For developing inner game, is it best to avoid to much introspection, or to embrace it?

pickup_sticks · 2012-11-17T18:57:52+00:00

Identify what is wrong and write down the weaknesses you can improve on. There is nothing wrong with introspection as long as it's not always negative or constant because it will just leave you worrying. Look back on a night out but don't dwell on it. Most of your introspection should be positive and affirming yourself that you are capable of extraordinary things. Positive thoughts lead to positive actions.

2012-11-17T21:31:05+00:00

A healthy bit of both.

On one side, if you're feeling down, you should simply embrace it. "I'm not super-confident right now, that's cool though" is one example. It's good to simply be accepting of who you are, and where you're at.

On the flip side, you should also learn to control your emotions in a healthy manner. Maybe by saying "I'm not super-confident right now" will actually make you confident just by being chill.

No need to limit yourself to one method. Try both, you'll be a more well-rounded and resourceful individual. Hell, one could probably make the argument that both methods are actually the same thing.

Title	For developing inner game, is it best to avoid to much introspection, or to embrace it?
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Date	November 17, 2012 6:48 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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