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JonnyJaded/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 01:26 PM
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JonnyJaded/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 04:44 PM
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"This is a conversation that's too important for texting. We can talk at home if you'd like". Fine. But what happened in those 2 days between the text and the email? Was she acting like she wanted to talk and you didn't catch it? Think about it...what was she doing covertly to signal you to begin the conversation? I agree with /u/MRPCowboy she emailed you because she needed an alternate comm channel because you didn't catch her actions. opening with “did you read my email, what did you think?”. …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 06:50 AM
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So true. I've been there.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 05:53 PM
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Thanks bro. It's good to be back.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 05:51 PM
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Did you miss that part? Semantics. "Flip side: you don't see me talking about my trauma medicine experiences and specialty training then saying "So I get what it's like to be an MD without being one myself." <--FIFY There were plenty of questions by other users before you. I know this because of the time I spent answering said questions before yours popped up. mostly victim puke about your home arrangement How? Perhaps our views on what victim puke is differ. I outlined what the problem is: Stil…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 03:37 AM
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Checking. Thanks bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 02:37 AM
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I'll do some research on it tonight. I was reading about specific probiotic treatments in relation to autism.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 02:31 AM
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I don't give free passes for past experiences I didn't ask for one. I put it here because people in the know will understand the trials and hardships because they went through them as well. Having friends and family in the military does not equal understanding what it is like to live that life. Flip side: you don't see me talking about my trauma medicine experiences and specialty training then saying "So I get what it's like to be an MD."
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 02:25 AM
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What does that mean? Do you get frustrated and take a step back? Speak in firm tones and stay consistent? Or make things worse by raising your voice and escalating the situation? Presumably somebody was handling this kid while you were away. Are you making things better or worse? I use firm tones and try to separate him when the situation. In moments of intense frustration I will raise my voice. It doesn't help, I'm working on fixing it. What parenting books are you reading? Uniquely Human (audi…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 02:08 AM
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Totally agree. I do comfort and reassure her especially when I can see that she is having a tough day. With my current work schedule, I see them about an hour before I go to bed, and about 2 hours before I go to work. I make sure to take the toddler during this time. He should be in preschool within 2 weeks, and I've set up appointments with a therapist when I got home. She should go to her first appt within 3 days. On a positive note. Grandma has moved out today, giving us alittle more breathin…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 01:16 AM
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It's better now that I understand what it is. Before, it was simply terrible. At least now I have a name for it. The only thing left to do is find out the severity. We have a meeting on the 17th and preschool immediately after that.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 01:11 AM
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I'm very happy this was caught in the early stages. He has an IEP on the 17th and should go right into preschool the next day.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 01:07 AM
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I like that idea. I'm going to give it a try with the toddler.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 01:44 PM
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Thanks, brother. I missed you sorry fuckers. I've been to damn busy to post anything. But I've been lurking. And it's not gay if it's cold in the field.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 01:43 PM
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The "it's been 9 months" thing was because the last time i posted was 9 months ago. Iraq isn't the best for internet connection.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 01:16 PM
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Well, at least I'm not getting shot at anymore. It's all going to be about problem assessment. Fix the big ones first that I have control over (ie renting or buying another place) and working from there. Honestly I think that when we have more space, it will make everything better. Just getting off work now, and doing a walkthrough of a place in an hour.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 01:13 PM
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I've got my plan together. Step 1. GTFO of that house. Step 2. Better job. Step 3. ?? Step 4. PROFIT!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 01:10 PM
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I appreciate your comment, brother. I write these things down without expecting hand holding and hugs. But perhaps I didn't express properly. True, life is throwing me some curve balls. Honestly I just went through (and am still going through) the biggest change of my life. I understand that I could of handled certain situations better, and I own it. I own it so I can work on fixing it. However, with all that is going on I am proud of how well I'm doing. I am proud for the most part of how every…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 01:01 PM
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I honestly thought about it for the big old one. His ligaments were replaced in both knees, and afew years ago I was $7k into that dog. But he wasn't suffering so it makes no sense. If that time comes, I may take him out to end his suffering. Not the beagle though. I can't smoke a dog for no reason. Terrorists yes, dogs no. Renting does suck for dog owners, I'm thinking about buying a house more and more these days. Then I an do whatever the fuck I want.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 12:45 PM
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Close, mate. 9 months ago she was 2 months pregnant and I was contemplating if she got pregnant on the sly. But still the iron rules still be iron.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 12:42 PM
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Toddler currently does speech therapy twice a week. We are only in the initial stages of evals for autism, not treatment yet. We have been looking into services and special needs schools for him. As of now, he is still on track to be in preschool in the fall. Yes. Until we move, I will be unable to take the role of clan leader. I could be Brad Pitt with $1M in the bank and it wouldn't matter because I have no castle. Moving is my first step. The house hunt is progressing though. It will not be l…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 09:46 AM
