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The other way they try to shame is the lack of self control. Which, sure, you can have that, but if I’m able to have that much free nilly sex then I’ve probably earned it. Women do not have to try hard, at all, to get 20 sexual partners in a week, hypothetically. 20 partners in even 2 weeks for a man? He’s gotta be a charismatic, charming god of some kind . And no man starts out that way, they have to make themselves into the kinda guy that’s able to land that many partners that often. Whether h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:15 PM
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It’s ok baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:28 AM
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My original comment is at least 3-4 months old. Get the fuck on somewhere else , you argumentative bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:06 PM
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You’re months late. Find something better to do than pick months old arguments , because the women you’re fucking must not be enough for you to keep your attention off me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:16 PM
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Results and neither gender wants to be the bad guy. Granted , it’s easier to pin the blame on men than women , because women who do greasy shit play victim the most and dodge accountability for human flaws and mistakes .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:58 PM
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Seriously ? You think I care about your opinion 72 days after the post was made ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:39 AM
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That’s pretty fair . My family criticizes me for being a lover boy at 21 Lol , they think I should be out doing whatever but I’ve always liked the idea of having a 1 on 1 relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:02 PM
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Watched a video about escorts and how they operate so that’s mainly where I got it from, I would usually consider it a violation of a contract as well, I guess maybe the escort operated in a city or state where it’s legal, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:11 PM
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Another beautiful day to cause gender division and riots.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:59 PM
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(21M) While it’s not something I morally support ( had to add that disclaimer because the replies to this will seem as if nobody read that disclaimer), acting gets panties to drop. Most men are competitive and results- oriented, and sex is much more tangible and valuable to men who base their confidence on actually making shit happen like they want to. I’ve personally received the most sex when I got a good job , started working out , and making relationships with all those women on MY terms bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:19 PM
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No but You know , even if I said I was , you wouldn’t believe me . And I highly doubt that you are any more of a lawyer than me , otherwise I wouldn’t have needed to clarify and get specific. If you don’t have rebuttal to the original point then say that .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:52 AM
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Yes , the word “No” has meaning all on its own , we know what it means. But as far as court is concerned , a yes (no alcohol , drugs ) is clean permission . Can you file for sexual harassment if he asked more than maybe , twice ? Sure . Or getting touchy? Definitely report. But not r@pe like he had pinned trying to do whatever . As far as enthusiasm is concerned, I’m sure there are a lotta girls who have to do it for money for a literal living that don’t like it . Personally I wouldn’t try to in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:33 AM
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Understandable definitely, but a begrudging / irritated “yes” after being asked 10 times is NOT the same as forcing an isolated woman into full eagle. That kinda wiggle room you’re trying to create is allowing cruel women to accuse men of rape after consensual sex because she’s either “already dating someone and regrets it, didn’t like it , doesn’t want her dad/family to find out because she’d be called a hoe/whore, or something else that’ll feel like she ruins her opinion of herself if she lets…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:28 AM
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Because men are based in results . Every human acts out of self interest but if a man deems doing things “the honest way “ isn’t working out , then some guys will feel inclined to be a player to maintain an image of detachment , leaving a bit to be desired. Do just enough to keep her attention. Am I just supposed to just be content with wasting time on situationships that don’t amount to shit other than dates and lost money , time , as long as I’m “being honest and genuine “? You don’t think if …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:17 AM
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This . Just because of social dynamics, women can comprehend that viewpoint , but can’t empathize truly understand it . Because agreeing with it would be tantamount to saying “I accept it and respect it”. And most women claim they wanna be respected, don’t wanna be 1NS’s , side chicks, all that , so that’ll never mix. So by extension, they’ll never give it acknowledgement as a mindset worth having. Please don’t get me wrong , it brings us zero pleasure to actually emotionally hurt women . Me per…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:36 PM
