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He's talking about having a healthy sex life in a long-term relationship. When you aren't having as much sex as you want to then yes, this is a good place to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 03:51 PM
2

Honestly, the pornhub advice looks okay to me. His background story about the sexual response cycle is correct and backed up by literature. His points seem a bit sugar-coated, but it's true that for many women their sex drive will be highest when they're feeling great in their relationship. Additionally, when every touch is expected to result in sex this will mainly cause a lot of stress. That lost point is the basis of many sex therapies, so not just feminist rhetoric either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 03:41 PM
7

Well that's untrue, there are a lot of magazines tailored to men. There wouldn't be if they didn't read them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 03:30 PM
3

Every time PPD attempts science I feel a bit apprehensive. The influence of testosterone on behaviour is quite difficult to accurately measure, and I think the correct answer is we don't really know and it usually isn't as clear cut, as especially hormones like testosterone don't operate in a vacuum. When googling it however, the first results page is full of pages using the exact same wording (from his list) so I expect it's all based on the exact same source. Behavioural endocrinology is super…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 06:45 PM
3

I agree, but I do like a guy who likes to dress well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 06:32 PM
3

Haha this is so sweet. You guys must really start dating nicer girls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 06:29 PM
3

I objectify the hell out of my boyfriend. The idea that women don't really compliment men about their physique really doesn't match my experience, but maybe it's just a sign our generation is becoming more equal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 06:24 PM
4

That's quite a large number though. I wouldn't be able to say how many of them are feminist: in my experience that'd be the majority, but I'm not sure how much of that is the result of my personal bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 03:30 PM
4

How are there barely any homosexual males?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 02:39 PM
1

I want in on the rebellion part
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 05:32 PM
2

Something that actually stings The insult is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 07:10 PM
5

Mulan never needed the guy to save her, she saved him. Coolest Disney princess by far ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 04:40 PM
1

I think you're clearly in the wrong here. There's this idea that western Europe is a soft socialist SJW paradise, but that's simply not true. If anything, we laugh at the identity politics in the USA and complain every time something like that happens in our country. The feminism you see in western Europe is much more level headed: a draft that's for women too, a lot less pay gap discussion, etc. Our universities (at least in the NL) hardly offer things like gender studies, because those are bul…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:00 PM
2

And you're judging her sense of humour?:p
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:07 PM
3

But by that logic, everything is a trick the mind plays on you. We're all nothing more than our biology
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 04:41 PM
5

End of your life right there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:44 PM
12

So the major reasons for studying abroad are to have sex and because you're too dumb to cut it in the States? Come on now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 03:12 PM
10

Please say you're both kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 03:04 PM
1

There won't be anyone waiting to pay my bills either, though. I agree that this is a chance women get more often than men, but there are a lot of male freeloaders too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 11:55 AM
1

No, you're misunderstanding me. You keep faulting others but you're not listening to feedback. Critical thinking is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 07:02 AM
1

The problem isn't that you're writing for an intelligent public. The problem is that what you're writing is unclear and illogical. That's a problem with your grasp of the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 10:05 PM
1

But in order to accomplish this, you'll have to make sure your audience understands you. Right now it's too disorganised to do that. Maybe what you're trying to convey is mighty interesting but you would benefit by explaining it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 08:49 PM
1

He's right though. If your post is so unreadable that even those versed in the topic cannot follow, that's a mistake on your part. Not being able to explain something clearly and concisely is often a sign that you haven't mastered the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 08:07 PM
1

Wrong target mate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 07:59 PM
1

I fundamentally disagree with some of your stances. I think, with regards to your 'big heuristic', you are just rationalizing a truth benefitting your perspective. If you aren't going about this in at least a marginally scientific way, than how can you all claim to know so much about human nature that is unfounded by modern science? I also think you are fundamentally misunderstanding the complexity of genetic make-up and how that forms behaviour. There is no 'environment of western culture', and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 01:00 PM
2

I don't think feminists really care if some men want to live the ultimate bachelor life. I think that's also possible without the extreme hate for women in the OP. I mean, ungrateful harpies, really? I don't know where you live but the view that all men work themselves to the bone while women reap the benefits is wholly inaccurate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:03 PM
1

It sounds interesting though, and original.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 11:58 AM
1

