| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 15 | noooooooo take me back :( | #JustLVMThings | lickyblickyuhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 02:29 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 13 | Scrote goes to brothel and gets serviced by his obviously miserable friend. Reports on reddit for awards and mostly pats on the back.I read this and I knew it was only going to be a matter of time before I saw it here 💀 a lot of the comments were also so good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:01 AM |
| 5 | PSA: Beware of men who have Instagram accounts for their petsoh hell naw not the dog account 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:56 AM |
| 10 | Her biggest concern seems to be how to address the situation without embarrassing poor little bf. Other commenters are even worse: almost all of them excusing him and giving examples from their own life. I guess adult men peeing on the floor is fairly common and completely normal nowadays.I’m sorry what | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 02:20 PM |
| 4 | Don't even pretend you're having a good time.I agree with you. I think that a woman who is HV is going to save their time and breath and if a man is HV and she does this to him, it’s likely he will get the indication that she isn’t really interested and he will leave her alone. Not saying that you should jump in glee every time you see him but acting bored and uninterested is a bit much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Saw this today, and I'm disturbed.. A- This is rape. B- I'm pretty sure this is what porn consumption has led to.What the fuck is this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:45 PM |
| 86 | New Post Yesterday In Another Sub "Does watching porn/ looking at the naked photos women post to Reddit affect how you see or feel about your significant other?"He would rather jack off to digital women than have a wife 💀💀 oh my god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 08:36 AM |
| 1 | I saw this on Popular lmao wtf?LMAOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 09:41 PM |
| 5 | I have no words...And yet if she would just emotionally let go of his dumb ass I bet she could still pull more than he could. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:12 AM |
| 4 | Throw him away, you deserve betterI just read that from that subreddit. Like jesus christ it just doesn’t stop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 6 | 1.2 million likes. Countless comments from men & boys. The new generation are no more compassionate toward women & girls as we’d like to hope. Many are still raised to be disgusting, emotionless burdens on women. I at least hope the girls are being raised to not accept this behavior.All of these comments can be applied towards them and their nuances, especially when therapy is suggested and they look at you like they’ve seen a ghost lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 12:54 AM |
| 4 | Bye b*tchOk but I laughed. I’d be losing it if I received this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:51 AM |
| 9 | “This is the future that FDS wants!!” 😂He ain’t runnin fast enough, NEXT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 11:57 AM |
| 10 | Don't Date Men Who Devalue Your InterestsWho in their right mind does this sort of shit? I’m so glad I never experienced something so irritating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:47 AM |
| 22 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.AND THAT’S SPON ON HOW THEY TALK LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 11:31 PM |
| 24 | You should still get std tests even when you are in a relationship.I get tested every year because there are STD’S which can be completely dormant for years until testing. You can get tested for a variety of reasons which don’t include not trusting your partner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:02 AM |
| 5 | Why is every male-dominated corner of the internet lecherous? The comments on every single female pole vaulting video are just like these.Look at how simple they all are, lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 04:49 AM |
| 5 | Derrick Jaxn LVMIs this true because if so I’m really disappointed. I actually liked some of his content | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 01:44 AM |
| 65 | REMINDERWell yes, exactly. They would have to manipulate people into believing this to get what they want. If it spread fast to the general population that finding a partner is a plus not a necessity, a lot more people would realise there’s nothing wrong with being single | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 08:15 AM |
| 8 | Mind of a LVM - Ex Goes Off About Gifts 🙄“Buying gifts takes very little effort therefore I am not going to do it even though I acknowledge what it means to you is different than what it means to me” When I buy gifts for people, that’s me showing them a form of love because I worked hard to get that money, to get them the gift, to give them happiness in that moment. I believe in eco friendliness and avoiding over consumption and so I also make the effort to find suitable gifts which support small and local business with the same ideals… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Reddit is a terrible place. A 17 yr old girl is called insecure cause she doesn't like that her bf is watching pornI’m calling it right now, in the future a women’s equivalent of something very similar is going to blow up and gain a lot of attention from women and people are not going to be happy about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 11:35 PM |
| 16 | If a man EVER uses the word Hole in regards to women; RUN! Language holds power and can be indicative of actions.This is painfully unfunny 💀 if you’re gonna go this far then actually make a good joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 11:34 AM |
| 6 | Therapy saved me from my abusive Ex-LVMBet he wasn’t expecting that huh 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 12:34 AM |
| 5 | My eyeballs did not deserve this type of assault- reported this disgusting scrote to the Hinge app. Imagine thinking all women want to look at your tiny shriveled peen. It’s a hell no from me. ☠️The tattoo completes it all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 04:01 AM |
| 9 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenVice is a terrible news site and has a bad rep for destroying innocent people’s reputations. I wouldn’t even take their articles with a grain of salt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:40 AM |
| 7 | Scrotes in the comment section on a video about Denmark having low birth rates. Men complaining about having "responsibility without authority". Translation: "I refuse to be a productive member of society unless I get to be in charge and rape women with impunity!"My favourite thing about this is that they automatically assume it’s the men making the choice to not have children with women. LMFAOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 12:52 PM |
| 24 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.This is so fucked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 12:28 AM |
| 9 | In case you're still wondering if men view us as actual humans. They do not.God I hope so, then we can get left alone by the most annoying types of men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 10:22 AM |
| 7 | One for the ages (2 parts).What an idiot. He destroyed two sets of families and his whole career all over a little sex. So utterly stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 10:09 AM |
| 17 | I know we don’t waste time writing paragraphs to NVM - especially ones who send d*ck pics - but this is hilarious! Make them squirm!OMG HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:24 PM |
| 9 | Stop fake laughing at men’s unfunny jokes. They really aren’t that funny...I need to stop fake laughing at everyone’s jokes, especially at work. Gets so tiring and honestly don’t even know why i do it to myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 09:24 PM |
| 12 | Study finds only way to stop men from urinating on the floor is to give them a ‘living’ target to aim at and kill with their urine.This is not real. I refuse to believe it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 09:00 AM |
| 10 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)Omg my bf does that too, asking what I’m thinking about when I zone out. Reading this makes me feel so much more loved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:21 PM |
