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10

If true OP has seen the same movie multiple times so in this case yes, that is a waste of time.
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:14 PM
10

It's basically been a 4 year almost completely dry spell since then. Damn son, go out and get some.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:48 PM
1

There's always these guys that pop in here, want help but don't actually want to do work or expect a simple solution.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:44 PM
3

I read the title and I though it was obvious where you meet women that aren't at bars or clubs, everywhere that's not a bar or a club.
/r/seduction23/02/18 05:51 PM
3

Approaching women in person can be scary/intimidating/ fear of rejection et cetera. Everything in life is like this at one point or another. Embrace rejection and live a more full life because of it. Approaching women in person is an inherently creepy action. No it's not, not at all.
/r/seduction09/02/18 06:21 PM
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That fact that you go into such excruciating detail for interactions from a few hours of your evening is telling in itself. That along with someone telling you that you’re being too tight, you can easily wear a shirt and tie in public without being too tight. I congratulate you on going out alone, that’s not easy to do at all especially on NYE! However, I couldn’t read much more than the first “interaction” due to the unnecessary detail. You know what you need to do which involves working on you…
/r/seduction05/01/18 01:03 AM
1

which I just think is the most beautiful girl I've seen, both by personality and looks. You only know that she's beautiful on the outside, you know nothing about her and maybe when you learn about her you'll find she's not that beautiful on the outside either. Realize that most things are awkward at your age and that with experience comes release from this anxiety that you now have and that the only way to fuck up is to do nothing. That's it, everything else, regardless of outcome, is a success …
/r/seduction31/10/17 07:48 PM
4

http://odditymall.com/ultimate-bed https://www.englishtaobao.net/Search/?q=Tatami+Massage+Bed&cat=0
/r/seduction29/09/17 09:29 PM
1

Your second question is the most telling of this post. You need to practice and add some confidence to your life. Go out and talk to anyone and everyone, be their friend! You're in college, arguably one of the best and easiest times to talk to women so just do it. In class, in the hallway, walking to class, at a club (extracurricular activity not dance club), at the grocery store, etc...
/r/seduction11/07/17 02:48 AM
7

You go do cool shit, aka shit you find interesting and are passionate about. Have plans for the future. Always be making yourself better and try new things.
/r/seduction30/06/17 02:29 AM
3

H350
/r/PussyPassDenied21/06/17 11:57 AM
6

You're not people man!
/r/PussyPassDenied21/06/17 11:57 AM
2

PUA oh come on man, grow up. Dancing is dancing, if you want to know how to seduce a woman on the dance floor or in a bar then ask that question. In almost EVERY country not drinking at a bar or club is seen as weird but only by those that are insecure about themselves and who cares about them? If you're there to have fun then have fun. Anything you can do fucked up you can do 10x better sober. Do you want to be with a woman who cares how much you drink? Maybe she was more embarrassed that you d…
/r/seduction06/06/17 12:45 PM
6

You do shots quickly because of how bad it is, what else in life do you put in your body so quickly because it's so bad and will fuck you up? Practically nothing. Most women in clubs are drinking liquor with so much sugar or froo added that the there's only a hint of alcohol. I'm convinced that people don't naturally like alcohol at first sip because it is a poison but society and media have conditioned us to think that it's an acquired taste. Take that as you will but if you don't like it then …
/r/seduction06/06/17 12:16 PM
3

Take the opportunity to flirt more and have fun with them and the camera. She might have just wanted a picture, maybe a picture and something more or maybe the picture was a way to find out more about you. Hard to tell.
/r/seduction01/05/17 10:21 PM
16

Several hours? Maybe if they're driving from several hours away but not if we're meeting for a meal or drinks.
/r/seduction03/04/17 08:52 PM
18

I barely even give my good friends 20 minutes unless they have given me notice and have a good excuse.
/r/seduction03/04/17 08:06 PM
2

I asked for a free coolant flush and refill on top of everything else I had done for my truck yesterday. I asked nicely and would have been OK if they said no but they said yes and it was awesome.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/17 02:42 PM
1

Well whatever, good. Ask her out you idiot.
/r/seduction19/02/17 06:08 PM
1

Do you think these two are still dating? (self.seduction) submitted an hour ago by BakedBlondie [removed]
/r/seduction19/02/17 06:03 PM
2

Glad you removed your post but the fact is asking someone out is not stealing a girl and is in fact seeing if she's available and interested.
/r/seduction19/02/17 05:52 PM
2

Who cares? If you like her ask her out.
/r/seduction19/02/17 05:28 PM
1

Everyone has their own grove they need to get into Exactly, so many people shoot down the "just be yourself" adage but it's so true. If you're being yourself and yourself is awesome with things you mentioned like getting out, hobbies and being interesting then being yourself just works.
/r/seduction12/01/17 06:11 PM
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I have plenty of tips on how to approach women in creepy ways! That's not what you asked though. If you FEEL like you're giving off a creepy vibe, you probably are so you need to change your mindset. You shouldn't want to make people feel comfortable with you. Your goal should be to feel comfortable with yourself and with that people will feel comfortable around you. Keep approaching! Don't sneak up on them from behind, don't surprise them, speak with authority, not too loud and definitely not t…
/r/seduction11/01/17 10:48 PM
6

