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First off, if you want to talk more, PM me. I'm not a psychologist, but your story reminds me very much of patterns I have seen before and I think I may be able to help. That said, to answer your question I think you first have to break state into two separate pieces. You've got your state in the moment. That fluctuates when you get nervous, when you think about approaching, the moment you get a promotion. That is your emotional state. Then you have your baseline level of emotion. It is where yo…
/r/seduction12/04/13 06:40 PM
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My kind of question! So much I could write on this, but I'll keep it brief Energy must go way up. With all the noise your non-verbals become even more important. Get in state by moving your body, smiling, and shouting. Drop opinion openers. They are too word heavy for loud clubs. I open with eye contact and a wave, eye contact and a "You can't look at me like that and not say hi." or a "I don't think I've met you yet. I'm Charlie." Communicate physically. Like I said, non-verbals are huge. Wrap …
/r/seduction11/04/13 08:39 PM
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Haha, dude said the same thing (sans innuendo). Gotta go with the heavy, marbleized Fenders!
/r/seduction11/04/13 07:22 PM
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Glad I could offer helpful knowledge :-)
/r/seduction09/04/13 07:22 AM
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Even if he winds up getting the job and you don't, that kind of behavior can only help you in the long run. He'll do the same for you and get you access to things you could never get yourself. It's incredible, but one degree of separation allows you to brag on someone's behalf like a mofo
/r/seduction09/04/13 04:57 AM
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Dude that's AWESOME! I did the same thing and haven't regretted it for a second. It has led to less stability and less certainty, but way more happiness. So stoked to hear you're going straight at what you want instead of doing things just because everyone else is.
/r/seduction09/04/13 04:21 AM
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Nice! Fair warning: it's soooo tempting to just yell, "Kobe" all the time and feel like the man. Gotta leave room for an assist every now and then
/r/seduction09/04/13 01:57 AM
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Here is a helpful ladder. The goal is to get her receptive to your touch and comfortable hanging out pretty much on top of you. Touch arms when she makes you laugh High five her for being cool Show her the handshake for the gang into which you are initiating her Grab her by the shoulder when you are being faux-serious Have a friend take a “prom picture” Throw your arm around her shoulder and speak into her ear if the music is at all loud (don’t lean in here, stay standing straight and pull her i…
/r/seduction08/04/13 11:23 PM
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I second helping them open. That will go a long way. The second thing you can do is talk them up. Instead of saying, "Meet my friend Tom." say, "Meet my friend Tom. You're going to love him. He is awesome and literally the coolest guy in this bar." Bring up cool things about your friends: "Meet Tom. He is a badass guitarist." or "Meet Tom. He's ripped like the Hulk so he sometimes intimidates people, but he's also a good dude."
/r/seduction07/04/13 03:22 PM
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That's tough. Here is some food for thought: People are not upset by any specific set of actions. They are upset when reality does not meet their expectations That sounds a bit lofty, but here is what it translates to . . . At the beginning of a relationship anything goes. Seriously. If from square one you had declared in word and action that you were always going to remain single, your girl would be way less hurt than she is likely to be now. She would have been expecting you to behave in the w…
/r/seduction04/04/13 07:46 AM
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The problem you're facing is that most girls have a strict dichotomy in their heads due to cultural programming. They are either: "Single" but seeing someone, in which case the guy is expected to behave like a decent human, but nothing more "In a relationship" which means their "boyfriend" is expected to go the extra mile to do kind, thoughtful things for them Nowhere in there is there "open relationship," in which case the guy would do boyfriend-y things, care about her deeply, but still see ot…
/r/seduction03/04/13 10:42 PM
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Props for doing the right thing. I think one of the hallmarks that you've done it well is that you can still keep contact with the girl even after breaking it off. I was in a VERY similar situation when I started writing this (the "not enough thing" is ringing some bells). I wrote the bit about ending it for her sake as I was going through that. It wasn't easy because even though it was upsetting her on a regular basis, she wouldn't break things off. When I felt like I was having more negative t…
/r/seduction03/04/13 09:25 PM
