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Dress like a feminine goth. Pastel hair is fine as long as it suits you and doesn't make you look cheap. Think of a high-value man goth style. A guy that plays an instrument and has beautiful tattoos, that works out and has a job he's passionate about. You can attract the best mate in your style of choice. Not all high value men are "regular" men. Don't play dress up to fit the norms. Be yourself and have value. Cook cute cupcakes with bat candies and take care of yourself. Create a goth home. L…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 09:35 AM
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So you're badmouthing him to others? Poor guy doesn't even know his supposed ally is backstabbing him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 09:22 AM
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There's this rule in the sub that says you shouldn't badmouth your SO. The focus of this sub is to work on yourself. How did you end up with him? If he's as bad as you say, you either need to leave him and work on yourself instead of being disrespectful and self-pitying. You either have such a low SMV you can only score low value men OR you're making him look bad and want us to jump on the wagon with you and bash him too. Do you even give him the chance to lead the relationship? How are you work…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 09:20 AM
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I can relate so much with this. I've kind of really insisted with SO getting married but now I'm working hard on STFU because I know pressuring him won't lead us anywhere and will just make him less motivated to stick to me. Instead, I've decided to be better so that he'll WANT to make me his lifelong partner. He already says he wants to marry but makes it as something that will happen in a few years down the road (which I used to panic and hamster about). Then I thought "It's nice to talk but w…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/16 02:36 PM
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My social life consists of hanging out with SO (and/or chilling on the couch with his sister) and occasionaly eating out with groups of coworkers (I work at a call center and the teams usually go out once and a while). Sometimes I go out with SO and his friends. I don't really go out with friends as I don't have many.
/r/RedPillWives21/06/16 04:54 PM
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It's not easy at all, that's true! But keeping only what brings you true, genuine joy, is amazing!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/16 09:50 PM
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I used to be in the same situation - tshirts and jeans + sneakers. My main change has been buying dresses and sandals and matching purses. 1) I feel comfy but put together, which is a great confidence boost. It makes me feel sexier and playful (which is a big plus with SO). 2) I get a lot of compliments from other women. I don't feel as out of place when I'm with other girls that I used to feel shy around. 3) Bonus point: dresses open up a lot of flirting oportunities with SO. Regarding etiquett…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/16 09:41 PM
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Then start KonMari'ing the hell out of your stuff. You should tackle your hoarding issue as early as possible. It can get ugly fast.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/16 09:20 PM
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I'd recommend KonMari first. Her method allows you to remove all the useless stuff you own, and the less you own, the less it piles up. As to the part of enjoying the activity of cleaning... I'd say to make a workout out of it. I like cleaning with music, I dust away as I dance and sing along. Tips to make sure it gets done: -A trash can in every room, to make sure candy wraps and kleenexes don't pile up. -Everything kitchen related shall go back to the kitchen under 24 hours (that means, don't …
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/16 04:37 PM
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Do you have kids? Or planning to? I don't want kids out of marriage. I personally think it wouldn't work out because if someone can't commit to marry me, I won't commit to have kids with that person because kids are a far more serious commitment. At least to me. Are you working? What do you do? I work at a call center and do translation jobs on the side. Are you a SAHM or thinking about becoming one once you have kids? I wouldn't go full SAHM. Although I fully trust my boyfriend, I still enjoy b…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/16 11:37 AM
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I'm currently revamping too :D I'm going for dresses and brighter colors now that it's summer. Floral prints, whites, nudes, pinks, pastels... If you're wearing pants, matching it with a top with a soft material will give a feminine touch to it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/16 07:53 PM
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Get a boob lift to perk them up. https://www.realself.com/question/breast-lift-vs-breast-augmentation I don't think you should get implants if you're not sure about it. I understand why your husband might have commented if you looked completely different before, but your body is going to change as years go by. If you take the surgery and get implants, when is it going to stop? How much surgery is it going to need to keep him satisfied as you both get older and wrinkly and saggy in general? There…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/16 02:44 PM
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I've been living with my boyfriend and his parents for 11 months now. We had ups and downs but in the end he will always put his foot down when needed, mostly for "us" time. I would suggest removing the doorknob. This way you can close the door and the cat can come in during the night by opening the door himself. What worries me in this is that your boyfriend doesn't oppose his parents and disregards your needs. Yes a captain will have his way, but a true captain takes in account all the people …
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/16 03:55 PM
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Chocolate or flowers for your mom and a good bottle of wine for your dad. It's best to go for something generic instead of something very specific your parents might not like.
/r/RedPillWives23/05/16 11:42 AM
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I'll have to head to a gyno if going off the pill doesn't improve the situation. Damn. It must've been scary for you then! To be in pain all of a sudden.