But the role of evolutionary psychology in the scientific world is very small. It gives us certain insights into innate behaviour, but that doesn't mean it is capable of explaining our modern complex behaviour. I know TRP believes that those instincts are still our main guide, but behaviour just isn't that simple and clear-cut, unfortunately. Don't you think it's rather grandiose to assume TRP has discovered some big truth, even though most who research this their entire life disagree with it? A…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 11:48 AM
1

I think the difference between evo-psych as we use it and psychology is mainly that evo-psych is used to draw a lot of conclusions without proper basis. To me, that's the discipline that is build on a sandy foundation. It is usefull and interesting to an extent, but should not be used in the way people of TRP use it. I don't think a basis in genetics would have influenced our current psychology that much. We are constantly adapting theories and models, when new discoveries in genetics and neuros…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 07:55 AM
1

But biology doesn't explain their data with mathematical concepts generally, which in your opinion should discredit it. And yes, mathematics is a human construct used to describe reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:58 AM
1

The science 'shrinks' are basing their medicine prescriptions on is biology though. And the only ones allowed to prescribe medication are psychiatrists, and they fucking studied medicine. So sure, we would all like a better understanding of mental disorders but the understanding we do have is based upon actual science.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:55 AM
2

Psychology is still based on biology for a large part though. It's funny that you do include evo-psych in your list of worthy sciences, considering the evo-psych we practice here is considered a little unfounded in the scientific world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:34 AM
0

Then our experiences are complete opposites. Funny how that happens!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:19 AM
1

But that's the point: women in STEM are rising in the fields they are interested in. The number of women at my university studying biology or neuroscience is quite high. If there's so few women applying for CS then that's okay, if it's only because they aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:17 AM
1

Yeah well, I don't think this is behaviour women in general consider normal, do you? It's callous but they're teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 10:48 PM
3

Damn, he must've had a shit day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 10:45 PM
3

I love James Bond though :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 10:40 PM
1

I can see that, but that's not what we were arguing about. But yes, it's unnecessary to force people into fields they don't want to be in, but I don't think that's really happening. The amount of women in STEM is rising, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 10:37 PM
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Sure, I don't want an 50/50 gender divide in every job for the sake of gender, but that doesn't really mean that men and women can't be equally employed in the general workforce if they seek to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 09:34 PM
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A woman can also just get the job because she's more capable, not on basis of gender. That's not really pulling anyone down, men don't have monopoly on having a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 08:35 PM
3

Why is it pulling men down, according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 07:37 PM
1

He's getting desperate, atlas has joined the show
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 04:03 AM
2

Like it wasn't long enough already
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:30 AM
1

I cannot imagine that it's worth it if your depression is currently controlled. That's an extremely good place to be in!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:26 AM
4

I believe the story is that she directed a play in which he participated. He fell in love but moved to Paris, and they only married like 15 years later. Sounds better, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 07:23 PM
2

I agree with you that there are differences between the brains of men and women. Those differences are found between brain structure, brain symmetry, but also hormones and neurotransmitters. There is nothing in science that really disputes this. Most interestingly, research has also found that the brain of a transwoman resembles that of a woman more closely than that of a man, and vice versa, even before any intervention has taken place. It is also accepted in neuropsychology that the most likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:23 PM
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You're right that we all start with the standard possibility of female reproductive organs, but what exacting are default neurological brain patterns, male or female, according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:36 PM
2

Haha no, I meant 'our discussions' in a general sense, the discussions on PPD. I think I mostly agree with you whenever I come along a comment. I'm in western Europe and I often think that a lot of the problems mentioned here are just less prevalent where I come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:02 PM
2

Our personal celebrities aside, I like /u/lyanina . I'm still not sure if a lot of our discussions are just hyperbole or if the situation in the USA is really that different, but I like her voice of reason amidst it all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 01:04 PM
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Did you read the comment, though? The whole point is that fathers who do actively fight for custody have the same chances in court as mothers do, as backed up by data. Now, I can understand most people do not want to go to court, but it's too simplistic to place this custody disparity entirely on biases in favour of women. I think it is for a big part also men not wanting to be the primary caregiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 12:54 PM
1

That's not paedophilia, that's just illegal sex. Paedophilia describes sexual fantasies, urges or activities with prepubescent children. It's still definitely illegal, but not everyone who has sex with someone underage is immediately a paedophile.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 07:45 PM
2

