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Dramatically different than when I joined the community in 2011
/r/seduction12/05/18 12:14 AM
3

Man, it doesn't really fucking matter if you're confident enough and have good game.
/r/seduction10/04/18 01:28 PM
1

Easiest is to meet for drinks, then segue into: "I've been bingeing Planet Earth recently, you have got to see the episode about the Himalayas" Minions movie. "I've been listening to these vinyls from (whoever), there's this one (song, artist, album) you'll love"
/r/seduction24/08/17 05:02 PM
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You're going home alone by default. Fucking go for it, you have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction24/08/17 04:03 PM
3

Testosterone
/r/seduction15/08/17 07:00 PM
4

Aaaaand next.
/r/seduction28/05/17 12:06 PM
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It's just a guy slamming an obnoxious girl's insecurity buttons by telling her she's going to be a single mom in order to save face in front of friends and/or strangers. Use it if you want, it's got it's time and place, but not very often.
/r/seduction18/04/17 08:31 PM
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I would take that credit.
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:18 PM
2

He was. Your approach is great
/r/seduction28/02/17 03:56 PM
2

The downside of too much texting is it deprives you from the opportunity to escalate kino in person.
/r/seduction25/11/16 05:26 PM
3

Assume attraction. She'll let you know if she's not feeling it, don't decide for her. Be bold. Go for it, always. She's not going home with you anyways if you don't try. Be confident. Not arrogant or cocky, be confident. Nothing is more sexy on anyone.
/r/seduction06/11/16 06:40 PM
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It makes you come back stronger, will free your mind and lets you close chapters of your life; letting you move on. You will be able to persue other women and genuinely enjoy these interactions. Remember: You dont want to get to know new women, if you could not even come clean with yourself. One of the hardest part of being vulnerable is being true to yourself, expressing yourself honestly. It's a trope that guys don't have feelings, some people like myself don't often feel very hard, but the ke…
/r/seduction03/11/16 07:48 PM
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Have you considered that you may not have an attractive personality, that it may warrant a few tweaks? Because the problem is not "all of them", I have 0 issues with women not being attracted being the real me- that's why they like me. It's not "all women". Look at it like this- if I were into this girl and she radically changed her personality a few weeks into seeing each other, I'd fucking leave too. The bait and switch personality change is not conducive for anything long term. For ONS, fuck …
/r/seduction28/10/16 12:09 PM
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The own it and pivot strategy is solid. Good post
/r/seduction24/10/16 01:26 PM
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I'd move photo 3 to#1, and 5 to 2 or 3 slot. Also go with the cheese line mentioned above, or something more intriguing- why talk to you to find out stuff (and give you the opportunity to escalate kino) if you dump your purse in your bio? My bio is a quote i like, and "Be interesting."
/r/seduction24/10/16 01:18 PM
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Well obviously you have to have an attractive personality, and like the girl for more than just sex. You just keep hooking up with her, and start adding in girlfriend activities- dinner dates before Netflix and chill, invite her to a tasting at a local brewery, text more, sleep over after sex, brunch dates, that kind of stuff. Eventually she'll likely catch feelings.
/r/seduction14/10/16 12:19 AM
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Act like it's perfectly normal, and it will be.
/r/seduction16/09/16 01:26 PM
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You will never be able to change it if you can't first identify it. Kudos man. I'm also an asshole, I realized it was an overcompensation in the transition from Nice Guy, and in my self development and soul searching have come to retain and accept a degree of that. What I mean by that is, when it comes down to it, I'm gonna do me and my interests first, and I don't care what you think about it. I'm a personable, likeable guy, but I have no problem offending you in the process of just being me. Y…
/r/seduction16/09/16 11:46 AM
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Good opener man, use and abuse that. As for conversation stuff, don't make a big deal about it. Comment on something she's wearing, tell her she wears it almost as well as you do. Ask her "a very serious question" or "i need your opinion on something..." and ask something absurd, like "are these pants working for me, or are they working for me?". Once you're chatting, just roll with it. Agree with whatever she says and amplify it. "You come to this club/bar/whatever often?" "yeah, this is my cra…
/r/seduction05/09/16 02:10 AM
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Low kino thus far, low buying temp on her part, she shot your kiss down (not necessarily a rejection) but followed with the rejection, not looking for anything. You just explicitly said you ARE looking for exactly that something. IMO, and I could well be wrong, you're in the friend zone. Regardless of the above, don't get sucked into oneitis. Keep meeting and pursuing other girls, regardless of what you do with this particular one. It's not a failure with this one no matter what- learn and apply…
/r/seduction04/09/16 11:01 PM
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Honestly IMO, you're wasting your time with her. You haven't struck out but you're in single digit % chance of success. Find more girls. She was a good start, learn and apply to the next ones.
/r/seduction04/09/16 10:09 PM
