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I am interested in checking this out. As talked about above this is a very sensitive subject and not something I would be doing "on the books" for a thesis. I am looking I think at two variables, length of texts and the delay between responses. It maybe a few years before I will be able to get this going. Thanks for your help, JB
/r/seduction26/05/14 04:49 AM
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I agree. I use tinder and such accounts as almost like FarmVille or other apps. I am bored I will check it swipe right, message a few girls. Do something with friends, and get notified if any girls message me back (harvest my crops haha jk)
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:51 AM
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I agree with your point of tinder. I have over a 1000 matches and although I can get 90 % to respond to messages it's very difficult to engage in public meet up. I think tinder is a nicer security because it's easy to verify they are real. Curious on your thoughts.
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:49 AM
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Thanks for being a bit more enthusiastic than the last person. Advice is simple it's in the pictures you have. None of my pictures are in the mirror, they all have fun things about them. To get the most amount of matches (I was selective up to 900. To get to a 1000 in a day I broaden my search) I swiped right. Getting a match is not a big deal. Getting those matches to meet you in person is much harder. My success rate for messages is actually high. Don't say "hey "(this gets a low response rate…
/r/seduction05/05/14 12:27 AM
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My bad. My goal was to have a 1000 matches. Simply reaching a 1000 was my definition of winning. Thus how I won tinder was having a 1000 matches.
/r/seduction05/05/14 12:17 AM
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I agree with most of this stuff. Rejection sucks for anyone and scarcity is very good. You should never drop everything you are doing for a date. By rejecting or bailing on a date you are increasing self worth if she chooses to continue to follow or agree to a reschedule. The struggle is that are you really interested in a woman who feels the need to put up with you rejecting her and playing games? These strategy will get you a girl but not sure if it will get you a strong independent woman who …
/r/seduction21/01/14 03:35 AM
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Thanks! I appreciate the feedback. I rarely check feedback. My goal is not for recognition just to help. The things I have posted about helped me in my journey and I hope they can help you too. JB
/r/seduction27/12/13 06:28 PM
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If you find her not attractive and you met her online why are you trying to have sex with her. This is not what it is all about at all. There is no seduction, game, or any other thing here to be proud of. Look to challenge yourself. How do you know that this is not a dude at the other end? How do you know she is clean? I would be concerned to get in the car with a chick I have never met before. Be safe. JB
/r/seduction08/12/13 04:08 PM
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Oh got ya. I wasn't asking about which one I was just if anyone else switches. I guess I am showing the benefit of either. Being a gym rat won't score you girls but working on your inner game fitness will. I guess I don't like the alpha beta argument so I wanted to show both sides being successful in an example.
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:41 PM
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This bullshit is combined with all my other things and is yielding good results. Wouldn't I be foolish to change?? Just a thought JB
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:13 PM
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I agree but it is my way of measuring up. I don't need to show dominance more that they shot first. I look at it more of jestering between two friends rather than trying to pick a fight. Atleast in my social circle we all joke around with each other and that includes are flaws. Not to be hurtful, but for we can laugh at ourselves and each other. If I sense a high tension I will either eject or apologize. Thanks for your feedback JB
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:32 AM
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Waiting is the best option. When you find yourself about to text her do something else. Homework, play a videogame, play a game of candy crush. Once it is completely over (don't quit halfway) then text her
/r/seduction02/12/13 05:03 AM
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Thanks for sharing this. I hate the alpha argument usually but you do a nice job breaking it down. I feel that you can act confident, strong, and bold and have characteristic of an alpha but you will never be an actual alpha. Women like alpha but they also like the characteristics that they bring as well. I like being a beta and flying under most amogers radar. They think I am non threatening and joke with me when in fact I always have the last laugh. They joke I laugh, they box me out, I find a…
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:52 AM
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Haha you are probably right. I think naive in the sense that I thought others went through the same thing. This post is not about being an AFC but it is about finding the correct woman. I sometimes think I found one using game principals and end up realizing that it's not as real as I want it to be. She likes the guy that is scarcer and removed. Not the guy who is being nice opening doors ("ill open it myself") etc... I am not saying you can't find a girl and having game mentality but I sometime…
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:36 AM
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Average frustrated chump. The guy who understands next to nothin about girls. Def not what this post was suppose to be about but is the direction it went.
