Bye b*tch

hopewings · 2021-04-07T16:25:55+00:00

WTF an old scrote with a daughter, went into a relationship with a woman 20 years younger, wrote a long passive aggressive letter, defended Harvey Weinstein... I'm honestly frightened for the daughter. Ugh. :(

Aspect-Secure · 2021-04-07T16:47:02+00:00

Oh, you got under his skin. Bravo. 😂

happysky3 · 2021-04-07T16:29:28+00:00

This is so pathetic. I always found it weird when guys call their ex to let them know they’ve found someone else. I had 1 bf do this, he called his ex once we became official to let her know he moved on.

Then he did the same to me after we broke up, and he threw a bunch of passive aggressive insults, and a lame analysis about my character, even though the break up was amicable. Only losers do this type of shit

queenagave · 2021-04-07T17:06:28+00:00

and then I made the decision to agree with you

LOL OKAAAAY

butterballnook · 2021-04-07T16:47:13+00:00

Ugh, I posted earlier about a divorced Dad with every other weekend visiting rights, which I now have been clued in is a flag and will save me time in the future, who violated a boundary of mine on a meet we went on. We went on only this one "date" (there was no physical contact). I spoke up about my boundary, he had no response, and I made it clear I was done and not to contact me further.

He tried anyway, so I blocked him. Notice we're at boundary violation #2. Well, turns out he found an email address (yes, he stalked me) and proceeded to contact me there (yes, we're up to #3) to let me know that he has written me a letter and then dropped his phone #. I only had been texting him on the site previously. Queens, I'm new to this world of scrotes and now I'm wondering if he wrote the letter using this template.

It was one meet, Queens.

omg

throwaway32132134 · 2021-04-07T16:32:38+00:00

If he's so happy with his new partner why did he feel the need to write this "thank you" letter? 🙃

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-04-07T17:07:43+00:00

"I never did anything wrong to you in all the time we were together ever, EVER!"

That is such an obvious lie. What a gaslighting piece of shit!

spinsterchachkies · 2021-04-07T16:22:09+00:00

Ok weird

nyclaurco · 2021-04-07T17:56:20+00:00

why do guys seethe when you don’t cry or make a scene about the break up? even during the quite amicable, mutual break up in my healthiest past relationship, he at some point blurted out, “did you even care about me at all?!” how insulting. of course i did, but even by age 20, i was not going to show my tears, beg, or write paragraphs.

MadamLeFay · 2021-04-07T16:59:55+00:00

He cried you a river with his scrote tears. I hope you didn't get any on you.

And you're right- it makes way more sense when you replace all the thank yous!

shelballama · 2021-04-07T18:06:29+00:00

"I just wanna show you how 'over you' I am right now by writing to you 6 months later after you dumped me, in spite of my new perfect relationship! FYI I'm really happy and totally am not protecting my own ego by looking back and trying to see where I went wrong to make myself feel better because I'm a fragile little weenie who lacks the ability to process things in a healthy way. So anywho, here's this letter I drafted 17 times and sent you because I'm 100% over you and totally mentally well. Really."

boiledgatorade_ · 2021-04-07T16:36:55+00:00

Oh wow, is there a template exes find to write letters with? Because I’ve definitely gotten something similar.

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-04-07T17:45:47+00:00

I love it how it's been 6 months and this scrote is still thinking about you. Like serious God Complex right there. Trying to get under your skin when he's an old fart who was lucky to date someone 20 years younger than him and had a daughter....The audacity of these LVM.

LadylikeElectricland · 2021-04-07T18:30:20+00:00

Heh, I love how this makes use of all types of emotional black-mail, including such classics as: 'you hurt my child by leaving me, ' 'we were so happy,' 'I did everything for you,' 'bitch you so crazy and I did you a big favour by being with you,' 'bitch you don't even know how happy I am now that you have left me, so I really need to tell how much you missing out on now that you are gone!'

Mamma_Midnight · 2021-04-07T19:25:38+00:00

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ms_monquis · 2021-04-07T19:47:11+00:00

I was skimming along waiting for the part I just KNEW was coming: "I have a new GF now nyah nyah!"

This is not someone who has moved on. This is someone who thinks about you every single day.

linabliu · 2021-04-07T17:47:14+00:00

Awww, did the wittle man felt as a victim?

Whatever shall we do?

kalina95 · 2021-04-07T19:27:01+00:00

Hahahha. When he lists all the qualities of his new partner, especially the "sexual" part, you know he's doing it out of pettiness. Lol.

bizzybumblebee · 2021-04-07T18:21:06+00:00

"there! that showed her! i hope she spends the rest of her life thinking of me and regretting her choices!"

what is with men who still want control over any and all women

dingdingdingdongbing · 2021-04-07T18:34:08+00:00

Oooooof yuck yuck yuck. I had an ex of 5 years who desperately wanted to have a post-breakup chat for years after. I said no at least 3-5 times. I finally said something along the lines of alluding to being in a really bad place or having issues going on so he'd lay off because just saying no wasn't enough. I had to lie and make myself sound unstable for him to finally fuck off.

