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Tautology
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:47 PM
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Nah men bad too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:46 PM
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It's not an "assumption", it's an accurate assessment of reality. Every time there's a war/natural disaster, we hear "x died including women and children". Shit, more third class women survived the sinking of the Titanic over first class men. Not to mention that they were never forced to risk life and limb by being conscripted into war. This manifests itself in day-to-day life too. People justify women being violent to men, and condemn the man as evil if he defends himself. Women have numerous s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:02 PM
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So how do we change that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:46 PM
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Keep proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:45 PM
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Women are already loved by most of the world just for being women, unless you live somewhere like Saudi Arabia. Men do not experience this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:58 PM
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Women are already given inherent value by (western/global northern) society simply for existing. Men aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:52 PM
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No True Scotsman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:51 PM
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Women are loved unconditionally by most of society just for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:49 PM
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Literally 0% of the men being enslaved to lose life and limb had a say in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:48 PM
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Has anything in human history been a woman's fault by your standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:47 PM
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how exactly would women doing those jobs help women’s empowerment? So you admit that feminists only want the good parts of equality for women. Glad you dropped the charade.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:46 PM
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Women have an ingroup bias. Men have an outgroup bias. Basically, both genders like women more. Thus women being treated better is the correct state of things to men and women alike. Can this be changed? Maybe, maybe not. What would an incentive to do so look like when the vast majority of people are female supremacists?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:01 AM
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I could walk out my front door and get hit by lightning too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:12 PM
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Women don't have a problem with men not protecting them. As usual, women are mostly protected by other women. That's why the vast majority of police, firefighters and military are women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:11 PM
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Women are loved by almost everyone just for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:08 PM
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Being exceptionally naive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:05 PM
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Don't womansplain our lived experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:35 PM
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Basically your prescription is for men to ignore women altogether. Fine by me honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:01 PM
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If by "do just fine" you mean drink themselves to death by 50
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:00 PM
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Because for men things actually are difficult. It doesn't just get handed to us effortlessly like it does for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:58 PM
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More women should run for congress then and more women should vote for them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:53 PM
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You can open an app and have thousands of options within minutes. If none of those are sufficient, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:00 PM
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Maybe that's because women have thousands of options at the click of a button and get bombarded with attention IRL and men do not? I mean...did you really not think of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:56 PM
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Of course they can't, that's why they refuse to deal with it and leave it up to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:51 PM
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jeez, who knows, maybe women would have exercised enough caution to design it with enough lifeboats for everyone in the first place X men like to have sex with women and make babies with women = big incentive to keep women alive and healthy Don't pull your arm out reaching that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:43 PM
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Nobody in Zimbabwe is named Tyrone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:41 PM
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I disproved your initial premise, thus anything that follows is moot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:33 PM
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Where is this "data" you're looking at. Women have thousands of options at the click of a button and get bombarded with attention IRL. Thus are "lonely" by their own choice. Men, for the most part, have zero options. That's what actual loneliness is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:07 PM
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It's not that women didn't develop compassion and empathy for men. We just want you guys to stop making everything about your cocks. You're the one who keeps bringing up dicks. You bring up me strawmannirg and you just imply that you only know psychotic violent women. [Demonstrably false](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnM6KZU\_RBU). Women are more likely to support causes that also helps out men. You guys just dont care. Strawman #4. You just tried to demonize women because you know that we do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:05 PM
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Quite the contrary - our moms teach us to be women's servants, army and ATM and eventually we realize that doesn't get us anywhere. Thus, we change our tactics. Meanwhile girls get told that every man should treat them like a spoiled princess and yet they choose the opposite in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:03 PM
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Sounds like "all lives matter" to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:59 PM
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Sounds like you agree with me. Women look out for women at men's expense, and men look out for...women at men's expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:57 PM
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yep, you're right about the titanic ratios of survival and wrong about everything else. also, random thought but, men designed, built and navigated the titanic...did they do a good job protecting everyone or..? They did a better job protecting women than protecting themselves. If women were in charge of the Titanic, do you actually believe for 2 seconds that they would let men on the lifeboats before themselves while they drowned in freezing water? you're assuming A LOT if you think empathy was …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:55 PM
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Almost half of women voted for him as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:53 PM
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Time's up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:53 PM
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Don't womansplain our lived experience to us
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:55 PM
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you also regard men asking out their friends as predatory too That about sums it up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:52 PM
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Women have gained more power across the board (in government, business, law, etc.) and have universally used that to the benefit of women in creating women-only scholarships and business grants, supporting "women owned businesses", etc. Similarly, the rise in man-hating articles in mainstream media has coincided with the increased presence and power of women in these circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:05 PM
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The first paragraph lays out examples of how men showed empathy for average women, to their own (often fatal) detriment. Women could do much of that, but I'm not encouraging them to, as I'd prefer equality across the board. The second paragraph, however, details how women do not do the reverse but rather the opposite. If you stop doing that stuff, that's a start. But again, my OP is descriptive, not prescriptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:03 PM
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Alright, let's do this one by one then: First question, does it pertain to the penis? Sort of. Women are by and large thrilled when other women cut men's dicks off. Liberals, who are majority women, also want the draft abolished. It's conservative men who dont. In fact, redpillers I talked to here also dont want the draft abolished. I'm not sure how politics came into this, hence the strawman accusation, but I'm not claiming that men care about each other - quite the contrary, they're basically …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:01 PM
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I provided a number of examples in my OP, and could provide many more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:53 PM
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Prove you didn't murder anybody today
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:51 PM
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99% of people of both genders hate pedos To say I'm skeptical that the men in the comments in those videos are defending it (or that anyone is just sitting their recording men abuse young girls) is an understatement
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:49 PM
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I already gave numerous examples in my OP: This explains why men created an entire code of rules such as a male-only draft, saving women before themselves in hazardous situations (Titanic being the most iconic example), serving women first at restaurants, allowing women to assault them with impunity and walking on the dangerous side of the sidewalk. This concept has become known in modern gender debate circles as "male disposability" - quite an odd thing for an "oppressor" group to impose upon i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:02 PM
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That's not how the burden of proof works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:01 PM
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So why do men do all of this for women then and neither expect nor receive anything in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:01 PM
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As long as you ignore that I gave examples: This explains why men created an entire code of rules such as a male-only draft, saving women before themselves in hazardous situations (Titanic being the most iconic example), serving women first at restaurants, allowing women to assault them with impunity and walking on the dangerous side of the sidewalk. This concept has become known in modern gender debate circles as "male disposability" - quite an odd thing for an "oppressor" group to impose upon …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:59 PM
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And when it comes to “women and children first” this literally had to be made a maritime mantra because there were many shipwrecks where almost all the women and children died because the men were more able bodied and could get to the lifeboats and they saved themselves and didn’t help anyone else. Women and children first is the exception not the rule. The idea that it’s innate in men in general to sacrifice themselves for women and children is not backed up by facts. Fair enough to an extent, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:57 PM
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I gave numerous examples: This explains why men created an entire code of rules such as a male-only draft, saving women before themselves in hazardous situations (Titanic being the most iconic example), serving women first at restaurants, allowing women to assault them with impunity and walking on the dangerous side of the sidewalk. This concept has become known in modern gender debate circles as "male disposability" - quite an odd thing for an "oppressor" group to impose upon itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:50 PM
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in hunter gatherer societies women and men both procured resources for the group. men didn't hunt while women sat and brushed their hair. Men could have taken all those resources for themselves, but their empathy prevented that (and thus humanity) from dying off. more wealthy men than poor women survived the titanic, No they did not. so status was more important than gender The fact that gender mattered at all, let alone poor women surviving over wealthy men, proves my point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:46 PM
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Do enlighten me, since you're clearly so familiar with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:42 PM
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First interesting counterpoint I saw. However, slave owners were not exactly known for displaying love and kindness to their slaves. While neither women nor slaves were given autonomy, the former was shown compassion and in many cases preferential treatment, while the latter was horrifically brutalized. It's also worth noting that this trend hasn't budged as women have gained more autonomy, which to me indicates that this is an evolutionary pressure that hasn't caught up to social mores.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:41 PM
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The year is 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:37 PM
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I described how men cooperate to care for women in my post. If it was all about strength we'd have died, which is one of my main points.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:36 PM
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They would have done so, so much better for men than what men did to women. So why are women becoming increasingly hostile to men as they gain more power? A matriarchy is child-centered, circular, village-based system that prioritizes the most vulnerable and functions on a multi-generational support system. You're proving my point - able bodied men are a non-factor in this scenario. And it's really convenient that you leave out friends and family from this narrative. How much do YOU show compass…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:34 PM
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I never said they should have empathy for men. Quite the contrary - I detailed why they don't and how it would serve no purpose for them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:28 PM
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All you did was argue against a bunch of straw men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:26 PM
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Try actually reading my post where all of this is clearly addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:24 PM
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Except women do care about men. You just said you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:57 PM
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[citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:54 PM
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First of all we are humans and not just animals. Humans are animals (mammals specifically). And people in general don't have a lot of compassion and empathy for nonames. They can have a bit of it when they hear some sobbing story, for example story of the guy that developed issues with his brain after boxing (wild story from boru) but on average person don't spend a lot of time thinking about some person that have some issues. People dying all around the world daily, from the most horrendous shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:54 PM
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You are not obligated to empathize with anyone. I am simply providing an explanation as to why things are the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:50 PM
