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Stay hard for 10 min.: https://youtu.be/TpkKx8jzmCQ
/r/seduction27/06/19 05:26 AM
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No. Focus on getting three Areas. Show Value, create Comfort, and show a sexual side. ​ Show value(DHV), means tell a story from your own life, that show you have a passion about something. ​ Create Comfort, ask the girl about her life, and show her that You can relate to her life. ​ Sexual side... just a simple sexual joke, or misunderstand something she said, as sexual. ​ You properly already have 1 or 2 areas down, when talking to a girl, and then You just need the last one...
/r/seduction26/04/19 09:42 AM
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You need to tell DHV to show the girls, why they should talk with you. ​ If you ask a girl for the time, she will not want to date you. (Unless you are a good looking.) ​ Now if You ask the same girl for the time, because you are meeting an investor, to talk about your million dollar project.... ​ Find 10 things that gives you high value, or google for "DHV Stories", and try some of those. (It is bad to use others DHV, but it will help you to start with those....)
/r/seduction26/12/18 11:00 AM
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If you want more confidence, then find 5 DHV things in your life, and focus on those. ​ What is your passion.? If you got a million dollars every day for the rest of your life, what would you do with in your free time.? ​ I make games, and even if I won that powerball jackpot, I would still make games.. ​ I wrote a free book about becoming a more confident guy, and improve your skill with girls: https://www.scribd.com/doc/297491852/3-Simple-Secrets-to-Seduce-Girls ​ Hope it helps...
/r/seduction24/10/18 06:28 PM
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Was he a priest.?
/r/seduction14/09/18 05:35 PM
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How long is his unedited videos.? How many days did it take to make-out with enough girls... You can make a video of anybody picking up girls.... and just edited the 90% misses out. Why are the clips less than 1 minute long.? Any clips from cold approach to kiss close.? A pro camera (team) and lighting... that is a huge DHV.
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:14 PM
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No. But having money is a big DHV. Ever hear about: Harvey Weinstein. Rich, powerful movie producer, but could not get any hot ladies. (And had to abuse them.) Find 3-5 DHV that you can display, and you will start becoming Alpha. Here is wealth also a factor... http://www.pualingo.com/display-high-value-dhv/
/r/seduction15/07/18 07:01 PM
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First thing... You are to much in your head. You are thinking about possibilities, that may or may not be truth. Age The only time your age is a question, is when you need to get into clubs. I have 15 - 30+ years old girls (I'm 43) flirting with me. 18 years old girls wants a guy with a little life experience. They don't care about job or his own business. You might just need the love of a girl, to become powerful. Your looks Unless you have a big mole on your noose, your looks sounds like the g…
/r/seduction02/07/18 05:12 AM
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The last question first... NO, I got Rejection yesterday, from two girls, but I don't invest a lot in a girl, before I have talk for some times with her. Reject fells bad, if you only has this one chance to meet the girl of your dream. Open 10 sets, and you don't care... You don't know if she is the girl of your dream, yet. Set up 3 things the girl has to have, before you invest your hopes and dreams in this girl. From your text... She need to be sporty, intelligent, and likes computer games... …
/r/seduction01/07/18 06:22 AM
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That is why your wing man walk 10 meters behind you... He sees the signs, and after 5 minutes you get feedback, and maybe change, so you walk 10 meters behind him. Yes. The more visible the signs are, and the more frequent they come.
/r/seduction30/06/18 12:09 PM
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No. And that is why you need a wingman. Because sometimes the IOI's comes just after you have walked past the girl.... Like the girl has a second delay, before she gives you IOI.... but at that movement you have passed her by, and are looking in another direction. But it is stuff, like the girl walking into the path you just left, turns towards you, flick her hair, or laugh a little to high... But we "Shaved Monkeys" are already looking at that next girl 50 meters away. And eye contact is the mo…
/r/seduction30/06/18 09:07 AM
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You can fake it, but it will only last until your first shit-test. Find ten small things that you had success in. Then you will have a little more confidence. Search for "PUA Inner game", and start learning to become strong from within.
/r/seduction30/06/18 06:49 AM
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Give yourself a challenge. Go to a mall, and talk with ten girls. Don't approach and try to seduce. Just ask for directions, or get help for a gift for a lady friend who just finishing college. Then have one joke to tell, and eject... Sit down after each approach and think what she did that may be an IOI. When I was training kids(15-30) for pick-up, (me being an old dude 30+), I would start them out easy, Just getting to talk with girls... Like where is the bathroom.?, what should I buy for my l…
/r/seduction30/06/18 05:17 AM
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But it is to easy to fake. Everybody who has ever worked with customers, can fake that. The other IOI's are more unconscious and that makes them harder to fake. That is also the reason that you should count 3 IOI's before going to next phase. But first you have learn to see them, before anything else.