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Step one don't buy the item. Step two ask her for a drink sometime. All you can do is win. If she says no, you weren't going to get her to go out for a drink anyway if you didn't ask.
/r/seduction29/08/16 07:42 PM
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Beautiful shitpost. But I get the point you were trying to make Main point in all this is... go find yourself a girl that gives a shit about you. I'd bleed, cry, and sweat for a girl that I love with everything that I have, just to have all the awesome stuff that comes with a loving relationship.
/r/seduction28/08/16 01:54 PM
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The problem then is something you're not doing well enough if EVERY time it happens. Maybe you're giving a bad vibe by being needy, maybe you're not building attraction, hard to say with no fr to look over, but somewhere you have a hitch in your giddyup bud.
/r/seduction16/08/16 07:10 PM
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Getting numbers is almost trivial. It's one of the steps in the process, it's not a success in and of itself. How did this become the new end goal? New guys, don't be discouraged. It's exciting to get numbers from hot girls, it very much is! I'm not taking away from how hard it is to learn everything up to successfully getting numbers; however, after you are consistently pulling girls, getting her number is as difficult as asking her name. Be expecting to F close that night, and escalate towards…
/r/seduction15/08/16 02:12 AM
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You did execute heroically. Well done sir. I learned today.
/r/seduction08/08/16 11:11 PM
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Forget the past. It's a detractor for you, you need to stop living there. It didn't work then, you need to let it go. Make a new opportunity for yourself. Don't fucking say anything about it to her! Just mentally, you need to move on to tomorrow, not last year.
/r/seduction02/08/16 01:05 PM
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Good suggestions here all around, all I would like to add is to also read Models, Mark Manson. Another useful perspective.
/r/seduction02/08/16 01:02 PM
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I banged them, I turned down zero opportunity. Maybe I'm not understanding?
/r/seduction01/08/16 09:39 PM
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He's not wrong, exactly. I've banged every girl who messaged me first. Is it my default strategy? No, but I'm not turning down less legwork
/r/seduction01/08/16 06:58 PM
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You have to start escalation early on. At the end of the night it's not impossible, but very very difficult. Do not fucking "inquire if she's interested". Assume attraction, trust me she will stop you if she's not into you. Hint, this girl is into you. She intentionally forgot stuff; you lucky dog, you are getting a second chance. Sidebar has the escalation ladder. Use it. You don't need a party to get laid. "Hey, I was just about to go grab a beer/watch this show on netflix, want to join?" Make…
/r/seduction01/08/16 04:22 PM
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Dear lord man, put something there, ANYTHING is preferable to nothing. I'm partial to: -semi retired axe murderer -hand and wrist model -accomplished nude bather It doesn't matter what you put. I have a Dostoyevsky quote and "be interesting" as my bio, because I'm looking for smart, interesting women, not 21 year old party girls. What's the demographic you're looking for? Tailor your language to weed out everyone but them, so that the others self select out of your lineup and don't waste your ti…
/r/seduction30/07/16 12:06 AM
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This guy stalks
/r/seduction29/07/16 08:37 PM
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Contrary to the other commenters, I love tinder. Use it for what it is: a filter. Be forward, make it easy for yourself. Polarize them, the ones who like it will be much less likely to flake, their already digging what you're doing. Doing the above cuts your like numbers by a good bit, but raises the quality of the likes you get. You're not looking for EVERYONE, why not help yourself out of the gate? Don't get discouraged, it's a marathon not a sprint. Doing the above, I F closed two girls in a …
/r/seduction29/07/16 05:21 PM
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If you're bold, when you're walking between bars (hint, move her) grab her hand, stop her, push her against the wall and kiss her. Then continue on, pulling her along like she stopped to look in her purse for something and you're late for the next bar
/r/seduction25/07/16 07:32 PM
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Awesome job man. Straight killing it. I highly, highly recommend reading Models, by Mark Manson. There's PDFs out there, also Amazon etc. I've been part of the community off and on for about 4 years, and this book has helped me the most out of everything I've read. Keep up the good work man! Live with reckless abandon!
/r/seduction24/07/16 09:53 PM
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I mean it's certainly a complicated situation. If it were me, I'd be less focused on those two, and pursue the others instead and would keep things low key. Logistics change, just keep doing what you're doing and capitalize on the opportunities that present themselves.
/r/seduction24/07/16 04:22 AM
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Such potential for this. A shame. Looks like I've gotta do the heavy lifting myself.
/r/seduction24/07/16 03:36 AM
1

Anyway to mark serious after the fact?
/r/seduction24/07/16 03:27 AM
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Bang them all. Obviously.
/r/seduction23/07/16 06:44 PM
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It depends on the frame and tone. Play fight/bantering is totally in bounds, but as soon as you get serious you're done.
/r/seduction13/07/16 02:46 AM
2

