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| 36 | I heard the song “Cater to You” by Destiny’s Child today and I wanted to throw up!!!Nothing wrong with catering to your husband who has earned it :) Pick mes listen to this song and think it applies to their situationship lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:02 PM |
| 313 | Prime example of pickmeisha’s being a disease. A grown man harassed a minor and his girlfriend defended him by calling the little girl a slut. When you see girls defending their bf’s degenerate behavior, this is how they grow up to beThis is the type of couple that traffics women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:00 PM |
| 138 | So I tried fds as hashtag on insta - what I found made me throw up in my mouth. How is this not considered dangerous and/or hate speech? LVMs think ladies owe them sex just because they exist. What a piece of trash.These are the men women are having casual sex with. Remember that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 12:08 AM |
| 3 | How can you apply FDS when kids are involved?Take him to court. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 10 | What am I supposed to want from a boyfriend or husband?You should want to actually be with him. Of course he needs to be someone dependable, responsible etc etc but you know this. But if you’re looking for a husband, I believe you need all of the above plus a strong emotional and romantic connection to the man. Otherwise I think you’re better off raising children on your own ✨ Pretty sure the singer Kehalani had. A baby with her best male friend who I believe is gay or bi. That baby seems to be raised with a lot of love. Good luck!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 09:47 PM |
| 21 | I love seeing memes like theseI feel like it’s totally up to him every single time But we have the power to say no every single time. It is a mutual decision. Reality is you cannot convince a man to treat you well just because you like him. We have to choose from the ones who want to be there and want to put in the effort. That may mean rejecting every contender for the rest of our lives, but that is still our right and our choice. But chasing an uninterested man who doesn’t care about you will never be the answer. That’s wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:32 AM |
| 189 | He charges her for coffee at his home.Even if it was cultural, which it is evidentially not, why would one be willing to put up with it for a guy you don’t even know? Women truly are conditioned to accept everything and to never offend men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 05:25 PM |
| 7 | Are there any women here who admit to having married betabux?Just because your taste doesn’t mature and you’re still attracted to 16 year olds as a grown man doesn’t mean the same is the same for women lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/20 01:23 AM |
| 217 | Reminder that older men who go out of their way to date vastly younger women need to be AVOIDED AT ALL COSTS and this is whyPlease don’t waste your time on the age gap Heartbreaking. She desperately wants to believe her abuse and grooming as a child didn’t directly influence her to fall victim once again by marrying another old predator. It’s clear as day yet she can’t see it for herself. I hope she gets an incredible therapist to help her see the light. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 06:08 PM |
| 92 | Scrote Realizes that dick is low value on OLD: Post from r/hingeThis guy dates HVW. Ladies, THIS is the energy men need to be leaving with after a date with you. They complain, but they love it. Especially if you give them just enough attention. Guaranteed he’d feel like he settled if he suddenly dated a pick me that was over eager for his attention. That’s the part they don’t tell you. We are the prize and it’s about damn time we start acting like it. ✨ Sounds bitchy, but they crave it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 11:37 PM |
| 111 | The nonsense men read to convince themselves they are high valueWhile I’m sure a lot of girls stay who get cheated on, I personally haven’t had a friend who got cheated on and didn’t at least cheat back even if she stayed. The funny part is this post pretends that men don’t cry like fucking blubbering babies and beg, snot nosed and pathetic every time they’re caught cheating. Not that I condone it. But it’s what I’ve witnessed. Whether she stays with the cheater or not, her respect for him dissipates as does her ability to resist all the attention she ignore… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 06:44 PM |
| 33 | The nonsense men read to convince themselves they are high valueHUMAN race?! Sis just the men. We don’t need them. Just each other 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | I need help, support, advice? I really don't know at this point..You got this love!!! The most important life saving lessons are often the lessons we learn the HARD way!! You have the resolve so you can’t fail. You got this sis!!! So so so sorry this is happening to you. As someone who has been cheated on in a long term relationship as well, I understand. Good luck and we have your back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 06:45 AM |
| 2 | I need help, support, advice? I really don't know at this point..Ditto what everyone else said. You are not to blame and will never be to blame here. But please, once you get out of this, pleeeeease never move in with a man who is not your husband with financial obligations to you. You now know what we all learn the hard way - no matter what you do or how hard you love or how much sex you have or how well you cook - a man who wants to cheat will. Whether it’s emotional or physical. Has nothing to do with you and everything to do with their trash egos. Please … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 07:33 PM |
| 28 | Thought of the dayIt’s very sad. But that’s why FDS is so effective imo. Keep the expectations high, and the sex at zero. So at the very very least, if 3 months later he still played you, you’ve got 3 months worth of dinners and high effort out of it. Rather that than 2 weeks worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 07:06 PM |
| 40 | How to explain to women that their boyfriends having close female friends shouldn’t be blindly accepted?This is not a debate I’m willing to have with pick mes because you’re automatically labeled as “iNsEcUre”. I have great male platonic friends but I also honor and uphold extra boundaries when either of us are in relationships. I always back off no matter what. Doesn’t make us any less of friends. It’s about respect and common sense. If certain women don’t care that their bf is going dates with their best female friends and putting heart eye emojis under each other’s posts, then more power to the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 07:04 PM |
| 11 | I need some adviceIf you are “friends” with him you’ll continue to relive the experience of getting cheated on over and over again. Since you just found out it may take fresh life cycle to process through and that’s okay. But you will never ever feel the same again or be ready love the next HVM if you break NC with your ex. It’s just a fact. If you think you can juggle both (moving on AND contacting the ex) - you can’t. Also there is no closure. You got this. Day 1 towards healing starts when you block and restar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 06:56 PM |
| 11 | Is this too early to diagnose a LVM?I’m still not understanding the timeline of it all but either way he’s low value. If he’s not proactive about your date plans he’s not interested. Plus I would not put myself in a position where I am completely at the mercy of a another man an hour away from home. Just a lot of nopes in this situation. Date close to home with your own transportation. Even if it’s Uber. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 01:21 AM |
| 8 | Is this too early to diagnose a LVM?Wait it looks like he ghosted/stood you up? Can you explain what happened? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 01:06 AM |
| 70 | The Ten Types of Men on TinderHeartbreak Jake made me laugh out loud. You are hilarious 🤣 Spot onnnn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 03:09 AM |
| 197 | Hating misogynistic behavior = / = hating menWhen he puts “girl” in his username to remember the gender of this particular alt ✨ 🧚♂️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Karma farming by making women look bad - Saved you a click: They broke upExactly why I stopped going on AITA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 04:30 PM |
| 3 | In need of some support/advice for wishy washy new guy...If a guy uses you as a free therapist on that first date much less...ever, it’s a red flag - dump him. He just wasted your emotional energy for validation then leaves you on read once he’s all done. No more long ass dates, no more talking 24/7. Both of you need mystery. Intimacy takes time and trust. Men who throw it at you make each girl feel special but they’re just one of many. Anyway you obviously learned your lesson. It’s better you know now for the future. Your gut was right, his over shar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:46 PM |
| 4 | In need of some support/advice for wishy washy new guy...5 hour long free therapy session Yes yes and more yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Am I reverting to pickme ways?Yeah the point is beyond the initial convo he needs to seek professional help. If you try to reason with him it’ll go through one ear and out the other. This is something only a HVM can help him with. You’re a good friend!!! But now it’s beyond your pay grade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:30 PM |
| 64 | Helped someone learn they’re dating a LVM today. Sent her his dating profile and screenshots of our date plans for this weekend.I hate that I’ve seen this commonly here. The notion that all or most women will freak out on the other women who comes forth with the truth about the lying trash two timing bfs. Maybe some, but not all. It’s okay to not feel comfortable getting involved but it’s damaging to all women to assume such negative things about unknowing gfs who are getting cheated on. I’m talking in general here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:35 PM |
| 8 | What would happen if all women using dating apps... stopped? 🤔online meat market Lmfao 💀 You are not wrong! Hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:35 PM |
| 340 | Helped someone learn they’re dating a LVM today. Sent her his dating profile and screenshots of our date plans for this weekend.Gaslighters: “OMFG She messaged a RANDOM girl he added on social media recently and ASKED how she knew him?!? She is so INSECURE and CRAZY!!!!1!!! You should be able to TRUST your BF!!1!!!1 no mAtTer WhAt” Nah. Follow that intuition sis. You have it for this exact reason. 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:18 PM |
| 10 | I love my boyfriend so much but he has never been in a good financial position and it's taking it's toll.Moving in with him will be a dire mistake. Dire. Save up enough to get your own studio independent of him. Moving in with a financially illiterate man is a recipe for disaster and resentment. From what you describe it would be irresponsible for him to move out. He should very seriously budget for at least a year or two, have a steady source of income and stop all irrelevant spending before you two become financially enmeshed. But it’s your life! You sometimes you gotta learn through experience t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:13 PM |
| 6 | Do you think women are more likely to be pickmes than men, and that women care more about male validation than men care about female validation?Like I said, the few men that are pick mes are “liberal male feminists” and they DO insult other men. Again, these men are attractive and can and do accrue libfem female orbiters that accept open relationships, no commitment and abusive sex. Women become pick mes that tear each other down because it doubles the amount of thirsty low value men in their DMs. Pick me’s thrive off of male attention. Throwing other women under the bus directly correlates to collecting more LVM who will worship the gr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:55 PM |
| 16 | Do you think women are more likely to be pickmes than men, and that women care more about male validation than men care about female validation?I think it comes down to sex, energy, abundance / scarcity mentality. A man’s main objective is to obtain validation through sex. Because it is 10x’s as hard to obtain sex from any woman, much less a woman they desire. Pick me behavior from men (which I consider to be like “liberal feminist men”) is going to be very targeted toward a population of women they know are more likely to sleep with them if they cater to their woke idea. In the end it’s still about sex but these guys have to be good lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 8 | I was considering getting back together with my ex - until he posted a present from the girl he cheated with on instaSometimes you have to get burned to truly learn. A lot of us are steadfast in our convictions because we hit rock bottom for a scrote we loved. From this, OP is on her way to never making the same mistake again. We can chant “Block! Block! Block!” Until the cows come home, but 90% of the women who actually block and never look back are the ones who refused to block in the past and got played like a rag doll by someone they loved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 04:29 PM |
| 8 | I was considering getting back together with my ex - until he posted a present from the girl he cheated with on instaIt’s still really manipulative to tell you that. Like “OMG I know I totally blatantly disrespected you but since you’ve blocked me on everything I’m desperate to tell you my exes present hurt me!!1!!1!!! HA HA forgive me now?!” Manipulation desperation and narcissism. Block the email queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 04:19 PM |
| 16 | I love my boyfriend so much but he has never been in a good financial position and it's taking it's toll.Even before your last paragraph I was going to say “move in with a friend/roommate!” Girl shelling out half your wage on a studio just so he can visit is just him pulling you into his own trash financial illiteracy. Looks like he has all of his financial priorities messed up. He barely paid off a 2K debt but says he spends most of his money on you? Makes you feel bad about it but then turns around and wants to spend even more money towards a studio doing the exact same thing he complains about? … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 04:08 PM |
| 36 | Am I reverting to pickme ways?Child free people do not have unprotected sex. He’s trash. He should be spending his time comforting his partner whom I’m assuming ALSO didn’t plan to get pregnant and is going to have to traumatize her body for 10+ months because this LVM couldn’t wrap it up. Imagine you accidentally get pregnant and your partner spends all this emotional energy pouring out his anger to other women? This is currently happening to my close male cousin and I told him to get a male therapist. Guess what? He did. A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 03:12 PM |
| 30 | Ahhh emotionally abusing your wife for tiktok clout. How romantic!😍Then they get mad that these women don’t want to sleep with their crusty dicks every night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 06:25 PM |
| 180 | Boyfriend finds out woman had anal sex in the past and throws a complete fucking tantrum because she doesn’t want to do it with him. Reminder to never tell men your sexual history and drop Pickmeisha friends who “accidentally” put your business out there.If they stay together he’ll justify cheating on her with a girl who promises anal. Men with this mentality are sexually deprived entitled cheaters every time. She’ll be lucky if she finds out so she can leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:32 AM |
| 52 | How do you strike a balance between being sweet and remaining mysterious?2 things that will help solve your problems: 1. Be less available. You can’t be bubbly, sweet and accommodating and always be at their beck and call. Be yourself on dates but make little to no contact with them in between dates. Make them strive to see you and be busy. When I was single, I was always a pleasure on dates. But no matter how much I liked the guy, my friends, hobbies, school etc. came first and they had to compete with that. And guess what? They did. I vetted well I was dating 3 gre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:22 AM |
| 19 | Reminder: shut up engagement rings are a thing. An engagement does not mean you are immune to LVM behavior. A LVM can be hidden for YEARS under a HVM mask and engagement is the PERFECT time for a man to use "building a life together" to justify LV behavior or pressuring you to lower your standards.I’ll be right behind you in line sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:31 PM |
| 74 | Reminder: shut up engagement rings are a thing. An engagement does not mean you are immune to LVM behavior. A LVM can be hidden for YEARS under a HVM mask and engagement is the PERFECT time for a man to use "building a life together" to justify LV behavior or pressuring you to lower your standards.Which is why no man is truely high value until he’s stayed faithful and committed throughout all these milestones and much much much more(60+ years worth). Honestly having children with a man is starting to feel more and more like an inescapable trap. The thought of being tied to a man who no longer feels an incentive to treat me well or chase me for a lifetime is nothing short of a personal nightmare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 09:48 PM |
| 43 | This is a HVM right here! Next level HFM I would argue. Really inspiring! Taking form an older post in r/nextlevel. So I hope I’m not repostingA good man will always put their children first no matter what. If you agree to be “step mom” get ready to be secondary. If a man believes that cooking for and adoring the mother of his children on special occasions will teach them to be better men, then that is his right. All this competition and jealousy step parents develop for their step kids is toxic and unavoidable. This might be harsh, but if a man makes vows with a woman and starts a family with her and still gets divorced...he is a fail… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 09:12 PM |
| 43 | This is a HVM right here! Next level HFM I would argue. Really inspiring! Taking form an older post in r/nextlevel. So I hope I’m not repostingI stopped reading at “ex wife.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:56 PM |
| 4 | OLD low effort date guy update, he unmatchedLol. Wear your unmatch as a badge of honor sis. 🎖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 06:57 PM |
| 15 | OLD low effort date guy update, he unmatchedI’d take him unmatching me as a compliment lmao what’s the problem here?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 06:40 PM |
| 26 | Your techniques for NOT catching feeling too soon?I guess I hope the main take away from my post is to decentralize dating from your life. The more you want it and are looking for it in every man you date, hoping he’s the one who will love you and commit to you, the less likely you are to find it. You will attract high value men by not seeming pressed for a relationship. What you see as honest, they see as desperate. No matter how unfair it is, it’s a red flag for them. Don’t get me wrong, you could get a bf tomorrow if you wanted. But you’d ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 02:45 AM |
| 54 | Your techniques for NOT catching feeling too soon?If you’re dating a guy, and getting your hopes up, then are told they feel like they can’t give you what you need, you’re most likely investing too much time, emotion and energy into these men. The thing is, waiting for a guy to court you and pay for you is a symptom of the broader game - men love to chase, and they need to be the ones to convince the woman he is worthy of her. That means you are continuously not always readily available for him. This means you are always dating more than one pe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 02:20 AM |
| 3 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.There are TONS of positive stories that come out of exposing sick cheaters to their faithful wives/partners. Getting involved is not OPs obligation. It’s okay for her to not take the risk, totally fine. But to pretend all unknowing gfs are pick mes who will 100% choose the man and bash the women is a harmful narrative. You can choose to stay out of it without falsely asserting that exposing cheaters is the wrong thing to do every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 12:32 AM |
| 15 | Update to last week's postHe made it “easy” on you by not even having the decency to respond. He ghosted you so you don’t have much choice but to try to let go. The true test will be not if, but when he comes crying and begging for you back. What will you do then? The reason why everyone told you to dump him is because he showed that he was no longer interested in you. This current action cements the fact. You did the right thing by dumping him, but it hurts because he didn’t fight for you, try to change your mind or eve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What have you thought of men who have stopped pursuing you in the past?Ooh yeah. I hear modern dating is a bit of a nightmare these days. I sympathize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/20 10:12 PM |
| 30 | LVM can't be changed. Please just stop having kids with them. Sincerely: an lvm's daughterOof! I’m sorry sis! I got mine for my long term relationships. Unless we are committed, it’s condoms 100% regardless of an IUD. Being pregnant is my worst fear honestly. It really is sad the lengths we have to go but if GOD FORBID a man forced himself on me, the one thing I want to guarantee is that I will not and cannot become impregnated. What a fucking revolting statement. But this is our reality. Getting an IUD is always a horrible experience but I force myself to endure it and I’m lucky to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What have you thought of men who have stopped pursuing you in the past?Whose playing games? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Are you aware of/do you agree with the Halo Effect?Yeah but that’s because men stick their dick in almost anything. That’s not saying much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Are you aware of/do you agree with the Halo Effect?Guys care more about looks than women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What have you thought of men who have stopped pursuing you in the past?In my limited single life I don’t think a guy has stopped pursuing. Not cause I’m that amazing it just hasn’t really happened. I end up in relationships and have to end things with the other guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/20 07:28 PM |
| 19 | Do I even need to say it? 😒As if their tiny pps could reach it 😂😂 An adequately endowed man wouldn’t need to do all this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:16 PM |
| 7 | How do I know if breaking up with my boyfriend would be the right thing to do, or if it's self-sabotage?I don’t wanna sound like a fuckwad on r/relationship_advice LOL 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:09 PM |
| 47 | LVM can't be changed. Please just stop having kids with them. Sincerely: an lvm's daughterI ❤️ My IUD Because never in a million fucking years... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:02 PM |
| 37 | This is worth watching all the way through. They know the truth ladies, they just refuse to care 🥰🙃🔊 🔊 🔊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 09:42 PM |
| 5 | Man tries to slut-shame single woman chatting with multiple men, calling them “side hoes”Same 😩😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 07:47 PM |
| 9 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?Ugh 40%?! No wonder you’re exhausted! I’m honestly trying to figure out if I’ve ever gone Dutch for a first or subsequent dates and I can’t think of a time since high school. Are you dating grown men with good jobs? Cause if these are like college guys or struggling artists that may be a main reason. Also are you in America? Regardless my advice still stands of course but yeah I’m thinking if you’re going Dutch 40% of the time it’s the type men you’re going out with are probably the problem. Wha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 06:26 AM |
| 14 | Can men still be HVM after cheating?Idk your parents and idk if they’ve actually changed or not so I’m going to steer clear of that. I just want to say that someone can be a good parent and be a shitty spouse. Just because your dad cheated doesn’t mean he’s just going to stop financially providing for you and loving you. I know your mom cheated as well but generally I’ll speak on men because 9 times out of 10 they’re the first once to cheat. So yeah. Parents can be high value to their kids and low value to each other. People will … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 06:10 AM |
| 7 | Ok Ladies I need some advice for my "situationship"...older men are only good for better sex, a fuck ton of attention and gifts...so sis what is actually t point?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 01:51 AM |
| 58 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?What you’ve done is exactly what you should should be doing. If you follow FDS approved vetting processes, you should be in the clear for a relatively decent date (never guaranteed of course.) Unless he’s ranting about all things being equal financially among men and women, I don’t think trying to figure out whether or not he will pay for your meal is a worthwhile strategy at all. Again, unless he makes it obvious that he’s cheap, you should be screening for high value and compatibility. You sho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 01:23 AM |
| 69 | One of the top comments: “me considering this at 15 👁👄👁” Lord this generation is gone.. Girls are objectifying themselves more than ever.If you feel you’re in any way “selling your body” while in a relationship with a man because he does nice things for you and gives you gifts, you’re not in a relationship, you’re doing sex work. Like, you know you can be attracted to and want to have sex with the man you’re dating right? Attractive men will wine and dine you even if you’re not sleeping with them if that’s your standard. Sex should be in no way a transaction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 07:23 AM |
| 203 | I cannot get over how disrespectful Justin Bieber is to his wife “Listen to me woman.”AtTrAcTivE wOmEn dOnT nEed dAtiNg STrAteGiez Meanwhile in real life, gorgeous rich women who don’t even need a man’s money continue to be humiliated and negged pick me’s for trolls like Justin Bieber because it’s all they’ve ever known. I am an attractive woman, but by no means a supermodel, and I have never been talked to like that by a significant other. Ever. Nor will I ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 05:27 PM |
| 23 | Male friends? What are your thoughts/ experiences? + little storyAll my closest male friends are from high school. I have one from college who is genuine and that’s about it...the rest are acquaintances who consider me a “friend” but I know they’re attracted to me. The rest are gay. I’m a people person and have always made close connections with people where ever I go. But as you get older it’s damn near impossible to make a connection with a man - much less eye contact - without him fantasizing about you naked. I’m 25 and at this point male friends just beco… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | PPD womenCan you please explain what a Coomer is?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | colored men are way more obsessed with white girls than the reverseBut you believe they’re niggers. So yes this these are your breadcrumbs for them lmfao. Wow. White women cannot hide their hatred for blacks even when they try to white knight...or should I call this black knighting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 06:19 AM |
| 2 | colored men are way more obsessed with white girls than the reverseHow can you call men niggers repeatedly while attempting to defend black women in your post? You is this your yearly pity female nigger posts? Should the slaves thank you for your service? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 06:13 AM |
| 1 | anybody brave enough to actually post their tinder/bumble profile?Haven’t heard? Kandyapples calls your kind the..well the N word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 06:00 AM |
| 17 | Girl gets pregnant with her ex while he was “on a break” from his fiancé, hilarity ensuesI mean it’s just fucking shitty all around. That poor fucking bride. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 06:38 PM |
| 24 | Are HVM even worth it tho?I have yet to know of a man that remain consistently high value for more than 4 years. Seen really sweet loving family men and husbands cheat on their doting wives on numerous out of town trips, so. Men are only as good as their worth to you at any given time. Men are most valuable when they’re infatuated with you and/or deeply committed to you, consistently forgoing all other appetizing options for you. I do not believe most eligible men are faithful long term. If faithfulness and not taking yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Literally all it takes for women to be above average attractiveness in America is to not be overweight.Why do you think some men develop fetishes for chubby, fat or obese women? I do feel like the repulsion is visceral in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Literally all it takes for women to be above average attractiveness in America is to not be overweight.....not dumpster dives at the end of the drunken night tho....damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 04:38 AM |
| 5 | I cannot think or comprehend anything more cucked than being a Reddit moderatorWait...and they do this all for free?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”?So wholesome and heartwarming ❤️ Congratulations! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 04:08 AM |
| 34 | “You didn’t care if we used a condom during sex, so why would a pandemic stop you from wanting to hang out?” -NVMGlad you blocked him, but what alternative method do you use to protect yourself from HIV and other STDs? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:08 PM |
| 9 | I would change this to say “how to vet a guy to see if he really likes you” versus “how to get any guy to like you” (convincing someone to like you is PickMe behavior) but the overall message otherwise is in line with FDSAnd that’s the harsh truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Which is worse, being only wanted for sex, or not being able to have sex at all?It’s implied she’s talking about how men feel about prostitutes when they have no other choice because no one actually wants to fuck them. Incels swear hand and foot that prostitutes are not adequate substitutes for having consensual sex with a woman who actually desires them. If prostitution solved worthlessness, 90% of incels would cease to consider themselves incels. Those left are the ones too poor to pay for sex. Tons of incels pay whores to fuck them. Doesn’t make them any less miserable a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 09:52 AM |
| 5 | Which is worse, being only wanted for sex, or not being able to have sex at all?Like, I’m happy and grateful to not have to take this L lol. I probably would have argued differently in the past but this sub alone has shown me the severe impact having little to no SMV has an a human being. I absolutely do not envy a majority of the men who post here and/or suffer from this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The swagger that women are attracted to is typically displayed in men who aren't very intelligent.Why hate women when most of your peers can interact with them successfully? Why not hate men and the TRP and Chads who figured it, tell you how to do it, but you can’t? Cause it’s easier? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 09:40 AM |
| 6 | CMV: The swagger that women are attracted to is typically displayed in men who aren't very intelligent.I feel like any man who captures women's attention at an academic conference is pretty much a dumbass in smart clothing. This is completely baseless. Obviously these guys have to be attractive first and foremost. Despite what men on this sub believe women have types. Even if you’re “cute,” if you’re smart and command attention or power women will be attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 09:32 AM |
| 29 | Which is worse, being only wanted for sex, or not being able to have sex at all?Not being able to have sex at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 05:58 AM |
| 34 | If the thought of your friends hanging out with him embarrasses you... you know what to doIf I’d met him now I wouldn’t even look his way twice. PREACH!! 😂 Ultimately I take it all as a blessing. Through that relationship I learned how to be treated like a queen. After that I simply filtered out the Uggos/Socially awkward dudes unapologetically. We can and will have both or be happy on our own 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 09:17 PM |
| 80 | If the thought of your friends hanging out with him embarrasses you... you know what to doGIRL I think I am you cause: First boyfriend ✅ College boyfriend ✅ Broke up with him after two years ✅ Lmao rinse recycle but NEVER repeat!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 08:13 PM |
| 247 | If the thought of your friends hanging out with him embarrasses you... you know what to doWait...why is this so relatable? I’ve definitely been there. It think it’s cause these are the guys who treat you really well at first, and give you the attention you desire so you excuse the fact that they’re awkward and embarrassing to be around when others are present. My ex was somewhat like this. It was great coming around his friends and family because they were used to him and it was fun hearing them say “how did you bag her ??” But yeah it was always anxiety enducing introducing him to m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 08:00 PM |
| 51 | Desi women, how do you guys deal with family members who are pickmeisha-y?The truth is you have no idea if your dad is watching porn and I doubt your mom or you dad would admit to it if he still is. Sorry not Desi, but it kills me that the women who promote being perfect pick me angels are always women who have husbands who jack it to porn and cheat. If you’re the perfect wife, why should any woman have “a little insecurity about her husband”? Look, if I have to rid myself of my back bone, career, identity and pre-baby body and freedom for a man, I better have ZERO in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 05:06 PM |