/r/seduction30/06/18 04:29 AM
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Have you ever realized a girl was flirting with you, like 1 hour to late.? Like You got all the way home from a party, and sitting on your bed, you remembered something a girl did, that was an IOI.? It is called Male Pattern Blindness, and you just have to train it away... like I wrote in the first post here. I have taught pick-up for 5 years, and each times I had a guy "who girls don't gives IOI", I did that walk through a shopping street thing. Of course a pretty man gets 10X more than me, but…
/r/seduction30/06/18 03:58 AM
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No. You have to pay attention. I'm a obese, (semi)bald, older dude, and girls gives my IOI in my shop, because I'm happy and treat everybody with respected. Walk down a busy shopping street or a mall, and have a wing-man walk 10 meters behind you, and he will see all the IOI you are getting.
/r/seduction29/06/18 08:11 PM
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Get a list of IOI, and ask him to focus on one IOI for a week. Here is a list: http://www.pualingo.com/indicator-of-interest-ioi/ You can snap your fingers, when a girl is doing that IOI, to help him see it. You can make it a game, for who can see first. The loser does a push-up..
/r/seduction29/06/18 05:12 PM
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Tinder is all about the visual... and the pictures are okay. You have pictures of you with different girls, which shows pre-selection. But you are chubby. Do you have any pictures of you training.? If you never trained, just get a free hour in your local gym, and take 4-5 pictures in that hour.... Maybe even with some girls in hot training cloths. The hotter the girl, the bigger value you have, by pre-selection. Second thing is, get a picture of you in a suit or in a shirt in a party scene with …
/r/seduction28/06/18 06:52 AM
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Stop the girl, turn to face the same direction, and open with some kind of opinion opener. Stop the girl, if she keeps walking, the set was lost anyway. Stand by her side, while turning to face the same direction. If you stay facing her, she subconsciously think you are in her way, and she is looking at the place she wants to be. If you stand side by side, she has to look at you and that break her "I'm going toward that point". And you seem like a friend, not an enemy. "What is a good gift for m…
/r/seduction27/06/18 08:56 AM
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I'm an obese dude and do day game, and it works... Just start with talk to a pretty girl or two when you go shopping food. If possible, start shopping in bigger marked or shopping center. Just walk around, and you will see girls standing around selling stuff, and you can train talking with them. Alt. Start at a exercise class, like Zumba or Yoga. You meet girls and get more relaxed around them.
/r/seduction22/06/18 02:17 PM
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Now you know why he is single.... But if that is the last part that he is missing, tell him.
/r/seduction22/06/18 07:54 AM
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The skill you learn in the books, will give you a strategy. And That will help you with the 80% girls in the middle. And Yes, the more you train the better you get. Simple strategy is: Find things that gives you high value, like DHV per-Selection and jokes... Find common ground, so the girl can relate to you. And tell a sexual joke from time to time, so she knows you are a sexual being.
/r/seduction19/06/18 07:27 PM
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It is a numbers games, and sometimes your numbers is up. There is a 10% that the girl is just up for some fun, and you are the lucky guy. and there is a 10% chance that, no matter what you say she will hate you.... But that truth will not sell books.
/r/seduction19/06/18 06:49 PM
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Learn self hypnosis or NLP.... The simple version,every night in your bed.. Imagine being naked with a girl. After two-three weeks your mind will start to think that this is normal.
/r/seduction03/06/18 07:36 PM
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Get a beer or what you like, and go around and says "Cheers" to everyone. First time you have to forced it a little, but repeat it 30 minutes later, and girls starts to flirt with you. Read up on room game.
/r/seduction22/05/18 07:16 PM
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If you are focused on your outcome.... decide your outcome, before the event. My trick is to repeat "You are super social." It makes me focus on being social. I talk with 10+ new people at the last party I was at. (And 20 people I already knew.) Maybe something more specific like "Your goal tonight is to learn something new from 5 persons." Write your goal down on your phone, and write them like it is a command. So every time you read them, you hear a command in your mind.
/r/seduction21/05/18 08:34 PM
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Normally I also just post... but I just found myself hunting for Upvoates.
/r/seduction19/04/18 09:13 AM
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Analyse your game: There are three areas, you need to cover. Attraction: Use DHV stories, games, or make her laugh. Comfort: Create connection, tell comfort stories or mirror her Body language. Sex: tell at least one sexual joke, or make a "could be dirty" comment. Which area do you need to do more about.?
