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| 3 | FR: From Facebook add to F-close in two daysWhy does it really matter if OP "gamed" her or not? He got what he wanted in the end so who cares? Some lays are easier than others. Nice Job OP! | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 07:31 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The importance of just putting yourself out there and not thinking "What if?!" #-closed 2 HB9's with easeI was just myself. They may have been themselves, but apparently the way those guys were isn't what those girls were looking for. I didn't approach them with a cheesy pick-up line, I was just real, I guess. | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 01:29 AM |
| 3 | [FR] The importance of just putting yourself out there and not thinking "What if?!" #-closed 2 HB9's with easeHe ended up meeting up with a girl he knew from college. They left and went back to her place. Needless to say, his night got much better. | /r/seduction | 24/06/13 04:12 PM |
| 6 | [FR] The importance of just putting yourself out there and not thinking "What if?!" #-closed 2 HB9's with easeHonestly man, my only tip is to just do it. I sat at home so many weekends when I first got here and just sulked in my own pity when, instead, I should have gone out. I actually made some friends the past couple of weekends who I go downtown with now. You'd be surprised at how easy it is to make friends when you just put yourself out there. I definitely know your struggle. My best piece of advice is to just go out to a club, go out in the middle and start letting loose. Look at the people around… | /r/seduction | 24/06/13 01:05 AM |
| 5 | [FR] The importance of just putting yourself out there and not thinking "What if?!" #-closed 2 HB9's with easeThink in a positive mindset at all times. Don't approach a girl solely based off of looks. Approach a girl because you want social interaction and because you want to get better at communicating with women. You'll start to notice that you care less and less about things like looks, height, weight, skin color, etc. It's a great feeling man. Cheers! :) | /r/seduction | 24/06/13 12:17 AM |
| 3 | [FR] The importance of just putting yourself out there and not thinking "What if?!" #-closed 2 HB9's with easeThat's all superficial. I used to say stuff like "What if she thinks I'm weird?" "What if she thinks I'm ugly?" Then I finally said to myself, "What if I quit being a fucking loser and let her develop her own opinion of me as opposed to the one I've premeditate din my head." If a girl doesn't want to talk to you all because of your height, is she really worth your time anyways? | /r/seduction | 23/06/13 11:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The importance of just putting yourself out there and not thinking "What if?!" #-closed 2 HB9's with easethanks! | /r/seduction | 23/06/13 10:49 PM |
| 1 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)Cheers, man! | /r/seduction | 31/05/13 04:48 AM |
| 1 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)Everyone has their own mindset and opinion, no offense taken! | /r/seduction | 31/05/13 04:48 AM |
| 0 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)To judge my outlook on life and how I view things simply over an internet post is pathetic. But it's all good. Thanks for reading! :) | /r/seduction | 31/05/13 12:59 AM |
| 1 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)Not necessarily. The main thing I take from it is if you put positive in, you'll get positive out. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 05:22 PM |
| 1 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)I guess we're just at different perspectives on life, fair enough. There has been 0 negativity in my life for almost 6 months. Not that it's any of my business, but have you tried the positivity steps? To me, an outlook like this is something one can't wrap their mind around unless you've experienced it, just like anything else. You can't wrap your mind around something you've never seen or experienced. As hard as it is to believe, achieving 100% positivity is possible! :) | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 03:34 PM |
| 1 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)Glad you enjoyed the read. Here's my suggestions... I think approaching any girl is the same. You think she's a 10 and "out of your league"? So what, why aren't you a 10?! You don't have to do anything different except make eye contact and be genuine in whatever you say. That alone is already different than what most guys would do so you're already a step ahead. I've approached random, gorgeous women with stuff like "Excuse me... I have a very, very serious question." They get so invested. "Suuu… | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 03:29 PM |
| 1 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)Sounds like a badass relationship! Last year at University I literally high fived so many random people on my way to class every day. It's really all about the mindset. Cheers! :) | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 02:46 PM |
| 4 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)Awesome! Have a fan-fucking-tastic day! | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 02:45 PM |
| 2 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)I'm not in denial, though, that's the thing. There's no "for every good, there's a little bad" It's all good. It's all a mindset. There's only negativity in your life if you let it be there, I don't. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 02:44 PM |
| 2 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)What do you not like about the secret? | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 02:42 PM |
| 4 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)It's not only being positive about yourself, it's about being positive about everything. Not complaining because it didn't go your way, but celebrating because the possibilities are endless. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 05:49 AM |
| 4 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)exactly! really the answer to everything. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 05:39 AM |
| 2 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)I also realized that once I realized the grass was truly green on both sides, so to speak, talking to women became so easy. No anxiety even hits me. I literally just strike up conversation with anyone and everyone and it just feels normal. Positivity is a powerful thing! Glad you enjoyed the read. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 03:46 AM |
| 1 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)Cheers! :) | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 03:40 AM |
| 1 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)It really depends man. After I've built a little rapport with a girl, I get a feel for how she is. Sometimes girls say stuff that can lead into it. Example Girl: "You don't seem like 'boyfriend' material" (A common shit test I hear) Me: "Perfect, cause I'm not the 'dating type anyways." It really depends on where the conversation is going. Don't be afraid to just say something about it upfront, though. You shouldn't be criticized for honesty. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 12:38 AM |
| 2 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)Glad I could help. Thanks for reading! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 11:17 PM |
| 3 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)The best part is... it's never too late to change! good luck. cheers! :) | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 11:04 PM |
| 5 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)cheers! :) | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 08:24 PM |
| 8 | The power of positivity and how that alone can have girls coming to you. (Some other tips as well)Glad you can relate. It's amazing how powerful your mind really is. Once you understand that you can have anything you want, life really is great! :) | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 06:39 PM |
| 2 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.I actually just moved to nashville and this seems like an awesome book for me. Meeting people in a new city is actually not as easy as I thought it would be. Happy to back this! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 04:24 PM |
| 42 | You're sitting on your college cafeteria alone and you notice a small group of girls sitting on a table. You don't know them and they don't know you. How you would make an approach to one of them?The cafeteria has been a goldmine for me, seriously. I've written up a couple FRs about it. I used the same line every time. "Is it cool if I sit with you guys?" (or some variation) Never had any girls say "yes, we mind" out of the countless times I did it. Sometimes I number closed, sometimes I just made friends which was never a problem. | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Moved from a college campus to the city. What are some good places for an under 21 year old to meet women?I'm completely cool with day gaming, prefer it actually. Just not sure where to go, necessarily, to do so. | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Going out tonight, alone. I don't drink. I will not know anyone. Any tipps?Ooooorrrr, like most people, they'll start to rely solely on "liquid confidence" and then continue to use it as an excuse to not approach people in everyday interactions. (School, the store, etc.) I feel alcohol is just a barrier for someone to really achieve the complete goal of becoming genuinely confident in yourself and your abilities. | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Going out tonight, alone. I don't drink. I will not know anyone. Any tipps?Shelling out advice that someone should drink in order to feel more comfortable is ridiculous. The whole point of seduction is to become a more confident you. Doing so with alcohol is a crutch. There's nothing wrong with not drinking. I actually prefer gaming sober. Just my two cents. | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Going out tonight, alone. I don't drink. I will not know anyone. Any tipps?All sorts of wrong. Drinking is a crutch. You do not, I repeat, do not have to drink in order to game or have a good time. Biggest fucking excuse/crutch in the world. Hence why so many people can't fucking talk to a girl in day to day interactions because they have to be intoxicated. For fucks sake when will people stop relying on it?! | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 06:20 PM |
| 1 | If you could give 5 tips to anyway about seduction and inner game what would be the 5 highest ones on the listfirst time being back on this sub in a couple months. this is the first post i saw. now i remember why i left this sub in the first place. i agree with you 100% | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Can we talk about safe sex? I've picked up a pack of condoms from planned parenthood...All condoms are reliable if you use and store them properly. Not in a wallet or in your car. 99% of the time condoms break is because people don't know how to properly put them on. All of my freshman year of college I slept with girls using the free condoms given out at our universities health clinic. They're just plain old Trustex one. Used over 20 of them, not one broke and they weren't like a baseball glove on my dick. A lot of people don't even properly know how to put on a condom, thus lead… | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 08:58 PM |
