Our University had a basketball game tonight and a buddy and I love approaching at sporting events. Tonight was a pretty big game so we both decided it would be a great time to mainly practice an get numbers. Lots of sororities and athletes are always present so finding the girls isn't hard.

The first girl I approached wasn't very attractive but I didn't care about that. Personalities can bump a HB5 to an HB7 or 8 quick. I quickly found she wasn't my type, but I got her number anyways just for practice. This was my only solo attempt of the night.

We proceeded to watch the rest of the game since it was getting pretty heated. Afterwards, as we are leaving two of the most gorgeous women I have ever laid eyes on are standing there just waiting to be approached. My old chump ways decided to show up and I walked passed, they noticed, but I kept walking. I was so mad. My buddy said, "Are you fucking serious right now?!" And I made the mistake to turn around and approach after the fact they had already seen me walk by. That was my first mistake. These girls wouldn't make eye contact so we ejected.

I wasn't upset because it wasn't rejection, even if it was who cares? I learned from it and went about my night.

We then decided to grab a bite to eat before we headed back to our dorm. We walked in to the building to grab some food and went around the corner to see that there was a monstrous line from Hell. We were starving and almost said fuck it, we can't wait. As I turn my head to tell my friend, I see a HB10 with three friends witting at the lounge tables. I wasn't going to fuck this one up. We were already in this long line and people were now behind us. I told him I would be kicking myself in the balls if I didn't approach this girl. I told him after we got our food I was going to. Now I know waiting like this isn't the smartest thing to do, but we were seriously so hungry and the place closed in 20 minutes. We didn't know how long conversation would flow.

Waiting in line still I told my buddy the longer I waited the more anxious I got to leave the line and approach. She kept glancing at me and I wasn't going to be the creeper who made eye contact multiple times and never approach. I told myself if she got up to leave before I had my food I was going to leave line and approach. Luckily, everything set itself up perfectly.

I paid for my food and my buddy says, "I'm making you approach if you think you're going to bail." There was no way in hell I was going to bail, I was too amped. Of course I was nervous, but that didn't matter. As I'm walking out of the little food room, she's getting up and walking towards me to leave. With a smile, confidence and an upright posture, I stopped her and said, "Excuse me, I don't mean to startle you, but you are absolutely gorgeous. I would kick myself if I didn't tell you that. My names KaptainKid" Guys, the look on her face was pure gold. THis girl was hot and she knew it. She had been approached on a daily basis multiple times, guaranteed, but she looked as if she had never been approached in her life after this. In astonishment, she whispered out, "I'm Meg, nice to meet you".

I then proceeded to say, "It was a pleasure meeting you. Your friends are also gorgeous and I'd love to meet them as well." I walked over to their table and shook all of their hands, smiling and introducing myself. At first, these girls were in complete shock of what was happening. They had never seen this before, you could tell.

After doing this all the girls in the group immediately pointed to one of the other girls and said, "She doesn't have a boyfriend!!!" They assumed I was trying to pick them up so I had some fun with it. I asked one of the other girls in the group if she had a boyfriend and she said yes so I followed up with, "So does my girlfriend!" and they all lost their shit. Laughs all around. The tension was cut.

Meanwhile, HB10 (Meg) is still standing where she was when I approached her with the same astonished look on her face. She then said, "Wow, I have never had someone be so upfront and honest. Chivalry isn't dead."

FIREWORKS This made me so happy to hear. After that it didn't even matter that she had a boyfriend. After all her friends assumed I was trying to pick her up (which they assumed correctly) I wasn't going to ask for any numbers and leave them shocked. I've seen this girl on campus and at Fraternity/Sorority events, I know I'll see her again and conversation will be so easy.

My buddy came in and introduced himself as well and started talking to the girls at the table about Fraternity life. Apparently they were in the sorority that his fraternity is partnered with for Spring Week.

After some more casual conversation, we politely ejected and went on our way. SO you're probably asking why this was so successful when all I did was approach and find out these girls have boyfriends.

Here's the thing, it wasn't even about the number close. It was about actually approaching and seeing these girls reactions. How shocked and stunned they were that this average guy walked up to this bombshell, made solid eye contact, didn't break it and just told her the truth was an awesome feeling. Leaving there me and my friend felt so awesome. It was the ultimate high. Our confidence and future outlook got the biggest spark off of that and now we feel invincible.

Positives 1. Eye Contact - I approached with eye contact and didnt break it, even when she did. This was key. I could tell this girl was stunned just by her eyes.

  1. I introduced myself to her friends and won all of them over. This is huge when you approach a group of girls. Don't just try and impress the eye candy.

  2. I got them to laugh on numerous occasions. The laughing is what set the mood and broke the ice.

  3. I was being myself. Plain and simple, I was doing me. I didn't pull out any cheesy opening pick up line, I just told this girl how I felt. I was straight forward, polite and sincere. These girls could tell that.

Things Learned 1. Never walk passed a girl if she notices you and then go back to talk to her. This is what foiled the plan with the two girls at the game. It was obvious what was up.

  1. Remember everyone's name to the best of your ability. I couldn't remember all of the girls at the tables name which wasn't terrible, but it would have helped if I see them out and about on campus.

Overall, this approach has me feeling awesome. I felt so alive leaving there and I know those girls were talking about it once we left. It's not always about a number close, kiss close, or fuck close. It's about knowing you have the confidence and guts to just approach girls and meet new people. At the very least I made 6 new friends tonight.

TL;DR Approached a HB10 like a man, held eye contact, and did me. The look on her and her friends faces was priceless and was fuel to my "Game Fire".