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Become interested in the girls. Ask them questions about their lives and try to have some good conversations with them. Could lead you directly into the friend zone, really they're going to be attracted to you or they're not. They've likely already made up their minds about that. There's only so much we can do like dress well, take care of ourselves, live meaningful lives, show our charisma and ability to avoid being emotional and depressing. IMO I would take advantage of this situation by using…
/r/seduction26/12/19 02:46 AM
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But I am surprisingly okay ​ What? Why is this surprising? Sounds like you played this whole thing well but you might have some emotional tendencies you wanna grow out of. Like others said there's still a solid chance she texts you. Why are you "surprisingly" okay? Do you normally get super upset when something like this doesn't go your way? That's just the vibe I got from that comment. You have to be bullet proof when it comes to women, especially in the beginning stages when there's no reason …
/r/seduction26/12/19 02:40 AM
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Men make the first move 90+% of the time as you already know. Women are obviously allowed to make the first move but in my experience, women who made the first move on me we're not as desirable and attractive as those who you'd have to make the first move for. Some of them came off as desperate. Deep down, men want a challenge. Because subconsciously we know that something easy (i.e. someone who walks over trying to pick YOU up) is not going to be nearly as rewarding, as intoxicating as succeedi…
/r/seduction25/12/19 01:01 PM
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Agreed man this chick recently actually blew me off multiple times . So why did I stay at it? She would tell me she was Soo sorry and still interested so I figured I'd give it another try. You already know how this story ends
/r/seduction24/12/19 07:27 PM
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Tldr but I definitely tend to agree and it goes back to the all important idea of going after multiple women. This will allow you to focus less on the girl, which will make you appear less needy and desperate. It will quell any disappointment that results from rejection
/r/seduction24/12/19 07:24 PM
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I'm honestly tired of OLD and Tinder posts on this sub. Should be on a different sub.
/r/seduction22/12/19 10:43 PM
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Start good habits at your young age man. There is a litany of information out there, much of which is on this very website that can really help. I would definitely wait until talking to her in person. You can't impress a girl online or through texts. You can impress her in person by just going up to her and starting a conversation. Just smile and joke around, don't let your nerves show. Already you have a leg up on 98% of guys who would never have the balls to do such a thing. I never thought I …
/r/seduction22/12/19 01:13 AM
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Here's the best advice I can give, and I'm rooting for you.... You shouldn't be afraid of rejection. You should be afraid of not taking advantage of your college days and youth by not being more bold. That's scary, and I've wasted years of my life trust me. Rejection, comparatively, is entirely un-scary. Asking her out is the easy part: you ask for her number or ask to go out and do something. Or just tell her flat out, let me get your number lol. The difficult part is building the attraction. T…
/r/seduction22/12/19 01:03 AM
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This post blows. Self serving and serves no purpose other than you want high fives for getting laid. No one cares dude
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:36 PM
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We've all been there man. Was chasing this trick for a good 1-2 months recently. She had me hanging on by a string and I wasn't strong enough to just say fuck it. Live and learn homie, good luck bro
/r/seduction19/12/19 05:24 PM
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I'm a firm believer that even the most debilitating form of FOR can be completely erased with just one or two approaches. That's how it was for me at least. I really never approached women. A handful of times I guess I did over a number of years. I guess deep down if I'm being honest it was a fear of rejection. But literally my first approach was so exhilarating it erased any fears I had
/r/seduction19/12/19 05:15 PM
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Thank you. I already have a good foundation for Spanish so yes I wanna use some of these resources. Thanks : )
/r/seduction19/12/19 01:17 PM
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I don't think it's worth analyzing because she was some combination of not interested/not having it. Thanks though. I guess the only takeaway could be figuring out what to do if/when this situation occurs again.
/r/seduction19/12/19 01:43 AM
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Yea dude what the hell? Start by having a genuine interest in these girls instead of viewing them as data for your field test lmao. A girl should never be confused about what you want. She should know that you want her, and she should know this without you having to tell her. It should be apparent in your actions that you want her, but that she's not a huge deal to you.
/r/seduction19/12/19 01:41 AM
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Text less. As for talking, idk I suppose you should say a little less. Dont get into talking about yourself too much, try to remain mysterious and joke around about everything. Avoid small talk and most serious subjects. Keep her talking more and keep it more about her It's more about the impression you're giving a girl. They don't want someone who is thinking about them all the time (not in the beginning stages). They're more attracted to a guy who could leave at any second and be perfectly ok.