| 11 | What image comes to mind when you read the word "seduction"?Ryan Gosling in Crazy Stupid Love. | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 10:12 PM |
| 1 | What to do if the girl gives IOI's to everybody and uses her flirty personality to people to do favorskick her to the curb. if you know she's jsut using her looks to use people, walk away. there's tons of other HB8's my man. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 02:15 PM |
| 3 | How often do you run into rude or unfriendly people?Don't let it trump your positivity. Still do you. Smile and be friendly back, as hard as that is. All it does is help you stay positive, become more positive, and not let others affect your mood. | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you ever feel haunted about mistakes you've made in the past? Please share.Beginning of this semester, started talking/hanging out with a girl I met here at college. This was my first pick up via using the things I had learned here from Seddit. I tried not to get in too deep, but I was started to genuinely like this girl. That's not a problem, except for when you're vulnerable. She said she felt the same way and then things "miraculously" changed once I didn't do one small favor for her. I guess I don't really regret walking away after that, I mainly just wish I wouldn… | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 09:08 PM |
| 2 | How do you maintain confidence without letting it become arrogance?absolutely love this! | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 06:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How I got laid without even trying. (Lots of pointers and detail inside)The main part of the post is not that I got laid, but body language and a positive attitude. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 09:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How I got laid without even trying. (Lots of pointers and detail inside)Amen! | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 08:27 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Sex with model. All text game.Mad props to you for dodging/dealing with all of them! | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 05:37 PM |
| 56 | [FR] Sex with model. All text game.You weren't shitting about the monstrous amount of shit tests. Lord. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 02:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How I got laid without even trying. (Lots of pointers and detail inside)Good for you, man! Body language speaks so loud. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 12:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How I got laid without even trying. (Lots of pointers and detail inside)This is awesome. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 12:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How I got laid without even trying. (Lots of pointers and detail inside)Cheers, man! I feel the same way. I love approaching, but sometimes it's fun to have things switched up a little bit. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 12:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How I got laid without even trying. (Lots of pointers and detail inside)Totally used protection! | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 01:24 AM |
| 2 | [FR] How I got laid without even trying. (Lots of pointers and detail inside)I don't go to the bathroom just to check my phone, I usually wait till I have to break the seal, when I'm in there I give it a look. :p | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 01:23 AM |
| 2 | [FR] How I got laid without even trying. (Lots of pointers and detail inside)I was implying that "being energetic, fun, carefree, etc." is who I am. Be whoever you are. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 01:23 AM |
| 0 | [FR] How I got laid without even trying. (Lots of pointers and detail inside)Sure! There wasn't much "standing around" with my friends, that's what drew girls in. 95% of the time we were dancing and just having fun. Most guys are going to just stand around unless they have a girl to dance with, not me. You can put off an awesome amount of positive energy by showing you are enjoying yourself. The minimal amount of standing that did happen, I had my hands at my side with my thumbs in my pockets. Normally I would scan the room for girls who make eye contact, if they hold it… | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 08:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How I got laid without even trying. (Lots of pointers and detail inside)That would have been a lot to type up for an april fools joke. :p | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 08:18 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How I got laid without even trying. (Lots of pointers and detail inside)No, I'm saying I want to have a positive reputation like that, but if I don't, I really don't give two fucks. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Full breakdown of my fast paced, honest,and super fun nighttime Game - from opening to open relationshipsReally wish this book was free via e-book. Found a lot of it interested and, though I've heard a lot of it before, you go more in depth and give great examples. Fun read! | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes no response is the best answer!Thank you! The 3 page text contradicted everything she said two days ago which is why I called bullshit. | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes no response is the best answer!It could have been handled more mature, yes, but I feel the best option is this situation (for myself, anyways) was to just drop it, learn, and move on. It wasn't the most mature option, but it feels so good to not have that god awful oneitis feeling that I normally have. That alone makes me smile! | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes no response is the best answer!I'm going to tell her in person. I see her pretty often on campus. | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes no response is the best answer!I realize there are good responses, but I wanted to move on. I'm moving in a couple months anyways. Sorry I didn't go super in depth in my post about my personal life. | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes no response is the best answer!Her text was complete bullshit honestly. I didn't type out what it said but it sure as hell wasn't romance. It was contradicting to everything she said two days ago, haha. | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes no response is the best answer!I'm not playing with her heart. To me, if I respond and she responds again, I'm not going to fully move on. Stupid, I know, but that's the way my body works and I'm getting better at just walking away. | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes no response is the best answer!I did get what I wanted. I walked away when I should have without having oneitis. | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 02:02 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A shot at redemption.I knew that, but I wasn't focused on that, honestly. I was having an awesome time as is! I'm hanging out with her after break, I'll be prepared this time. | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 04:16 AM |
| 7 | [FR] A shot at redemption.Those legs, man, those fucking volleyball player legs! yum | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Got a number last night, only one problem...elaborate on text game. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Got a number last night, only one problem...this actually sounds like an awesome plan! | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Is it really this easy or are most of these [FR]s fake?Notice there aren't tons upon tons of FRs daily. Most people get rejected a lot before they succeed. | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 12:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Friend and I F-Close 2 teachers. Same-night lay.That's what I'm sayin, dayum! | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 05:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "If I was a watermelon, would you swallow or spit out my seed?"I posted to give an update. I wasn't posting for advice. I used these lines as jokes throughout the night. It's not always about getting laid, but it is always about having fun, first and foremost. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 09:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "If I was a watermelon, would you swallow or spit out my seed?"I don't think people are getting the point of doing this. I wasn't trying to get laid, I was having fun. I would never use these lines in a serious manner. People are ridiculous. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 08:09 PM |
| 4 | [FR] "If I was a watermelon, would you swallow or spit out my seed?"It's sad that people think I was being serious. They're jokes, man! | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 04:55 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "If I was a watermelon, would you swallow or spit out my seed?"You obviously didn't read because I clearly said I don't like using pick up lines, I prefer just being real and telling a girl how I feel. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 03:09 PM |
| 18 | [FR] "If I was a watermelon, would you swallow or spit out my seed?"Eye contact and a smile, best combination ever! | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 01:51 AM |
| 3 | [FR] "If I was a watermelon, would you swallow or spit out my seed?"Exactly, you've just gotta be smart with pick up lines. If a girl has heard them before, it's hard to bounce back from it. Unless you're good at on the spot recovery. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 12:47 AM |
| 3 | [FR] "If I was a watermelon, would you swallow or spit out my seed?"Just over the internet and on here. Pretty basic stuff. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 12:37 AM |
| 1 | [FR] "If I was a watermelon, would you swallow or spit out my seed?"Exactly! Go out because you want to go out. Go out because you want to have fun. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Before you do anything else, decide what you want.The worst feeling ever. Live and learn, though. Next time, you'll be prepared. We've all been there! | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 07:53 PM |