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Maybe an activity date, something physical. Go indoor rock climbing, do silly tourist shit around Chinatown, maybe even a mud/obstacle run. Bike riding, kayaking also have there place as well. You can go with BPPs suggestion of lits of planning, but I get more traction when it seems completely spontaneous. I mean make it "seem" spontaneous. One thing old BP me did a lot was constantly ask "Are you having a good time?" "Are you having fun?" I know you won't do that. Good luck and enjoy YOUR anniv…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 10:32 AM
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Very much so.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 12:33 AM
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I did that after the boy went to sleep. I was afraid that if I had the conversation right there that I would lose frame. It didn't feel like the right time for me. I had to get my Frame under control before a conversation like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 03:02 PM
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That's pretty accurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 02:48 PM
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Lol. I gave those bitches a MRP post. Bitches love MRP posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 02:28 PM
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No other red flags. We had a talk last night. I'll update when I get a chance.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 01:50 PM
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Not nessessarily. You can receive a Progesterone supplement. This is used (obviously) to spike Progesterone levels and thicken the uterine lining to SUPPORT egg fertilization, and ultimately, pregnancy.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 07:00 PM
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Exactly. Her behavior totally threw me off.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 06:31 PM
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First off, I don't know if there was an injection, or medication administered. Lab date was 27May. If my math is correct she got pregnant less than a week later.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 06:30 PM
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Both ideas make sense. But if she was taking Progesterone I would have known (she hates taking pills and would have bitched non stop). Ultimately her waffling and trying to subject change like she did set my hampster in motion. Because that is her default for getting caught doing something she shouldn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 06:03 PM
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Whoa!! Hang on their chief! Get started by reading the sidebar before you read the posts. I'm glad you found us but what is you situation? Why don't you post that instead of that bullshit you wrote up there. I spend mornings reading posts and sometimes the only thing it gets me motivated to do is throw my phone against the wall. You can do better. Post something else or don't post at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/15 04:06 PM
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Ha! No I'm an Army grunt.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/15 03:55 PM
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So true. Disregard my last. Progressive is correct. Just think of them as harmless SJW bullies.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 07:20 PM
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That is pretty much it. Its a shit ton of SWJs with Rachael Maddow worthy snarkiness. Preaching that we are just a group of woman hating bad guys. Top all the off with some good old fashioned Liberal "tolerance" and you got the idea. Its a really sad place where everyone just circle jerks each other on how witty they are and how evil we are. Think Agent Smith, if he couldn't fight and just tried to shame everyone that unplugged.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 06:13 PM
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Thanks brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 04:28 PM
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Isn't it fun? I always have a good chuckle reading their comments. Stay manly, you harpies!!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 03:45 PM
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This is my interpretation of the shit/comfort tests in my life and how I deal with them. They are different for everyone but these are mine. I struggle with comfort tests at times because I miss them or mistake them for shit tests. That is what I'm discussing, how I deal with them. YMMV.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 01:30 PM
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Thank you. That means a lot. I don't understand why so many of the newer members are scared to act like a man and lead. But also getting so irritated that they are expected to lead their tribe. Just suck it up, buttercup and enjoy the ride! Its fun if you let it be. I stated this before but I think it would be a good idea to do a compilation of these and throw it on the sidebar with the MODs, MRP APPROVED, HARD CORE RED, and some of us red unplugging guys explaining what the shit/comfort tests a…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 12:50 PM
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It is the box to the right of most of our usernames. Kinda like a rank. Put it on your name and continue your journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 12:19 PM
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Good work on getting laid and leading your clan. Don't get complacent though. Its a long road. Keep the faith. Also get yourself some flair.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 10:14 AM
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/u/marvelousmorg It's more of in the spirit of "If I'm going to have a woman, this is what I need from her." Context dude. If that was the only thing you got out if this post, then you missed the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 08:44 AM
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I know! Thanks femnazis and SJWs!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 08:39 AM
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You might have said from a hurt or defensive frame. If so this could open her up to attack your weak A&A. I also agree with BBP, if she is ultra sensitive about her cooking you may have crossed the line and opened yourself up to a hissy fit. If your going to say something that may be controversial try laughing out loud while you say it next time. I would have replied with a redirect "No baby I just had a craving for something hot kino you wanna see how hot I want it right now?" or something alon…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 12:16 AM
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Possibly. I'm gonna check /r/thebluepill after I get the boy to sleep and see if it made it there. Those beastly man hating bitches have been reposting the fuck out of my stuff lately.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 11:05 PM
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I bought her new panties that weren't soiled with her infidelity tingles. That really showed her who the captain is. Please tell me that I can Alpha good.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 10:32 PM
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Maybe. Or just a clueless guy hoping to RP with the quickness.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 09:16 PM
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Thank you. Have you ever heard of that before?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 08:31 PM