You could have asked her before just walking out...
/r/seduction31/12/16 07:26 PM
1

because I am worried about being left feeling used Well, what do you want? Someone to fuck you for an evening and want you carnally or someone that's going to be around for awhile that wants a connection and wants you and wants to continually make love and fuck you?
/r/seduction19/12/16 11:07 PM
2

and how to bring up fucking to them in a way that doesn't make them stop talking to me when I do bring it up. If you want to find out if they want to have sex with you and they're passive then you need to be aggressive. That's not a bad thing. Don't bring it up in verbal conversation, use non-verbal physical contact to escalate and see where it leads. Unless they're that passive (doubtful) they'll stop you at some point or help you move forward.
/r/seduction19/12/16 09:45 PM
4

but in my experience that "buying 100 roses" stuff is just fantasy. most girls actually feel pressured by that kind of behavior... she says that one of her nightmares is some guy showing up at her door with a dozen roses and a sad, expectant look on his face. It's not fantasy, it's awesome if your woman/SO is into that stuff. I love buying flowers, writing letters, dong stupid romantic shit because I like to and so does my SO. Maybe you see it as a fantasy because women definitely do not like th…
/r/seduction08/12/16 12:12 AM
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carrier devoice verity frusterating detitcate How?
/r/seduction07/12/16 04:06 PM
2

NO. Go on the date, tell her what you want and what you're offering before hooking up. Shit, you might not even make it to the hooking up part regardless. How have you been talking to this girl for a few weeks but haven't actually been on a date?
/r/seduction30/11/16 06:20 PM
4

Yeah duh, only if you tell them. Obviously don't tell her that her looks have changed your mind.
/r/seduction30/11/16 06:17 PM
7

the reason will be obvious to her I can guarantee you it won't be obvious to her. If you go no contact without doing anything she will be a little hurt and might connect her looks with it but no big deal. However, if you hook up with her a few times she will most likely have NO IDEA why you started ghosting her and end up being far more hurt. Be a man and be up-front with your women. If all you want is a FWB or a few hook-ups then say so, this way she knows what she's getting into. Seriously it'…
/r/seduction30/11/16 05:53 PM
5

Good luck, if there's open communication with no drama and she's not defensive then that's probably a great friend to have.
/r/seduction29/11/16 06:18 PM
11

Talk to her about how you perceived her actions and words when you were talking to other women. Ask her straight up why she was doing that and if she still has feelings for you and you don't then maybe it's not the friendship you thought.
/r/seduction29/11/16 04:50 PM
1

While I have had conversations with women on many of these sites I have never actually planned a date with any of them. Stop having conversations and start having dates. If you feel a connection on the date(s), get a little physical and go for the kiss. You need to start learning from real experience which includes rejection. Start talking to women at your college and ask out the ones you find interesting. You, at 23 (nothing wrong with that), don't seem able to even make a connection with a wom…
/r/seduction27/11/16 07:38 PM
3

You don't know your own eyes? What the fuck man, work on some self-awareness, they don't change THAT much. Are you 16? Your replies make you seem like a 16 year old or someone that's out of touch with themselves and possibly reality.
/r/seduction28/07/16 11:04 PM
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You end up comparing every girl to your idealized version of this past girl (which is impossible to match up to), and when she doesn’t match up, you write her off, or don’t try to cultivate a deeper connection. Many of my friends and clients have had similar experiences. Ughhhh me too. I've been dating women off and on for the last 2 years since my last serious long term girlfriend who was amazing. Intelligent, motivated, fit, great family, similar ideas of what's fun, great values, confident fr…
/r/seduction02/06/16 09:10 PM
0

Ridiculous, is that some weird cousin of the red pill or cringepics? Or maybe the sarcastic brother of the red pill?
/r/seduction27/04/16 06:25 PM
10

Change your sheets unless the same woman will be over again. Plus everyone likes clean sheets.
/r/seduction31/03/16 09:47 PM
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Jesus, not only in replies but its own post.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/03/16 06:29 PM
1

Yeah I'm getting really sick and tired of seeing his comment.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/03/16 06:28 PM
1

It might be the drink that's more of a motivation zapper than the green. I find when I'm not drinking I'm much more motivated to just do things but when I'm drinking or hungover I'm pretty pathetic. If you know that smoking is part of it then stop for a month or two and see.
/r/seduction28/03/16 08:52 PM
3

This is really the only surefire answer when you consider OP's predicament.
/r/seduction10/03/16 02:54 PM
1

Recon? Grow up. Recon. Hah. So you've met and befriended every girl in all your classes to know A, B and C??? I find that rather ridiculous, though I guess if you're in engineering that could easily be done. Though I find that A, B and C is rather absurd in itself. Try being friends with women in your classes and at school rather than trying to put them in the box of being romantically involved with you. Do you have any female friends that you interact with on a regular basis besides your mother…
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:28 AM
1

Haha good point, I guess use discretion and don't over do it. I found it was easier just to be friends with everyone you can.
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:18 AM
2

You go to university, it's like shooting fish in a barrel there. Talk to the girls in your class, it's so easy it's stupid because you already have something in common. If it's conversation you're worried about then talk about something weird about the professor, about the course, whatever. Setup a time to study. Even just on campus just say you've seen her around and you wanted to say HI. Just ask for their number and let them know you want to hang out or study or go to an event, whatever, keep…
/r/seduction09/03/16 11:11 PM
2

Don't worry about what's wrong with them because it doesn't matter in your world. Move on, they're not for you. I think anyone that would willingly call their pet an emotional support pet is fucking stupid. Obviously we like the emotional connection with pets and that's why most have a pet but if you have to label it as such and put so much into your pet then that raises my suspicion.
/r/seduction09/03/16 10:59 PM
1

She was really wet which made things more complicated too. Did you mention this to her or did she bring it up? Be cool and try again with her.
/r/seduction16/02/16 02:34 AM
3

Still, not women.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/16 08:14 PM
1

Ahhhh haha, suckah! Thanks
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/16 05:49 PM
3