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Men have bent over backwards to help women, as detailed in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:45 PM
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The reason men feel responsibility and obligation to women, but not vice versa, is because of the compassion/empathy I detailed in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:43 PM
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You’re missing the point - my whole post just explained why women don’t care about men, because there’s no evolutionary incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:40 PM
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It’s worth mentioning, however, that men would never do that to begin with because we are capable of empathy for women (far more than we feel for men).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:40 PM
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How well do you think this will work out for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:13 PM
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When it comes to succeeding in life as a whole for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:43 PM
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Dahmer was gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:42 PM
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Tell me with a straight face that a panel and audience of men cackling about a woman having her tits cut off (that actually happened IRL) would make it on TV in the western world and not immediately destroy the careers of every man involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:38 PM
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We also have this things called running water and electricity that 99% of humans lived without, and tend not to be happy when we lose access. See where I'm going with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:20 PM
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This was a pretty iconic moment in internet gender dialogue. Shit, I'm old enough to remember when Lorena Bobbit became a folk hero to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:59 PM
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Having my sister's and my wife's view on these minor things really changed my perspective. We never think twice when we're out at night, and have people walking behind us, or people we feel like we have to be wary of..we keep an eye out, to make sure we're safe, but that's about it. You should, considering men are the majority of violent crime victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:28 PM
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I will always slow down or cross the road if in the proximity of a woman at night. Men who don't do so shouldn't be proud of themselves; it's not asking much for them to make a minor adjustment. How about women cross the road instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:27 PM
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How tf are men supposed to know the rules then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:25 PM
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Men created an entire system (chivalry) where they treat every woman like a goddess and act as their servants, have fought to defend them for millennia in every war in history and have caved to ridiculous feminist demands for the last half century. Meanwhile women are thrilled when men get their dicks cut off by women and tell us "you're not entitled to anything" whenever we bring up a problem that affects us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:25 PM
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Women make the rules and men are expected to follow them, yet you refuse to tell us what they are and get mad when we don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:37 PM
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Women expecting men to magically know their rules is nonsensical. A tiny fraction of men go to sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:12 PM
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How do we accomplish that if we can't initiate conversation with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:48 PM
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Can women start wearing shirts to announce this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:37 PM
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There are women who make posts about their harrowing stories of being approached while doing groceries 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:33 PM
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You're expecting women to be able to empathize with men. Dream on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:31 PM
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There's almost always been rules (frankly stricter than now) about when a gentleman can speak to a lady. Oh if you want to go back to the old school rules you're going to have a blast But obviously selective progress vs. tradition (as in, whatever benefits women) is par for the course...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:28 PM
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Can women make a list of the times they want it to happen and post it online?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:22 PM
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When are men going to realise women also want to feel special and chosen Why are only women entitled to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:13 PM
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We don't
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:09 PM
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Men need to start supporting our own issues before we can expect women to do the same. As it stands, most men are masochists and support female supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:18 PM
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Want to do a tally on how many men have sacrificed their lives and limbs for women compared to the reverse? I wouldn't be surprised if it was over 100 to 1 in men's favor. Not to mention that men maintained a code (chivalry) where they treat every woman like a spoiled princess, and that men have been far more supportive of feminism than they have of solving their own gender's problems. In the cases you mention, that is entirely incidental that men are helped. Women are helped too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:14 PM
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The standard of incomprehensible gibberish?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:27 PM
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Well for one, speaking to a woman does not constitute harassment (nor does it justify assault).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:26 PM
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Ahh yes, the usual, so long as they're meeting low minimums of not being a rapist or a sex pest, let's pretend everything is fine. By "pretend", I think you mean "acknowledge". Getting a big fat nope from me. If that's control, women everywhere deserve some sort of award. So do 99%+ of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:23 PM
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How about you learn what harassment actually is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:21 PM
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As a trans woman, you should know that men can't simply not have sex drives
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:21 PM
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Can we just shelve the idea that men can suddenly turn off their sex drives like magic? As long as they don't harass/assault women, you're just going to have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:18 PM
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Hope she sees this bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:15 PM
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So those of us who find it distressing to be approached by men all the time just have to lump it so you can get your rocks off? Yes. If you don't like it, go start a female only colony.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:09 PM
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Yeah tell that to Asians. Asians aren't seen as inferior - quite the contrary. Also enlighten me on what constitutes as "female privilege". Is female privilege the fact that dating is easier for us? Well that's part of it, but there's also the numerous women only scholarships, business grants and hiring preferences as well as the court system being massively biased in women's favor. Not to mention having men bend over backwards to do stuff for you all the time. Because I gotta say i think the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:04 PM
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I’ve seen this argument a couple times in this sub Let's see some examples
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:59 PM
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Anyone who supports imaginary boogeymen is a total moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:52 PM
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"Benevolent sexism" is a nonsensical concept. It's just a way of twisting female privilege to fit into the feminist narrative. No other group is treated as superior because they're seen as inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:51 PM
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So would you allow a smaller, weaker man to assault you with impunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:46 PM
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So where did all these male feminists come from, or all the men who sacrificed their lives for women throughout both history and the modern day?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:01 PM
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You can say that about literally any group
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:00 PM
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Both genders, not just women, see men as women's disposable servants. I'd argue men reinforce this more than women do, but women have certainly accepted the conditioning. Check out "The Manipulated Man" for more info. If you want evidence, just ask all the men who were enslaved to fight and die in every war throughout history and had to work fatally dangerous jobs. inb4 "bUt OtHeR mEn DiD tHaT" like that somehow makes them less dead
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:58 PM
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Who is telling you this? Where are you getting this from? The thousands of media pieces airing every grievance a woman has and demanding men be "allies". Nobody expects you to act like a servant? Boys are conditioned by their mothers from day one to behave as such, whether it's in the traditionalist chivalrous sense or the self-flagellating feminist way. They learn the same from their fathers who received the same brainwashing, and have this reinforced by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:57 PM
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We're expected to is what I mean, but I get your point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:53 PM
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Remember when men were the ones who lost life and limb protecting women in every war throughout history? Or drowned at sea because they let women have the lifeboats? How about allowing feminists to run roughshod over them and give women endless benefits in the court system, hiring and academia?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:53 PM
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Every woman has thousands of options. Most men have few if any
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:51 PM
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tumbleweed rolls by
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:29 AM
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Counterpoint: women do understand dating is hard for men, they just don't give a shit. Are they obligated to? I wouldn't say so. What infuriates men, however, is that we're supposed to have endless compassion for every minuscule problem a woman might encounter and act as their disposable servants. In return, we get scorn and demonization.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:41 PM
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Unfortunately they have half the population blowing smoke up their ass 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:32 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:34 PM
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Thank you for proving me right
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:00 PM
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As expected, you can't refute my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:53 PM
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The reason it's ineffective and predatory is because women hate sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:05 PM
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Well nobody here genuinely assumes all men are rapists or murderers. Gaslighting It’s just the stats being >90% of male perpetrators. Men are the majority of homicide victims, not to mention every other non-sexual violent crime. And… one is murder and rape. The other is rejection. Cry about it genuinely See point #2
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:27 PM
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When they get told your whole life that men exist to be your servants/army/ATM/punching, why wouldn't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:26 PM
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I'm not even entitled to my wallet looking at the price of things nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:25 PM
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Meanwhile when men get generalized as murdering rapist oppressors we're supposed to be perfectly content
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:24 PM
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Who's saying you're not "allowed" to do anything? We're not your school principal. If you want to treat every man as a criminal, no one is going to stop you. But it seems silly to turn around and get salty when men make negative generalizations about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:18 PM
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You're expecting women to have compassion for men. You'd have better luck playing the lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:09 PM
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This of course comes from women who refuse to even risk rejection at all and just leave it up to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:08 PM
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I've gotten molested by a gay man. Does that give me the right to treat them all as predators?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:03 PM
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Because we're expected to be able to read women's minds as to whether they want to be approached or not, which is ridiculous. So I always push for men to call out this behavior when it happens ..especially with their friends. And do it loudly without sugarcoating anything. I mean isn’t it a masculine trait to protect😏 (that was so cringe I’m sorry lol) You're not entitleld to our time or bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:58 PM
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What point do you think you're making? I guarantee any dude who has women asking them for sex is out living their perfect life at South Beach or in NYC clubs, not trolling reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:45 PM
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Many of us do, hence why r/WomenAreNotIntoMen is (slowly) growing. You've made it clear how much you despise us for the last 15 years or so online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:12 PM
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As soon as more gravitate over to r/WomenAreNotIntoMen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:10 PM
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I mean it's easy since men actually like women. Approaching a man badly is basically impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:03 PM
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Basically just assume all women despise you unless they indicate otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:45 PM
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Men should just assume that all women hate them unless they indicate otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:43 PM
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Their horniness would just continue to build up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:39 PM
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Don't tell me what to do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:29 PM
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Go whip your dick out and ask women for sex then and see how many takers you get
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:27 PM
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Chad Posts on this forum Pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:27 PM
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Women hate sex tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:47 PM
3