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Glad you liked it, man! Totally agree that this can be a real headache for beginners. I wasn't sure if Seddit was the right place to share since many guys are just starting out. I decided to because even though I wasn't ready for it at the time, realizing multiple relationships were even possible was a huge paradigm shift for me. It forced me to become even more centered since I was going to have to deal with the temptation to lie or the temptation to cave on my desires. Though it's tough, hopef…
/r/seduction03/04/13 06:19 PM
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Glad you like it! Let me know if you had any questions or thought any areas were unclear. Always looking to sharpen it
/r/seduction27/03/13 09:29 PM
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Thanks man, glad you're well on your way :-)
/r/seduction27/03/13 07:46 AM
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Preach I'll also add that women have no idea how to attract women because they have never done it in their life Seriously, it'd be like asking someone who watches a lot of TV to design your commercial. Sure, they have been advertised to a ton, and maybe they have a vague idea what they like and don't like. But that doesn't mean they have any idea what goes into making an effective ad. Add to that the fact that what ALL PEOPLE say they will react to and how they actually behave is totally differe…
/r/seduction14/03/13 08:06 PM
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So you're making out . . . Within a 15 seconds of making out, tug on her hair. This is almost universally appreciated by women. Grab a fist full of her hair near the roots and pull (not too hard). If/when she responds positively, smile and whisper in her ear, “You love having your hair pulled.” Fuck, say that no matter how she responds. She’ll say yes. Cause she does. You can follow up with, “I didn’t realize, you’re probably a closet freak. That’s fucking awesome.” Smile and go back to making o…
/r/seduction13/03/13 02:59 AM
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Always tough to give specific advice without knowing the full context of your interactions, but I will give some general advice based on what you said. It sounds like while this girl may like you, you certainly aren't a priority in her life. Which is fine. You aren't a priority in most people's lives and that is totally cool. But you're going to run into pain if you've built her up as a top priority and it isn't reciprocated. I know it may not what you want to hear, but my advice is to put this …
/r/seduction25/02/13 05:53 AM
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Certainly didn't mean to leave that impression! There is absolutely a lot you can do. I'll go back and include a few steps, but if you've found the seduction community I think you're on the right path. If there is one book I could recommend, it'd be Magic Bullets. If you're not familiar with it, check it out. If you are, get practicing
/r/seduction22/02/13 03:07 AM
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Been there man. I used to crush so hard on girls. Over the course of HS and college I obsessed over like 4 girls to that degree. Reflecting I will say this. The fact that I treated them like the One made me act in a way that ruined our chances of being together What do I mean? I mean I behaved from a position of scarcity. I felt like I had SO MUCH to lose. After all, I thought these girls were the key to my happiness. So I didn't go for the kiss because what if I blew it? And when they had momen…
/r/seduction22/02/13 03:02 AM
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Sorry about that guys. I disabled the widget that was getting in the way. It should be legible now
/r/seduction22/02/13 02:46 AM
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What browser?
/r/seduction22/02/13 02:13 AM
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My issue with the idea the perfect fit is that it is a PASSIVE mentality. She is who she is. You are who you are. And you fit like jigsaw pieces forever. The dude from Can't Hardly Wait and JLHewitt were "meant to be together." It was just a matter of time before they realized it. I take an active approach. If you want a great relationship, maybe even one that approaches perfect, you have to build it and then you have to work hard to maintain it. Lastly, you and I are both young. Maybe you find …
/r/seduction22/02/13 02:11 AM
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Good point about testing things out. I'm going to change that because I think its a good distinction As for "Fucking being the pinnacle of life," I'm not sure where you're getting that. It's definitely NOT what I think. What I think is that your relationships determine the quality of your life. These come in many forms, friends, family, girlfriends. I live in NYC and see people everyday who have built a long convoluted road to relationship success. The most common element is that they need X amo…
/r/seduction22/02/13 01:45 AM
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Hey no apologies necessary, I'm glad you're interested! We are working right now on the video. I've recorded most of the lessons (which I can do from home) but I really think its important for guys to see the in field stuff. That gets complicated with shooting and recording in bars and clubs as well as just being micced up during the day, but we are working on it for sure. We will definitely be putting it up on Udemy when we have it. I'll make sure to ping you when its finished. Thanks for letti…
/r/seduction21/02/13 11:25 PM
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Magic Bullets for sure