Until the part where 4chan just ruined her life. Link? Screenshot?
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/16 05:32 PM
2

but every time I get this feeling like I know she's going to eventually have something I won't like EVERYONE, every single god damn person has something you won't like. There's probably even shit you don't like about yourself! Or your best friend. We live with it though and if you can't get over it then you move on. The best thing to do is say it to the other person; "I don't like when you do X, Y or Z." I said it earlier this week when my gf kept asking me to stay over after I said I was going …
/r/seduction06/01/16 02:49 PM
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I'm similar, I like being free to do my own thing when I want and how I want and believe me there is a way to find balance. Im waiting for the day my mind changes.... It won't just change unless you want it to. I have hobbies that I really enjoy and want to work on to improve everyday but women always seem to prevent me from doing them. You prevent you from doing them. The women might be upset that you're not making them a priority over things you enjoy doing but you have to hold your ground. I …
/r/seduction06/01/16 02:40 PM
2

It is definitely a thing and you're right people are more complex which is why I said: Maybe it's not as polarizing as alpha/beta but there are clearly levels of men and women.
/r/seduction18/12/15 06:36 PM
1

Good question, I'm not really sure. I think if you lived in an attic that'd be pretty sweet. To me the basement denotes cave like, dark and dank, not well put together and something you have to climb up out of rather than descend from above.
/r/seduction18/12/15 06:23 PM
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Support my claim? You mean the guy that does what he wants, takes and earns what he wants from the world and is in a good place vs. the guy that's too scared to leave the basement, doesn't maintain himself, has issue(s) that he won't work on? Clearly there's no such thing as alpha/beta :\
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:35 PM
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Yes it does. Maybe it's not as polarizing as alpha/beta but there are clearly levels of men and women.
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:31 PM
4

At 18-21 it's OK to be unemployed especially if you're a student. If you're not a student it's not great but it's definitely OK if you're doing more than playing video games. At 31 it's not OK unless, like you said, you're volunteering and staying busy with that and LOOKING FOR A JOB or making honest and large efforts to pursue a dream. Most women would find that attractive... for awhile. However, one month isn't too long to be unemployed. From OPs post it sounds like he has a lot to work on bef…
/r/seduction01/12/15 05:26 PM
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Most women aren't stupid, morally bankrupt or have terrible personalities. Just the ones you seek out so maybe you're also stupid, morally bankrupt with a not-so-great personality. Going with that overly harsh thing. Maybe there's something to that? You don't prefer the binary system, you prefer the 1-10 otherwise you would not have mentioned it. "If I were smart" Well if you want a smart woman maybe you should start being smart? You don't like their personalities? Don't hang out with them and w…
/r/seduction25/11/15 06:40 PM
3

Thanks man. I've done the disappearing act too and it's no way to be, I was the same for a time.
/r/seduction21/11/15 04:45 PM
2

Right because just fucking tell me what, don't make me guess especially since I don't know you know and it's over text.
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:27 PM
1

Yup. So go with it and learn about yourself and what you like in others. When you find someone you like, go with it otherwise keep on enjoying yo self!
/r/seduction09/10/15 06:05 PM
6

You play the game to chase and stoke your ego. This is fun when you're not looking for anything serious or don't have a clear idea of what you want in a partner. However, it wears thin once you start looking for substance because it's defeating to go through people and find they don't align with what you want, time after time. Through this process is how you define what you want or if you want anything at all.
/r/seduction09/10/15 05:53 PM
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Say hi to both, involve her friend in the conversation but make it obvious who you like, ask for her number, get it or not and leave. It's not rocket science. Remember, it's only weird if you make it weird.
/r/seduction17/09/15 12:23 AM
6

wish me good luck! You don't need luck. It's in the bag. You're the man.
/r/seduction16/09/15 06:14 PM
6

How have you made it to 30 and never been hit on? Either you're completely oblivious or you're the problem, not the women.
/r/seduction21/08/15 01:18 PM
10

YOU SHOULD BE SAD.
/r/seduction19/08/15 07:32 PM
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/r/thathappened
/r/PussyPassDenied12/08/15 07:15 PM
6

Can you not accept that sometimes you just click with people quicker than others and just to go with it?
/r/seduction11/08/15 06:04 PM
2

You ask them and then watch their actions.
/r/seduction05/08/15 06:31 PM
1

Ermmm, not really sorry. I like to sing, talk to myself in the car (some weeks I'm in the car a lot) or in front of the mirror, practice on friends and strangers or act like an anchorman or some bullshit when I'm cooking.
/r/seduction04/08/15 08:23 PM
5

Maybe I should have said it as a confident voice but to me the confident people are a little louder in these types of situation. No one is going to tell you to lower your voice, you're not speaking that loud. Don't be the guy the server has to ask to repeat yourself.
/r/seduction04/08/15 06:29 PM
11

You have to yell louder than you normally yell. Like at a baseball game but louder. People respect that. Really though, louder than you might think to talk to someone I guess.
/r/seduction04/08/15 05:52 PM
13

While it definitely, obviously, helps with the womens I find that dressing well, speaking loudly and eloquently to ask for what you want gets you a lot of things. Free drinks and food, better hotel rooms, interesting conversation, access to not-so-public places, etc...
/r/seduction04/08/15 05:14 PM
2

WOO WOO !
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/15 05:57 PM
2

I want some!
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/15 10:38 PM
3

I thought hardmode was having a girlfriend?
/r/seduction29/07/15 03:50 PM
4

I live in a small'ish city/town (50k) and when you break it down to those that are single and desirable to me it's depressing. However, once I finish graduate school (online so no classes with females) I'm outta here.
/r/seduction28/07/15 01:55 PM
7