Because most men recognize that they are not, in fact, the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:46 PM
0

Men are the majority of homicide victims, but we're disposable of course
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:35 PM
1

Considering they're all alive, it clearly hasn't happened to them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:35 PM
8

And end up a 70 year old virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:59 PM
2

In context I was referring to homicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:54 PM
3

Come on bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:42 PM
2

That is just false. They get validation if they are attractive. Literally any woman can get validation at the click of a button whenever they want. They are just seen as sexual objects. And even if they are, they don't get the validation they want. Better than having no value whatsoever, which is why women take it for granted. Both genders earn validation The difference is that women are validated by their mere existence. I suppose you could make the same case regarding gay men, but the percenta…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:33 PM
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They're not going to be less obsessed with sex by refraining from chasing it. Quite the contrary
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:31 PM
3

Lol no, it's because younger women are (usually) hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:30 PM
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I’m actually baffled that middle aged men think that some girl in college wants to settle down with them lol They don't think that - they want to bang them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:21 PM
1

Typo on my part (regarding the "death" by lightning which I edited), but the point stands that this is such a ridiculously rare occurrence that acting like it's realistically going to happen to you is just propaganda feminists use to spread hate toward men. Please explain exactly and specifically how often and how bad the consequences of women rejecting men need to be for you to consider it a problem?🤔 A lot more than the odds of being hit (albeit not necessarily killed) by lightning, not to men…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:55 PM
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That's absolutely not real at all Yes, it is. you are all welcomed to continue trying and failing and blaming it on women though I'm not "blaming" anyone for anything, but play the victim all you like. I'd actually prefer other men stop approaching women because all it does is blow up their egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:38 PM
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What insight do you suppose I have into the motives of lightning? Regardless, the two scenarios presented are roughly as likely: The odds of being struck by lightning in the US are 1 in 15,300: https://www.weather.gov/safety/lightning-odds The odds of dying from homicide in the US are 5.8 in 100,000: https://data.who.int/indicators/i/60A0E76/361734E
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:37 PM
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from verbal abuse to death That is such an absurdly wide range that any discussion is essentially meaningless Far more likely than a lightening strike The odds of being struck by lightning in the US are 1 in 15,300: https://www.weather.gov/safety/lightning-odds The odds of dying from homicide in the US are 5.8 in 100,000: https://data.who.int/indicators/i/60A0E76/361734E
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:34 PM
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Also, not all women receive validation from men. Unattractive and elderly women get pretty much zero validation from men that aren't their friends or family. There have been tons of experiments to show otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:45 PM
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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:44 PM
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Whenever "cold approach" conversation comes up it feels like a quick and easy way of finding a partner without having to go through any hard work. But the guys who are caught up in internet conversations, are not the same men who have so much social skills, cold approach is a possibility. That's easy to say when you're a woman and partners just fall into your lap with no skill or effort
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:42 PM
-4

"I refuse to leave my house because what if I get hit by lightning?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:40 PM
15

Men don't choose to have sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:24 PM
12

Women have validation from men just by existing, which massively skews how society operates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:21 PM
1

Welcome to real life. No matter what you do people will bitch about it, so do what you think is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:46 PM
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Would you say the same to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:44 PM
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Pot, meet kettle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:07 PM
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"but most people are kind" Did you miss the last US presidential election?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:05 PM
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When you combine women, male feminists and tradcucks (all of whom advocate treating women better than men) then that's a huge supermajority of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:04 PM
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This is the same "logic" racists use to treat all black and brown people like criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:03 PM
2

Not to mention all the women who were drafted to go lose life and limb in every war throughout history Oh wait
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:56 PM
1

There is less social stigma for men just to hook up, so they are more willing to do it. Not to mention they have lower risks of getting an std The opposite is true for gay men, yet they hook up more than straight ones and if they impregnate a woman, they have an easier time to dissapear. Not in states where abortion is legal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:54 PM
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Men don't get showered with attention 24/7 IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:52 PM
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Problem is that men have to detach themselves from the concept of male disposability, which is going to take a lot of convincing to many different people of both genders. This is largely a result of brainwashing from birth. Women condition their sons to behave as women's servants/army/ATM and daughters to see themselves as princesses who deserve such treatment from men simply for existing. Since mothers spend much more time around their children than fathers do (and these fathers received the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:38 PM
3

Can you provide some examples of the distinction?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:01 PM
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That's because everyone has been conditioned to see men as disposable slaves to the system and undeserving of compassion. Some of us decided to say "fuck that noise" and it's blowing their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:55 PM
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Try criticizing any woman for any reason and you will be bombarded with comments calling you an incel with a tiny dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:22 PM
2

You need to first draw the distinction between "object of attraction/desire" and "non-human object".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:20 PM
1

Tough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:18 PM
2

Not particularly. The vast majority of us want to fuck women and not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:11 PM
0

You're not entitled to any job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:11 PM
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Men are never going to stop being horny, and you're going to have to learn to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:44 PM
0

Tough
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:55 PM
1

Except for the dude who groped me, anytime I've been sexualized by other men has made me happy for weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:20 PM
0

I'll say the same to women whining about not getting STEM jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:44 PM
1

Again, why are women the only "oppressed" group who receives these benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:43 PM
0

This is Olympic level mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:17 PM
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Why do other groups considered "lesser" not receive this same infantilization, but are actually treated more harshly (racial minorities, LGBT people, etc.)? It's literally only ever women who somehow benefit from oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:17 PM
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It's the women are wonderful effect/empathy gap, where both genders feel tons of empathy for women (even when they're blatantly wrong) and almost none for men. Often times they're blatantly sadistic and enjoy male suffering. This is why reports about mass deaths say "including women and children", because nobody gives a fuck about men. It's like squishing ants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:56 PM
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My male ancestors got bought and sold like cattle too. On top of that, men were enslaved throughout history to go be traumatized, maimed and killed in war. Women were not. They were also forced to do brutal, unhealthy, dangerous backbreaking labor to provide for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:08 PM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:06 PM
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What I don’t understand, is why men who want casual sex, don’t go on the apps and places to meet women who also just want something casual. They are out there. You're implying that these numbers are even remotely comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:06 PM
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There are drastically more straight men than gay men, and these gay men also have a ton of other gay men as options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:04 PM
1

Having a legion of servants/army/ATM is the opposite of useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:03 PM
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Women basically hate sex in general. Just because they don't want to fuck men doesn't mean they do want to fuck women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:14 PM
1

Slavery is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:10 PM
2

What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:43 PM
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If you blame an entire population for the actions of a few, that's holding them liable. Please stop pretending not to know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:43 PM
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Gonna be honest, I wouldn't care then either unless I knew the guy was sketch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:41 PM
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In fact, some of them wish women would behave in the same sexual manner. I mean do you want us to lie and pretend we wouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:40 PM
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I was sexually assaulted by a gay man. Am I justified in treating all gay men as predators as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:39 PM
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You know how feminists love to say "when you're used to privilege, equality seems like oppression?" They should really turn that around on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:37 PM
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This is a strawman the size of the Empire State Building. Why do you feminists constantly insist on deliberately misrepresenting arguments?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:36 PM
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A very small percentage (as in less than 1%) of men did that, and they oppressed the other 99% of men only slightly less
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:34 PM
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You need to get to the root of the problem, which is that women (feminist and traditionalist mothers alike) brainwash their sons to be women's servants/army/ATM/punching bag and daughters to expect this from men. That being said, I don't think it's too much to ask for grown men to throw off this conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:55 PM
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Men are unable to band together to solve male-specific issues because they are masochistic/self-destructive as a group and are biased toward women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:53 PM
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Both genders seem to have agreed that men should approach, due to their pro-female bias and men's inherent masochism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:08 AM
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Feminists have done that quite successfully for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:05 AM
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Here's the thing - feminists have been claiming for at least 50 years that the entire 77% figure was due to discrimination. It's only within the last decade or two that most people learned this number was bullshit. Now they have moved the goalposts to either a much smaller discrepancy or a bunch of other rationalizations as to how women are basically coerced away from high paying jobs. It's literally the "sexism of the gaps" fallacy, and it keeps withering away the more we learn. Much like relig…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:57 PM
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Because of childhood brainwashing, most men are masochistic and buy into the “women are wonderful”/disposable male worldview as much as (honestly probably more than) women. Western men are the only group on the face of the planet who almost exclusively works against their own benefit in service of the outgroup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 02:20 AM
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Where? I'll pack my bags tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:51 PM
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I cease to understand why so many men want women to lower their standards to be with them! Sounds like you answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:46 PM
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Both genders like women more. Google "women are wonderful effect". Since women spend more time with their children, they condition boys to treat all women like princesses, and girls to see themselves as one and expect men to wait on them hand and foot. Good luck changing that anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:45 PM
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If men got pregnant we would be expected to do that for women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:06 PM
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Because they get bombarded with attention just for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:05 PM
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A distinction without a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:56 PM
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Yeah this just ain’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:56 PM
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Thank you for contributing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:55 PM
2

