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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:14 PM
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In every community, there are the lunatics. I prefer to address the broad topic including TRP rather than critiquing anything in TRP specifically because I know someone will try to either say the issue isn’t real or try to provide ‘context’.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:03 AM
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To a certain extent I agree but not completely. I think censorship on social media is a bit overboard especially when we are censoring opinions that are expressed in a non-hostile manner. But I don’t blame social media for being ban happy with sexist content, people who worship awful criminals like school shooters, pro eating disorder content, etc. I think we are at a weird place culturally because a lot of us remember the old days of the wolf west on the internet and now we are suddenly thrown …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:52 AM
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Hm try reading my comment one more time
/r/MensRights10/05/22 02:18 PM
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I’m not lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:23 AM
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3? Are you 100 percent certain they weren’t tampered with? What brand were they?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/22 04:34 AM
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Sure, just like most men would take a Stacy as they could. Requirements vs preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:33 AM
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That cool but you should acknowledge that your statement that most women want muscle men is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:00 AM
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So you acknowledge that most women don’t expect a super muscle man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:54 AM
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I’d imagine even most sexually liberal men would think it’s too much. For me, anything more than 1 is too much, but not everyone is like me I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:51 AM
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Regardless, it doesn’t change the fact that most women don’t expect men to be super muscular. As I said, most women are satisfied with a man who is natural and simply goes to the gym three times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:50 AM
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I think the main problem with a lot of men both red pill and bluepilled is that they put a LOT of effort just for the possibility to get sex. You should improve yourself for the sake of yourself first and foremost. There isn’t anything wrong with wanting to improve yourself to have better dating options as long as it isn’t the sole reason you are improving yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:49 AM
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I don’t see many of those women unless I visit Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:45 AM
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I agree, it is odd to want praise for a private decision like this wether it is to be celibate or live a sinful life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:43 AM
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I don’t think most women expect this physique at all. Most women are satisfied with a man who is natural and does cardio three times a week. It doesn’t take much to be healthy and lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:34 AM
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The gym should also be part of every real woman’s routine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:30 AM
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Well, most people in my life did believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:29 AM
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Maybe it’s because I’m a woman but I’ve mostly gotten positive comments about my decision to wait until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:18 AM
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There are plenty of people who are ready for a baby but simply don’t want one. I do think it tends to be unfair to tell men to keep it in their pants, assuming they were responsible and used a condom. Of course, if you have sex unprotected you are basically asking for a child to be created, use a condom, use birth control, use all of your options. Edit: I’d like to also add that I do support men having a choice, since women also have reproductive choices.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 02:15 AM
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Ultra thin condoms are the only ones I’ve ever liked. Every other condom I’ve either felt discomfort or it reduced sensitivity. The ribbed ones always hurt for me and the flavored ones are nasty and gave me allergies.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/22 02:12 AM
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As much as I believe in sexual purity as a Christian, the reality is that a lot of traits can be either a bonus or irrelevant to men if a woman is hot enough. Look at Kim Kardashian for example, she’s dated plenty of high value men including some somewhat trad guys.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 11:16 PM
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I think it would have been better if be phrased it as his observations of women who have slept around rather than telling women how they feel. So I can agree with you on that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 11:14 PM
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I think sex education and sex positivity has done some good of course but I wish they would talk more about the fact that promiscuity isn’t for everyone and I’ve seen women dragging some serious baggage due to it. Abstinence only education isn’t good but abstinence should be part of sex education, it shouldn’t be told that it’s impossible.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 10:50 PM
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I have an implant. I used to take pills but they had a lot of side effects for me, I was even overweight at one point and my body and face was puffy. I prefer the implant but I’m not sure if it affects your dryness at all. Maybe drink lots of water and use moisturizer, I personally like Yves Rocher honey milk lotion.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 09:32 PM
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God forgives so don’t be too hard on yourself for you past sins. You are cleansed once you repent.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 09:30 PM
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Everyone has different requirements and preferences in their relationship, you should communicate yours. For my relationship, my husband and I are ok with having opposite sex friendships but with boundaries. We don’t have one on one time with the opposite sex unless it’s family, or a lunch work break (technically not really one on one), sometimes I hang out with the older folk at my local cafe in the mornings. I have male friends but they are married men and we always hang out in groups, like a …
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 09:27 PM
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I’m a Christian, so I took a traditional path of waiting until marriage, I even took it a step farther than most Christian women by not doing anything remotely sexual in the slightest. But I do firmly believe that everyone is different. My path isn’t for everyone and that’s ok. I wouldn’t exactly recommend casual sex and I do think some women suffer due to not knowing what they want but I do think some women also genuinely enjoy casual sex.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 08:30 PM
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For me, it took two months but it’s mostly due to anxiety. Once I was able to feel less anxious it became much easier. Its really weird to go from zero sexual interactions with your partner, we didn’t even really talk about sex at all, to all of a sudden doing everything. Even though my parents talked to me about sex somewhat, and my church did as well before I got married, I would have liked to have been a lot more educated on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:35 PM
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When I’m out and about in my town, I see at least two attractive women. To be honest, I don’t pay too much attention to how women look or men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:31 PM
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Men who are sexually unsuccessful with women probably don’t spend a lot of time with women so they will care less about womens rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:29 PM
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The easiest thing to do is not be in a relationship with a guy that you feel is entitled. I don’t pay much attention to the opinion of men that aren’t in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:48 AM
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Hm, I personally wouldn’t do all that for someone that isn’t my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:51 PM
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I’ve never had that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:42 PM
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Drink water, eat healthy, and exercise. These three simple things will dramatically improve your life in all aspects even dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:34 PM
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I wouldn’t call them coaches but I do follow some women that inspire me to be my best self. I follow Mrs Midwest, zoeunlimited, Hazi, and quite a few feminine channels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:33 PM
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My husband significantly out earns me and pays all the bills in addition to extra things here and there. I work as well but I work from home. I do all the domestic tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:32 PM
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Anyone that looks at politics too often is a deal breaker, regardless of wether it’s red pill, blue pill, Fox News, or CCP propaganda. People who look at a lot of political stuff tend to be the same kind of people who rage at Biden publicly in a restaurant, not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:31 PM
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I don’t hate MGTOW. I don’t really see the point in having a movement if you want to be single though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:17 PM
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I don’t care if I sound like a feminist. Stop promoting rape.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 07:15 PM
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I’m neither a feminist or anti feminist, I’m anti male rape.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 05:56 AM
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No one is my enemy except rapist apologists like yourself
/r/MensRights08/05/22 05:19 AM
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The law doesn’t agree with you and if being against male rape makes me a feminist than so be it, I don’t fear that word. Be a real human being and start being against male rape.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 04:53 AM
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When did I say anyone was intimidated?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:48 AM
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Consensual?! No it’s not, what you are saying is misandrist hardcore. There is a power dynamic and male inmates can’t consent to sex, it is rape.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 03:44 AM
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If she wants to avoid child support, she should move to a different country and make sure no one knows which country it is. Some countries will pursue you for child support if you owe it.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 02:24 AM
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A lot of women rape men
/r/MensRights08/05/22 02:23 AM
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Do you know the statistics on black men that get raped? In the US, black men disproportionality represent male rape victims.
/r/MensRights07/05/22 11:18 PM
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It’s up to women to have abs enforce their own boundaries. It doesn’t make sense for a woman to complain about not being married if she isn’t requiring marriage for men to have access to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:21 PM
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I don’t think Kevin is being deceptive although I’m sure it can come off that way. It’s not like he is being dishonest on any of his opinions, he is just presenting it in a way that is more palatable to his audience. Kind of like how a steak is a still a steak but some people like it cooked differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:19 PM
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Yes women are allowed to abandon their kids, for one, the safe haven laws and two they can go through the legal process of terminating their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:11 PM
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I always felt like casual sex tends to be a bad thing so one positive of this is that casual sex with reduce dramatically. That being said, I do think a woman should have the right to an abortion and the government shouldn’t interfere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:47 PM
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A woman that is with a man that is below average is below average herself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:29 PM
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Maybe you were all below average then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:25 PM
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Well your exes are still below average
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:23 PM
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If they were fat, single moms, and poor, yes, they were below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:20 PM
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MEDICALLY
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:15 PM
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So, medically overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:10 PM
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Why did you say no then when I said that these comments do exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:02 PM
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So you think women never say these things? Because you said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:00 PM
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Millions of men are raped and it goes unnoticed. It’s horrifying. I was looking at the prison statistics in particular for sexual violence against males and was shocked, I think it’s about time to revoke access to female prison guards due to this issue.
/r/MensRights07/05/22 12:35 PM
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I think there are bits of truth to every philosophy but maybe I’m between blue and purple pill. I’m somewhat idealistic while still being somewhat grounded in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:33 PM
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If you say that women never say those things, why are you addressing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:23 PM
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I’ve always said that homosexuality is a good form of birthcontrol, and you don’t even need the extra hormones.
/r/AntiFeminists07/05/22 11:46 AM
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Like I said, do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:58 AM
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Do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:52 AM
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Women get to decide wether they will finance a child or not, men don’t have a say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:46 AM
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Women have lots of options, men should have some options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:37 AM
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I pay a lot of taxes already unfortunately, it is what it is honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:15 AM
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Yeah, seems like something we would do.
/r/MensRights07/05/22 09:06 AM
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Overweight is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:04 AM
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If you are medically overweight you are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:53 AM