| 2 | I made a post about hating my course work and after a short convo about it I get a willy pic. Usually I block/delete this behavior but I just couldn't this time!Oh god that is so embarrassing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 01:00 AM |
| 1 | YikesOkie dokie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 12:41 AM |
| 6 | For Valentine's Day, I have ordered surprise roses for 3 of my single best friends <3 Sending love to all you ladies!This is so cute, I wish I could afford to do this for my friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:44 AM |
| 23 | Top popular post of today on whisper lol my friend sent this to me 😂 now more women can discover this amazing group 💕STOP LMFAOOOOOA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Which age you believe is ideal for a straight girl to start dating?In my opinion I think all those ages listed are too young. For myself, I wish I didn’t start dating until I turned 20 as I feel like my past relationships when I was younger were a waste of my time and nothing good came out of them as more of them were abusive than ones who were not. It’s different for everyone as everyone is in different stages of their lives even at the same ages, I’m just going by my situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | What object are women today? Art... but that's ok because his wife is a masterpiece. /sarcasm She is not an equal human, but a piece of art to look at.LMAOOOO I love the “women are like art” argument. So why don’t they act like it then? When I look at art I appreciate the style, the attention to detail, the talent of the artist. I will look to see what their other work is like, I want to see what their technique is to apply for my own art to improve it. Just admit that you are the advertisers dog and you are ok with them reducing you to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:16 AM |
| 7 | I want to puke. His dad makes fap material of him and his barely legal girlfriend and he "doesn't know what to do".OH MY GOD HIS SON AND HIS GIRLFRIEND? WTFFFFFFF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:13 PM |
| 15 | Fellas is it gay to have sex with women?LMFAOOOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:23 AM |
| 10 | Scrote doesn't want women lifting and being physically (or mentally) strong, would rather have us do our nails while listening some soft musicHe doesn’t want her to be a decision maker but I’m willing to bet he means that on his terms only. Will he make the decision on where to plan dates for her? Will he even decide to do that? Will he decide to clean the house? Will he decide to contribute in child care? We’re all busy getting our nails done, after all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:53 AM |
| 9 | Men already bypassing Visa, and Mastercard ban..Look how they scrambled to continue destroying themselves. That’s sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:17 AM |
| 12 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisMans is a subscription service LMFAOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:01 AM |
| 72 | Porn is ruining sex for women. So many men can't f*** properly 🤢. What's the point of being with a man that can't even please you in bed !?!SHE SLAPPED HIM BACK LMFAOOOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:43 AM |
| 5 | I told him (40yo man) about the time someone I previously dated organized to have various bottles of wine sent to me for our video date “cause he wasn’t sure which type I liked”. His response to that was attempting to schedule a FaceTime date with MY groceries 🤡Why isn’t he as romantic? Why can’t he want to try? He’s selling himself as a good potential partner so poorly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:51 PM |
| 9 | Confronted my (27F) husband (34M) about his porn use today... This is how it went.Sis I think the porn has killed most of his brain cells. He sounds so unintelligent. I wish you luck in leaving him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Lol I got a message from a desperate LVM!He can at least try to make it sound threatening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:47 PM |
| 4 | I’m so disgustedOmg gross. Isn’t she embarrassed this is her man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:27 PM |
| 6 | Poor man. Can‘t get that girl on the street that is so pretty is hurts. He‘ll never be good enough for 11/10 supermodel.Woman just like car! Trust me bro. Very nice car | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 08:42 AM |
| 10 | Boyfriends/Husbands who destroy their partners things: a FDS investigation.I unfortunately had a similar experience with the woman and her plants, that was one of the top worst things I’ve ever heard. I only just read the candle story now. I’m struggling to describe how horrible that must have been. It’s so heart wrenching. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:56 AM |
| 5 | Imagine the audacity of thinking 30k is enough to justify this behavior.Imagine literally marrying someone, being tied to them financially for the rest of your life for........anal. Is he brain dead? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Pickmesha getting triggered on behalf of men because a girl said men shouldn't be praised for doing the bare minimum as parents as if it's a super hero achievement.All I had to read was the first sentence and that was enough to make me recoil | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Pickmesha getting triggered on behalf of men because a girl said men shouldn't be praised for doing the bare minimum as parents as if it's a super hero achievement.All I had to read was the first sentence and that was enough to make me recoil | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 12:52 AM |
| 11 | This HAS to be a bit, right??Is he 12 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Scrote want to have sex with a prostitute because his wife refuses to submit to a painful sex act. DIVORCE HIM.He never would have married her and the deciding point was that it’s because he couldn’t get anal? That’s so pathetic. He paid for a ring, bonded with someone legally, and had a wedding to get anal. Men are so stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Posted on Entitled Bitch .... I just see a HVM trying to do something special for his lady.I’m confused, how in any way is this entitled? It’s actually cute he would make her feel special and validate her work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do men online always have such a negative reaction/hangups over dinner dates?? Yet they want to meet you ASAPA dinner is a commitment? LMFAOOOOOOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Couldn’t be me 🤷🏼♀️Ewwwwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:06 PM |
| 3 | From proposition to gaslight in the length of one screenshot.This is so stupid I actually laughed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:20 AM |
| 21 | Is this even acceptable to plan a date like this??? Like how much more cheap can this guy get? "I hope she ate already so I don't have to waste money"? Ladies, I present you 🤢I SEEN THIS AND HE ONLY FLUSHES HIS TOILET ONCE A WEEK LMFAOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 01:00 PM |
| 7 | JFC...Scrotes mad but trigger warning felt more accurate.They always never shut up. I forced myself to read through this faster because it was that much of a burden | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:09 AM |
| 9 | Hey for Nothing ... ?Why did you even reply to him after he said that to you? I advise you block him now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:09 AM |
| 42 | Get a man who will show you off! If he's not proud to be with you and treats you accordingly, he ain't the one, hun!I want her to be my wife too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Loving mother trying to help her teenage son recover from porn addiction that cause COCSA...filthy reddit men think porn is normal for kidsTragic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:38 AM |
| 37 | Sorry but I won’t fuck with ANYBODY who outwardly jokes about teasing you to make you mad. Next!I remember posting this story here but I had an ex who admitted to me he thought it was funny to make me angry. I was angry every day. I couldn’t even remember the last time I was happy. He drained me, the only emotions I ever switched through for the year I dated him was angry and not angry and that’s it. It was so mentally damaging and I felt a massive relief when I finally dumped him. It felt so good to have more regulated emotions again. Fuck that shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?Labido | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 01:12 AM |