| 8 | Leveling up does not bring you more options as a woman - and that's OKAYPREACH IT FROM THE ROOF TOPS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 07:10 PM |
| 16 | i think i need advice on a potential red flag situationMen are not victims when they decide to have unprotected sex repeatedly with CrAzY eXes. Guess it was only worth it when she was crazy in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:09 PM |
| 14 | He detonated his chancesGirl, don’t pass up this once in a lifetime opportunity to see his shriveled up 2 centimeters of prime peen! Are you crazy 🤪?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Rules for men trying to respect FDS in their dating lifeJeez, another one? I’ll just copy and paste what I said to another person who apparently skimmed over everything I said. As I said in my original comment: I promise you, when you meet that high value woman you just can’t let go, you will naturally want to rise up and behave like the high value man she requires. If you are only pretending to be high value, the facade will crumble in no time and you will lose her. Not sure if you read my post. Nothing you said negated anything I said. | /r/askFDS | 28/04/20 09:46 PM |
| 116 | Quarantine boredom doesn’t mean you need to lower your standards for conversationsNo you’re not nuts. No need to put yourself down sis. It’s because you didn’t know better. Now you know better. It is a really important thing to not do though, especially when dating a worthwhile man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 09:35 PM |
| 37 | In need of a little encouragementThe great part is - He told you he does this with all women, so taking this at all personally would be nonsensical. Consider yourself exceptionally lucky. His exes wasted an entire year of their lives with this loser. There is no way in hell this narcissist is worth all this fuss. Sis. He told you who he was and you can GTFO. Honestly I bet his exes would tell you to RUN. I bet they’d be so jealous to hear he showed his ass to you right away instead of wasting years of your life like he did them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 09:29 PM |
| 53 | I initiated a break for my own personal reasons - is it my responsibility to reach out first?How can I initiate that conversation without losing power/control? This situation isn’t about power and control. It’s about basic decency and communication. Spend a few days thinking about how you will tell him that you are not ready to pursue a relationship with him and break it off. It’s obvious you have a lot going on in your life and aren’t in a place to date. You being bothered by him respecting your boundaries shows you’re in the wrong headspace to date. Do what’s right and cut it off and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Why can't men talk about women's bodies?If a man asked me my weight I’d just tell him. I wouldn’t date him but I would tell him lmao. I get that some girls would be offended but if you’re not fat...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Gender rolesDivorce her then tf are we supposed to do? Maybe post on the red pill so they can properly bash her like you desperately want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 03:48 AM |
| 46 | Well, I finally did it.It’s so underrated how hard it is to end a multi year relationship...so underrated. You’re an inspiration to so many by doing what needed to be done. Especialllllllly when it means ending it with an otherwise decent guy. You know how I know you’re a complete baddass? The fact that you did it during quarantine. Truly use this time for yourself. Give yourself some time to cry it out and then get to work. Get your mind (read) body (exercise) and soul (pray/meditate) right everyday. Oh and journal o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:51 PM |
| 52 | Dating and looking low maintenanceYour style does not create low value men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:57 PM |
| 30 | Staying friends with an ex?You’re still chasing him. When you express your insecurities to a man and trust him, it’s an invaluable thing. When you give that gift to a man, he needs to cherish it. If he was your friend, let alone romantic interest, and he really cared about you, he wouldn’t have flaked on you and let you down time after time when he knew how vulnerable your first relationship left you. Now you’ve recognized his low value behavior. He apologizes but says he can’t change. So instead of learning from it you t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:42 PM |
| 10 | Do any of you have experiences with men who completed recovery programs for porn addiction?I’m sure all of that is true! I mean... I would be viscerally turned off by a former porn addict for sure. All women have the right to deny a man for his past or for any reason. I’m just highlighting the fact that most if not all men are porn addicted. Porn has a psychological grip on most men and some women. Kids are now watching porn on their phones and iPads late into the night from the ages of 8 and earlier. Gone are the days boys find their father’s playboy stash and secretly jack off to th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 03:18 PM |
| 15 | Do any of you have experiences with men who completed recovery programs for porn addiction?Surprised by the responses here to be honest, considering most men are porn addicted. I’m pretty sure all men who are “porn free” were porn addicted at some point. Otherwise why would they become porn free? Wondering if the stigma is overshadowing the action. Maybe women feel more comfortable thinking the man could quit on his own rather than relying on a program. Actually, that’s probably it. Cause it makes you think “how bad is it that you had to pay for treatment?” Maybe there’s some truth to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 10:13 PM |
| 100 | The guy I’m talking to has bought flowers for my mom but not for meYou are what you entertain sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?Until it rips your little sisters hand off. It’s not unconditional love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 09:47 PM |
| 7 | Optimal thot levelThis is exactly why women should never try to please men on this sub lol. Damned if you do and damned if you don’t. And y’all wonder why women stopped giving a fuck long ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 09:41 PM |
| 57 | You can admit you miss and care for a LVM ex, that is okay, but don't let it fuck your shit up.Incredible post. I consider myself to have had a high value relationship with my ex, but it always feels wrong to just leave it at that. By the end, he was revealed to be low value when times got tough. Now thanks to this sub I realize he was also totally porn sick and sex addicted (In this way I was blind - I genuinely thought trying out sick porn acts was normal. He was older I was younger bla bla). But that doesn’t negate the fact that he treated me like an absolute queen for 98% of our relat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 05:30 PM |
| 6 | Rules for men trying to respect FDS in their dating lifeAs I said I promise you, when you meet that high value woman you just can’t let go, you will naturally want to rise up and behave like the high value man she requires. If you are only pretending to be high value, the facade will crumble in no time and you will lose her. Not sure if you read my post. Nothing you said negated anything I said. | /r/askFDS | 23/04/20 03:06 PM |
| 19 | My boyfriend didn't like the way I brought up an issueHe’s basically telling you he’s gonna ramp up the behavior once you’re gone because he’s entitled to lusting over random women’s bodies. The way he handled this is extremely telling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 08:37 PM |
| 49 | When a relationship you thought had a real future ends, and the man comes back after the fact realizing how much he messed up, apologizing, etc, how do you ladies keep it moving?Here’s the problem, it doesn’t matter if you forgave, it matters that you will never forget. Your relationship will never be what it was. You’ll be left wondering if you’d be happier with someone else who hasn’t hurt you deeply. I think that’s what most people (including myself) fail to accept. You go back to the ex and the entire relationship is a struggle to achieve what you once had. In some moments you might have it again, but the undertone of resentment and the lack of trust will haunt the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 08:35 PM |
| 25 | “It’s totally ok if his porn use is disrespectful behind my back, just not to my face!”Besides the OBVIOUS, it is also quite alarming that she was okay with tolerating being a blow up sex doll everyday anyway. There is no way in hell I’d be so lifeless in bed that a man can HOLD his phone and watch porn above my head as we’re having sex. If I’m not an active an excited willing participant, I’m not participating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 06:03 AM |
| 17 | Never listen to the advice of a pickmeHave you ever seen a more obvious cry for help? You hear it in both of their posts. It’s heartbreaking honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 05:51 AM |
| 62 | Dating down is a self-esteem problem.If she were simply enjoying postmodern freedom, why all the secrecy? I clutched my pearls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 05:23 AM |
| 41 | Feeling the whole “Lord grant me the confidence of a mediocre man” today.You know what. I don’t think it’s confidence. I don’t think it is at all. I think the insistence comes from a very broken, narcissistic, sick place that exists in most if not all men. It’s like they have little to no remorse for fucking around on you while they’re doing it — negging you, being a slob, talking to that girl you don’t like, cheating — but as soon as you catch them they will muster every fiber of their being to fight for you to stay. Suddenly, they can clean, suddenly, they can bloc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 04:38 AM |
| 53 | Who are some female villains who you think are actually empowered?Carol Baskin Like maybe don’t be 40 years old picking up 20 year old women on the side of the road with a gun in your car and sleep with them when you have a whole wife and kids then kick them out to move the side piece in leaving the side piece turned WIFE with all of your family’s fortune?? LIKE !! I only blame the husband like FOH. We don’t even know if she did it. He’s either dead or hiding in Cuba. Either way he’s a selfish POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:12 PM |
| 16 | Advice on How to Stay Emotionally Unavailable in a Relationship?This is really the core of it all. Roads always lead to this revelation eventually. You just have to be ready to receive it. Sometimes you have to hit rock bottom to be ready. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:17 AM |
| 216 | I have no wordsThis girl wants to “gently” bring this up? I don’t care if he photoshopped her green. Sis needs to “gently” file a restraining order. Sometimes the calm, unsure, borderline forgiving/defensive tone of these posts written by women disturbs me more than the content. Men are deprived deep in their bones and it is scary how intensely we have been brainwashed to accept it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 11:20 PM |
| 1 | I think I have a red flag but I don't know how to get rid of it.Honestly the whole thing just sounds very juvenile, but that’s why I emphasized the importance of moving out ASAP and establishing independence. It’s up to you. I gave you some really practical and honest advice. You can ignore it if you like. | /r/askFDS | 20/04/20 09:47 PM |
| 2 | I think I have a red flag but I don't know how to get rid of it.You’re only 20? Yeah these are some of the growing pains of aging out of being a kid. The only things you need to work on are getting a job and moving out of your house. You can do this on your own time (presumably before they cut you off), I don’t need to hear all the reasons why you’re at home (you’re, young, it doesn’t matter) but there comes a time in every woman and man’s life where they outgrow the home and leave the nest. Your mom can’t bully you and pick up the journals you leave around … | /r/askFDS | 20/04/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | The Hemline Indicator & Post Corona Economic BluesI don’t care what sexless men do in their free time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 03:48 PM |
| 59 | How to I regain my dignity after texting my ex?I know you probably don’t want to hear this. But sometimes it takes our exes ending things with us in a painful or embarrassing way in order to actually get us (women) to fully let go of the relationship. This is a blessing sis! Had he not shut it down, who knows how long you’d be harboring feelings and texting him in moments of weakness. We are on quarantine sis, this probably wouldn’t have been the last time you did this, let’s be real. I’ve been there, it never is. Although it may be unconven… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 07:17 AM |
| 2 | The Hemline Indicator & Post Corona Economic BluesMeh. I’ll believe it when I see it. I mean obviously I hope it’s not true. I know this is a privileged thing to say but it’s pretty annoying knowing how much I could make by throwing all dignity to the wind and showing my tits online. But I don’t have it in me. Hopefully by the time this is over you’re right and not all men are porn sick psychos paying for cam gfs and distorting reality even further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 04:45 AM |
| 2 | who pay money onlyfans, camgirls, premium snapchats, or even for porn...why?How will removing the clit stop women from forming emotional bonds? You do know most women do not even orgasm with Chads right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | The Hemline Indicator & Post Corona Economic BluesDoes this mean more men who wouldn’t have paid for prostitutes will now? Crazy how much men will spend on a cam girl fantasy where they’re not even touched. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 03:55 AM |
| 17 | Advice regarding handling potential cheating avenuesI mean...is he apologetic? Yikes. Keep an eye on this. When FOMO hits men, it hits hard. They go after what they “missed out on” regardless of the women they love who supported them through out. Believe me. Keep a close eye on this. If he’s not the type to shut this kind of convo down, he’ll spend the rest of quarantine with you thinking about her. A man loses all value to you when he stops prioritizing and chasing you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:55 PM |
| 10 | Decoding male behaviour - just a friend??This was your first HUGE sign not to move to that city. You’ll say you’ll move there without expectations but then get there and be hurt and devastated when y’all inevitably sleep together but he doesn’t stop going on dates and you’ll act confused as if he hadn’t made his intentions clear from the start. You’re fresh off heart break with an opportunity to start new. He friend zoned you and is using you for attention and validation. When you get there you will graduate to the fuck zone and confus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:45 PM |
| 21 | Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?The only reason you should be talking to him is to set him up to expose him. Otherwise you need to ask yourself why you’re still expending energy on a loser who continuously disrespects his own relationship. Either expose him or don’t, but from the wording of your post, you’re falling into his trap and beginning to risk YOUR relationship with YOUR fiancé by not blocking him the first time he stepped over the line. At this point, his behavior is not your responsibility. Yours is. Expose him or do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop dwelling on a terrible past relationship from years ago?I didn’t mean to assume you’re jumping from relationship to relationship. For that I apologize. I’m just pointing out, that now for the second time in a row, you haven’t mentioned anything you’ve done to improve yourself esteem on your own, for yourself. You keep talking about your boyfriend...but what have you done for yourself to help you heal and move on? What have you done for yourself to help you build enough self esteem to forgive your past actions? If you can’t respond without going on an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 11:50 PM |
| 199 | That’s what happened when he watched too much pornThis is what happens when you fetishize virgins and intentionally traumatize them into never getting intimate with anyone else out of insecurity and low self esteem. Men who are obsessed that women are virgins with little to no past sexual experience are ALWAYS psychotic, narcissistic, controlling and insecure beyond belief. Without reading anything else I know this man is fucking jealous and controlling as hell. He probably doesn’t allow her to leave the house or have friends. He needs to contr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 11:13 PM |
| 3 | How do you stop dwelling on a terrible past relationship from years ago?You need to go to therapy for it. I asked you what you’ve done in 9 years to heal and 90% of what you mentioned was healing through another man calling your ex, retarded, gay and white trash so...honestly I don’t think you’ve taken the time to heal and build self esteem up on your own. As I suspected (and the reason why I asked you the question I did) I think the reason why you’re still so impacted by your ex from 9 years ago is you still seek validation through other men, rather than working on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Do men here realize that the women who post here "care" more about men's issues than like 99% of women do?You are heard and you are seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 09:52 PM |
| 8 | Do men here realize that the women who post here "care" more about men's issues than like 99% of women do?You’re 100% right haha. Women here allow incels to feel heard and seen so it’s kind of like volunteer charity work? Like one will probably insult me for saying this but deep down I gave him purpose today because he interacted with a woman. So with every insult is a deed well done :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 08:42 PM |
| 5 | How do you stop dwelling on a terrible past relationship from years ago?First, hugs ❤️ Second, it would be great to know what you’ve done in the past 9 years to rebuild yourself and your self esteem. Have you gone to therapy? Have you had any healthy relationships? Cringe attacks are super normal and I’m pretty sure everyone has them. What you described sounds deeper. Have you had any positive experiences with men while dating? I’m curious what the past 9 years have looked like for you in terms of healing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Why is nagging considered an issue?just be quite about it Quite what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 05:07 AM |
| 12 | Rules for men trying to respect FDS in their dating lifeBottom line is this: if you want to be with a woman long term, you’ll do what it takes to pursue her. Women want to be respected, bottom line. They want someone who is genuine and is not playing games. Men are natural pursuers so of course when you read FDS it might look like a bunch of girls asking for it all. But at the end of the day, when a man is truly interested in pursuing you, he is happy to oblige. He is happy to treat her to dinner after he requests her time. While waiting for sex migh… | /r/askFDS | 17/04/20 04:32 AM |
| 21 | That Mad Max: Fury Road chase sceneThe Pick Me’s on the front lines 😂😂 Too accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 04:47 AM |
| 37 | Is a relationship with passion like you see in the movies a real thing?It’s real. Yeah it doesn’t always last long and it doesn’t always mean the guy is a good partner. But both my my long term relationships had a sexual honeymoon phase that lasted over a year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?I don’t care about the opinions of strangers nor do I care about your opinion specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?I don’t care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 06:57 AM |
| 64 | He ghosted me...my response? How do you ladies deal?Honestly I think dating is just going to have to be placed on the back burner for a lot of people right now. If you want to talk to guys on OLD you can, but unless you’ve been dating 8+ months don’t expect much from them. A lot of guys can’t handle change. That’s why I say you don’t know someone until you’ve weathered a few storms with them. Both men and women are going to let their new relationships slip through the cracks during quarantine and for better or for worse, that’s what happens when … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 02:20 AM |
| 11 | If the shoe was on the other foot, would your man be accepting of it?It’s in their genes to humiliate, disrespect, lie to and infect their partner whom is required to stay loyal despite the hundreds of other options she could choose from? Fact of the matter is, they straight up risk the best relationships with girls who are frankly out of their league just to get attention or get it in with some random girl. It’s all about ego and the risk of getting caught. It’s not in their genes to have zero self control. Self control is a choice. Men don’t realize it takes wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:26 AM |
| 10 | Came across this last night and I learned a new phrase - “soon to be” open relationship 😂😂😂😂😂I bet she’s waaaay out of his league and he’s only mentioning their relationship to “boost” his value. This is why we don’t give ugly men chances. I learned the hard way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 12:41 AM |
| 19 | I used to think my boyfriend was HV but now I’m not so sure. I need to know if I’m being too harsh.A 35 year old should not need his new gf of 5 months to cook and clean for him. You need to kick him out. This is exactly why it’s not a good idea to move to fast/ offer wife treatment while dating, much less this early. I fear a lot of women are slipping into this trap because of quarantine. Well at least you know now. You don’t have to break up with him you just need to kick him out. He needs to show you he’s a grown ass man who can handle himself. But to be 35, make good money and still be so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 10:52 PM |
| 18 | This makes me so angry that if you aren’t ready to move on then don’t get into a relationship. If you can’t commit/make people aware you are in a relationship.Lmfao 🗣🗣🗣SAY IT LOUDER | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 07:54 PM |
| 24 | This makes me so angry that if you aren’t ready to move on then don’t get into a relationship. If you can’t commit/make people aware you are in a relationship.100% smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 07:54 PM |
| 11 | Is this negging?! I swear I don’t look anything like an alien 😭Girl, in hindsight, I’ve entertained WAY too much foolishness in the past. Ive always vetted pretty well for LTRs but I would allow sooooo many LVM to be my “friends”. Now I can reflect and see how badly they would try to neg sometimes just because I friend zoned them. I had no idea until I learned about negging from this sub. I love that we are all learning together! And thank you for your sweet words! That’s means a lot :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 07:51 PM |
| 30 | Is this negging?! I swear I don’t look anything like an alien 😭Not a drag!! A cool learning moment though for all of us. I think it’s awesome that you reached out to confirm that this is negging. I just wanted to highlight that YES this is negging and YES it worked. Calling it out helps us not fall into their traps. As silly and counter intuitive as these traps seem it would be unwise to pretend that they don’t work, especially when it clearly does work. The fact that this man had the power to make you feel the need to defend your beauty speaks volumes. And… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 07:27 PM |
| 65 | Is this negging?! I swear I don’t look anything like an alien 😭Because to some degree, it worked. Here you are, a beautiful woman, coming to FDS to justify your attractiveness in both your title and the description. Even on the smallest level, his negging worked. To the point where you’re broadcasting his words and reassuring internet strangers that no you are not ugly and no you don’t look like an alien. Scary shit. You know your worth. Delete block and keep it moving. They’re desperate for any reaction and evidently to some extent it worked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?Am I underestimating how willing women are to accept this sort of trade-off...? Especially when it comes to broke guys, yes. Usually they’ll at least have some type of looks. But if she’s out of his league and the answer is clearly not money, a lot of the time it’s bomb sex. Men really really underestimate the power of the female orgasm. My friend is out of shape and ugly but he has a rotation out the door of women who can’t get enough of him sexually, all because he is incredible all around in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?Am I underestimating how willing women are to accept this sort of trade-off...? Especially when it comes to broke guys, yes. Usually they’ll at least have some type of looks. But if she’s out of his league and the answer is clearly not money, a lot of the time it’s bomb sex. Men really really underestimate the power of the female orgasm. My friend is out of shape and ugly but he has a rotation out the door of women who can’t get enough of him sexually all because he’s incredible in bed. I’ve bee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?I made it clear from my very first comment that when it comes to sex alone, size matters. Idk why you need time to keep repeating that. Also big dicks might feel better in thickness and girth. A pencil dick and reach the g spot but it may not give the girl that “filled up” sensation. 5.5 vs 7 depends on which one has the best thickness. Would rather have a thicker 5.5 then a pencil dick 7. But if both were proportional I’ll take the 7 for thickness and visual stimulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?I made it clear from my very first comment that when it comes to sex alone, size matters. Idk why you need time to keep repeating that. Also big dicks might feel better in thickness and girth. A pencil dick and reach the g spot but it may not give the girl that “filled up” sensation. 5.5 vs 7 depends on which one has the best thickness. Would rather have a thicker 5.5 then a pencil dick 7. But if both were proportional I’ll take the 7 for thickness and visual stimulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 02:50 AM |
| 5 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?I made it clear from my very first comment that when it comes to sex alone, size matters. Idk why you need time to keep repeating that. Also big dicks might feel better in thickness and girth. A pencil dick can reach the g spot but it may not give the girl that “filled up” sensation. 5.5 vs 7 depends on which one has the best thickness. Would rather have a thicker 5.5 then a pencil dick 7. But if both were proportional I’ll take the 7 for thickness and visual stimulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?Right. That’s a problem many many men would love to have, especially on this sub :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?Oh brother. No one is shaming anyone 🙄 Most men would kill to have blow jobs on the first date. That obviously went right over your head. I asked how small he was. Only one who thinks that question is “shaming” is you apparently. I wonder why that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?Yes the guy with the smaller dick but incredible foreplay skills. Women hardly come from dick alone. If you’re riding a dick but haven’t orgasmed yet, of course riding a bigger dick will feel better. But if the average guy went to town on your orally and gave you orgasms, you’re literally on cloud nine. And your super wet and ready to please your partner. The dick is average but still feels good and you’re still light heading and buzzing from the orgasm. It actually works out for smaller to aver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 01:56 AM |
| 7 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?Anybody can learn foreplay or use toys. I'm insecure that the intercourse is going to feel mediocre. Ahhh and this is where most men go horribly horribly wrong. Men are by and large, SHIT at foreplay. Most women just don’t know how to tell you and will go along with it. Most women do not orgasm during sex even with dudes with big dicks. Most women cum from the clit. And like you said, the g spot is 4 inches in. It’s not if you hit it, it’s how you hit it. One of my besssssssst lovers was average… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?Favor leans on the man who can make her orgasm the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?So you wouldn't care too much between two guys, one being average and the other one being big? If they are exactly the same in every other aspect, I would choose who ever is better in bed overall. So if the bigger guy is also great at foreplay and his dick feels great during sex, he’s my guy. But if the smaller one is better in bed, then I’d take average. I’m a girl. Girls who say “size doesn’t matter” are lying. Some dicks are too thin or small to give you an adequate amount of pleasure. But th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?Are you really complaining about getting blow jobs on the first date?? Lol that’s unprecedented on this sub. Damn, how small is your penis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Low value behaviour from men is 100% intentional, they know what they're doingI’m happy to hear that sis! Keep your block game strong and protect your precious energy! ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 04:16 PM |
| 18 | Low value behaviour from men is 100% intentional, they know what they're doingAll these “conversations” your having is a waste of time and a ploy to get your attention. He’s you ex and he still can’t even take responsibility for that shit? I know it’s hard but you need to let go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 04:04 PM |
| 39 | How do you postpone intimacy until after commitment?First of all, I would just deny sex with a polite “I just wanna stop here” for a good month. Any man worth a damn will just accept no means no especially in least the first month (the bar is on the floor). When they ask I just say “I’m just not ready” and watch their reactions. Yes, over and over again. Then, if we are still going strong after a month, month and a half, I have the talk “I don’t sleep with men I’m not committed to. It’s not that I’m searching for commitment, I’m just not open to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 09:08 PM |
| 5 | Question about one of my deal breakersI think this is a great question! It highlights how important it is to find out the truth before it gets to the 90 day point. Even though you’re not having sex, all sexual deal breakers should be discussed before sex happens or feelings really start to form. When to talk about this is up to you and depends on how frequently you’re dating and talking during the 90 days. But I would say in general this conversation should be had before sex and commitment happens. And don’t lead him to the answer. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 01:29 PM |
| 5 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouAnd all you had to do was sit calmly and receive it. So happy for YOU sis. You’re radiating energy right now and everyone will want a piece. Choose wisely and don’t rush! Especially when this pandemic is over you’ll have the pick of the litter and it won’t even phase you because you love yourself. Get it girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Need the help and support of this subI would love that 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Need the help and support of this subSIS. It’s been four years. It’s time to work on yourself and move on to someone else, in that order. What are 3-5 goals you would like to achieve for yourself by the end of the year to boost your self esteem? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 07:22 PM |
| 32 | Welp I did it again. I scared him away.You are choosing the wrong guys sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 07:16 PM |
| 4 | Pickmesha level 9000I...really died laughing at this post 😂😂😂 I just can’t. 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Harvard study - Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists.yet women complain, privately in their marriages and publicly to the world, because there's no expectation that they be the breadwinner, Woman are complaining about what?? but if a man earns more (as in 70% of marriages) or works more hours outside the home (as is true in average), he has no right to complain whatsoever, why? Men can complain about whatever he likes. You keep siting evidence that is irrelevant to the point. Sure even if men make more of work more on average, that doesn’t negate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Not all “HVM” are of high value to YOU.TOSS HIM!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Harvard study - Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists.But why are you shocked the expectations have lessened? If a woman works 40 hours a week and her husband works 50, she should be expected to do a little more housework and cooking than him. I mean women went from literally not working at all, staying at home all day to working full time jobs. It seems very obvious to me that if you want a home maker you either marry a SAHW or marry like a teacher who works half days. I’m a teacher. My house is spotless and I cook every night. Some of my best fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Harvard study - Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists.Wait why wouldn’t homemaking be 50-50 if they’re both working? Obviously stay at home mothers are expected to home make. Where is the shock? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 06:58 PM |
| 13 | My sister says HVM only seek feminine womenAll of those activities will make you infinitely more happy than any man on this earth. Men are only there to supplement your life, not center it. Keep doing you. Your HVM will love you FOR you and your interests, not despite them. Imagine giving up the things you love for men you don’t know that don’t give a shit about you... Yikes. Your sister missed the mark on this one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:54 PM |
