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| 1 | Is success in attracting women one of the key points in gaining real confidence and gaining the drive to push further for more?That's why I'm saying success to me is a woman being sexually accepting. If they don't accept then they don't matter in that area. Improvement to me in this area is getting closer and closer to that goal. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Is success in attracting women one of the key points in gaining real confidence and gaining the drive to push further for more?I define success by women considering you worthy to either date or casually have sex with. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Is success in attracting women one of the key points in gaining real confidence and gaining the drive to push further for more?With a guitar you gain confidence from improvement, guitars are incapable of giving you feedback, its your skills with the guitar that provides you with it. The better you get at it the more confidence you gain. It's a whole different story with people who ARE capable of giving you negative or positive feed back. Logically wouldnt it makes sense that the more positive feed back you get from the ones you're interested in (especially the ones you think would normally be above you) the more your co… | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How awesome does it feel to attract women clearly out of your league yet they still consider you good enough to date or bang?Sounds more like it dissolved once you gain success with the ones you thought were out of your league and until you do so you're gonna see the league system . | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Does acquiring a girls number become more important with age when you're not a student?Who on earth said anything about NOT seeing her again??? | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 05:33 PM |
| 2 | When you're a virgin in your early 30s how realistic is it to want to gain experience from casual sex?I learned the hard way it's best to just keep your mouth shut about your virginity and just let them find out from the first time. I just originally wanted to be honest with my sexual desires but again I learned being noble doesn't always get you what you want. | /r/seduction | 21/05/19 04:37 AM |
| 1 | When you're a virgin in your early 30s how realistic is it to want to gain experience from casual sex?I've done stuff before and I've seen a few girls naked in person i just never went all the way. I'm not THAT much of a virgin. Also I've been rejected before for being a virgin at my age and even cougars turned me down because past 26 being a virgin apparently isn't cute anymore. So I have to say it's not entirely accurate that women don't care. | /r/seduction | 21/05/19 01:47 AM |
| 2 | When you're a virgin in your early 30s how realistic is it to want to gain experience from casual sex?Because when you get older like pushing 30 most people have gotten their sex craze out of their system so therefore they tend to want something real with something serious. | /r/seduction | 21/05/19 01:37 AM |
| 2 | it sucks being a old virgin but im improving lolAs a 31 year old virgin I'm rooting for you. Do your best not to stay a virgin as long as I have. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 07:07 AM |
| 0 | Is your home area a good place to start working on seduction and flirting?That's just it approaching strangers is all well and dandy l but do it enough times and certain locations people will recognize you and start spreading stuff and you may have a creepy reputation. I'm just wondering what's the best way to counter this. | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Yeah I'm not gonna give up. Better than hoping I get lucky from online dating at least. | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 03:40 AM |
| 2 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Nope but I've been rejected ALOT since then... | /r/seduction | 10/01/18 01:01 AM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?I'm still not that concerned with my first time being good/great or not. Nor am I that concerned about my first time having sex should be meaningful. I'd just really like to experience sex with a non paid women and I'm still afraid if I just give up and do it I'll just become obsessed with having sex with a non paid women instead. It's how I'll react if I give up and pay a girl to take my virginity that scares me. And you're absolutely right that sex is only a big deal to those who either have n… | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 06:45 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to just pursuing casual sex why exactly is it bad to be honest and direct with your intentions?I lost friends for being direct and honest about my intentions on wanting sex....Wasn't being an ass I just asked and they took that as me calling them a slut and sexually harassing them... | /r/seduction | 16/11/17 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Are Pickup lines truly Effective or just a myth?Got a story to tell? | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 05:53 AM |
| 8 | So tell me if I'm getting this right, the first step to success with women is to get rejected enough times to get used to it?Whoa that's actually a really nice way of thinking about it | /r/seduction | 05/09/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?If the experience is terrible said bad experience WILL haunt me until and if I get get the better sexual experience afterwards to bypass it That's what I'm terrified of, risking a potential bad empty first time experience with a "hired help" and then having to wait longer for the better experience with a NON paid partner.Plus with the way I'm depressed and insecure about never having sex before there's a high chance that'll be replaced with my having ONLY had sex with someone who was paid for it… | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 08:46 AM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Heh I knew people who have gotten laid using those methods and that was after they lost it. I value your opinion as a woman but you also have