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Absolutely. The MODs apperently had the same idea. Check out that guys new flair. We should have a whole section about the differences of test. IE "Shit/Comfort tests according to BBP/thisisme007/jonnyjaded/whinemoreplease" etc and so forth. Stay manly.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 08:25 PM
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Very well thought out and concise. A lot of new guys worry when their wife throws a hissy fit. Its like "Bro you've been living under the Queen's rule for X years. You think she is going to just hand it over without a fight?" Good post.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 07:42 PM
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So true. I just found out yesterday that I knocked my wife up for our 2nd child. I'm not worried, I never saw the need to get above Dread level 5. What I'm doing us working so I'm just going to stay the course. Stay manly.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 03:26 PM
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So let me get this straight; your wide branch swung (AWALT) and you are rewarding her swinging back by buying her new party panties for her next swing, AND protected her from slut shaming by hopping back on the whore train? On top of that you broke her boyfriends jaw as an act of revenge thus opening yourself up for legal action? Pray, inform me, genius, if you go to jail for agg assault how do you think she will spend her time? Will she write you everyday, and come by once a week for conjecule …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 01:31 PM
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My personal favorite is "Baby, kiss on forehead I've got an entire harem to service. Just be happy that you're on the top tier. passionate kiss "
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/15 11:44 PM
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Not gonna lie, that gave me a chuckle. But seriously, the phrase "Easier just to get on board." is wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/15 07:13 PM
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I don't think its that big of a deal. She wanted to work, and she still does only this time she wants to work from home. If this suits your needs you should support her. If not, tell her no. If this works for her then she will constantly be onyour ass seeking aapproval like a puppy. Again, if this is in line with your needs then support her, pat her on the head and tell her what a "good little business woman" she is. Dont stress it. It looks like things are going way you want it and your looking…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/15 03:27 AM
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At times the Captain must instruct the FO if a given task is not being done correctly. How would you handle it? Just let it go? Unacceptable. If it is done correctly then you would give attention and affection. Expecting behaviour, and only being as available as your needs are met is really about your needs, and not fixing get. Your needs are important. The most important. If she isn't fulfilling your needs, why the fuck would you make yourself available her her needs (unless its a comfort test …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/15 03:39 PM
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"You're in my world now, princess."
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/15 01:16 PM
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Its not cum sock status. It is ensuring that she does her job properly.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 05:09 PM
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True. BUT your wife could see through that and fuck IP on purpose to spend more time at Nordstroms. Next time she fucks up, micromanage her given task. Make it annoying. Make it so she doesn't want to fuck up again.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 04:03 PM
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Its not that big of a deal. From my understanding, they just put you on a few cycles of injectable TRT. T levels rise. Bada bing bada boom. Don't stress it brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 03:29 PM
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Ha! Maybe. But it got itself wet a few times in that case.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 01:52 AM
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Nothing wrong with that. Sometimes the FO has a better idea than the CPT. It is part of the captains job to weigh the FOs idea against his own and see which one is better. But I would only go about it if she gives you a PRECISE answer and not just "I think I want Mexican." If she says "I wanna go to Craptastic Taco emporium. I hear good things about it. Blah blah blah." Then its on you, brother. Who knows...you might love the Crappy Super Burrito with the house Bowel Exploder Sauce. Bit it is st…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 01:50 AM
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I do that with my wife and toddler sometimes. Use it sparingly though.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 12:41 AM
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Welcome!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 06:24 AM
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All over you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 03:02 PM
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Exactly!!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 06:28 AM
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Taste the rainbow.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 01:24 AM
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Wrong. We do this to make a better self. After you do that and start to see success, the better body, better sex, and better wife is simply a by product.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 01:22 AM
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Yeah it was a real "Boom. Headshot." Kinda moment. Good shit all around.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 02:15 PM
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Good luck. When you shoot them down they get the most hurt little girl pouty lip look. Just pat her on the head and say "Aww. You look cute when your mad, princess." Walk away chuckling to yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/15 02:01 PM
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Yeah thats true. Don't wanna go smashing things and whatnot in front of the baby. Bad news bears. Forget I said that. Still surgery or not, its no excuse to be a shitty human, and wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/15 01:55 PM
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Now that is gonna be fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/15 01:49 PM
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I will.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/15 08:38 PM
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My wife was LL while she was BFing and didn't get her period back for 8 months. I LOVED her gigantic BFing tits (34 B to 34 DD) and didn't know what to do with myself. I was a dog without a bone. It sucked. I was pre RP and made the same mistake you did (telling her to get slutted up, etc) she never did. I got butthurt. Rinse/repeat. Now I know that I should have handled it differently. Covert contacts are a very real possibility in this stage. I would concentrate on being a better Dad, and in d…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 05:56 PM
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1st off. Has she read the book? Or did she just get dazzled by the pretty title and sparkles on the cover? If she has read the book or knew about it, bad news bears. Either way she needs to know in no uncertain terms that you aren't reading that book anymore. As for the what ifs?...fuck her. Sorry man but she doesn't respect you or your desicions. Read the sidebar starting with NMMNG. A&A early and often. The suggestions that Mr. Ironwood wrote are golden. Also consider: Her: "What if blah blah,…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 01:47 AM
