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21

Please don't buy presents for any men that you are in any way interested in. Even for their birthday or Christmas, always give them something cheaper than what you'd expect from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:47 PM
9

He is not a human. He is trash. You are a treasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:38 PM
7

So he will have a baby with her, but won't marry her? Hmm... I enjoy Grimes as an artist, and some of her personality traits are appealing to me. I guess I am a fan. I feel bad for her, for falling for a man like Elon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:30 PM
8

Which lobotomized chimpanzee drunk texted this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:00 PM
1

I like this idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 11:03 PM
5

Can we please all get dogs and train them to attack lvm on sight? Additionally, we should have a corps of big dogs that sniff out and trail all lvm in the cities. Give the dogs pink doggy clothes so they're easy to spot from afar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:23 PM
3

When she's elderly, it'll be her legs, unless she leaves this psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:42 PM
30

Exactly. It's because they have a fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:56 PM
120

Most Koreans are Christian. However, none of them want to date a yellow fever inflicted ignoramus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:33 PM
11

BLOCK his email address. Delete the email. Do not respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:30 PM
5

all I can think is that it’s a huge long-game manipulation strategy lol. But also, I’m awesome and deserve this Always be thinking both at the same time. One line of thought keeps you safer and more aware of potentially dangerous situations, and the other keeps you confident, and maintains your high expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:12 PM
27

and i wouldn't have it any other way This is clearly a joke, but a lot of girls really do lie to themselves in this way. It's a cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:25 AM
18

My other half can't clean More like my other 1/666th, cause that's how much he contributes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:14 AM
4

Low value is low value, regardless of gender. Divorce that dumpster fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:23 PM
48

If a man is too broke to buy you dinner 1-2 times a week, and a small gift every month or so, then they're too broke to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:30 PM
18

there is nothing inherently abusive about this style of a relationship if done in a safe and consensual manner. STOP NORMALIZING ANY OF THIS SHIT. STOP IT. STOP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:17 AM
93

And child pornography.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:18 PM
2

Dance in the Vampire Bund??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:00 PM
5

We should see if a mod from this server can make an FDS server!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:58 PM
10

I have no idea, but I like to do this to men as well. I like to step on their faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:23 PM
38

To save us from ourselves THE NERVE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:18 PM
2

I adore your posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 08:23 AM
1

We should honestly start a rumor that whenever men sleep with women their leftover 'sperm' gets dna from women and keeps it in their bodies for seven years. It's not a rumour. This is the factual truth. Just ask anybody. whenever men sleep with women their leftover 'sperm' gets dna from women and keeps it in their bodies for seven years. Nothing but the truth here, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 09:34 PM
3

When we are too nice to others, it comes at the cost of not being nice enough to ourselves. But you're working on it, and that's the important thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 09:05 PM
2

It's better to not live together until marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:38 PM
2

Go girl. He's trash. Put him where he belongs, then get on with your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:35 PM
2

Why are you acknowledging such an ugly man's existence?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:33 PM
5

OoOh nO, the fwagile wittle flowers had their feewings huwt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:58 PM
4

He should know it's unattractive of him to do so, and that it will negatively affect his partner's view of him. Thus, if he had a brain + truly liked his partner, he would refrain from doing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:54 PM
33

It should be illegal to be so insufferable. He's already 42 but acts like he's 8.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:37 AM
26

Men don't know how to be brave anymore, so they equate anger with masculinity instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:03 PM
2

HAHAHAHAHA wtf girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:00 PM
5

That's not how you impress a woman you want. Cheapskate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:29 PM
20

On another note, unsolicited dick pics is a form of sexual harassment, and it needs to stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 08:15 PM
6

Block. Delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:41 PM
16

"Oh honey, your dick feels smaller than usual."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:35 PM
3

I . a m . g o i n g . t o . s p e a k . v e r y . s l o w l y . s o . t h i s . w o m a n ' s . p e a . b r a i n . c a n . k e e p . u p . do ~ not ~ breed ~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:30 PM
11

Let us pray to all that is holy that it's a male LARP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:14 PM
4

Thanks for this thoughtful post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:13 PM
22

That's a MAN maury. A man larping as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:41 PM
6

