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Nonsense. Marx was a feminist and the left has been historically defined by feminists such as Beauvoir, Zetkin, Luxembourg, Krupskaya, Kollontai, Mother Bloor, Angela Davis, Mary Wollstonecraft, to name a few. Every noteworthy socialist or communist man had been a feminist as well. To say that leftism "wants women to be public property" is probably the stupidest thing I have ever read in an argument about political economy. The "socialism means open marriage"-myth was promulgated by the far righ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:56 PM
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Damn, that's good! Reminds me of my parents -- when they were younger, my dad would build things (mostly woodwork) and my mom would paint them. Talk about goals~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:27 PM
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Power move
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:15 PM
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"I got a promotion at work and I give presents to my kids on Christmas. So I think it's okay if I cheated on my wife of 14 years and started a cocaine habit. What do you guys think?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:14 PM
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B-but according to all those banners on the sides of the po- I mean, websites that he visits, there are PLENTY of hot singles in his area! I'm sure they're just dying to talk to him. I mean, watch how easily these two strapping young gents find a chick within a mere four hours of scouring the Internet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:13 PM
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This dude is out here, revealing that he and his friends are losers, but are blaming matrimony for it. You might as well blame mayonnaise. I mean, think about it: mayonnaise is dominating the condiment market. It costs money, occasionally it runs out, and when you don't have any for your fries, it's very emotionally taxing! But if you show your love for mayonnaise in public, watch your friends disappear! Mayonnaise: lose your friends, your refrigerator space, your sex life, your respect, your ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:06 PM
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This! It's an issue that should be addressed. I've had numerous female friends act this way towards me -- meanwhile, I grew up learning that dirty laundry should be washed at home and not aired in public, so I don't tell my friends about very personal details unless it was something extremely positive or negative, like I was accepted into a job or I had a bad accident. But I've had too many female friends who'd exploit our friendship just to vent about their boyfriends that are extremely toxic a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:54 PM
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If a group of mothers gathered around a firepit for a drink, it would make headlines. It would make front page of InfoWars, and Alex Jones would do a piece on it and associate this new-found radical feminism with a Chinese communist brain-manipulation plot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:24 PM
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Often it's a combination of three or more, and "porn addict" is necessarily one of them. If they're not "woke", then they're delusional bigots who think that misogyny is the "Christian way", even though Jesus was the biggest feminist to ever walk around in sandals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:20 PM
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I've been accused of faking sexual harassment stories because I'm "too ugly" to be harassed, even though the person who sent me that message hasn't the foggiest idea what I look like. Further goes to show that for a scrote, his go-to insult to any woman is slut, bitch, ugly or "nobody wants you." In other words, things relating to sexuality or appearance, because they can't imagine a woman being anything beyond that. Apparently, the guy recognized himself in the horrible man I described in one p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:30 PM
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Good grief. This man's not just a degenerate, but illiterate as well. "perspective mates"? What, he needs somebody with glasses to drive for him or something? Also, totally not the mentality of a rapist or mugger: "I deserve this thing because. Now give it to me." From there it's a slippery slope into inceldom and running over random pedestrians in an SUV or trying to blow up the cheerleading team.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:13 PM
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This degenerate trying to explain male anatomy like she's an expert belongs on r/BadMensAnatomy. Men communicate and recharge sexually??? The hell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:46 PM
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From a joke I once heard on Tumblr eons ago: "chumps go half on the rent with their girlfriend. REAL men let their girlfriends pay for the whole rent while they pursue their dream of a rap career."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:12 PM
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"This sub is basically terrorism: they support inter-female friendship, endorse feminism, teach women the wily ways of manipulators and PUAs, and motivate women to think more highly of themselves and not to sell themselves short. Basically the same thing as ISIS!" Also, a "balance" can only truly happen when both partners have a healthy self-image and also respect each other. This is exactly what FDS seeks to help women with achieving. That is why there's even a spin-off sub dedicated towards le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:47 PM
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Ew. This guy reads like a loan shark hunting down down unsuspecting freelancers on a Facebook hobby forum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:34 PM
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*Ted Bundy enters the chat*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:22 PM