Which affords a shit ton of power over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:41 PM
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The point is you can basically have half the population do whatever you want in hopes of getting sex, and you don’t even have to give it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:40 PM
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no offense bro but there is really no such thing as sexual power. it sound like something.. well ppd males came up with. "There is no mafia." -- Tony Soprano the most beautiful woman in the world will get cheated on, the most handsome man in the world will get cheated on. it doesn't matter after someone tasted it. Still got an endless ocean of other options. you have sexual power (on grindr) you just don't wanna use it, same with women. There are drastically more straight men than gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:30 PM
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We can't turn off our sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:29 PM
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Already said it in another comment and I’ll say it again - do you really think so poorly of other dudes that you think all it takes to fully control them is one hot lady? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:28 PM
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Men devote basically their entire lives to trying to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:26 PM
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She can stop having sex with them at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:26 PM
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Yes. "I have the privilege of being unaware of my privilege."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:25 PM
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Not sure what you're getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:25 PM
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>Not every woman wants to or will fuck whoever though? But they can get a new partner effortlessly at the drop of a hat. Men can't. >If you are hot and can get laid…. you’re hot and can get laid. That’s about the only benefit that comes from it. You basically have the whole male population at your whim. That doesn't count for anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:00 PM
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That's what I'm getting at - each party in this situation has a form of power, so there's no real imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:59 PM
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Men can't "give" anyone sexual power, because we can't turn our sex drive on and off.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:58 PM
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I beg to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:57 PM
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Having about half the population as your servants, army and ATM?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:57 PM
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This is obviously not the case. If half the population was hooked on a drug and the other half had the supply and decided when they got it, are you seriously claiming the latter group has no power over the former?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:49 PM
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Being approached by a woman at all would be one of the best experiences of a man's life. It's basically impossible to approach men the wrong way. If women wanted sex in the same sense, they would just go up to men and ask for sex, or men could do the same and be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:43 PM
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That kind of misses my point. If women went out seeking sex, they would just go up to men and say "let's fuck", or men could do the same to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:42 PM
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Why do women hate men asking them for sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:59 PM
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I'm aware of that. Again, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:49 PM
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I didn't - you framed it in a blatantly accusatory manner, and I explained why that's the case
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:47 PM
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I guarantee most of these same guys would bone those women without a second thought
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:43 PM
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Who said I expect you to change your mind? You made a post ranting about how much you hate men, I'm not going to waste my time explaining how that is a misandrist rant because you already know it is and are just JAQing off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:04 PM
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So what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:01 PM
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I'm aware of that. Not sure what point you think you're making.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:01 PM
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If the situation were different my reaction would be different, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:00 PM
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The vast majority of douchebags are not rapists but get pussy anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:59 PM
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Where is this happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:30 PM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:28 PM
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Not me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:24 PM
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>Some lady comes up and starts talking how she’s gonna tear your asshole with her strap on prob won’t land the same I don't think I would be able to stop laughing long enough to feel anything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:23 PM
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Because the majority of us want to have sex with women and do not want to have sex with men. Pretty straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:22 PM
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I would sign up for this without the slightest hesitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:21 PM
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If they keep doing something, it's because they were successful before. >Again, two things can be true at the same time. The good guys are typically the ones who are shy to approach. The predatory ones are typically in your face almost the instant they lay eyes on you. It's disgusting. Yet the latter gets laid and the former does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:19 PM
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There would be more cases, but not that many. It has nothing to do with being nicer and more to do with men having astronomically higher sex drives. Plus there’s virtually no incentive for women to commit SA since they can basically fuck whoever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:03 PM
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Socially traditional women demand all men be their servants/army/ATM as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:59 PM
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writes a giant misandrist rant claims misandry doesn’t exist Another day ending in y
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:56 PM
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I do the same thing with male friends. This is one of the most normal, commonplace activities imaginable. Tells you a lot about feminist fearmongering they have somehow twisted this into a nefarious male plot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:55 PM
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I say the exact same thing because it’s still true. Any more brain busters?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:51 PM
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More so than that, we are just straight up horndogs that want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:33 PM
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Everyone finds their own opinion more credible than that of others. Not really exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:31 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:56 PM
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Sounds good to me. However, I'm referring to what feminists as a group would do if they were in charge
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:55 PM
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If feminists were in charge, any man accused of sexual assault would instantly be imprisoned with no due process, and women would be given even greater preference in school admissions/hiring than they already are. Wouldn't be surprised to see other ideas feminists have proposed like curfews for men or abolishing women's prisons either Hard pass
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:20 PM
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We do though - the huge fucking majority of men treat women as superior, but feminists instead focus on the tiny percentage that harm women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:19 PM
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Because the ones who don't believe it never say anything about the ones who do, but only ever show up to say "Not All Feminists Are Like That™"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:18 PM
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You keep referencing this one book from this one Argentinian author who’s been debunked and panned to death. In other words, the people who perpetrated and fell for the manipulation got salty that she gave the jig up. Very predictable. And I didn’t. You’re making the assertion that men have historically and generationally been manipulated, ergo implying that men’s decisions are made under the influence of women’s manipulation. Thats called having a cop out from having agency That would be the ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:48 PM
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The ultimate cop out from having any agency, I love it. You literally just made that up. How many generations back does this manipulation go? And is it passed down? Look up "The Manipulated Man" - free on Google and not too lengthy. But to answer your question, for centuries and yes (in that order).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:52 PM
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I don't contend that men are smarter. They occupy the extremes of intelligence, but the average man and average woman are about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:51 PM
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Women have the advantage of manipulating men from birth, as mothers spend far more time around their children than fathers do (and said fathers were manipulated by women from birth as well).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:23 PM
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If I could be bi/lesbian, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:05 PM
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nah lol, the men who vote to keep draft male-only more likely to beliebe in " gender roles" Gender roles that expect men to lose life and limb protecting women are a form of female supremacy similar to how some men wouldnt vote for a female president Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:04 PM
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I literally said men do it "in exchange for nothing"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:02 PM
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Nobody is telling women that either, yet I have to hear about the imaginary patriarchy every 5 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:00 PM
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>Completely unrelated. My point is that fringe ideas can become mainstream almost overnight. >Apologies for mischaracterizing your opinion. Would you agree that women can gain rights without men losing their rights? Yes, as long as they are not gaining more rights than men (in this case, women-only benefits) >This just explained that they don’t, and we’ve gone over that your proof they do is fringe. Anything new to add? They do, in the other non-fringe examples (scholarships, business loans, DEI…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:46 PM
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It really is though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:44 PM
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What's your point? Most men are female supremacists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:25 PM
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>They seem to be pretty fringe opinions, as you stated, and probably shouldn’t be taken as seriously as more mainstream talking points. Support for US going to war in Iran was at one point a fringe opinion, but here we are. >it is disingenuous to state that any advances in equality are encroachments on your own liberty Please do not strawman me, it is not good for discussion. >Oxfordx.com is the first website I found that provides a definition of Female Supremacy, and they find it is opposed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:23 PM
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Some do, some don't. But denying that this is vastly more expected from men than women is kinda silly. I've definitely seen women stand there and wait for a man to open a door for them. I have never seen a man do this. Perhaps men just aren't as selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:19 PM
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Misrepresenting people's statements and basically libeling them is not a way to get what you want in life either. Don't dish it if you can't take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:18 PM
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It's hard to take the idea of female supremacy seriously when your examples are all proposals for women getting better treatment in some way, but not really proposals for stripping men of rights or opportunities they possess. The examples I gave literally provide opportunities to women that they do not make available to men. Hence why they are "female-only". I would be much more concerned if there were real pushes for male subjugation in some fashion, such as requiring men to have a female cosig…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:17 PM
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In no other realm of society is a group viewed as inferior treated better than the alleged superior. Something doesn't add up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:13 PM
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This is just female supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:14 PM
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Treating them as superior is treating them as less than? This makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:14 PM
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No, it's expected from men to do for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:11 PM
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that's the dichotomy I'm seeing presented, care to clear that up? That's because you are illiterate in the English language. That is not my fault. western countries with "women are wonderful" effect > e.g. the Taliban is what I'm saying based on what you put above Again, false dichotomy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:10 PM
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So you claim that feminists don't support female supremacy, and now you admit to supporting it (justifying it as revenge for past oppression). This happens every time. As to the male curfew or abolishing women's prisons, here you go: https://www.theguardian.com/society/article/2024/jul/28/womens-prisons-have-served-their-time-they-should-be-abolished https://news.sky.com/story/sarah-everard-green-partys-baroness-jones-suggests-6pm-curfew-for-men-12243194
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:09 PM
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What's your point? Do you even speak English?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:06 PM
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The self-flagellating, misandrist type are a minority that even most feminists tend to be embarrassed by. At least 80% of feminists I've ever met fit into this category. And to answer your question, because patriarchy isn’t fully about “men good, women bad” - it’s about maintaining a set of masculine social values and seeing them as the ideal. In other words, if, as a man, you don’t fit that ideal, the system is designed to work against you (ie. look at how men actively make fun of effeminate me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:55 PM
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Well yes, because their sex drives are dramatically asymmetric (like the difference between a propeller plane and a rocket ship) - and most men can only get sex in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:53 PM
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What about black and brown people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:48 PM
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So what…. Being a feminist and a man automatically means you’re conditioned? What if you just believe in women’s rights? My OP specifically refers to the misandrist, self-flagellating type. And in all fairness - patriarchy hurts men too Why did men design a system that harms them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:48 PM
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Now let's do inventions and discoveries. Also, "more likely to help" my ass. Men bend over backwards to do stuff for women in exchange for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:46 PM
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So why does the same not apply to other forms of bigotry like racism, homophobia, etc.? Quite the opposite in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:44 PM
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If you're going to make up a fake quote and attribute it to me, posting my actual quote kind of defeats the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:43 PM
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But you see the same behavior in gay men (especially the male feminist part)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:43 PM
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False dichotomy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:42 PM
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What about places like Saudi Arabia and Iran?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:42 PM
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It's exceptionally common for feminists to support women-only scholarships, business loans, DEI initiatives and demanding we take women's word over men's in accusations of sexual assault. Some of the more out-there proposals include abolishing women's prisons and curfews for men. However, I was referring specifically to forms of female supremacy that stem from the past (male-only draft, preferential treatment for women in hazardous situations, etc.) that go against the idea that sexism was a one…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:37 PM
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The term for that is "privilege", which they have no problem using when men get preferential treatment, but feminists refuse to admit it because the cognitive dissonance would invalidate their worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:34 PM
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Then women should dump men who don't contribute enough. Somehow only men have agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:33 PM
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I personally do, but you're missing the point. Plenty of women expect men to do all that for them as if we're their personal servants.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:32 PM
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Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:31 PM
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So where's all the "benevolent racism", "benevolent homophobia", "benevolent transphobia", etc.? Why does only one form of bigotry involve treating the "victim" group as superior?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:48 PM
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"Basic manners" would be something men do for men, women do for men and women do for women. "Benevolent sexism" (a nonsensical term for female supremacy) only applies from men to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:48 PM
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This isn't true. The vast majority men advocate for women being treated preferentially, either in the traditionalist or male feminist form. Pro-male types are exceptionally rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:46 PM