| 7 | The last two sentences... I wish I could unreadIf my husband even touches me less than 6 months after giving birth I will automatically scream | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 12:28 AM |
| 47 | “I don’t have a child”It doesn’t matter that he.......HAS A WHOLE CHILD? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:26 AM |
| 144 | Someone explain to me how women having insanely high standards with men they expect to have children with hurts literally anybody except the males who are crying over not getting their penises touched for free? I’ll Wait.As a person who grew up in a toxic household, my standards in a man I have the potential to have children with is VERY important to me. I want my children to be healthy and grow up in a safe, loving household and this is not something anybody will be able to convince me to compromise on. I have been criticised for it and it has changed nothing. I am not sorry for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 06:29 AM |
| 6 | Abuse is abuse. Walk away Queens.After I left him and before I cut him off, my ex said to me “but my friend said it’s not abuse because I didn’t hit you” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:11 PM |
| 14 | Reminds me of the guy I met at a gay bar who asked me to “experiment” with him 🙄Oh my god I feel so bad for her. I could never forgive or forget something like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:44 PM |
| 8 | This is what is wrong with my generation. Wife privileges without any commitment... promoted like girls should want this!This doesn’t sound appealing or relatable at all, but I understand how it might for people who are comfortable having casual sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:46 PM |
| 12 | Lol nope.I didn’t know Walmart even sold wedding rings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 01:46 PM |
| 30 | Can you imagine doing this to a stranger, let alone your SO? The scrote walked to the kitchen, didn’t see any blood so thought she was ‘fine’. He went to his bedroom AND SLEPT when his gf was still unconscious on the floor. Thought she ‘had it coming’.She literally could have had a heart attack. Fainting is meant to be taken seriously because someone is very suddenly unconscious and the reasons can range from something smaller to something deadly - and no one knows until they get medical help. This man is absolutely stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 01:45 PM |
| 66 | SAHM’s husband takes 15k out of their shared account that was meant to correct her torn muscles. He claims he thought she no longer wanted the surgery and wanted to reward himself for being a great father with a computer.Who in their right mind would ever severely delay a solution to their partners emotional and physical pain? I am 100% confident he does not love her. There are millions of couples in the world wishing they could take away their partners pain who would kill to be in the situation they were | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:22 PM |
| 12 | Is there a way out of Forever Girlfriend other than leaving?You should never have to beg someone to marry you. In my opinion they should both be embarrassed: 1 If he doesn’t want to marry her, he should have said something way before this point. If he absolutely loves her and sees how important this is for her, he would have done something about it. 2 She shouldn’t have to beg him to marry her. Not only is it embarrassing for herself, it’s toxic and cringy. 3 If you’re serious with someone, they should be excited about the thought of marrying you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 09:30 AM |
| 3 | Possible red flag: men referring to accomplishments as "sexy"I can’t agree with this more. Anyone who truly loves you would hate to see you upset, they would try to do anything to make you happy. One of my ex’s commented that he loved seeing me angry. I stupidly brushed that comment away, so he obviously kept trying to purposely make me angry. It was so mentally draining to be angry all the time and not have him listen to me. When I left him, the peace I felt was incredible. It was amazing to feel more emotions than just anger every day for the first time… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:48 AM |
| 2 | LVM using CashApp to get my attention after I blocked him everywhere else. I accepted the ONE DOLLAR, then blocked him on CashApp too :)OH MY GOD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:12 AM |
| 23 | Ultimate pickmeisha behaviour covered up by a 'prank' video where she tricks her bf of 14 years (!!) into going down on one knee. SMH.She is so pretty, but couldn’t help myself when the first thing I saw was this comment: “Maurits what’s wrong with you? Propose already, this is just embarrassing” 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:31 PM |
| 8 | An man posted his wife’s joyful reaction to him buying her a new house and a handbag and the Twitter comments are now an all out assault from LVM and Pickmeishas. Ya hate to see it.I love seeing things like this on twitter because everyone always acts like they wouldn’t absolutely love being in this position. Get real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:21 PM |
| 18 | Her husband wants to get her pregnant despite her objections, and her poor soul thinks that he might “just be curious”OH HELL NO, I am SO happy to have the privilege of feeling safe with an IUD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:09 PM |
| 27 | Have no wordsThis is extremely depressing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:05 PM |
| 7 | This is what I mean when I say we need to call a spade a spade with our girlfriendsThis is so horrifying. I would be terrified if I was her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:43 PM |
| 27 | Never underestimate the lies men will tell just to get sex. I hope this poor woman leaves.This man is seriously sick. He needs to be in a hospital | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:14 PM |
| 16 | Lol. Incel played himselfI immediately knew where this was going when I finished reading the first picture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:45 AM |
| 6 | Man child throws fit when GF doesn’t want him to move in with herI would have done the exact same thing. FUCK that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 07:52 AM |
| 1 | The trash takes itself out 🤦♀️Was......the bottom right one meant to be funny.....? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:58 AM |
| 6 | MY fiance “jokingly” said he wants to marry MY bestfriendThen he can have her 🥰😍 go ahead let him try | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 10:38 AM |
| 11 | Imagine being petty with your child who made a decision when they were thirteen years oldHe won’t be singing the same tune when she becomes an adult and he has to say his goodbyes before getting cut off for the rest of his life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Seen in a Fb group for ALDI. Imagine being such a pickme you have to passive aggressively make signs in your home to show your man won’t commit to you.Omg why is this such a common thing, I hate it every time I see it. Why don’t they have any shame? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:48 PM |
| 17 | Am I too much of a prude? I am just not used to OLD culture.1 - Age gap is a massive NO from me 2 - Why did he keep insisting when you said no? 3 - If anyone can’t tolerate your ‘prudeness’ then you’re clearly not compatible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:35 PM |
| 6 | Are terms of endearment and pet names an orange flag?In my relationship I’m okay with it, but before that i find it unappealing. It kind of changes my view on the guy if he starts calling me those names quickly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:26 AM |
| 28 | This is proof that when a guy "cannot control his anger" or "got too upset" that he is doing it because he thinks he can get away with it.I remember when my ex would lose his shit getting angry at me and becoming incoherent and in that very second he would turn around to his friends on voice chat completely calm and collected, like nothing was happening. I left him soon after that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:22 AM |
| 1 | When you reject a NVM and his feelings are hurt, it shows.This is definitely a joke. Surely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 2 | This man got chewed out in the comments. If I was his wife, I would leave him.How stupid is he? Jesus christ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 01:36 AM |
