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| 2 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.There are actual things to complain about when it comes to women, you know. Like what? On a related note, I encourage more men to wear makeup so they can finally shut up about it. Then men would join the pretence. Makeup itself is fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.Let's not pretend that they don't wear it alot when going out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 11:30 AM |
| -10 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.All I'm saying is it's a pretence, it's fake. I'm not saying don't enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.And men care about how their partners look and appear even more than the women. But that doesn't change the point being made in the post. It doesn't make makeup not a pretence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.I’m not a woman. As someone who understands psychology, you should be able to still answer. You don't need to be a woman. I cannot imagine life seeing women in makeup on billboards and in movies and on social media and trying to compete with the women they see. Don't you see that this is how conditioning happens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 08:01 AM |
| -2 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.But this shows that there are reasons to wear makeup or paint your face besides insecurity. Well, yeah. It doesn't have to have only one reason. Insecurity is just one of the reasons, and almost every woman has different levels of it. Usually, the more makeup a woman wears, the more insecure she's likely to be. It's also about vanity and competing with other women in the "beauty race" as another woman said in these comments. I don't get that, but fine The point is there's a psychological reason … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.you could make the same argument about using deodorant. Oh come on. How is basic hygiene the same as putting on preservatives, thickening agents, emulsifiers and other chemicals on your face that can actually cause hormone disruptions carcinogenic effects? Also, makeup is basically pretending to look a certain way, that's the point of it. What sane men actually find attractive are women who are actually natural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:52 AM |
| -9 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.Man, it is such a shame that so many people grow up and think they aren't allowed to enjoy certain things anymore. I'm not saying you can't enjoy it. I just prefer painting on a canvas instead of my face, but that's just me. Go to a cosplay convention and tell them painting your face isn't fun. The reality is makeup is a pretence, just like cosplay. This isn't my opinion, that's what it actually is. Look up the definition of 'pretence'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.This argument can be made about any type of grooming so it’s insane There's a difference between grooming for hygiene and wearing cosmetics, many of which are actually harmful to your skin. The cosmetics industry is a billion dollar industry because of women's insecurities. Personally lots of men should be more insecure Then they'd just be as unhappy as most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.Why do you think someone would feel the need to wear makeup that artificially enhances their appearance? Do you think it's because they are confident and happy with how they look naturally? If so, then why the makeup and the pretence? Why hide what they look like naturally behind cosmetics, many of which are actually harmful to their skin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:30 AM |
| -3 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.only men who complain about women’s beauty rituals are men who have no access to said beautiful women so they seek to devalue them, but all in vain. Saying that makeup is a pretence isn't devaluing anyone. It's just the truth. Makeup is fake. Whether you disagree with this or whether other people downvote it or not doesn't mean it's not true. If somebody felt beautiful and confident in how they look, they wouldn't feel the need to wear it. many women love aesthetics for its own value, not to i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.There is no link between insecurity and makeup. This just tells me that you don't understand psychology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.Choosing to opt out of the beauty race is simply stupid as a woman You're basically saying that being authentic is stupid as a woman. Why do you need to stay in the beauty race? The most attractive women get treated the best, they have access to more attractive men, people want to be part of their social circle, they’re perceived as nicer and harder working in their career because they’re attractive. Maybe, but they're still equally insecure because they depend on other people's opinions. Woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.It’s optimization Meaning what? which you are expected to do as a mature adult in a professional setting, aka a job Then how come men generally don't wear makeup? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 06:30 AM |
| -19 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.Like I'd even give a shit if it was insecurity. Well, you would if you wanted to be healthy psychologically and have real confidence. You know....fun? Painting on your own face can be fun, but once you're mature, you go beyond that. What's fun to children isn't really fun to adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 05:58 AM |
| -3 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.But regardless it doesn’t matter because enough men respond quite positively to this aesthetic, so clearly it’s worth it. I don't know whether or not it's worth it, but my point is that makeup is a pretence and using it comes out of insecurity and also a bit of self-centeredness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 05:56 AM |
| 0 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.That doesn't make wearing it not a pretence done out of insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 05:53 AM |
| -1 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.Why wear it if you're already good looking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 04:06 AM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.You decide what is a fact and what isn't. Nope. I just observe the facts and then I describe them. You set your beliefs as truth I don't actually believe in anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:47 AM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.You when you say they are conditioned Conditioning doesn't mean someone can't learn new skills. It means how they see the world and how they behave is based on how they were raised and taught as a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 04:11 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.Well, my whole point is that people aren't necessarily good, or doing fine due to how they were nurtured so I don't understand your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 04:08 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.There's a difference between learning to do something with your body as a child and being psychologically conditioned. The argument of "nobody showed me how to do something when i was a kid" is not only weak, but also makes the person look kind of stupid for never figuring out on his own how to do basic things. Who's making this argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:55 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.This is what I mean when I say you're ignorant. You're not even making sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:53 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.Read back your original comment. I meant that its what I'm saying in the original post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:33 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.Humans are actually quite good at mitigating individual selfishnes This doesn't make them good. Mitigating negative traits doesn't make someone good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:27 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.And yet, fathers didn't get involved. Unfortunately those fathers were conditioned to only be good at playing the role of provider and protector by their mothers and society when they were kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:21 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.but your reason is men don't have the time I'm saying though out history until just recently. Even today women are still seen as the more nurturing and empathetic ones, which isnt necessarily true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:16 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.People seem to be doing fine Only superficially. Do you really think the fact that there's always wars going on and children going missing and being abused and all the violence in the world isn't a reflection of people's collective mental state? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:14 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.them coming home and doing everything they did before they were providers. So they are still doing most of the nurturing, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:10 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.The fact that its a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:09 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.yet some men haven't stepped up despite not being the sole provider. Okay, the men haven't stepped up. So who's been picking up the slack? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:07 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.You're right. It wasn't a choice for women to be the nurturers, but they still had to do it. And because they felt it wasn't a choice , they didn't take much care in nurturing and teaching the kids. They only nurtured enough so the kids survive, but they didnt really teach them about things that matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:06 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.There is such a thing of nature vs nurture and i think it was even studied up to a degree. Yeah, and the results showed that how people turn out is usually due to nurture not nature. Fathers can step up their game and get involved in the child's life actively. They can, but women expect them to mostly just be providers and protectors. If a man spends most of his time trying to provide then he only has a limited time to get involved in their lives. No sane mother would deny the father the possibi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:03 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.as your takes end up in the completely false corner of the possible results. Just because you're ignorant of something doesn't mean it isn't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 02:51 PM |
| – | Traditionally women have been the ones doing most of the nurturing as parents, while the man provides. So if the world is messed up, women have also played a big role in that.So the good mothers actually did raise good men. Not really. Most people are actually pretty ignorant and don't really think for themselves. This doesn't make them good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Getting a roommate is better than a 50/50 man as a womanWell, my man has been paying all the bills for the past 10 years, and he's not complaining. And yet you're still unhappy and insecure. This means whatever you're doing isn't working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 07:56 AM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Do you have much experience dating women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 05:47 AM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.I'm saying that's where tradition comes from, which is a fact, regardless of mentally challenged people's downvotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 01:31 AM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Be an adult. Not a dependent of another man. Exactly. And considering how women were basically made to be dependent on men in the past throughout history, you would think more women would want to be independent and stop depending on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 01:30 AM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.he does so out of courtesy. And what do women do out of courtesy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 07:08 PM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.The reason that this is such blatant bullsh*t is because women have children too much. Who thinks about children on the first few dates? Most women want children . No shit. But that doesn't mean I have to pay for everything while we're still getting to know each other. That's ridiculous. she risks her life to carry and birth children If it was such a risk less women would do it. You guys keep trying to skip over this contributing women give to basically the whole of humanity It's not a contribut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 06:35 PM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.50/50 on a date and women want to talk about raising kids. Exactly. It's so absurd. And ofcourse you know that on every date these women go on, they expect men to all prove themselves and provide, so they always get free meals. You end just being another potential full time provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 05:52 PM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Didn't your parents ever teach you not to compare the food on your plate with other people's? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 04:28 PM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.I don’t want to be a leader to stroke my ego, Yeah, you do. Almost everything people do is for the ego, especially wanting to be a leader and be followed. I want my wife to as well. Either she does or she doesn't, wanting to lead her won't make her genuinely trust you. Even if she doesn't, she'll just be passive and submit to you. In any given situation everyone is one or the other. Yeah, but wanting to be a leader is a redflag. Real leaders do it naturally without even wanting to lead anyone. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 04:23 PM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Wanting to lead doesn’t make anyone insecure. It actually does because it means you want to be followed, which is what the ego wants. The desire to lead is just as bad as the desire to follow. It's just that the one who follows has less intelligence, or atleast thinks they do. They aren’t necessarily meek or passive at all. In some way they are, hence the word "submisive", which is also defined as being passive. Insecure in what? In wanting to be followed to feel powerful and masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 04:14 PM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.According to you, all of this because I'm insecure... All that sounds great. But also, the reality is the desire for someone to be submissive towards you comes out of insecurity or some other psychological thing because the word submissive literally means: "allowing yourself to be controlled by other people....:: Anyone with the desire to control others and have them submit to him is lacking something. Here's an example from the Cambridge dictionary, which is where this definition is from: "He w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 03:54 PM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.A man paying for the date gives me a chance to see his character and expectations in action and to see mine. Actions > words. Paying doesn't really reflect much, it's just money. Men also pay prostitutes, and they pay for dates with women they just wanna sleep with coz it increases their chances of getting laid. Also, what is your character then? From the perspective of going on a date with a guy you don't really know, expecting him to pay for you shows you don't have a good character. You're no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.You're post literally says because many women don't want to go 50/50 therefore most women don't care about men Yes. many women don't mind 50/50. Okay, if you insist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.No thanks, I'd rather be single and have peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 01:10 PM |
| 2 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.but also understand there are some that exist. Yeah, and my post is about those who exist. You're the one generalizing like every single woman out there doesnt want to go 50/50. Many don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 01:03 PM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.saying women don’t love men because some want a traditional man is just as dumb as saying men wanting a traditional women means they only wish to use women for free labor Why do women want a traditional man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 12:38 PM |
| 2 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.If you’re stuck on the whole “50/50” thing then that means you need to look at yourself... If you have a problem with paying your own bills, you need to look at yourself and wonder why you have a problem with being an independent adult. Fortunately for you, you've been blessed with a lack of self awareness like most women. So you won't be able to self reflect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 12:27 PM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.women who cry “Where have all the good men gone” are stupid bitches who take good men for granted? No, but they definitely have no self awareness. If they did, they wouldn't ask that dumb question. Also, what they mean by "good men" is men who pay for everything and treat them like they're special. Keeps focusing on the shitty women The point is there are way too many shitty women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 12:13 PM |
| 2 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.If men want to be compensated to not feel used, why is it bad when women do it? Not wanting to be used by women by treating them like an adult and going 50/50 isnt compensation. Its being an adult. why is it bad when women do it? Women do it by expecting to be catered to and put on a pedestal, men do it by going 50/50. Thats why its "bad". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 12:11 PM |
| -1 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Many women are unfortunately like that, which is why many men can relate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 12:00 PM |
| 3 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.The truth is only men who are broke or not financially well off care about going 50/50 with a woman. Not really. Men who don't want to be used by women care about going 50/50. The truth is only broke, narcissistic and entitled women have a problem with paying their own bills. Obviously. then that just means you need reinvest your time into getting your money up. Not really. It just means I don't like parasites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 11:59 AM |
| 2 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.I have never met a single woman that had any issue with going 50/50 That must mean they don't exist then. Sure there's women out there that were raised to think its a man's job to pay for everything, Oh so they do exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 11:23 AM |
| 2 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.but I think it comes from a place of not wanting to be used. Do you think men want to be used? Going 50/50 is a way for a man to not be used. they would like to be compensated for it If a woman is in a relationship where she wants compensation, why not just be single at that point? Or become an escort where she'll be compensated for her time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:47 AM |
| 2 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Again here's the definition of submissive: " ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive. " This is the description of a dumb sheep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:39 AM |
| 3 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.What's in it for a woman if she pays the bills, does everything at home, takes care of the children, keeps up with female beauty standards, and doesn't even get to have the same amount of orgasms and social benefits that a man receives when he's partnered with a woman? So to balance this, you want some form of payment from your partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:37 AM |
| 4 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Your comment said: " Being subservient means unconditional obedience. " And I said only sheep have unconditional obedience. What about that doesn't make sense? It's the same as submissiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:34 AM |
| -5 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.They benefit men too. Only the idiots who can't think outside the box. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:28 AM |
| 7 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Being subservient means unconditional obedience. ' Only sheep have unconditional obedience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:27 AM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.We can go back and forth forever. I believe it's most women, and you don't. Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:26 AM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them."so many women" a handful of FDS type women you mean? No, many women are like that. doesn't mean it's "most women" It is most women though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:18 AM |
| 0 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.I like traditional gender roles Ofcourse. Because they benefit you and stroke your ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:17 AM |
| 9 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Submissive doesn’t mean subservient. The word submissive literally means "ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive.". I'm not interested in dating sheep. I’m not sure what being secure has to do with this. Anybody who wants others to submit to them has to be insecure. And you shouldn’t berate women who want a traditional relationship just because you don’t want one. Telling the truth isn't berating anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.Either way, you proved my point for me, so thanks :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.your opinions are totally irrelevant to me And yet you spent time responding to my post and actually proving it to be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 09:07 AM |
| 2 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Is it not material when you're using a woman for labour? I don't use women for labour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 09:06 AM |
| 2 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.I'm not complaining. Just pointing out that women like you are incapable of loving men, all you do is use them, and yet you wanna be loved by them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 09:05 AM |
| 3 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.is submissive to you I'm not interested in people who submit to me because I'm secure within myself. Any woman who is submissive to a man has no self respect. I am a traditional man. And that's the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.all i want in a man is to protect me From what?? i provide my femininity What is "femininity"? And how do you provide it? and make me feel loved through driving me/walking on the left side. You sound narcissistic. It's all about YOU. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 09:01 AM |
| 3 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.She has zero self-awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 08:56 AM |
| 4 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.I would never date a man who insists on 50/50! Like I said in the first line of the post, most women don't love men and they just use them. You're a good example of this. I think it’s fair considering the time and money put into my appearance Please stop. I find it emasculating for them. How kind and compassionate of you to feel emasculated for men who treat you like an adult. You've just proved the point of my post. Well done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 08:53 AM |
| 0 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Traditional women expect the man to initiate, to invite and to pay Traditionally women were not allowed to vote or work. So "traditional" women can't be that intelligent since they want things to be as they were in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 08:19 AM |
| 2 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Okay, good to know you approve of the first 3 sentences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 08:17 AM |
| 4 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.A woman's physical appearance doesn't change the way I treat her so this doesn't change the point of my post. In fact, I've been on dates with women I found really attractive and still split the bill. I find it to be a great way of weeding out women who aren't on my wavelength, regardless of their appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 07:56 AM |
| 6 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.So you use men to stop them from using you? Amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 07:38 AM |
| 5 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Again, because the post isn't about that. It's about women using men for material things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 07:06 AM |
| -6 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.How much of the post did you read? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 06:50 AM |
| -6 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Not once in your post did you mention housework, cooking, cleaning, laundry, grocery shopping, etc. Because the post isn't about that. Also because those are basic things that everyone should do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 06:49 AM |
| 3 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.This doesn't actually address anything I said in the post. Its just complaining about imaginary men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 06:42 AM |
| 12 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.What does this have to do with the content of the post? It not even relevant to the title of the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 06:21 AM |
| 5 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Well, I'm not most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 06:01 AM |
| 3 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Yeah, but what does that have to do with what I wrote in the post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 05:36 AM |
| 4 | Getting a roommate is better than a 50/50 man as a womanIn other words, you only use men. No different to a parasite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Getting a roommate is better than a 50/50 man as a womanHow is a man paying all your bills equality? I don't think you know what that word means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Getting a roommate is better than a 50/50 man as a womanWe need alot more to get going. Like money and material things... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Getting a roommate is better than a 50/50 man as a womanBecause she's so special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Getting a roommate is better than a 50/50 man as a womanWhy would I need someone if I have to pay any bills? Are you even aware of the nonsense you're saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is a trap.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 10:30 AM |
| 3 | Marriage is a trap.Government approval means you get legal benefits and protection. All that stuff is the stuff people want when they don't really love each other. If they did, none of that would matter, and they wouldn't choose to get the government involved in their marriage just for social and financial benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Marriage is a trap.Because they're less likely to go against something they approved of and are giving special privileges to. Why do you feel the need to get approval for your relationship? When you get married you have love The marriage is an indication there is no love there in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Marriage is a trap.freedom can't be the only ideal For you maybe, to each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Marriage is a trap.Every contract is "with the government" No, the government only gets involved once there is breach of contract. But the contract isn't with the government, its just the regulator.This is why you can terminate the contract without the government getting involved, unlike marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:49 AM |
| 3 | Marriage is a trap.So you'd prefer your relationship to be completely defenceless against that government How is getting the government involved in your relationship going to defend you against that same government lied? That makes no sense. If you only promise to be with your partner and won't even marry, all you have is words. Not really, its called love, marriage is just a substitute for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Marriage is a trap.If you think the government is corrupt, why wouldn't you want your relationship to be legally recognised and protected? By that same corrupt government? That's silly. Do you trust the government to want to keep your family together if it doesn't even acknowledge you're in a relationship? The government isn't involved in my relationships in anyway and it doesn't need to be. saying they'll be together forever, It means nothing, it's literally just words, hence the high divorce rates. most intellig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is a trap.Why don’t you answer my question? Because they have nothing to do with my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Marriage is a trap.No there’s not. Okay, if you say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is a trap.Again, there is a difference between signing a contract for a mortgage or a phone plan with a private corporation, and signing a 3 way contract for your relationship between you, your partner and the government. This seems obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is a trap.do you also bemoan your lease for your apartment? I've never had that problem, so I don't care. Even if I had, that's different to being so stupid as to get the government involved in your relationship by signing a 3 way contract. The fact that you don't see this means you don't understand much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:22 AM |
| 0 | Marriage is a trap.No matter what kind, no matter what for. Yeah, so why sign one for your relationship? That's stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:19 AM |
| -3 | Marriage is a trap.Why would you have to go to court to breakup with your partner, if you're not married? Edit: The people downvotting this logical question must be mentally challenged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:13 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.They’re just going along passively Yeah, because they benefit from doing so. If they didn't benefit from it, they would question the "tradition" of men paying, just like they questioned not being allowed to work back when that tradition began. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.This describes every man I dated before my husband, So doesn't this make you sexist as well then since you're basically agreeing with me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.You’re way too angry about this my dude. Not really. I'm not angry at all, but okay. It’s just the way they were raised. Yeah, I know. But that doesn't mean I shouldn't point out the behaviour and what's wrong with it. Some kids were raised to be selfish, that doesn't mean you can't point out their selfishness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Here's one of the comments that someone left in response to this post that illustrates my point:"My ex wife offered, but said later if I had accepted, there would not have been 2nd date" . He was talking about her offering to pay for herself on a date. This is my point. I'm not saying she didn't like you on some level, but her interest in you may also have been dependent on whether or not you got separate orders or split the bill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 06:14 AM |
| 0 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Believe it or not, that's actually how they think. Just read some of the comments from women in response to this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 05:56 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 02:20 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Spoken like a true broke dude. If she genuinely likes you, whether you're broke or not doesn't matter. This is an obvious fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.I made this post because I hang out with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.She’s basically saying most girls don’t care about sex, I don't have to agree with everything she says to like her book, but also that's not what she's saying, I know because i read the whole book. Also, I know women care about sex from my own personal experience. Reproduction is literally the whole point of life from nature's point of view, so women not caring about sex wouldn't make sense because that means less reproduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Not everyone does They don't have to believe it for it to be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 12:06 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.The “gold digger” type woman is after material luxury. You paying for dates is a sign you'll be able to provide them with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12d1u40/if_it_wasnt_for_sex_most_men_would_not_bother/ This means sex is all most women have to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.That is what men say When and where have they said this, and to who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 11:47 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.If I’m paying for a date, that clearly means I wasn’t rejected You're afraid if you don't pay, you won't get another date, hence getting rejected. It’s insane to me that you actually believe that most women go on dates just for free food. If a woman expects you to pay for her food on a date, she's clearly there primarily for free food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Yeah, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 11:25 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.A woman looking for financial security and stability is not at all the same as some greedy gold digger looking to “use” a man for his money. A gold digger is also looking for financial security. They're not that different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 11:02 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Scarcity mindset to the max. Scarcity mindset is paying coz you're afraid of rejection. If I pay for a woman’s dinner, then at minimum I’m sharing a meal with a beautiful and interesting woman, with the possibility for more in the future. Yeah, and if you don't pay there's no possibility for more. Because it's not you she likes, it's the free food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Yeah, okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 10:52 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.She got food, I got sex That's called a transaction. Might as well see a prostitute at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 04:19 PM |