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Bullying ? No. Everyone is entitled to their feelings and even their own judgements about others . It’s the power you give to that persons opinion of your body count that matters. If he’s proceeds to spit on you, call you a whore and tell you get out of his sight, then yeah that’s bullying ofc. But my opinion on your high body count doesn’t amount to bullying . At all. Bullying is intentionally picking at or making fun of that aspect of another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:04 AM
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Please reread the last paragraph, every word in its entirety. Clip it and tag a link to a video where he said that. And please include context, aka, what was the conversation about, what brought about that conversation. All of that. Context is everything For clarification, I personally believe he has control issues , but as a casual viewer , I haven’t seen him say anything downright misogynistic. That word and it’s usage has gone up since the arrival of male dating gurus and their increased prev…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:37 PM
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Casual fan of Tate here. Don’t know the ins and outs of his cases, whatever , I’m not really paying attention to it. Again, casual viewer. The reason he has my support somewhat is because he explains and exposes how women kinda have the advantage in literally most walks of life, they can and HAVE taken advantage of it , and it’s unspoken because they are the majority, or at least the ones with the most social power. Think about it, you know it’s true. Gay rumors don’t affect women. In fact, most…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:41 PM
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Of course it’s expected of men too, but women continuously move the goal post between things “a man should do” and what should be agreed on as traits both the guy and girl should have. On average , most women want men to take the lead, take charge, initiative , whatever the fuck. But don’t wanna do “wife shit” until a ring is on their finger. Even though we should already be paying most, if not ALL the bills? For example. Cooking and cleaning are basic human self care necessities. Gender doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:19 AM
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Able to be compassionate. This includes: Agreeability Open to seeing different perspectives on a situation Fairness Patience Able to compromise , even when you don’t want to. Genuine concern for our lives and the components that make up my well-being , such as my diet . THAT DOESNT MEAN COOKING. That means concern for my overall health. You see how I didn’t mention anything sexual ? Or sexually stereotypical like saying get in the kitchen and make a sandwich ? Where women fuck up at is taking ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:30 PM
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It’s not . It’s like you didn’t even read what he typed in description. Clearly men have preferred ways of bettering themselves , not exclusive to them just most often done . They’re just asking what do women prefer to do as a form of building themselves . You made a problem outta nothing .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:38 PM
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I find it odd that women call it a lack of self control on a man’s part if he’s able to get a lot of sex and actively acts on it, as if women don’t have an inherent advantage of choice in the amount of sexual partners they can have , yet y’all complain about wanting to be free of societal judgement while being promiscuous? Isn’t this a logical fallacy in of itself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:40 PM
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That’s a fair assessment. I hold women to a higher standard of character tho. They’re the kings of the dating market. What happened to all kings who abused their power over others? They get overthrown and/or beheaded by their subjects. “The measure of a man isn’t how much power he has, but what he does with that power”. I apply the same concept for women, so I’m personally a lot more critical of women who are shitty lovers in one way or another. I judge women based on how they deal with men. For…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:25 PM
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A compromise of both sides? They should start approaching guys more who they’d comfortably settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:19 PM
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As I said, not something I said should be done. But that’s why those who lie about it, lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:59 AM
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That’s probably pretty true, but the fact is not a lotta guys benefit from being that honest. Sure, there’s a claim that they need to look worth fucking first night via working out, stable and good income, the works. But even the brokest of women with the most average looks can go into the club, get free drinks, and/or walk out with a group of guys ready to fuck less than 3 minutes being in the club. Inversely , studies coming out state apparently women are attracted to far less men than vice ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:57 AM
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I don’t think this is something men and women will ever agree on, for the simple fact women overestimate how many other women are “DTF first night” or are cool with FWB relationships. From what I’ve seen , y’all only do that with guys you already are semi-cool/close with. So we build a rapport by lying about intentions to get results. Is it deceptive? Yes. But both men and women do deceptive shit, this is just one on the list for guys. Humans lie to get what they want. For women, I consider bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:48 AM
