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MALE DEPRAVITYLadylikeElectricland/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 10:44 AM
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I'm not intending to stay around. So farewell, and best of luck with everything!
/r/ExRedPill23/09/21 01:06 AM
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What exactly are you trying to achieve here? I wasn't misrepresenting OP. I responded with sarcasm to what he said and I think it was clear to absolutely everybody who responded to me that I was not paraphrasing OP but responding to him. All other commenters clearly knew it was my idea and not me twisting OP words. And yes, I fully stand behind what I said: A lot of exredpillers are uncomfortable with the idea of female sexual pleasure. And yes, the type of responses I received, including this w…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/21 12:40 AM
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I wasn't disrespectful to you though. Yes, with those two guys I chose snark and condescension and they 'dished' back. I choose not to escalate. Why did you feel you need to revenge them (or whatever it was), I don't know but I frankly don't resent you for that. The thing with Nazis is that they are actually very clear about their 'Nazi' ambitions. Hitler wrote a whole book about who he was planning to exterminate and didn't diverge too much from his plan. What you are dealing with are mostly co…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 11:49 PM
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I already explained to you where I was coming from and why I wrote what I wrote. It's okay to disagree with both what I wrote and how I wrote it. If the only way for you to process why I would write that is to imagine me as this immature, miserable, dishonest Nazi, then so be it. But maybe English is not my first language and maybe the people of my ethnicity were on Hitler's list of the 'vermin to exterminate,' and millions of them were indeed exterminated. So let's not lose a perspective about …
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 08:01 PM
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So OP comes for help with their irrational fear and you use sarcasm. How exactly is this an effective method of helping someone overcome an irrational fear? I'm clearly also not the only one who misinterpreted your "sarcasm" so maybe try a little harder next time. But I responded to OP normally at first, it's the highest upvoted comment in this thread. And he did what almost every OP does here and started with 'but what if it's real.' So I responded the way I responded. In the first half of my r…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 06:02 PM
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But maybe it is not advice but sarcasm? If OP really insists that evidently contrived stories are true, then maybe he should see what they all have in common -- "the best sex ever" -- and right there is the irrational solution to his irrational fear. And yes my responses are shitty because here we are, in the 21st century, on a sub where people are supposed to 'detox' from their misogyny 'brainwashing' and get absolutely triggered the moment you mention that female sexual pleasure is not a 'hein…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 04:19 PM
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I know. But it might not be the type of validation you appear to think it is.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 11:19 PM
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Do you mean the same sub where you get regular posts and comments about how women shouldn't have the right to vote? Fellas, you are really telling on yourself. Maybe the first step in your 'detoxing' should be to acknowledge that female sexual pleasure is important and the second step would be to learn how you can help with it.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 02:21 AM
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What seems to be a relatively big mystery, especially on this sub, is how to actually make a woman orgasm, innit? Consider yourself added to the same list as Mr 'women don't care if your dick game is weak, lol'.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 02:07 AM
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Yes, tell me you never made a woman cum by telling me literally just that..
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 12:58 AM
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No. It's hard to believe that every single of these women was getting the best dick of all time with the sexiest man in the world, who also occasionally happened to be her boyfriend's better-looking and significantly wealthier step-father. It sounds like all those confessions were written by a male erotica author. Also, if you so insisting on believing it, is it really so 'heinous' to get a good dicking? Just step up your game and no woman of yours will need to look for it elsewhere. It's this s…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 12:25 AM
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Well sit with it and consider how you got to a point where twitter strangers making shit up to impress other twitter strangers can have such a strong impact on you.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/21 11:22 PM
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I see. Then I suppose you should be going to pubs and clubs. You could try tinder and similar, but I worry that hook-up apps peaked a long time ago and these days they are just a waste of time.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 08:38 PM
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Cool. It might be easier to get laid when in a relation than forever chase some one-night stands.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 08:28 PM
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That's all great, you'll meet new people at the yoga class and at the new job when you get it. Have you been in a relationship before?
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 08:20 PM
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Maybe poetry could be your ticket to some naughty time! So what's your situation? How old are you, what do you do and where do you socialise?
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 08:14 PM
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is it just me or does that post, kind of, rhyme?
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 07:57 PM
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This whole vetting things comes accross as a general exercise of self love and power affirmation for women who have chronically felt powerless within their relationships with men, or have an history of abuse, rather than an actual viable, realistic "dating strategy". I think this is an accurate definition. You often see posts there that roughly go like: 'I just broke up with a man that I thought was high-value' and then the OP lists every conceivable toxic trait that that guy had, ranging from s…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 03:01 PM
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There was once a commenter here who claimed to have been in a relationship with a redpill coach. If I recall correctly, he became a redpill coach well into their relationships and apparently he was a perfectly nice boyfriend, except when he took her to his public engagements he made her pretend that they were not in a relationship. So yeah, in one way or another, in their time-off they are highly likely to be engaging in some of that bEtA-siMpiNg.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 10:55 AM
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YIKES!! Out of morbid curiosity, do you also have some hot-takes on Black and Jewish Peoples?
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 10:29 AM
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Cool! Yea I should edit that 'advice' out; it's not very helpful.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 03:06 PM
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I'm so sorry you are going through this, it sounds like complete hell. I obviously don't know your ex and what drives him, but my guess would be a combination of some untreated mental health issues and the fact that he is deeply unhappy with himself and his life. Add to this the redpill misogyny and he is stuck in this vicious circle in which he keeps convincing himself that you are responsible for everything bad in his life. Unfortunately, people like your ex always take their frustrations out …
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 03:04 PM
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Both I guess? I suppose the first message that starts with 'hey OP' is for the OP and not for me, but I don't understand why you apologise to either me or the OP for mansplaining :D
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 02:40 PM
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I'm confused!!
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 02:33 PM
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Maybe take a break from 'dating' YouTubers and watch something entirely different?
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 12:26 PM
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haha, some food for your thought right there in your comment!
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 12:14 PM
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You definitely won't find any comment of mine in which I'm having a complete meltdown because somebody disliked my favourite YouTubers!
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 11:24 AM
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Here's a good post just for you: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/pp7311/you_want_to_leave_trp_behind_dont_become_bino/
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 10:45 AM
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<posts an article from a website that nobody heard of and written by somebody who can't even be googled> there's a giant matriarchy that controls our culture and the way people are supposed to think.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 10:38 AM
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I'm afraid they are taking this way too personally. It's really sad and I hope one day they'll truly 'open their eyes' and see that 'trp lite' is just as bad as the hardcore trp.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 10:28 AM
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I'm not 'rebutting' anything there. Just jumping on the sarcasm-wagon.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 02:03 AM
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This is the thing. I don’t want to assume the position of the counsellor he knows he needs deep down but refuses for formally seek. No, I don't think you should do that. I worry that he might hope that the logical 'conclusion' of your counselling sessions would be either financial or sexual domination (or both). The problem is that he is just a friend of a friend. It's so difficult to convince the closest to us, people we've know for ages, to get the help they need. And you are dealing with a vi…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 01:32 AM
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He seemed very interested in financial domination and wanted to enter into an arrangement with me, however I declined because his finances really aren’t in order for that to be healthy for him. YIKES! Given that you are studying for counselling qualification, you are probably the most qualified person here to know what to do with him. Cruel as it may sound, it is not your responsibility to 'help' him, especially when he rejects therapy. Don't let your feelings for him get the best of you.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 12:28 AM
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a liberal feminist slant Ouch! This one really hurt!
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 12:10 AM
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wanting everything to be black and white and not to look at context and nuance. And yet, here you are, commenting under the umpteenth of their 'look at this disgusting gold-digger' video, insisting that they are not red-pilled because they 'took out' fresh and fit. Don't you think you are being a bit black and white? Fresh & Fit bad; Abba and Preach don't like F&F -- must be good! ​ I'm out. Wish you all have peace and let go of your hate one day That's a bit dramatic, but best of luck!
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 11:41 PM
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Sure, but their channel is also 80% of 'look at this disgusting gold-digger' videos, 20% 'look at this stupid young woman' and 10% 'Bohoo nobody cares about men.' They might not be giving dating advice, but they are red-pilled up to their teeth!
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 11:19 PM
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Abba and Preach are not red pill at all, and have gone on record saying they're not. They are on a record saying something very different: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVdu74BYTwQ
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 11:04 PM
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Yeah I don't disagree with what you wrote, but women should not be shamed for having sex (as OP is implicitly doing). It's also usually men who pressure women to have unprotected sex because it fEeLs bEtTer.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 09:21 PM
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Some may argue that enslaving someone is not really an expression of respect...
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 08:37 PM
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Oh let me guess, are their genitals 'pointing' in 'wrong' directions???
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 08:02 PM
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Could those rising statistics be explained by increased rates of testing?
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 07:41 PM
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huh, an interesting analogy. So you are suggesting that when women go out, into the streets, they should not take their vaginas with them? You do realise that the vast majority of sexual assaults is caused by intimate partners? Women are less safe in their own homes than on the streets!
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 07:39 PM
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Pssst: I think that's exactly what they mean!
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 07:35 PM
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Yes, not to mention that there is not a single recorded case of a woman not wanting to have sex and yet being forced, in one way or another, to have it regardless ... so much for gatekeeping.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 07:34 PM
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They are very much engaging in casual sex with each other. And so are some of the middle-class and working-class kids in the Middle East. If you think sex is not happening because nobody talks about it and the society in question is strongly conservative, then I wonder how do you think humankind managed to procreate between ca. the Middle Ages and ca. the 1960s.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 06:57 PM
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Although the Middle East might have it's problems, women over there are more respected because they don't engage in casual sex. Tell me you never met rich Middle Eastern kids without telling me you never met them.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 06:35 PM
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But liking somebody is not necessarily about having long deep conversations. It can be as simple as fucking somebody who is not a racist or a raging psychopath. Getting a warm body that you can fuck is really not difficult. The problem is that most of those readily available warm bodies come with values, personalities and various mental health issues that are really not worth the few minutes of pleasure they can give you.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 02:07 PM
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No, I agree with your point, you should avoid dating people with mental health issues, even the fairly mild ones if you don't feel comfortable dealing with them. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. What I took issue with is describing people suffering from mental health issues as 'mentally fucked up' and 'trashy.' Let's just called it what it is: people suffering from various mental and emotional problems.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 12:01 PM
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But don't you think it's a bit convenient for trps to be arguing that women only want 'bad boys,' given that they lead men to be effectively 'bad boys'?
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 09:34 AM
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Can we try to speak more gently about people with mental health issues? Your point stands, but it could have been expressed in a less cruel way. (There is also a lot to be said about the various mental health issues that make men flock to trp).
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 09:30 AM
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Hear, hear!
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 09:06 AM
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Storytime: When I first went to a dentist, I threw a complete tantrum, crying like a little baby (and embarrassingly, I was NOT a little baby) because I was so scared of the pain. Once the dentist calmed me down and did what needed to be done, I realised it's actually not so bad and I have never cried again, even though I had far more painful procedures done since then. I still get uncomfortable when I have to go to the dentist, and, indeed, sometimes it hurts like a motherfucker, but once it's …
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 11:25 PM
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But don't 'hookups' count as the men whom you 'know' (even if you met them say 2h ago)? Of course, it's a different familiarity than the one you develop with a long-term intimate partner, but it's also not the same as random assaults from complete strangers who either grab you off the street or break into your house.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 10:24 PM
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Not to mention that these types are the most likely to fall for the most blatant scams that are out there
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 09:48 PM
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Oh I see. That's largely the reason I stopped visiting it. I don't agree with everything FDS preaches, but I think they largely mean well and are a necessary corrective to all this trp and PUA nonsense that women have to deal with. But those sanctimonious, self-proclaimed 'high-level' mean girls women were too much for me, too.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 09:33 PM
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Have you ever been cheated on?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 09:10 PM
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Trps usually see only the warm body that might be willing to fuck them and nothing else. You can see it here a lot when it's so clear that some of these lost souls don't even realise that they should like the person they are dating/fucking and that when that's not the case, they should find someone else.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 09:08 PM
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No I can't say I did, but that's mostly because I very rarely read the posts & comments there. But I believe you got the reaction you describe and I hate that 'pickmeshia' flair (I initially thought it was a sarcastic flair that one could choose for themselves and not a fucking shaming tactic -- why not just ban those users rather than mock them). But again, FDS is specifically about finding a husband by following their specific 'strategies', it is not a 'general' dating tips subreddit that's op…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 08:58 PM
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Don't you think you are exaggerating FDS's stance on this issue? Nowhere do they say that one MUSN'T, under absolutely no circumstances, have casual sex. They recommend not to have it because of all these issues brought up here and with which you don't seem to disagree. Furthermore, FDS is specifically a 'strategy' for finding a husband (not a boyfriend, not a LT partner, but a husband, somebody you'll marry and have kids with). So it's not that weird that they'd be against casual sex, given it …
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 08:25 PM
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Hey! It's not for every woman and that's okay!
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 08:09 PM
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As a man, the idea of something growing inside me is utterly terrifying. As a woman, I can relate :D
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 07:56 PM
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yeah they choose a very weird hill to die on. Besides the stds, unwanted pregnancies and security risks, another strong FDS argument against casual sex is that it is rarely enjoyable for women (and yes, the statistics support this; women rarely orgasm from casual sex).
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 07:30 PM
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Listen, I'm not watching a 4-hour long vlog. But the guy in it is not fat? He's actually, inarguably slender.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 11:37 AM
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Here you go
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 10:13 PM
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I don't think it's the causation, but more of a tool for reinforcement of it. If an incel read the FDS page. Reddit is just a US website and although frequently visited, it's not a mirror of what's happening in the world at large. You can see a lot of how they view men will keep them in their ideology. Most of my points when I am concerned is from the perspective of a guy who wants to prevent the incel community growing. If you want to help incels, find a way to get them into therapy. If you are…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 09:57 PM
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Hope this doesn't come out badly, but have you consider what you want to do with our responses? If we tell you, no, most men and women are highly unlikely to cheat -- will this issue stop bugging you? What if we tell you that that's really the case, everybody cheats all the time (and brace yourself, trps are now typing exactly that), then what? Will you decide it's not worth pursuing relationships and turn into a hermit? Yes cheating is painful and it happens more frequently than it should. Ther…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 09:38 PM
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My sister isn't FDS. The issue I'm expressing is based off of behavior how people but a price tag on men as high value or "real" or not. Unfortunately I can't edit post titles. It sucks :( 'High-value' and 'real men/women' are stupid terms but they express what always has been expressed and should be expressed: certain individual preferences. If you want to change the internet (or really, just reddit) lingo, then be my guest, but it seems quite a Quixotic mission. I don't understand what second …
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 09:27 PM
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Is your 16-year old sister FDS? You see you are all over the place with whatever it is that you want to express. And while we at it, what kind of ideas about femininity did you have when you were 16? Would it be fair to take those ideas as representative of a certain portion of adult men? And no, I wouldn't say that you saying the 'real women' have an hourglass figure is toxic -- Stupid? Sure, but not 'toxic.' Again, notice the gendered misbalance: When you are a woman, the 'toxic' ideas get you…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 08:59 PM
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Listen, I won't make a case for FDS because it is problematic in many ways, but not in the way you have described. FDS's idea of a 'high-value' man is not a 300lb muscle lumberjack, but rather somebody who respects you and has his life put together. As to what these two qualities translate into in concrete terms is for every woman to interpret for herself -- some women will take nothing less than 6 feet tall investment bankers; others will be happy with 5'7'' tradesmen. There is nothing wrong wi…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 08:47 PM
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A lot of men are coddled since their birth, first by their parents, then by their teachers (because 'boys will be boys'). When they finally graduate and leave their parents' home, they have the painful realisation that the real world is not a Seth Rogen film and instead of realising that that's a good thing, they fall for the mix of Jordan Petersons, Joe Rogans and trp/mgtow people, because they really want that ultra-hot supermodel that Seth Rogen always gets to keep in his films, despite the f…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 08:17 PM
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Good for you! I'd say there was a whole communist rally of red flags before that 'distraction' comment, but good on you for having some standards and being selective about your dates. PS. There are plenty of girls here (and possibly nbs and trans too).
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 05:43 PM
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The title of your post is literally 'why masculine expectations from women is sexist' -- how possibly could this be about the small but vocal minority??
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 04:40 PM
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can we get tl;dr please?
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 04:31 PM
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I always thought that the suicide crisis line, or any other similar intervention (say, you see somebody wanting to jump off a bridge), is about gently nudging the suicidal person to keep talking to you until they calm down a little and the urge to kill themselves subsides. The idea of forcing some 'safety pacts' onto them sounds ridiculous, but admittedly I have no personal experience with this. Please don't feel bad about being at loss to find some 'tips' and 'advice.' Dealing with suicidal peo…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 03:40 PM
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Well just try some alternative sources too, if only to expand your pool of 'useful information.'
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 02:24 PM
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My fucking god, what a bumbling clusterfuck of incompetency, needless escalation and inexcusable waste of time and resources for everyone concerned! I'm so glad you (and your roommate) came out of it relatively unscathed, except for the very understandable trauma this must have caused! Fuck the police, this is so unnecessary and does the exact opposite of 'protecting and serving.'
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 02:23 PM
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But you are not thinking for yourself either!! You are no different from the people who consume tiktok, Instagram, facebook and twitter, except the commodity you are consuming is the supposedly subversive 'open your eyes but don't open them too much to see that the people who are supposedly showing you how everybody is brainwashed are the exact same, brainwashing grifters you think you are resisting.' I'm serious and trying to be helpful here. Whatever you are getting from trp, even if it's not …
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 01:57 PM
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Oh I see, I misunderstood what Harari is specifically saying. In any case, there is a possibility that we will be able to make 'custom' babies, selecting everything from their height, intelligence to their eye colour. If you are rich enough, you already can choose your baby's sex (which never goes wrong, right, India and China?) and whether you'll have only one child or twins.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 12:02 PM
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Jokes asides, no I don't think the future belongs to Chads and Stacies. First, with covid and global warming it is debatable whether there'll even be any future for humankind. Second, in-vitro fertilization alone is extremely expensive and thus available only to a very narrow group of people. Add to this the genetic modification and that narrow group becomes much smaller. Third, nature has a funny way of putting us back into our place every time we think we are above it and are able to manage it…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 11:27 AM
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'You are arming awkward people with what is basically harassment as one of their main techniques.' The best description of the 'nice guys' part of the manosphere that I've seen!
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 10:53 AM
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WTF?? What was their reason for your arrest? Surely if you were endangering your roommate, they would have called the police directly and not a suicide crisis line!!
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 12:13 AM
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Don't bother with them. It's not that they don't get it, they don't want to get it.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 07:20 PM
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Or getting triggered because a co-director of a famous film suggests that the film in question was very much inspired by her own struggle with her gender identity...
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 06:30 PM
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Right... maybe you should check out what transphobia means and how it affects transgender people!
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 06:09 PM
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How so? Keanu is a tall rich guy, Trinity really wants to have some naughty time with him... makes perfect sense!
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 06:01 PM
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okay, my bad. The Matrix is really about how all women are really evil and only want to fuck tall, rich guys.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 05:57 PM
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Nah, not really. Remember that when he is 'born' again, he learns those fancy martial arts by simply having them uploaded into his brain -- this could be interpreted as a metaphor for hormone therapy.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 05:46 PM
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It's about discovering and realising your identity. In Neo's case, he learns not only that what he thought was reality is really just a computer program (the less important bit, dear trps), but also that once he starts believing he is the 'one' (even though almost everyone at first doubts this) then he gains the ability to modify that program to his benefit.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 05:35 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/film/2020/may/18/lilly-wachowski-ivana-trump-elon-musk-twitter-red-pill-the-matrix-tweets oldie but a goodie
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 04:15 PM
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Could be. It could also be that you are observing real people living real lives instead of listening to a bunch of terminally online incels telling you that you won't have a gf because you are too short, broke and your face is ugly.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 01:05 AM
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Will all due respect, you are either insane or, 12-years old, or you've been terribly failed by everybody starting with your parents, through to teachers and ending with whatever cultural producers you follow. Do you realise how sad it is that you need some internet grifters to tell you that this world is not peaches and roses? That you should 'see the world for what it actually is'? Do you not read newspapers? Have you really not seen another film but the Matrix -- and while we at it, have you …
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 03:56 PM
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Did she actually invite you to have sex with her, or just to hang out at her place? Because these two are different things.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 03:40 PM
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How would you know that though? You say you are depressed so it's probably not too wrong to assume you don't have that many friends and do not go on that many dates either. So how would you know? Because people on the internet tell you so?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 03:22 PM
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TRP doesn't work it only should open you eyes to see things differently Are you reading what you are writing here?? If something doesn't work, why the fuck would you use it to 'open your eyes'?? How can you say it's bullshit and yet important and useful?
/r/ExRedPill11/09/21 09:33 PM
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femAlez baaad!!! femAAlez no can looove short men! No point trying, malezzz -- but definitely subscribe and hit the notification bell and, most importantly, buy my books and coaching programs!!
/r/ExRedPill11/09/21 08:41 PM
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It is a myth that depression and anxiety are just when you feel sad and cry a lot. They come with many physical symptoms too: fatigue, chest pains, tired muscles etc. The stomach pain could be one of them (have it checked out, though, as this could be ulcers). It's good that you are avoiding blackpill content, even if you relapse every once in a while (that's perfectly normal, just keep going). For now, forget about women; actively try to not think about them at all. Make sure you eat well, get …
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 06:52 PM
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Oh I see, but sexuality doesn't work like that. Just because you lucked out on finding a female partner doesn't mean you might be gay. You need to be sexually attracted to men for that.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 06:41 PM
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It is my firm belief that the leader of the home is the cat. Those who possess homes without cats have forsaken their god given duties to serve our feline overlords. Nothing but truth right here. As the saying goes: Cats were revered as gods in Ancient Egypt and they still remember that!
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 10:28 AM
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Yeah, I wish people would stop thinking that the 'instagram looks' are the only benefits to regular exercising (which won't help with that much anyway -- you need to get on a steroid cycle for that). Bulky muscles are the least important thing! Being physically fit means you sleep and eat better, your mood improves, your digestive and immune systems work better, your skin gets clearer and so on. And to achieve these benefits, you only have to go for a slow walk regularly. Also just look at profe…
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 10:22 AM
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Oh buddy, I'm so sorry you are going through this. It's sometimes so difficult to figure out your sexuality and being surrounded by parents who have strong views on the matter makes everything that much more difficult. You are right to think that sexuality is complex, it is a spectrum, and it could change throughout your life. So I would say forget about labels (bi, gay, pansexual, whatever). Go out and seek people you feel safe with and you are attracted to, and let the experiences with those p…
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 09:56 AM
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Yeah I think that's for the best. I'm definitely not qualified to advise re: 12 step program, but I would imagine you should only apologise to the people who currently are in your life (family and friends), or were a big part of your life (long-term ex-partners, work colleagues, etc.). But yeah, I think it's a bit absurd to track down your kindergarten buddy and apologise for that small punch-up you had 20 years ago. Hope that clears it up somewhat. Best of luck with the program!
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 05:57 PM
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lolz, can you give us proof of those dad bods being praised? Correct me if I'm wrong, but a low-body fat percentage is really celebrated only within the body-building community (and similar). Most women who fancy athletic men would be fine with a standard fit body (not even necessarily muscular). And yes, there are plenty of women who don't mind a bit of meat on that bone, myself included. Also, lifting is very popular these days, but it's not the only way of becoming fit. You can go jogging, yo…
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 05:31 PM
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I would let it go if I were you. 3-4 dates are not that many and ghosting, while cowardly and rude, is a fairly standard way of saying 'I'm not interested.' I'm glad that you are saying that you do not want to win her back. So if you really want to message her, dropping her an email or a text message probably won't do too much damage. But if I were her, I'd just be a bit puzzled why this ghost from the past is showing up again and what really are his intentions. If you meet her again and strike …
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 04:47 PM
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That's cool. I'm just saying we should be more mindful of how we describe common health issues that affect most people for reasons beyond their control.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 04:27 PM
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Depression and moodiness (among others, including low libido) are well-known side effects of some birth control pills. But let's not call people suffering from various mental health problems 'psychos' and 'unstable,' ok?
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 03:35 PM
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I would say that the majority of those points are just symptoms of a pretty basic patriarchial misogyny that could be reduced to three points: 1.slut-shaming and women as, on the one hand, 2. these ditzy, intellectually inferior, over-emotional creatures and, on the other hand, 3. crooked, conniving, materialist manipulators. For me, TRP is different from 'blue-pilled' misogyny (or however should I call). The latter is religious in the sense that women's inferiority is accepted as God-given and …
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 08:49 PM
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Yup, that's where I got it from :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:29 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, how did you become aware of your internalised misogyny?
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 08:23 PM
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Fantastic! Finally, a post from you with which I fully agree! There is something so unhealthy about this need to fully dominate another person. Surely you are much better off when you respect your partner, when you feel safe enough to share your doubts and fears with them, and when you are able to put two healthy brains together to figure out whatever problem you may be facing. All in all, it is much more comforting and enjoyable than thinking only you have all the answers and your partner must …
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 01:49 PM
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You were not stupid, just vulnerable. You were young, still figuring out life, and you happened to be on youtube, the algorithm of which literally swamps you with TRP (and alt-right) videos whether you are interested in them or not. Additionally, the RP videos use cult-like techniques to keep you interested. Literally everything was against you and I doubt anybody in your position would know better. But now you are here, far smarter than a year ago and with a better understanding of who you are …
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 09:55 AM
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I'm not so sure that what detox meant was supposed to be a 'warning.' This sub will definitely not 'undo' the RP brainwashing just by the virtue of its existence. But it is a good place for a diverse group of people to talk about whatever is bothering them about trp and the manosphere.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 10:25 PM
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Yes, you are right, but only partly. If I were to guess, there was more to those 10 years that kept you from dating than just a garden-variety shyness. In itself, it is not a 'bad' trait. Many people find it endearing and it can be overcome.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 10:06 PM
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Yeah, you don't have to go to a gym. Start with walking. Say, for two weeks go for a 30 daily minute walk (download some podcasts to listen to). Then try jogging. There is this podcast called 'from couch to 5k' that's for people who never jogged before and do not have stamina. It's a mix of short jogging intervals and brisk walking. It's really good. (I'd recommend the UK 'NHS' version, unless you really like shitty techno music :) ) You can also check some youtube videos for basic exercises tha…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 09:55 PM
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except I'm not talking about 'common sense' (and neither are you, but that's beyond my point). What I'm talking about is the type of dating advice women usually get, and that's: do not chase men, let men chase you.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 09:47 PM
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Check out Buddhism. Just to learn about some of its key tenets, you don't have to become religious. It's kind of black-pilly with the 'everything is an illusion' but it gives you decent guidelines on how to cope with this nasty world.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 08:32 PM
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Did you miss OP's reply to me which perfectly understood why I wrote what I did?
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 08:19 PM
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As others are saying, you start small and try your best to stick to it (and if you relapse, you try to understand why you gave up and then you get back on track). I would suggest losing weight should be your priority. Not only it will make you more attractive, but regular exercise and a good diet helps you to feel and sleep better, gives you more confidence and take just enough of your free time to lower your porn and internet addictions. Moreover, learning about different exercise techniques an…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 08:14 PM
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No, that's not true. Women are explicitly advised NOT to chase men and instead let them do the chasing (because of the 'mAlE nAtUrE' and similar). And trust me, the type of women who chase after those super attractive men are not the women who get to be with those men.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 07:56 PM
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You mean the same women who are scared to go outside at night? The same women who have to consider whether their date will kill, assault or rape them? Or the women stuck in the intimate partner violence cycle? All of these are very common concerns for every single woman -- yes, what I mentioned above is extreme, but what I mention now is not. So no, shyness is not the worst trait. It's not even a 'bad' trait.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 07:53 PM
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my black pill days I've just been sat here in nihilism wanting to end my life daily Do I need to spell out what this is a symptom of?
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 05:58 PM
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This is not exactly a cmv subreddit. I don't have substantial objections to what you wrote, but I'd phrase it differently. The RP people are grifters who are selling you 'dieting pills' (so to speak) for relationships. Instead of telling you that you need to change your lifestyle, push through the moments of doubt and be patient because the results take time and when they come, you'll have to continue to be self-disciplined, they tell you to just pop this pill and you'll magically lose all your …
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 05:57 PM
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Idk if shyness is the worst possible trait. You could be a raging racist, a sadistic rapist, a psychopath who kills babies for pleasure, you could torture small animals and steal from the elderly. So yeah, while your shyness won't help you to be the life and soul of every party, it's okay. Sun shines for you too! (PS. There is a school of thought that says those quiet, introverted guys are good lays...)
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 05:38 PM
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I would add to this that you also need a certain personality: a combination of being really charming and a little bit pushy.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 02:59 PM
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Is a very common alt-right 'strategy,' which roughly goes like that: You 'win' an argument by putting your interlocutor into a defensive position and yourself into a position of a 'judge' (so to speak) who has the authority to determine the validity of your opponent's ideas. That's why these creatures never really state what they think. Instead of having their own ideas interrogated, it's much easier (and it seems more 'alpha' if there is also an audience to this farce) to tell you why your view…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 01:54 PM
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It's interesting that he brings up fascism, because this is exactly what fascists do: On the one hand, they are the alpha male revering the cult of machismo 2. On the other hand, they are aggrieved, misunderstood and oppressed victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:22 AM
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I agree with the underlining idea, but not with the redpill nonsense sprinkled over it. It is quite telling that it is usually the 'good men' who think they are rejected for being too 'good'. Goodness is just like attractiveness. It is deeply subjective and certainly NOT the only factor that decides whether a woman will sleep with you. Not to mention, just as stupid people are very quick to tell you how smart they are, the surest way to find how somebody is decidedly NOT 'good' is when they tell…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 09:06 AM
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Well it's a homophobic comment. It implies 'homosexuality' is undesirable, which it isn't, and it also has nothing to do with the virginity statistics. Queer sex is still sex and should not be dismissed as 'experimentation.' Queer people who have sex with the same gender are no longer counted as virgins. Many people here commented that there is not a significant difference between the number of virgin men and virgin women so just because homosexuality is being more accepted by the mainstream, it…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 08:33 AM
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nope.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 07:44 PM
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Am I wrong to believe it? yes!
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 05:46 PM
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Maybe you've been Chad all along... O.o
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 11:07 AM
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I know what you mean, but remember that 'feelings' are just 'feelings,' they are not reality. I know it's difficult, especially now amidst the pandemic, but just carry on. Great things always come unexpectedly. Best of luck!
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 03:21 PM
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So you want a relationship but you keep convincing yourself that you do not deserve a relationship because with the exception of your height you have nothing else going on for you (mind you, that's your words not mine). Also, while you understand that a relationship won't just drop into your lap, you have a problem with starting from zero. Well, have you tried some 90-day fiance mail-bride type of bullshit? (/s) I feel like you are searching for some miracle, some love magick spell, which you ho…
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 03:12 PM
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Do your parents happen to be siblings?
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 09:53 AM
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Nope, my dad dated my mom when she was a minor and so was your dad. Unless you want to convince me that your dad is aging backwards. What we are discussing here is not 16-year olds dating 14-year olds, but 50-year olds chasing after 20-year olds. Good job for paying attention!
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 04:28 PM
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The 63-year old Angela Bassett, anyone?
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:59 PM
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Yes and let's not forget that we are on a sub that is designed to help men with their issues.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:57 PM
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It has negative connotations because it is understood that people who label themselves as such are in deep pain and, with the mass shootings, they are a potential threat to the wellbeing of other people. I don't understand what you mean by 'no one gives a fuck about men's mental health.' Are you saying men cannot access mental health care? Are they being turned away? Are there really no professionals specialising in providing care specifically for men? Are there no selfhelp books, groups, podcas…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 01:57 PM
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This is the tweet you linked to: CEOs of big tech companies: You almost certainly have incels as employees. What are you going to do about it? Where you are getting that she's arguing to fire them, I truly do not know.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 01:33 PM
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It is okay not to have sex. There are plenty of people who for various reasons choose not to have sex. You are right that there is some degree of mocking of the self-proclaimed incels and that is unfortunate and highly counterproductive. However, remember that you do not know what really is going on in people's lives. The vast majority of people who mocks incels are projecting -- they are deliberately choosing to mock somebody else out of fear that if they do not do so, if they do not divert the…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 01:10 PM
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https://liveaction.org/news/polish-baby-survives-abortion-cries-hour-left-die/ https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/abortion-survive-scream/ https://www.hli.org/resources/abortion-survival-statistics/ http://julieroys.com/survivor-of-botched-abortion-tells-congress-planned-parenthood-makes-sure-failures-like-me-dont-happen/ https://thebl.tv/us-news/chilling-report-reveals-that-babies-survived-botched-abortions-in-texas.html https://www.factcheck.org/2019/03/the-facts-on-the-born-alive-debate/ https…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 10:29 PM
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From the Washington Post article: The furor escalated quickly after Republicans circulated a video of Del. Kathy Tran (D-Fairfax) acknowledging that her bill, like current law, would allow abortions up to the point of delivery in cases when the mother’s life or health was at serious risk. ​ Northam’s office later made clear the governor was talking about prognosis and medical treatment, not ending the life of a delivered baby. Late-term abortions are permitted in Virginia only when the mother’s …
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 08:12 PM
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That is one approach, but not the only one. Who is to say which is correct? I certainly do not have that answer. And I can tell you from experience, when my wife and I were expecting our first son, we had a conversation where she flat out told me if we get into a situation where it is her or our son, choose our son. Thankfully, it never got to that, but the point is that it is not uncommon for mothers (and fathers for that matter) to lay down their lives for the lives of their kids. I told you p…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 08:03 PM
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They made it clear in the committee discussion that "health" included physical, mental, financial and social. In other words, for any reason. No, he very specifically says this concerns only children with severe health problems. That mental, financial and social reasons were mentioned in that research paper you forwarded earlier and I think you are conflating these two sources. Again, he was questioned on that several times afterwards and he made it clear what he meant (and yes, he was advocatin…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 07:35 PM
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And no, it is not meant to undermine anything. But when you see sides of an issue, you have to be careful about the most extreme ends and identify where your lines are so you do not get pulled into the extremes (chapter 3 of "Influence: Science and Practice" gives several examples of why this is important). Whether it is meant so or not, it is undermining this debate. You worry about this nonsensical scenario of unhinged leftist killing small children because of fEminIsM or something, all while …
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 07:31 PM
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But that's not what that governor is saying. He is not for some frivolous, late-term abortions. He is saying that this proposed law would allow late-term abortions for mothers carrying children with severe health complications -- complications that would either make the baby's life excruciatingly painful, or they would result in the baby's early death. Again, this doesn't mean that any pregnant woman could have a late-term abortion just because she wants it. This law would be specifically relate…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 07:13 PM
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That gets into the question of where do we place preference. Assuming the life of the mother is at risk (which is extremely rare these days), do you place the preference on the woman or on the child? That is a valid, and deep, question as it involves infringing on someone's rights either way. You place it on the mother because she carries the child. The child's wellbeing depends on her wellbeing. I'm going to assume you are young and simply have not been paying attention to this topic over the l…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 06:47 PM
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Btw, since I'm sure you read that original academic paper, you do realise that those two (exactly 2 pieces of) 'pro-abortion academics' arguing for the abortion of new-born babies are, in fact, Australians, based at the University of Melbourne, and so probably they do not have much weight on the abortion rights in the US?
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 06:24 PM
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12-14 weeks for non-health related reasons, until the term for health related reasons. How's that? As for your second question, are you seriously using some crazy person's ideas to undermine this whole debate? Do you think laws work like that? You know there were a few republicans who argued that we should resolve the incel mass shootings situations by offering them a state-mandated girlfriend. So following your logic, why do you want to force young girls into relationships with incels? Hmm?
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 06:14 PM
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Is one of the primary roles of government to protect/defend the right of its citizens to live? If it is not, then the laws against murder are unnecessary, so I presume we can all agree that is one of its primary purposes. If you define it as a protection and defence of its citizens' rights, then you are saying that pregnant women somehow lose those rights at the point when they become pregnant. You seem to be under the impression that having babies is just having a belly and then 9 months later …
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 06:04 PM
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What do you want me to respond to -- whether you can abort a 7-year old?? That was a serious question from you? Or are you asking if there is any correlation between legalised abortions and the murder rates of small children? Because you know abortions, until this Monday, were legal everywhere (and they are easily accessible in all developed countries) and, so far, I haven't read about some increased rates of small children murders that could be correlated to the legality of abortions. So please…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 05:41 PM
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What kind of deflection? Sorry but I don't have the privilege to be sitting back and pretending to be an arm-chair philosopher because whether abortions are legal or will never affect me a tiny bit. You have absolutely no argument whatsoever. By your definition abortion is murder and hence it is okay to force 12-year old incest rape victim to go through a pregnancy and childbirth that has a high chance of killing her just because you are not smart enough to realise that this world is not black a…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 05:00 PM
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No problem, I got that!
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 04:51 PM
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Based on your comment, in my defence, that was not my comment, but the comment to which I was responding!
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 04:44 PM
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So, do you think it is okay for a woman to abort her 7-year-old? How about her 3-year-old? 1-year-old? 5-minute-old? 10-minutes before birth? Etc. At some point, there has to be a line drawn. Do I need to explain to you what abortion is? And yes, there are medical reasons for having advanced pregnancies terminated. And the whole "outlawing it won't stop it" is nonsense. Murder is illegal, yet it still happens. We do not create laws to prevent crimes, bit to define them. How is abortion analogues…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 04:28 PM
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It is absolutely a woman's right and a woman's right only. It is a woman who has to carry that baby for 9 months and put up, at first, with morning sickness and fatigue, make changes to her diet and wardrobe, then, when she gets bigger, the baby presses both on her bladder and stomach and so she has to pee every five minutes and has a heart-burn every time she eats. She is also at risk of getting gestational diabetes and other related ailments. And that's just the case of 'good, uncomplicated' p…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 04:10 PM
1