Me. I really dislike Tom Cruise and am tiny, but it has nothing to do with his height
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 01:22 PM
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It's not about being in a position to 'demand more' in this case, to me. Simply saying hi is putting the onus on the other to actually come up with an opening. And I think that's the responsibility of the one starting the conversation. You're trying to date, it's not like actually trying to have a conversation is asking too much. If I were to meet a complete stranger on the street I wanted to pick up, I would say more than just hi to them, because otherwise I'd just expect them to keep walking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 03:42 PM
3

But would you IRL just start with hi, and then look at the other one expectantly? Because that's still a bad opener. And yes sure, always expecting the other one to start conversations is lazy too, I agree. That's why i don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 02:25 PM
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I think it's because 'hey' doesn't spark any actual conversation. You're still expecting the other person to do the actual talking, which is a bit lazy if you were the one starting the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 09:33 AM
2

I'm familiar with crt myself, so I'm cheating a little
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:48 PM
2

You're called squid racer, it's not subtle :p
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 12:48 PM
1

Such a strange world we live in
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:33 PM
7

We have recently installed the draft for women in my country, effective from 2018. Unlike what this subreddit seems to believe, it was mostly a feminist notion with little backlash.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 01:44 PM
1

Anyone watching motogp tonight?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 06:09 PM
1

I believe there's actually a positive relation between the two
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:15 AM
2

Now for me this isn't true at all, but I've read about similar research before. I belief the explanation they and my uni textbooks gave is that for men, getting aroused has an immediate physical effect they can see: getting a hard on. For women however, getting aroused isn't tied to any changes they can directly see, and awareness of it is this much more coupled with their knowledge about their own sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:02 AM
6

This is such a Reddit point of view, it's perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:40 PM
2

Is small talk a female construct now? And yes it's necessary but annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:31 PM
2

Our very own Endorsed Contributers!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:15 PM
2

She's so damn cute
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 04:04 PM
3

And she's so hot and kickass in Vikings, too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 03:57 PM
1

Yesss, love her look
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 03:05 PM
1

Guys, you're making me so curious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 02:57 PM
1

Haha I'll remember you as a woman from now on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 06:17 PM
2

The natural 7 would be much more attractive to me. Firstly I just don't like the look of a lot of make-up (so if it's very good natural make-up I'm on board), but it's also not like you won't be aware of how she actually looks. Every time you wake up, go swimming, have a lazy Sunday, etc. So the natural 7 would be attractive to me, while the 5 would just be good with make-up and thus sometimes look attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:55 PM
5

And I just dislike all that stuff on my face. I can never get sweaty or rub my eyes or something without thinking about it, and I'm way too chaotic to think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:51 PM
4

Honestly, I don't know. Wasn't sparkling water this other poster on here? I don't pay close enough attention obviously, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:21 PM
2

I'm your girl there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:11 PM
11

Perfect! This is what I encounter in university land indeed. Most people do not want the responsibility of taking someone's virginity at this age. I think mostly because having sex means more to virgins than to the experienced partner. However, it's not like being a virgin will be a deal breaker. Just, rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:01 PM
2

Always thought she was a guy, huh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 04:58 PM
1

Haha yes she does, look closely. It's made to look natural but her whole face is covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 05:43 PM
1

TRP must hate you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 10:15 AM
1

Congrats! Give it a chance, who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 11:05 PM
1

Crazy thought. But it's not bad to be careful with benzos imo. Gotta love the darknet haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 09:16 PM
1

How did it go?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 08:36 PM
1

That's crazy, why would they? Yeah antipsychotics are difficult. They've made some strides but they still suck
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 08:29 PM
2

How are male entp's, then? I scored ENTP (sometimes INTP, only couple percent difference) and I can kinda recognize myself in the story above
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 06:35 AM
1

Haha I imagine being gay would be a lot easier for you anyway. And yes, that's probably true. It's the same in my country -couple cms difference between north and south. The Germans have some beautiful girls, too. I study near the border so we have a lot of them: plenty for you to choose from haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 04:01 PM
1