| 7 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.I don't date or chase women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 03:52 PM |
| 8 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.certainly myself and many others are perfectly fine splitting meals at dates. That's good. But many women still aren't at that stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Accountability for your actions? What actions? Talking to women who like me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:40 PM |
| 7 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.that’s a bad lie be less transparent Whether you believe me or not doesn't actually matter to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 01:05 PM |
| 6 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.but these girls are just not that into you They actually are. Which is why even though I've stopped dating and chasing women, they still talk to me and wanna hang out, even the ones with boyfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 09:15 AM |
| 6 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.You're not wrong. Except women also care about sex, it's the biological programming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 07:03 AM |
| 8 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.they have their own money. And yet they still expect men to pay for dates, otherwise there is no second date. Strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 06:07 AM |
| 6 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.In what way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 05:18 AM |
| 0 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.They're the ones who don't wanna pay for their own food, but I'm the one hung up on free food nonsense? Sure, okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.I’ve done other kinds of sex work. Oh okay. Your transactional approach to human connection makes sense now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.If you don’t know what toxic views are - No, I'm asking you what toxic views I've expressed that you're referring to. And you’re throwing a fit over it and insisting on labeling people who have men pay for their dinner trash. Well, it's the truth. Only entitled women expect men to pay for them, that's the definition of entitled. Plenty of men enjoy treating women. Because they feel the only way to keep women's attention is to buy them stuff. What does that make them? Simps and weak men. Now you’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.I don’t find anything wrong with sex work either Ofcourse not, you're already half way there by trading sex for free food. Thats actually sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.It is toxic to hold toxic views about women. Like what for example? You can disagree with someone’s culture without personally attacking someone. I'm not attacking anyone, just pointing out what the reality is. People are not required to abandoned their belief systems to appease you. If their belief system requires me to spend money on them and put them on a pedestal I can atleast point out how dumb they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.It's not an opinion it's a fact. Anyone who trades sex for free food is a trash person. May as well be an escort at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:28 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Just your toxic views about women. It's not toxic to treat women like adults. The scenario is painting anyone with the expectation as trash even if she may be engaging in her own culture/customs The fact that she doesn't question her culture and customs makes her kinda trash. For example, why is the traditional norm for men to pay for women? Because in the past women weren't allowed to have jobs, but now they are and yet they wanna be treated the same way they were when they had less rights. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:27 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.I can conclude bullshit about you too. The difference is I'm not entitled, therefore I don't expect anyone to buy me stuff just because of my gender. Doesn’t make me right about who you are as a person or your motives. If I say women have to pay for my food otherwise I won't see them again, you can definitely tell I'm a trash person who wants to use women for free food. Woman manages domestic labor and child bearing/rearing. Exactly, which is essentially doing nothing much. However, some people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:22 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.You can’t determine anyone’s nature based on their expectations about whether a man pays on a first date. I definitely can. Any woman who has a problem with paying for food she's gonna eat is a trash human being. She may also have the subsequent expectations of serving a traditional role This just means she wants the man to work and cater to her while she stays at home. So you might be shooting yourself in the foot by assuming that her not wanting to pay for her own meal is nefarious. Not really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Exchanging sex for free food is disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:02 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Some men like paying for dinner and being "traditional". Yeah, simps do. She might have spent more than she wanted to on a clothing item, or shoes, or makeup. She sounds like a basic bitch. Buy the woman dinner for gods sake. Nah. Dating (and courting) has always been about showing the woman what kind of lifestyle she can get for the transactional relationship she is going to find herself in. Only for simps who need women's approval and validation. I don't need transactional relationships, might… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:02 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.So you want free food in exchange for a hook up? Gross. This is exactly why I split the bill, to weed out people with this mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 10:56 PM |
| 0 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Your viewpoint seems to be that you expect women to just want to be with you I except women to be interested in me not the free food, which is why I split the bill. What is he getting ? I’m not sure if you’ve had sex let alone a relationship? You said the man paying for food is an exchange. You shouldn't exchange sex for money and free food. Thats gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.they are also engaging with their inner self and mirror gazing is also a type of mediation No, it has nothing to do with the inner self. Most women aren't even in touch with their inner self, and they have no idea what meditation actually is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.The amount of time isn't the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 08:44 AM |
| 0 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Yeah, and this post is about women’s type of narcissism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 08:43 AM |
| 0 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 08:41 AM |
| 0 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Please go read A lot of sources. I'm so confused. What are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 08:40 AM |
| 0 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.This also doesn’t mean I can’t comment on “real world dating “ It means your perspective on it isn't going to be accurate. I’m a sex worker because I was beaten and abused for 7 years by a man …. Is he forcing to do it or something? Are you not making a choice to sell your body? by your principles it’s absurd to share or be generous even the slightest. Is it generous to expect men to spend money on you? attempt at a few insults :) Not insults, just the truth which isnt always pleasant, and your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 08:33 AM |
| 0 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.If they dont, I pay but there will be no second date after that. Exactly, coz it's not really about connecting with another person, it's all about getting what you want. Without the free meal, no second date. If it was about a connection, you wouldn't care about having to pay for your own meal. But it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 06:31 AM |
| 0 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.doesn't mean they want free meals But that's exactly what it means because that's what ends up happening. As I said, I prefer taking turn. But you never take the turn on the first date though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 06:17 AM |
| 0 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.I never tell them that I will see it that way. You don't have to, many women see it that way, so to be safe men just pay. I never force them to pay for me. You said if they don't pay, you'll think they're not interested. It's the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 06:00 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Some guys will pay for the woman Because It's just a transaction. They pay because they know if they don't, you won't be interested. They're basically paying you for your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:53 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.i take it as "He is not interested in me" Because the only value you understand is monetary. I don't like splitting the bills for food. Ofcourse not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:48 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.But my point is that women aren't wired to be this way. It has nothing to do with how they're "wired". It's just social programming. they still want men who also can provide and aren't just satisfied with some low income man Because they're self centred and entitled. she'll almost always choose the "provider" Yeah, because she's looking for someone to use as a provider, not a real partner. As long as there are men willing to provide for women, these men are going to have an advantage over men wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.I don’t think “most women” would stop talking to a dude they have chemistry with if they find out he makes “a little less” sounds like some gold digger stuff. Many would. Of course I’d buy him gifts and pay sometimes. I’m not a prostitute. Again, many women who don't classify themselves as prostitutes don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 12:23 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.If a woman is so broke that she has a problem paying for her own food, then maybe she shouldn't be dating. Do you ever wonder why women don't pay for men's meals but expect to be paid for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 12:22 AM |
| -1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Maybe those women are looking for a provider Yeah, exactly. They're looking for someone to use as a provider, not a genuine partner. A man paying for a date is making a fitness display to a potential mate. Great, then keep displaying your fitness to women. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 12:20 AM |
| 0 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.No wonder “men” like you can’t get dates. I get dates, I just don't get used for free meals. Paying for the meal 1) shows that the man is serious, How? 2) shows that the man has resources and isn’t afraid to share them. Given that dating is riskier for women, they have every right to filter out potential dates by the two criteria I just mentioned. You're kind of a simp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 12:16 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.This shows how much you know about human behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 12:15 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Not really. I was talking about a woman who used him for free meals. But go on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 12:14 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.No one needs a f**king "free meal" that badly! And yet many women will not wanna see a guy again if they don't get a free meal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:33 PM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Well me and you clearly don’t think the same way It might have something to do with the fact that most women lose interest in a guy once they find out he doesn't have as much money as they want him to have or that he won't spend it on them. So there's not much benefit to a guy talking about that before a date, its just another way to get ghosted. Also, it gets tedious, always having to discuss payment with women every time you wanna hang out. May as well just deal directly with escorts if that's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:29 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.The free meals are a sign that they'll be able to use a guy for the material things they want while dating. So its not really about the free meal, but about seeing how willing a guy is to be used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 06:00 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.She is not gonna suddenly like an ugly guy because he spent 200$ on her dinner. Exactly. Paying for the dinner just gives her an incentive to pretend to be into him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 05:46 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.and I'm comfortable that he can't try and use the thing he bought me to try and argue that he should get sex. Yeah, exactly. You get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 05:27 PM |
| 6 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.This isn't a pissing match, competition or game of "gotcha". You can't answer because you realise how ridiculous what you said is. It seems you have an adversarial attitude towards women. Yeah, I'm adversarial towards women because I like treating then like equals. Makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 05:11 PM |
| 6 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Not really. It says more about people like your ex wife because she's willing to drop a connection with someone over a free meal. That's gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 05:00 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.If you really think a hamburger is what it’s all about, It clearly was to your ex wife so much so that if you hadn't bought it for her, she wouldn't have wanted to see you again, regardless of what kind of person you were. This means who you are as a human being didn't actually matter to her, and now she's your ex wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.I think this is fair and if I was talking to a dude and he explained “look, you seem cool, I’d like to meet up, but let me know what your price range is in food because I don’t pay for the first date. Too many bad experiences of women playing nice, just to get a free meal and some drinks then they bounce.” If going on a date with someone means I'm going to have to talk to them about payment and price ranges then I'd rather not bother. I wanna go out with someone who is independent enough for thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.She just wanted to see if I was someone like you Yeah, she wanted to see if she can use you or not. When she found out she could, she rewarded you with sex since you'd paid for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:51 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Instead, I laid and we had sex that night. Escorts also sleep with you in exchange for payment, like your ex wife did. The only difference is escorts don't pretend to like you for more than your money. you can definitely miss out on some good stuff with your plan. I miss out on sleeping with entitled and greedy women. I don't really mind that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:44 PM |
| 6 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Why would a man be so selfish and jaded that he can't spare 20-40 bucks once or twice a month for a first date with a woman? Why would a woman be so selfish and greedy that she can't spare 20-40 bucks for food she's gonna eat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:38 PM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.People are wired genetically to want to reproduce This doesn't justify the greed and entitlement of demanding that someone should provide for you because of your gender. Things have to be this way or else animal species would just die out. The species wouldn't die out if women paid for their own meals and stopped using men. It would actually evolve psychologically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:37 PM |
| -1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.During those times, they need men to provide. If a woman is already projecting all this stuff onto me on the first date then I don't need her in my life because she has issues. She doesn't even know if I want kids or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:25 PM |
| 0 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.I stg you guys see like two redpill TikToks about women going on dates for food and you think most women are putting ourselves at risk just for a free meal lol it’s so delusional I don't even have tik tok... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Money is always going to be an issue for people who don’t have much money It shouldn't be an issue when making a connection with someone. If it is then that means you care about money more than the connection, in which case splitting the bill is best because the trash will take itself out once she sees no payment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:14 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.They are women who want sexual relationships with men who show that they are generous and have good finances. They sound like entitled narcissists. Why don't they show that they're generous and considerate by paying for their own meal? Because they only care about themselves, and its best to avoid sexual relationships with them. it's somewhat essential for a man to show that he has the ability to provide. Then they're are not looking for a genuine partner but a provider, a walking bank account. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:11 PM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.A lot of women just want traditional men who pay Why? Traditionally men paid because women weren't allowed to have jobs. A man who insists upon splitting the bill also weeds out these women. Exactly. where the woman gets the message that, if she wants better dates, then she should start showing genuine interest. And the man has to pay for her to show genuine interest? Then she clearly isn't genuinely interested, she's only genuinely interested in money. An escort might be better since they both … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.What's there to understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:47 PM |
| 6 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Men who want submissive women that want to be led are actually really insecure, which is why they need a woman to submit to them and follow them for them to feel masculine. And women who want to be led are mindless sheep, which is why they want to be led in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:58 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Are you afraid to stand up for yourself and demand that the food is on her, because of your scarcity mentality and needing women's validation? I can see you didn't actually read the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:43 PM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.The wording of the invite matters I think - "I want to take you to dinner" vs. "We should grab dinner". If you put it like this then yes, it makes a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:33 PM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Like, who invited who out in a date? Even when women ask me out, I still pay for myself and don't expect to be paid for because it's rude to expect someone to spend money on me just because they wanna hang out. Has payment been discussed prior to said date? This wouldn't be necessary if one was genuinely interested in the person they're on a date with. Discussing payment is for when dealing with escorts. For many, there is a non-gendered expectation that the person who invited the other out on a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.The subject of money can be very awkward in the beginning. If dating hadn't been turned into a transaction, then the topic of money wouldn't be an issue in the first place. It's unfortunate that it has to be, and you can't just focus on connecting with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:54 PM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.It's weird reading about woman like this because I never met them irl. You're lucky then because they exist and there's many of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 11:49 AM |
| -1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Only someone who is human garbage would say this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 11:33 AM |
| 0 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I'm not sure you know what narcissist means. How is it narcissistic to want someone to buy their own food instead of using other people for a free meal? How is that grandiose? Are you that poor that you can't afford your own food and have to depend on men for it? That's sad. You don't even realise that expecting someone to pay for your food is what having grandiose expectations is. Your lack of self awareness is really sad. *Edit: I just saw that you're a sex worker. It makes more sense why you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 10:56 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.As a guy I could have written the same thing myself about women bring nothing to the table other than sex Yeah, the only difference is that post would get removed immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 06:58 AM |
| 4 | Is trying to get into a relationship with a woman really worth it?The short answer is no. You're better off working on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Right, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?That's because women are the ones with inherent value, Which is what? Sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 11:43 PM |
| 0 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.Okay, so what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 12:43 AM |
| 0 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.In what way? Bet you can't answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.Did you read the post at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.That’s because I’m pretty sure biology is responsible for the male sex drive Biology is responsible for both men and women's sex drive. But the sex drive can also be suppressed or encouraged through psychological conditioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:02 PM |
| -1 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.You didn't answer any of my questions. But if you had studied psychology, then you would know that how a child is raised can influence their sex instinct and their sex drive. So in society, men's sex drive is exploited, and women are taught to suppress theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.Do you think how mothers raise their children doesn't impact their future relationships? Have you heard about attachment theory? Have studied any psychology at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.Are you responding to this post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.In my personal opinion, when a man and a woman are on a date, the man should pay. Why? Also, do you think that most narcissists know they're narcissist? You don't even see how narcissistic it is to expect someone to spend money on you just because you're a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.Males cant live without us because we make their lives exponentially better In what way? (Besides sex ofcourse) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.Got nothing better to do atm. Right, ofcourse. Like go to a therapy at this point Okay, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.So why waste your time on it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.Then read it again, or downvote it and move on. Your comment adds nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.Yeah, but the parents, especially the mother shapes how a boy sees women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:59 PM |
| -6 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.Try to read more women experience with a open heart, then you will find what women actually want. The quote in the post is by a woman. Also, asking for a date by threatening to suicide is not a sacrifice, but a manipulation. Who said it was a sacrifice? What does that even mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:59 PM |
| 0 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.Okay, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:57 PM |
| -7 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.You’re using one of the most classic examples of abusive emotional manipulation as evidence that the victim of the manipulation is the manipulator? What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.You can't read I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:45 PM |
| -5 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.or have men grossly oversexualized us and conflated obtaining us with masculinity and success? Well, men as boys were mostly raised by women, so they got that perspective from somewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.you know that wage gap you keep whining about? No? I've literally never talked about it. Keep up the salty routine and youll be lucky to never suffer through real love Real love has nothing to do with suffering. Love actually isn't pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 12:31 AM |
| – | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.Love isn't something you put into practice, it's who you are. But for your sake I'll say I put it into "practice" by being present and open with whoever I'm relating to in that moment without judging them or trying to change them, and it works the same in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 11:42 PM |
| – | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.Put what into practice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.Someone was triggered by the post... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.Love isn't a feeling or a thought, it's beyond that. What I'm talking about is similar to how sex isn't just physical, it goes beyond that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.Nah son I love women, unlike you. My post is about men in general, not me. If you look at the bigger picture in the world and how women are treated, especially in third world countries you'll see what I'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:03 PM |
| 0 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.Just say you're gay man, there's nothing wrong with it. No need to imagine being a girl to be gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.do you think you can love without feelings? Yes, but this doesn't mean there can't be any feelings there. Love isn't a feeling because feelings are superficial in the sense that they come and go very easily and are not stable. This is why many couples are unhappy, because they think love is a feeling, so when one of them doesn't feel good anymore, they start fighting and arguing, and then they make up but ofcourse they will fight again and so on, until they break up or one of them dies. And they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 04:57 PM |
| – | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.I think your mum would disagree. Ask her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.and it’s based on how they make you feel. Isn't that selfish, because you basically only love them when they make you feel good about yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.Unconditional love would be an exception to our lives if it existed How do you know it doesn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.Love is transactional anyway regardless of gender This is true, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.I made a post a while ago about how women don't love men, and a woman left this exact comment but about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.Frustration at women In what way? At the world for you not having what you wanted. Which is what? How do you know what I want? I believe that at one point, you genuinely wanted love and companionship. You felt like you weren’t able to get that, felt heartbreak and rejection, your ego created the new cognition that you don’t even want those things to protect itself What part of my post gives you this idea? The post is about men not loving women unconditionally, what does that have to do with lone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.I just mean that I believe your perception is skewed by frustration and loneliness. Frustration at who? you see things that way due to years of negative feelings associated with women and dating In what way? What part of the post are you referring to? Most of it is about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.This is what years of social isolation and loneliness does to a dude. In what way? What do you actually mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.so shouldn't be spoken about as a sweeping generallity. Okay, but you admit that there's atleast some reality to it, right? Because you initially said it's insane and not real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.Tell that to the love I have for this one girl since I first saw her like 7-8 years ago. Where is this love, so I can tell it? Show it to me. And I haven’t even kissed her let alone having sex with her. How do you know you live her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.So, this is not real or sane. If it's not real or sane then why do continue to say: You're not talking about the vast majority of men. Doesn't this imply that I'm talking about atleast some men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 12:54 PM |
| 0 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.People generally love others due to the way they make them feel. Then they don't really love the other person , they just love feeling good basically. That's how my marriage and marriages of most my cousins function. Marriage itself was created so that men could possess women, which is part of why women generally get the man's last name. In some cultures divorce is even frowned upon, and in others some women actually get killed (like in Afghanistan and stuff) for trying to leave a marriage becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.Why then do we expect men to just automatically love women? Women also say if men don't love them then why should they, and that's how we end up with the society we live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 12:47 PM |
| 1 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.Right, okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:14 AM |
| 1 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.what's important is that you put it into practice. I do, otherwise I wouldn't make a post about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 11:30 AM |
| 1 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.Sure, okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 11:28 AM |
| 1 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.Those soap operas you watch that talk about unconditional love are talking more metaphorically. I have literally never watched a soap opera. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”?Also, dummy Why are you making this personal? I haven't said anything about you personally. it was MEN who created the standard for paying for women on dates and providing for them. And women have no choice but to go along with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”?Also, you’re right: you are a male, so I will never listen to you on any subject regarding women. Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”?I’ll never listen to a male about women’s liberation. You don't have to. I'm just telling you the truth. You can choose to ignore it, its up to you. One way women can achieve that is to stop trading our bodies for money to help loser men cum. Again, as long as women expect men to pay for dates and do things for them, this won't change. But I'm a male so you won't listen to me so whatever. men who purchase sex are scum, most women who sell sex are victims, So the men are scum, but the women are v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”?I hate those women because they allow men to view all of us as nothing more than a cum sock. That's an interesting point. But it's not just those women who allow men to view women as that. There are also many women who aren't "sex workers" who expect men to pay for dates and spend money on them before they can sleep with them. "Sex workers" are just more honest. I have sympathy for the victims of the disgusting males who pay for sex. Seeing women as victims, especially those who make their own c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”?Do you think there any "sex workers" who would disagree with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”?Then what does it make the women who get paid for sex? Victims? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 04:15 AM |
| 1 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.Why come to me in the first place if they don't want to spend time together? Its an example to make a point. Even parents, the only people who are said to be able to love unconditionally, actually want things from their kids Because they don't actually love them unconditionally. You just said it yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.If one sided, unreciprocal love is preferred, Where did I say it was preferred or that if you love without expectation, no one will reciprocate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 01:30 PM |
| 0 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.That's not what the post says, but okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 01:29 PM |