yeah?
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 01:03 PM
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At the same time, it's somewhat amusing that they didn't consider brain activity to be the cutoff point. I guess it's easy to overlook something when you don't use it yourself. Where can we mail you your crown!!!
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 11:26 AM
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None of what you wrote sounds 'supportive' of abortion rights. Abortion rights are about women, and women only, being able to make choices about their own bodies -- and not having some fucking losers 'cosigning on' or 'voiding' those choices <-- this is the very antithesis of abortion rights. Also I wouldn't call forced sterilisations a 'cynical POV on abortion.'
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 11:15 AM
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So, on the one hand, we have the alt-right/RedPill dudes who obsess over the collapse of the 'West,' complain about women (to vastly understate it), hate on the LGBT+, and are basically just biding time until they openly, loudly and proudly, embrace theocratic fascism (aka, death cult with evangelical characteristics). On the other hand, you have SJW who campaign for women, LGBT+ and ethinic minorities rights' and whose biggest fault is that they can sometimes be abrasive and some of them do it …
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 10:53 AM
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Teen pregnancy for women has never been common, It's a very recent turn of events that girls start menstruating around the age of 13-14, or even increasingly younger. In the good ol' times (think the 19th century and further into the past), women would usually get their first period around the age of 17-18. So this ridiculous idea of cavemen 'breeding' with these fresh and shiny 14-year olds is ahistorical nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 12:05 AM
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Not sure if that's normal to feel that way :( No, it isn't. It is understandable that you feel this way, given your experience. But it's not 'normal,' or even 'desirable.' You might think that women -- your relationship with them and also your lack of relationships with them -- are the most important thing in your life, but it isn't. You need to take a break from all these thoughts (and also from the internet). Don't obsess over not having a gf, wanting a gf, not being good enough to have a gf, …
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 10:38 PM
1

