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DebateLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:40 PM
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Question For MenLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:15 AM
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DebateLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:39 AM
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Lana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:34 PM
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DebateLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:10 AM
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Question for RedPillLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:57 AM
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Question for RedPillLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:07 AM
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DebateLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:18 PM
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Question For MenLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:53 PM
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Question for RedPillLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:31 AM
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Question for RedPillLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:05 AM
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Lana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:27 PM
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Lana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:39 AM
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Lana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:59 AM
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Question for RedPillLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:34 AM
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DebateLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:16 AM
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Question For MenLana_Sphyncter/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:47 AM
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I don't want kids so your point is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:07 PM
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Men are angry at women's standards. Men are not angry at me keeping this guy in my orbit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:03 PM
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You're going around in circles and spewing nonsense. You are confusing necessary with sufficient. Attractiveness is built on health markers, but healthy people are not necessarily attractive. I am a woman, do you understand that? And there are plenty of men and women who are in perfect shape and are still unattractive for reasons that cannot be fixed in the gym. True attractiveness can be potentiated by working out. True unattractiveness cannot be fixed in the gym. You know how many muscular sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:59 AM
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I completely agree with you, but it does not invalidate my point at all. Attractive people who gain weight become unattractive. Unattractive people who have no weight to lose are unattractive for reasons that have nothing to do with the weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:56 AM
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Ideal weight is necessary but not sufficient. Plenty of unattractive people are unattractive for reasons that have NOTHING to do with weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:12 AM
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People love to believe that attractiveness has to do with body weight. It's a comforting illusion because you have a degree of control over your body weight. It is much more painful to face the harsh reality, that our attractiveness or lack thereof is outside of our control. You'll see unattractive people who are at their ideal weight and they are still ugly. Because unattractiveness is not predicated on the weight but on skeletal, immutable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:02 AM
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People love to believe that attractiveness has to do with body weight. It's a comforting illusion because you have a degree of control over your body weight. It is much more painful to face the harsh reality, that our attractiveness or lack thereof is outside of our control. You'll see unattractive people who are at their ideal weight and they are still ugly. Because unattractiveness is not predicated on the weight but on skeletal, immutable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:01 AM
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I'm not overweight and even if I were, which I am not, what does it have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:46 AM
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I highly recommend you see a case worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:27 AM
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You sound upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:40 AM
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If you think that high-libido ugly guys who keep getting rejected and have to resort to prostitutes who do the deed with their eyes closed are happy, you're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:37 PM
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You are the biggest and most easily manipulable fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:03 AM
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No, no, no. Saying they can go with prostitutes is terrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:57 AM
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A boomer out of touch with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:55 AM
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Wow, you owned me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:44 AM
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False and fake are synonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:44 AM
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This is a more substantiative response. So you think that lowering the libido would also have repercussions in other areas of your life that have nothing to do with sex? And is there a fate worse than having a libido (a central part of your identity) and being unwanted and sexually frustrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:35 AM
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You don't even have a brain to cook. You guys make zero sense. You are undesirable, can never generate real attraction. If you do get married, it will be a dead bedroom, and still, you cling to your stupid, useless libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:32 AM
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Not true at all. You're spreading misinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:31 AM
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No, you're the one creating this fake equivalence between depression and freedom from libido. The greatest thinkers were celibate and were able to transcend their sexual drive. The real reason these ugly guys believe chemical castration would be a fate worse than death is because they fuel false hopes. They believe that, sooner or later, their situations will improve. If they were able to face the truth (that they are undesirable), they would want to free themselves from the shackles of their un…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:30 AM
