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I'm a woman who games, currently dating a man who games. And I will never date another man who plays games again. If my current guy wasn't so amazing in every other way so far, I would've dropped him. It's not so much a red flag, as it is an ick now. I'll be doing something productive and hear him on Discord like "hey guys just waiting for my mana to recharge first, my Warlock's on standby, attack the crystal heart, Balthazar is down" and ugh. He can do it for hours on end too because he can foc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 12:23 PM
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Someone with weird food hangups is probably on the spectrum. My current partner has a thing about cheese and milk. I don't know if it's the smell, texture, or if it's because it's made from cows' milk but he hates it. He also dislikes when things are mixed thoroughly together (eg. pumpkin and carrot soups, or mashed potato with things put in it) But it's honestly not a big deal for us. He just doesn't order food like that. He has his coffee black. He makes food without cheese. I make whatever I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 04:02 AM
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She needed to hear those words. She might not have liked it, which is why she asked for space (first boundary though? yay), but from here on she'll be thinking about it. Eventually I'm sure she'll realize you were right and reach out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 01:41 PM
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Men who are able to explain in depth about their career and what they're working on to a layman, without purposely bloating it with jargon to make themselves seem more important Eg. A doctor talking about treating a patient, but says something like "she had leg pain that turned out to be ankle swelling so we treated her with antibiotics" instead of "idiopathic lower limb pain due to peripheral oedema treated with Cephalosporins" (I have no idea about medicine but you get my drift) There are way …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 01:33 PM
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I absolutely won't kiss on the first date. Or second. Or even third. Hell maybe not even the tenth -- I won't until I'm comfortable with the guy and want that kind of intimacy from him. I think I would be so put off having any first dates if I thought I a kiss was expected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:23 PM
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Because most of them are ugly, unkempt, ungroomed, unstylish, and unfit. Those in denial about women wanting physical attraction are probably balding and short too. So in their minds, if a woman only cares about money and not looks then they at least have a shot in the future, when they "make it big finally". They know they'll never be hot, you either have it or you don't, but money? Oh, I'm positive they'll be billionaires by their 40s and then they can have all the supermodels they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:19 PM
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Even if a woman was objectively ugly and aged poorly and covered in sun damage and acne scars, I still think she would be more attractive than the men that believe they age like fine wine. These men are so internally sick and depraved that it kind of shows on their faces and in their hairlines. In some men you can see the inc*l and the pornsickness and the failure on their skin. It reminds me of that Roald Dahl illustration, about how people with good thoughts can't be ugly: https://i.pinimg.com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 02:04 AM
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For real, nearly all of my friends and cousins and colleagues are suffering infertility problems, probably myself included when I try for kids. What the hell is going on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 08:02 AM
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Nope, not for me. To my standards, a HVM wouldn't partake in any psychedelics even once. A HVM for me would not risk damaging his brain using hallucinogens to "open his third eye" or whatever he's trying to achieve with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:58 AM
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Men are only visual when they're begging for nudes or explaining why they need to cheat or open the relationship up. The rest of the time, they're happy hanging out in their dusty mancave, with peeling wallpaper and a mouldy mattress on the ground, one threadbare stained sheet for cover. Litter everywhere and the only furniture is their PC desk. If they're feeling particularly decorative or visual one day they might have a Marvel poster tacked up - probably to cover the hole they punched in the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 08:28 AM
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I think FDS is typically against pay-back, because it's too much mental and emotional energy from you wasted trying to give them comeuppance, and they'll just be better at hiding their LVMness from the next gf... but damn if this isn't some pettiness I'd definitely do regardless, and then pray forgiveness for afterwards lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 12:24 PM
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11 is the average age kids first watch porn. Meaning there are millions of kids far younger than 11 who have been exposed and are seeking it out. My kids are going to have zero unsupervised access to the internet. idgaf if I'm called a helicopter for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 09:26 AM
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Absolutely disgusting that this happens during every war. It's torture of women and it's seen as a bonding experience for men. I was reading about the rape of German women after WW2, and it's believed that around two MILLION women and girls from "ages 8 to 80" were raped and tortured in eight months from January to August 1945. They hunted women in convents and raped nuns, they snatched girls off the street in broad daylight. Russian soldiers boasted that no German child was ever born again that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 07:07 AM
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They'd have to be eating really, really poorly to get a noticeably fat gut. Men, with their extra muscles and testosterone (and lack of estrogen!) should be able to lose weight so easily compared to women. If he's not eating that bad you could suggest getting his testosterone levels or thyroid checked, if you're in a position to make those comments. Otherwise it just sounds like you're incompatible if this is something that bothers you deeply. I have the opposite problem, I like big fat chunky g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 09:39 AM
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I personally wouldn't be with a man who has done anal, because it's forever associated with pornsickness to me. Without porn and deathgripped dicks and locker room talk, how many men who love their wives would actually prefer anal to vaginal sex? There's no pleasure in it for women, often pain, there's no biological purpose like procreation to turn them on, we have no prostate to stimulate, and without thorough preparation first his dick will probably end up with shit on it. I would just be way …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 02:45 AM
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Never dated him, but I knew a white guy who refused to date white women because he thought we were all whores. Completely pornsick of course, probably was watching white women being raped on camera since before puberty which of course would've warped his mindset. At the same time he hated himself, his ancestry, and his culture. Whenever any opportunity came up to talk poorly of that - no matter how small - he took it. Someone could be cooking and he'd say "it's probably so bland huh? White peopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:30 AM
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Niles constantly insulted and negged CC. I never understood why they got together in the end. It's way more than "boy pulls girl's pigtails" situation. "CC: We can't use this china, the pattern is hideous. Niles: That's just your reflection" "CC: I wouldn't be caught dead in that dress. Niles: You'd have to be dead 6 months to even fit into it." "CC: Niles, do you have anything for the dog to eat? Niles: Sure, what do you feel like?" "Niles: Oh you look very 60s. CC: It's Dolce & Gabanna. Niles:…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:35 AM
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My man (seemingly HV but keeping an eye out) waited almost a year for me to be ready with no complaints or pressure at all. A year of exclusive intimate dating that is, so even longer with the "what are we" stage. He pursued me, knew what he wanted, and said he knew I was "the one" and fantasized about having a family with me. So in his mind, he said what is a year, two years, or more waiting for me to become comfortable enough, when we have a lifetime together. I found it very sweet, but he was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:29 AM
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Considering it was said in the early 70s I would agree with that statement for its time. If a man initiated sex with his stay-at-home wife who knows the kind of repercussions she would face if she refused? Rape anyway, a slap, the man staying at "work" for several hours after he was supposed to be home, a mistress to sate his desires, or maybe a few hundred dollars goes missing from his paycheck that week? I mean, martial rape wasn't even a thing or illegal until the 90s so she couldn't say no e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:07 AM
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These women think it's just a financial thing holding these men back. It's not. Well, it is a little bit but that's because he absolutely doesn't want to spend any amount of money on a ring. An expensive ring that's for her pleasure and not his? Forget it. He'll say he can't afford it yet, he'll say wait a little longer until he gets that promotion... but you can bet he can scrape together $5,000+ in an instant for a new gaming rig or the latest console or a snowboarding trip with the boys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:23 AM
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100% same because Reddit cropped the picture. Was trying to see if there were dirty clothes stashed under the bed or something because the first picture is basically how I make my own bed lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 12:25 PM
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For every woman that dies alone, there's a man who died 20 years ago because he didn't have a wife to tell him to eat healthier and make his doctor's appointment for that chronic coughing and wheezing. Also women die alone anyway, every woman in my family has died without their husbands because their weak male bodies perished before them. Men just don't reach old age the way women do and we usually marry older men so it's a double whammy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 02:35 AM
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So poor he couldn't afford a cake? Was it a 3-tier wedding cake or something? He was in a $100k+ job position, so I doubt he was bumped down to $10k a year. Also the fact he said he couldn't afford it because Christmas is coming up makes me think he's one of those people who go into debt getting too many nice gifts for people including all their friends and all their relatives. I imagine Christmas would be a lot more affordable if they kept things quiet for themselves and his daughter. That woul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 02:29 AM
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Nothing but love, healing, and kind thoughts to this poor woman, who will carry the burden of this attack for the next 70-or-so years of her life. Despite what scrotes say, getting into a stranger's car does not give men free reign to torture another human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 07:28 AM
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Please be somewhat gentle with me, I am actively working on my fear of “being mean” with a therapist I don't think anyone here would ever blame you for not "being mean" or assertive with a man. For many women, even HVW, being this way is dangerous and potentially life-threatening. A very valuable tool I've come to use in the past few years to determine who to keep in my life, is how safe I feel getting upset at them. I also hate getting the "what did you expect?" line too! I once heard it direct…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:40 AM
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YES thank you. Everyone seems to be saying short timeframes for engagement is a HV trait, but I feel at least a year to really get to know the other person on an intimate partner-only basis makes more sense. Sure, maybe the guy knows you're the "one" after a few weeks, but he should at least give the woman the chance to get to know him better, especially when the rose-colored glasses come off... That being said, I'm going to dip out of my currently nice relationship at the 2.5 year mark if there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 09:14 AM
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Can't speak for Italian men, but the men around me who are obsessed with blondes to a huge degree are completely pornsick. We talk a lot about how porn affects WoC but when we open a pornsite in my country it's nothing but blonde teenagers getting brutalized on every video across every front page. This pornsickness from an early age means the men have associated beautiful blondes with their dicks. Blondes are the "default" sex objects who turn them on. So they lust after them, but don't respect …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:43 AM
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They crave female validation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:26 AM
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About 15. Started with unwanted advancements by grown men at 12. Then got hit with the "you're so beautiful, want to go out... no? Well you're ugly anyway whore". Followed by "American Pie" movie and the sad conversation that yes, men will put their penis into anything warm. Followed up around 15 with listening to boys talk horribly about their girlfriends but "at least I'm smashing" Realized men are base creatures and their validation means nothing. I still liked men, don't get me wrong, and ve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:44 AM
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At least 5x more than his PC setup, or gaming collection, or whatever costly hobby he cherishes. I've seen men give their women a $300 ring that won't last half a decade, while he's buying a $2,500 GPU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:50 PM
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Then it turns out a dingo did carry off (and eat) her infant, she was probably in complete shock, and now her grief and child's death is mocked worldwide... damned if you do, damned if you don't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:04 AM
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Zero tolerance for the word "bitch" or any other insult used against me. I will leave my current seemingly perfect relationship if he used it against me just once, even in the heat of the moment, because I could never imagine using a slur against him. I tolerated it with my ex and it only got worse. And of course they just say "I didn't call you a bitch, I said you were being a bitch" if you confront them about it in order to deflect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:45 AM
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I know many women that speak like that pickmeisha. It gets worse after they have daughters. I'm convinced they're desperate for a way to control what they can't control. They don't want their daughters raped and abused. But they can't control it. They can't keep them safe outside their homes. Men are everywhere, and so many of them are rapists. So, they tell themselves if they just do this, if they just wear that, they'll be safe. They won't be but it's a comforting delusion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:48 AM
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HVM will always have options, because HVM are generally wanted. They're also faithful and don't make their wives uncomfortable by flirting with other women - that's why they're high value NVM are only as faithful as their options though, they'll even marry women they're not that keen on while waiting for another woman to have an affair with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:12 AM
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Men from different cultures show their violence against women in different ways. I don't think it's racist to acknowledge that because men are moving to the UK from a different part of the world, these women in the UK are going to have to prepare for different displays of violence against them, that were culturally "normal" to these men while growing up And the migrant women moving to the UK will unfortunately have to prepare for probably new types of violence against them too, likely of a sexua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:21 AM
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Men invent patriarchy, and now are mad women didn't do more to stop them. lmao the delusion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:29 AM
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I don't care if he actually does think of her as family, he needs to go for getting mad at you and calling you "insecure" over a perfectly reasonable thing to be upset about. And this early in? Absolutely not. Do not waste any more time with this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:28 AM
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Hit them back with that when they yell "they" invented everything "We gave you the computer!" "Didn't ask for it though"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:07 AM
226