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When shit gets real and bullets start flying I become the zen master. When I have multiple casualties with multi-system traumas I can tune everything else out, and work/direct my combat life savers (CLS) and subordinate medics to do different thing. I become the calm little center, the eye of the storm. BUT sometimes daily little annoyances can built up and I can completely lose my shit "for no reason". I have starting looking in the mirror when I brush my teeth every morning and saying "You're …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 08:17 PM
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That really is the weird part. The "Why?". I mean I jump out of planes with the military (I'm almost a jump master for fuck sakes!!) But its just something about it that puts me on edge and makes my Spidey sense totally go haywire. I can't explain it. But I got 2 flights today so I got time to practice.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 01:38 PM
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Now I'm not going to bullshit myself or you and say that I was C3 (calm, cool, collected) while the plane was stopped on the tarmac for 45 minutes. Because I wasn't. Roger, got it. I have hated crowds and tight confined spaces since Afghanistan. I'm totally fine while the bird was in the air...after all, that is what it does. When it is stopped for long periods, I start to get twichy. Once out, I was good again. Thank you for your comment. I post good and bad, because I want to get better.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 03:40 AM
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Thank you for that well thought out reply. To be honest I was more irritated to have the crushing claustrophobia and anxiety grip me so tight. I failed to be an oak that way. Once I lead the family off the plane and out of the crush of humanity I instructed them to divide and conquer. I handed all the logistics,got hooked the fuck up on cab, meal, (sweet ass) hotel vouchers. Upgraded our seats for the flights the next day. I was a beast at haggling. I just returned to thehotel after a bever run …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 03:23 AM
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See I was like that too. I'd get irritated that my wife never initiated. But I've come to realize that she does, lots. She just doesn't jump on me. Its just subtle cues that the old BP me never noticed. 95% is a pretty bold statement. Unless she is a squirter, how can you be sure? I guess there can be "duty sex" BJs. But as long as its enthusiastic, who cares? BJs are very submissive for the woman. She wants you to dominate her. Get to it!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 01:02 PM
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Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 02:29 AM
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I will. As always, I appreciate your feedback. I'm not a master at this but at least I have the balls to say what I'm thinking on here. Because of that I'm glad that the MODs and the more experienced "Unplugged" ones are here to tell me when I am about to step on my dick. I am re reading RM, CH, and MMSL because obviously I missed something if I thought that this would be a good idea. Like I said before; I guess that my need for catharsis clouded my ability and would have left me in a situation …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 02:29 AM
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"I would love it if I could have a respected third-party descend on me and my wife, give an inspirational speech, and then conclude, "I now declare this an Officially Red Pill marriage." This is exactly what I was picturing. My need for closure was clouding my judgment on moving forward. Only I can control my happiness and I need to not worry about the past. "Why didn't you confirm we had our reservation tonight? Did they call you to confirm? Which phone number did you leave with them?" At least…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 02:19 AM
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Goddamn! That is an awesome assessment. Thanks for that. In my own mind I believed that this would be an official starting over for me. I was looking too hard for catharsis and not looking hard enough on the long game. Immediate gratification is for women and I think that sometimes we forget that (I know I did). I was looking for catharsis because I am still in the anger phase. I realized it after re reading some CH and RM earlier this week. I realized that wife was Alpha widowed, she was almost…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 02:06 AM
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I never thought of it like that. But the risk/reward is not in my favor with what I was trying to accomplish. I'm better off keeping my shit together and doing what I've been doing without churching it up. It looks like I have some things to re-read.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 01:54 AM
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Thanks. I definatly will remain OI with whatever outcome happens. I'M going to have a kickass time. Fuck her if she doesn't like it. I completely see how this could be a disaster. I almost look at this being a huge test for me. Almost like a midterm. Can I do this? Damn straight I can and I'll have a kick ass time regardless. I am in control of my happiness.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 10:08 PM
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I have read the RM article on that but can you link me the CH article? Trust me, I thought about this long and hard. This will not be a thoughtful romantic trip. I'm gearing this to be a fun trip with some good old fashioned cathartic release for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 10:02 PM
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OI = Outcome Independence. You are not swayed by her feminine nonsence. What do you want to do? Do you want to wear it, do you not? Its up to you, LEAD! If she is dead set on wearing it to impress her post wall friends. Let her, you don't. (It does change my answer). Be the life of the party and talk to everyone. Lightly flirt with girls in front of your woman, bit I would introduce her as your wife with you ring hand. Feed the Hampster and get ready. Stay manly
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/15 03:53 AM
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The military is a socialist society. We must push on with the orders given at work. This can bleed onto the home life. If you question an order you may find yourself entering a world of pain (MARK IT ZERO, SMOKEY!!!) Young dependa wives learn from the older and salty wives and the cycle continues. You said yourself that you had the same issues that myself and the other new guys have so I don't think its disproportionate. Military men are more likely to tell people their job here, because like at…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/15 03:41 AM
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I don't think so. I told my wife that I wasn't wearing my ring while I was in jump master school (while checking parachutes the ring could catch on the main curved pin releasing the entire parachute. Bad news bears) and kept it off because I don't want it scratched while lifting. I bought a $20 silicone ring but she wasn't pissed about my long time ring absence. If my wife stopped wearing hers I would just take my off, and put it back on when she put hers back on without saying a word about it. …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/15 03:24 AM
1