/r/seduction20/02/13 07:00 PM
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So cool to see this post because I feel like I had this breakthrough in the last week. My verbal game is and was super tight. I even had a lot of the delivery down: tonality, eye contact, body language. When I added an increased focus on physicality though, my game skyrocketed Because of the format of the FR (I said, she said) we get so caught up in the verbal. I think you are 100% right though, there is a MAJOR physical component that is missing from most game discussions and it makes them dece…
/r/seduction11/02/13 04:37 PM
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Focus on escalating touching so the leap to the kiss isn't so drastic So you are introduced, you give her a bear hug. She makes you laugh, you grab her arm. She says something cute, you pull her in and give her a one armed hug and then push her off. BE MORE TOUCHY Keep this up and it will feel normal for you to have your back to the bar with your hands at her hips. You can pull her into your hips as well and just keep talking. If your verbal game is tight, then you are just waiting for her to ge…
/r/seduction06/02/13 03:31 AM
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First, a question: Is the "For real" from her or you? Haha, she is 100% being sarcastic, but in a good way. You set up a fun joking role play (that she is chasing you like the stereotypical boy chases the girl) and she is down to play along. You are both joking, but trust me, the frame of the joke will get in her head if you keep it up long enough. I can't do every text for you. Rule of thumb: it is generally a good idea to playfully insinuate she is the stereotypical dude who is chasing the ste…
/r/seduction05/02/13 09:42 PM
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Without further context into your interactions, its tough to tell, but it seems like she is into you. I'd respond honestly and playfully. Insinuate she wants you Yeah, but don't get any ideas about banging down my door at 2am looking for easy booty. I want to be a priest
/r/seduction05/02/13 09:11 PM
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Objectively correct morals don't exist. There is no morality handed down on high. The universe is indifferent to Hitler and Mother Teresa alike. We're stuck bickering about what is right and wrong on our own, with no judge to declare a winner if we disagree. It's subjective and messy. I can try to convince you that you should care about other people, but there is no objectively defensible reason I can give. My subjective take: I think that other people's happiness has value. And because of that,…
/r/seduction04/02/13 05:39 AM
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You raise a good point. I do think that this is definitely a shift towards internal validation. So yeah, you are neither made nor crushed by the praise or slander of others. Instead you derive more pleasure from sorting out your values and then living by them. Obviously we live in a social world, so the trick is to find a balance between internal and external validation. I'd argue most of us overly focus on the external which is why I often push people to self-validate their behaviors. Still, th…
/r/seduction03/02/13 08:05 PM
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I would argue that falls into the camp of immoral behaviors which you should change. The question is do YOU (or hypothetical you) think that not giving two shits about any other person is immoral. If so, then the embarrassment you feel is not the BS embarrassment of breaking a social norm. It is the embarrassment of not living by your own morals and values. That is horribly damaging to your reputation with yourself and should definitely be changed
/r/seduction03/02/13 07:56 PM
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Yeah man, changing your physiology is a FANTASTIC way to change yoru emotional response. This is a lot of what Tony Robbins does (and why some people think he is crazy). He gets people to interrupt their physical patterns of negativity (sloped shoulders, tone of voice, etc) and replace them with positive ones (shouting, smiling, dancing) while thinking of a painful memory. Play that back 10 times and it is next to impossible to feel bad about the situation. I highly recommend checking out some o…
/r/seduction03/02/13 07:54 PM
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Don't get DGAF confused with DGAF about learning. The point of not seeking validation is that the outcome doesn't affect how you feel about yourself as a person. You certainly give a fuck about learning though. You have to shop your game. Figure out where you are losing interest and read up on that area. Kill behaviors that are losing you girls and build on ones that are moving things forward. Get better in increments and the results will come
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:50 AM
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I'm glad they've resonated with you. Means a lot man. I sincerely hope they have a positive impact on your life, or anyone's for that matter, even a small one. That's the hope that makes me share
/r/seduction31/01/13 07:26 AM
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Same boat. It's awesome
/r/seduction31/01/13 07:22 AM
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Wow. Thanks for the incredible compliment - that made my day. Makes me want to write more!