If a woman knowingly gave a violent incel a chance because "boohoo women don't like me", and then he was violent with her, it's men like Alan who would be the first to cry "stupid woman knew exactly what she was getting into, then plays the victim when he hurts her. They want the badboy but can't handle them, idiots" But now we're expected to be bangmaid mommies to the entirety of men, collectively? If young men don't have a path or hope or something to strive for how's that our problem? Get a h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:50 AM
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A woman whose been rejected all her life puts blame on herself, she might self-harm, undergo plastic surgery, get an eating disorder etc. Rejected men jump straight to "women are whores who all deserve to die" to save their fragile ego from being considered unwanted 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:46 AM
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I'm a "gamer" and currently dating a "gamer". I don't think I'd date another again given the chance lol, as much as I love him For me, games are a way to relax, similar to how other people watch movies or TV shows. We don't watch movies or the TV very much, I think the last time we watched something was a week ago. That being said I do think games are childish. The games I'm playing I can imagine an 8-year old enjoying them just as much, and that embarrasses me I'm an adult woman, I don't need m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:42 AM
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The prime difference between FDS and Incels (imo) is also the prime difference between men and women in general. When men hate women they want us even more, they want to revenge screw us, they want to perform "hate kink" or whatever on us, whip us, degrade us, they want to choke us and have power and control over us, they want us crushed under them When women hate men (and I use hate here loosely because we never "hate" men the way men hate us), we want them to leave us alone completely. We want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:31 AM
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Men help women they personally know or have an attachment to, but when you're alone in public with strangers? Always women, if anyone, will be the ones coming to another woman's defense. Even when petrified, when physically weak, when pregnant, it's the women helping other women as men stand around in disbelief and fear. Men were never protective. They were only possessive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:00 AM
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There have been studies on that topic, and yeah many women (especially middle aged ones) are into the true crime genre because they're subconsciously recognizing patterns and red flags to look for in the killers, and also how the victims escaped (if they did escape). It's trying to have control in a violent area where you think you have none: "If this victim did that, I know not to do that"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:50 AM
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Wash your asshole and try another date without mentioning how much you hate feminists, your mother, and working. Then see how it skews the curve.. Men really will jump through any mental loopholes to avoid personal responsibility 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:32 AM
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Men understand it's not the same when they're the ones asked to allow strange men they're not attracted to put their penises inside their butts. Then Walmart cashier doesn't seem too bad of an option, even if it does pay less than male prostitution
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:38 AM
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I can't even tell what should be considered a HVM trait, and what should be considered common adult behavior or decency anymore now that I've interacted with so many LVM scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:04 AM
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They want the world to know they're in a relationship, but their scrote doesn't do anything worthwhile to post about so they post about what they do for their LVM If the men were doing literally anything decent they'd post about it. "Look who just bought me flowers!", "He fixed the fence all by himself", "He took out the trash without being asked? Man of the year." which makes this all the more sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 03:02 AM
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So many men just do not furnish their homes (houses really). They'll have a mattress, a PC/desk or Xbox/TV set up, a fridge, and that's it. So when she said she left him with nothing I hope it's literal and she took her bedframe back, and her lightbulbs and her cutlery and cups, because god knows LVM just don't bother buying these things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:52 AM
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"What's the problem, it's not like you'd ever find out" says the men who would never agree to prostate exams without permission while unconscious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:10 AM
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The most searing indictment of male gynecology is the book by Dr. John M. Smith entitled Women and Doctors (The Atlantic Monthly Press, 1992). After spending nearly twenty-five years in gynecological training and clinical practice, Dr. Smith paints a dismal picture of the woman’s specialist. “Male gynecologists, like all men, go through the kind of ‘attitude setting’ that occurs in the proverbial locker rooms while they are growing into manhood.” Dr. Smith, whose practice was in Colorado Springs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:08 AM
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Men get to love their "dad bods" when they're avoiding child support by spending all their money on alcohol, meanwhile women are expected to get back into shape a few months after giving birth. Also do kegels to get our vaginas tight again, tighten those ab muscles, hide stretch marks, get our hormones under control and eat daintily... ugh. I always call out "dad bod", their bodies don't change and grow another person inside them, they just get lazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:00 AM
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If his friend was a guy I guarantee there'd be no comments like that. They would just be saying how much of an amazing friend he is. We're just objects to these guys, "did she give you sex as a reward?". I don't know, scrotes, would you sleep with a guy if he saved your life too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:32 AM
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Yeah it's an awful lot of hoops to jump through. Drivers and other licenses, bank accounts, graduation degrees, your portfolio (and your networking connections like LinkedIn), birth certificate, car registration, house deeds and home utilities. Such a pain in the ass and all because men of previous generations saw women (and the women's children) as their own property
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:48 AM
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He looks 60 though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:42 AM
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I saw an ad for the show recently, wasn't interested just because the main woman looks about 30 and the main man looks about 55. I looked up the ages of the actors and they're only 8 years apart. Phew, men slam face first into that wall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:19 AM
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I have ALWAYS been a big believer of this. I got lingerie once for my birthday from a bf in a LDR. The scrote was like "put it on & take a picture, I want to see you in it". I replied, "No. This is my present and it's for me only. I'm not giving you a gift for my birthday. I'm going to enjoy it when I'm alone only"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:09 AM
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God that mental image is haunting I will say, in the Pickme's defense, that many abusive men (especially narcissists and psychopaths) put on an absolutely charming early demeanor that many of us here would even fall for. The perfect gentleman who says all the right things, does all the right things, knows what women are after and play the role convincingly. They will trap a woman, cut off her support network, slowly tear her esteem down and psyche apart, gaslight her until she's not sure what sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 10:56 AM
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Women who are okay with second wives don't love their husbands in the first place or are lesbians in denial. Is it any wonder women who are forced into child marriages, arranged marriages, marriages where spousal rape is legal etc. are usually fine with bringing in another woman, who can share the burden of sex with their scrote and cleaning up after him? (Literally wrote this without reading the last paragraph - and she just made my point, another woman to do housework and lessen the burden of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:14 AM
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Yeah, this sweet little bird is trying its best, and decides to hump rocks rather than rape, so it's better than like 90% of LVM out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:50 AM
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I feel sick talking to some of them Only some of them? That's good, it's probably your intuition (ie. you recognizing red-flags or patterns of behaviours from lived experience that are making you feel extremely unsafe around these men) You don't want to get rid of your fear entirely. But if you don't feel this way around male employees as you say it's different, then maybe you're meeting these men where the power balance is way too shifted, like you're alone at night with them at a bar or someth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:13 PM
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And Jesus sayeth: no man shall lust or look upon another woman with lust in his eyes who is neither his wife nor a pornstar named Diamond Candy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:04 PM
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Oh I 100% agree, and actually know so many married religious men who take pride in their porn habits, it's disgusting. What I meant really was that although the majority of religious men watch porn, I think (from my limited experience with them) the majority of men who don't watch porn are probably religious. Edit: Ah misread your comment, yes the sexually repressed men come with a slew of their own problems. I don't trust any man sexually until they prove themselves, and even then...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:12 AM
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I'm currently dating a man who doesn't watch porn, and hasn't since he was a teenager. He had a very religious upbringing though, and although he's no longer as religious, he still is spiritual. Without that strict upbringing I can only assume he'd be pornsick I really do think religious men, or men brought up in a religious household, might be the only men left under the age of 35 who genuinely don't watch porn (except those few handful out there who don't watch it because their dicks stopped w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:24 AM
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Yeah, I always lose attraction to a man after finding out he's had sex with other men. I'm only interested in straight men. Reddit can call me whatever -phobic or -ist they want, but it's still legal to say no for literally any single reason I want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:18 AM
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This lady probably does want free cash. What she clearly doesn't want is to be harassed and followed by a man on the street waving a cheap bill in her face, which she knows usually comes with strings attached even if it's something mundane like a short conversation. Leave women alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:11 AM
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The shame is not yours and never will be. It's his shame, and if you have a good support network of friends, family you can confide in please do it. They will support you, reassure you, and keep you afloat when the manipulation of your soon-to-be-ex happens (tears, threats of suicide, claiming he's in therapy, physical aggression and threats, lies etc) It is so, so scary how we can never truly know if we have a good HVM. Some of the seemingly best men I've known were covert narcissists who got o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:05 AM
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More and more I read of examples of misogynists who spit on women's ability to create life. Womb envy, perhaps? Of course one of their biggest gripes is usually abortion as well. They hate that we have reproductive power (in many places, rip Texas) and that we can choose whether or not to bring a child into this world. They'll tear down single, childfree career women in one breath and then stay-at-home mothers in the next breath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:41 PM
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How do men not understand this is an engagement ring. She'll be wearing this piece of jewellery, alongside her wedding ring, for the rest of her life. He makes over $100k a year. You think he's driving a $6k car? Even a $20k car? Probably not, it's probably nicer than that, and something he'll replace in a few years. He probably even goes through more than $6k in suits, ties, shoes, jackets etc. in a few short years, especially if they're tailored nicely. But oh no, this woman's a golddigger for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:26 AM
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I don't think I was antagonistic at all. What I find antagonistic is a poster talking about how skinning puppies is wrong, and then some obnoxious vegan coming in with the lines we hear all the time: "do you eat meat then? You do? Then you don't have a leg to stand on, hypocrite" I was vegetarian for decades, vegan for 10 years, and it's always the same lines, from then until now. We can't care about dogs, cats, endangered animals if we eat meat. Well I'm allowed to call people cruel for wearing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:58 AM
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I can't believe we have vegan feminists in this thread praising Cruella? Because she has a few good lines and is a successful woman? I feel like I'm going crazy... Not all villains are black and white, so of course there's probably some good feminist messages from such a strong female character but I'm getting downvoted for saying she's evil for skinning puppies to wear their fur and that it's different than eating chicken which is culturally acceptable in probably every part of the world. Cruel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:48 AM
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Eating chicken and beef is different than kidnapping, skinning, and sewing 101 puppies into a coat to wear for fashion And I know it's very Animal Farm, but some animals are just more equal than others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:00 AM
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I thought the bottom right one was supposed to be white?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:37 AM
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They're honestly not even worth communicating with. Nothing will change their minds. Block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:27 AM
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If this is what "love of my life" looks like, I want no such love from a man EVER. My god, the poor woman. He takes SEVEN MONTHS paternity leave to play games, go out with friends, and have a vacation, while he demands his wife take their newborn daughter to appointments two weeks after extreme abdominal surgery. He admits to leaving her alone in the house for basically the entirety of her pregnancy and to being "barely home" after her labor, which means he's also not contributing anything to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:30 AM
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100% It even happens with PickMes to a large extent if the man is too consumed by it. It eats at their relationship, then the Pickme has enough and dumps him, and she learns what she doesn't like and tells the next guy that she has a problem with large amounts of pornography... I have a feeling it's going to get worse with men and pornography, but because it will eat away at all their relationships with women (who eventually become mothers of boys) those women will start teaching their sons to n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:18 AM
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I thought that sounded familiar! Yeah, fake radio calls for entertainment (because who finds "we just didn't click" to be good radio?) ... BUT for sure there's at least one woman out there who has experienced this exact situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:11 AM
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Big monkey's first selfie energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:03 AM
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It's like poetry. After all the talk about not marrying but being serious anyway, being a gamer boy who wants an audience (thot), wanting to become a police officer (jobless at the moment?), moving to Kansas... the very last line "I love watching anime" in lower caps, is just *chef's kiss* mwah! Perfect. Encapsulates the whole vibe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:01 AM
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Can we also talk about how from engagement until the wedding, the bride is usually in a flurry about losing weight or fitting into a smaller dress? That's sometimes years of prep work a bride might feel compelled to do for a "perfect" wedding I'm ashamed to say I went to my cousin's wedding a few years ago, and just kind of expected her to be a lot thinner than last time I saw her as she was overweight (but not overly so). I was somewhat surprised when she remained exactly the same, and felt awf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:24 AM
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I can't wait to find a guy who will keep me as a girlfriend for 8 years and then force me to sign a prenup so he can keep building his business I have no legal entitlement to while I take care of the kids, house, and pay 50% rent from working minimum wage. Goals 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:46 PM
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Wallet woman 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:55 AM
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Medical students also thinking they have the right to access an unconscious woman's vagina because it furthers their training. They treat us as garbage, as literal fleshed objects to use for their own purposes but not really humans to respect. How many men are having prostate exams performed on them while they're unconscious? Probably not many, because they're afforded dignity, humanity, and the ability to consent to an exam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:39 PM
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You just know a Redditor male isn't going to be cleaning his sex doll either. How smelly and crusty that thing must be, and then he puts it into her closet with all her clean clothes while it leaks his discolored cum everywhere? She's deluding herself if she thinks they can come back from this - the complete loss of respect for him from her (because there's no way a "mature" woman would have any respect for this man) is a relationship killer The only reason anime-waifu hasn't taken her spot enti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:37 AM
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International Women's Day: When is International Men's Day? International Men's Day: Oh, was that today? Okay, I don't really care... Mother's Day: Thank you Dads who made my life possible, and made your wife a mother! Father's Day: Thank you Dads who made my life possible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:24 AM
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Pure entitlement! It kills them that they can't give us their unwanted input because they're so used to be able to interject their opinions in real life where the women are too polite to tell them to be quiet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:28 AM
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Absolutely nothing wrong in being elitist when choosing a man who will possibly father your own children or be in your life for 50-odd years. Roughly 10,000 people graduate from Harvard every year, so 5,000 men. That's one year and one single school. So it's not even that rare to find a man who has graduated from an ivy league or elite school and is currently in the workforce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:57 AM
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YES. Thank you, the freeze response needs to be as mainstream as the fight vs flight reactions are. I didn't realize it was even a normal response until the first time I used it. A strange man knocked on my door around midnight, I thought it was a roommate coming home from a night shift so I opened it, and the guy tried to bash open the storm door between us. I literally froze, like I was just starring at him and couldn't move and I don't think even my heart was racing. It wasn't until he was ru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:34 AM
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Men know how badly they treat women as a whole. They gaslight us, and "not all men" us, and "boys will be boys" us, and condition us to accept their violence or problems as inevitable so that men can become fathers or husbands and the human species continues... BUT they know. And because women have been conditioned to accept men as they come (unfortunate pickmes) and to hope for the best ("well he doesn't hit me so he's amazing...") these men feel the need to step in and warn the women/girls in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:49 AM
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That being said, money is important. For me, the money aspect is about why he doesn't have a lot of money. Is he lazy? Unambitious? Living life on welfare without a plan to get out of poverty? Living at home with his mother who does everything for him? Gambling addict who spends all his money on betting? Can he provide for his family if his child gets sick and needs surgery? Would I have to take double shifts just to pay rent? Could we own our own house in the future? Would we be financially sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:10 AM
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Because according to the CDC, 70% of men don't wash their hands after using a public bathroom! No mention of how many don't wash their hands after using their home bathroom. So you can imagine it, a man poops, gives his dirty, hairy butthole a quick wipe, and then leaves the bathroom. Five minutes later he's running his hand over his beard as he contemplates why women avoid him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:50 AM
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It's always single men who do the hating, I don't know any happily married men hating on single older women. I think these men hate single older women because it's still easy for older women to date and older women set much higher standards for their partner because they are capable of living alone. But older men who are still single can't date easily and they have trouble at home because they don't cook or clean or do anything for themselves except their mediocre job. They want their bangmaid t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:43 AM
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Purposely missing the point completely. I also love walking with my boyfriend, we do it several times a week and we love finding new routes and just being in each other's presence. But if he tried to skip out on our actual date night because we "already went on a walk" I'd be pissed. A walk is not a date. It's definitely not first date material but it's not even thousandth date material. Anyone who thinks a walk can replace a date is low effort, and probably lazy, unambitious and unmotivated in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:32 AM
45

