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| 1 | Asking her for a drink = Clear intention ??I agree you should warm her up first by complimenting her, playing around, teasing her, etc. Then, ask her out! (I remember this one girl I didn’t warm her up, or at least not enough!! May be one or 2 complepents!! I just asked her out directly. That was my mistake may be …) 2. But if you ask too directly, like: “Hey, I find you absolutely gorgeous, let’s grab a drink!” — as you said, it sounds way too forward. If she says no, it can get awkward afterward, especially if she’s in the same class o… | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Asking her for a drink = Clear intention ??We were in the activity, we exchanged intagram since 3 weeks, talking sometimes there, met many times there then, i sent her a message saying: "heey are you free for a drink on monday? | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Asking her for a drink = Clear intention ??Yes, but it seems that some women, accept the drink, even if she is not intrested by a date! | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Confidence vs LookConfidence is necessary, but NOT enough. Without social competence, the guy goes nowhere! I’ve seen plenty of very confident but socially awkward guys who manage to attract women at first, but things go nowhere afterwards because the women eventually notice the awkwardness and stop dating them! | /r/seduction | 03/07/25 12:56 PM |
| 7 | Confidence vs LookThere’s something I didn’t fully get at first when it came to dating: I used to talk openly about sex on the first date, but a lot of women saw it as a red flag and didn’t want a second one. So now, I avoid the topic during the first date. The thing is, I still feel like it’s important — otherwise the conversation feels flat, or it ends up just being a friendship… So what’s the right move? Should I bring it up openly? Or just sexualize the vibe without actually talking about it? I haven’t figure… | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Can you really attract women if you’re not doing well inside?Is there some psychological article about that? It seems true yes | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 01:42 AM |
| 4 | Can you really attract women if you’re not doing well inside?yep, but can't be good inside, tooo long period struggling, so lots of accumulations, and i think i was ignoring it, saying "i am good" ... et | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 01:41 AM |
| 5 | Can you really attract women if you’re not doing well inside?How will you feel if you were struggling for more than 6 or 7 years ? Not easy to deal with! Actually i don't mind (or i try not to mind) too much, but it seems deep and out of my control! | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 01:30 AM |
| 7 | Can you really attract women if you’re not doing well inside?What about if you never feel comfortable like me, even when i am alone!! Feel tensions, anxiety inside! I can handle, but feel it always! | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Shit tests, fail or not ? : )I wanted to Dm you but i couldn't : ) | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Shit tests, fail or not ? : )Just be playful, and not serious in the answers when they pick you on something. Try to return the question/game on them! Small: hahah You’re trying to throw me off? 😁 You got a crush on me, hein! “playful tone” But I find that a girl who “teases” you about your physique small, fat, ugly face… is not appropriate. This is not teasing, this is kind of insulting! I generally don’t continue playing with these kinds (of girls)! | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 11:45 AM |
| 0 | Shit tests, fail or not ? : )You can be yourself, and give a serious answer to a shit test😅 Believe me, it ends the game easily hhh | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Teasing! The most important ingredient!What do you guys think about his teasing above? 👆 (I saw he got downvoted.) Was it offensive? Boring? Inappropriate for a girl you’ve only known for a few weeks? I’d really like to hear your opinions, because I’ve already seen some guys doing some similar things.... | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 10:52 AM |
| 6 | What did you do that made you go from unattractive to attractive to women?Yep, starting " Neutral" is the best thing! | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?Bro, try to glow up, physically by sport, body building, make money, and even surgery, that helps too much! Even if i know it takes loots of time, but it's doable! Keep fighting Bro 💪💪 | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?Actually, I didn’t know about Tyler before — I discovered him maybe a week ago. And honestly, I really liked his approach. To tell the truth, the guy is talented. He’s got a great sense of humor and a good voice tone, that’s for sure. And he’s not particularly good-looking, which makes his skills even more impressive. That said, most of the videos he posts seem to be with tourists. Almost all of them, from what I’ve seen. Personally, I’ve tried approaching women in touristy cities (i mean in pla… | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?How to learn how to talk ? | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 01:36 AM |
| -1 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?You can work on yourself and have choice also? you don't believe in it ? one obvious way is to work on money, and celebrity in a field, and you will have all of them on your foot !! But this is not our topic : ) | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 01:08 AM |
| -2 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?I don't believe in the "impossible" they are just humain like you!! And may be you are too much more intelligent than them : ) | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?i can be agree with you "personality matters too much too, but in this case i believe you should be gifted in talking and high emotional intelligence" | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 12:48 AM |
| 0 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?We are talking about something like, regularly : ) | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 12:48 AM |
