| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 20 | If she comes back.. I'll be the fool | Rant | King_Flavko | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 06:56 PM |
| 8 | Seeing my kids makes it difficult.. | King_Flavko | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 03:12 AM | |
| 5 | How long til the pain fades? | Need Support | King_Flavko | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 05:23 AM |
| 1 | What's fair? | King_Flavko | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 09:52 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 21 | My wife is leaving meThis is the exact same thing happening to me and all the other married men in this country. Were in competition with all the social media fantasies and with how easy it is to find another guy, and lure him in with some pics, they're now going for LLCs. No longer about love. It's about greed, materialism and selfish entitlement. It'll be nearly impossible to find someone not motivated by social media..but I'll definitely be looking for phone use time in my next relationship. Too many people pumpi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | 31m going through divorce, I feel like this pain will never go away and just feel sad, alone, and hopelessHey.. 33m here. Just went through the hardest divorce ever. Still not finalized, w/ kids involved. 13 yrs together, known each other since high school. I was in real love for the first time with this woman. She was my best friend.. we did everything together. I gave up friends, I gave up goals, dreams, all to be with her. We were the couple on pictures that looked perfect. No problems. No issues. No cheating. Til one day, she woke up and decided that there was more out there. And the attention s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | If she comes back.. I'll be the foolWe've already got a family. 3 kids 😔 and I've completed the list of "what not to do during a seperation".. I was weak minded throughout the whole thing cause I couldn't fathom what was happening to us. She ended up blocking me cause I couldn't stop trying to get closure.. Idk if no contact is gonna make her realize that it won't be better with the next.. but I'm doing all I can to help myself progress. It's all I can do..right? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | If she comes back.. I'll be the foolWe've already got a family. 3 kids 😔 and I've completed the list of "what not to do during a seperation".. I was weak minded throughout the whole thing cause I couldn't fathom what was happening to us. She ended up blocking me cause I couldn't stop trying to get closure.. Idk if no contact is gonna make her realize that it won't be better with the next.. but I'm doing all I can to help myself progress. It's all I can do..right? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 05:36 PM |
| 3 | If she comes back.. I'll be the foolI'm nit going g to therapy but I need to. Cause these thoughts of mine are getting really dark really quick. But I can't afford it 😪 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 02:48 PM |
| 4 | If she comes back.. I'll be the foolI don't want any of that.. I don't want to sleep with all these women having meaningless sex. I want my children and my wife back.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 12:13 AM |
| -8 | If she comes back.. I'll be the foolWhao.. you guys are alll misunderstanding her character. She's not like that at all. And I'm packing 9" here so I'm not intimidated by the low level dick she's gonna be getting cause I know I'm the best she ever had. What she's looking for is not sex.. if it was, she'd probably just call me. It's deeper than that. It's alot of me holding myself back from being th e man she saw when she married me. It's my own self sabotage that made her make a decision to leave. As well as a mistake I made. She'… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 09:12 PM |
| 0 | If she comes back.. I'll be the foolCause unfortunately I'm the one who caused it all...of it wasn't for me making my mistake (refer to my previous posts for insight) then she wouldn't of acted the way she did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 08:58 PM |
| 8 | Wife admitted to not loving meSame brother. Been 2 months since I was kicked out 4 months since separating, 8 yrs married 13 together, 2 kids and a step kid grown since then. And she is trying her hardest to forget me and move on with her life. But she knows she's leaving a good guy behind. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 12:48 AM |
| 21 | Wife admitted to not loving meWhat...is going on.... is this a theme this year? Are all men going to be single in 2025? Should we be planning a BBQ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 12:11 AM |
| 0 | Seeing my kids makes it difficult..It's been 6 months for me since this all blew up. 2 months since I moved out. I don't see it getting any better cause our relationship, although it was stagnant, was very active with family activities and gatherings. We've done everything together, and for her to just flip a switch like many other women have been doing at the same time these days I'm finding, this just all seems so forced. She's forcing herself to stop loving me cause she feels she is entitled to having a man who will buy her a … | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Seeing my kids makes it difficult..I get that.. my question was do I keep taking my step son, cause he is either gonna be home alone all weekend or she's gonna take him to a place he probably isn't gonna enjoy while she works all weekend, or do I take him for the sake of him being able to be around his siblings.. I'll feel horrible and I know she will to cause she'll have this guilt that she ruined our relatuonship...but at the same time I feel like I shouldn't be responsible for him if she is chosing to just trash me and replace… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 02:22 PM |
| 0 | Seeing my kids makes it difficult..Well... it's a little bit more complicated for me.. I've been with my stbx for 13 years.. my oldest is my stepson, who is 14. My biological kids are younger, but my step sons dad hasn't been in his life.. one of the things I've made sure is that I was there for my stepson, and he's now grown to know me as his dad. But now it's gotten to a weird place where I feel like my ex is just gonna use my stepson to find out things about me and report it to her. He's been very observant and is constantly i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 02:04 PM |
| 4 | What a bizarre end to a marriage.MEN! this is not a coincidence... 13 yrs and 8 married, and she just threw me away. I'm a great guy.. I'm nice, caring, a great father, handsome, tall, in shape, and hard worker.. but I lacked in the "date night" aspect. She told me she knows I'm a good guy, this is why it's hard for her to leave.. I don't get what women are chasing anymore. Cause it's not commitment. I've done a lot of reading. The one thing that stuck out through this learning journey is that the devil has been working extra h… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | How long til the pain fades?Update: thanks to everyone for their perspectives..it made me realize how fucked society is on the marriage stance and it seems like the more time goes on. The more the devil is winning the war.. 70% of divorces initiated by women. They are so lost in what u llit means to actually go through the ups and downs and just altogether quit instead of fighting to make it work.. dark times On another note, she took the kids to visit her brother in Arizona, hasn't texted me one..just sent me pictures if … | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How long til the pain fades?I've always been the husband to do what my wife wanted of me... I grew up in a household of abuse..and quickly learned what not to say or do to hurt someone on a personal level...she has gone as far as to call me a loser, worthless, waste of her time and effort, and every bitch or fuck u and ur feelings, type of energy that can be given...I'm not a fighter, so I sit there taking it with no help... she's made me feel like I am a waste of space..and that I'd be better off disappearing. She wants s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How long til the pain fades?"Anything" would literally mean anything in my mind. I'm not perfect, I have flaws just like anybody else... but change? Therapy? Work? The only thing I can do that I'm in the process of doing is making a path for myself.. embracing this newfound single life to reinvent myself and become a better person, whether it's for her or myself. I'm just tired of feeling like it's the end of my world.. Everybody makes mistakes, I just really feel my mistake could've been looked at differently considering … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 12:11 PM |
| 9 | Social mediaSame.. I told my wife that she was being convinced through socials cause I see the same damn things. Only my end is filled with the pain having to let go of her, and hers is filled with the "you're a strong independent woman who dont need a man to raise kid's"... Social media has fucked everything up... it truly is doing the devils work and making it easy, cause divorce rates are through the roof, dating apps are filled with single moms, and 80% of divorces are initiated by women today... So as … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 05:30 AM |
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