| 23 | More Bad Advice From RPWLol I understand, I just wish they would channel this energy into something positive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 10:28 PM |
| 94 | More Bad Advice From RPWSad part is, these women who are desperate to be mommies should just become mommies. It’s the twenty first century! All it takes is a trip to the sperm bank. Better yet, foster or adopt! This woman would make a wonderful wonderful mother to an orphan. All that energy she has could be spend changing a child’s life who really needs it. She could feel fulfilled and loved forever. Instead she adopts a 24 year old scrote and supports him through his modeling career. You can’t make this shit up but it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 09:48 PM |
| 89 | What’s with the obsession with splitting everything 50/50?Imagine draining a young girl of her money, taking advantage of her youth an ignorance, and still getting to fuck her while stock piling your salary as she pays for school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 07:27 PM |
| 6 | This poor gal's post in a proposal shaming fb group. I just can't.Omg 😂😂 Well at least she’s proposing while he has the excuse that he’s locked up. Most of these pickme’s are proposing and their boyfriends...literally just refuse to be bothered lmao. Like what’s your man’s excuse sis?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 09:33 PM |
| 5 | You don’t need a pill to understand why marriage is not a good idea and why the vast majority of the general population is not suitable for itPlus. I watched tons of grad students cheat on their fiancée and wives. Men and women you would never believe would cheat. Only to get married or have kids after graduation, their partners totally in the dark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 06:45 PM |
| 6 | Like who says this to somebody they JUST met? I also had a guy tell me his “secret” and all it was is that he jerked off to my picture. I haven’t been single in so long so I’m trying to “play the field” .. not doing too good lol. All advice welcomedThis worthy of a post and I hope you consider making it ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 06:41 PM |
| 12 | Growth through serial Monogamy. (Manbaby grows up?)I mean don’t give yourself so much credit. Just because these girls were forever girlfriends doesn’t mean they weren’t complicit in the process. You took from them and they took from you. When a woman keeps going back to a man she knows isn’t right for her or won’t commit, it becomes less and less about how much she “lOvEs hIm” and more and more about her fear of being alone. One thing women won’t tell you, is that yes we might take you back over and over again but each time, we lose more and mo… | /r/askFDS | 05/04/20 06:17 PM |
| 49 | Hey babes - realized today maybe I haven't been as ruthless as I can/should be because of codependent tendencies.. Any tips from those who've recovered?What I always do when I’m single is I add one more non negotiables to my list based on what was most lacking in my last relationship. My first bf was very sweet but dumb as bricks. Now I will not date a man who I cannot carry an even mildly philosophical conversation. My second bf was very sweet and smart, but he was short and not at my league. 3 years later I learn he cheated whenever he had the opportunity due to insecurity over me being the attractive one in the relationship. His words Now, I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Would you date Damaged guy ?When a man complains about all the things the ex did wrong, he is manipulating you subconsciously to not “fuck up like the ex.” Him: My ex was such a gold digger. She Forced me to buy her designer!! Can you believe it?? You: Well I’m not a gold digger. I’d never ask him for designer. How can I show him in different from his ex? Will he not spend as much on me? See? He’s in your head. It’s a way to train you and make you not want to “fail” like the ex did. Basically all he’s saying is either he’s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM travel with his buddies to a party destination?The chances are extremely high that he will end up cheating. He will drink until he “can’t control himself anymore” so “what happens happens” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Men want nothing more in life than womenThis was really insightful. My take on this though At the end of the day, no one cares enough about men for this to happen. Is that again, men are relying on women to provide that “care” for them. They blame women and their argument still goes back to “but if we tell you the truth you lose attraction for us!!!” You yourself said men crave relationships with women so that one person will care about them. Notice how the burden is still on the woman? So many men talk about this and I see it as a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 02:01 AM |
| 41 | This hit hard“The person who chooses not to love you does” FIFY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:04 PM |
| 44 | Why is this something you would be proud of, or want to share publicly?🤮He happily shares it publicly because he knows pick mes will still date him and men will think this is funny/relatable because they’re similarly porn addicted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 04:54 AM |
| 21 | This sub has made me cry. I've wasted so much time and love. Did I (29F) lose a cheating (with 18F) narcissistic LVM (30M) or a HVM that met me as a Becky, treated me as a Dreamgirl but wanted to get rid of me due to my Beckiness again?So when are you going to accept that he doesn’t love you and he’s not a good person? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:53 AM |
| 38 | This sub has made me cry. I've wasted so much time and love. Did I (29F) lose a cheating (with 18F) narcissistic LVM (30M) or a HVM that met me as a Becky, treated me as a Dreamgirl but wanted to get rid of me due to my Beckiness again?Remember how he swept you off your feet because you were the new hot special thing and his wife was old raggedy and on her way out anyway? Yeah. Now his new young women are the special sexy things and YOU are the old raggedy wife whose on her way out anyway. I mean he’s cheating on you and he still broke up with you and smashed three hot chicks in a weekend while you pine after him? Imagine how his wife felt? You chose a man with terrible character so that you could feel special. Well hope the f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:38 AM |
| 3 | What happens when a Pickmeisha marries up to a HVM? He wanted someone who’s the opposite and divorced her, yet she is still committed to love him UNCONDITIONALLYI couldn’t even get through half of this. How can you say: A) Pickmeisha’s husband it a high value male who is supportive and kind And B) Pickmeisha is a pleaser who cooks and cleans and worships her husband while he completely ignores her, refusing to appreciate her for shit In the same breath? This dude isn’t high value at all and is actually is a flaming pile of shit. You’re a horrible “friend.” I stopped reading when you called her a pick meisha for getting pregnant with her husband and not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:01 AM |
| 54 | What are your "work rules" or hard lines for your office/workplace?It took me until very recently to realize that I no longer develop friendships with men at the office to the point where I really never talk to them about non work related things. I didn’t do this for cool level up reasons. I did it since getting into a relationship with my boyfriend whom I loved very much. I’m an extrovert and I always make really cool connections with the people I work with / go to school with / generally spend a lot of time around. It wasn’t until recently that I realized I s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 11:34 PM |
| 33 | My ex sent me an apology emailIf every woman on FDS just tore her ex apart in a post instead of replying like you have, the world would be a better place. You should be proud of yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Why do pick up artists have a bad reputation? (What difference is there from them and a random fuckboy at the bar)Because watching ugly people try to practice “game” is cringey and uncomfortable for everyone else to watch. Also no one wants to believe these strategies will work on them even though coming from the right person, they would. No one wants to believe they’re dating someone who had to fake emotional intelligence and normal flirtation game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Differences between men's and women's reactions to the one that got awayObviously men will cheat with haggard women, as long as they validate them with their vaginas. We all know this. The OP is specifically talking about whether or not men become “alpha widowed” and my argument is that yes, they do. While they can and will fuck anything that walks, they absolutely do get hung up on the beautiful ones that give them any time of day. Whether that’s their pretty friend who friend zoned them for attention, or cam girls/ insta thots they follow. Even if they can’t sleep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 05:25 PM |
| 13 | Differences between men's and women's reactions to the one that got awaySome women tried to argue that men are the same way. Reds would respond that men aren't as hypergamous as women and have an easier time letting go of an old girlfriend, even if she was amazing. I'm leaning towards this response based on personal experience, but I'd like to know what y'all think. Never listen to what they say watch what they do. Men here act like they’re so innocent and simple. “Just give me sex and food that’s enough!!” But the truth is most men are simps for a beautiful woman. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 02:43 PM |
| 4 | What does FDS think of feminine men? He keeps saying everyone thinks he is gay but is obsessed with saying he isnt?Are you attracted to feminine man? Why are you bending over backwards to try to force a relationship with a man who more concerned about looking straight then getting to know you? I When you drop him he will be desperately hounding the next girl who gives him the time of day. Next him, it’s simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 02:30 PM |
| 4 | I lold ☺You laughed and I cried 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Where did "I Am The Prize" Go?Alright I’m losing interest in this conversation, sorry. Agree to disagree. Good luck out there. I found what works for me. Hopefully you find the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 11:37 PM |
| 40 | AUNTIE FDSI understand your shock, so this isn’t a judgement against you, but if that ever happens again I need you to shut that little kid down immediately. Strike fear into his heart “EXCUSE ME. WHAT just came out of your mouth?” And if you don’t want to have to teach him why his words will never be uttered even around his sister again, then leave that job to his parents and march him by the ear to his mother or father and make him tell them exactly what he called his sister. You panicked when an 11 yea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Where did "I Am The Prize" Go?I’m not going to go tit for tat because for every response it’s obvious we are both going to say “replace men for women tHeN yOu aRe Right” So it’s fruitless. I think in a perfect world, a man will pursue the woman he desires the most (that is his biological response, you simply cannot deny this) and the woman vets the man. In this dating process, men are more vulnerable. But women need to be picky and choosy because the men who choose to marry are the men we are spending our lives with. These a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Where did "I Am The Prize" Go?No girl does. No shit, nobody likes having to constantly chase after the other, your boyfriend just doesnt dare say otherwise lest it appear as weakness which would result in you losing attraction for him. Why would my boyfriend say “I don’t like chasing you” out loud. Within a relationship “chasing” takes the form of not taking your partner for granted and always making sure you are making an effort. That’s all. And yeah no shit men would like to be lazy in dating too. But men are the ones who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Where did "I Am The Prize" Go?We view pick mes the way RP men view betas. Men want pick mes because it makes their lives easier. In practice, it’s always revealed that they treat women they pursued much much better for much much longer than the pick me is treated. Your comfort is not my concern. Women have to put their needs first. Men, you will put your needs first. I desire a good man who pursues me (3 years later my partner is always pursuing, and I make it worth his while). Perhaps you desire a girl who pursues you. That… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 07:32 PM |
| 8 | Pickmeisha told LVM that she likes himGlad I found your comment because SAME 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Where did "I Am The Prize" Go?Men are natural pursuers. Men think they want pick me’s but they’re usually the girls they lose interest in the fastest. It might not make sense but it’s just the way it is. Women who chase men turn men off. Men are wired to pursue and “earn” their women. This is why sluts and easy women are a turn off to men. It goes both ways. Sorry, you can’t CMV on this. It goes both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Not all “HVM” are of high value to YOU.Thank you so much for sharing your story. Sometimes it feels like you can’t have BOTH a porn free, empathetic guy AND a guy who is ambitious, romantic and sexually compatible. By the end of your comment I was surprised to see that you’ve been with a guy for four years with out ambition, who lives at home, lacks a “real” job and doesn’t work out. I’d keep an eye open. Some men are as loyal as their options. They get comfortable and keep their women because it allows them to be loved without putti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 05:03 PM |
| 5 | Where did "I Am The Prize" Go?Because most women know that they should be healthy, in good shape and clean in order to attract a wider array of men. Physical beauty standards for women are everywhere. We know what an outwardly well kept women looks like. FDS focuses on the mental more than anything. Women must first realize when they’re being doormats, gas lighted and “pick me’s” before a lot of change can occur. Once women realize that they may find that they need to work on their physical and mental by going to the level u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 04:42 PM |
| 3 | If you have questions about dump his ass or if a man is a HVM read women’s pitiful stories about their lives with their bf/husbands that are everywhere else on Reddit. Those posts can give clarity like nothing else.Maybe I have the name too? Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:31 PM |
| 5 | Where did "I Am The Prize" Go?FDS self improvement sub is called FDSlevelupstrategy or something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 02:29 PM |
| 24 | Man gud, womyn bad!“Don’t check his phone cause he’s still cheating even though you’re fucking him and feeding him” So what’s the list to keep a man from cheating? Doesn’t exist? Not surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:27 PM |
| 17 | He should always make you FEEL like you are the most beautiful woman to him.HAH imagine if we were brutally honest about their short comings. Make a comment about a woman’s looks she will feel pain but ultimately rebuild herself. Shame a man about his penis size or ability in bed...or COMPARE him to your best lover? Oh my god the man will spend his last breath obsessing over your comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:24 PM |
| 11 | Rihanna says she'll have kids with OR without a partner!!!!So so so so so many poor women are single mothers of unplanned babies. It’s incredible how even these women find ways to survive no matter what. Minimal to No child support from bums...no help. Insane. Happy for your friend!! She’s going to be a great mother to a lucky baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 05:55 AM |
| 33 | Rihanna says she'll have kids with OR without a partner!!!!Most men in her wealth bracket are pigs. Attractive men with money and endless endless options many many times end up being pigs in one way or another. I feel like Russell Wilson and like Obama are the only faithful rich men out there and that’s still me wishing and praying it’s true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 05:53 AM |
| 8 | I realised my budding relationship was going down an abusive path and broke it off32?! Oh no no no. You can’t teach an old dog new tricks. You dogged a bullet. He was unstable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 05:47 AM |
| 53 | Not all “HVM” are of high value to YOU.Excellent point! And it’s evident you have very high emotional intelligence because you know yourself well so you calmly and rationally did what was best for you both. This is part of why I titled this “Not every HVM Is high value to YOU. ” Although his lack of emotional intelligence was a deal breaker for you, it doesn’t mean he’s thrown in the low value male pile in the trash (unless he was emotionally abusive) and perhaps you breaking up with him for it will make him a spectacular partner for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:47 PM |
| 90 | Arguing about her breast size with a scrote she doesn’t even know... yikesShe really had to bring out the conversion chart? I’m embarrassed for this woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Messages from my narc ex who threatened and coerced (including violently) me into an abortion. He just got out of prison and is now living about 15 mins away from me... yayYou know what you have to do. Continue keeping yourself safe and I’m excited for your move! It’ll all be for a reason. Good luck sis, you got this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Low self esteem is dangerous, as evidenced in Tiger KingAbsolutely. In the end it’s nothing but the battle of the abused. It’s sad honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 12:19 AM |
| 92 | We made it on the "controversial Reddit communities " Wiki page!Don’t forget ladies, if a stranger is male and wants to have sex with you, it is oppressive to say “no.” 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 11:32 PM |
| 7 | Low self esteem is dangerous, as evidenced in Tiger KingI agree with everything you said. The only difference between Carol and all the 17 year old “husbands” and “wives” those predators took advantage of is Carol took over her husbands farm and turned it into an empire. Then got herself the most ride or die man she could ever find and decided she wasn’t going to give a single fuck about anything other than her tigers and her fans. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 11:28 PM |
| 5 | Low self esteem is dangerous, as evidenced in Tiger Kingin my pickme days It’s not about accepting pick mes. It’s about understanding why they are the way that they are. The fact that you were once a pick me proves that women need to chance to see the light before they are battered and criticized. A lot of women have been shamed for doing things we have all done in the past due to socialization. The only pick me’s that deserve to be properly gone off on are the ones who are too far gone and are actively hurting other women with their actions. Having … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Low self esteem is dangerous, as evidenced in Tiger KingI don’t think it’s necessary to try to quantify who is better. It is equally Important to bash each and everyone individually for their unique crimes against the innocent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 11:08 PM |
| 6 | Low self esteem is dangerous, as evidenced in Tiger KingEndless loyalty and how has he rewarded her for it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 11:06 PM |
| 32 | Is he serious????!And still expect women not to leave their ass or cheat back. Like tf? Why are they so comfortable cheating when they’d lose their minds if their girl ever flirted with another guy? When cute guys flirt with taken girls all the time. The mental gymnastics are insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:51 PM |
| 23 | Messages from my narc ex who threatened and coerced (including violently) me into an abortion. He just got out of prison and is now living about 15 mins away from me... yayIt is terrifying how many women relate to this. How many women are silently juggling this battle even after they’ve “escaped”. My best friend is dealing with it right now. It’s terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:47 PM |
| 20 | Why do men seem to get upset when they see an overweight woman having confidence?I believe this is what angers them the most. A woman who doesn’t care about appealing to the male gaze with her body is still 50Xs more likely to be hit on and have a romantic life than the incels and even average men who complain about it. Fat women get married to good men everyday. It pisses them off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:30 PM |
| 79 | Why men obsessing with virginity, high N-count, and women's age has nothing to do with biologyMake no mistake. It’s is full of incel content. Instead of posting “no women will fuck me” they post “all women are evil whores”. The former will get removed. The latter will get 300 upvotes and a gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 02:23 AM |
| 26 | Are their any traditional hypergamous fds women?Men have redefined hypergamy as women finding any excuse to dump her husband and find a new one. They say no matter how much you support your wife, the wife will always be looking to dump you for someone richer. They’ve made it so men cannot possibly be held accountable for their actions. Go figure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 10:33 PM |
| 153 | How did you deal with the “I can cook so there’s no need for us to go out” guy when using online dating?How did you deal with I don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 06:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Short men and fat women should not base their attractiveness on their facial/body aestheticsSo do you date women who are 2-3 points below your league (in terms of facial attractiveness and fitness) ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/20 03:38 PM |
| 2 | I finally dumped him, and I’m feeling sad. How do I stop caring?So proud of you!!! Embrace the hurt, it will last a few months minimum, but don’t drown yourself in it. In fact, keep your self as busy as possible during the quarantine by reading, journalling, catching up with friends and WORKING OUT. Use this time to get summer ready! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:01 PM |
| 336 | “Put down like a dog” I hope these men are never blessed by anything a woman gives ever again,even casual kindness ever again.Oh this is tame compared the the average post on any given day on most men’s rights dominated forums (MGTOW/Redpill/Blackpill/whateverthefuck). This is tame. And they want to ban FDS for being the “female hate sub”. They advocate for the rape and torture of women for saying “no”. We advocate for each woman’s right to say no. Look up the stats. Men are terrifying, capable of monstrosities. This is exactly why we have to build ourselves up first and foremost. Now, men grow up watching very violent… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:18 AM |
| 3 | If your boyfriend/husband is uncomfortable with one of your guy friends because he "knows their intentions," 90% of the time your husband/boyfriend has those same intentions toward someone else, and that's why he's suspicious of your male friends.Okay THANK YOU! Not once ounce of nuance or fresh perspective in this post. I was like dude...if your gfs entertaining these dudes right in your face she has literally no respect for you lol. Like take the L and move on but don’t act like this is some revelation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 12:24 AM |
| 31 | Double Standard: Men ALWAYS ask women for nudes and to take on the brunt of the risks to their career and reputation. But they NEVER offer to send any backDo you mean dick pics with FACES in them? That I could see but there has never been a shortage of unsolicited dick pics...at least not since the camera was invented. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 12:11 AM |
| 58 | Dealing with jealousyTrust your gut, it’s telling you the truth sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 12:01 AM |
| 6 | How have you guys gotten over being dumped?Holy....I kept scrolling and scrolling....it never stopped. Hope sis gets serious, serious psychiatric help :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 11:59 PM |
| 102 | Daily reminder that men are seven times more likely to leave a sick partner than women are. Also, what a major asshole (full text in comments)I doubt a lot of of could stomach making it that far...Evidently for good reason 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 02:40 AM |
| 4 | Went on a great date right before the lockdown...And I commend you for acknowledging that in your post! And your post serves as a great example why. When girls build up men they don’t know as “high value” it sets themselves up for additional and unnecessary heartbreak. Just trying to protect our sisters hearts and minds! Sorry he ended up being a scrote. Good riddance to fickle men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 12:52 AM |
| 25 | Male Dismisses Claims that PornHub is knowingly facilitating Sex Trafficking and Child Pornography because one of the sources links to Fox News. It’s better to potentially be supporting child rape than take a risk defending a conservative!You really out there on the front lines sis! Happy to see your foot remains on their necks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 04:51 AM |
| 41 | Went on a great date right before the lockdown...This is exactly why I always shut it down when women on here claim to be dating a HVM after a few dates. Takes 18 months to get to know a person. Mainly because 1) The honeymoon phase dries up and men get shitty fast when they’re comfortable and familiar 2) Stress inducing life events occur and you can see how the man handles it. Usually, he can’t. Unfortunately for you #2 happened after the first date. Well you saw his true colors and/or maybe the sparks didn’t fly for him. Either way it’s impo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 02:58 AM |
| 36 | Any real life experience with men changing for the better?You mean a fairytale sis? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 11:18 PM |
| 3 | I feel I missed out and will be shamed if I want the same things everyone else had.So all that and you don’t even mention the woman who got MARRIED to you. I think this information will be very telling. What’s the deal with that? How could you get married if you’re that ugly and fat? | /r/askFDS | 25/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 9 | I'm not big on the idea of a man completely financially supporting me...Cause you’ve been paying for them and courting them. That’s the man’s job. It doesn’t make logical sense, but men are built to chase, court and protect. If you do their job they get bored and leave. They straight up tell you YOURE lucky to be with them. What more evidence do you need that your way doesn’t work? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:02 AM |
| 5 | Honestly, what he said ‼️Lmfao but actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 07:06 AM |
| 4 | Unpopular Opinion: There's no way women hit the wall at 30Please make a post about this because the single older women in my life are crushing it lol. I will say this: the wall doesn’t exists for women who want a family. Women who don’t care to have kids or have already been there and done that are seriously crushing life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Privilege and genderI couldn’t watch the video for 10 seconds. Old man in a wig. Bored CEO who bought every sexual experience he could so he bought a woman’s body to fill the time. Mentally ill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 11:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingOh my gosh yes! I’ve been saying this on PPD but no one wants to do it! Men don’t want to date below their league. They refuse to do it. Even if they think a girl is their looks match, if she didn’t attracted to him, she isn’t attracted to him. Guys say they don’t want to be settled for but then beg women to settle for them. I’m glad you’re few of the rational ones who will do what he needs to do to get what he wants. The only thing that sets you a apart is your low libido. Which again goes to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 08:43 PM |
| 167 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.The gfs first message: Shows her instinctual, gut reaction as a woman (barring her addressing the side chick at all) Next message: Gf is gaslighted by her boyfriend Following message: Bf gaslights his gf some more Last message: Bf wins battle. Gaslight complete. GF transforms to pick meisha in order to justify her staying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingHonestly, I wish more couples would have this honest conversation before it’s too late. People are too proud to sit down and say “look, we can both cheat if we want to. You could go on an all boys trip and fuck a 20 year old and I’ll never know. Or I could go to work every everyday and flirt with my “work husband” who is also 6’6 and pretend it means nothing. We could realize that we could both easily be selfish and half in half out by going that thrilling route first and feeling bad later. Or w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingYou know what. I respect your point of view because that’s exactly how I feel about men and their inevitable polygamy (specifically cheating). I understand your points. I really do. I just hope you consider the pain men’s cheating causes women does not account for the rationalization men have for it. Men can excuse it any way they want to, but the damage it does to women is irreparable, just as the reverse is true for men. During the honeymoon phase, the man is enamored with his woman. He is har… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingOkay so basically how you see women is how I see men. They’re as faithful as their options. And I realize what’s “worse” is subjective. What’s worse? Have your super happy two-sides are blissfully in love relationship burn up in flames because one person was too wear to say no to random pussy? Or to have a potentially one sided, both parties are not on the same page relationship where one side cheats cause what the hell? And the relationship ends. I’d rather know the relationship was dying than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 07:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingI’m tired of arguing the point. If nothing else, have a taste of your own damn medicine. “Men can cheat but it’s okay cause they are still attracted to their wives after plowing the other girl” COPE “Women only has eyes for you, but if she meets Chad, there’s nothing you can do she will leave you” COPE “Women are more likely to divorce men. Not cause he cheated or abused her, cause Chad came along. She leaves her home and her kids for Chad at the age of 55” COPE You all live in a world where men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingI don't need statistical proof about it. I have seen it enough times to believe it is the usual. You are free to dismiss my opinon, I would do it if I was in your place. As I said before. I don't do double standards. So you can ask statistical proof from me to validate what I am saying (and I did support it with evidence). But say that you don’t need to cause you’ve seen it too many times? I don't do double standards. Then don’t ask people to back their claims up with proof if you cannot and wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingI literally said “sure correlation, not causation.” Still waiting one one ounce of statistical proof that anything you’ve said about woman only being in love with one man at a time is true. Even research that shows mere correlation would be a great starting point, as it would show your believes were grounded in something other than your imagination. And not surprising you “don’t believe in consequences” for men who cheat. I think that says it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingMen’s fear of hypergamy and their defense of cheating under the guise of polygamy breeds such a self fulfilling prophecy it’s astounding. If you believe in hypergamy and still chose to be exclusive with a woman, then you are deciding to be the best man you can be but understand that if she, for whatever reason, leaves you for someone else - it will be worth the risk. It also means you understand that she won’t cheat on you, at least not for long because she will dump you and money branch. Men ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 05:30 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingI just explained from my personal experience and the experience of people I know that nothing shuts off a woman’s willingness to work on a relationship like a man cheating. I understand that it’s anecdotal, and that you’re the only one allowed to present opinions scientific without proof, but there it is. If you know men cheat way more than women in marriages. And you know cheating is something that poisons a relationship not quite like anything else And you know women initiate a majority of div… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 05:09 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingThe fact that y’all think women can’t cheat and still have feelings for their partners is fascinating. Sure, if she falls into an emotional and sexual affair with a dude then I can see that. But that is the same for men. No mental gymnastics can justify that, I do not care. How do you feel about the idea a woman can fuck a Chad and still love her partner? This is totally and completely true. She likely won’t, but in the right circumstance where she’s let’s say on a business trip and he’s there, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 04:59 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingI meant to say women initiate divorce the most, my mistake, but it supports my next point: Do you have anything to support the idea that the case you described there is common let alone representative of the majority of divorces? https://ifstudies.org/blog/number-1-in-2018-who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-infidelity-in-america Yes. Any simple google search will show you men are more likely to cheat in marriages. As someone who was cheated on, (and a woman with many female friends in the same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 04:48 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingMy apologies. I misread the comment. But what do you think about a man’s ability to risk the love of his life and his entire family just to sleep with a different woman? As you know it happens all of the time and they always beg and beg for another chance. How is this not worse or equally bad to a woman cheating? And you’re a man so of course you can justify everything in your favor. I just hope men understand that once they cross that line, the relationship will never be the same. The only time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 04:35 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingNope. You could be fucking your man every night. If he goes on a business trip or a week away with the boys, he will not be able to control himself. I think men who actively seek out affairs might not be getting sex at home. But most men, when given the opportunity to have sex with an attractive girl will risk losing their families to sleep with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 04:20 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingIt’s this mindset that causes most divorces to be initiated by men. Men make vows to women, turn around and cheat on them, knowing they’re breaking their promise (vows or not, a promise is a promise) knowing it will destroy their partner, and do it anyway. Women leave them because they’re utterly heartbroken, find someone hotter, taller and richer then men turn around and say WoMeN r NeVer SaTiCeFied. HYPERGAMY!!” Seriously watching you men struggle to change women’s minds about you has only ill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 04:16 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingNo, it will break her heart into a million pieces and she will very likely leave him if he talks about it. Why are you playing dumb? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 04:11 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheatingMen’s cheating is worse because they’re willing to throw away a relationship that is perfectly good just to plow another woman cause the opportunity is there. Men risk their entire families all of the time just to have sex with someone new. They’ll risk their wives health by having sex unprotected and utterly ruin the relationship they once had. What men don’t know is monkey branching doesn’t usually start until the man is caught pursuing other women. Nothing kills a woman’s love like feeling sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Will men change for the “right” woman?This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Why don’t women seem to be angry about polygyny the way men are angry about hypergamy?Next you’ll say men and women both commit equal amounts of rapes and murders nation and world wide. Go on, link the statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/20 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t women seem to be angry about polygyny the way men are angry about hypergamy?Fair enough. As a woman, I can’t identify with the rage, but that’s probably a really good thing for me. Good luck out there. Hope y’all find somebody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/20 05:28 PM |