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Women don’t have a physical or financial obligation to raise their children, safe haven laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:42 AM
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Then you should look around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:21 AM
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It’s fine if you disagree but it is unfair to men to not be able to terminate their financial responsibility like women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:20 AM
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But when a man raises a child it tends to be uncommon for the woman to pay child support. There is inequality there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:17 AM
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1 in 5 girls? In what country?
/r/AntiFeminists07/05/22 08:16 AM
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The bottom line is that a woman has a legal right to financially not be held responsible for a child once she gives up custody, a man should have the same right. Think of the safe haven laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:06 AM
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No, I don’t have an obligation to raise a kid financially. Women don’t have an obligation to finance a kid, safe haven laws. Men should have the equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:02 AM
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Do as you wish, I’m not mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:01 AM
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Honestly, yes, if women have a right to legally abandon a child and not be held legally responsible a man should have that same right as well. I don’t think it’s ideal, like I said, I prefer for people to take care of their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:01 AM
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We live in a global sexual market place, if you aren’t utilizing modern technology to date you are missing out no matter how much of a Chris Pratt chad you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:59 AM
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I never said that men are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:10 AM
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Below average woman is fat and/or single mom, bad attitude. Below average man is poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:10 AM
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Sure but the prompt is about men struggling with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:06 AM
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If someone is unwilling to improve their dating prospects, they shouldn’t complain about having no, not many, and not many high quality options. It’s ok to not want more in life but one should be satisfied if that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:18 AM
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Truthfully, I would rather both men and women take care of their children but it isn’t the current reality we live in. The current reality is that women have a right to abort a child or abandon them without being held responsible for them, not even financially. Men should have the right to opt out of financing a child just as a woman has a right to opt out of financing a child. Obviously, there should be a timeframe you are allowed to abandon the child and your responsibility. You can’t just rai…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:57 AM
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If a man is struggling in dating he should earn more money, work on his looks, and work on his social skills. Increase your stats and level up, do it for yourself but better and more dating options will come along with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:34 AM
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Stop saying it’s getting married for sex, I already said it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:56 AM
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It has very little to do with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:55 AM
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Hm, I personally wouldn’t say so. If we never had sex ever I’d be fine honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:50 AM
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No, I got married because he is a great guy, not for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:48 AM
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As long as it goes both ways and they both agree, I suppose it’s ok. I would share my location on Snapchat with family on my last vacation, it was for safety though.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/22 02:47 AM
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Submission and obedience is good but not to the detriment of yourself and your children. I’d get the antibiotics anyways and give it to the child, if my husband is getting in the way I’d have to escalate the situation. Personally, I would call my priest to knock some sense into him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/22 02:46 AM
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I got married at 19
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:44 AM
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Im shocked he’s dead and a bit sad. Truthfully, I didn’t know him personally nor was I a regular consumer of his content so his death was surprising to me but not distressing either. He had some good advice for sure, I don’t think I agreed 100 percent with everything he has said but maybe most of it. Of course, anyone who is celebrating his death are wrong to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:32 AM
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Off limit places are gas stations, medical centers, the bathroom, anywhere near the bathroom, at work. Places that are somewhat ok depending on context is the grocery store, the gym, but if I seem busy please don’t bug me. Nothing is more annoying than running on the treadmill and some dude is trying to have a whole conversation. I can’t talk a run, nor do I want too. Oh and definitely don’t flirt with me in a public shower/changing room.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:24 AM
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I kept my body count low by waiting until marriage. Filtering f boys was easy for me, I would make my boundaries and intentions clear from the beginning, some would decide to not pursue it further because it wasn’t for them, some decided to date for a bit but decided it wasn’t for them when I wouldn’t budge on my decision. I waited three years before having sex, waited until the wedding night when everything was official legally. Women who are interested in not getting pumped and dumped need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:13 AM
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Unless you live in Iraq or the Bible Belt of the US, I wouldn’t worry too much about the tattoos, if anything it’s a nice bonus for a lot of men. High value men have all sorts of preferences, not all high value men are tradcons. Be pleasant to be around, stay attractive, have standards moving forward and you’ll do fine.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/22 05:41 PM
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For me, it’s a bit of both, you can immediately tell if you are attracted to someone or not and in addition to that the longer you know then the more you are attracted. With my husband, I knew immediately that I liked him and over time I liked him more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:18 PM
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Only the ones I’m close to which is why I was surprised everyone gave me a gift for my birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:42 AM
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Border guard gets 6k and gets to arrest them, sounds like he got a double win.
/r/MensRights06/05/22 01:55 AM
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I waited until marriage because I’m Christian and God commands us to save sex for marriage but also because I’m just naturally very reserved when it comes to that. Sex is one of the most intimate things you can give a man, besides giving him a child. I only want that with my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/22 01:38 AM
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They get mad when men are compared to guard dogs or ATMs but then compare women to cars.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/22 01:30 AM
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I waited until marriage as well, I think there are a lot of benefits, maybe it’s not for everyone but for me I wouldn’t have had it any other way.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/22 01:28 AM
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Most pro life people I’ve met are women, even pro life men I’ve met in real life seem understanding which is somewhat ironic to me. How can a pro life man seem genuinely more sympathetic to womens plight than a pro life woman? Somehow they are. Never had death threats from a pro life guy, plenty from pro life women.
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/22 01:04 AM
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Women have the option to have a paper abortion (abandoning legal rights and not being held financially responsible) so equality would be allowing men to have that same right. I don’t like abortion or child abandonment but it is a reality of the world we live in.
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/22 01:03 AM
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I think they don’t want to be labeled as shallow by other guys because it would scare off their pool of men they get to choose from and then women will take advantage to say ‘see Im not like her’ to other men to try to increase her pool of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:41 AM
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To be fair, asking for sex can be considered harassment depending on the context. In the workplace, it is easily an HR situation, and I’ve even heard it students getting into serious trouble for asking for sex (like they weren’t asking in a harassing way in my example, they were just simply asking). I kind of feel like it is encouraging men to be deceptive which isn’t good for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:37 AM
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To be fair, asking for sex can be considered harassment depending on the context. In the workplace, it is easily an HR situation, and I’ve even heard it students getting into serious trouble for asking for sex (like they weren’t asking in a harassing way in my example, they were just simply asking). I kind of feel like it is encouraging men to be deceptive which isn’t good for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:37 AM
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I think chivalry still exists, I always have people open the door for men and women for example. I do think street harassment is more accepted than it used to be. My grandfather commented on the behavior of men in the streets of Seattle and said in his hometown those kind of men would be slapped around a bit to knock out that behavior. So it really depends on where you are. In my town, men are very nice and gentleman like but in big cities they seem like ravenous lions that survived no meat may.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:22 AM
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Easy. Sometimes I don’t even have to try. I’m not sure if I get free stuff for being a woman, being a pretty woman, or being a pretty woman with good social skills, maybe all of the above. Quite a few times I’ve gotten free stuff at restaurants, one time I flirted with a waitress and she gave me a free meal (Mac and cheese with fries), free drinks at Starbucks, I even had someone offer to pay for my groceries once, and overall I am given things a lot by family, friends, and even by strangers. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:20 AM
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I’ve read this three times and I’m still not entirely sure what you mean but I’ll answer anyways. I’ve never lied about what attracts me, I like financially and physically superior men that are Christian. If I wasn’t honest about what I wanted I would have never landed my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:15 PM
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Even if that’s true, which I know it is, there aren’t enough people adopting. It’s inevitable that orphanages are going to be overrun and we already are overburdened.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:59 PM
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I would only date a cis heterosexual man who is only attracted to cis heterosexual women. I don’t disapprove of other peoples sexual lives but I don’t want it in my personal life. I’m not entirely sure why I have this preference in the same way I don’t know why I’m allergic to nutmeg, it’s just who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:57 PM
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I’ve never had any woman in my life lie about her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:52 PM
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I enjoy ‘sexism’ when it benefits me but I wouldn’t call it sexism in all instances, it depends. If someone assumes that I am less intelligent due to my gender, even if it may benefit me sometimes (given less workload), I don’t enjoy it and work hard to prove myself. If someone helps me with something that is physically challenging, I do enjoy the help because it’s not sexist to assume women are weaker, it’s a biological reality that women on average are weaker, and if a woman happens to be preg…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:47 PM
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Even if I don’t agree with certain aspects of his lifestyle as long as he isn’t hurting himself or anyone else I wouldn’t try to change his mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:38 PM
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Women absolutely do have sex drives, very few women don’t have a sex drive. I do think on average women have slightly lower sex drives and we tend to not be as quick to jump into bed due to societal, emotional, and potential physical consequences to sex. I think most women have a different expression of sexuality than men, they are more inclined to enjoy solo sessions, reading romance novels, and watching sappy films with horrible plots with muscular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:35 PM
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Even if she is a good person, she is most likely a bad influence to be around and could drag down your reputation. I’m a person that likes giving people chances no matter what others may say about them but be cautious. It’s important to protect your reputation, it affects a lot of areas in your life.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/22 10:26 PM
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I suppose I was in nun mode before getting married. Waiting until marriage was important to me. I didn’t do anything sexual to any capacity before getting married to my husband. I do think it helped to have more respect from men in my life especially my husband, but if you are already in a relationship, and you’ve already had sex, why are you looking into entering nun mode?
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/22 05:54 PM
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Out of all the guys I went on first dates on that were my age, there was only one that was marriage minded. My husband was the only guy I met that was ready to marry me, probably because he was older.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/22 05:51 PM
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On first dates or before the first date I would lay out clearly what I was looking for in a relationship. I don’t think it comes off as desperate to be clear and blunt about what you want, men aren’t mind readers, and will push your boundaries if you don’t make them clear. On first dates, I’d just bluntly say that I’m dating with the intent to marry and you won’t be getting any sex until marriage. It’s ok if you do or don’t want to wait until marriage but I did.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/22 05:49 PM
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I’ve always been a naturally submissive person, it probably has a lot to do with how I naturally am in addition to my Russian Orthodox upbringing. I 100% think you can be a working woman and be submissive. In my relationship, I always do all of the domestic tasks, wear long dresses and skirts, keep my hair long, keep my appearance feminine, and in addition to that I have a b.s. in computer science and work from home. Plenty of women worked throughout history and they were still feminine, in fact…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/22 05:47 PM
1

