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Oh, well if that is the case then point taken. Not classy at all.
/r/seduction01/11/12 12:39 AM
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I'd be interested to see an example of what your average email conversation is that ends in a number close (that you will then use to organise a meetup).
/r/seduction31/10/12 07:42 PM
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Yeah, what's wrong with high5s?
/r/seduction31/10/12 07:17 PM
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Will update to include female cousins in the same boat as sisters.
/r/seduction30/10/12 08:21 PM
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I like the pillow forts line. Upvote.
/r/seduction30/10/12 08:20 PM
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Sucks that you don't get along with your sister. But you have surely seen enough sitcoms to know what a functioning sibling relationship might look like. I don't think attraction can be excluded from this. Attraction when focused towards your sister would be called love/respect, things like DHV and cocky-funny mostly are reasons why your sister loves you, and therefore attractive to other women. I agree that comfort should come naturally if you are treating a woman like your sister.
/r/seduction30/10/12 08:19 PM
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As I said above, "add in some sexual innuendo and don't forget to escalate.."
/r/seduction30/10/12 08:10 PM
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Other things that might matter: She asks what I'm doing, I tell her I'm fighting rhinos (bullshit). (Allows you to stay mysterious) She wants me to help with homework, "What's in it for me?" (Again, this would be sexual with a girl, and definitely not sexual if it is your sister).
/r/seduction30/10/12 04:01 AM
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And as always... Sidebar is over there --->
/r/seduction08/10/12 03:31 AM
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This really isn't a very good question for us to answer. However, I can repeat the main points that Seddit loves and hopefully you will listen. 1) DO IT. You can't win her heart if you don't even talk to her. 2) Attraction. Created by being fun/interesting. Lost by being needy/boring. 3) Escalation. Always be escalating. Google 'escalation ladder' and use the many threads in Seddit that have mentioned it. If you don't talk to her at all, nothing will happen ever. If she's attracted to you and yo…
/r/seduction08/10/12 02:03 AM
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The difference here is subtle. But one thing that jumps out at me when it comes to appearing needy is the need for Validation or the need for a response. Validation example: "Don't you hate it when someone cuts infront of you in a queue?" By phrasing this as a question, you ask them if they hate the same thing that you hate. This is trying to get her to validate your hate of queue cutters, and is therefore a nono. Asking for a response example: "I hate it when someone cuts infront of me in a que…
/r/seduction02/10/12 03:52 AM
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Try saying this with a smile and a light tone "If you don't stop interrupting me I'm going to bend you over my knee and spank you silly." She's either going to try harder to not interupt you (which is submissive, more likely to happen with more shy girls), and you look alpha as fuck, or, she's going to interupt you on purpose (which is her trying to be dominant, and you certainly can't let that happen), which means you get a free ticket to kino (grab her, pull her towards you and down, take it a…
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:44 AM
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If a girl finds your number off facebook, from friends, etc. Call her a stalker. Make it a nick-name. Tell her you will wander to the bathroom naked for a shower tonight at 8pm and she can see it all from the living room window. Easy way to make it sexual quick because she is the one who is creepy, not you. (Even though she isn't actually a stalker or a creep, but she could be...)
/r/seduction25/09/12 02:44 AM
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One problem, All those girls live just as far away as the mall was! Smooth :P
/r/seduction14/09/12 12:15 AM
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If you feel awkward just grabbing them, use your finger to tell them to come to you from about 1.5-2m away. That is a compliance test, if they come, they want to dance, if they dont, they dont.
/r/seduction13/09/12 04:35 AM
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If you are the sort of guy who doesn't care about boyfriends, use cookies line. The idea is to agree and escalate (because the boyfriend is sort of like a shit test). "That's great that you have a boyfriend. He can bake us all cookies and we can have a picnic. What a nice guy he must be." PS. Calling her BF 'nice' is pretty much the best insult in these situations. Nice guys finish last remember.
/r/seduction13/09/12 03:38 AM
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Obviously that isn't an opener, but it could certainly follow up an indirect opener. What do you mean by 'working'? Neg's aren't some magic leg spreading tool... If it makes her smile, laugh, pretend to be angry, or insult you back, it's working.