to understand a man of my situations point of view. As a woman you have to deal with the fact that guys will want you and try to have sex with you, and as a guy who hasn't had that kind of experience it all feels very different for me than it would for a girl. I'm still a virgin at this moment because frankly I'm scared to try without having my license aga… | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?"Dude" doesn't always have to refer to someone as a guy. But you being a female explains why you're so against this stance while so many other guys have told me it's the best way to go and various guys have also done this. I wasn't pushed into by magic circumstances as I said I was pushed into it due to my previous methods of being upfront and honest about it being used against me and as a reason for rejection. I.E. My past experiences has pushed me to this point of deciding to stop being honest… | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 08:58 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?If a girl tells me right out the dot that they don't like virgins and I lie to them THATS when it's wrong. For petty things like bjs and long hairs those can be worked around. Those lies can easily be forgiven just like alot of other lies. Lying is justified so long as it gets you the results you want, the person is able to be forgiving afterwards and as long as you can live with yourself afterwards. If you were desperate enough to lie than means something pushed you to that point. Sorry dude, i… | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?I can't get aroused by someone who I don't find attractive even a little, I've tried in the past and it never worked so I can't compromise that. As for my virginity What do you expect me to do then? If being honest about my virginity would be (and HAS BEEN) used against me due to my age than wouldn't logic dictate that I NOT bring that up? | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?I live in the suburbs where there's indeed not alot of people as there would be if I were living in a residential area. So yeah my options as far as that goes are limited which is why I wanted to go further out for more options. Advice is always welcome but I'm not going to settle for less than what I want which is to simply have sex with a girl who I find attractive enough who is also willing to have sex with me. The only compromise I'm willing to do now is simply either lie about my virginity … | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?My location could also be an issue too for all you know, ever think of that? Besides while im open to them I'm not looking for hot chicks, I'm just looking for girls who i find attractive enough. And i could always lie about my virginity if that's really an issue. | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?The ones who were open and willing to have sex with me at all will matter while the "right ones" who i wanna have a commited long lasting relationship will matter alot more. Its better to have a reasonable pleasant first time to tide you over unyil you have a great or better second sexual experience because who wants to have the memory of a shiity first time haunting them until the next chance comes? | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 01:38 AM |
| 1 | I need some wardrobe style tipsI like to have fun,I like to talk when i'm not shy and guarded, favorite color is red and blue, I don't have a favorite celeb, Emotionally i'm attracted to fun friendly interesting girls, sexually I'm attracted to girls with a nice ass or girls who are fit and built. | /r/seduction | 04/08/17 07:36 PM |
| 3 | What styles of clothing would label you as a manchild so I can either avoid them or upgrade my wardrobe?Fair point sir. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 03:49 AM |
| 2 | What styles of clothing would label you as a manchild so I can either avoid them or upgrade my wardrobe?MY Point is that as far as nerdy attire goes it doesn't seem to be as big of a deal breaker as you made it seem. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 03:32 AM |
| 5 | What styles of clothing would label you as a manchild so I can either avoid them or upgrade my wardrobe?I know people in their mid 30s who go to bars wearing Dc comics shirts and they seem to get pussy just fine and one of them even married a girl half his age... It sounds like you're the type that thinks overly dressing like a generic adult 100% of the time is the only method you should use.... And I've taken dates to mcdonalds and they had no complaints except for the ones who expected something fancy at the time. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 03:12 AM |
| 1 | What styles of clothing would label you as a manchild so I can either avoid them or upgrade my wardrobe?I understand all of that(Who the hell wears fedoras in public), except for the t-shirts advertising video games part. Sooooo wearing star wars, marvel comics, Dr.Who, Big bang theory or DC comics shirts are a no no? | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 03:01 AM |
| 2 | So are there any thing a virgin should consider or watch out for the moment that first successful lay actually happens?Heh first time i felt tits i squeezed hard myself but i learned my lesson fast. Luckily i have soft hands still so i should still be able to arouse a girl with my touch. I will definitely be massaging the asses alot no worries there. In fact i have a glute massage fetish so next opportunity i get before sex I'd start with massage and go to foreplay from that. Okay so don't poke, massage the insides of a pussy instead? Got it i didn't know this one since I've only ever done that to a few girls. | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 01:19 AM |
| 1 | So are there any thing a virgin should consider or watch out for the moment that first successful lay actually happens?Well then if what i said earlier WASNT what you said then why did you get all salty over it? Unless you're one of those internet tough guys who gets all mad and annoyed when someone doesn't immediately accept what you're saying to the point that you call them names when they don't, then what else am i supposed to think other than you taking what i said too personally than you should? | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 11:31 PM |