I usually say ‘no Ill report you to HR, ‘no Ill call the police’ or my favorite ‘no I have a gun’.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:03 PM
1

I love making dumplings. You can put more effort and make them pretty or just make some lazy and quick ones, it’s healthy too. I get ground chicken, spinach, onion, garlic, green Filipino Sriracha, get a small spoon full and put it on a thin wonton wrapper that I buy at the Asian super market. It can be fried, pan fried, air dried, or boiled.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/22 08:12 PM
7

To show my husband I appreciate him I put in effort to go above and beyond. Fulfilling your duties is always appreciated but the minimum, to go above that you can do small things like lighting a candle on the table while you eat dinner, giving him a foot wash, giving him a massage, giving him a freshly heated blanket, clipping his nails for him, giving him a face mask, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/22 07:55 PM
3

I can always make more kids, but I only have one husband. I always put my husband first.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/22 07:50 PM
1

Oh ok, well in that case I do still agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:00 PM
2

Abortion is a decision between a doctor and a woman, not a decision for lawmakers. If abortion does get banned, I hope to see child support be easier to attain and for the amount to increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:34 PM
5

Men also miss the mark by not listening to a simple no, they can’t complain when they are threatened with a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:41 PM
3

So basically I need to threaten men with my gun for them to take me seriously when I say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:22 PM
1

I just think it’s ridiculous that it has to get a point where I carry a gun and need to make that clear after multiple no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:15 PM
1

You said that some issues have an issue of harassment and other don’t, I was agreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:17 PM
1

What is a DINK?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:15 PM
5

Some areas have a serious issue of harassment and I don’t know why. It’s as if I enter a whole different country sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:09 AM
6

I’m a woman and comfortable with the fact that I don’t understand men or even humanity at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:04 AM
19

Why some don’t understand the word no? A decent amount of men treat the word no as if it means ‘convince me’, ‘push the boundaries’, ‘I’m playing hard to get’. I’m not a guy but I have the impression that women tend to not impose themselves in men like this, at least I know I haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:03 AM
8

I met my husband through a female mutual friend, and other ladies approved of my husband. I’ve had male friends try to introduce me to a guy they know but I don’t trust their opinions as much for two reasons, one, they are trying to do the bro a favor and not me, and two, they don’t have my interests in mind but rather their male friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:58 AM
2

I’ve never participated in hook up culture but if abortion is banned I have the means to go abroad for an abortion. I don’t know if I’d choose abortion though even though I’m childfree, I’m doing well financially, so is my husband, and we have a pretty ideal situation for a child physically, mentally, and financially. I could be a stay at home mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:47 AM
1

I like being hit on in a respectful way. Basically, don’t try to be physically intimidating and don’t be crude, I have never liked it and most women don’t. I like something simple like ‘I like your clothes’ or ‘nice makeup’ or ‘would you like to grab a coffee in the morning’.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:35 PM
1

No not sarcasm.
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/22 04:57 PM
0

What does that have to do with the family?
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/22 07:02 AM
-2

I’m not a lesbian but if I were, I’d want my date to pay. I require a provider.
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/22 03:37 AM
2

Their request to have the media stop blaming their daughter is unreasonable but them to personally move on from the situation is fine. So I can agree with you.
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/22 08:07 PM
0

So then not wanting to deal with a situation that doesn’t involve them make them prideful?
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/22 08:06 PM
11

I don’t think the woman who made the accusation should move on, but her family definitely should. They aren’t responsible for anything their adult daughter does.
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/22 07:45 PM
1

I’m 22, got married at 19, I have a bs in computer science (went to college at 16), orthodox Christian, work from home, fur mom, I like anime and manga. I go to the subreddit because it interests me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:42 PM
3

It depends where I am. If I am just in my town going out and about, maybe once or twice a week but it’s usually very subtle. If I venture off to the big city to hang out with friends or to go to work, it’s basically guaranteed that some male attention will happen. But I’ve also been to big cities where women aren’t hassled so much, so I think it really depends on the area. Paris sexual harassment is at 100 percent, Rome sexual harassment is maybe like 50, Seattle is 70, the best place I’ve been …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:40 PM
7

Makes sense. Men have higher sex drive than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:36 PM
9

Why shouldn’t the family move on? Assuming they weren’t involved with spreading lies of course.
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/22 07:09 PM
1

Well for me for one. You are a master if your own life. You have the choice to date honestly and not pay attention to people who date dishonestly. It boils down to individual choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:05 PM
1

It exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:34 PM
2

The men in my family seem to be doing well with their dating lives. We don’t have many divorces in our family, I can only think of two, two aunts, one in each side of the family. Most of my male friends are husbands of my female friends, so of course they seem to be doing well. I’m not too sure about my coworkers, some are married, but I work in a mostly male environment so they aren’t so gossipy about their lives. Lol this one coworker didn’t even tell anyone he was having his first child until…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:41 PM
1

I have no back up men. If a man shows interest or expresses interest, I cut him off. I’m married so I can’t have men around me that are interested in me. The men that I have around me are male family members, the husbands of my friends, and coworkers, that’s it. And the boundaries increase depending on if they aren’t family (like coworkers).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:34 PM
1

I have no issue with men ‘evening the playing field’ but I do have an issue with men ‘gaming’ women. Modern dating filled with people with selfish intentions when dating has always been about trying to find a partner. At the very least, if you are just trying to get fed or just get sex, be honest. People who aren’t honest and ‘game’ other people only lead to people having less trust and we see an increasing amount of men and women feeling dissatisfied by modern dating. It helps no one. Feel free…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:30 PM
1

Yes, I gave the answer. There are more divorces due to women choosing it and being able to choose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:17 PM
1

Ive seen a variety of women that are bitter towards men just as I’ve seen a variety of women that have great relationships with men. You’d be surprised by the amount of women who are considered high value that have a bad relationship with the other gender. It’s so common place unfortunately. I think it’s possible that your perspective is correct instead of mine, but I can only say that in my experience women across all social status have this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:48 PM
2

FDS was too tolerant of misandry. There is a fine line between freedom of speech and hate speech, I believe FDS allowed for hate speech against men. I think it’s a net positive that they are gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:40 PM
7

I think it’s due to a variety of reasons but I think it boils down to modern society allowing for more personal freedoms. A woman can survive without a man, and some may even thrive without one, so naturally we see a lot of women choosing divorce while in the past women wouldn’t choose divorce because it was essentially a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:38 PM
1

Of course it’s still not ideal, but might as well have many safety nets as possible in case the worst were to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:34 PM
1

I just know 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 09:30 PM
2

Feminists did some good that I can thank them for but I agree with you when it comes to them not respecting womens choices in regards to traditionalism. I wouldn’t call myself a trad wife but religion and family has always been the most important things in my life. I don’t know why some feminists feel the need to disapprove.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 09:22 PM
1

I’m not an expert on this topic but if you are curious you are free to consult people more knowledgeable than me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 09:15 PM
1

I’ve explained myself enough, if you don’t agree I’m not going to go out of my way to change your mind. Regardless of wether my way works or not, it’s has worked for me and my family and many women around me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 09:01 PM
1

I already gave my reasoning. Thank you for being interested though.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 09:00 PM
1

I don’t really care that much
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 08:56 PM
1

I think I’ve said all I needed to say, if you disagree then you disagree 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 08:54 PM
1

I can do what I want, thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 08:52 PM
1

I’m 22.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 08:51 PM
2

Marriage makes a difference because it’s is more protection (child support, alimony, society at large being more supportive) if the worst were to happen. If you keep your virginity until marriage, it’s highly unlikely that a man will pump and dump. Wombs need to be guarded because there are more physical, emotional, and social consequences to sex for women than men.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 07:44 PM
4