/r/seduction13/09/12 03:13 AM
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This is a good game. Only downside I see is that it lacks Kino. However, I expect there might be good opportunities to weave sexual innuendo into the game. You shouldn't really eject or go for number closes during periods of low attraction. However, if you have already played 3 other little games, then you may just want to bail.
/r/seduction13/09/12 03:11 AM
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Generally, you don't. The whole 'shit where you eat' thing really doesn't fly around here.
/r/seduction13/09/12 02:53 AM
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Kino escalation is what makes the difference between a kiss and sex (generally). So google it. On the subject of being nerdy - Chicks don't mind that you like anime or listen to K-Pop. They mind when you talk about it and you aren't interesting. I play computer games all the time, and if I talk to chicks about it, I talk about my experiences, or the bigger picture. ie. "I came around a corner and there was a monster right there. I flipped my shit, almost fell out of the chair and felt like turni…
/r/seduction13/09/12 02:06 AM
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I'm not going to tell you what a neg is, google can do that you lazy ass. However, here is an example of a neg. "You look so much nicer than the old lady I sat across from on the subway." It's funny, it's not rude, but it catches them off guard because it isn't actually a compliment.
/r/seduction13/09/12 01:55 AM
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If it is really dragging you down, move to a new town/city. Whole world seems brighter after something like that.
/r/seduction13/09/12 12:43 AM
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No shit, Sherlock. When opening a group, you have to involve the whole group. I'd say that is pretty self explanatory...
/r/seduction13/09/12 12:41 AM
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Hey hey hey. Shut up. It's not about how other people feel you. It's about how you feel about you. If you think you should lose weight, lose weight, because then you won't have that negative feeling about yourself. If you think you should lose the beard, lose it, then you won't feel negative about it. Once you have made these changes, you will have nothing left to feel bad about, and you won't care what other people think!
/r/seduction13/09/12 12:37 AM
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Just remember that there are three different ways to approach. Direct Approach - "Hi, I had to stop you because you are the cutest girl I've seen in the last 10 minutes and I just spent 5 minutes on the subway opposite a hideous old lady and my eyes are hurting. My name is Bob." Indirect Approach - "Hi, do you know where the nearest Starbucks is?" Not Approaching - [Internally] "What if I offer to shake her hand and she doesn't even want to touch me!??! Nevermind, I'll just go home and wank."
/r/seduction12/09/12 11:10 PM
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So sit/stand in the main walkway? You can either go for direct openers ("I stopped you because you have the biggest smile I have seen in the last 5 minutes and I'm stuck here waiting for friends") Or you can go for indirect openers ("Excuse me, do you know where the nearest Starbucks is?") Go for gold!
/r/seduction12/09/12 03:43 AM
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Meeting women at the gym is generally frowned upon. If you are at college, how are there no other places that you can run day game? Walking in a coridor? Day Game! Sitting on a bench? Day Game! Waiting outside the lecture theatre? Day Game! Library? Day Game! Lunch area? Day Game!
/r/seduction12/09/12 02:50 AM
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If she looks down and to the left, it is generally an IoI. If she smiles back, it is generally an IoI. If you see an IoI, walk straight up to target hot babe and say "Hey, I thought I should come over and say 'hi' because I'm a party rental expert and I think you look like you could use a good party". (you don't actually have to use this line though).