/r/RedPillWives22/05/16 10:56 AM
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I'm glad it worked out for you by switching the angle. Unfortunatly for my SO and I, I can only handle missionary well (as long as he isn't all in). But it's very true that switching up positions and trying new angles can help and we do work on that wink wink Thankfully /u/cats_or_get_out gave me hope that I can solve the problem. Thank you so much for your advice though and good luck finding more enjoyable positions for you to try out with your man :D Edit to answer your question: I don't think…
/r/RedPillWives21/05/16 11:31 PM
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SO and me are considering relying on condoms and pull out because we agreed I had a higher libido and didn't feel pain before I started taking the pill. I think the pill really is the worst for me because of how it impacts my hormones. I used to just handle the pain when it started but I've talked about it with him and he doesn't want to hurt me and make me endure extreme pain. He's really understanding about this and made me realize that I'm not less of a woman due to this issue. I think sex is…
/r/RedPillWives21/05/16 11:24 PM
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Heart shapped ;)
/r/RedPillWives21/05/16 11:12 PM
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Not sure if anyone in this situation but how do you girls cope with extremely painful sex? For reasons such as hormonal changes (aka the pill), vaginismus, infections, low cervix, etc? Sex is really important, but how to act when it creates a lot of pain for the woman? Just wondering how other women deal with this kind of this situation.
/r/RedPillWives21/05/16 08:01 PM
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Thank you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/16 06:33 PM
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It's wonderful to be given the space to grow and become stronger (for both you and him). From what you explained, I don't know how much of this ends up being him stepping up and regarding your needs (aka captain material) vs taking revenge regardless of your needs. Sure, you two went through rough times but wouldn't a captain have stepped up way before in a way that he could manage your needs when his were crushed? I don't know but I don't feel there is much respect going on from either side. Yo…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/16 01:42 PM
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Thank you, you're so nice :) you should share your story too.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/16 01:13 PM
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Friendship isn't made overnight. It took me over 11 months to actually start having conversations with female coworkers (about more personal stuff) and it will take some more before we start hanging out. I think some people have a harder time making friends (for some random reason). My SO is popular and invites me along to everything, so it's a great way to put me in a position in which I interact with people. I also found doing exclusively female activities (such as getting my nails and eyebrow…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/16 12:54 PM
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I do and I know I hamster A LOT. Read above... "Becoming a better woman". That means learning to control the hamstering too.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 06:33 PM
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Well I do agree with you - I feel I have to explain every post I do on here. To me, a conversation is not productive if people say "do this" or "you're like this" if they don't put "because..." because if I decide to follow advice without understanding why I'm doing it, it just means I'm following a rule book, not learning/growing. An argument to me is when I invalidate what you are saying - if I question it, it means I'm accepting to evaluate what you're saying. I could get advice and not answe…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 04:40 PM
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You're right. Yeah, a hobbie would be nice. I overthink everything too much. Thanks for redirecting me. I'll follow that advice - maybe pick up reading or writting again since it's relaxing.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 04:31 PM
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Why the hell am I arguying? I'm explaining and asking questions. I'm not attacking anyone. Again I don't really see how I'm being dishonest but I'm going to follow your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 04:07 PM
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I don't see where I'm lying or lacking honesty. Sure, I don't know exactly how to qualify the time I spent in a relationship. Does that mean I'm lying? Nah, it just means that a difference of 6 months doesn't change the core of whatever I'm trying to explain. Also the reason I have to explain everything is because if I don't people might assume I was saying something else (which is why most people still think I'm using my boyfriend's parents or am bored or encourage polygamy when I really don't,…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 02:15 PM
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I agree 100% with you. All these answers I've been posting are only to elaborate what feels wrong but I maintain my initial statement - I will work on myself, STFU and let SO lead life and the relationship. I give up control. I trust him. Heck, seems stupid but I trusted him to buy a last minute gift alone and he picked well (usually I would've wanted to be present to make sure it was ok). It's a tiny detail but that's how controlling I am. It felt amazing to say "ok baby" when he said "don't wo…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 02:06 AM
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Yes. What part of that relates to present quality of life? I'm scared of being poor and struggle to have an independent life with him in the current economy if we don't work our asses off (because I don't want to live with his parents forever, even if it means eating less meat or taking shorter showers as long as we don't live off bread and can't pay the bills, just to state the obvious). I scared he'll change his mind and I'll have wasted my best years investing in someone who lead me on; he'll…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 01:32 AM
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Exactly! I want financial security and commitment. It makes me worry that I might not have either. SO = FUTURE = family, kids, a wedding, a house, and taking care of each other until we're old and wrinkly and put cream for joint pain to each other. Now since SO is part of my future, hopefully, I end up projecting my insecurities on our relationship, which is bad. It isn't based on him, it's based on my fears which I've had since I started college and unemployment has reached an all time high and…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 01:23 AM
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No. I'm scared that we can't have a house and kids on minimum wage working jobs and barely be able to put them through college.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 01:17 AM
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I don't even know, honestly. We've known each other since March 2013, we started dating in June or July 2013. We broke up on January-February from 2015 and started living together on June 2015 until now. I honestly don't even know how to calculate it so I just give an estimate everytime loool to be accurate it we know each other for 3 years total, dated long distance for around 1,5 years (but bonded before that) and had a 6 month break and have been living together for 6 months for aprox. accura…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 01:11 AM