| 8 | Before you do anything else, decide what you want.I'm really glad you posted this. I've never actually thought about it like this. And now that I am, I'm not actually sure what I want. Good job! | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Juggling Multiple Girls?Communication. Let these girls know in private that you want nothing more than friend (fuck buddies, whatever) and that you'll keep talking to other girls. | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, be a part of my Friday night!fucking DYING! | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, be a part of my Friday night!Brb, dying of laughter! | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 07:51 PM |
| 5 | Seddit, be a part of my Friday night!My sister is mentally challenged, no thanks! | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, be a part of my Friday night!It's one of those things that can never get preached enough! It doesn't hurt to be constantly reminded. | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, be a part of my Friday night!More people need to preach that on this sub! First and foremost, have fun! | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Seddit, be a part of my Friday night!Using this! | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 04:59 PM |
| 7 | Seddit, be a part of my Friday night!I'm 19 and don't go to bars. My friends having a party. I just straight find girls and do it, regardless of if my friends are in or not. It's all about having fun! | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, be a part of my Friday night!YESSSSS! | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, be a part of my Friday night!Using this, haha! | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Challenge given by a Redditor to open with a ridiculous line. Challenge accepted.Fucking thank you for suggesting this! Too funny! I'm gonna start a thread for this and see what kind of responses I get! | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 02:16 PM |
| 5 | What's the protocol on amusement parksWhat's the question? If you're asking if this is a good time to pick up girls, bet your ass it is! The opportunity to find/see attractive girls is guaranteed. Enjoy yourself, first and foremost, but have some fun meeting some new people and see where it goes! If you do this, it would make for a damn good field report too! Just sayin... | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 01:26 AM |
| 3 | I feel like I never reap the rewards of my hard work.THIS... just... THIS! | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Thought it wouldn't work, surprisingly ended up getting a #CloseTotally! OPs got a lot of leverage to work with here! | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Pointers needed, closing especiallyTake a look at the Word document I typed up for Seddit. I was in your same situation. https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 04:01 PM |
| 1 | The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real!I was waiting for it. Tis alright! :) | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 11:32 PM |
| 3 | The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real!the only thing holding you back is yourself! go for it, man! | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 06:46 PM |
| 3 | The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real!why not right now? you've got nothin' to lose! | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 06:39 PM |
| 2 | The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real!and honest. that's the most important part. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 06:28 PM |
| 1 | The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real!I'm going to start looking for that. That's awesome! | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 05:24 PM |
| 7 | Pointers needed, closing especiallyYou need to come at this with a different approach. Don't worry about getting laid. Worry about having fun and being you. You are awesome. You are a confident, 22 year old male, and you have just as much potential as any other guy. You're unique, you're the only Icevermin in the world. Do you! You can talk, you can walk, you're alive, what more could you ask for? There are tons of awesome, attractive girls just waiting to be approached by you. The ball is in your court. I don't care if you have … | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 04:10 PM |
| 3 | The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real!I'm going to start doing this. Sounds like a good way to build habit. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 04:02 PM |
| 2 | The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real!I was in our university cafeteria (one of my favorite places to approach). There's lots of girls, obviously, and you have good angles to approach. I saw this girl walk in, she was glowing, I knew I had to at least say something. After she had sat down to eat for about 15 minutes, I made my way over. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 03:24 PM |
| 2 | The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real!luckily for you, there are tons of girls out there just waiting for you to approach them. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 06:42 AM |
| 2 | The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real!Stare at her forehead. Stare at her nose. Stare at her mouth. You can look at things around her eyes. Honestly, practice. It's like anything else. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 04:13 AM |
| 2 | The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real!PU is all about taste. It's whatever works for you man. There is no "sure fire" way. Trial and error, man! | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 01:47 AM |
| 1 | The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real!That's exactly how I was. Feels so good to break the mold and just live. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 01:39 AM |
| 6 | The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real!Practice makes perfect! At least you're headed in the right direction. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 01:32 AM |
| 1 | A little advice for those of you struggling with AA/Why openers don't matter.Always glad to help! | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 10:56 PM |
| 5 | So a female friend went on a date with a guy from OKCupid. He hifived her... I couldn't help but laugh.that too! and why is he being a total prick about it and acting like PUA is weird? HE'S ON FUCKING SEDDIT POSTING STUFF i don't get some people... | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 04:53 PM |
| 3 | What is your true ultimate goal in seduction?To find myself. That's what I've achieved through this process. Before I started PU, there were so many things I wanted to do, but cared way too much what others thought. I wasn't being myself. Over Christmas break (almost all of December), I just read up and became very active on this sub. When I got back to University it was time to put it all to use and that's when everything starting going up. From there, it hasn't gone down at all. I've never been this happy every single day. By just learni… | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 04:43 PM |
| 2 | So a female friend went on a date with a guy from OKCupid. He hifived her... I couldn't help but laugh.Exactly, which is why I'm kind of puzzled as to why OP is laughing at this guy. It's easy to point the finger from a distance. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 04:21 PM |
| 2 | First post, I'm a mess a looking for some advice.It's all about how you present yourself when they first meet you, first impressions. I have a friend who I'm trying to help out and you guys sound very similar. Read up on the things on the sidebar (kino, shit tests, etc.) You need to run game on girls you haven't met yet, they don't have a first impression of you yet. You need to put off that you're more interested than friends quick. Be flirtatious. Be keen. Know when a girl is shit testing you. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 03:36 PM |
| 22 | So a female friend went on a date with a guy from OKCupid. He hifived her... I couldn't help but laugh.I don't get why OP is laughing, the guy still got laid... | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 03:34 PM |
| 4 | So a female friend went on a date with a guy from OKCupid. He hifived her... I couldn't help but laugh.sets reddit to homepage with eyes peeled | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 03:32 PM |
| 4 | A little advice for those of you struggling with AA/Why openers don't matter.THIIIIISSSSSS! Nor have I ever woken up and said, "Man, I really wish I wouldn't have approached that girl. I actually learned from the rejection. Damn!" | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 02:37 PM |
| 1 | A little advice for those of you struggling with AA/Why openers don't matter.It's just however you bounce back from her response. I don't feel awkward cause I ask the question and make direct eye contact. After a couple seconds she realizes I was serious. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 02:09 PM |
| 1 | A little advice for those of you struggling with AA/Why openers don't matter.I started out trying to come up with super clever, witty, suave one liners when I first started practicing game. It was recently that I realized openers really don't matter. A girl knows if she's interested in you before you say anything to her. Glad I could help! | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 01:35 PM |
| 1 | A little advice for those of you struggling with AA/Why openers don't matter.Those fucking spoons! | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 01:34 PM |
| 1 | A little advice for those of you struggling with AA/Why openers don't matter.That's awesome, and honestly, that's what it's all about. You don't have to hook up or close with every girl you talk to. Good job! | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 01:33 PM |
| 0 | A little advice for those of you struggling with AA/Why openers don't matter.I'm a college athlete and that's usually my go to. She had a volleyball hoodie on so I proceeded with that and then threw in that I was an athlete. After it was my turn to get my grub, I got her number and told her I'd see her that weekend. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 02:31 AM |
| 7 | A little advice for those of you struggling with AA/Why openers don't matter.i learned from the situations! | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 02:28 AM |
| 2 | A little advice for those of you struggling with AA/Why openers don't matter.what are you doing when you approach to feel shameful? | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 08:37 PM |
| -9 | What early warning signs have you picked up on to avoid "sticking dick in crazy"?...it was a joke. | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 08:29 PM |
| 2 | What early warning signs have you picked up on to avoid "sticking dick in crazy"?OP made it sound like taking a girl home for the night. | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 08:27 PM |