| -2 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.there is no love like this, Then there is no real love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.I just said that your ideal type of love is one-sided and unreciprocal, That type of love actually attracts more people because it doesn't want or expect anything from anyone. and have elaborated how it translates into real life. You don't actually know how it translates into life because you've never experienced it. You've only experienced conditional love, which isnt actually love. And it does not sound appealing Again, you're only speaking from your limited perspective. Freedom might not soun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 01:21 PM |
| 0 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.Unfortunately your perspective of love is very limited, so it's basically like we're talking about two different things. a reciprocal, mutually beneficial relationship is not “the best type of love”, just exploitative, one-sided ones This is why I say your perspective of love is very limited. You think of love in terms of benefits and getting something out of it in return. You see love as a transaction, basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 01:05 PM |
| 0 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.That doesn't change the truth of what is being said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 12:38 PM |
| 2 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.You don’t expect your favorite band or actor to do anything for you, you just feel good about them and give them money and time voluntarily. That fits your description of “the best kind of love” No, I'm talking about people you know in real life. Not some celebrity you've never even met and know nothing about. I thought that would be obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 12:36 PM |
| 0 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.You always want something from another person But why? It means we don't love at random So you love them so much that you want something in return? and we want them to at least love us back which gives love meaning. How does that give it meaning? Just think of someone trying to say "I don't care if I interact with them at all, I don't care if they feel anything about me, I don't want anything from them, but I love them." What would be wrong with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 11:20 AM |
| 1 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.If so, then the “best type of love” is one sided from anonymous people who will never meet or talk to the recipient of their “love”, or with sociopathic exploiters Why? And that kind of love is felt by almost everyone. In what way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 11:16 AM |
| 2 | The best form of love is when you don't want anything from the other person.A relationship in the sense that those people spend time together, live together, etc., is a condition. Not necessarily. Loving someone doesn't mean they have to spend time with you or that you have to live together. That's not to say you can't spend time together or live together, but it's not a requirement. So, to a certain extent, you can say that romantic relationships (at least the usual and mutual ones) must be transactional. Yeah, that's what i said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.But how is it mutual when from the first date women already expect men to pay for them and treat them a certain way, while not reciprocating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Is that how love works for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Then make your own post about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Notice how you're not saying my post is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Sure there is. There actually isn't. There is only ego and self centerdness. Incidentally, the above applies to both genders. Men generally are just happy to be out with someone they're attracted to while women are doing all kinds of tests and all kinds of posturing. Which is why they're unable to love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Yeah, but again it's still all about you and what you can gain. There is no love in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 03:13 AM |
| 0 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.So how can they love when they already have some goal and roles to impose on their date? They obviously can't because they're only concerned about themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 02:54 AM |
| 0 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.But you didn't really add anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 01:14 AM |
| -1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Wanting your future offspring to be well-provisioned is 'narcissistic,' eh? Are you really going on dates thinking about your future offspring? That's ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.That changes nothing that has been said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.You've said "yikes" in 2 separate comments now. Do you actually have anything to say or just npc phrases? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.This is exactly why women are not able to love men. The whole idea of testing men is narcissistic and self-centred. Someone like that can't love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 01:00 PM |
| 4 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.That doesn't necessarily mean that you actually care though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.So how are women any different from men then? Men are able to be more selfless than women, because from the beginning most women already have demands that men are willing to fulfill. Even on the first date men generally pay. Most women don't even offer, infact they actually expect men to pay. You want something we provide, we want something you provide, Yeah, but men provide more than just sex. so what's the point in making this post Because I'm biologically programmed to be attracted to women a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Someone should do a study on why women gaslight to win arguments/debates. Yeah, good point. She's not even addressing the points made in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:08 AM |
| 5 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.I know that's what you want to think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.but your personal experience isn’t universal It kinda is, many men feel the same. unfortunately for you, you are the common denominator in your own personal history. The fact that many men who are successful with women have reached this conclusion means it's not just me. It would be great if it were because that would mean that women can actually love men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:50 AM |
| -2 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Then why complain that women don’t love men? Because I date women and not men, therefore I have to deal with women's inability to love. Also, its an observation, not a complaint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.but you still want something that this woman is providing. The only real thing she can provide a man with is sex. And in my post I never said men don't want anything from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:40 AM |
| -5 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.You’re claiming that women don’t love men and men do love women. I didn't claim men love women in my post. You should read it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:39 AM |
| -5 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Your comment is changing the topic of the whole post. You're not even addressing anything I said and yet you want me to answer all your questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:37 AM |
| 7 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Men are able to love women more than women can love them because men are more selfless than women in their love (thats why they play the role of provider and protector), but it still isn't unconditional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:35 AM |
| 4 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.I never said it was. My post isn't about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:31 AM |
| 5 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Yeah, you make a good point. Men are conditioned to protect women, provide for them and even sacrifice their own lives for them. But women rarely, if ever do the same for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:30 AM |
| -1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Your definition of love is way too restrictive. It really isn't. All I said is feelings aren't necessarily love (which is a fact) and that attachment is psychological dependency (which it is). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.ive been in relationships where i clearly had the stronger feelings, and in relationships where she did. Feelings aren't necessarily love. Having stronger feelings just means she likes you alot but it's not actually love because she can drop you instantly. the personal attachments are real Attachment isn't love, it's basically psychological dependency on another person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:13 AM |
| -1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.men don’t love women. they just use them for sex. they will leave them as soon as they get older for a younger woman.” Well this maybe true for wealthy men, but the average man generally won't leave his woman for a younger one, mostly because the younger one is more expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Because we aren't all like that. No, ofcourse not. But I can't pretend like a significant amount of women aren't like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:07 AM |
| -4 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.i’ve seen that my parents love each other. i’ve seen that my grandparents love each other. So has almost everyone else, but if you've been in a relationship then you know that things in your relationship aren't always as they seem to other people. Have you heard about Gabbie Petito? but you also can’t say that you truly know that women don’t love men I can say I know that most women don't, based on their behaviour, how they treat men and how they're mostly focused on themselves and being treated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:04 AM |
| 6 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.And if it IS your reality you're picking the wrong women That's not the point. The point is many men who've been successful with women have come to the same conclusion as I have. Meaning, it's not just my limited perspective. Other men have noticed the same thing. Other women have also noticed, and a woman called Esther Vilar even wrote a book about it called 'The Manipulated Man'. Because there ARE good ones out there. Where are they? I'd love to meet them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:01 AM |
| 4 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.I don't know, but people do it all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 01:59 AM |
| 7 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.This has so many incel vibes Oh here we go again... Men that have this generic view of all women That view is based on reality. Only thing I want from him is love and loyalty. You can basically say anything to make yourself look good and I wouldn't know coz I don't know you. That's why they say watch what she does, not what she says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 01:53 AM |
| 4 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.i know women love men because i’ve seen it. i know men love women because i’ve seen it. When you say you've seen it, what do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 01:49 AM |
| 7 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.But I didn't say anything about lust, and you didn't address of the points made in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.So we're in agreement then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.But the inviter pays. Only women think like this. Even when a woman invited me out recently, expecting her to pay for me seemed trashy, but women have no problem with being trashy apparently. because I don't want to pay doesn't mean I'm using him. It definitely does. That's why you don't want to pay and expect him to. If he doesn't pay, you ditch him. But dude...if you are bitching over a few bucks and calling us narcissistic, please keep your weiner to yourself because you can't afford a kid ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I can pay for my own food. Clearly. But they ask me out. And I'm supposed to say "I have no money" and then they offer to pay anyway? Since you don't really care about men and just want to use them, why not just turn down the date and be alone? Oh yeah, you'd miss out on free food. U wanna fuck a woman but u can't take care of a kid that could possibly come out of her? What you're telling me is you want to be paid for sex, like a prostitute. Atleast you know that you're only worth a monetary val… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.It's not really sad, it's just an observation. But nice try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I'd love to hang out but I'd rather save my money if i need to pay. Then save your money and leave men alone. I invite? I pay. It's etiquette. Expecting someone to pay is rude. A girl recently asked me out and I still didn't expect her to pay for me because I'm not entitled. If you need to go 50/50 then you aren't ready to date. If you can't pay for yourself, you're not ready to date. The fact that you would say this with no self awareness is amazing. Just pay for dinner. You want sex more than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.This is simply the woman being feminine and letting the man lead It's called being a narcissist. Why does a woman want to be led by some guy she barely even knows? Coz she's a narcissist who doesn't like taking responsibility. I don't want to say this about women who are truly looking to just exploit a man Any woman who wants to be led or provided for is just looking to exploit men, otherwise she would lead and provide for herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.There's nothing "idiotic" about being a traditional man. There is. Traditional men don't really understand female nature. That's why they get easily manipulated by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.However, seeing if someone offers to pay as a test of their ability or status isn't narcissistic. Yeah, it is. Who are you to test someone else by seeing if they'll spend money on you? What makes you so special? Only narcissists want people to prove their status to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.It's not using if he invites. It is because you don't really wanna hang outbwith him, you're hmjust going coz he's paying. If he has romantic intentions then I assume he's paying. Exactly because you think you should be treated special by men, which is a narcissistic trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.You equate meals with sex. No, the meals increase the chances of men getting laid because women are that superficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Maybe, but in what way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.and just use mens money for what they want Yeah, because they're narcissists who only care about what benefits them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.She just spent more money than him for the night. If she's so concerned about money then she should stop dating and save her money. A girl recently asked me out but I still didn't expect her to pay for me coz I'm not a narcissist. I didnt mind spending money to go meet her because I wanted to do it. but it will never be reality And so women will always be seen as a commodity to be paid for. All men have to do is pay and buy them material things to hold their interest, which is what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.The fact that you want to manipulate women into doing something they don’t want is entitlement. Really? So wanting people to take responsibility and pay for their own stuff is manipulation? Really? You are projecting big time. If I were projecting I would be saying that I'm entitled to other people paying for my food, like you're doing. A man who is able to successfully get a woman to go 50/50 or doesn’t have a problem paying for her meal, And a woman who isn't a narcissist doesn't have problem … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Now do you even know what a narcissist is? Yeah, someone who is so self important they think other people should pay for food that they eat. a lack of empathy, lack of remorse, exploitative and manipulative behavior, a grandiose sense of self, arrogance, a sense of entitlement, etc Yeah, exactly. This describes alot of female behaviour. Because, ironically, in refusing to do so and insisting on forcing a woman to go dutch, makes you look like everything you accuse these women of being: entitled,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.And at least that "sucker" has someone that loves him and appreciates him. That "love" is conditional because the moment he stops providing for you and doing what you want, you'll move on to the next provider. That's what most heterosexual relationships consist of. But heterosexual relationships also consist of women, so they also must like it otherwise they wouldn't be in those relationships, especially since they have options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.But the whole reason incels and MGTOWs are such a big deal is because they tend to be very loud and bitter about it Those are 2 different groups of people. I know lumping them together is convenient, but they aren't the same. because at the end of the day, they want women more than the women want them, unfortunately. Incels do, but why would a man going his own way want to be dragged down by some woman? He wouldn't be going his own way if he was still chasing women. Also, what men want is sex, n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.In every culture in every history men have sought out sex more than women. Okay, and who do those men have sex with? Sex takes 2, and if it isn't rape, it means the other person is just as into it. Men approach and take the initiative more than women, but it doesn't mean they want sex more. But male competition for mates would almost certainly persist, Only simps compete for women. Real men know its not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Maybe her father wants her to state home and not be in the workforce? An adult woman who still let's her parents dictate her actions is a major red flag. She probably shouldn't be dating until she figures herself out. Or maybe she was raised to work for low low wages because she is just a women Where in the world does this happen? Also, if she works for low wages, she still has enough money to pay for a simple meal. Many men work for low wages, and they're still willing to pay for women. But wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.men want it more. How do you know? Men have higher libidos and seek out pornography and prostitution much more than women Because its alot easier for women to get sex due to social conditioning. A woman can be a completely selfish and horrible person, and she can still find some guy to approach her. It’s the asymmetry in reproductive potential that creates male thirst. Not really, otherwise all men would have no choice but to be thirsty. But many men are starting to forget about women and focus … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:34 PM |
| 0 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.My mascara and blush a couple times a week, what narcissism. I'm not narcissistic so I don't use those things at all, but you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I wouldn’t say it’s narcissism. It’s their beliefs. Why do you think narcissists are the way they are? Because of their beliefs. They believe they are better than everyone, just like a woman who expects to be paid for thinks she better than the man. There is nothing wrong with that. If there's nothing wrong with narcissism then maybe. If you do not share this belief then leave her alone, and date someone who shares the same belief that you do i. e. someone who doesn’t mind going 50/50. Right, co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.point is it's not narcissist for a man to pay for the date No, it's narcissistic for the woman to expect it. Only narcissists want to be treated as if they're special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Household chores, child-rearing, nurturing, emotional support, looking beautiful, being sexually receptive or active, having a full time job and contributing, literally everything. Which men are you talking about? Since you already have some sucker providing for you, how do you know what other men want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.And yet you want them to desire you, but you don't care how they feel. That's a narcissist traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.If he asks me out, he can pay. I'm not trying to spend money all the time. Why even bother agreeing to go on the date? Why not just stay at home and not use people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.You don't think men want that as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.What is narcissism and what are some narcissistic traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.you're broadcasting your opinion constantly. What else is reddit for? it doesn't take long to put some makeup on. It depends on which woman you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Which has to be significantly above the norm. Who decides what's excessive? It’s less a preoccupation as it’s an expectation from the rest of society. Women actually like wearing makeup. Many even see it as a hobby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.How does she not have any money? How old is she? Is she Amish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.It really doesn't take that long to make a reddit post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.In what way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Exactly. What is expecting someone to pay for you on a date, other than prioritising your own needs? Narcissism is also a preoccupation with your looks, which describes many women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.What does it mean?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:14 PM |
| 4 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Men are entitled to sooo many things from women... Like what, for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Why don’t men wear makeup? Coz they're not as narcissistic as women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:11 PM |
| -1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Well, reading the post will tell you that I think it's a sign of narcissism, so i make posts about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I barely wear makeup Which means you still wear it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 12:46 PM |
| -1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.What it this thing about makeup? Read the post to find out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.The issue is that no one can single-handedly change social norms True, but that doesn't mean you have to go along with it, especially if you can see all the implications of just going along with the social norms. so one’s behavior is likely to be misinterpreted. It shouldn't matter how others interpret our behaviour. I know that not paying for dates will be misinterpreted by some women, but if they misinterpreted that it just means we're not the right match. So by not paying, I actually weed out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Because they're not as much narcissists as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.The post is about narcissists who wear makeup and expect men to pay on dates. Your reaction tells me you're who the post is about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.But they spend more time than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Things have changed but traditions die hard. People with intelligence question tradition instead of just going along with it. That's why I don't pay, to weed out the unintelligent women. The chances he resents women or isn’t into you are generally higher in the US than the chances he is just a progressive kind of guy. Not really. By now most men with experience with women know that women mostly care about money and material things, so they just buy things for them and pay for dates to increase t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.the expectation for the man to pay is almost fully based on tradition and men’s typical behavior. Why? As someone who isn’t really a fan of this tradition and has always offered to split the bill on dates, I still can see why a man not at least offering can be a red flag in the US. Why would it be a redflag? You have to consider what are the chances he is progressive and big on gender equality, vs what are the chances he isn’t that into you or resents women? All because he let you pay for the fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:32 AM |
| 0 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.If so why are you making a whiny post Saying its a whiny post is just your interpretation, because you don't like the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:25 AM |
| -1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.The point is, there has to be atleast some level of narcissism for someone to wear makeup. It's not a natural thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Clothes and beauty products are expensive. Nobody makes you buy beauty products, you do it coz you like it, and men also buy clothes. Stop pretending to be a victim. You're expect her to spend money and invest time you don't have to and then expect her to pay for the date. If you don't want to go on a date with someone then don't go. But if you go you have to be an adult and pay for your own food, otherwise you're just a narcissist. I don't think most men have the first clue how much money women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:49 AM |
| 0 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Most women wear makeup because they like it. You don't think narcissists like being narcissistic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I just think it’s the polite thing to do. It's polite for the person who asked you out to offer. But there's nothing polite about expecting them to pay. It's actually disgusting to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I got asked out by a girl recently and the thought of expecting her to pay seemed so gross and ridiculous. But then again, I'm not a narcissist, or a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Women don't just wear makeup for fun. They do it out of insecurity, which is another trait of narcissism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:33 AM |
| 0 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.One of the traits of narcissism is preoccupation with your looks. Spending an hour a day artificially enhancing your appearance in the mirror definitely is, regardless of your denial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:29 AM |
| -1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.People caring about their appearance isn’t narcissism No, but spending an hour a day putting on something that artificially enhances their appearance is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.When a man pays it means he knows you only care about money so he pays to increase his chances of getting laid. Anything else you tell yourself about it is a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Women are preoccupied with their looks because that is the single most important factor for their fucking evolutionary fitness, so yes, they are on average. It doesn't matter why they're preoccupied with their looks. The point is they are, just like narcissists are. Also, don't you find it degrading to women to say the most important evolutionary factor for them is their physical appearance? It's not a personality disorder. It's still narcissistic. Isn't red pill supposed to make you understand … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.We work with different definitions of narcissism. No, we don't. The examples you gave are literally the traits of a narcissist. Men aren't generally excessively preoccupied with their looks, if they were they would wear makeup like women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.So one reason is insecurity ('I'm not good enough as I am'). Another reason is competition ('I must look at least as pretty as others in order to...') Both those things are the traits of a narcissist... So at what point are women responsible for their behaviour? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:05 AM |
| -2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Isn't one of the traits of narcissism a preoccupation with one's looks? Aren't many women preoccupied with their looks? Isn't another trait seeing yourself as special? And don't women see themselves as special when they expect someone else to pay for food that they're going to eat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I do not like wearing makeup at all. I like myself more without it. So why wear it? Are you a slave to other people's expectations? You do a lot of things because of expectations as well. We all do that, and a lot of it is done subconsciously. Either way, at some point don't you think its necessary to take responsibility for your behaviour and beliefs, even if they came from society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 08:45 AM |
| -1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Then please enlighten me.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Yeah, that's unfortunate for those guys. But the real men see through it all and don't even bother chasing women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.That so nice and considerate of you to expect to be paid for on the first date but being mature enough to pay on the second. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Would another of those traits be a preoccupation with your looks and wanting to be treated special coz you're so important? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.At some point people have to take responsibility for their behaviour and stop blaming society. The reality is you like wearing makeup, so being expected to do it isn't really a big deal, since you'd do it anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.All of this information can attest to the fact that women are in control of the dating market. They're only in control coz men let them. If men weren't thirsty for sex, women would have no power over them at all because that's all most offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:25 AM |
| 3 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.That is so dumb. So either he pays for you or you just don't even put in effort? I'm guessing you only go on dates for the payment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.If you actually read my post you'd know that I was clearly joking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.The money to pay for the date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.One of the traits of narcissists is a preoccupation with your looks. Makeup is an expression of that. Wearing makeup isn't a real interest that defines women, or atleast it shouldn't be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Enough to know how not to be used by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.She can't use a date for free meals if I let her pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.and you’re now being judged on your other traits, qualities and actions. And what is she bringing to the table, that allows her to be so judgemental? Beyond sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Not very because I let them pay for themselves. If I didn't, the answer would be different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Women have been conditioned and socially learned to look good, and been told that “men are visual”, “women’s value come from youth and beauty” At what point are women responsible for their behaviour and their beliefs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I’d say the number of women just going on dates with men just for the free meal is small and they exist mainly in the online dating world. How can it be small when like you, said you’re being judged on your ability to provide? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:57 AM |
| 5 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.But the women being referred to in the post are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.So we should pay for women on dates and treat them special until they've achieved equality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Expecting someone to pay for you on a date is having an inflated sense of self. Thats where the entitlement comes from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:48 AM |
| 5 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.What does it mean then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:40 AM |
| 5 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Men who expect women to split the bill are cheap. But women who don't want to even pay for their own food aren't? I always split the bill on the first date but I would never accept a second date from someone who didn’t at least offer to pay the whole thing. That's narcissism, my post is about women like you. The men who let you pay are very lucky because atleast you'll leave them alone and won't use them. Letting women pay for their own food is a great way of weeding out the narcissists. I highl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Not really, you just disagree with what I'm saying but can't actually counter the points being made. I don't see how not expecting people to pay for my food is high school mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:26 AM |
| 6 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Men who expect women to sleep with them are usually the kind of men who think their role is to pay for dates. Expecting sex is them expecting something in return for their money, its only natural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.at the end of the day your post said women are narcissist if they expect men to pay, but I say that's perfectly normal Unfortunately we live in a world where narcissism is normal, and for women it's even encouraged, by people like you. since men are asking women to go on dates with them Being asked on a date doesn't mean you have to expect that someone is gonna pay for you. Only narcissists would expect that. you're trying to flip it by saying well a girl asked me out and I still paid, but it do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Okay, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I wanna go to this restaurant" she's just using you, She actually offered to pay and I chose to just get separate orders instead. The first time she asked me out, she actually paid. But okay. You pay for the date because you're a simp. If you weren't, you wouldnt bother chasing them in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.if a girl asks to hang out I would just invite her to my place or hangout at the beach or something Yeah, sometimes they already have a place in mind, like a restaurant. I'm not gonna insist she come to my place. and like I said 90% of he time the guy is asking the girl, exception not the rule That doesn't change anything I'm saying. Expecting someone to spend money on you is narcissistic regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.No, because of their behaviour, especially when it comes to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:40 AM |