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But women who are DTF first night or cool wit FWB keep hidden in the shadows like the damn boogeyman. Yeah I get it’s because society will scold them for essentially being “super horny” by guys’ standards, but the reality that can’t be hurdled is that women usually aren’t THAT bold, and I’ve been approached by plenty of women. Such as my best friend. They’d rather a guy take the lead to that conversation, or use the basic invite “wanna come over and watch movies?” In some variation based on mutu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:28 AM
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Call me crazy but as well thought out and appreciative I am of your comments, I don’t think y’all start with that train of thought in real life. Do you? Genuine question, because first impressions are usually “okay well what’s keeping him from getting sex?”. I’d be very surprised if y’all start with that train of thought in real life, because that’s usually never how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:27 AM
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Only thing that bugs me is when women collectively act like they don’t have shallow feelings or perspectives, knowing damn well they’ve curved a good guy just because his delivery was off, not tall enough, too laid back, all that. You’re entitled to how you feel, however superficial, but they make it seem like it’s mostly us and NEVER them. I hate hypocrisy. Yet they’ll justify each other’s emotional nonsense and never point the finger at each other
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:22 AM
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Let a woman speak about other women at a dating seminar talking about her intuition, her strategies, mentalities and thoughts, they’ll listen , agree wholeheartedly all that. Let it be a man backed with actual social studies and unbiased statistics and we’re “mansplaining” and aren’t qualified to speak on women. They’d even argue we’re only complaining cuz we can’t get sex even if it’s scientifically valid. I do think this disparity is engraved into womens dna, or at least HAS to be, just becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:02 PM
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THANK YOUU!! Was literally telling my friends this. I prioritize a nice face , pretty teeth and good hair over ass and chest any day of the week. I remember distinctly a girl from my sophomore year just transferring to my class, she was Puerto Rican, 5”7 and super skinny. No chest or ass whatsoever, less so than the usual skinny girl you’d see every day. But she was drop dead gorgeous, none of that even mattered. I was truly bewildered!! I kinda blurted it out in class that she was gorgeous Lol.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:13 PM
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Good questions. Again it’s going along with the gender roles established with the past millennium, the men are the breadwinners and women are the stay at home moms that cook and clean, yada yada. I, as a 21M, firmly believe that around 70% of women would stop everything they’re doing (career wise) if they had a man that’d completely cover her financially if he could. Maybe Not even quitting their jobs, just completely rely on a man for everything financially. While she does whatever the fuck she…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:51 AM
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Generally the mid-late 20s are everyone’s physical and mental prime. It’s going by the general notion that men gain value in age as opposed to women because we need to have a career and lifestyle capable of supporting a family, meanwhile women “decrease” in dating value because by then , they might have kids, been sexually active with a lot of men , or been too absorbed in the attention they get/got years before to keep themselves in shape or looking good. Or all 3 at once. All 3 of which make i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:36 PM
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Doesn’t necessarily have to be same thing, and I agree with most of what OP said. Not exactly, but single moms aren’t good at preparing sons for dealing with women as they are . They raise their sons to be the nice guys these women claim they hate so much. They raise their sons to “respect women” instead of respecting everyone INCLUDING women. That’s the internal pedastalization they program into sons brains to think women will reward you if you are kind, overly sweet, or if rejected, react wild…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:51 AM
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Definitely true . But as our reality stands, on average more guys will be upfront or honest about what they want than women. It may not be a lot of honest guys out there, but that reinforces the point that even less women are honest/upfront about what they want. This isn’t exclusive to women, but women tend to change the bar of standards for every guy. A 9 who’s clever, aggressive, but intelligent won’t have to put nearly as much effort into a chick as say, a 6 who’s chill with a nice caring per…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:21 AM
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Women usually aren’t that upfront about what they want anyways, why are they the only ones allowed to be shy/indirect? Not so guys can be indirect, but so women can BE more direct. Women will be truly DTF one night at the club and never approach a guy. They’ll wait until a fuckable looking guy talks to her and hopefully asks to come back to his/her place. Some women do approach guys, but not often, much less say they wanna fuck right off gate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:03 PM
