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Haha, I see your point. Maybe I should explain in further detail. Where is the line drawn when someone has a problem with alcohol? Usually when it interferes with work or normal daily function and responsibilities. Can we then classify oneitis as an addiction? If so, if two people had it mutually for each other would that also not be a problem?
/r/seduction10/10/14 09:38 PM
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I automatically leave. I'm not going to hang around when there's usually other chicks nearby and that makes her forget all about him wondering where YOU went while avoiding the pissing match altogether. Works pretty good.
/r/seduction16/09/14 02:09 AM
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I think you're confused about what it is we do here...
/r/seduction21/01/14 06:40 AM
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It was me, I said that. That's just a rule of thumb to keep people getting over approach anxiety from sitting there trying to work up courage that's not going to come. Once you're past that point of course you're free to approach on your own time table.
/r/seduction21/01/14 04:57 AM
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Where are you enrolled, Hogwarts?
/r/seduction21/01/14 04:41 AM
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You drove through? That's what you're basing your rebuttal on?
/r/seduction20/01/14 08:46 PM
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That's terrible. Idk man, I personally constantly compare myself to other guys. It's how I get better. I'll actually send myself texts reminding myself of things I saw another guy do that I want to do better. But let's remember... We are all of the same species. Generally speaking we are born with the same anatomy and shockingly similar psychology. Most importantly we are all blessed with the ability to IMPROVE. If you feel yourself to be inferior then you have work to do to make yourself the be…
/r/seduction20/01/14 10:28 AM
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Dayum.
/r/seduction20/01/14 09:43 AM
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Oh, you'll be easy to help. First off, either take cool friends with you or, lacking such, make some. Second, 3 second rule. You're not a lion stalking your prey through tall grass for half an hour. You're a man who sees something that he wants and you're most fun, funny, and interesting man in the room. She's about to find that out and respond. Are you not? Well then you have your work cut out for you, don't you?
/r/seduction20/01/14 09:39 AM
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Wings are your most valuable resource here. My favorite way to open with a group is to ask to play a drinking game, usually quarters. A lot of times I'll start by asking for a quarter and inviting the set to play with my group. It's a perfect game for talking, teasing, breaking the ice, and showing off a bit. It's sophomoric but sometimes that's what the night calls for.
/r/seduction20/01/14 09:30 AM
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Just get used to being more touchy-feely. Emphasize points with touches, say hello with a friendly hand on the shoulder, etc. Do this and you'll be more comfortable with rights that are geared more sexually.
/r/seduction20/01/14 09:23 AM
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Depends on the age. Boca or Tallahassee are good.
/r/seduction20/01/14 09:00 AM
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When you're after someone like this, for a relationship I assume, be politely persistent. She's looking for a degree of interest that someone who is looking for quick sex won't show. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/01/14 05:58 AM
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It's where you put your finger near her mouth and tell her she's not quick enough to bite it. Works great with your dick too lmao. I don't have to tell you to keep either clean, do I?
/r/seduction20/01/14 05:55 AM
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You're in high school? Haha, play the finger bite game when you are already in someone's space like that. Other than that, if you're at a loss for what to say, make a game out of making a girl laugh or blush. Good for you for practicing.
/r/seduction20/01/14 05:20 AM
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Someone trusts you and you're breaking that trust. Either you're single or you're not. What you're doing feels good but directly harms the person you're with. Now if a girl wants to cheat on her boyfriend... Well.. Different story.
/r/seduction20/01/14 05:13 AM
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Sounds to me like she is letting you know the her-specific rules for dating. Be politely persistent and pursue her until she clearly gives you a "no".
/r/seduction20/01/14 05:02 AM
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I mean you can continue to grunt scream in indignant frustration and not accept that what you're doing is stupid and wrong or you can leave your shit cocoon like some kind of shit moth.
/r/seduction01/01/14 11:25 PM
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23... almost 3 years now. Hurts man, I sense in you the same thing as myself. We learn this stuff so that we won't miss out on our soulmate when she shows up.
/r/seduction01/01/14 03:15 PM
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you're the second in as many weeks. add me.