Ask a male laborer whether he'd like to change his profession to one that makes him get his ass creampied by some smegma covered, hairy, smelly men they don't find attractive, and then have to listen while said man cries on his shoulder because he cheated on his wife... how many men find that job appealing? In fact, if sex work is "work" then in the future all the unemployed men on benefits need to become male prostitutes for other men otherwise they'll lose their benefits (because, y'know, they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:00 AM
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"I bet you the rapist's mother was a single mother who slept around and doesn't even know who the dad is... women will be the death of our once great society"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:58 AM
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Also ironic since while knights may have defended a lady (for pay of course) they constantly raped and brutalized the common, poor peasant women. iirc it's why the code of chivalry was created in the first place, to try to stop knights from looting, raping, and destroying everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:39 PM
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What's is more valuable? An emerald or a glass of water? Emerald right? But what if you were in a desert? Yup! The water is has more value!!!! Everything is relative.... And if I were on the moon oxygen would be more valuable, but somehow I don't think I'll accept a man blowing air on my face in lieu of a real ring 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:14 AM
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You haven't seen overdramatic until you watch a man punch a hole in the wall because his sports team didn't do well, then hold his bleeding hand while yelling at you to get out because you're a bad luck charm, and all these athletic men's training has gone down the drain because a woman 100miles away is in the same room as someone now that I think about it, he was just using manly sound logic and reasoning :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:51 AM
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Straight men: bro, not to sound gay or anything bro but I kind of like my wife's labia? that weird bro? like I don't wanna barf when I see her pussy? I don't know man, lets go draw thick dicks on some walls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:07 AM
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$64 for a ring at Walmart, what a gold digger. I'm ashamed at how much they expect a man to pay for a ring, that $64 could have helped him pay for his OnlyFans subs. My man bought me an onion ring ring and I was a little mad at first because he ate half, and I was like "why didn't you just eat the other onion rings and leave me one whole" and he was like "i did eat the others" and I was upset but realized he went out of his way to buy them and now my ring is symbolically linked to his body/diges…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:41 PM
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And then the men say "I didn't call you a bitch, I said you were being a bitch. It's different. And if you don't like it then you shouldn't be such a bitch to me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:45 PM
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Women in 2000: I just want a big dick on a tall, muscular, rich man, is that so wrong? Women in 2050: Please god just let his dick be straight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:08 PM
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how far up your own ass do you have to be to think a picture of yourself is a great gift? Throwback to when Tyra Banks gave Miley Cyrus a picture of herself at 16, for Miley's 16th birthday present lol all these years later I still cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:50 PM
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"I like spending time with you, and I like having sex with you, but I don't want anything serious..." How is that not something serious? Wow, men really do have the audacity. Good on you for setting boundaries and keeping to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:11 AM
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I can just imagine the scrote's mother stroking his back as he's complaining about how long it's taking and that he's hungry and tired. "You're doing great, sweetie, just a little while longer, I'm so proud of you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:08 AM
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"You'll never find anyone who will love you like I do!" Please god let that be true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:42 AM
6