/r/seduction12/09/12 02:17 AM
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Dinner at a dining hall is alright, but remember that there will be other people around and you will have to be in state for that entire social circle, not just her. If you want to isolate, going for a walk because you ate too much is good. (side note here: calling skinny/fit girls fat is great, calling fat/self-concious girls fat is fucking sad. Make sure you phrase this one right) also, try not to be negative about the meal, ie. "Lets go for a walk and burn off this food so we can be even sexi…
/r/seduction12/09/12 02:15 AM
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Situation 1) You should have txt her within the first 2hrs, or after 2 days. A week is WAY too long. Make sure to be clear with your intentions over txt, instead of asking what's up, tell her what is up! "Some of us are going to X event on X night, I enjoyed your company when we met and I KNOW you enjoyed mine. Come along, it's promising to be a fun night." Situation 2) The hug and smile is an open invitation to start escalating. FUCKING TOUCH HER. Also, don't wait till of a long conversation be…
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:38 AM
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Easy. At lunch, you go to where girls hang out. You walk straight up to a group and use any opener you want. I would suggest making it a question about popular-culture, such as "Did you guys see the premier of X-Factor on Thursday? Because my friends are all talking about it and apparently I missed out on seeing BLAH do BLAH and it was good, but I'm not sure if they are just making shit up." Now they will talk to you, and with you. It is really that simple.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:29 AM
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Touch shoulder/arm, "look at this bitch with her ugly handbag thing". http://www.thedatingspecialist.com/blog/21-ways-to-touch-her/ Some of these are obviously not going to apply because you are a girl chasing guys, but, the principles are the same. Google 'kino escalation' and youtube it too, there is loads of material out there.
/r/seduction11/09/12 03:36 AM
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If you haven't already, learn about kino escalation. Remember that every IOI that you see is her (sub)consciously telling you that she wants you to escalate. Also, don't be afraid to take things slow, just be confident about it. If you really want to break the anxiety, try 30 second K-closing, maybe that shock you to your senses?
/r/seduction11/09/12 03:33 AM
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Sitting next to someone in a lecture theatre makes for very easy kino because you are side by side. Start trying out your kino skills!
/r/seduction11/09/12 02:02 AM
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You pretty much answered any of your own questions. For those for are lazy, a TLDR. TLDR - OP didn't kino enough, but he chose good environments to do so. OP didn't use sexual innuendo, instead he went in head-first and gave off a bit of a creepy vibe, but he seemed to recover well. OP didn't try for a kiss mid-date which meant that at the end he was too awkward and got a hug. Also, no venue change!?
/r/seduction10/09/12 03:00 AM
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The fact that you are nervous about being back with the parents is why you should definitely not mention it. If you say you're back with the parents, girls will pick up on how you feel about it. Whatever you want to say, just don't mention the parents and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction07/09/12 02:23 AM
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Correct answer to "Where are you taking me?" is something that you have talked about already that she should come an look at, ie. "The bright stars in the night sky". This gives her an innocent excuse to come back to your place or get horny on a park bench, whatever. Correct answer to "I don't wanna have sex with you" is "what makes you think I wanted to have sex with you?" Both of these are Anti-Slut Defence moves and/or shit tests. And you failed them miserably. Other note: Why don't you have …
/r/seduction05/09/12 11:08 PM
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bluehat is right. Why mention it? If you think you might have fucked up, then you fucked up, because you have lost your confidence. Go back in there tomorrow, be your best you, and HAVE FUN. Ugly bitch friend doesn't matter because she can't possibly be as fun as you are (unless they are lesbo) so all you have to do be cool. Labs and lectures are good for kino because they force you to sit next to each other (rather than opposite). Good time to run some game like palm reading (or cube if you pre…
/r/seduction05/09/12 09:39 PM
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Not really. It's all about confidence remember... If you have nothing else to say, it's a pretty good canned line. It's much better than saying nothing or not asking for a number at all. If she laughs it off, give her a real serious look and say, "seriously, put your number in my phone" and put your phone right in front of her chest.
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:03 PM
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90% of the time that is just a bitch shield. The other 10% you might have actually gone OTT. Either way, just continue a conversation like nothing ever happened.
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:44 AM
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You really aren't giving me anything to go on there bro. But, remember that attraction spikes. If you ask for her number at the end of a shit piece of conversation just before you eject, she's probably gonna reject you or flake. If she isn't interested in sex, then you didn't kino right, try again.
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:13 AM
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Generally by following up with "and this is crazy, but here's my number so call me, maybe". In all seriousness (and depending on your location and situation) this line works. Check out the sidebar if you haven't already ----> Also, look up Kino and Kino Escalation. Kino is essential.
/r/seduction04/09/12 01:26 AM
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I have some tips for house parties in general. BRING THE MUSIC. People will have an excuse to talk to you if you bring the music. Plus, it shows how good your taste is. PS. Have good taste for the scene you are in. BRING A CAMERA (or phone with a flash+camera). Pretty self-explanatory here. People see the flash, they look, they see you being cool. Social proof out the ass. Also, people will flock to you to take pictures with you.