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He'd blame his receding hairline on women too if he could figure out how.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:53 PM
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"No one wants to suck my dick and frankly, I think not getting a blowjob is infinitely worse than being blown up by ISIS. I don't know what those anti-ISIS fighters are freaking out about, but they should stop what they're doing and tell women to embrace my glorious peen. I've already called the FBI about forcing feminists to have sex with me, and so far they still have me on hold. Wait a second, I can hear sirens coming down the street. Oh, it looks like a SWAT van? Oh good, they must be here t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:12 PM
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God as if I didn't have enough reason to be wary of guys. I was shocked when I first learned about TRP, because I had realized that the father of my best friend from elementary school was a classic red-piller, and that many high school boys, both popular guys and loners, the funny guys and the angry guys, the sporty guys and the nerdy guys, were falling quick and deep into the rabbit hole of the red pill. Now there's this. I had always known that there were guys out there who went for PUA stuff,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:25 PM
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It's hilarious really. There are guys out there who are neat and organized, experiment with (facial) hair until they find something that suits them, and even care about grooming their body hair. They wear clean clothes, wash regularly and smell clean without overdoing it with cologne. Add to this that they are friendly, determined and laid-back. And (BIG shocker!) they are the kind of people who attract others, male or female. And then there are those guys who think "meh, women don't care about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:13 PM
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r/facepalm is filled with bigots -- I've left that sub recently when I made the mistake of scrolling through the comment section and coming across a metric ton of racism, homophobia and misogyny. Apparently that's were all of the MGTOWers went after several of their subs went down. Same with r/instantkarma and to a lesser extent r/PublicFreakout (which banned me for posting anti-police sentiments, but doesn't ban others for posting aggressive threats against protesters).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:32 PM
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The amount of MGTOW and red-pilled LVM in that comment section is sickening. Only a few HVM stand by Ramsey or condemn the jerk who abandoned his wife and daughter. Out of hundreds of straight men who commented on that video or upvoted each other, fewer than five are HVM. That's how many good men are out there, compared to how many expect to abuse, exploit and abandon a wife that they haven't even met yet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:28 PM
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When you have to justify your behavior by telling yourself "that other person probably has past issues or bad experiences", you REALLY need to reflect on your behavior, because that's a HORRIBLE justification. I don't get the guys who are so blind to their own creepiness. I've also been approached in evenings and at night, EVEN WHILE I WAS TALKING ON THE PHONE. I hate it when I'm being bothered while I'm on the phone, especially when it's an important conversation with my family. Also, funny how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:45 PM
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"All men watch it! It's normal!" I'm so tired of this excuse. It's typically addict lingo. They think if all women are insecure and prudish for not wanting their bf or husband to watch porn, and they think a man is either a freak or a liar if he says he doesn't watch porn. Their libido is high on one hand because they are addicted to porn, but on the other hand they can't get stimulated by anything except for porn. So they get blue balls all the time, even at work, when something -- maybe a wet …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:05 PM
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I agree. I'd rather stay single and adopt kids. No emotional or physical pain, and I get to provide for some children who otherwise might have to grow up in a sad orphanage all of their lives. Win-win situation for both sides.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:47 PM
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So this ass-wipe is actually trying to say that he, in normal mode, healthy and well, is just as feeble as a woman who is going to give birth soon or has just given birth? If he's such a feeble little child, let his mom take care of him until he decides to become a grown-up like the rest of us, and takes care of his own utensils. In my household there reigns the motto: unless that person is sick, whoever dealt it cleans up after it. When I bake and make a dozen bowls and utensils dirty, I clean …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:17 PM
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Yes. And the positive side-effect of living life for yourself is that you will face fewer douche bags (douches are allergic to strongly independent people), you will build your own financial stability, you will do the things you like and make friends with the people you like, and maybe, on your travels, you will fall in love with a wonderful person. And if you don't, that's okay too, because rather spend your life single and enjoying it, than in a relationship and miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:35 PM
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One of the guys at my high school was gay. He almost exclusively hung around the girls, because the boys thought that he'd rape them if they turned their back to him. I've heard one of them say "I'm not going on a week-long class trip with that guy. If we ended up sharing a room I'd have to tie him down every night before going to bed to make sure he doesn't surprise me from behind." That's scary. It's the logic of supremacists: "Group XY might attack me, I better attack them first to be sure th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:20 PM