He just has a yOuNg HeArT 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:47 PM
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Also why sexist men can become so angry when you break up with them. They're so angry because they realize they can't actually control you the way they can control an object they own, they're realizing they have no authority over your body. Some are so put off by this they'll commit murder because in their minds "if I can't have this object I consider mine then I'll destroy it so no-one else can have it"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:17 AM
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put a male sim in a room with only a toilet, remove all the doors, and he'll still pee on the floor before dying lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:57 AM
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We're supposed to believe only men can make good presidents, ambassadors, engineers, doctors, scientists, astronauts, and then they expect us to believe men are complete imbeciles who have no idea what they're doing in any social context 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:03 AM
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Never let people know you are alone, and where possible make it seem like a man lives there Eg: if you use Postmates or food delivery services make your account name "Michael" or something. "Delivery for Michael" etc Get dirty workboots in large men size out the front of the door if possible Have radio or podcasts with male voices on in the background Congrats on leaving your abuser, and to especially live on your own. It's hard the first time, but it'll only get better ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:26 AM
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Good point!! How many vulnerable PickMes were browsing this sub, and then getting validated in their PickMe ways because of this post? Oh a man has blessed us with his thoughts, he must be right, for I'm after any man to date and he is one I'm also over all the OLD Tinder posts and such that get posted. Sure, it's interesting to see just how low they can go but I don't want LVM speech on my screen, unless it's part of some "how to spot manipulation/abuse" post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:24 AM
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So a HVW ("female") according to a scrote is: young (probably 18 because they can't legally go lower), attractive, friendly, attractive, and willing to re-enact his favourite porn moves. That's it. That's the list. Ladies, this is why we don't allow men (especially NVM) and their dating "advice" and their thoughts in our spaces. He really thinks he's doing something with this and that we haven't heard the "sleep with him immediately because he won't wait for you" spiel before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:37 AM
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Wow I'm definitely going to read this one, thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:05 AM
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Literally everything is a woman's fault to men/incels Shooting spree = women rejected him too many times and didn't sleep with him Porn addiction = women purposely warping men's brains, lowering their IQ and giving them PIED so we can control the world War = women pressuring men into getting more resources and riches from the enemy, and men being seduced by thoughts of exotic women/concubines rape = women not giving men enough consensual sex STDs = women giving men too much consensual sex Marria…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:08 AM
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I've only had women approach me in order to be helpful (your tire is flat, your skirt is caught and riding up etc) or to compliment my clothing I once had a group of 5 men in a car pull up to my house, get out and ring the doorbell obviously trying to scope out whether it was empty so they could rob it... my dogs went ballistic and they tried to say they were lost and asked for directions to the shopping centre. Like, are you serious? Men don't ask randoms for genuine help, especially young men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:55 AM
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I don't think this technique would work for me personally. In order to "fall in love" with a man I'd need to feel emotional intimacy with him, which I don't think I could do if I was juggling multiple men at the same time I also don't believe too many HVMs would happily propose to a woman who wasn't even exclusive with him or considered herself his girlfriend and who was also casually seeing other men while they weren't together, even if no sex was involved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:50 AM
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Men's dating advice basically boils down to: be a hot 21-yr old virgin but have sex with me after 3 dates or I'll lose interest, also be generous with your money and time and affection but let me game alone for 8 hours a day, also be gentle and understanding that I have anxiety over housework :'(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:09 AM
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Don't be polite to men who hit on you 👏👏 Don't be polite to men who hit on you 👏👏 Don't be polite to men, it's not your job to coddle them Don't be polite to men who hit on you 👏👏 ​ Don't be polite to men who follow you 👏👏 Don't be polite to men who follow you 👏👏 Don't be polite to them, you'll end up murdered in the end Don't be polite to men who follow you 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:18 AM
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Damn, in that case I'd rather date a peasant with good credit, money, a car and house. When he's that much of a loser the bloodline deserves to be cut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:09 AM
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I had rape fantasies after learning what rape was at a young age (long after being told everything to do to avoid male stranger danger) even though the first porn video shown to me was of a horrific gangrape where the woman was crying and it traumatized me... I started looking into why I would have such thoughts and remember reading something from a psychologist(?) that suggested it was pre-emptive survival conditioning because I expected it to happen to me at some point and knew it was such a h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:58 AM
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Whenever a pickme says she doesn't mind not orgasming with her scrote because she's just happy with the "physical & emotional intimacy" from it, all I hear is that she's not getting any intimacy outside the bedroom and is putting up with bad sex for the few measly crumbs of intimacy a horny NVM gives her while she's being his fleshlight The only experimenting I'm doing in my bedroom is experimenting with which techniques give me my strongest orgasm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:08 AM
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And because women are so conditioned to be averse to saying "no" a lot of the times our "no" sounds like "I don't think so..." or "I'm on my period..." or "I'm not feeling sexy right now" etc The freeze response also needs to be normalized to a much higher degree. When faced with assault sometimes we don't fight our attacker, or try to run from them, sometimes we just freeze, which is why enthusiastic consent is so important Trying to explain to a sexist male police officer why it's still rape e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:27 AM
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I have told people how I feel about porn especially men they make me feel crazy for even thinking these thoughts YES, nearly every time it's like this. I was completely willing to die alone because of this and when my sister and friends asked why I wasn't dating I'd tell them it's because so many men watch porn and it's warped them sexually/mentally/physically; I wouldn't date any man that watched porn as an adult. "Good luck finding any man who doesn't watch it," they would laugh. "Sure I wish …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:09 AM
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I would block and delete my own father if he was negatively impacting my life, calling me a bitch, and not paying me back due to his own self-harming substance abuse which apparently has left him with diminished mental capabilities since he's not making much sense It's not childish to block/delete a lifelong friend. You can be sympathetic for what they've done to themselves, but don't let that affect your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:52 AM
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I've noticed a lot of older women will victim blame women, even dead women, because they're scared of gendered violence against them too but they feel too powerless and defeated. It's comforting to think you can control your own safety around men "Surely this was something controllable by the woman somehow? She must've done something very wrong," they think. "Something I would do differently so that if I'm ever in that position I won't be murdered or raped, and my daughters will be safe, and men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:35 AM
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Apparently J.K. Rowling also regrets the romance between Ron and Hermione, who is out of his league in literally every way “I wrote the Hermione/Ron relationship as a form of wish fulfillment,” she says. “That’s how it was conceived, really. For reasons that have very little to do with literature and far more to do with me clinging to the plot as I first imagined it, Hermione ended up with Ron.” Predicting her fans’ responses, she added, “I know, I’m sorry. I can hear the rage and fury it might …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:36 AM
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I love harsh advice because (from women) it's usually the most sincere. I was kind of thinking that too, but at the same time even men who knew they wanted to marry the girl they were dating right away sometimes wait a few years to pop the question because of norms, right? Like, we've had marriage talks and future talks and he says he knows I'm the one for him (we're coming up to 1.5 years) but future fakers love talking the talk without backing it up with action because they're just not that in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:25 AM
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Unmarried: 3 years before I move on. I'll give him 2.5 years to know he wants to marry me, check our compatibility in life or child raising or whatever, and then 6 months to get together the money for a ring Any longer than that and it would seem to me he has doubts or concerns about our future, which he shouldn't have so early after the "best" 3 years of a relationship (with the honeymoon period and romance months and presumably no children or financial stresses involved) 3 years before even pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:27 AM
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White men are also trying to say because Franco and Rogen are both Jewish men that there's nothing for them to be held accountable for. Men in general, all of them, just need to step up and call male predators out when they see/hear/know something because they don't care to listen when a woman does it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:46 AM
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"Come over for dinner at my house on Saturday!" "Sounds great, can I bring anything? Bottle of wine?" "Umm, you better bring your own food if you expect to eat, I'm not going to be used for a free meal. But also yes, bring wine."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:45 AM
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Problem is his messes would affect the whole house. Easy enough to stop cooking for him (assuming he's not abusive and cause fights from it) but unless he's isolating his mess to "the mancave" it would snowball... there'd eventually be no clean cups to use, bugs would crawl in smelling the garbage etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:31 AM
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And the other 45% of men are unhappy because they think they're doing too much when they're asked to put their dishes in the sink rather than left on the floor 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:23 AM
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Men can't even empathize with women, but damn they will sympathize with and humanize a pet rock if it needs to get its balls snipped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:34 AM
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Who would ever be a pickme for known rapist Kolbre Bryent? That guy ain't coming back up from hell to touch any woman anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:27 AM
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Redpill women think if they act a certain way they'll be saved from the porn-addicted, sex-positive, BDSM Leftist scrotes. They delude themselves into thinking Redpill men are different, that their relationships will be different and monogamous and loving. No, the rightwing men just verbally condemn the prostitutes and pornstars while jacking off to forced teen videos as the women are cleaning their dirty underwear I feel bad for redpill women honestly. They're essentially saying "listen, we're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:18 AM
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Probably super insecure about marrying her hobohusband that she needs to tell herself all those internet up-votes from jobless scrotes means she made the right decision, and that her engagement pop ring (in strawberry because hobohusband remembers her favourite flavour!) is a practical, money-saving choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:07 AM
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I used to read a lot of romance books. What's sad is that over time I instinctively learnt to only stick to female authors for romance, because when a man writes romance his male leads are horrible, chauvinistic, ugly, poor self-inserts where there's far too many passages talking about the female lead's "puffy" nipples and there'd be a chapter dedicated to him pissing in a urinal for some reason. But when women write male leads they're charming, buff, rich, gentle, kind, and the leading lady wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:13 AM
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"You a racist or something?" is so damn common when you say you're not interested in a scrote of colour it's basically a cliché at this point. Men will say anything to save their own egos or pressure/guilt you into things you don't want to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:54 AM
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Men will make us treat them like a mother treats their 2 year old son (cleaning up after him, cooking for him, getting him ready, buying him presentable clothes, telling him to brush his teeth and clean his butt, stop playing games) and then expect us to be sexually interested in them 😂 We're sexually interested in adult men who have their life together and don't need to be babied
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:31 AM
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Cool, now we get to take credit for all the male inventions too. Thomas Edison who? Nancy Elliot Edison invented the lightbulb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:02 PM
81

Don't chase a man If he wanted to, he would He's just not that into you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:26 AM
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With my first ex, he said I was literally his dream girl. Supposedly he had had a dream a few years prior where an "angel" visited him and said he was going to marry a woman named <my name> who was to be the love of his life. My name is extremely common, like Sarah. But he aggressively pursued me, possibly in part because of the name if his story was even real, and he ended up becoming extremely possessive and abusive, fearful I would leave him for "someone better". He was getting more and more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:54 AM
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I kind of disagree... if you have an escape option, support network and can afford it if things go south, renting short term with someone is an eye opener. I spent a year with my current partner spending the entire weekend of every week with him before we moved in, so I thought I knew his house habits. NOPE Turns out he'd do a quick clean, make the bed, and do laundry on Friday since I came over Friday night. He'd also never switch the computer on from Friday to Monday morning. Now I realise tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:24 AM
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Men being visual creatures make me laugh so hard. no home decor, mattress on the floor, Star Wars poster tacked onto the wall haphazardly same black shirt and unfitted jeans for the same 10 years, no fashion sense zero interest in makeup scoffs at women who are taking pictures of the scenery or landscape unable to tell the difference between different shades of colour (biologically proven, plus men can't see "blood-orange" that subtle red-orange shade that women can) They aren't visual creatures…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:26 AM
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Australia: Rape Edition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:12 AM
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Listen, I know you're frustrated at the state of the world and how men and sexual harassment seem to be getting worse with the ever prevalent access to porn but this isn't the fault of women who enter the industry. You're not afraid that these women are going to rape, sexually harass, objectify or hate you -- it's the men who are "buying access" to them, whose brains were already fried but just continue to get worse Men have always harboured hatred and have been violent towards women since time …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:09 AM
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Even that is giving them too much credit. Heterosexual is being attracted to female adult humans and I'd wager the majority of men alive don't view women as human the way they view other men as human
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:39 PM
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You resign now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:46 AM
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When you are trapped in a marriage with a NVM, living entirely alone even if it's camping from your car in places you've never been means freedom and relief and happiness... this is why men's threats of ending up alone shouldn't scare you. It's better to be alone, travelling the world alone, than to marry a NVM. So keep your standards HIGH ladies, and keep vetting and don't be afraid of being alone if you encounter a dealbreaker from him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:08 AM
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He wasn't surprised you look good for 29, it's just a very common neg. Very common! About as common as the "not many women can pull off [having a big nose/that hairstyle etc], but it suits your face, you look great (:" Reminds you of your age that's approaching 30 -- something woman are conditioned to dread Compliments your appearance as contrasting to your increasing age Highlights himself as romantic potential with compliments to your looks, while subtly telling you you can't afford to be pick…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:44 AM
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He says he's thankful his mother was forced into a situation where she had to sell her body so her children didn't die. Doesn't make a single comment on how it's messed up we don't have safety nets for these kind of things...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:28 PM
53

Do they defend pedophilia? YES they do. I've seen it starting mostly on places like Twitter, but a flood of articles are coming out to create sympathy for pedophiles and normalizing it like "oh I'm attracted to children but I don't want to be and I don't touch them, I know I'm a monster but I'm a regular guy like you :'("... go to hell pedos your soul and minds are tainted and corrupt Also they're calling them "MAP" now, stands for "minor attracted persons", apparently calling them out as pedoph…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:26 PM
15