If they're a freak, then they're a freak...
/r/seduction13/07/16 02:45 AM
2

You have nothing to lose man. If it flops, you will never see them again so who cares. You're on the right track.
/r/seduction11/07/16 12:17 PM
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This shit isn't Pokemon, it's alright to miss a couple.
/r/seduction27/06/16 03:45 AM
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I'm with you, this is a good read and good points, just keeping perspective.
/r/seduction22/06/16 02:12 PM
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PSA As with all things, this is not The Answer. This is a Tool. Use the tool when you need it. Be aware of yourself. This is the exact right strategy to get started, to break the slump, get out of a rut. Don't let the tool, the tactic, become your strategy. The strategy never changed: Step 1) Be Attractive Step 2) Don't Be Unattractive
/r/seduction22/06/16 02:40 AM
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study that said that women are more attracted to guys with stoic faces rather than smiling faces. I can believe it, but the statistical likelihood would seem to be that a random guy blank face staring at her is less attractive and more creepy than a guy making eye contact and smiling. Could be wrong, not gonna test out the alternative when the latter works for me. I agree that when you are talking to a girl you should smile, but its weird to just walk around smiling. Sure, I'm not suggesting a p…
/r/seduction20/06/16 04:22 AM
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Good luck being attractive scowling or staring blankly.
/r/seduction19/06/16 11:50 PM
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Also, fucking smile.
/r/seduction19/06/16 10:37 PM
2

I think you'll be in the clear. You weren't inciting it, she was just drunk and picking up what you were putting down. You didn't escalate or pursue, you left with your gf and didn't plan anything more with her. Unless Cindy is hyper jealous. Then all bets are off
/r/seduction16/06/16 02:10 AM
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It is the action that follows the hook. Sometimes its bringing them with you to the next location, sometimes it's physical escalation.
/r/seduction16/06/16 02:08 AM
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Man this is great to see here again. Good to get the focus back where it belongs- self improvement for the sake of your own self, and telling it straight.
/r/seduction25/04/16 12:17 AM
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To add to this, it's being real, and present. It's not having a canned shtick to hide behind, it's not Mystery Method, it's not peacocking, it's you being comfortable with who you are and sharing that with someone, letting them see you for who you are, and maybe to come along with you.
/r/seduction14/04/16 09:17 PM
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Out to pick up.
/r/seduction10/04/16 12:40 AM
2

Read. Read self help books, sci Fi, mystery, join a book club, whatever resonates with you. Reading expands your mind and worldview, presents you new ideas that you never would otherwise be exposed to. Just 15 minutes a day.
/r/seduction16/03/16 06:13 PM
2

With the added benefit of increasing the intensity of the curse words when you do use them.
/r/seduction16/03/16 06:10 PM
2

Don't let "being introverted" be your crutch. Everyone has their "thing" "holding then back". Either give up completely or get over it. Those are your options, and those are the only two options. Find a way to make it work for you, instead of letting that little voice in your head work against you. My brother does this, pisses me right off. He is currently going with the first option.
/r/seduction18/02/16 02:07 PM
2

If you don't aim high.... That said, prep your place, but don't sweat it if it doesn't work out this time.
/r/seduction10/02/16 04:04 AM
2

My biggest fear was meeting the one before I was ready and had experienced all that I wanted to while single.
/r/seduction09/01/16 07:45 AM
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You're both right, it's not zero sum. Good on you OP. Now do it again
/r/seduction02/01/16 04:42 PM
2

Aspiring actor, freelance writer, bush rapist, I have used Kia hamster lead choreographer Nebulous bs man, do you speak it?
/r/seduction16/12/15 03:47 PM
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They self select out if they're not down with that. If they develop feelings after that point, they may be sad you don't return the sentiment, if you don't, but they won't be hurt that you "broke her heart" by not clearly expressing what you were investing into the relationship and wanting from it.
/r/seduction23/11/15 09:50 PM
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Nah dude, hot girls are a dime a dozen. Stick around the sub, once you get your head sorted out you'll realize that. You can get as many as you want. Beauty isn't rare- it's the person behind all that that makes the difference. The goal of the sub is to help improve yourself, so you can gain confidence and learn the basic principles of how to interact with women. All of that so you can sort through the thousands of got women to find the right one for you.
/r/seduction20/10/15 11:16 AM
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You've got oneitis. Hit her up the next time you're doing something interesting, and escalate if you want more than a friend. Leave her alone until then. Good job starting something. It can be the hardest part.
/r/seduction20/10/15 01:35 AM
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She is a person, responsible for her choices and free to make any choice she likes. Your white knighting here removes her agency- "she belongs to him, don't do anything". How about you let her decide? She can handle it. I'm not taking her home, I'm just setting the hook so (if you read my prior comment) when her logistics change I'm there one she calls.
/r/seduction19/10/15 12:23 AM
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At that point it becomes a choice of character. One view, she's going to cheat, regardless of who it's with- it may as well be you. The opposite view, she has a bf, you don't want to be the one who caused the pain of being cheated on, and you bow out. My personal strategy is to ignore the I have a bf line until it's substantiated by evidence, and then I run good game, setting the hook. I get her wanting to go home with me, but never pull the trigger. When her logistics change, I'm the one she ca…
/r/seduction18/10/15 04:49 PM
1

This is the fastest way to wet dick, indeed. End to a mean kinda philosophy, but it holds water.
/r/seduction16/09/15 01:28 PM
0