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These are gorgeous!! You go girl! I hope you have like an Art Station or DeviantArt account or something, or that you sell these prints. I love owls and can imagine hanging that owl print above my writing desk next to my favorite owl carved stone statuette :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:38 PM
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Biology is only used as an argument by these assclowns when it's convenient to them. The same ones who excuse rape are also the ones saying how "biologically" Blacks are closer to apes that Whites, gays are "biologically" wired to rape straight men when they get the chance, and straight men are "biologically" wired to like women with big breasts, small waists, long hair and round ass. But when you counter any of their inane poppycock with "biologically, everything you said is horse shit without …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:30 PM
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"always fully shaven, is into all of my kinks but has none of her own" > this. I can understand having hair preferences, but it's the hypocrisy that bugs me. I get rid of my body hair regularly because I personally don't like it (I like the feeling of smooth skin), but I don't like it when a guy's like "I like my ladies shaved" but he's hairy as King Kong and could braid a replica of Gimli's beard from his armpit hair. I find long armpit hair (or any, really) very yucky, but try telling that to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:16 PM
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This is a beautiful poem. I'm saving this one to my hard drive and am going to re-read it several times a month, it's perfect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 07:18 PM
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Unless he's a barista and his apartment is actually a Starbucks, this is unspeakable, not just from a bf to a gf, but from any host to their guest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 07:44 PM
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At the same time, straight men are much less likelier than women to be faithful and supportive of a (terminally) sick spouse. But they expect women to be their mommies, nurses, therapists, cooks, maids and concubines at no extra cost!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:40 PM
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I like how he's making it sound like the fault lies with the women for not choosing a guy based solely on the reason that he fancies her, when he should be encouraging male positivity and telling shy guys "you guys have no excuse now but to try to initiate conversation yourselves". He should be empowering guys to overcome their fears, NOT make them feel like women are their hostages who have no choice but to comply!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 03:07 PM
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Someone posted here like a few months ago that HVM have a high-value work ethic, and damn if that isn't true! They're the best partners, dads, best friends and employees. They're the kind of people who save lives, do their utmost without asking anything in return, and can turn a crisis situation into something tolerable and safe. LVMs, meanwhile, want to go halfsies on a movie ticket and expect BJ's in exchange for a half-assed compliment. Their idea of serenading is sending a dick pic, and they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 02:34 PM
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Imagine if they would post about a similar addiction, like crack or alcohol. Nobody would side with them and everybody would tell them to isolate themselves from their partner and go to a rehab ASAP! Even more than that, nobody except depressives who hate themselves would openly admit to being a cokehead or an alcoholic! But for some reason, when it's porn, it's a-okay, and if the partner or friend doesn't it like it, they're "unreasonable" and "can't communicate well". If I found out that a guy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 01:50 PM
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Pervs be like "We are biologically hardwired to like women with big hips, thin waists, big tits, round asses and long naturally colored hair, because those are indicative of a woman who can breed well. So don't accuse us of being perverts, mother nature just made us that way!" Also pervs: "ew my fat wife just gave birth for the second time and her tits became saggy and stuff, and she's put on some weight. What are my options to cheat on her with a teenager who might die in birth if I impregnate …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 01:46 PM
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On highly frequented subreddits and on other social media like Youtube they still carry on as if porn is not only normal but healthy, like sparkling water. Some kid will speak up about how porn is "totes cool" and call everyone who disagrees a "feminist bitch", and the creepy grown-up men applaud him like he's just passed of rite of passage. Congratulations, kid, you've become a sadistic pervert before you hit drinking age, and you will become impotent before you hit 30. Have fun! Fortunately so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 01:42 PM
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Yes unfortunately it's extremely common for guys to leave their sick spouses/girlfriends or to be so negligent that the spouse/gf herself files for divorce. I hope this woman gets herself a good lawyer and that the laws in her state let her demand alimony from this bastard in exchange for that student debt she had paid. In Germany at least, the money you paid out during the beginning of your marriage will play a role in the divorce proceedings. A counter-measure to gold-digging, because that is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:19 PM