Block. Delete. Eat my dust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:21 PM
11

His mom is rolling in her hospital bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:04 AM
24

Why should men that have no idea how to bring life into the world, be in charge of controlling it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:27 PM
8

Love when the trash takes itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:06 PM
14

I hope it's her house so she can kick him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:04 PM
3

Congratulations on being nominated as Vice Captain of Team America in the upcoming Cool Girl Olympics, which will be taking place this February [dependent on the Covid19 situation]. I hope this letter finds you well during these trying times! Remember that dying for that dick is the vaccine, to keep you from dying to Corona.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:47 PM
16

I think he needs a brain transplant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:39 PM
110

I appreciate that she put her daughter before herself, and she put herself before dating a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:08 PM
28

Am I doing it right mom??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:05 PM
1

Do you actually think anal sex is a natural way to have sex? Gay or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:28 PM
3

Excuse me? Of course, I let it go for the first few months and ignored it. Don't do that anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:47 PM
3

Where's the bleach sis?? MY EYES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:41 PM
17

You don't have to try. You just say "Nah, not till I'm ready." And if they can't respect that then: BLOCK, DELETE, GHOST. Easy. No thinking necessary, no strategy necessary, no explanation necessary, NO NEGOTIATING NECESSARY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:34 PM
1

"Ew! Are you gay or some shit? I can introduce to some gay bottoms that take it like a champ."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:30 PM
30

I'm pleased to be writing this letter to inform you, that your bid for a spot on Team America in the Cool Girl Olympics, has been approved. We look forward to seeing how you will further degrade ahem, differentiate yourself in the many trials that await you this February. Between you and me, I think you'll be a STAR in the new event concocted just for thirsty thots prime competitors like you, called Die For That Dick. Stay frosty doggy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:38 PM
24

Hahahaha. I would drown that filthy demon in a vat of gravy for that comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:56 PM
37

Haha. BARF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:16 PM
19

Not me. I like the free food, the presents, the company when I'm bored. And I don't even have sex with them. I just accept all the things they wanna do for me. That's how ya gotta ride. Take everything they give, and give nothing back, ESPECIALLY NOT YOUR BODY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 06:01 AM
6

You were giving him every benefit of a loving wife, while receiving none of the commitment, none of the emotional labour, none of the consideration, none of the investment, none of the payment, none of the future, none of the respect, none of the social status, none of the legal protections, none of the family prospects, none of the finances, none of anything. Please, you are a fucking beautiful medical school student You can do so much better. You are gonna be a titanium butterfly as soon as yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:07 PM
6

It's not your job to keep him from killing himself. Block him on everything right now. Make his emails automatically go to spam, and have your spam delete itself every 24 hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:04 PM
3

Probably YES. Reasoning: Women by default are trained to be attracted to garbage, and fulfilled by wading in this garbage, covering themselves in it, and making their home there. If this person was reborn as a female, in 99% of all cases, she would be educated in the same toxic way that most of us were, and they would be groomed the same exact way as a lot of us were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:58 PM
8

Myself My face My artistic ability My continuous interest in learning My growth over the last few years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:53 PM
12

I'm a clown girl, in a clown world. Life in clown makeup, it's fantastic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:31 PM
10

Probably the only honest thing he's ever uttered in his pathetic life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:11 PM
9

It's actually sick. China is becoming more like that too. Idk about Japan though. Japan is usually the outlier when it comes to Asian cultural trends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:28 PM
18

This isn't really as much of a thing in East Asian culture. East Asian men go for face above body, hairstyle, clothes, etc, 99% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:10 PM
5

Ooh ooh pick me!!! Pick me!!! PICK ME! I want to wash your fake female ass for you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:00 PM
24

WRITTEN BY A MAN LARPING AS A PICKME SUPREME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 02:54 PM
3

I'm getting so many bad vibes from this. I'm a little tacken aback about how sure he is, of me. How he says he doesn't want to "lose" me, amongst other things that stand out, and how he says once married he's planning to be the best spouse and still not let me go, and how divorce isn't something he's looking for and "divorce is not on the table" to quote him. Those things do give me a little solace, although they're a peculiar choice of words. Also I feel like you are lacking in confidence if yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 02:20 AM
10

One of us. One of us. One of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:26 PM
22