/r/seduction04/06/17 05:40 AM
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This will add memories of you being good with girls... Hear it once or twice.... with headphone on. http://jespersb.com/onewebmedia/Seduction%20nude%20girls-v2.MP3
/r/seduction09/10/16 10:34 AM
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I made a audio that helps men become more relaxed with girls. It is an beta, because I never got around to make it better. But here is the link... http://jespersb.com/Links.html
/r/seduction29/09/16 07:04 AM
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Stand next to them, like shoulder to shoulder, but 10-20 cm away. It means like "we are friends." When you block their way, you become something dangerous. Talk about things you have in comment, like where is the nearest poke stop, or where to find good Pokemon.
/r/seduction08/08/16 08:18 AM
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First... who rule is you have to have lots of sex.? You might be the one kind of love kind of person. Second.. You focused on what you don't want.... What do you want.? Just sex, without the love, or what.?
/r/seduction31/03/16 12:31 PM
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If you keep getting Friendzoned, you need more attraction stuff, or more sexual stuff. Read this and add two or three stories that shows DHV: https://www.scribd.com/doc/297491852/3-simple-secrets-to-seduce-girls
/r/seduction25/03/16 06:16 PM
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You got her attracted to you... Because she laugh at your jokes. Now you need to build comfort, so she feel safe to be alone with you. Here is my book, where I describe the steps... https://www.scribd.com/doc/297491852/3-simple-secrets-to-seduce-girls
/r/seduction25/03/16 06:13 PM
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I made my book just about that. Building self-confidence from things in your life that is truth. Read it here: https://www.scribd.com/doc/297491852/3-Simple-Secrets-to-Seduce-Girls
/r/seduction17/03/16 03:19 PM
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Ask her if she read any good books. If you can't talk with her, (Which was your first question) you can't talk with her... Not with Qualifying, showing high value or creating comfort. The simple way is: First to create value, like the Cheers routine I use..(Search on Room game). That gives you value all thorough the club. Then you can ask the girls small question like, what does she study, or what did she read last...
/r/seduction08/03/16 05:19 PM
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My way is just to walk around and say cheers to everybody. Then people either sees you as super social which is attractive... or they sometimes think I own the place, or are the host. Here is my book, read the first couple of way to show value: https://www.scribd.com/doc/297491852/3-Simple-Secrets-to-Seduce-Girls
/r/seduction08/03/16 03:09 PM
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Either in a taxi on the way back to your/her room. Or maybe find a less noisy place in the club. She is ready to have sex... You just need a little bit of comfort, and you can create that in the taxi.
/r/seduction08/03/16 02:34 PM
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You don't build comfort inside the club... You build Attraction inside the club, and then get her outside, and start building the comfort there. One thing you can do inside the club, is too mirror her body language. Start to mirror her legs, like how she stands, and the angle of her feet. You can train it IRL, while waiting for bus or in a shopping line.
/r/seduction08/03/16 12:30 PM
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For an idea: In my country the lair started on a Bodybuilder site.
/r/seduction08/03/16 12:24 PM
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Okay, could you send me a link to the previous FR, so I got something to compare with.? Ps. They use FB because they feel alone. If you where perfectly happy you didn't need to look at what others do.
/r/seduction16/02/16 04:30 PM
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Being Valentine's, where single girls feels most alone, does help a lot.
/r/seduction16/02/16 11:27 AM
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Short version... You need more comfort. Get the guy to tell about their life, and share stories about your life. That creates comfort, and the person want to be part of your life. Maybe after sex... that is where I do it. (Not gay... but)
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:17 PM
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Ask where she learned to dance, why is she dancing, what is the great experience she has with dancing.? You might even want to compliment her dancing, clothes, and shoe...
/r/seduction11/02/16 08:31 AM
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You have a wrong focus... You should feel stuff, that is Why we go out with girls. What you should focused on is... You have many good things in your life. I wrote a book about it: https://www.scribd.com/doc/297491852/3-Simple-Secrets-to-Seduce-Girls It makes you find 5 areas where you have success. First reason is to tell girls about it, so you get higher value, and it makes it easier to seduce her. But second reason is, when you get rejected, you will remember "Hey, You got 5 other areas where…
/r/seduction11/02/16 08:15 AM
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You have some skills, if the girls want to hang with you. You just need some more confidence, to become the happy guy you could be... Here is a way to become more confidcent with girls. https://www.scribd.com/doc/297491852/3-Simple-Secrets-to-Seduce-Girls
/r/seduction11/02/16 08:00 AM
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Some girls are just sad, because they don't get enough sex... And they get mad when other girls has a chance to get sex. It is her that is the problem, You are Okay. (Next time just take a deep breath, and smile at the little girl's tantrum .)