Can you blame me? First, you post some of the wildest, most nonsensical 'male nature' bullshit I have read on this subreddit (and that's really something to say!). Then you claim that your father, grandfather and several uncles had married significantly younger women. BUT THEN it turns out that the age difference between your mum and dad is just two years -- the exact opposite of your theory that men can only love young women! Repeating to you what you have said is really just a pedagogical tool…
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 09:48 PM
1

Well, what I told you is that it's bleeding obvious that you are making shit up. Although, given your reading comprehension, you probably don't have a choice in this matter...
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 05:59 PM
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It was because of humanism that we began to gave more importance more aspects of a person. Yes, but that whole 'and because of humanism men prefer younger women' is your unique contribution to the humanist thought. I'd recommend to get it peer-reviewed.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 04:52 PM
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PURE IDEOLOGY!
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 04:34 PM
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No, but you don't understand! God made males so that they make babies from the point they become fertile until the day they die. It's natural order to make 3-4 babies a day, otherwise we would die out as a species! (/s <- needless to add).
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 04:11 PM
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huh, there's a lot to flesh out here, too, but I would just say you have really funny ideas about how offer-demand works...
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 04:08 PM
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Babe, that's not what humanism is. In any case, you have bigger problems than that, so don't worry about it. It's all cool.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 04:06 PM
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So let me understand this better, you are saying that, in general, men have a preference for younger women even though they didn't before the 14th century, but then humanism came and made it happened, especially for the rich men who have time to think about love? Did I understand you correctly? Also, how's your mum, grandma and aunties doing?
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 01:08 PM
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I'm genuinely curious what has led you to think that men, all 100% of them, can only love and feel for younger women? Did your papa run away with a teenager? What about your grandfather, did he got himself a nice teenage bride whom he loves dearly? Do you have many examples of this in your life? Huh? Talk to me! Bonus: You do know that 'humanism' is a philosophical branch, right?
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 12:56 PM
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Cultures and countries all over the world have something in common and is the preference of men for younger women, and it's easy to know why, if you think for a moment, why would a man be with an older woman ignoring love and feelings, because let's be honest the way we know love was very different in those times before humanism. Oh babe, what's you story, hm? What has led you to this point?
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 12:30 PM
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How very beta of your, u/PapaPeaches1, to send your minions to fight your battles!! DEBATE ME, YOU COWARD!!
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 10:17 AM
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:D :D :D No, we ready! Let's have this conversation about how we resent redpillers (because of ???) and especially, about how badly we smell. Come on! DEBATE ME!
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 09:20 AM
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Lol at 'men 35 and up.' Are you even a woman if you haven't been hit on by a man in his fifties (and more) when you were just 13 or 14?
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 09:15 AM
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i tried sooo hard to act cool and became someone that i'm not, i constantly insulted the girl who i liked in order to make her think that i'm cool and to make her think that im not desperate. the girl that i liked ended up left me and i ended up got nothing. long story short came to the realization that i was a insecure narcissist piece of shit loser who didn't have a personality everytime i remember that i get disgusted of myself and still cringing to myself to this day. For all those of you wh…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 09:08 PM
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I'm sorry buddy. As I said, there probably was more to it than just texting. You were not a good match and that's not your fault. It simply wasn't supposed to happen. Next time though, try to read between the lines when you get this type of feedback ('you suck at texting') and if you are unsure what to do about it, ask her for specific instructions. You don't have to force yourself into texting if you really despise it, but maybe you can negotiate around it (phone calls, voice messages, more IRL…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 04:05 PM
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Yeah I agree, but I would phrase it slightly differently: Confidence is knowing that you'll be fine regardless of what happens. For me, confident people are those who enjoy their lives and there is a certain ease to them. They are funny and can laugh about themselves. They are open to trying new things, but never push or force other people into anything. Just the wholesome 'happy-go-lucky' types. These are the kind of people you want to have around you because they are good company and make this…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 04:00 PM
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Yeah that's sounds fine. Hope it works out for you! Best of luck.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 03:41 PM
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I think teenagers are more prone to a hive mentality than they are willing to admit. There is a reason why there is usually just this one boy and one girl that everybody wants to date and that's simply because a whole class/year have collectively decided that these two people are attractive. In reality, however, it's mostly a random decision that everybody just happened to go along (mostly because they simply do not know any better.) Once you get to college, you'll see that the dating scene will…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 03:39 PM
2