/r/seduction16/12/19 04:39 PM
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Tinder has nothing to do with "seduction"
/r/seduction15/12/19 07:38 PM
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Your choice good luck dude. But that won't help you improve your skills even a little . I suggest starting conversations with women . Stop looking at it as an approach. Try talking to strangers and just talking to them person to person. Try to make them laugh
/r/seduction14/12/19 04:36 PM
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These folks are giving you sound advice. "Seducing" (and I don't love that word) doesn't happen online. When You message someone online you're just one of a thousand other dudes. Approach in person and you might be the only one to do so that year. Maybe even in her entire life. That has a profound effect on a girl. The best thing about OLD is that so many dudes are on em so women are impressed by someone who can go up to them and have a fun conversation
/r/seduction13/12/19 11:40 PM
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Of course it's always a good look to have women by your side
/r/seduction13/12/19 10:22 PM
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Thanks for this. I ditched OLD a couple months back and foolishly caved and downloaded one again. It just takes a toll on you. It's not natural. For those who have success good for you. I've certainly gotten dates and had mild success but it's mainly been a pain in the ass and has actually taken a toll on my confidence at times. It's amazing when you actually talk to Girls in person how much more enjoyable that is. Plus they think you're a badass because only like 5 percent of guys approach girl…
/r/seduction13/12/19 04:57 PM
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I hear you. If it's truly about backhanded compliments and putting girls down then I'm out on that. I thought it was more innocuous, suggesting that a relationship wouldn't work between the two of you
/r/seduction13/12/19 04:49 PM
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Congrats bro but introduce yourself to a period or comma lmao
/r/seduction13/12/19 02:08 PM
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Listen, OP is spot on about all of this. Anyone questioning his theories, suggesting "more natural conversation" is just wrong. "More natural conversations" = small talk or the other billions of dudes out there. So she asks, "where do you work"....I'm a school teacher, how do I respond?
/r/seduction12/12/19 07:36 PM
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The name is the lamest fucking name ever I'm embarrassed to even give it out it's called I believe How to talk to Girls podcast .. . Again absurdly lame name as if the listeners are that fucking inept but it has some good things. Havent listened in a long time, host is douchy but this particular episode had this black dude as a guest who was brilliant
/r/seduction12/12/19 06:19 PM
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Thanks it's some theories from guys who are much more knowledgeable than me
/r/seduction12/12/19 04:18 PM
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Cool bro good for you. We're just pointing out douchey to say hey guys I got laid every night this week. Like idk man no one gives a shit and no one knows you lmao so go high five your dick or something
/r/seduction06/12/19 12:19 AM
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You're never going to be complacent by yourself man. That's not a good thought. All is certainly not lost. You're mad young and you can try beginning to work on things that could help. Also you're in school so that's really the best place to meet girls. Work on being more outgoing, meeting more friends and being OK with being friends. Befriend several girls even if it doesn't lead to hooking up. You're essentially networking by doing this. If you're introverted try to break that out of that. Som…
/r/seduction05/12/19 10:09 PM
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I hear what you're saying and I read some of what your wrote. Your blog posts discusses the term "dating". In dating, yes I'd agree there is plenty to lose. I am more talking about why there is hardly ever anything to lose when approaching a woman in person. Especially in my situation, I was not even fixated on getting her number so there was truly no pressure. Generally the worst thing that happens is she says she has a boyfriend. Perhaps she's being honest, perhaps she's honest and still would…
/r/seduction05/12/19 09:47 PM
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Congrats dude you want a sticker? Your game and social skills are probably ass because it seems you need your little devices to get you laid.
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:43 PM
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I did away with OLD about a month ago. Was a great decision
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:41 PM
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I'd say relax a bit with the texting. Don't do it too much, don't appear over eager. Don't start getting into small talk. Not "hey how are you".... Fuck that make it funny and light-hearted. Frankly texting is going to screw things up for you more than it's going to help imo. You succeed in person. I'm not a big fan of the apps but the best way there is to just try to make some funny comments and seal a first date. She'll likely want some more info before meeting in person so give her some detai…
/r/seduction04/12/19 03:12 AM
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I would argue that WAS a successful night. Going up to that girl takes stones. Try to avoid small talk/boring conversation, make it goofy, light-hearted and funny if possible. But I am definitely going through a similar time. I'm a mix between an introvert and extrovert. Depends on the day I guess. But I'm just trying to be as social and extroverted as possible, engaging in conversations with everyone, not just girls I'm attracted to.
/r/seduction04/12/19 12:53 AM
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Yeah why is OP saying "I've seen you and seem pretty cool"... But you had never interacted with her before so you're judging her "coolness" on watching her from afar? You probably meant more that she's cute but either way you should definitely alter this if that's what you said.
/r/seduction26/11/19 11:50 PM
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I definitely read step 1 in a book somewhere. It discussed the idea of talking to everyone. Not just girls. Not just cute girls. Even men, old women, etc., like you said I guess it gets the wiring in your brain working the right way. Another guy I was listening to discussed the idea of being really friendly with (forgive my lack of PC, compassion) the fat, ugly girls. Friend-up these ladies. Laugh and joke with them. The hot girls will wonder wtf is going on.
/r/seduction31/10/19 09:47 PM
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I basically went my whole youth/college, early 20's without ever getting rejected. I don't mean that in a good way. I was playing it safe. I dated a handful of cute girls, none of whom were a difficult pursuit. I.e. i met them in class, had mutual friends, etc. I never approached a girl at a bar. In hindsight I never went near a situation in which I could get rejected. Ever. I don't think I ever realized this either, it was pretty subconscious. Eventually you take that first step, put yourself o…
/r/seduction31/10/19 09:35 PM
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