/r/seduction03/02/16 07:43 AM
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Do you qualify a girl on it, or is it more in the back of your head thing.? I have a thing about smokers, and obese girls.
/r/seduction02/02/16 09:31 AM
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Did you qualify her, because it sounds like she is qualifying you. And that makes her the one with high value. Find 3-4 things to qualify her about.
/r/seduction02/02/16 09:27 AM
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I have done this for about 5 years and only once was I approached by the mall cops. Remember: Girls go to the mall to meet guys. But if you are scared, start doing your approaches in a mall far from your hometown.
/r/seduction02/02/16 09:23 AM
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Read this and see if you find what you are missing in your talks with girls. https://www.scribd.com/doc/297491852/3-Quick-Cheats-to-Seduce-Girls
/r/seduction01/02/16 03:29 PM
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Yes... One of the pioneers in pick-up just got a tape-recorder and walked around and talked with girls. And he got a lot of sex, and learned that the most important things... is to talk with girls. You are not looking for perfection. You just need to be better than a drunk guy, with bad Pick-up lines. The second most important things is to stay with the girl, until the party is over, or she ejects you. If you are the best chance of sex, you will be chosen over sleeping alone.
/r/seduction30/01/16 09:28 AM
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First: Monogamous means staying with one partner for a life time..., so I think you mean "party girl" or something else. You play hard to get, and she is used to getting "Beta" guys to do stuff for her. She might be attracted to you, because she thinks you are an Alpha male. Not buying into her frame, and holding her up to a standard is some of the Alpha traits. If you sleep together, then don't have sex with her the first night, or she will put you back in the "Beta male" group.
/r/seduction30/01/16 09:20 AM
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First time you do anything, it is hard. I had Seduction students that need 2-3 times out, before they started to relax and could talk with girls. Do it five times in a row, and see if it changes. Maybe write down 3-5 questions and mentally train to ask them. Imagine a hot girl sitting on your lap, and you staying cool and relaxed while talking with her.
/r/seduction30/01/16 09:12 AM
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Girls only cares about your look, if you miss all the other things... like... Read this, and see that looks are no. 10: http://www.lovepanky.com/men/essentials-for-men/what-do-women-look-for-in-a-man Work on numbers 1-9 before caring about your looks. But still get the braces...
/r/seduction25/01/16 04:10 PM
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Get a better idea or you will be classified as a hater.
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:13 PM
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Do you touch them.? Do you take them to the movie.? Describe the last date, so we have some data... or I need to get my Tarot-card out.
/r/seduction22/01/16 12:17 PM
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You can escalate physical, and you can escalate, with words. Learn 2-3 sexual jokes, and tell them, after talking with a girl for maybe 10 minutes. You have game. Some of my wing men was virgin at 25 years of age..., so you are a head of many guys. Second is to start touching everybody. Give your friends high-fives and hip bums girls. http://0.static.newspaper.guestlistmedia.net/uploads/articles/6/925_xl.jpg And stuff will work it self out.
/r/seduction22/01/16 12:15 PM
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Get a dog, and start walking it. Then you have something in common... and a reason to talk. Get back when you have talk with her the first time, then we have something to go on.
/r/seduction22/01/16 12:08 PM
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If you still think about her after 6 months... You are in love, Go Fuck Ten Other Girls, And then come back and let us talk again.
/r/seduction14/01/16 05:39 PM
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It shows that, you think, you live in a world of scarcity. If you have many girls to choose from, aka living in a world of abundance, then you can have as much sex, but without breaking up relationships. It sounds like you are trying to find an excuse to fuck a girl in a relationship... maybe you even got oneitis. GFTOG If I had sex with your new girlfriend, maybe even one you thought spending your life with.... would that be cool.?
/r/seduction14/01/16 04:08 PM
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Here is why I think it worked. Your friend had talk you up, and then you are just cool, laid back guy. Imagine if your bro, said like "He is so cool and good with girls.", and you show up, and seems not interested. Those girls found them self rejected, and tried to win your attention. I have it when I'm sick or really tired... girls tries to get my attention, and even open me. Escalation idea .... learn "thumb wars", and find a reason to battle with the girls...
/r/seduction11/01/16 04:50 PM
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Ever read "The game".? Does Mystery strike you as a person having fun.? Does anyone in that book strike you as having fun, all the time.?
/r/seduction11/01/16 01:35 PM
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The Lion king... is a good movie to seduce girls to. Hug her and hold your hands around her hips, while asking for what she wants to see. If she stays, with her hips against your... she is interested in sex.