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My issue with women is that a lot of them, especially in groups, really act like women can’t do any wrong, LIke they don’t contribute to ANY problems that occurs in relationships today. I understand women are all about image and their perception, but men would judge less harshly if more were straightforward about how women CAN be. Every woman wants to think they’re a “good girl”, that they know how to keep a man, they’re the catch, meanwhile putting down men as if making men seem expendable is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:05 PM
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His hidden point is that often, women don’t wanna do things they don’t want to do to keep their man, despite dealing with the shit that comes with dating women regardless (other guys looking at you, shutting down in a heated argument , not having sex on your period) , meanwhile the ones with ego to save don’t want to do shit to keep their man because they feel it’s too submissive or they’re lazy and uninterested . Such as, maybe suck/ride his morning wood before work, tell him he’s handsome/fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:32 PM
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I don’t expect gourmet meals . I just want a plan for dinner. Ramen noodles with boiled eggs and some shrimp in it, cool. Chick fil a , cool. Mexican food place around the corner, cool. You wanna make Alfredo (my personal favorite dish), okay. I’m not picky. My entire point with the post is that essentially, the difference between a woman who’s tryna finesse me and a “traditional” woman is essentially where their heart is at, and money towards rent/groceries is a lot more reassurance that you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:14 PM
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The point in mentioning the 3 different women for 3 different reasons is to point out that aside from cooking , cleaning (which are basic adult skills , I took cooking classes in high school), sex, how does a traditional woman “earn her stay” when I can do those things myself or can get others to do it for me ? Essentially what is keeping you here outside of me hypothetically saying get out of my apartment ? Not that I’d ever do that without sufficient reason like cheating, but that’s what I mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:21 AM
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I know the urge your talking about. I should’ve mentioned in post I’m 21 with zero kids. I’d love to provide and spoil my lady with a few extra hundreds a month to get her nails done, a pair of shoes, car detailing, whatever. But I can’t have that extra money if I’m already paying for literally everything else . This isn’t a situation of a guy being too broke, it’s not earning your stay. Plus I can’t ever see someone as an equal if everything revolves around my checking account. At that point I …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:08 AM
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Your likely taking a few things I said out of context. I don’t feel entitled to anything. But it’s the fact I know that I’m not, that I don’t want a stay at home girlfriend. The only people in life who get all their necessities for free are children. Free house, free food, transportation, literally zero responsibilities but doing well in school. And yet I see “traditional” women trying to get the same benefits. I’m not your dad, nor do I want to pay all the bills to be finally called “daddy” in …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:51 AM
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For a couple , dating with no kids, could you explain how being a home maker is more difficult than having a job ? I don’t see how it could be more work? Maybe it’s because I don’t require or ask for much. All I ask is for a back massage and a decently healthy meal? I don’t even need a lot of sex. It’d be nice but I don’t even need it like that. Loving me isn’t hard truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:28 AM
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Am I wrong for thinking that’s all an excuse to be absolutely lazy ? Cooking and cleaning is part of basic self care, as long as you clean up after yourself , there’s not much to clean on days off. I can’t wrap my head around the arrogance of being financially taken care of all round and feeling like they’re irreplaceable , that’s self entitled arrogance and princess complexes that pisses me off. And unfortunately, in social media, they are the most outspoken and demanding. yet I can’t get a nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:16 AM
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This. I’m personally a big guy, I have to order my shirts a special way and fabric to not leave my chest poking out and focus on my arm muscles. If I’m at a bar and tried to get her number and she said I’m a bit too big, I’d laugh it off and just say I’m working on it 😂and keep the conversation going with zero intentions after but just good conversation. I’d be more surprised at how honest she’d be. I’d appreciate the honesty tho. We’re told not to ask a woman’s weight/age cuz it’s disrespectful…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:25 PM
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If the sex was good I’d text back, but I’m not tripping if she just wants a one and done night. Cool with me. But don’t be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:07 PM
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I understand your viewpoint but that doesn’t really solve much. Of course we live , change, and learn , but the examples you used just show women change their standards based on the guy vs having a set standard everyone has to meet across the board. Plenty of men do it too, an example is fat women. A lotta guys are in closet fat girl lovers. But we hold y’all to a higher standard of character because y’all have the most options, y’all brag so much about fucking who you want and not just who you …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:46 AM