| 9 | What early warning signs have you picked up on to avoid "sticking dick in crazy"?If she brings up marriage at all. | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, do you run game on fat girls?I've seen a lot of very attractive heavier set girls. To me it's all about how they carry themselves, act, dress, etc. There's a fine line between morbidly obese and heavier set/chubby. I run game on any girl who's attractive. Some girls skinny, some thick, some chubby, | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 02:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach, shot down in flamesYou'll keep doing things like this and see gradual improvements and then one time everything will happen so naturally. The one time everything works out makes up for all the awkward rejections. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Creative ways to get a girls number!Cheers! | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 12:00 AM |
| 1 | My most successful approach to date!That is just my opinion. In that case, these two girls had clearly noticed me as I walked passed and going back 30 seconds later didn't work out so hot. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 04:56 PM |
| 1 | I am a bit out of my 'seduction comfort zone' talking to a 30 year old (I am 18). Need advice on responding to "I wish you were 30"Age is just a number (as cliche as that sounds). Take her out and show her that. If you're mature enough, keen and real, she will look past the age barrier. Real talk! | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Phone game with an older woman (early 30s) text or call?Call! Without a doubt call! | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 07:36 PM |
| 1 | The problem with sex as a goal in and of itselfGetting laid by awesome ladies (sometimes at the same time) ALL THE TIME while being awesome (sometimes while shredding guitar) is where you want to be. And boom goes the dynamite! I think Charlie Sheen wrote this with how may times the word "awesome" was used. | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 01:28 AM |
| 9 | Nine Steps To Avoid Neediness and OneitisTL;DR Don't be genuine. Cheat on your girlfriend. Be a douche. This guys advice is mediocre at best. | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 01:19 AM |
| 17 | Nine Steps To Avoid Neediness and OneitisAnd when he said long term relationships are nonexistent because this is the "modern era" we're living in. Sigh... Someone please reassure us that chivalry isn't completely dead. | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 01:18 AM |
| 3 | What causes girls to lose interest so quickly?I know exactly where you're coming from. I was in the same boat not too long ago. After I actually thought about it, I would have been annoyed too. I think too many guys put an image in their head that they're being "the best boyfriend" when really they're being a nuisance. | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 01:29 PM |
| 28 | What causes girls to lose interest so quickly?You've probably left the ball in her court and she knows she can do what she wants and you'll still chase, whereas it should be the other way around. She could have lost interest because you don't seem as interested anymore, she's found something better she likes, or she simply just wants something new. It shouldn't be any offense to you, girls are weird like that. | /r/seduction | 10/02/13 05:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First time going out on Thirsty Thursday which led to f close!Nope! | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 03:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First time going out on Thirsty Thursday which led to f close!Well it wasn't really magical, haha. It was just pretty good sex. I mainly typed this up to give off some pointers. & yes, I do! | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 09:54 PM |
| 3 | What new skills have you picked- up because of seddit? Besides seduction...I've become a more friendly and outgoing person in general. That alone is enough to thank Seddit for. I've also found who I truly am through the things I've learned here if that makes sense. I learned to not care what people think and to have fun. Enjoy your life on a daily basis. I wake up every day and celebrate the fact that I get to do it all over again. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Complete Newbie [FR] first time ever out alone, tips neededPractice, practice, practice. Confidence, confidence, confidence. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 04:12 PM |
| 0 | [FR] My first FR (Friday night club)That's a smart policy to have. If she flakes like that, kick her to the curb. | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Progressing from opening to kissing, help!It's all personal opinion. | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 01:24 AM |
| 0 | Progressing from opening to kissing, help!Ask her if you she wants you to kiss her, if she says "yes" obviously you know the rest. If she says "I don't know" or "Maybe" say "Let's find out and kiss her". If she says "No" say, "I didn't say I wanted to, it just looked like you had something on your mind." Golden. EDIT: Also, look up the "Kino Escalation Ladder". You should be initiating some other things before just going for the kiss. (ie: hand shake > cheek brush > hand squeeze > kiss) Just an example, but there should be other touchin… | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Free eBook (.pdf) that everyone here should read! Very useful/helpful."Power of Now" was a great read! Not a problem! | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Free eBook (.pdf) that everyone here should read! Very useful/helpful.I'm not a pro or PUA by any means, but here's my two cents. Find whatever method works for you. Everyone's style of PU is different. I read books and tips and then put them into practice to see what works best for me personally and then share. It's all trial and error. Try everything out and see what works best for you. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 10:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] What the game is all aboutI was and thank you, I'm glad I could help. That's what it's about. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Free eBook (.pdf) that everyone here should read! Very useful/helpful.He covers that situation later on in the book. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 10:37 PM |
| 16 | [FR] What the game is all aboutI think we all need to be reminded of that. To me PU isn't about "hitting and quitting" or (as much as I hate this term) finding a "slam piece". It's about building a more confident you, living to the fullest and pushing your optimism onto others. Thanks for sharing! | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 05:58 PM |
| 4 | I've just started my journey of self-improvement, and now I'm worried that I might regress. Sedditors, please lend me a hand here.Make her come to you. Take her out with you one night and approach other women, be confident, have fun. If she fights for your attention then make your move. Play your cards accordingly. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 04:55 PM |
| 10 | Free eBook (.pdf) that everyone here should read! Very useful/helpful.I didn't write it, I'm just a reader. :) I agree! | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Free eBook (.pdf) that everyone here should read! Very useful/helpful.That's also the first thing I picked up on as well. I realized I was looking for the wrong signs as well. It's crazy how little things like that can play a big part in the fun you'll have that night. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Free eBook (.pdf) that everyone here should read! Very useful/helpful.That's how I was. My pleasure! | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Free eBook (.pdf) that everyone here should read! Very useful/helpful.If you click the link it takes you to the .pdf. You don't even have to download it. You can read it online. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't anyone see the PUA industry the way it actually is... An industry made to take your money...I haven't had any threesomes, but I have had a few one night stands since coming to the sub and learning. Given, I am pretty new to PU. Honestly, without the stuff I've been taught here I would still be a pathetic chump who couldn't even approach girls. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't anyone see the PUA industry the way it actually is... An industry made to take your money...Not everyone here goes out and "buys PUA DVDs" or spends really any money at all. I look to this sub with the honor system. I like to think that the people here are real in their stories and posts. I haven't spent a dime on anything pick-up related, but I've gained a ton of knowledge, confidence and hope by just reading what people post here. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 03:30 PM |
| 4 | She told me she doesn't like kissing so I don't know how to escalate things between us.Sounds like she was shitting you (possibly a shit test?). I haven't been with hundreds of girls or anything, but I've kissed quite a few and never came across one who said she "didn't enjoy kissing". Sounds like an excuse or she's just not attracted to you. Don't let it put a damper on your game though! It's one girl. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 03:06 PM |
| 11 | Seddit, what do you say after a girl says "no"?I just tell them "Fair enough, it was nice meeting you, though!" and move on to the next set. If you show you have confidence and her rejection didn't dent that confidence, then in the end, you're on top. Confidence is the ultimate attraction factor. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Advice for (my) College Parties. Thoughts?Like BeatBoxing_Abe said, just approach and be confident. Introduce yourself to strangers (as your the host and that's polite but it's also an excuse for an easy opener). Mingle with everyone, not just the girls. Carry yourself upright, smile, and just look like you're having and ready to have a good time. People will notice, especially if you're making your way around meeting everyone. I did this for the first time (talked about it in my last FR) a little while back and it was a complete shocke… | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 05:03 PM |
| 2 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...Just start talking to more girls ASAP. That's the quickest and best way to move on. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 01:47 AM |
| 6 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...Ryanae hit the nail on the head. Confidence > Looks Don't let it get to you, girls can be major bitches. | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 10:56 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Threesome... enough said.The fact that you used Arrested Development in this whole thing makes me super happy. | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 04:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Epic shit test and the value of composureI'm from Atlanta too and completely agree. If she was legitimately lost there and it was night I'd completely cave. | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 04:18 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Epic shit test and the value of composureJust reading this made me smile and feel confident. Nice work! This is something all AFC's should read and practice. | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Games to Play on a First Date? Maybe with some Kino?Pure fucking genius! Good way to initiate kino to without coming off as a creep. | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 12:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Cause JihadDerp is so much better. This coming from the guy who's arguing over the internet. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 11:27 PM |
