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Read No More Mr. Nice Guy
/r/seduction21/11/15 02:22 PM
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I don't understand any of your questions, the girl likes you...either choose to do something with that or don't. You can get anything from here except people telling you to do something...kiss her or not, your call, nothing to analyze or question.
/r/seduction16/10/15 07:41 PM
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What do you want ?
/r/seduction16/10/15 02:42 AM
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No tricks necessary. It sounds like your wings are straight up sandbagging you. Are you seen as the leader by others?
/r/seduction11/10/15 07:57 PM
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Your wings suck at winging. I went out with someone who is model level quality in looks, he winged me. I barely talked to her and she is in love with me because of what he said to her. gna FR that shit. I didn't read the rest of your shit, just the first part.
/r/seduction11/10/15 02:55 AM
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I assume if you are on a date it implies that you are interested? Why else date? I don't think it is a matter of you convincing her that you like her. It seems that you are picking up on that she thinks you are a player, even though she explicitly stated that she knew you weren't anymore... not sure if you have anything to worry about.
/r/seduction11/10/15 02:53 AM
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Yeah, gonna call BS on this, personal experience.
/r/seduction08/10/15 04:46 PM
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I didn't escalate (was taking things slowly), he did.
/r/seduction08/10/15 01:45 PM
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Valid, I would hope that this would be obvious to most people...you can't control anyone else. I've gotten to the point that maybe I care too little, this was a nice girl, but there are a billion I haven't met.
/r/seduction08/10/15 03:40 AM
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The only women that are interested in a broken man are broken themselves. Run away.
/r/seduction08/10/15 02:56 AM
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Issue 1: Inner game Issue 2: Inner game Issue 3: Outcome dependent You already got rejected, back off for a bit.
/r/seduction07/10/15 04:53 AM
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Do you want to do stuff?
/r/seduction05/10/15 11:20 PM
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That actually makes me sad
/r/seduction05/10/15 11:09 PM
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I know, you made me laugh; you were talking about gold-diggers so I said you wanted gold haha...if women were direct they would just say "give me your money"
/r/seduction05/10/15 01:27 PM
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you just wanted someone to hit the "give gold" button with that statement
/r/seduction04/10/15 11:58 PM
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Can I ask you, have you spoken to the women he talked to? Do they say he is confident and charming?
/r/seduction04/10/15 11:29 PM
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now I gotta see the acct
/r/seduction04/10/15 02:16 PM
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Have you gone and checked?
/r/seduction04/10/15 02:11 PM
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Valid
/r/seduction04/10/15 02:09 PM
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What do you like to do?
/r/seduction04/10/15 02:06 PM
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Funny story, I just met an HB9, she is 5'9" and married a 5'7" guy. And btw, I saw a picture of this guy...I literally asked her how he pulled it off...she said "he just swept me off my feet" looks and height don't mean shit
/r/seduction02/10/15 11:40 PM
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Philadelphia
/r/seduction01/10/15 01:47 AM
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Pennsylvania
/r/seduction01/10/15 01:47 AM
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+1
/r/seduction01/10/15 12:42 AM
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google it, there are pdfs floating around
/r/seduction30/09/15 09:12 PM
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hahahah so awesome
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:50 PM
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Nothing you have said says you are a nice guy... it is a very specific thing to be. All I see is that you are afraid...which is perfectly normal. Fixing nice guy syndrome takes a very long time. If you do not ask her, you will eventually lose her as a friend. All I can tell you is that if you want to be with her you have to ask ASAP (unless she really really likes you then you can wait but you risk her not liking you down the road). Ask now before its too late. By the way, by asking her you are …
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:42 PM
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Just so you (and others reading) this is a pretty typical problem. It requires some self perception that is hard to come by and very specific to each person.
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:38 PM
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Welcome to my previous boat. PMing now.
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:13 PM
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Garlic sweat is gross
/r/seduction30/09/15 07:56 PM
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+1
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:44 PM
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Valid
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:43 PM
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Really, really fast
/r/seduction28/09/15 09:11 PM
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I hope not :/
/r/seduction28/09/15 08:47 PM
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yay, gave me my chuckle of the day
/r/seduction28/09/15 08:46 PM
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Uhh, I think you are falling victim to being too far into this shit. I hate to say it but most people aren't actively playing the game... Just be a real person.
