I am not new to the game, nor to dates but I have sticking points and no Wing to point them out. Took a girl out last night and we jumped from bar to bar so speed dates and changing location. It did not take long for negative sex talk to be brought up by her. Soon this turned into positive... And so on and so on.

Eventually I invited her back to my place but she suggested hers instead because I have roommates. She was extremely aggressive (biting so hard there was blood.). We were all over each other but eventually we stopped. I asked her if she wanted me to stay (AFC move and sometimes I revert for brief lapses of time) she did not respond. So became more of an AFC and told her I would like to stay (I am studying psych, have looked at NLP for rapport and a lot of things were missing and have also read Dr. Eckman books on Facial recognition) I could tell that I needed to leave.

My question was, should I have left? I did not text her yet nor do I plan 2.

Usually I am more blunt and in the moment say "let's have sex". But me reverting back to AFC saw something that I liked in her and don't like to rush into things. I have found this approach to be the worse possible way of handling any situation. I am not suggesting forcing myself on a girl but making sure she knows I am interested in sex by verbally saying that.

Often times when I don't push the envelope. I miss an opportunity and any chance of a further date/hook up is gone despite developing premature feelings. Does anyone else feel that way also? When I do hook up with someone on a first date or first time immediately they become more dependent on hearing from me again.

Finally do I try to come in contact with her again? I come from the frame that I do not have much to lose and we did not leave on bad terms. I am dating other people so It's not oneitis but rather a sticking point that I would like to work through. Some sticking points it is better to just never repeat them others I have found it is a good learning experience to fix mistakes.

Right now I will probably text her Monday and accuse her of getting me sick and take it from there.

This is my first post and interested in seeing feedback.