| 5 | [FR] OKcupid, txt game, 3 dates back to back, F close, no alcohol. Recovering AFC here starting FWB.Sounds like a pretty good time. I'll be interested to hear if anything else happens. Keep us updated! | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 09:14 PM |
| 7 | I feel the need to apologize for womenThis comment made me really happy. Hopefully this gets read because it's the truth. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 08:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First night out in a while, got obliterated, but that's okay.Don't look at it as "I won't have a worse night than this" look at it as "I will improve and learn from this". This will help boost your confidence, self image, and you're overall game. You know what you did wrong, so advance off of that. Practice makes perfect. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 07:14 PM |
| 1 | "women want men that other women want"; a practical to-do listRight, good to know though. This was one of those things I had always wondered about. Wasn't sure if it was a good thing to do or a "trashy"/douche thing to do. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 04:40 PM |
| 8 | "women want men that other women want"; a practical to-do listI feel like I hold myself back when I'm "talking" to a girl because I feel that since we're "talking" all my focus should be on her. Things quickly die off and now I see why. Definitely going to start incorporating this stuff more/quit being stupid. Also, is the social networking idea really a good one? | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 03:44 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Ahh, I did forget to put that link in there. I'm really sorry. There was a link to a video where Nina Hartley showed how to properly finger a girl. Check it out. (It's all over /r/sex) It's pretty long but it's very informative. Once again, sorry I left that out. I rewrote the document for an easier read which took quite awhile. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 03:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)That's not what the last 5 to 10 girls I've gotten numbers from have thought. Quit wasting your time with hate comments and go pick up some girls. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Creative ways to get a girls number!I was thinking having her write it down. I haven't used this yet, but I want to. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Creative ways to get a girls number!You can simply ask, as tons of people are saying, and I even stated in the post. I just like being creative sometimes. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 02:56 PM |
| -1 | Creative ways to get a girls number!You could do the same to her? | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 03:41 AM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx I posted it yesterday as well, but there it is! Enjoy! | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 03:41 AM |
| 0 | Creative ways to get a girls number!You don't have to rely on it forever. It's just fun to do, man. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 03:01 AM |
| -1 | Creative ways to get a girls number!Everyone has their opinion. I've had perfectly fine results. Yeah, it won't lead to anything if you're a loser and can't initiate further plans/conversation. You're saying if you use a creative way to get a girls number you wont make any progress. You sir, are "corrupting the noobies". | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 02:49 AM |
| 4 | Creative ways to get a girls number!Glad you agree! I love new ideas. Hopefully next time you can use this technique. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 02:04 AM |
| 6 | Texting to Phone TransitionAfter I get a girls number, I call within 24 hours to make plans for a date. It's a lot harder to flake through a phone call than a text. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 12:07 AM |
| 0 | Creative ways to get a girls number!I always love stuff like that. Kinda like the "heads I win, tails you lose" quote. I may try this too. Little hesitant, but I'm always game for new stuff. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 12:00 AM |
| 15 | Creative ways to get a girls number!That's a little more extreme than drawing twelve lines, dude. It's about having fun, damn dude. If you're that set on not using this method, don't fucking use it. Some people want to! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 11:34 PM |
| -2 | Creative ways to get a girls number!I/we realize that you can just simply ask and get good results, the whole point is some people like being creative. That's the whole point of this post. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Creative ways to get a girls number!It's about having fun to me. I like being creative and having fun with it. Everyone has their own style. It's worked for me so far and gotten me pretty far so I'm not going to stop. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 10:31 PM |
| 71 | Creative ways to get a girls number!Some people like to have fun and be creative when getting numbers. Creativity isn't a bad thing. The title says it all, creative ways to get numbers. If you don't want to be creative, don't use these methods. I was just sharing. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 10:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Not a problem! Cheers! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 10:15 PM |
| 6 | Creative ways to get a girls number!That's where the rest of your skill comes into play. This is simply for getting a girls number, which a lot of people here struggle with. A lot of mine have led to great success. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 10:15 PM |
| -1 | Creative ways to get a girls number!That's a good one too. Jotted it in my notes. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 10:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I know it can be a killer for some people, in the moment it was awesome though. However, we are still good friends and I found out if she was clean or not beforehand. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Creative ways to get a girls number!I'm just all about different approaches. New approaches and techniques keep my drive up to try and get numbers because I'm excited to see the results. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Creative ways to get a girls number!I actually like that quite a bit. Jotted it to memory and I'm gonna give it a try. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 10:11 PM |
| 5 | Creative ways to get a girls number!I'll keep an eye out. Remember, have fun! Good luck! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 08:09 PM |
| 12 | Creative ways to get a girls number!there ya go! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Creative ways to get a girls number!I don't look at it that way. Creativity shouldn't be something you're ashamed of. You're still asking for her number, just in a different manor. It's all about opinion. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 06:45 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Yessir, it's compiled from everywhere. Glad I could help out. Good luck to you, too! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 06:38 PM |
| 6 | Creative ways to get a girls number!I feel that if you're on this sub frequently you are not a PUA, you are an AFC looking for pointers. When we start getting better, we share what tips and tricks we used to get better, which is what I'm doing. It's really that hard for you to draw 12 small little lines a couple times a night? I've never aimed to get 20 numbers a night, that's a little excessive in my book. It doesn't show you can't out right ask for the number, it shows you're creative. I've straight out asked for numbers, which … | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 06:33 PM |
| 7 | Creative ways to get a girls number!It works man, it's crazy. Especially if you are talking about hobbies and you tell her you're into drawing then ask to draw her a picture. I do it every time and I'm not even into drawing, really. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 06:16 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)My pleasure! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 05:58 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)That's an awesome way to think of it. jots down: Parties are like a playground You should write up an FR about your adventure! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 05:58 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Thanks, I really appreciate it. I need another read actually. Rejection is miniscule. The one f close with that HB9 will make the hundreds of rejections leading up to it all worth it. Everyone gets rejected at some point. It's life. I don't let it get to me. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 05:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I realize you should always practice safe sex. That was a mistake I made that night. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 05:38 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Here's my main thing: Don't use alcohol as a crutch. If you start off with it, you'll always depends on it and use it as an excuse. You don't want that. After reading Neil Strauss' "The Game", I realized looks really don't matter. They do, but not as much as guys give them credit for. Neil Strauss was not the most attractive man, neither was his mentor, Mystery. It was the way they presented themselves and came off to the women they picked up. If you haven't read the book, I highly suggest it. I… | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 05:29 PM |
| 1 | The link to the Word Document people were asking for in my last FR. Enjoy!It's crazy how so many people relate in this sub. I know exactly where you're coming from. I battled (and still battle) the issue of self image and confidence. You MUST go out of your comfort zone in order to build true confidence. When you go out of your comfort zone and see how it works and see results, that will spur your confidence AND your self image! Good luck! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 04:53 PM |