I’ve met very few genuinely desperate women, even the women that had bad luck in dating at least had a few males in her orbit that she could fall back too. I even knew a mentally handicapped girl from school that landed a decent guy (that isn’t disabled). It might be my anecdotal experience but I think women always have options, literally all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:44 PM
2

I think a lot of the preferences we have originate from our evolutionary biology. Throughout most of human history bigger and taller men survived longer and better, women would want to be with those men to have better chances of survival and for their offspring to potentially get those genes and have a better chance. Kind of like how men naturally prefer women with an hourglass figure because it’s a sign of fertility, more fertile = more babies. Although, in our modern society, height shouldn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:40 PM
2

I just think it’s makes more sense for you post to be under the general thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:34 PM
2

And if a man does leave, at least if the woman is married there is more legal aid via alimony, child support if she has children, and support from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:34 PM
1

What do you want me to elaborate on?
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 05:32 PM
4

That doesn’t really add much to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:31 PM
2

You might want to put that under the general thread instead of under my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:04 PM
1

Be healthy. I don’t expect someone to have an Olympian physique, just do some cardio at least 3 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:58 AM
3

Have you thought to expanding your collection of concubines? One can’t be nearly enough to grow an empire.
/r/MensRights23/04/22 03:17 AM
2

I saw a video of a Ukrainian guy that died with his pants and underwear down, butt up in the air. I can only assume he died while being raped or sexually tortured in some kind of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:09 AM
13

As long as someone compares the suicide statistics for a good faith discussion about male suicide I don’t see the issue. I’m sure some dick heads go around saying ‘fembots have no issues at all’ but that is just a straw man, most people arguing in good faith don’t say that.
/r/MensRights23/04/22 03:02 AM
1

I’m not about the oppression Olympics but honestly I wouldn’t genuinely choose being killed over being raped but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:40 AM
2

I expect a man to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:51 AM
27

Most women withhold sex because there are biologically consequences to sex especially if you are a woman. The consequences to sex are more serious physically, emotionally, and socially for a woman than for a man. I waited until marriage because it gave me the best chance if the worst were to happen. Most women wait, not necessarily until marriage, to reduce risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:49 AM
7

A woman’s breasts are meant to be there, extra fat on a males is due to a physical or hormonal abnormality. It’s not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:46 AM
2

I love staying home too! It’s honestly great and I hope it lasts a long time.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 03:32 PM
2

Personally for me, I wouldn’t make such a huge sacrifice for a boyfriend. For a husband, I would consider it but not a boyfriend. There is no legally binding contract with your boyfriend, you could end up making this sacrifice without him marrying you and leaving you. Not only that but he isn’t a provider and there isn’t a guarantee he will be one. I’m sure he longs to be a father and husband like you said but right now that isn’t what is possible.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 03:30 PM
36

Ideally, you make sure not to have sex until marriage especially if virginity is important to you. If you do end up losing your virginity and having regret, if it is affecting you as seriously as it did Taylor Swift you go to therapy instead of being miserable for years and years. Take a break from dating, reflect on your values and where you went wrong, adjust your behavior moving forward. It’s important to guard your womb, at least for most women, I know some women are more sexually liberal an…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 03:25 PM
1

Why does India have such a huge issue in domestic abuse?
/r/AntiFeminists22/04/22 09:16 AM
2

Although it’s true that JD is a victim of his bad judgment but do also a victim of domestic abuse. Two things can be true at once. Choosing a bad person isn’t ‘asking’ for abuse and this past really has strong ‘they were asking for it’ tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:36 PM
3

Good earners yes, tall, maybe half of them, good looking, they all have a variety of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:58 PM
5

I can’t find any studies specifically on high value men, but most high value men around me are married or have their one woman. It’s anecdotal though so doesn’t mean much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:13 PM
0

That’s why I said words + body language, it’s not too complicated really.
/r/MensRights21/04/22 08:12 PM
1

I agree that social skills do go a long way but if what you are saying was true men wouldn’t struggle so much in dating. I’ve seen genuinely great guys stay single for long periods of times due to the simple fact that they are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:08 PM
0

It’s really not a guessing game. It’s like any other social interaction.
/r/MensRights21/04/22 08:03 PM
4

Doing it for sex? Opening a door for someone? That doesn’t even make sense. I’ve never had a guy ask for sex or even pester me when they open the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:02 PM
-1

The Red Pill got quarantined which I had a party over but then they went after cringetopia, now I’m sad. They made their own site in case they got banned, banned a bunch of mods, and comments are severely limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:15 PM
4

Reddit censoring knows no end
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:01 PM
2

Indeed :) you can google it if it interests you. Perhaps you can become one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:47 PM
3

Yes, all sorts of cancers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:32 PM
3

I believe a wart cutter would be a dermatologist, not a surgical oncologist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:25 PM
4

Most successful men do have wives though, I’d say most do despite marriage rates going down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:15 PM
3

I forgot to mention he is a surgical oncologist 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:14 PM
-6

Just like any other social interaction
/r/MensRights21/04/22 03:51 PM
13

Why isn’t it nice? Also lots of women open the door for me now that I dress well :) in fact, the women that open the door for me might actually outnumber the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:43 PM
2

I haven’t met a single person that is genuinely and in good faith against the things you listed. Sure, there are the fat activists that are against working out, I’ve seen that for sure but it’s not the norm and they aren’t arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:42 PM
6

My husband made the choice to be committed to one woman despite being considered ‘high value’ in terms of his looks, success, and income. He is committed to one woman because that is the choice that fits his wants and needs. He believes that a nuclear family is best for raising kids and he wants his kids to be in an ideal situation. Religion is also part of it of course. It boils down to what you want and value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:40 PM
7

It’s misogynistic for women to pick on men for having boners.
/r/MensRights21/04/22 03:09 PM
8

I like being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:03 PM
29

I always have people say hi to me when I go out. Having people open doors for you, greet you, and want to converse with you is always nice. I think part of it is a gender privilege but maybe a looks privilege too. When I didn’t dress as nice I still had people nice to me but not nearly as much, it’s was like night and day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:02 PM
2

Nah
/r/MensRights21/04/22 12:27 PM
-4

Verbal + Body language
/r/MensRights21/04/22 12:16 PM
2

But it’s the best part of this sub, why do you want it to stop?
/r/MensRights21/04/22 06:50 AM
-5

I don’t think it’s too hard really. Just like any other social situation listen to their words and also pay attention to their body language. Any sign of hesitation is an invitation to stop and ask what’s wrong. I’ve been married to my husband for a few years now so consent is somewhat of a given but if I seem uninterested or hesitant he always stops. Basically, if it’s not an enthusiastic yes, it’s safe to assume it’s a no.
/r/MensRights21/04/22 06:48 AM
1

A big part of what attracted me to my husband was his success and of course his looks too. No one wants someone that has no ambition and lies around all day even if they are hot. Being hot is useful for people who want just a hookup but long term it’s not ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:46 AM
1

If I didn’t have sex with my husband it would create a lot of issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:53 AM
1

He doesn’t have as much time as most husbands have, but he does make time for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:56 PM
1

He’s a great husband :) that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:54 PM
5

I didn’t see that in the article? Are you sure? I know that one was not able to pass urine due to it being too narrow but both were capable of being erect. Either way, a too narrow urethra can be fixed. It’s his choice either way though, no point cutting off things without a kids consent unless it gets in the way.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 09:51 PM
4

I’m talking about when he’s older. I’m sure he’d want both his dicks when he’s older, especially since both were functional.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 09:48 PM
1

Lol I remember finding ‘milf’ porn on my brothers tablet once when he was 16. He really likes anal milf apparently :/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:19 PM
1

Im 22 and my husband is 38. We have an age gap and have had some unfair assumptions that of course I deny. That being said, if I’m honest, other than my husband all of the older men that pursued me were 100 percent predatory or at least came off as creepy. I made another comment on this sub talking about how getting cat called and unwanted sexual attention started at age 12 for me, but even out of the interactions that weren’t as outright insulting, the guys definitely came off as predatory to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:56 PM
3

I don’t think anything of women who pay for the first date. They can do as they please. I personally don’t but I don’t care what other people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:50 PM
1

I think it’s less about the money and more about the passion. Even if my husband wasn’t paid to do it, he’d still do his job. He’s passionate about the path he choose in life, he’s always had a drive to help people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:39 PM
1

My husband is a surgical oncologist so naturally he is very busy. He does his best to pay attention to me at least once a week but even when he’s home he’s either still working a bit or sleeping due to fatigue. It’s not unusual for him to end up sleeping at his workplace due to how packed his schedule is. If he’s not sleeping and at home, I might get 20 mins with him. I will also see him for a bit to drop off lunch, he’s not always available to pick up his lunch though. The reality of dating hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:19 PM
1

I would ignore it and remove myself from the situation the best that I could but I did have to threaten a man with a nice once when he refused to let me off the bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:11 PM
2