| 6 | Why don’t women seem to be angry about polygyny the way men are angry about hypergamy?Men refuse to accept that they are left only after they fuck yo repeatedly or cheated. I only had eyes for my ex and he cheated. We broke up and I just so happened to meet a guy who was more handsome and attractive in everywhere. No doubt he is screaming hypergamy through the roof tops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/20 03:52 PM |
| 7 | Why don’t women seem to be angry about polygyny the way men are angry about hypergamy?Yeah and men get enraged at literally everything a woman does. The difference is hoards of men sit online and bitch and moan and threaten to shoot up malls over it. OP is asking why isn’t the anger the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/20 03:50 PM |
| 16 | Can I be a HVM if I have flaws?You are a LVM. At best you could get yourself a pick meisha, poor girl. You’ll never stop viewing women as holes to fill until you give up porn and escorts for a year. You probably won’t make the sacrifice, so this will be your life. | /r/askFDS | 21/03/20 12:45 AM |
| 13 | Don’t make the first move, he’ll feel he settledShe left him cause he either was preparing to cheat on her or already did. Ever notice how almost every girls been cheated on but no man EVER mentions that part of the break up? “She left me for some other dude hYpErGaMy even tho he’s ugly for NO reason at all waaaahhhh” He had is eye else were obviously. She’s a smart woman who takes what she wants and leaves it when it doesn’t serve her anymore. Good for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 12:26 AM |
| 9 | What kind of woman does this make me?You can do anything you want whenever you want. I will say it’s a lot more exhausting pretending to be a HVW who doesn’t require shallow validation from LVM at all times, than actually being one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 10:38 PM |
| 32 | Weed out pornsick men in secondsThis is so sick to get teen girls to play porn theme music to their fathers. These teens think this is just an innocent thing meanwhile this “challenge” will just be another porn category in about 2 days. Men sexualize everything. All this challenge does is breed teenage Pick Mes at an alarming rate. The whole point is 1) Free advertising for porn hub. Girls will get twice as popular doing anything porn related on their videos. Creepy men and porn talent scouts will find these teens and groom th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 03:01 PM |
| 11 | Beware of scrotes trying to neg for your social media girls! Never engage seriously with any male on here 🤣🤣 (this pervert is still begging for pics LOL)Lmfaoooo that loser messages me every once and a while but I’ve always decline before reading his shit - no pun intended 😂 Glad to see I haven’t been missing much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 02:08 AM |
| 42 | FDS this is why we need you at PFR especially during this pandemic! Please help us help women going through traumaAnd you know he didn’t stutter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Is a little “mate-guarding” all that bad of a thing?I sympathize with you. It’s a tough balance. As an out going girl who loves to travel, make friends and party, I can admit I probably don’t make it super easy on my partners. But as I’ve gotten older (I’m 25) I’ve found I have to be cognizant and aware of how my behavior and decisions impact my partner. I’ve been in 2 ltrs and in both my bfs have been very passive in this way. It frustrates me sometimes cause it makes me feel like they don’t feel possessive over me (not even a little bit) but at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Is a little “mate-guarding” all that bad of a thing?Unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Is a little “mate-guarding” all that bad of a thing?Okay and? I don’t date women so it’s not my problem. Plus I’m not a hypocrite about it so it’s doublely not my problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Is a little “mate-guarding” all that bad of a thing?Oh, what you do while single is irrelevant so in this case I agree with your post. What you’ve said so far I think is perfectly reasonable and healthy. Men think displaying apathy to women is the answer to not looking like a simp. I think you hit the nail on that head for what’s appropriate. Nothing makes me more turned on than when I notice my man peacocking when we go out and I look amazing. Sex is always insane after. I wish my partner would do it more. I can tell he tries not to let his emot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Is a little “mate-guarding” all that bad of a thing?So what does an attractive post on social media that would warrant your gf to specifically say “I bet girls are blowing up your inbox right now” look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Is a little “mate-guarding” all that bad of a thing?I think most of what you’ve described above is certainly reasonable and normal. However I would never date a guy who posts selfies on Instagram. These situations should happen organically, not because one party is thirsty seeking validation outside of the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 05:41 PM |
| 2 | The reason people moved on from using mystery methodI can’t believe it’s this complicated to be a man lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 12:48 PM |
| 74 | The Parasite is lost without the host ;) (I HAVE BEEN PT 2)Still appears you care way more than him when you take a step back and look at it all objectively. He’s letting you have a false sense of validation, knowing that he can still get you to write paragraphs years later is the real validation. It’s your life of course so do you. But its the FDS perspective not to send trash men blocks of text, which I agree with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 09:54 PM |
| 88 | The Parasite is lost without the host ;) (I HAVE BEEN PT 2)2 years of all that and you’re still exerting this amount of energy on the same man 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 09:49 PM |
| 3 | "Wife Goggles" Do not existI’m assuming that means you’re answer is yes. Case in point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 08:26 PM |
| 5 | "Wife Goggles" Do not existI don’t have destain for betas. I love betas. That’s why we fuck and marry beta. Duh. See how this works? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 08:23 PM |
| 34 | So tempting but so not worth the aggroThe TIRE SHOP?! The bar is on the ground. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 08:22 PM |
| 6 | "Wife Goggles" Do not existKeep telling yourself that lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 08:16 PM |
| 9 | "Wife Goggles" Do not existBuuuut he never gets rid of the antique car. He can’t bring himself to. That car gave him its best years, that’s why he still polishes it and gives it the very same good treatment he had been giving it for years. That car was loyal. Lol well yeah of course he still polishes it and takes care of it. That’s how he (men lol you right now) justify taking the red shiny corvette out every once and a while is no harm no foul. Y’all genuinely believe that and that is the problem women have. Anyone can t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 07:24 PM |
| 10 | "Wife Goggles" Do not existYet if given the choice to be with her and only her for the rest of your life, never being allowed to try out the young hot thing you got to smash, would you do so happily? No. You wouldn’t. It’s easy to love someone. It’s near impossible to love them and forsake all else for them and do so enthusiastically when given other options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 07:10 PM |
| 8 | "Wife Goggles" Do not existYep. Except in reality although he loves and cherishes his car, he still stares longingly at new models. Hell even other old antique cars. When is antique car pops a tire and a brand new corvette shows up and offers him a ride, sure he might begrudgingly deny the free lift in a fast sexy car once or twice, but let this happen every months year after year, he’s gunna ride in other cars. The car owner will argue taking other newer cars for a spin is harmless, but once the corvette finds out, it’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 07:06 PM |
| 33 | Posts like these are SO frustrating to readHonestly I’m impressed that’s she has so much clarity around the issue. I disagree that she don’t wanna be saved. I think she’s spent years getting gaslighted and has finally accepted reality for what it is. I think people underestimate how hard it is to leave someone you have been with for years, who used to love you the way you love them (let’s be real- they were way more in love with you, they chased the shit out of you) but then as the years go on they take you for granted. They turn back to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | So bored due to this forced quarantine by my state that I almost went out with a LVMSo your only sources of excitement are an ex and a LVM? Send funny memes with your friends. Web chat them. Read, fix your resume. Join an online game or team. HVW to lean on themselves to be happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 02:07 AM |
| 8 | If each gender temporarily became the opposite one, they would no longer have problems with one another.Women's main issues with men seem to be their "entitlement" to sex and greater propensity towards violence and rage. They see these men as entitled because they simply cannot relate to having such an extraordinarily strong urge for sex. If they were suddenly placed into an average man's testosterone-riddled body, they would INSTANTLY realize that what looks like entitlement to them is actually a desperate, inescapable desire. They would realize that not getting this constantly-nagging, all-consu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 05:50 PM |
| 19 | Are men *really* attracted to average-looking women?Men fuck their pillows. What’s your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 05:00 AM |
| 6 | People who’ve dated both genders, what do you think about each, as relating to PPD’s frequent debates?My prediction: All genders act selfishly it’s just manifested in different ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 11:49 PM |
| 28 | Just heard from a guy I have a queen vibe surrounding me... Thanks to FDS no one gives me shit anymoreYour response: Yeah, I get that a lot :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 10:41 PM |
| 16 | Male Friends?Throughout the years I’ve always been friends with guys. But now at 25 I realize I have only one that is like a brother to me. That I don’t believe would ever cross the line. The rest all came and went when I got a boyfriend. I’m still cordial with them but I know they won’t hit me up for real until I’m single again. Meanwhile I spent all of Sunday with my best male friend getting drunk and catching up on life. It was great. | /r/askFDS | 16/03/20 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Women’s sexual fluidity/bicuriosity: what do you think it means?Yess for me I think back on specific sexual encounters I’ve had in the past. Gets me every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 01:59 AM |
| 9 | Seeking Advice : How was it dating as a virgin as a late teen /through adulthood ?I lost my virginity at 20. I never told dudes I was a virgin. I simply said no to sex every time they tried. It wasn’t until I started seeing my ex. We dated maybe 2 months where I would say no but we’d do other things. Finally when I realized that I liked him and wouldn’t break things off with him like the others, I told him the truth. He was shocked but appreciative. We dated for 4 more months and even past exclusivity before I had sex with him. He made sure it was extremely special, gentle an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:28 AM |
| 18 | The absolute state of r/amitheasshole: Sub says OP would be the asshole if she exposes a gross, cheating scroteThat whole thread is pink pilled af. I’m not reading the rest. Another day in a man’s delusional world. And we’re all supposed to act like it’s not a circus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Dating with Kids Post-DivorceWell you can certainly talk the talk. You can tell women exactly what the want to hear. And as evidenced by you coming to FDS to hear the most ruthless criticisms, you come back confident and assured you’ve done everything you need to be to be the kind of man a good woman would sacrifice having to raise children that aren’t hers for. There will be lines of woman at your door step hearing what you have to say, sucking it up and doing something they don’t want to do in order to be with the rare go… | /r/askFDS | 15/03/20 04:09 AM |
| 3 | I need some outside perspectives on this situation with my bossYou’re not crazy. Mostly my reply was for any woman in your position. The scary part is seeing the truth for what it is at a different vantage point. But when you’re in the thick of it, working in close proximity to an attractive seemingly high value family man who “shockingly” chooses you to confide in after days of giving off flirty vibes (it’s true - the longer looks, the close proximity. It is intentional on his part you are reading it correctly make no mistake. He’s doing it on purpose.) It… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Dating with Kids Post-DivorceYou state in another comment that you are equally or more so to blame for your marriage. Of course cheating is never the answer, but typically when a man cheats, it’s cause he’s thinking with his dick (unless in a dead bedroom, it’s basically expected at that point and accepted by society for him to cheat). Otherwise yes a lot of men will cheat just cause they have the opportunity to While the same can be true for woman, typically when a woman cheats, it’s cause she’s begged and begged and begge… | /r/askFDS | 14/03/20 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Dating with Kids Post-DivorceI don’t have kids and I would never date a man who does. A lot of men with kids date so inappropriately. Having the woman in the house, moving her in, being with her even though the kids are uncomfortable. I personally think it’s very selfish behavior. I also will not play mommy to offspring that’s not mine. | /r/askFDS | 14/03/20 03:42 PM |
| 2 | I don't have to have pre-marital relations, but I have something a wife might want to know about.You have to tell her. You should think long and hard about why it is ACTUALLY so important for you to wait marriage. If it was all the morality stuff you said at the beginning great, but as soon as I started reading your post, it became more and more apparent that maybe waiting is actually a defense tool you are using in order to protect yourself and secure a woman in a marriage so it’s morally and legally harder for her to leave you if your sex life will leave her unsatisfied for the rest of he… | /r/askFDS | 14/03/20 03:19 PM |
| 8 | I need some outside perspectives on this situation with my bossYou both were flirting since the interview then he pounces on your alone trapped in a car the second he and his wife separate (you don’t even know if that’s true). Look you can do what you want but please understand this is the nature of most “HVM” yes even the ones who dare to mention a family in the presence of an attractive young woman. If given the chance, many men will cheat with young woman like you (not saying you). The thing is, while your boss will continue to make you feel special, lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 02:29 PM |
| 38 | I need some outside perspectives on this situation with my bossIf I had a quarter for every time someone posts “It’s been 2 weeks and he’s a HVM buuut...” Smh like...come on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 07:11 PM |
| 10 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.Your username checks tf out 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Mom wants to transform me into a pickmeshaI used a fun title... Clickbait is very in now. And so is making up shit and lying too apparently. I asked you “how would going to his house after work make you a pick me? If you love him, that means this isn’t a new relationship. Do you live too far? That would make sense.” You said “Because I don’t want to drive in the dark” I said “oh okay. Try doing something nice for your mom and have an adult conversation. Compromise” You: YOU THINK IF I DONT DRIVE TO MY BFS HOUSE I DONT LOVE HIM EVERYONE … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Mom wants to transform me into a pickmeshaGirl it’s daylight savings where I live. I get off from work and it’s not dark until 8. I asked for context because idk where you live or know your circumstances are. I very clearly ASKED you why you can’t go to his house. It’s obvious you do GO to his “bachelor pad” on the weekends so don’t act like you’re so above going there. I asked you what makes going after work different. I even gave the example of him living too far. I ASKED and Once you gave your ANSWER, I never once brought it up again… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Mom wants to transform me into a pickmeshaSeriously, clean up your house and see what happens. Especially saying I don't love someone because I don't want to travel to him during a work week, that's kinda mean. What? Where did this come from? Hope you’re not insinuating I ever said that sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Mom wants to transform me into a pickmeshaOkay good luck then. Took a look at the thread and pretty much every suggestions thrown out is met with push back with a reason as to why it won’t work out. Your culture, your mom loves him (but loves your sisters ex more?) his cold bachelor pad, your mom wants you to be a pick meisha etc. etc. we don’t know your life so everything we say will be met with a reason why you can’t. And that’s okay, some questions can’t be answered without context. Unless you type out our entire situation and all of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:23 PM |
| 48 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.Another MVP! Thanks sis. Maybe this gives him an extra centimeter of neck?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Mom wants to transform me into a pickmeshaIt doesn’t matter if it’s cultural for parents to love their kids SOs at their homes. What matters is your mom is over it. I’m wondering why you’re reluctant to talk to her? Sounds like you just want to accuse her trying to make you a pick me rather than get to the bottom of why she doesn’t like your bf there when she’s not home. Moving in with him would be a grave mistake. If you don’t even want to drive to your bfs for the night why would you entertain moving in with him? How far does he live … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:05 PM |
| 6 | Mom wants to transform me into a pickmeshaHmm maybe you’re mom is a pickmeisha in other ways, but for this exact issue it’s more about her not wanting him in the house than her forcing you into his bed. I make good money and am spending a year living at home to save to buy a house. If you are living as an adult in your parents home, you have to abide by their rules, especially if it’s for free or reduced rent. They might not be logical all of the time, but you need to sit and talk with her and brainstorm solutions for this problem. I’m … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:51 PM |
| 74 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.For Americans. I checked and it’s 330 pounds and he’s 5’8 You’re the real MVP 🏅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:38 PM |
| 1 | The double standard for male and female promiscuity is totally justifiedYou mean you brought this up to explain why women are called sluts, whores and holes simply for doing the same thing men are? Did you write this to educate MEN that if a woman wants to practice safe sex that’s her right, just as it’s his right to ignore her and date who he wants? Oh no. Just another post explaining to women why they’re dehumanized on a daily basis having sex with men (ironically half the posts on this thread is woe is me women women fuck me.) You’re post is tired and boring. Wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 07:33 PM |
| 5 | The double standard for male and female promiscuity is totally justifiedMen are jealous of the SMV and that’s why they shame. They despise female promiscuity but are slaves to it - evidenced by their dependency on porn. Women hate men but can’t stop dating and fucking the ones they’re attracted to to. One is not worse than the other. Men are just louder (and generally more violent rage filled) on the internet. Until they are truly separatist from women, it doesn’t matter how much the scream that women are whores for sleeping with everyone but them, or other men befo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 02:26 PM |
| 23 | Conflicted about a friendSadly, some women have been socialized to seek the approval of men so much that they never spent any time actually developing hobbies or (dare I say it) that much of a personality (and even if they do have these things, they’re shoved to the back of their consciousness). I have a lot of compassion for pick mes. If they ever start having a change of heart and want to stop centering their world around men, I am here for them. But in my day to day, I don’t have the time to coddle them and obsess ov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 06:18 AM |
| 1 | To the Women who say their number/sexual past doesn't matter and they don't understand why men lose attraction .. imagine this....Smart women understand this this is why they lie. And yes most women would be viscerally repulsed to find their man was a power bottom, regardless of the virtue signalers. Women would give the same reaction if they learned their boyfriend used to fuck escorts. Even if they were tested and clean, it still matters. Learn to keep shit to yourself and have self respect and you’ll do fine. My bf never asked for my number and I never ever gave him a reason to think that it’s high. Idk his. It could be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 05:44 AM |
| 21 | CMV: Women aren't "naturally red-pilled". Most women have rosy view of men until their negative experiences with men accumulate.I totally agree with your last sentence but I think that’s the root of the issue.They’re only abstract ideas because the warnings are super vague and abstract. Parents say “men will do anything to get into your pants” but they don’t explicitly tell the truth that soooooo many men, even family members, are like that. Dads won’t admit to their daughter that they did that many times growing up. No real stories no real examples. Mothers won’t tell their daughters their dads are watching porn multipl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 05:24 AM |
| 4 | How to imply FDS with my ex fling colleagueScary how convincing they can be, huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 12:13 AM |
| 16 | New dating site launches for men with ‘dinky’ penisesWell this post got brigaded as fuck 😂😂 poor lil dink dink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 05:02 AM |
| 18 | OLD will travel 1h30 (each way) for date...potential HVM? I'm new here. Do I recommend places because I know the city?I think there's potential with this guy and even if he's a LVM, I could use the dating experience as I had been with a LVM for 4 years. Step 1: You do not leave a relationship with a LVM of 4 years to then practice dating with LVM. Just from reading your post I don’t think you are ready to date men who are going to travel far for a date. Cause you have to be ready to allow them to do that for 2 months straight with no sex and not feel an ounce of guilt or obligation. You say you won’t feel press… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:00 AM |
| 62 | Would you continue seeing a guy as a friend ?I’ll never understand how women will justify going out with trashmen for “free drinks and food “ It’s not free. You’re literally paying with your time, energy and self respect. What is the point of a free margarita if you have to sit there and listen to some dude who rejected you blab on about the girl he likes? Either use that time to get free drinks from someone new and exciting or spend your hard earned money getting wasted with your REAL friends and have a hell of a night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 05:35 PM |
| 12 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Isn’t it funny how no one has ever or would ever cheat but almost everyone’s been cheated on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 04:30 PM |
| 26 | It's Not Your Imagination - Dating Does Get Worse Over 30I think there’s a reluctance to paint dating over thirty as difficult because the manosphere (who are here now intensely lurking) are obsessed with the idea of THE WALL and that women become desperate as soon as they hit 30. They get hate boners over the idea that women can have sex with who ever they want in their 20s, get cocky about it, but then karma hits them in their 30s when they’re ready to settle down but the men the want are chasing 20 year olds. Not saying what you or OP are saying ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 11:03 PM |
| 118 | Bumble match’s response to me saying I don’t believe in sex work and I think it’s bad for women. He knows more about feminism than me!Men will declare themselves the most liberal woke ally to “womxm” in the same breath that they’re mansplaining a woman’s own goddamned movement to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:14 AM |
| 234 | How LVM will treat you when you behave like a pickme... Pickmesha gets played, ladies...Notice how he can’t help but to say she was cute. “We didn’t hit it off. ThE fEelIng wAs mUtUal” Oh please she was repulsed by you and repulsed by her own willingness to lower her standards so low to his dusty crusty floor by even showing up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:56 AM |
| 28 | I was reading replies from non-cheating married who were asked why they had refrained from cheating on their wives. The overwhelming response?Wait...but did you ask if these men had easy opportunity to cheat? It’s too much work sounds like “The hot secretary wasn’t down for my dick so I didn’t”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:24 AM |
| 10 | “Let’s just see where this goes”Before women had FDS, they had to learn through trial and error unless they were lucky enough to have a woke female figure in their lives. Society raises us to be pick meishas. Literal “feminist” are telling young women not to take sex seriously, sell your body - it’s empowering! Or better yet give it up for nothing at all! I hate women hating pickmeishas more than anyone, but when a pickmeisha has no guidance, they’re lucky if they even reach the realization that this girl in the post does by t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:22 AM |
| 9 | What’s your normal sex drive per week? Idk if mine is normal or not.Maybe you could post in a general ask women forum. Men don’t hate lurk those sites as intensely, so some women might feel comfortable to share. Even if you are a female, asking FDS members to privately message you the amount of times they’re horny goes against what I think we preach. Vet. Be careful. Don’t take anyone’s word for it. There’s lots of ways to find out about sex drives of women. Guaranteed you can and will find honest averages on women’s forums that already exist. Just my thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 05:32 AM |
| 12 | Don't reveal your hand to men, until you have THOROUGHLY vetted them.We went out at a bar haha. No, when it comes to sex I’m by far the spiciest. He gives me no porn sick vibes. He says he doesn’t watch much, but we don’t live together and being on FDS helped me realize how much of a well hidden addiction it is. My ex was absolutely porn sick. But I didn’t have knowledge or vocabulary or experience to place it. By the end he literally blamed porn for his behavior and I was shocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 04:16 AM |
| 47 | Scrotes afraid of women trapping them into fatherhood and wasting their time and moneyAll this and they still won’t wrap it up 😂😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 03:51 AM |
| 26 | Don't reveal your hand to men, until you have THOROUGHLY vetted them.Whew that last line gave me chills. We walk around pretending not to know that 99% of the men we walk by everyday watched some sort or sick perverted teen, anime, incest, slavery, assault porn within the past 48 hours no exaggeration! As sick as it is...our guy friend our male family members all partake on an addictive level. Little boys seeing these images at 8 as they watch on iPhones at night where their parents are ignorantly sleeping. Men will exploit anything they do not love or cherish. A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 03:27 AM |
| 43 | Casual sex wouldn’t be a problem except 99.99% of straight men are TERRIBLE in bedPlease be honest, does the perfect package exist? I feel like a lot of those guys who are actually attentive good lovers are poor, or are flirty (untrustworthy) or something is always wrong with those guys to me. What has your experience been? Found a guy whose bomb in bed, ambitious handsome and not a cocky player? My partner is everything but the bomb in bed tbh and not for a lack of trying or effort either... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 02:36 AM |
| 64 | Casual sex wouldn’t be a problem except 99.99% of straight men are TERRIBLE in bedIt doesn’t even sound like you are attracted to women, it just sounds like you’re attracted to...effort? Someone sexually giving a fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsNo no no...so the men who want run a sexual hump and dump train on women use their supply of pickmeishas until their hearts desire are LVM. These are typical players who use their looks and money to remain bachelors. The Pickmeishas keep them busy. Pickmeishas are the ones competing each other for a slice of Chads dick without commitment or an inch of fidelity. They are referred to as “plates” by the RP. These women are down to give their all to guys who are just using them to play the field. “H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsLove your post. I agree with almost all of it. However Pickmieshas aren’t competition. And if you’re in completion with a pickmeisha (a woman who tears other women down, do anything for male attention) then you are a pickmeisha, which is really sad, pathetic and detrimental objectively. FDS seeks to help women get above placing men on pedestals. To stop chasing fuck boys and getting used sexually and emotionally. It’s like how the RP see betas. They don’t see betas as competition. They see them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 27 | The highlighted line gets meI for one am proud of her! Once you fall for someone hard, it’s very easy to get caught up in the gas lighting and bread crumbing. A lot of us have been there. Sometimes it takes a miracle to get out. Good for sis! Leave his bitch ass shocked. Level up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Some PUA tactics I've documentedBut if a man calls you an uber from his account, can’t he change the destination whenever he wants? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 06:59 AM |
