I'm very much single but feeling good this morning after I made a pretty bold move yesterday. I sat down next to this girl I've never talked to before and had lunch with her and talked to her.

I started this new job about 5-6 weeks ago for a big company, I noticed this girl the other day she smiled and made eye contact, I did the same back. Not saying that has any meaning but it sparked my interest and I've been hyping myself to just go talk to her.

She was eating lunch by herself yesterday and I asked her if she minded if I sat by her. This is very rare in this cafeteria as most people eat with the same people, same spots, etc. We started talking about the company and I regret what I talked about. I started kinda bitching about the company, all valid points that she mainly agreed with, but I shoulda kept it more positive.

She started messing around on her phone so I figured that's fine, maybe I'll leave her alone. I was a couple seats away not right next to her. But then she started up the conversation and asked questions.

Do I think she's into me? Honestly no I don't get that vibe. But I do think that she thinks I'm a bold MF. And it felt good. And obviously if I or anyone else continues these habits good things will happen imo. And that's why there's nothing to lose. Even if she's not interested in me, she still comes away at least mildly impressed.

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EDIT: The title refers to cold approaching women. Not dating at large.