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Yes, but his parents are doing fine, they aren't going to sustain us forever. We want to be independent.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 01:01 AM
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Because I miscalculated it. 3 years is how long we have known each other, but dating for 2 years long distance and living together for 6 months.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 11:28 PM
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True! But we've known each other (and dated) LDR for 2 years. We are both adults and work full time. When he tells me he wants to get married in 5 years, it stresses me. 23+5 will make me 27 which I somehow think of as the wall (30 years old) and that he can decide not to marry me 5 years from now and then it will be too late. It stresses me and I'm scared to be poor and I'm scared things get worse instead of better. All of these are worries that make me SOOoo stressed and nagging and puts press…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 06:56 PM
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Investigating means look into it to see if it applies to his train of thoughts, not go for it and accept to be part of it. I suggested that because that's what it reminded me of. I'm sorry if it's terrible advice then, it wasn't my objective. Edit because my first answer can be misinterpreted: I'll elaborate a bit more; imagine he really was serious but acts fine during a couple of years, gets married and in 5 years decides he wants to try it. What does she do then? Because it might just be a fa…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 02:32 PM
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Good: -Managed to STFU for the whole day, which went pleasantly well. We went shopping for a bday gift, and usually shopping means picking a fight because he wants to hurry and I want to look at everything so I suggested we separate for an hour so I could shop calmly while he went to the electronics store. He was fine with it and we didn't fight at all. We didn't get a gift but he said he would look for one today so I'm leaving that to him. Going an extra mile with sex, everything is good. Reali…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 02:29 PM
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It's not like we don't speak, it's just most evenings are spent like that. But he's probably just tired and I should leave him to his alone time. :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 06:01 PM
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Edit: she was not bored, she was wondering what she could do to engage with her SO since they would spend evenings together on their smartphones or watching movies without talking or interacting, 7 evenings a week. I can selfentertain, but I get worried when all I do is self entertain, not interact. Not picking a fight, just explaining.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 05:07 PM
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Question: Is it the whole video or "a sample"? Don't want to reach the end and wonder about the ending :p
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/16 08:50 PM
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I don't see myself as "arguying" but your comment did make me defensive. I'll just read everything again as you said.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 09:44 PM
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To this I'd reply: because people let themselves get out of it. They stop trying to make it good.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 09:40 PM
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Hopefully it won't get to that. :(
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 09:16 PM
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Like 5 weeks ago and I said his parents were kind to take me in from what I remember and that I couldn't just give up because his parents took me in as family, which sounds bad but wasn't meant as in "can't leave him cuz gold digging his parents" as it sound like what you're trying to say, correct me if I'm wrong. I love him and I'm so thankful for having future in laws that are like family, while so many girls are stuck with MIL that hate them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 08:06 PM
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Oki!! I'll just let go of trying. You're right. I get frustrated when I do nothing so as other people pointed out, it probably is selfish to try to make something to make myself feel good.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 07:36 PM
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Well I'm going to read my history tonight since many people are pointing it out. Maybe I'm not seeing something. But his parents have nothing to do with anything.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 07:27 PM
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I'm happy for you that it's going well!! :) I do disagree with the last part but I guess I'll just go read my history because so many people are pointing it out. Maybe there's something I'm missing here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 07:25 PM
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I asked you why, I didn't argue... I agree with your answer, I'm not arguying with the explanation.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 07:00 PM
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Ugh putting it in this light, it does make sense... :/ you're right (but not about the unhappy part!!) :p
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 06:58 PM
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Such as?? I've never disrespected him since those last posts that were stupid and foolish. Those posts are past waters and I realized how blind I was when I posted them. I feel different about things now that I've started to be grateful for all of him. I talked about it with him and we're ok.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 06:28 PM
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True!! I agree 100% with that. I often look at him and I feel lile bitting him. I love his features. I wasn't talking about sexual sparkles or whatever; more like what can we do that is fun and engage together (the kind of sparkles I got when we went on a date for Valentine's, for example). It was new and unusual and we laughed and had a good time and it was really nice! So I was thinking maybe we could do more nice things together to break the routine On the other hand, you're also right on thi…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 06:20 PM
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I am attracted to him, I respect him and we are working towards moving out. I don't need help with what you're saying, but yes with ideas of activities I can do with him.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 06:15 PM
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No, not stale. It's work, get home, watch tv, sleep. I was wondering what activities I could suggest to counter this routine.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 06:13 PM
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Why? I don't see how doing something nice for SO and me is controlling or drama seeking.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 06:12 PM
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I'd say The Surrendered Wife but I haven't read it yet and can't find it online for free. I know, I know, I'm cheap :p
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 05:08 PM
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Great recipe!! I love tofu! Thanks for sharing :D
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 09:30 PM
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True! But I'm working to be worthy of "I feel supported", "You are a great woman", "Thanks for taking care of me". Those are the compliments I'm looking forward to. Well, I just have to keep on working on myself!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 08:27 PM