Ugh... I ruined my temple this weekend. I was doing so well with my cut and then Friday/Saturday rolls around and I'm staying up late, eating shit, drinking too much. Blah, it's a new week so back at it.
/r/seduction11/05/15 04:58 PM
1

If you're very good then why are you asking? Office hours, wait for her after class, they usually post their schedules somewhere on or near their door, e-mail. You don't need an opener you need to approach her.
/r/seduction17/04/15 04:40 PM
5

Sigh, so much truth in this. I'm so sadly comfortable and I know it. I've said it about my career, about my sex life (last time was two weeks ago), my house, etc... I'm going back to graduate school because I don't know what else to do, I need external motivation. My therapist has helped me considerably but I don't know. Sometimes I think I need to move but I love my friends and where I live. Most of my passions and good ideas fizzle out after a week or two. I don't understand. The only thing I …
/r/seduction19/03/15 09:37 PM
1

How do you know they've never met them before? There are so many variables you don't know. Maybe you're in a unique area, maybe you're just completely oblivious to approaches by women or maybe you're just seeing what you want to see but women approaching men is not what normally happens. I've had it happen (have been oblivious at times too) but it's so few and far between that it's stupid to have expectations that that's how it's going to be or that it happens all the time. Talk to them, don't e…
/r/seduction02/03/15 10:27 PM
1

Have used the making up stories about people in public more than once, pretty fun.
/r/seduction24/02/15 08:25 PM
5

Years ago I had a ferry trip across a choppy sea, horrible conditions so me and a buddy drank a bunch to make it go faster. Basically alcohol became time travel that day.
/r/seduction20/02/15 05:28 PM
2

hmmm apparently i'm a sociopath.
/r/seduction09/02/15 06:17 PM
1

Good point.
/r/seduction06/02/15 04:55 PM
11

Sounds like he wants those "out of your league" women and is working to put them in his league by losing weight and coming here. Though you're right, maybe the last 11-15 years have been focused on those women and that hasn't helped self-esteem at all.
/r/seduction06/02/15 12:40 AM
0

Awesome, doing really amazing things so far. Your questions hold no gravity, 1,2 and 3 relate to confidence and how you value yourself which I see as being answered by your weight loss and desire to better yourself, it takes time. 4 is far far deeper and working with your therapist will help greatly with unresolved issues and make you a better person! Regardless, you state you have nothing to be confident about, what else do you do in life? The gym only takes up so much time as does work. That l…
/r/seduction06/02/15 12:35 AM
2

Accept that you're not perfect or even attractive I think by accepting these tenets you become infinitely more attractive, accept being unattractive to become attractive.
/r/seduction06/02/15 12:28 AM
1

It's definitely appealing but stop it. I used to think the same way too and it wasn't because "they know me," it was because it was EASY for me. There's almost zero risk, if you make a move and you're shot down you can play it off and still be friends. If it works, most of the time it does, then it's great but you feel like you're settling and didn't put yourself out there. I'm in my 30s so it's different now than it was in college where your friend circle is pretty large. Nothing ventured, noth…
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:58 PM
7

So the reason is you waited yet you make no mention how long you stood there looking at her or if there was any eye contact before or what. Evidence, schmevidence.
/r/seduction23/01/15 08:01 PM
1

Buy yourself a van.
/r/seduction20/01/15 07:32 PM
1

Pretty much anywhere other than a bar though higher end lounges/bars that don't serve $2 tall boys of PBR are usually better to find quality women or ones that might have more potential for something more than one night. My grocery store is a great place, I never used to think in that mentality or with that idea that a grocery store was a place to meet women but it works and there's a wide variety there with easy ways to open in what strikes me as a weird environment. I started going to a climbi…
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:06 PM
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How about on the flippity flop when you approach and you find mostly women who are uninteresting, the most reading they do is in Cosmo and yet they still have poor fashion sense, have few if any passions outside of their dog (usually tiny) and TV shows, etc...? If you're a person that has their shit together and are looking for as much, I don't consider bars to be places to find... quality people. If you want to get laid, sure it works but if you're looking for that lay's psyche to align with yo…
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:28 PM
1

I'd have noped out of there when it was established that the dinner date wasn't happening. Unless OP has left out a glaring error such as not actually confirming the date, misinterpreting, etc... she's not into it.
/r/seduction17/11/14 06:33 PM
14

Go have fun, meet people, have conversations, no expectations.
/r/seduction14/11/14 08:08 PM
4

The first barber I went to in my area used a flobee vacuum/clipper thing. Nope. Next one was an old dude who had his one style and would listen to what you want but not get it. The only barbershop that doesn't look like a dive is some sports-themed place that's for 12 year olds. So I have a woman that's been cutting my hair for years that does an awesome job. The salons here are 95% women and the barbershops are 95% old men, it's just the area I live in.
/r/seduction09/11/14 09:24 PM
1

I take it you have ZERO male friends that you could talk to about this? All the climbers I know hang out or go climb in a fairly well balanced group of women and men, you know ZERO males from climbing?
/r/seduction07/11/14 06:41 PM
1

this is the position i'm in tonight. bad news from today and kind of tired from early morning gym session but parties tonight but not really feeling it. oh well.
/r/seduction31/10/14 08:02 PM
2

If she's your friend then just be her friend and if things start to go your way then go with it, otherwise just be a friend.
/r/seduction20/10/14 04:59 PM
1

Sounds like you don't get to say that because you don't actually put yourself out there and meet them.
/r/seduction20/10/14 03:58 PM
2

I find that it's more difficult to find quality women out of college, i.e. women that have or cultivate intellect, don't necessarily have kids, like to maintain a healthy and fit physique, don't drink too much, etc... You're 20 man, relax, focus on getting good grades, go to the gym, talk to women in your classes, join a few clubs, stop seeing escorts and wasting your money.
/r/seduction20/10/14 03:40 PM
1