| -4 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?I am agree...... confidence matters and too much! But if you are a 3 or 4 , like short and big nose! You can bring even the D. Trump confidence, it doesn't matter in the most cases (((i would like the ones voted - 1 here, discuss the point and not just vote)).... be real bro, we are not exagerating here .... looks matters, and confidence without good look in moooost cases doesn't bring too much result comparing to a good looking one .......... i mean the difference is just "HUGE" .... i mean rea… | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?Agree with this bro! Well said, i meant the level of difficulties for an 4/10 is too high, but all what you said helps ../. | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 10:52 PM |
| 4 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?What about if you are small with a large nose? what can you do ? | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 10:33 PM |
| -1 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?what do you mean? | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Level of difficulty on datingI don’t believe in that! It only depends on you! | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How would you react ? Empathy problem!That's what i was thinking about! I sent you a Pm | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How would you react ? Empathy problem!thanks for your answer! i sent you a Pm! | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | How would you react ? Empathy problem!i mean! I was talking about the studies or a university project.... etc "as a normal small talk", in 2 seconds i found myself in an other situation :/ ...... what would you do i my place ? | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Be friend with women!I sent you a Pm! | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 10:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you detect Flakes?In my experience, there are many who aren’t really interested and are just looking for attention. Sometimes they simply don’t like you physically, or there’s just something they don’t like — whatever it is — but they still keep talking to you, even meeting up, just for the attention or for some kind of favor, whatever that favor may be, but they still do it. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Be friend with women!“Friendzone” here just means being interested and open to a friendship—if she’s not interested in something more. But if you’re not open to being friends with her, then she won’t be your friend, even if she is open to it. In most cases, when I realized there wasn’t going to be anything more, even if they wanted to stay friends or keep in touch, I would just move on and cut contact. You see what I mean? Let me know what do tou think about that! : ) | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Be friend with women!what do you mean ? can you explain? thanks | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you detect Flakes?there exists many in club that are not at all intrested, but talk to you just to invite her to a drink! From my experiece! | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you detect Flakes?Good, but this very clear 😁, looking for most subtel things , thanks for answer | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 08:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you detect Flakes?The first 2 points are clear Do you think the point 3 and 4 are always true? Thanks for discussing : ) | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Be friend with women!sent you Pm | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Be friend with women!I didn’t go too much into detail, but you did it for me — thanks bro! That’s exactly what I meant on that point. Way too much time wasted (not always but veryyyy often) for almost nothing in the end. I think it’s better to keep only the ones who bring something positive from the start, and not too much negativity… The kind of girl you can at least have a good time with, laugh together, plan fun nights out, or whatever help you progressing your social life ...... | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Be friend with women!Sent you a Pm | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Be friend with women!In my opinion, this can happen, but the probability is very low. Once she friendzones you, it’s really hard to get out of that zone | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Be friend with women!that's a good friendship hhhh | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Be friend with women!sent you a pm | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 10:08 AM |
| 0 | Be friend with women!bro, i am talking about a girl who is "NOT" intrested in plus 😁 | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 02:24 AM |
| 0 | Be friend with women!what do you mean? | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Be friend with women!It’s not really that! It’s just that if she’s not interested in something more, I automatically assume nothing will happen. But tell me, do you still keep girls like that in your circle? For example, if she’s in the same group of people with you, "example: a new grp is being formed"; do you still stay friendly with her? Personally, I used to just stop talking to her — I’d see it as a waste of time if I felt there was no chance. But now I’m wondering… is that really a good idea? Or maybe it’s bet… | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Be friend with women!I sent you a Pm | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 11:06 PM |
| 6 | Be friend with women!I think my problem is that I get blocked whenever I’m interested in a girl in the group and she’s not interested — or only wants to be friends. It’s like I don’t want to have any kind of relationship with her after that. Maybe it’s my ego or something. But I’ve realized that this mindset makes me miss out on a lot of other opportunities, just like you said. What do you think about that? How do you deal with it? | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 11:06 PM |
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