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It doesn't disprove anything, it only proves my point. Men are mad because they are sexually undesirable. It is not companionship otherwise they'd be fine having friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:26 AM
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Objective suffering causes objective damage. You burn someone alive, the resulting damage is objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:40 AM
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They lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:40 AM
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There are antidepressants that only target the libido not the other system that is needed for more functions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:39 AM
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Because they are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:36 AM
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Don't you feel powerful now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:34 AM
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The desire for companionship is an illusion and is always subordinated to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:34 AM
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Gosh, you truly are differently abled. There are medications like antidepressants or hairloss medications that lower the libido with no other side effect. Just because something is a part of human biology, it doesn't mean it's desirable. Cancer is also part of human biology, but we fight against it tooth and nail. A lot of men are undesirable through no fault of their own. Instead of crying and claiming women are evil, they're better off killing their libido. If you enjoy jerking off, more power…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:31 AM
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You do realize your analogy is hyperbolic, absurd, and far-fetched? But even if we want to continue using your analogy, if you can never afford a BMW, no matter how hard you try, wouldn't it be better to take a pill to stop desiring a BMW?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:28 AM
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Plenty of men lament being unwanted. These men don't even know what the red pill this. I see them every day in my practice. They are in dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:24 AM
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Appeal-to-nature fallacy. Even cancer is natural. Something natural is not inherently good or desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:22 AM
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Are you really getting looks from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:21 AM
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Living in terrible conditions causes objective damage to your body. No longer desiring sex because you're unwanted through no fault of your own is revolutionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:19 AM
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Fake equivalence. Not the same at all. Depression is a neurochemical issue. There are drugs for depression. Men who have a libido but, at the same time, are unwanted, never contemplate getting rid of their libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:17 AM
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Nah, those men are still seen as undesirable and unattractive in those countries. They are just easily taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:16 AM
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Why would it not solve the cusp of the problem? And you meant the crux, not the cusp. But anyway, visiting escorts is in no way comparable to eradicating the libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:15 AM
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You sound like a complete oligophrenic, no offense. There are medications that kill the libido. And the question is not about how but why unattractive guys like yourself want the libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:15 AM
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You're playing dumb. These men whine because women have high standards and attempt to force them to change their attraction through money and status, which is a recipe for disaster. You cannot negotiate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:37 PM
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You must be joking. You don't see all these men trying to buy women's attraction with money and status?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:28 PM
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I completely agree with you. In my country of origin, there are many men who marry younger immigrants and then these men die or disappear. Some desperate refugees will definitely marry men they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:16 PM
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Honey, I'm not moving the goalpost. You are just too dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:36 PM
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I know exactly the type of manlet you are. I enjoy interacting with guys like you. I make them believe that I'm willing to have sex with them and then either I stand them up or I bail out when I see them naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:35 PM
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Genuine attraction is a legit concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:36 AM
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He is my coworker, yes, he is also her direct supervisor. How obtuse must you be? The two things are not mutually exclusive. Freaky sex? Give me a fucking break. I could also say that there are people into corpses, does that mean that they will fall in love with these corpses? No, older men are delusional and truly believe these young women want their decrepit bodies. You are obtuse and detached from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:32 AM
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I will start from the end. Plenty of uggos out there who pair up? And you think there is genuine attraction? The mere fact that they appear to be in a relationship is indicative of real attraction, in your humble opinion? No, men do not know that the dynamic is entirely transactional. You underestimate how much men overestimate themselves. The young coworker cannot simply ignore him because he is her boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:18 AM
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It's a completely always male nature to pre-judge other humans based on attractiveness. The belief that ugly guys will be kind and have a good heart is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:53 AM
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I've made the unforgivable mistake of being in a relationship with two men I wasn't attracted to. I still have flashbacks. Why did I do that? Because I was seduced by this lie that attraction grows. I was still able to starfish and let them penetrate me, so in your view, they were still being intimate with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:51 AM
