the planet. I promise there is AT LEAST one out there for you. You wont find a needle in a haystack by sitting next to it doing nothing. You'll find it if you search for it. Keep pushing forward.
/r/seduction01/03/17 04:41 AM
21

Awesome read man, good job. Reading field reports like this inspires me to go find someone awesome. Glad you had this good of an experience mate. The main point I pulled from this was you really were just being yourself. Not nervous, not planning out all your moves, just going with the flow. Easier said than done, and you did it.
/r/seduction27/02/17 03:20 AM
2

Hahaha do they really? I feel like if I told a random girl that I do Jiu Jitsu they'd be like "yeah I don't really listen to that type of music" or something. That's interesting though. I've been seriously considering joining a Jiu Jitsu gym, but aren't the prices pretty high? A lot of us are budget college students. What would you recommend?
/r/seduction26/02/17 09:02 PM
1

I wouldn't say weird is the right term. It won't be weird if you don't make it weird. Having previously talked to them should make it easier.
/r/seduction26/02/17 06:32 AM
1

I don't give a shit about her unless she says yes.
/r/seduction26/02/17 06:14 AM
5

I'd just like to say being funny is usually never a bad thing.
/r/seduction25/02/17 06:25 PM
3

This guy gets it
/r/seduction24/02/17 01:39 PM
1

Join clubs and fake it till you make it. Joining a club wont lose your virginity per se, but it will introduce you to new people. Befriend people who you get along with or girls you think are good looking. Again, fake it till you make it. I put on a false sense of confidence and outgoing-ness and you should learn to do the same, until it becomes natural.
/r/seduction24/02/17 04:02 AM
1

Either way it's worth it in the long run. You'll thank yourself 100 times over for getting them now.
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:57 AM
1

One option is to compliment them back on something like shoes, hair, eyes, whatever. Then ask for their name, etc etc.
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:54 AM
1

Enough to mellow you out. Not so much as to slur and smell like straight up alcohol or become obnoxious.
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:27 AM
3

Do this. If she flakes on you make sure you tell her you're going to go without her anyway and she's welcome to join if she changes her mind. It's a bit of a mind game when you show her you have no problems going without her.
/r/seduction22/02/17 11:22 PM
1

Play the game back with her man.
/r/seduction22/02/17 11:20 PM
-1

Ask to work in with them if they're alone. Sometimes can be a pain in the ass though.
/r/seduction22/02/17 05:49 PM
1

Ah yes, you should definitely befriend her friends.
/r/seduction22/02/17 05:42 PM
1

Eh, I think girls can think for themselves. Her friends might have some influence but really saying it's all up to her friends is just an excuse for when you fail imo.
/r/seduction22/02/17 05:33 PM
2

The amount of time you waited to get her number was irrelevant to the outcome of your attempt to get with her.
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:15 AM
3

I'm pretty sure there is a ridiculous amount of day game information on here.
/r/seduction20/02/17 05:33 AM
1

It's pretty hard to fuck it up when a girl already likes you.
/r/seduction19/02/17 01:00 AM
1

As fun as you make it.
/r/seduction18/02/17 11:38 AM
3

Can you please explain to me the purpose behind no fap and what it does for you? What I've gathered: no fap puts you in the mindset of "damn I really want to bust a nut, but I can't fap... better go get some pussy" so I'm curious if this is the general idea or if it's something more.
/r/seduction18/02/17 11:31 AM
23

I'm glad you found what works for you and I think everyone here can pull something valuable out of what you've said here. However I would never recommend anyone to drop their guy friends. Or borderline dedicate their lives to getting pussy. There is more to life than that. Sometimes you do things for yourself and not just to get a girl or help get a girl. Regardless, I appreciate the insight you've provided us all with.
/r/seduction18/02/17 11:10 AM
1

Well yeah I guess. I'm just saying grinding is the only dancing that I personally will participate in, and I do just fine. What other people think when they see me I could care less.
/r/seduction18/02/17 11:04 AM
16