/r/seduction01/12/13 09:30 PM
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To early. If you just had sex with a girl and she asked you that how would you feel. Wear a wrapper. My biggest fear is scaring her away Nice thing about being a guy is controlling the pace of a relationship. You ask her out, you ask her to be in a relationship, etc... The trick is knowing when is an appropriate time
/r/seduction01/12/13 07:14 PM
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My bad that's not the point. I just consider end game is to be in a healthy relationship. Before learning game were you happy with yourself. AFC is not the focus of this post, but the AFC version of me wanted to have a gf so bad I was going to settle for the first HB that I could get. There is nothing wrong with being yourself, my goal is to be myself but myself wants to do really nice things for the woman I am interested in. By doing these really nice things I revert to my AFC self. My point is…
/r/seduction01/12/13 07:05 PM
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Depends on the context. are you holding the door for everyone?
/r/seduction01/12/13 06:01 PM
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Nice! And I am always having fun. That was my reference to a shit test. I consider it a question or a test that no matter how you answer it you lose. Its been 4 years since I read The Game but he used the example of a girl saying "I give the Best BJ" if you say that's awesome you give her attention if you ignore her you could lose the opportunity. He settles on saying "RESPECT" which changes the frame.
/r/seduction30/11/13 11:01 PM
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Bro try reading the OP completely. If you cannot read please find someone to help you out
/r/seduction30/11/13 10:57 PM
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Yes this is my point. To set up the scenario more I have three girls in their apartment. I am the only guy, all three want to know if I am gay. I said "If I was gay I wouldn't do this" went in for K close immediately. I was not demonstrating enough interest in them so I look at it more of "hey are you interested in us" but in more of a neg form. No matter what their intentions are I had fun doing this and want to share with the community.
/r/seduction30/11/13 10:55 PM
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How many times are you going to say you are going to leave, but keep coming back?
/r/seduction30/11/13 10:52 PM
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Why are you still here? She was fucking with me, that entire night when I got her back to my place. I don't see your argument. PUA have many goals some include: 1. Meet women K-close or F-close Retain and create relationships 4.HAVE FUN I managed to do all four of these things, and I wanted to share it with the community. I know you think you are right, but I have a used condom that says that my approach was successful. I do not know what else I can do to prove my point further. If you rather us…
/r/seduction30/11/13 07:22 PM
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Thank you! I struggled with what the purpose of the test was. All I know I passed her test, she asked me to take her home with me and continues to text me. Some here thinks "are you gay" was a serious question well by kissing her I obviously showed her I was not by her continue attraction of texting me at 1:30 a.m. asking me to come over. Running up to a random stranger is not what I am suggesting. Just having fun in the moment and turning a lousy moment into a way to transition into a close see…
/r/seduction30/11/13 07:16 PM
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Yes! Going in for a kiss is not to be a jerk at all. I really take it as an interested question to like an IOI. I like asking why are you interested? pushes the issue back onto them. That would be a great line if the girls BF was there or even if she told you she had a bf. Thanks JB
/r/seduction30/11/13 07:05 PM
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Yes, it wasn't hard to turn it around. I managed to F closed and the other person who did it K closed immediately. As for a shit text it depends on the situation. If you are hitting on a girl and she asks if you are gay. You say yes (obviously that means that you Are not having sex with her) If you say no (which is what I used to do before I took it as an IOI instead of a complete shit test I go for a kiss text) she is asking about your sexual orientation or if it is possible you are interested …
/r/seduction30/11/13 11:37 AM
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How do you know if a kiss is unwanted? Do you always ask? I choose to just go for it. In this case it worked... Does that mean it was still unwanted? I mean her tongue was down my throat her hand was on my crotch, so she was sending me mix signals?