Damn how could I forget the "can i join?? 😏" line they do... followed closely by "there's a lesbian in me too, i only love women 😏"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:15 PM
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So many people think lesbians who haven't had sex with men and only with women are virgins. Like, you can put two fully married women with raging libidos for each other in front of a LVM and he'll think they're virgins because they haven't made a penis ejaculate But also yes, stop faking orgasms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:32 AM
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And the Ideal Male Body is so obviously dAd bOdS like studies say. Where are my balding 50 year old beer-bellied boys? I'm tired of men my age with their washboard abs and their penis not hidden behind fupa and all their teeth 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:05 AM
53

There are three men: Men who don't care and aren't embarrassed a woman didn't cum because they were only in it for their own orgasm Men who care and obsess to the point they'll keep their attempts going long after the woman's lost interest and arousal, because he thinks it's an attack on his ego and masculinity if he doesn't make her cum HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:57 AM
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Honestly, I want justice for Medusa. She was a beautiful priestess of Athena's temple, a virgin by choice, and Poseidon did as males do and broke into the temple and raped her. Athena was either enraged that Medusa "desecrated the temple", or she was trying to help her so no more men could touch her, but either way turned her into a gorgon that turned whoever looked upon her into stone. Punishment for the crime of being raped. Then Medusa hid away until the "heroic" Perseus tracks her down and b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:47 AM
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PEAKS AT EIGHTEEN. Are you kidding me?! Literally the year a girl stops being a girl and becomes a woman legally then men are like "hmm, not desirable to my peen anymore now that she's legal" Men continue to tell on themselves. Besides, look at all the celebrity crushes girls and 18 year olds have. It's not 50 year olds, it's young boys or young men. In general girls went crazy over Justin Bieber, BTS, Harry Styles and 1D, Zac Efron... no-one's out here fawning over old scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:03 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:49 AM
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The fact our great-grandmothers would go through this like up to 12 times with even more likelihood of death because they couldn't legally say "no" to sex with their husbands just makes me weep Then we give the child the man's last name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:43 AM
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Actual tall men never seem to boast about their height. 6'0 tall on the dot men can never shut up about being 6-foot 5'10 men love to talk about being 6'0 and are constantly wearing men's dress shoes with short heels 5'8 men and under can never shut up about how it's an unfair expectation they should be taller and that they never judge a woman by her breast size and how would these shallow women feel if he decid—
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:38 AM
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Somehow they manage to understand why rape isn't just sex when a man rapes another man. Female actresses will portray a graphic rape scene, complete with full nudity and screams and blood and men won't bat an eye. But oh the male rape scene in Deliverance, that will boil their blood, that they remember
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:33 AM
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[Straight] Men complain about the fact they have a harder time getting sex, they call this "female privilege" but fail to realize the reason they have a harder time is because women don't want sex with strangers generally. So how is it a privilege for us if we don't want and are actively avoiding sex? Such a privilege to do multiple things to try to protect ourselves from rape at night from men... Plus if we were using this "privilege" and we were all having sex all the time then so would the me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:16 AM
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This is where our grandmothers' little ditty: "first comes love, then comes marriage, THEN comes the baby in the baby carriage" really seems like sage advice. But hindsight is 20/20 -- I really do feel for this woman and her children. On the bright side hopefully she's dodged a bullet by not marrying a clearly LVM. He has no job, she works. She probably doesn't have to give him a cent and will have an easier time getting full custody since he'll be homeless. A 13-year old should be responsible e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:06 AM
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No such thing as a physical wall. The truth is, many men are simply paedophilic, a problem exacerbated by their porn habits (young teen, schoolgirl uniform etc). It's said our brains don't fully develop until 24-25, which coincides with when men think we hit "The Wall". Some generously allow 5 more years (What's 5 years when we live to 85+). What they mean is we're no longer desirable when our brains and bodies reach full maturity. Point is, men age terribly worse than women. They really do. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:57 AM
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You need a picture for LinkedIn, otherwise you definitely will be getting overlooked. My advice: Take a single picture for the profile, one that looks professional and then never use it on any other social media so they can't reverse image search for you Never connect any of your social media profiles to this one Use all professional or throwaway information for LinkedIn: emails, phone numbers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:51 AM
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Whenever a man said "I want to buy you [expensive item]" I've always responded "Oh I would love that, here's my size/preferred colour/taste" I could count on my hand the number of times they followed through. They just like to say they want to buy you something, they'd love to give you gifts, but expect your female socialization to resist the gesture because of the expense. Screw that, if something if offered you should take it, if nothing else it teaches them to grow up and stop making empty pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:47 PM
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" and I don’t think it’s a request I should have to comply with. " Your damn dick doesn't work properly so you can't even come naturally with a woman without porn probably because of your deathgrip. It's only going to get worse for him from here too until he has full blown ED. God these men are stupid Good job kicking him out, that's some Queen Stuff 👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:00 AM
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Yeah, and then when she got upset about it he got a male psych to declare her insane and had her shipped to a mental institution to die there out of sight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:22 AM
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It's a measure meant to protect children and apparently adults can turn off the filter Supporters of the proposal called these restrictions a necessary step in helping parents prevent their children from accessing explicit online content, especially at a time where kids are more likely to have their own phone. While critics have argued that this measure strips people of their First Amendment right to free speech. The bill’s sponsor, Rep. Susan Pulishper, said parents can take the filter off, but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:09 AM
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What did they even provide if you think about it? Mostly they talk about homes, putting food and water on the table, buying her clothes and jewellery. Like okay, you're keeping the woman who is providing you heirs alive with shelter and food, and you're keeping her pretty...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:24 AM
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Sometimes women just don't produce enough to make it comfortable. And for me, I like to orgasm before PIV but the problem is I dry up like the Sahara afterwards so I need lube to continue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:05 PM
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There was a rather popular post an Indian man made about how his formerly lovely looking wife has become haggard within a few years of the arranged marriage. He said he was scammed and deceived or some such nonsense, when the picture showed her alone, clearly in the middle of physical house labour (I think she was carrying water?)... if anyone remembers that post I'd love to re-read it, but my god I felt deepest sympathy for that woman who was so youthful and fresh-faced in the before picture an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:03 PM
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Women have an innate sense of fairness so those norms just couldn't exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:35 AM
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Can we talk about how many men seem to "accidentally" try to stick it in a woman's arse while they're guiding themselves? Like, "oops I didn't mean to poke there... unless you're into it...?". So many women I've talked to seem to think their men are just clueless about the location differences between a vagina and arsehole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:09 AM
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They must think we orgasm like them. When they're close, they ramp it up everything becomes faster and harder and less rhythmic. You can tell a LVM until you're blue in the face what a woman likes and that saying "just like that" means just like that but because their own orgasm tells them differently they won't believe you That, and I think a lot of women fake it by moving their hips faster too since it brings the men's orgasm about quicker so they can finally get off of her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:05 AM
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Lots of you ladies sound so confused as to why they would only study men and then make blanket statements about all humans in general. Don't you get it, they don't see us as human. They are the default human. They are the average, and we are the others. If men are happier in relationships then it becomes a blanket statement that people are happier in relationships. Whereas if anything is specific to women, they will relate it back to men, e.g: people claiming the current education system is harm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:31 AM
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This is very sweet, and goes to show that thoughtful gifts don't need money spent on them, only time. LVM won't buy the classic gifts like jewellery and flowers claiming women are too materialistic and they shouldn't need to spend so much money, but then they won't do anything that shows they put time or thought into a gift either. If he wanted to, he would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:10 AM
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I hate apologies from exes. So many of them do it to relieve their own guilt, then they wipe their hands of the relationship and their (so often abusive) failures because they've done their part and said sorry. That, or they do it as a pathway back into the woman's life because it gets her to think he's reflected on his mistakes and learned from them This isn't Christianity, I'm not Jesus and you can't just repent your way back into my good graces But if it helped you find closure then I'm happy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:24 PM
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For all his faults, I'm with Mike Pence on his rule that he doesn't entertain women who aren't his wife alone; including one-on-one work dinners and the like. The media blasted him for it, but I respect it. A man in a relationship shouldn't be spending time alone with women like that. Work colleague, "friend", whatever else. I don't care for it. Women can be friends with men, but men can never just be friends with women. They don't see us as humans the same way, so if they're "just friends" he's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:10 AM
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YES. Because of all these entitled LV men buying "legal" sex in Amsterdam and Europe, the demand for women has skyrocketed, but of course the supply of women remain the same since how many women willingly enter prostitution? So naturally they trick or coerce women from other - usually poor - countries to work in Europe, where they're trafficked and forced into prostitution with abuse, threats, passport withholding, rape, and sometimes forced drug addiction. My heart hurts for all those women, I'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:04 AM
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These dumb incels forget that them and their other braindead, pornsick brethren start watching porn at like 10. By 15 they're addicted; they've got all their favourite genres and pornstars and positions and folders full of violent videos... so what do these incels want women to do? Be pedophiles and sexually abuse children and traumatise them before they're even introduced to pornography? God they just can't take any responsibility for their own perverse actions can they, no matter what the subj…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:50 AM
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Working and paying for things is NOT the big thing men make it out to be. You're out of the house everyday, meeting people, being productive, being challenged, having your mind or body stimulated, being sociable, having responsibilities that impact lots of people, getting paid, having financial independence and security, getting work experience for promotions, getting networking opportunities for the future, building relationships and friendships, having lunch and coffee during your break with c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:42 AM
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Also men who say things like "look at the woman's mother so you know what she'll turn out like" My mother is an amazing woman, widowed young but protected her daughters from all predators and never re-married because of potential pedophiles, and I would be proud to be anything like her at her age, but she also became morbidly obese during her later years due to depression eating. My ex said something rude about her weight and my future appearance once and that was the final straw. I once told my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:33 AM
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So many men rely on women to be their free, personal therapists then roll their eyes when women say we perform "emotional labour". They'll also say men are never free to speak their mind, that they have to bottle their emotions up and can't get emotional about anything... but they're just thinking about doing that in front of people they respect (ie. male friends and men in their lives) -- they're more than happy to scream, cry, whine, moan and gripe about anything and everything in their lives …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:21 AM
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Oh I definitely see what you mean now, yeah it's a bit strange to have framed it that way. It's an all women problem, every woman is affected and the runoff from this will probably affect women outside Minnesota too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:26 AM
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What happens if the woman wants to keep the baby and the man wants to abort? You'd be surprised how often that is the case since so many of them are adult children who buckle under pressure and responsibility, what's the prolife people going to do then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:02 AM
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I think she said that because Minnesota is more than 85% white, so the vast majority of poor and working class women who couldn't afford trips out of state would be white as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:59 PM
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Absolutely Men talk about wanting "pure" women.. well I want a "pure" man who has never had to reform himself because he's been a good man from the start; a clean soul
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:50 PM
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I'd like some more clarification too... my partner finishes rather fast but he watches zero porn (he says, I'm inclined to believe him as his actions line up), rarely masturbates alone and is very inexperienced compared to other men. I just assumed he was extra sensitive to sex in general because of that but if it's common in pornsick men I'd love to know more because I always thought pornsick men would've been the ones lasting an hour+ since their dick is so desensitized to vaginas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:27 PM
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Oh good Lord they really have no shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:43 AM
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I would not be interested personally. The lack of comfortable bed and bedroom is a huge thing for me, he sleeps next to his desk presumably so he can wake up and get straight back to cryptocurrency mining. No thanks. What if you have children? Would he give up his mining rooms and PCs so the children have bedrooms and clean, quiet spaces? Would he let you have a Master bedroom with no noisy GPUs keeping you up? The financial independence isn't worth it to be living that way... for me personally.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:51 AM
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This was my ex. I never lived with him, and he made his own mother come over and do most of his cleaning and cooking and laundry if you could believe it. Living alone but unable to do anything by himself. It was so pathetic My current partner is a lot better, but he likes to ask "what needs to be done?" and only do things I point out, rather than use his eyeballs and do things he sees need to be done Why are the majority of men so allergic to housework?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:44 AM
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Keep testing and vetting, ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:35 AM
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Pornsick men who have watched so many violent sex scenes his brain is now wired to see it as normal; that a raped woman must have enjoyed it on some level - or that it was simply regular sex Reason #9948 to stay away from men who watch porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 12:57 AM