| 1 | So are there any thing a virgin should consider or watch out for the moment that first successful lay actually happens?And you just lost all credibility if your response is to throw insults over you taking what i said too personally. So long internet bad ass | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 10:41 PM |
| 0 | So are there any thing a virgin should consider or watch out for the moment that first successful lay actually happens?Its not selfish to prioritize your own needs, I even said "not in a selfish way" in my post. This is classic black-and-white niceguy thinking right here. If you're not a doormat then you must be a selfish asshole. Wrong. Thinking PRIMARILY of your own pleasure and NOT caring about your partners pleasure at all IS selfish no matter how you try to spin it. I am anything but a doormat, I will still be open to getting my pleasure as well but again I'd just prioritize the girls pleasure first. You're… | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 08:50 PM |
| 0 | So are there any thing a virgin should consider or watch out for the moment that first successful lay actually happens?This need to please others probably points to an underlying problem you have of being uncomfortable with getting your own needs met. Its possible that at some point in your childhood you didn't get your needs met, you concluded that having and even acknowledging your needs might lead to abandonment. this kind of thing leads to a lot of typical "niceguy" unattractive, dishonest and manipulative behaviours. People-pleasing is not a good thing. Uh No it's really not like that..In my case I masturba… | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 09:59 AM |
| 0 | So are there any thing a virgin should consider or watch out for the moment that first successful lay actually happens?Ah well after my first time is out of the way as long as my partners enjoy themselves that's all that's gonna matter to me. | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 09:31 AM |
| 4 | So are there any thing a virgin should consider or watch out for the moment that first successful lay actually happens?? Why would it be bad to prioritize the girls pleasure over myself? I'm a giver at heart and if I had to choose between my pleasure and hers I'd pick theirs. Besides isn't the point of sex to have fun cumming? Why wouldn't the girl be able to have fun if a guy actually focuses on pleasing the girl? | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Dont know where to start with girlsThen you make some. Again at your age among your pears it will be very easy as long as you put the effort in it now. Easiest place to start is college or at part or full time job. You can even use tinder or meetup.com to build your social outings. | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 06:07 PM |
| 7 | Dont know where to start with girlsYou're 19 years old, if you wanna get started comfortably and when girls are more accessible NOW IS THE TIME. Definitely meet girls though connections and the many social outings you are bound to get into at your age. Do NOT waste this golden time of your life. | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 12:49 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?(Annnnd I didn't know you responded already..) Why were you under that impression? And think about it. Girls have a lot of shit to worry about in the world from guys. If they agree to go to a guy's house alone, that's a big step. On some level, they've usually accepted the possibility that a straight guy could at least try to do something if they're alone together. So if they agree to come over anyway and they haven't been blatantly talking about how glad they are that you're FRIENDS, or haven't… | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 10:14 AM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Short answer: Some guys prefer virgins because their fragile egos can't handle the idea that some other dude "got there" before they did. It's insecurity. Interesting I always thought the appeal to guys was there's no pressure and there's no comparison they can do to you at all so you could relax and not feel like you'd have to one up anyone and either focus on just your pleasure or both. Or if you wanted to be evil you can just corrupt the virgin to your tastes or turn her into such a freak tha… | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 10:08 AM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Wow before I comment on all of this I'll start by responding to these first(Plus I wanna make sure I get the quoting system right): So while you think of her as a friend, let's be real and acknowledge that, in some way, you have seen her as more. Or as someone you would not mind having more with. Yes I considered them both friends that I was comfortable doing something more with. I'm more than capable of being a sincere friends with benefits or revert back to friends after the sex. Going to be b… | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 05:48 AM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Oooo yet another example of how reading up on sex and getting tips CAN actually be useful. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?I'm a virgin at 30 because of reasons I described: 1. I never took the opportunities that were right in front of me. 2. I didn't really make the effort to try since at the time when I had those opportunities I didn't care. 3. I assumed there was no rush so that contributed to my not caring. 4. By the time I started to care all my options were gone and I wasn't as young as I was when I had the chances and my inexperience is working against me. Don't try to come up with your own theorys on a perso… | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?The fact that I've been in relationships at all and could have had sex with ALL OF THEM if I wasn't a scared little boy about it even when a few of them tried to convince me is proof enough that I'm not completely ignorant. Hell i even showered with one of the girls and legit only showered with them like an idiot when it was clear she wanted to fool around too.... Oooor maybe the area I'm in just doesn't have any quality women that uses tinder. Its not like i live in new york or los Angeles a pl… | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?I tried tinder and that hasn't helped, all i got were bots. And oh yes i neglected to mention that I'm also incapable of being sexually attracted to overweight women, I can't be aroused by them at all. Also you speak as if i have no experience with women at all, I've been in relationships with them and done stuff with them, I just never had sex wifh one. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 05:26 PM |