/r/seduction28/09/15 01:41 PM
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Similar for me. Guess I'm the male version of you.
/r/seduction27/09/15 07:19 PM
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Quick story for you. This is about a guy who I never met but made me insanely jealous [and I have prime genetics]. When I was in college I saw a really dorky looking kid (big glasses, lanky, hunched over, a bunch of acne on his face, dressed like a prototypical nerd) talking to this super hot girl (HB10-legitemately; not dressed up). As I walked past she started crying really hard...something like "I am going to miss you so much, I love you" this was the end of the semester, I assume they were g…
/r/seduction27/09/15 06:52 PM
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Totally agree. Move on, don't trouble yourself and don't be the jackass that broke up a relationship.
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:29 PM
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Agreed. My mentality is the following: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3lhetq/fear_approach_anxiety_escalation_it_doesnt_matter/
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:51 PM
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When the hell did 5'11.5 become a problem? Is the next post I am going to see be I'm 6'5 I can't get girls because basketball players are 6'9? There are always, ALWAYS guys who worry about that one detail about themselves that is wrong. I must get rid of this acne and then they will love me...guess what, as soon as the acne is gone they move on to the next insecurity... Fix the inner game.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:37 PM
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Engineer here, you are lying
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:33 PM
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Awesome question
/r/seduction26/09/15 10:01 PM
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Not a problem.
/r/seduction26/09/15 09:55 PM
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No apology necessary, glad to clear up some misconceptions. Actually, there is a very strong drive to be clear up front, not at all pretending not to like someone. A simple rule is that as a guy "your intentions should be known from the second you start a conversation." Most guys get stuck in not being clear because they are nervous and it ruins things for them.
/r/seduction26/09/15 09:52 PM
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YA get what ya give.
/r/seduction26/09/15 09:45 PM
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Your perception is indeed incorrect. While some guys here probably have the sleep with them and leave them in mind [to be clear, if you read the main points it says don't do this with girls that don't want that], you will be hard pressed to find things like "negging," mentioned. In general a lot of what happens in here is people helping people understand how to improve themselves (and yes a lot of the motivation does come from trying to "get" with girls, for many it is to find a girlfriend or no…
/r/seduction26/09/15 09:43 PM
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A guy making himself the best he can be shouldn't work on girls?
/r/seduction26/09/15 09:37 PM
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No, no she is definitely lying whens he says that! :P
/r/seduction26/09/15 07:32 PM
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Is she interested? [to be clear, it doesn't matter how you ask her out...if she isn't interested the answer will be "No," no matter which way you ask]
/r/seduction26/09/15 07:25 PM
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No. I have always been INTJ...very strongly on the I. I made a conscious effort to change some things in my life and now I am: ENFJ The deviation went from super strong introvert and judging to middle of the road everything.
/r/seduction26/09/15 07:22 PM
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Only text to meet her in person. Talk to her in person and escalate.
/r/seduction26/09/15 06:50 PM
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Do something like this, it works for me..."If I died at the end of today would I be happy with how I approached this girl" I'd rather not die with regret. Also, no guts, no glory.
/r/seduction26/09/15 12:32 AM
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18-20 is way below the age range that I am comfortable with
/r/seduction25/09/15 02:36 PM
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What is your dream?
/r/seduction25/09/15 02:30 PM
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<3
/r/seduction25/09/15 02:20 PM
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yeah, I'm gonna need a img of the "rapist smile"
/r/seduction24/09/15 11:02 PM
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None of the other answers address your question, so here goes. Pretty simple solution. You need to forget so erase her. You need to get rid of any evidence of her and anything that reminds you of her. Since you are moving to a new country, if you have stuff that reminds you of her let it go. If you know/follow her on social media, delete the accounts. If you have her cell # delete it, delete the messages, delete the VMs. Then, when you catch yourself thinking about her, get busy doing something …
/r/seduction24/09/15 10:17 PM
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Probably in the netflix and chill genre then
/r/seduction23/09/15 04:54 AM
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Did you get those numbers/dates from Tinder?