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Only a short while ago did my job relegate everybody to home office, but before that, some male colleagues showed up at work SICK, saying it was "no big deal". Jesus Christ, during a pandemic is no time to show much of an alpha male you are. Anyways, I'm lucky that we don't have to hoard yet. A state of emergency has been declared, but so far there has been no reason to stock up -- supermarkets and gas stations are required to go into overdrive (more frequent stocking, opening on Sundays...). Of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:54 PM
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I recall one cool guy on Twitter who said something to the effect of "Women are doing too much communicating and not enough telling guys to fuck off." Couldn't agree more. Why waste words or emotions on somebody who is lower than a hamster on the scale of emotional intelligence?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:40 PM
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It's crazy how forgiving people will be of sexual sadists. There was a serial killer in the States a long time ago (I forgot his name but he was in one of Shrouded Hands' videos on Killers Who Appeared on TV), who became a kind of national celebrity. He had been convicted for robbing and murdering people, but when he came out he was very open to questions, answered the 1970's version of an AMA, and claimed to be completely rehabilitated. Everybody loved him and fawned over him. It's the prodigal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:37 PM
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Good people do their utmost and ask for nothing in return. Losers do jack-shit and expect everything in return. Seeing people like this man is heart-warming <3 I wish the best for them both in these trying times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 09:30 PM
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They constantly try to normalize porn over there. When a woman is in a terrible relationship, the go-to responses (from men or LVWs) are a) go see a therapist (only the woman, mind you, not her abusive, pervy man); b) it's her fault for being so close-minded as to think that porn is bad (even though it's easily just as bad as any hard drug); c) the female OP is probably deranged, cuz there's no way a man would behave that way! (even though many men do, but isn't victim-blaming fun?) d) just comm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:35 PM
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This is great advice, I absolutely agree with this. I didn't think of this at the time. Even more stupidly, I could have texted my best friend, who was coincidentally with her boyfriend only a block away from where I was. They had a car and could have easily picked me up, but because I was confused about what was happening (I'm from a relatively morally conservative background -- no smoking or drugs, and my family and I drink alcohol maybe three times a year), I didn't even think that I could ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:23 PM
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I don't get the girls who think they're so cool for "stealing" away a man. Bitch, you didn't steal him, he decided to take you for a ride because he realized he can get some cheap pussy this way. And why on Earth would you want to date somebody who has already shown you that he's willing to cheat on or break ties with somebody he had already invested time and emotions in, just to get with another girl who is younger or looser? If a guy who is taken tries to flirt with me, immediate shut down. He…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:14 PM
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Just gonna put this out there: Ted Bundy's main tactic was to ask women to give him a helping hand. Always be wary. Rather look like a live bitch than end up a dead bitch. Also, about friends: avoid people who are emotionally draining. I've got guy friends with whom I genuinely enjoy time with and who have done favors for me in the past without expecting anything in return. They're HVMs as far as I can tell and would never ask me a personal question or put me in an uncomfortable position, e.g. a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:58 PM
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There is nothing cute about this. He's making his wife sound like she's an insulin shot and he's got diabetes. I'd rather follow the relationship goals that my parents and grandparents set before me. My parents: "we met over a blind date and quickly discovered that we wanted the same things: a stable, serious relationship, hang out with friends, and travel around the country. We liked the same restaurants, movies and TV shows. So we got married." My maternal grandpa, about his late wife (my gran…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:18 PM
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These degenerates are acting exactly the way a criminal acts when he knows he'll get more than a slap on the wrist for his crimes. I'm reminded of the "anti capital punishment" rally in Georgia, which occurred shortly before a homicidal maniac hitman was to be executed, and the rally consisted of his close relatives pretending to be protesters. Boohoo, these crooks are crying over legal justice. Good -- judges should twist the thumb-screws even tighter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:48 PM
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For those people who want to avoid being on the receiving end of a Micky Finn: - many date-rape drugs work in non-alcoholic drinks as well. - if you have to leave your drink to go somewhere, either leave it with a bartender or with a female friend. Even if a guy friend wouldn't do it, another who wants to do it might ask him for the drink or draw his attention away. If you have no options, down the drink before leaving and order another one afterwards. - if you've been drugged, isolate yourself.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:34 PM
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Holy shit you're right -- I glossed over that at first and thought "hm, 150 lbs is fat?" 150 freaking kilos my guy lay off the tortillas for a while and get ye to a gym talk to women when you've fixed your lifestyle but most importantly when you've fixed your attitude towards women This man needs some more Richard Simmons in his life, god damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:38 PM