Nah, exchange students on average are richer and rich people are pretty, haha. Especially if they go to the USA. I don't think this idea that Germans are naturally much more handsome has any merit to it. They are taller, but everyone here is taller so that's all relative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 03:36 PM
1

But it's not like the majority of germans are tall, muscular and handsome in my opinion. They too have a steady supply of unattractive and normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 06:56 PM
1

Go for the Dutch. Even taller!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 06:29 PM
1

Sweet! Not for the faint of heart, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 09:55 PM
1

Yeah well, we'll probably be voting again in less than 4 years :p
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 09:43 PM
1

Yes! A country full of drugs and idiots, but lovely nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 07:48 PM
2

My country had elections Wednesday's and I'm so relieved we didn't entirely fuck up by what we voted in. Now it's time for the rest of Europe haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 07:14 PM
1

But are there that many women in the USA doing gender studies? I'm in western Europe and I know exactly no-one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:10 PM
1

I feel like I already read this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 07:09 PM
1

Which episode is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 09:54 PM
6

And while testosterone to an extent does what the red pill says it does, the behavioural effects aren't as clear cut as they seem to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 10:11 PM
1

Ha, nice! Yeah they have really gotten stronger over the years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 08:18 AM
2

Yes, we're good at drugs at least:p
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 05:06 AM
1

Makes for an interesting new topic then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 05:42 AM
1

I think a lot of blue pillers have a STEM degree, don't you think? I have the idea many scientific disciplines qualify as STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 01:18 PM
1

She's well in her fifties now, so relatively
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 08:25 PM
3

What about a young Mariska Hargitay? http://i.imgur.com/cb1dQLX.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 06:46 PM
5

Because that's what he would like to believe. I'm so curious how everyone one of us looks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 06:28 PM
3

But see, the girl apart from her teeth has quite a good face, and she has perfect hair and skin. Her body is difficult to judge because she is sitting down. That guy has horrible skin and hair, and his face isn't great either. So false comparison. You're also comparing the girl wearing almost nothing, no makeup, and in a bad position to girls fully dolled up and their best pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 10:39 AM
3

Oh come on, don't push it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 10:54 AM
2

I always feel like one day my partner will wake up and realise I'm actually not that interesting, smart, and attractive as he told himself. I don't really do anything about it because I think it's irrational. I'm cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 12:55 PM
1

To Americans, communism is the devil
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 02:34 PM
1

Do you even know what she looks like? Edit: you most be a trolling account, but you're so tenacious that I'm not entirely sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:28 PM
2

You're a red flower
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:39 PM
2

It suits you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 12:07 PM
5

I love this guy, even brings up the fake flirting again
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 06:48 AM
3

Sure, that's all true. It's not really skill though, more.. good manners. But I hadn't thought of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:31 AM
2

Seriously, thanks for the well thought out reply. You're obviously more knowledgeable than I am; I will read the links you provided and get back to you when I have something useful to say, but I wanted to let you know your reply wasn't in vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 06:37 PM
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Hey, I would like to escalate, may I touch your face? Doesn't have the best ring to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 06:13 PM
1

Oneplus has developed their own ROM though, so I don't expect this to be an impossible solution to solve. But yes, the recent problems with cyanogen have been a strike against oneplus, fair enough. I can imagine that if your main concern is privacy and security, than the iPhone is a perfect option. I don't believe as much in Apples innocence, but still they have proven a pain in the ass for the FBI. However, I have much more options and freedom on my android than you will ever have on an iPhone,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:54 PM
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Men that are incapable of escalating. I know guys that will just talk and talk and hang out but have no clue how to get past that point. Then they'll complain about her attitude or something and eventually move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:37 PM
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Omg no, I wouldn't dream of touching breasts that aren't at least triple D's. Smaller breasts are a sign of impaired pair bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:24 PM
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I think working towards your own goals is only a good quality: her life won't revolve around your relationship, and thus be much more healthy. The same as with abundance mentality; dating becomes much better if both parties know they're not there out of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:16 PM
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Prostitutes! Drugs may help too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:07 PM
3

I couldn't even begin to guess dick size, but who cares anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:06 PM
4

That's hilarious. I really hope the poor guy will only very selectively discuss this theory. Question: since when is there a certain skill in how you're receiving a BJ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:05 PM
1

No hating on my oneplus, it definitely trumps your iPhone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 04:59 PM
2