It is likely too late to join, but never too late to make friends with frat members and to appropriate the social aspect of membership.
/r/seduction16/09/15 01:27 PM
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Thanks for commenting. Fuckface.
/r/seduction16/09/15 01:25 PM
0

They're all attracted to you, stop timing the market so to speak. Go forth and escalate.
/r/seduction28/08/15 06:34 PM
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No. Chase them all.
/r/seduction19/06/15 01:24 AM
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I have a simple rule of thumb- I almost never buy girls I'm trying to pick up drinks. It's a cheap attempt at buying your way into their pants, they know it, it's a wasted drink and money. And if they ask me to buy them a drink? I usually move on. The only time I buy girls drinks are a) in a round or b) because I want to, no strings attached. Obviously this is a strategical plan, not a set in stone ideology; I do buy some drinks for girls as the situation develops, but this is my general rule of…
/r/seduction23/04/15 03:01 PM
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Do you want ketchup with that? No? Do you want ketchup with that? No? Do you want ketchup with that? No? Do you take it personally when people don't want ketchup? No? This is just like that.
/r/seduction18/03/15 07:15 PM
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:)
/r/seduction10/02/15 12:37 AM
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Deadpan innuendo
/r/seduction28/11/14 05:06 PM
7

The "Gregory House"method.
/r/seduction14/11/14 07:55 PM
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Bars, parties, weddings, anywhere. Strike up a conversation, connect, and "you seem pretty cool, we should get a drink sometime." Boom, game on
/r/seduction09/11/14 08:09 PM
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An excellent point. This is strategic planning, not tactics to be used. This is the overall goal that we work towards
/r/seduction08/11/14 10:58 PM
1

I'm not saying keto is the only option. It works. So do other things, but it's gonna be a hard change at first no matter what. You're gonna make it if you decide to man. You got this
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:54 PM
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Try it. If you fail, try it again. Find your goal, and make the tack sharp enough you dont want to sit on it anymore. read this. or you can feel sorry for yourself. /r/fatpeoplestories always needs new content.
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:30 PM
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It can be a permanent lifestyle, or a cyclical cut, or whatever you want it to be. Heres the tough love: All change is hard. You want to have it easy, dont change. You want to improve, its going to be hard. No one can do it for you. No one can choose for you. What do you want most?
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:23 PM
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I keep coming back to this, it was and has been pivotal to my mindset and think that it can help people again. thanks /u/gyakunan, i owe you man.
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:21 PM
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Club game is hard as FUCK unless youre jacked and happen across a very shallow girl who is into that. Try other venues. Much better success.
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:15 PM
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(by definition, not a lot of other options is scarcity)
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:13 PM
2

Keto is not the cheapest, surely. But the principal idea is high fat, lots of veggie, low carb. I missed pizza and beer BADLY, but I wanted to shed fat more than i missed that. you dont have to eat veal and bacon lamb and expensive meats. the cheapest ground beef, cheapest chicken, its all good. I lived on canned spinach, ground beef, eggs and hot sauce. I did keto while going through college, making less than 800 a month, from which came bills, rent, gas, etc. It IS doable. www.cavemanketo.com …
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:10 PM
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in other news, water is wet. Step 1: Be attractive Step 2: Dont be unattractive People are afraid of being judged- be open and welcoming in your manner and you will present an open door for opportunities you never knew you had- cuz that guy sure as fuck had no idea she was interested in him based off her reaction.
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:02 PM
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sounds like youre not asserting a sexual frame in the convo. insert some innuendos, deadpan with a spark in the eye and move on like nothing out of the ordinary. tease some, push/pull. girls smell nervous, and it smells bad bro. just relax, what are they going to do, bite you? Worst case scenario they blow you off.....on to the next one, no loss. but youre so nervous theyre going to do exactly that, that they do. self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/seduction08/11/14 08:58 PM
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well sex is an important factor too dude. nothing wrong having sex with multiple girls; be safe about it, be up front about it, and "this is how i am" and no problems will be had. You can always seamlessly transition from this into a monogamous relationship if you choose- never the other way around. I was dating a Really nice girl that i really liked, but the sex compatibility just was not there. I wish I had tried sex out before getting too serious, but I didnt. Lesson learned, the hard way.
/r/seduction08/11/14 08:54 PM
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Til I am one of a select few.
/r/seduction04/11/14 04:23 PM
1

And then when she's with you, escalate physically. Read the sidebar for the escalation ladder
/r/seduction23/06/14 01:10 AM
1