| 3 | I have studied, read, and prepared. Tomorrow it's put to use.Don't over think it man. Just be you, ask her. If she says no, don't sweat it or let it ruin your weekend! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 04:49 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Some things that might really help boost your self confiedence and image: Start going to the gym Find out what your hobbies are and actively participate in those activities. Start thinking positive about everything. Know that you're unique. There is no other v1000 out there. You're special man, let people know that. Start approaching everyone. Not just girls. This really helped my confidence because now I don't approach girls with the mindset of "Oh no, its a girl, I have to make a good impressi… | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 04:43 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I'm a sprinter and long jumper! sighs out of jealousy I wish I was a weight thrower. :p | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Advice for a beginner going to community college?It starts with interacting with everyone, not just girls you're interested in. I talk to everyone I see in public, give random people high fives, etc. This line works: "Hey, you're really gorgeous and I was wondering if I could get your number?" Make eye contact, if she looks away, still maintain it. It sounds crazy, but you'd be surprised how crazy it works! Try it sometime. I also shared my word document last night for people. Read it/download it if you want. https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1y… | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 02:12 PM |
| 1 | The link to the Word Document people were asking for in my last FR. Enjoy!Hit the nail on the head, sir! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:32 PM |
| 1 | The link to the Word Document people were asking for in my last FR. Enjoy!thank the users of seddit, honestly! i'm just trying to give back for all the help they've given me! :) | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:31 PM |
| 1 | The link to the Word Document people were asking for in my last FR. Enjoy!Thanks, and not a problem! Always nice to help out! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Haha, cheers! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:28 PM |
| 2 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Your loss! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:28 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I have a class with her, I see her in the training room and weight room a bit, and I see her when I'm grabbing food every now and then. I talked to her when I was grabbing grub for the first time, but talked to her in class for the gist of things. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:28 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:26 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Haha, this one night in exchange for the hundreds of rejections and turn downs. I'm not master, just trying hard! Good luck! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 04:23 AM |
| 5 | So sick of being an AFC. Hello /r/seductionJust recently shared a word document I typed up that I constantly add to and read before I go out. We're all strugglin' man, hang in there. If you're interested, here's the word doc. https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 03:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Glad I could help. Don't thank me, thank Seddit. Do you, man! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 03:17 AM |
| 2 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Not a problem! Glad I could help! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 03:08 AM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I'm not better than you my man! Just had more practice. Glad I could help out. Try reading Neil Strauss' "The Game". I hate reading, but it was an awesome and fun read. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 03:06 AM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:56 AM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I woosh! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:56 AM |
| 2 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:47 AM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Believe what you want. Not here to give a good story. I'm here to help others out. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:10 AM |
| 2 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:10 AM |
| 2 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)https://www.dropbox.com/s/f16gtb1yxdkacqp/Tips%20to%20Improving%20Your%20Game.docx | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:10 AM |
| 2 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)This is the same FR that I posted before. It's the same girl and same experience, but that one didn't post for everyone to see for some reason so I reupped with more fine detail. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 01:10 AM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Thanks, man! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 12:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Ahh, thanks! :) | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 12:27 AM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I know, I don't know what I was thinking. Definitely goofed big time. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 11:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I know your pains, haha. If a bed is an option, that's always preferred in my book. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 11:24 PM |
| 2 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Confidence, in my opinion, is more than just not feeling shy/anxious/scared. I think confidence is when you feel good in your element. If your element watching a movie with a girl one and one and you feel uncomfortable at parties, don't go to parties to try and find girls. If you want to up your game at parties, start going to them just to get the feel for them and develop a sense of comfort in that environment. I'm not a pro by any means and I wish I had the perfect answer to your question, but… | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 11:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Haha, I've moved passed the Neon. Couldn't do it anymore. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 11:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I shall do that! Thanks! | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 11:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Yeah, I tried posting that and the other FR together and it didn't work too well (at least it didn't show up under the "new" tab when I posted it). You're free to believe what you want, but I took about 45 minutes to write this post. That's a long time to just "make something up". But believe what you want. :) | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 11:17 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I'm no more awesome than you, man! I just took this stuff to heart and had many wake up calls before I just made the changes. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 11:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Doing so in a little bit! Making it tidy and neat and adding some more personal tips. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 11:14 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)No sir! I'm upping it in a little bit. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 11:13 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I'm a song writing major! :p Good luck! | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 11:13 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Upping it tonight after I make revisions and add some key points/tidy it up! | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I wish! | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:31 PM |
| 4 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Good! I'm going to up the word document later if you want it. Don't be shy. Walk in confident and collected. Smile. Stand up straight and just start conversations and meet people. People will notice and the girls will be asking who you are. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:31 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Good deal, man! That's what it's about. Once you stop caring and just doing you, people recognize. You'd be surprised how many people aren't themselves to try and win people over. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:30 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Upping it tonight after I tidy it up and add some more key points I've learned. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:29 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I'm glad! Just be you and do you. I got sick of being just another face in the crowd every weekend thinking everything was going to just come my way. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:29 PM |
| 4 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I didn't have the right mindset though. I was more worried about not being the "coolest motherfucker" that everyone liked and I had zero game. Seddit helped me overcome that. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:28 PM |
| 7 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Very uncomfortable. Led to many back problems. Often opened both doors so my feet could dangle out and my head wasn't scrunched. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:27 PM |
| 2 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)No, that was a different FR. This was in response to the post entitled "How to Put Out the Right Vibe (Somewhat of an FR)". This was experience was prior to the girl I met at the track meet. If this wouldn't have happened I would have never had that experience. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:26 PM |
| 2 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Yessir! I'm cleaning it up (labeling things better, adding some more tips, and making it look nice) and then I will upload. How and where do I upload it at? (Sorry, never upped a word doc before.) | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I think I got to a point where I was sick of going out and just being another face in the crowd honestly. I thought girls were just going to "fall in my lap" so to speak. After countless weekends of that, you get sick of it and try new things, thus I did and I'm not worried about AA or approaching anymore. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:23 PM |
| 0 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I'll be sure to do that! | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 07:04 PM |
| 34 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)We're actually really good friends now, she's clean. I didn't throw in all those details simply cause I figured it took away focus of the post. I was sure to find out if she was clean or not beforehand. Good point though. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 07:03 PM |
| 24 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Yessir. When I first started reading stuff here, I would find really awesome shit tests, openers, approaching styles, etc, but then I would forget them so I just made a word document that I read over before I go out. Some of these we're my original thoughts, some from Neil Strauss' "The Game" and some credited the users of Seddit. (Sorry, I should have kept track of usernames to give proper credit.) Shit tests: Her: "Do you do this to every girl?" You: "Totally, you're just the only one silly en… | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 07:00 PM |