/r/seduction01/01/14 03:11 PM
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I beg to differ, TAP. We can say something like the following... Clearly you are here because you are seeking an answer to a question that you may not even be able to articulate. You are trying to determine a way to fundamentally change yourself. You are unhappy with the way you are now and that is the first step. Give you the motivation? I will. Do you wish to live your life stagnantly, only shallowly interacting with other members of your race? Do you want to be a silent and lonely voyeur admi…
/r/seduction30/12/13 10:26 AM
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That... is an EXCELLENT question. Frankly it would depend on how tired I was given my work hours but I could just as easily call... maybe a half dozen separate friends to go out in this good ole college town. I'd be annoyed, I do invest in the rare girl I would take out on a date but I'd still do just fine.
/r/seduction26/12/13 10:38 AM
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Who is hurting women? There was a time when white knightery was the norm and was the way to court women. Since the women's rights revolution our courtship has changed significantly and it's mostly stuff women have demanded. I'm not complaining, just saying that for better or worse women have what they have asked for. Are you accusing Seddit of hurting women?
/r/seduction26/12/13 02:04 AM
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Yeah wtf dude what makes you think your penis is small? I used to have that fear too until I realized that it didn't matter. Then the weirdest thing happened. I stopped having performance anxiety and I was able to have a more full erection that women beg me for. Honestly sex isn't such a big deal. Why is it so important that everyone be a stud? You're not a horse, you're a human being. The most sensual, pleasurable, satisfying and fulfilling sexual relationships aren't going to be with someone w…
/r/seduction23/12/13 11:03 PM
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Why are you faking an accent?
/r/seduction23/12/13 12:01 PM
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Hey man, I know how that goes. I have to do that with my mood, it swings a lot. You're approaching it well though and it sounds like you're on the right track. You may want to eliminate "awkward" from your vocabulary.
/r/seduction23/12/13 09:40 AM
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Throw yourself into the meat grinder of field testing and come back with some FRs
/r/seduction23/12/13 09:08 AM
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I can smell the beta in this thread.
/r/seduction23/12/13 07:09 AM
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Sounds like you're on the right track to me.
/r/seduction23/12/13 06:50 AM
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Some girls take some finesse.. surprise. Act like nothing happened and text her again in a couple of days. Either she didn't get your text (or forgot, it does happen) and she responds like it's all good or she sees that you're not going to give up immediately. Keep your good humor the whole time, be irresistible. I've used that concept several times and been successful with longer game relationships. Don't let her be your only focus though. Chances are that there are more accessible and willing …
/r/seduction23/12/13 06:43 AM
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MCM
/r/seduction23/12/13 05:10 AM
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I've been pondering on things like this lately. Excellent stuff.
/r/seduction23/12/13 02:43 AM
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Yeah. Sucks. I've heard "you're too good for me" a lot but typically I've noticed nonverbal freak outs from chicks that see that I'm actually a good catch. They get "scared" and don't know what to do with the fact that they like me and that I'm qualified for long term partnership. I get hella annoyed, move on, and then they freak out again because they lost me. On the plus side it just means you're set for higher quality women. It gets lonely but don't sweat it. Don't get complacent either, alwa…
/r/seduction23/12/13 02:38 AM
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Who cares what her relationship is like? You're paralyzed, admit it.
/r/seduction22/12/13 10:41 PM
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You have to be a little more assertive with your planning. "I would like to do X on date Y and I'm going with A, B, and C, who are really cool people. I'd like it if you were there with us." It helps ease her into the relationship, gives you social proof, and gives her parameters to work with. If she gives you an alternate date it's up to you if you want to change but don't allow flaking to ruin your day. Sometimes people who are otherwise compatible don't make it together because of the logisti…
/r/seduction22/12/13 08:30 PM
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Sexual favors and party favors. No but seriously, if you haven't shown her that you're an ideal male for her to be interested in then she either doesn't have you on her radar or she has you pegged as a loser. No routine will change that. You're either good enough to win the attraction of this girl or you are not. So... which is it?
/r/seduction22/12/13 08:17 PM
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Approach like a tiger.