| 2 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?A prostitute will just make me feel worse since I had to pay for sex with someone whos only having sex with me because i'm paying them and having that stuck with my first memory of having sex along with how stupid the prices are for that kind of stuff in the U.S. WOULD NOT be good for me at all. If I wasn't a virgin already I would gladly give escorts/prostitutes with no issue at all, but losing my virginity to either would not sit well with me | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 01:01 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Fair enough. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 12:42 PM |
| 2 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?No I'm still a virgin simply because I don't know what I have to do to get into a situation to lose my virginity in the way that would help me get over it and I'm also paranoid of being dismissed for it. And That's just it I can't accept still being a virgin at 30....It actually does bother me greatly to the point that I just can't get comfortable with it. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?And again as I said as long as I don't masturbate as frequently or feel depressed and angry at myself for it due to the strong curiosity of what sex is like in comparison(Which is the source behind my issues with masturbation at all) that's fine. I am at the cause, the cause of my hormones being so strong is due to my repressing them for years and when I finally released them late in my life at 27 now they're overwhelming me. The effect of the cause is I'm left dealing with with unusual feelings… | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 10:37 AM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Yes I learned that the hard way that asking for it even among close friends is not a good idea.....which doesn't make sense to me but if that's how it is that's how it is. I also had plenty of occasions where I have watched a movie at my place and cuddled but other then the moments when the girls made the move I never made a move myself because I never got any signs that I should.... Your older acquaintances sound awesome and very secure in themselves and their desires. That's commendable and I … | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 10:08 AM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?1.As long as I'm able to have a good comparison of which feels better that's all I'll need to keep myself from masturbating as much as I am that's all I really need. Plus perhaps I won't feel so angry and depressed for masturbating afterwards since I now know what the alternative feels like. You know even when I go out of the house and do stuff eventually I gotta go home sometime and what do you think happens? all my pent up desires come out right and That's when my hormones soar and I start mas… | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 09:56 AM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?1.There wasn't fear or uncertainty at all from my point of view at the tell. Hell one of the girls knew me since middle school and she knew I was a virgin I just reconfirmed it with her that I still was when I tried asking her if she was willing but nope rejected due to my inexperience. The other girl was NOT very nice with her rejection but I'll leave it at that. It's hard to not care when you feel like a freak in a society where the majority of people have their sexual party phase out of their… | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 09:48 AM |
| 2 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?1.Psychic? Yeah I know they're not. 2.I elected to tell them because I thought it would be something they'd need to know instead of them having expectations in the bed only to be disappointed. I would have still be more than willing to try regardless of my inexperience. 3.Oh don't worry I'm definitely willing to learn and improve and at present I am doing alot of reading and watching videos on the subject of sex and what to do. And I am very curious in exploring a womans body and frankly I'm ver… | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 09:10 AM |
| 2 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?No because if i paid someone to help me out it'll just make me wanna have sex with someone whos not being paid that much more....plus I'm sure I'd strongly regret that memory for my first time. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 08:38 AM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Oh don't worry I've been there and kept track of my nofap sessions there. Overall that place is just filled with people just supporting each other to not masturbate at all and suppress their inner desires. While I wanna stop masturbating so much I certainly don't wanna suppress my desires for sex either. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 04:44 AM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Whoaaa hold on there, I've had intimate relationships before and I've done my fair share of stuff with them i just NEVER had sex with any of them because i was a scared paranoid fool of a boy. If I were that deprived and ignorant I'd understand your opinion. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 04:36 AM |