| 56 | Some PUA tactics I've documentedGreat! Sorry if this seemed like I was yelling at you! I’ve said this many times before and one time a girl said “but aren’t I being a HVW by making him pick me up and not waste my own gas/uber money??” I almost pulled my hair out lol. I should have said this from the jump: excellent post. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing your experiences so others can learn. I didn’t even know men purposely sending you the wrong address was a thing. Smh fucking scotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:21 AM |
| 7 | A guy invited me to go to a local restaurant that’s similar to Panera bread. Is that too casual?LOL a rich ass engineer tried that shit with me. I simply said “I prefer to go to dinner where there’s actually a waitstaff” Quickly changed his tune to a 5 star restaurant. Blew up my phone after the date trying to see me again ASAP cause he thought I’d be so drawn to how rich and well traveled he was. He was shook that I was just as well traveled. Makes sense cause he lied about his age. I was early 20s he was early 40s in truth (had 33 on his profile.) Thought he’d bag some easy young girl an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:54 AM |
| 189 | Some PUA tactics I've documentedExample: i had a movie+dinner date planned with a guy who came to pick me up and then on the way to the theater suddenly "remembered" he had some work to do at home. He wanted to take me back to his place which was fucking scary. I said no and insisted he take me home. Never saw him again. NEVER GET INTO A CAR WITH A MAN YOU DO NOT KNOW!!! I see this kind of thing casually mentioned on farrrrr too many posts. Having a man pick you up for a date is never okay. And no, making a man drive far to pi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:35 AM |
| 183 | What is it with LVM and wanting to"cuddle"?They like pressing themselves against women, coping a feel, pressing their hard dicks covertly against women’s ass and praying sex happens. Ime, real cuddling doesn’t happen until you’re in a relationship and your partner genuinely loves snuggling with you without expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 04:55 AM |
| 27 | 3 Ex-Boyfriends Describe Their Relationship With the Same Woman - Jelenny | GlamourEvery Latina and white girl I know has been cheated on by their black partners. Cyn Santana (idk why she’s even a F list celebrity) said black men love latinas and treat them better than black women. Now her black man and father of her child has embarrassed her all over the internet, running around with different women while she posts relationship memes on her insta. I hate that I know this - I don’t even follow these people. But these black guys fetishize these. women in bulk, never one at a ti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 02:19 AM |
| 54 | /r/femaledatingstrategy is BY FAR the fastest growing subreddit of the past year. Thanks for bringing it to our attention r/shortcels!“Shortcels”?? Awww! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 02:10 AM |
| 116 | Just saw this comment! What your opinion about it? Do you experience it? I hope it is not true at all!First of all, this feeds into male propaganda. But even this - going from 90% matches to 50% is higher than ideal. Just means less horny broke 22 year olds are brothering to waste her time. Sounds like a dream. Can’t wait to turn 30 lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:33 PM |
| 42 | How does FDS rule on inexperienced men?Sounds like a starter wife in the making to me. He’ll take every thing you teach him to use on the next woman leaving you scarred. Let the young inexperienced people learn from each other. When his behavior turns off enough women he can learn to change like everyone else. You are in no obligation to be his crash dummy and mommy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:18 PM |
| 52 | If a guy refers to women who rejected him as b*tches, that is a red flag and you should runI’ve never heard my boyfriend of 3 years refer to any woman as a bitch ever. That’s low value language regardless of the context. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:41 AM |
| 19 | I’m Not Having Sex Until I Love YouOh my god I never thought about it like this. Men in women’s spaces Straights in gay spaces Everyone desperate to feel special 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:30 AM |
| 33 | Spectating a date’s sports game — thoughts?so far, no LV traits Just wanted to applaud you for this description! Sooo many women claim their dates of 1 month are “HVM” when in reality, all you can do is determine whether or not he has exhibited low value traits like you said. You’ve set a great example for future queens who post similar questions. Other than that I don’t have advice for you, could go either way. I guess my question is, do you WANT to go? Would you enjoy something like this? If yes, go for it. If you’re questioning it, it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:16 AM |
| 10 | I keep meeting LVM with no successful careers to the point where I’m considering trying a sugar daddy dating website.I’m not sure why you think a sugar daddy would make a man open doors for you and respect you? You’d be a literal prostitute. Not that I’m shaming, just stating facts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 08:35 PM |
| 864 | You’re better off alone than with a LVMThis is seriously so spot on. It’s always been hard for me to articulate, but I’ve always thought that between the wife and the hot new crush, if you swapped the women out the results would be the same. Men just desire what’s new. How quickly they forget the prize that they have. Yet women are hypergamous. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 03:39 PM |
| 36 | CringeIt was like I was desperate to stop reading this catastrophe but I couldn’t for the life of me look away... A train wreck. From start to finish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 04:16 AM |
| 83 | He wouldn't walk me to my carI’m sure his father dropped the ball like most men do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 01:32 AM |
| 70 | Experienced FDSers - translation requestUnpopular opinion - unless he flat out says “sex/casual hook up” there is no answer a man can say that can be trusted or seen as a green flag. Because even if he says “I want a girlfriend” 1) he could be lying 2) he could be clingy or desperate 3) he could be honest but it doesn’t mean he’s a good guy. Could mean he’s more prepared to act serious to get sex / gf treatment because he knows that’s what women want to hear either way. To me “A girl I fancy” is probably the most honest answers you’re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 11:47 PM |
| 92 | Wtf does this text mean !! Is he playing games or not? It’s been 3 days since he left me on read so I withdrew and didn’t text him. And today he text me this bullshit!Lmfao this is exactly how I imagine men studying the trp to execute their “strategies”. Does this behavior scream high value you to you? Block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 11:35 PM |
| 25 | The third time he’s come crawling back offering nothing more than the audacity. It’s the truth ladies: guys only want you when you don’t want them. The only guy who one tries harder than a true HVM is a LVM who’s been nexted; their egos simply can’t handle it 😂Never knew not responding ever indicated someone was bothered lol. But hey we all spend energy where we want! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 11:32 PM |
| 57 | The third time he’s come crawling back offering nothing more than the audacity. It’s the truth ladies: guys only want you when you don’t want them. The only guy who one tries harder than a true HVM is a LVM who’s been nexted; their egos simply can’t handle it 😂Why even explain.... You’re putting in more effort than he is, still! You showed up to the date...he didn’t bother. You’re texting paragraphs...he’s sending you one liners. B L O C K !!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 10:06 PM |
| 92 | Going 50/50 ?Always have your cards on you sis. What’re you going to do fight a man over the bill If he asks to go Dutch and you only have $10? Leave yourself in a vulnerable position for what? It’s about principle, not money. If he asks to go Dutch smile sweetly, place your card down and block him on your way out of the restaurant. Spend the remaining money on drinks with friends later in the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 10:03 PM |
| 27 | I think I(25F) scared him(29M) away by setting a boundaryYou didn’t “scare him away” by “setting a boundary” You told him you want to have sex exclusively and he didn’t. I really hope you’re not having sex with people assuming they aren’t sleeping with others just because they don’t have a visible dating app. This means you assumed you were exclusive without discussing it first. Always assume sex is non exclusive until otherwise determined. Hope you were using protection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 05:55 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Don't you think the ideal LTR material man should be wanting sex early and then vetting you for commitment?And the half that see it as a red flag will still give him a second, third, forth chance if he’s attractive and charming enough. If she likes the guy and he suggests going back to his place (to see a movie or another thinly veiled attempt) it’s not a “Oh he’s a shitty person” red flag, it’s a “Damn I want to lock him down but he might just be into casual sex and I want more” red flag. It tells the woman more about what he’s looking for and if he’s the charming hump and dump guy. If a guy doesn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 09:39 AM |
| 7 | I'm so sad right nowNo he means give you oral. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Don't you think the ideal LTR material man should be wanting sex early and then vetting you for commitment?90% of men will push for sex early. Him wanting sex with me in the first 3 dates does not make him any different from the horny dick around the street. It’s expected. What I do respect is a man who takes my rejection respectfully and courts me properly. I delayed sex with both of my LTR partners and they are/were amazing relationships. My partner now is the most attractive man I’ve been with. Our sex life was only enhanced by us practicing restraint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 08:15 PM |
| 8 | this is why I don't buy into the "shy guy" excuse anymoreOoh okay I see!! Thank you so much for explaining. You’re totally right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 01:52 PM |
| 13 | UPDATE: My Ex keeps trying to reach meHe’s harassing you. Not chasing, not groveling. This is not a cute ex coming back story, this is abuse. Don’t hesitate to get the authorities involved. I’m sorry this is happening to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:09 AM |
| 25 | UPDATE: My Ex keeps trying to reach meHe’s accomplishing his goal. He’s getting inside your head. I imagine if you continue to block him on everything he has contacted you on, he will run out of options eventually. Of course you’re secretly pleased even if to a small extent judging by the tone of your post. Who wouldn’t be? Enjoy the ego boost but just like you said, this is not about him losing you, it’s about his own self esteem and ego. The second you give in and respond, he’ll get an adrenaline rush and a deep sense of control a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:29 AM |
| 31 | this is why I don't buy into the "shy guy" excuse anymoreI guess I don’t really understand this post. He wasn’t interested in you but was interested in someone else. If they’ve been texting all this time maybe he was just trying to be respectful of his budding relationship with her? Most men hop on every opportunity they can. He didn’t. What’s the alternative, he pursues you and her at the same time? Hope he chooses you cause you’re closer in proximity? Even if he just met her, nothing he did strikes me as a shy guy act. Just a guy who isn’t (not to b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:00 AM |
| 34 | Why saying “not all men” is ignoring the problem.I didn’t know it was Sunday but I needed that good word. PREACH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Do women hate sluts because they’re a competition?Do men hate sluts cause they’re jealous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 28 | On Moving in with a BoyfriendAmen to this. Moved to my boyfriend’s city last year and refused to live with him. I literally lived around the corner and it was awesome. I’m in my early/mid 20s. What do I look like giving up my independence so early for? I have my whole life to sleep next to a man who farts in a bed next to me 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 12:31 AM |
| 55 | On Moving in with a BoyfriendI agree, but the way I see it, at least with marriage if you fuck me over it’ll be financial hell to pay. I’m not getting married unless my prenup sets me up for life if he fucks up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 12:28 AM |
| 6 | Is it possible that women ride the carosel in college because they don’t understand that male sexual attention is very cheap?You either went to a sexually insane high school or an extremely tame college if you think promiscuity is the same in both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 12:21 AM |
| 5 | Sex robots will affect the datingI can sense your dick hardening as your imagination intensifies. Blow up Stacy is in for quite a night lolll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 03:10 PM |
| 5 | Sex robots will affect the datingHave you ever seen a woman’s inbox on tinder, hell even facebook or just their text messages from men? I can assure you prostitutes have not hurt the SMP. Sex bots will do even less damage. All men who have the money to pay for a sex bot (even if they’re cheaper) have the money to buy a 10/10 prostitute (aka escort or sugar baby if they want it legally) to fuck them porn style in real life. You’re coping hard if you think a plastic doll will do more damage to the dating market than prostitution/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 01:18 PM |
| 6 | Sex robots will affect the datingRight. And in my eyes prostitution is basically legal in America because it is so painfully easy to find. Sugar babying is one of the easiest loop holes there is, along with escort services. Sex on demand with real people is already a thing. Dropping 200k on a robot you’ll get bored with will just be another option for men who can’t get what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 01:12 PM |
| 11 | Sex robots will affect the datingY’all must have been hurt and rejected by women to a crazy extent to keep going on about this robot fantasy. No normal man who can attract and date normal women will replace her with a robot. Sure he might also have a robot on the side if he’s rich and less successful in the SMP, but it’ll be rare. It’s a psychological need to get real human validation. By your logic fleshlights, porn and literal human gorgeous prostitutes/escorts that you can PAY to fuck you and suck you porn star style would h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 12:48 PM |
| 3 | What are some things women think men like but are very wrong about?Ah, thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | What are some things women think men like but are very wrong about?Can you explain what preselection is?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Are mid-twenties women (24-26) still valuable?Are shortcels ever valuable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 07:25 PM |
| 3 | What is the single best piece of advice you've got from either pill you've taken?That my SMV and RMV is a privilege that I shouldn’t take for granted. I thought it was a given, that everyone dated easily. But it’s not. Especially for men and women who can’t seem to attract good men. It’s made me more appreciative and I will honor my 20s and 30s more now than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sexI’m using statistics to justify my hatred for straight men? Lmfaooo you’ve gone one yet another rampage rant against straight women on a post literally about bi man. How self centered can you seriously be? You are ignoring facts and statistics just to rant about straight women getting dates payed for by the men who ask them out??! Literally how have you turned this entire post, which has virtually nothing to do with the romantic relations between women and straight men, into yet another ranting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 02:43 PM |
| 10 | If you really don't want a long term relationshipI think a LOT of women on here, even young women, are realizing that in 90% of cases marriage is a sham. Focus on yourself and focus on blocking any and all low value behavior. I think the risk with casual relationships is there is little accountability, and the woman typically lets LVM disrespect her because “well it’s just sex anyway.” You’re sterilized so it’s double the reason to always wear condoms. These men are absolutely having sex with anyone else they can while they’re with you, and if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:34 PM |
| 91 | Man brags about how his wife is the size of a toddler and how he gets to have sex with her.Anyone else throw up a bit in their mouths or was it just me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Man brags about how his wife is the size of a toddler and how he gets to have sex with her.Anyone else throw up a bit in their mouths or was it just me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Man brags about how his wife is the size of a toddler and how he gets to have sex with her.Anyone else throw up a bit in their mouths or was it just me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 03:08 AM |
| 40 | As expected, men in the tweets calling her “childish” and “materialistic”. Lol it ain’t hard to put effort into a relationship, men are just lazy and entitled.Dust does settle on the floor... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sexWhat the actual fuck am I talking about? I’m taking about the fact that men commit 89.5% of murders WORLDWIDE and 79% of their of their victims? Male. https://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/htus8008.pdf https://www.heuni.fi/material/attachments/heuni/projects/wd2vDSKcZ/Homicide_and_Gender.pdf Come on man, it’s common knowledge that a man is way more likely to kill either of us than a woman. Are all of the men gay that they kill? No, but some are. And a that number is astronomically higher than the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 12:27 AM |
| 8 | CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sexWomen WILL fuck bi men though. They absolutely will. Us bi guys have just learned to keep our mouths shut and say we’re straight. I’ve had sex with probably 8-10 women for every man. This point is null because they think you’re straight. This is like saying a good man will marry a cheating prostitute. Well she never told him she was a cheating prostitute but look! He married her! Obviously not disclosing your bi status doesn’t count. And I’d argue if you’re hot enough some might still fuck you, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 08:14 PM |
| 12 | CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sexYou think WOMEN are more homophobic than MEN? That in and of itself is bullshit. Men watch lesbian porn for FUN. Some prefer it. Is it because they’re so woke and accepting and foreword thinking? No. It’s because double the titties and double the fun. ALL of the men who slut shame women would NEVER marry a bi woman. Never. So get that straight. Also I find your definition of homophobia classic. So women are homophobic because they won’t fuck bi men. And straight men are less homophobic even thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 06:50 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women have their own version of Madonna-Whore complexDon’t even bother. Women on PPD experiences this on the daily. If you’re not a virgin you’re a whore, but if you are a virgin you’re a prude who should fuck me on the third date. You have what all these men allegedly lust after, a virgin. But it’s hard for many of them to compute the way men get virgins is by forgoing sex for years (unless the girl doesn’t give a shit about her virginity, but then she quickly turns into a slut that should be shamed). See why women can’t take their demands seriou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 01:38 PM |
| 158 | Take note ladies!Sorry if this isn’t very coherent, I’m super irritated. Well being a top notch Pickmeisha is quite the exhausting job. Especially when you gotta go boss mode when all your friends have the audacity to try to level up for their newborns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 01:25 AM |
| 30 | I didn't see this Pickmeisha post while quickly scanning through. I felt honestly sad for her...9K upvoted 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 05:42 AM |
| 16 | I went on a first date, and I don’t know if this was ok or not for the guy to do...I feel so bad for OP and hope she gets the help she needs but part of me feels like this should be removed. Men get off on reading abuse like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 06:20 PM |
| 34 | Update: he still wants to be with me even though after 2 years he doesn’t love meHe doesn’t still want to be with you sis. He’s getting off on the fact that your land lady told him you’re a shell of a person with out him. He’s reaching out to “rescue” you. He doesn’t love you, he loves the ego boost this gives him. He can fuck right off. Block him and mourn but please still take care of yourself. I know this hurts but no man is worth losing your life and health over. Even if you’re devastated don’t give him the satisfaction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Random Guy from school found me on RedditOkay but how did he know your username? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Random Guy from school found me on RedditHow did he find you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:06 AM |
| 58 | “You do not owe a man your best years in exchange for his crusty last name”Cierra and Russell waited until marriage to have sex 💕 They were both done with low value behavior and wanted to start fresh. I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 01:06 AM |
| 57 | Tinder needs a “He’s unemployed and wants a Bob the Builder” option for an unmatch reasonBRO. I when I tried to deactivate tinder and chose “because I met someone!” it STILL asked me if I was sure and presented the option to only “pause” so I could keep talking to my matches. Imagine how many LVM choose the latter option. Tinder thrives off of the culture of no commitment and unfaithfulness. So gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 01:04 AM |
| 40 | Should I be suspicious?Take the advice your were given and pleeeeeease don’t act overly impressed or say “Omg you didn’t have to take me somewhere fancy” You told him you’re a serious woman looking for serious shit and he is rising to the occasion. Is it a farce? Maybe. But time will tell, you’re not giving him sex, and it’s HIS money he’s wasting if he’s trying to play games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 11:10 PM |
| 15 | I'm trying to read The New Rules but sis... The mysogyny...None of those things you mentioned are even flaws... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:28 PM |
| 23 | I'm trying to read The New Rules but sis... The mysogyny...If OP is saying their definition of attractive is some white blonde woman, then it’s a hard pass for me. Did you even read the OP? It’s important to be attractive, but attractively YOU. No ones ripping grooming, fitness and self care. But if I have to wear a mini shirt and fry my hair straight to accomplish this like a 7th grader, it’s a hard pass from me. I’m confident that I am an attractive woman and I am proud to not fit into the little box presented above. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:19 PM |
| 2 | There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this?Idk ask the male CEOs of those companies why they don’t target women? Y’all wanna blame everything on women but the people at the top who control all this Shit are MEN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 04:11 PM |
| 6 | There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this?Can I be honest with you why that is? It's because most men, especially young men, simply dont care. Ob...viously...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 5 | There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this?Because my man would rather have tickets to his favorite nfl team than a diamond bracelet...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Don't you see how EMPOWERING and FEMINIST it is to strip-tease for men's gratification?When did Jlo say she didn’t want to be sexualized? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:24 PM |
| 9 | Don't you see how EMPOWERING and FEMINIST it is to strip-tease for men's gratification?So because JLo wore this to her performance and some mega creep took a screenshot of her vag men can no longer respect women and should sexualize every woman they see? Low effort meme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:19 PM |
| 87 | Just my personal observation of IUD and sex cultureAs sad as it is, if these girls are naive enough to go through insertion JUST to let men hit it raw, these are probably the girls who need the IUD the most. Babies do not need to be involved in that mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Apparently not cheating on your pregnant wife is an act of strengthGlad to hear that’s been your experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:46 AM |
| 5 | Apparently not cheating on your pregnant wife is an act of strengthRegardless of all of that, socially, a man cheating is expected while a woman who cheats gets branded with the Scarlet letter forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 03:46 AM |
| 5 | Know your priorities...Lol called it 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:10 PM |
| 13 | Know your priorities...I’m not mad at him for being in a dilemma. I’m mad this is a baiting post that paints the wife in the worst light possible. Somehow I doubt she was this cold and not compassionate. Did she never hold him as he cried, cook for him, comfort him? Be patient and loving as he grieved? I’m CONFIDENT she has done this and so much more. But of course OP is only interested and hyping up her refusal, no doubt embellishing her response and refusing to give a fair portrayal of her and how she’s responded to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 08:33 PM |
| 40 | Apparently not cheating on your pregnant wife is an act of strengthApparently it’s an act of superhuman strength for a man to not cheat on his partner. If he resists he is a God. If he doesn’t he is a man. This is what I’ve learned since becoming an adult. Seriously rethinking marriage and kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 08:26 PM |
| 28 | Thoughts on CosplayDo what you love and block and ignore LVM. Carry pepper spray with you and have a blast sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 06:46 PM |
| 14 | Good to know that if you are sexy, you are not worth respect. Got this from a churchy friend of mine whose only posts about marriage are to say how hard it it and imply she and her hubby don't get along.Don’t mind her. She’s just mad she found the SPICY THICK LATINAZ Porn Hub tab open again on her husbands computer. JLo is supposed to cover up because her man is a pervert? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 06:21 PM |
| 12 | When they Invite you over to chill "in bed" after your second date...This is so important and worthy of an entire post IMO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 05:36 PM |
| 8 | A man who is content keeping you in a noncommittal situationship is one that doesn’t care if you’re being wined, dined and dicked down by other menAh I see. Well I see telling boyfriends when we get hit on as a balancing act. You’re in college so the probability of you getting asked out is pretty much higher now than it ever will be. It’s likely telling him every time some guy tries to ask you out is makes him think you want to see him act insecure. My best guess is his response (given you’re exclusive and you’ve been introduced to the family etc.) is his passive aggressive way of showing you that he is not jealous or possessive and theref… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:26 AM |
| 3 | A man who is content keeping you in a noncommittal situationship is one that doesn’t care if you’re being wined, dined and dicked down by other menAnd other men are asking you on dates and you’re telling your boyfriend? What is the purpose of you telling your boyfriend? Also generally what is your age group? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:05 AM |
| 3 | A man who is content keeping you in a noncommittal situationship is one that doesn’t care if you’re being wined, dined and dicked down by other menHe’s your boyfriend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:15 AM |
| 5 | I have been noticing a lot of post about avoid being in. Along term relationship for years. Is there a situation where it’s actually ok to be in a long term relationship? Like I have seen relationships that lasts longer than marriage so I’m curious to see other people’s opinionsPersonally, I’m not getting married before the age of 27, and will not marry anyone I have dated for less than 2 years. I will need to feel confident that the man I marry is a real man and will make an upstanding father. Anything less and I’ll be happy to be unwed and childless (I’m not planning on being a single mother, but some of my friends are via sperm donor and I fully support that decision.) This is an informative article about the divorce success rates based on the age you get married. h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Woman moves into beach house with fiancé; is getting married this summer. She met him on tinder 2 years ago.Yessss! Absolutely ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 03:06 AM |
| 69 | Woman moves into beach house with fiancé; is getting married this summer. She met him on tinder 2 years ago.Happy to see some positive content! Notice how she said she wasn’t looking for marriage. The best commitments I’ve ever gotten (the only ones really) have been when I wasn’t looking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 02:59 AM |
| 32 | Funny how men can dish it, but can't take itWait....what were they trying to prove? I’m pretty sure I counted more men cat calling him than women... Why tf is harassment in quotations? Does he not realize that he’s not feeling threatened because he could literally fight off any man who attacks him, and kill any woman who bothers him? I mean am I missing something?! It’s also curious that everyone’s face is blurred except for the girl who turned around and got violently handled by that man. Actor plants perhaps? Because otherwise she’d nee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 02:43 AM |
| 64 | Charlie Hunnam apologizes for saying he doesn’t give a shit about marrying his forever girlfriend of 13 years because it “upset” her. Nah, say it with your WHOLE CHEST Charlie bc you know you meant that shit with your entire low value heart.She’s mad at him for telling the truth? Sis is living his truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:40 AM |
| 22 | Have you ever noticed men will date literally *anyone* once they decide they want a relationship?I wouldn’t say it’s immediately obvious. OP seems perplexed why a guy like him would propose to a girl like his fiancée. She lists a number of reasons why his fiancée is below his league on paper. That’s why I was highlighting that the decisions he’s made have revealed he is and always has been a LVM in disguise. OP is clearly surprised he would stoop so low, but men’s actions reveal their inner selves more than their jobs and other professional accolades. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 09:58 PM |
| 8 | Women in relationships: What was your dating journey?I’ve had the privilege of living all over the country! Also a lot of my friends from college and grad school moved all over, so my connects have spread. Just 2 weekends ago I did a girls trip in a major city (where I live). 6 of some of my best girl friends flying into visit my city from 4 different states :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 09:53 PM |
| 11 | Women in relationships: What was your dating journey?I think I achieved my “Success” because practicing FDS was my natural state. You’ll find the most success when you stop “acting” like a HVW and carry yourself as one because you are one. In short, every time I was single I did NOT want a boyfriend. Needless to say when Men got a whiff of that it was over for me. I’ve been a legal adult for 5 years and have had 2 strong relationships and have only been single in those 5 years a total of a few months. I am one of the most independent people I know… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 08:36 PM |
| 26 | Have you ever noticed men will date literally *anyone* once they decide they want a relationship?Weird. That is not my observation, at least not with successful men with good character. It’s literally not hard at all for successful high value men to be able to find a HVW. This may indicate that either she’s actually a great person on the inside who has been down on her luck on life, or he’s deeply insecure and purposefully found a woman who makes him feel better about himself / he feeds off of drama and instability. Women always get a bad wrap for loving drama but there’s a lot of men who l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 08:22 PM |
| 59 | LVM don’t care about women’s sexual pleasure, Always make him give you his social mediaI’m mad at how fast these losers contradicted themselves in this short ass thread. Who cares about women pleasure??? 0000.2 seconds later TRP Golden Rule bro’s!!!! I make my girl cum 10 times in a session!! Take THAT lesbians!!1!” Lmfao you can’t make this shit up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 12:12 AM |
| 57 | Y’all get ready, lurkers are coming to FDS, again.Awww, his name is shithead and he created an entirely new account to create free advertising for us :’) But honestly I really hope more dudes hate read FDS and “trick” high value women in their free time paying for our dates and getting zero sex 😂. Too bad they’ll be swiped left into oblivion before any of the games can begin :/. Sigh life’s hard for the average reddit neckbeard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Is he worth it?Omg I’m SO grateful for this update!! I’m so glad you kept your radar up. Something didn’t feel right when I was reading your post so I’m very happy you kept your antennas up. What a lazy lazy creep! The female instinct is strong. Your instinct that you two didn’t have chemistry was spot on from the beginning. Men have a funny way of crawling back and making you second guess yourself. AMAZING JOB!! Again - thank you for the update!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 11:58 PM |