Thank you. I'll get to reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 11:03 PM
2

Can us undeserving newbs hear you elaborate on your methods, or styles when you are treating her like a teenager so we could fine tune our craft? I must work on this area.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 05:33 PM
5

I'm thinkin' Arby's.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 04:59 PM
3

I just had honey boo-boo's fucking mother look up from her feeding trough and tell me that "Dat hamburger gone keel you child!" "I'm not a candidate for a triple bypass. I'm pretty sure I'm going to be OK. Go back to your Doritos."
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 04:58 PM
3

I don't want or need to become a prophet. I just want to help my new kid, the problem is some guys can't get over their ego enough do hear that they're doing it wrong. Pity, but there has to be betas for post wall sluts to get their BB. When I talk about something I'm passionate about, I get very charismatic. It naturally attracts people and I end up "Holding Court" as the wife says.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 04:35 PM
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Young bastard. I hope you beat him on pull ups, did did some backwoods wraaaslin'.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 04:30 PM
4

That is some great shit right there. Well done. Stay manly.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 03:51 PM
1

I agree. It all just brought it home for him. And he raised that he isn't alone.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 03:49 PM
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They are. I'm at a unit picnic right now. So. Much. Blubber.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 02:39 PM
1

The incident did lead in the a great discussion about Frame, including examples of some tines when I failed to maintain it, and the resulting actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 02:04 PM
2

Girls Night Out. Thanks. It really was weird, but I liked knowing that there are more men hearing the truth. Now its up to me to be rock solid at RP.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 01:53 PM
1

Thanks for the clarification. I was just wondering about this.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 02:09 AM
2

I have you to thank. Your solid advice on one of my earlier FRs set me straight.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 09:21 PM
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Is this for real?! GTFO of there!!! Talk to a lawyer. The hard truth is that you are her hard core BB and she has no use for you other than a babysitter. Hate fuck her, then immediately after tell her to GTFO out of your house. Lift and spin plates. You deserve better. She might be a plate in a year, abd only for the sake of being close with your kids, BUT you deserve better. You deserve better. You deserve better. You deserve better. Repeat that 50X a day. Bro, you need to sack the fuck up if o…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 09:18 PM
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Thank you. I'll remember that and keep learning as I go. As must we all.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 02:50 PM
2

Well said, brother. Keep the faith. Plant a mighty Oak Tree in your yard today and remember the promise you made to yourself each time you look at it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 02:47 PM
1