| 8 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.In what ways, for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:39 AM |
| 5 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.men need to do more to impress. Only simps do. Real men know there is no need to impress anyone, let alone some woman they're tryna sleep with. Also, the only power women have in the dating market is the power men give them, without that, they have none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:33 AM |
| 3 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.A girl recently asked me out and I didn't expect her to pay for me because doing that seemed ridiculous. Only narcissists expect to be paid for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Maybe they are increasing their chances of getting laid…or maybe they do really like her! You said it yourself, men are thirsty. So they pay to increase either their chances of getting laid or of her liking them. It’s in their nature. Not really. It's mostly just social conditioning, going back to their mother. Because men want women (or at least sex with them) more than women want sex with men, This jsnt really true either. Both men and women want sex, its that just men are conditioned to be mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:29 AM |
| 5 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Imagine that a woman has 3 men who would like to date her. Man 1 and man 2 both pay. Man 3 does not pay. This is a good indicator that man 1 and man 2 are more into her than man 3. Not necessarily a perfect indicator but a decent one. Men 1 and 2 only paid to increase their chances of getting laid. It doesn't mean they actually care about her as a human being. Man 3 is actually smart and weeding out the narcissists by not paying. And yes, women indicate interest by showing up. Because men are id… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:09 AM |
| 6 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.so STOP DATING THEM. There's so many of them that it's hard to avoid them. Thanks for the advice though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:57 AM |
| 5 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.How do you know what I think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:55 AM |
| 6 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.In the world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Well because as a man who's attracted to women, I unfortunately have to deal with some of these narcissists. Thanks for asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:53 AM |
| 6 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.It means he is putting his best foot forward to impress her So if a woman expects a man to pay, that means the man is putting his best foot forward? How does that make any sense? And how does the woman show she's serious about investing in the relationship? By showing up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:51 AM |
| 5 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.It all depends on what the expectation is. If I expect people to treat me as if I'm somehow special, then I'm a narcissist . If I expect people to not cause me harm and to leave me alone then I'm just a sane human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:49 AM |
| 5 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.It's both. Entitlement is based on narcisism, you should know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:29 AM |
| 6 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.You're proving the point of my post. I bet you can't because she will most likely ghost you. Exactly. And yet women still expect men to pay, because you're narcissists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:27 AM |
| 5 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.No, I didn't mind paying because I accepted the invite and I also wanted to hang out with her. Expecting someone to pay because they asked you out is gross behaviour and a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:25 AM |
| 7 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Like what for example? I'm saying a woman asked me out and I didn't expect her to pay just because she asked me out, so what's your point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:21 AM |
| 5 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.What are the traits of a narcissist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:19 AM |
| 6 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.What does this have to do with my comment? I'm confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:12 AM |
| – | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.It's not really a fit. It's a simple observation: if you expect people to spend money on you, you're a narcissist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:08 AM |
| – | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.It's just a true observation, that's why it triggers you. Even when women ask me out I still don't expect them to pay because I'm not a narcissist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.No I think it's idiotic to use narcissism as a baseline insult rather than actually reading the literature about it. It's more of an observation than an insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:56 AM |
| 10 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I'm just calling out narcissists and the idiots that enable them (traditional men). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:54 AM |
| – | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I'd argue maybe they're a little naive or willfully ignorant That's being a dummy. they're not bad people No, many idiots are actually nice people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:54 AM |
| 9 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.No, the narcissist is obviously the one who expects others to spend money on them just because they're a woman. I've been asked out by women before and still didn't expect them to pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:52 AM |
| 14 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Not really. I got asked out recently and the idea of expecting her to pay seemed so absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:50 AM |
| 6 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.You're the one letting them pay so they can sleep with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:49 AM |
| -1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.That's like saying angry and being homicidal go together They often do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:49 AM |
| 7 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I'm asking you personally. You let men pay to increase the chances of fucking you. My question is why? You don't have to let them pay, especially since you know their motive, but you let them pay anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:48 AM |
| 10 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Culture is a form of brainwashing that's why people believe many stupid things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:47 AM |
| 8 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I'm from Africa, so what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:44 AM |
| 15 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Traditional men are dummies who get easily manipulated by women. Many end up going through brutal divorces coz they were too focused on worshipping their wife, they couldn't see her true nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:41 AM |
| 7 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.The funny thing about your comment is its exactly why women have been discriminated against throughout history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:39 AM |
| 6 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.They go together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:37 AM |
| 9 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.So why should women have equal rights? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:37 AM |
| 9 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.You said men pay because you're so great to be around and because they want to increase their chances of getting laid. So I'm asking, why do men pay to increase their chances of you fucking them? And what's so great about you as a person that makes men want to pay to be around you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:36 AM |
| 12 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.A traditional man would happily pay. Traditional men are kind of idiotic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:33 AM |
| 15 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Don't you think the intelligent thing to do when you're an adult is to question why men have to pay, if you're both equal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Yes Don't you think it's idiotic to want to go back to a time when women had less rights? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:31 AM |
| 6 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:19 AM |
| 9 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I suppose traditionalists like the comfort of the way things used to be. Like women not being allowed to work and stuff? I wouldn't call these people idiots I would though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:19 AM |
| 12 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.And why do you think they paid? Because you are so great to be around? Or because they know it increases their chances of getting laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:17 AM |
| 17 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I would argue that men paying is a hold over from the day when women had little to no means to earn money. It's 2023. Any woman who insists on men paying because women couldn't earn money in the past is an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:08 AM |
| – | At this point in time women already have complete psychological control over men.I am a professional and my social and professional circle is filled with women who do very important work I never said women can't do that work. The mental capacity being referred to in the quote in the post is not about being a vet or whatever other jobs women do. Also, the quote about women letting their mental capacity disintegrate was written by a woman. So you know, try not to need any medical services because you may have to trust one of us females who are only good for sex lol When someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:16 PM |
| 0 | At this point in time women already have complete psychological control over men.People can choose to put an asterix on their edited comment, or they can choose not to. I often don't put an asterix on my edited comments but sure, okay. Is there an asterix on my previous comment which I just edited? Or this one for that matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:10 AM |
| – | At this point in time women already have complete psychological control over men.Uhhh she just listed a whole bunch of professions that create significant social value and personal insight Yeah, after she'd seen what I had commented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:40 AM |
| -1 | At this point in time women already have complete psychological control over men.Women do what celebrities do... But at the end of the day, who do the male celebrities do it for? Women. Makeup, fashion, etc. is about women doing what the higher class of women and men tell them to do. Makeup and fashion are basically hobbies for women, and a way of attracting a provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:38 PM |
| -3 | At this point in time women already have complete psychological control over men.You're saying that women are let down and have power over their intellect and lives taken away and that's women's fault? When did I say any of this? I'm not even sure what you're trying to say. Why would women want their huge and varied potential to be reduced to sex? That's a question to ask women. But one answer is that because they don't need to have huge and varied potential to survive because they can find men to be providers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Sounds like some didn't actually read the post they're commenting on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:33 PM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.A woman is content on her own. This just isn't true. Women need attention and external validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:32 PM |
| – | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Men have a hidden feminine side in them and women have a hidden masculine side in them too.I would only refute it if I genuinely disagree with it. Otherwise refuting it makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Men have a hidden feminine side in them and women have a hidden masculine side in them too."Feminine energy refers to a specific set of traits, considered to be the opposite of traits associated with masculine energy." Source: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/what-is-feminine-energy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:56 PM |
| 0 | Men have a hidden feminine side in them and women have a hidden masculine side in them too.Women are not feminine, and men are not masculine. They aren't? men and women are not polar opposites In terms of energy they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Men have a hidden feminine side in them and women have a hidden masculine side in them too.Why would I refute it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Men have a hidden feminine side in them and women have a hidden masculine side in them too.Assuming that because you are a combination of your father and mother implies you have masculine and feminine “energy” is completely fallacious. No it isn't. It makes perfect sense. Men are physically bigger than women because our evolutionary role is to kill animals and other men. You're talking about the physical and I'm talking about energy. There's a big difference between the two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Men have a hidden feminine side in them and women have a hidden masculine side in them too.Go back to biology 101. Didn't you come from both your mother and father? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:19 PM |
| 7 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsSo you have sex in exchange for money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:29 AM |
| 4 | A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sexWhy do you act as if girls on dating apps don't also exist in the real world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Grown men offer. Be an adult. These double standards are why there won't be true equality anytime soon. The ironic thing is you have nothing to offer except sex, that's why you want to get free food for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:08 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.fuck you for a big mac really shows how pathetic you are 🤮. Dude, anyone who wants payment for their time on a date is no better than a prostitute. It doesn't matter how you feel about it, that's the reality. So we’re whores and or prostitutes then. If you want to get payment for sex then obviously. That's literally the definition of a prostitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:07 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Why should it be free with all the risk women take on, Because you're not a prostitute...unless ofcourse you are. In which case, never mind. EVERYONE can charge for their time if they want to. Prostitutes do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 02:40 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.I can buy my own silly Then do it and stop expecting guys to do it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 02:35 AM |
| 2 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Would you ask the perfect girl of your dreams to go half on the first date? Yeah. The woman of my dreams is intelligent and independent so she wouldn't mind paying for food that she's going to eat. Her main interest is in connecting with me, not free food. But culturally it's a pretty universal symbol that a guy pays for y'all's hangouts at first when he wants to indicate that he truly likes you. Again, men only pay to increase the chances of getting laid or getting another date. If the guy was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 12:44 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Okay, but you're atleast aware that not paying is a deal breaker for some women, right? You don't even have to look further than the comments left by women on this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.You’re selfish, entitled and too poor to date You're the one who has a problem with paying for food going into your own mouth, so clearly you're the cheap and entitled one. It's just that you have no self awareness to see it. You’re a JON sp seek a woman who charges by the hour. So a woman like you then? Also, please tell me what responsibility comes with sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:47 PM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.You want cheap, easy sex with the illusion that you’re desired. Why should sex be expensive, unless you're a prostitute or something? The problem is you want to be put on a pedestal just because you're a girl, and yet you have nothing to offer besides the same thing that every girl offers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Well, that depends on a guy's taste because he will have to pay either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:42 PM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.What grown woman in the United States doesn't know that him paying means he's buying you for the night? Read the comments from women in this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.I'm going to assume he's just not that into me. Exactly. For the reasons I mentioned in the post. You're only interested in money. Most men would never ever let their dream woman pay on a date, The only reason they pay is because they know that payment is your main interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:36 PM |
| 0 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.And if he’s willing to pay for a date in exchange for sex he’s fair game to be taken advantage of. So they go on dates with guys just to use them for free food? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Right, okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:28 AM |
| 0 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.I can see you like being condescending by your question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:23 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.It's a generalisation, which is generally true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:15 AM |
| 0 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.If that's what you think it says then you should re-read it. The title literally says it increases the chances of getting laid, not that it makes her more attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:05 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Many men claim they want other things They might but in reality most girls don't have much else to offer so as a guy you have no choice but to settle for sex. And most men don’t assume the only reason a woman is interested is money. It generally is though, that's why it's a big deal for them when a guy doesn't pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:03 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.I have never paid for a whole date ever, always split, never had any problem. Okay, but I'm sure you know there other people in the world who've had different experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 10:56 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.I know why men pay because I'm a man and I know men and how they think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 10:02 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Yeah, but that doesn't change what I'm saying so you're not adding anything with your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:36 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Okay, but that doesn't change the point being made in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:31 AM |
| 2 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.You paying for dinner doesn't make her any more attracted then before. Nobody said it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 08:17 AM |
| 3 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.That's untrue. For you maybe, but many men have had that experience. Most don't mind it lol. They do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 08:16 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.I mean interest in the sense that she put in effort to atleast meet up with you in the first place, if there wasn't that initial interest, she would have said no to the date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 06:16 AM |
| 2 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Paying will only increase your chances That's what the post says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 06:08 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 06:04 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Thanks for your input. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 06:04 AM |
| 5 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.who thought he could get me to prostitute myself for dinner. Plenty of girls do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 05:37 AM |
| 3 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Well stop dating I did, but I can still make observations about the dating world if I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 03:09 AM |
| 4 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Exactly! It's so obvious, but most men don't seem to get it. And if she loses interest because you didn't pay, she wasn't worth it in the first plays because she's shallow and vapid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:59 AM |
| 4 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Many of them after a year without sex seem to fall apart from crippling loneliness then develop delusional entitled belief systems. That's biological programming made worse by the fact that sex is the only thing most girls have to offer, that's why they want to be paid for it (indirectly). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:28 AM |
| 3 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Atleast they're independent and not entitled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:12 AM |
| 0 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.I feel sorry for men who still chase women and think they're the prize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:08 AM |
| 2 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.But it's the same principle. You invite, you pay. Only if you're weak and afraid she'll lose interest if you don't. I'm beginning to get a picture of what's going on now. Okay, if you say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:05 AM |
| 2 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Awareness to see what? That your comments are proving my post right. That men have consistency asked me out and paid? Again, they paid because they know your primary interest in them is money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:04 AM |
| 2 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.There's really nothing to see. Because you don't have enough awareness to see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:53 AM |
| 3 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.A party is not the same thing as grabbing lunch or a cup of coffee with someone. Also, most parties I go to people bring their own drinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:53 AM |
| 7 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.The consequence of that is that part of me deciding whether or not to accept a date includes weighing whether or not I feel it,s worth my time AND money to take a chance on a stranger. Why would you go on any date if it isn't worth your time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:52 AM |
| 3 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.More broadly, I think a lot of men take it as a kind of ritual for communicating romantic/sexual interest of some form, with the woman allowing it meaning "I'm interested in your attention" and not allowing it meaning "I'm not interested." Showing interest by allowing someone to spend money on you? That's amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:51 AM |
| 3 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.The money involved is irrelevant so I don't even bother thinking about it. It's obviously relevant since you're basically afraid to not pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:50 AM |
| 5 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.The funny thing is all your comments are proving my post right. You just don't have enough self awareness to see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:49 AM |
| 3 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.That's not a good example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:47 AM |
| 4 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.But you said, "maybe I should think about it." So I thought you were prepared to convince me as to why. Well, you're spending money on girls who have no interest in you. That's not a wise thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:35 AM |
| 3 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Yes, but not because he didn't pay. No, it's precisely because he didn't pay. And you're so entitled you think he should. You've basically turned yourself into a thing to be paid for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:27 AM |
| 5 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Well, it's your money so if you don't want to question it there's no need to convince you to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:26 AM |
| 8 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.You're nothing to her yet and she's got coffee at home This is so dumb. If she isn't interested in meeting up then just don't meet up. It's so simple. Women aren't doing you a favour by agreeing to go on a date with you, its meant to be mutual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:25 AM |
| 3 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Why? It's not even worth the hassle to think about it - just pay and move on. Maybe you should think about it a bit... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:13 AM |
| 3 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Mrs. Manners says the invitor (whoever asks) pays for the invitee (who gets asked). The reality is it's men who generally take the initiative. And an adult who agrees to meet up with another adult should have no problem with paying for food going in their own mouth. If you don't want to meet up then don't. But if you do don't be entitled by expecting to be paid for, that's gross behaviour. And really, a man paying has really no impact on if I decide to sleep with him. It doesn't matter. The poin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:11 AM |
| – | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.You're so absurd I don't even know what to say to you. You think if someone loves their mum then they should fuck them? Wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:05 AM |
| – | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.You ask retarded questions which make nobody take you seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".If you can use Mein Kampf to make a point, I'd love to hear it. So go ahead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 03:59 AM |
| – | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Your response has nothing to do with the comment you're responding to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".I don't think you understand the concept of using an example to illustrate a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 01:27 AM |
| – | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.It isn't, but I'm aware that you don't understand this stuff so okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 01:26 AM |
| – | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.You're either making an effort to not understand what is being said, or you're just incapable of understanding it (at this point in your development atleast). Also, marriage has nothing to do with love. I assume you love your dad , are you gonna marry him? See how idiotic that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".I've been expected to work for them, think for them and take on thier responsibilities. I find it hard to believe that you would choose to be with a man like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:54 PM |
| – | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.still feel light headed when he touches me I find that hard to believe but that's nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".It's not just conservative women who think like this actually. But you're right about men not learning stuff like folding laundry and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".Thought you all wanted to lead and be the head of the family and the final voice of authority on everything while the women stayed quiet and agreeable and feminine? I'm not sure why you're asking me, I never said I wanted to lead anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".Who are you talking about when you say "you guys"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".Being the provider, being the "leader" and the one who takes charge and responsibility and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 07:03 AM |
| 3 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".Typically the mom does the bulk of the child rearing, Yeah, that's basically what I said in my original comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".What do you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 06:55 AM |
| 4 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".So women spend the most time raising who’s kids? Theirs. Is raising kids a form of work? Not really. It's a natural part of having kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 06:49 AM |
| 5 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".THIS is the self victimization, the belief that the reality is men are being exploited by women. Okay then, if you say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 06:42 AM |
| 0 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".It's not an idea, it's the reality. There's even a book that was written about by a woman, and its called 'The Manipulated Man'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".and if you believe that your “team” ie. the people you’re speaking for and are a part of are being exploited, then you’re victimizing yourself. Just because someone is a man doesn't mean they are my "team". Thats a silly way of looking at things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 06:32 AM |
| 6 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".like, I enjoy being relied on by a girl, I enjoy being leaned on and trusted to get things done - and i’m sure many guys feel that way too. Because they've been programmed to feel that way. What you call being "relied on" is basically being used, but you don't see it that way because you like it. Also can’t get over your use of “exploitation” here - like at least try to hide the self-victimization It has nothing to do with that. Being used by another person is a form of exploitation. The post is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 06:20 AM |
| 4 | Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities, and they call this "masculinity".You are assuming this idea is dictated by women to men, It generally is since its women who spend the most time raising children and conditioning them to behave a certain way when they grow up. Weird post. Okay, so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.If it were the default then the world would be a very different place because it would be full of people who were loved unconditionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.My best friend from high school has accumulated 3 DUIs in six years. I’m sorry he has a substance abuse problem, but he continues to put others at risk so I love him less When you say you love him less, what do you mean? Do you love him 20% less or 30% less? What percentage of your love did his DUIs take? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Totally, his moustache was pretty hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.A selfless act isn't about it being unrewarding. It's about doing it regardless of the reward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.The reality is you don't live with those parents so you don't actually know what they're like behind closed doors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Well, they think they do. But observing the real world tells me they don't, otherwise the world would be full of people who were loved unconditionally by their parents, which would influence their behaviour. And yet we live in a violent and insane world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 01:21 PM |
| 0 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Love isn’t required to be unconditional. That's just like saying 2 + 2 isn't required to be 4. You would be technically right in saying this because noone requires it to be 4, but if you add 2 + 2 it still equals 4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.If it's unconditional, then do you feel it for everyone? Yes, it's just that in a "romantic" relationship, that love is reflected more intensely. Its just like how I love both my mum and my girlfriend, but i express my love for my girlfriend in a different way than I do my mum, but its the same love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Like I said, it could go either way because it depends on the people involved in the relationship. Some people break up, and they still love each other and still communicate even after the break up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Unconditional love only happens between parents and children. I hate to break it to you but, most parents don't even love their kids unconditionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:52 PM |
| 0 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.If a woman jumps into a freezing river to save a kid’s dog, she’s going to feel good about herself for ensuring the kid’s happiness. Yeah, but that's after the fact. The point is, she isn't jumping into a freezing river because of how she'll feel after saving the dog, she's just doing it because it's the right thing to do. The feeling she gets after doing it is just a bonus, but it's not the reason she saved the dog. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:49 PM |