It might be a Seattle or big city thing. This stuff just doesn’t happen in my town. And once I went to college it became very rare to get sexually harassed for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:00 PM
7

Most catcalling would happen walking to and from school, and on the bus. I had my school uniform so no way they didn’t know I was very young. The worst was when groups of men would wait at the gates of the school when we were dismissed to yell things at us. I remember for a while the police had to hang around the campus due to perverts and parents were encouraged to pick us up. My parents picked me up and dropped me off when they could but both my parents worked so it wasn’t always possible unfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:57 PM
6

Seattle men are something else big yikes honestly. There isn’t any way they didn’t know I was a child. Sad that so many women and young girls get sexually harassed and especially when it starts so young.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:41 PM
18

Seattle. The cat calling would happen once I entered middle school and throughout highschool, I wore a school uniform.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:38 PM
110

I got catcalled the most at 12-14, so must be that age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:46 PM
1

I think martial arts guys are attractive or those fighting monks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:08 PM
2

I’d pick being child free and single in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:07 PM
2

It’s up to men to decide what is and isn’t cucking but I think a woman having sex with another woman is at the very least emotionally cucking the man they are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:06 PM
1

I always require a man to pay for the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:55 PM
7

Women make men work for it not due to an inflated self image but rather due to the biological consequences of sex that makes women more selective and careful. A man being hot isn’t a guarantee that he is going to stick around if a pregnancy happens, so yeah, not matter how hot a man is I as a woman will always make a man wait and ‘work’ for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:21 PM
5

I’m a woman, my current partner (husband) is my best lover, and my only one I’ve had. I’m happy so 10/10. I think it’s important to do you best in all aspects of life and the bedroom is definitely important for long term satisfaction and relationship success.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:01 AM
6

I’d rather not but I’m not completely opposed to it either. I think I could handle being a step parent to one kid but not more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:40 AM
1

It’s not a big deal to me. A natural head of hair is attractive but I’m not going to knock a man down for doing what he can to fit in beauty standards. Women wear hair extensions, men can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:38 PM
7

I’ve learned and expanded my knowledge on some topics especially in regards to what men go through and their perspective but I haven’t had my views changed as of yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:32 AM
2

Have you had some tea yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:01 AM
3

Ok, I hope your drink some tea and light a candle. Stress isn’t good especially stressing easily over Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:27 AM
3

I’m kindly asking you to refrain from cursing at me, thank you for having stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 11:56 PM
3

You are overreacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 11:56 PM
2

:) hey there, please don’t curse at me. I haven’t attack you at all so I don’t know why you feel I deserved this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 11:33 PM
11

Yes I would stay. I’m a Christian and I don’t believe in divorce, I take my vows seriously. If I were to be paralyzed from the neck down I would ask to be euthanized, I know suicide is a sin but I refuse to live that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:00 PM
7

I believe you boyfriend is being verbally abusive. Assertive would be a stern no, abusive is yelling profanities like he is doing.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/22 05:47 PM
1

I’m cautious with both men and women I allow into my life.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/22 05:26 PM
1

I’m the opposite, I was assaulted by a woman when I was a child, but I sympathize with making boundaries based on your experiences and comfort.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/22 05:12 PM
1

There have been some times when guys feel led on because I have a platonic friendship with them. I don’t know why some of them think a woman talking or them is anything romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:43 PM
1

I’m sure this is a joke but plenty of women do actually do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:38 PM
-1

That kind of sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:28 PM
1

I’m in the same boat. I have a handful of male friends and male acquaintances because I also work in a male dominated field. The only other women I’ve seen were HR and the cleaning lady, no ladies at all among the software engineers.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/22 08:50 PM
2

My husband has female friends, I have male friends, but we both have boundaries that we agreed upon. Everyone has different terms and conditions in a relationship but the bottom line is that you were uncomfortable and he didn’t respect that. It’s best you go your separate ways.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/22 11:53 AM
2

Ah, that makes sense. I live in a somewhat liberal and leftist state, so people don’t brag about being virgins, it’s a private matter. People that do get relentlessly bullied.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:45 AM
3

I guess it might depend on where you live then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:43 AM
1

I don’t think I’ve ever met a virgin that felt superiority due to it, but I’ve met some virgins that felt a bit insecure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:33 AM
4

I waited until marriage. My bond with my husband is very strong and I think a big part of it is because I guarded my heart and womb. When you treat sex and relationships like sacred things, you treasure them more. I think most people do attach a lot of emotions when it comes to sex, most people do bond when they have sex together, but the higher the body count the more likely the woman doesn’t attach emotionally to the man she has sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:28 AM
1

Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:38 AM
2

What does it matter if my opinion doesn’t change anything? A guy asked how I expect a man to meet me, I explained it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:23 AM
2

I can’t do anything about other womens opinions, I can only express my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:49 AM
0

Well, all I can say as a woman is that I’m ok with men approaching in places I can reasonably assume social interaction, as long as it’s in a respectful way of course. I basically don’t get offended unless a man makes crude comments or just straight up follows me, that’s pretty awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:59 AM
1

I’d say I get approached once a week. I mainly get approached at places where I get drinks like coffee places or boba shops. I had a guy hit on my in the grocery store once. I also had a guy hit on me as I was leaving the woman’s restroom and I definitely didn’t appreciate that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:31 AM
1

As long as it’s in a respectful way and I’m not busy, I don’t mind men hitting on me, or at least I don’t get mad about it. The only places I’m not ok being hit on is if it’s a inappropriate place where I don’t expect socializing, like if I’m exercising at the gym I definitely don’t want to talk to anyone, or the bathroom, or around the bathroom, or at a medical office, or at a gas station. Once I leave my house and enter the public space I anticipate male attention. I’m young and ok looking, ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:58 AM
0

You can meet women in places they can expect social interaction, coffee place, clubs, bars, boba shop, tea place, dog park, maybe even the grocery store if she doesn’t seem to busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:41 AM
1

I would say no because I have a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:25 PM
1

I don’t judge men based on what men I’m attracted too. I’m sure plenty of women do but it’s not something I do. In fact, I find it strange. Men have value outside of being a potential mate, so I wouldn’t judge a man harshly for not fitting into my preferences. My husband is tall and successful but there are plenty of guys in my life that may not have those things and that ok, I don’t judge them, they are friends/family/coworkers so it’s really not something I care about or judge them about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:24 PM
6

She sounds like a champion for the antiwork movement.
/r/MensRights12/04/22 07:16 AM
1

So it sounds like you consider male friends to be a security risk. Am I understanding it correctly? I supposed statistics are on your side when it comes to this opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 08:07 PM
1

It’s ok if you personally don’t want to embrace gender roles, they aren’t forced anymore, but I’ll continue to enjoy them. The great thing about living in a free society is you can do as you wish and find people compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:32 AM
4

“Those men all want you” I mean…I’m great and all and decent looking but I seriously doubt it. Regardless, I’ve had female friends hit one me 🤷🏻‍♀️ I can’t just not be friends with people because they might catch feelings. I’d have no friends if I excluded everyone that could potentially want to sleep with me. As long as they don’t cross the line by expressing the desire or acting on it, and ideally not thinking it either, it’s not a big deal I think.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/22 08:05 PM
6

My husband is completely fine with me having male friends. He’s met all of my friends, male and female, and knows I have appropriate boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/22 04:02 PM
3

Technically nothing is guaranteed, my husband just helps increase so odds I have a good life and am protected in tough situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:21 AM
3

I’ve had both men and women misinterpret my intentions as flirting :) I’m outgoing and definitely a physically affectionate person, I’ve been more careful about it around men though unless it’s someone I 100% trust and know they won’t misinterpret like my priest for example.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/22 09:00 AM
1

A male version of myself would probably be a short, effeminate, twink. I think I’d date myself, I work out, I’m decent looking (not a model but better than average, although that’s not saying much since average is obese), I have a good income, but male me would be way too thin and short for me to be physically attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:38 AM
2

I require commitment because of a few reasons. My first reason is because being a wife is important to me for sentimental, religious, and societal perception. Having a man that is committed to me makes my life easier in many ways, I currently work because I want to but I enjoy knowing that I could quit and be taken care of. Or if I were to not be able to work I’d also be fine. If I were to change my mind about having children I’d rather be able to spend as much time with my children without need…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:36 AM
1

I mean sure I see it but I don’t see how that helps any men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:40 PM
2

What do you want me to do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:38 PM
1

I haven’t personally shut down any shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:22 PM
6

For me, I would ask them what are they looking for in a relationship, and I’d tell them what I am looking for. Go with the flow of the conversation, it doesn’t have to be awkward at all. I would basically just say that marriage is the end goal of a relationship and I date with intent.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/22 02:04 AM
2

There is Nikacado Avocado but…well he’s gay. Might still count 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:53 AM
7

I’d say he was an alpha bux but beaten down into a beta bux
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:58 PM
4

You are generalizing all men and women but not even accurately at all. I can guarantee that most men don’t masturbate to pictures of their female family. Jeez where are you from, Alabama?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:18 PM
12

I find it very unfortunate the abuse that Jada is putting Will through. I do think he needs to put his foot down though. You have to be your own advocate in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:15 PM
2