I kind of agree with you regarding texting and also think you fucked up (and that that's okay, because you two were perhaps not as good a match as you might think). Texting gives a false sense of intimacy and thus should be avoided in favour of other forms of communication. It's much better to meet in person (or just have a phone call if you can't meet). Having said that, when she told you that you 'suck at texting' what she was really telling you was that you had not been paying her as much att…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 03:11 PM
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Like i can't even remember the last time I felt true joy Sounds like a symptom of depression. Are you eating and sleeping well? Do you exercise?
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 01:39 AM
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Well maybe not today, but perhaps tomorrow? People in general enjoy being seen, heard and respected. They want good company and that sometimes take time to find.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 01:24 AM
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You should be asking what kind of a woman you want! Looks are overrated and your dick is essential for your pleasure, but not necessarily for hers (which is to say, learn how to flick the bean properly and you'll be fine).
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 01:18 AM
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It's okay, the name calling bummed me out but I understand. I'm really sorry for that. I obviously do not know your, nor your circumstances, so please don't take any of that personally. I came on you so strongly because of the combined frustrations caused by other Redditors and you just happened to be in my way. It had very little to do with you and more so with a Reddit culture in general. I wish I could take them back. I agree that often men start to get into the "B-but what about men's rights…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 12:45 AM
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never had to keep track of my drink You should do that though. Men's drinks also get spiked and then they get mugged. Be careful out there. It's a crazy world.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 11:43 PM
4

But maybe it's not a matter of beliefs? As I said previously, there are numerous free non-TRP resources and groups for men to help them to deal with their problems. Then there are also therapies, books, youtube channels, dedicated podcasts, courses, boot camps, hobby groups -- whathaveyou. Nobody is restricting men's access to these and I would say it's quite telling that you usually see women encouraging men to take advantage of them. This whole 'nobody cares for men' has to stop. It is simply …
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 11:26 PM
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Funny how men get so defensive when you mention therapy. But mention how women are hurt by the manosphere and you get a whole spiel about how nobody cares about men's problems. Go figure!
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 10:27 PM
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I do think you are an absolute piece of shit who, in addition, struggles with basic reading comprehension. Read my post again. I said TRPS are not being 'BLAMED' for their low self-esteem, meaning, pretty much everybody with 2 brain cells understands they have low self-esteem and that that is unfortunate. In what fucking world could that be considered as dismissive of trps' problems -- I truly do not know. But then here you are, getting triggered because I mentioned the effects of manosphere on …
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 07:08 PM
1

Oh spare me of this 'boohoo men have no safe space to go.' THE WHOLE FUCKING WORLD IS DESIGN TO CATER TO YOUR NEEDS. You have this subreddit, you have incelexit, you have menslib and hundreds of other subreddits that do not get brigaded by 'aNgRy fEmInISts,' subreddits where you can post freely without being dmed either a horde of dickpics or outright told to kill yourself. I doubt you EVER got doxxed because of your trp nonsense. I doubt you ever had a sleazy woman dming you because she read yo…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 06:49 PM
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I don't think anybody is 'blaming' redpillers for their low self-esteem. If anything, they are getting blamed for falling for outright idiotic, ineffective strategies that mostly harm women, who have to put up with everything from negging to incel mass-shooting. Yes, TRPs are victims of cult leaders and I know for a fact that they deeply suffer inside, but neither of these excuses the type of harm they are causing by practising or even merely 'believing' in the trp nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 04:16 PM
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As a comedian he spoke a lot, could you narrow it down to some specific points?
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 02:42 PM
1

Oh holy Alah, give this lost child some brain!
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 08:24 AM
6

Do you have troubles with sarcasm and basic literacy?
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 12:13 AM
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I suppose it's because they are under the impression that Muslim women are fully subjugated to men which, unless you subscribe to the Taliban-level extremist interpretation of the Quoran, is simply not true. If you know nothing about the faith and only depend on the Western Orientalist depiction of Muslim women you could be forgiven for thinking that they are your dream cum-maids (just as the East-Asian women with their TRP-alleged servility). In reality, however, (moderate) Islam is far more pr…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 10:03 PM
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I mean it could be a factor, but it seems a very reductive perspective. There are millions of young men who grew up in single-parent households and turned out just well or even excellent. There are men who had great fathers and turned out rotten. It's definitely a factor, but I don't think the whole manosphere could be explain just by a lack of good 'male models.' Besides broken homes, we also need to consider that: The West is becoming deeply unequal in economical terms and there simply are not…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 09:54 PM
2

that’s female nature, women don’t like free speech and it’s Natural for women to restrict other peoples opinions !!!! I'm just appreciating the originality here...
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 08:22 PM
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There are no universally applicable 'ground rules' in a LTR. It all depends on what the couple (or polycule) wants and agrees upon. Why you ask?
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 10:25 AM
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oh shut up!
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 09:47 AM
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It's very rare that it happens, but it sure does! But remember that the grass is always greener somewhere else. You do not know what's really going on, people like to put on a show (and you'd be surprised how many teenage relations are just for the 'show,' just so that their friends envy them). Most importantly, seeing someone else in love doesn't take anything from your chance of finding that someone who'll make you very happy. As for the redpillers, I think they are so judgy because they are d…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 01:07 AM
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I think you are correct about people wanting that 'teen love.' But it's also hormones and peer pressure, and lots of other things. And just to be clear, I'm not saying you shouldn't 'want' it or even that it doesn't happen, but that there are a lot of factors that get in the way of relations even under the most ideal circumstances.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 12:48 AM
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You mean our honest opinions about generalisations (as opposed to 'gender statistics' and 'research')? It's bullshit. People are too diverse to be subjugated to two opposing lists of commands and requirements. Hope all those generalisations die with the boomers.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 12:15 AM
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i still have that internal feeling that it is incredibly hard to get and maintain a relationship with a young person Yes because, and please don't take this badly (I'll explain), there is no point in having 'relationships' this young. Young people are attractive and have attractions, they also want to explore this whole new dimension of being a human being; there is nothing wrong with any of these. But for a functional relationship, there needs to be something more than just 'attraction' and 'cu…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 12:03 AM
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Well, well, well, somebody didn't get to fuck around and still found out! There's no point in crying over the spilt milk. You made a mistake that a lot of young men do and, yes, you have become smarter as a result (unlike a lot of men). Now you know what you want and you also know what you do not want. So go out and find it. There will probably be some disappointments and failures ahead, but you'll eventually get it. You'll see. Good luck with everything!
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 11:38 PM
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Good! It's nobody's business in any case.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 09:59 PM
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Somebody give this queen her crown!!
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 01:36 PM
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I think you are misunderstanding what 'toxic' means in terms of relationships. Yes, the things you have described range from being unfortunate (troubled childhood, drug use, dating people you don't love) to unsavoury (the rest). However, these women do not deliberately and substantially affect your wellbeing (via, say, bullying, physical assaults, financial control, forcing you into sex acts you don't like, isolating you from your family and friends, etc.). So I would say what you are attracted …
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 10:47 AM
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Can't believe I gave him a view and now I need to cry in a long hot shower for a bit. TLDW: Men cheat because they are horny, but that doesn't mean they don't love their wives. When women cheat, their relationships are done with no point of return. Women are emotional cheaters and you have to 'get into their head before you get into their bed.' So although men cheat more frequently, their cheating is meaningless, whereas when women cheat it is far worse because (and I quote here) 'she doesn't wo…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/21 10:04 PM
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What do you mean by 'toxic'? From that little info you gave us, it sounds like you just like temperamental, type-A women, which are not toxic traits.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/21 09:55 PM
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haha, glad to spread some cheers! And listen, if the choice is between Scorpio and Cap, I'll take Scorpio, but only because the alternative is Capricorn!
/r/ExRedPill28/08/21 08:12 PM
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Oh man, I guess this won't work out for us! :D
/r/ExRedPill28/08/21 01:09 PM
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:* :* :*
/r/ExRedPill28/08/21 12:30 PM
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As everybody's favourite hoe Sag, with the Tarot card of Temperance (ugh!), I'm stuck between these two unrelatable weirdos!!
/r/ExRedPill28/08/21 12:25 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Zj1GrnZgR0
/r/ExRedPill28/08/21 12:16 PM
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Well how about you stop going to r/short and try to live a little? You are a short man and as you age, you'll become a few more cm shorter. That's it. There is nothing you can do about it. So stop crying over it and start enjoying your life. Maybe if you let go you'll finally be able to join millions and millions of short men who have fulfilling lives, beautiful, loving wife and great careers.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/21 11:07 AM
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the whole Alpha/Beta/Sigma/Omega thing is about as legit as astrology and mbti. Pronouns and acronyms to make people feel better about themselves. Spoke like a true ISTJ Capricorn!
/r/ExRedPill28/08/21 10:27 AM
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Sure heightism is a thing, but I doubt that 60% of CEOs are 6 feet tall (this number is from Forbes, the some Forbes that good fooled by Kris Jenner into declaring Kylie Jenner as the youngest US billionaire) and in any case, these CEOs were definitely not selected by women but by other male board members, so maybe have a word with your male buddies about this. Finally, if height was all that matters, or mattered to a life-changing degree, how come at least 90% of US CEOs are not tall black men?…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/21 10:05 AM
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Here's a red pill detox first aid kit. It goes through some of the key manosphere talking points and debunks them with studies. I know you mean well and you must really like your friend, but it's difficult to change minds (particularly when infested with this kind of nonsense) and sometimes indifference can be more powerful than a good argument. They say that when your toddlers start cursing you are much better off ignoring it than trying to change it by telling them off, explaining why it's wro…
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 10:54 PM
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Or perhaps they are misdiagnosing themselves due to their body dysmorphia and the doctors have a very good reason to be 'adamantly' against this surgery without suggesting alternatives. Let's be supportive of each other, mkay?
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 08:18 PM
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Yes, money can buy 'science,' but also grifters can make you believe that the sky is green and the sun rises in the north.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 12:26 PM
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Am I misunderstanding here something or are you saying that a few years ago you saw statistics published on psychology.org about women being sexually attracted to 'dogs, pigs, their brother or anything that has a dick and can sexually smooth talk to them' ?? Wouldn't you say that the fact that you are unable to retrieve these totally real 'studies' says a lot about their, ehm, relevancy? Check out the pinned post with RTP Detox First Aid Kit. It disputes key RTP claims with recent studies and re…
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 11:46 AM
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No problem! One more suggestion, you may want to check out the psychology in Seattle youtube channel. It's run by a certified, experienced psychologist who specialises in family and couples therapy. He mostly analyses relationships as presented in various dating reality shows and although not a 'dating coach,' it's really interesting to hear his views on why people act the way they do. He also has a podcast that's mostly focused on various mental health issues, but he also did a few episodes on …
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 09:24 PM
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PSA: Acts speak louder than words. Whenever somebody is trying to convince you, verbally, that they are this or that, it is highly likely they are the opposite of what they are claiming to be. So be deeply suspicious of anybody who toots their own horn.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 07:17 PM
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Sounds like a good idea, but let's also have a weekly or bi-weekly megathread with some success stories. It might be helpful to have something aspirational as well.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 07:12 PM
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Yaaay! Glad to hear this! And yes, I agree re your surgery. Doctors would not say 'no' unless they have a good reason to do so (and correct me if I'm wrong, but they also stand to lose money by denying you this surgery, so they seem to be motivated by good intentions.) As for your resentment of women, it's good that you are aware of this and understand that it is a problem. It will go away, it just needs time. Being bullied and mistreated is a horrible, scarring experience and it is perfectly un…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 07:06 PM
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You go watch some more of Jimmy Dore...
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 06:22 PM
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Yes, and are you saying that 60% of those Chinese and Indian CEOs are 6ft tall, or are you so blinded by your racism that you don't even realise we are in an agreement here, you fucking redneck snowflake?
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 04:26 PM
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I quickly scanned Manson's wiki-page and his website and yes, he seems to be non PUA/TRP. Just to clarify, by 'scamming' I meant not only the obvious overpriced nonsense you have mentioned, but also that even the 'good' ones capitalise on what is essentially common sense: dating is hard but with good intentions and patience you'll find the right partner. Having said that, perhaps one redeeming quality of the 'good' dating coaches is that they often help their clients to build healthy self-esteem…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 10:49 AM
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Damn right, folks, take it from a man-child who spams multiple subreddits with fictional stories to get internet strangers to say that his mum is a slut...
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 10:08 AM
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Oh sorry, have you mistaken me for Steven Crowder or something? Is this the part where we argue about whether your imaginary internet mum, whom I've never met and have no stake in defending, is a slut or not? Did you by any chance have some recent brain injury that made you mistake your imaginary world for the real one? How about you touch the grass?
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 09:58 AM
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Your real mum, I'm sure, is a nice lady. The internet version of your mum deserves to get the biggest cocks imagineable to cope with the failure that is her son. I hope she starts capitalising on her twerking in bunny outfits and becomes so good at it, that she'll have Oprah interviewing her about your life. In any case, please don't shoot any innocent people just because you are a misogynist moron. It's not their fault you can't get laid!
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 09:45 AM
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Yes, PLEASE! Those terms are ridiculous and make you sound like a low-rank cult member.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 09:33 AM
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You are making up stories for karma points and to validate your misogyny. I hope that not only every single one of your friends fucks your mum and tells you about it, but also that every single girl you find attractive will turn lesbian upon seeing your mum twerking in her bunny outfit and eats her out right in front of you.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 09:29 AM
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You know the Plymouth incel who killed 5 people, including a 3-year old baby girl, hated his mother and blamed her for his 'incel-hood'? Why are you so obsessed with wanting internet strangers to agree with you that your mother is a whore? You didn't mention the bunny outfit and twerking the first time you posted this a few hours ago. Your friends and you especially are still bigger arseholes than your mum, who for sure deserves six-pack abs and colossal dick. Hope she gets to fuck every single …
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 09:12 AM
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Well, let's assume your stats are correct (which they aren't): Something like 50% marriages end in divorce How is that a bad thing? Why should people who are miserable together stay miserable when they have an option to separate and find new partners? 80% men lose in custody Not only is this false, but also men usually 'lose' custody these days because they do not want to care for their children. The 1950s are long gone, buddy. Unless there is a really good reason, the family courts will general…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 12:56 AM
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They should all be avoided. The whole dating coach industry is a massive scam. But I suppose the key difference between PUA/TRP and non-PUA/TRP is the end-goal. The latter will emphasise developing a genuine, loving connection with one partner. PUA/TRP is all about getting laid and treating women like meat.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 12:41 AM
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Ehm, so your friends make lewd comments about your mum and you start resenting her? Are you sure you picked the right target here?
/r/ExRedPill25/08/21 11:44 PM
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Self-discipline, sir. Whenever you catch yourself having these thoughts, tell yourself 'enough' and instead do something productive -- clean your room, read a proper book, go for a run, learn a new language, volunteer, try crochet, whatever you enjoy or you think you'd enjoy. In some other thread, you mentioned you are 15-years old so I assume you have quite a lot of free time on your hands (especially now, during the summer break). So fill it with something productive and ideally with something…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/21 04:38 PM
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Here's a little secret: If you crave admiration, you'll only ever fall into the hand of psychopaths and sociopaths who'll sense this and use it against you. They'll flatter you and say all the right words, but only so that they can have their own way with you. Edward is not 'admired.' He is a (shitty) literary character whose beauty and its effects are exaggerated for literary purposes. Real admiration is usually silent and you gain it by being a righteous person and/or really good at something.…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/21 04:03 PM
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bUt BuT buT -- 'The same theory of evolution that enables you to create deadly viruses or to breed weiner dogs will also get your peepee wet!! It's praxis, maaaan! Beyond the scrutiny of the woke cancel crowd!' :D :D :D
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 10:39 AM
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I'd say the black pill is nihilistic. The redpillers might find relations pointless (mostly because they are scared of being unlovable), but it centers its 'meaning' on the 'chase,' on having sex with as many women as possible. Most importantly, TRP is a grift that panders to misogynist men and as such has a financial interest in their romantic/sexual failures. So while I agree with you that TRP considers relationships as ultimately meaningless, I wouldn't call it 'nihilistic' because it does so…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 10:36 AM
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Oh you should check out some of his interviews. He was also incredibly funny, charming and intelligent. Not to leave out, he got to be incredibly wealthy because of his talent.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 02:41 AM
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Well, you should try because you clearly want to have a companion/sex. If you really think that you'll never get that, then make peace with it and find some other goals in life. But do not be stuck in this position where you go from obsessing over being lonely to convincing yourself that you will only ever be lonely because you are 5'3''. You never gonna get anything out of that but frustrations.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 02:40 AM
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Okay, okay. Did some googling and turns out Prince was 5'3'' too! It's not a life sentence. Here's an article about dating as a short man. There's plenty more if you search for them.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 02:35 AM
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Here we go? It's a tale as old as this subreddit. OP starts with some general 'societal' problem and when we reply that the world is not black & white, we get a list of supposed 'cock-blocking' physical features. I doubt you are 5'3'' -- but okay, I take your word for it and I understand that being a short man could be an obstacle. What does 'I have a massive head with a small face' mean, I do not know and I struggle to visualise it. You can get rid of body hair. Surgery scars are not an issue a…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 02:21 AM
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Again-- the point is that in spite of that, he's gonna get women and I will not; they are choosey, and they chose him. I'm 5'3" (an immediate no for upwards of 99% of women, which I totally understand), I have a massive head with a small face, enough body hair to stuff a mattress, and lots of obvious surgery scars; he is 6'3", handsome, muscular without trying, he has it all. here we go... ​ It's not about those specific women. It's about the complete lack of.... Anything, at all, and often outr…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 02:01 AM
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Those quotation marks are there because I was citing you, they are not supposed to have any meaning beyond me repeating exactly what you said.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 01:55 AM
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Yet, according to Stigamot—Iceland’s center for survivors of sexual abuse and violence—only around 12 percent of these victims actually press charges. Many have no confidence in the justice system and fear shame, guilt, and condemnation. Those who do press charges find their cases dismissed close to three-quarters of the time. Yes, because even in the most progressive countries there is barely any retribution for domestic violence and sexual assault.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 01:02 AM
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I've seen actual sociopaths get laid with ease; Women, who I can guarantee KNEW WHAT HE HAD DONE, decided to fuck him or chase after him regardless. Well here you go -- do you really think that a woman who chased down an 'actual sociopath' with a violent history would not want to fuck you? Sounds like she'd fuck anybody, really. I don't understand why you should have any feelings about it at all. Go to weird reddit porn subreddits or put out a craigslist ad (if that still exist) and I guarantee …
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 12:55 AM
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At the same time, much of these equality is promoted by law. Not according to the linked article! And while you may have a point about the Nordic women being more likely to report domestic abuse and sexual assaults, the question is how is it possible that the Nordic countries put so much effort into promoting gender equality and still record such high rates of both DA and SA. Both DA and SA is traditionally linked to poverty, religiosity and a lack of appropriate education -- these factors are f…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 11:57 PM
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Based on people who write here, it is less so about their personalities than them having convinced themselves that they are undateable because 1. Women are evil and 2. They are ugly/have a small penis/ other perceived physical 'deformity.' The first group, misogynist trolls, should be mocked or ignored, in my humble opinion. You will not convince them to change their minds because they do not come here in good faith. The second group, on the other, should be told to 'just get over it,' although,…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 11:44 PM
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I don’t see where him bringing a friend is a dumbass move. Given the context that he trusted his friend and the friend betrayed him. Do you bring your buddies on your first dates? You could use that same logic to victim blame a woman who was assaulted by their friend, because “they didn’t have to bring them.” Surely you are not saying that your buddy consensually fucking a woman you happened to match with on tinder is the same as sexual assault? Anyway, there's no beef here. I'm sure you don't d…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 09:44 PM
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She invited him to a party -- hardly a sign of strong interest in him. He was too much of a dumbass to bring his friend -- hardly a sign of much confidence in himself. She made her choice and now the guy who didn't have a chance with her cries he lost an already losing game. Boo fucking hoo. Now, in accordance with your ethics policy, I do declare this conversation over <dramatic bow>
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 09:21 PM
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not to mention what kind of a date is it when you bring your 'wingman' lol.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 09:03 PM
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Ethically speaking — she should have formally declared the date done the moment she didn’t want to do the team thing and then do whatever she wanted. She did exactly that, minus the ridiculous pomposity. "Formally declare the date done" -- lol, some of you guys truly live in the laland, dontcha?
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 09:01 PM
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I think pretty much every human being who has lived long enough has some regrets about wasting their 'good' years -- because of that relationship that went nowhere, that job that was really shitty, that drug/alcohol they used to numb their feelings, that weird cult they joined thinking it would make them happy, etc. Rather than being sad about it, you'd be better off trying to understand why you ended up as an incel (were you depressed? Did you lack social skills and confidence?). Once you figur…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 08:56 AM
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I'm sure there are men and women like that and, as I said, I'd search for them among the religious folk (not the evangelical nutcases, but a nice progressive religion such as Quakerism, for instance). What kind of 'traditional' values are important to you? Maybe you could start such a group?
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 08:25 AM
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Oh I see, so you want non-misogynist support group for conservative men? I'm afraid you might be looking for a unicorn. I suppose you might look into some religious groups (Quakers maybe?) or the type of old-school 'honourable' gentlemen societies, if they still exist. But again, with all due respect, conservatism and feminism (for a lack of a better term) do not really go hand-in-hand (which is not to say that the left is any better, btw).
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 07:50 PM
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This? I'm not trying to start a fight or play a gotcha, but do think it's possible that some problems could be caused by women? This is a genuine question, because I can freely admit that there are problems that men contribute most to. All I'm trying to say is that if you are looking for somebody to tell you this ( from your OP): To be clear, what I'm talking about isn't what men can do to get girls. It's about what kind of common behaviors from women, that men experience and are negatively affe…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 07:42 PM
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Sure, and here's a hot take for you: If a woman you are interested in is 'problematic,' move onto another one. No amount of 'advice' or 'tips and tricks' or 'communication' or the degree of your insight into 'female nature' will help you to have a successful relationship with somebody who doesn't want to be with you. You can't change people and the more you press on, the more likely it is to break (so to speak). This is not about men vs women and who is worse. If it's 'love' that you are after (…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 07:12 PM
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Right, and when black people speak about racism they are being racist against white people, amirite? You are a deeply confused person.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 05:53 PM
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It's what fresh and fit podcast is breeding They are breeding misogyny. Putting a different label on it as if it were this uniquely new thing that nobody has ever heard about only helps to spread it further. This is not about dictionaries, youtube followers (LOL!) or anything else but sanitising the oldest form of hate, misogyny. So just call a spade a spade.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 05:44 PM
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Yes, and your interlocutor's point is that it is not a real thing, hence all the 'exposing.' Just like the dick-pills, we know they exist and we also know they do not work -- hence, they are not a 'real thing.'
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 05:28 PM
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Search google, there is. Myron gaines is a masculinist in my eyes. How do you then reconcile the fact that the inventor?/champion? of this idea of masculinism is being exposed as a massive fraud and that you yourself are posting here videos that do just that? If I grift dick-pills and everybody says it's just a grift and there's no such thing as dick-pills, will you agree with everybody and yet insist that they are real because I said so?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 05:12 PM
2