Well put.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 01:14 PM
2

Well for one thing I'll be on leave so that's a win. But I'll be more proactive when it comes to try to deal with the details that "could" have. I'm also in the process of destroying my squad leaders for not handling business while I was in the field which would have precented this whole thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 01:12 PM
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Jesus. That blows! After all these years, how the hell did you find out? How is she acting? How have you been acting around her? Maybe you should GTFO of the house for afew days and turn your phone off.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/15 10:08 PM
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Thanks. I think the best way is to lead by example and secure some OI. You keep getting better, and let her hampster flip shit inside her head. There will be a turning point where she will ask you for advice. Reward her behavior and be a good and through teacher. She will respect you. If not, fire for effect. But, I'm new at this so maybe some some of the old hands could give better guidance here. Stay Manly.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/15 03:57 AM
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Not saying I would, but if you decide to throw a tac nuke her way; you better be goddamn positive that your shit is wired tight and squared away. For lack of a better term, you need to be King Shit atop of Turd Mountain. Stay Manly, Brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/15 03:42 AM
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I did not. I had to leave the house at 0430 to get back. To be honest morning sex has really never been a thing, even before the toddler. I couldn't have taken her to bed when the test was in place because the boy wasn't asleep yet (he would have gotten up a few times before going to sleep). Honestly I thought this was the best case scenario. My SMV isn't high enough yet to get sucked off on demand, so I really want to get that squared away instead of watching TV. Trying not to Hampster this out…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 08:49 PM
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Message received.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 04:26 PM
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Well put, brother. I actually thought of doing just that (hugging, kissing, etc) but I remembered 2 things; 1. I gave her the 'ole 10 second kiss when I got home (ass grab, chin tilt) 2. After the tone she used, I thought that kissing her THEN would be rewarding bad behavior. So I opted to just leave it alone. I'm lucky in the fact that she was Air Force when we met so she knows the deal better than your garden variety dependa. That being said when this happens again when I come back next Friday…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 01:17 PM
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Fucking around a month after marrying. WTF was SHE thinking. Fuck her.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 09:49 PM
4

I pretty much told my ex wife this same shit years after the divorce. "Ya know, I would have put up with all your nonsense. I mean ALL of it, if you would have just fucked me."
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 09:44 PM
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Ok. I'll bite. She is texting and flirting with Chad Thundercock, you lost frame and called her on her shit (not nessessarily wrong IMO but you did it like a boy, not a man). You don't want to lose her, and went silent, she cleaned out her shit. Right? I would summon all inner strength and adopt OI in the biggest way possible. Go silent, flirt with young sluts, get numbers and be FUN!! If she comes back she fucking dies it on YOUR terms. If she doesn't, fuck her. You are better off.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 09:28 PM
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Read the sidebar, troll.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 09:18 PM
1

YES! Did you write this or did you find it somewhere?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 09:08 PM
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This. Is. Gold! I have to fight the almost over powering urge to copy/paste this on my Facebook and let as many people as possible read this. Thank you for writing this!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 08:52 PM
1

Cheers. Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 08:28 PM
0

This EXACT same thing happened when I got home from the field 2 days ago to refit. I initiated hard, and she said "Why Mr. Jaded, did you miss me or something?" To which I said "I missed parts of you." Exit wife. Enter pornstar.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 05:30 PM
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Look him in the eye and tell him that he needs to "Sack Up" and be a husband and father.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 05:26 PM
1

My thoughts exactly.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 05:25 PM
1

Good point. But I'm guessing that this is a common thing so my advice is to start fresh and end all temptation of the shiny black box that makes pretty pictures on the TV.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 08:19 PM
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Now there are big differences between you and OP on linked thread. OP there avoided his wife's bitchy behaviour by playing video games, you play when everyone is asleep. I would give different advice to different people. IMO PS4 in the muddle if the day = bad. PS4 after everyone is sleeping = not bad. Personally I can't wait to play some shit like Mario Kart with my boy, but we won't spend all day doing it. I treat video games like the "candy and sugar" section on the old school food pyramid "us…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 07:57 PM
1