| 3 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Hell no I'm not ugly. I'm still a virgin because of Nothing more than my fear of it when I was young, simply underestimating the importance of striking while the iron was hot when I was young(and lord I had plenty of chances and those will continue to haunt me.), assuming there would ALWAYS be chances in the future. I've done alot of other sexual things in the mean time I just never went all the way. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 04:18 AM |
| 3 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Hell no i don't wanna be those forever alone weirdos thats why I've been asking around so much for input and advice about my situation. I'm only ashamed because i hate my masturbation habits, I was the only person in my original group of friends who was still a virgin, and i really feel I shouldn't be a virgin at my age. And as i mentioned before I'm not looking for anything serious at all for losing my virginity... | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 03:58 AM |
| 1 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?Masturbation itself was fine during the time when I was starting out but eventually i started to feel depressed and frustrated that i was still doing it so much so ideally I'd just like to stop doing it so much and its hard for me to stop for more than two weeks. I rarely watch porn when i masturbate i just use my imagination mostly but eventually that stopped being as thrilling and i think thats a part of why i hate masturbating so much. When i first started masturbating i did it 7 times a day.… | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 03:54 AM |
| 2 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?I don't have any close-friends nor do i have any family members that I'm close to... I've spoken to a therapist about it but all she said was that sex is exaggerated from porn that its all fake (as if i didn't know that) and that its better to distract myself from those urges as much as possible....the therapists solution was to just distract myself instead of address the problem itself. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 01:12 AM |
| 0 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?I'm aware losing my virginity isn't gonna magically solve ALL my problems but what I do know is that(at least i hope it does) is that I'll stop making me masturbate so much once i know what the better alternative is like. But if my first time is good enough I definitely know that after i get past the initial kicking of myself for waiting so long and torturing myself over my insecurity over it I will be more motivated to make up for lost time by talking to more girls. But if my first time is TOO … | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 01:06 AM |
| 4 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?I kinda don't want a long term relationship. I want to get my sexual urges out of my system | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 01:02 AM |
| 2 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?I was speaking from the times when i was rejected twice by too different girls who already knew i was a virgin by saying they'd prefer someone with experience and that stuck with me. I've been taken advantage of before I'd very much not to have that happen again which is why i am paranoid about women. I'm always up for new reading material so I'll check that book out. | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 11:24 PM |
| 4 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?But at the moment I do care, how do I make myself not care when I am actually insecure about whether or not I'll be judged and dismissed for my virginity at my age? | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How important is it to be honest about your age when you're over 25?What if you're not trying to connect with someone on a long term basis but as more of a casual relationship or a hit it and quit it type deal? | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 07:36 PM |
| 1 | How important is it to be honest about your age when you're over 25?Oh yeah I forgot about the clubs being an option....I kinda dismissed those places after I turned 26 since I thought I'd stand out too much because of my age. Also cool story if I was in your shoes and I was trying to get intimate and they resisted I probably would have stopped since I wouldnt know when the girl is really serious or not. | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 08:40 AM |
| 1 | How important is it to be honest about your age when you're over 25?18 and you're 31? That's.....Quite younger than my personal strike zone. I'm personally more into those between the ages of 20 - 28. If you don't mind me asking how did you manage to get the 18 year old in bed? | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 08:30 AM |
| 1 | How important is it to be honest about your age when you're over 25?Yes i have and I'm very aware of how judgemental women are about age IF you're not exactly how they'd expect you to be or they dare to use the "you're too old" escape tactic on you ignoring whether or not your personality matches that....and I'm afraid of being dismissed likr that. | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 07:24 AM |
| 2 | How important is it to be honest about your age when you're over 25?No I wanna date people who won't judge me for my age but at the same time I don't wanna feel like I should only be restricted to women who are my age or older than me hence why I was wondering if maybe it'd be best to lie about that. | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 07:09 AM |
| 3 | When making sexual approaches to a girl is it really better to be indirect more than direct?Any basic tips or easy tells to look out for in a woman exactly in order to study them effectively? | /r/seduction | 18/07/17 06:23 AM |
| 1 | At 30 years old,still a virgin, and no friends how big are my disadvantages?Cheap validation? Naw I just want information on what I'm working against with my disadvantages. Changes I could make? Any changes that'll increase my chances to make more friends and to get laid I'd be all for it. Having sex only feels like a miracle or something extravagant when a person has never had it before. | /r/seduction | 18/07/17 06:18 AM |