I made out with a woman the other weekend just so I could get her off of me (literally and figuratively) and go back to my friends at the party. Just keep on doing what you're doing, can you not just tell Sarah you want to hang out and make it happen? If she says no then chalk it up to experience and move on.
/r/seduction20/10/14 03:14 PM
9

wow. that sounds like chica was serious messed up in the head.
/r/seduction19/10/14 12:54 PM
5

it gets you fucking rekt, source: i just ate a 10mg lemon drop, yay colorado. going to go for a run now.
/r/seduction19/10/14 12:52 PM
2

Even crap fiction is fine too. I read a lot and you can go through that list relatively quickly in the grand scheme of things. However, there is plenty of other great non-fiction that would take a lifetime to go through. My suggestion is to read what you want with a good balance of both, pursue your interests through literary means and expand on those interests the same way.
/r/seduction11/10/14 12:18 AM
40

them I only need one.
/r/seduction07/10/14 06:31 PM
57

Can I borrow yours?
/r/seduction07/10/14 06:18 PM
30

You're an unemployed college man-child, it should be like shooting fish in a barrel at this point especially since you have a car and apartment. Your job is to do well in school. God damn.
/r/seduction06/10/14 08:57 PM
2

i don't like to approach at the gym either. my routine is pretty set on when i go, the people rarely change and i'd like to keep my gym relations smiling and happy as they are now. if i see someone i know from the gym anywhere but the gym i'll go talk to them, otherwise i'm keeping to myself. that's just me.
/r/seduction04/09/14 01:29 AM
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Do you do SS??? I have a question or two about it and felt like asking around on here rather than starting something in /r/weightroom or /r/fitness
/r/seduction03/09/14 11:23 PM
6

there is this classy (well classy for where i'm at) lounge that always has a hot bartender or two on rotation. the owner and i are buds or whatever you want to call it. anyways, now i'm known as the guy that sleeps with the staff there so i haven't been in awhile.
/r/seduction03/09/14 11:17 PM
1

exactly.
/r/seduction29/08/14 03:40 PM
1

i always rinse off before bed, it just feels great and takes about 30 seconds.
/r/seduction29/08/14 11:21 AM
6

I found a set of 600tc sateen sheets on amazon a few years back and ordered a few sets, they're so ridiculously comfy and they've held up really well. One more bit of info, KEEP YOUR SHEETS CLEAN. I change mine out pretty much once a week unless there's a lot activity level in bed then it's every few days. Ultimately, keep your sheets clean, your dead skin falls off, fluids, and other particulates your feet pick up. Keep your bed made when you're not in it and if you don't change your sheets bef…
/r/seduction28/08/14 09:15 PM
1

There's too much sun here, people are always wearing sunglasses, we're all checking everybody out on the street yo.
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:22 PM
42

I met this woman the other night, DEFINITE 5.62 but right next to her was a 6.18, with a 9.49% difference between the two I figured I'd meet them both because I had a 50% chance with each one. Turns out the 6.18 became a 6.07 after I met her and the 5.62 had an awesome personality so she bumped up to a 5.87. However, after about 31 minutes of convo with the 5.87 I saw a 8.58 walk in and boy I was smitten. After speaking with her for awhile she was a solid 9.58, A ONE POINT INCREASE! The 5.87 was…
/r/seduction28/08/14 03:08 PM
2

I don't like it as a post but I don't mind it as a comment in a post about maintaining eye contact.
/r/seduction21/08/14 05:20 PM
1

There never is a best way when feelings are involved. Speak the truth and move on.
/r/seduction20/08/14 08:38 PM
7

damn dude that's harsh. that'd be the last time i would spend time with that group or at least him, that's not right.
/r/seduction19/08/14 03:50 PM
1

So I tried tinder when I was in St. Louis and Chicago two weeks ago, HOLY SHIT, it's amazing, beautiful women EVERYWHERE down to have fun. Then I come back to my small city (55k) and it's like a desert, a few women passing through but nothing great and the ones on there I already know. Hoping that changes when uni is back in, either way, the more people the more tinder users.
/r/seduction08/08/14 05:03 PM
3

Don't wait for your friends unless they're 100% with you and prove it along the way. Even if it takes a year or two that gives you a goal, if people want to join you more power to them but don't wait for an adventure to form with your friends. BE the adventure and either they join you or it's their loss.
/r/seduction29/07/14 08:32 PM
12

Well... limitless sex, with most women you like, from many different cultures, from all over the world but that's just an added bonus to being in a new, educational and exotic location. I went for a few months to Lao/Thailand/Cambodia, beyond the women (seriously there's a lot beyond) there are temples, culture, food (holy shit the food, amazing), motorcycling around, being outdoors in the jungle, meeting lots of cool people, experiencing new things, etc... there's no reason you have to go to Th…
/r/seduction28/07/14 11:11 PM
19

do it. lots of fun.
/r/seduction28/07/14 07:38 PM
3

tips? just say hi to everyone and take an interest in them, enjoy yourself and most of all, fucking do well in school. you're not a badass to anyone at the beginning, remember, actions speak louder than words. chances are your first group or two of friends won't be the group you end up with. though i suppose in sports that could be different if you fall into that mentality. really though, do well in school.
/r/seduction27/07/14 04:50 AM
2

depends though, currently I don't want to attract just anyone. however, i see what you're saying and yes what you said can be a pitfall but sometimes focusing on yourself, temporarily, is better than putting on a cheesy grin and owning it. mostly because at that moment the underlying substance of yourself just isn't quite there and what you're offering is superficial at best.
/r/seduction13/07/14 03:48 AM
5