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As a man I do want to mention the growing “link, fuck, and never call back” culture/topic women are trying to flaunt , as if there’s nearly as many men seriously crying about no text backs after a 1 night stand as women. Nobody does anymore honestly, but come on now. You can’t be us. This isn’t anything to glorify at all, but men are a conquering species. So it goes hand in hand a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:51 AM
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This isn’t to strangers, but men who maybe have frequent contact with you, guys you’ve friend Zoned, coworkers, classmates, that type of familiarity . With that type of familiarity and frequent contact, you have a fair amount to judge their character on after interactions. Essentially, you know what you do/don’t wanna do with the guy for now and later. So if he tries to take things to a potentially dating/sex level, if it’s a no, a legit and honest reason why would help . Because at that point y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:45 AM
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You don’t have to deal with it. You can literally turn and walk away/turn your phone off after telling them. What your doing is making an excuse to be more dishonest or less upfront about what attracts you, especially when you don’t particularly lose anything in telling them. You don’t owe anyone shit, but you can’t sit in the contradiction of not feeling obligated to tell them what interests you and them not knowing why interest isn’t reciprocated on your end. That’s unkind and slightly egoisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:07 AM
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We see their hoe phase as they see bisexualism in men, it’s not something you can really flip on and off, it’s just a matter of if your feeling like that now or later. I will judge harshly if you got spitroasted at a college party, as they’d judge and wouldn’t trust you around the guys you hang with if a guy was bisexual or had bicurious urges/experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:56 AM
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Yeah fuck stay at home wives. Literal catastrophe waiting to happen. Arrogance is only a pet peeve in dating, everyone else I ignore. Not even the arrogance of leaving a message on read to show they didn’t give a fuck about what you said, but the instilled arrogance that they’ll subtly try my self respect. Whether they do it un/consciously, the fact they feel like they can do it to me pisses me off. They either hate you or want you more when just having a vagina doesn’t cut it. Barely any in bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:19 PM
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Which is true in a way. Of course it is, never denied it. Don’t mistake my questioning of womens judgement for their societal placement, they mostly control the dating game. I’ll see them sharing/reposting some subliminal tweets/Instagram posts about they want/currently fuck, They are honest, that's cool. Yes Honest but indirect. What you don’t get is that I hold women to the standard they set for men. Isn’t that true equality in a broad scope? As much as men would get called scary/bitch for bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:22 PM
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Maybe I’ve been on social media too much, but literally every time I turn it on, it’s always women complaining about men not doing this, that, I’ll see them sharing/reposting some subliminal tweets/Instagram posts about they want/currently fuck, but in the same breath claim “we fuck who we want, you men fuck what you can” and all this shit to make men seem either beneath them or super easy and not worth tripping over. Also, most of them think they’re good women/ wife type material. I don’t even …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:26 PM
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He had one standpoint of calling feminists ugly and telling them to get hot for their opinions to matter. As a guy, I can admit that’s more than offensive. But the heart of his point is that your taken a lot less seriously when your complaining about circumstances your directly affected by. Women are really the worst with it, because in a lot of cases, you can make an objectively sound point calling out how dating is nowadays, and they’ll think it bothers you personally because it affects you. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:39 PM
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When some of y’all are genuinely kind and caring, instead of having a generally standoffish, bitchy, and ego attitude because you can get every guy you want, I can understand the frustration with every guy liking you because of that. It’s just that it stands out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:47 PM
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Assuming y’all see each other on a consistent basis, maybe 1-2 times a week, and text often, I’d say anything past 3-4 months she isn’t too attracted to you man. Women know within maybe 2-3 weeks of meeting a new guy if she can see herself fucking you, for whatever reasons. 1-2 months in, she’ll know if she WANTS to fuck you or not. There’s a difference in the two. If you know what it’s like to have a woman crave you physically and mentally, you’ll be able to pick up when they are/aren’t feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:50 AM
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OP, I just wanted to say I appreciate you confirming my theories and putting this post in much better words/terms than I would, as a man, because I couldn’t have found a way to make this post without sounding salty. I’ve only recently ( I’m 20) started to accept that women are just as fallible as men. It really bugs me to see women on social media act like they never cause problems or that men are basically the devil. This isn’t to bring women down at all, but other women have told me that women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:13 AM
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