Then we can divide those with flat tits and assess among us! Although I would prefer niceness on all fronts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 02:39 PM
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I find tits much more interesting than ass, but I can like almost all kind of boobs while a flat ass is a bit of a disappointment. So for that reason I would say face and ass? Face must be always be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 02:13 PM
1

What's a dutchboy cut?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 08:11 PM
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Then you're probably biased
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 08:07 PM
1

Not really, the situation just isn't always as clear cut as you're presenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 07:19 PM
1

Fortunately the world doesn't end at the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 06:17 PM
0

But this isn't always the case in these situations. People divorce, change their minds, are unable to get an abortion, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 05:39 PM
4

Nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 10:28 AM
2

What are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 11:18 AM
1

Fascinating. Have you dated a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 04:20 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 12:11 PM
2

For me it would be: People who are incapable of rational and critical thinking. I like people that base their opinions on science, and aren't too hysterical about anything. Nothing altright, no populism, but no radical feminist either please. No overweight people ideally No people who don't have a strong personality. I'll get bored and probably walk all over you. No people who aren't intelligent. See above. No people who are too moral or easily offended .. Be attractive? But this more so for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 07:15 PM
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Yes, this is what I encounter a lot as well. People who are just curious about psychoactive substances, but who would rather do it at home with trusted friends or in a park or something. Party people in my city are mostly just heavy drinkers. Unless it's the occasional cave rave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 06:34 PM
1

This seems really tough, indeed, and is something women will not recognize.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 12:30 PM
2

I took a course on sexuality a couple weeks ago, and we learned about something called the sexual response cyclus. In short, women's resembled men's in the early stages of a relationship, but became different and more tied up in feelings of intimacy when the relationship advanced. So, our sexuality isn't entirely the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 12:22 PM
2

I'm not sure I totally agree with this. In my experience, people in general will always assume men to be more capable and knowledgeable than women, which results in them often having more natural confidence in their capabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 12:13 PM
2

I like my 20's thus far, but I also like the prospect of having actual income haha. What makes your 30's better for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 11:50 PM
2

Please don't remind me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 11:02 PM
3

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 06:45 PM
2

According to his comments in this thread, because we can always just crush a man's balls. Now, I play-fight with my boyfriend. I cannot touch anything he doesn't want me to because he can just have me pinned in a second. However, like mentioned above, I never take into consideration that he is that much stronger because he would never act upon it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 05:39 PM
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I actually think she meant that while it may factually be so, she doesn't really consider it like that. Wouldn't that be the opposite of victimization?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 04:35 PM
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Nah, it wasn't a serious reaction on my part. Although I wouldn't mind my spouse making 100k at all. I wouldn't even know what to do with that kind of money haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 04:27 PM
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You might be right, fortune favours the brave after all! I meant it more in a near future way, because he was talking about LTR's. Most people our age won't be making 100k anytime soon, haha. But I expressed myself poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 03:56 PM
1

You don't strike me as moving in the circles where 100k is a future prospect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 01:58 PM
2

Now that's a comeback
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 11:50 PM
1

Dito, this way life's just more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 05:13 PM
1

Hey, at least you can flirt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 03:50 PM
3

Discussions like this keep me coming back to PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 02:10 PM
2

Our (Dutch) minister of defense is quite badass actually
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 10:28 AM
2

Yes we know, you've made your point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 09:51 AM
1

The chronic diseases have a lot to do with us simply not dying anymore. Things that were deadly first, now have become chronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 09:50 AM
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This is a guy with 77k in debt which he cannot afford to pay off, of course she's unhappy. Additionally, have you ever seen 32 year old women? Most of them are pretty hot still. Not everybody just cuts and runs whenever someone comes along with a higher income, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 09:47 AM
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That tidbit about Germany had to do with Nazi symbolism, if I'm recalling correctly. Europe in general doesn't care about violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 05:05 PM
2

The first
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 11:46 PM
1

Fair enough, then what are we even discussing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 02:31 PM
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The way she stated it in her original post; she wants someone with social skills that are on the same level as her own. This is not unreasonable at all, she wants someone she can bring around her life and fits in. But when you're arguing that being socially adept is alpha, it just seems like you're expectations of 'alpha' are regular guys. Of course, people who are successful with women will mostly be socially adept, but most guys are, it's not that distinctive a quality. The internet is just a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 05:26 PM
2