| 6 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.Good on you for kicking him out, that was really rude of him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 01:34 AM |
| 32 | Seeing how marriage is such a joke nowadays how many of you guys think you will still get married?I don’t want to have children before I get married - just a personal boundary for me. I do believe in marriage romantically. I don’t stress about my partner cheating or horribly disrespecting me like with the will and jada situation because it’s not my problem. If he wants to lose me, then I will get lost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 10:31 AM |
| 7 | Break up after 5 years bc of no proposal?Tbh I prefer a little more time to properly get to know someone before I get married, and I also have a couple certain conditions. However, 9 years is honestly extreme. Why was he willing at first but now suddenly needs more years? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?It’s mad weird that he invited you out, took you to this place knowing you were under the impression he was paying, and he didn’t say anything until the bill came. Also, you fell for him and determined he was a ‘HVM’ on the third date? That’s way too soon. Why/how did you fall for him so quickly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 07:19 AM |
| 12 | I’m a bi woman, and a pickme just violated meWhat the fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:51 AM |
| 6 | Never tell a man about your past!I bet he was jacking his dick like no tomorrow to them when he was in the relationship though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:17 PM |
| 8 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?Thank you so much, I’m blessed he’s out of my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:50 PM |
| 13 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?Thank you, thank god he’s out of my life. I’m also so sorry to hear about what happened to you. I swear they’d never care until we actually die. It’s honestly so pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:49 PM |
| 66 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?My ex from when I was a teenager told me to ‘just go back home’ after police got involved because I ran away from an abusive household. My original plans were to sit down on train tracks and wait. I said goodbye to my friends and they found me. I obviously told him no I was not going to go home, and continued to evade police for a night. My mum got a personal investigator to try and track me down and I evaded him too but he got into my social media accounts. He was aware of all of this and yet h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Make his pockets hurt sis🤪💸Couldn’t agree more with this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:42 AM |
| 25 | Caption:’This is why I don’t take her out anymore’ bf complains of her taking a picture of her food 🙄I work in hospitality and people take pictures of the food and drinks all the time. It’s really not that deep. I like it more when they take pictures of the work I put out for them. I find it much more embarrassing you can talk about your partner like this on social media. It’s ‘embarrassing’ she’s taking a picture? What a sook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 01:14 AM |
| 5 | The bar is underground at this point 🤮Imagine if he was a chef | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:33 AM |
| 19 | Guy is mad the girl didn’t offer to pay or split the bill by their 3rd date, he complained and she dumped him. Now he’s whining lmaoSomething that stuck out to me about this is that he also previously commented something along the lines of “I don’t feel that I need to pay, because I’m not that special”. It looks like he deleted it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 10:49 PM |
| -2 | God forbidI just know his boys roasted him after hearing that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:20 PM |
| 7 | This is beyond pathetic, she wrote out such detailed instruction for making hot dogs...What the fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:18 AM |
| 12 | Put yourself first. Always.I am very lucky that so far an IUD has been working for me with minimal side effects. I feel more in control when I do things like this myself because I know I can rely on myself. Those stories of abusive guys poking holes in condoms scarred me. I feel awful other women go through so much regarding birth control, even people I personally know and they have unsupportive partners. I feel like this would be a dealbreaker for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:17 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriend grew up poor and she feels guilty when I spend money on her [M28 F27]I went through something kind of not the same, but similar. My parents used to complain a lot about money and how much money things would cost for us and the word ‘selfish’ was thrown around a lot. I actually love gifts and presents, but when it comes down to my bf trying to get me one I will immediately beg him not to because it’s a compulsive behaviour drilled into me. I’ve had to do this all my life. My parents would get me to deny gifts because if I took it and no matter how I thanked them a… | /r/askFDS | 23/06/20 02:05 AM |
| 4 | To date a Sentient Petri Dish 🦠ON THE CURTAIN!!!!!!! WHY??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 01:48 AM |
| 5 | Men are making fake dating profiles just to waste our time. Also proof that men have no hobbiesImagine thinking this actually happens. Mate I can’t name ANY man I swiped on when I was on tinder last year. I wouldn’t have been able to name them the day after, and I don’t date casually and don’t do hookups. Within half an hour of joining, I had 100 men who hearted me. The only other thing I remember very clearly is finding my current bf on there. I don’t think a pickme would even fall for this, he really wasted his time intending to make other people upset just to internally be like ‘haha g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 01:33 AM |
| 5 | When someone hits you with intention, they are ultimately putting their thoughts and feelings above your safety. Run very far away.Wtf is this relationship? Why would she shoot him? Why did he hit her? They need to divorce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 09:05 AM |
| 1 | This man is a joke, and gross, and I don't know why I'm wasting my time explaining things to him.Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Pickmeshas will defend literally everything! She was talking about telling him about her kinks AND boundaries. (Not even mentioning women feeling pressured to act like they actually enjoy being beaten in bed)I saw this one. I can’t believe how anyone could justify this, when I checked it last all the comments were in support of her, as it should have been | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:33 AM |
| 4 | This type of gaslighting is still abundant on mainstream Reddit subs. WTF is this absurd comment??Keep this energy when I tell you to work through your erectile dysfunction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:01 AM |
| 12 | This is the type of husband I want to marry.This is so pure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:42 AM |
| 117 | "I didn't mean it that way" and other bold-faced liesI don’t think any intelligent, beautiful and independent woman is going to give up her career for a year old relationship, that’s incredibly irresponsible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 09:02 AM |
| 3 | 😬I can understand when couples pick on each other as a joke and I take part in that in my relationship but this is not ok. That has no part in more serious situations and fights/arguments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:59 AM |
| 26 | Pornmeisha gets a reality check about men. ☕️She is catering to an audience of degenerates.... what honestly did she expect? Flowers and chocolates? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:37 AM |
| 9 | "I pay for you, I own you"I literally don’t understand that. I remember if there was cookies or something in the cupboard and someone finished them my parents would yell out to find who it was to shame them. Like WHO CARES? I actually want to look for the psychology behind this because I just can’t wrap my head around it. Thank you for your support! Unfortunately I still live with my family and some of these things still happen, I’ve now come to the point of avoiding eating at home/where they can see. However, I’m workin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:32 AM |