I'm in the spot now of making major life changes that will result in getting what I want. As an adult my finances are a mess, I have no passion for my job, I know the type of woman I want but I'm still not OK with myself. However, I'm pretty excited about the future and going after a new job (already have a few interviews), fixing my finances and getting my shit together. I'm awesome I just have a few things I need to change for myself. I don't give a shit about other people at this point, only …
/r/seduction12/07/14 05:37 PM
2

I went back to school around that age (27) and there was no problem interacting with everyone. Was I worried when I started? Yes, but in that excited worried way. In fact, I think you'll have an easier time because you're there for the material whereas some of the younger, just of high school, people are clueless and don't really care. You're not there for social interaction, though it's an added bonus, you're there to learn and better yourself. Take the first week and figure out who the hardest…
/r/seduction10/07/14 06:48 PM
1

That schedule doesn't work and it's not so good for you but I think one could argue that as long as you're not drinking that entire time and you're able to get some quality sleep from 5am-noon there are definitely worse things you could be doing. Sunday night could help you recover too. When you add alcohol into the mix it changes everything, especially if you're drinking in larger quantities and that's when you really need to consider your actions and sleep schedule. You tell your body, 5 conse…
/r/seduction10/07/14 06:31 PM
1

i'm in a similar situation right now except that she lives 3 hours away. so when i see her i like to make dirty jokes and touch her, the last two times she's responded positively and then things get physical. she's already your friend so hopefully that means you know her, what she likes and how to gauge her responses towards you. /u/allfoshow basically summed up any tips you need.
/r/seduction07/07/14 09:11 PM
7

as a brother who has been in this situation, my sister didn't make out with two different dudes though, this is probably your best course of action. i won't give you the stink eye or the glare unless you deserve it.
/r/seduction14/06/14 06:30 PM
3

you know what's better than a triceratops? only every other dinosaur that has ever existed. -dwight
/r/seduction03/06/14 04:08 PM
1

how has boosting conversation skills on omegel worked for you? this seems something like i'd like to try as you can do it from home.
/r/seduction02/06/14 05:36 PM
0

so you're not already smiling when your head is screaming?
/r/seduction29/05/14 06:03 PM
2

I find similar women in my area too, I think it really comes down to the area you live in. Many of them talk about doing outdoor activities but their photos suggest landwhale status. However, I've noticed that the area population at large is that way. I'm an active person, I take care of myself and that might make my standards higher than most so I find it difficult to date in this area.
/r/seduction29/05/14 03:57 PM
1

I live in an area where the entire valley population is about 150k, my immediate area is about 55k and it feels small with the type of women I'm interested in and looking to meet.
/r/seduction27/05/14 06:16 PM
1

If you can't beat them join them?
/r/seduction04/04/14 01:43 PM
2

Grow up is what you will do, your situation is not an obstacle, it's fucking life after a big change/move. True friends/bros/gals aren't made over night or the course of a month or two and often times a person will move through multiple social groups picking up a person here and there until they finally find or make a group that works for them. When I first moved out for school I knew absolutely NO ONE. The first two groups I hung out weren't the ones that have provided lasting relationships wit…
/r/seduction01/04/14 06:03 PM
2

Smoking dope is usually a huge time suck for most people that have done it for more than awhile and becomes another layer of partying. I used to like to run and ride when stoned but looking at my times and thinking about how the activity went getting stoned was quite detrimental. If I was meeting with my best friends for a drink or board game I'd get stoned before and I was boring, I'm NOT a boring person but when I'm stoned, I am, even around my best friends, imagine what I was like around rela…
/r/seduction01/04/14 05:26 PM
1

Well she asked after the fact, she was older, I was younger, I don't lie unless it's to myself ;) It's far far in the past now and I'm better because of it.
/r/seduction28/03/14 06:13 PM
1

No I mean it tanked the next day as in immediately.
/r/seduction28/03/14 04:16 PM
1

I did that my first time, relationship tanked hard after that. Didn't make me feel good, I would have rather have been up front about it even if that meant tanking the relationship with no sex.
/r/seduction28/03/14 03:29 PM
1

This is quite true. In college I ran, mountain biked, skied and rafted A LOT with weight lifting, I was ripped and confident, it was great. After college I still did all those things a lot but I stopped weight lifting, had two LTRs but haven't had a serious GF in two years. So there I was, lean and fit but kind of soft and 3 months ago I had a skiing injury which left me unable to run/bike/ski (I can do all those now). I had wanted to get back into weight lifting and thought that it was the perf…
/r/seduction28/03/14 03:27 PM
2

to be fair it did take you 6 months to ask her out ;)
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:15 PM
1

I'm in the same boat, 33, great job, fit, have a lot going on, house, car, wardrobe, etc... all the things that make an adult an attractive awesome adult. However, I don't put myself out there and if, on the off chance, I do I don't show intention or if I do it's with the wrong type of woman. I'm working on this. Maybe you're just not out there enough or conveying intent? I was in college throughout my 20s and there were always women between 21-28 that'd love to hang out with a guy like you.
/r/seduction29/01/14 04:12 AM
1

If you have a few years on OP then I have a few on you with me at 33. Throughout college/20s my group of friends would drink and/or smoke dope a lot but it was after doing or during activities such as river rafting/mountain biking/mountaineering/skiing/travelling/doing outside things. Now that most of us are professionals without the ability to take a week/day off on a whim it's become more of drinking to drink and become drunk without any of the fun activities. Though I constantly run/bike/ski …
/r/seduction28/12/13 07:49 PM
3