Couldn't agree more. The less they know the better. I simply say that I belong to a "Men's Group" people just automatically assume its some kind of God and Jesus thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 04:19 PM
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Even a noob like me knows that you broke frame. IMO if she gets pissy with you on the phone you need to stop it immediately and tell her in a calm voice that "just because you had a shitty day does not give you the right to act like a bitch on the phone to your husband." (Do not say "I'm sorry you had a shitty day") and hang up. Stop talking to her on the way home. Its better to say nothing and ignore the hampster sometimes. Sell your PS4, what are you 13?!? You really need to read the sidebar, …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 04:13 PM
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I didn't explain that well. I remain in control, but sometimes chuckle at them. They completely lose their shit. Its the same strategy I use with debating liberals. At this point I really DGAF if I convince them or not. The really interesting thing is when the women they are with agree with me. One question for you; what is FC? (I'm still new and can't remember)
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 03:57 PM
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Did you spend the 2000's as a hard core White Knight? Single handedly "saving" coked out strippers, and whores. She seems just action packed with issues, bro. You should have got rid of her ass years ago....but since you didn't...I would start documenting shit in case of you finally sack up and say "fuck it", and consider her on Strike 2. That said I'm glad that things are in your favor currently.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 03:44 PM
1

I'm also having a hard time finding like minded men. I never SAY "RP" but speak about some of the concepts I've learned openly. So much BP out there. I actually enjoy getting into (sometimes hsated) discussions with friend zoned White Knights in front of women.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 11:27 AM
1

Yeah. I saw that nonsense. Didn't you hear, bro? Everything be "rayciss an' sheit!"
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 03:02 AM
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Jesus. I would have told that cunt to hit the bricks ages ago. Burn her down.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 06:07 PM
1

I'm here brother. Memorial Day fucks me up! (I just posted about it actually) I lost frame this time and got depressed as hell. Me: Still Active at Bragg, 3 tours to various vacation spots with the 82nd (11B), PTSD, and severe insomnia. On this topic, sadly, the sidebar will not help. Last year the family and I conducted Area Beautification on a small federal cemetery and posted flags on each gravestone. It was very cathartic for me. As for losing frame; I didn't this year but I need to remember…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 05:40 PM
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Thanks all. I definatly need to express my needs during this difficult time of the year. Anniversaries of my friends getting KIA spans all throughout the year (we had 3 KIA the day before my birthday on my second tour. I've managed to suppress all that shit and stuff it down and away. But Memorial Day is when all the bad memories claw their way to the surface. Next year I'll go into the woods or something. Actually there is a "Never Forget" type group that was doing a 100 mile Road March from WV…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 05:19 PM
1

That could be a fine option. When I get out of the Army I'll be landing a job that pays big bucks! I could keep at her until its time that I can afford it, she should be ripe to it by then. Nice work.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 10:31 PM
1

That is well thought advice. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 04:18 PM
1

Again, I'm still a newbie at this. I'm trying to lead her to a solution. I'll give the direct approach again, I guess my first attempt went so horribly that I got gun shy.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 04:50 PM
2

I tried that. Got as far as her thighs and she got uncomfortable.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 04:47 PM
1

I love Archer! I wanted to throat punch Ray about 8 times per episode for not sacking up and shutting that overbearing cunt the fuck down.BUT! Rays brother was an even bigger pussy than him!!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 04:45 PM
1

Jesus reading this reminds me of my starter wife before I said "fuck it, I'm out" and got divorce raped. Postpone the wedding and get your shit together!! Once you are the man you want to be THEN take a long look around. If you aren't getting what you want from her by then...hey fuck it! You tried! Pop smoke and leave the bitch. But STOP BEGGING FOR SEX! STOP IT! YOU'RE EMBARRASSING YOURSELF!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 03:18 PM
2

You're right. There is too much unneeded info on here. I'll try to be more understandable in the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/15 02:35 PM
2

Agree. I've been taking Muay Thai twice a week for 3 weeks now, and I fucking LOVE how it makes me feel to dominate someone. Not in the ring (I'm not ready yet) but while practing at 50%-70% and using my deep seeded aggressive nature to get deep inside someones personal space and go to town. Even when I get my ass handed to me it feels so great that I can jump back up and get back into it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 04:33 PM
1

We can and do, its just harder to get than in the civilian world.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 12:30 PM
5

Really good stuff here! I have been recently been starting to see awesome changes and I find it really hard to not start yapping about it. I must remember that I'm doing this for me and I could give a shit what people think.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 01:56 AM
2

Yeah. I thought of that too. Unfortunately its not as easy as you thing if you're in the military.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 01:51 AM
2