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If I had a dollar for every time a guy tried to coax me into sex or into going alone with him late at night in a secluded location by using the argument that I'm a young modern strong independent who is "liberated", I'd have enough to retire by the age of 45 and live out the rest of my life on the island of St. Thomas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 05:43 PM
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"Women need help moving furniture" says the man who has to get his toddler to drive him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 05:17 PM
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Short for simpleton.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 05:16 PM
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What even goes through the heads of guys that do this? That it will make them more desirable or something? That they look fashionably late? Guys who are serial flakers or who flake and then don't apologize for it are blocked/ghosted immediately. Then they try to crawl back -- not apologetic, mind you! but aggressive and angry, as if it's somehow my fault for not wanting to waste time on a man who can't even come to freaking lunch on time. Bye bye sucker. Use all that unspent date-money to get yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 01:28 PM
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Imagine if the genders were flipped. All the guys would be enraged at how much of a shallow gold-digger the OP is! What is interesting is the gender-balance in the comments. So, most of the comments point out that the OP is a complete jerk come from women. Curious, no? But those comments that support the OP completely are mostly from guys. How about that? The anti-OP crowd (mostly women) is focusing on the terrible chemistry and, in particular, the OP's terrible attitude and asshole personality.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 01:22 PM
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It's a very good point that "traditional" courting and marriage processes were (well, still are) way more progressive than female TRPers and even many feminists give them credit for. I'm from a religious family myself (of Russian descent, so we're Russian Orthodox Christians). Pre-marital sex is out the window. Also, it's bad form to even touch a woman or shake hands with her if you're a man who does not know her very well. And all of the points you mentioned in your post also apply. I myself wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:37 PM
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BuT guYs ArE tHE RAtioNaL OnEs, It'S wAmeN wHo arE EMotiOnAL... /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:36 PM
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As a software engineer myself it's scary how many TRPers, sex weirdos and sadists are among developers/programmers. To date I've only ever had pleasant relationships with guys outside of my own field, and I only know of two HVMs from my own field (both are guy friends, one is a friend only because I'm good friends with his wife, who is also a programmer). Why even is this? You'd think that guys who have to do a lot of mental gymnastics on a daily basis are less likely to become manipulative dege…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:59 PM
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When you reject somebody, you see their true colors. If somebody can keep their cool and retain their politeness post-rejection, they absolutely have my respect. This applies to others who find out about the rejection as well. I once rejected a pervy colleague point-blank by telling him that I'm a cheap hooker who wants to give a sleazebag like him the time of day in exchange for a few of his phony compliments. Word got around pretty quickly -- some of the other employees (male and female) tried…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 06:44 PM
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I believe it's called "Schrödinger's Woman", where a girl can be a saint or a slut depending on whether it's before or after she's been asked out by a total creep. It's an interesting paradox. If she rejects a pervert's advances, somehow that makes her a slut, although logically, if she was a slut, she would most likely accept his advances then. The other implication is that, despite being promiscuous, she finds him so abhorrent that even she, a woman with low standards, doesn't want to give him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 06:36 PM
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High-value people in a nutshell, both spouses and friends: they want to make you happy and comfortable because that, in turn, makes them feel happy. Aristotelian morality: noble deeds have a bigger impact on those around you and last much longer than instant, hedonistic gratification. If somebody doesn't live life like this and take their friends, colleagues and relatives for granted, they will 100% take their gf or spouse for granted as well. That's the core mentality of an LVM: it's all about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:34 PM
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That's why I always pretend to be a guy when I'm gaming (I don't use voice chat then). Been doing this since I was about 12. In real life, it's important to have HVM not just as your dates, but also as your friends. I've had LVMs and HVMs as friends, and it seems to me that every LVM friend is just another tool who is nice to you because he wants you to be a sex-buddy, or to be a trophy-friend that he can show off to his friends while telling them that you're his gf even when you're not, or to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:16 PM
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Incredible how it's acceptable for a man to put no effort into a relationship but to expect and even coerce sexual favors and emotional support from a woman, but it's controversial for a woman to expect her date to pay for her drink or meal when HE asks her out? Common etiquette even dictates that when you invite somebody, unless you've made it clear to go Dutch beforehand, you should pay for them because you're the host. There is this one LVM at work who kept hovering around me, thinking that j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:19 PM