If you frame your issue as 'problems that men have while dating' you are bound to run into TRP guys, because this framing implies that those 'problems' are caused by women. If you want dating advice, well, what really is there to advise other than ineffective manipulation tactics? Non-trp dating advice is what nobody really wants to hear: try to get to know the other person (via dating) and if you share values and interests, and you have mutual chemistry -- voila, you have a partner. If you mean…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 04:46 PM
1

Some time ago A&P 'embraced' TRP as a necessary 'ideology' for our time. It's not really a car crash, but also not something that should be venerated either. Here's a breakdown: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAeiozXLwl0 I used to watch them a long time ago and stopped shortly before they blew up. They are highly charismatic and funny, no doubt about that. But the problem is that they always punch down. They always choose clearly ridiculous videos (such as the Jubilee nonsense) with ridiculous …
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 02:10 PM
1

How do i rationalize that my future gf probably had amazing sex with hung chads who gave her multiple orgasms while I was focusing on my career and masturbating crying myself to sleep? Lol! and you claim you have a university degree? How old you really are?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 01:24 PM
0

In every video where they discuss transgender people?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 01:07 PM
5

They have wild unprotected sex with masculine narcisistic "chads" Do you happen to be in a room when your female friends have sex with these 'Chads'? Or nobody has yet told you that (some) men (and women, to be fair) tend to lie about their alleged sexual escapades to impress their naive friends? Also, if this 'wild unprotected sex with masculine narcissistic 'chads'' is so common in your circle of friends, how come you worry about your 'emotions' (or whatever your problem with that is) and not …
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 09:20 AM
-1

Can we make a megathreat for these? I know you guys enjoy seeing F&F 'exposed' (or whatever), but Aba and Preach are also transphobic, misogynist trash.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 09:04 AM
3

These "men" encouraged this! They compare them to primates ("Black apes/gorillas/Harambe in a wig.") One of their many excuses is that black women are uncooperative, masculine, and unattractive, while white and non-black WOC are feminine, submissive, attractive, and kind. This is truly disgusting. Please stay away from such men, especially IRL, but ideally also on the internet. I'm afraid you won't convince them that their ideas are outright moronic (not to mention sexist and racist) and sadly, …
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 08:52 PM
8

Guys, do you know how fucking ridiculous it is to be 'cold approached' while you are just minding your own business? Seriously, try to put yourself in our shoes: Would you really want to go out with a complete rando who is bothering you while you are quickly chewing on your sandwich during a lunch break, or trying to catch a bus, or whatever mundane activity you happen to be doing at that time? A real life is not a stupid rom-com -- no matter how great your looks might be, you are still a RANDOM…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 08:38 PM
27

I’ll work on my happiness by compensating in other areas. I’ll continue my hobbies, maximize my health, pursue my career ambitions, and pursue and maintain platonic relationships. I’ll continue my work in therapy even though it really never helped me. And I’m going to get back on meds, especially since the libido suppression is helpful to me. And I will go through with the surgery but I won’t have unrealistic expectations for it. I think that's a really good plan and I wish you all the best.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 08:22 PM
3

I definitely didn't want to suggest you are deranged or anything like that. To this internet stranger who has never met you, you just seem to be having a moment of crisis, and that's perfectly normal. There'll be more of that along the way. All I wanted to suggest is that counter to 'common sense,' it's sometimes okay to just have a bit of fun instead of trying to find answers to these big existential problems. And yes, I fully agree that most adults are petty children and that that's deeply dis…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 08:40 PM
4

The world is fucked-up place, but it has some nice parts, including some nice people -- here and there. How about you take a break for a bit, maybe a week or even just two-three days, from all this? It doesn't really matter whether you are an incel (or an ex-incel), black-pilled, red-pilled, whatever. These are just words, meaningless labels, and neither of them really captures your essence. But it seems obvious that you are overwhelmed and I think you'd be better off if you'd just set aside the…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 07:54 PM
4

Ugh, I still remember once chatting with this grown dude (mid to late 20s) who unprompted told me that his favourite book is Harry Potter. Never spoke to him again. I'd rather date men who can't read than men who claim 'harry potter' as their favourite book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:10 PM
22

What does it mean to be 'good with women'? There are so many women with low confidence who want to be loved so desperately that they'd go with anybody who pays them a drop of attention. Does taking an advantage of the vulnerable really make you 'good with women,' or just, you know, a toxic person.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/21 11:11 AM
2

Necessary, in fact!
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 11:27 PM
3

Good, no problems with that. It's just a bit funny to get serious life advice from somebody with your user name, that's all. But glad you doing the lord's work in more than one way!
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 11:18 PM
2

if you say so u/copious_cunnilingus.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 11:12 PM
5

the logical end is the country basically falls apart. and that's not a good thing. this is an absurd conclusion. Let me tell you a real story (TW: I'm from Europe). I was once at a dinner party in the UK and there was this old lady sitting next to me. Trying to be social (and having grown up in a country where SAHM are not a thing) I asked her what was her profession, thinking that's a perfectly sensible question to ask. Little did I know that this lady would immediately proceed to have a comple…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 10:09 PM
16

If I give her what she SAYS she wants (more time, affection, validation) do you think she’ll lose interest in me? I think you'll lose her if you continue with this TRP bullshit. Look at it from her point of view, would you want to be with somebody, no less a father of your child, who constantly accuses you of having ulterior motives? And what's wrong with giving her more time, affection and validation? Do you not want to spend more time with the mother of your child? Do you get NOTHING from bein…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 09:27 PM
3