| 13 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)For someone who suffered from really bad AA and just being outgoing in general, it was a pretty big success for me. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 06:41 PM |
| 5 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)That sounds so awesome! The Oreos and Nutella make that sound so much more awesome! | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 06:29 PM |
| 4 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)It went better than I expected as well. We're actually pretty good friends now and, like I said, still have sex times every now and then. It was one of the greatest nights of, not only my college life, but life as a whole. The Weeknd is baby makin' music. Try it out, man! | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 06:17 PM |
| 2 | My transformation. Thank you Seddit.It really does. I love it. The people here know exactly what you're going through, too. That makes it a lot easier to give advice and take advice seriously. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 04:49 PM |
| 3 | My transformation. Thank you Seddit.I tried to post the update and for some reason it didn't pop up on the "new" list. It went awesome. Me and the second girl (one who I didn't get laid by the first night), are having sexy times every so often and seeing where things go. Turned out to be the wildest night of my life that following weekend. I'll write up a FR for it later today in my spare time. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Valuable piece of advice to getting laid.Very true. It was becoming a problem with me, not only time wise, but on my actual game. I was content with masturbation, yet wondered why I couldn't get laid. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 04:46 PM |
| 0 | Can any girl be seduced?Every girl (other than asexual's) want sex. Period. So, yes, it depends on how well you work your magic and play your cards. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Valuable piece of advice to getting laid.I wouldn't say I was addicted. I was getting there though. I also wasn't basing it only on quitting fapping. Before I stopped, my urge to really get laid wasn't that high because I was getting content with masturbating and porn. When I stopped and actually really tried to find a girl and didn't get to get off until I found one, that's when it became super easy because my sex drive was so high. Like I said, this really just worked for me and it really doesn't hurt to try. Worst comes to worst, yo… | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 01:35 AM |
| 17 | My transformation. Thank you Seddit.I know the feeling. Started reading Seddit back in December and told myself my New Years Resolution (which I never do) was to get laid by the end of January. January marked one year for me. Sure enough, after putting the work in that I read and just nutting up and talking to girls, two weeks into January I got laid by a HB9. Still doing my thing with her as well. Seddit, you guys are awesome. Rebuilding peoples confidence/game, one reader at a time. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 11:28 PM |
| 1 | How do/did you guys kick oneitis to the curb for good?Very true! The more I've thought about it and the more responses I get, the more I start to actually realize it. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 11:22 PM |
| 2 | How do/did you guys kick oneitis to the curb for good?I think this is honestly how I need to look at it. This is a really good way to look at it, actually. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 07:00 PM |
| 16 | What do you do when she asks, "Do you do this often?"Good shit tests. "Do you do this often?" "All the time, but you're the only one silly enough to fall for it so far." | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Making a date clearBe up front. Initiate a little kino after a little while in and see her response. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 02:07 PM |
| 1 | How do/did you guys kick oneitis to the curb for good?Very wise words. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 02:05 PM |
| 1 | How do/did you guys kick oneitis to the curb for good?This is what I'm starting to get a better grasp on. I often forget how much I actually love the thrill of approaching new girls and the chase chase. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 02:05 PM |
| 1 | How do/did you guys kick oneitis to the curb for good?This actually really helped. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 06:44 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Text game review. Advice needed!The line about chess has me cracking up, that shit was great! I'll be using that sometime! | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Be Sober!I'm not sure which username is funnier, yours or his. "Hi, yeah, I've got this slightly used pocket pussy and it can be yours for two brief payments of $19.95" | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 04:51 AM |
| 1 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.Ask her if she wants to cuddle cause it's cold. Just grab her hand and hold hands. If a girl wants to watch a movie, chances are she's cool with one of those two things. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 04:22 PM |
| 1 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.Exactly! Nice work. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 05:37 AM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.The Shining. Jack Nicholson killed the role of being a psycho. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 05:36 AM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.It's perfect for college. Especially on a school night if you both live on campus. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 12:47 AM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.Who said you have to touch her? Some people cant even muster up an idea on how to hang out with a girl. This is an easy way to hang out with a girl for the first time and do something simple to break the ice. Taking it to the next level is all based off of your actions. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 12:47 AM |
| 1 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.I completely agree. Such a great performance and DVD. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 12:46 AM |
| 1 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.That's why I really love the movie idea. Everyone loves movies. I think instruments would be awesome! | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 12:18 AM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.It's whatever you prefer. I prefer movies and don't really care if it's been seen or not, girls aren't dumb. They know what "watching a movie" means. Having a huge selection just gets her interested as opposed to "hey, come over. i have a couple movies we could watch." | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 12:12 AM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.It can be whatever you're into. I jsut so happen to collect movies so it works out for me. It can be whatever. Video games, concerts, musical instruments, anything you collect or are really into. I feel like anymore, people overlook what is chivalrous and basic. Anything you can use to interest her and get her back to your place. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 12:10 AM |
| 1 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.Cheers! The main point, use whatever you have at your convenience. Dvds happen to be mine (and apparently yours too). | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 11:49 PM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.It's not the idea of "hey, i have a shit ton of movies. come over and watch them." I see so many fucking posts on here about people not knowing how to make plans with a girl, not knowing what to talk about, not knowing what to do at your own place, etc. It's the simple things people look over. I'm letting people know how easy it is with whatever you have at your convenience. Movies happen to be my convenience, I collect them so it works well for me. You'd be surprised how many people overlook th… | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 11:41 PM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.Is that really what matters? Haha. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 11:08 PM |
| 1 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.Yup! I just collect DVDs and started long before Netflix. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 11:08 PM |
| 1 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.Here's an example. Guy: "What do you like to do in your free time?" Girl: "Well, I play softball and I love to shop. What about you?" Guy: "That's cool. I really like running and watching movies. I probably have over 300 DVDs. Haha." Girl: "Holy shit, are you serious?!" Guy: "Dead serious, haha. You should come over sometime and we could watch one. That is if I can pencil you in. ;)" (a little joke to lighten the request and make her laugh.) Girl: "We could probably do that sometime!" That's jus… | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 11:07 PM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.I agree. So do I. You can still get a VHS player as well. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 11:03 PM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.Depends what genre and what I think will entice her. I have things like A Walk To Remember (every girl loves that movie), all the Star Wars and Harry Potters (many girls are into those and they're long so that gives you more time), The original Halloween 1 and 2, She's Out of My League, The Shining. My personal favorites: The Shining, Dumb and Dumber, Waynes World, Beverly Hills Ninja, Goodfellas, One Flew Over the Cuckoos Nest, all the Batman movies. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 11:03 PM |
| 1 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.That's what I was getting at. It's a great piece to get a girl to come over. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 11:00 PM |
| 17 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.Well, I have a shit ton of VHS too if that helps. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 07:59 PM |
| 1 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.It really works. Bring up that you have a lot of movies in casual conversation and I bet she'll be wanting to come over and check them out. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 07:59 PM |
| 4 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.Not me. :) | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 07:58 PM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.I guess I should have worded it differently. I was just saying a lot of people post here on /r/seduction saying they dont know what to do with a girl when they hang out and this was just my opinion. The fact that I have lots of movies is my go to and it works for me. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 07:07 PM |