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Good: I started a girl blog and I'm working hard to find some freelance jobs to make an extra bucks. Bad: I'm pretty sure my casual smoking turned into an habit, my diet is off track and I'm doing poorly at work. Ugly: I've been a bad girlfriend. I can't STFU most of the time. Some improvement but it's minimal. I'm having some problems dealing with SO and it's not pretty.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 06:25 PM
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-You smell good! (Since having a skincare routine, I started using a moisturizer and it smells good!) -Hmmm fresh sheets/the room smells good! (when I clean up the room) -Your dessert is delicious. I don't usually get RPW related compliments so it might mean something lol I still have so much to improve!!!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 06:17 PM
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Make yourself approachable. She couldn't relate about a particular brand of makeup but she could probably relate to what kind of brushes does what. Being soft is not about yourself - it's about the other person feeling you are nice. Ask questions, even if you know the answer. Get to know where the other person is coming from, get her talking and make her comfortable to share stories. It's basic conversational skills. Btw, I learned all this from by post about making friends, where so many kind s…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 01:36 AM
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Good to read this!!! Congrats on the improvements!! :D
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 01:11 AM
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Thank you so much for your input! The cleaning is my priority, mostly the usual housekeeping such as dishes, laundry, vaccuuming, etc; I guess I'm doing fine with that. I'm also doing one dessert a week to practice cooking skills - last week was mug cake, this week was oreo ice cream (so yummyyyy) and I'm thinking donuts for next week :p I'm increasing difficulty and hope to be cooking dinner soon; I know they would be thrilled as they always cook and would love a break from time to time. I was …
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 01:09 AM
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Well I'm not really looking to put it in their face. I just want to pull my weight around the house and help back since they help me so much too! This is about showing appreciation to them for what they do for me, not the opposite; they aknowledge the good and the bad equally I think. But that really sucks that you're in that situation :( it's never nice to feel unnapreciated for your efforts.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 12:56 AM
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I don't think anything can be done without effort if it means changing something such as your style. Go for nudes, grays, a lot of whites, reds and pinks or pastel. Avoid anything with holes or very assimetrical (not sure if it's an english word :p ) You will still need to make the effort of going shopping and chose clothing you feel good in. :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 11:41 PM
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Good advice! Lunch room is where the magic happens :p we have like 10 people on the same schedule as me 12h-21h so we eat lunch together and all!
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 10:39 PM
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She sounds so nice!! Can you explain "stop worrying about how you're perceived" please??
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 05:05 PM
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I'll have to come back later to analyze that one better :3
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 05:03 PM
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Ohh I remember that theory that asking little favours make others feel needed. It makes sense to think of others, that way it focuses more on making them talk haha
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 05:03 PM
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I was thinking volunteering at my local pet shelter but I don't have a lift to go since my boyfriend works on my day off :(
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 04:59 PM
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I don't know what it is!! I'll look into it :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 04:58 PM
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Thanks!! It does make sense, but I had like 1 or 2 friends when I was in elementary school and highschool haha :) I see some women are already going out with each other (it's a fairly new place) and I geta bit jealous :p but I will keep on doing how you say!
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 04:53 PM
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True!! :p and it's a dish at a time for me or I'll burn something for sure!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/16 04:26 PM
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Good: -Super materialistic: just received an order I places last week for a couple of beauty products. Lusting over my new red nail polish that's drying as I type this C-A-R-E-F-U-L-L-Y :3 -I started a blog and it's nice to just write about woman stuff like cleaning routines and what not. -Bought all the ingredients needed for some no bake recipes from Pinterest AND oreo ice cream. I'm trying to do at least one recipe a week (preferably on Sundays or Fridays). Starting easy because I have zero e…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/16 10:17 PM
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I'll try to elaborate: 1- I expect my man to be happy. 2- That means I expect my man to fight his way through if he becomes unhappy. 3- I expect his happiness to be related to mine: if I'm unhappy, I want him to make it his business to make me happy. This last bit is extremely self-fish from me. This is one of those hamster AWALT kind of expectations. Also, he can't make me happy if I decide I want to be unhappy because it's not how it works. 4- I don't care about expectation 3 because 1 and 2 a…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/16 10:05 PM
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When I think about it, I don't expect anything at all because expectations leads to disapointment and overall stress in our relationship. Well at least, this is the ideal and what I'm working on to achieve. As a hamster, I expect a whole lot of things I have no business expecting. I don't expect anything from him besides his companionship and a future (which ever future he can provide as long as he doesn't let his kids starve). To me, that means he has a job and has his life structured and plans…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/16 08:22 PM
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Hahaha yeah now I get it :p thanks for the /r one too! Good to know lool everytime I'll see /letter I'll try to figure it out :p
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 07:57 PM
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Holy shitzzles, /s mean sarcasm? LOL oh God... Still not used to some of reddit expressions. I didn't even know that xD Thanks for pointing it out though. Now I know why I see /s every couple of posts. Hahaha.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 06:16 PM
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I think it is VERY unreasonable. There's a diference between what a woman really wants and what she thinks she wants.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 05:16 PM
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Great changes!!! :D
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 04:54 PM
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Amazing!!! I'm so happy for you, so many wonderful changes! I'm.happy everything turned out so well for you!