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You do know that dead bedrooms exist? And that being lonely in a relationship is far worse than being lonely with no relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:49 AM
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Did I ever say that I was contemplating dating him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:47 AM
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Understand that these guys are making things up. It's revenge fantasy. The things they are describing about using overweight women or punishing women in the Philippines, never happened. Only in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:40 AM
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Just because two people are in what appears to be a relationship, it doesn't mean there is genuine attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:37 AM
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The truth is hiding in plain sight but you guys don't want to swallow this bitter pill. Social skills are subordinate to attraction. You must be attracted to someone first to then evaluate their social skills. Nobody wants to admit that the guys who struggle in dating are just unattractive through no fault of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:42 AM
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You have to put effort to become taller and to grow hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:28 PM
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So he basically got a degree at the equivalent of the Dollar Store?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:51 AM
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Game is a marketing strategy designed to give hope to hopeless cases. People want to be lied to and want to believe that there are things they can do to improve their sad predicament. This is why we have all these crazy dating coaches scamming lonely men and fueling their false hopes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:53 AM
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Autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:32 AM
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Nothing will last, you will die too. That is pointless. It doesn't mean the inconvenience that men cause me isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:47 AM
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You don't understand the concept of synonymity. You're dense. You never used the exact word "force", but you conveyed a meaning that could be summarized with that word. Do you speak the other two languages as bad as English? Oh please, older men do not have money. Most of them are old and broke. Believing that old men have money is stupid. And even if some old men have money, that does NOT generate genuine attraction. You are incredibly dense and with a very low emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:46 AM
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Your grammar is egregious. You don't even know how to differentiate "its" from "it's"; you can't be talking about people being illogical. You have no idea how delusional old men are. No idea, because you probably never left the basement. What kind of stupid argument is saying I'm forcing people to be like me? It's another strawman argument. Even if people don't like what I like, I recognize lack of attraction when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:16 AM
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Not just me, I see this happening with my friends too (all young and attractive women).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:14 AM
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I wish I were invisible. I truly do. I can't leave the house without men ogling me, harassing me, objectifying me, being nasty. Invisibility is the best thing that could happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:12 AM
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What are you disagreeing with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:11 AM
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No, you are cherrypicking, cutting, and pasting stuff I have said and reassembling it to fit your narrative. You are the one arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:06 AM
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No, you are talking in absolutes. Men who claim they are being hit on by younger women are not reliable reporters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:51 AM
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I'm a woman, so joke's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:49 AM
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Oh, so you're just two old roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:34 AM
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Where did I say "everyone"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:30 AM
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As old as your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:58 AM
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Married forever, yeah, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:26 AM
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Plenty of women would still find him unattractive if you put a nice personality into his decrepit body.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:11 AM
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Do I sound angry? You're not the first person to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:34 PM
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We are here on Reddit, this is not a peer-reviewed study, so your little "I don't take people seriously" is only useful to wipe my ass. Do you genuinely think you owned me by saying "anecdote"? Ask any younger woman. We are disgusted when older men hit on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:16 PM
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That is not true attraction. I can marry a man I feel repulsed by for the money. I am attracted to his money not to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:13 PM
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You don't get to dictate what the better argument is. The fact that there is zero attraction in same-age couples doesn't invalidate anything I said, it's just a way to derail the discussion. There are same-age couples where there is no attraction. Lack of attraction is much more likely in age-gap relationships for logical reasons. Men are not reliable reporters. I know many men who truly believe they are getting hit on. It's a form of psychosis. I've witnessed it countless times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:13 PM
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You couldn't be more mistaken. Men on Reddit feel undesirable. Men in real life are delusional, and they even hit on women 30 years younger than themselves. Men absolutely think they are desirable. Even straight men who are uncomfortable around gay men for fear they get hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:10 PM
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Did you even read my post? They manage to get young girlfriends and get horribly rejected and sleep in separate rooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:08 PM
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And then there's just this good ol' weird thing called love. This is not the read you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:08 PM