/r/seduction30/11/13 11:17 AM
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Turn around and grab his package and whisper in his ear "I am alpha and you are my beta" Are we really worried about who is alpha? Is there only one female and you can't share
/r/seduction30/11/13 07:10 AM
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Okay you are not paying! It's a free date so you are offering to pay for it. I don't believe in being alpha for the most part. If you are on a date with her you are already alpha. Rapport is easy to measure, look for signs of comfort. body language is crucial. I studied NLP for a year. Spin or whatever you want to call it. Do what feels natural. Do not just go on a date to keep this girl off your mind. Do it for a learning experience. Brings me to next point you are reading way to much informati…
/r/seduction30/11/13 04:36 AM
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Haha you insult a person and in the same message you tell them to calm down! Shits priceless
/r/seduction30/11/13 04:12 AM
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Please tell me how not to be Douchey and corny "happy jerk" I do appreciate you coming out from under your rock to realize I was not going to be put away for 25 to life for this. Feel free to continue to lecture me on morals and ethics in Seddit. JB
/r/seduction30/11/13 03:57 AM
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Okay I am on my phone and people are begging me to set a website up for dating Advice now lmao. I have been doing this for a long time and knew actually the game material since I was 16. (I am 23 now). I will say hind sight is always 20-20 so it's way easier for me to compose a message of what I would do after the fact. Truth is we all make mistakes but learning from them is key :)) Brings me to my next point there is two routes to go. If you know the game of craps you don't bet on the same numb…
/r/seduction30/11/13 03:53 AM
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I am pretty sure that is not the exact definition of sexual assault sir. I am pretty sure to be convicted of a CSC I would get a trial and the case would most likely result of a fine if not just thrown out. However since we were both drinking you are not legally allowed to file a police report while intoxicated. This is all assuming she had my full name and contact information to present to lawyers. Along with proof that said kiss even occurred. Also the burden of proof is on the prosecution and…
/r/seduction30/11/13 03:30 AM
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FTW.
/r/seduction30/11/13 03:21 AM
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Fuck ya. That's what I felt like too! May choose your wording of "I'll prove it..." I really like that! Plus if you get rejected then you move on. You evaluated the set and time to move on to the next. JB
/r/seduction30/11/13 02:16 AM
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I did not know going in for a kiss was sexual assault. I like your response and I think it is very valid in certain situations. However if asking you if you are gay and answering that question you have played into the shit test. JB
/r/seduction30/11/13 02:12 AM
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Hey man appreciate the feedback. This will most likely be done under a pseudonym. I could not agree more on the consequences. Last time I checked Academia does not pay the best to get published and it's much easier to publish an online book for a dollar a copy and sell plenty that way. I am being advise by a doc student who actually got me on reddit. And I told him that I got over 600 ups on a post but I don't even dare explain how or why haha. I will keep my grad track aligned and live two live…
/r/seduction30/11/13 12:08 AM
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Thanks man. I was glad to get some kind of support. Idk if anyone else runs into that problem here, but glad 1 person thinks it's worthy
/r/seduction29/11/13 11:54 PM
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Lol she increased a half a point with makeup! Ok blanket say "shit you forgot yours" "who do I look like Obama? Not everyone gets a blanket." "I don't know, looks like you are going be cold. Too bad I failed kindergarten and do not know how to share". Which brings me to the main point I want to address. She gave you a shit test and then you neg. earlier in the date you negged her to hard so she rejected your kiss. She even told you this! The funny thing is she negged you again by accusing you of…
/r/seduction29/11/13 11:50 PM
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A lot of people have already said all of the best advice. Meet all different people. Join new social groups casually ask for numbers (both sexes) join a new social group. Take up new social hobbies. Make sure you apply the law of scarcity for the best effects. you were not specific if you wanted a relationship or just casual flings. Genetics don't matter as long as you don't hide anything. Example if you are balding don't wear a hat. If you are short ( like me) joke about it casually. You are yo…
/r/seduction29/11/13 11:07 PM
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If you want to date her date her. You know the consequences from being in the community. don't hold it against her when things get messy. I think she is trying to make you feel threatened but safe at the same time pushing you into a LTR. You need to avoid this at all cost and only get into a relationship with her if it is what you want to do. She wants to make you feel like you have a time limit of being with her before someone else gets her (threat and most likely empty if she only sleeps with …