/r/seduction03/09/12 10:03 PM
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Four pieces of advice. Firstly: Some girls are just not going to want sex. Secondly: Comfort. She needs to trust you and be comfortable with you, otherwise you probably aren't going to get laid. Thirdly: Isolation. It's a two step process. 1) get her alone. 2) get her more alone. (ie. Get her away from her friends. Get her to a different venue) Finally: Logistics & preparation. If she gets back to your place and it is a pig sty, preparation. If you get back to her place and she has a friend stay…
/r/seduction03/09/12 03:47 AM
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Two KEY points for younger guys. CONFIDENCE - Be it. LEADING - Do it.
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:41 AM
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agreed. If you stumble across a GF/BF combo, your safest option is "you're a lucky guy" and eject. Add "Although luck probably has nothing to do with it" and wink if you really feel like you might have crossed a line.
/r/seduction02/09/12 10:11 PM
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Sounds like a good time. Remember, escalation and isolation go hand in hand. If you wanted to go further than footsie in the tub, isolation becomes necessary. Also, if a girl asks for your number like that and you think that this might be a big deal for her (ie. she doesn't do it often [this might not be the case in this instance, but for the sake of others reading]) then a compliment like "that's brave, I like that, I'll gladly give you my number" doesn't go un-welcomed. Some chicks suck at pic…
/r/seduction28/08/12 09:58 PM
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This is where you will probably realise that PUA's suggest 'ISOLATE' before you try anything too serious. Also, Simple Pickup like to suggest mentioning that something is awkward thereby making it less awkward, though I haven't tested this much.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:45 AM
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On approach two. If you notice her pulling away, then she might not be interested (as i'm guessing you already know). If you are going to try for her number anyway, then use this one. "Put your number in my phone, (wait till she takes it, but before she puts the number in) I'm going to call you to check that it isn't fake. And if it is, then we can't be friends anymore!" (said jokingly, possibly kino with a small push) This is a disqualifier (treating her like a friend), it also makes it harder …
/r/seduction27/08/12 12:51 AM
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You need to build attraction fast and K-close quite quickly so that you can move on to comfort. Most girls wont F-close without comfort levels being high enough.
/r/seduction20/08/12 12:04 AM
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Sounds like you just need to get your logistics sorted. You shouldn't fuck a girl on the couch in the middle of a party. Bathrooms are only good until someone else needs to pee. Figure out the logistics. Prepare your bachelor pad. Isolate and escalate then bring her home.
/r/seduction19/08/12 10:53 PM
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Sounds like you played all you cards right. My question to you, did you want to have sex with her? Because it sounds like she was DTF. You probably could have offered cuddling, make it sound like you aren't all that in to it and ask what's in it for you. If you want to get a girls number but she is hesitant about giving it out so directly, suggest an activity you can do together and say "how can we make that happen?" She will more than happily say that you should call her. Get her number off J, …
/r/seduction15/08/12 10:49 PM
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Firstly, this probably belongs on /r/AskSeddit. Secondly, you have her number. Good for you. Next step is to decide what you want. If you want a LTR/LDR, then go for it. Talk about feelings and crap. She's 16, she'll eat that shit up. If all you want is a bit of fun, then text her once a fortnight or so. Text things like, "Saw a minnow today, I managed to catch it with one hand. I still have proof that I'm better than you." Remember, your goal here is to be playful, funny, and sexual. So follow …
/r/seduction13/08/12 02:17 AM
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Good work man. Last words of wisdom: There are going to be other guys on the boat with you (I'm guessing) so you need to make sure you stay on your game. What will set you apart from the other guys is kino. Google it if you don't know what it is already. Hold her hand to get her in/out of the boat (chivalry never goes unwanted). Touch her arms, hi-five (some people don't like high fives, but 16year old girls do, so that is fine). Life jacket on means you can't touch the small of her back, so go …
/r/seduction13/08/12 02:04 AM
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Don't let her or anyone control what you do. My only advice here is to make sure that you don't lose social value by seeming needy. Last thing you want is for her to talk about you in a bad frame.