Growing up in your parents' shadow must have been like swimming in an ocean of constant negative reinforcement, and I'm sorry you have suffered so. You're beautiful no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:17 PM
120

You could get diseases. You could get impregnated. You could get sex trafficked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:14 PM
94

Men want to create an environment where they can be their most violent selves without legal or social repercussions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:13 PM
9

Your feelings are as precious as diamond dust, and I wanna bake a cake out of them. Afterwards I wanna get on my hands and knees so you can use my back as a table while you eat the cake. You deserve it king.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:17 PM
9

Pick me! Pick me! I'll pay for all of our dates! I'll even lock myself in your basement afterwards so you can use me on demand!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:57 PM
1

Can you give some examples of your conversations with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:02 PM
1

LADIES. THIS. IS. KOREA. THIS IS KOREAN MEN. This is Korean men's views of women distilled into a single paragraph.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:43 PM
5

That's not an appropriate joke to make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:39 PM
1

Sis we need this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:35 PM
2

She said it herself. She's gonna be a human hotel if she allows him to come back to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:24 PM
3

And I thought I had it good cause one of the guys talking with me buys me delivery. I hope this dude is the real deal. You deserve this sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:09 PM
4

Compliments are useless. Say thank you and move on with your day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:06 PM
4

This woman is advocating for any future partner to ignore her for no good reason other than his own whims and sense of fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:26 PM
3

So any man with a stay at home mom is the son of a prostitute/escort??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:09 PM
7

She's wearing a shirt that says girl boss though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 09:36 AM
7

If he asks you if you'll go out with him, you can say something like "Okay, I like sushi." or "Okay, I've been wanting Korean food." Something along those lines. You tell him what you want. If he likes you, then he should want to do what you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:02 AM
1

Queen holy shit. Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:58 AM
27

I'm soooo glad to have you here with us. We're gonna keep supporting each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:31 AM
9

Why do you think they're breaking moms?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:55 AM
37

The timing hasn't been right during the entire span of 14 years :'D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:49 AM
3

It would be great if she had some positive male role models in her life. A good dad, if you and her are to be so lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:48 AM
5

Are you gonna pick me???? Hello??? Did I do something wrong?? Can I make you a sandwich??? Please answer me!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:17 AM
17

He should be messaging you even more. He should be checking up on you, asking you if you have supplies, groceries, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 11:44 PM
3

I watched it! I enjoyed it! Thanks for sharing this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 11:30 PM
142

If someone loves you, you will know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:57 PM
25

PICK ME PLEASE DADDY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 09:31 AM
3

The points are earned by women, and redeemable by men for prizes from the girl, who earned the points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 09:24 AM
2

I'd rather date a cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:43 AM
4

Do they go to school to learn this? Yup! Society at large educates them to be this way. It ain't a conspiracy~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:18 AM
40

"Woohoo! She's not crazy! She was just abused. I can move in on this."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:13 AM
3

Then I'd have to say I absolutely agree with you. It is a complete shame. Our female peers are wasting their youth chasing a mirage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:25 AM
21

Get you a man that takes responsibility for your female body, and doesn't just benefit from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:58 AM
6

I think part of them defending men's behaviour is a way to protect their own ego. If they can rationalize men as behaving this way inherently, then they are not as much at fault for being mistreated and made fools of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:56 AM
4

I have to say I can really appreciate your insight. I really do. I do still think that while a wagyu steak and a mcdonald's hamburger are not direct competitors, they still influence each other on some level. Maybe they are not as closely coupled as I originally believed, but then again, it's hard to really know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:53 AM
4

I mean, yeah, this attention is a drug to them. Who do you think got them hooked on it? The heirs to our patriarchal world, that's who [men].
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:33 AM
1

Can we stop blaming women for behaving in this toxic way, when they're just products of this toxic society? We need to help them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:23 AM
12

They all want a harem. As if they're kings that deserve it. Puke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:20 AM
5

So you posit that on a macro scale, yes, pickmes are undercutting the market and harming us. But on the micro scale, individually, we can actually benefit from the error of their ways. Am I understanding correctly? If so, I would say I have to agree. But in the long run, I believe the right play is to increase our macro game!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:45 PM
28