| 47 | "I pay for you, I own you"While growing up my parents complained constantly about money. I was always selfish for asking for something I wanted, or not giving the limited money I had for something my parents wanted. When extended family wanted to give me money for my birthday or something, I was selfish for accepting it. I had to play this stupid tug of war game of refusing it and them demanding I take it because I was scared of my parents. Never heard the end of electricity, showers, water. I grew up thinking my existen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:24 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, how to react to this? Details in comments.You don’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 10:51 AM |
| 7 | Another day, another woman with standards is shamed by LVM and Pick Me’sI love it when everyone pretends they wouldn’t absolutely love this. “Oh but what about me? I want stuff too!” Newsflash you idiot, if you’re in a loving relationship they will return the fucking favour! You just don’t want to invest in it don’t lie LMFAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:21 AM |
| 2 | He charges her for coffee at his home.HAHAHAHA so you’re telling me he can’t go without $2 maximum a day? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 12:32 AM |
| 62 | My ex was so insecure when I even talked to women and complimented them since I'm bi. :'D Now I choose to date women only.Reading your caption took me back to the time where I would be in public/school years ago and my ex would get insecure if he could hear other boys talking in the background just minding their business and walking past and he would demand me to vocally say I loved him every time while on the phone AHHHHHH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:27 AM |
| 151 | Disgustingomg he even commented that proudly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Some lessons learned from my recovering pickmeisha stay-at-home mom BFF and her traumatic birthing experience with a LVM/NVM. If you are a lurker and on the fence fully committing to the FDS philosophy, HEAR what it FEELS like to have a LVM as a spouse when you almost die bearing his SEEDI’m speechless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 05:59 AM |
| 10 | Addressing the 'tough love' commenting in the FDS community.I find myself disagreeing with some things here, agreeing with others. I feel like it’s unrealistic to expect full agreement with an ideology. That comment you wrote about that girl hitting her boyfriend is shocking. I never seen anything like this here but if I did I’d be disgusted. I hope to god that’s a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 05:08 AM |
| 46 | Male Depravity - Boyfriend won't propose unless OP loses weight, he compares her body to p0rnstars.She clearly doesn’t realise how lucky he is by not proposing, he’s giving her a chance to run. People who act like this about their partners weight NEVER care about their health and they don’t say it out of concern for their behaviour. If they did, their concern would sound like: “I am getting worried about you, is there something going on? Can I do anything to help?” Not “when are we going to the gym?” Passive aggressive bullshit. If he wants to have a sook over her appearance then he can simpl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 09:31 AM |
| 31 | NVM calls rich, 24 year old gf a spoiled brat and undermines her success. Asks if he's TA.I would love to be in a position to be able to provide for my child like this. It honestly makes no sense to me to let your child struggle, especially when she’s hard working and in medical school. If it’s my kid I’ll be doing my part in teaching her financial responsibility and struggles she may come across. It honestly doesn’t seem like she’s a spoiled brat at all, it seems more like he just resents his life because he didn’t have the chance to live with good financial stability like she did. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 03:30 PM |
| 11 | My heart breaks for her. Wish I didn't read this.Immediate break up, no negotiation. I only have 3 plants currently but my family is barely careful around them and has knocked them over multiple times. Every single time it makes me furious. Complete bullshit that he loves her and thinks she’s “the girl of his dreams”, she needs to leave him brutally and never look back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 09:02 AM |
| 23 | "This isn't the girlfriend I ordered, should I send it back?" Don't forget THIS is the kind of low value character we want to avoid.Lord please help the absolute state of this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 09:01 AM |
| 18 | Proof that FDS works , husband cheats wife with younger woman abandons her during her pregnancy , wife goes full FDS instead of cOmuNIcaTE and cOUnseLIng ,demands all and half of his paycheck , scrote regrets comes back begging .Nooooooo I didn’t think there would be consequences for my actions! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 01:30 AM |
| 24 | *sniff* I'm so proud of her, whoever she is. ♥️I loved reading that, especially the “devaluing intimacy” sentence. That’s such an amazing way to describe it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 09:46 AM |
| 8 | And if you decide we’re splitting the bill, it’s no longer a dateI actually used to believe this. Not in a pickme sort of way, I just loved being able to spend my own money I worked hard for, it makes me feel fulfilled because I struggled to get a job for 5 years. It feels nice knowing that’s my reward for my work. My boyfriend made a really good point about this because I used to insist on 50/50 every time because I felt bad for people who spend money on me. He said something along the lines of: “Let’s say I’m in a nice career and I want to buy a 800k house … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 06:41 AM |
| 21 | Ladies.. this “advice” 🚩The wallets are getting feisty, I love to see it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 06:25 AM |
| 8 | This is why you need to have a secret saving account. What a messWhat happened to her personal bank account before she was with him? And imo I think her saying anything to him was not necessary either. If she was afraid of divorce and wanted fuck off money, she would have just fucked herself over by giving him the fuel and knowledge about the separated money. Tbh even if I ever opened a joint account with my partner, I still want to keep my own. Fuck off money is a big benefit but what I think about more is how rewarding it is for me when I work hard for my m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 12:32 AM |
| 67 | Men don’t understand or care about the consequences of their selfish actions. I hate that women will destruct themselves to build up a shitty man.TIK TOK IS A PLATFORM FOR CHILDREN. THERE’S MORE MINORS THAN ADULTS ON THERE OH MY GOD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 04:31 AM |
| 21 | What can men do to improve their physical attractiveness and not age like moldy cheese?Visit the dentist regularly, take care of your skin and invest in skincare, exercise regularly, change bad habits in your diet, do anything you need to upkeep nice grooming habits. Go to therapy if you need it. Set up a good support system, practice self care and take care of your mental health | /r/askFDS | 28/05/20 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Shut the F*** UpThat is incredibly disrespectful. I would never say this OR allow anyone to say this to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:54 AM |
| 71 | Why do men fetishize "crazy" (mentally ill) women? and also use "crazy" to gaslight women?“I want them to get help, but after me” CLOWNERY. I cannot imagine EVER speaking this way about someone I love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:34 AM |
| 6 | Woman’s UNEMPLOYED husband could handle being a stay at home dad for THREE days so she had to shut down her business and lay-off 13 people.I’m speechless LMFAOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How would you react if your boyfriend wouldn't go down on you unless you shaved? Would you break up with him? Or would you consider shaving a small courtesy you're willing to grant?I shave completely because I’ve been doing it for years and that’s how I feel most comfortable. You have no obligation to do anything you don’t want ESPECIALLY if he wouldn’t do the same for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:47 AM |
| 23 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?Holy shit if you need to put this much effort in shaming him then fucking leave him already! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 12:48 AM |