/r/seduction09/01/16 03:53 PM
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Just start dating a lot of women.... Thanks. I did not know it was that simple. :-~
/r/seduction14/12/15 08:30 PM
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I never ever said this to a man ;-) , but pluck your eyebrows. It makes them look thinner and Less like Frankenstein's monster. Cut your bangs, so your front head/face is more open.... Actually go to a lady beauty salon, and ask them. If you don't have that kind off money, then a friend with a trimmer.. Make it an army cut. Just to try if it works better. Not ultra short, but maybe 9 millimeter.
/r/seduction14/12/15 08:26 PM
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Are you sleeping this girl, or are you dream of it.? If you have sex with her, then ask her to help you set up some goal. If are not having sex with her, then you are dream... and lying to your self. Again ask her for help if she is into self development.
/r/seduction07/12/15 10:09 PM
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Take a chance, and ask her... If she says no, at least you took a chance.
/r/seduction07/12/15 09:55 PM
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If you can draw pictures of a girl, then that would make her like you. Just enough to get a date. Never judge a girl on what you think she might think. You don't know, because even the biggest loser (And that is not you)... has about 10% of girls that likes him. Some girls need a guy, They can save. You just need to talk with 10 girls, and one of those will like you. Go somewhere with many people and draw pictures of people, and girls will start to contact you. (Maybe at the gym... ;-)
/r/seduction07/12/15 09:51 PM
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Okay. Tell me one thing you do better than the average joe.? Don't care if it is Skyrim, reading books, or even getting small children to smile... Have you ever gotten top grade or just the best grade in class.? Just find one thing.
/r/seduction07/12/15 07:29 AM
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If a girl ask you to go to her place (or to yours), it is a booty call. Bring protection, but only tell her it, if she ask. One movie is Disney's "The Lion king". It is romantic and easy to make a move to... And you can watch it, while talking about the school time.
/r/seduction04/12/15 08:25 AM
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You post the Selfie on your Facebook to appear like you have lots of girls in your life. (It is called Pre-selection.) Just relax and let it happen. Pretend you are a cool rockstar, and the girl is one of the one hundred groupies you meet every day. If it is getting you closer to having sex with her, just ignore your own hesitating about it, play cool and let it happen. If she takes a selfie, and then she walk away, then you have a problem.
/r/seduction04/12/15 08:19 AM
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If you want to give her a hug at the start, when you get to her house... You get out of the car, open the door for her, and then give her a hug, when she is close to you... In the car, You talk with her, and only touch her arm or her leg close to her knee. Read "dicarlo escalation ladder", for how to touch and in which other... http://images-cdn.9gag.com/photo/a0PGP5B_700b.jpg
/r/seduction04/12/15 08:01 AM
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Do a little exercise... What is the worst that can happen.? If you get kick out of school, you get a job, and start earning money. Second, is to find something that makes you happy. When I was depressed I watched stand-up, until my outlook started to become brighter. Third: is to Set a goal. Some people with depression lacks a goal and just walks around in a circle. Set yourself a goal. Like do exercise once a week for the next month. And Write it up on a wall, so you are reminded of it every da…
/r/seduction04/12/15 07:56 AM
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It helps to do exercise. And do it where there are girls. Join a gym, and do bodybuilding, for the confidence. Then once a week do a class with girls, like zumba. And if you want more confidence from the inside out. Read this: https://www.scribd.com/doc/233948607/Simple-Seduction-How-to-be-honest-and-still-get-the-girl
/r/seduction04/12/15 07:49 AM
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Texting is Wrong, when you only text... and you use that as an excuse not to meet her. A couple of my ladyfriends calls it an "forever texter", who don't have the balls to ask for the date. Texting builds comfort, and that is wrong, when you should be create value before the first date. When you already had sex, then you are over the hump, and into relationship texting. But also remember to wait, when she texts you. Like from time to time, wait 45-60 minutes to text her back. (Because you have a…
/r/seduction02/12/15 08:49 AM
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There is a couple of techniques in "Room game", you can use to meet the guys, and get them to find you more attractive. Simply: Get a drink, and walk a round saying cheers to every group you meet. It gives you higher value and that makes that guy, want to seduce you even more...
/r/seduction30/11/15 04:55 PM
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Then tell us what works on you.... Be a helper, not a hater.
/r/seduction30/11/15 04:12 PM
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Yes, they work..., but I like to have more than one card to play. And I don't have 30 minutes to talk with a girl at my workplace.
/r/seduction30/11/15 12:13 PM
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Teach him thumb-war, and then go through the mall on a normal day and challenge girls to thumb-war, and put him on the line. The winner gets a hug... ;-)
/r/seduction28/11/15 08:58 PM
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