/r/seduction21/12/13 11:31 AM
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Tell her you like knowing the names of people you frequently see and make introductions. Say hello to her every time you come in but don't over do it. After a while start telling her small, stupid jokes with a shit eating grin every time you walk by. The dumber the joke, the wider the grin the better. This will give you time to build rapport, get comfortable and check her finger for a ring. Every time you see her you should try to make her laugh. Then one day you'll invite her out for drinks or …
/r/seduction21/12/13 11:31 AM
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You're over thinking this. Why are parties fun? Parties are fun because people are there. People are there because parties are fun. You should be having fun by interacting with people. Alcohol helps people unwind and let loose so that they can interact more freely. Take some booze, that gets your foot in the door. Introduce yourself to anyone you think is interesting, guy or girl, and tell them you brought booze and that they are free to help themselves. Get drunk, get numbers, make friends, mak…
/r/seduction21/12/13 11:06 AM
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”Hey girl, what that mouth do?"
/r/seduction21/12/13 12:30 AM
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Me: that doesn't feel good at all, you'll need lotion. Her: you want me to use lotion? Me: well, not if it tastes bad. Her: you are an asshole. Me: Lol Her: gives head
/r/seduction21/12/13 12:25 AM
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I'm just using something I hate to see myself. I don't care what a flaker thinks after my last text to her.
/r/seduction20/12/13 10:21 PM
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i usually hit em with the "k". It's the tits.
/r/seduction19/12/13 12:58 PM
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Move to Florida where the people are crazier but everything is less shitty. If you pick the Gainesville area, lemme know...
/r/seduction19/12/13 06:04 AM
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One very strange yet somehow pleasurable kiss act thing my first kiss ever did to me was to take my tongue in her mouth, bite it, and then flick her tongue over the tip of mine like a snake. Good luck with that.
/r/seduction18/12/13 09:46 PM
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I dislike using my tongue, would you add to my guide? Sounds like you're a chick, your input would be appreciated.
/r/seduction18/12/13 09:30 PM
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probably in phoenix.
/r/seduction18/12/13 11:06 AM
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IDK why the numbering came out that way....
/r/seduction18/12/13 09:16 AM
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Practice! If you're really ballsy ask your crush or local girl-next-door to help you. I know you want more of an answer so here we go: Hygiene Brush and floss everyday. If you want to use mouthwash use half and half peroxide and water for 30 seconds. Bad breath (and oral tastes) come from bacteria multiplying in your mouth when you eat sugars. When those sugars run out bacteria metabolize proteins from dead cells in your mouth and release noxious gases. Peroxide debrides your mouth and kills tho…
/r/seduction18/12/13 09:16 AM
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Unless you're a total dweeb, then totally change who you are.
/r/seduction18/12/13 08:15 AM
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Yes and no. Don't change who you are but all these techniques espoused by the community optimize your chances of coming off as attractive to women. They also break down the barriers between those who don't naturally know what to do and those who always have.
/r/seduction18/12/13 08:15 AM
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no doubt but it seems like the attraction factor that I use successfully with others kind of goes over her head. think I need to be a little more forward or let the opportunity present itself?
/r/seduction10/12/13 08:20 AM
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...and IOU's are self explanatory. Objectively evaluate yourself. You'll get it. There was a stuck thread on the sidebar for some time here a few months ago that highlighted closing and how to handle it. Find out where it went, it was like step 7 of 9 and it was written by one of the bigger former mods here. Anyone remember that? I'd really appreciate it if y'all would message me with that.
/r/seduction10/12/13 08:08 AM
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If you have arms and hands and fingers then yes you motherfucking can do kino. Here's my advice. Go tell a girl that you think is pretty that you think she is pretty. Then do it again to someone else. Then branch out, then again. What do you like to wear? Who gives a fuck what you're wearing, the whole point of this is to get naked anyways. Can't do kino what the hell? Your fingers want to touch women dipshit, let them!
/r/seduction03/07/13 07:43 AM
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That article takes from David Wong, a Cracked article writer. I think it was Wong.. anyways, I regularly post the link on peoples queries. Good read.
/r/seduction17/06/13 08:45 AM
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says the guy with shit colored eyes
/r/seduction27/05/13 09:01 AM
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Make sure you follow The Mystery Method with Style's book The Game.
/r/seduction24/05/13 04:12 AM
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Your man card, hand it over. It needs to be UPGRADED.