/r/seduction31/01/13 07:21 AM
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Very interesting distinction, I'll have to think on this. Definitely agree that the point is not to disregard other's feelings and judgments (ie "you're being an asshole") but rather to filter that judgment through your own values and standards before you amend or feel bad about your behavior
/r/seduction30/01/13 09:01 PM
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Not at all man. You don't owe her anything because you asked for her number. If it really is a turnoff/dealbreaker for you, its better for both of you that you don't feign interest
/r/seduction30/01/13 08:50 PM
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It is totally tongue in cheek. You go super overboard. Tell her you are a virgin and are saving yourself until marriage. Tell her she had better keep her hands off you or you will have her sued. Obviously she knows you are not being serious. But the pressure on her is lifted nonetheless.
/r/seduction29/01/13 06:04 AM
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Do what suits you man, but I AM saying that you need to do something to get a girl turned on enough to want to go from kissing to sex and if you are good at dirty talk, that's a great way to do it. Just remember, boil the frog be degrees. Leap from kissing to "do you want to come home" and she is likely to jump ship. Kissing, to hair pulling to light dirty talk to heavy dirty talk to sex is a way better path in my eperience
/r/seduction28/01/13 10:13 PM
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My vote goes to escalation and dirty talk So you guys are kissing. Great. The next step is NOT "Wanna come check out my place?" Kissing is a long ways from sex and just because a girl is kissing you does not mean she wants to bang you. You need to turn her on. Show her that sex with you would be fucking awesome. So while your kissing, grab the back of her hair and tug her head a little. Most girls will respond positively, a smile, a moan, something. Add some dirty talk, like, "Oh my god, I can t…
/r/seduction28/01/13 08:19 PM
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I can relate to the thrill of the chase. In the past I did the same thing, slept with girls and all of a sudden was way less interested. Two questions for you 1) How interested, on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the most incredible connection with a smokeshow, were you in those girls BEFORE sleeping with them? 2) Were you drinking when you took these girls home the first time? 2) I ask because what I realized, and you may too, is that you could have predicted you'd lose interest in those girls b…
/r/seduction28/01/13 08:32 AM
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For those bathroom breaks . . . lean to the guy next to you on the urinals and ask "Yo man, what's the one that burns when you pee?"
/r/seduction28/01/13 06:18 AM
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I'm assuming by close you mean sex? If so, yes you should maintain a cool lifestyle and all that jazz, but by far the biggest thing you can do is get really good at sex Serious question: is she raving about the sex? Because if not, then that is likely your biggest issue. The good news is that being good at sex, like being good at Game, is 100% learnable. And as with Game, there is no shame in learning to do it better. I've recommended it a bunch of times and it hasn't got tons of upvotes, so I'm…
/r/seduction27/01/13 08:15 PM
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It miight feel uncomfortable, but when not in conversation or gesticulating I find it is best to put them at your sides. Resist the temptation to cross your arms or put your hands in your pockets. It feels safer, but that is closed body language and people around you sense it.
/r/seduction26/01/13 07:46 AM
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I feel you man. I think its that people tend not to navigate back to reddit to comment and dislike commenting outside of reddit for whatever reason. Or it could be my unpaid army of interns whose sole job is to UPVOTE MY SHIT!
/r/seduction26/01/13 02:17 AM
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Great tl;dr
/r/seduction25/01/13 07:52 PM
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Dude, you can fucking do this. Game, your ability with girls, your ability to be the man you want to be, is like every other skill in the world. You want to be good? You have to practice. Imagine showing up on a baseball field without ever having played and being infuriated and ashamed that you can't hit a 90mph fastball. And then questioning if you're the type of guy that should just settle to be the bat boy. You are NOT the fucking bat boy. You don't have to settle EVER. You could be an all-st…
/r/seduction25/01/13 07:42 AM
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The best book I have ever read on sex is Sex God Method. Do yourself a favor and go get it if you aren't blowing girls minds in bed.