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There must be a catch there. She is sleeping with someone her age and you don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:07 PM
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I must have hit a nerve. And what kind of sources you want? You're sealioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:06 PM
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Don't believe anything he says. It's all in his imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:05 PM
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Thousands
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:04 PM
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In most cases, they don't even get to touch the hot young thing. Look at Melania. She doesn't even let Donald touch her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:04 PM
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Wait, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:03 PM
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Older men cry over deadbedroom because their younger wives find them repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:03 PM
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First of all, I'm a woman. Second of all, you are trying soooooo hard to sound smart. It's cringe. There is no separate attraction. False dichotomy. Attraction is physical and anything else attached to it is ancillary. Women are not attracted to old bodies. Nobody is attracted to old bodies. I desire comfort too, that doesn't mean I can force my attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:02 PM
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Both. I don't see them as mutually exclusive. I don't even see them as separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:00 PM
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Also, do you know what a "dead bedroom" is? Plenty of old men are crying in r/deadbedroom because their younger wives don't want to play with their decrepit genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:59 PM
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You couldn't be more wrong. These old men are shocked when younger women ask for money for nails and hair. All humans, myself included, engage in self-delusion because there are pills that are too hard to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:58 PM
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Usually, men who like oral sex have a small penis and are trying to compensate. When a man tries to go down on me, it gives me the ick. Total turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:02 AM
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Because I feel bad. I don't want to hurt their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:37 AM
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You are very disingenuous; men absolutely claim to age like fine wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:20 AM
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exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:43 PM
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You must have been living under a rock. Even in real life, old farts believe they are highly desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:43 PM
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I am not exaggerating shit. Men absolutely make that claim. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_zEUF1vm_k&t=95s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:42 PM
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Your response sounds like fecaloma. It is extremely incoherent. Whether Dr Grande is trying to make engagement or not is beside the point. The belief that men age like fine wine is widespread. It's some sort of delusion that men use to cope with their own unattractiveness. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_zEUF1vm_k&t=95s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:41 PM
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prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:02 PM
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Men think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:32 PM
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You have been living under a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:15 AM
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That is not true attraction. All that crap about status, social proof, expertise won't make an old, decrepit body attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:51 AM
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I don't understand, how do men know what women were doing with their exes? I would never say what I did with my ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:44 AM
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Puts in the work? This is just-world fallacy. You cannot outwork your genetics. Gaining muscles does absolutely nothing for an ugly skeletal structure, skin laxity, gray hair, smell of nonenal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:15 PM
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No, he did that because it was convenient =,
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:57 AM
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That is exactly what I said. Bravissima. Men think that just because a woman is unattractive she has to force her attraction towards unattractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:09 PM
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People believe that by throwing around "anecdotal evidence" they will come across as smart. I'm still entitled to describe what I have experienced, anecdotal or not. You couldn't be more mistaken about the interpretation of "give them a chance." Your attribution is totally arbitrary. You are the one saying that it means 3 or 4 meanings. That is not the meaning conveyed by society. Give a guy a chance means actually date him and see how things develop. You're also intellectually dishonest because…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:08 PM
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Women wanting tall guys prove my point, Women cannot help what they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:19 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:18 AM
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Oh please. They are lying. This is what they say to elicit pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:58 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:52 AM
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The second group is non-existent. They might whine online because they want people to tell them it's all in their head. They're looking for a disconfirmation. Deep inside, they believe women are attracted to them and if they aren't, it's for some weird psychological reason .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:52 AM
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Very well put. Completely agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:13 AM
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The issue is not whom I am attracted to. That is beside the point. And I'd rather be alone than go back to being with a guy I don't find attractive. Yes, I am not kidding nor exaggerating. Sometimes I have flashbacks of force-kissing him, and I want to puke and get so angry and furious, angry at myself first. It has been years, and I still have flashbacks. He manipulated me and made me feel guilty and he succeeded for a brief time. He said that sex with me was not satisfactory and acted as if it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:18 AM