But being socially adept doesn't mean 'alpha', it just means she doesn't want to have to hold someone's hand in social situations
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 05:14 PM
2

I thought it was all about keeping away from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 10:53 AM
3

You could have at least put in some effort
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 07:49 PM
1

It's so crazy to me that six figures is middle class. In my part of Europe even a surgeon would be lucky to make six figures
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 03:22 PM
3

Yeah it's nonsense. The effects of psilocybin are researched and promising, but it's not a cure for all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 10:00 AM
1

But we do produce it ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 11:38 PM
3

Did they give you testosterone because you were low on it? Because the effects of taking testosterone to return to a normal level aren't the same as the effects of testosterone when your levels are normal, or higher. I'm not trying to disprove any effectiveness, just saying that our body works much more complicated than that. Restoring a hormonal imbalance will result in you feeling better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 03:32 PM
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The effects of hormones, testosterone here in particular, on behaviour are not as straightforward as the red pill claims them to be. The role of testosterone in aggression is established, but all the other factors trp claims to be due to testosterone are much more unknown in the academic world. Additionally, research is often difficult and correlational, and gender-typical behaviour is difficult to measure because it's influenced by our society, but also all the other hormones that play their pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 02:36 PM
1

You're good, no worries :p
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:52 PM
1

He/she got burned, it was funny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:41 PM
1

Woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:24 PM
3

Wait so everybody who isn't a virgin is a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 12:20 PM
1

Protip: let your future girlfriend just pull her own weight. Self respect is a useful quality!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 11:58 AM
2

Weirdly, I don't feel really accomplished now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 08:01 AM
3

Give me this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 05:55 AM
1

Yet this is what (red pill) men do, too. Fuck around and still expect to date high value women. Now I don't care, since I think you should definitely be able too, but why the fuck would you measure with different standards and then see this as a valid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 02:06 PM
2

This is very specific commentary haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 10:56 PM
1

But this is nonsense, since especially in our society, it's not the rich and powerful that reproduce more. Rather those in unfortunate positions. And while parts of our body are presumably still evolving, this isn't influenced at all by what we consider as 'having power' in the western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 06:09 PM
1

Yes, we're all lazy when it comes to it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 03:54 PM
4

Probably the science and historic subreddits. Interesting, but not very fun for your daily doses of Reddit nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 03:37 PM
2

The story of Willem Drees in the NL was that during the negotiations for the Marshall plan, he invited the American deligation into his small, sober home with tea and only one cookie, because anything more would be squandering. This down to earth reception surprised them so that they were willing to give the money, no trouble. In all honesty it's probably more myth than history, but still a story Dutch people like to tell ;) Thank you for the interesting, well-defended conversation!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 08:57 PM
2

This isn't completely true I think. It used to be really unsustainable in the 70's, which is why we've calmed down since then. But it seems a lot more healthy and sustainable than the alternatives. And yes, everybody loves them some loss of income, you're right in its universality, haha. But still, I like to think we live relatively sober compared to others. Did you ever hear the story about Willem Drees and the negotiations for the Marshall plan?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:45 PM
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Rightfully! But his story about lifelong alimony is incredibly rare in Belgium, I think. I've always been under the impression that the system in Belgium (and the Netherlands) isn't as stacked against men in the US, but that may just be my bias talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:41 PM
1

In Belgium, partner alimony generally isn't allowed to go on longer than the duration of marriage, except for extraordinary circumstances in which may be asked for an extension
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:22 PM
1

But.. How do you think most of Europe functions?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 05:59 PM
1

I've never really heard women complaining about penis size though, unless you're an extreme outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 04:00 PM
2

I think she mostly doubts the existence of a wall at 22. I mean, come on :p
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 02:17 PM
2

I always stop and help, as a woman :D. But it's big in the motorcycle community so I'm being raised right
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 03:01 PM
1

I'm from a country that's still a little cautious in prescribing medication. From what I've seen on Reddit I can imagine that in the US, what I've stated would indeed by naive. However, in most of Europe this is definitely still practice and the basis of treatment for ADHD. And a large part of a correct diagnoses is an evaluation by a psychologist, it isn't as simple as just ticking of the dsm boxes and getting your medicine. I think that your reaction is completely valid given that I should've …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 08:29 PM
1