Female intuition is real. Hell yeah. When bringing a baby to term, and rearing it, especially in its youngest stages of life, falls on the woman, of course nature will deem it necessary that she has a heightened sense of threats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:41 PM
12

A parent that kills their child should have enough dignity to end their own life in repentance. This can be a physical death, or a spiritual death [giving up all material possessions, all vices, etc]. Either way, they should feel too much shame in themselves to exist as the same individual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:19 PM
2

There is a way for us all to prosper!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:40 PM
7

Oh, in that case... Then hmm... I have to disagree, but I'd be interested in hearing more of your reasoning if you care to share?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:10 PM
11

However, I don't believe that pickmeishas can "undercut the market" in any way that harms HVM. Pickmes undercut the market in a way that harms us. I don't really have an opinion as to whether they harm or help high value men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:41 PM
30

Men are too carnivorous to do anything with a woman's heart but EAT IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:37 PM
19

That's such a hilariously accurate metaphor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:29 PM
19

Absolutely. We went from one extreme to another. Now we need to find an equilibrium that is fair to us. I think this sub is a really good step in that direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:28 PM
19

Where's his pornhub merch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:46 AM
13

You got it sis. You're arming yourself with the knowledge you need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:44 AM
44

Stop confusing good looks with being high value. Stop confusing sense of humour with being high value. These are things you can require in a partner, but they are not things that define a high value man. What does describe a high value man is: dignity, integrity, respect for you and himself, CONSISTENCY. A man who seems attractive to you, is not any more likely to be high value than a man who seems unattractive to you at first glance. What you were seeing was not "a man with high value qualities…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:34 AM
86

I hope she leaves his truly inadequate ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:31 AM
28

Why should he even know? I don't think he's entitled to know, and letting him know just puts you in a position of vulnerability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:28 AM
2

Cut her off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:36 PM
2

Better to be a healthy picky person than an unhealthy pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:32 PM
5

You want something done wrong? Assign it to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:14 PM
5

You're a fucking warrior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:13 PM
10

I bring up how I never fallen deeply in love due to not wanting to be made a fool. Please do not say this to a man you barely know! It's going to be used against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 10:43 PM
8

Real love doesn’t hurt. Absolutely right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 10:38 PM
8

This woman knows how to say no. She just doesn't know how to drop losers! She totally has potential to become a high value woman, she just needs to make some changes, but I see that fight in her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 10:17 PM
3

Don't try to keep one. Try to keep yourself happy and healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 10:12 PM
18

This needs to be escalated to the authorities!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:49 PM
2

Icky cope from the avatar of incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:35 PM
5

This has been an issue in Japan for generations already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:31 PM
3

Just stop looking for them. While you're focusing on making yourself happy, going out, making friend connections, while you're living a great life, is when you're most likely to meet a great person. People will be drawn to your energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:13 PM
7

Do chores for yourself. Don't do them for men. A man can cook for you, clean his own place and yours, share his income with you, not expect a single cent of your income, and you will STILL be deserving of EVEN MORE from him. Why? Because that is the minimum to be worthy of your time and energy. By default, a traditional man with misogynistic expectations of a woman cannot be high value! It is incongruent with what you deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:24 PM
11

Wake them all up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:28 AM
40

As an aside, you're the first person in eight years to mount this kind of defense to having a post removed under the stereotyping rule. Congratulations on that interesting honor. I feel like vomiting all over that moderator's acne ridden porn addicted face after seeing their condescending remark, which serves no purpose than to try to humiliate you for standing up for yourself and your views.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:57 AM
17

When coronavirus is the best thing that happened to women's rights in your country...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:53 AM
7

I agree with you. I just wasn't sure what the consensus on this sub was, cause there don't seem to be posts addressing it much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:42 AM
7

That's true. Honestly, some of the creepiest conversations I've ever had with men have been on twitch...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:41 AM
10

Thanks for your perspective! I feel similarly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:40 AM
32

From the limited information I have, I think his actions are forgivable. He should cut off contact with her from now on though, unless they share children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:39 PM
25

Aren't some of the most loudly Christian people on this blue planet of ours unholy child molesters?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:52 PM
11

This girl's fiance isn't even married yet and he's already flirting with other girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:49 PM
1