| 21 | Pornsick boyfriend doesn't find his girlfriend sexy or beautiful because he's "been conditioned" to only appreciate porn stars.Show me his cock | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Game time!!! Imagine you’re getting these messages, which one would make your eyes roll the most? Rank them from worst to least worst 😂Alright serious question, am I hallucinating my entire life or do all ben’s look like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 09:39 AM |
| 8 | He Never Gave me FlowersI don’t think you can make people like him understand. My bf got me the most beautiful flowers for Valentine’s Day, I still think about it and have a photo with them. It feels amazing. They were so beautiful, it was a special type of feeling so I definitely see where you’re coming from. He didn’t get you them because he didn’t want to. I don’t think he valued you. From what you’ve written here he seems like an unpleasant person and you’re lucky that you didn’t waste more time on him. Always reme… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Husband gets wife DEMOTED from high level corporate job because she’s being “UNUSEFUL” [sic] at home.I’m disgusted. He’s just begging to be left already | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 11:18 PM |
| 87 | KYLIE JENNER IS A PICKMEKhloe is a massive pickme too. The shit she will put up with is unbelievable. These women are incredibly high status, rich, and one of the most beautiful in the world but it will never be enough simply due to the fact they have terrible taste in partners and they underestimate themselves. Without all these things, they’d get treated exactly the same and it’s because they refuse to have standards for their partners | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:20 PM |
| 39 | This has loads of angry reacts but men do this all the time lolI kind of get what she means but only in this aspect - I personally wouldn’t want to be with someone who becomes contempt and doesn’t want to improve himself and become successful. However, does this mean she knowingly settled in her marriage? She didn’t list her husbands situation. We have no idea if he’s working on himself and his career. Would she still think this if she didn’t get fit and get promoted? Money and nice cars really isn’t everything. She is being a bit harsh and I think she’s ro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 12:28 PM |
| 4 | My boyfriend sent me a half naked picture of an instagram model saying that “ he wants me to take a picture like this” but I can’t help it now hut think of him as LVM , what do you think ladies ?Then tell him to get a woman who takes pictures like that lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Man grooms a 17 year old for a year. Moves her in after she turns 18. Tries to get her pregnant by poking holes in condoms. Also is 11 years her senior.This sort of shit is exactly why I got an IUD, and I’m thankful it’s been great for me so far. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 07:30 AM |
| 8 | Beware of guys gaming psych language like “codependent” and “boundaries” to try and absolve themselves of any accountability to youIf someone told me they needed the autonomy to not be monogamous I’d laugh in their face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 12:52 PM |
| 12 | If you don't want a diamond ring...I LOVE brilliant earth’s work. I have one of my most favourite rings ever from them saved in my Instagram collections | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:01 AM |
| 5 | As a white guy you should be thankful I give you attention...OOOOOOOOOOF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 10:52 AM |
| 14 | BF forgets my birthday, tries to make me believe expecting a gift is childishHappy birthday! don’t forget to block him across all your social media he knows about ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Male friends? What are your thoughts/ experiences? + little storyI have only had one male friend in my life who didn’t become friends with me to get with me, and he lives in an entirely different country. Throughout high school, I had many more who eventually left me when I said I wasn’t interested. It honestly makes me sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 11:34 PM |
| 13 | Don’t force datesOh....my god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Pedophilic scrote logicWhat a weirdo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 12:25 AM |
| 2 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.Girl.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 10:45 PM |
| 21 | Queen refuses to accept low effort proposal. LVM and pickmeishas try to shame her.Who told these people that throwing someone a box and barely even asking is an acceptable proposal? If wanting more than that is high maintenance then fuck me I must have expectations of a royal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Sexual coercionHe is continuing to have sex with you knowing that you don’t want to! That is incredibly serious and absolutely disgusting please LEAVE HIM IMMEDIATELY! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 01:58 PM |
| 11 | I love seeing comments on here about how "love languages" are bullshitI actually agree with this. I’ve taken a few quizzes on this and I’ve got physical touch as my love language on all of them and I think it’s pretty accurate. Physical touch is not sex only or even a lot of it. I randomly go up to hug my boyfriend, rub his back, touch his face and arms, I’ll rest my hand on his side when I go to sleep, put my hand on his legs, play with his hair and scratch his head, anything as an excuse to touch him as often as I can. I think people don’t realise that the 5 lov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 01:48 PM |
| 6 | Permanently Banned from r/relationships simply for participating in FDSI got banned from breakingmom. All I did was subscribe LMFAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 01:26 PM |
| 4 | No wordsThey definitely seem extremely young, has to be elementary school young. If that’s the case I can excuse it, there’s no way a child would be mature enough for a relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 01:21 PM |
| 12 | Scrote doesn’t think he has to tell his girlfriend of 11 months that he never plans on marrying herLEECH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Found this circulating in my socmed account. They just really have to steal the thunder.So you mean.....fathers day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 02:50 AM |
| 27 | "It only took two days!"THIS IS SO CUTE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:39 AM |
| 23 | Sex worker admits she gets 3 rape or death threats a day, men constantly trying to low ball her services and demand things for free, as well as sexist and ableist slurs. This is the daily reality of sex work LibFem media keeps trying to sell to young women as “empowerment”.They want to believe so bad that people respect them but they DON’T and NEVER will. Libfems included. No matter what they say and what they believe, they will never be respected. And it’s sad, I really feel for women who have to do this to escape poverty or to provide a stable life for themselves 😞 I respect sex workers, but I don’t respect the people who use them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:28 AM |
| 138 | Don’t give a scrote the time of day until he passes your standards AND a background checkIt’s all fun n games until you get a phone call from settings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Excuse me, what the actual fuck ?OMFGFFFFG | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 05:27 AM |
| 9 | Excuse me, what the actual fuck ?This is so strange because this sounds like the most inconvenient thing ever. He isn’t even lazy he’s just weird. What does he do after??? Stomp it down the drain?? Does he wipe his ass with water and his hand??? Is there remnants of shit which tipped the wife that he was shitting in the shower? I have so many questions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Vera Wang, 70 years old. What wall???EXCUSE ME? 70? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 12:50 AM |
| 333 | Who’s going to tell him?Why did he have sex with women who weren’t enthusiastically willing to participate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:56 AM |
| 172 | LVM caught in the wild.She’s silent because she’s lowkey checking out of that marriage 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 11:26 PM |