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Imagine not getting turned on by your own partner or thoughts of having sex with your partner, and then forcing yourself into a state of arousal by watching other people - possibly trafficked women - having sex. So embarrassing Foreplay starts long before intercourse, so if you're not turned on by the time he wants PIV (LVM are notorious for not caring if a woman is turned on) then don't have sex with him until he can at least arouse you without porn ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:14 PM
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Women who have been in relationships with LVM/NVM know the feeling of freedom and relief that comes from getting away from them. Sometimes, if those men are really abusive, that feeling doesn't come for years since you're always looking over your shoulder, but every woman whose been there knows it's better to die alone than to live a life with a man like that FDS helps women keep their standards high and know their worth so they're less likely to end up there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:39 AM
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Their "advice" will be: communicate with him, and buy some expensive, sexy lingerie...Then surprise him with a 3-course homemade dinner and finish the night by watching hardcore porn together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:37 PM
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I can just imagine a man reading these dog profiles, running into the shelter and towards the frightened dog: "NOT ALL MEN!" But seriously, it breaks my heart thinking about all these dogs and animals who have been abused and traumatised by men and their aggression. Dogs may be considered man's best friend, but looks like women are dogs' best friends...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:09 AM
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Men are shallow and their love is always conditional. Men will leave when you're sick, when you're pregnant, after a miscarriage, when you've gained weight, when you don't have sex enough, when you've gotten too old, when his step-daughter turns 18, when you need help, when you're dependent, when you're too successful, when you're not successful enough Men leave. All the time. Their love is far from unconditional and it's delusion on their parts if they do think it. I can only reason they think …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:01 AM
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He’s not treating her like a Queen Probably justifies it to himself because it's his position as prince that allows her to inherit the title of Queen consort (and not Queen regnant which would probably demand more respect from him). Same as men who spout "without me you'd have nothing!" to their stay-at-home wives who do everything behind the scenes for little reward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:46 AM
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It's crazy.. you'll have parents from an Asian country come to a Westernized one because they want the best for their children/daughters. Then when the daughters are thriving, making money, gaining an education, being independent, they want them to be traditional and get married to some scrote 20 years older than them and become an overworked housewife who's depressed and burnt out after 5 years My advice: you're an adult. You have been for quite a while. They can't force you into a marriage (I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:16 AM
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Until men stop being pedophiles and creeps I'm 100% going to be on the lookout for adult men hovering around my children Lurkers can just keep crying about it while they watch their loli hentai and perv on girls in school uniforms, wondering why they're seen as predators when they've never touched a child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:04 AM
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Thank you! I'm still trying to recover. It's been almost 10 years since he said that and sometimes it still pops into my head when I'm eating/purging, but honestly FDS has helped recovery more than therapy. Levelling up includes taking care of mental health and not giving yourself heart failure just to stay skinny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:55 AM
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Now if only "our generation" can stop normalizing the toxic, humiliating, and traumatizing things that are promoted to young women, like pornography, BDSM, and sex work...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:39 AM
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Opened up to my ex-NVM about being bulimic since I was trying to recover His response: "Better to be bulimic than to be fat"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:11 AM
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She almost definitely will have children when the trauma and horrors of her lifestyle catches up, she'll use them as a way to reconnect with the best of humanity and nature, somebodies to love, and live vicariously through them up until they become independent At least, I think that's what'll happen; I've known very traumatised women to have kids because they think it'll make them happy and whole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:55 AM
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When you're trying to get through an interview but a porn ad pops up on your second monitor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:57 AM
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This poor girl needs FDS. A powerpoint presentation, 5.5 months of whatever that is they're doing, saying "I love you" to a man that calls you a plate and not even a girlfriend, and his manipulating PUA tactics like dreadgame... hope she can get out of that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:43 AM
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I love this, thank you! I hate that we have to do these tiny tests, but better to know how they behave in situations like this before rather than later when you really need them to be there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:11 PM
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I'm against any government overreach like this, but god it feels good to see the shoe on the other foot for a change. Nearly all women have a personal curfew, especially when wandering the streets alone, to keep us safe from danger - something men just truly will never be able to comprehend, as much as they pretend they're scared of muggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:41 PM
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Braindead ass garbages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:34 PM
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Why aren't they revealing his name and face? I think the public has a right to know which of their public servants is a murderer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:32 PM
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I'm so scared of this, I almost want to get severely sick or injured just so I can see how he acts...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:19 PM
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I'm continuously tossing between "if he's with me for more than 3 years and hasn't proposed then dump him, he doesn't really want to marry me" and "their mask can slip anytime, vet him for decades before even thinking of marriage"... maybe I'll do a very long engagement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:17 PM
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No they don't... they last 23+1 hours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:46 PM
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This is exactly how NVM act on a global scale, when they don't have to fear consequences. R***, abuse, torture, then DARVO. Yes, this is men in their base form. When the Allies won the war, they stormed through Germany, raping and torturing and mutilating and murdering women and girls of all ages, from the youngest girl to elderly women. They weren't getting in trouble, some commanding officers were encouraging it It's been estimated 2 million girls and women were raped by the conquering Soviet …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:06 PM
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These sex workers are still women, and these men are still using them as an outlet for their violence. So what, we should be thankful for these women's trauma because otherwise strange men would collectively be more violent towards us in public, rather than get them out on whores in private? Sick logic. Can men just stop being rapists. Can men be the logical sex they claim to be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:42 PM
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But where's their cartoon of random hands in the sky 😢 truly oppressed class, maybe they'll go rape and murder their child brides to calm down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:33 AM
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I had to teach my partner to focus on me & my clit. He was very inexperienced and I think he just assumed women got pleasure from PIV the way he does Now I have a routine where I get my orgasm first before any PIV happens. If my man can't make me orgasm or he starts getting tired from trying then he can jack off in the shower. I'm the sort of person who would eventually become resentful of him and never want sex if I didn't get pleasure from it.. so it helps us both in the long run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:04 AM
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3 new dishes as a New Years resolution and he couldn't even keep it. That really does say it all about his attitude. I mean, it could be completed in a day: breakfast, lunch, dinner. There are millions of recipes online so he doesn't even have to think of one from scratch. Lazy, dependant, immature, and reactive; just waiting for things to happen to him rather than making things happen. I can't imagine how poorly he does as a father if he can't even be an adult properly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:53 AM
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men have this competition on whos the worse gender When do they finally get to take the prize? This competition has been going on for thousands of years now and they've won every year in a row... it's a bit embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:33 AM
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All men hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:08 AM
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Pfft Reddit men are probably pedophiles themselves who are upset they can't escalate their depravities to include real children, since anime porn mothers can't stop them jacking off to their children Most sane fathers would be glad knowing their wives were keeping watch over their children when in public, especially when concerning strange adult men hovering about. Better safe than sorry And you know what, if there was a pandemic of porn-sick women who sexualized children and teenagers in school…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:02 AM
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My heart goes out to all the mothers who were conned by seemingly HVM and now have children with LVM they have to deal with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:15 AM
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I'm surprised he was charged. English police are notoriously bad for not going after known pedophiles and child rapists 😠 Thank god for this woman, and I hope that little girl can recover one day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:51 PM
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I remember one episode, where a model (Chelsea) also had a gap in the front of her teeth that she had come to love. Tyra then got dentists to widen the gap! They shaved millimetres off her teeth The amount of damage done to her teeth, chiselling away at perfectly healthy teeth, narrowing them down... ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:39 PM
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There are women out there who didn't marry until their 60s/70s/80s and many more who didn't marry at all because they refused to lower their standards for the sake of social status Ladies, it's okay to wait, and it's okay to die alone if it doesn't happen. It's better to die alone than next to a LVM who will probably leave at the first sign of sickness, and you'll likely be surrounded by HVW friends anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:51 PM
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Muslim men need an analogy using horses and blinders since they're supposed to lower their gaze A horse with blinders on is focused and steady. A horse without blinders is adrift and wilful. Men, avert your gaze so your future wife isn't ashamed that you have looked upon so many women without your blinders
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:46 AM
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Men call themselves our protectors, but can't even protect us from themselves and their "fragile egos". He cheats on her, probably to "even the score" since another man "pissed on his hydrant". He doesn't know how to be intimate with his girlfriend in literally any other way than sex. He refused to answer her direct questions. He distanced himself when she needed him the most during court proceedings. He demanded she never speak of her trauma to him because he can't handle it Absolute garbage of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:40 AM
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A sharpener that can sharpen many pencil is a good item. A pencil that has been sharpened too many times by the sharpener needs to be thrown out A man must keep his lollypop wrapped. A man with an unwrapped lollypop attracts bugs and no woman wants to suck on a bug-infested lollypop A hotdog that has never been eaten is tempting but a hotdog that has been touched and had its sausage pulled on and squeezed looks unappetizing A woman who has had a child deserves to upgrade to a man who has the pen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:21 AM
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I was literally about to comment this. Some of the nastiest, most vile anti-women things I've ever heard were from gay guys who think they are exempt from sexism because they're not attracted to women and so aren't sexualizing them. As if a society that caters to men and enforces views of women being inferior isn't going to get to a gay man's head, who already prefers the company of men (in all ways) in the first place. Many also think it's okay to call women bitches and sluts to their face as l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:03 AM
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A HVM would not manipulate a woman into sex before she's ready with this kind of BS A HVM would not beg for sex from a woman, he would leave if they weren't compatible like this rather than shift blame to the woman's higher standards A HVM would be a man of patience rather than quick sexual gratification, and he would be looking at the future benefits of waiting a few months - which is nothing compared to the rest of his life A LVM won't wait 3 months for sex. A LVM thinks a woman is arrogant fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:42 AM
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There are also many denominations of Christianity that gives full clergy rights to women. My church had a female priest, and constantly had sermons about being pro-LGBT and BLM and how everyone is our neighbour and doing good for the world no matter where they come from or sexuality etc But that doesn't mean at its core religion isn't sexist and I don't make excuses for Christianity because a few branches of it don't suck entirely I mean in Judaism men pray separately to women and their traditio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:47 PM
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I make sure I get my orgasm first before me and my man engage in PIV. If he can't make me cum then sorry, it's off the table. He's pretty much guaranteed an orgasm from sex but I'm not I'm also hoping this tactic works further down the line to avoid a "dead bedroom" as they say, or avoid resentment of sex with him, because no matter what I'm getting pleasure from him so I'm more likely to look forward to it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:35 PM
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Lets be honest with ourselves here. Men would love to use these sex dolls and replace the women in their lives with them at the beginning. But what will happen? Well, eventually he's going to get bored of it. Men hate women. Men who would use these dolls to take place of wives and mothers hate women. And men who hate women love to see us humiliated, dominated, and at their feet more than anything. He'll use these sex dolls hard, violently, and it will take it all with a smile because it feels no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:03 AM
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Yup! Also big shout out to the man-hating lesbians who are dependent, y'all never get the recognition you deserve 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:25 AM
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Oh my god. I'm going to use this every single time they try that line now, it's so good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:06 AM
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Violence and abuse of women is considered "high art". You can be an average artist but make a painting of a woman mid-rape and the critics drool over it You can have a terrible story but throw gratuitous shots of a woman being assaulted (bonus points for nudity, blood, or her murder to incite the wrath of the male protagonist) and the viewers call it amazing and recommend it In a similar vein; I think the writers of John Wick made an incredibly clever decision. A revenge story means John needed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:22 PM
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Yet men have the nerve to say women need them to "provide". Without a woman an adult man will resort to using little girls in order to survive, otherwise they'd starve (or surround themselves with takeaway containers) as they lay in filth because they can't clean either. Absolutely pathetic. You know what happened when my SAHM, who had no job experience, became a widow with several young children? She took up a full-time job while we were in school, came home early to pick us up, make dinner, cl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:06 AM
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I'm not happy in my life. I'm settling and I want help on how not to and how to accept what I deserve. If this isn't the place, I understand. This is exactly the place to learn how to accept what you deserve, which is way more than what you currently have from the sounds of it! It's learned behaviour, self-esteem and knowing your own worth is learnt, and if you keep reading this sub you're essentially surrounding yourself with HVW and you'll naturally take that on to your own life You're already…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:51 AM
29