/r/seduction13/08/12 12:14 AM
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Another boast post. Try to give more details on what you did, and less detail on what happened. From here, you call her, tell her 'you give her an F for ability in responding to txts' (call her out on flaking etc.), tell her that you are doing X and she is coming. Either that, or you just find other girl who doesn't just want you for your not-quite-a-six-pack.
/r/seduction12/08/12 10:39 PM
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Talk to your friend. Let him know what's up. He has the following two options: You combine PUA time and Friend time. You hang out but you also use this time for meeting babes. You offer again to wing for him, he is a bro after all. You separate man time and girl time. When you hang with him, you do man things and girls aren't part of the equation unless you agree on it. It would also be polite to ask for his permission before opening girls during man time. You would invariably see him 50% less o…
/r/seduction12/08/12 09:44 PM
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You've come to the Seduction sub-reddit. Which means that you are going to SEDUCE her. You aren't just going to try and kiss her. You sure as hell aren't going to ask permission. Google Kino, Kino Escalation, Kino Ramp/Ladder This will tell you all you need to know on how to go from friends to fucking. Also, look towards the side bar ------> They have lots of goodies about escaping the friend-zone.
/r/seduction10/08/12 05:04 AM
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When your parents ask you 'How was school?', you say, 'Good', or just shrug. This is exactly what you just did. Think about that. Even just phrasing it differently makes it less boring. "I'm in a good/foul mood today, are you wallowing in sadness with me or is today all sunshine and rainbows for you?" She can't just say 'Good'. PS. Don't be negative, if you do say you are having a bad day, make the reason stupid, such as 'I wanted to make pancakes but I don't have any eggs'. First world problems…
/r/seduction10/08/12 03:11 AM
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I will answer these bullet points for you. "She was sitting across from me." You just answered your own issue there. You HAVE learned things. If you need to kino, don't sit across from her. Sit in a booth, on the same side. Sit on a bench. Etc. What do you WANT to do from here? Do it! Want to kiss? Do it. Want to fuck? Do it! Want to talk about fishfingers? DO IT! You know what is necessary to get you there. a = k + f2 (attraction = kino + fun2) You know what fun is. You know what kino is. Make …
/r/seduction09/08/12 10:16 PM
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"Is there anything I should be worried about?" "Anything you want to tell me before we get started?" "Do you have any diseases I should know about?"
/r/seduction03/08/12 01:29 AM
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If you have put a false time constraint on yourself, then this isn't really an issue. But your standard line should be something like: blah blah "I've enjoyed getting to know you, we should do this again another time." Followed by your choice of number close. "Put your number in my phone and I'll call you." "How can we make that happen?" (Then she suggests phone number exchange etc).
/r/seduction03/08/12 12:08 AM
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No worries bro. One last thing though, these activities are good because of how easy it is to kino during them (except bike riding). Kino and sexual innuendo are your toolkit to not falling into the friend zone (which is definitely your biggest obstacle here). If you aren't familiar, I suggest reading about the escalation ladder, and kino escalation in general as they will set you on the right track from moving you from acquaintances to relationship material.
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:08 AM
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"I made <food> last week, it was better than usual. I was half expecting you to stalk me home so I put in extra effort. Can you taste the <food> in your mind?" -cashier says yes, no etc, make small talk, you have a false time constraint for free because you are at a store - "I have to go now, write your number on my receipt, maybe I'll call you next time I'm cooking something special". -Give her a novelty pen (because you may need to make her keep it), take the receipt + number -If she forgets t…
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:50 AM
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10 pin bowling feeding the ducks swimming riding bikes walking/hiking Geocaching (look it up) Picnic coffee hell, you could even take her to a games arcade. edit: (I actually really like the games arcade idea. I might try day-game outside an arcade and try to recruit a partner to shoot zombies/criminals with).
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:03 AM
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Gym is generally a bad idea. Only option in my opinion is that you take a group class together. But it really shouldn't be yoga/pilates. You can't talk during yoga (rude etc)...
/r/seduction01/08/12 02:42 AM
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