| 17 | Is planning and paying for dates still HVM behaviour if they always ask what you want to do on the dates?Why wouldn’t it be? Actually - never mind. The answer is yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Is the redpill still even relevant?Why do you think that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:15 PM |
| 44 | Plate Spinning means playing the field. So ladies, why do you take offense to this term?I’ve always said what men consider “Spinning Plates” is what women simply call dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 06:21 AM |
| 18 | Great first date with possible HVM...what's next?There is not one thing anyone can post here that you can’t find on the side bar sis! Read the Tenants and practice what’s preached! Being a pick me is easy. Practicing serious self discipline by not offering yourself up on a platter is harder. You have to want it. You have to be ready. You can’t fake being a HVM. That means not getting excited over one dude who has shown you his best side for a few weeks. Anyway. Read and study the sub, all of the answers are in here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 04:07 AM |
| 28 | I just received a text from someone who destroyed my heart 4 months ago.Take the W. He came crawling back and you had the last word. Great job ending on a high note! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 08:23 PM |
| 41 | Is post-breakup embarrassment about an ex correlated with how much he spent (or didn't?)Women who leave the first time an ex does a deal breaker do not suffer from post break up embarrassment for long. Women who continuously ignore red flags, give second chances, take cheaters and abusers back are the once who end up truly haunted. I honestly have no ill will regarding my ex who cheated. He treated me incredibly (yes money wise but also emotionally) and as soon as I found out he cheated I was gone. Yes it fucking hurt. I was devastated and initially embarrassed. But what do I have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 02:55 PM |
| 43 | Coffee datesHonestly just do what you want in college as long as he treats you very very well and doesn’t take you for granted. Personally, by the time I was 19 I was already implying FDS, but I don’t see much wrong with dating in a low key way in your age range. Once you graduate and start your career, you’ll probably crave a man who knows how to court you properly. FDS is take what you need. Know your worth and don’t be taken advantage of. But also know yourself and if you’re in a low key dating mood own … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 07:04 AM |
| 65 | LVM celebrity edition (threw a women(Gabrielle union )under the bus who supported him when he told the world about his sexual assault )Hahahaha. I watched him and his “angel” Rebecca on OWN Network. She cried as he detailed the many many many affairs he had on her throughout their marriage. It was interesting because before that point I was like...why does his wife literally look like a shell of a person? Then he confessed all his low value behavior as she broke down in tears and it made sense. These men are such trash. This male “Feminist” doesn’t even care about his own daughters? Lol he’s a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 06:47 AM |
| 2 | Is he worth it?Stop apologizing for staying true to yourself in the past. Your ability or inability to establish a strong connection with him has nothing to do with your faults. Don’t go into this apologizing. Look at him. You’ve rejected him multiple times and he is happy to chase you years later. Can’t stress enough how much men LOVE to chance and fight an uphill battle. Regardless. Follow your heart. See him but don’t guilt yourself into being with him just cause he’s persistent. Good luck!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Why haven’t women evolved to be ok with men’s polygyny (sharing an alpha)?Some women do share an Alpha. Future and Fetty Wap for example. Why do you care if you’ll never be one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Why does it matter that women can get a higher N-count than men easily? Why are men salty about it?Not the original commenter but I think you’re spot on with your observations regarding the inconsistency of male views on women’s N count. You have to factor in WHY some of these rabid slut shamers are tradcon. Are they low-N by choice? Or because their looks and lack of general appeal made this label the path of least resistance. The angrier they are against women the more incelly they tend to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Is he worth it?Because it kind of seems like he’s forcing it even though you have established bad chemistry and mutually broke it off. He keeps hitting you up when he’s single. The red flag indicates that you MAY be low hanging fruit when he’s single and lonely. Just keep that in mind when you meet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:33 PM |
| 60 | Younger me earned the "Maybe he's just not that into you" BadgeBy no longer agonizing over another woman’s future headache. Move on and move foreword with your head up high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:09 PM |
| 14 | How do I respond to this? I'm so confusedRight? Flags are implied bad behavior. Literally stating “I AM NOT HIGH VALUE” is...well it’s explicit bad behavior haha. RUN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:06 PM |
| 17 | Do you guys pay for drinks/dessert after he pays for dinner?Omg he hit you with the “are you sure?” Instead of “no I got it”. Sounds like he suggested drinks hoping you’d pay. After the first the first date or two I’ll do the cute pretend grab for my purse. Then when they say no I got it I’ll say “aw are you sure?” It’s your job to say that sis! Lol. No but if you liked him you are totally fine. If he’s high value he’ll appreciate the gesture and make sure to step up every time after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 08:13 PM |
| 18 | I need advice (30) FHe’s bombarding you so when you finally catch him cheating and meeting other women on Fetlife he can claim “but I told you what I wanted!!” This will happen whether or not you give in. He won’t marry you and he doesn’t respect you. He loses nothing by being a creep and an asshole. Don’t make any more children with him and secure your own life. He’s a low value male and your relationship is a ticking time bomb. I know it hurts but it’s the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 06:30 PM |
| 9 | Is he worth it?Only you can decide if you want to give him a yet another chance. Just remember: it can be very difficult for men to date. A man who keeps coming back to old situationships may be one that doesn’t want to put as much effort into meeting new people. It’s understandable cause dating can be exhausting, but that doesn’t mean you have to go to him when he asks. You’ve already established that you lack chemistry. Now you’ve both haven’t found your “person” so it could be easy to go see him, lower your… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 03:07 PM |
| 35 | what age range is acceptable to be dating according to FDS?Girl do not get into cars with random men, please. Don’t date if you’re not in a position to do so safely. They can pay for your date. Do not give them the power to take you anywhere in the city that they want. One mistake - one nightmare situation in some dudes car is all it takes. Be smart and provide your own transportation please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 06:16 AM |
| 28 | what age range is acceptable to be dating according to FDS?Pleeeease don’t let these men pick you up. Borrow a car if you can. Uber worst case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 03:12 AM |
| 49 | This woman posted a video about herself turning 30, and here you can see the different between a young 22 years old HVM and an old crappy 50 years old LVM. Just to say that older men aren’t more matureFrom where I stand they’re both creepy LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:35 AM |
| 4 | Do LVM great every woman as a LVW?IF he’s low value. Good men only fall deeper in love and want to protect you after sleeping with you. Both exist but you have to vet carefully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:32 AM |
| 43 | Do you text after the first time sleeping togetherGirl he hasn’t texted you since? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:27 AM |
| 16 | Do LVM great every woman as a LVW?Low value men might try to disguise themselves as HV for a girl he thinks is “hot” and wants to fuck. As soon as he does he’ll treat her like trash intermittently- just enough to string her along and gaslight her. LVM make everyone’s lives miserable. If Beyoncé got cheated on by that Uggo we all can. That’s why male depravity will NEVER be a reflection of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you gotten over your BDSM kink?Ayeee user name checks out, lets get that rec!! 👀😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 02:44 AM |
| 16 | What kind of men prefer low maintenance women versus a high maintenance woman?Nope. I’ve encountered a lot of men who crave the rollercoaster. That’s cool, it’s just not me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 11:23 PM |
| 24 | First date tonight since a bad breakup and finding FDS. Met via OLD. He asked. He planned it. He confirmed days in advance. He offered to pick me up but also understands if I prefer to drive separately. So far...good signs. Any tips? Things to look for?Please drive yourself always! Don’t go to his house and have a wonderful time. Enjoy yourself sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 09:24 PM |
| 40 | Have any of you gotten over your BDSM kink?I can’t give you any concrete advice but I want to thank you so much for sharing your story. Growing up on porn doesn’t only negatively impact men. It fucks women up as well. Realistic and honest sex education for teens is so profoundly insufficient in our society. As evidenced in your post and in my life and the lives of everyone around me, we have been failed as a generation of people who had reactive sex education rather than proactive. Being a pick meisha can be cringe to watch, but women ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 09:19 PM |
| 51 | What kind of men prefer low maintenance women versus a high maintenance woman?Depends on what you mean by low maintenance. My HVM partner considers me low maintenance and a LVM would consider me high maintenance. I have standards that women should consider basic, but because of the state of men they’re considered “high”. Don’t neg me, court me properly, have ambition, be fun and communicate. 99% of your relationship should be effortless in this regard. Sometimes it doesn’t come down to low or high value, it comes down to compatibility. I’m all about good vibes so it shock… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 08:48 PM |
| 29 | "don't reveal your sexual history to a man" - not even if you are in a commited relationship with a HVM?A lot of high value men wouldn’t cope well with being with a girl they knew had over 100 partners by the time their were 21. That’s why when a man falls in love with a woman for who she is, it’s important not to bring up unnecessary numbers of past sexual partners because men subconsciously judge her for who she has been in the past. If you tell your man your number he will likely try to rationalize it and not let it bother him in the moment. But the second you go out to have a girls night or go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 07:08 PM |
| 15 | Mostly Ignoring Men's Compliments on TinderOmg you should have left him on read after the friend comment LOL that was a golden response to all that Alpha BS he spewed. Why not “practice” on a guy with decent character? Now the convo has dragged and he’s the one ignoring you and you’re double texting. Leave while you’re on top and only consistently engage with men with some self respect and manners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 06:10 PM |
| 105 | Does anyone else notice how some guys whine about how women aren’t “traditional ladies” these days yet they expect women to pay at least half for everything and to take care of THEM?I’ve always comforted myself thinking all of these men are just bottom feeder basement dwelling losers but more and more I’ve been starting to wonder how many of these men walk among me...how many work right beside me...how many do I consider friends?...How many that I’ve slept with?! Ugh it’s scary once you start to recognize the shit you read about. A male friend negs you and now you know it’s a whole strategy. Dudes love bomb you or try to push sex especially on the third date and you’re no l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:33 AM |
| 2 | this may be controversial - should FDS members re-post from MGTOW ?Lmfao your post was so much more respectful than mine. I tend to be a little blunt 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Dudes always say “Text me when you get home” at the end of a date. I NEVER do it. If you’re worried about my safety, you can follow up later to see if I’m still alive. He’s not being “sweet & caring”, it’s just a lazy way for a “good guy” to score brownie points. Thoughts??? 🤔What...the...fuck?! Men are a fucking disaster every way you look at it lol. Whew good men are few and far between! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 04:45 AM |
| 7 | this may be controversial - should FDS members re-post from MGTOW ?The way you worded this was so eloquent I feel like it would be worthy of its own post as well. If you look at my post history, I made a similar post and it was my very first post on this subreddit. It got a good buzz and a good amount of people talking if you want to read it. I think it’s great that we revisit this conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Dudes always say “Text me when you get home” at the end of a date. I NEVER do it. If you’re worried about my safety, you can follow up later to see if I’m still alive. He’s not being “sweet & caring”, it’s just a lazy way for a “good guy” to score brownie points. Thoughts??? 🤔Girl...that should be the bare minimum!! Smh these are the times we live in now 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Dudes always say “Text me when you get home” at the end of a date. I NEVER do it. If you’re worried about my safety, you can follow up later to see if I’m still alive. He’s not being “sweet & caring”, it’s just a lazy way for a “good guy” to score brownie points. Thoughts??? 🤔I’ll say this- don’t trust it from a guy who hasn’t walked you directly to your Uber, makes sure you confirm the ride and watches you leave safely. If you’re at his house and he’s sayin good bye at the door and doesn’t bother to wait with you for your Uber or walk you to the car... block him before you get home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 04:26 AM |
| 18 | This trend is universally bad, but this iteration is the worst I've personally seen to date.I’m gonna be sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:55 AM |
| 55 | Men and ComplimentsBecause everything is a woman’s fault of course! Haven’t ya heard sis? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:24 AM |
| 6 | Seems like there is always an ulterior motive agenda with women.AWALT. Even your wife. Divorce her NOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do women slut shame other women?I only really slut shame women who Actively have sex with men in relationships to make themselves feel good about themselves (it’s not an accomplishment to get a taken guy to want to fuck you but they think it is) Their entire identities are wrapped around male approval. I have friends who have slept with lots of men and I would never consider them sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 08:25 PM |
| 15 | Troubling trend I’m seeing on social media: young men openly championing for and empathizing with the LVM protagonist/villain in the show You (Lifetime/Netflix). [Possible Spoilers]Major Spoilers for You Season 2 ahead Season 2 has only amplified these attitudes because Joe has seemingly found his “match” or as the kids call it, his “ride or die”, that has taken these delusions to the next fucking level. I’ve been dying to talk to the FDS ladies about this but idk who here watches the show. Interesting how Love, who was the ultimate pick meisha to the point of eternal cringe the entire season (seriously her pick me levels annoyed me so much I almost stopped watching lol). … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 06:51 PM |
| 61 | Reminder #46368 keep your sexual history to yourself- American Olympian Lolo Jones talks about her virginity with Kevin HartI fucking can’t stand Kevin Hart. The fact that such trash is allowed to be “America’s Sweetheart” is mind blowing to me. I’m not a fan of cancel culture but holy shit how has he been left so unscathed?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 06:34 PM |
| 11 | Ex who I believe was HVM broke up with me "out of respect"I suppose that I'll consider his proposition when he texts me with a confirmed job opportunity and an apartment. Like I said, unless he shows up with a bouquet of flowers and an apartment key to your city, don’t even entertain the fantasy. I sympathize with you but just remember you’ll always be in dangerous territory when you are more into a man than they are to you. Right now he is the chosen one for you and you are just a mere option. If he comes back without a key please remain cool and coll… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 06:23 PM |
| 24 | Ex who I believe was HVM broke up with me "out of respect"Timing and intention have to be at play when dating any man, even a HVM. Just because you find a HVM, it doesn’t mean you engage your inner pick meisha and pursue him even though he’s not pursuing you. He told you he was unwilling to move to your city and respectfully dumped you. Unless he shows up at your door with a bouquet of flowers and the keys to the apartment he bought in your town, you need to let him go. Believe me, I know it’s hard. It would be easy to text him and prolong the fantasy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 06:05 PM |
| 24 | Seeking some advice...Honestly it sounds like you need some serious on going therapy. Can you get a hold of a councilor? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 04:13 AM |
| 12 | I feel bad for rejecting a HVM years ago just because he wasn’t ambitious . Does this make me weird or a pick me? Please I’m really lostThey’re happy because she’s a waitress and to her, he’ll be the ambitious breadwinner. You would always be supporting him. You’d be resentful of him. Then you’d go to work with a guy like your current boyfriend and fantasize about what it would be like to date someone at your level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 01:20 AM |
| 17 | Do you call out cheapskate behavior?For me there is no “subtly” hinting that a man is a cheapskate. They’re immediately blocked lol. Ain’t nobody have time for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 01:00 AM |
| 33 | Can I hear thoughts on yay or nay or any other comments on this situationin my abusive relationship Uhhh let’s take care of this first before jumping into another potentially abusive situation with a fucked up power dynamic please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 12:56 AM |
| 16 | They are so predictable..HAHAHAHA omfg most underrated comment of the year 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 12:52 AM |
| 54 | Mental prep before a first dateSimilar pet peeve of mine is when they never ask you ANY questions. This goes for dates and friends...When I realize it’s happening I just stop asking questions like you said. I let the space be quiet and awkward. 9 times out of 10 they still won’t ask a question and would rather sit in silence or go on about themselves again. I started cutting these people out of my life expeditiously. Tons of energy saved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 07:19 PM |
| 17 | Playings games bad or good ?It doesn’t sound like you’re playing games. It sounds like you’re busy and he’s annoying...lol. If you do happen to like him, just communicate that you’re busy during the day and won’t get back to him quickly. His inability to take a hint is a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Sex is one of the most intimate things on earth. Why do men believe they are entitled to do it with strangers early on in a relationship???You have no idea what it’s like to date as a woman. If I fucked every guy I liked while single, my number would be astronomical. Then I’d be judged for that. But men think “if she likes you she’ll fuck you. If she doesn’t she’s automatically not into you”. It’s just simply not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Sex is one of the most intimate things on earth. Why do men believe they are entitled to do it with strangers early on in a relationship???The thing is there isn’t a huge difference between the girl who doesn’t wait three months to fuck/fuck without commitment and the CC rider. Women have an unlimited source of men and options when it comes to dating. If we fucked every decent guy we liked early on, our numbers would be like 10+ a year. If I fucked every guy I wanted to fuck the moment I wanted to fuck, my numbers would be astronomical. The same guys who think waiting three months is unreasonable are the same guys who spit on “slut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Sex is one of the most intimate things on earth. Why do men believe they are entitled to do it with strangers early on in a relationship???Because all men are in perpetual competition with “Chad”. If he gets easy sex so should Joe Shmoe down the street. But don’t forget once you fuck him on the first date you’re an easy whore that’s not worthy of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 05:29 PM |
| 40 | Comedy hour: PPD theorizes about the kinds of men who will wait three months for sexThese are the same men who slut shame women for sleeping with a lot of men. She makes you wait? SELFISH PRUDE Fucks your on the third date? WHORE. Don’t give these men a chance to pump and dump you. It’s the only way they can feel powerful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:44 PM |
| 39 | Tinder users, how do you respond to "so how are you liking tinder?"You answered this perfectly and your rationale is spot on. They’re fishing for low self esteem women to be their low value “saviors”. It’s not a coincidence that they both admitted that they’re looking for easy sex. Desperate women make that search real easy. Well done sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 04:43 AM |
| 6 | Gay man now terrified of women because of FDS. 🙄 He doesn’t even date women but he’s still mad, because, you know, scrotes gonna scrote.If you have to enter a space and sheepishly ask if your race or sexuality is welcomed to speak.........you know what nvm 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 01:47 AM |
| 31 | If my husband doesn’t shower me with this amount of love, adoration and appreciation into our 50’s and beyond, I DON’T WANT HIM.PERIODDDDDD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 06:59 PM |
| 222 | If my husband doesn’t shower me with this amount of love, adoration and appreciation into our 50’s and beyond, I DON’T WANT HIM.LOVE THIS! One more quote from Barak: “In every scene, you are my star.” Which is what he captioned the photos in this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 06:59 PM |
| 39 | A true strategic genius- the story is even better: https://www.instagram.com/p/B7XA0ligfGL/?igshid=16jnp0m3mvtbuI don’t know whether the laugh or cry over the fact that there are THOUSANDS of porn sick men out there who would read this article and still marry her and allow her to drain their cash. All because of how she fits into their porn sick fantasies. But scrotes are gonna scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 06:31 PM |
| 217 | If my husband doesn’t shower me with this amount of love, adoration and appreciation into our 50’s and beyond, I DON’T WANT HIM.Also HAPPY BIRTHDAY to the queen supreme Michelle Obama!! ✨ Idc what your political affiliations are. The Obamas are a CLASS act and nobody can ever take that away from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:28 PM |
| 34 | And he was doing so well until this point.Girl, you handled this PERFECTLY. Called him out and shut him down SO well blocked him while he was a blubbering mess. Usually girls just feed the trolls “acting” like they’re telling these guys off and these guys could care less. Thanks for sharing I needed this good laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 05:39 AM |
| 5 | Beware of couples who refer to their relationship as a partnershipI’m in a committed LDR at the moment. So when I have to take off work to fly to see him or go on trips during the holidays, they may ask me where I’m going. Sometimes I’ll lie and say I’m going to be with friends. But I feel comfortable mentioning “my partner” rather than saying my boyfriend. It’s just a personal preference. There is no deception involved whatsoever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:20 AM |
| 12 | Beware of couples who refer to their relationship as a partnershipI only refer to my boyfriend as my partner to people I don’t know (like my colleagues). I like the ambiguity and seriousness of it. I don’t tell my coworkers anything about my social life, to the point where they don’t even know the sex of my SO lol. But that’s an entirely different thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:08 PM |
| 10 | Where do you meet men?Most women today meet men on online dating sites (OLD) going out to social events like happy hour or bars with friends. Correct me if I’m wrong, but I believe most of the women who are actively dating past college that post here use OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:03 PM |
| 81 | Woman helps her husband “transition” & now he calls her “some d*ke" and filed for divorce. You don’t have to be a Pickmeisha in the name of gender equality. Abandon ship as soon as they start to put their needs far above yours. Trans scrotes are still scrotes and expect them to behave that way.Y’all...I know three women whose lives were ruined by their husbands coming out as trans/gay/cross dressing/bi this past year alone. One married him years ago and allowed him to put off having kids for so long. He always made excuses. After she caught him wearing woman’s underwear, he came out as bi and says now that the secrets out he should be able to explore his identity within the marriage. They’re in couples counseling. She’s 40 now childless and in a deep depression. But he’s so “brave” ri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:52 PM |
| 10 | Never ever ever make travel plans to meet up with a guy!Men are VILE. Glad you learned to protect yourself 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 03:28 PM |
| 34 | Never ever ever make travel plans to meet up with a guy!Girl.....Whaaaat?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 06:15 AM |
| 11 | How do I recognize HVM that are hiding their pasts?The fact of the matter is you’ll never know. All you can do is collect red flags and be vigilant. Other than that, as long as you keep your expectations high and crystal clear, you’re doing it right. The truth is we won’t always know the deep dark secrets of a man’s past. If a HVM cheated in the past and has changed, you may never know. All you can do is make sure he is not exhibiting any red or yellow flags like being sneaky or secretive with you. A lot of people cheated in their 20s. Youth isn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Radical Change: Woman should ONLY accept casual sex from decent men who make them orgasm every time.Now the last paragraph... You are putting words in my mouth. I never forbid (nor do I have the power) anyone to do anything. LOL where did I say you forbid anyone from doing any thing?? I’m sorry it’s cracking me up that you’re telling me not to put words in your mouth...that I literally never said you “said” anything. And what did I say you forbid people from doing? Pleaaase tell me in your next reply cause every time you respond it’s like you’re talking to someone else in an entirely different… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 06:08 AM |
| 9 | Radical Change: Woman should ONLY accept casual sex from decent men who make them orgasm every time.You said my post is about men only being good for sex. I provided several direct quotes to negate that claim. I told women to hold high standards for anyone they chose to enter their bodies. That’s really all there is to this post. It’s fine if you think everyone who engages in casual sex is a pick me who won’t listen to reason, but it would behoove you to realize that all women are conditioned to be pick mes. Breaking that spell is the whole point of this sub. If you really think there is no ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:05 AM |
| 6 | Radical Change: Woman should ONLY accept casual sex from decent men who make them orgasm every time.And that’s why I made this post. Because if girls followed this guide (found a GOOD guy who is great in bed) most would find these “no strings attached dudes” are a waste of time. I’d rather be celibate than hook up with trash again. Good for you sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:31 AM |
| 16 | Radical Change: Woman should ONLY accept casual sex from decent men who make them orgasm every time.This. And no women are given the platform to tell the truth. I’m in my mid twenties and recently had my first orgasm. It’s a tragedy honestly which is why I wrote the post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 01:16 AM |
| 14 | Radical Change: Woman should ONLY accept casual sex from decent men who make them orgasm every time.I used to be one of them. Unreal. That’s why. I made this post though...because literally NO one is telling young girls this. Honestly if women followed this advice casual sex would plummet. Honestly for the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 12:58 AM |
| 15 | Radical Change: Woman should ONLY accept casual sex from decent men who make them orgasm every time.Actually, my post does not advocate for men “only being good for sex” To quote my own post: Why stop at vetting men for having high value when it comes to relationships? I also included the words “decent” men in my title because they need to always treat you with respect. Maybe they’re low value cause they live at home or watch porn, but never compromise your dignity for a LVM. Men need to be held accountable, even if it’s regarding casual sex. These are baby making activities ladies. Even “prot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 12:40 AM |
| 42 | Radical Change: Woman should ONLY accept casual sex from decent men who make them orgasm every time.Girl, if you’re not into casual sex then you’re ahead of the game. This post is for the girls accepting mediocre sex from dudes who can’t even make them cum. Used to be me 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 11:38 PM |
| 18 | Just a rantdid I honestly waste a year of my life like that? Did I really cut out so many friends and let him talk shit ab people I care ab because I was so blinded to how dumb I was being? At least you learned this self destructive pick me behavior hurts no one but yourself. Believe me sis, most of us have been here. This is why we are so stern with girls who believe “Oh if I just do this and this and this for him he will love me”. I’m so sorry for your hurt and your pain, but this is exactly how men are.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 02:27 PM |
| 204 | They Always Come BackAnd do not be flattered when they come back. All it means is the options he left you for left him, and he’s hoping you’re easy validation/sex until something else that interests him comes along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 02:17 PM |
| 13 | FDS works in marriages tooGod marriage sounds fucking exhausting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 02:28 PM |
| 6 | Advice? Moral support?I’m sorry but this guys just wants to have and good time AND fuck you. That’s all. You’re just trying to have a good time, keep dating, see where this goes etc. That’s the most effort you’re going to ever get out of him. And if he ever takes you out again he will expect sex. That is if he hasn’t already blocked your number. He’s looking for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 12:59 AM |
| 5 | Advice? Moral support?You are totally right. And if he gives you a hard time respond with “bitch bye” and block but maybe that’s just me lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 12:57 AM |
| 5 | Daily reminder if no one knows you’re together, you’re 110% single and free to act single.So true. But at least it makes those idiots 95% more likely to get caught. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 12:53 AM |
| 34 | Dating as an inexperienced 23 yo virgin: an insightI was someone who waited until my 20s to lose my virginity. I had seen my friends get hurt left and right by “hot” men they opened up to and I knew I’d be devastated if I lost it to a guy who just ghosted me after. My honest advice, which you can take or leave, is to find a guy who basically worships you. I lost it at 20 to a guy who knew I was was way out of his league physically. I gave him a chance and he did everything for me. He was a successful, popular slightly older guy (by 4 years) who … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 12:38 AM |
| 11 | Advice needed : first two dates with what seems to be a HVM. I'm a recovered pickmeisha, fighting old reflexes.Please know I’m at zero percent criticizing you for posting your question. We need posts like this because hundreds of girls are learning from your situation. I’m just challenging you to look at this from a meta POV. From now on you know that any guy who has you trying to navigate this many mixed signals this early on is not worth the energy. You live and you learn. That’s the point of life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 07:23 PM |
| 14 | I think my mum and this sub might have saved me from something possibly quite sinister.And he might have been well rounded! But any man who puts the pressure of “Make the money I spend on this hotel worth it” on you, especially on the first date without knowing you, is the kind of man that is potentially dangerous. If you went on a date with the same man, during day time while doing all the things I listed in my comment above, you’d be relatively safe. We have to assume all men are crazy, even the nice ones. But that doesn’t mean there isn’t a lot we can do to stack safety in our … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 06:39 PM |