I can’t speak for men, but I do know that me being a virgin was what made my husband take me seriously. Or at least it was the main reason. I don’t think that men are bothered by a woman’s body count but I do think a decent amount of men would not take a woman with a high body count seriously for long term commitment and marriage. I some men want a woman that they feel will stick with them long term and a virgin has the highest likely hood of sticking around long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:14 PM
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I’m in an age gap marriage. I think just like in any relationship there has to be mutual respect and understanding. Sometimes the power dynamic may make some women more compliant with unacceptable behaviors but it’s important to stand your ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:02 PM
0

We are currently monogamous. Regardless, it doesn’t mean that the feminists have a right to follow me around on topics that don’t even have to do with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:50 PM
7

At first, I was on board with the people they were banning like incels but now we are starting to see the slippery slope we were warned about. I’m just wondering just how far is it going to go.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 06:46 PM
5

As someone in a somewhat traditional relationship, I’ve been attack by feminists for my relationship even in places where my relationship has no relevance. I got attacked for it on the anti work subreddit, judged a bit on the redpill women subreddit, and once on this subreddit too. I’ve had worse comments in the past but it’s not common. It does happen though and even though it’s uncommon it’s not exactly rare either. Some feminists truly just hate women that date men and dare to treat their men…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:58 PM
17

Honestly, just be blunt about what you want and what you are looking for. I’ve never been a fan of the waiting and guessing game. I’ve always talked about marriage before or during the first date.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 04:22 PM
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I don’t blame him for being abused but he’s been with her for years, at a certain point you need to pull yourself out of an abusive situation.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 04:16 PM
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Your not putting a time limit on him but rather one for yourself, he’s either on board or not. If this is really important to you, I would recommend finding a different man unless you feel waiting could be worth it. When I was 16 and looking for a husband, most guys weren’t certain, I moved on to a guy (my husband) that wanted to do things in the same timeframe. Don’t waste your youth, use it wisely.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 03:29 PM
5

I agree but it would be nice if the population at large treated women like they had value outside of being young and fertile. I’m 22 but I’ll be an old woman one day, I’d like to be valued for my skills and personality but fear this society won’t embrace an old woman.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 03:27 PM
-3

Neither, just a normal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:49 PM
0

Then why did they get banned? For simply existing and breathing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:30 PM
3

I’m sure if you did your own search you’ll see plenty of examples but the number one Im thinking of right now is an instance of a post claiming that rape is only actually rape if it’s a virgin woman, if it’s a woman that only slept with her husband it’s damage of property, and every other woman should be fair game to rape. I even saw another post where a man said he would make an app where men doxx women they slept with and keep track of them so other men know to rape her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:24 PM
0

It’s concerning that you are dismissing this. I’m not surprised though, anything to protect the boys right? Even if they post pro murder and pro rape stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:49 PM
12

I think you ignored the part of the comment that mentioned highly upvoted posts that promoted violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:43 PM
13

I’ve only encountered one, and it is very adequate. No complaints on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:41 PM
2

I think she’s confused as to why you made you comment under hers, instead of under the general thread, it looks as if you are respond to the commenter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:16 AM
1

I’m not sure if I would call it a trust issue but I recognize that sex is important to men and some are willing to do unethical and some even illegal things to get it, so I keep men that I don’t 100% trust at arms length. I suppose I’m somewhat the same with women just a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:15 AM
1

I think all criminal records should be public.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:11 AM
8

I think these are things both men and women largely agree on. I don’t think this is the hot take you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:10 AM
8

You don’t have to go to school to meet HVM but honestly that is where a lot of them are. That is where I met mine. You could perhaps try being a barista at a place where high income people go. Be social, male female friends, maybe get introduced to a HVM.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 03:07 AM
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As another commenter said, he’s probably just not wanting to get sick or his kids sick and doesn’t want to miss work. He seems to take care of you when it’s not a contagious issue so I personally don’t think it’s a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 03:05 AM
6

I love Mrs Midwest but I also love feminine Korean content creators like Hazi, Nebom, honeyjubu. I also like Anna Bey, I might not agree with everything she has to say but she is clearly successful when it comes to being a feminine modern woman and balancing work life with romance life.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 02:48 AM
2

That’s great and all but doesn’t answer the inquiry of the post :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 02:43 AM
20

We need to call it out for what it is, predatory grooming of a young man, not an ‘entanglement’.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 11:55 PM
1

I’m sure there are plenty of wise elderly people but they are outnumbered by the ones that yell nonsense. Have you ever been to a retirement home? Lots of conspiracy theories, a light dose of racism (which says a lot coming from me lol), and a surprising amount of sexual depravity.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 02:16 PM
3

She seems perfectly content, in fact, your the one that seems to be upset at her comment? Why is that?
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 05:48 AM
3

What would you say to a Jewish person that identifies as white?
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 01:06 AM
4

I’m just looking out for you. If someone offends you, don’t engage or block. Being rude ‘back’ at someone is still being rude and dilutes the quality of the discussion on this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 10:12 PM
4

Just don’t be rude. The only thing you need to say is ‘yes’, I’m sure you wouldn’t want to be offered a ban by a mod.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 10:10 PM
8

In a few of your comment you are arguing in bad faith and being rude. Be civil.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 10:06 PM
10

Don’t be rude to our ladies pls.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 10:03 PM
2

“Not really trad” If you want to identify as trad I’m sure you can. Everything is on a spectrum. No one fits perfectly into a category.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 08:33 PM
10

If I am correct, some Jews are white and some are not, it depends on their lineage and how they identify themselves. For example, ashkenazi Jews are for the most part considered white. They have considerable admixture with European populations. Jewish populations of people who have lineage outside of Europe or white majority countries may not consider themselves white, like Jewish Arabs, or Jewish black people. But yeah for the most part they are white.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 07:13 PM
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I wasn’t trying to insinuate that it’s a bad thing at all.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 07:08 PM
2

I like her strong stances on immigration. It will help protect her county and the whole of Europe.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 04:29 PM
10

Where do people assume he is abusive?
/r/MensRights05/04/22 04:26 PM
9

When you say don’t drink alcohol alone, do you mean in public? Because drinking alone at home is relatively safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:53 PM
2

Hypergamy for the win.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:28 AM
5

My husband always pays pretty much but I’m sure everyone does things differently in their relationship. I suppose it does make sense to go 50/50 or proportionate to income if both people work. Seems fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:02 AM
1

To me personally, I would keep this guy in the friend zone. It’s cute for sure but it doesn’t induce arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:07 AM
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I think it has to do with social status, but also physical attraction. Women like a ‘superior’ man that can protect them. They show this man off to their female friends and show them off to other males. It’s like going ‘oh look at this shiny gem I snatched’.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:11 AM
2

I don’t know about you but communicating my needs worked for me.
/r/MensRights03/04/22 02:16 AM
2

Ive never tried whey protein, is it good?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:14 AM
7

I never appreciated having inappropriate comments made towards me when I was a minor in my school uniform. Being a woman or a girl in a public space isn’t an invitation for harassment. I’m ok with being hit on, as an adult, in a respectful way but imagine having crude sexual comments especially if you are a small woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:13 AM
1

Yeah I heard it didn’t last long for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:11 PM
3

I just think bedroom issues are solved by communicating, I don’t see why you disagree or where there is room to disagree.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 10:55 PM
1

I don’t live in Seattle, just like a bit less than an hour away. Honestly we’ve been treated well but thank you for the concern. I do acknowledge that some Russians are unfortunately being targeted, it’s not ok of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:40 PM
3

Start improving yourself but also loving yourself in your current state. It’s possible to seek to improve while also loving your current state, self love and self improvement are not mutually exclusive. Take care of yourself, starting eating healthy, start exercising, wear nice clothes, do your hair and makeup, and do it all out of love for yourself and your boyfriend. Self loathing isn’t going to get you places but love and hard work is. Everyone is different but this is what I do to feel good …
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/22 10:30 PM
1

I did go to college with a lot of Muslim girls though :) and have Muslim friends, as a more traditional Christian I tend to find more similarities with Muslims than modern Christians.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:15 PM
1

No I am Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:14 PM
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As someone in an age gap relationship, I do agree that a lot of them can be abusive unfortunately. Age gap can work but there has to be genuine respect on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:02 PM
1

I’m not really and expert on those things :) but I think it makes sense. Most people I know that are high earning and stay high earning tend to have attractive personality traits, like having a good work ethic, perseverance, and a strong will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:43 PM
0

Oh I wouldn’t forced him to divorce, we don’t believe in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:40 PM
0

Having financial expectations and selling oneself are two different things. Most people at the very least expect their partner to be self sufficient financially, for me, I want a provider. It’s not much different. It’s a loving functional relationship that works. I think you are focusing on the financial aspect a bit too much, it’s a small part of our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:36 PM
0

I didn’t sell myself at all, everyone has different expectations in a relationship. I married him because I liked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:32 PM
0

Why? There are expectations in every relationship. He wanted a virgin, a woman that stays in shape, and suits his physical preferences, and I wanted a tall successful man. It worked out for us and we are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:17 PM
1