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:26 AM
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Well it's probably a case of the crushingly low self esteemies. If you're looking for sympathy here you're not gonna find it. Here's something that will help you http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/ Now stop crying.
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:01 AM
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it was a step-stool joke.
/r/seduction22/05/13 03:35 AM
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Is there a TofuTofu Kino step-stool?
/r/seduction21/05/13 12:43 PM
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You don't hang out with him...
/r/seduction21/05/13 12:40 PM
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cocaine. I mean... get some rest, buddy...
/r/seduction21/05/13 04:07 AM
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cocaine. I mean... pep talks.
/r/seduction21/05/13 04:03 AM
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Ha, if someone does that to you make up some shit about him immediately. Right then and there in front of everyone tell him how you heard he does gay porn and laugh about it because it's not true but ONLY YOU KNOW THAT. He already fucked up your night, get right in his face and make it something he wants none of. Don't back down even if you're Kevin Hart and he is The Rock, if he hits you he is going to jail. Show your teeth and your crazy face and let everyone know that it's a mistake to fuck w…
/r/seduction19/05/13 10:38 AM
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What the fuck...
/r/seduction19/05/13 09:06 AM
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And don't dress like any of them in that video.
/r/seduction19/05/13 08:48 AM
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Step 1: Go to YouTube and pull up "Booty Wurk" by T-pain, find the music video. Step 2: Try and imitate the girl with the two-tone curly hair and American Eagle boxers on. Just the hips part, not any of the choreographed idiocy. Step 3: repeat. Over and over again, by yourself, repeat. Step 4: Go to the club, dance IN FRONT of a girl like that and ask if she wants to dance with you when she has had fun in front of you. Step 5: Don't bother trying to hide your boner when she tries to grind your d…
/r/seduction19/05/13 08:44 AM
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Don't even mention Chatroulette here again. read this. http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/ I need to impress upon you the importance of living better. Which is scarier to you, being completely alone for the rest of your life or talking to women? You need to start RIGHT FUCKING NOW on getting better. Right now. Not tomorrow, not next week, NOW. That only comes from talking to women. Let me take the mystery out of this for you, you are going to be awful at …
/r/seduction19/05/13 08:39 AM
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Figure it out yourself, damn. More fun that way and you learn the lesson a lot better.
/r/seduction19/05/13 08:34 AM
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Yeah lemme help you out here. You need to take this advice seriously and without the usual butthurt. Read this article: http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/ It's one of the most pertinent pieces of literature I have ever read. Ever.
/r/seduction19/05/13 08:10 AM
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Honestly your best bet may be a shrink. I went from borderline suicidally depressed with a low self esteem to happy, energetic, and full of purpose. But it took YEARS of self-coaching and I don't know you like I know myself. Shrinks are trained to guide you through self-improvement. You may want to consider that guidance.
/r/seduction19/05/13 08:06 AM
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What, exactly, is it that you see about yourself that you find unattractive?
/r/seduction19/05/13 08:03 AM
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Ha, I get this all the time. The best is when the girl completely stops talking and starts staring... that's when I know it happened. Use it to your advantage! Don't bulge them but make them wider; like you were giving your mom the puppy dog face. As for a response, if someone tells you that you have beautiful eyes, fake a panic and tell them they can't have them. Then follow with a "thank you", a smile, and an offer to stare at them longer (if you're smooth). I'm going to guess that you either …
/r/seduction19/05/13 07:59 AM
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Look dude, you're so close to being a physician. Why is your self esteem so low? Because you're short? Fuck that, I can reach shit on high shelves and you can fit into small places. Are you afraid that because you're Asian and 5'3" that you have a small penis? Fuck that too, even it's true. There's nothing you can DO about either. Figure out what you CAN do. You have to work with people all day every day for hours at a time. Work on your people skills at work, figure out what makes people tick a…
/r/seduction19/05/13 07:52 AM
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you right you right
/r/seduction19/05/13 07:39 AM
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I was wondering what that was..
/r/seduction19/05/13 07:37 AM
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First date ideas that involve going somewhere where screams for help won't be heard are generally not well received.