| 14 | Advice needed : first two dates with what seems to be a HVM. I'm a recovered pickmeisha, fighting old reflexes.Yes and let me add that you are currently spending more energy on this dude vying for his attention and posting about him online than you would dating two men who were both serious about pursuing you (Wining and dining you with no mixed messages) at the same time. Pick your poison! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 04:03 PM |
| 6 | How can I become a HVW?Somethings missing in you? I’d bet it’s self confidence. They can probably see the insecurity in you, the thing running across your face that says “Im working on myself so please love me”. If you walk around with the air of “yes I know I’m amazing and if you don’t treat me as such, enjoy being ghosted” you will notice a dramatic shift in men. You’re bettering yourself in order to achieve their approval. Men don’t want to lock down women who are desperate for their validation. They want women the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 03:54 PM |
| 54 | I think my mum and this sub might have saved me from something possibly quite sinister.Men think you owe them sex after buying you a coffee. I’m glad you trusted your gut because I would never trust a man I didn’t know who needed to get a hotel just to go on a simple date with me. That would not have ended well. I support your decision to take a break but just know that if you continue to use common sense (heavily vet in conversation, always drive yourself, have early dinners, go places people know you, share your location with friends and/or family), you’ll be in much better shap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 03:20 PM |
| 40 | Advice needed : first two dates with what seems to be a HVM. I'm a recovered pickmeisha, fighting old reflexes.It means nothing that you prioritize your friends, work and family if it means you will cling on to the first and only guy you’re dating because “you don’t have time to date anyone else.” HVW do not entertain men who aren’t invested period. Why would you waste what little time you do have trying to convince this self centered prick to initiate conversation? If you’re going to date one at a time you HAVE to be ready to collect your red flags after the first two dates and leave. Replace him with t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 03:13 PM |
| 10 | Keeping a date diaryYou are a QUEEN. Thank you so so much for sharing 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 04:29 AM |
| 26 | Keeping a date diaryA an avid journal-er, I LOVE this idea. Did you by any chance track sex as well? Or did you wait for exclusivity for sex? If not, did you notice a trend in the way you were treated/felt after sex with a guy you were dating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:36 PM |
| 83 | I am not a sweet girl. You know why? Because I’m not a puppy or a child. Up your game, “boys.”Love this. I’m a mother and an executive...not your “sweet little girl” Can we get this in a shirt?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:30 PM |
| 38 | How can I become a HVW?You’ll know you’re ready when you genuinely, in your heart, start using this break 100% for you and not at all to “be a better potential partner” for some man. Women are not high value because they shape their world around being a desirable partner. They live for themselves and they love themselves. They don’t take shit from men and are more than happy to be single for years if it means not dealing with low value men. When the high value man is ready to pursue her, then he can. As long as he is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:24 PM |
| 9 | New to FDS, can I apply these principles to a guy Ive been dating -- or is it too lateRight. If you think a guy can’t tell you’ve chucked all your eggs in his basket, you’re fooling yourself. Back off for your self sis. You’re seeking his approval so hard and he can barely be bothered to text you back. Don’t serve up unearned loyalty, affectionand devotion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 08:39 PM |
| 7 | New to FDS, can I apply these principles to a guy Ive been dating -- or is it too lateSo according to this post he biggest pluses are that he sometimes mostly pays for the dates you plan and starts convos by thanking you for the professional advice you give him. What does he do for you that isn’t a response to you doing something nice for him first? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 08:31 PM |
| 25 | New to FDS, can I apply these principles to a guy Ive been dating -- or is it too lateYou’ve been doing his job for him all this time. Keeping conversation steady, planning and proposing super fun dates and all the other stuff you’ve been doing are his job. Idk if it’s just the way I read it, but it sounds like you’ve been doing a lot of the work and he’s just been responding. And you’re giving him all this free professionals help? And you want to reel him back? I’m afraid you won’t be able to fake it this late in the game, nor should you. You have to let them chase. A huge part … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 08:20 PM |
| 103 | That's an understatement, Joe.I’m actually nauseous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 07:33 PM |
| 10 | Where Did Women Learn That Having to Fake Orgasms Was Normal??This 😭 It’s either this or they don’t care AT all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 04:10 PM |
| 31 | Is this worth celebrating now?He might as well have just added “Can you help me mommy?” To the end of his text. It’s seeming more and more that husbands are just additional children that cheat on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 06:18 PM |
| 3 | What happened to the all the HVM who took you out on special dates?We’re still together 💜 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:44 AM |
| 9 | Pickmeisha is looking for an advice in a local group 🤦♀️ Ever since I joined this sub it triggers me even more. “Yes, girl!! You go!! Let him know you are ready for some pump and dump action!” Should I say something?Not the pump and dump action 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 05:45 AM |
| 24 | First of all, get into this tea. All of Britain is mad 😭, but can someone explain to me why Megan is so hated?Because she was married and divorced and is half black. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:10 PM |
| 19 | Another one“Sincere” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:51 PM |
| 24 | Is it just me, or are the WORST, sketchiest LVM on Plenty of Fish? I had a shockingly bad experience...Does POF still allow any loser to message you who wants to contact you? At least there is somewhat of a natural vetting process with an app like tinder where rejects you swipe left on cannot harass you. Still gotta vet but at least they’re pre selected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:49 PM |
| 25 | Can I turn my non-FDS relationship into something more FDS?Wow that was a rollercoaster lol. Thanks for sharing!! Here’s what I got from your post: Right now, your immediate short term needs are getting not only met, but beautifully surpassed. Go you! You deserve this treatment and I’m so happy for you. The problem you’re rubbing up against, which I’m sure you realize, is that while the short term is AMAZING, you are dating a man who is 110% committed to you today, and -110% committing to your “tomorrow.” Here and now he is happy to be everything you ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 06:56 PM |
| 8 | How do you achieve the right balance between being perceived as strong vs weak? Or is this a non-issue?They feel needed when you let them lavish and spoil you. My boyfriend saw my life was full of friends and accomplishments when we met. So he planned excursions and super fun and creative dates for us to go on. Find a guy who wants to take you to the next level. You don’t dim your shine so his bare minimum looks good. Find a guy at your level who can genuinely pull you up. Otherwise you’re wasting your time. 3 years later my bf still seeks to impress me and prove that being with him is better tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 05:16 PM |
| 28 | Saw this on Instagram and thought of you ladies. What a queen.I don’t get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 05:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The only type of monogamous relationshiop worth having (especially for a guy) is one in which you can regularly share your true feelings (including negative ones) without negative (especially sexual, for a guy) consequence.So, that being said, why in God's green earth would anyone, especially a guy, choose to foresake all other sexual options to be around just one girl 24/7, and he must withhold his true feelings because if he doesn't his sole source of sex will dry up from lack of being attracted to him! (Seeing him as whiny, etc.) You could have just said “why would a man be in a relationship and have sex with one girl instead of many?” By going on and on about women not being their husbands therapists, you’re i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 04:57 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The only type of monogamous relationshiop worth having (especially for a guy) is one in which you can regularly share your true feelings (including negative ones) without negative (especially sexual, for a guy) consequence.Men don’t want monogamous relationships because they want to fuck everything they see. Sounds like a quick fix to your problem is to get a therapist honestly. Because single or taken you’ll still have these bottled up emotions? Fucking multiple women won’t fix the problem. But once again men’s inability to keep their cock in their pants is the woman’s fault. What’s knew? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 02:30 PM |
| 13 | Instagram stories..You’re probably one of probably 200 tinder matches he watches online. Block and delete the creep. We don’t reward low effort with our valuable presence here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 11:36 PM |
| 108 | Man discovers wife is more attracted to him when he puts in effort. Leaves herBREAKING NEWS: Man becomes the husband the wife fell in love with by no longer being a fat slob and complacent recluse. Gains more female attention at the same time and dumps wife under the guise of “resentment”. More at 11. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 11:34 PM |
| 6 | Is dominance really the only path to respect?Read the second and third sentence of the post and try again. Reading is fundamental 🌈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 03:44 AM |
| 2 | How should I respond to "what are you looking for?" when OLD?I would have said the same thing as you and I consider myself a very successful OLD dater. You did the right thing. He wants some virginal desperate girl he can lie to. Not an independent woman who has options. He know he can’t compete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 03:39 AM |
| 14 | How to fix things if you screw up with a HVM?I think it’s beyond fair for you to be vulnerable with him and express this. Even if it’s just to clear the air, so that you all don’t leave on this note. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 03:24 AM |
| 36 | I don’t even know where to start; the threesome fantasy, the ‘conversion’ fantasy and her thanking him for making her day with his gross comment on her marriage... Just shows how they view women reallyIdk why seeing your downvote cracked me up. How utterly pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:05 AM |
| 11 | How to fix things if you screw up with a HVM?I meant what the argument was about on the anniversary of your mothers death. You don’t have to discuss it but I don’t know if people can give you accurate advice without more context. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 12:25 AM |
| 15 | Let's talk about LDRs.I see, and I respect that point of view! For me personally, I would see it as a red flag if a man proposed after 6 months. To me it would indicate a lack of forethought and impulsive behavior. The reason why it’s recommended that a couple date for 18 months prior to engagement is because no matter how wonderful the person seems in the first 6 months, there is no way of knowing how they react to real life events (deaths, accidents, possible things that may force a LDRs etc). And even if those thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 12:05 AM |
| 29 | How to fix things if you screw up with a HVM?It was the anniversary of your mothers death...talk to him. You don’t go into detail about what the argument was about...something tells me you might be being bit hard on yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 11:53 PM |
| 20 | Let's talk about LDRs.I agree with everything except the notion that a HVM will propose in 6 months. I think that’s a recipe for love bombing and and a relationship based on infatuation. Psychologists say no one should marry anyone before 18 months of knowing them. But ANYWAY yes never start a relationship in an LDR and only be in one if you know the man very very well, trust him, and have safeguards. My bf and I are LDR rn but we were dating 2 years before we met, he stays in on the weekends when I go out (we FaceTi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 11:49 PM |
| 12 | Is dominance really the only path to respect?You’re playing straight into her game. She makes you jealous, you come storming in like a rabid baboon fighting her and fighting for her. You’re feeding right into her ego after she cheated on you. If your not being Alpha. You’re being embarrassing and predictable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 11:32 PM |
| 50 | LVM now targeting high value women..There’s no point in even dating for the purpose of being in a relationship if you allow the paralyzing fear of being “dumped” consume you. Following FDS is important. Yes, it helps weed out LVM,but more importantly, it encourages women to be the best that they can be for themselves so that single or taken, no man can destroy them. In the end, everyone is looking out for themselves and their self interest. But if you are consistently taking care of yourself and deriving purpose from things outsid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 10:13 PM |
| 110 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢And she’s DEFINITELY a faithful virgin who would NEVER cheat on her long distance incel American sugar daddy...lmfao. It’s so sad I actually believe he’s done this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 09:25 PM |
| 113 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢Soooo she agreed to have children with him in exchange for money? LOL and he’s BRAGGING about this? He’s bragging about paying child support to a woman in another country? Yeah women do this daily to athletes all the time LOL. Also hate to break it to him, but she’s getting dicked down regularly by the real love of her life in her home country and he’s financially supporting the two (or more) of them. Hahahahaha for how distrusting men are of women, it’s astounding how gullible and stupid they a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Ultimate PickMe?Agree to disagree. To me a pick me is someone who is desperately vying for a man’s love, makes excuses for him and has no self esteem. A woman who was betrayed in the deepest way, and stays most likely to avoid being a single mother and dealing with the fall out, while actively ignoring her POS husband’s demands on how to handle his BS behavior is something else entirely, at least imo. You can argue “staying for the kids” is not the way to go, but to confuse that very difficult choice for being … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 05:39 PM |
| 8 | You want me to stay loyal to you when we’re just TALKING to each other? That’s cute! 😂Meanwhile his man tit is about to tumble out of his shirt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 02:24 PM |
| 6 | LVM disguised as HVMMen can be high value and not be the right person for you. Just like a good woman can fall in and out of love with a good man. You don’t mention him being manipulative or an out right liar. It sucks and it’s terrifying but people can fall out of love, or not feel motivated to try after the honeymoon phase is over. It SUCKS but unless you missed glaring red flags, there isn’t much you can do about this. Breaking up will always be a risk, no matter how into each other a couple is at first. All you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 09:09 PM |
| 5 | Ultimate PickMe?It’s just interesting to me how a man cheats, and everyone looks to the woman to call her names first based on what he did. Internalized misogyny. The mans a cow period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 05:46 PM |
| 27 | Ultimate PickMe?She’s not even a pick me cause she’s doing what the fuck she wants and ignoring her low value husbands low value behavior(ie ignoring the mess HE created). I mean I could NEVER but let’s not take focus away from what a steaming pile of horse shit this joke of a man is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 09:53 AM |
| 125 | Fat Guys Do Not Appreciate How Lucky They Are to Have YouGirl....this goes way beyond him being fat. Why are you, a queen, chasing after pigs? He told you he was a broke bald pig with a small dick too...? Does chasing low value men make you feel better about yourself? No shade! This post just concerned me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 03:13 AM |
| 65 | what if he doesn't push me for sex bc he have casual sex with other women?You need to always assume every guy you date is sleeping with others no matter what he says. So you pretty much have two options: Follow FDS and - Refuse to quickly sleep with him and expose yourself to the new germs of his side piece of the month - Never pay for dates during the courting phase, effectively weeding out men who just want to stick to easy free sex. OR Give it up easy and be another herpe on his rotation Pay for half of his dates allowing him to have his cake and eat it too. Believ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 11:40 PM |
| 18 | Guys with relationship memes all over their social media..thoughts?I don’t date men who post to social media regularly looking for attention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:40 AM |
| 2 | How to let a man know he isn't the only one competing for me?Tell him when you’re out at bars with your friends. Be places where you can meet people. Go on trips and tell him hey I’m out I’ll text you later! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | On being the "female"/feminine in in the relationship when you are masculine at work and else where. Question Flfor "strong" women.I LOVE my femininity. I hate that that’s become a curse word. Like in order for a woman to be respected she can’t embrace femininity. And yes being a boss bitch, child bearing leader in the professional world is feminine af. I’m currently on an international trip that my bf brought me on. After working so hard all year and racking in money, I get to save it all and be treated like a queen. And you best believe my nails, hair, eyebrows etc. are done. My body is fit and I feel soooo good. I love t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 05:56 PM |
| 9 | Do you tell men what you’re looking for? Or do you just wait a bit?I’ve only gotten into relationships when I haven’t been looking for them. Turns out specifically telling men I’m NOT looking for a relationship made them try hard af to tie me down and keep me. Ive been in two LTRs for the past 6 years (since I was 19 so basically my whole adult life.). I met my current bf one month after breaking up with my ex and moving to a new city. I resisted a relationship for 6 months until I fell for him and 3 years later I’ve never been happier. So if I ever ended up si… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 05:27 PM |
| 7 | Antisocial TRP and FDS strategies don't scale when adopted by a large population. The dating market becomes dysfunctional when too many individuals adopt the strategies they prescribe.Yall on here crying about fat women everyday then ask this. Do wOmEnz EvEn wOrk Out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 02:26 PM |
| 1 | A woman dating other men on the side, while dating you, is the same as you (as a man) hooking up with women on the side, while dating a surtain woman.It’s called being single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 02:23 PM |
| 25 | No Contact Broken: Seething With RageSending you lots and lots of love sis ❤️❤️❤️ Feel the rage and feel the pain for an appropriate period of time. But when all that clears please realize that when he told you “I like you so much I’m afraid I’m going to mess it up” he was telling you, without hesitation, exactly what he ended up doing. He is a love bomber. He knew falling for you was a red flag because its a pattern for him to grow infatuated with women too quickly, even at the expense of the woman he made a commitment to. You wer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 06:29 AM |
| 67 | r/dating post about how men have to be “perfect to be wanted.” Welcome to womanhood!Hmm if I’m capable of having your child, you better fucking bet you’re going to have to be a perfect match for me. Tf?? These are the same men who would stick their raw dick in anything in that moves. Their lack of selectivity is disgusting. The thought of letting a loser inside of me makes my skin crawl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 11:49 PM |
| 21 | Next up on “Why I treat everyone like shit and make poor life decisions...fatherless men”No I actually agree with this post. The problem is, I haven’t seen the comments but I can already smell the male apologists defiling the truth of this sentiment. Will men ever step up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 10:20 PM |
| 0 | CMV: If you are heterosexual and spend all your time trashing people of the opposite sex, you should not have any relationships with people of the opposite sex.Damn that whole last paragraph was a super sad cope full of projections because a woman like me couldnt possibly be in love with a man who meets her high expectations and vice versa. “Sweetheart” I’m happy and adored by the man whom I adore and treat very well. Because I recognize the trash men out there, I can fully appreciate the one I have. All humans can be sick in nature. It takes someone with a lot of self discipline and morals to break those sick habits. As I said women have them too. So … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 09:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If you are heterosexual and spend all your time trashing people of the opposite sex, you should not have any relationships with people of the opposite sex.I think we are seeing a lot of servants struggling with each other lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Key differences in male/female perspectives on datingAnd I’m sure all of these men have learned from your post and will for now on be more sensitive to the struggles of women. Bravo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Key differences in male/female perspectives on datingAs you can see from your comments, men don’t care about your struggles if they can’t get matches. They don’t care, neither should you. Wasting your time trying to prove getting 20 shitty matches and 5 good ones is somehow comparable to getting no matches is nonsensical. I mean you can make the point and you did, just don’t expect anyone to care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Key differences in male/female perspectives on datingGood for you, I’m happy to hear that! Nothing exists in a vacuum. This is the problem with even wanting to participate in the oppression olympics. Race, looks, gender, height, wealth, education,disability etc are all huge factors when it comes to dating life. I’m arguing everyone leverage what privilege they DO have and be thankful for them when someone points it out, rather than immediately finding ways to be the victim. Be thankful you HAD options to be able to find your LTR. Would you have fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 07:29 PM |
| 0 | CMV: If you are heterosexual and spend all your time trashing people of the opposite sex, you should not have any relationships with people of the opposite sex.Hi OP! I’m the bitch from FDS you quoted!! I made this comment on a thread talking about how women like me are miserable to date. I don’t have the energy to write something new so I’ll copy and paste what I said in that thread. Good job cropping my words to better suit your post tho :) I don’t blame you though that was some harsh ass shit I said. But for the record I’m not a man hater. I just recognize most are sex addicts. Men on this very sub admit to thinking about sex every 7 minutes. That i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 07:23 PM |
| 3 | CMV: If you are heterosexual and spend all your time trashing people of the opposite sex, you should not have any relationships with people of the opposite sex.OMG I just randomly stumbled upon this thread and am SO honored to have been quoted!! That post of mine was a hit among men lol. OP conveniently edited out this part of my comment: “If me being his “possession” in his mind means he treats me, my family and my friends like royalty, protects and raises his children right, and supports me AND isn’t clingy/ actively possessive, whatever. I’m no one’s possession but I am high value that can be easily lost. Love and attachment are absolutely condition… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Key differences in male/female perspectives on datingYep. Like why would I fight an obviously depressed and rejected man about who has a worse dating experience? I have a biological clock to worry about in about 10 years, I’m going to take his anger to contextualize how relatively easier I have it. Dating as a woman for me has been amazing. Being single was a blast, now my bf treats me great. Will this last? Who knows? But I’m not going to waste my time entertaining fuck boys just to run to reddit (purple pill in particular - full of incels) and c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 06:26 PM |
| 11 | Key differences in male/female perspectives on datingI just think it comes down to no one actually caring about experiences that do not mirror their own or the experiences of those in their circles. Men who get maybe 3 matches a day don’t care about how all 12 of your fuckboys let you down since you’re the kind of girl who would swipe left on him anyway. Then girls who get a million matches and get treated poorly by men with options don’t give a shit about incel type men and their anger because why would they? I’m a female who has had no problems … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 06:12 PM |
| 17 | Cringe!My question is, which women would have sex with him for free? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:57 AM |
| 90 | Stop telling men about themselves unless they are paying you to.I wish an auto bot would link this post every time a well meaning but slightly lost FDS sister posts a screen shot the the wall the text she sent a loser looking for props... It’s like I love you sister but that will never ever ever be the move. Based post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:49 AM |
| 109 | Teen Vogue Feels It’s Important For Your Daughters to Learn How to Have Anal Sex This Christmas SeasonI’m just gunna fucking say it. There are no teen girls out there who need to learn how to “take it in the ass”. Period. Pick me’s don’t @ me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:35 AM |
| 9 | The lack of solidarity among women sometimes breaks my heartAwesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 02:07 AM |
| 49 | The lack of solidarity among women sometimes breaks my heartYour friends are wrong but this will be a long hard journey for the long run. You wanna have babies with this guy when those will be your baby’s family too? Make sure he’s even worth it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:13 PM |
| 46 | Is it just me or is this really rude? I sent him a study I found interesting about how gender plays out in school and he answers with this lol. Context: it's the first study I've ever sent him and we were talking normally up until this point. I never talk about feminist issues with him.Out of the over 100K men following the red pill, there’s a good chance he’s one of them. Conversations revolving around gender usually only piss of men who hate women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:10 PM |
| 80 | 31 year old man is trying to date me (20 year old), red flag or nah?31 Red flags to be exact One for each predatory year on earth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:07 PM |
| 16 | Beware of men trying to neg youI don’t even argue with men on this topic. Yes I am at smart attractive women with a shit ton of options. Some good some bad. And when single I take the time to vet. Angry reddit man has no options. Like sucks to fucking suck. Don’t try to identify with these losers. We are NOT them for good reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 10:09 PM |
| 16 | On top of all the things we already do in preparation for a first date (both looks wise and SAFETY wise), we should also make fools of ourselves so our dates don’t feel too intimidated and nervousOmg I just went to check...first says she’s a feminist...then says she wants to teach her son that there’s a world where women care that he’s nervous? Then says she will blow nervous men to make them feel better. Her son will be another LVM mess to add to the list by 18. Sad cause he never had a chance with a mom like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 02:39 AM |
| 71 | Male-Centered Dating Advice Directed at Women - A CompilationMy bf was so shy and nervous when we first met. It was adorable. Did I then aggressively pursue and chase him even though he’s tall, hot and successful? Hell no. Even though he was shy, I still let him take the lead. 3 years later he is still very very cautious of how I view him. Men should be on their toes at all times. Despite popular belief it keeps all parties interested. It’s not a fun truth but it’s a fundamental truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 07:34 PM |
| 58 | On top of all the things we already do in preparation for a first date (both looks wise and SAFETY wise), we should also make fools of ourselves so our dates don’t feel too intimidated and nervousMen should feel very nervous to date and impress me. Like, what the actual fuck was OP going on about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 07:05 PM |
| 25 | He wanted to pay but I paid my own foodYour title is wrong It should be: “He DIDN’T want me to pay, so I paid my own food” What a clear pick meisha test. If you go out again I think you’re just wasting your time and money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 05:15 PM |
| 25 | Why are men this stupid?How can someone’s natural face be an autobiography? Did I do ANYthing to “earn” my natural face and body? No. I was born with it. But some how I’m worthy if I’m attractive to a man. GoodBYE. Lookism is way too real. It’s sad really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 12:44 AM |
| 68 | Another Reminder to NEVER, yes NEVER, tell men your sexual history. Their little scrote brains can’t handle it and it will become an object of their continuous fixation.If he is very very feminist then 1 and a half. LOL so so true hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 11:06 PM |
| 5 | A man who is content keeping you in a noncommittal situationship is one that doesn’t care if you’re being wined, dined and dicked down by other menI am so honored 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 10:33 PM |
| 119 | "Man" hangs out with tinder girl, has 3 dates with her, fails to establish exclusivity, smashes, and is upset she's hooking up with others. Daily reminder that you don't owe them shit and daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men!!!!!!Omg I JUST made a post about this topic!Hahaha. This is exactly what I’m talking about. Men really left to their own devices are out here thinking they’re gods gift to every woman they date. Meanwhile they’re #11 on a long ass roster. This dude is delusional though. 3 dates? And he’s STILL ON TINDER shocked that she’s...using tinder too? I’m telling you. These guys really think they’re IT. If he’s low value he’ll call her a who*re jus to make himself feel better. Ladies be like this girl and kee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 07:07 PM |
| 50 | Am I being harsh or is this LVM behaviour?If he’s not dropped, put him back on the farthest possible burner that exists. Do not see him on Monday and stop pursuing him. Odds are super high he will just taper off on his own anyway. Let him. You deserve to be chased. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 05:55 PM |
| 21 | Liberal Feminists are doing a massive disservice to women by completely ignoring the practical reality of male/female biology and the behavior of men. This exchange on r/askFeminists illustrates why their “gender theories” for relationships repeatedly fall apart in practice.You are fighting the GOOD fight sis. Holy shit. I don’t think I could ever step foot in that den of women hating pick me’s. At least men have something to GAIN from their misogyny. AT least I’d know WHY a man would fight me for saying I won’t fuck him on the first date or be his mother while raising his children and supporting the family. A shit man is going to protect his low efforts at all cost. We agree to disagree and he keeps loving his low value life. But WOMEN?! I mean this would be laugh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 05:36 PM |
| 70 | Can you relate to Pickmeishas anymore?We grew up on Disney movies that taught us that being loved by a man is a woman’s purpose in life. We grew up being told marriage is the goal and with the rise of social media, attention seeking became nearly as addicting as porn for some women. Instead of getting upset by the pick me’s around me, I just calmly lead by example. I stopped fighting them - their indoctrination runs too deep. It’s not until they allow a man to drag them to rock bottom that they hopefully can see the light. While I a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 09:12 PM |
| 9 | I'm still friends with my toxic ex boyfriendAnd he’s clearly lying to you? Since he left you, when has he acted on those words? It’s not confusing it’s very clear on his end. I think what you brought up about your dad and brother are closer to your answer. The question isn’t “why does he say he cares then lie?” It’s “Why am I forcing myself to pretend to believe his lies?” I think the answer has to do with your past, fears and hang ups. I’ve been through it. Not as bad as this, but giving up someone you love is hard. But most necessary th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 10:19 PM |