Was it also 'normal' to have grown women without a voting right?
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 09:05 PM
3

No? How much is the 'normal' and who gets to decide that?
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 08:39 PM
10

You may be surprised by the number of men who prefer to have children with confident women who are in charge of their lives. But to each their own, of course.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 07:13 PM
71

Well, if you grow up in a society that tells you your only value resides in your ability to attract and please men, you'll do anything and everything to attract and please men, including this. These women should be pitied.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 10:43 AM
11

How come I get rejected or don't get any attention? This is a normal reaction For someone handsome like me". yikes -- but you know that already! I think you may be overthinking this a little. We all have moments like that and as long as you don't act on it -- e.g. pleading with the women to like you, or even worse: physically forcing them into stuff they don't want to do -- it's normal to have moments like that. I wouldn't necessarily describe that as 'toxic' -- counterproductive and indicative …
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 01:55 AM
8

'fLaW' in your logic?? Are you kidding me? Do you have learning difficulties or what is your problem? You write somewhere towards the end that women are unsympathetic towards men's issue and yet you open with 'fuck women, they are not opressed and if they earn less, it's because of their 'cHoIcEs.' Also fuck trying to diversify STEM fields, 'fEmAleS' just want cushy jobs.' You are an irredemable moron and it is hardly suprising you fell for the most moronic of the cultists. Fuck you, fuck Peters…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 09:00 PM
20

Did you mother, grandmother, sisters, female counsins -- or any other woman in your family -- also mock you after seeing you (or any other male member of your family) grieving your deceased father? If not then the AWALT doesn't apply, right? I'm very sorry your girlfriend turned out this way, but I wonder whether she really left you just because she witnessed you crying. Of course, there are women like that and she may have been one of them. What is more likely, however, is that she both didn't …
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 01:08 PM
1

Also, the experience seemed so vague and open ended, I can so relate to this. The first few meetings when I started therapy, I kept begging my counsellor to just tell me what I should do and what to think, promising her I'll follow it to a dot. She kept telling me that this is not what therapy is about. Therapy, as she insisted, is about giving me a safe space to reflect, by myself and for myself, about what I want to do and think. And I'm glad she took this approach. Retrospectively, it was so …
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 08:10 PM
2

It is an incredibly difficult situation. I won't try to give any advice because frankly this seems like a no-win scenario. I just want to reassure you that it's okay to prioritise your own well-being and say 'no' when you don't feel like seeing him, and even cut him out completly. If he were a drug addict who'd steal from you, nobody would blink an eye if you were to take precautions to protected yourself and your property. This is a very similar situation, except he is not stealing material thi…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 07:35 PM
2

yaaaawn!
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 11:31 AM
4

He also asserts that "no one listens to him or cares about him". I talk to him frequently about his issues, and his issues alone, for hours at a time. Depression tends to make a person self-obsessed beyond belief. He is simply unable to see that you are there for him (and hopefully other people, too) and that there is treatment for his condition. I'm afraid, just talking to him and hearing him out won't help with that. As somebody who also went through a phase of debilitating depression (and got…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 10:45 AM
7

This should be made in a pinned post!!!
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 10:59 PM
2

I'm not sure what you are trying to achieve here. It is really hard to take you seriously when you so desperately grasp at any strawman you can find, completely misread and juggle with your sources, move goalposts and outright contrive statistics. You'd do yourself a massive favour if only you approached this issue in good faith and not as some gendered zero-sum game according to which you have to entirely undermine one side of the problem so that the other one gets ... what does it, actually, g…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 08:02 PM
2

This is a very conservative political view!
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 11:58 AM
2

Yes, let's not leave out his ground-breaking lobster theory -- women should be subordinate to men because that's what lobsters do, apparently, although marine biologists have a thing or two to say about it.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 11:06 AM
3

jordan peterson does not explicity hate women He very explicitly does hate women.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 10:32 AM
4

Just don't. Petersonites are a cult and the last thing that can get to them is a rational, fact-based discussion. Just ignore them and hopefully that will make them go away. Their daddy's 15 minutes of fame seems to have faded out anyway. If you want to argue with TERFs and transphobes, I suggest you first educate yourself about trans issues. This response to JK Rowling is a good starting point. Mind you it's UK-specific.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 10:25 AM
3

I'm quite baffled why you would think it is somehow scandalous that these researchers are distinguishing between forced and coerced penetration (which surely is a legal distinction). Do you think women's statistics are not vastly skewed by this difference? Anyway, what's your point? Let's ignore the penetrative rape statistics because they do not happen to fit our agenda, and instead let's talk only about coerced rape, because those do? In other words, it's perfectly fine when other men rape men…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 10:12 AM
2

Well there you, maybe write an angry letter to your elected representatives to change the law and start an awareness campaign to make people take male rape victims seriously. How do you think we got the law to recognise female rape victims?
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 10:06 AM
9

No, most of the time it's perpetrated by women. No, it really is predominantly men who rape other men, and by predominantly I mean 80% of all reported cases/
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 02:29 AM
1

They would not become lily-white Scandinavians, but if you were to take a native-born Indian and made him spend a substantial time in Scandinavia, he would become significantly paler. By the same token, if you took a Scandinavian and made him live in India for a year or so, his skin would become significantly more 'tanned' than what he is used to. More news at 11. I hope you are reading that one comment in the context of the whole conversation and that you are not just trying to have a pointless…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 10:02 PM
75

Lest we forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:44 PM
219

Can you imagine how many fucking people had to approve this fine and not one of them, apparently, took a moment to think what kind of 'message' this will send in the post-#metoo era.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:41 PM
1

I said 'tanned' if it's the grammar we are arguing about. If it's not that, then I'm really not sure what your point is.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 09:30 PM
8

Let me guess, you probably using OLD/apps to date, right? Have you tried the old school way? Meet somebody through your friends, hobbies, work (whatever as long as it is not 'digital'/'online'), see if there's some chemistry between the two of you and only then ask her out? Because that could help you with weeding out all those boring, unengaging dates.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 09:18 PM
1

It's not a matter of what I personally think. You are free to consult whatever non-racist source on the matter you like...The so-called 'brown people' are a sub-group of 'Caucasians.'
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 08:18 PM
11

Yeah, he sounds so exhaustive (to put it mildly!). I'm sorry you had to put up with this for so long, and, of course, for losing your best friend. But I think it is the best solution for both of you. Hopefully losing yet another close friend (I doubt you are the only one who got fed up with him) will finally force him to do some much-needed introspection. I think this was the right decision. Wish you all the best!
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 07:55 PM
21

Male rape happens, yes, but it's more rare, which is why female rape is more talked about. It's also largely perpetrated by other men.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 06:54 PM
1

It appears so, yes.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 08:30 PM
1

I now remember learning back in school about Aryans invading India, many centuries before Christ. Aryans by definition are Europeans, which means Indians are Europeans too. We Aryans come from modern-day Iran and suppose they spread out in both directions, eastward towards India and later westward toward Europe. In any case, we all came from apes. Not sure about Hinduism being originally a European religion, unless you are somehow comparing it to paganism, which was polytheistic. Also not sure a…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 08:01 PM
2

Now, it's all the rage and men won't leave me alone 😑 :D :D :D
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 12:47 AM
1

I'm very sorry that you got bullied when growing up. Children, and even grown adults, often cope with their own trauma by traumatising others. For instance, if you grew up being told you are fat, you are quite likely to judge others for their weight. Sometimes it doesn't even have to be directed towards you. Say your sister was criticised by your parents for being fat, but not you. Well, that still could have ingrained in you that being fat equals being a 'bad,' unlovable person. And since every…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 11:43 PM
7

It is internalised racism and I'm just really holding back on giving a whole lecture on British colonialism, which is where this nonsense comes from. As for u/atheistvegeta specifically, not to play an armchair psychologist, but, my dude, I feel like this whole eugenicizing philosophizing is just a distraction from more pressing issues. How's your social life? Do you go out a lot?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 09:06 PM
1

Race is a dumb construct and even this dumb construct doesn't recognise something such as 'Indian' or 'Brown' race. You guys are just tanned whites.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 08:23 PM
1

Yup. You guys just happen to be exposed to more sun than your average European -- that's the only difference.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 08:20 PM
2

Thinking AT ALL about it!
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 08:17 PM
14

First, it's spelt 'Caucasian' or just 'white' and, second, dude, just stop it. This is not healthy, or, for that matter, attractive. STOP IT. EDIT: Here's a hot take for you: The so-called 'brown people,' Indians included, are just dark-skinned whites. Happy?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 08:14 PM
10

I can't even finish reading that. What's wrong with people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:32 PM
6

Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 08:42 PM
7

He mentioned a 4h long video-call-thing, if I understood it well. Pretty sure that qualifies as a 'date.' Not sure why you would want to have semantic arguments about it, though.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 06:03 PM
25

Disregard your mum. There was nothing toxic about what you described. I would say your date is/was clearly interested in you. I wouldn't overanalyse that 'bro fist' too much. Maybe she wants to take it slow; maybe she wanted to be cute; maybe she herself didn't know what was that supposed to mean. Who knows, but I don't think it's necessarily a negative sign. Dating is always awkward at the beginning, while you are still getting to know each other. So there will be a lot of confusing gestures an…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 05:17 PM
1

None of what you describe sounds too awful, all combined included, so I'll go with 'never happened.'
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 04:42 PM
0

I'm objectively ugly as fuck screenshots or never happened!
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 04:05 PM
1

wtf have I just read!!!!
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 04:04 PM
7

Let her escalate you from "stranger" to "acquaintance" to "ok not gonna murder me" <- This I lacked. Normies call it empathy, but that's not what empathy means. Let her do that kind of escalation, not you. Yes, that's called 'getting to know each other,' aka dating.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 02:23 PM
9

This whole idea of keeping a track of your 'number' tells me that, in the most generous interpretation, you maybe had sex once or twice -- MAYBE. But most likely not even once! And a huge LOL at women going through 100 sexual partners between the ages 16-26!!!!
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 08:40 PM
14

Of course there are, but I doubt they are slowly 'marinating' those women with 'opening their worlds and their souls to them' and then proceed to neg them, or whatever nonsense tactics he mentioned. You just go out and try to get laid with as many drunk/drugged women as possible, and most likely also use dating apps to add to the number. But you definitely do not go around dating 150 women -- you'd need a few decades to achieve that!
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 07:28 PM
19

No, that was sarcasm -- not a very good one, admittedly. But no, of course not!
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 07:11 PM
43

so this guy claims he sloooowly seduced 150 women, full-on dating/manipulating them with your garden-variety TRP tricks. Sounds legit!
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 05:53 PM
82

There is no way you could please men like that. Even fully veiled women get this type of harassment. It's not about what you wore, how you walked, how old you look or anything to do with you. These are pitiful cowards who pick on the physically weaker because that's the only way they get a taste of having some 'power.' They are also the reason why so many women, myself included, wear headphones in public spaces. Hurtful and frightening as it is, it's best to ignore and not waste any time analysi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:28 PM
132

I so don't buy this 'wE bEiNg ShAmeD fOr ShOwiNg EmOTiOns, BoOOoooOOO.' By who? Give me some citations here. Because if it's by other men, then I don't know how I can help you with that. And if it's by women (which is hard to believe, but sure, there might be some bAd aPpLes) -- well, I guess that's what you get what you tell them there are lesser sex for being eMoTioNAl. And I'm sorry for your ex and your father. It sounds like they were trying to guilt-trip you into overlooking their abusive b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:43 AM
41

Are aggression, hate and anger not emotions (or, in the very least, powered by emotions)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:34 AM
11

Oh please don't. The very idea that you need some fucking 'pill' to 'open your eyes,' or whatever it is supposed to mean, is inherently cultish and counterproductive. If you want to get people off this nonsense, you should somehow encourage them to quit the internet and seek out real-life relations and non-relational experiences. You know, ideally, you'd want to teach them how to be human again, with no big digital pharma involved.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 08:18 PM
55

The brave logical sex strikes again! And totally 'non-emotional' because, you know, they get so shamed for expressing their eMotIoNs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:06 PM
4

Well it thrives on and actively encourages trusts issues, so it very much comes with the territory. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 12:02 PM
2

You sound spectacularly confused!
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 11:37 AM
4

LOL! TRP will probably never cease to amaze me! thanks for the explanation
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 08:24 PM
1

what's with your reading skills?
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 07:42 PM
2

huh, like some deranged cockney rhyming slang? three - ought - four = hoe?
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 06:32 PM
3

what's '304'? Also, please, for the love of god, call women 'women'!!
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 03:11 PM
109

I really liked how in one of the earlier FDS podcasts these new generations of men (I don't think their age was specified, but I would include also the 30-40 age range) are basically just consumers with nothing more to them. They just binge on any distraction daddy capitalism has to offer to them, from video games through porn to fucking superhero films, and, as a result, have nothing to give in return. I thought that really hit the nail on its head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:27 PM
5

True, holy quartet it is then!
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 11:39 AM
8

Yes, and this same society kills women for not being 'fEmInIne' enough. Let's keep this whole man's rights nonsense in perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:48 PM
4

Yeah, and too bad they have neither intellectual nor emotional capacity to process even the sugar-coated version of what every single one of us has to say about what it means to be a woman in a patriarchal society. Ugh, how did you resist not punching him! Makes my blood boil just reading about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:45 PM
60

It's the holy trinity of hate: misogyny, racism and queerphobia. Never met a person who'd subscribe only to one of these.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/21 03:23 PM
37

Oh the LibFem and it's 'pLiX vAlIdAtE mY iNtErNaLiSEd mIsOGynY aS fEmInISm' is really infuriating. Nobody cares that you feel threatened because somebody on the internet said that women shouldn't shave their pubic area to please their boyfriends and you happen to have a boyfriend who really likes you fully shaved. To quote their feminist icon (/s):'Kim (or better, Karen), there are [women] dying.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:39 AM
251

The end is nigh, what can I tell you. We have these amazing bodies that can give us pleasure and create a new life, and instead of making the best of it, we allow men to batter us. It's deeply unsettling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:41 PM
25

Ahh good, glad to hear it didn't inconvenience you a lot, because it is a decent sum of money. But I agree, if you can afford to pay for not having troubles with idiots, then do so. And fuck Sean for being a fucking thief and a stunningly audacious moron. Hope his crooked karma made him paid for it ten-fold!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:33 PM
74

he suddenly claimed he had been in an accident and couldn't remember anything LOL! They don't put effort even into their lies!!!! Any chance you'll get your tools or money back?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:20 PM
1

feel free to report...:P
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 05:47 PM
1