| 2 | At 30 years old,still a virgin, and no friends how big are my disadvantages?See a therapist you mean? Sorry already did that and the best they had for me was to distract myself with other activities and that wasn't enough. I'm aware that it MAY not be that special to me but it doesn't change the fact that I personally want to find out for myself on my own terms. Also mostly older women consider virgins sexy at my age. And I've been rejected by women my age or a bit younger because of my virginity. It's not about being a casanova for me, sure after I lose my virginity I'… | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:22 PM |
| 1 | At 30 years old,still a virgin, and no friends how big are my disadvantages?Why do I wanna get laid? Because my sexual desires awakened way late in my life(at 27 when I masturbated for the first time) thus activating my curiosity on sex however my advanced age for what you'd expect someone to have already had sexual experience has also caused me to feel social pressure....Plus I also want to STOP masturbating at the frequency that I do and I feel if I'm aware of the better alternative I won't be as quick to do that anymore. And dude do you have any idea how many people … | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 11:06 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Of course I'd ask questions, I'd really like to change my situation and get started on having a sex life and overcome my lonely lifestyle after all....I just wish people wasn't so quick to judge when I don't respond the way they'd like and I especially wish I had active support/encourage from people in my life but unfortunately I don't have those. Currently with my life being in the lonely depressing funk that it is I don't really have anything I'm passionate about in my life right now. The CLOS… | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 06:36 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?I can blame myself for getting insecure about myself and blame my depression all I want which I did, but I also blame myself for believing that my friends cared enough about me to have my back and be there for my during that crisis. Yes It was my fault for choosing my friends poorly and now I'm paying for that right now. No at my current state in my life I don't think I'm the shit hence why I wanna figure out a way to get my old self back.... | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 05:39 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Distance is fine, but Yeah I resent the ones who decided it's best to just abandon me completely and leave me to my problems instead of show compassionate to reach out and help me. Hence I didn't have enough value for them to want to care. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 05:21 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?If friendships mean you're only friends with someone so long as they're upbeat and happy and then you distance yourself or cut them off when they're not than yes I consider that a betrayal and false friendship. I wasn't really their friends in that case I was just someone to hang out with so long as I'm not a drag. Any friends I have I'd want them to be friends with me as a person baggage and all and NOT just someone who's only allowed to be friends with them so long as I don't have any problems… | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 05:14 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Yes i have no value...which is why all of my friends abandoned me once i started suffering insecurity and depression.... How do you read people well then? How can you read people so well that you can determine whether someone is dangerous or not? How do you read people well enough that you can tell when someone likes you and isn't just trying to get you to believe they do? | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 05:07 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?I've actually been reading pick up books and body language books. Stuff from Neil Strauss for example. What books would you recommend? | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 05:00 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Of course I won't expect sex when I meet someone but I'll definitely have the desire in the back of my head especially if I find the girl attractive. I'm more than capable of just being friends with a woman but only if either I don't fine them sexually attractive or they reject me and me and her are both still willing and able to be friends. Also from my experiences with the group I used to have NOONE was willing to introduce friends to other friends for the purpose of hooking up...everyone had … | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:55 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Book clubs are out of the question since I'm definitely not interested in those kinds of activities. Yoga class I considered actually at one point but I wanted to have a partner to go with so I'd feel less awkward going by myself especially if there really are nothing but women there........and wouldn't it be bad if I were to sign up for a yoga class with the intention on making friends or sexual friends? Comic book conventions are great but they don't come by where I am often enough otherwise I… | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:44 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?I have trust issues due to the fact that people can pretend and be fake really well and act like they're nice and care about one minute but the next they can utterly betray you and dismiss you once you served whatever purpose you had or once you stop serving that purpose. And with how dangerous people in the world are I always have the paranoid idea that any stranger I meet could potentially be someone dangerous that could hurt me. I don't know how to read people well and since I've had poor jud… | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:40 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?So in the end it really is all about being better or superior than some people in some way in other to be accepted.... Also When you're single it just means that anyone who's willing to be accepting of you will get ten times to loyalty treatment due to how long they've been alone. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:32 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Can't help it, I learned people can be dangerous and unpredictable to the point where it could be bad for you. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:32 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?My age is the reason why I'm hesitant on nonchalantly approaching random women at places like the mall or out in public locations.Wouldn't that just make me a creeper? I didn't know about the sidebar material until now I'll make sure to look them over. And when did I ever get angry at people for voicing their views on what my issues are? I certainly don't remember getting angry. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:30 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Hmm my issue with uber to go further out is I'd feel uncomfortable traveling that far with a stranger due to my paranoia of everyone being out to get me. But ideal places with certain types like what exactly? I'm not kidding when I say I'm new at this. | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 08:12 PM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?I wouldn't allow most women to know the kind of life I live since I know how judgemental and dismissive people can be. Yeah I just need to pretend and sell a false image in order to get what I want out of others and I REALLY wanted to avoid having to do that because I'd prefer to not use treachery,manipulation and deceit for it. I have family members that never worked a day in their lives and they were STILL able to casually get sex from a variety of women by lying about their lives and tricking… | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 08:03 PM |
| 2 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?My issues were already acknowledged, which was I'm lonely, have no friends, no car, and I miss being appreciated and loved and I also want to see what sex with a person who is accepting of me is like. But due to my age I no longer have as much time to waste so I'd prefer NOT to do too much of time wasting. No matter what advice you give me as far as "just befriending women" I'm still going to have the desire to want to fuck them as women and individuals. If you wanna be done because I'm not just… | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?There's lots of PLENTY of types out there. You just pick the ones that are the closest and most appealing at the time. Noone is really special when you think about it like that. And I'm sorry regardless I'm still going to want to have sex with girls especially if they're attractive. Now If I don't find the girl attractive from the start then it'd be easier to just be friends with no other intentions. Also I'm 30, a virgin, friendless, No car the only company I have is my dog who is slowly dying,… | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Because I'm loyal, I'm not ugly but unfortunately I'm more cute than handsome and I've been told I am fun to be around but I would have to be comfortable around the person first otherwise I'm very guarded. Common interest would be good for long term relationships(friendships included). Good in bed? Heck no I've never even been in bed with someone before? Once again I'd I have to be comfortable in order for others to be comfortable around me. And there lies the core issue other than what I mentio… | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 07:41 PM |
| 3 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?I actually do care what kind of person I end up befriending, requirements are just lighter when it comes to banging. Banging just requires the girl being sexually attractive from my point of view and someone who actually wants to have sex with me. Befriending requires the girl to just overall be cool, fun,interesting and enthusiastic. And why is it people are always so quick to believe that when a guy expresses interest in just getting laid that they don't see people as humans and individuals? I… | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 06:51 PM |
| 1 | At 30 years old,still a virgin, and no friends how big are my disadvantages?I know what a sexual touch is...I'm not that much of a virgin, I've done my fair share of hanky panky when i was young. | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Should I continue to lie about my virginity to this girl?-_- Tough call. But it's especially odd that a girl would ASK if you're a virgin. Personally I'd just let her know RIGHT before sex is happening and make sure you apologize for the lie from earlier and state it wasn't your intention to be deceitful and that you were afraid she'd judge you if you were a virgin. From that point you will discover just how important your sexual status is to her and discover how much she genuinely likes you. Edit:Oh yeah I forgot to mention if you try to keep up the … | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 06:58 AM |
| 1 | At 30 years old,still a virgin, and no friends how big are my disadvantages?Ah thanks for those suggestions I'll make sure to check the rest of those out as I am currently watching Sasha daygame | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 06:27 AM |
| 1 | At 30 years old,still a virgin, and no friends how big are my disadvantages?Then what do you have to do when you're this advanced in your virginity as i am? | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 06:27 AM |
| 1 | At 30 years old,still a virgin, and no friends how big are my disadvantages?Uh what? | /r/seduction | 15/07/17 12:05 AM |
| 2 | At 30 years old,still a virgin, and no friends how big are my disadvantages?My life itself doesn't suck its just mundane and follows a predictable boring pattern with no excitment what so ever and that sucks the most. I currently already go to the gym but I can't go too far out because presently I don't have a car. | /r/seduction | 15/07/17 12:04 AM |
| 1 | At 30 years old,still a virgin, and no friends how big are my disadvantages?journey meaning what? | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 10:03 PM |
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