| 12 | I'm still friends with my toxic ex boyfriendThe only confusing thing is you going back and giving him everything he wants even though he doesn’t want you. Sounds like you’ve been through a lot and should see a good therapist to rebuild your self esteem and deal with your family trauma. These aren’t things most women can deal with alone. Even if they can, they shouldn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 10:07 PM |
| 12 | I'm still friends with my toxic ex boyfriendI think I want him see me successfully moving on without him, and being happier for it. The day you stop living for him and start living for you is the day you’ll finally be free. Hope you find the strength sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 09:59 PM |
| 8 | WEAR A CONDOM OR STFU. Birth Control is NOT 100% effective and comes with INSANE side effects that SIGNIFICANTLY impact our quality of life.So you got pregnant anyway?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 09:37 PM |
| 33 | I'm still friends with my toxic ex boyfriendYou’re afraid of the toxic dating culture so you stick to the toxic asshole to waste your time with? You know what you have to do. It’ll be hard, but it will be worth it. It really isn’t much more complicated than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 09:25 PM |
| 37 | Dating changes needMen need to spoil you well before you spoil them. It’s not even a manipulation. As you found out, men get bored when there’s nothing to chase. They get bored and complacent then leave in order to find a challenge. You sound like a very sweet person but the reality is a man needs to earn your affection. It’s to the point where it actually turns them off when they feel a girl wasn’t hard to get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 09:22 PM |
| 34 | What is happening in the South of the USA? It's getting scary!!It’s “getting” scary in the south? You must be straight, white and male cause sis...you have some history to catch up on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 03:14 AM |
| 39 | How do you verbally set expectations that you want a relationship?I once told a guy straight up that if I slept with every guy I dated I’d be up ten guys by Tuesday LOL. That shut him up. But I lean way more on the “keep him guessing make him chase” end of things which I know many here my disagree with. But I’d probably ignore the question all together and say “Great :) yeah I like to take things slow with whoever I’m with” That way he knows your boundaries and you’re not setting yourself up to look needy or easily manipulatable. You’re basically saying this v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 07:08 AM |
| 58 | Speechless.Let me guess. She has no sexual history and is a chaste virgin but will have to go on all fours and be “daddy’s little slut” within the first month of dating to prove she’s good enough for marriage one day. Just the usual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 04:55 AM |
| 22 | I need clarity.Telling a man “most men use me for sex so now the only way you can successfully get into my pants if you can pretend to care about me for three dates” is the best way to mark yourself as gullible, easily manipulated, ran through, not respectable and insecure. When men hear that other men treat you like shit and it makes you sad, it makes your appeal plummet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 04:39 AM |
| 157 | Catching an attitude for what😂“I don’t take care of myself why would I take care of anyone else?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 04:28 AM |
| 20 | Need some adviceGirl have him quit porn for 2 weeks and see if he stays hard. 99% sure he will. See if he can make it two weeks before determining he’s not addicted. It’s easy to say you’re not addicted to something you do everyday until you stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 03:35 AM |
| 16 | My ex cheated on me with his coworker but I'm going to be a lawyer....Fuck that shit bag. Seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 03:28 AM |
| 3 | I finally got courageous and I sent this to my ex, even though his only reply was “thank you” I feel 100 times better and thanks for your helpThere are users that read the sidebar before posting and there are those who just...don’t. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 12:55 AM |
| 17 | Did Beyoncé become a pickmeisha by staying with Jay Z? Your thoughts?Yep! There’s a 12 year age difference and he’s groomed her from teenager hood, much like R Kelly did Aaliyah. Also there’s been rumors Jay Z tried to get with Aaliyah too. It’s always lose lose for the women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 12:23 AM |
| 73 | My ex cheated on me with his coworker but I'm going to be a lawyer....I’ve been cheated on with the basic nobody coworker who had a thing for guys with gfs when I was 10 times out of my exes league...I see infidelity all of the time in the work place. The only person you have to stay true to is yourself. Congratulations sis! Keep it up. Please understand that your life is the only one that matters. Attorneys cheat and dumpster divers who date attorneys cheat. Once women stop trying to prove themselves to men, the sooner they’ll realize it was all for nothing anywa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 12:15 AM |
| 15 | Did Beyoncé become a pickmeisha by staying with Jay Z? Your thoughts?I mean...once you get married the chances of your husband NEVER cheating on you are like at almost zero. It’s just a matter of getting caught. She’s not a pick meisha because she exposed him to the world and basically made one of her best albums baring her soul to the world in a way no woman has powerful as she is has ever done. Call it capitalistic, but I thought it was brave. I’m sick of men being dogs and women getting called names for it. When you’re married, have a family, and billions at s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 11:59 PM |
| 10 | I thought this was a pretty good article. Bad headline thoughLOL these are all my same requirements :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 06:23 PM |
| 70 | His question was “Do you have any hard yes or nos when it comes to dating?”How can a woman have an emasculating personality? If a woman’s very presence can emasculate a man...lmfao run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 06:21 PM |
| 30 | Found a man who respects me and takes me to actual dates, like really fancy ones.. ButDoes he work on the weekends?? Have him take you out on a proper Saturday when he can bathe himself. Also does he work in construction? Why does he smell after a work day? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Let me play a sad song for you on the world’s smallest violin :(I would lead him on in order to get his personal information then screen shot screen shot screen shot his girlfriends way to freedom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 08:36 PM |
| 42 | How should I use FDS as a virgin who's tired of waiting?Genuine question: In what way do you expect your life to improve by losing your virginity to a LVM you don’t care about? So it’s easier to have sex with more LVM? The goal is to only have sex with HVM. Whether it’s your virginity or the 1,000th time you’ve fucked. Virgin or not don’t EVER allow undeserving crusty dick inside you. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 08:26 PM |
| 42 | THE MALES 👏 ARE PLOTTING 👏 ON OUR UTERUSES 👏Wait...so they’re gunna spend money on a fake uterus just to become a dead beat father? Like can men raise their own children first?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 06:06 AM |
| 46 | Challenge my View: I believe men are incapable of truly loving women for who they areAt this point, men are so fucked up with their perversion, possessiveness and unending entitlement, I’m not positive WHAT is going on in their minds. One can say I’ve been cursed with heterosexuality lol. So until my body stops craving male companionship and dick, I’ll keep my standards and guards up as high as the ceiling. If me being his “possession” in his mind means he treats me, my family and my friends like royalty, protects and raises his children right, and supports me AND isn’t clingy/ … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 08:30 PM |
| 58 | HmmUnfortunately I did see a comment from an alleged FDS disciple that said she used men and didn’t care if they were in relationships or not cause “it wasn’t her problem”. It was when I first joined and I didn’t say anything (should have) but I don’t see the harm in clarifying that point in then Bi-laws. Getting a sleaze ball to sleep with you or pay for you when he’s lying to his wife/gf is not “powerful” in any way shape or form. Maybe I’ll make a post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 08:19 PM |
| 110 | HmmCan we agree side chicks are automatically low value? As is anyone willing to hook up with a man they know is in a relationship with another woman? Hopefully this is in the FDS bi-laws | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 08:12 PM |
| 26 | What do you do when you’re already in a long term relationship with a LVM?THIS. HVW always leave men in better shape than we left them. I honestly believe my ex will be way less likely to cheat on his new gf after having lost me. Took him over a year to recover. BUT then again he’s still porn sick I’m sure but you know for her sake I’ll hope for the best lol. EDIT: but OP dump him. Even when it seems like they’re now perfect with someone new, the truth is they’re just smarter and hiding their faults. Either way, don’t make it your problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:45 AM |
| 24 | FDS and Long Distance RelationshipsGirl, long distance is a whole other ball game. When communication is literally everything, games are the last thing you need to play. Live your life as normal. Make time for him around your other activities. Have a schedule and a flow. Be as considerate as you’d want him to be. I’m currently long distance with my partner. When you love someone, there should be no games. I tell him hey babe I’m at work/the gym/going out to the bar with friends and he says great, have a wonderful time and text me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:11 AM |
| 17 | My profile stated my love language is “receiving gifts”There there you dumb fuck Can this be a flair? Can this be MY flair? Lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 02:29 AM |
| 97 | Meeting with an Exjust take the racquets and go my separate way without a word. Ding ding. He’s wasted 3.5 years of your life. Don’t let him waste another second. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 05:46 AM |
| 66 | Dating Older Men in Your 20s = Guaranteed Trauma?The difference between them and men our age is that they had the good sense to try and hide their bullshit up front where men our age tend to be a lot clumsier and stupider about hiding their nonsense. BINGO They also had a bit of expendable cash to sell us on a fairytale life during the “courting” phase. They know all the right behaviors to display to make it seem like they’re a dream come true. Of course, once they lock you down, the possessiveness and controlling behavior appears. FACTS And t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 05:09 AM |
| 120 | Is this what hitting the wall is like?Girl you better GET IT!!!! Side note for my FDS sisters, finding a way to innocently engage with a guy you think is cute, like by asking them a “genuine” question is a WONDERFUL way to get their attention:) I know OP was actually innocent but I thought it taught a great side lesson! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 04:52 AM |
| 4 | At what point should a guy say he loves you?I’m so glad sis :). I seriously relate. Don’t tell anyone, but I broke an FDS norm back when I was first dating my bf. I too was feeling like he was missing the perfect opportunities to tell me He loved me. I shouldn’t have doubted it. He stuck by me when I was still dealing with my ex, introduced me to his rich ass family (flying me across the country to do so) and everything else. But not hearing the words was confusing to me. So I broke the rules and told him first at a very romantic setting.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 04:42 AM |
| 7 | At what point should a guy say he loves you?I’m not the person who made this original comment thread, but I agree with them and would push you to answer their first few questions. I understand where you’re coming from but I’d challenge you to consider the other perspective which is that the 8 or so months you refused to commit to him may not count in his mind as time to feel safe to open up to you in such a vulnerable way. I’ve been in two LTR since I’ve been 19. Both started the same as you. I dated but refused to be exclusive with eithe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 08:02 PM |
| 8 | At what point should a guy say he loves you?Why jump to breaking up? Why not have a conversation about it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 07:10 PM |
| 22 | Guy completely cut me off because of jealousyWhat you did was not FDS strategy. Those are teenager mind games. Don’t confuse the two. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 07:01 PM |
| 15 | Told my mum about FDSI don’t fight with men or pick meisha’s about their trash dating cycles. It’s usually a waste of time and energy. If someone comes to me for help, or asks me how my love life is so strong, I will gladly advise. Otherwise, you just get called a slt shaming b**** and as much as it hurts me to watch a woman’s man treat her like shit. If she’s accepting it with open arms there’s nothing I can do. People have to see the truth when they are ready. It’s important to remember women were raised and condi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 06:49 PM |
| 21 | When you choose to have standards and walk, why does it feel like you got dumped instead?If I let my cheating ex tank myself esteem I would have never had the life altering experiences with friends and beautiful, sexy incredible men all over the world. Nor would I have been able to spot the signs of a porn sick dude during the dating process. Take it as a blessing. My high self esteem and non tolerance for bullshit is what keeps my HVM boyfriend fighting for me even three years later. LVM choose girls who will blame themselves for the man’s bullshit behavior. You’re human. It happen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 07:49 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with insecuritiesScarily accurate. Wow. Many can only see it after they’ve been through it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 04:29 AM |
| 40 | Does this deserve a response? Never met this guy - from hinge. Am I being sensitive thinking this is too forward?Girl even HE told you it was a solid answer. This is why silence speaks volumes on fuck boys. The longer you ghost the more humiliated he will feel. You’re doing great sweetie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 04:11 AM |
| 22 | Ladies, I need your judgement free help!Larp alert. Happy to see queens have not advised this fan fiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 12:59 AM |
| 12 | Men who often travel to South East Asia - red flag?I’m so sorry I actually meant the Philippines! Go anywhere you want as long as you’re safe! Women aren’t the problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 11:05 PM |
| 67 | Men who often travel to South East Asia - red flag?I stopped seeing a top executive because of this. We had one nice date but he was clearly older than he said he was (making him 15+years older than me rather than 10). Said he goes to Taiwan multiple times a year. Loved the “hospitality”. We had a fine time on the date. He couldn’t understand why I dropped him. Oh well. I know how these white men are. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 03:32 PM |
| 5 | Moms of FDS, how young do you feel is age appropriate to start teaching daughters about FDS?Is it an iPhone with unlimited access to the internet? I’d highly discourage this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 01:12 AM |
| 14 | Ex broke up with me, so I told him to move out of my (“our”) apartment immediately. Now what?Broke it off in September but I wasn’t in a rush to kick him out (for stupid pick-me reasons). Living in our shared space is emotionally toxic for me...but I’m often internally conflicted about making him gtfo. I don’t want to be “the bad guy”, 🧐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 01:04 AM |
| 11 | Dating an Older Man FAQsMen love the chase. Hopefully you’ve heard that once or twice on this sub. The same reason why he’s chasing you is the same reason why my ex (Me:19 him:24 at the time) waited 7 months to have sex with me and the same reason why my current HVM partner of three years chased the living shit out of me for 6 months and still does to this day. I was only trying to have a good time. I was actively not looking for a relationship. I was dating other people (they didn’t know this for sure) and I was just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 06:48 PM |
| 25 | Checked his phone and....GOOD FOR YOU. How’d the confrontation go?? Did you tell him you snooped? Did he deny it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 04:10 PM |
| 9 | When your mom is trying to set you up. It took me awhile to straight out say no.Your “Good gravy” was sooo cute haha! I’m totally going to use it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 07:19 AM |
| 39 | I think this horrifying post from dating_advice pretty much perfectly sums up what this sub is empowering women to avoid by knowing their worth. DO NOT BE HER.Sounds like he has AIDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 11:47 PM |
| 37 | Pathetic "surrendered wife" Pickmeisha in the r/marraige sub routinely gives RPW advice....after she fellates all the RP posters there of course. Because pick me's are gonna pick me. BTW, Pickmeisha takes undoes her "captain's" shoes" and takes them off for him.Dating Phase: Man pursues woman relentlessly, makes her feel special and beautiful and fun. She joyfully has sex with him and he is happy as can be Year 2 into marriage: Man puts all his energy and charisma into work then comes home and treats his wife like his mother. Negs her and never puts any effort into making her feel special or beautiful anymore. 4 hours later harass her for sex when she’s dry as a desert then cries on reddit because he doesn’t get blow jobs anymore. It’s a cycle. Can’t g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 08:44 PM |
| 63 | Man pursues woman who is sexually inexperienced. Expects pornstar performance. Complains about her lack of experience in bed. Calls her technique "boring", "bland". Insults her for "not knowing how to be sexy".... Fucking hypocrite. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE PORNSICK MEN! DUMP HIM!Be careful of who you have casual sex with ladies. Men are sick and men are liars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Woman cheats on & leaves man, gets engaged after dating someone else for 3 months, is getting married. Man's new PICKME GF is "excited the one that got away for him finally getting married". Women who lookout for themselves get what they want. Other PICKMEs come in second, third, last place.i don't think anyone here is making fun of her (at least i hope it) I made my own comment responding to the post. If you reread the title, OP is clearly shitting on this girl, calling her a pick me in all caps, while seemingly praising this trash cheater girl as “getting what she wants” for marrying her next desperate victim after 3 months. Glad to see sympathetic comments but my reply wasn’t it those. It was to OP. I see a pick me (especially one deserving of this condescending title) as someon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 06:51 PM |
| 21 | Woman cheats on & leaves man, gets engaged after dating someone else for 3 months, is getting married. Man's new PICKME GF is "excited the one that got away for him finally getting married". Women who lookout for themselves get what they want. Other PICKMEs come in second, third, last place.This girl isn’t even necessarily a pick me nor I’d someone to look down on or mock. Meeting someone you love who still harbors feelings for someone in their past is a heartbreaking ordeal for anyone. In a perfect world, all of us would completely forget our exes. No where in this post does she say she pays for him, wipes his ass or even comforts him when he’s crying over his ex. He told her he’s over it but as women were are more intuitive than that. He told her about his past and she realized h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 11:50 PM |
| 21 | Have you successfully broken an addiction to a fuckboy? Tell us how you did it, please!“How can I lose weight without craving sweets and fast food?” You will still crave the sweets at first. Abstaining will be difficult but if you practice self control and self discipline, in a few months time you’ll crave what’s healthy for you and you’ll look and feel amazing. “But that’s hard. After a week I want a McDonalds” What is best for you is never easy. Stuff your face with McDonalds If you want. But it will deter your progress. Don’t complain when you’re back to square one. It’s the sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | I truly don’t understand how me showing I’m interested in almost any male , makes them automatically not interested?Profound. Thank you for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 03:45 AM |
| 3 | The charmless sociopaths I’ve met have missed this memo. Just use your “superior” sense of humor to cope with your shitty life duh.OMG I would pay to see their tears over that one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 06:06 AM |
| 40 | 21F has sex less than 3 dates in and is now pressuring for relationship. He is, of course, unsure but he’s “enjoying the sex”.Don’t just assume but KNOW your favorite is pursuing other women as you date until he asks for exclusivity. Sure he sounds a little arrogant, but I could have written the same post back when I was single. Never assume a nice guy is denying dates just cause you like each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 12:01 AM |
| 8 | How do I break away? Or do I try one more time?....need adviceGirl are you really here exploiting our advice in order to further seduce another woman’s husband? Why don’t you ask his wife what she did to “keep” such a winner. Women like you disgust me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 11:48 PM |
| 12 | Boundary List for Codependants Dating the first 6 monthsThere’s a difference between not showing interest by making him chase you and being a dry, boring texter. Guys have to like you and your personality first for any of these strategies to work. Be yourself while on dates. Laugh, crack jokes, radiate in person and they will chase. Don’t initiate engagement and don’t be readily available all of the time. But when you are engaging with him, you have to be likable! Dating is it two way street after all. Most dudes won’t be a match and that’s okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 10:44 PM |
| 25 | Who’s Boyfriend is this?Couldn’t be mine or any other queens who don’t pay for “80% of the dates” or whatever bs he said. You’re right, you never 100% know If you’re dating a misogynist. But I can 100% prevent financially supporting one LOL. BTW, a boy like that who can’t even take care of a woman is definitely a b***ch boy irl. She takes charge of the bills and takes charge in bed? This woman has no respect for him and probably has a few bfs on the side to entertain. He probably knows this which is why he rages on the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Fucking pathetic. I ask for genuine advice over a gut feeling and you have the AUDACITY to message me shit like this. Nah lmaoYeah take this down OP. This dude just got hard knowing his message will be seen by thousands of queens. For the record, my bf has appreciated my high value for over three years ❤️ If I hadn’t dropped losers like the scrote you posted I would have never met the love of my life :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 02:37 PM |
| 9 | Giving dating/love advice to menTell him to be genuine, be a gentlemen, and to be persistent. FDS is the strategy of the HVW to filter out LVM in order to find the rare but worth it HVM. Being high value means nothing more than being the best you that you can be. For a man, that means being honest, generous, respectful and genuine. If a man isn’t trash, he’ll attract a good woman. There are WAY more good women out there than good men. Don’t let him let a few experiences that didn’t go his way radicalize him. Also, if he contin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 02:34 AM |
| 78 | When a pornsick loser encounters the reality of women's bodies: AITA for deciding to ban my boyfriend from the delivery room after finding out him and his brother were placing bets on my labor and delivery?Just shoved my fingers up my vag to make sure my IUD string is still securely in place because honey there ain’t no fucking way.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 08:26 PM |
| 71 | An update from the man who found his girlfriends FDS account. (Did we figure out who the lucky lady was??😂))Guy “catches” fiancée on FDS subreddit Him: I’m gonna change the day of the week I confronted her so she’ll NEVER KNOW this post is about her when she sees it on that subreddit Her: Holy shit this sounds exactly like what my fiancé did except...no couldn’t be. He confronted me on a TUESDAY. This dude caught his girl on a Wednesday. Thank GOD. Larpers are so fucking dumb. And HI IDIOT!! Since I know he’s reading this comment rn 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 05:54 AM |
| 12 | Guy asking to be in a relationship = not a good thing??You say, First of all, I never stated this happened to me But in your post you say Yet when I look back at previous relationships or those of others my age (early 20s), its literally just being used for sex until they get bored or something better comes along. How is that any much better than just having casual sex, other than a lower risk of stds? You’re just being used for sex then discarded and heart broken That’s called getting humped and dumped under the facade of a relationship. You think … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 05:19 AM |
| 8 | Curious about you guys think of this situation (long read)You have to let this go sis. There’s nothing to obsess about. Half of what happened is in your head. You’ll drive yourself crazy thinking about a crush. That’s all he was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 03:48 AM |
| 3 | How do I retake control?You’re looking for validation for why it’s totally in your favor to chase a man but you’ve come to the wrong place. Your friends are right and you have to deal with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 02:58 AM |
| 7 | Guy asking to be in a relationship = not a good thing??Well shit I guess I’ll hop on the train and plug my most recent post too, which you may find helpful. But I do think that if you are continually getting humped and dumped in the facade of a relationship then I’d take a deep examination of your dating and vetting practices. But good on you for realizing the pattern. There are a lot of methods to help Mitigate your issue. Maybe it’s waiting to have sex (my post) or maybe not. But can have a happy genuine relationship, it is entirely possible. Some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 02:54 AM |
| 4 | Hip Hop Hates womenDoja Cat, Megan the Stallion. Tierra Whack, City Girls just to start. I stopped listening to male rap last year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 05:48 PM |
| 7 | PSA: Why waiting to have Sex should have nothing to do with manipulating a manObviously do you but this when you say this if a guy chose to respect you if you “withhold” sex, doesn’t this lead to the logical conclusion that he will ONLY respect you if you are not having sex? Shows me you didn’t actually read my post or the title for that matter. I’m literally redefining the narrative. It’s in the title sis! I also specifically did not say “withholding sex” because it’s not a mind game. I don’t even mention time lines or even commitment which is controversial for this sub.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 03:33 PM |
| 42 | Are any other women here sick of attracting the nerdy, Reddit type of guy?Very relatable. Lost my virginity to a nerd who I was CONFIDENT would likely never cheat. Granted he treated me like a queen for the 2.5 years we dated, but at the end when I took an opportunity to work in another city for a year, his insecurities got the best of him and I found out he was being an insecure POS on the low. Showing girls his hot gf so they’d see him as high quality, then hit on them and cheat on me. (Allegedly only emotionally… Does it matter? Nope) I promptly left him and then f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 02:28 PM |
| 7 | My current situation as the girlfriend experience without commitment.Tell him exactly this! Give an ultimatum. He doesn’t tell you sweet words and give you kind gestures for YOU. He does them for himself. To keep you around to give the gf experience while he can sleep with and emotionally connect with other women at the same time. Don’t wait until he’s found someone new and exciting to leave you for. Tell him hey I want commitment or I walk. If he gives you anything other than commitment (yes even the sweetest “gesture”) walk. You deserve more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 02:16 PM |
| 14 | PSA: Why waiting to have Sex should have nothing to do with manipulating a manOmg who is this woman?! She is my spirit animal 😍 This is exactly my mindset. Down to the sentence. I specially avoided saying “with hold sex” multiple times because that didn’t feel right. Playing games is so transparent. Gotta do it for you and the truth will reveal itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 12:37 AM |
| 12 | PSA: Why waiting to have Sex should have nothing to do with manipulating a manMany men make women “feel” comfortable sleeping with them after the first date. My entire point that waiting is not easy, but it’s worth it. Notice that I didn’t put a time period. I’m not interested in encouraging mind games, but rather self discipline for all the reasons I name above. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Don’t call me your “cariño”Lmaooo how embarrassing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | would it surprise you if i told you he also only dates “fit” girls 🙄To RP men this is called “spinning plates” To women it’s simply called...dating. Lmao they hate to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 04:02 AM |
| 14 | My type is never interested in mePersonality absolutely matters to men who want to do more than just hump and dump you, or just ghost you all together. Where did you learn girls don’t need a personality to attract long term partners? I’m not saying you have a bad personality, but I think you need to be more mindful of the things you say that may actually negate FDS. If you come off as wanting a relationship too much, it’s a turn off. Don’t rely on your looks and body to snag a guy. Unless you’re a 10/10 model. Other than that, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 04:01 PM |
| 21 | My type is never interested in mePerhaps you’re socially awkward? You talk a lot about your physical appearance but we know nothing of your personality or people skills. You also don’t mention if you employ FDS or not. This info would help! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Help shedding the guilt of moving on?Guaranteed he can feel your dependency on him and that’s why he’s pulling away. He knows you’re in a vulnerable position. Whether you want to or not you’ve been projecting your unbalanced desire for him and see how comfortable he got switching it up on you? That’s why FDS alwayyyyys tells women to make the men chase. Always. Appear busy. Don’t go exclusive with a man who is using you but isn’t willing to provide for you. You’re afraid to hurt his feelings and he knows that. That’s why he’s behav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 02:43 AM |
| 4 | Help shedding the guilt of moving on?In order to alleviate the guilt it could be helpful just to send him a quick “hey it’s been fun but I’m going to start dating other people now. I’m down to still bang if you are, but I just wanted to give you a heads up where I’m at.” My first instinct would be the same as yours. Just date don’t ask permission. But my conscious beats me up too and that’s sometimes hard to swallow. On the plus side, telling him let’s him know you’re not putting up with his bullshit and that you’re not going to be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 03:42 AM |
| 37 | If you want to learn the truth about men's relationship desires, look at gay men.Straight men want want women and gay men have...unlimited access to sex. Women on this sub want more than that. And we can get it. That’s why #scrotesmad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Can we start taking our own advice and start to DELETE BLOCK & IGNORE no value incel posts on this thread of queens.Believe me, this is the most amount of energy I have ever and will ever expend on LVM much less incels. Unfortunately someone had to expend it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 02:31 AM |
| 16 | Retarded Limp-Dick Incels Talk About How They’re Going to Start a Gender War and Put Women in “Breeding Pens” Over the Existence of This SubJust made a post about it sis! Go support!! Lol. Cause this is not the move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 01:02 AM |
| 68 | Retarded Limp-Dick Incels Talk About How They’re Going to Start a Gender War and Put Women in “Breeding Pens” Over the Existence of This SubWhen are we going to be done reposting everything these no value nobodies are doing? We’re giving them what they want. They’re probably jacking off to this post rn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 09:57 PM |
| 17 | Does this guy sound legit? How should I proceed?You need to show men that you’re high value through your actions, not tell them by over sharing on the second date. If he had invited you for a sleep over or implied that he was a fuck boy, that’s when it’s appropriate to show your intentions by curving him with a simple “Hook ups don’t interest me.” He’ll either respect you more or run, but either way you showed him your expectations through your actions in response to a situation. Sounds like you went on two good dates and let your hurt and ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 05:10 AM |
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