He wasn't gaming her. She was giving him shit. To not lose face/value/professional respect of his colleagues he needed to defuse that.
/r/seduction23/06/14 01:09 AM
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First, punch your friend. Secondly, punch yourself. You should have called. Now. Call her again. Take her our. Escalate. Report back
/r/seduction22/06/14 05:28 PM
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Idk, in this case she was giving him serious shit. He needed to win this one.
/r/seduction22/06/14 05:26 PM
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Girl: Are you gay? You: Oh yeah, I'm so gay. I love sucking cock. And nothing beats a good ass pounding after a long, hard days work! Want to come back to my place and give it a try? One little addition man. You could have been in right there.
/r/seduction22/06/14 05:25 PM
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Fuck off. He breaks down what he did, the reasoning behind it, what he could have done better and answered questions..... Textbook.
/r/seduction19/05/14 10:48 PM
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Time and place (frame) bro! Immediately upon meeting? Fuck no. Once you're comfortable, there a spark, you've started escalation, game on
/r/seduction19/05/14 09:59 PM
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The part of this that is overlooked i think, is that had you not gone out and developed these skills by running the numbers like we have, you would not be in a place to be able to attract, much less pull the type of girl that you're looking for, now that you have gained the perspective you have. First A, THEN B.
/r/seduction11/05/14 08:18 PM
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This is why I joined the community. Not to merely fuck girls. I liked that this was prevalent in the community's philosophy. Self improvement, for yourself, and a side benefit of attracting the type of women I want.
/r/seduction11/05/14 08:14 PM
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You're damn right. But I'm told there is more to life than boobs. I'm dubious, but testing the theory
/r/seduction11/05/14 06:11 PM
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All of them.
/r/seduction12/04/14 09:37 PM
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Or could be interested but unwilling to cheat. I've personally had that experience. Girl says she has a bf. Ran my A game anyway, didn't try to take her home, just seat the hook. 3 weeks later, I get a call; she's single and wants to hang out. Had I bailed initially I would never have f-closed her a month later. Just because the logistics don't work out for tonight doesn't mean they never will.
/r/seduction24/03/14 03:55 PM
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Not necessarily. There are zero repercussions for her to lie about a bf. If he shows up and they're happy, you are more than correct, but to bail at the mere mention? Not wise.
/r/seduction24/03/14 03:24 PM
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I also use the "I'll keep that in mind" line. It's quite smooth
/r/seduction24/03/14 03:22 PM
4

for the grammar nazis: im German Did Nazi that coming.
/r/seduction09/03/14 05:25 PM
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If the girl every calls you out on being slow to initiate, because of lots of talking, just say, "I can't help it. You're so much fun to talk to." Then go in for a kiss. Smooth as glass.
/r/seduction19/01/14 05:00 PM
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From an inner game perspective, doesn't becoming maximally whole mean that you don't really desire women as much? There is an important distinction to be made. The concept of maximally whole means that you are not needing anyone else to complete you; you are comfortable being you and are able to whole heartedly pursue your desires. Coming at it from the Mark Manson perspective, the idea of reducing your neediness also comes with the idea of not wanting sex as badly from a girl. Not exactly, his …
/r/seduction01/12/13 01:19 AM
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I came to this conclusion myself thru lots of personal experience, and some philosophy classes in college that opened and allowed me to truly examine what I believe and why I should or shouldn't believe them, for their merits and faults objectively.
/r/seduction29/10/13 03:23 PM
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It's more of a Taoist philosophy statement. Those who lack, need. Those who have, give. Applies to confidence, value, money, knowledge, etc.
/r/seduction03/10/13 01:23 PM
1

The same way you would talk to your buddies. It's not a big deal, don't attach more importance because she's a chick.
/r/seduction16/09/13 04:31 PM
49

I also recommend this approach.
/r/seduction11/08/13 01:56 AM
7

Yes, and the actual message follows as well
/r/seduction06/08/13 11:06 AM
2

Did she?
/r/seduction31/07/13 05:55 PM
3

Personal integrity > pussy
/r/seduction24/07/13 10:13 PM
1

Oh totally. They can hit on me all they want, I'm just not going to escalate if they're married.
/r/seduction24/07/13 07:44 PM
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In this situation, you executed beautifully. I'm no white knight, but I do respect the wedding ring. What anyone else does is up to them. Their life, their choice, their karma. Move along citizen, nothing to see here.
/r/seduction24/07/13 12:21 AM
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I am in the same boat, but there is a part of me that definitely wants to have that same someone; problem being, every time I try to 'settle down', after about 3-6 months I get bored and revert back. havent found solution yet. continuing onwards in the meantime.
/r/seduction17/07/13 03:52 AM
1

At the point where you're escalating kino, we know you're interested or we are about to become aware of that very quickly thereafter. Push/pull is super effective (push/pull is basically the methodology of 'hard to get').
/r/seduction17/07/13 03:07 AM
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Play coy, tease me back, shit test me. Play hard to get, teasingly, playfully.
/r/seduction16/07/13 11:10 PM
3

Kino is fairly universal I think. Similarly, confidence is a fucking electromagnet. I love the chase. Give me a good chase.
/r/seduction16/07/13 02:50 AM
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I'm rooting for this more than the rest of Reddit is for the safe
/r/seduction15/07/13 09:17 PM
1

I've noticed that the best seduction stories really just involve getting out of your own way... Once you've attracted a girl, she really wants you to succeed. She wants to get her rocks off too. The biggest hurdles to that success are the ones we place in front of ourselves through our damn brains. Preach, brother.
/r/seduction08/07/13 08:25 AM
20