/r/seduction29/11/13 11:02 PM
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Ok simple pointers. Humans do something called adjunctive behaviors. Do yourself a huge favor and do this quick simple thing and I promise you will see huge results. You get a text from her. Do not answer, finish your game of COD and maybe another. If Nuketown is on go a head and play through the next one also. Go to the sink and get a glass of water, drink it. Then do 25 push ups. Check your phone and now reply. If you get what I am doing here you know you can substitute all of those things for…
/r/seduction29/11/13 07:04 PM
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Maybe I buried her body right next to the hole I am digging for you ;)
/r/seduction29/11/13 06:57 PM
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Haha. I mean that was obviously the case! She wouldn't even leave that morning. My terrible looks must have immobilized her to the point she did not leave my apartment until 2 the next day. Any other ideas? JB
/r/seduction29/11/13 05:07 PM
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Not in my field for single sample designs. I will be able to pass my findings on and you repeat if hold true then we may have something. If not it worked for a few of us and a few of us it did not. I don't have access to a rat or pigeons to try to create the N=1000 or a year of time to do so :(
/r/seduction29/11/13 11:20 AM
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Interesting stuff. Instant grat is also much easier than having to wait for same reward. Classical conditioning is most likely a huge effect but I think operant is also a big part in the same way. Hopefully you are looking at some delay studies :)
/r/seduction29/11/13 11:17 AM
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I didn't take it personally. I find it humorous not insulting.
/r/seduction29/11/13 11:10 AM
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Drinking and smoking more after a win
/r/seduction29/11/13 11:09 AM
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Thanks I kinda made that assumption already. I think I am going to allude to general things but my PhD will be dependent on my ideas
/r/seduction29/11/13 05:31 AM
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I disagree. Texting and other social media gives us the ability to be ever present in many areas at once. I am not saying that physical attraction and DHV is not important I am suggestions that texting can destroy HV. Texting and other message services allows us to demonstrate scarcity along with other themes that are key in DHV
/r/seduction29/11/13 04:15 AM
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Exactly. Probably most useful also. That way less extraneous variables to account for. I may do the full step
/r/seduction29/11/13 12:13 AM
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Yes different stages. I know it will be easiest on the middle phase. Online dating may be the best tool for this (I won't hurt feelings of people I know and will involve just a texting relationship) First texting you need to establish self worth early. I.e. At the bar make sure you DHV a shit ton. Some people get hung up on getting a number. A female may ignore texts or delay responses or only respond in a few words. I am interested in decreasing delay, increase texts, and increase response leng…
/r/seduction29/11/13 12:00 AM
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Thanks for the website is the guide free. I don't think they did the same thing I am intended on doing. I may look at several factors like they did. I am more interested in increasing number of responses towards my one response. To the point the girl texts you to see what you are doing. If anyone could send me the book I would greatly appreciate it. Broke college kid problems
/r/seduction28/11/13 11:49 PM
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Thanks for your input. I'm getting into grad school in a bit. I may just do self monitored for own behavior. IRB is rough but worse comes to worse I will do it just for this community. My field is a bit different in areas I do not agree with for example we do more with single subject design. I may just compile theories and apply them to my texting and show everyone the results. Simple manipulations will hopefully increase the value of ourselves. I can't believe how much positive feedback I am re…
/r/seduction28/11/13 11:45 PM
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BS on the girl not going for the dbag. Girls will go for that guy unless you check him. However sense it is your buddy and I have had similar problems with this you can do two things after the situation. This one is less effective and that is after the situation occurs but the same night. Call them out on it and say "man that was bs, I love chilling with you but you can't do this________ because it really throws off the dynamic of the group. Put yourself in my shoes" they should respect it but i…
/r/seduction27/11/13 03:18 PM
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I am at a similar age. What I would suggest doing is physically writing down what YOU want. A relationship, a casual friendship, ONS? What qualities are you looking for? To make it easier on you I will give you some quick tips. I think you may need to gain more social circles (more people to hang out with) These take time to develop over all. I would not suggest just jumping into a group of women but start by gaming men. Now this seems counter productive but eventually getting accepted into this…
/r/seduction27/11/13 03:05 PM
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For an opener no. I think it would be better to not call her beautiful right away.