Yup. Any other questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:09 PM
2

I would simply say no to paying the bills and that’s it, unless he wants to kick me out and pay alimony. We both understand that relationships have expectations, he wouldn’t have married me if I was fat and I woudlnt have married him if he wasn’t successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:02 PM
3

We had a bit of a scare a while ago when he injured his shoulder. The realization hit me hard that anything can change in an instant. I expect my husband to provide for me but I also made a vow to him, if he is I’ll or injured I’m willing to step up. If he simply decides that he doesn’t want to be a provider, I won’t be accepting it but I won’t divorce him either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:42 PM
2

Enough for a comfortable life, in my area that would be 80k.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:38 PM
11

I agree, people with confidence don’t complain about mean comments. Some people disapprove of my relationship but it doesn’t make me lose any sleep at all. At the end of the day I got a great husband and that’s all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:32 PM
2

My hobbies are going to the gym and looking at LV purses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:30 PM
2

I use my own money to buy designer purses, 90 percent of the time at least. He could buy me designer purses if he wanted too, he’s a surgeon and makes a good living, but I just don’t ask him for that. I’m sure he wouldn’t mind though. I’m able to stay at home because I have a good job in a software company that allows me too :) although I do recognize that I’m privileged to not need to work. If I wanted to quit, I’d be 100 percent fine because husband is more than willing and able. Would I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:04 PM
1

No, not Jehovas. We have some Korean Baptist churches, I see a good amount of those, we have a big Russian Orthodox Church I go to, and some other kind of churches too. It’s not really gated but there are some gated neighborhoods here and there around town.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:07 PM
2

I’m in an age gap relationship. A lot of people will make assumptions of abuse and an improper power dynamic but there are plenty of couples who are within the same age range that have a toxic relationship. As long as it is two consenting adults that treat each other well, it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:57 PM
1

No, not rural. Just a suburb. Perhaps a 40 min drive to Seattle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:53 PM
1

Eh? Ive never seen anything of what you are saying. I’ve never had any trouble for being religious, my husband did once though by an angry Muslim man but that guy got in big trouble. There are plenty of churches in my area and I’ve honestly never met anyone anti religion, maybe some non religious people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:39 PM
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I don’t understand why people have bedroom issues. Both sides need to be willing to please their partners and communicate their needs. There, problem solved 🙃
/r/MensRights02/04/22 06:21 PM
11

People tend to not respect my time and schedule as a stay at home wife that works. Sure, I work from home so my schedule is more flexible than most people who work outside of the home but that doesn’t mean I can drop everything Im doing to get you and yours kids groceries in half an hour :/ I don’t mind being helpful but…I got a schedule too like most people.
/r/RedPillWives02/04/22 05:37 PM
0

I live in Washington state. I’d say my community is moderately religious, we aren’t Bible thumpers but there definitely is a religious presence. Even non Religious women I’ve known do tend to be sexually ‘guarded’ per say. The women who are low n counts outnumber the women with h n counts, at least in my friend group, family, and social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:32 PM
2

Yeah, I know that waiting to have sex till marriage may not be common but most women I know do at least wait until they have commitment. I can’t really speak for everyone I know sexual habits dramatically differ from place to place but I do think a majority of women on the planet do at least wait for sex until they have commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:28 PM
6

Hahaha no just a normal suburb in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:22 PM
-1

No I live in a suburb.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:16 PM
4

I really don’t know many women who rack up an n count to find a relationship. Most women I know either waited until marriage or waited until they attained commitment in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:14 PM
8

It’s very easy for a woman to sleep around if she wanted to, but most still don’t. Even with the sexual revolution a majority of women are not going around town. Just because someone can do something doesn’t necessarily mean that they will. I could binge on junk food everyday, but I personally choose not to because it doesn’t suit what I want for myself. Ultimately, I think it’s kind of hard to tell what is the actual body counts of women and men since both tend to lie (either say a smaller or b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:08 PM
2

A high earning job from home, now that is quite lucky :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:01 AM
0

One could also say it’s someone nature to punch people that offend them but we teach them not to do so. We have plenty of destructive natures, that’s why we teach kids to be good and do good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:26 AM
1

Some women aren’t selective enough apparently, especially when you see women that get pregnant by thugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:21 AM
1

Sliced with a bit of garlic and parsley on it.
/r/RedPillWives02/04/22 12:21 AM
6

Venture to areas with high value men. Perhaps make it a habit to take your jogs in affluent neighborhoods, maybe go to an upscale bar once in a while, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 11:57 PM
8

It sounds like you are doing everything right. I think you might be too focused on one specific man and perhaps not noticing the other high value men that are looking your way. Be open to other options.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 11:49 PM
8

A man with a high earning job. There are pros and cons to everything and the cons to being with a man that earns a good living is that they are not home often and when they are they collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:05 PM
7

Most guys that chased tail in their youth ended up losers in their adult life. Successful adults focus on their work or family or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:38 PM
3

I wouldn’t say that puberty was traumatic but sexual harassment when I took the bus in middle school and highschool was a bit traumatic. I wore my school uniform and unfortunately I think pervs really liked that. So from 12-16 get harassed really sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:04 PM
25

I’m a low N count woman and appreciate my husband. I understand your logic though, having a point of reference might make a woman think ‘wow thank God this dude is great unlike all those other guys’. In my opinion, I don’t think you need a point of reference to properly appreciate a man. For me, I’m allergic to most nuts so I haven’t tried most of them, but I know I love almonds very much even though I haven’t tried other kinds of nuts. It’s the same with my husband, I love him very much and app…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:58 PM
25

Yes I have before. They didn’t end up dating but they did end up eating healthier, working out more, and being happier in life so mission failed successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:58 PM
7

I’ve seen some decent girls fall prey to bad boys due to them being naive, but I’d imagine that there is a difference between a good girl that falls in the trap vs a woman who actively pursues bad boys. Women who pursue bad boys do tend to be low quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:56 PM
4

I think arrange marriage sounds like it takes the hassle out of dating.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 01:47 PM
5

Both my husband and I went to college, no backlash was faced there. Both of us only received praise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:25 AM
9

That is my husbands requirement, he never faced backlash. You guys put too much value on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:19 AM
4

I would recommend you don’t have people around you that judge your decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:14 PM
6

Men aren’t shamed for wanting virgins, in fact, they are praised.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:12 PM
1

How about…just don’t make creepy comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:46 PM
0

Or maybe men can just not be creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:17 PM
9

I would teach my daughters to guard their wombs and heart, be very selective and make him wait for it. I would teach my boys to be respectful and also not tolerate any nonsense ( cheating, drama, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:14 PM
3

I think a lot of conservatives especially conservative men will naturally gravitate towards red pill because the beliefs align in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:12 PM
2

If I were single, I wouldn’t mind dating someone with a kid that has one child but definitely not more. A childless man would still be my preference though especially since I’m childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:10 PM
8

I made Mac and cheese, spicy chicken, and sautéed mushrooms today with sparkling water.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 03:57 AM
1

The amount of times I’ve had guys hit on me on linked in 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:17 AM
1

A woman being in a public space isn’t an invitation to having creepy comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:16 AM
2

I think she would be labeled as a very nice girl or a pick me depending on who your talking too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:36 PM
0

If I’m correct, men who finance woman to any capacity are labeled as ‘beta bux’ apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:30 PM
5

Butter is way better than oil.
/r/RedPillWives30/03/22 08:15 PM
11

Men show their true nature through their actions rather than words. Give the relationship a bit of time and observe whether his words match his actions. Lots of men will tell women what they think they want to hear for their own motives and not be serious about long term commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 03:19 PM
18

I feel like a lot of people misuse the ‘pick me’ insult. Being a pick me isn’t a woman who is simply nice to men, it’s a woman that comprises herself and her integrity for a man but Tiktok calls any woman that simply doesn’t hate men as a ‘pick me’.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 03:17 PM
3

I don’t think I’ve faced much controversy over my opinions, even on the harsh internet. I’m probably a lukewarm red pill so my opinions are very digestible for most people. I’ve honestly never been belittled either online or in real life, I don’t go out of my way to express my opinions in real life but I don’t hide them either. If someone did belittle me, I would simply distance myself from them.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 03:14 PM
10

No, I never have. I waited until marriage. If my husband wanted to dump me I guess he could but it would be quite an expensive process for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:07 PM
6

Choose a good man and always have a back up plan. Have a useful degree or certification, you can even work from home like I do.
/r/RedPillWives30/03/22 02:31 AM
1

I think it might be 5 percent of men that are sexually active with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:09 AM
1

Those people are being intellectually dishonest and arguing in bad faith. At least that is my opinion. I guess I stand corrected on my original comment, some people did actually argue that ‘no woman is like that’.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:07 PM
30

“I stayed single so I could find a guy like you ;)” I think that might be a good response.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 01:52 PM
6

I don’t know if I officially declare myself a stay at home wife but I more or less am. I work from home and only go to the office when needed. My physical and mental health greatly improved since staying home more often. I work out often, I have enough time to pamper myself, and I feel the happiest and most productive I’ve ever been. Im able to complete all my daily tasks and not feel extremely tired and overwhelmed by the end of the day.
/r/RedPillWives29/03/22 05:15 AM
1