I passed the gruelling physical training, aced all the theoretical exams, opened my mind to cosmic visions and became a fully certified member of this subreddit, an expert on triggering little angry white boys. Also, I spread the word about the holy land and the dangers of the dairy. What triggered you? Your peepee is small or something?
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 04:58 PM
0

Nah, only cucks, simps and soya-boys as far as you can see. And thank's god for them. Not only do they have the largest, chunkiest, permanently erect pricks, but they also know how to use them. Heaven on earth, this place, I tell you. This is what Jesus would have wanted for us all!
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 07:51 PM
120

no tattoos, piercings, or dyed hair This is the red pill preachings. Block, delete and run as far away as possible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:19 AM
2

He followed by too!
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 02:59 PM
2

This is a fucked-up situation and I'm sorry your sister is going through this (and you, too). Unfortunately, she will not be able to 'deprogram' him; if this was so easy, misogyny wouldn't be such a massive issue as it is now. She might be interested to read this book. If I were you, I would be there to support your sister, listen to her rant and cry, trying to comfort her. And I would also try, very gently, to redirect her attention from her husband onto thinking and planning her new future wit…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/21 05:38 PM
8

Lol, think of all the policemen who batter their spouses and become a feminist!! Geee, talk about a strawman!!
/r/ExRedPill04/07/21 09:44 AM
3

Good! You wouldn't want to lose those strong teeth!
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 07:34 PM
3

huh, maybe ease on that Cola?
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 07:16 PM
1

you ok?
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 03:48 PM
34

Heh, I find it hilarious to imagine a bunch of losers going:'Oh we really tried to be nice, intelligent and confident, and not only it was suspiciously too easy, but it also didn't work, so we now going to go back to being mean, stupid and anxious, because that's guaranteed to bring in the results.' There is a difference between being nice, intelligent and confident at all times, and pretending that you are nice, intelligent and confident to get laid. Grown women can usually tell the difference.…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 10:15 AM
8

This you, you fucking trashbin of a human being? you know when a woman wants to be with you” You generally don’t. And it’s because as said “sadly, women have been socialized to underplay and dismiss their feelings.” “Anytime you sense a vague hesitation, abort the mission.” Take this from a man who used to live by this, women will hate you for this, and feel like you’re not thinking about her feeling and you’re selfish. Don’t ask me why or how. “If they say anything other than a glowing endorsem…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 02:11 AM
13

So you are telling a woman how to have sex with women in response to what she wrote to a guy about how he should treat women? You see, this is why it is hard to believe that you have consensual sex (or just any sex). You sound like a very confused, twelve-year old half-wit. ​ Do you think most men actually like interacting with you? Does anyone likes interacting with you, brainwashed, pre-pubescent troll?
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 01:51 AM
19

Dude this is r/exredpill not r/redpill or r/neverhadconsensualsex In any case, if you bothered to read what OP wrote, you'd know he is not asking for a sex advice -- least of all, a sex advice from a redpiller. And please stop LARPing as somebody who gets to have sex with real women. It's really unconvincing. 2/10.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 01:31 AM
26

Listen, we all did regrettable things to people we really liked and not all of us were under the influence of TRP. I don't want to excuse what you did to her -- gropping is inexcusable. And statistically speaking, it is highly likely you were not the only men who has sexually harassed her (or will do so in her lifetime). I'm telling you this so you could understand what it means to be a woman in this fucked up world and why it is so important for men to finally start standing behind us when we s…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 11:57 PM
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Women are not monolithic. Feminists are not monolithic. Since the day 1, feminists have disagreed about absolutely every single issue imaginable, from suffrage to sex work. Perhaps the only uncontroversial issue in feminism is the right to abortion. I agree with your coworker, don't approach women at grocery stores or at work (I'd made an exception here for the coworkers you have known for some time and you are sure that the attraction is recipricated). As for the grocery store, look at it from …
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 11:50 PM
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This is how these fucking idiots get into situations where they find outthier girlfriends constantly cheat on them because they do shit likethis, and believe shit like this I think you are jumping the gun here. I highly doubt most of them ever get to have a girlfriend (or rather, I certainly hope they don't, out of concern for the wellbeing of these women.) In any case, yes, your point stands. This whole manosphere is one big exercise in a grossly entitled projecting: It's perfectly fine for men…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 12:13 PM
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I think a lot of people (and especially men) use 'neediness' as an excuse to break up with a person that they simply did not like that much. For some fucked up reason, there's a tendency to find a 'fault' and 'blame' the other person for the break-up rather than just acknowledge that it was not a good match. Unless you are calling her 24/7, always demanding that she pays you attention, you are not being needy when you text her to find out if she got home safe. It's actually a really nice gesture…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/21 01:24 PM
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She eventually drove home and I offered her that she could sleep in her car behind my garage. I understand your circumstances but... DUDE! WTF! How about next time when you go out to drink/smoke, you go somewhere near her place so she doesn't need to drive? Or you offer to pay for her uber? In any case, do text her next time. It is not 'needy' to ask if she came home back safe. Don't be afraid to show your interest and care for the person you are dating. If they find it 'needy,' they are probabl…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/21 12:43 PM
2

Tell me you are 12-years old without telling me you are a 12-year old....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:06 PM
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I apologise if this comes across as judgemental or prudish, but that 'hugging' bit really jump out at me: Why would you hug a colleague -- and every day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:54 PM
4

uff, 48 (!!!) laws?? No wonder you exhausted. Get some rest, buddy!
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 07:06 PM
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Huh, for a group of men that allegedly wants to go 'tHeIr oWn wAy,' they have quite a few deranged dating strategies... Anyway, glad you found somebody you really like. Best of luck!
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 04:10 PM
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Aaaaah, the MGTOWs. In some perverse sense, they are my favourite of online misogynists (sorry incels & TRPs!). How much better this world could have been if only they would just fuck off wherever it is that they want to go.... too bad their obsessive hatred of women has left them pedalling on the same spot. Their 'reformed' reddit page (MGTOW2) is 97% 'females so, so bad' and 3% 'look at the shitty meal I've made for myself, I'm levelling up so fast, but females still so, so bad!'
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 09:56 PM
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Absolutely. For the sake of brevity, I made that post sound far more resolute and perhaps 'obvious' than it often is in real life. Also, this is not a fool-proof method, but in my experience, it can help. I already mentioned this story a long time ago here. One night, a few years ago, when I was still in a houseshare with a bunch of men (and their only female friend, who hated me), one of them knocked at my door, just as I was getting to bed, and asked me to have a smoke with him. He looked forl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:08 PM
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Will all due respect, you seem immensely confused about this. Women are rarely attracted to 1 thing, such as your 'success' (which, in any case, is subjective). You want to be with somebody you find physically attractive and who has a system of values that correlates with yours, who is confident and, indeed, ambitious/successful. Most importantly, you want to be with somebody whose company you really enjoy. Some women want men with all these qualifiers, and some more; other women are willing to …
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 03:33 PM
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Instead, I coldly told him that I couldn't help him and when he persisted, I told him again that I couldn't help him, using as few words as possible and staring him down until he walked away. That's what saved me a few times, just repeating like a robot: You are harassing me, leave me alone. You are harassing me, leave me alone, etc. No pleading, no explaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:16 PM
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I do know for a fact that success is attractive but no woman is really sticking with a man through his journey nowadays if he is on the path to success Are you really saying that 100% of women never stick with a man who is 'on his path to success? Sounds like an unsubstantiated generalisation to me. ​ But the foundation was really attractive and we would all have girlfriends So you think that a by-product of being successful at your job is getting a gf? Is that in your contract? Seriously, how o…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 03:11 PM
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We all lie about silly things, trying to make ourselves seem 'better' than we are, and then we regret doing so. It's stupid but very common. Now that you see how much anxiety such a triviality can cause, I hope you'll know that it's not worth lying in general (unless you really have to). Needless to add, it's nobody's business what yours or anybody else's 'number' is. In fact, it is deeply immature to be even discussing that as if it mattered whether somebody is a virgin, or has fucked half of t…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 02:02 PM
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Lol, I guess you get points for originality, but you know your foreskin doesn't account for 'half of the [penis] surface.' Sure, it is the most sensitive area and I agree, it shouldn't be removed without the men's consent. Tying it to the 'dysfunction' in American society, however, is a bit of a stretch (if you forgive me the pun).
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 09:22 PM
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Male fertility is plummetting so this may be yet another choice snatched right out of our hands...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:08 PM
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Imagine interviewing 75 pimps and use them saying they are good as evidence that they are good! That's some high science right there! Favourite bits: "Abuse wasn't something we came across — but we did find badlabour practices," she said. "What we need in that context is labourrights, not necessarily criminal laws." ​ ​"[It's surprising] how absolutely mundane management in the sexindustry is [and] how much it echoes any other business," Bruckert said. "There is marketing, there are security con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:26 AM
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Because finding the 'right' person at the right time for both of you is a miracle, and I think it should be treated as such. But instead, a lot of us, myself included, are chasing instant gratification, and we want it now and want it to be really intense, and it must resemble the romance from our favourite film/TV show, you know, big gestures and all that, etc. But that's only ever going to set us all up for a disappointment. As for why your dad might be more 'successful' with finding women will…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 09:37 PM
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Hey there, careful with what you wish for. If you keep convincing yourself that you won't find a partner, then you most certainly won't. Keep it positive! It indeed may be the case that you'll be alone for the rest of your life, and there's nothing wrong with that. But maybe not. Maybe you'll meet a very special person one day -- so why sabotage it without giving this person a chance? The solution to your problem is perhaps too simple, but hear me out; sometimes the most effective solutions are …
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 09:16 PM
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Well, the cliche advice is to look for fulfilment in other areas of your life: friends, hobbies, career, etc. Having said that, you are only 24. I wouldn't lose my hope just yet. People are getting married and starting families much later than our parent's generation did. I would say you have a good 10 years, or even more, to have a good time and not worry about the 'forever.'
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 08:06 PM
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It's a bit of a truism to say that only men with no money worry about 'gold-diggers.' It's almost as if they are worried about being exposed for being poor and so they pretend they have some imaginary 'gold' that they need to protect. In some twisted sense, this gives an impression that they have some money, even though every self-respecting 'gold-digger' can see instantly that there is nothing to mine, so to speak.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 11:33 AM
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Can we please call women 'women'?
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 01:18 PM
9

Okay, I didn't mean any hurt or to invalidate anybody. I'm truly sorry for coming across that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:01 PM
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You appear to have misunderstood my reply: I don't think that post was written by a woman. For me, it plays too strongly into this trope that women use men for financial gain and once they are materially secured, they immediately drop them. I know it's crazy, but it's not unimaginable that some men would stoop so low so as to disseminate such stories and then use them as 'evidence' of how crooked women are. Just notice how men here on reddit react to FSD (or just women in general). In case it ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:14 PM
18

To clarify, when I wrote it's fake, I didn't mean that the post was fake, but that whoever wrote it is a man LARPing as an ungrateful, gold-digging woman. Perhaps it is indeed a case that she couldn't access free secondary education. It's hard for me to believe that, but maybe that's just my European privilege speaking. ( I also briefly googled it and it appears that there indeed is free public secondary education in RSA.) Anyway, even if all the details are true, would a practising lawyer, some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:29 PM
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Sure they are, but 1. Do they accept many 16-year old? 2. Would selling fruit on the street make enough money to cover these extremely expensive tuition fees? I'm not denying that the US education system can be extremely expensive. I'm saying that that story makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:39 PM
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Yup, it truly sounds so. I don't think there's a country on this Earth without public (i.e. free) secondary schools, so no need to sell fruits on the streets to afford those. Paying for a university with a truck driving? -- ok, I would buy that. But not that first part. It sounds like it was written by somebody who has no idea about a lot of things, including education, the foster care system, relationships, creative writing, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:15 PM
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I'm sure some do and yes, while it's pretty rare, you do see it here and there. My grandparents had a 14-year age difference. I knew another couple with a significant age difference, and I myself have dated one or two men who were significantly older than me. Anyway, why do you worry about what other consenting adults do with their lives?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 11:40 AM
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Having quickly skimmed through it, it seems like the ONLY jOkE they have is that FDS is after rich, tall men. So hIlAriOuS!!! And yes, shockingly, a bunch of sexists is also racist! Really wonder how they feel about queer people (and particularly queer women!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:27 AM
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I'm sure you heard those stories about women who struggled to get pregnant. They had tried everything and still nothing happened, and then finally they got to a point when they said 'fuck it,' 'que sera, sera,' and instead of obsessing over getting pregnant they went on a holiday or to a spa to relax a little and have a good time, and then suddenly--puff, they were pregnant! I think this 'self-improvement' discourse got a little out of hand. Yes, of course, you should try to be a good person and…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 08:28 AM
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This is probably going to be an unpopular opinion and controversial post, but someone had to say it and I don’t mind any feminist backlash You such a brave man, BozoShadow Mamba, for finally saying what everybody else has ben so scared to say out loud! Booo femalenizm bad, (and red pill too, for a balance, I guess)! Let's go back to good ol' days when the 'genders' were in harmony and there was no toxicity between them! What are we waiting for??? Because really, if you think about it, utilizing …
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 11:20 PM
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A slight tangent, but hear me out: Spirituality is also a good field to practice your mIsAndRy, ladies. Ignore male preachers, gurus, astrologers -- whoever it is that you follow. Don't give them your time, let alone your money. Find and follow spiritual women instead. Not only they are less likely to r*pe you (physically and metaphorically), but they are also more likely to understand your circumstances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:16 PM
2