3 months is bare minimum and usually good advice for the Pickmes-in-recovery who sleep with dates the first night because they feel they have to, or were bought dinner so they feel guilt, or any other such nonsense... when they start with the 3 month restriction they can start having dinner dates without fear and pressure and they will learn what a solid NO looks like and how HVM/LVM respond to that NO I waited about 10 months of serious, monogamous dating with my current HVM before we went to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:39 AM
83

I love some women find this place through scrotes on Reddit complaining about us. "They're female incels who hate men and just want their wallets before murdering them!" "Woah!" some poor lady who just finished the dishes after work thinks, as her jobless boyfriend is playing games in the next room. "That sounds awful but intriguing, I'll check out these man-hating golddiggers for a laugh before I start on dinner..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:39 PM
35

Basically a "hooptie" is a very old, broken-down car. They are high maintenance because they're always breaking down and parts of repair them are expensive since they're discontinued models. Rolls Royce are also expensive in a good way, because they're premium. So he's saying men who were "bamboozled" by women have been "paying" for the old, broken-down bad women and are just jaded because they could've been "paying" the same "prices" for the new, shiny women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:07 AM
147

I can't respect a man who has literally nothing to offer me. And if I can't respect that man, why would I want his love? The love of a man I have no admiration for is useless. How is his love going to provide for me if I'm sick or for our future children's education?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:22 AM
208

4-5 months ago he met a girl on discord and they spent lots of time together. She lives in a different country in Europe. They watch films, play games, talk on the phone for hours together(on discord. Never met in person) I didn't even need to read the rest. YES you absolutely made the right decision to leave your ex! It doesn't matter if they never met in person. You two were doing LDR as well, which is basically what he had with her. He was emotionally cheating. Spending so much one-on-one tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:14 AM
643

Good, take it ALL! Especially if you bought it because he doesn't deserve a cent, but even if you didn't we'll call it compensation for your time he WASTED I love you took the lightbulbs. Leave him in the dark lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:07 AM
25

doesn't even have to be considered a date, at this point I'd just like to be in the company of a man Stop it. Get some help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:19 AM
8

Imo, the man should be more thrilled than the woman on their wedding day If he's not overwhelmed with joy, or if he's making "ball and chain" jokes, then I don't want him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:43 AM
6

I would get blockout curtains, probably in a light grey or white colour to match your decor. With the sheer curtains you have, at night if you have your lights on your silhouette will be very visible to the next-door pervert Goddamn sucks what we have to do to not be sexually harassed. This situation happened to me as a young teenager so I have full curtains and blinds along every window and every seam is covered up. The loss of the sense of privacy and security is immense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:40 AM
102

My standards for how men need to treat me are so damn high the very thought of "he shouldn't rape me" never even makes the list because duh. The fact there are women out there celebrating this really does break my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:48 AM
28

Unless they're Jewish themselves trying to make fun of Neo-Nazis... I see it on Twitter quite a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:42 AM
117

He was negging you or it was straight up misogyny. Either way, never give those scrotes the time of day; anyone who thinks a woman can't be physically attractive and smart/successful are delusional. We're out here doing it all while looking good, and you know these men are covered in cheeto dust playing video games the entire day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:38 AM
29

I could not care less about Russian men or Russia devoting a day to them. Every Russian man I've met was a gross caveman - both in appearance and mannerisms. How beautiful Russian women put up with them enough to have children with them I don't know, but I pray for their happiness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:52 AM
5

I remember being at a seedy bar and noticing this group of gross men inching their way closer to the ladies' bathroom. My sister said she needed to go so I said I'd come with her. This one PickMe in our group started laughing and asked if my sister needed me to hold her hand, a few of the guys in the group laughed, but no-one was laughing when the strange men tried to follow us in and make "conversation" Speaking of gym bros, they all go into the change rooms together, before and after a workout…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:25 PM
12

That jumpcut to the Star Wars figurines he films for 10 seconds straight was just gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:17 PM
35

Men will be like, "Bet you miss the time before feminism when it was women and children first on sinking ships huh? We're not doing that for you anymore". When back in those days men were legally able to rape their wives, slaps and hitting them with light belts were socially acceptable for discipline, no-one called the police for marital fights, and you would have to be very bloody for 'domestic violence' to be taken seriously, and you couldn't divorce them because you had no income and they'd t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:08 AM
27

Every rapist should be killed. Every single one of them. In no circumstances ever is rape acceptable. Murder? Maybe it's self-defence. Theft? Maybe you're starving. Arson? Maybe you're freezing But there's is NO justification for rape, and for that I think they should all be executed. Or if that's too harsh, have their penises removed from tip to testicles AND they can rot in prison
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:04 AM
99

She will have your name. And he shall have mine. I will now be known as Johnathan and he will be named Elizabeth. It's confusing, but Elizabeth demanded it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:47 AM
234

I kept thinking to myself, why do all of us have so many creepy-men stories from around the age of 12. What is it about 12 years olds that men suddenly like? And I realized, at least for me, around 11-12 is when I started going out in public without my parents. Without chaperones or protection. And because our first encounters with creepy men are new and scary they stick with us, so we all remember those 12-year old girl moments and just get used to the horrible encounters as we age. But these g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:15 AM
135

He probably said Hooters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:10 AM
8

Oh great, so now they're going to objectify women's bodies even more, become increasingly violent with their sex dolls because they can't feel pain and then come back to human women in the end with their violent hands and bruising thrusts because eventually they'll tire of attempting to humiliate and force submission from a plastic doll who shows no signs of pain Men will never stay away from women. It's a power thing, it's control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:55 AM
173

"Girl, you look so fine! You gorgeous! Your eyes and smile are so beautiful" "I know" "Wtf bitch, you ain't even that cute, like what the hell ugly"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:30 AM
330

We circled the block to take a look. That's so disgusting. Even more than pickme behaviour she actively engaged in predatory behaviour similar to men who turn their cars around to stalk, catcall and leer at the women on the streets, making us all feel that little bit less safe about walking out in public That man now feels so much more comfortable doing this to women in public, now that CoolGirl gave her "female" approval of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:27 AM
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He keeps glancing away, showed the ring for one second, looks embarrassed... yeah, I'm going to bet $5 the wedding won't happen Plus he looks Russian or Slavic, if there's one thing I know from experiences with Eastern European men it's they hate women taking the lead in traditionally masculine roles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:03 AM
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I'm going to be teaching my daughters that they're likely going to never have a fulfilling romantic relationship, and to always put themselves first and focus on themselves because most men aren't even worth a glance A lot of the romance propaganda created the pickmes we see out there and it's so sad. Women who are ashamed and feel unworthy or like failures because they aren't married. Teach girls young to be happy and secure alone and they'll never settle, because if they die alone they'll know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:00 AM
89

There have been some women in here defending BDSM horror stories. Talking about how "good doms" need to shower the abused woman with something known as "aftercare" after they have sex. "Aftercare" is one of the most crucial things you need to do to the abused partner after a BDSM session apparently. Yeah, when the woman is so traumatized from sex that she needs literal care afterwards from her partner so she doesn't break, that's some sick, depraved stuff right there, and people still defend it.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:47 AM
10

The bride's family paying for the wedding is an incredibly sexist outdated tradition that stems from (at least in America's case) old European sentiments regarding their daughters. When they were of marriage age the fathers wanted their daughters off their hands (too many mouths to feed, to clothe, risk of unwed pregnancies, women couldn't really generate income etc). Transferring ownership of her to the husband means he's now responsible for feeding and sheltering her and paying for any babies …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:18 AM
34

Don't let this get you down. We know Reddit is full of LVM/NVM. We know the HVMs out there are outnumbered by their loser counterparts at a rate that's so vast I don't want to even guess. That's why we're here at FDS. To weed out these scumbag users, the NVM who hold placeholder girlfriends, the ones who don't really want relationships and lose interest after sex And if we make a mistake and end up with one of these creatures, then we can recognize the flags and have enough self-respect to leave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:41 PM
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I assume there are also several photos of mothers breastfeeding, with wholesome posts like "After 2 months of frustration, finally got my daughter to latch properly!" and then the men arrive and they're jacking off to it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:19 PM
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respects her for being with him respects him for being a loveable person So messed up. Maybe he should respect her for being a loveable person too and then find gainful employment so he's not a poor leech
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:31 AM
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Oh trust me, Mbongeni, these scrotes don't need to hear this message because they already broke up with the women who helped them like 20 minutes ago If he was a LVM without money before, he's just a LVM with money now. And one thing LVM love to do is squeeze all they can out of a woman, discard her, then move on to someone new
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:01 AM
146