This reads EXACTLY like the dumb shit I know he wants to say. You're dumped, dude! Move the hell on with your life.

Lazy-Design1979 · 2021-04-07T19:15:26+00:00

This reminds me of that tweet that does the rounds every so often for karma, but needs to be updated...

"Let's normalize not sending women long paragraphs after you've broken up. " I just want her to know how much she hurt me" Baby boy, she knows. She knows and she doesn't care."

cece188 · 2021-04-07T18:04:15+00:00

Lol if a man sent me this, I would not read it. Too long, don’t care

RhiannonEmilia · 2021-04-07T22:53:23+00:00

This dude acts like he’s in a movie or something. Second hand embarrassment from reading this lol

aquietsword · 2021-04-08T00:57:26+00:00

"Here's a very obvious attempt at trying to manipulate you and the situation so it seems like you were the crazy asshole and I was a wounded but now thriving victim. If I don't hold tightly to the anti-realities I create in my mind I would have to face the likelihood that no one will be around to toss my aged, wrinkled scrote six feet under once I die. I really like to pretend that I'm not miserable and alone and likely to die that way.

Thank you."

TheLovelyTurd · 2021-04-08T00:52:00+00:00

This is the exact language my ex (14 year age gap) used. After the break-up, he'd always say how much he loved me, but he guessed I didn't really love him because I went along with the break-up (he broke up with me). It was like he was trying to get me to say, "No I love you!", And when I didn't he get more upset. Good on you, OP, for realizing that he was a toxic bucket of BS.

Jiou112 · 2021-04-08T03:18:51+00:00

I hate this. "So in love with who I thought you were". He creates grand delusions of who you are as a person, doesn't bother to actually get to know you, and stays in a relationship he seems to claim was filled with gaslighting and abuse. Yet you are the one who ended things, he just "agreed"..? THEN he apparently finds the love of his life.... and what does he do? Sends you a whole a** letter.

I bet he "thinks he knows" this new woman too. By that he means he has no idea who she is, he just knows she makes his peepee hard. And when she sees he's sending letters to his ex, she's going to "gaslight him" with... boundaries? An expectation of respect?

FrozenExpanse · 2021-04-08T04:26:23+00:00

Nothing says "I'm so over you" like writing an essay to your ex about how happy you are in your new relationship, half a year after they dumped you.

LR_today · 2021-04-08T02:41:32+00:00

Heyyyyyyy soul sista! I knew my relationship was over when he defended Harvey W too! Said it wasn't rape because all those women "freely" chose to have sex with him to advance their careers 🙄🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🙄🤦‍♀️🙄.

I knew in that moment he was not the man for me & my plans for a future with him vanished in an instant.

HlGHFIVE · 2021-04-08T02:33:16+00:00

I honestly think this is one of their favorite parts of dating, to see how much they can antagonize their ex through letters, emails, texts, voice-mail etc

lickyblickyuhh · 2021-04-08T05:51:52+00:00

Ok but I laughed. I’d be losing it if I received this

drunkenwithlust · 2021-04-08T06:47:41+00:00

I recently uncovered a letter from my ex detailing how real what we had was and practically asking me to "be sure" I chose my new man over him, who emotionally cheated on me and dumped my stuff in my mom's driveway on my 22nd birthday...to cause a scene in front of my friends. Also it was raining.

It was pathetic, he described his cheating as "should've been a bump in the road" yet I don't even think he said sorry. Reading over it made me absolutely enraged, which I hate, because I'd rather feel nothing at all for him. I'm still weak in that way, but it was only 10 years ago so I suppose it still hurts. Not because of him, but because how stupid of an idiot I was.

Ericaeatscarrots · 2021-04-08T16:26:59+00:00

Who gives a fuck about his “disappointment.” No one cares one ounce about OUR disappointment with literally EVERYTHING EVERY SINGLE DAY. Such delicate little flowers these scrotes are.

nolongerhume · 2021-04-07T21:18:19+00:00

He went on an incredible "journey" in the past 6 months? lol okay dude. It sounds like you've just been stewing because you got dumped, and then wrote this sad pathetic letter to make yourself feel better. If that's a journey then good for you buddy.

pink_moondust · 2021-04-07T22:35:58+00:00

Ah, the classic "using my kid to guilt trip you". Good going taking out the trash.

Resident_Kek_Poster · 2021-04-08T02:15:50+00:00

A dramatic idiot

pozzalovah · 2021-04-07T19:29:49+00:00

Honestly, good for you!

IllTill3859 · 2021-04-08T13:59:14+00:00

Dear scrote,

Just because you didn’t do anything wrong does not mean you did anything right.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2021-04-12T22:07:05+00:00

he's clearly still bitter and jaded. I hope he watches you move on and be happy with your new HVM boyfriend while he still sits there and thinks about you nonstop, with his incessant bullshit.

What was the purpose of this letter? Why would he take the time to type this out, send it to you?

dutchie19 · 2021-04-07T16:54:47+00:00

Wasted words - they don't care. I learned that after many letter writings

Title	Bye b*tch
Author	Throwitaway_72946
Upvotes	373
Comments	85
Date	April 7, 2021 4:12 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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