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I still have flashbacks over kissing him. I'm not joking. I'm angry at myself. The entire rating system is debatable and high standards are relative. For example, I'm not super attracted to the modelesque types even though I can acknowledge that they are aesthetically pleasing. Some men of certain races can be objectively attractive, have harmonious faces, but they just don't do it for me. But even if I did have high standards, can I be blamed? We like what we like. For me, being alone is far be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:19 AM
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Now? I would no longer do that. In fact, now I am merciless. If I see a guy I am attracted to and then I see something off or he says something bad, I cut him off immediately. But not everybody is as strong as I am and women are pressured into dating guys they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:55 AM
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It has nothing to do with the time of the month. The issue persists from day 1 to day 30. If I'm not attracted to you, there is nothing I can do about it. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:53 AM
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What is the reference to the violin? This doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:43 AM
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Incredibly obtuse interpretation. Nobody put a gun to my head, but women are constantly pressured into giving ugly guys a chance. This is how we grow up. "Give him a chance, he's a nice guy, attraction grows." I ended up hurt, but they were hurt too because finally they realized I couldn't make myself attracted to them. Two of these three guys were very insistent and courted me for months. Most guys do not understand when a woman is not attracted to them and they operate under this false assumpt…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:41 AM
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Women are sold this narrative that ugly guys have a good heart, that we should give ugly guys a chance (even though the wording is not exact, as we use all kinds of euphemisms to convey the idea of a physically unattractive guy). We are told that we can fall in love with the person/soul despite his looks. You've never heard of this? Women are also shamed for having allegedly high standards. Then men complain about dead bedrooms or withholding sex. Whether these men complain in real life or onlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:38 AM
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Huh? What does it even mean? "Model like looks"? We do not need therapy for being viscerally attractive to goodlooking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:31 AM
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Your phrasing is unambiguous. You said: they'd want you to just be attracted to them? That seems like a fairly human want/desire. Saying they'd want us to be attracted to them presupposes that attraction is something we can control. The entire faulty premise is contained in your phrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:30 AM
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You are right. It's all about demonizing women. Single moms get shamed a lot too and men love to say, "She should have made better choices." Or men want women to have children as soon as possible, lest her ovaries "dry up", but then women get shamed for becoming single mothers. You really cannot win. Also, men operate under this assumption that women have a biological clock and they should marry and have children while still young, but as a woman, you don't freeze time if you marry and have chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:28 AM
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Attraction can be influenced only very marginally. The foundation of attraction is universal and has never changed over the centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:21 AM
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So why would a woman marry a guy she is not attracted to? What's in for her? And sometimes the ugly guy isn't even rich but the woman seeks companionship or she was simply brainwashed into believing she had to give him a chance. Men don't seem to understand that we cannot force our attraction. And lots of redpill men talk about money and status as ways to buy attraction, but that is not genuine attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:20 AM
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Except that it never works like that in real life. A man can be NOT fat and still be unattractive. I hate how people immediately think that unattractiveness is only caused by weight. But regardless, physical attraction is extremely important. To think that a woman is happy because something in a man compensates for his unattractiveness is childish and a form of wishful thinking. A lot of women marry ugly guys and they cheat on them with more attractive men. They might seem happy to you, from the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:18 AM
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They become mutually exclusive in men's views. You're making a huge mistake here. You act like we can become attracted to something we are not. We can't. Not our fault. Men aren't attracted to many women either. Remember that even if you meet someone who is your type, attraction will always fade. It is physiologically impossible to be attracted to the same person until death do us part. Especially if you live under the same roof. Now, if you lose attraction to someone you were very attracted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:13 AM
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Your stance is overly simplistic and obtuse. "Just date attractive people" you said. Wow, really? You are a genius. You would put Sherlock Holmes to shame. You cannot use the argument that men did not make me do that forcefully when society shames women and demonizes us saying we should give ugly/nice guys a chance. When you grow up as a woman, especially if you are attractive, you are bombarded with trash advice that you can still give an ugly guy a chance and that attraction grows over time. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:10 AM
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How can I force myself to be attracted to someone I'm not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:14 AM
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You hit the nail on the head. You can't win. You're damned if you do, damned if you don't. They talk about biology a lot and that they can't help it if they are attracted to young girls, but then biology is no longer convenient to them when we feel zero attraction towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:13 AM
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It's a false dichotomy. The self-proclaimed nice guys are never nice guys. They are just unattractive guys who have to lie to themselves and believe they are good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:17 AM
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