Leather_Phone4720 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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32	Soon to be ex wife cohabitating before divorce final Speaking as a now single father two years on from my marriage imploding: I can't say what you should do, but I am comfortable speculating on what to expect. From this point forward, the person you built your life around and trusted implicitly with your children is going to seem like she's lost her mind. She will say and do things that will schock you and make you wonder if you ever really knew her at all. She'll break her word, change agreements you made together, and prioritize what she wants i…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/26 01:27 PM
2	Reality. Sounds familiar. I hate to tell you this - she's cheating on you. Don't ask her about it again - she'll just keep lying. Take some steps in line with what you can morally stomach to prove it. Do a little research first. Find out what's legal in your state to cover yourself. Don't get obsessed with the details (how long has it been going on, how many men, where, in depth spying stuff) - that might really, really mess you up. You think you want to know. You do not. Just gather enough info so you K…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/08/24 09:48 PM
1	Cohabitation after divorce I'm about a week away from ending cohabitation - two months removed from finding out my STBX was a lying serial adulterer. It's been a nightmare. Absolutely the most emotionally punishing experience of my life to stay at home with my kids while she went out screwing almost every night. If you can avoid it, do so. If you can't, and you have kids, then spend every second you can focusing on them. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/23 05:28 PM
3	My Soul hurts Good luck. Those kids need you - I bet you're a damn good father. You got this. You don't need her.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/23 04:17 PM
6	My Soul hurts The obstacle is the way, man. There's no forward. There's each day, one after another. Be a great dad. Don't let your work suffer. Accept the suck - it will suck for a time, and then one day it won't. Who cares if she's 'moved on?' She's a woman - she can hang out an open sign and get validation whenever she wants. Doesn't make her any less of an asshole for wrecking your life. You can do it - and you can look back at this time in your life and know that you had integrity and strength. Will she …	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/23 04:02 PM
9	My Soul hurts It's not hard to believe. That's what good people do. That's why you got married - to be an honorable man. You're not perfect - but if you are being honest about your actions, then you know everything you need to know to start moving forward. You got played. She's not who you thought she was. It really sucks, but it could happen to anyone - has probably happened to everyone who comes to this board. The longer you wait to begin moving forward is less time you have to rebuild your life to be what …	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/23 03:33 PM
8	My Soul hurts I empathize, man. I truly do. I'm not saying you are some victim - you probably need to have a hard look in the mirror, with all that entails, and figure out what you did to end up in this situation. But, did you break your vows? Did you shut yourself off and lie to your spouse about what you were doing, and with whom? Did you start clandestinely looking up apps that would allow you to hide what you were up to from your spouse? Did you start opening new credit cards to hide money that could be t…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/23 03:18 PM
3	F Her Mentality I'm 6 weeks in to a very similar situation - and have to cohabitate with her to boot. What has helped more than anything else in the times when I'm not with my kids is reading posts like yours, and the replies of men who are further away from the initial shock of discovering the truth. She almost ropes me back in with her sad story - maybe I am to blame? Maybe I'm overreacting and painting her as the 'bad guy?' Then I come on here and see people relaying their experiences and I remember: I didn'…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/11/23 03:41 PM