The average height in the Netherlands actually is about 6'1", but I believe even we don't really have this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 11:28 AM
1

A huge part of helping kids with ADHD is improving their environment though. It's working with these children to give them the tools they need to cope, but also working with their caregivers to teach them how best to help the child. Additionally, if you look at the factors in the DSM you see that everything combined, together with evaluation by a psychologist, would make for a problem that isn't easily explained by merely lifestyle issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 11:15 AM
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/s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 11:06 AM
1

Especially concerning children, it's actually not the default to treat them with drugs in the EU, but with therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 11:01 AM
1

I think this comes across more as your personal justification for only dating a certain kind of woman, rather than a serious argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 10:40 AM
1

Studies suggest that men have higher spatial intelligence than women, so that would certainly be a positive. And we were talking about the absence of biases and gender roles; there are a lot of other factors that might come into play. This isn't a question any of us can answer though, since there isn't even a scientific consensus. There are a lot of factors that might influence the differences; risk seeking behaviour, impulsivity, alcohol and drug use, inclination to violence, type of crimes com…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 12:13 PM
1

This is a bit tiresome. I think most people would readily agree men are biologically 'superior' in certain ways. Both genders have been proven to have certain biological advantages over the other. I'm not necessarily saying men are biologically inclined to criminal behaviour, while neither disagreeing. It's a complex topic that cannot be simplified to merely one explanation. What's your opinion on it? I also don't think that in the absence of all biases men and women will be equally represented …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 01:15 PM
1

Do you mean the Baader-Meinhof phenomenon?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 12:33 PM
2

These kind of people make for really good partners in my experience. Add to your quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 05:26 PM
1

I think in a perfect feminist society there won't be more men in prison based on biases against men, but reflect the amount of crimes they commit. That means it still won't be 50/50 though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:56 PM
2

Xanax on the other hand is addictive as fuck:p
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:02 PM
2

Why partake in a discussion when you're just going to dismiss everything anyway? There are other places for that. And yes, to you women are famous for that. To the world, not so much. That you witness something that doesn't agree with what people are saying here may just mean you have biases, move in different circles, or can't actually look in everybody's head, not that they're all lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 11:41 AM
2

I think the discussion would be a lot more in depth for you if your counterargument wasn't based on: you women may all say this, but you don't actually mean it. Don't you think it kills the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 11:34 AM
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You ask a discussion question, and almost everybody answers it in a way that doesn't match your view. Instead of thinking about it, reflecting on it, you go ahead and discredit everyone's own thoughts as being misleading. Do you want discussion, or are you just looking for a reason to repeat your mantra? What you are doing is creating an explanation to cater to your reality, which is I believe a solid example of hamstering. Edit: I'm sorry in mistaking you for the OP. It's still applicable to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 11:04 AM
1

And yet, one of the main trp ideas is that men should be confident
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:38 AM
1

But what if a couple decides to have children together? Then it's on both of them, and such should be the consequences. We can't very well make it impossible for women to have children and a successful career, that's madness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/16 04:47 PM
1

I think the idea here is that having children isn't merely a women's decision and lifestyle choice, but it's her career that often suffers from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/16 01:35 PM
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I think I normally approach it the same as you do, and I hope most do. Makes life a lot more fun. My reaction for that matter wasn't entirely accurate. I think some people just get tired of saying no after a while, men or women. It's not like women inherently hate all unattractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 09:34 AM
2

This happens a lot, and the reason it's tiresome no matter how hot the guy is is perfectly described above
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 08:58 PM
2

Yes, because guys love it when unattractive women won't back the fuck down
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 08:56 PM
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Think this through though. What about women before they lose their virginity, lesbians.. Your mother, that only ever had sex with your father yet they still have no interests in common?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 12:26 PM
2

Yes, I would think you need to get out in reality more often
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 10:44 AM
1

Actually, according to the NIDA, it's men who are more likely to relapse
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 10:14 AM
1

Such an interesting and rational point of view, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 01:41 PM
1

This almost reads like a new version of the idiots who deny the holocaust
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 12:48 PM
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If that was the sole reason, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:53 AM
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