/r/seduction24/01/13 08:24 PM
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Haha, fair point. It's just my standard Day Game opener :-)
/r/seduction23/01/13 09:22 PM
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I'd say most of the time, vroom is right, you don't want to take the bait every time she fishes for compliments. But it is tough to tell outside of the context of your interaction. You need to figure out her "push/pull" blueprint and play to it. What I mean is: throughout your interaction you are going to be pushing and pulling her all the time. You might tease her by fake dumping her [push] and then grab her for a hug and say you're going to miss the sex though [pull] and then physically push h…
/r/seduction23/01/13 06:29 AM
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Dude that's a big ask for a silver bullet solution. The unhelpful truth is that you spend a lot of time developing, practicing and perfecting your game, then you build a social circle in which you are a leader and surrounded by women. And to top it all off, you have a strong identity which manifests itself in your body language and fashion sense. Voila! Random girls will hit on you hard. Except that takes months or years of focused practice. Definitely aim for that. But I don't think a 1000 word…
/r/seduction23/01/13 04:55 AM
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So I think part of her hesitation is that it sounds like you were fumbling a bit. When things don't happen smoothly, girls logical brains kick in and they sometimes pump the brakes. Happens to the best of us :-) Rather than write out how to take a bra off, I'd just say to YouTube it, I'm sure there is something up there. Taking off your shirt first is a great idea. In fact, being one step ahead of her helps things along. So your pants before hers, etc. Also, check out the book Sex God Method. It…
/r/seduction22/01/13 05:32 PM
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I really recommend taking an improv comedy class man. The entire art is based on starting with nothing, nothing in your head, nothing on the stage, and turning it into something hilarious. It will totally expand your lateral thinking and give you the tools to make life much more fun. Give it a shot
/r/seduction22/01/13 04:11 AM
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I read this and it seems to me your problem is more lifestyle related than Game related. Hell, I'd feel the same way if I lived at home in a suburban area without any friends around! Consider this: Your environment is going to shape your behavior. So you need to proactively shape your environment. You are happy to have a "great job" out of college, but consider what it is costing you. Your living situation sounds like it is sucking the life out of you. The simple act of going to a bar or finding…
/r/seduction22/01/13 04:01 AM
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1, See if improv comedy classes are offered in your area. It's the fastest way to "learn funny" and develops a lot of the same skills that are helpful in Game (authenticity, social courage, being in the now). 2 If you do this long enough you'll find out that the number close is often fool's gold. Even for the best guys, numbers flake all the time. That being said, there are a bunch of things you can do to increase the probability you see a girl once you get her number. Invite her to something sp…
/r/seduction22/01/13 12:40 AM
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Magic Bullets Less is more. Read this and go out and practice from the top. When you are getting decent add: Sex God Method
/r/seduction21/01/13 06:59 PM
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Yes, wearing something worth commenting on is a good decision The term peacocking has fallen out of fashion, but the principle still applies. You know how you have hard a time you have coming up with something clever to say, even with this community behind you? Now imagine you are a girl who has never gotten a good tip on how to approach a guy. She may want to speak to you, but she has no idea where to begin. Make it easy for her. Dress in a way that gives her an excuse to talk to you. Extreme p…
/r/seduction21/01/13 06:55 PM
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Sounds a lot like me not long ago man. I will share a two bits of advice with you that I found to be incredibly helpful 1) You are likely falling into the super fun, but not sexy guy group. Girls love you in the moment, but feel no compulsion to see you again. Been there. You need to be more of a challenge and increase the sexuality in your interactions. This DOES NOT mean you have to have one night stands if you don't want to. But it will make your numbers way more likely to stick. For being a …
/r/seduction21/01/13 05:01 PM
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Forget if she was giving you signs, the goal is to do things that scare you. The point is not to read signs (yet). The point is to get up and talk, to say anything that scares you. You need to habituate yourself to moving towards your fear instead of away from it. Right now you associate rejection with pain. So you freeze up instead of doing what you know you should. You need to associate rejection with learning. You need to realize how much every blowout is teaching you. How much it is moving y…