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"Benevolent misogyny" is an oxymoron. The idea of lovingly hating someone makes absolutely no sense. The whole idea is a way for feminists to twist them into a pretzel to reconcile the existence of both female supremacy and patriarchy theory when they directly contradict one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:44 PM
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that's not really the point. i think when a sexual woman sees what she wants, she's a demon and men aren't use to seeing that demon but it lies below the surface in a lot of them. Huh? the difference is women are the gate keepers of sex so it comes across differently. Now ask yourself why women are the gatekeepers of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:43 PM
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American millennial here. Mostly by mothers, but most of our fathers fell for the same brainwashing. The media plays a big part as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:42 PM
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There are 2 reasons for this: 1) Men have a colossal sex drive, and most men are into women 2) Men get brainwashed from birth that women are perfect princesses and they need to be their slaves, otherwise they're not "real men/gentlemen" Once you figure out a way to change this, let us know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:54 PM
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Go ask 100 women for sex. Then have a woman ask 100 men for sex. Get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:52 PM
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The bigger issue is that men have an out-group bias and work against their own interests to benefit women, tradcucks and male feminists alike. Women almost never do this, except for the ones being paid to (Megyn Kelly, etc.) Any bias regarding men on their part ranges from fairness to outright sadism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:13 AM
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Not trying to be a dick but it sounds like you're the man she was referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:27 PM
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It seems like mothers are tougher on girls and fathers are tougher on boys. Almost everyone I know has had this experience. No idea why this is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:25 PM
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They do, but this is largely men’s fault for treating them like they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:39 PM
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Thank God for people like Esther Vilas. Someone has to throw these folks a bone sometimes. People love to refer to her derisively, but never actually refute her points
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:38 PM
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No it isn’t. You won’t find any significant number of men (in the western world at least) demanding that women do everything for them for nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:36 PM
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Can we stop beating this dead horse (or bear, I suppose) already?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:32 PM
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I’m referring to the modern era, not the middle ages
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:31 PM
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Ask yourself why a male-dominated world created "women and children first" policies, male-only military draft and standards of chivalry where they behave as women's servants/army/ATM for nothing in return. Does that sound like in-group bias to you? Quite the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:21 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:20 PM
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Not the person you're responding to, but "in-group" means the group you are part of and "out-group" means the group you are not part of. Both men and women have a bias in favor of women, hence why men have an out-group bias and women have an in-group bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:48 PM
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As a straight man, I have never been hit on, harassed or any of that sort of behavior by another man I have, but that doesn't change my opinion on men as a group I also don't have much anxiety (compared to my wife) of walking alone at night You should, considering men are the majority of violent crime victims
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:21 PM
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I do the same thing with some of my male friends, even when we're just hanging out. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:14 PM
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Good lord, this is so far off I don't even know where to begin. Most men bend over backwards to be women's servants/army/ATM, even ones they don't know at all, and neither expect nor get anything from women in return. Meanwhile, women will at best be fair to men, and the rest expect to be treated like a spoiled princess by the entire male population. The only exceptions are a few paid hacks like Ann Coulter and Megyn Kelly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:12 PM
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Men like sex, so yes that sounds fucking amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:56 PM
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1) Source? 2) How is that happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:42 PM
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He's also overlooking the fact that he might walk out the door and get hit by lightning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:41 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:15 PM
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And in modern developed nations deaths from childbirth are exceptionally rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:40 PM
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Alright, let’s repeal the 19th amendment then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:39 PM
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Because the general response toward men from the left is “shut up and check your privilege.” Remember the man-bear meme? I guarantee you every single woman picking the bear was left wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:39 PM
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How do I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:37 PM
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But this is just an example of how the patriarchy hurts men. Maybe this is more evidence that “the patriarchy” is just a boogeyman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:36 PM
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Meanwhile we are supposed to listen to kids like Greta Thunberg and David Hogg and never criticize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:28 PM
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Slavery was outlawed 160 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:28 PM
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Their falling corpses would cause quite a bit of mayhem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:14 PM
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Sure, and if cows could fly (a substantially more likely scenario) the world would be very different as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:42 PM
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Approve or reject
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:40 PM
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Why wouldn't it be? The majority of men behave like white knight idiots who will bend over backwards for women. Why would women respect someone they have this much power over?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:49 PM
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Hey at least you're honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:46 PM
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Because in virtually all cases, men have to initiate the interaction and give women the power to approve or reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:46 PM
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It refers to men being in the vulnerable, subservient position with women having the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:45 PM
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The difference is that this is expected from men for women, not vice versa. “When people get used to preferential treatment, equal treatment seems like discrimination.” -- Thomas Sowell, sounding oddly similar to the social justice types
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:44 PM
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You neglect to mention that most men are white knight female supremacists with a heap of masochism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:25 AM
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So they get to learn what men experience their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:31 AM
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Neither do most 60+ year olds, just look at the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:30 AM
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If the shoe fits
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:35 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:30 PM
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Did all the Russian men die of male privilege in WWII?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:28 PM
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Moving the goalposts I see
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:41 PM
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Well since they don't care what men think, there's not much to fight against.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:30 PM
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Seems like the only way to make that happen would be to neuter the entire male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:16 PM
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To obtain the aforementioned thousands of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:13 PM
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Gotcha, so now women will stop blaming men for "unrealistic patriarchal beauty standards" since they "don't think about [us] at all."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:05 PM
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>Women are not actively pursuing a situation in which they have this siren effect on men. Frankly, the overwhelming majority of women are actively attempting to avoid having a siren effect on men much to the dismay and disgust of men. Is that why so many young women dress like hoes - so that men ignore them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:29 PM
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>How are we meant to show interest without making ourselves even more vulnerable to this kind of situation, and without the risk of being labelled frigid or accused of not being attracted? If you show interest, that's literally the opposite of being frigid/unattracted >But what if where you live, that simply is not the norm? Women being able to own property wasn't the norm for most of history either, but you did something about that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:25 PM
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No matter what anybody does, you’re going to get bitched at by somebody, so do what you think is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:42 PM
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<——-this one does
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:18 PM
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Download tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:41 PM
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Wonder if this is the same guy who compulsively posted this on yahoo answers around like 2010.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:57 PM
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If female heterosexuality is real then how come none of them want to fuck me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:54 PM
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I haven’t seen women in power behave any differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:10 PM
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If you can’t pick even one out of thousands of options, at some point it’s you and not them. Have you ever considered that you might be a lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:09 PM
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Your inability (or, more likely, refusal) to understand something incredibly basic is a you problem, not a me problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:06 PM
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The same is true of drug addicts, but we have resources to help them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:04 PM
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They haven't had the chance. There were also laws and doctrine to privilege women (male-only military conscription, preferential treatment in hazardous situations, etc.), which I don't believe for 2 seconds that women would implement if they were in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:00 PM
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No matter how many times it's repeated, having thousands of options is in no way, shape or form equivalent to having none. Why can women not admit this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:59 PM
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All but one of the times a gay man has come onto me it made me happy for weeks after even though I'm straight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:56 PM
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>If you were a vegetarian with unlimited access to every kind of sausage, would you feel lucky? Yes, and I would certainly never tell starving people to check their privilege Would the sausages also bend over backwards to do what I want in hopes that I might change my eating habits?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:54 PM
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We aren’t any less dead if a man kills us instead of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:28 PM
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"You hate people!" "But I love gatherings, isn't it ironic?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:54 PM
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Batting 0 and 2
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:52 PM
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As the more empathetic gender No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:48 AM
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So where does the man who groped my dick repeatedly, as well as the men and women who sat there laughing fit in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:26 PM
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Why would a patriarchal military enslave men to die and not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:36 PM
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I'm well aware of that. Whether women would have enslaved men in the same manner if they were in charge is anyone's guess - however, as we are conditioned by our mothers to be women's servants (and many women expect it), it's fairly likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:34 PM
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Male objectification and Female objectification are two very different things. The latter leads to more violence and strife than the former, even if the former can be in poor taste. Tell that to all the men who were enslaved to fight and die in every war throughout history
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:30 PM
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I'm not your bud, guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:28 PM
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Does other men doing it make them any less dead, disabled or mutilated?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:22 PM
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Men are conditioned from day one to be masochistic servants to women. Since most men (like most women) are dumb they not only fall for it, but take pride in it, and lash out at other men who break the spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:21 PM
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Objectification of men led to millions of them being enslaved to lose life and limb in almost every war throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:19 PM
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Men are far worse to one another than women are to us. The vast majority of men are white knight doofuses (either socially traditional or male feminist), while women are pretty much split between being fair to men and expecting the princess treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:58 PM
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>You're acting like there are no examples of women engaging in traditionally feminine and submissive behavior and having it lauded as "goals" by men. There's a woman on Instagram whose whole shtick is making sandwiches in low-cut tops. Some men like this a lot. Maybe the women you're talking about saw those comments and said, "Well, if THEY get to objectify us, we should do the same!" The difference is that the majority of women would have a shit fit over this scenario, whereas men encourage one…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:56 PM
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The problem is that almost all men are masochists and support women being treated better than men, and thus will never band together in solidarity the way women (who, in contrast to men, have an ingroup bias) have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:55 PM
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“I have the privilege of being unaware of my privilege.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:09 PM
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Name a few
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:06 PM
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That’s odd, 5 minutes ago I was told that men have unrealistic standards. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:18 PM
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Ah yes, because attractive women are so well known for having great personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:17 PM
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In that case, women would no longer have a legion of white knights bending over backwards for them at every opportunity. Careful what you wish for…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:15 PM
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male-centric justice system Please be a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:36 PM
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If it smells like shit everywhere you go, check your shoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:19 PM
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Am I supposed to be offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:52 PM
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That’s a lot of words to say absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:43 PM
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Social norms for decades have instructed men to treat women preferentially in just about every situation, even crazy shit like walking on the street side of the sidewalk so they don’t get hit by cars, with women doing jack shit in return. You know the common woke phrase “when you’re used to privilege, equality seems like oppression” - seems to apply here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:05 PM
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But men wouldn't like it being the norm for women to approach men-- because they'd all approach the same small % of men they match with online. Which brings us back to my point. Choosing is power. Which men would still prefer to the current situation. Of course she does. And she has to wait for him to kiss her, to initiate sex with her, to turn their casual sex into a relationship, to ask her to marry him. No woman does all these things, the man does 90% of them. Nope, again, her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:58 PM
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Which “social expectation”? Getting approached by a woman would be the greatest moment of most men’s lives. Who is preventing them besides themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:57 PM
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It's not social convention for women to approach. And they don't typically do it (overtly). And it hands a lot of power to the man. That’s their own choice. Every single man would love to be approached by a woman, but women decide not to because (as you stated) it gives men the power instead of them. A woman has to wait for the most beautiful men to approach her No she does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:54 PM
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Women also have the option to approach. Men don’t have the option to sit back and get showered with attention and free shit 24/7. Women have the clear advantage here by lightyears.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:23 PM