| 10 | TindernightmaresOMG WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 11:21 AM |
| 28 | RED FLAG 🚩: men who hate “narcissistic” (confident) womenIf a woman doesn’t know her worth, it’s likely she’s going to pick a partner below her worth, which betters their chances of getting her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:51 AM |
| 17 | I communicated my standards but nothing changedHave you ever dated someone who doesn’t listen to you? If not, let me tell you what it’s like. I had an ex, I don’t know what the issue was but it was like he didn’t retain information properly, or he just couldn’t be bothered listening to me. After a year, our relationship went downhill. Before that, here and there I would communicate how I didn’t think he was listening to me and it was frustrating me, and the argument just kept escalating to me in a clusterfuck because he just....didn’t listen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:43 AM |
| 7 | Oddly satisfying post of a gurl matching her outfit to the wall behind her. Men in the comments prove they will relate whatever they can to pornImagine putting out a comment on the open internet that your brain cannot come up with any complex thoughts which doesn’t involve sex or porn at the sight of a woman’s figure. These people are like actual animals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 01:38 AM |
| 6 | Is jealousy a pickme trait?In my opinion, yes. This type of jealousy is pretty pathetic and comes off as immature. I don’t feel I have to get jealous in my relationship because if he went and disrespected me for another girl then he pays the price of losing me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 12:37 AM |
| 22 | Whenever a man says something inappropriate and tries to pass it off as a “joke,” I like to ask him to explain the joke to me :)I LAUGHED BIG TIME when I read that last message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 01:13 PM |
| 3 | So if I get correctly a girl either swallow cum or rub it on her face,while being grateful for it????WHO DREW THIS AND WHY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 03:01 AM |
| 7 | Scrotes act like spaces for widows is a good place to pick women upRevolting. If this shit ever happened to me, I’d be way too ready to fight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Took the Trash Out of Frame to Still Enjoy Memories of a Trip. Bye-bye Abusive Ex!I wish I did this. I took all my pictures and lit them on fire instead. It was years ago and I was in the midst of terrible mental health :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:34 AM |
| 20 | Avoid women who use infantilizing language to normalize men's bad behavior and cruelty.This is a really great point. I’m going to apply this now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 10:29 AM |
| 29 | “Can we be fwb after quarantine?” NoIs he serious? His priorities are football and partying? Fuck I love a good party too but prioritising that is depressing. Doesn’t he have more to himself? Like actual hobbies? Other Interests?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 01:24 AM |
| 4 | What was a Pickme behavior that you've looked back on and regretted?Mine was from low self esteem. One ended up borderline stalking me for years after, even though he left me for someone else. Then he would backtrack and claim that because I was responding to his creepiness, I was still interested in him. The second one had quite serious anger issues. He had holes in his computer chair due to stabbing it in anger. As far as I can remember he also put holes in his walls. He yelled and screamed at me. I left him. I left the third for treating me like shit and he b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 12:17 PM |
| 23 | What was a Pickme behavior that you've looked back on and regretted?Rejected gifts because I didn’t believe I deserved them. Spent the limited government assistance I had on seeing my ex, he didn’t return the favour and got angry when I told him I could barely afford it and he needs to make the effort and come over more. Continued spending my limited money for 3 hour bus trips which he barely returned. Not leaving multiple times after he took his anger out on me The first date was a walk around the city 💀 he admitted he refused money from his mother to take me s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 07:55 AM |
| 114 | Husband is upset that his wife had a double mastectomy due to breast cancer, is masturbating to big-breast porn, and is pushing her to have breast implant surgery DESPITE THE FACT THAT SHE IS NOT IN REMISSIONImagine thinking your fetishes are a priority over your wife’s cancer. There are so many men in the world who would slap him silly for daring to be ungrateful he still has his wife beyond cancer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:03 AM |
| 12 | LVMs maybe spend some time leveling up so you can keep up? Not a thing wrong with her... 🤷♀️She destroyed him, if I got ripped into like that I’d never recover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 03:24 AM |
| 12 | Men are so scummyI feel like I deserve compensation for reading that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 03:13 AM |
| 5 | Can somelnd Ascend from the Pitt?You’re up to the first step which is to recognise you have the problem. Now it’s up to you to decide when, how, and if you will change | /r/askFDS | 29/04/20 01:58 AM |
| 23 | Any women never went through a "hoe phase"? Or practiced voluntary celibacy and entered a successful relationship later on?Looking for advice.Me, I knew all along it was bullshit and never bothered to entertain anyone in my young adult years. I’m still young and I am happy with my decisions with this. I would do it again. What he said to you rubs me the wrong way, it sounds so icky. If someone said this to me I would cease contact. I would not trust a person like this with my body. Believe him and walk away. A person who is healthy in the head would never spew this shit to you and would respect your decisions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 01:41 AM |
| 28 | Instead of bothering to cry over LVM, perhaps consider...This genuinely made me cry. I also had the same childhood and I commonly think about how nice it will be to get out and finally have a nice, stable home. It feels like it’ll be so far away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 02:26 PM |
| 7 | Never forget that this is what we’re dealing with...They’re tearing him apart in the comments, love to see it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 10:20 AM |
| 10 | Men: society doesn't care about male rape victims. also men:She’s a disgusting, worthless pedophile. The most worthless stain on society. And anyone who thinks otherwise can go burn in hell with her. Truly pathetic to prey on children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 01:09 AM |
| 24 | If a guy won't move for you, don't move for him.I was formerly in two seperate LDR’s and it always kinda weirded me out how both of them were expecting me to move to them. Completely alone, 10-20 hours away from my home country. I asked them both about just visiting my country and barely any response. They both drilled on about life and how good it would be once I moved, “I’m gonna marry you and we’ll start a family” and blah blah blah, and I eventually softly put my foot down and told them I’m not moving. I needed to continue living in my co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 01:04 AM |
| 6 | When a woman lets a man take her to McDonald's for the first dateOmg... what kind of crap in their heads did they manipulate themselves with to convince them this was okay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:43 PM |
| 9 | When a woman lets a man take her to McDonald's for the first dateI’m sorry but what? They actually do this? If someone ever asked me out this way I would have thought they were joking, even pre FDS days | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:09 PM |
| 9 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...NASTY. These are the types of subreddits that should be banned, not the dumb ones they’ve been doing recently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 03:11 PM |
| 6 | Why just whyhehe yeeeeesssss this dog statement will for sure get them hehe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 08:57 AM |
| 14 | Guy on tinder told me I’ll be single when I’m 37.That’s genuinely laughable. What a cope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 08:53 AM |