| 4 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.I pay nowhere near that much for mine. Like i said, I've been collecting for years. I get a lot of movies off eBay for 2 to 3 bucks. I love movies and love collecting them. Just bring up the fact that you have Netflix in natural conversation and see where it goes. The idea is it intrigues girls because you have a big selection. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 07:04 PM |
| 5 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.I live in the dorms at my college so there's no couch, just my bed. I always playfully tell her, "You can just lay on the floor since I don't have a couch." Something along those lines, throwing in a laugh and a smile. Before people say I'm being a dick, they know I'm kidding and end up sitting on my bed. I look for some IOIs and after I've seen a couple I just ask her if she wants to cuddle. Most girls arent going to say no to that if they're cool sitting in bed with you. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 07:02 PM |
| 5 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.My advice is not to go out and blow a bunch of money on movies. I genuinely love DVDs, I didn't start collecting to get girls. Being creative is key. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 06:59 PM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.No, my advice is to be creative. Simple things like DVDs can be easy entertainment and perfect setups. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 06:57 PM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.I have. Pretty funny! | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 05:33 PM |
| 4 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.No, that's not my point at all. I was simply saying so many people post on here saying things along the lines of "I have a girl who I want to hang out with, dont know what to do, blah blah blah!" Having a wide array of DVDs catches a girls interest, that was my point. Everyone loves movies. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 05:32 PM |
| 6 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.That's not the point. The point is it's a convenience. I didn't start collecting DVDs to pick up girls. I genuinely have a love for film and movies. I watch my collection on a daily basis. The idea is it's a super easy way to intrigue a girl. I'm posting to show that simple things like that can work. Also, I've put nowhere near thousands of dollars into my collection. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 05:30 PM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.It really does. It doesnt even matter if you want to watch the movie either. It just ropes her in and entices her interest. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 05:28 PM |
| 28 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.YES! Forgot to throw that in. I pulled the "my TVs broken" line once and used my laptop so she'd sit on my bed. Best decision ever! | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 03:44 PM |
| 5 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.Thus you caught my point, good sir! Everyone loves movies, and even if you aren't interested in watching one, its a good excuse for leading to sexy times. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 02:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A weekend to remember (and learn from). Detailed report!Thanks, man! | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 01:08 AM |
| 3 | [FR] A weekend to remember (and learn from). Detailed report!She claims to have seen me in the weight room and thought I was (in her words) "super cute". | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 01:08 AM |
| 3 | [FR] A weekend to remember (and learn from). Detailed report!I actually don't initiate kino right off the bat unless I'm a little drunk. I try and wait for some IOIs so I'm more confident. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 01:07 AM |
| 7 | [FR] A weekend to remember (and learn from). Detailed report!I'm an english major if it adds any legitimacy. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 01:07 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A weekend to remember (and learn from). Detailed report!Do it man. I failed to mention the handful of rejections I got before this night. Just be yourself, and don't let rejections get you down. Take it as a joke and have fun. Good luck, man! | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 07:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I put out the right vibe? [Somewhat of a FR]I actually just got ready to write up an update. It's pretty much turned into a fun time for both of us. I just got back from staying the night with her. Needless to say, everything turned out awesome! | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 04:33 PM |
| 3 | I shut down in parties + trouble escalatingPossibly some of the worst points of advice I've heard on this sub. | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 04:47 AM |
| 3 | I shut down in parties + trouble escalatingGood points. I personally like this response to "no" myself. If she says no say "I didn't say I wanted to, it just looked like you had something on your mind." BINGO! | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 04:43 AM |
| 3 | I shut down in parties + trouble escalatingThe guys you see going around getting the make outs, I guarantee they are in the same boat as you. At least feelings wise. The reason they're getting the make outs is because they have confidence. Be confident in yourself. Worry about the present when you're talking and approaching. Thinking about an F-close is just going to make you more nervous. Take it one step at a time. After you've attracted her attention, look for IOI's (indicators of interest). After you've seen a couple, ask her to talk… | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 05:55 PM |
| -5 | I shut down in parties + trouble escalatingThis! Totally this. | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Wouldn't know what to do with a girl...don't know what to do with myself.Very, very wise pointer here! | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 05:46 PM |
| 2 | How do I put out the right vibe? [Somewhat of a FR]haha, to each his own. well see how things go! (plans actually got moved to tonight) Shibby! | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I put out the right vibe? [Somewhat of a FR]I like that! That actually will work well since I'm in my dorm and the only place to sit/lay down is my bed or the floor (which would you pick?). Thanks! | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 05:49 PM |
| 3 | [FR] "I thought I was going to hook up with a girl tonight." 2 weeks after I started reading seddit, I charmed the whole party and left with a new FWB. Complete with links to everything I used that night.I seriously just love everything about this FR. From the beginning to literally the end points. You played the night perfectly, even if you had some Instant Pimp in your system. | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 04:07 AM |
| -16 | [FR] "I thought I was going to hook up with a girl tonight." 2 weeks after I started reading seddit, I charmed the whole party and left with a new FWB. Complete with links to everything I used that night.i know, right?! | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 03:54 AM |
| 30 | Wouldn't know what to do with a girl...don't know what to do with myself.Change your mindset. Thats the first step. If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting. Whats wrong with dinner and a movie? Our society has completely abandoned anything chivalrous it seems like and deemed it "lame" or "boring". Approach random girls. That's your best bet. Be alpha. Even if you dont feel alpha, tell yourself you are. This will boost your confidence and kill your anxiety a little. Approach, tell her how pretty you think she is while making eye co… | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 02:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Second Time Clubbing, mistakes made, advice needed...Its a pretty interesting read. Some of the stuff seems totally fucking crazy/stupid but for some reason it works. I will say that after reading that I understand why girls go for the assholes. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 05:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Second Time Clubbing, mistakes made, advice needed...I recently just read through Neil Strauss' "The Game" and your situation literally reminds me a lot of that. Notice, it's a book about the art of seduction and I was reading it. I'm facing the same problems you are. I actually got a lot out of the book and here's my advice: Learn to approach girls with the intent of becoming friends, not sex partners. This will really loosen up that AA and make you feel more comfortable in general. He states that when he was being taught how to approach women, t… | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 04:37 AM |
| 3 | I suck at the art of conversation. Tips/Advice?I'm not the best with conversation or approaching women either, but a couple of things I have found to work well. To spark conversation, ask her some questions about herself. Girls love talking about themselves. Don't rant off a huge list of questions in a row, it's not 20Q. Ask her something about herself and express interest in her response and work off of that. Try "NOUNING". This is the process of breaking down a girls response and picking out the nouns of her response and working off of the… | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 03:51 AM |
| 0 | [FR] "If i didn't have a boyfriend i would have sex with you right here on the dancefloor"I still wouldn't want my girlfriend "cuddling" in bed with another guy, ha. | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Mathematics of SeductionI was never good at math... | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 04:39 AM |
| 3 | [FR] "If i didn't have a boyfriend i would have sex with you right here on the dancefloor"She has a boyfriend so you don't want to step over the line and fuck her... but you'll sleep in the same bed? haha | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Logistics Question: How to F-Close when visiting home town from college and staying at parents' house?I'll always stand by the car idea. It's always been a go to for me. Since sophomore year in high school and you know it's never going to fall through. This was one of the few perks of living out in BFE. Go out in your car, down a country road, back road, whatever. Pull into a field entrance or side of the road. Let the fun begin! | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 04:13 AM |
| -1 | A tip for whenever girls say "You're not my type."I will be using a couple of these. Haha. | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Help making the move.Whoops, thanks for the advice. Rookie mistake! | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 12:33 AM |
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