/r/seduction26/11/13 05:40 AM
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A tip I would suggest is not be as bland for your first statement. I avoid automatic responses I.e. How are you doing? What do you like to do for fun? People get asked those questions everyday and they are boring. My suggestion is to approach her and find something unique to say. If all else fails look at the environment. If it's in a gym ask her how she got muscles big and of she can give you any pointers. I always start with a joke. If she is listening to music listen to see if you can tell wh…
/r/seduction26/11/13 05:31 AM
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Check the feed I am new at reddit but I posted your answer on the wall
/r/seduction26/11/13 05:22 AM
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2 nd part I did not see. No don't do it repeatedly. Just like you would not run repeat the same joke over and over again. I did it 4 times I think through 4 venue changes which got me back to her place. No saying a high five won her over just saying doing it 4 times did not destroy my chances
/r/seduction26/11/13 05:19 AM
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Good question and thanks for asking! High fives work when no attraction. Is currently present. I am not sure about your background on pua stuff but I operate on a psych background despite reading as many books as I have. If you are capable of doing hugs (it has already been estb. As being appropriate) than do that. If kissing is ok than do that. In psych this is called shaping up behavior. We reward close approximations (she says something nice you reward with going closer to her) eventually you…
/r/seduction26/11/13 05:14 AM
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If you want to learn from the best check out Neil's cite. Most women are chosen by pua. Often time I don't trust the girls who ask me because they think opening is there only job. It's more about setting the mood of the set. Example you go up to the bar where hb 9 are and you compliment them on how they look (guys can't do this because we would be accused of hitting on them) you stay in the set and keep talking about clothes, jobs, men normal things. Pua should approach you and this set eventual…
/r/seduction25/11/13 05:31 AM
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PUA is an acronym for pick up artist. It is fine if you begin by using canned lines but we need to evolve also. A true Artist does not get paid if they keep on producing the same work over and over again. They make new pieces I have developed my own style to fit around my life. I test things out and make errors. I find things that work great and than I modify them more and make tweaks. I have never been accused of using a canned line even though I have read about 20 books on pua. Tips I will sug…
/r/seduction24/11/13 03:38 PM
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I have had great success with online dating. I would not suggest commenting on her pics or anything you see. Remember to be novel and creative in your first response. Tell her something that she has not heard before.
/r/seduction24/11/13 03:21 PM
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Sometimes it's cross. Don't worry about being an Alpha that is all crap. Women respect confidence and not douchebags. Some women can't tell the difference between the two and therefore they get laid. I rarely apologize and feel like a chump when I do. I know it is right to apologize if I feel like a chump and less of a chump after I apologize. I never say "I am sorry" because i think it is never sincere and pitiful. It is better to use an emotion to describe yourself. For example (this has not h…
/r/seduction24/11/13 03:18 PM
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Those ones are great. Less subtle ones I can think of are high fives for things you like that she says. Also comment that it looks like she has small hands. Some reason this comparison always happens. These ones are quick easy to start the ball rolling. I do occasionally brush the girls leg/foot with mine and say "ow why did you kick me" or "umm clearly your foot is on my part of the table" always laugh and smile to make sure she knows you are joking but I am sure you already know that :) Happy …
/r/seduction24/11/13 03:03 PM
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Yes and no. I do not understand your question and where you are struggling. Being good looking may still be a struggle in my case because women select me. This makes me lazy in some social situations and not able to practice game.
/r/seduction23/11/13 12:10 PM
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