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 04:52 PM
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Redpillwomen is a lot about self improvement. It's about improving the right things. It's good to improve ourselves in a way that is good for others too. Sure, I could work on being hyper work centered and making millions of dollars, that's self improvement too! But as a guy from RP once told me when I was not RP "Work hard and enjoy your money when you're old and alone". I agree 100% with what he said (although I have a couple of teachers who are successful women with families and I'm sure they…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 02:28 PM
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Awe :) it's really great you improved so much! I agree with the last too!! It's super important (like, the most important part) yet it's so hard. I'm really far from such mastery. You go girl!!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 02:23 PM
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Nice!! Seems like a very positive change!! And true, I've read the same thing about the 6-12 months indicator!! But I've also read many people notice an early improvement as soon as they start applying the advice of RPW. On the other hand, it also takes a lot more time for the reactions to become automatic and natural and to really create a sense of trust between you and your partner (in the sense that he trusts you really changed). I'm happy for you!!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 11:47 AM
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Putting something in the microwave isn't really cooking though :p but starting small as I get more used to it :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 11:06 AM
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Thank you!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 11:06 AM
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True!! Reading recipes online help too :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 11:05 AM
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I joined: 2 or 3 weeks ago What I improved: -Skincare and makeup have become very important to me. It can seem so superficial but the way you present yourself is what gives a good or a bad first impression/vibe to others. -Eating healthier and controlling calories. I established a cheat date for Fridays though, because it's date night and we usually eat out or go to the movies. -I'm learning to cook. Or better, I'm lurking at dessert recipes on Pinterest. Today SO did the supper and I did the de…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 07:15 PM
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That's a possibility too!! Thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 04:01 PM
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It's normal to compare yourself to others when you feel there are so many imperfections about you that need to be corrected. I 100% feel you about caring too much about my online life. RPW is my number 1 reading and interacting spot. It's hard when you see some of the redpill women who already have it all figured out post about their dream lives/relationships and then you look at yourself and feel like a potato. But honestly, some of the women I look up to on this sub were probably full of self …
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 03:39 PM
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I don't really know what to say. His reaction doesn't sound very mature. If you told him the exact words you told us, there is no way he could've mistaken it for you trying to be over-controlling. Just let him be for a while until he gets tired of giving you those kind of answers.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 02:10 PM
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Thank you for your tips!! They are all very welcome!!! It's true, I've noticed most clothes that are on sale are usually size small or medium (I guess that shows a predisposition for the population to be a size L or above). I'm working on my diet so hopefully I'll be able to pick some nice clothes for next winter :p
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 02:08 PM
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Thank you so much for all the tips and insight! I going to focus some more on oDesk and give it a second chance. I'll look into everything you said and see if I can make it work together. I do agree, working part time first is best, because there probably aren't that many customers in the first months!! Plus, that's really nice (about your husband). It's a lifestyle I'm sure I would love!! envies you haha :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 12:00 PM
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Sometimes self-publishing is the best option :( there are so many greedy people out there!!! Working with furniture is not my cup of tea though. I'm really not good with manual work, I would probably cut my finger or something. (Not joking).
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 11:54 AM
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That sounds like a glamorous option ;) Being an actress must have helped achieve your goals regarding instagram and your blog. Doing your own hair and buying second hand clothes is a great idea!!!
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 11:50 AM
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I read about that a lot as a good alternative. I already looked in our area but the only free thing they give away are pets LOL
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 11:45 AM
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Loool that's evil :( I'm in an European country, but yeah, it's a bad country to live in (unless you're rich or know people in high places).