| -2 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Generally speaking, most people's "love" isn't real, so in your scenario, it could go either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.All of what you mentioned is based on what you get out of it. How is that selfless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:45 PM |
| -4 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Relationships still have love, it is just not unconditional. I'm sure I'll get downvoted to hell for saying this but, if it isn't unconditional then it isn't love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:04 PM |
| -2 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.How exactly is that selfless? It isn't because it isn't love. That's my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:03 PM |
| 0 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Well, real love is selfless, and something transcational isn't selfless, it's a transaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:56 AM |
| 0 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.What is the girl getting out of this? Obviously she doesn't see the guys as an unattractive and broke loser. Why would any girl be with a guy she thinks is an unattractive loser? Also, what you just described isnt the average relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:52 AM |
| -4 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Or perhaps it’s just that “real love” itself is transactional/conditional in nature? Real love isn't transactional. It's the opposite of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:50 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.When a woman shaves her legs and underarms is that part of grooming? What about when women curl, flat iron, or blow dry their hair? Grooming or not grooming? Men don’t have to shave their legs, but I’m guessing you’d have an issue if your date showed up with exposed hairy legs. Look, all I'm telling you is you don't need makeup to be well groomed. If you insist that you do then that's on you. men don’t want them to because they want better access to sex. If you let a man pay and you know what's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 03:15 AM |
| -1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.They really aren’t though. Just lookup tips on how to be well groomed as a woman, and almost every site will mention makeup. It doesn't matter what some website says. Makeup isn't part of grooming, otherwise men would never be well groomed because they don't wear it. You have to drop the double standards. Even Federal Appellate Court have held that makeup was part of women’s grooming. True or not, that's ridiculous. And if it is true, why don't women stand up against this stuff? If I just put in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 02:20 AM |
| -1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.women are supposed to show up as the most groomed and attractive version of themselves. Grooming and make up are 2 different things. You don't need makeup to be well groomed and look attractive. The reality is you probably like wearing makeup and so you don't mind wearing it for a date. So this is a fake complaint. Also men believe that paying for dates gives them leverage and in some cases, obligates women to have sex. Yeah, because they've just spent money on you, so naturally they expect to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 01:07 AM |
| 2 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.Regular men don't just hand women money because they ask. Yeah, that's why I never said this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 12:41 AM |
| -1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.I told him I preferred to pay for myself because then I wouldn’t be obligated to spend all that time getting ready You're obligated to spend time putting on makeup? By who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 12:31 AM |
| 0 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.Where did you get the idea that this is happening regularly? If you reread what I wrote you'll notice that I said, if you have no money, your boyfriend will give it to you, but the reverse rarely happens. I didnt anything about getting it regularly. I'm not exempt from being a provider. It's generally men who are expected to provide. The post isn't about you specifically, it's about women in general. so this point means nothing. It definitely means something to men in countries where drafting ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.Because in the next breath, you're telling women they will die alone with their cats. When did I say this? You're responding to my post with a comment that has nothing to do with the content of my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 03:31 PM |
| -1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.If she's lazy and boring, no man is gonna bother unless he's desperate Or unless he finds her physically attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 02:58 PM |
| -4 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you. Don't go moving the goalposts now honey How am I moving goal posts? You said I made up the post, but if women like that exist in reality, how is that made up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 02:39 PM |
| -1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.Would you like to be "led" and let a woman take control of your life and decisions? No, but women are willing to let a man lead them and do all that stuff, thats my point. My boyfriend doesn't randomly give me money either lol but good to know I never said he does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 02:37 PM |
| -3 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.You're right, the idea that a woman can be uninteresting and still find a provider is completely made up. No such thing has ever happened in human history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 01:29 PM |
| -1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.This isn't my experience at all. But you know that other people have had different experiences though, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 11:47 AM |
| -7 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.The overwhelming majority of women aren't stay at home moms, and most don't even want that. I said women have accepted it, meaning through out history. and most don't even want that. Many do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.don’t want a dependency, I want a true partnership, A true patnership is when people walk together, not one leading the other. The one being led is basically using the leader. I am looking for a great man that I can trust to lead me. This is how so many women get misled. It's a sad mentality but a slave who doesn't mind being a slave is at least content, so good for you. Someone who is worthy of being followed Noone is worthy of being followed, stop saying nonsense like this. I guarantee you tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Welcome to the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.It’s gross to frame the woman as a child if he’s having sex with her. Many adults are children mentally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Cooking, cleaning, child rearing, and sex (in a traditional relationship) are all provided by her. And the man pays for it by being the provider and taking charge and being the "leader" and by taking care of his adult child wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.I am not a child mentally. I basically came from nothing, I had a mean alcoholic ex-felon stepdad and dysfunctional home life. We were around a lot of addiction and poor decision making. Nobody was investing in our futures. I had to figure things out on my own. I put myself through an elite university, I'm the only person I know from my college that has a background like mine. I talk about it extensively in another comment that I will link. I also put myself through professional school and gradu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Your main interest in women is purely sexual that's why you're saying this nonsense and can't see clearly. Good luck to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.I am in awe of their bodies Exactly. It all comes down to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.What prompted this post? The quote by Esther Vilar that I shared in the post, and her whole book basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.I am married five years, I'm sorry to hear that. and I am more awe struck by pussy each day. That's just ridiculous. and awe towards women. What are you in awe of when it comes to women, Besides sex stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.do you have any information on their education level? I don't have to. If their mental level was beyond being provided for and cooking and cleaning, they wouldn't do it and would pursue their desires. But jnstead, they "sacrifice" their desires to get some guy to provide for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.You've never heard of stay at home mothers and women who want providers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Yeah, you don't know women. No man who actually knows them says that nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Well, if someone is content to give up their freedom and independence to do something, it's clear that doing that thing is where their mental level is at otherwise they wouldn't choose to do it while depending on a man to provide for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.I want to treat him like he's special too. So how do you treat him like he's special? the man being the protector and provider tracks with the way I've learned it. What do you need to be protected from? It seems you're a child mentally so maybe you do need an adult to provide for you and protect you. I was like OMG, faints, so attractive. Yeah, it's so attractive when the woman was completely ignorant of the emergency happening to her dad. I also like this dynamic sexually, where the guy takes c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:57 AM |
| 1 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.Yeah, they're special alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Women are superior. To an idiot that doesn't actually know women they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:41 AM |
| 0 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.men wouldn’t be complaining about women being entitled and not needing them I've never heard any man complain that women don't need him, unless he wants to get used because that's what happens when women "need" you. I've heard men complain about not getting laid, but not about being needed by women. Also, may women are entitled. If expecting to be treated special and having a man pay for you isn't entitlement then I don't know what is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:08 AM |
| 0 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Yeah most women don't want that. Many women than you think do. Even the ones who say they don't want that wouldn't mind having a man provide for them and take charge, that's why it's a turn off for so many women when a man let's them pay for their own stuff on a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.You're say this on a thread where there are women literally saying they want to be provided for and led because that's what masculinity is. And it does benefit them, because they get to not take responsibility and just live a material life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Because women love getting an allowance from hubby like an 8 year old. Way more women than you think actually don't mind this arrangement. To them real masculinity is when a man provides for them, leads them and basically takes responsibility so they don't have to. And real femininity is accepting this treatment. Honestly you just sound jealous no woman wants to be a breadwinner for you. It's absurd for me as a man who values freedom to be jealous of women who don't care about freedom as long as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.I like being free and independent, women don't seem to want that so no, I'm okay with being a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.. I don't go back and forth with men. Because you can't defend your position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Why are you completely ignoring the interpersonal communication between the two people who made the decision to set their family and lifestyle up like this? Their mental level dictates what their interpersonal communication is like and what decisions they make. And some women decide to be provided for and be led by another idiot who happens to be a man, simply because he's a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Do we all want a man to provide for us or are we all career obsessed cat ladies? You can pretend that no women want a provider if you like. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:44 AM |
| -1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Read some comments in this thread to begin with, and then after that just talk to the average woman about it and see what they say. Believe it or not, in 2023 skme women still want to be provided for by a man, and they find this empowering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.This is masculinity IMO You only say this because you benefit from this type of "masculinity". pretty much all the women I know want and are attracted to a masculine man. They know nothing about masculine men. To them masculinity is when a man provides for them treats them like they're special. Women know nothing about masculinity. That woman in her masculine energy is going to lose respect for her feminine energy man. You don't understand what feminine energy and masculinity energy are and what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Slow clap for using a quote published 50 years ago 50 years later, things aren't that different. Although you're free to pretend they are. Women still want providers and the man to lead and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.And yet still want a provider, strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Everyone has choices. What I'm saying is nobody presents you with those choices on a silver platter, you have to make them yourself. Just like generally noone presents you with a job, you have to look for it. I'm not sure what genius would disagree with this simple fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:15 AM |
| -6 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Women are aware that marriage to a conservative man means they trade freedom for a lifetime of domestic service to the family and servitude to a husband who pays the bulk of the bills. I know. My point is they don't really mind this deal because they're not really interested in freedom in the first place. They'd much rather be provided for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 03:08 PM |
| -1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.I didn't know making an observation about gender on a sub about gender debate was whining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 01:46 PM |
| -1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Women are fully capable of being independent. Yeah, that's basically what I said if you read my comment again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 01:41 PM |
| -3 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.It's very telling that you think cleaning and cooking is a "mental level" as opposed to a life necessity. It's a life necessity but trading your freedom and independence by staying home and cooking in return for being provided for requires a certain mental level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 01:35 PM |
| -2 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.men still are not able to give birth and nurse babies. Well, apparently they can if you google it. Also, giving birth isn't a reason to want someone to provide for you and take responsibility for you and your life by leading you you and taking charge. Giving birth isn't a disability. If women are exactly the same as men, why are you attracted to women and not to men? This has nothing to do with my post. Having a vagina and boobs doesn't make someone incapable of being independent. Edit: I guess … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Women give birth. Women could not hunt because they're scared of danger and not strong. Men can hunt because they're strong and less scared of danger. Men provided for women in exchange for sex/passing on their genes. Thank God it's now 2023 not the cave man days. Women want to be provided for because historically, men were the only ones able to take down big prey and women are biologically inclined to avoid danger due to pregnancy. So because things happened in the past we have to keep treating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 01:06 PM |
| – | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.They keep the species alive. Only women keep the species alive? What does that even mean? You would be worried if they didn't give a shit about resources Not if I'm an adult who can provide for himself. But I'm a man so maybe I have some advantage that women don't have that makes me more capable of providing for my self and being independent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 12:47 PM |
| – | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.but you act as though this is a simple task. It can't be that complicated otherwise they wouldn't prefer to do it over providing for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 12:44 PM |
| 0 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.Stay at home parents are just as valuable as their working counterparts. I'm just telling you how the world actually works. There is a reason why the idea of a stay at home dad is mostly frowned upon The fact that you can't separate the value of a person from their monetary contribution is a you problem. It's not about me, it's about society. I'm just pointing out how it works. Women themselves are interested in men's monetary contribution, its one the main things that matter to them, because th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.I think you need to read the post before you reply because your comments add nothing to the discussion. It's just silly rhetorical questions that aren't even relevant because the post isn't about me personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 12:31 AM |
| 0 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.If you think dinner is enough to raise that woman's body count, what are you thinking about the value of that woman? It doesn't matter what I think. The fact is to some women not paying is a turn off, and you only find out who they are when you don't pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 12:24 AM |
| 0 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.My husband doesn't see me as a dumb child but as a partner who is providing to our family something he can't. The truth is is you'll never really know how someone actually sees you. And as long as someone is providing for you, they will feel better than you in some way. Money is a symbol of status for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 12:09 AM |
| -2 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.It's a mature trait Which women are not expected to have because they are not held to the same standard. I believe some men find accomplishment and purpose on being a provider, Because they're idiots who were raised by women who conditioned them to be idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 04:59 PM |
| 2 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.I agreed with you until your last sentence. Why would you take it out of context? I was talking about the 1900's, clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 04:56 PM |
| 0 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.Men are providers, women are caretakers. This is my point. As long as people think this, woman will never be seen as equal. If a man chooses to provide for some women who needs a provider, he will only do it because he gets something out of it. He'll play the provider and she will serve him, which is what has happened throughout history and led to feminism. The only people who get provided for are children and women. And nobody really looks up to someone they have to provide for. Just because th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 04:18 PM |
| 1 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.You don't discuss dates upfront before going on them? I don't discuss payment, just like I don't discuss payment with my friends. I find it strange that this is new to you. Most normal men don't discuss payment when they're setting up a date. But maybe where you live is completely different so this is all new to you somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 04:12 PM |
| 0 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.and we should not be punished as a gender and treated as unequal just because of something patriarchy put in place to begin with. It's not about being punished and it's not about blaming the patriarchy. I mean we have sayings like "behind every powerful man is a powerful woman" for a reason. Historically women have spent more time rasing boys than men have so they're also responsible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 03:22 PM |
| 0 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.Either you just don't understand human nature or you're being disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 02:53 PM |
| -1 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.Use your words...? Okay. And what do you say and in what context? Common sense should tell you that to find out whether a woman expects you to pay or not, you'd generally have to go on a date with her. Unless you're psychic or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 02:48 PM |
| 2 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.No, but it does mean equally taking responsibility for our lives and being independent, whether or not you have boobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.But unfortunately, sometimes if a guy doesn’t at least offer to pay it can be a sign he’s got a chip on his shoulder or isn’t that interested. See, if you were grabbing lunch or coffee with another woman, would you expect her to atleast offer to pay? Probably not. If she offers, that's great and if she doesn't, who cares, right? So why shouldn't the same apply to men? These double standards get in the way of true equality. it can be a sign he’s got a chip on his shoulder or isn’t that interested… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 02:15 PM |
| – | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.just avoid dating women who suck? How do you know which woman expects you to pay and all that unless you go on a date with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 01:36 PM |
| 2 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.Unfortunately I ALWAYS HAD TO LIVE on my own working class salary Yeah, you and almost everyone else. None of what you're saying changes the point being made. And then they come to Reddit to complain that women are tOo EnTiTlEd You don't think expecting to be treated as a queen just because of your gender is being too entitled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 01:33 PM |
| 2 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.The man might pay for a date because he thinks it will make him a better date and more likely that it will lead to sex, not because the woman doesn’t have her own money or is asking him to. The reality is since a large number of women see a man not paying for the date as a red flag, most men will just pay to increase their chances of getting laid or getting her to like him or whatever because for men to not pay is generally frowned upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 01:28 PM |
| 0 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.The post isn't about me or my dating life. It's about the world in general so your comment adds nothing to the discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 11:00 AM |
| -1 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.It's funny how everything PPD dudes don't like is just social programming and everything they want to believe is fact is biology/nature. Things like women expecting men to pay for dates and being preoccupied with their appearance are definitely social conditioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 10:29 AM |
| 3 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.That doesn't make what I'm saying not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 10:06 AM |
| 6 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.Yeah, and I'm saying as long as those norms are blindly followed, there'll be no true equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 09:57 AM |
| 3 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.Did men decide that? Yeah, some did. Especially those who were in power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 09:25 AM |
| 2 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.If only some women want to be treated special just because they are women, could you not agree that some men expect women to be transactional and perform for them. This is actually what happens in a lot of cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 09:23 AM |
| 1 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.We've come this far often in spite of all the men who want to be treated special just because they're men (for example, being treated as protectors and providers and all that), The interesting thing about that is believe it or not, some women actually expect a man to play that role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 09:23 AM |
| 18 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.We’ll never have equality while men think they can purchase or rent women for their use. Some women allow themselves to be purchased and used, in the west at least. Edit: I guess all the geniuses downvoting this fact have never heard of onlyfans and women having sex with guys in exchange for money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 07:58 AM |
| -6 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.It is more complex than that. It's not that complicated. It mostly comes down to social and psychological conditioning (nurture) more than nature. how should society compensate women for their greater reproductive costs? It's not about any of that. All this stuff about reproduction costs has nothing to do with it. If you make everything but reproduction genderless and totally equal, it seems like men come out ahead. Why do you think that is? It's because women are conditioned to be preoccupied w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 07:57 AM |
| 5 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.It goes both ways. We both know that atleast some women want to be treated like queens and expect men to pay for dates and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 07:46 AM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.Well , you can think that if you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 01:38 AM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.Yeah, okay. Let's just pretend that everyone has had the same experience as you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:37 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.Okay, but i think you can atleast agree that there are other people out there who have had different experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:33 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.but also that you don't use women, lie to them, or objectify them. This is my point, why do you have to tell them to not use or lie to women specifically? Why not teach them to not objectify, use or lie to anyone, and not specifically women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:32 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.Most men would rather have sex with an unattractive woman than go home and be alone. Yeah, that's true. And it's all part of the conditioning the post is talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:30 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.It seems like you're making no effort to get what I'm saying. Being raised to think something is the same as being conditioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 04:25 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.The post is about women being special, that's why I was pointing out that's its not so black and white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 04:24 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.You're missing the point. It doesn't matter why they can't cook. The point is they've been conditioned to think they need a woman, in the form of a girlfriend or wife to do it for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 04:23 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.My mom never told me to worship women. I'm not saying that mothers literally tell their children to worship women. I'm basically saying that they teach their children that women are special in subtle ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 04:08 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.Are you arguing with the fact that there are men out there who can't cook for themselves and need a woman to do it for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 04:04 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.Are you really telling me that you can't think of anything women do when dating to benefit themselves? You know, things like wanting gifts from men? Or using them for their money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 03:51 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.Plenty of people are kind and generous to others without a direct benefit. At the beginning of dating this isn't the case, or even in general. People are generally self centred whether we want to admit it or not. But single men who behave generously towards attractive women are usually after her attention or her body. Women are not innocent in this whole thing either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 03:48 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.like her. He wants something from her. Men buy women drinks because they hope it will result in sex. Yeah, ofcourse. Everyone basically does things only if they benefit them. In fact, the reason why men think women are special is because of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 03:25 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.Well then that has to work the other way around because there are times when a woman wants to fuck a guy more than he wants to fuck her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 03:08 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.This is so true, I couldn't have said it better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:28 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.It’s because for generations, they decided that was “women’s work.” Yeah, that's true. But that doesn't change the consequences of them deciding that which is what my post is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:18 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.Like what for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:13 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.All of the benefits and none of the responsibilities. Exactly. They only want the upsides of equality but not stuff like having to get drafted and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:03 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.Look at cooking, for example. It used to be seen as one of the ways women could not only conquer men, but please them in a relationship. Isn’t that why you have old sayings like “the quickest way to a man's heart is through his stomach”. This is part of the conditioning passed on by mothers to their sons to make sure that he's not able to cook and take care of himself so he'll get a wife to cook for him. If a man can cook and clean for himself and isn't thirsty, why would he get married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:02 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.Usually, she is special No. because the man wants to have sex with her more than she wants to have sex with him. Then he's with the wrong woman. Also, wanting to fuck someone doesn't make them special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:58 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.but that isn’t actually a real benefit, or even the reality. It's a reality in the sense that women get preferential treatment in some areas of life. benefit, or even the reality. Putting women on a pedestal is a way to control behaviour: it’s only a very small platform, and whether you stay up there or not is entirely dependent on the person who put you there, and the only way you can move is down. If you fall off the pedestal, you’re met with anger and accused of being deceitful. Yeah, this is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:57 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.I think this is a natural inborn preference for women that all human beings seem to have. You don't think this has anything to do with the fact that basically everyone is mostly raised by a woman as a child? In most cases when it comes to human behaviour, it's usually nurture rather than nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:54 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women.Hahah okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 12:33 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women.Why would you ask me to appeal, if you're just going to remove my post anyway for a different reason just because you don't like it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 12:24 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.They choose not to spend time. Women work, too, and still take care of the bulk of child rearing. Well, either way the result is the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women.I'll repost it with more detail when I have time to respond to most comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:47 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women.I wasn't trolling. Their comment had nothing to do with what I wrote in the post. Also, the post is gone anyway so it doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:35 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women.I can tell you didn't actually read the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women.this idea that women somehow raise men to see women as special is weird It's only weird when you haven't spent anytime thinking about it and observing human behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women.That's because they're kids, they obviously don't stay that way forever. The kids who were jerks end up getting married to a wife they refer to as their "better half". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women.There is a difference between teachers in positions of authority and the average woman the kids interact with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 04:00 AM |