!!!..... oh.
/r/seduction29/06/13 10:11 PM
3

I think that this is exactly the method to utilize, particularly if the activity is more costly. To spring it on her at the presentation if the bill will lead to a bad time, every time. (except that one time your cousin Randy... /s.) Every time.
/r/seduction20/06/13 06:32 AM
1

Directions unclear, police called. What do?
/r/seduction19/06/13 11:12 PM
0

Directions unclear, police called. What do?
/r/seduction19/06/13 11:12 PM
6

[FR] opened cute guy at work
/r/seduction19/06/13 11:00 PM
7

Hey the logistics may not match what you're looking for now, but her circumstances may change... Source: same situation, 3 months later, flirty text, she's single, f-close.
/r/seduction19/06/13 04:15 AM
28

Most appropriate use of that line, ever
/r/seduction19/06/13 04:12 AM
12

The sub is called seduction, not r/pua. This is clearly asking about seduction, not how to notch the fuck out of his belt.
/r/seduction05/06/13 06:39 PM
2

Never thought of the ceiling fan...
/r/seduction04/06/13 02:40 AM
6

OP deliver!
/r/seduction31/05/13 06:53 PM
17

Statistically, 9 out of 10 enjoy gang rape. Numbers don't lie...
/r/seduction29/05/13 07:45 PM
3

She will appreciate the reversion
/r/seduction20/05/13 11:00 PM
7

Start over, mentally. You correct it going forward, there's no altering the past
/r/seduction20/05/13 10:17 PM
1

Dude, way easy solution. Go up to her at the gym and say hey, you caught me in the middle of my lift. You busy with your workout now, Let's grab coffee. This is a golden egg. It won't be weird AT ALL. You have a personal connection with this HB.
/r/seduction05/05/13 03:15 PM
20

Well played. Nothing beats an inebriation assisted dgaf. Until whiskey dick
/r/seduction05/05/13 05:42 AM
13

Merely the catalyst. What were you thinking, why?
/r/seduction05/05/13 05:30 AM
5

Nice recovery. What caused you to realize how you dun goofed and act to fix it? The common reaction would be to "next", likely without analysis on the spot to correct the error.
/r/seduction05/05/13 05:21 AM
1

High frequency use of that, yeah.
/r/seduction12/04/13 06:47 PM
1

It's all about frame. "This is what I'm thinking [decisive plan/idea], but I'm not sure about [doubt(s)], what do you think?" This does three things- demonstrates you have a plan of how to proceed, allows an opportunity to find a better plan, and shows the person you're asking that you value their opinion, which results in a reciprocal value boost. It's all in how you phrase it.
/r/seduction12/04/13 04:11 PM
7

Doubts, yes. Self doubts, no.
/r/seduction12/04/13 05:13 AM
1

I have had a couple similar logistical blocks, dat missed connection feel....damn. best of luck on the layover layover man, I'm rooting for you
/r/seduction02/04/13 05:56 AM
1

Fuck you man. The important part of "keep failing" from which you cherry picked is the "and keep getting back up". The central idea of of this sub: self-Improvement. May nothing change for you.
/r/seduction01/04/13 02:28 AM
12

Shiiiit. I dun goofed then
/r/seduction31/03/13 01:50 AM
1

Avoid liquor. It will hit you unpredictably and you will blow it at the LMR. Ask me how I know. But a social (nursed) beer? Harmless.
/r/seduction21/03/13 04:33 PM
1

Oneitis dude. There are more girls. Go out and talk to everyone. Guys and girls. Expand your posse. Increases social proof and allows a larger group to default back to between sets. If you build it they will come. Try /r/socialskills
/r/seduction17/03/13 08:12 PM
1

Lift to get self confidence. Read the side bar about kino escalation. Smile. Don't fap for a week, the pressure buildup make you want it if it kills you. And intend to close. Don't try. You're closing this girl. Tonight.
/r/seduction17/03/13 06:21 PM
7

Easy. Ignore and move on.
/r/seduction17/03/13 05:25 PM
3

Format bro. The good stuff is hard to follow.
/r/seduction15/03/13 04:45 PM
1

1) Do you have a super outgoing female friend? If so, recruit her to help you. Let her be the lead in to approach the group and strike up the conversation with the boys and be there to back her up. When the time comes to get all introduced to each other look your guy in the eye, stick out your hand to shake it, and give him your name while your friend plays the whirling dervish of attention and runs a screen to distract the other guys. Establish that contact and talk to him from that point. This…
/r/seduction15/03/13 04:38 PM
2

Get a motorcycle. Take the class, buy your gear first, WEAR THE GEAR EVERY TIME. Join /r/motorcycles. Done responsibly, there is not a goddamn thing on this earth that compares to the feeling of riding a motorcycle. And it's all for you.
/r/seduction13/03/13 07:05 PM
0

Can confirm, he banged your mom last night too.
/r/seduction13/03/13 06:56 PM
1

This is how I feel.
/r/seduction05/03/13 05:55 AM
7

But does he weigh more than a duck?
/r/seduction27/02/13 06:46 PM
2

Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance, Robert persig
/r/seduction24/02/13 01:12 AM
-3