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 11:43 AM
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That's so true!! So easy to give in just because it's cute :c I'm going to read some more about makeup to make educate guesses. I just ordered like 15€ worth of makeup last week and hopefully it's in the right shades D:
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 11:42 AM
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True!! It can get expensive fast. School supplies, braces, and what not.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 11:02 AM
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I looked into that but it's not very common in my country and usually only (and super rarely) in big cities. But it's a very interesting concept for those who have the skill and the passion.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 09:48 PM
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My mom did that too!!! It was an extra money for sure :) Baby caring on a budget in actually ecological :) you seem so connected to nature! I find it amazing.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 09:47 PM
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True!! But the drugstore ones still work good on my skin so I'm feeling lucky :p
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 09:27 PM
1

Tutoring is nice :) I really like all these amazing jobs everyone has come up with for themselves! Did you study to be a teacher or do you rely on being good at the subject? I'm asking because I often see tutors needed but I don't feel confident since I don't have a specific formation.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 09:26 PM
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This is my dream job. I also do some scarce freelance jobs (did 2 on elance/odesk) but now they ask to fill tax papers to cashout so I stopped doing it. It was really profitable though, I made 70$ translating a powerpoint and 20$ reviewing a nice book that is now for sale on amazon. I wish I could do this full time!!! My dream is to be a blogger and a writer, but freelancing is probably my best bet for starters. Do you have a college degree in english or are you just good with words? I ask becau…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 09:22 PM
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Loooool xD I really like that list tip. I use it mentally for food or whatever. Want a chocolate? Wait 2 hours or eat an apple and see if you still want it. Want a beauty thing? Wait a week or so before buying it. It's too easy to go on a wallet destructive spree u.u You gave a lot of interesting tips right there!! I'll take note once I'm home. :3 I used to cut my own hair bit since it's curly and has a couple of dreads mixed in (my SO digs tribal/reggae so it's ok) but I've been lusting over a …
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 08:18 PM
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Do you do it full time or part time? (Being a waitress I mean) I like to buy at least one beauty product a month like nail polishes and what not. I'm dying to get the red nail polish I ordered - but yeah, I could cut out a bit on that. Most of the beauty stuff I buy is because I only have old stuff I haven't used for years. I only started using them again now that I'm a lady :3 lol.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 08:10 PM
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Thank you :D
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 05:42 PM
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I know here in Europe our go-to jobs that have good employment is call centers. The job SUCKS AS HELLLLLLL. But they will almost 100% employ him. He could do part-time and still get a bonus. It's better than nothing if you two run out of options.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 10:30 AM
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It is! He knows me so well!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 07:46 PM
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From info I saw on TRP sub, a woman isn't going to please you if she doesn't see value. So if she sees you as less than her exes, dump her and find someone who values you or man up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 04:58 PM
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Maybe that's because men are getteing emasculated and women feel entitled to wearing the pants. They don't realize the dynamic doesn't make them happy because everyone does it the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 04:51 PM
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Good for you!! Then you can afford the jewelry and what not. Bashing your ex because he probably gave you what he had, what he could afford, is just ungrateful in general. He also celebrated his first year with a new girl in a place he could afford. Ever heard of that thing that says "I gave you 10$ because I only had 10$, he gave you 20$ but he had 100$". See what I'm trying to say?
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 11:48 AM
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Have fun at the Ritz!!! I'm happy you found someone who could spend money on you (since you seem so ungrateful towards good intentions alone). Just remember that because your boyfriend has money to spend on luxury items, not every man has. Some people have families, some are on minimum wage and some have 3 kids. Some women get socks and are happy about it because that's what they needed and they are frugal. Others want their man to waste money on luxury items because they can afford it. Not ever…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 11:36 AM
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I love the pagan necklace SO got for me one year ago. He bought it in a street stand. It has so much meaning for me because he is atheist(?) but still respects my pagan beliefs.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 11:22 AM
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I'm sorry for your current boyfriend too because it seems you'll upgrade again if things go sour and he loses his job/money. Ps: Anyone can pick something expensive, but a thoughtful gift has a meaning to it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 11:20 AM
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And as /u/littleknownfacts wrote, don't do anything in expectation of getting something back. It's your job. Your payback is a happy SO. Be happy doing what you do, let SO appreciate it in his own way.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 10:38 AM
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Lol hope your trolling or I'm sorry for the poor boyfriend that has to put up with that reaction!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 09:32 AM
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He was probably so tired from work or his mind was on something else (like all the work he has to do next day). Or maybe lacy lingerie and a white robe aren't his thing lol was your hair nice? Light makeup? Favourite dinner? Either way, he did show appreciation :) One day won't make that much of a difference, a constant effort will bring improvement. Keep working on it!!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 09:29 AM
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It's a possibility too! I have to inform myself.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 08:23 PM
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It's a good option. I live in a small town though. I have to have a talk with SO to know if he can help me with the rides. I never really thought of therapy. I just realized I needed it now. After reading everything I wrote. So I haven't done my research yet. Thanks for the idea!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 05:31 PM
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Ok thanks. I will!!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 02:07 PM
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Okay sorry. Thank you. I just needed to talk to someone and therapy is so expensive and I wanted advice. But yeah, it's true. This isn't the best sub for this I guess. I might try another sub for this problem while I find a therapist that won't cost like 100€ per rendez-vous lol. Sorry for cluttering and being all emotional and shitz.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 01:24 PM
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I hope so. It has eaten at me for years, even before redpillwomen.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 09:57 AM
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Haha this it too cute :) makes me smile and shine. I prefer not to tell ours though, because I feel it's something so unique and special to us. I'm weird, I know xD
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 10:19 PM