/r/seduction20/01/13 11:29 PM
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Withdraw 200 bucks from the bank. Give it to a friend you trust. Tell him NOT to give it back under any circumstances, except if you approach a girl THAT night. $50 per approach. That's four groups. Oh yeah, and none of that "Where is the bathroom?" or "What time is it?" shit. You have to ATTEMPT to engage them in conversation. It's totally allowed to go terribly. You just have to try. You can go get the groups if you want, but if you stall he gets the power to pick the groups. If he says go and…
/r/seduction20/01/13 08:54 PM
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Yeah. Super high season is December - February and it is a mad house. Nov and March are still high season but not as slammed. Everyone says the nicest weather is actually in April when the ocean has been heating up all summer. But if you have a week and want to go out every night, you really can't do that in Floripa outside of the few months of high season
/r/seduction20/01/13 04:59 PM
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Couldn't tell you how red hair flies because I didn't run into any. It definitely might be considered a novelty in the north. I don't know if they go to bed easier. They certainly do have sex outside of monogamous relationships (the girl in the story for instance). I can't say I noticed a MASSIVE difference either way. The one thing which is a bit of a bummer is that they have a culture of living at home longer. So girls up until 24 and even beyond may be living with mom and dad. This is hardly …
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:44 PM
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Depends on your type man. But to my eye, yes they are more beautiful. Rio is going to have darker complected girls with bodies. The south, like Florianolpolis will have lighter skinned, more European looking girls. Physically, the biggest difference between a Brazilian girl and a white girl is her shape. They are generally curvier. But the best thing about Brazilian women isn't necessarily their look. It's their warmth. They are more comfortable being complimentary. The entire culture is more to…
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:25 PM
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Haha your last sentence is so right. When I was younger I looked at these clubs of secret bastions of unimaginable fun which were being kept from me. I see now that people exert so much effort getting in and looking the part, that some (not all) of them hardly even enjoy themselves! Its nuts
/r/seduction19/01/13 04:43 PM
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I have changed a TON. Initially I backslid. I spent a semester in college refusing to hold a drink for anyone because someone, somewhere told me it was low value. I teased girls and sometimes hurt feelings. I'd argue about the merits of Game with anyone who didn't think it was great. I didn't know how to break it off with a girl I was hooking up with, so I just stopped calling. UGHHHHHH. Gross. But I learned and improved. Bit by bit: small wins, phone numbers, almost-makeouts. I was regularly do…
/r/seduction18/01/13 10:12 PM
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Thanks brother! Good luck tomorrow and let us know how it goes
/r/seduction18/01/13 07:55 AM
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Dude this is a GREAT question I have struggled with it myself since it seems to fly in the face of what you'd hear recommended from the Game community. I have yet to come up with a clean way of using the two models. I feel like physicists must when they try to unify Newtonian physics with quantum theory. It would appear to be one world we live in, but different models will serve you best in different contexts. Here are a few pointers that have worked well for me: Friends and family get the 100% …
/r/seduction17/01/13 06:02 PM
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Thanks man. I appreciate the kinds words :-) I'm sure this girl isn't sitting at home beating herself up about it, but it just sucks to think I might be one of those interactions she puts in the "regret" column. I sure as hell won't do it again.
/r/seduction17/01/13 05:45 PM
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Haha dude, we're twins. I am a guitarist as well. I wear one of these out on occasion, one because it's nice to have a pick, and two, because girls always notice and comment. http://www.pickbay.com/products.asp?cat=49 If money comes up, I just let her know that I am on the market for a sugarmomma and ask her to buy me drinks and jewelry. Usually weeds out the gold digging tendencies pretty fast :-)
/r/seduction16/01/13 11:28 PM
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Great quote. The prince contains another that I love, possibly my favorite ever "Make mistakes of ambition and not mistakes of sloth. Develop the strength to do bold things, not the strength to suffer.”