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“Am I out of touch? No, it’s half the world’s population who are wrong.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:38 AM
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But the world is becoming overpopulated (if it isn’t already)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:25 PM
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But that’s never going to happen, so what’s the relevance?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:46 PM
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If 100 men and 1 woman were stranded on an island, the population would almost certainly go extinct unless conditions were close to ideal. And if frogs had wings they wouldn’t bump their ass on the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:39 PM
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Alright then, let’s establish admissions/hiring preferences and scholarships for men since they’re underrepresented in medical school.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:21 PM
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I would if I had the money. Women are nurtures and caretakers. Seems only biological that women make up the majority of doctors. Jordan Peterson is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:06 PM
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He gets the privilege of paying out the ass for all of them for 18 years, and going to jail if he can’t (even if the mother refuses to press charges).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:02 PM
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In that case, let’s get more men into medical school as they are currently underrepresented. To do so, med schools should discriminate against women in admissions and we should create numerous male-only medical scholarships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:53 PM
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There are also countless women-only scholarships and business grants, and universities/companies that bend over backwards to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:52 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:38 PM
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Sure they are. By “army” I’m referring to the hordes of white knights who will defend women in hopes of getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:37 PM
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Like I said, having half the population behaving as your servants/army/ATM in hopes of getting sex is a huge advantage. Why are you pretending not to know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:35 PM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:34 PM
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Women’s behavior (choosing not to go into STEM) is a behavioral issue. Nothing systematic about it. Nobody is going to hire someone with a gender studies degree to build space shuttles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:31 PM
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Yes, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:30 PM
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Tf does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:15 PM
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But when women choose lower paying jobs and take more time off that’s men’s fault too somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:14 PM
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Meanwhile you could make 6 figures putting up foot pics online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:13 PM
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Women not being able to get STEM jobs doesn’t interest me. Why should everyone else care?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:11 PM
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Women have the biological advantage that men want sex from them, and can basically use half the population as their servants/army/ATM. Dating is more “risky” for women in the sense that getting hit by lightning is dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:10 PM
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We aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:03 PM
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Obviously not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:14 PM
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Literally every time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:08 PM
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Literally every time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:08 PM
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I missed the part where he shoved liquor down their throat or coke up their nose against their will. Was that edited out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:02 PM
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>... I'm not aware that things like ::checks notes:: men creating a male-only draft or men creating religion that requires circumcision was something that mothers somehow "conditioned men" into >I can't take this argument seriously, sorry Men are brainwashed by their mother to be women's servants their entire lives. Most of them go on to do so. Again, circumcision is usually something elected by the mother. >Men's only scholarships exist, so maybe next time spend more time reflecting on your own…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:59 PM
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This would require women to do something that would give men power over them, so dream on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:42 PM
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>Approaching a man doesn’t put me at a disadvantage. If anything, approaching a man is a near guarantee for me. I just don’t have to do it. And of course since most women are inherently selfish, I would expect nothing different. >If women not approaching is your biggest grievance with “equality” then I’m so jealous of your privilege We can't all face the real struggles like mansplaining or microaggressions. Having your entire dating/sex life handed to you on a silver platter with zero skill or e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:40 PM
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You're making my point for me. Women will never make any effort to do anything that could potentially put them at a disadvantage, yet gladly reap both the benefits of equality and tradition. The concept of fairness is entirely alien to you, and you are content to have half the population as your obedient little servants. Meanwhile, men bend over backwards day in and day out to treat women - even ones they aren't trying to fuck - like goddesses, and taking on all the burden of disadvantageous sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:43 PM
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Now ask yourself, who is it that conditions men to behave this way? Usually their mothers, who spend the most time with them, and condition them to engage in this behavior as "real men" or "gentlemen". While there's a book called "The Manipulated Man" that goes into this, I would lean more in the direction that this is a survival strategy women (being weaker) adapted than some cruel scheme. That addresses most of your copy+pasted responses. For the others: >How is this directly oppositional to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:18 AM
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Male-only military conscription Legal male genital mutilation of infants Predominantly male judges giving women dramatically lighter prison sentences than men Creating "women and children first" policies in hazardous situations For that matter, the entire concept of "[x dead] including women and children" as if male life is worthless The establishment of women-only scholarships and business loans could not have been done without men's consent The entire "courting ritual" essentially puts the onu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:22 AM
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Refraining from treating women as a form of "special" class, i.e. preferentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:10 AM
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>Women take on all of the risks of pregnancy and should be really picky about which men they choose to procreate with. Men risk having to pay out the ass for 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:59 PM
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>There is no diatribe you can write and no argument you can present that will ever be a persuasive case for women not behaving in our own best interests. Women were able to convince men to behave against their own best interests in almost every situation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:52 PM
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>Do you want women to walk down the street and say free sex for anyone that wants it? Is this the real ask behind this constantly being asked question? If we say yes will you start doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:48 PM
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As usual, equality only goes one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:47 PM
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Catharsis
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:46 PM
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Sure it is. However, based on victimization rates of every violent crime aside from SA, men should be FAR more afraid of each other than women are of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:28 PM
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So why do the vast majority of men advocate for treating women preferentially?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:18 PM
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Because most men were brainwashed by their mother (and society as a whole) to treat all women like princesses and rejoice in their own servitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:11 PM
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One of the big reasons for this is that most men are masochists and actually take pride in making their lives worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:09 PM
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I'm talking about normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:48 PM
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Nobody said it was. I said the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:47 PM
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I am always perplexed how you can be bombarded with attention 24/7 and still have poor self confidence. Do they just develop a tolerance like with drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:16 PM
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As a man, I long for a world where we were all neutered. Both genders would be astronomically happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:12 PM
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Because women told us how much they hate us and wish we would stop doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:07 PM
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The internet is full of women ranting about how much they hate us. Why would we have any?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:05 PM
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But we aren't. Women are. I could tell myself that I can throw a football like Tom Brady all day long, but reality has to matter at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:03 PM
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>Viewing women as weak individuals that need to be protected, provided for, and coddled IS sexist. Misogyny isn't just hated--it can also be disrespect, contempt, and prejudice. Providing women (or men) with "special treatment" on the basis of sex is inherently predjudicial and, in many cases, disrespectful. Therefore, I find such behavior to be sexist. Treating women like royality just because of their immutable sex charateristics demonstrates that a man does not view women as equals. To me, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:47 PM
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So why did men never band together when they were being enslaved to lose life and limb in war?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:30 PM
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See the first two waves of feminism. Even the third is acting in women's interests, but seeking to hurt men rather than advantage women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:27 PM
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Men do this for women they have no intention of fucking. The fact that "social skills" entails treating women in a superior fashion speaks volumes about our society, and why "patriarchy" is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:26 PM
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But why do they care? They don't advocate the same for other groups they see as less capable (racial and sexual minorities, for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:25 PM
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Treating them as superior is masochistic. This is often done regardless of whether said man is interested in sex with a particular woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:23 PM
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That fits the below Masochistic criteria: · chooses people and situations that lead to disappointment, failure, or mistreatment even when better options are clearly available · rejects or renders ineffective the attempts of others to help them · rejects opportunities for pleasure, or is reluctant to acknowledge enjoying themselves (despite having adequate social skills and the capacity for pleasure)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:22 PM
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"Misogyny is when you treat women like royalty" How do you actually say, let alone believe, something like this? No one who hates a group of people treats them as superior. Somehow feminists have twisted themselves into pretzels attempting to make themselves into victims for receiving preferential treatment, which is why their ideology is laughable. No other "marginalized/victim" group, in the entirety of human history, has been treated preferentially by their "oppressor". Somehow women are an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:09 PM
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Did you actually read what I laid out? That may apply to romantic relationships, but they absolutely treat random women in a superior fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:08 PM
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>men do not benefit from other men thriving. Women benefit from other women thriving. That's why I think people are more deferential to women. Can you elaborate please?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:06 PM
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How about no attention at all then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:16 PM
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Women, stop expecting praise/rewards for just existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:14 PM
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Unconditional love does not exist. Even your parents love you on the condition that you're their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:16 AM
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Beat me to it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/26 05:07 AM
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Yes. Even male celebrities have fewer options than average (or even below average) women with zero skill or effort on their part. >I always feel like statements like these takes away from the struggles women can face in dating. Both genders face a unique set of challenges and we should always do best to remember that in my opinion Having thousands of choices is in no way, shape or form equivalent to having zero. Saying otherwise over and over is not going to magically make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:51 PM
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Men are significantly worse to each other than women are to men in this regard. We're probably the most masochistic group of people to ever live.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:59 PM
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Yeah getting bombarded with attention and free stuff 24/7 must be brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:03 AM
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Maybe not by you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:00 AM
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Women can't give good dating advice because they aren't required to actually do anything besides sit back and get spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:59 PM
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The kind of men who get violent would be even more inclined to do so upon being ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:55 PM
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Men are constantly told to sympathize with even the most minuscule grievance women have. I don't think it's too much to ask that they return the favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:54 PM
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We are not deserving of respect though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:52 PM
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All these words yet you've still said absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:52 PM
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The vast majority of men fit into the categories I mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:51 PM
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That's a long way of saying "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:36 PM
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I'm a man, so not sure how this applies to me. Nevertheless, how did these men you described allow women to control their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:35 PM
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Where does that put the gender that purchases said pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:34 PM
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Fair point. However, given the circumstances, very few men are deserving of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:33 PM
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Got anything useful to add?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:32 PM
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Like microaggressions and manspreading?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:18 AM
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Correct, since we never had these to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:08 PM
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Why do you think white knighting on reddit is going to get you laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:07 PM
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"Some" is exceptionally vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:07 PM
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Yes, I'm sure they're terrified of pudgy balding male feminist nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:06 PM
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Because feminists claim to support equality, yet make less than zero effort to resolve these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:05 PM
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>Is the draft really an issue? Do you actually worry that the US might enter a land war and you might get conscripted? Or is it really just a political football to pass around? Have you been following US politics for the last year?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:04 PM
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"That which is asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence." - Christopher Hitchens
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:02 PM
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To be fair, everyone should oppose slavery for all citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:01 PM
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This is why it blows my mind when MRAs/TRPers embrace right wing politcs. It seems like they are just doing so because feminists are aligned with the left. This is a prime example of cutting off your nose to spite your face. Seriously, name one conservative politician who has said anything in favor of men, let alone added pro-male policies to their platform. Either none of them have the courage, or none of them care. The closest you can get is Trump rolling back certain Title IX provisions (whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:57 PM
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It's preferable to dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:00 AM
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Just tax rich people to pay for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:00 AM
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Tbf if all men were neutered both genders would be happier
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:58 AM