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Makes me want to cry with shame. I wish I could go back and undo so much that I've done. But... Now I have to live with and make the best of it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 10:16 PM
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Reddit, usually :p maybe you could try getting a diary?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 07:21 PM
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I know dad's view of SO is tainted by his own perceptions of my relationship. Unfortunately for dad, I am an adult and his perception of my relationship are his to deal with. I will never cut my relationship with my parents but I usually defend him and speak highly of him to my dad whenever he says something less positive about us/SO. On the other hand, things never went that over the top. There was never any disrespect whatsoever. You can't control what your mom says or thinks. You can tell her…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 04:57 PM
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I feel RPW is a bit more oriented towards relationships because the point of RPW is to be a better woman to attract and keep a HQM. It's totally my focus but it seems hard to work on myself in other areas like work or social life when I'm always focused 100% on SO. It's not a flaw in RPW though, it's just a flaw in my way to balance things and all areas of my life. Which is probably why I'm feeling so depressed at this time lol. There's a bigger picture to RPW which I can't figure out because of…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 04:46 PM
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Thanks but it's a long way. Many weeks before I hit the perfect weight and I'm worried I'll give up when I hit 60kg lol
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 04:38 PM
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Thank you :) yeah, I'll keep working on both but it's a bit overwhelming right now. I'll manage it though :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 04:36 PM
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Good: -I graduated from college!!! :D -I have a new outlook on my boyfriend which is a lot better than my old stupid opinion about him. He's so amazing :D Bad: -I have too much difficulty applying the RPW principles. I'm still a controlling freak although I'm working on it. I'm pinpointing every time I comment on something SO does so I can slowly stop. -I'm an absolute mess and feel bad. I'm wondering if I should work in self-improvement in general before applying RPW. Being aware of how much I …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 04:31 PM
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The only thing that works to encourage myself is usually fear of failing lol I go hard on things because I'm afraid I'll fail a class (back in my student days) and now it's mostly fear of losing my job and being an unemployed leech. I usually find motivation in the lows. For example, my highest weight was 76kgs. I promised myself I would never be that fat again and lost 15kgs. When I hit 73kg last week, I felt miserable for 2 seconds and then started dieting. Lost 2kg in 1 week, aiming to a 1kg …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 04:20 PM
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As everyone else, I'd say it's how you express yourself. If you sound whiney or ungrateful, SO will be like "wtf". If you voice your concerns in a way that puts him in a position where he can help you, then it's different. Your SO needs to know what's bothering you so he can navigate according to that. On the other hand, is this really a problem or is it a rant/vent? Usually rants are better done with girl friends or the Internet in case you're socially awkward like me. What you could say is "I …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 11:10 AM
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To me, it was HUGE migraines and a lower libido. And gain weight. On the other hand, it really eases my mind. I used to be only on the pull out method and was irregular, so I stressed a lot. I feel a lot more confident on the pill although I do panic once in a blue moon when I let SO cum inside.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 11:40 PM
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That's what I did for him (kinda). He said he didn't like it because it was too dry. :p But it's delicious for me!!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 06:58 PM
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It's kind of what my mom does for my dad too :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 06:35 PM
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I could bake some muffins, he would enjoy them! Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 06:34 PM
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Yum yum :3
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 06:33 PM
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I checked Pinterest but there weren't any basic ideas. The ones I found on there are great if you buy the ingredients before hand. But it's a good source for planned ideas.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 06:33 PM
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Oh yumm - parfaits are also a good option. It's too light for him but perfect for me lol. Thanks!!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 06:31 PM
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Damn!! Should've thought about grilled cheese. I was going to do him something along those lines but we didn't have the good type of bread. I'll take note about grilled cheese though, it's a really good one!!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 06:29 PM
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Looks tasty!! I don't think they sell it in my country though :( But I get the idea - buying something healthy and keeping it ready for snacks. That's really nice but I don't think it would work for him. He always likes his food with a minimum cooking.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 06:26 PM
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What is RMV and what does it consist of? How is it different from SMV? I checked the Red Pill Acronyms and searched the sub but I couldn't find it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/16 08:39 PM
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Omg food -
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/16 08:24 PM
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That's so romantic!!!! :3 I envy your lifestyle!
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/16 12:18 PM
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Zombies is always the best bet for any activity :p
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 07:25 PM
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Oh shittzles, I'm guilty of a couple of them :x much improvement to be made!!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 06:55 PM
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Ehehehe :3 sounds good, sounds good!!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:46 PM
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It's my first year spending it with mine too :p I'd rather ask to see if he wants to celebrate it or not. It's worse to have someone expecting a surprise and then not getting one than talk about expectations right of the bat.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:46 PM
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This is 100% true. At first, I thought my SO was passive (HE IS NOTTTTT -). He really is laid back, relaxed and in charge. He has everything figured out even when I think he doesn't. Which I don't think anymore, btw. That's old thoughts lol. Our dynamic is not pure Captain/First Mate although I'm learning to submit and defer to him most of the time. I'm happy the way things are and I feel he is too, now more than ever.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:38 PM
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Uhh :3 I'm downloading that app right now. Seems like something I could use.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:19 PM
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Surprise is good :3
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:14 PM
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They might have something xD Edit: I checked and they don't :p
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:06 PM
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Hahaha well a romantic dinner at home is not bad either :p
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 12:35 PM
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Hahaha that's a funny idea!!! XD it's a really good one actually :o did you try etsy?