| 4 | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women.They don't get special treatment if they're women That's not what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women.I'm just sharing my perspective, I don't really care about the labels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women.I don't really care about what RPers say about anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:48 AM |
| 0 | Women objectify themselves.About certain things it does. You can deny that all you want but there is no reason for chatgpt to lie about stuff to do with women especially since we live in a society where anyone who says anything remotely critical about women is a misogynist. It's right about most things, and it's right about this but you ofcourse will deny that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Women objectify themselves.Well, some people in the comments are saying self objectification isn't a real thing, and others are saying I don't know what it means. In reality, the post was actually mostly written by chatgpt so the content of the post is an objective fact basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Women objectify themselves.So it is a real thing, interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.Right, coz that's exactly what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.Because makeup is a part of self objectification. Every woman who objectifies herself also wears makeup, and women who don't objectify themselves generally don't bother with makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.You should reread it then. If you do you'll also notice that I say some women, not all women. The interesting thing about the post is it started off with me asking chatgpt to write about how women objectify themselves, and the whole post is basically the response I got, so there must be truth to it if even chatgpt says the same thing I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.Again, I don’t wear makeup We're not talking about you specifically, it's a generalization. But it seems like if I put on clothing that looks good on me, you’re saying I’m objectifying myself The point I'm making is that clothes that look good on you can also be used in the self objectification process, just like make up can, just like having big muscles can for guys. But that doesn't mean having muscles by itself is necessarily self objectification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.I don't think people wearing make up do so because they "see themselves as objects for use rather than humans". They do so because they want to appear more attractive than they actually are, which is part of self objectification. the make up I wear is geared towards my preferences, my face, and my goals. It's face paint, how can it be geared to your goals, unless your goals are to look like a clown or something. Also, I don't need to make myself feel better in the first place, But you still use … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:26 AM |
| 0 | Women objectify themselves.It's also in dictionaries but okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Women objectify themselves.Google is your friend, try using is to search the term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 02:56 AM |
| 0 | Women objectify themselves.I don’t think OP knows the meaning of the word they used, Try googling the term 'self-objectication' and then come back to me with the results. I bet you won't though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.The interesting thing about ny post is it was mostly written by chatgpt, and we all know how inaccurate and biased a.i can be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.Okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.It works because no one asked whether you take those people seriously nor is it relevant to what the post is about. No, but I'm telling you since you said you do that stuff that I can't take you seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.You are just prescribing certain behavior You can call it whatever you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Women objectify themselves.It doesn't matter whether you agree or not. Self objectification is a real term that exists. You can disagree with it all you want, that doesn't stop it from being real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.Well, you commented on my post, so I responded. The whole 'ok...and?' bit doesn't work when you're the one commenting on a post I made. It just tells me you're an npc who can't respond intelligently to things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.I can't take you seriously either since you said the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.but women can and do express their feminity that way. Why do you think that is? P.S. Just curious, is Jax Gatsby a character reference? I’ve seen someone I know use that as well The name 'Gatsby' is from the great Gatsby and Jax was just a random name I came up with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:16 AM |
| 0 | Women objectify themselves.Ofcourse you're gonna say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:11 AM |
| 0 | Women objectify themselves.A man that goes to the gym and lifts is bettering himself. A woman that masters her make up game (which is a skill that takes time) is objectifying herself? Surely you can see the difference between working out and wearing makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.I judge men and women by the same criteria, and so if a guy told me he makes his eye lashes darker and draws on his eye brows and all the stuff women do, I probably wouldn't take him seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.Why use onlyfans as an example? It was one example, among others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.I don't think you know what objectification is. Google the term 'self-objectication'. In every act of making up, there's an inherent expression of both a person's humanity and individuality This is just nonsense you say to make yourself feel better about wearing makeup. There's no humanity or individuality in wearing make up, It's a product. Next you'll tell me getting a haircut, braiding hair, shaving, and dressing is reducing ourselves to mere objects. You may not get this but there's a differ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.Either we’re going to look like slobs or we’re going to “objectify” ourselves by looking our best So the choices are either use cosmetics to cover your face, or look like a slob? Men don't wear make up and most I come across look fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.How exactly does making your eyelashes darker mean you’re now an object? Why do you feel the need to make your eyelashes darker? And on the flip side, are men who work out and constantly post shirtless pics objectifying themselves? Some are, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:18 AM |
| 0 | Women objectify themselves.Some women do objectify themselves, but it's ludicrous to claim that merely adhering to beauty standards = objectification. If you reread this part of my post you'll notice that I said some women objectify themselves by adhering to beauty standards, not all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.Because our jobs can sometimes rely on it In what way? Does your job require makeup for you to perform better? The act of objectification is done by others by the very definition. Again, Google it. Self objectification is a thing, I don't understand how you don't know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.And it’s rather hard to objectify yourself, since you know (from being in your head) that you’re a person with a whole personality. Google the term 'self-objectication' and see what comes up. how is makeup and clothes objectification? By themselves they aren't, but how they are used can be for self objectification | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Women objectify themselves.Self objectification is a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:08 AM |
| – | Women objectify themselves.Another “only fans” women are the norm guys. I actually didn't say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 05:05 PM |
| -4 | Women objectify themselves.Can you explain how putting makeup on is treating yourself like an object to be used rather than a full person? Why do women wear make up? You think being beautiful is objectifying yourself? That's not what I said. Do you actually know what objectification is? The post is about self objectification, which is different. don’t even see how you could “objectify yourself” to begin with Google it. Or go on chatgpt and type in 'write a paragraph about how women objectify themselves' , and see what com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 04:10 PM |
| -2 | Women objectify themselves.The everyday woman wearing makeup and revealing clothes will still get angry, sad or whatever other things that sex workers depress in order to seem more appealing to their customers Sex workers also get angry and sad. They are still women. Someone who wears sexually revealing clothing is obviously looking for sexual validation but that doesn't make it objectification Yes, it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Women objectify themselves.This isn't objectification, it's marketing. A human being marketing themselves is self objectification because only products are marketed. Women know that men are visual. Yea, men are visual regardless of whether women "market" themselves or not. We know for the most part that men aren't lining up for our "dazzling personality, witty sense of humor, and charisma" Because women are too busy working on their physical appearance, so they don't spend much time working on their personalities and othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Women objectify themselves.It is a strategy as old as time: get the man to view you as a sexual object, attract and befuddle him, then out-think and outplay him. Suddenly you have a better job, home, car, bank account and security for your children than you could have achieved purely with your own labour. That is still limiting their potential because they're basically choosing to depend on someone else who might end up abusing them in the future or whatever . This actually happens more than you would think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 03:48 PM |
| -6 | Women objectify themselves.Wearing make up, or dressing in revealing clothing, is not women objectifying themselves. Yeah, it is. Self objectification is made up if different parts, and the use of makeup is part of it. That's not saying everyone who wears make up is objectifying themselves but make up is a part of the self objectification process for women. since it's the woman's prerogative to apply make up, It's also her prerogative to use only fans to make money off simps, so is that not self objectification then? Even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 03:41 PM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.it actually goes well beyond simple misogyny because you also have no respect for men either Oh I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 01:28 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.I’ve got an ex who says she loves me every week stil Well if she says it then it must be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Okay, what's hateful about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Okay, but give me an example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Like what for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 05:39 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Men who are married. You're referring to Western men who are married, which isnt even most men. In many other cultures divorce is very rare because its frowned upon. Because men are more selfish and don't care about their partners and maybe in the case of sickness, they only value women for what women do for them? Men generally take on the role of providing for their partners, and not just providing money. I don't think they would do this if they were selfish. In fact, the one who expects to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 01:01 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.And you're totally not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 12:58 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Which men are you talking about? Marriage is a terrible idea for men but men are more likely to cheat and abandon their sick partner? I don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Millions of men all around the world love and are loved by their wives/girlfriends. These men end up finding out that it wasn't really them their girlfriends/wives loved, but what they provided. You fr don’t know the first thing about women, love, or relationships. I understand that saying this makes you feel better about yourself, but the fact remains that generally speaking, women can't love men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Because I don't have an answer for you. Marriage is a terrible idea for men so if a guy has a wife, he's already lost the plot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Most women love their partners. I'm sure they think they do. Do you think your own personal experience of the world is the correct one? What I'm saying is a well known thing among men who have experience with women. Its essentially the foundation of redpill, even though I'm not into all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 12:18 AM |
| 0 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Sorry but if your Reddit posts reflect your irl personality, then I can’t really blame ‘em. The point is they can't love anyone else for the reasons I explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.I can like women while also knowing most can't really love me for who I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Well, I guess you've proved my entire post wrong by sharing your personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 11:49 PM |
| 3 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.I showed this to my girlfriend and she laughed. That must mean the post is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 11:47 PM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.You have to say this, otherwise you would have to be honest with yourself and face the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 11:45 PM |
| 0 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.You can say this to feel better about yourself, but the fact is many men, some have even been divorced, have come to the same realisation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.and would rather make generalisations about women's mental development based on personal experiences instead of looking at yourself as the common denominator in your interactions with women. The post is also about men's mental development. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.I know, I actually did an assignment on his stages of development a while ago. What I was saying is I would rather study the field of psychology itself (which is about more than just Erikson), not one man's stages of development 😹 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.I think I would be better off basing my opinion on a framework created by psychologists who specialise in human development like Erikson. Well, I think its much better to study psychology itself and then make my own observations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.The majority of women want a 50/50 financial partnership (which isn't wanting "a provider".) Maybe you don't date women and that's why you think this. What is your basis for this? Society expects the man to approach, to be interesting enough to hold a woman's attention, to have money, to be a provider and so on. This makes men more mature, just like having to experience rejection makes them tougher and able to handle rejection better than women, since they rarely experience it, atleast when dati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.Modern women work And yet they still want a provider, that's the point. I would argue that women in general are more developed as they are generally more capable in stage 6 - intimacy in relationships. Women are more developed at some things that men aren't, but generally men have to be more grown mentally because of social expectations. Women want a guy they can look up to for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:16 PM |
| 0 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.Linking the studies is missing the point. My post is based on my own observations of people and their behaviour and so on. The study i mentioned was just a reference, not what my opinion is based on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 01:15 PM |
| 0 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.I never said my post was an absolute fact that applied to everyone. Its my observation that most people are children, talking to them and watching their behaviour is proof enough for me. The fact that studies that have been done also confirm my observation is a bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.Your post makes no sense. Only if you're 14 yrs old mentally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.Are you counting independence as "money"? Yeah, that's a big part of it, atleast in the world we currently live in. Women know this too, that's why it's a well known thing that girls like dudes with money, and its why some women expect a guy to pay for the date, its a sign that he has money. Paying for a meal on a date (which is an unneeded luxury and one women are very much capable of paying for themselves, Thats the thing, women are capable of paying for themselves and yet many still expect a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:28 AM |
| 0 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.Girls are generally pressured to grow up before their time Up to a certain point. Like I said in the post, women are not encouraged to be as independent as men, which is a part of growing up. For example, no man would expect a woman to pay for him on a date, but women do and its socially acceptable for them. women are usually the people who parent actual children Children who end up being adults in children's bodies. So they aren't doing a very good job, just look at the world we live in. and ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 10:55 AM |
| 0 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.(It also ignores the fact that taking care of a partner and being there for each other isn’t a childish trait? That's not what it says in the post. Going on a date and expecting a man to pay is childish behaviour, that's part of what the post is talking about. It has nothing to do with being there for each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 09:16 AM |
| -1 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.You can look into it if you want then, im sure more studies have been done since then. I know alot of psychological experiments about conformity have been done, which show that most people are still children who want to fit in. But all this is besides the point because what I'm saying about people being children isn't based on studies but on my own observations and now I also know studies have been done to support what I've observed. You can call that confirmation bias but that would mean nothin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 09:02 AM |
| -2 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.Considering women do the most care giving in society how does that make them mentally younger then men? For the reasons I mentioned in the post. Really odd take. That doesn't mean it's not true. Also maybe it’s just me so correct me if I’m wrong but I’m a completely different person to who I was at 14?! Personality change isn't necessarily a sign that someone has grown in intelligence and so on. You could be 40 and be just as childish as you were at 14. Religion is a great example of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:45 AM |
| -3 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.You're ignoring everything I wrote in the post supporting what I'm saying, the study is just a reference supporting it. Referencing a study supporting what you're saying isn't confirmation bias otherwise every college essay would be confirmation bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:40 AM |
| 0 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.In what way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:09 AM |
| -1 | Most people are just children in adult bodies.My perspective isn't based on the study, I came to the conclusion that most people are children before I came accross it. It just confirmed what I already thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:07 AM |
| 1 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessEverything from the negging, being touchy feely, being hot and cold, all those manipulative tactics would come off as desperate, and inauthentic. Well, good for you for having enough awareness to be able to notice this stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.So you're agreeing that not only are men gold diggers in their soul What does this mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 11:07 AM |
| 0 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.women don't exist to look appealing to you. Why do you think they wear makeup? To look appealing to someone, and if its a straight woman, she will obviously want to look appealing to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.I’m not even sure what you are talking about Read the post, that will help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.None of it is horrible or should be avoided, nor is it insane. It is. But you can't admit it because that would mean you're a part of the insanity because you engage in that behaviour. Most people don't use people for a specific thing. They still use each other whether you wanna face it or not. Men (as do women) like pretty bodies, and women (and to a lesser extend men) like a partner with money. If you read my post you'll see that I made both these points. What's wrong and insane is losers whin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.In a sane world, love wouldn't require a fee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.until you talked about how makeup is part of the dehumanizing process Its not a part of it, its the result of it. There's a reason makeup is a multi billion dollar industry and why its introduced to girls at younger ages. 6 year old girls literally get sold barbie dolls that come with make up kits. The companies actually spend millions making ads directed to them because they will become future customers. sure, do some women use makeup to attract men? Almost all do on some level, since they're a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 02:54 PM |
| 4 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.Because if women are valued for their looks, the fact that so many women regularly wear make up and are conditioned to wear it makes sense, if you understand basic psychology. There is a reason why makeup is the norm for women and not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.It is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 11:38 AM |
| 6 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.Valued for their beauty, make up influences beauty, not the body. Your face is a part of your body. You can't have a face without a body, its the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 10:40 AM |
| 5 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.That's mentioned at the end in the last few sentences so its not really a rant, but good effort though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.Well how much does the man having resoures play into attraction for the woman? Alot. This is a very common thing for many women. Thats why they expect the man to pay for dates, if he doesn't it lowers the chances of getting laid or of another date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 06:29 AM |
| 4 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.The same goes for men, but women don't get used for their money generally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.I wish I believed you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 05:12 AM |
| 4 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.Did you read the whole post or just the title? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 04:25 AM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Because of the response it gets from women and simps, but especially because its true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.Maybe, but the relationships begin with using each other. For example, there are many women who expect a man to pay on dates, and guys who expect to get laid if they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 03:25 AM |
| 4 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.By definition, the way you are using the word "use," when it is consensual, it is not "used": Well, as long as you get the gist of what I'm saying, you can replace the word "use" with whichever word works for you. the two individuals are engaging in a mutually beneficial exchange. They're both using (or whatever word you prefer) each other, that's my point. Women are responsible for their actions. You don't have to tell me this, just read my previous posts here. If we take your CMV as true, then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.However I have heard of several dead bedroom situations where men stayed and deadbeat man situations where women stayed Oh yeah, ofcourse. I'm just generalising, not everyone is like I'm saying but many are because that's how we're conditioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.I'm not sure that's addressing what I said but okay. Also, if always saying yes to another human being works for you then that's cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.I wore makeup because I wanted to be good at applying it. That's just me though. There's more than one reason for doing something, and sometimes we do things for reasons we're not conscious of. I don't think I've ever been used before. Most guys would say their girlfriend doesn't use them for their money, but if he suddenly had no money, her interest would drop, and if suddenly sex stops in relationships the interest also drops. But I do hope you haven't been used before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 02:52 AM |
| 4 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.The results of using someone for their body is more detrimental than resources. I agree, that's part of what I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 02:45 AM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.I'm single yes, but I actually prefer it that way. You can claim that I'm saying the things I say coz I'm lonely or an incel but I've actually turned down women i found physically attractive simply because we weren't on the same wavelength, and yet we still get along whenever we meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 02:44 AM |
| 5 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.If its true that women are valued for their bodies, don't you think it makes sense that they would place alot of importance on their looks, leading to insecurity? Its basic psychology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 02:41 AM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Just because you perceive what I'm saying as bitter doesn't mean it is and that doesn't mean it isn't true. If there no truth in any of my posts, they would just get ignored, but they tend to get alot of traction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 11:17 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Face life as it is, don't try to change the world, try instead to change how you view it. Its just a reddit post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 11:13 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.These are YOUR experiences, Unfortunately they are the daily experiences of many men, that's why men could relate to the post before it got removed. In fact, it got removed coz too many people were agreeing with it, believe it or not. you’re young and don’t have the maturity yet not to make sweeping generalizations These sweeping generations are true for many young women, and even older ones. If there were no truth in them, no one would resonate with the post. There are MANY men who disagree wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 11:04 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.The thing is I’ve seen a lot of men try and act “alpha” by paying the bill even if I tell them I’m not comfortable with it. And then assume you owe them something. It’s gnarly, really. Exactly. This is part of the problem. Men have been conditioned to think paying makes them high value and that its what they're supposed to do, and when they do it they end up expecting things in return. Women would be better off just paying for themselves so the man doesn't expect anything and nobody uses anyone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 06:04 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Modern women own their own bank accounts, traditional women have their husbands or their fathers. But they both still expect men to pay and to wine and dine them without having to reciprocate. And also psychologically they're not that different, they both wear clown paint. Femininity is definitely tied with being financially and emotionally dependent on a man. Well then women in Muslim countries are some of the most feminine in the world. Some of them are so feminine they're not allowed to leave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Okay, fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.This actually has the double benefit of preventing a transactional dynamic from developing and Exactly. The guy will always expect something in return on some level (like sex or another date). The guys who insist on paying don't do it out of love or selflessness. There's always a motive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.A traditional high value woman is that. You want a feminine woman. That's her. This is just your social conditioning speaking. Traditional women and modern women aren't that different. Femininity has nothing to do with being financially and emotionally dependent on a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.I mean I'm not disagreeing in terms of money specifically, although that's more or less a holdover from periods when women tended to just never be financially independent whether they wanted to be or not, Yeah, this is true, but the problem is as long as from the beginning (the first date) someone is already expecting something from you (to pay for the date), the whole relationship is already transactional and the guy is being treated as an atm, and he's been programmed to actually want to be us… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.They don’t make emotionally charged posts like that. It only seems emotionally charged because its saying things that men generally aren't allowed to say about women, but that doesn't make them untrue. Men who excel at forming relationships with women do not lash out like you do. Believe it or not I actually get along with women. If I told you some of the stuff that has happened to me with girls I've met, you would think I'm just making it up to seem cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:18 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Well, believe it or not many women out there expect men to pay for dates and so on, and generally you're not going to know which woman is like that until you're on the date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:14 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.It only sounds that way because the truth isn't always pleasant to hear, especially when its about women who we all love so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:12 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.You just dismissed all the high value women when you complain about paying for the dates. High value women are independent and don't expect a man or anyone else to pay for something as basic as their food. Whats interesting is you're basically saying a high value male pays for women, and a high value woman allows the man to pay for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.In my case I have such a strong aversion to the kind of personality that would become a gold digger that it was never a problem for me, so from my perception it feels like there isn't that many of them. There are different degrees to it. For example, a woman who expects a man to pay on dates isn't necessarily a gold digger in the typical sense. But she's still interested in the guy's money in some sense, and there are many women like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:51 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.they exist but most of us will never date one The reason some men are resonating with the post is because they've had many experiences like that through dating women like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:50 PM |
| 0 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Why has this never been a reflection of my dating life. Because obviously all women aren't like that. But women like that do exist and talking about them and criticizing their behaviour is frowned upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.How about - both partners should be highly motivated to make each other happy, because that's what love is about? I agree. I'm just pointing what the world is actually like. The way things are currently with relationships between men and women is problematic, that's why I'm pointing them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:41 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Generally speaking though, its usually mostly the man who is expected to spend money and and be entertaining and treat you as special and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:39 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.It doesn't sound like you like women very much. Anyone who criticises female behaviour doesn't like women apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.To understand what the title is saying. The point of writing more words beyond the title is to provide more information relating to the title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:35 PM |
| -1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.All those titles are true and many men can and do relate, whether they're in relationships or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:34 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.I know, im suggesting that you should do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.So if you’re a girl with a boyfriend part of your “job” is sex to keep him from getting bored? In a way, yes. I'm not saying any of this is right or is a sign of a healthy relationship. I'm just pointing out that the world is like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Why would it be a job? Read beyond just the title to find out more. Especially paragraph 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:23 PM |
