I ask because once you hit late twenties and beyond pressure starts to kick it and insecurity over lack of experience especially if you're still a virgin kicks in and the potential to either get desperate or just ultimately give up just increases.

Like you can learn from advice,books, and tips and eventually gain experience from what you learned but it seems more comfortable to do that when you're still fairly young.

Having someone to physically be by you and coach you while actually being there for you however seems like it could be overall the best option either way but due to how apparently difficult it is to encounter legit people like that it doesn't seem as likely.