/r/seduction15/01/13 10:30 PM
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The girls' reactions will vary slightly in your favor, but in terms of what you need to focus on, it's the same man If you are turning girls off with "gamey" routines it is because you are not calibrating. Calibrating in the sense of pushing, means reading her reactions and connecting your pushes to a pull when appropriate. So for example, you tell her she is such a dork while smiling then pull her in for a one arm hug. Then tell her to get off you because you are not a piece of meat. Push > Pul…
/r/seduction15/01/13 07:28 PM
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Your point about women shaming one another is dead on. I actually set a boundary anytime says the word "slut" or "whore." Boy or girl, that shit is just poison. I think the best way to combat that garbage frame is to crack down anytime it comes up. So, for instance, I'll say: "Dude, don't say that - I hate that word. It is used by people who aren't getting laid to degrade women who are comfortable enough to admit they want and ENJOY sex. I think that's awesome. I'm not interested in a woman who …
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:48 PM
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Tigela de acai com granola separada = chronic! I ate 4 a day
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:42 PM
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DUDE same page on that one! Sex positivity has become a huge part of my personality and it has had a big impact. Anytime someone uses the word "slut" or judges a display of sexuality, I check them. Girls notice. And because of it they feel much more comfortable being open and sexual with me. Bi winning :-)
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:40 PM
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Fully concur. I love the idea of taking back the word "slut." It drives me nuts when I hear guys who are not getting any knock girls for their sexuality. It's just a BS way to reclaim power over the girls they can't attract. To your point about it becoming something more permanent, she came hoping to do long distance BF/GF, but that just isn't on the table for me. It's really important to me not to be in an exclusive relationship right now, since I am learning so much more by exploring. She's a …
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:37 PM
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Thanks man! I love playing with stereotypes like that. If you are anything like me, girls are shocked when they find out mid conversation that I am "smart." I'm sure when girls hear that you're a math savant they are floored. Combine that with the multiple languages, and you've got yourself a recipe for disaster :-)
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:32 PM
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Oh man, I could pontificate on this for days . . . I heard the magical stories about Floripa too, that's what attracted me. Just so you know, I was there in October - November and high season (Dec - Feb) is a totally different animal so take this all with a grain of salt. I was only in Rio for a week in Nov. The people of Floripa are mind-blowingly awesome. They are the some of the friendliest people I have ever met and I have travelled quite a bit. My first day there, the guy who ran our hostel…
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:26 PM
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Obrigado amigo :-) Where are you from? I spent a month in Floripa before Rio and thought it was incredible. I'll get some stories up from there soon
/r/seduction15/01/13 08:11 AM
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Allergies --> Sinus infection It's my specialty
/r/seduction15/01/13 08:09 AM
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Haha, sorry for not making that overt. We were sleeping together from the first night I felt good onward
/r/seduction15/01/13 08:08 AM
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This http://www.theattractionforums.com/braddock/111917-braddock-how-flirt-women-art-push-pull.html Plus an example of his in action http://www.theattractionforums.com/braddock/61182-lr-braddock-soldier-fortune.html
/r/seduction14/01/13 10:58 PM
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Yeah I think you hit the nail on the head. Next time!
/r/seduction14/01/13 10:55 PM
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I thought so too. And I did go for it, only to have her pull back. Best guess is that I probably did it with too much hesitation.
/r/seduction14/01/13 06:49 PM
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Tough to diagnose without seeing but a few thoughts 1) Smile (smirk) regardless. You don't have to wait for a girl to look at you to walk around looking happy. 2) Be loud. If walking with friends, talk and joke loudly with them. This will attract more eyes. 3) Consider what you are wearing. It may be well groomed but not stand out. Look around. Are most of the other dudes in eyeshot wearing something similar. What could you wear that's fashionable and would make you stand out at a glance? 4) Sam…
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:43 PM
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For sure. Making the decisive call earlier would have given us both more opportunity. That is definitely something we could have done better throughout the interaction
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:36 PM
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Fantastic attitude man! Keep taking steps everyday and you'll be killing it in no time
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:28 PM
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Totally agree with deferring the name exchange. If you forget it later in the interaction, stating the truth usually works: You: "What's you name?" Her: "Oh my god, you forgot" You: "Yeah, I meet a ton of people pretty much every time I go out and I never know which of them I am going to be curious enough about to spend time getting to know. So what's your name?" One other point. It is a GREAT idea to remember people's names whenever possible. If you're committed to doing this, try restating the…
/r/seduction14/01/13 04:15 PM
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I see where you're coming from, but this is my take: This kid is my best friend. One of a kind in my life. This girl is one of hundreds/thousands of cute girls in NYC. I don't need her. And I am happy to slightly inconvenience myself to improve his night. We both do well enough that he'd do the same for me (I can't count the times he has talked to a girl he wasn't interested to or talked me up to a group in order to help me out). We think of each other as a unit and both do better for it. He'd h…
/r/seduction14/01/13 04:06 PM
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