"I should," I would consider, to be far worse than "I can" and the words are not really synonymous. Should seems to imply obligation to outside forces and something that you think you need to do but in reality, perhaps subconsciously, you don't want to. Obviously this is boiling down to semantics but I'd much rather know that I can do something rather than I should. I can and will exercise, should I run or bike today?
/r/seduction08/12/13 09:47 PM
2

a sliver huh, well it sounds like you just need to get out there more and meet more of these types by going to meetups for physical activities, going to the gym and seeing what you can find, going to classier bars/establishments where women tend to dress like that. a lot of it depends on where you're at too, you're going to find far more of these types in a larger city. i don't consider myself someone with a high sex drive until i find women that fit my tastes and then it's out of control. go fi…
/r/seduction30/10/13 05:22 PM
5

yeah, this is no where near 100% true though i do agree with the ethos of nofap. i did nofap for quite some time, guess what? i was still attracted really only to petite fit girls who can dress themselves well which happen to be few and far between here. i run, bike, ski, etc... A LOT and i find women who engage in similar pursuits a huge turn-on. i also find them better in bed. obviously this is all opinion. however, there are a lot of people in this country that don't give two shits about exer…
/r/seduction30/10/13 04:52 PM
11

You're right but the message floating on top that was stated at the beginning is that it's NOT easy, seddit mentality I suppose! I know all too well, go out by yourself, force yourself (her words) to go to a bar, don't have a drink and talk to people. That's not easy, autopilot for me is hanging out at home by myself not talking to anyone new, or hanging out with my regular, though great, friends and not experiencing anything new.
/r/seduction26/09/13 02:59 AM
41

A man who does not act on his sexual urges is a man who is needy and therefore unattractive. This is me at the moment. wow. buying this book when i get home.
/r/seduction30/07/13 09:22 PM
1

i'm in the same boat.
/r/seduction25/07/13 10:02 PM
2

less be yourself and just have fun. fuck it.
/r/seduction17/07/13 02:07 AM
1

i work in an office when i'm not in the field, then i still don't wear an undershirt, makes me feel stuffy and constrained within the outer shirt.
/r/seduction10/07/13 05:47 PM
3

I never wear an undershirt. Never.
/r/seduction10/07/13 04:53 PM
0

I love my fluorescent tacky pink wayfarer-esque sunglasses. Plus they're cheap.
/r/seduction10/07/13 04:51 PM
2

I dig the wayfarer sunglasses and you can purchase them in different colors, I love my bright pink sunglasses, i also have white ones too for a more demure look. They're cheap (like $4/pair on amazon) so if I really want to I can give them away.
/r/seduction10/07/13 04:50 PM
1

i'd run out of women in this town a little over a year and that's assuming they're all women i'd want to approach. get what you're saying though!
/r/seduction02/07/13 05:44 PM
3

I have everything it would seem to someone on the outside. A well paying unique job in sciences. A house I've been working on greatly improving. New truck. Good group of friends. Big into trail running and mountain biking so I'm in pretty good shape. I dress well, don't take shit from anyone and have no problem speaking my mind. So with that said, when I first started this job almost 3 years ago I was so high on life it was ridiculous. Everything was awesome, fun, could do anything/anyone I want…
/r/seduction02/07/13 05:31 PM
1

nah, to the point in my education where paying for school is absurd, being paid to go to school is what it's about now.
/r/seduction25/06/13 02:09 AM
2

Dad and bro came into town, made multiple trips to the hardware store, installed a new front door, bought new badass washer, dryer and refrigerator, installed them. Started trim work on the kitchen, installed new cabinet doors, went backpacking/fly fishing for 3 days in an amazing area, hung out with a few friends Sunday afternoon but pretty exhausted from the week. Looking forward to this week and heading into the city with a buddy.
/r/seduction24/06/13 08:40 PM
1

busy week i see.
/r/seduction24/06/13 08:38 PM
2

I imagine you're doing some sort of group/guided trip and that's great but don't be afraid to break out of that group solo or with a friend or two from the group and meet other travelers/locals not in the group. Most people, in a situation like that are just as nervous/excited as you are, simply saying HI goes a long ways. I love to travel and I miss it a lot now that I have a real job and a house. What I do know is like others have said, approach, make friends and don't worry about the outcome,…
/r/seduction24/06/13 08:17 PM
7

Part of me has wanted to go back to school and pay for yet another degree just because meeting people/women in college is stupid easy. I too feel this way but it's really my own self-imposed limitations: - I never interact with anyone at work because my office is in a remote building with 3 other people and most employees are 50+ - Why meet new people when I'm out when I have a great group of friends with me? - A woman will just appear in my life - Too high of standards for women - Etc... Howeve…
/r/seduction24/06/13 07:55 PM
1

he doesn't, but he does now!
/r/seduction23/06/13 04:03 AM
1

cool man. thanks for the link, want to pay for my membership?
/r/seduction23/06/13 04:00 AM
0

note to everyone here: throwing things at women like a caveman DOES elicit a woman's attention but is NOT a good opener.
/r/seduction16/06/13 04:37 AM
1

Look, I don't know much about beaches since I live in Colorado BUT I do know about safety speeches on the river as a guide. This might be negligible advice at best but if you have the right attitude/confidence you can easily have some great interactions. You're a lifeguard, safety is your job and you're probably pretty fucking good at it and at that point in time you're the expert in their world, play it up. Groups are the best because you can run scenarios and then correct them in a fun way whi…
/r/seduction16/06/13 04:14 AM
4

Right?! My buddy and I have discussed this at length, an ex-gf always, always, has an open door to her body for you, even if she dumped you and especially if you dumped her.
/r/seduction16/06/13 04:02 AM
5