There’s still a little kid in me deep down who really just wants her dad, but he is not a well mind. I know and it's terribly sad that he cannot give you this. But to find a silver lining in a very unfortunate situation, the less time you spend trying to mend the unmendable, the more time you'll have to surround yourself with people who will lavish you with unconditional love, support and all those good things! There are good times ahead, you'll see :)
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 03:39 PM
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At one point, he openly stated that he finds amusement in my discomfort whenever he sends me these videos or talks at me about the ideologies. This is abuse and you don't have to put up with it just because he is your father. I know that this is a terribly difficult situation for you, but I think you should follow your mother's example and cut him off, even if only for some time until he comes back to his senses. Unfortunately, there is no magical Heimlich manoeuvre to get the red pill out of hi…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 12:50 PM
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r/im14andthisisdeep How about, as a kind of a tHouGhT eXpeRImEnT, you take a break from the TRP and go and talk to real people for a bit?
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 11:44 PM
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"You painted a naked woman because you enjoyed looking at her, put a mirror in her hand and you called the painting "Vanity," thus morally condemning the woman whose nakedness you had depicted for you own pleasure." John Berger, Ways of Seeing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:18 AM
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RE: school shootings, they are almost consistently done by straight cis white men, cis white men who are heavily into fascism. The media tend to leave this part out and instead blame video games and whatnot. But the fact is that most of the school shooters were proponents of neo-nazism. Behind the bastards podcast did really good two (or three?) episodes on the birth of the manosphere where the link between fascism and school shootings are briefly discussed.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 06:12 PM
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Oh that fucking look he gives her... makes me want to pick up a very rusty pair of scissors and finish the job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:28 PM
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Why are you with somebody who thinks you just want to 'fuck and party and lie and cheat'? Is this the person you want to rely on when you fall on hard times? If you are looking for permission, then, yes, you are should most definitely and pretty much instantly ghost him. He's a trash person and you won't be able to change him. Get out before he seriously hurts you.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 09:08 PM
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What I'm getting from your post is in part entitlement and in part a deep misunderstanding of what relations are about. It seems to me that you just want a 'girlfriend' (for whatever reason) and not really a person who understands you and who makes you happier just by the virtue of their existence. Have you ever even thought about what kind of a girlfriend you want? I mean, to be specific, what kind of a personality do you find endearing, what values and hobbies you'd like her to have, etc.? Rel…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/21 01:14 PM
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It's like my brain needs some simple explanations for the world, and I am still having a tough time with this idea that we are all just children and nobody REALLY knows what the hell is going on. We all crave 'simple explanations,' this is perfectly normal. And indeed, sometimes the simple explanations are the correct ones, but not always. For this reason, we must always evaluate each situation on its own term and also account for our own biases -- sometimes we just want things to be 'simpler' b…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/21 10:27 AM
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Yes, yes, a single most evident sign that you are in a happy, content relationship is to write passive-aggressive 'thank you' messages to your partner's ex. It totally has nothing to do with the fact that your partner is not over their ex and that you are rightfully feeling threatened by them. Nuh-uh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:12 PM
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Let's not leave out that that fruit was the fruit of knowledge!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:03 AM
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Yes, totally not like the other boys whose sexual conquests happen in their minds only!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:07 PM
222

Same here and my god the 'oh-I'm-so-well-travelled' pretensions was really the cherry on the top!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:25 AM
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Oh gee, I wonder how Mr. 'Me-me-me-me-mah money-me-me-mah money- me - me -mah penis - me- me- me- mah money- me-me-me-me-' got into this conundrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:23 AM
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Sure he did. What a hoar!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:59 AM
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I was told by a very logical young man (my estimate is ca.12 years old) that I am a hypocrite for telling people not to watch 'red-pilled' YouTubers since I contribute to FDS and that is, I quote, 'lady red pill.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:49 PM
6

In what order am I supposed to read this nonsense?? It kind of makes and doesn't make sense at the same time regardless if I read it horizontally or vertically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:44 PM
6

HEAR! HEAR!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:42 PM
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Oh yes, the newest business venture of the aggrieved: 'I'VE BEEN SILENCED: A NATIONWIDE TOUR'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:21 AM
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I've also had situations where I came across young attractive women that almost seem to show anger or frustration just because I looked at them. I've had them turn their back to me and even walk out of the way just for looking in their direction. I didn't speak to them or even smile, I just happened to see a person standing there and I get reacted to in a negative way. Is it possible that you are projecting here? Maybe those young attractive women were indeed angry and frustrated, but not becaus…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 10:52 PM
1

Yes, and you post on r/pussypass and r/Ask_TheDonald which is just pitiful.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 09:01 PM
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Hear! Hear! Also, as cliched as it is, it does get better! I promise. You'll get slapped again the first few times you try to get out of your shell -- this universe has a really wicked sense of humour -- but the more you try, the easier it will become. Don't be afraid of it. Best of luck!
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 11:34 PM
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First and foremost, stop watching red-pilled 'dating advice.' In relationships, there is no place for manipulations and the exploitation of insecurities. Second, there is no magical formula that would help you to keep your partners 'interested' in you. And you do not want to force your partners to be with you anyway. That's how toxic relations are created. As for 'girl getting bored' -- well, boys do, too. It's not a uniquely female quality! We date because it often takes time to find out whethe…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 11:20 PM
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Wait a minute! Why is she paying for their mistakes? The moment they have to cover for their losses is the moment when they start thinking about what they are doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:14 AM
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I'm a straight woman who doesn't find muscular men particularly attractive. Checkmate evolutionary psychology! On a more serious note, what we find 'attractive' is largely culturally determined. It is what glossy magazines and TV sells us as 'attractive.' Not everybody buys into it, plus people have different tastes. I might like my tall, lanky guys, somebody else is into gym rats, and a third person doesn't care about physical looks at all. It is also perfectly possible that you can find a musc…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 02:14 PM
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You are not intellectually developed enough to 'dismiss' exredpillers. You are a redpiller. You are a hateful, cowardly, moronic, insignificant bundle of hate. Now fuck off with your misogyny, but ideally stay in the digital world, because you would not survive a second out there in the real world.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 11:17 AM
1

You are a gullible half-wit who believes everything that suits your hateful biases. You might not go to church, but you are no different from people who do.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 11:04 AM
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Heh, I love how this makes use of all types of emotional black-mail, including such classics as: 'you hurt my child by leaving me, ' 'we were so happy,' 'I did everything for you,' 'bitch you so crazy and I did you a big favour by being with you,' 'bitch you don't even know how happy I am now that you have left me, so I really need to tell how much you missing out on now that you are gone!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:30 PM
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Of course! What's wrong with you? Have you never been so madly in love with somebody that the first thing you did was to message your ex about how madly in love you are with somebody else? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:24 PM
9

hear, hear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:39 PM
5

Well, I'll be much simpler than u/RedPillDetox . The first two points: Who cares? Why can't women sleep with as many men as they like? Why are they supposed to be shamed for it? Because your holy book says so? Well, I have a shocker for you: that exactly same holy book also says that your prophet, the son of the god almighty, our saviour who died for our sins so that we could go to heaven again, hang out with prostitutes. So take a note and leave that 'judging' bit for God, because putting yours…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 12:09 PM
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"Unfair and unreasonable" lol, somebody's projecting much! Sorry for laughing at this, but I'm sure that with some time you'll also look back at those words and just laugh at how pathetic they are! Well done for walking away from this no-value abuser. You'll most likely go through a spectrum of feeling ranging from guilt through anger to a bit of mania. It's okay to feel whatever you are feeling. Just sit with those feelings, listen to them and try to articulate them, for yourself and for your c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:52 PM
5

Misogyny kills.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 10:51 PM
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I got some bad news for all those half-wits who took time to complain to you personally about your post: you yourself are redpilled, male-Karen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:32 PM
12

Yup, the 'sex games gone wrong' is apparently a legit defence strategy these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:01 PM
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Don't mind them, they are being a bit more than just rude. It is perfectly understandable that it took you a month (hardly a lot of time, really) to get over an emotionally abusive relationship, and that you still have a need to talk about it. Please continue talking about it! I'm very sorry you had this experience and I wish you all the best!
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 09:33 PM
16

If you don't have qualms about accessing it illegally, then just google search 'Promising Young Women putlockers'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:18 PM
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I would add to this, I was quite disappointed with this film overall. The only thing I liked was the ending, as it was somewhat realistic. But I really hated that the 'vengeance' bit basically came down to the main character merely telling men off, I was hoping for something a bit more irreparable. Plus I found that stupid romance subplot to be insufferable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:16 PM
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LOL at 'He says he is addicted because he wants sex and intimacy and once we're sexually active and in college, it'll be fine.' WRONG! Once they are sexually intimate he'll realise he can't get it up at all, go back to masturbating, and most definitely make her feel like it's her fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:56 PM
17

I once tried to get rid of a guy pestering me at a park with 'I have a boyfriend,' and he, without a blink asked: 'But does he live here?'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:55 PM
15

I was also guilty of that. I used to be in academia and often, during conferences or even in a classroom, when a young, charming woman started speaking I would instinctively roll my eyes, expecting her not to be worth my time. I never felt like that with men, no matter how pointless, even outright idiotic, their contribution was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:48 AM
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Hey, I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. In case you need to hear it: It's okay to cut your family off. They do not seem to be concerned with your happiness, so why should you do them a favour? Easier said than done, I know, but please consider it as an option. PS. I remember being really touched by this article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:31 PM
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That's where she lost me. To answer her question: What she missed was the gazillion of red flags that paved the way for this idiotic argument. No way a man who has a problem with feeding a child is otherwise a kind, intelligent person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:39 PM
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Well, there's a reason why they proclaim themselves to be the 'logical,' 'rational' sex. Only the silliest people have a need to declare themselves smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:53 PM
14

Haha, imagine having these kinds of problems :D :D :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:07 PM
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Oh wow, look at all that toxic femininity on display! Kneeling peacefully, in masks and with flowers... JuSt iMagIne hOw tHreaTeneD the oFfIceRs mUsT hAvE FeLT???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:04 PM
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Yup, and sadly they can't help themselves but to project their stupidity on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:36 PM
15

Exactly, and you also can 100% rely on the fact that the 'not all men' men are, as a matter of fact, the problematic, thief-shouting-thief men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:47 PM
51

I used to lead seminars on feminism and one year, the fated year of Kim K 'breaking the internet,' I had this massive argument with my students about naked/provocative selfies and empowerment (or what I have ever since called the 'daily mail brand of feminism'). Now, I didn't care for the selfies as some type of a moral issue, but I tried (and failed miserably) to get across that there are bigger issues in feminism than being able to post semi-naked selfies without being called a slut (not to fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:24 AM
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This is exactly how groomers/pimps operate. They send 'hey beautiful' to thousands of women and wait for those few women who respond back with 'oh you really think so? (or something to that effect). There's no better indicator of your vulnerability/low self-esteem than taking bait from a complete stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:33 PM
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Hey, I'm sorry you feeling this way. But look at this way: It's much easier to deal with loneliness and depression than LVM men. Everybody experiences the former (including your married friends), but the latter will completely ruin your life. Hang in there, it will get better! Sending you hugs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:50 PM
4

"I hate [ladies] who VALUE [THEIR] PEACE TOO MUCH." YIKES!!!! Nevermind the wuittle boi crying -- why does he bother the kind of women he knows are not for him? Also, who wants to bet that that 'attitude' he gets block for is him begging for sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:59 PM
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or more accurately: "He hasn't raped anyone in this specific case."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:49 PM
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Well luckily he left me alone after I went into full-on amok hysteria, but he tried again maybe two weeks later -- thankfully, my door was locked and he couldn't get inside. I actually reported him to the police, but of course, there was nothing they could have done since he didn't physically hurt me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:41 PM
182

I once hysterically shouted at a scrote housemate to get out of my room and his response was 'but I need it.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:35 PM
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Yeah, gee, I wonder whether fathers could not do something to prevent this from happening. I mean, loving their daughters, taking time to spend time with them, building up their confidence, showing by an example how a man should treat women and having difficult conversations with them at a right time, are truly radical concepts to some of these scrotes, no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:22 PM
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I don't have children (and I doubt I'll have them) so it's easy for me to give advice. But I imagine the prevention is key here -- you have to talk your children (and especially your daughters) about these things and explain in very clear terms why such relations happen and why they are wrong. Given that the milk is already spilt, I would sit down with the daughter and have a long conversation about why I disagree with this relation (not to mention the marriage). But I wouldn't harp on it. Somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:19 PM
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I don't think the mom is having doubts -- she's very clearly disgusted as well. But she also understands that the daughter is an adult and can cut her off at any moment (especially as she can live with the perv). It is a really difficult situation and I guess if I were in the mother's position, I would try to delay the wedding, hoping that in the meanwhile the daughter comes to senses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:44 PM
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This is such a tricky issue. On the one hand, it so hard to take these people seriously. There aren't really good words to describe these types -- they are beyond stupid. The kindest explanation I can come up with is that they are just bored twelve-year-olds. On the other hand, I know for a fact that some portion of them are adults, and it's precisely these men who are most likely to physically hurt a woman... So yeah, block & delete, but remain vigilant and safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:33 PM
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You can always 'manipulate' a guy into buying you a dinner and then refuse to have sex with him! Heard it keeps the wrinkles away...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:19 PM
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Well, if you are baffled by the dissonance between men vocally proclaiming their sexual prowess but failing miserably to prove it in practice, then, well, be more feminine! You are supposed to be the irrational sex, woman! Check your estrogen levels or something ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:42 AM
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Hey, I'm so glad you wrote here and shared your story. I'm terribly sorry for all you went through and I hope there are only good times for you from now onwards. There are two points I want to make. First, please do not put too much hope into this subreddit. It is a great place and the sisterhood is real, but even here people can be on occasion nasty. So take it with a grain of salt. This also applies to the 'real world' people. I used to have a lot of friends, and I also had no friends, and now…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:34 PM
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Men love to have a spontaneous, no lube anal sex in a parking lot (having a car, ladies, is a huge advantage), and for the love of god -- DO NOT expect any kissing or cuddles afterwards. Be adventurous, not needy! Furthermore, don't EVER speak publically about the fact that most young men have erectile dysfunction and can't get it up. It's clearly your fault! How dare you ambush men with your physicality, your warm, soft bodies, wonderful scent and willingness to pleasure him! Just make porn vid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:21 PM
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I bet (quite safely, admittedly) that he is a total loser. Forty-eight and his biggest selling point is his blue eyes!!! I don't even want to go into the fact that he is mentioning his mother in his dating profile. That poor woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:56 AM
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Me too. I actually feel so much sexier with a nice bush. Yuck to the rashy + ingrown hair mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:46 AM
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WHAT THE FUCK ??? I'm so sorry you this happened to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:53 PM
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Ladies, 'block, delete & pretend he doesn't exist' is our eco-friendly nuclear weapon. It's what will make this mad world a much better place for everybody! NOTHING makes it more clear to him as to why and how much he fucked up than you refusing to explain it to him. For those of you who 'don't want to be mean/hurt him' or however you justify it for yourself, just try it once -- for us and our sisterhood. Just block him with no babbling, and get that first kick of serotonin that comes with a rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:12 PM
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Exactly, a bag of crisps might ease the hunger momentarily, but it is no comparison to a varied, flavoursome meal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:22 PM
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Sure, I fully agree. What I am saying is that men would have enjoyed themselves much more had they stopped with jackhammering and actually put in some real effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:26 PM
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Not that it matters, but I doubt men enjoy themselves either -- or at least, not as much as they could have had they stopped watching porn and put in some real effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:08 PM
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It was a great clap-back, but I think you'd made him madder had you just blocked him again with no response. There's something extra-crispy about denying attention to people who so obviously crave it. Anyway, good riddance and better luck next time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:53 PM
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