| 0 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.What you don't understand is this post isn't about me but its observations about human behaviour. Like it or not, men do most of the approaching so obviously they have to be able to keep the woman's attention, and women get approachedso they generally get entertained rather than having to be interesting. Its so obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Because I date women and this is the sub for such topics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.That is such a shitty comeback It wasn't really a comeback but just a fact. doesn't mean it's an average or normal The point is many women are like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.That's a fair point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 02:57 PM |
| 0 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.That would only be for Some women out there. I know, the point is there are many like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 12:06 PM |
| -1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Actually his experience is more the norm. Okay, if you insist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 12:02 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.If your in a relationship where you are expected to do the bulk of the work then your not in a healthy relationship Most people aren't in healthy relationships. Trying to base all relationships on a few American women is not going to help I don't live in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 11:30 AM |
| 7 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.That might be true, but I'm sure you know that many other men haven't had the same experiences. In fact, your experience isn't the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 11:13 AM |
| 8 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Most women pay their own bills. What are you on about? I'm talking about the bill that comes on a date. Ive never let a man pay for my dates. Well, I guess that means other women don't either. I must've made it up. watch too many tiktoks. You would have a point if I had tiktok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 11:09 AM |
| 13 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.If you're dating and are a man, you're an atm and a source of entertainment for someone. Its just a matter of how much of an atm you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 11:04 AM |
| 1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.It's typically a combination of minimum wage job and (fake) designer clothes/purses. Some gold diggers are smarter than that. There are different types of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 11:02 AM |
| 2 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Where do you get your data from? The world. Its not like there are people funding studies into this. Also, im not saying that what I'm saying is the absolute truth. It's just a perspective. If women don't go with less interesting men than themselves, the most interesting women cannot find a partner who is more interesting. I didnt say that. I'm just saying that in general men have to be more interesting than women since Its men who do the approaching and try to keep her attention after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 10:59 AM |
| -1 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.So what are you talking about when you say traditional women are self centred then? Well, they live in 2023, a year in which they can get a job and be independent (unlike many women before them). But instead of doing so, they choose to have a man work for them and they convince themselves that its because they love him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 10:22 AM |
| 3 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Men get bored with sex, They get bored with sex with the same woman, not necessarily the woman's personality or level of intellect. Demands are on both Ofcourse. I'm just pointing out there are more on men than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 10:20 AM |
| 4 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Ah, the age old "pretend others are illiterate" tactic. No, im actually genuinely suggesting you should read it again, carefully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 10:08 AM |
| 3 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.as in man goes to work to keep wife, wife cooks dinner and keeps the house clean. Yeah, and that's not what I'm talking about. Marriage is a dumb game and mostly only benefits women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 10:07 AM |
| 10 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.I'm talking about you. But nothing you can say about me means anything because you have no idea who I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 10:05 AM |
| 2 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.OP can you edit your post to clarify your point. The point is basically stated in title, the rest of the post just adds detail. Maybe remove the sarcasm so people can respond accordingly. The sarcasm is supposed to say something I can't say without the post being removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 10:04 AM |
| 2 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.because that’s tradition. Why do you think its tradition? Because back then women weren't allowed to have jobs. If you want a traditional women then expect to pay for her, My post isn't about traditional women. Its about women in general. The traditional woman is just as superficial and self centred as the modern one. She still wants to have everything paid for her and be treated special, just like the liberal and modern woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 10:02 AM |
| 10 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Just like in the post, im not talking about myself but society as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 09:59 AM |
| 6 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.If keeping your relationship from becoming boring is unrealistic Read what my post actually says and then respond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 09:58 AM |
| 5 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.There are traditional women out there The traditional women still expect a man to pay and do all that kind of stuff. They're really only different superficially. If you want a woman that pays her way become a modern liberal This is an interesting statement. Replace the word woman with 'man' and see how absurd it sounds. You're basically saying to treat women like theyre special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 09:49 AM |
| 7 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.PPD men live in a really warped reality, Believe it or not, there women out there who have all these expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 09:41 AM |
| 4 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.So in your world, the most boring guys are single Well, in the world general boring guys are single, not just in my world. while everyone else can potentially get into relationships with slightly less interesting women? I don't understand the question. And the most interesting women are also single? For most guys, whether a woman is interesting or not doesn't actually matter, so no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 09:41 AM |
| 13 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Why is this so one-sided? Because women generally demand more to keep them entertained than men. With men, sex is enough to keep them from being bored in the relationship. and they'll probably leave, me or female. Well, like I said before, if a man in a relationship is getting laid enough to satisfy him, he generally won't leave because finding another partner requires more effort for him than it does for a woman, generally speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 09:38 AM |
| 2 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Why are all you guys so damn insecure? When it comes to insecurity, women are way more insecure than men, hence all the make up. Men can and do leave the house without makeup, many women don't and can't, coz they're so insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 09:08 AM |
| 6 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Look at all the boring guys with boring wifes. Those boring guys have to be less boring than their wives inorder to keep them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 09:06 AM |
| 4 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Well, being responsible for another person's feelings isn't for anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 09:04 AM |
| 9 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Why date women if you don’t enjoy the process, start dating dudes then. Just because I recognise that women have unrealistic expectations doesn't mean I can choose to be attracted to men, that would make being gay a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 09:03 AM |
| 12 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.If you got her by offering yourself up as her personal jester The reality is to get her in the first place you have to offer something she can use you for. Being a jester as well as an atm are just some of those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 08:45 AM |
| 3 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Sorry bro i can’t help but laugh when someone says that u need to be a clown to keep your girl Like I said, this is how it is for alot of men. Why else would men jump through the hoops they do for women? Because they enjoy it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 08:33 AM |
| 2 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.This is actually how dating is for alot of men, but we can pretend it isn't though if you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 08:26 AM |
| 5 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.ideally, those women should be paying their own half of the bill. Or they should offer to foot the bill for the next date. But they don't. And there's more of them than you realise Yes, gold diggers. Again, there's more of them than you realise, and they aren't all obvious about it so it's not a matter of just avoiding them. Weird take. Not really. Most guy with experience with women know what I'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 07:59 AM |
| – | Why do women make more false rape accusations than men?I feel like that's obvious. Clearly it isn't since it doesn't often happen. And I just dont know what your goal is. To find out why some women lie about this kind of stuff, as the question says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:38 AM |
| – | Why do women make more false rape accusations than men?Some. It's not common. Didn't say it was. I was pointing out that it does happen. Why would a woman go to jail for "lying?" I didnt say they should. But obviously women who lie about being sexually assaulted should be held responsible for their actions. But you probably think they shouldn't be held responsible because they're women. you're upset women are talking about their experiences, That's so stupid, I never said that, and you know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:34 AM |
| – | Why do women make more false rape accusations than men?Any kind of "false allegation" is not common. The fact still remains that women make more false accusations than men. Any honest person admits this. The majority of wrongful convictions with sexual violence are wrongful IDs, Still, in some cases women actually lie, believe it or not. I feel like what people say about your reputation should generally be fair game, same with any other rumor or comment. Right. So if someone is falsely accused of rape, then its perfectly fine for their reputation to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.What do you think the point of this sub is? Is it so that nobody makes a post about anything? Or is it for making posts that you agree with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.why do you think you have a place offering unsolicited advice to them? Criticism isn't advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.'I would LOVE to criticise women but I would suffer repercussions from it, This is my point. Do women suffer repercussions for criticizing men? Ofcourse not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Saying 'all women are misandrists' or making posts where that is the subtext I never said that, or implied it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.but on the whole I would characterise your whole post as misogyny. Ofcourse you would. Anyone who criticises women is a misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Toxic femininity isn't only fans and wearing too much makeup. Its part of it. You can't admit it because you probably also wear makeup so you can't be objective about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Which makes it even stranger to blame women for their exploitation. They're the ones selling their bodies, and nobody is forcing them. Women are not children, they are responsible for their actions. It is uniquely masculine to exploit others for sexual gratification If I said this about women you would tell me that I'm saying it because I hate women, but its fine for you to say it about men. Doing things for money which include selling your body is not uniquely feminine. Selling your body for mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.I never said any of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Morality doesn't even have to come into it. Just look at what I said logically. There obviously is a difference between degrading yourself for money and watching someone else do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.And they don't bother to think of you at all. It doesn't matter. Their sense of self is still dependent on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.But wearing makeup just isn't a toxic trait IMO You asked me how much make up is excessive, that's the question I was answering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.You're proving the point of my post. I didnt say I hate them, I just criticised their behaviour but because they're women, I must hate them since I'm criticising them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.What’s so funny to me is the images you see of women who are “natural” are actually wearing a ton of face makeup and the images are heavily edited, but your ignorance prevents you from seeing it. You actually have no idea what you're talking about. You're just projecting. it was invented by the ancient Egyptians, both male and female. Both men and women invented it at the same time? Okay. God I bet your breath smells awful. Good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.I'm not religious. I just think women who take their clothes off for money are sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.They can have self respect. Nobody who gets naked because the audience is paying to see it has self respect. Men do actually exploit weak women who need money or opportunities or have major psychological damage. The women with major psychological damage are the ones taking off their clothes for money. You're criticizing them for the dark nature of male sexuality... Are women not responsible for their actions when they sell their bodies for money? you hate women and not men. You're just proving t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:24 PM |
| -1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Men point their finger with one hand and jerk off with the other etc. Yeah, because just because someone make you horny doesn't mean you respect them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Why is there a loss of self respect inherent in a woman performing for an audience? Because she is performing for men and doing so to impress them and to get money from them. Imagine if you had a daughter and she was like that. I wouldn't respect myself if I did, Exactly. but I realize other women don't feel a hit to their self respect. Because they have none. It's just fulfilling the toxic nature of male sexuality for money. Yeah, and that's pathetic. Its better to be an intelligent woman who m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Its not physically dangerous but it is psychologically dangerous, but that's too nuanced for most people to grasp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Why wouldn't you tho Self respect. Why are women the bad guys for fulfilling the requests of men Because its pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.No shit. Its called a metaphor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Why would you feel the need to wear excessive makeup? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Pointing out that something is gross isn't obsessing over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Then they clearly have a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Its not an opinion, eating shit is objectively disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.but, firstly, freedom, and secondly, who is consuming only fans? Like I said in another comment, just because there's a demand for people recording themselves eating shit doesn't mean you have record yourself doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.People should be able to be natural and present themselves as such, without caking their faces in makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.You don't have to do anything to make money. But if an adult wants to record him/herself eating shit to make money from other adults... not my cup of tea, but hey, knock yourself out. Right, but i also have the freedom to point out that the person recording themselves eating shit to make money is stupid, regardless of how much money they're making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Not all men are so desperately horny. Ofcourse not, but they still have lower standards than women do for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Thats not a woman's fault. In other words, they aren't responsible for their actions. They are using their bodies to make money because of men, and they are just poor victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.People can describe toxic masculinity because it’s a real concept, toxic femininity is just a thing you people try to use as a got ya. Toxic masculinity is a real thing but toxic femininity is just made up because women are so wonderful and would never exhibit toxic behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.If she wears it every day and it only takes a quick half hour to apply, then that is what you’re attracted to because it’s what you’re seeing daily. That’s a part of her routine and part of her physical identity. Something invented by men is part of women's physical identity...interesting. What man doesn’t want a woman who puts effort into looking pretty for him and for herself? You can look pretty without putting clown paint on your face. Teen girls, female prisoners, college coeds, celebrities… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:09 PM |
| 0 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.I don't see anything "clearly problematic" about women using men's sexual obsessions with them to earn money. You see nothing wrong with women exploiting men sexually to make money? Without them there would be no only fans, right? Just because there's a demand for people recording themselves eating shit doesn't mean you have to record yourself eating shit to make money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.So, for you as an individual, what constitutes excessive. Any use of it to me is excessive because it isn't necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Just because men thirst for content that doesn't mean you as a woman has to provide it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.It doesn't matter. The point is they want to be seen as attractive by someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Most men actually wouldn't care as long as she's hot and has sex with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.If you consider women selling sex problematic, why don't you also consider men buying sex problematic? Men buying sex is also problematic, but there's a difference between someone who pays money to watch someone degrade themselves and someone who gets paid to degrade themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.I am sure OP has heard someone make fun of an unemployed 25yearold woman but he ignores it because it doesnt fit into his narrative. No man would make fun of an unemployed woman he finds attractive. In fact, he would actually be more than happy to provide for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.The problem is that men still often do, though, because men are thirsty. The real question is why are most men thirsty when from a biological perspective, both genders are programmed to enjoy sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.The reason toxic femininity exists is because of misogyny. In other words women aren't responsible for their own actions. Men objectify women and have oppressed them therefore women have such low self esteem that they feel the need to objectify themselves for any validation. This is true. Women who use their bodies to manipulate are yes guilty and even though she was abused into that behavior Again, you're basically stating that the woman isn't responsible for her behaviour. Women aren’t really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Receipts? Do you you actually think that the average guy would turn down a hot woman just because she's a shitty person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.There’s lots of women who don’t. Maybe alot of older women don't, but its almost impossible to meet a young woman who doesnt wear it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:29 PM |
| 0 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.By saying that you're actually taking the responsibility away from the women who produce the "content". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:23 PM |
| 0 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.and like... women don't exist to be attractive to you. But they still wear makeup to be seen as attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:19 PM |
| 4 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.The difference is a man would never reject a woman just because she has no money, whereas women would and do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.If there's a demand for men doing ridiculous things and I as a man decided to do ridiculous things to cash in on it, am I not responsible for my actions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.I think you’re criticizing the wrong folks here… Men pay for onlyfans, women provide the product. Both are responsible, but especially women because they're the ones degrading themselves for the pleasure of men just because its profitable. Makeup is subjective. Well, no because its an objective thing. Whether a woman is wearing makeup or not isn't subjective. She either is or she isn't, and most do. No one is forcing you to date women who wear makeup The vast majority wear it though. And if you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:08 PM |
| -1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.It's men that feed into the Only Fans machine True, but are you seriously suggesting that the women who post on onlyfans are not responsible for their actions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.In my view, any use of makeup is excessive, but since most women wear it, I had to lower the bar and focus on excessive use of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.If men don’t want to take on a deadbeat woman, then they should raise their standards. This is a good point. Unfortunately most men have low standards when it comes to women. How does that impact you in any way? Well, if I'm a guy who is dating, its always good to see what the woman im involved with actually looks like without makeup, otherwise how do I know that im actually attracted to her? All your favorite female celebrities and porn stars wear makeup, but you don’t seem to mind it then. Thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.OF is the responsibility of men. This is true in the sense that men pay for it, but you are taking responsibility away from the women who use it, which is what society generally does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.What about producers, managers and directors that have actresses and models strip down on the big screen for profit? Its equally gross. But part of the problem is the women involved are seen as not being responsible for their actions, whereas men are. hear dudes complain about onlyfans but would scoff at feminists that talk about the male gaze and sexualization of women in media done by men at the top. Sexuallisation of women by men at the top is definitely a thing, but believe it or not, some o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Do you also dislike Andrew Tate for his business model of using women's bodies to exploit men? Yes, I do. In fact, I saw a video of him actually hitting a woman because she would not act according to his views and it was gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.wears make up or see men as a wallet, isn't it? I would love to meet a woman who wears no make up at all. I still haven't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Well, personally I don't really agree with that, It doesn't matter if you agree with it or not . The fact is if you get a woman pregnant, its up to her whether she keeps it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Men are selfless givers, but women are all evil selfish bitches who use men for their money. That's not what I said. I'm just acknowledging the fact that women are no better than men, but in your mind this is hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.That doesn't make it less pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:43 AM |
| 4 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.It's because men objectify and sexualize women. In almost everything they do. And women play no role in this, they are just victims, right? And then women see themselves through the men's eyes Do they have no choice to see themselves in any other way? Alot of women see men as their wallets, but that doesn't mean I have to become that to them. Why would men abandon it if the culture (patriarchy) made them see women as objects for their sexual pleasure? If there's something being sold, somebody wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:42 AM |
| 4 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Do men not play a role in reproduction? They do, but a woman can decide to kill it at any given moment and they can't stop it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:36 AM |
| 0 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.I did grow up in another culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:35 AM |
| 7 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.In other words, women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:18 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Again, irrelevant and tangential at best. Well, its not really irrelevant if the most 'successful' women used to be married to psychopaths and rich assholes and they impose the same stuff on their workers. Most men do care, because they don't relish the thought of being the sole breadwinner and two incomes are always better. They actually don't. Otherwise men would be focused on marrying rich women, which they aren't. Men are just happy with whichever woman accepts them, but the sad things is wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Most people who get together are similar in terms of education, job and income. This just isn't true. Most successful men marry women who make less than them and then these women end up being the richest women in the world coz they divorced them. I know that "the bitch takes everything in the divorce" is a common redpill fantasy, but it doesn't always work like that. The richest women in the world were once married to the richest men in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:06 AM |
| 6 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Double standards regarding gender are normal and natural. Okay. So who decides what these double standards are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Women do approach men in the real world. Generally speaking, they don't. And this isn't just my opinion. Its a fact that can be observed throughout human history. If you base all your interactions with women either through, porn/tinder/of of course you have a limited view My interaction with women are based on none of those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.If women paid for videos of men crying and doing pathetic shit, I still wouldn't do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:29 AM |
| 8 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.I didn't mean men who sell their body, I meant men who "buy" bodies. Yeah, ofcourse there are more men who buy bodies than those who sell them but that's just a reflection of the society we live in. By the way, do you consider the behaviour more problematic the more money someone makes with it? The amount of money someone makes from it doesn't really matter. The main problem Is how its made in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:28 AM |
| 0 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.They will judge, When I say they won't judge, I mean that they won't judge too negatively. The fact is if you're an attractive woman, you don't actually have to be a good human being to find a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.this notion that women are just sitting around being pretty waiting for a man to get give her money is just ludicrous, I didn't say women were sitting around waiting for a man to approach them but the fact is women don't approach men so they have to wait for men to approach them so they can turn them down and feel good about themselves. Personally I’ve never experienced toxic femininity That must mean it doesn't exist. to say feminism has gone to far is also nonsense I never said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:20 AM |
| 13 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Ofcourse, I never said men weren't shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:11 AM |
| 5 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.If you are a 25 year old woman without a job. People still judge you. If you're an attractive woman with no job, nobody will judge you. This is just a fact, its more of a commentary on men than it is in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Whether a child grows in the womb or not isn't up to men so your question is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:08 AM |
| 8 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.The use of only fans is female behaviour? I'm pretty sure the majority of only fans users is male... Are most of the men who use only fans selling their bodies on there and making alot of money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:05 AM |
| 13 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Well, admitting that men have no standards and will fuck women they don’t like or respect doesn’t really paint men in a flattering light, does it? I'm not trying to paint anyone in a positive light. I'm just pointing out the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Most of them just want a guy who makes enough money that they can afford a decent lifestyle This is interesting because most men don't actually care how much money a woman make. In fact most guys are happy to provide a lifestyle that their partner thinks is decent. But with women, that's not the case. In fact, if a guy were to turn down a woman because she doesn't have money, he would get roasted, where as for women its perfectly acceptable. They also understand that being trapped with a husband… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:01 AM |
| 8 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Is that why alot of modern women want a provider? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:39 AM |
| 5 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.The average women wants to look nice but isn’t overly concerned about makeup. And yet she still wears it basically all the time when she's out of the house. they want to know that they can move forward with someone who is capable of affording life. What does this mean? Also, have you ever noticed that men don't care whether a woman is able to afford life or not? Most men are happy to accept their partner if she has no money. In fact, they're more than happy to spend their money on her. So that m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:05 AM |
| 6 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Majority of women don’t use OF, they don’t excessively use makeup and they surely don’t use men The majority of women may not use OF but they do use alot of make up and they do use men. Additionally I feel like this sub is stuck in a strange era in which women don’t work? Women work, and they still want a provider for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:44 AM |