Saving for use
/r/seduction25/01/13 08:50 PM
-4

Saving for use
/r/seduction25/01/13 08:50 PM
2

Here's a couple. -don't read/believe Cosmo -fuck the friendzone -for the love of god, don't tell us you have a bf if you don't, be upfront, or at least use better lies. -be direct. We don't subtle well.
/r/seduction21/01/13 01:24 AM
6

Push/pull
/r/seduction21/01/13 01:18 AM
-20

Time and place bro... this is neither
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:15 AM
-15

You're an asshole. Source: I would know
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:01 AM
45

That's when I realized BigFishMcNish was really a plieosaur from the Paleolithic era
/r/seduction20/01/13 11:34 PM
1

Even "how much" wouldn't have to be a deal breaker. You just cycle back into putting the ball back in her court, by either setting up a meet or changing the frame back onto what she would do if you were there. Or bail, it's entirely situational.
/r/seduction31/12/12 04:05 AM
1

The follow up is an often over looked part. This obviously is dependent on personality and situation, but something like "well of course, we had a great time" technically answers the question and subtly focuses less on missing her and more on the interaction you two had. And say it with a smile
/r/seduction30/12/12 08:31 PM
15

Also the stoning for non marital sex is kind of a damper.
/r/seduction23/12/12 07:03 PM
19

but to be fair, when she mentioned it, she was telling you that she wanted you to do that.
/r/seduction16/12/12 07:39 PM
3

Naked MANNN
/r/seduction16/12/12 07:39 PM
8

love the name
/r/seduction16/12/12 07:37 PM
1

So I was opening this chick, Ruby, the other day, a real gem, she's a solid 9...
/r/seduction14/12/12 12:58 AM
3

due to your conflicting messages, you have received equally one upvote and one downvote.
/r/seduction09/12/12 04:03 AM
-4

Before our after the accident?
/r/seduction08/12/12 02:19 AM
2

lesbian bar in the northeast
/r/seduction29/11/12 05:43 AM
2

You know man, with you bring as hell bent on making it happen as you are, one of two things will result. A) she is not willing to put herself into the situation again, having already given you a second chance, and will likely destroy what you have now B) you're going to have to Han solo like a motherfucker for the duration. History is strong juju. Regardless. If you're going to reopen this can, be sure it really is what you want. If you do and 2 weeks or s month later you realize it's not what y…
/r/seduction25/11/12 04:08 AM
1

agreed, but not WHILE youre out. this introspection is reserved for the after action debriefing
/r/seduction19/11/12 03:58 AM
2

negging is to be used in <1% of the girls you will ever talk to. its not a on the regular tactic. The difference between negging and teasing is tone and context- you can be sardonic, sarcastic, whatever IF APPROPRIATE, and avoid taking your conversant down a notch or two when using it. Be playful. its like carrying your health insurance card- good to have, but dont use it unless you HAVE to.
/r/seduction19/11/12 03:54 AM
2

This exactly.
/r/seduction25/08/12 05:36 PM
1

It's not legitimate rape if they like it, apparently.
/r/seduction24/08/12 08:16 PM
2

The words don't matter, it's all in how you handle it. there are a few ways to handle it, depending on your personality and confidence. A) you just shrug it off like oh that's cool and continue on whatever you were talking about, assuming you didn't ask if she had a bf like an insecure chump. B) you can play it off. Ask if he treats her nice, if she says yes tell her conspiratorially you wouldn't and then obvious topic jump. If she says no ask her frankly why she's still with a toolbag like him …
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:05 PM
1

basically, ignore it in your conversation, and you have to decide to yourself if you want to actively pursue further or let it be.
/r/seduction30/07/12 09:09 PM
4

If the relationship was on the rocks, and I was the catalyst for an eventual breakup then I see no problem- hot girl, my win. She was looking for way out whether or not I talked to her. In my case, with her getting dumped almost a month later, there is 0 chance my one night of talking to her caused that. My response to OP was to pursue, sure. But don't force it, when things change she may remember you.
/r/seduction29/07/12 01:49 PM
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I recently had this situation. She had a bf, I still ran A game. Got her number, texted a bit, and let it be. A few weeks later (yesterday) I get a real flirty text, come to find out she's now single. Game on. Edit: formatting
/r/seduction29/07/12 01:05 AM
1

Masterful. And well written.
/r/seduction25/07/12 09:55 PM
1

gotta offset the bad teeth somehow... i kid, i kid...
/r/seduction24/07/12 11:57 PM
2

everyone goes through being an asshole. its a matter of fine tuning your calibration. just learn fast
/r/seduction24/07/12 11:55 PM
8

I would recommend reading How to Win Friends and Influence People, its a great intro to people skills book. For the confidence, i would just bite the bullet and go out and make a Huge, Monumental leap and say hi to a stranger ahead of you in line somewhere. doesnt matter where, or who. just say hi. it doesnt even matter if you ignore everything he says back. next time, say hi and smile. each time get just a little more confident. then carry on a conversation. once you get comfortable, start over…
/r/seduction24/07/12 11:47 PM
3