/r/seduction19/05/13 07:35 AM
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Sounds like a good start. Here's my suggestion; you're never gonna see any of those people in Brazil ever again. I assume, at least. So go balls out with everything! You'll have more fun, you'll have some great stories, and you'll get some great data to help formulate a plan to get even better. Ciao.
/r/seduction17/05/13 12:46 PM
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What needs to be explained? I've been an accessory to cheating many a time. Taken girls just like me. But there is no way in HELL that I'm going to fool around with a deployed man's wife. What a fucking prick.
/r/seduction17/05/13 12:34 PM
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I put "do you want to run outside" into Google Translate and it spat out "DO YOU WANT TO GET RAPED???". I put "let's drink beer in the library together" into Google Translate and it gave me "I HAVE A SUPPLY OF ROHYPNOL AT MY APARTMENT!!!" I put "let's go on a night romp in the woods" into Google Translate and it called the police because it thinks I'm into murder and shit like that.
/r/seduction17/05/13 12:30 PM
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Have you talked to UPS?
/r/seduction17/05/13 12:23 PM
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As far as materials go, I really like The Game for the last book you should read. As far as goals go, that's up to you. Are you trying to get it in with girls, make more female friends, start relationships, or just get better at being "manly"? YOU set your goals, write them down. Everyday check and see where you achieved and where you failed and adjust appropriately. Where should you start to implement this stuff? Everywhere! It's a lot of fun and you learn so much about yourself and others. If …
/r/seduction17/05/13 08:29 AM
0

Show me a woman that doesn't lie. Just one. Please.
/r/seduction17/05/13 08:10 AM
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Immerse yourself in the world of innuendo and "that's what she said" jokes. Then everything anyone says is sexual. Be careful, this is Pandora's box.
/r/seduction17/05/13 08:08 AM
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I need to express you just how horribly you failed. You could have met her, hit it off, dated for years, got married and had a long and fulfilling life together making infinity babies. Or she could have been an aspiring porn star looking for a practice partner to hone her skills. BUT YOU'LL NEVER KNOW BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T GO FUCKING TALK TO HER. You can't get better at anything without practice and you're not practicing, you're standing around lamenting that you have no experience when opportuniti…
/r/seduction17/05/13 03:10 AM
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this story is too long and you're a major DICK for doing anything at all with a deployed man's wife. fuck you, sir.
/r/seduction17/05/13 02:51 AM
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Either immediately to cement your memory in her head with a number in her phone AND/or after she's gotten off and head enough time to clean up and rest from work. If she works at night, maybe a day later, but not when you think she's working. Talking to an interest is an incredible pain in the ass at work.
/r/seduction16/05/13 06:20 AM
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Bad reputation blah blah she's a slut blah. The only thing you should take away from all that is that she's not likely to want a full-blown relationship right now. Guys want to talk about hitting it? Hive five him and yell "Eskimo brothers!". If that's not the type of guy you are then why are you asking this fucking question...?
/r/seduction16/05/13 06:18 AM
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Baby steps! Sometimes I get mad at people for thinking their baby steps are "victories" when they are actually bullshit but I think you're doing ok. Now look, do it more often! A LOT. All the time. You'll get better and your numbers will avail more success with cooler chicks. It's one of the most amazing feelings to break free from that jail of one-it-is with the horrible bitch who enjoys jerking that poor sap around. Absolute euphoria. Enjoy being free! And when I say that I don't mean it as a …
/r/seduction16/05/13 06:12 AM
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Amen, bantha. Amen. Allow me to add on? High school DOES matter in the sense that it can provide the foundation for a lifetime of game if you start now. If you're really THAT nervous about it, try tackling something else you find terrifying, like rock-climbing or something. Then compare the situation to your previous victory and you'll realize it ain't no thang. GIVE NO FUCKS. The more mistakes you make the more data you'll have to formulate into success. Laugh about those mistakes often and don…
/r/seduction16/05/13 06:02 AM
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Well buddy, here's the good news. You're young and you have figured out how not to be a doofus. You've also got people interested and attracted. Here's the bad news. Oh, wait. There is no bad news. There's only more good news! You get to bang sluts without any repercussion because you're about to change schools. If you don't want to have sex with sluts, ok, I get that. If you're as attractive as you seem to think everyone thinks you are then you game your way into blowjobs. Talking to people in …
/r/seduction16/05/13 05:56 AM
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I want you to remember this hand motion when confronted with these situations. Make a circle with your hand near your crotch as if you were holding your dick. Pretend to furiously masturbate for a second. Make an imaginary underhand toss. Do you have anything to do with your semen after you masturbate? No. You are fucking done with it.