/r/seduction22/09/15 10:39 PM
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how old are you and what is your location?
/r/seduction22/09/15 10:37 PM
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Herpes
/r/seduction22/09/15 09:12 PM
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Can you clarify what you mean by they get annoyed by you? And sorry, it isn't the school.
/r/seduction22/09/15 07:44 PM
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I'm not advocating hiding anything. But here is what I get from you. "I had a girlfriend and haven't gotten over her," "I may become depressed," "I practiced this speech." At best this gets you auto-friend zoned or you will creep people out with oversharing. I would like to hear others opinions on this. You can get away with it if you are incredibly good looking but either way, you seem to be attempting to pre-qualify yourself by saying, "I used to suck but look at how awesome I am now because x…
/r/seduction22/09/15 07:38 PM
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hahaha, I would use this
/r/seduction21/09/15 03:58 AM
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Depends on if she likes cooking, but yeah it is an excellent bonding experience (from a relationship point of view) and also an excellent way to escalate, especially if you need to teach her the appropriate way to do something, like chop (stand behind her and put your hands on hers etc). Though sometimes if you do it right you wont even cook anything ;). General comments on the food, don't make something that will stink up your place...usually that rules out frying and using the oven. I'd shoot …
/r/seduction21/09/15 01:54 AM
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What an awesome idea, this is the easiest Kino/escalation ever.
/r/seduction21/09/15 01:46 AM
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Can you tell me about your atmosphere? Will you be cooking solo? Do you have any restrictions?
/r/seduction21/09/15 01:35 AM
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Holy shit, umm I've made over 1500 different recipes and I would say go heavy on the presentation with this. Do multiple courses. DO NOT make too much, otherwise you both will be bloated and no is going to move, especially to the bed. Get a decent wine. Decide if you will cook together or separately (if together, start with one kind of wine and switch to another for dinner...but pair the wine). If you know what she likes, do that...app- easy light salad, main - go fancy if you want (lobster, cra…
/r/seduction21/09/15 01:19 AM
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I don't know what you are planning but I'm in on the challenge if you want some motivational "competition"
/r/seduction21/09/15 01:08 AM
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You are depriving a person of not knowing someone great (you). You have everything to give and you aren't taking anything...you make a great friend, partner, whatever. If you don't share yourself with the world, you are taking from it.
/r/seduction21/09/15 12:19 AM
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Same as the other response. Leave. I have been cheated on, I tried to stay, it got worse.
/r/seduction19/09/15 11:41 PM
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Never wait. Your braces will come off and you will find something else to wait for. Side note: I had braces until I was 18. Before I got them off I had over 21 different girls declare that they were "in love" with me (popular girls, shy girls)...basically they don't matter unless you want to use them in game, which is another option. BTW, you need to start running game for practice ASAP because having braces now and gaming will make you so much better in the long term.
/r/seduction19/09/15 11:39 PM
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Look, everyone has past events, they DO NOT dictate the future. I have heard, countless times, that oh this horrible thing happened to me in the past and that is why I am the way I am. The reality is you really do manifest your destiny. If you are channeling, "oh no, this will go wrong because it did before" you will bring that to fruition, let go of the past and say fuck you fear.
/r/seduction19/09/15 07:30 AM
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Didn't read it, is that a good thing?
/r/seduction19/09/15 07:28 AM
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Ooo I like that, nice!
/r/seduction18/09/15 11:28 PM
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She shits just like you do.
/r/seduction18/09/15 09:20 PM
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Haven't tried this myself but I recall reading it somewhere. Practice breathing, it tricks your body into thinking that you are very calm and therefore you becomecalm. Deep/long breathes with your stomach rising and falling should calm you down. Start before the approach and keep it going...also has the impact of your voice not breaking/you running out breath when talking.
/r/seduction18/09/15 07:02 PM
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Pretty funny read. I'm going to assume she was feeling like shit and didn't want to be touched...Pretty sure when I'm hungover as fuck I don't want anyone getting near me...unless they want to be puked on.