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Agreed! And it's an obviously big red flag if you're one of the women that the taken guy is being overly affectionate to. Even if it's just a girlfriend -- if someone has promised exclusivity to somebody else, they have to stick to that. If they don't stay within borders, then they're either too weak-willed to call off an unhappy relationship or manipulative enough to want the best of both worlds. Both things indicate extreme selfishness. I'd also like to add that the same goes for people who fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:45 PM
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Pickmeshas also rarely make for good friends. They'll forfeit all female relationships for their new man (invariably LVM), until they get lonely and bored and come crawling back to you to entertain them and post on their social media. That said, Pickmeshas do have a place in society. They help the rest of us weed out LVMs: when I'm on the fence as to whether a date or flirtatious colleague is an LVM, my question is answered when I see him going after a flirty Pickmesha like a fox after a chicken…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:06 PM
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When a criminal is caught and punished, he comes back for revenge and does something even more horrible. It's the same thing that happens to employers who fire employees that embezzle money. It's sad, because what else can you do? Let somebody ruin your life and workplace, or take the law in your own hands? Frustrating and tragic situation to be in...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:24 PM
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In my experience, guys who've been through bullying or discrimination exhibit great levels of empathy and often turn out to be more feminist than myself. I wonder if many women learn compassion and perception by putting up with a lot of crap? This has held true for both the highly educated and the barely educated men I've met. I live in Western Europe, so everyone who is Slavic or colored or Asian tends to have a troubled childhood growing up in these parts. I'm an expat myself (anti-Americanism…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 09:54 PM
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Classic narcissistic manipulator move: cut SO away from job, friends and family (except her kids, which are hung like a millstone around her neck), take away her freedom of movement, and make her financially dependent on you. It makes it easier for toxic individuals to manipulate, coerce, blackmail and abuse their SO under these circumstances. This is the kind of tactic Onision would use on his victims, and I've seen numerous women, ranking from those that my mother was friends, to those that I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:47 PM
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I think that both is okay, but slagging off on somebody just because they want an expensive celebration is stupid. A friend of my parents said that there are champagne people, and then there are beer people. Both are okay as long as they stay in their own boundaries. If a champagne girl has found a champagne man, why judge? Sit with your beer man and be happy. Happiness means finding joy in what you've got without comparing yourself to others. If you've got to insult the champagne crowd to make …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:19 PM
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This. This this this. I woke up to this realization not too long ago and now I can breathe easier. I can cope better with difficult situations, I am not afraid to pursue knowledge, I refuse to help people who I know won't be grateful for it, and instead I give favors to good people even if they didn't ask for it because I know that they have done and will do the same for me. Cut off all the dead weight -- people who don't appreciate your company and avoid doing anything positive for you even tho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 05:49 PM
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I think that there are definitely happily married couples out there (I know a few from my own family background, and some from among my acquaintances). When two high-value people click, then it would take something very serious to tear them asunder again. That said, I think that the unhappy married couples in your area may be bad luck of living in an area that doesn't have any good examples of happy marriages, or it could just be that unhappily married people stick out more. Like Tolstoy said, e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:11 PM
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Quickest way to identify a LVM: he hates FDS and calls for quarantining subreddits dedicated to HVMs, supporting abuse victims, giving dating advice to women, teaching respect, and raising awareness of the evils of pornography. Look at the way that people react to the two subreddits: - MGTOW: anti-MGTOW people do not say things like "they need to be slaughtered" or "they should all be raped". Instead, people calmly criticize them for their aggressive extremism, make fun of the stupid things they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:07 PM
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Right on. Being in a relationship for the sake of it will not end well. It's always better to be single than in a toxic situation, or as one wise man once put it to me, don't give up your solitude until you meet somebody who is better than not being single and free. Agatha Christie said something along a similar line: if you act like a worm, you'll be crushed underfoot. This woman has been letting the guy treat her worse and worse without retaliation. He's going to keep treating her worse just t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:16 PM
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