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Literally every time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:55 AM
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"Assume" is spelled that way because it makes an "ass" out of "u" and "me".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:53 AM
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>I'm usually unhappy about being hated You are the one doing the hating, as I clearly pointed out. >I have considered this. Turns out that was not the case Your OP indicates otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:52 AM
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Quite curious isn’t it Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:43 PM
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If someone goes around screaming "ACAB" or "defund the police" and then proceeds to call the cops when it's convenient, then they are deserving of ridicule.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:21 AM
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Seems like you should be thrilled about a group you openly hate ignoring you. Did you ever consider that you're just desperate to play the victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:20 AM
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Nor do women discover or invent things at the same rates as men. Yet somehow that never gets mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:19 AM
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>Honestly at this point men are more scared to be accused of rape than actually raping. Good lord you actually believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:30 PM
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Because men who do commit sexual assault don't admit to it. Despite what feminists continue to claim, men don't go around high-fiving each other for raping women. Why are you pretending you don't know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:29 PM
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>No one is claiming women are incapable of lying or acting maliciously. Anyone who questions the veracity of a rape allegation will instantly be branded a misogynist incel by feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:28 PM
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Well now men have more responsibilities without having more rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:25 PM
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Wrong thread
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:25 PM
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>You seriously have never seen someone give up a seat for an old or handicapped man? What about a regular man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:24 PM
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Yes. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:23 PM
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>For the second category, there is no victim, as it's a Self-Harm scenario. Self-Harm doesn't really have a victim/perpetrator setup. Sure does when women choose not to go into high paying careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:23 PM
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Yes, I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:22 PM
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>Not one of these is feminists trying to advocate for female superiority Yes, they are. You're really showing your hand here. >Do you actually have anything? I literally just provided examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:22 PM
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Most of what I said is based on IRL observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:21 PM
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Why don't they extend this behavior toward other groups they see as incompetent? It's literally just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:20 PM
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There are extra expectations assigned to men's behavior toward women. Something tells me you already know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:19 PM
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People expect you to be extra nice toward women though. That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:18 PM
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So why does no one advocate the same for boys and men, and how did nobody think to point this out? Decades ago when I was a kid not for one second did I buy into the idea that women should be treated better than men, and was endlessly baffled by men who fell for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:17 PM
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Leave Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:15 PM
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Why punish themselves though, especially when they are some of the first to complain when feminists seek to do likewise?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:09 PM
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Stopped reading at the first sentence. Might want to update your shaming tactics from 2010.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:06 PM
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Thing is that men do these things for women they aren't trying to date/fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:05 PM
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>- I think this is also part of benevolent sexism, so i agree i think? But my question is why did men agree to this, when they're often the same ones railing against feminism for advantaging women? >- because opening the door for women isn't female supremacy? It is if they only do it for women. You are objectively treating one group better than the other. >- well not like those men don't do same thing. But putting moral judgement aside that's completely understandable to be honest. We don't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:04 PM
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Maybe it's bad in all cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:03 PM
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I'll bring this up at the next patriarchy meeting, since of course all men get a say in what 4 billion of us do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:02 PM
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Sounds like victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:02 PM
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I have little to no control over what other men do. I'm not suddenly less dead because a man killed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:02 PM
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>If you can provide any proof, links of articles or studies or events about the evil feminists trying to advocate for female superiority I would love to read it https://www.scholarships.com/financial-aid/college-scholarships/scholarships-by-type/scholarships-for-women https://freethoughtblogs.com/pharyngula/2016/06/16/maybe-we-should-outlaw-ownership-of-guns-by-men/ https://www.theguardian.com/society/article/2024/jul/28/womens-prisons-have-served-their-time-they-should-be-abolished https://www.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:55 PM
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These online shitty communities are the same people out in the mainstream, including positions of authority. I tried warning about this when it comes to MAGA a decade ago, I was continually told it was just a bunch of 4chan trolls, and now they control all three branches of government.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:51 PM
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Please stop gaslighting, it is not conducive to discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:49 PM
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Men are mostly subjugated by one another, as I made abundantly clear in my post. I listed demonstrable examples of female supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:47 PM
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I'm specifically referring to acts men do for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:45 PM
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>Women aren't allowed to assault men with impunity. What are you talking about? Do you mean men don't report as often so they don't get justice and help? Men who do report to law enforcement (which is predominantly male, no less) seem to by-and-large not be taken seriously. But even in a social context, every man remembers being conditioned that if women get violent with us we just have to sit there and take it, and if we retaliate then we are the bad one. Not to mention it's very common for peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:50 PM
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Where is that evidence? Also, this is beat into us before we even become attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:41 PM
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I'm trying to make heads or tails of this post. Can you please stop speaking in riddles?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:41 PM
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Great contribution there chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:40 PM
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I agree by and large. However, what I'm confused about is how seemingly the majority men actually fell for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:39 PM
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>And i'm always shocked when men hear "don't assault women" as an evidence of female supremacy, that women want a servant, punching bag etc. That's just weird. Specifically, this refers to the idea that women are entitled to assault men with impunity and we just have to sit there and take it - not men instigating violence toward women. While this double standard seems to be dissipating, it was almost universally held up until maybe a decade ago. >Anyway, about your point, i see this more as trad…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:37 PM
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Remind me which gender comprises the majority of homicide victims, assault victims, homeless, war deaths and workplace injuries/fatalities again? inb4 "bUt It'S oThEr MeN"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:28 PM
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>Maybe the answer is men should try harder Cute how women say this when they do literally nothing but sit back and get showered with attention 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:03 PM
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How, neuter ourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:48 PM
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No kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:24 PM
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Did men being enslaved to die in wars give them economic and social power, or being last on the lifeboats?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:07 PM
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>A lot of men here really don't want to do things like start a conversation and get to know someone. You mean like checks notes virtually every woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:22 AM
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"Even" progressive women? They are the most inclined to do so, and I say this as someone with generally left-of-center views.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:20 AM
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Lonely women are so exclusively by choice. The same is not true for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:15 AM
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Why would men create "patriarchal societal norms" that disadvantage them? Somehow gender is the only dynamic where this comes into place. You never see this with race, sexuality, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:09 AM
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Attractive men do not post on Reddit, let alone subs such as these. They're out partying on south beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:01 AM
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This answers OP's question. Since women hate men and men hate rejection, there's no incentive to approach as the only outcome is negative for each side.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:58 PM
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>Lastly, it's 2025 more women need to cold/warm approach more. Time to get with the risk of falling like the rest of us. That would require upholding equality outside of when it benefits women, so dream on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:53 PM
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Sure, but when men have any standards they're accused of being an incel misogynist with a tiny penis. At least have some consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:49 PM
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Far fewer than the AH dudes who get tons of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:57 AM
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Men see other, more aggressive men succeeding with women day in and day out, no matter how many times we are told otherwise on this sub. Again though, this depends on the particular boundary in question, since it’s a vague term. I see the confusion as some may think it refers to harassment or even assault, which is obviously no bueno.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:56 AM
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Nobody has been pushing the “rape culture” narrative since like 2015 because it’s obviously nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:52 AM
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“Um ackshually defund the police means don’t defund the police” Classic Motte and Bailey
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:16 AM
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Almost everyone pushing “defund the police” would identify as a feminist. Also at one point they tried to close women’s prisons in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:32 PM
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rape culture You missed the boat on this one by at least a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:21 PM
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And end up dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:21 PM
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But it’s the behavior that actually works (depending on the boundary in question, of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:19 PM
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Men like sex. This isn’t exactly news.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:46 PM
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So why is the reverse not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:52 PM
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Male privilege strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:52 PM
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Being lectured by a woman on "doing the hard work" when you just sit back and do nothing yet choose from thousands of options is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:51 PM
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>Being cold approached is annoying. >Isn't it exhausting being so "woe is me"? Pot meet kettle
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:48 PM
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MAGA isn’t pro-man. Trump straight up said he wants fewer male immigrants, that women are smarter, is sending in gestapo thugs to assault mostly men (sending many of them to contraction camps in El Salvador) and seems intent on sending primarily men to die in his stupid ass wars. The one decent thing he did for us is revising Title IX so that colleges don’t just expel men based on mere accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:24 PM
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Men are only free to “not approach” if they are fine with never having sex or a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:28 PM
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This from the people who invented “microaggressions”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:13 PM
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Did it ever cross your mind that attractive men simply don’t get rejected as much, or know they have other options? But if 80-90% of men are so bad, let’s flip the script and have women do the approaching then. Yet for some reason they don’t want that dynamic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:08 PM
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This is why Bill Burr rightly pointed out that women see equality as a buffet where you just take the stuff you like. Tbf men would do the same thing if they could
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:05 PM
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Like you’re doing right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:07 PM
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All the feminists constantly whining about anything men do could have fooled me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:06 PM
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Women can get laid literally whenever they want with 0 effort. There are no women “as desperate as you are”. Also, comparing men’s and women’s need for sex is like comparing a space shuttle to a propeller plane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:13 PM
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Yeah we should focus on the devastating horrors women face like mansplaining and catcalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:11 PM
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I still don’t really get it as a concept. Like how does one see a group as inferior yet treat them as superior?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:01 PM
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Because it’s a blatantly obvious double standard, but something tells me you already knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:59 PM
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You’re just playing word games at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:57 PM
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Your entire OP was about showing empathy for men’s struggles. Your replies demonstrate that you have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:30 PM
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Please do continue proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:50 PM
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Next time I hear feminists whining about women being underrepresented, I’ll just tell them that women should be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:57 PM
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Good job proving his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:54 PM
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Disparity favors men: “clear proof of patriarchal discrimination!” Disparity favors women: “lol men are just dumb and lazy” Thank you for proving that your premise is bullshit, and that feminism is just an excuse for hating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:53 PM
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You ever notice how the women most against slut shaming are the same ones who call every man they disagree with an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:52 AM
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So do women. Arguably, many women want sex more than many men I’m not convinced you actually believe something this ridiculous. Even flat eartherism isn’t this out of touch with reality. But wanting something badly and being willing to accept a lesser version of what you want aren't the same. Yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:24 PM
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If there’s dog shit everywhere you go, maybe check your shoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:22 PM
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Getting used as a sex doll by a man is not an option Yes it is. If I don’t like something on a menu it’s still an option
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:30 PM
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Yeah but men actually want sex though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:28 PM
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Never said you were
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:27 PM
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Most of the men who do the shit OP is talking about aren’t neurotic loser mental cases
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:34 AM
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Sounds lit ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:30 AM
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Having thousands of options is in no way comparable to having none, no matter how you want to spin it. If none of those options respect you, it might be time to look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:34 PM
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How do you propose men as a group collectively get rid of their sex drives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:32 PM
1