When I first swallowed TRP, I couldn't stop telling friends about it! Some liked it, most didn't. Fuck 'em. I talk to afew guys in my platoon that are in shaky marriages and they seem responsive, and word has gotten around. Now if someone comes to me for advice I tell them a short version of "The ballad of Clark Kent" and gauge their reaction. Then I'll show them the 16 commandments and TRM and tell them to check back with me in a month to see how things are going.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/15 12:22 PM
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UPDATE: Did not confront. Told wife that I was going to the pharmacy to pick up some sleep aids. Got that and a face wash which I've never used before. Once I got home she asked me about it, to which I nonchalantly replied that I'm going to take better care of my face. She put the boy to sleep and I lifted in the garage. Not soon after one ticket to pound town was purchased by the wife. Excellent. Thank you for your advice. I'm glad I said nothing.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 09:17 AM
2

Good shit. Thanks for the advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 01:49 AM
2

The answer is obvious! Fuck no! Why would I be happy with leftovers?! I know the obvious ( lift with more vigor, up my SMV, etc) what I want to know is: do I ignore it and concentrate on upping my SMV only...or do I confront and explain that this behavior is unacceptable? I'm cool with both but I see both RP and AFC behavior in both responses. So...I'm asking for advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 12:16 AM
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Thank you. Up voted.
/r/trpGAME10/10/14 06:13 PM
2

I appreciate that. I wanted advice on if he appeared to be blown off.
/r/trpGAME10/10/14 06:09 PM
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No need to be a douche. I'm having trouble helping my friend because I don't have the time or energy to chase women, and the only game I run is on my wife, and obviously we are past this part. If you can't be constructive then that means you are only posting in a "look at me!" way. That is the most BP thing on this thread if you ask me.
/r/trpGAME10/10/14 12:39 PM
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I can't wait for the rest of this story!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/14 12:29 PM
1

We're not in Kansas anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/14 12:03 AM
3

Step 1: get into her laptop and phone and copy all evidence of her cheating Step 2: consult with the top 25 divorce lawyers. Step 3: hire one and start. Step 4: HATE FUCK. I mean fuck her like your trying to take the bad years away. Step 5: serve her the papers. Kick her out of YOUR house. Start the war.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/14 06:37 PM
1

Now I just need to figure out some RP game on the chicks that go there and get some big tips.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/14 12:29 PM
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Well said! Thank you. Thank baby Jesus that my wife is very fiscally responsible. Last night was my first night. I found out that I'm actually a good bartender. I made more than the guy training me.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/14 05:00 PM
1

Less than 3 months savings. CC bills, car payments, and a mortgage. Getting a HUGE severance that will wipe out most bills. I'm doing this temporarily to build a good amount of money in the emergency fund. Then I'm out.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/14 04:23 PM
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The answer is obvious. Anyone can just give that knee jerk reaction, but its different when your income is cut in half. I'd rather have a couple million in the bank and stay home and hang out with my family. But in the real world, it doesn't work like that
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/14 02:37 PM
2

I'm active duty military. Promotions after my current rank can take a shit load of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/14 02:37 PM
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We were both wore out at the end. Afterwards she said " What the hell was that?" I could only answer with "Progress."
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/14 08:05 PM
1

I always say "Yeah, she's hot. You should get that shirt/shoes/hairstyle/whatever." Works all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/14 06:41 PM
2

My wife was retardedly hot when she was in her early 20's. I met her in her mid 20's and now we are both in our early 30's. Of course I wonder sometimes what kind of crazy shit she did with guys before me. When our relationship was new we talked about our pasts, I told her about my "man slut phase" and about plate spinning, and threesomes and other things. She dumbed hers down a bit and played the good girl (i.e. "I had a FB but I only did oral") I saw through that BS immediately, and realized t…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/14 03:12 PM
1

Pure gold! Well said! I knew in the back of my mind that I did something incorrectly I just didn't know what it was. I'm very new to this. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/14 10:22 PM
2

Playing with her pantyline is hardly "commanding" but more hinting. True. I did it because I enjoyed and it turned me on. But this brings a new question: the foreplay us completely one sided in the beginning. EVERYTIME! What the fuck!? Any ideas? Anyone else dealing with this? Also I just started doing the CPT/FO thing. Its is a ways from being perfected.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/14 09:34 PM
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Doesn't work in my case. We have a toddler that doesn't sleep through the night, and we are both up everyday at 0430-0530. I'm not going to fuck with her if she is asleep, just like I don't want to be fucked with when I'm asleep. Some things are sacred.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/14 08:49 PM
1

Thank you for this. I have swallowed TRP about a month ago and have been glued to this, rationalmale, and MMSL learning as much as I can. I'll be posting my story soon. I would very much like you gentlemen to chime in and see if I'm fucking up or if I'm finally on the right path. P.S. I'venever been on reddit before so if I am breaking some rules, just let me know.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/14 05:03 PM
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