You wanna be a therapist practicing without a license? Then date him. All you're going to get is "muh feelingz. boohoo. muh ex. pouty."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:34 PM
1

I don't want to waste my time, I know that it's critical for me to find someone in this point in my life in order to lead the life that I want to, so I'm dating again. This mentality will lead you down a path of ruin. Do not fool yourself into thinking you need a partner to live a life you can love. Date if you want to, but don't lie to yourself about it being necessary. It's not necessary. It is a choice, and you should only be making it if you have a healthy mindset. I seriously question if yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:28 PM
1

He probably expects you to have a job, to maintain healthy family and friend connections, to have a life outside of him. When he encounters an upstanding woman he's interested in, it'll make him strive to be a better person, because she has such high standards towards herself, in her work, in how she treats her family, in how she treats herself, etc, that he feels the need to keep up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:21 PM
15

There are men out there that are going "What if I put myself inside, will sex fall out then?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:03 PM
2

You have us now :]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:59 PM
51

You are correct. He is showing his worst side to you, because he thinks he can do so, and you'll just accept it. Nah. You are smarter and better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:52 PM
1

I know generally all men want a submissive wife who - does house chores - cooks great food - Nurtures - Provides bedroom fun - Looks Beautiful and feminine - has had low to nil sexual partners - etc, etc. Are you seriously considering conforming to such a warped set of standards? For whom? A man with integrity will not ask you to debase yourself by being his mom, his wife, a virginal modern day Mary, a doormat, AND a model at the same time. Why? Because top notch guys don't have oppressive expec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:49 PM
1

Being interesting, intelligent, or funny, doesn't make somebody respectful, dignified, responsible. The former are traits that can be emulated by any weaksauce with half a brain; the latter are traits that determine how they treat you, themselves, and others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:44 PM
2

Partying is kind of boring compared to seeing all the great sights in Spain. You can party anywhere. It's all the same. What you can't do is be in such a historically significant and culturally dense country like Spain, any old day of the week. You really gonna evaluate a man in a good light, when he has such mixed up priorities, and such uninspired ideas of fun?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:35 PM
52

"Then text other girls. I support your freedom to say stupid shit, just not to me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:30 PM
2

We are conditioned to destroy each other so that the weakest men in our society can feed off the casualties like vultures. It's so much easier to get with a girl when she's a husk of her true, potent self, and it's especially easy when he didn't have to do any of the work to mold her to his standards, or weaken her state significantly, because other women do it to each other on his behalf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:11 PM
7

Write a very strongly worded letter to their manager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:16 AM
1

If he is interested, he will make the effort himself. You don't need to initiate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:05 AM
3

Truly a momentous occasion worth celebrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:01 AM
1

Don't ask, don't tell. Allow him to show through actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:58 AM
1

May I see too? Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:43 AM
7

Personally, I would not be interested in a man like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:30 AM
1

Right, and it's good that you want to look good for yourself. But you stated that part of your reasoning was to attract high value men. My issue is that you are still doing something partly for somebody else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:17 AM
2

Block and delete him off of everything. You are emotionally charging and complicating the most clear cut, straightforward decision you will ever make. To choose yourself. To choose your sanity. Do not complicate this. You will only hurt yourself more. Detach from and remove him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:16 AM
1

You should want to look good for yourself. High value men are more likely to approach women that dress in a way that pleases themselves, because they are most secure in themselves, and do not change for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:10 AM
3

Don't applaud people for being nice. It is as easy as breathing. When people see that being nice is seen as such an accomplishment, they start to bank up their instances of kindness, as if they're collecting a currency that gives them leeway to lose the niceness whenever they want. "I've been so nice 5 social interactions in a row. It should be okay to hit and run this car just this one time, right?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:58 AM
1

I think dressing elegantly is a huge advantage for finding HVM. This really should not be any part of your motivation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:49 AM
1

Vanlife is code for he lives in a van, and it is as sad as it sounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:47 AM
1

In a fair world, yes. In a patriarchy, clearly not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:37 AM
1

If we all blocked/deleted as necessary, there would not be enough apology messages from exes to warrant a flair for it. If there are enough to warrant a flair, it means too many shitty exes are being treated too leniently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:34 AM
25