It's only a problem if you think it is. By thinking this is the case, you have made "I am intimidating" into your frame. And you are pulling people into your frame. You're awesome, but I would recommend some humility or adding some serious humor into your personality and just get mentally chill. I would recommend that you read How to win friends and influence people.
/r/seduction22/07/12 02:30 PM
2

You perfectly expressed that feel man
/r/seduction20/07/12 05:54 PM
3

My takeaway from this- be like your buddy, bio shoutout when introducing people to DHV my buddy Well played
/r/seduction05/07/12 01:34 AM
2

Repost eh? Interesting strategy /s
/r/seduction02/07/12 06:15 PM
5

Easy way around Megan's law.
/r/seduction02/07/12 02:04 PM
10

If you clean it they will come
/r/seduction30/06/12 05:58 PM
1

You need a spoiler for the knockout. I jizzed my pants
/r/seduction28/06/12 05:08 PM
1

Friends, absolutely. Living with 10 girls [potentially] hotter than the girl you're with, you couldn't fail harder if you opened with a picture of herpes on your junk and your positive AIDS report. Also excludes all possibilities of sexy times with all of them.
/r/seduction26/06/12 05:22 PM
1

There is a distinction between having confidence and having that confidence magnetically attract women without a word. Take the time, learn up, it will help you become a better you. And you will meet interesting, attractive women on the way.
/r/seduction22/06/12 07:38 PM
1

Choose target female. Message "hey it's been a while, we need to catch up sometime soon" Upon reply, suggest activity. I have used Ice cream or bowling to great success ???? [Be alpha] Profit.
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:04 PM
1

I would say if you already have a tent the sexual tension will be post-hoc.
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:01 PM
2

HB10...... Baconator. Tough call.
/r/seduction20/06/12 04:56 PM
1

The naked man! My current challenge quest.
/r/seduction19/06/12 03:08 PM
1

I'm a god cook amongst the other things we'll be doing... Read as god cock. Major déjà vu.... And then I realized I hadn't posted yet. Guilty conscience? I think so.
/r/seduction19/06/12 02:50 PM
12

THAT guy...
/r/seduction19/06/12 02:34 PM
1

Copy that.
/r/seduction15/06/12 08:46 PM
2

Sidebar for technique. Read Go For No, go out, man up, run some kino (dancing is a great way to start) and see how far you get before you get slapped. Then try it again.
/r/seduction11/06/12 02:47 PM
10

I love this. Who said it
/r/seduction10/06/12 10:05 PM
3

Phrasing is everything. You can say anything to anyone, so long as you say it in the proper way.
/r/seduction09/06/12 03:59 PM
3

Content analysis, was not confident enough to. Balls up man, go for her.
/r/seduction09/06/12 03:55 PM
5

Harsh maybe, and while it IS possible with hotter HBs, it's much harder/less likely, the f-close is a more typical reaction. Brevity ain't colorful
/r/seduction09/06/12 02:49 PM
1

The words aren't as important as the attitude. You're not asking to hang out or for her attention. You're inviting her to partake in your cool activity. You're a high value guy doing interesting things- want to join me? As far as timing, i think there's a sidebar on texting game. You obviously want it to be sooner rather than a long time- recency is important. I would invite her to some upcoming event you're already planning to go to (protip: go do interesting things to become a well rounded per…
/r/seduction08/06/12 08:09 PM
3

Start dancing. Anything that comes to mind. Lawnmower it up directly in front of her, jamming out to your nonexistent tune, once she takes notice, stop, extend a hand, ask her if she wants to join, and smile. Done.
/r/seduction08/06/12 04:30 PM
7

I initially thought this is by far the weirdest karma train I've ever seen....
/r/seduction08/06/12 04:24 PM
3

When you're leaving, just turn to her and ask for it like it is expected. "hey, let me get your number." not a question. Wait 10 minutes, text her and tell her you had a great time, it was nice meeting her, blah blah. She replies, acknowledge content of text and say you look forward to seeing her again. Lead the dance, be alpha
/r/seduction08/06/12 04:11 PM
1

Hey man, fake it 'til you make it. that's how we all got where we are today You got this.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:49 PM
1

This was me, not too long ago. On the way, man...
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:46 PM
1

Love the name
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:43 PM
2

I was told I reminded her of Barney Stinson last night, new default.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:26 PM
0

This is extremely well put.
/r/seduction08/06/12 02:56 PM
1

Troof.
/r/seduction08/06/12 02:52 PM
2

The Magic of Thinking Big, David Schwartz
/r/seduction07/06/12 05:14 PM
2

So much of my power is derived from these lips
/r/seduction07/06/12 04:30 PM
2

ComboBreaker: you shit your pants in anger, thus being ejected from the establishment and summarily losing state, as well as game.
/r/seduction31/05/12 03:13 PM
2

Relevant
/r/seduction25/05/12 01:19 AM
1

i fucking love this.
/r/seduction25/05/12 01:07 AM
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