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That’s right. Misery loves company. I’ve seen women all file together and then have a party
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 02:39 PM
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I forgot need for control
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 02:38 PM
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Go for it!
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 12:30 PM
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Victim mentality “I can’t work, I’m disabled and I’ll prove it”
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 12:29 PM
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My sons will never marry now
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 06:39 AM
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Yeah I mean all of the sudden they’re asking about having the house refi-ed, wanting to know balances in all retirement accounts, how much equity is in the house, etc.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 06:39 AM
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And perhaps a benefit of any observation could be to look into how to combat covert narcissism but this post is only a vent. I’d love to see studies on this so others can avoid partners like these or see the signs and get help in therapy.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 06:37 AM
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It’s venting.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 06:35 AM
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It’s all signs of covert narcissism or BPD
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 03:51 AM
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She’s gone from 34K working PT when we separated to 90K. My new attornies are working on the motion to modify. It’ll be complicated but worth it
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/26 07:28 PM
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My sons don’t want to get married
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/26 07:27 PM
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Unfortunately yes but that will change. Decree states it cannot be modified but her income increase should be enough. I’m fighting it
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 11:12 PM
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On the decree
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 11:09 PM
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“He won’t support my completely unattainable or extremely inconvenient dream that will impact everyone in the house negatively. He’s the problem.”
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 11:00 PM
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Nope. Give the kids spending money, something to benefit them not her.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 03:44 PM
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100% agree. There has GOT to be a cap to this madness. And if she never worked? Holy fuck.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 02:59 AM
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This. Is. Horrific. Lifetime support?! At least she can ask for whatever the fuck she wants but will she get it? The judge decides
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 02:58 AM
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My husband’s ex sticks her tongue out at him, awkwardly dances to act “happy” around us at kid sporting events and has started giving out “free hugs” at pride fest (no hate to LGBTQ it’s just out of character for her in this situation). It’s normal I think
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/26 03:06 AM
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How is this a bad opinion or offensive? I’m agreeing with the sub, and showing an example. I’m saying ex wives are controlling. I guess that’s offensive?
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/25 08:25 PM
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Explain please
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/25 08:22 PM
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Uhhh how am I degrading you guys? Isn’t this pretty benign? I’m saying women are wrong here. But hey that’s cool.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/25 08:22 PM
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There were 3 other husbands there. He offered to pick me up. None of us told the ex. No BS
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/25 08:20 PM
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Find someone with similar schedules. And you should be each others break from the chaos. If you feel like you’re on vacation with a person, keep them
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 09:55 PM
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Do not agree to half your retirement. She is demanding way too much. I agree with the posts here to get a lawyer, then do a discovery on her finances. Determine what the courts would decide then negotiate. She stayed at home by choice. Now she has a big girl job. She can pay her bills.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/25 02:43 AM
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In my experience, the divorce shocks them sober. That’s what happened with my ex and he was in a rehab program. She’ll hopefully get sober. The divorce will hopefully kick her in the ass. You’re a good dad. Good person. You got this.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 01:57 PM
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I feel this. I see it every day with the “ex” in my life. She’s traveling the world, cashing in on her spousal support, while we work multiple jobs.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/25 06:48 PM
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1000%. It’s far less complicated.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 04:42 PM
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If this is a safe space, yes. That is correct, women want to feel wanted and desired. And men can check out and unfortunately dump on their partner, withdraw affection, stop caring about how they look, treat their partner, etc. So, it makes you wonder “what’s my worth on the market?” None of that excuses the cheating. It’s wrong. And I agree with you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 04:40 PM
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This is so true. I’m seeing this with my husbands ex wife. 100% it’s like watching a teenage girl.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 11:17 AM
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Because she “left” months ago and she’s over it. It’s shocking and I’m so very sorry,
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 11:14 AM
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That is not ok! You are the legal guardian, you have every right to feel this way. Unsolicited advice? Be the great and involved dad you are. Keep communication open with your kiddos, keep that connection and tell them every day how proud you are to be their dad. I have 3 sons and try to text, ( they are older teens and early 20s) or call the days they are not with me. And your ex? She’s now a business partner and co parent. You communicate with her cordially and about kids and logistics, as I’m…
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/25 09:17 PM
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You have every right to feel this way! And I agree with the other posters that getting on those mailing lists will help. You can be as involved as you wish, as much as you wish. You are a great dad! The SO feelings are normal. Counter those negative feelings and focus them on your ex. She made these choices. It sounds like he’s trying to make the best of an awkward situation and who know what she’s telling him. She could have said you didn’t want to be there :(
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/25 09:04 PM
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Don’t let her win!!! Stay strong!
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 12:36 PM
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My partner is adding it to the parent plan - “children cannot be brought into arguments, shown argumentative texts,” or language saying the same. Unfortunately, she’s not explaining the role she plays in the fights. And OP - good for you. You are a solid parent and trying to be proactive. Please do not be concerned that your ex isn’t into the new GF. Let her be petty. It makes her look worse. Trust me, I know. And advise your GF not to take the bait. I took it one or two times and regret it. It …
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 12:35 PM
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Oh! Ask the kids to reply with “we don’t want to know about your fights.”
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 12:17 PM
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My husbands ex does this. Once we got together, she and I were cool for about 6 months then she started asking me odd questions in front of others (like her kid’s dentist who is now her boyfriend…they had affair and she likes to pretend this didn’t happen. She even introduced the kids to this guy like he was a stranger. The kids were like “uhhh that’s Dr. so and so, the guy who cleaned our teeth.” She’d ask things like “so, do you have a lot of tattoos?” Or she’d say things to the kids like “I t…
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 12:16 PM
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I firmly believe most women will do anything to punish their ex husband, even if the woman cheated or did something nefarious to cause the divorce, including hurt the kids. Example: my current husband (M 48) does not want to involve the kids (M 15 M 13) in divorce or adult issues. What does she do? She’ll read the text messages or emails sent during arguments about money, etc., to the kids but leave out her messages. She’ll skip over what she said or did. The kids will hear this and call my husb…
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 08:31 PM
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I think men and women expect the other to read minds. Amongst my friends, I’ve noticed those with marriage issues don’t seem to tell their partner what they need. They assume the other person “should know this already.” They don’t. There’s no discussion of expectations. Everyone brushes issues under the rug. And over time, this causes resentment.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 08:22 PM
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This!
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 03:26 AM
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Do you have to pay alimony if she is legally remarried?
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 09:45 PM
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This sounds amazing and very fair. Financial situations change. In the US you’re fucked
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 09:41 PM
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100%. I’ve seen this in action. My spouses ex wife worked PT at a student bookstore making $15/hour for years. Like 13 years. Never had to do more, he was the breadwinner. She didn’t even have to work. He would encourage her to go back to school and even helped refer her to new positions at other companies that made more money and had room for promotions. She would get offered the job then back out…She would say no, “I’ll wait until XYZ” (kids start elementary school for example). Wouldn’t you k…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 09:40 PM
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My husband’s ex is dating their family dentist. He does not like this guy putting his fingers in his kids mouths.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/25 12:33 PM
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It’s shocking. I’m hoping they don’t have a full understanding of exactly what they’re doing when they file for divorce. A friend of mine, his wife filed because she was “bored at home.” So, he had to leave, but a new house and sees his kids every other weekend while she dates low life’s.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 02:35 PM
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