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 11:33 AM
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That's really cute! But :( for your health condition though.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 11:32 AM
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That's great!!! Did you guys plan it together??
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 11:07 AM
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It depends a lot I guess. At my age and if I was single, I would not because I want a shot at starting a life from scratch of picking up midway where his ex left off. On the other hand, it also depends a lot on how I would feel. If he is a great partner and I love his kids, why not? We all have to deal with our SO's exes at a point or another. I think that single dads are best matches for single moms or people in their later years. My sister got a divorce with his cheating ex husband and met a w…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 10:32 AM
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Nr 5 is my favourite! Although I did all the others too :v expect the book one.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 10:38 PM
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Good luck!! :) You can still learn a lot on youtube and get some ideas on Pinterest.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 10:05 PM
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I didn't take any! But my SIL too a professional one (like in-depth session for a weekend). I'm not really sure though, it's a bit different from USA to Europe :p My advice would be to see what feature you like less and wish one looks better and work from that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 09:32 PM
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The cat part is so cute :3 it's true, a respectable man showing a softer side is so GRAWRR :p My boyfriend also loves his dog and takes such great care of her since she's elderly.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 07:04 PM
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Then, youtube has lots if tutorials :) or go to a professional to get your makeup done and ask her some tips for your features.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 07:02 PM
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He sounds like a very strong man! I'm happy for your happiness! :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 03:39 PM
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How cute! He's so caring :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 03:31 PM
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Haha nr. 5 :p Sounds like a good man!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 03:30 PM
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Yes, I can see why a man would be comfortable in a situation without marriage unless he really had a desire to get married. I see a lot of girls in /r/relationships saying the guy wants to marry but pushes the proposal a couple of months at a time.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 03:29 PM
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Hm! Okay :) thanks for the reply! I guess it depends on the specific situation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 03:15 PM
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Wonderful :) I really love how loving you are talking about him!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 03:14 PM
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Haha nice!! He looks like an amazing partner for you!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 03:12 PM
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Of course!! I can't imagine myself contributing though. I also know there are men from all stages of taking the pill, so some might be super angry. I was wondering if I would find good pointers about how men see their female SO's mostly and what mistakes the women do from a men's perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 03:11 PM
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Short answer: professional makeup classes Makeup can make you look a lot better because it helps mold your facial features. Like, really change your features. It all goes away when you wash it at night so make sure your other qualities are top. Also make sure you see yourself like others see you. It's hard to see our own flaws
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 02:35 PM
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Another question: Should /r/theredpill be off limits or is it ok to lurk? Is it constructive for women to read?
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 02:16 PM
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Not a personal question, more something I see on /r/relationships and I'm curious about it. Say you're dating a man for 5yrs, living together, everything together except kids and he doesn't pop the ring because "it's not the right time". Does it mean: A) Don't want to commit but I can change my mind. B) Don't want to commit because I want to be able to leave. C) We have a nice life but you're not the one. D) Something else.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 02:15 PM
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1) He's a good man. 2) He's a good man. 3) He's a good man. 4) He's a good man. 5) He's a good man. Hahahaha :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 02:05 PM
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Awee :( Get inspired to pick wisely :v
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 02:04 PM
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Hello!! I don't have specific brands but I'd say darker and mysterious smells are more appropriate for nightlife/intimate time because it's richer and sexier. I prefer sweet perfumes for everyday life. People at work, school and everywhere else associate you with a fresh, girly and sugary smell. It will also make you look more feminine through the day and will give that image of you to others. If you have an SO, make sure to investigate his preferences. If he prefers darker perfumes, forget my a…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 01:27 PM
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From my understanding, you don't need to have a rp relationship to be a rpw. There is a post somewhere on the sub about dynamics in relationships and it could help you to understand better by reading it. What you must do is be the absolute best you can be. If the man is bad quality, he won't adapt. If he is good quality, he'll show his leadership value when you step aside. Rpw is all about how your attitudes impact your relationship and not how to change him. Blue pill vs red pill would better f…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 12:25 PM
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Should have it's own post or be in the wiki :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 10:10 AM
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I think most people in /r/relationships have mostly problems with shit tests and boundary testing. It really is almost the same root problems. I second that extensive FAQ. And then maybe 10 posts for each specific problem where newbies can express their worries and get an educated answer from someone more experienced. I think doing that could help newbies learn their lessons about said problem and it would also avoid cluttering the sub with the same posts. That way, experienced users would only …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 10:09 AM
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To me, equality means we both have the same rights - to vote, get a higher education, choose who you want to marry or ask for a divorce. Equality of rights does not mean we should eliminate the so-called double standards. As a woman, I know I'm a human being so I have the same rights as a man who is also a human being. We are equal in rights and equals as humans beings. I think men and women have different tasks and functions to take care of, regardless of rights. This is what makes us different…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 01:50 PM
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