Obviously this is something I want to keep in mind for later with the plague situation pussyblocking us lol.

Anyways, when I was reading through the handbook, I saw a lot of reasons why you should wait to become intimate with a dude, but not how you go about doing this. I didn't see any posts about this when I searched either, but we also know how janky Reddit search is.

From the handbook, I surmised you're supposed to be somewhat reserved about your intentions. Like you don't tell someone out the gate if you're looking for marriage, simply block if they're just looking for a nut'n'go. So I also surmised you should stay quiet about wanting to establish commitment before intimacy. Or did I infer incorrectly?

Additionally, when you're with a guy in person and he makes a move, what are some elegant ways to handle this? (Besides, of course, blocking and deleting after the fact if he's pushy or otherwise yucky about it).

Thanks so much! I am a recovering PickMe, so things like this that might seem simple to y'all are a bit confusing and anxiety-inducing for me.