/r/seduction16/05/13 05:50 AM
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I cured cancer and told no one because fuck you. Life is great.
/r/seduction16/05/13 05:46 AM
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Yeah, dude when someone says they have a boyfriend hit the brakes. If they are down to cheat they will pursue YOU at that point. Also, some overweight people are some mean ass bitches. Guys aren't hard to pick up, she's no savant. Just ignore her. Don't even insult her, she has spent her entire life fielding insults and returning them. By now she is good and she will cut you and make you look stupid. Ignore her.
/r/seduction16/05/13 05:42 AM
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"All 10,000 of them". OR Don't run a routine. If they are consistently saying that your routine may be getting stale. By now you surely have the confidence to allow your personality to shine in front of anyone. Try just going off the cuff with it, that's my favorite thing to do.
/r/seduction16/05/13 05:32 AM
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Try talking to multiple girls at once. I understand what you're saying though. If you find yourself getting needy I would withdraw a bit, get busy doing something, and let her fill the relationship vacuum. But probably, man, you'll have to grow out of it. Just recognize what it is you're doing wrong and force yourself to not do it.
/r/seduction16/05/13 05:29 AM
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...Just keep practicing on the parts you need work on. You're not putting up a front to get girls attracted to you, you're BECOMING a better person that IS attractive. If you're failing in the middle innings you may be getting one-itis too early. Can you be more specific about exactly where you think you're screwing up?
/r/seduction12/05/13 12:23 AM
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...cool story bro?
/r/seduction12/05/13 12:17 AM
1

I'm willing to bet that you don't understand yourself. You probably need some help, bud. I would suggest getting some counsel. That's not a failure, shrinks just help you think your way out of things that you need help with. Keep your head up and keep making life better. If you're stagnant you are wasting your life one day at a time. PS. people on Seddit react very poorly to this sort of thing. Man up a bit.
/r/seduction11/05/13 08:14 AM
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I'd go with "that'll do, pig".
/r/seduction11/05/13 08:11 AM
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Oh, to be 16 again. So many things that I would have done differently.. the chief of which being that I would TRY. We can give all the tips in the world but that would only give you a starting point. Just DO it. A lot. You will figure out what works for you and what doesn't.
/r/seduction11/05/13 08:11 AM
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Are you brushing and flossing..?
/r/seduction11/05/13 08:08 AM
0

Those aren't morals, that's a code.
/r/seduction11/05/13 08:05 AM
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Oh, so not having friends is a good thing? #ForeverAlone
/r/seduction11/05/13 06:01 AM
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"555-555..." Start ratting off your number then spell your name. See how that goes. It will either end in success or complete failure and IMO neither is bad if you're unsure how to cold approach at this point in your life.
/r/seduction11/05/13 05:59 AM
2

You obviously got cockblocked hard on that shit. HARD. Get some revenge, IMO.
/r/seduction11/05/13 05:57 AM
4

I personally give up the game at that point and make the situation something the the wing man wants none of. Sober? In a bar? Fuck you, sir.
/r/seduction11/05/13 05:56 AM
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I woulda bitched out your "friend". Stop hanging out with her, she's bad for you. I don't even have to know all the other shit she is just bad for you and I know it.
/r/seduction11/05/13 05:53 AM
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I usually go for the hottest girl in the group right off. If she's a bitch in any fashion her less attractive friend gets my attention because, holy shit, I'm worth meeting.
/r/seduction10/05/13 09:09 AM
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"obviously this person is in the wrong sub." Shit, wait... excellent.
/r/seduction10/05/13 09:06 AM
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I know the post is stale, just wanted to let you know that I successfully battled oneitits while running good game on my target. she started texting ME and we are making plans to hang out. Thanks for the support.