Never chase a man. Men who are really into a woman, really wants to be with her and can see a future with her will initiate, even through fear of rejection Some men out there will accept the invitation of literally any woman just so they have a bangmaid and higher social status that comes with having a girlfriend. While they're with their placeholder girlfriend (who they probably don't pay for on dates that they also don't organize), they're also out initiating with the women they actually like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:53 AM
29

I have never followed this rule but the pressure is real. I got so much anxiety going on dates, I got even more anxiety when the relationship started going well because it's like damn, when is he going to start wanting sex? Even before FDS I was kind of a hard bitch when it came to sex. I told men I was asexual so they would leave me alone. And to be honest, I genuinely thought I was because I never saw a man whose bones I wanted to jump after 3 dates. Never saw a man so handsome I could have sl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:55 AM
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"I love women who wear no makeup, I think they look more gorgeous!", points to celebrity clearly wearing $450 worth of makeup but with a nude lipstick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:23 AM
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Pickme for sure! Most of what she talks about is money-based, and the other is just what you do in healthy relationships. I would absolutely hate being the woman in her sort of relationship. Once you start with the financial "reciprocation" of things your romantic relationship becomes a transactional business one. Like, he picks up the dinner bill and the movie tickets, then looks to you expectantly, so you buy a few movie snacks, then he silently pouts and calculates that you paid only 15% of w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:16 AM
246

Morticia and Gomez Addams. The OG high value TV couple!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:44 AM
97

I'm so so sorry that happened to you A sext is not consent. A sext is not written consent. A sext is not an invitation to sex. A sext is not the prelude to future sex. You did not deserve to have your rape invalidated by the police at all, let alone over a sext We can make lists and lists of things we have to do correctly in order to be taken seriously by the police in rape cases. We can do everything right by the book (non seductive clothing, not out late, explicitly say 'no', don't date the ra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:37 AM
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Looks exactly like a man who would call himself a "nice guy" and wonder why women avoid him. This sick monster probably hit her on purpose, calculated, because he wanted to knock her out and rape her injured body. Then realized he killed her and raped her anyway because that was his plan from the start. I hope she's at peace knowing he'll be in Hell soon enough Our bodies aren't even safe from men in death. Women being raped by fathers, boyfriends, husbands, friends, strangers, doctors, policeme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:28 AM
227

My best friend in highschool was perved on by a creepy teacher - one that had been inappropriate to girls before. As we were walking past to his class he blatantly stared at her chest (she developed early and had E cups by senior year). When she burst into tears after we went around the corner I took her immediately to the principal who listened to what we had to say intently, then told us how serious our allegations were and that he never had a problem with this teacher before and if we were su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:14 AM
129

Even his body is done with dealing with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:03 PM
18

Sure, any country where they can't interact or hear what men have to say about women online or in public So... North Korea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:07 AM
42

Saw the funniest post a few days ago where it was like: "Millennial men have the exact same entitlement of Boomer men but without the life skills. So they'll punch a hole in the wall but have no idea how to fix it" 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:00 AM
32

He allowed her to try to make reservations for the night She reserved a spot at Buffalo Brothers. He has nothing. Even if he did have something he should've said "it's a surprise" instead of hurt her like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:21 AM
82

He can't make reservations for his gf on Valentine's day, but you bet he could pre-order a PS5 or some stupid game 8 months before it comes out and be lined up for the midnight release Drop him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:17 AM
262

Female incels just don't exist. The boys over at bodybuilding did an experiment, where they put up an online dating profile of a morbidly obese woman, covered in thick chest hair, and photoshopped pig nose. All she had to write was that she was horny. She got lots of messages of men who were dtf. Dick is so abundant it really has negative value at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:59 AM
22

Someone here mentioned Lundy, and I'd like to include quotes from "Why does he do that" - a popular book on abusive men. Adept in Language My [abusive] clients who have participated extensively in therapy or substance-abuse recovery programs sometimes sound like therapists themselves—and a few actually have been—as they adopt the terms of popular psychology or textbook theory. One client used to try to lure me into intellectual debates with comments such as, “Well, your group follows a cognitive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:51 AM
29

"please don't chase after people who don't want us okay honeys? uwu if you start running after the Manson Family i'll have to trip you softly into a field of sunflowers uwu"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 06:20 AM
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You are never too old to cut NVM/LVM from your life. Never had too many marriages to stick around in a bad one. I don't care if a woman is 105 years old, and divorced 105 losers. She better make it 106 divorces if she's currently married to a loser bringing her down So congrats on your upcoming divorce from that sloppy drunk! I don't know you but even I know you deserve better 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 06:14 AM
30

Same thing happened to me when I was 14. I came out of the shower, was looking for clothes, heard laughter and whooping, realized my blinds were a quarter way open and sick male neighbour was staring at my teenage body. At least the sounds tipped me off so I ran out of there, but that sort of thing STICKS with you. I can't have sex if even a slither of light is shining through the blinds (and any sort of public sex kink is not happening!). I won't sleep if the blinds/curtains aren't fully shut a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:08 AM
79

"I'm getting by". He won't be able to stick to it, it'd be more like "Can I buy you ladies a drink? I just got a promotion at work and I'm celebrating my new $103,500 before tax annual salary"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:48 AM
224

He isn't even there yet! About to enter a 6-figure income. And he's so worried about the inevitable golddiggers. Congratulations sir, you can probably get a mortgage for a nice middle class house in the suburbs, but the golddiggers are aiming a little bit higher
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:46 AM
10

They're only "one uppers" when it comes to women, because they're shallow people who get bored very easily. But they'll have the same friend circle since kindergarten because they're too lazy and making new buddies takes time They'll be playing on the same World of Warcraft (or whatever tf) account they've had since they were 13 They'll be in the same deadass job they've had since their 20s Their bedrooms will have the same mattress and single quilt on it they've had since childhood, and their w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:39 AM
165

Giggling or brushing it off can be a defensive tactic I know I'm not going to tell a group of men to go fuck themselves if I'm walking alone late at night while they're catcalling. It might work sometimes, maybe it would work on the man who's alone with you in the train staring at you, but what if it riles him up instead? I don't have the muscle mass or fighting knowledge to take that chance tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:57 PM
398

"I have a kind of dark sense of humour" -"I like to laugh about women being raped or abused and expect you to laugh along too"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:17 PM
16

"If a girl told me outright what I can and can't do outright in my own free time I'd run for the hills" gf: You can't cheat on me him: You can't tell me what to do in my own free time you controlling harpy! But seriously, apart from the argument that porn is cheating and all the sex trafficking involved, it mentally messes men up, they lose respect for women in general, they get erectile dysfunction, they can get deathgrip, loving sex won't get them off and they'll keep chasing the next degenera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:39 AM
96

The UK is horrific. Policemen know about child gangrapes going on and won't do anything - most of the time they're involved with it. Politicians involved with sex trafficking. Young women forced into prostitution. Teenage girls groomed. Horrible place, I'd never raise a daughter in the UK, especially England
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:44 AM
44

BDSM coomers need an exorcism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:21 PM
329

Doms are abusers who mask their hatred of women under the guise of kinks. No HVM enjoys choking, slapping, whipping, or spitting in the face of women. Intimidating women to give up "consent". And it's so prevalent amongst NVM that at this point it's basically a cliché. On another note, ladies, don't visit a random guy's place on the second date. Lord have mercy wait until you're in an established relationship and trust this man explicitly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:37 AM
136

The reason NVM love young/barely legal women is because of their naivety in how men should treat them. A 30 year old FDS woman would not tolerate being spat upon, and would probably even file a report against him. But an 18 year old trying to gain his approval as a cool girl might tell herself it was a crude joke and she needs to lighten up. You were a doormat, but you aren't anymore. Forgive yourself for that and grow from the experiences. I also wouldn't call you stupid, just too naïve for tho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:24 AM
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I dunno if I should talk to him about it. Don't bother trying to cOmMuNiCaTe with him - he knows what he's doing is wrong and detrimental to your relationship but he doesn't care. The few minutes of adoration from this Discord woman as he presents the "gift" was worth the risk of upsetting you. And that should tell you all you need to know And why would he choose Discord Nitro as a gift? From what I'm reading, the only perks are improved audio and video quality in live streams - so he's doing it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:05 AM
2

I wasn’t the crazy, clingy girlfriend I was portrayed to be Nearly every man I've met has a story lined up about how their "crazy ex-girlfriend/s". I highly doubt any of those women were crazy or psychopathic - and if they were I wonder how much their useless boyfriends contributed to their mental decline...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:30 AM
1

This is why we'll see an influx of people calling themselves asexuals/demisexuals/sapiosexuals or whatever other labels there are. Not many people want to have sex on the first date, but it's so common place that sometimes you feel there's something wrong with you for not wanting that. This sex positive libfem culture needs to change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:49 PM
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NVM: "You females will end up alone and die by yourself with that attitude! You've all hit the wall" FDS: "Okay, then I might as well be rich so I can die in luxury with good nurses" NVM: "But men don't care about your career."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:16 AM
2

Terrible men are nearly always terrible fathers. Their poor daughters will be Pickmes for a time, not of their own fault. And let's be honest, many of us here have terrible fathers that hurt our mothers with their LVM behaviours. They should be the ones paying for their misbehaviour, not their female descendants who already are paying for being born female God bless all the daughters of NVM and LVMs, we're in this together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:23 AM
122

"I might've cheated but I have trust issues because back in 5th grade I went out with a girl named Monica and she said she liked me and the next day she was playing hopscotch with my best friend and sending love letters and I told my mum and---"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:00 AM
202

"Maybe he wouldn't have gone on a killing spree and murdered and ate 20 women if you females didn't ignore nice guys like him his whole life!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:59 AM
55

It better be a piece of Neptune or something for it to be that tiny! Bet you that man has a $5k PC gaming setup though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:46 PM
148

This is a man pretending to be a woman. "Be a reason for someone to interfere?" - women know how uncomfortable it is to be harassed in public while minding our own business, someone helping us isn't interfering "That's a social habit. Nothing wrong with that" - men don't think coming onto strange women while they're busy working out is wrong, but women know there's a time and a place, and this ain't it "saying "no thank you" " - women know saying "no thank you" to a man can lead to trouble furth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:31 PM
279

"My real personality is unattractive and I'm terrible in bed. haha women btfo"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:23 PM
160

It is cheating. Men who have no problem watching OnlyFans will flip their lid REAL quick if their wives/girlfriends decide to become one of the "creators" on that platform. They know the depravity of men who'll watch them, they know it's sexualized and there for other men to jack off and lust over. They know it's wrong, they just don't care as long as it's for their own entertainment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:13 AM
29

I've never had casual sex, but I don't think poorly of any woman that does - a lot of the time I think it's self-preservation; maybe the man was intimidating, getting aggressive, had the woman cornered or was alone at her house where his grip on her thigh got a little tighter than comfortable. Maybe he encouraged her to drink a little too much I mean, there really can't be that many women out there that enjoy casual sex for the sex right...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:43 AM
82

Good Lord I feel like I've just read a manifesto from a future serial killer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:00 PM
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