| 7 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Right... its just a site and says nothing about the women who post on there and the men who pay for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:42 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.but you can’t get it so here you are ranting about how men don’t bother with us if it wasn’t for sex. The fact that this post has so many upvotes means that other people out there see the truth of what I'm saying. But maybe they don't get sex either, who knows. most women have nothing to offer except for sex. So if they have nothing to offer but sex, what else is there to want them for? And what do guys bother with them for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:42 PM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Do you actually think that women would admit it, if it were true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:39 PM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Source: am Chad, Oh ofcourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 09:02 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.You could say that about anyone. Even psychopaths are great if you like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 06:39 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.To be interesting you don't need to engage in intellectual debate, also women are not known for their intellectual debate skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 05:28 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.how do you know "women" are "not interesting" Because I talk to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 05:18 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.And this whole thing about men being deeper is just crap The post doesn't even say this. You just responded to stuff you made in up in your own mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 03:49 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.I usually can't tell who's a woman and who isn't on reddit, and like I said, the post isn't about me but the world in general. I've been friends with a few girls who were attracted to me but I was fine with just being friends with them, so I don't get your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 03:21 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.then why are you here clucking at a bunch of women who will never ever fuck you? I didnt know that this sub was specifically for women only. Obviously you get some sort of pleasure out of interacting with women in a non-sexual context. The post isn't about me, its about the world as a whole. Women are clearly valuable enough to you outside of sex that you are here wasting a bunch of time on them. I never said they weren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 02:38 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Do you want to make a woman's head explode? Ask her how she could keep her boyfriend if her vital sexual organ was broken for 6 months? Comedian Patrice O'Neal had a joke where he asked women that question, and they all answerered that they would give bjs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 01:22 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.For example, working in the same company, enjoying the same things, discussing them or doing them together (computer games, sport, any art, dogs etc). The reality is since drama will inevitably be involved when being in any kind of relationship with women, most men will prefer to hang out with other men because there won't be much drama. Men only put up with drama from women because of sex, without sex they won't put up with it so they won't hang out with women as much. Most people also care for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 01:06 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Such as? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:50 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Okay, if you insist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:45 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.What's your argument in favor of your post? Without sex, what brings men and women together? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:45 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Okay, if you say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:36 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.That doesn't make what I said false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:34 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Gay men have female friends, The title of the post should tell you that the post is about straight men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:33 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.especially when they realize that with that mindset they have nothing to offer to women at all… Women don't have much to offer them either, except... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:05 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.I can't quite understand why these guys want to have sex with women so much considering they all seem to have such a strong distaste for women. I don't know what men you're referring to but the answer obviously is their biological programming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:02 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.You should try to explain to men who have female relatives and purely platonic friendships with women, I'm one of those men, but that doesn't mean I can't make observations about society as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Chasing women is a waste of time.Please stop being a ridiculous white knight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Chasing women is a waste of time.they birth and raise children. So do all animals. So all animals are awesome then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Chasing women is a waste of time.I hate women because I think its absurd to say women are awesome because they're pretty...okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Chasing women is a waste of time.They're so special you can't say what's special about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 03:39 AM |
| 4 | Chasing women is a waste of time.Saying women are not special isn't hating women, that's ridiculous. Women themselves will tell you that women are not special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Chasing women is a waste of time.Yeah. If you say a certain a group people is awesome, why would you be surprised when someone asks you why you think just being a woman makes someone awesome? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Chasing women is a waste of time.I'm just asking you questions about what you're saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Chasing women is a waste of time.Isn’t this sexist? Whats sexist about it? Women are awesome! Whats awesome about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 01:34 AM |
| 7 | Chasing women is a waste of time.I hate to break it to you but, women are not special. Nobody is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Chasing women is a waste of time.If I had a problem with my options/or men, I simply would choose not to date them. That's why the post is about not chasing women because they're basically all the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Chasing women is a waste of time.and any woman who knows her worth would never "chase" a man. But men are supposed to chase them because they're so special? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Chasing women is a waste of time.I'm just telling the truth, whether it's black pilled or not doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Chasing women is a waste of time.They like them for how they look and also the sex they get from them. Men were also essentially mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, so they'll always feel empty with no woman in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Chasing women is a waste of time.women love men for how they make them feel This is the only thing I claimed and what the whole post is about. If you reread and can find a quote that shows otherwise then I don't mind saying I'm wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Chasing women is a waste of time.I never said men loved women for who they are, that would be be absurd. The post was about women not being able to love men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Chasing women is a waste of time.Self respect is part of the whole power thing, along with dominance. Once you're trying to show your value to a woman you've already lost self respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 02:15 PM |
| 6 | Chasing women is a waste of time.Simps don't show any value, To women money and status = value. If a man has one of those things or both then in the woman's eyes he has value. Whether he's dominant or not doesn't actually matter. and get angry because they paid for the date and didn't fuck. There are different kind of simps. There are simps the woman is attracted to and there are those she isn't. The one she doesn't fuck is the one she isn't attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 02:01 PM |
| 9 | Chasing women is a waste of time.Read my last paragraph please. I did, you said you have to show your value as a man and i'm telling you that only simps have to show their value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Chasing women is a waste of time.I don’t think you really belong in here. That's just because you don't like hearing what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Chasing women is a waste of time.While dating a man has to show his potential for being a provider. This is when he's still a simp. When he stops being a simp he realises that he doesn't need to do anything to impress anyone, let alone to try and qualify as the provider for some woman who doesn't actually have much else to offer other than sex. Qualifying as the provider is for simps and is a good way to get used by women, but I guess some men get off on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 01:45 PM |
| 7 | Chasing women is a waste of time.That's part of your role as a man. Why? And according to who? If your role as a man is to just pay for women's stuff then that's a sad existence. Actually, this often means a lack of interest. Not really. There are many times when women are interested and even text first but they cannot hold a conversation. Way too many men whine about being a man. Nothing you said has anything to do with being a man. A man's role isn't to worship women or treat them like special beings, they're just people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 01:34 PM |
| 13 | Chasing women is a waste of time.Women like persistence Men need to realise that it doesn't actually matter what women like. Women love being chased Because they are narcissists. and we are the choosers for who has our babies. So what? Having babies is a bad idea anyway. Men are just getting lazier in the modern world. Right, because its men who bring nothing to the table except sex and demand a provider and a protector. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Chasing women is a waste of time.And with men, what are your options? You definitely have more than two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 11:38 AM |
| 11 | Chasing women is a waste of time.So the only 2 options are either chasing women or not dating women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 10:17 AM |
| 7 | Chasing women is a waste of time.Where did you get that idea? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Then what explains it? You love your mum over a random person you saw once on the street for just no reason? I love my mum and I also love everyone else, the only difference is I express the love I have for my mum in a different way than I do someone I don't know. Love is a state of being, not something you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).We don't just randomly love things for no reason with no cause. Well, real love has no reason and no cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Your post implies it is the majority. It is. So now are you saying that it is only some women? 90% of women is still just some women. That most women do not value the humanity in others? The guys they are dating is secondary, what he provides and does for them comes first. All you have to so to find this out is listen to women talk about what they look for in man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).The behavior and way you outlined how women value men certainly wasn't painting a model of decency. The fact is some women are like that, im just pointing it out. You are talking about people who dehumanize other's for their own gain. Such people exist and believe it or not, some of them are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).No reason, I just do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Anyone lacking a penis who you think is a decent person in this world? I never said they weren't decent people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).He says hi Hey chikiinugget's boyfriend, im sorry you're trapped in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).You keep on dismissing reasons as bad reasons I didnt say it was a bad reason, I just asked why you needed a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).And your point is? That love and valuing something aren't necessarily the same thing. They even have different definitions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Taking things literally just makes you unable to understand them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Some people and especially women don't even say thank you or think about paying. Because they expect to be treated like that, without reciprocating. Some actually get upset when you don't pay for the date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).She doesn’t have to do anything, Not really, because I love her not what she does for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Thank god not my man Right...because he would totally tell you if this is how he actually felt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).There are 3 kinds of love: How do you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).What makes you say this? Knowing women. I'm not speaking of any woman specifically but women in general, ofcourse there'll always be exceptions to the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Yeah, because that's exactly what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).All I’m going to say is I love my husband more than myself, he says the same and I believe him I'm not saying this isn't true, but anyone can anything. There are women who say this and once the guy loses his job or shows his emotions or something they immediately drop him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).You guys have no experience in the real world yet you’re arguing based on nothing but videos you’ve seen on tik tok. I don't even have tiktok. You can dismiss the post all you want but its the experience of many men around the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).The burden of proof on these multiple slippery slopes is on you, man! Well, any man who is honest and has been involved with women has seen the proof with their own eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:14 AM |
| 0 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Gaining enjoyment from spending time with someone, love and comfort are pretty important. Yeah, that's true. If you don't gain anything from being with someone, you don't like them, never mind love them. This isn't true. In fact, if you love someone only because of what you gain from being involved with them then you obviously don't don't love them. If I say to you I love you because I gain validation from being with someone as hot as you, then I'm obviously only interested in how you look and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).No, they tried to kill you because they hate you with a burning passion. Either way, they're still mentally ill in some way, as all people who want to kill others are. How they feel about me doesn't change the love I feel in general, in that love that person is also included in the same way that the sun shines on everyone and everything, even poo. Just because I love everyone doesn't mean I don't have boundaries and sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).You ask questions but I have a feeling you're not actually interested in the answers but I'll answer you anyway. What is involved in being selfless? Just break the word 'selfless' down and you'll have your answer. Being self-less, meaning not thinking about how you're going to benefit from it. What's the logical reasoning for this? If you're asking what the logical reason to love is, this just shows you don't know what it is. Then why aren't more men using it? That's a question for the men not u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Then what does love mean? Well, to begin with it means being selfless. What makes you think men have no agency in relationships? I didnt say they don't. Why do men get into relationships if there's no reason to? Because they're conditioned to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 09:44 AM |
| 6 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).No, I didn't say any of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Then humans can't love. Most can't, yes. (If, for example, someone you loved tried to kill you, assuming you're sane, that love would be gone.) I get the point you're making but this isn't so black and white and the word "love" means more than we've been conditioned to think. If someone I love tried to kill me, because I love them I would understand that something has gone wrong with their mind, otherwise they wouldn't try to kill me. So I would actually want to get them help, while also protect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).No, you've just been conditioned to think love is conditional and transactional and so now you settle for women who use you and you use them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Women, and with men you don't have to ask questions either. You just make a statement and then they add their input. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).There's no need to ask when they openly talk about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).There's no unconditional love. Then there is no love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 09:05 AM |
| 0 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).(your idea of "provision" is so vague it seems to just be doing things). I'm not sure what you're referring to. We need to know who people are to love them for who they are. Yes, but you can't get to know who someone if you're only interested in what you can gain from being involved with them. How are people even able to love without these elements you've dismissed as not real love, What elements? How someone makes you feel and what they do for you? If you love someone for these reasons then its… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 09:04 AM |
| -3 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).10/10 I don't believe that all or even most the men you "know" have said this to you. I didn't say they said these exact words to me. Also, whether you believe me or not is irrelevant. 10/10 believe that you're basing these assumptions off of some Tiktok videos. I don't even have tiktok. To look at trash relationships and base your understanding of relationships off of them is WILD. Well, in this case most relationships are trash then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).That’s why no one is in relationships these days. There are plenty of women in relationships. In fact, most women can't function if they haven't been in a relationship or had a man in a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 08:56 AM |
| 4 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).If that were true there wouldn’t be sex trafficking Well, this is a completely different topic. Its not like sex trafficking is encouraged by society. we wouldn’t have an entire beauty industry based solely on putting a women’s worth into her appearance. Who is buying the make up and cosmetics? Is it men or women? If women have such a problem with the beauty industry then they should stop supporting it with their money. It’s not a female partners job to care for someone that brings absolutely no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).You do not value her unconditionally Love is unconditional, not valuing something or someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 08:49 AM |
| 0 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).I'm talking about being valued, not being loved unconditionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 07:00 AM |
| -1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Women are absolutely not loved for “just being women” I didn't say they are loved for just being women, I said they are valued for just being women. they’re loved for their looks (which fade), for the way they make men feel, for the sex and babies they “provide” to men, not to mention the domestic labour they overwhelmingly do, even in houses in which both people are working full time. I didn't say men were any better. My post is about women because I date women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 06:36 AM |
| -1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Which men are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:25 AM |
| -1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).what about women appeals to you? I'm saying society values women for just being women. But to answer your question, self awareness (among other things) in a woman appeals to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).And yet you're dating them and taking advantage of them... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 04:51 AM |
| 0 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).How do you claim to know this? I live in the world where I date women and talk to other men about their experiences, and I also listen to women talk about what they look for in men and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 04:50 AM |
| 0 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Being women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 04:48 AM |
| -4 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Jesus what kind of women are you dating??? This isn't just my experience. Its the experience of countless men. If you don’t want a woman who treats your relationship like it’s transactional, don’t date a transactional woman. No shit. That doesn't mean I can't comment on it. What is he protecting me from anyway? This is a question for the women who say they want a protector and a provider, there are actually many of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).and just who the hell do you think you are protecting women from? This is a question for women who say they want a protector, they do exist. but most women these days have jobs. And yet they still say they want a provider. The way some men on PPD see relationships is simply bewildering to me. Just because your relationship isn't like that doesn't mean there aren't many that are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on).Those who make others feel bad and won't do anything for anyone are not valuable people. Telling people the truth about something isn't always going to make them feel good and doing so doesn't make someone bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 01:45 AM |
| – | Marriage is a trap and its also a substitute for love.Yes it’s a legal contract but it also protects you From the man you love... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Marriage is a trap and its also a substitute for love.I can either be forced to protect myself like a rabid animal when push comes to shove or I can use the system of law and order Sounds like a very loving and trusting relationship. My parents died together, This doesn't mean anything. Alot of married people stay together even though they're miserable. In some cultures divorce is even frowned upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 09:02 AM |
| -2 | Marriage is a trap and its also a substitute for love.If someone loves you... They will absolutely NOT want to tell others about it? Come on now. Vowing to love someone until death in front of an audience is stupid. There's a reason why the divorce rate is so high. You can be in love and still protect yourself, and it can actually be a safety net instead of a trap. Yeah, protect yourself by basically getting the government involved in your relationship, so smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Sex is kind of stupid, and trying to get laid makes most guys act stupid.Take away what makes food tasty and eating is just for survival. That's literally what its for whether it tastes good or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Sex is kind of stupid, and trying to get laid makes most guys act stupid.Sex in itself isn’t any more “stupid” than anything else. Well, it kinda is considering how people look during it. Its essentially unconscious behaviour for most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Sex is kind of stupid, and trying to get laid makes most guys act stupid.For example, by your reasoning: eating steak and lobster (or whatever your favorite food) is stupid. Well, from an objective stand point, visually sex looks alot more stupid than eating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Sex is kind of stupid, and trying to get laid makes most guys act stupid.Afterwards you get post nut clarity! Exactly! This is basically what I'm talking about. But its post nut clarity without having to nut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Sex is kind of stupid, and trying to get laid makes most guys act stupid.Calling it stupid is very weird Not really. You're just not looking at it objectively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Sex is kind of stupid, and trying to get laid makes most guys act stupid.Everything else is abstract, utopia, “ stewards of the universe” , spirituality, philosophy, etc are all abstract. Philosophy and spirituality are only abstract if you don't understand them. We can prove with no doubt that our human bodies are created to do something specific, and that is to reproduce more human bodies. This doesn't mean sex isn't stupid. In fact, it makes it more stupid because its basically an expression of people's enslavement to biology. And all of what? To keep reproducing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 03:07 PM |
| -3 | Sex is kind of stupid, and trying to get laid makes most guys act stupid.In the real world that thing isn’t removed… Yes, but with enough awareness you can look at sex, and other things objectively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Sex is kind of stupid, and trying to get laid makes most guys act stupid.Not sure I agree or fully understand this part of your post. You don't say till death do us part for sex. No, I was saying that in the pursuit of trying to get laid, some men end up doing stupid things like getting married. There are also alot of people who don't have sex before marriage, and it will inevitably play a part in when they get married. Unfortunately it reads like someone who doesn't have much experience with this field. It needs no experience. I'm simply saying when sex is looked at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 02:22 PM |
| 0 | Sex is kind of stupid, and trying to get laid makes most guys act stupid.Sex is arguably the only tangible thing that we can physically see, What do you mean by this? and isn’t abstract that is part of our “ purpose” as human beings. Sex isn't part of anyone's purpose, not even porn stars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Sex is kind of stupid, and trying to get laid makes most guys act stupid.I'm just pointing out that sex is stupid and the process of trying to get it makes men act stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 01:59 PM |
| 5 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.It isn’t for me, or most women I know Maybe for you it isn't, but for alot of women it is. It’s just getting to know a person; Sure, and its also a way of finding out where they are financially and in terms of status. I ask women the same question when I am meeting them. People ask the same question to different people for different reasons. And many people are passionate about the work they do This just isn't true. Most people don't like their jobs, hating your job is the norm. Asking what peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 12:05 AM |
| 7 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.I didn't say it feels like a job interview, I said it is one. Even if she likes you, she still has to see if you are worth it financially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 12:01 AM |
| 6 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.That’s the type of person I personally don’t want to be with. Well, that's what most of the world is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:59 PM |
| 2 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.I've never been asked my salary. Unless the woman is a complete idiot, she would never straight up ask for your salary. But she will find out if you make enough money to be worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:38 PM |
| 8 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.A job tells you A LOT about a person. Not really. Most people do what they do for work because they need money. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:37 PM |
| 2 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.The idea that women only want to know what a man does for work because they want to evaluate his bank account is such bullshit. There is definitely truth to it, unless we just pretend like women have no interest in money when it comes to dating. I want to know if it fulfills you, if you’re happy there, if you’re making the world a better place. The reality is most people do their jobs out of necessity. Most people don't even like their jobs, so they don't like talking about them. Nobody is makin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:32 PM |
| 1 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Very rarely have I (and i’m sure MANY others) have gone through a date feeling like she’s interviewing me “for the role of boyfriend” She wouldn't be very good at it if you did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:26 PM |
| 2 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Do you honestly expect a grown-ass woman to date a guy without a job? In your comment you just said your wife works and you sit home all day without a job. So are you lying or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:17 PM |
| 1 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.So on the first date women are already thinking about a guy's income, and yet they aren't gold diggers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:13 PM |
| 7 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Its not about the question but the intention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:12 PM |
| 1 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Women want stability, women want to feel important when they’re with you. By you paying the bill, by you buying gifts you show how important this woman is to you. It’s simply engagement. You really think that women are so special that they're the only ones who want this? Also notice how everything you said revolves around the woman. why would she go to Applebees with you? Because its about forming a connection, not about where you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:11 PM |
| 0 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.I'm a guy, married now This means you signed a life long contract with one employer, in the context of the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.if that was something I had in my plans I wouldn’t have married him Nobody who's gotten divorced planned on it happening, otherwise they obviously wouldn't have gotten married in the first place. I can’t do really do shit without the government involved! So why not get them involved in your relationships as well, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.3% going to women and 97% going to men lol, That's just not true. I even showed you an article proving you wrong but ofcourse you ignored it. A simple google search will show that you're wrong. I am free, Being free is about more than just doing what you want. You can't even break up with your husband without the government being involved. legally binded” myself with them for the legal benefits we get, Exactly. Love has nothing to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.but they live longer, make more money and have more sex. Is that what life is about to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.The men asking women to marry them are idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.and not given by the government. Well, obviously. The government is there to make sure it is paid. Paying ex spouses alimony is a pretty rare thing these days. No, it isn't. What is rare is women paying it. Here's a direct quote from the ny times: "Another reason that men being awarded alimony can come as a surprise is because it doesn’t happen that often" The article even talks about how women are shocked when they have to pay alimony because its so rare for them to have to. Source: https://www… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.Women can say they want a provider yet still be able to provide for themselves. Women obviously can provide for themselves. I know alot of women who work very hard. The point is they want a provider so they can save their own money for more important stuff like make up or whatever. They also want to have the choice to not work and have the man do it. They basically just want a male slave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.Whatever it is you think you have to offer is part of the transaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.Here's a quote from a NY Times articles: "Another reason that men being awarded alimony can come as a surprise is because it doesn’t happen that often." This is literally what I'm saying. Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2021/10/30/style/men-alimony-spousal-support.amp.htmlc Maybe people at the new york times are just bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.Stop using anecdotal evidence. Give us real stats. You just sound bitter. "Of the 400,000 people in the United States receiving post-divorce spousal maintenance, just 3 percent were men." - https://www.forbes.com/sites/emmajohnson/2014/11/20/why-do-so-few-men-get-alimony/?sh=7df0832154b9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.I know lots of women who’ve had to pay alimony. Me being one. Well, you must be unique then because the actual stats which you can look up yourself say otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.You're proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.It seems that you are suggesting that women get married because they cannot provide for or protect themselves. You've never heard any woman say she wants a man to be a provider and to protect her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.Who do you think deals with the divorce? The courts, which represent the government. Marriage is between you, your wife and the government. Thats why you have to sign a contract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.Hate to break it to you but relationships are transactional. If you have a girlfriend, she definitely knows this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.But what do you mean if things should go wrong the government has my back?? Alimony and so on. You've never heard of men having to pay their ex wives after a divorce? Have you ever heard about divorce courts being biased against men? much less something they give women but not men You should look into divorce courts and listen to the men who've experienced them. Where do I sign up for this “guaranteed income”? Guaranteed income means working is a choice for you, if your husband has money. Which … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:28 PM |
| -1 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.not at the relationship you will build, The relationship can be built without marriage or even money. Its just that women aren't willing to build a relationshipwith a guy they can't use due to him having no money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.People who aren't married can also have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.To point out the truth. If marriage is so great then happily married people won't even care about this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.Most men wouldn't mind marrying an unemployed woman because they're not interested in her money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 02:01 PM |
| 8 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.You should google it so you can find the answer that satisfies you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.To get alimony, the court (which represents the government) has to get involved in the breaking up of the marriage. How do you not know this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:47 PM |
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