/r/seduction09/05/13 05:38 AM
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I think my text game could use work actually, maybe some smilies or some shit. I did try to reschedule but she wasn't about it. We have vague plans to hit my river place but I'm fairly discouraged on that front. The night I wanted to go out with her I went out by myself and got 4 numbers so I'm staving off oneitis.
/r/seduction05/05/13 05:16 PM
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Lol the one between the the first inning and the rest of the game, to continue the metaphor. Like the girl I'm currently talking to, I met her the other night and we really clicked and she said multiple times that she wanted to hang out later. I have texted her a couple of times and I just feel like she's cooling off. I invited her out later in the week and she said she's flying home. That may be but I still feel like I'm doing something wrong, like I'm turning her, and others, off to me.
/r/seduction30/04/13 02:52 AM
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"Anyone you put on a pedestal will be forced to look down on you."
/r/seduction29/04/13 06:41 PM
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I like it, these are great suggestions for the next step. Any wisdom on how to better bridge the gap?
/r/seduction29/04/13 05:20 PM
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Oh, I see. You're already prepping me for dates, I like it. I take the lead with night game as well and it always goes well. But to be honest I hate a sit-down one on one date. I get really bored and I'd rather go to the bar or canoeing at my folks' house in the country or SOMETHING more organic. Is that a good approach?
/r/seduction29/04/13 02:48 PM
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Thanks! I don't feel like I'm being disingenuous, my regular ol' self is great and I don't put up a facade, I just try to be "me". But I will definitely pay attention to what I am doing next time in this regard.
/r/seduction29/04/13 02:38 PM
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Please, please don't take this as an insult but this may be the difference. What does your body look like? Are you in the gym improving how you look? Just a few hours a WEEK can be very beneficial. You should take your shirt off at her place and your abs should look so delicious that she wants you inside of her before you're even hard. That's definitely NOT the only route but it's low-hanging fruit IMO. Give that a try!
/r/seduction29/04/13 02:36 PM
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I like it and I will apply it to my game. I said that part about my mom as a joke, other women tell me they like my looks all the time. Thanks for the response!
/r/seduction29/04/13 02:32 PM
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Oh, man. Bitch butterflies, I like it. I skimmed the above posts and they were filled with reliable advice. I'll repeat some of what they said but with my own spin. You need practice. You don't get better at anything without more reps. Writing, basketball, lifting, singing, talking to girls. It all takes practice. You know that guy you always think of when you wish you were confident, more like "him"? He may have some natural talent over you but the real difference is that that natural talent ha…
/r/seduction29/04/13 02:17 PM
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+1 for the bueller reference.
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:33 PM
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First off don't say things like "we fancy each other". Second off, remember how badly you wanted Girl 1? How interesting she seemed? How beautiful and perfect this angel was? That's stupid. To quote a very wise person immortalized in the sidebar; any woman you put on a pedestal is forced to look down on you. People in any kind of relationship are looking for people of equal height so to speak so don't make up in your own mind that there is a difference. Also, use this as motivation! You struck o…
/r/seduction20/04/13 06:32 PM
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The alternative is that you need some time to yourself. If you feel like you're forcing it... you are. Focus on yourself for a while if you need to and re-define your life without your long-term partner. That will help you. If that's NOT what you feel like, any of the above comments are great help.
/r/seduction20/04/13 10:02 AM
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All the above comments... DIDN'T READ. Dude, just be honest with yourself. If you're not Bradolf Pitler then fine, you're not super attractive. That means that your strong point isn't going to be your looks. IF you can improve, get in the gym and do so. Either way your resume will have to begin and end with the rest of the things that you can offer a girl. A good job? Get it. Interesting hobbies? Have them. Adventures? Go on them. An all-around great personality? Develop it. That's your game. An…
/r/seduction20/04/13 09:54 AM
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Hey bud, first off don't let the harsh comments bother you. Stop talking to that girl. I have that fantasy too; young love that lasts forever? I've been dreaming about it since I was a kid. But here is the thing... 21 is young. You're still REALLY young, hell we are both young, I'm only 22. You probably haven't seen a lot of the world and I'm sure I can speak for a lot of seddit when I say that girls our age aren't very mature and usually are barely tolerable because of their personalities. The …
/r/seduction20/04/13 09:44 AM
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