If a man asks you out during this time, isn't it likely you aren't the first person, and that he has been asking out/meeting with other people too? You aren't exposing yourself to just him, you are exposing yourself to everyone he is in contact with as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:07 AM
26

Your foundation should be first yourself, then your family, then your work or schooling, then your friends, then your hobbies, and THEN you can maybe look towards men to fill in whatever extra time you might have left. Men shouldn't be your first choice, your goto, when you don't have friends yet. A man won't be able to offer you the emotional support that a good female friend can, and you cannot be vulnerable as easily with him. A female friend will more likely stick around. Find her first. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:34 AM
1

This can't be real. She must be trolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:28 AM
16

Fucking bet. And yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:24 AM
7

Why should you try to make yourself approachable? A man that is worthwhile will be brave. A man that wants you truly will go to you regardless of your approachability. Just act as you are naturally. If you are naturally outgoing and exuberant, be that! If you aren't, don't try to become that. You can put yourself out there more by going to more events, and hanging out with your female friends more, but you shouldn't aim to be more approachable. You will be reached by the right man if you are jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:23 AM
2

Better to end up with no one but your beautiful, worthwhile, interesting, shining self, than to have your light dimmed by someone you had to lower your standards for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:19 AM
26

Why is being single for 2 years, or the mere thought of it, soul crushing? Especially when you are a worthwhile individual in of yourself, who doesn't need a boyfriend to be happy and not crushed in the soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:50 AM
1

Block and delete all of his contact info, as a corona time gift for yourself. You deserve the peace of mind knowing that you won't hurt yourself because of a compulsive action borne of anxiety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:48 AM
3

Great! Frankly, I don't care to be labeled hot by losers like that. They can call me Freddy Krueger if it suits them for all I care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:33 AM
5

Recognize you are complete with or without dating, having a boyfriend, or having a husband. You can have a 100% fulfilled and happy life with or without them. Once you internalize this fully, you will not be perturbed by lack of good men in your area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:30 AM
3

The really, actually good advice in this sub has 0% to do with tricks or manipulation. It has 100% to do with self worth as a woman, and having high standards. In this regard, having this sub be "found out" by guys is not that big of a detriment. "Oh no, now he knows how much I value myself, and how I have high expectations of men in my life... How terrible."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:47 AM
1

Yes: a man should expect and encourage me to have my own income a man should not expect me to use my income on him a man should use his disposable income for me and us as a unit a man should be consistent with these things throughout the time I've known him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:48 PM
3

I think the woman degraded herself by speaking of her body in a sexual way with a guy who is already objectifying her. Joking or not, don't go there. Just block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:00 PM
14

Imagine being a woman surrounded by men who are famous, adored, sung their praises to, all the time, and having to work with them, appease them for jobs or useful exposure, etc. That can't be healthy. A woman who is famous may seem like she'd be elevated by that popularity and veneration [among fans], but being in the proximity of so many other famous men who are also elevated, but have it get to their heads and egos way more, probably just destroys any shred of self esteem you can have as a wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:49 PM
2

If he does so, or admits to doing so, just leave him immediately. It can only get worse from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:37 PM
2

Go to your girl friends for emotional support. Go to your male friends when you just want to take your mind off things/want a distraction. A good comment I read on here a few days ago [paraphrased]. I've been making some changes since then, where if I am in distress and need help, I go to a female friend and we talk about it. At a later date/time, when I have talked it out, and just want to get my mind off it, I can talk with a male friend about something funny or a shared hobby, or just play vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:31 PM
2

If you have to go that far, just block him? You should feel safe enough to text whenever you want, and have it be a reciprocal connection. It's draining your energy by making you have to play mind games with yourself to know when it is appropriate to text him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:41 AM
1

They feign ignorance when it serves them. They aren't so naive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:57 PM
1

They should investigate him for domestic violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 09:19 PM
4

I opened up to a male friend of mine about all consuming night terrors that I have been having, and he just said "You think too much." Nice guy, smart guy. But that just was just a shitty, unhelpful thing to say. I'm becoming numb to this way of being talked down to by guys younger than me. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:44 PM
2

0% for incels, so that only Chad's can live and exist to fulfill my every desire. Teehee.
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