/r/seduction18/09/15 03:17 PM
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Excellent reply, exactly the type I was hoping to get here; I think this will help new people tremendously. A quick clarification question: when you say you "open over my shoulder," what exactly do you mean?
/r/seduction18/09/15 02:10 PM
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AWESOME!
/r/seduction18/09/15 02:43 AM
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you do it?
/r/seduction17/09/15 09:07 PM
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So at least you are giving off the vibe that you are interested. I'm sure with everything that is being said you can find some common ground and go down that avenue. And Kino.
/r/seduction17/09/15 08:02 PM
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Do you find it interesting at all?
/r/seduction17/09/15 07:51 PM
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Next time hammer something out. The above comments were also correct, you should have gotten her number. You became beta when you gave her the power to decide when to text you or if at all. Based on your question you are currently in a beta-mindset as well. Dude it's only been a few hours since you gave her your number...also, most girls I know play the same game guys do...if she likes you she may not text you for a few days or she may be busy. Since you are in the same class you can always appr…
/r/seduction16/09/15 08:29 PM
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Did you specify a time for coffee?
/r/seduction16/09/15 08:23 PM
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How long has it been?
/r/seduction16/09/15 08:15 PM
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Okay, from personal experience be careful here. I made a huge mistake...I did what the guys who first posted are saying and unfortunately they are a tad bit wrong in this case. They liking you so much will turn into infatuation/love, you will mess them up. [I didn't figure this out until a long time after; I kept saying I don't get it, why do they like me so much...and then I was super nice and sweet and all that fun stuff...saying I'm just being nice] it turned into breaking their hearts. Be st…
/r/seduction15/09/15 03:40 AM
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Be honest with her. Tell her exactly how you feel. Also, her telling you that of all the men she knows you are the one she wants to be in a relationship with sounds like she is trying to reaffirm her value...like "I know lots of guys that want me" but don't worry "I choose you." She can probably sense that you aren't into this as her and is trying to get the "I love you" and "I miss you" stuff back. If you tell her how you feel, she will either be intelligent and cut it off or she will decide sh…
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:15 PM
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I completely agree that in order to better yourself you need to surround yourself with people who are better than you. This was very specific for someone who has some severe AA. It taps into a different mindset. Also, being a teacher is incredibly rewarding; I think with the combination of the two it helps.
/r/seduction14/09/15 12:30 PM
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Thanks! Now all I have to figure out is a rock solid routine for doing things solo.
/r/seduction13/09/15 07:50 PM
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Respecting myself. Working on bettering myself. Not giving a shit** Having someone tell me "do not give up your value" by texting right now
/r/seduction13/09/15 06:48 PM
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Quick comments: 1. If you think you are ugly girls will feel that (so stop that shit) 2. Logically, your game can't be on fire if you aren't getting results 3. You are absolutely right that girls who are younger tend to care more about looks initially; know though that if you are the most popular kid (read highest value) in your high school you will have girls lining up for you
/r/seduction13/09/15 06:44 PM
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You can always use another friend (especially one with HBs around)! Also, there is a large difference with being a "nice" guy (aka the guy who gets shit on) and being a good person.
/r/seduction13/09/15 06:41 PM
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Personally, I would never fuck over another dude (bro code and all)...my own honor system. That being said, you don't know if she is in an open relationship etc. I guess it depends on who you are as a person and if you are willing to put in the work to find out what the boundaries in her relationship are. Lastly, the boyfriend commentary might be a shit test :/
/r/seduction13/09/15 06:12 PM
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Seems pretty obvious, she enjoys the comforts of a relationship but has no problems messing around...aka someone who you would never want to be in a monogamous relationship with. I don't know what you are looking for.
/r/seduction13/09/15 05:57 PM
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Two quick questions: 1. When you go out, do you go out by yourself? 2. You have social connections, do they make you anxious? Two quick comments: 1. I don't think I have social anxiety but you have slept with more girls than me. 2. You must be doing something right.
/r/seduction13/09/15 04:24 PM
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