I was chillin' with some friends in the library last night doing homework and a buddy of mine got a text from a friend in another fraternity. We got invited to come over to their house for Thirsty Thursday. I wasn't completely opposed, but I also wasn't jumping at the idea either. I don't really like going out on weeknights, grades are pretty important to me and I already have plans this weekend. I told him I was game to go, but I wasn't drinking. I figured this would be a perfect time to hone in my my PU skills.

We showed up around midnight and to my surprise it was actually pretty packed compared to what I thought it would be. I'd say around 60 - 70 people. I guess we didn't catch the memo that it was a "sports related" costume party. I told my two friends I was with that when we arrived we had to walk in with confidence and big ass smiles on our faces. If you read my last FR, you'll know why I think that's so important now.

We got out and walked up to the porch where probably 5 to 10 people were having some smokes and shooting the breeze. I introduced myself to all of them, confident as can be and you could see the look of pure shock on all their faces. We proceeded to go inside and that's when we realized we didn't catch the sports attire memo. This actually played into out hands really well. We stuck out from everyone else because we just had on street clothes.

We made our way through the kitchen area and into the living room where everyone was dancing. I immediately spotted my target, but I was resorting back to my chump ways. I looked like a bitch, honestly. I pussy fotted around for probably 5 - 10 minutes waiting for my buddy to spot his target and then I just said fuck it. My target was wearing a Pacers shirt so I simply approached her and said, "A Pacers fan?!" she smiled and said, "Hell yeah!" and she turned around to show me Tyler Hansbroughs name on the back. We continued to talk about sports and I introduced myself and she reciprocated. I shook hands with her and started a couple shit tests/role palying. Once she left go of my hand I shook it like she had a monstrous grip and asked her if she worked construction. She laughed, gave me a friendly hit and said, "Shut up!!!". Thus, the kino began. She was a little intoxicated but not terrible so I didn't feel bad about advancing.

I kept shitting around with her throughout the whole night. A little into conversation I asked her if she even remembered my name and she replied with the same question. It was obvious we had forgotten each others names so I pulled out my phone and opened up a new contact and handed her the phone and said, "Give me your number, then I won't have to worry about forgetting your name anymore" and that's when my confidence shot back up.

We danced together the whole night. After about a half hour of dancing and grabbed the back of her neck, pulled her in and said, "My girlfriend would kill me right now!" I used this the last time I went out too and the look on a girls face is priceless. After making her sweat it for about 5 seconds I yelled, "Psych!" Pretty douche-y, I know, but again, it made her laugh which is never a bad thing.

It was almost 2 in the morning and we both had class in the morning so I wasn't worried about taking things further that night. I would have been kicking myself if I wouldn't have at least tried though. TO build up tension all night and then just settle for a number would have been stupid. Her roommate was there with another guy and he was going back to her place so I asked her if she wanted to come back and stay with me to "give them privacy". Without hesitation, she was all for it.

We left at about 2:15 and headed back to my place. As you can assume, you know the rest. Climbed in bed, slowly escalated, kissing her neck, and so on, so I'll spare all the extra reading.

Things I learned:

  1. Openers really don't matter, but mine was a good conversation piece throughout the night. I gave her a hard time about the Pacers most of the night, she returned the joke by kidding around about the Bulls.

  2. Role playing actually does work when you do it right. Mine wasn't the strongest "role" proposed, but for my first time trying that after reading about it, I'm proud of myself. Throughout the night I also gave her a hard time about her "super strength".

  3. Kino needs to be initiated pretty quickly. You have to give off the impression that you want more than just friends and her number pretty quickly. Mine went from hand shake, to touching the back of her neck to pull her in cause it was "too loud", to dancing, to holding her hand when we moved around. All of these things made it easier to know that she was comfortable with me in her comfort zone and the barrier was down.

  4. Don't use alcohol as a crutch. I already implemented this into my style of PU not too long ago, but don't use it as a crutch when you're first starting out. You will rely on it to always talk to girls and it will just fuck up your game, in my opinion.

  5. Approach as soon as possible. I hesitated for about 5 to 10 minutes which was my chump self coming out. Even though my night still ended well, don't hesitate to approach.

  6. Don't go out with the sole intent of getting laid. Go out with the intent to have fun. I didn't think I would get laid, I was just going out to practice and things ended up just falling into place for me. Be you and just have a good time. I'm not a PUA by any means, but I am getting better. I honestly didn't go out last night thinking I'd get laid. Go out with the intent to have fun, first and foremost, and the rest will fall into place.

Thanks Seddit!

TL;DR Went out for Thirsty Thursday, spotted a sexy blonde and used the tips I've learned here to take her home with me.