So why is sexual power dynamic never factored in, but age/money is? All of it yes, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:30 PM
1

And women made an entire well known movie about female bullying over two decades ago, a movie that is still talked about to this day. Women and general society talk about female bullies regularly, you perhaps just aren't in those spaces to hear it. It’s only pointed out when it’s women bullying other women. We’ve been dealing with an entire movement castigating all men as being oppressive rapist murderers for decades and they’ve been showered with praise for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:21 PM
2

Feminists and tradcucks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:20 PM
2

This gaslighting is not fooling anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:19 PM
1

I also thought we agreed that fascism was bad, but apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:19 PM
3

Don’t forget how any man who disagrees with a feminist is immediately called an incel with a tiny dick, no matter how reasonable he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:18 PM
0

Why does women’s sexual power not get mentioned in discussions like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:16 PM
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Women still have all the sexual power though, which is never factored into these discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:15 PM
3

This isn’t news to anyone on here, it’s more the legion of white knight manginas that need to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:27 PM
2

So women are mere passive medical patients while men are the experts who operate on them? I mean…yeah? Me are the ones required to take the active role. We also don’t have endless choices at the click of a button.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:15 PM
2

Most women don’t even risk rejection, let alone experience it. And even the ones that do have thousands of other options to fall back on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:14 PM
2

Because women don’t actually do anything besides sit back and get showered with attention 24/7. That requires no strategy whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:13 PM
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Fantasy and reality are different
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:43 PM
24

Having thousands of options is not the same as having none no matter how you spin it. Can people just give up trying to make this nonsensical claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:53 AM
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women could care less So you’re admitting they do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:11 AM
1

The idea that “women are just as horny” is so laughable that it’s even dumber than a flat earth - at least the latter isn’t easily refutable based on basic day-to-day observation. It’s the dumbest thing a person could possibly believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:58 PM
11

Like how feminists accuse every man who disagrees with them of being an incel with a small penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:41 PM
2

Funny how this only applies to men…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:40 PM
1

It’s a power play, like most things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:45 AM
2

Now do trans women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:44 AM
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Drawing a comparison between a mother and her underage son and random adult women vs. random adult men is nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:40 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:36 AM
1

Wonder why that male privilege didn’t save jacks life…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:17 AM
2

Pretty much…more that it eventually showed its true colors
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:37 AM
1

That is not an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:22 PM
2

Who gets to decide what constitutes coercion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:22 PM
1

The matriarchy should stop paying us less money for the same job and keeping us out of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:46 PM
7

“Enthusiastic consent” is a weasel word to allow women to claim rape after the fact because “I didn’t really want it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:45 PM
1

So at what threshold of frequency does it become acceptable to hate an entire group for the actions of a minority, and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:43 PM
0

NotAllWomen huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:42 PM
7

Men are vastly more likely to be murdered by a man than women are. Do you see us hating each other by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:41 PM
0

Only one whining here is you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:10 PM
6

This has been common knowledge for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:35 PM
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Anybody who tries to dispute this is just being contrary for its own sake. The difference between male and female sexuality is even bigger than the difference in physical strength. Thinking male and female sexuality drives are even remotely the same is even dumber than flat earth. It’s just one of those litmus tests for a person having functioning cognitive abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:28 PM
1

One quarter of women are the sexual persuers (sic) Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:38 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:35 PM
1

Tf does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:14 PM
2

Broke my hand facepalming
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:23 PM
1

Nailed it. I know a decent number self-proclaimed guys who have had gay encounters but would be the last to admit it publicly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:35 PM
1

The Supreme Court also overturned Roe v Wade
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:31 PM
6

All love is conditional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:41 AM
1

I’m just going off what women tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:14 PM
10

Maybe cops should stop targeting us (especially men of color)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:49 AM
0

You’re the one whining about paying taxes and pushing “personal responsibility” talk. Sounds right wing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:47 AM
2

Men and women weren’t mature enough before either. They just had kids anyway and look how the world turned out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:27 PM
-1

Why would it be sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:04 PM
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Of course you right wingers never think of what happens to these children after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:24 PM
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My money my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:21 PM
2

Any disparity between genders is proof of oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:00 PM
-4

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:23 PM
1

FightTheMatriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:22 PM
-1

Fr it’s like asking a deer for hunting advice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:45 PM
1

Nevada
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:40 PM
1

Gay men have a dramatically higher chance of getting HIV but you still see them boning at the drop of a hat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:39 PM
0

Same reason people think rain makes things wet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:38 PM
1

You can say this about any job
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:37 PM
5

You ever go to a restaurant? The chef is only cooking for the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:12 PM
5

They just hate men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:11 PM
0

And if you decide to keep it then men aren’t obligated to spend 18 years pay for your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:45 PM
2

So if women don’t care what men think, why does it matter what “the patriarchy” believes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:05 AM
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