32, numbers mean nothing, well i suppose there's a wall at some point.
/r/seduction16/06/13 03:58 AM
2

we need answers!
/r/seduction12/06/13 06:48 PM
1

i had that happen once, had a girl back at my hotel and as we're about to enter the room she says "it'll cost you" and I says "the fuck it will, what have we been doing this whole time and why are you telling me this now?" She proceeds to say "give me some money and we'll have a good time" So I'm pissed and I says back to her "Here's $20 for a cab, I'm going to sleep."
/r/seduction12/06/13 04:33 PM
2

saying no, meaning yes, leading it forward with no's that mean yes seems to be a way of rationalizing not really knowing someone and doing something completely vulnerable and intimate with another person without being a slut in her mind. if the sex is bad she could say but i didn't want to from the beginning. definitely read them body languages! also i'd be interested in insights.
/r/seduction12/06/13 12:36 AM
-2

don't go to bars or the mall then? if you're not comfortable there then you're already at game over.
/r/seduction04/06/13 02:07 AM
1

i had the feeling that was the link... oh that dominic, she sure has lots of ways to get a hold of her.
/r/seduction04/06/13 02:03 AM
2

i like it, i had a similar idea that is online and basically you hire individuals who would be deemed proficient at having a conversation without judgement. when someone wants to talk to the opposite sex, a small fee of course, to improve their communication skills they would be connected. Anything like that now (definitely not sex cams/omegle/etc...)? Seems like the biggest thing would be the knowledge that this is the internet and you're speaking with someone you have no idea where they are so…
/r/seduction04/06/13 01:52 AM
1

I feel the same way recently, a few years back i left a not-so-great paying retail job where I interacted with a lot of people, especially women and it was great. The job lacked fulfillment on a mental level so I went back into science but now if i'm not in my office (pretty secluded part of one of the buildings) I'm in the field so either place I interact with few people. Being that I have a great group of friends when I'm out I like to talk with them, not pick up women. Anyways, my confidence …
/r/seduction03/06/13 08:24 PM
2

100% sure we don't have one of those here. this city likes their olive gardens, tj maxx's, american eagle, etc...
/r/seduction31/05/13 06:05 PM
3

I'm totally shopping at the wrong stores.
/r/seduction31/05/13 05:43 PM
1

I had short hair, I liked it for a few years and it worked out for me minus the maintenance what with the hair cuts and then... Then I said I want my hair back. Probably medium length now. Of course, I look good with no matter what hair length I have so, not too concerned. Wait, what's the question?
/r/seduction28/05/13 03:42 AM
1

This was at the Marriott San Francisco, wasn't it?
/r/seduction28/05/13 03:38 AM
11

If you've been dating a girl for a month and she won't kiss you she's not interested. Move on.
/r/seduction27/05/13 02:35 PM
1

did you capitalize on the flood?
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:27 PM
2

that's fucking hilarious
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:21 PM
2

and that's AFTER you sending the first message.
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:20 PM
3

so bad i wouldn't consider them friends.
/r/seduction20/05/13 02:01 AM
4

ouch. those friends are bad.
/r/seduction20/05/13 02:01 AM
2

life's a garden... dig it.
/r/seduction20/05/13 02:00 AM
2

soooooooooo, what did you do to be banned?
/r/seduction20/05/13 01:08 AM
3

yes because i'm interesting and you better be too if you ask that question.
/r/seduction20/05/13 12:57 AM
1

"Hi, I wish I could wear that dress as well as you do"
/r/seduction15/05/13 03:07 AM
1

remember that just because you're in a suit it doesn't mean you dress well.
/r/seduction15/05/13 02:06 AM
1

Here's my problem, I have lots of different stories throughout my life from getting lost in Laos at 3am and ensuing results, squaring off alone in the desert with a group of bighorn with the ram charging me, having an epic on a mountain, finishing an educational goal in record time, etc... but I can't tell one of these stories in an interesting way, it's more of a way like, oh I was there ho-hum and no one stays interested. How do I convert these into interesting stories?
/r/seduction15/05/13 02:03 AM
1

I like the tap on the shoulder, my favorite is when I'm walking around or entering a location and see a woman or women I find attractive I walk past, playfully touch her head say BOOP, turn around and give her a big smile, they always laugh and want more playfulness.
/r/seduction15/05/13 01:53 AM
2

"Ego is the fear of how others perceive you. Self assurance is confidence in how you perceive yourself." I now have that written down, thanks.
/r/seduction15/05/13 01:42 AM
1

Just give it time, you're almost 21 and have some pretty solid plans put in place to do some kick ass stuff. I can't stress enough how important traveling outside one's own comfort zone/country is to younger people. You already have three solid goals that need to be focused upon: finishing school, putting together a trip to the middle east and learning Arabic. Life in our own minds is hard to quantify but you've already quantified most of your goals such as higher GPA for the next year, being in…
/r/seduction08/05/13 09:00 PM
1

sigh, now i want a sombrero for tonight
/r/seduction05/05/13 09:21 PM
1

you risk cockblock sitting down with you then... no?
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:01 PM
1

amount has a huge impact, forgo the colonge unless for some reason you really like and like bl1y said, "confidence."
/r/seduction30/04/13 07:51 PM
1

I find that as nerve racking as it can be before the call the best thing to do is just call and get it out of the way. Then you don't have have to worry about what you'll say or what if she answers vs voicemail, etc... Like you said, Call her!
/r/seduction29/04/13 05:01 PM
1

clean above all else. lighting. install a dimmer switch if you don't have one. add at least one additional dimmable, or considerably less bright, light source.
/r/seduction24/04/13 02:53 AM
2

This is pretty much life: "Keep your fucking ________ clean."
/r/seduction21/04/13 09:17 PM
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