| 3 | OMFG. The relationship advice sub is so toxic I can’t even“Source: I’m a guy” LMFAO oh, love. I hope she leaves him. He went into this relationship and spent all these years fully knowing her goals. He is selfish, he doesn’t even have a single goal which includes her, instead he wants to waste more of her time to “see if he changes his mind” FUCK NAH, he can keep his house and seeya later | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 08:29 AM |
| 23 | Dating down is a self-esteem problem.I loved reading this. I only recently realised I’ve dated down due to my horrible self esteem. When I say ‘dating down’ I’m not talking looks, I’m talking straight up abuse. I accepted their terrible treatment towards me because I thought I deserved that. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 08:21 AM |
| 17 | Wife died, first thing he's wondering is when he can get some.He just managed to say the reason why he had a db and missed it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 07:40 AM |
| 10 | Make sure you're not with him just because you want something to love.This is very interesting and a good point. I’m lucky to not be in the same situation but it will be something I keep in mind as part of my strategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:25 PM |
| 7 | Not scared of the virus, scared of guys like YOU.Imagine thinking women will want to risk their lives to get his mediocre dick. Whatever happened to porn being enough for men like this? Bring it back please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 12:17 PM |
| 1 | I’ve had enough of guys like thisI also wondered this too! I love dark/dirty humour and it’s always the shittest memes they get defensive over. If they’re not going to make at least a good joke about women which will actually make me laugh then gtfo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 12:14 PM |
| 5 | I’ll take 2 of eachI think you’ll love the attackeyes subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 12:10 PM |
| 6 | I’ll take 2 of eachOMFG STOP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 12:10 PM |
| 20 | Getting a ring is too much work now and pickmeisha agrees at the top commenterLet them keep their green ring finger asses and let them pretend they wouldn’t love a beautiful, good quality ring. Someone convinced them that they should accept the bare minimum, and it’s not likely you’d be able to break through that with explanation. That’s sad. The only thing I’ll agree with is the $1,000 ring statement. I’ve seen some beautiful rings I love for that price. I have one saved in my Instagram collections because I love looking at it. To me, an engagement/wedding ring is a symb… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 12:09 PM |
| 17 | Melanie gives up John Hopkins Medical School to move to San Diego with her NFL boyfriend, who of course cheats on her and ends up with a side-baby. (The GAME)Fuuuuuuuuck that. This actually made me feel awful for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 11:44 AM |
| 7 | I have no wordsMan what- 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:17 AM |
| 16 | The scrodacity of this guy!I have to laugh at this thought process. This man is considering getting legally tied to a woman he’s not really attracted to. How stupid can you be? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:01 AM |
| 8 | I think I have a red flag but I don't know how to get rid of it.You are not alone. I was physically and emotionally abused by my parents and it gets hard. I try to maintain peace with them to get through life. Even though they improved years ago, I have to start therapy in two months. I think it’s important that there’s context behind red flags. This red flag should apply for people who have no reason to have a bad relationship with their parents, because that indicates they’re a bad person. If their parents are nothing but sweet to him and he spits in their… | /r/askFDS | 21/04/20 02:44 AM |
| 18 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...Nooooo this was supposed to benefit me not you! :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Another glimpse of what life is like with a lvmThis is so sad. I don’t ever want to let myself be legally tied to a man like this. These women are so miserable and drained. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:01 AM |
| 63 | LMAO Man wanted to incorporate porn into his relationship, but fiancee exclusively likes Interracial Porn featuring black men with huge penises and now his fee fees are hurt. Reminder that men are full of shit and hypocritical about porn use in a relationship.LMFAOOOOOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:57 AM |
| 46 | Asking WhY dIdn't YoU cOmmUNICate is another way to victim blame women for assault. Apparently, if you don't provide men with a comprehensive list of sexual behaviors you don't like ahead of time whatever they do to you is your fault because abuse is normal.“Why didn’t you communicate” should be said for minor situations, like how they have the tv a bit loud and you can’t focus on something. If I have to tell you I don’t like it when you slap me in the face and call me a bitch then you’re just a dumb fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:30 AM |
| 25 | Men are only nice to women for a chance to smash?If the family friend thinks he’s great enough to give you dirty looks then why doesn’t she date him? 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 12:19 PM |
| 30 | Woman (19F) is dumped by her BF (19), who "wanted space to figure out if he loved her". She immediately texts & kisses another guy 2 days later. BF comes crawling back, is desperate to "get the love of his life back". LET THIS BE A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!I HAD to laugh. “No you weren’t supposed to do that!” Summarises this whole story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 09:32 AM |
| 5 | Men are so supportive.You’re absolutely right. I deal with a horrible self esteem but when it comes to my relationship it’s different. As far as I’m concerned in the context of relationships, I’m a goddess. He will know if he treats me any less. This is the best strategy I have ever put in place for myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 08:48 AM |
| 7 | Infant is left with multiple broken bones after being abused by the mother's partner. Redditor implies the relationship was to blame and suggests "you have to wonder what his mental state was." NO, YOU FUCKING DON'T.Wah wah wah poor man his poor mental state :(((( Maybe he should have thought about that before getting in a disgusting polyamorous relationship. Give him the maximum sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 03:03 AM |
| 5 | Men are so supportive.Thank you love ❤️🥺 I really appreciate it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 02:59 AM |
| 8 | Men are so supportive.I’m currently dealing with this issue and I see posts like this pretty commonly on that forum. This is my worst fear. He doesn’t even remotely care that his girlfriend was killing herself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Pickmeisha journal entry I wrote in July 2018...Hey, I’m also a centrist. You should never let someone shame you for that, majority of the time they’re bandwagoning and a lot of people who talk about politics have the mindset of “you’re on my side or you’re the enemy”. You wouldn’t want to associate with people like that anyway. Whether people like it or not, you are going to be faced with people who have differing opinions on things. You can’t avoid that. You don’t want to associate with people who don’t have the maturity of understanding th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 03:49 PM |
| 66 | DON'T DATE SIGNIFICANTLY OLDER MEN.Sick dogs get put down, why do people even bother humanising pedophiles? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 03:35 PM |
| 29 | LVM complains about how expensive it is to string four women along.Did he ever consider that maybe he can save money by not having 4 girls on rotation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 02:28 AM |
| 5 | What Do Women Want Out of a Relationship?I disagree. I don’t like the idea of relying on a man for money because I like to know I can work for what I want, and I am independent enough to support myself. It’s good for my self esteem. Personally money doesn’t matter too much to me, BUT I at least expect they are able to spend and save responsibly, and are making enough to support themselves. They must be ambitious and be in/looking for a well paid career too. I’ll want children in the future, so this is a necessity for me because I’ll be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:37 PM |
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