The only "dancing" I do in a club is letting the girl grind on me while I sorta just move along with her/the music. You're practically just standing there.
/r/seduction18/02/17 06:06 AM
3

I definitely think especially in my case, that it might take someone reaching an very deep low in order to reach that all time high in life. Good job OP.
/r/seduction16/02/17 08:36 PM
2

Pretty good. So are you guys getting coffee or what?!
/r/seduction16/02/17 07:39 PM
2

Sorry bud, but she said the same thing to me last week. Nah but I'm happy for you. Now work some of that magic on other girls and see what happens.
/r/seduction15/02/17 03:46 AM
4

I am so intimidated by eye contact that I look away as soon as I make eye contact with anyone. I don't even know if intimidated is the right word, but it just makes me uncomfortable. Definitely something I need to work on. Thanks mate
/r/seduction13/02/17 11:13 PM
5

I've heard having sex in the water is a bad idea. On a towel in the sand is all game though. Anyone with experience care to enlighten me?
/r/seduction13/02/17 11:09 PM
2

You become better with practice. Do you have any lines that are your go-to's? As in, lines you use frequently.
/r/seduction13/02/17 12:44 AM
1

Buddy, don't let one girl influence your whole mindset towards other women and relationships as a whole. You're letting this girl ruin you. Just because she was a piece of shit doesn't mean everyone is. You've got to find the diamond in the rough. You were dating a shit nugget in the rough. Your approach is wrong and frankly just awful.
/r/seduction13/02/17 12:20 AM
6

Props dude. I do have a question though. Were you really willing to see a movie alone? I get that you shouldn't let someone else stop you from doing what you want to do, but something about seeing a movie alone is depressing to me. I think your best move here was passing up the easy opportunity for sex. Good on you. Good job
/r/seduction10/02/17 08:19 PM
2

I occasionally save posts which I believe I can go back to at any time and read when I need to remind myself of certain things. I've saved this one, so thank you.
/r/seduction05/02/17 01:36 AM
3

Hit gym, read subreddit. You're more attractive than you think you are. Law of attraction, yatta yatta blah blah blah.
/r/seduction01/02/17 12:14 AM
7

Do whatever the fuck you want to do. If you find a girl who's good enough to stay with, then do that. Don't keep this girl on a leash though, that's kinda fucked up. Either be with her or cut her off.
/r/seduction01/02/17 12:12 AM
1

Reading this put a smile on my face. Good job bro. I met my girlfriend at the gym!
/r/seduction01/02/17 12:11 AM
1

Just. Do. It.
/r/seduction17/12/16 08:04 AM
2

Yeah it's not a confidence or self worth issue. I love myself and feel great about myself. Just sucks to suddenly have that huge hole in your life one day. I accept it, working on filling it, and I'm getting better. Thanks for the words of wisdom. Btw it was just some guy saying how it took him 15 years to get over his first girlfriend. Meanwhile I just got out of my first relationship, hence why I commented what I did.
/r/seduction16/12/16 05:06 PM
6

I hate reading posts like this. It's been 2 months for me and reading this makes me feel like I have no hope.
/r/seduction16/12/16 01:22 PM
1

Great, appreciate it.
/r/seduction25/11/16 06:48 PM
1

Yeah that'll probably come with some practice. Thanks man. My friend would definitely fuck that up.
/r/seduction24/11/16 02:16 PM
1

Got it. Thanks for the example.
/r/seduction23/11/16 07:39 PM
1

That's true.
/r/seduction09/11/16 04:07 PM
0

Okay. Why is this a bad idea?
/r/seduction09/11/16 03:57 PM
0

I have no interest in having sex with random girls I barely know. As I have already stated, I don't want to worry about STDs, and pregnancy. Don't comment if you have no actual insight to anything.
/r/seduction09/11/16 03:55 PM
2

Try again!!!!
/r/seduction05/11/16 12:04 AM
2

I believe in you, toast.
/r/seduction04/11/16 07:31 PM
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