I’m insecure about my skin. I wouldn’t say my skin is too bad but it’s also not Instagram perfect. Going to a dermatologist for years dramatically helped but it will never compare to models skin. I’m insecure about my deep set eyes, it gives me these sort of raccoon eye bags, it’s not discolored, just that my eyes are a bit too deep set. I’d also like to get my ears a bit flattened. I hate the shape of my toes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:24 AM
2

Age gaps in adult relationships are fine. Young adults are old enough to consent and be responsible for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:55 PM
1

Well, I required marriage before sex so I think I might be an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:52 PM
4

I understand. I’ve had a childhood friend like that. It’s one of those situations where they slowly break down your boundaries over time, you don’t even notice the emotional abuse and gaslighting. That why I shut down that stuff immediately. Boundaries need to be a solid line others don’t cross, but too many people keep taking baby steps back as psychopaths take little steps over the boundary. I think it’s important that people not only learn to say no but also assert their no. This has helped m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:50 PM
5

I don’t think I ever see anyone say ‘no woman is like that’ instead, the typical argument I see is ‘most women are like that’ vs ‘only a minority of women are like that’. Regardless of how common these sort of bad traits are, people ultimately need to just have boundaries and be selective with who you allow in your life. Having good boundaries protects you and also puts pressure on people with negative qualities to suppress their nature or genuinely change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:46 PM
54

I don’t think I ever see anyone say ‘no woman is like that’ instead, the typical argument I see is ‘most women are like that’ vs ‘only a minority of women are like that’. Regardless of how common these sort of bad traits are, people ultimately need to just have boundaries and be selective with who you allow in your life. Having good boundaries protects you and also puts pressure on people with negative qualities to suppress their nature or genuinely change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:45 PM
21

Yes my partner knows my n count. I reserved my sexuality for marriage and made it very clear to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:41 PM
6

You can still travel while being in a more traditional relationship. Obviously, wife life means that you can’t venture off alone or too often but plenty of people travel with their family and significant other. Unless your guy is ok with you just dropping off out of the blue to a foreign country every once in a while, I don’t think most guys would be, mine is somewhat ok with it. He always prefers to be there though. I guess what I’m trying to say is that an independent personality type can be c…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 01:57 PM
8

I think it’s wise to not listen to people who shout ‘feminist’ at those with differing opinions. There are plenty of feminists and trads that think that men should not sleep with people other than their wife/girlfriend, it’s not inherently a feminist belief.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 01:50 PM
3

A boy, but in an anime. Like a cartoon boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:11 AM
3

Men not boys, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:20 PM
10

I guess a little less than ten percent, but I don’t really pay attention to men these days other than anime boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:23 PM
1

Why do you describe normal everyday people as ‘unicorns’?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:11 PM
1

I’m actually 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:09 PM
1

I never though that simply showing up is enough. I let the man pursue me but I make sure to be pleasant and make sure he’s having a good time. I do things like petting his head (men LOVE being pet), give him some compliments and praise, and if we intend to see each other for a while I do my best to show him he is appreciated. Drop off some homemade snacks, meals, baked goods, sweet notes, clean his room, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:25 PM
3

I’m sorry you think that a majority of people are bad. That’s far from reality. Most people are good. You just need to be selective with who you allow into your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:21 PM
5

Nothing wrong with wanting a man to take care of you financially but you should hold you end of the bargain. You should do the cooking, cleaning, and emotional support.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 03:03 PM
2

So you think within a marriage no couple has ever exited that loved each other unconditionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:12 PM
0

This is a hard no for me. Unconditional love may be uncommon but definitely does exist. I think most love between couples is conditional, and those conditions tend to be attainable, however that doesn’t mean that unconditional love doesn’t exist at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:06 PM
11

Don’t date bad people then. Only allow good people into your life. Sometimes you might get screwed over, it happens, but that’s not most people, or at least not the people I personally surround myself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:50 AM
9

I would be inclined to say that the ex would be there for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:36 AM
25

26 is a bit young to already be out of shape, not sure about the balding part because I’m sure that is a genetic thing. You really make committed relationships sound like a drag. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. You want someone that compliments your life and adds value. Forming long term committed relationships not just with a romantic partner but also with friends, brings a lot of value to someone, more than a casual relationship ever could. If you were to get can…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:27 AM
3

Well, it’s fine if they are fine with it. It’s ok for other people to live different lives and have different preferences, we just have preferences on the lower side.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:12 AM
2

If my husband dies Ill just be single forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:01 AM
9

Anything over 1 is a high n count for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:19 AM
5

On average, yes, men and women experience casual sex differently. It’s less physically satisfying for women and there is also the emotional burden to take into account. On a case to case basis, Im sure you can find plenty of anecdotal cases of women who genuinely enjoy casual sex like a man would without the typical female burden associated with casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:18 AM
3

In the eyes of a traditional relationship dynamic, having a lower body count does make you have a high value in terms of your SMV. But this whole mentality of women being a thing to conquer I just can’t agree with. You are describing human beings, not objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:15 PM
9

You really think a woman being in a relationship lowers her value and that she owned like a piece of property?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:57 PM
2

Honestly, I’m a stay at home wife but OP sounds seriously lazy and a leech. Nothing wrong with a traditional dynamic but OP sounds like they don’t hold their end of the bargain when it comes to this relationship dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:55 PM
4

Yeah, his or her wording on a woman being in a relationship is somewhat concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:47 PM
5

I think any man has a right to any preference they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:15 AM
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Delusion isn’t wanting 10s, delusion is thinking you are entitled to 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:55 PM
15

Considering I don’t post my face on my public accounts, I don’t really get unwanted dms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:28 PM
24

I think a better question would be why would I use it as a dating app? Instagram isn’t a dating app and some people don’t take too kindly to be approached in a setting that isn’t explicitly for dating. I feel like sliding into Instagram dms has the same energy as flirting with someone at a gas station while they are forced to just stand there awkwardly and nod their head as they hope you leave soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:23 PM
1

Violating a woman’s bodily autonomy would be forcing her into sex, saying she isn’t entitled to say no insinuates that’s. However, I’ve given you the benefit of the doubt and assumed that isn’t what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:18 PM
0

Not every culture tips waiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:16 PM
2

I’m confused because lots of men say that they want low body count women, while clearly not actually wanting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:55 PM
3

Yeah.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/22 04:55 PM
2

I find an issue with the idea that sec is reasonably expected. Nothing is reasonably expected until those two people make the terms and conditions clear of the relationship, whether that is sex, commitment, money, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:54 PM
4

Fundamentally, men want sexually available women regardless of whether they are of a high body count of not. Of course, their ideal is a woman with a low body count that puts out for them. The problem with this preference that men have is that it is very difficult to find a low body count women who is willing to immediately have sex. Low body count woman comes with low body count behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:27 PM
2

This comment and the many other comments in this thread is interesting to me. I know everyone is different, but I also see men overwhelmingly say that they would rather have a low body count woman than a woman with a high body count. But your comment and many ours say that they would rather a high body count woman that is sexually available. I respect your choice of course, I don’t want you to think I’m critiquing you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:22 PM
1

“Women are not entitled to make men wait” I am going to give the benefit of the doubt and say that you meant that women can’t force men to stay in a sexless relationship with them rather than women don’t have bodily autonomy over their sexual lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:18 PM
1

It’s fine to have disagreements in a relationship, but I do think it is kind of annoying to be around someone who is a contrarian. Kind of makes me think of Vaush who argues just to argue even on points he doesn’t even agree with, it’s kind of cool but at the same time in real life, life isn’t speech and debate class.
/r/AntiFeminists25/03/22 03:50 PM
2

Basically nexting women is ok, getting mad isn’t. That’s all I was trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:40 PM
3

Welcome to Mens Rights 🤪
/r/MensRights25/03/22 03:40 PM
6

It’s fine for men to assert their needs and boundaries, but instead of getting mad and demanding sex you should just move on to someone compatible. I think that was the point of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:59 PM
6

It depends on the individuals goal. If a man’s ultimate goal for life satisfaction is to have children, then he wins, if a man’s life goal is to get sex, he wins. You win based on whether you live your life in a way that is satisfying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:00 PM
3

I have some friends that are still virgins in their 20s. They are virgins because they are religious and has a good upbringing, their parents didn’t allow boys to interfere with their lives. I’ve met one woman who was a virgin in her 20s due to simply being too busy, she has immigrant parents that want her to work very hard so I’d imagine it’s partially a cultural thing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:34 PM
1

In the West, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:09 AM
0

Well, for one I never talk about ‘wap’. I don’t mind that question of what I bring to the table, I think it’s fair. I bring domestic services, I do my best to fit your lifestyle and aesthetic, I have a low body count (only has sex with my husband), I am supportive, and I believe in a 100/100 relationship, not 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:36 AM
3

I asked my husband this question since he was right next to me. He met me in college, but I was a rare exception. It’s hard to find virgin women but you might have some luck finding a low body count woman if you look in the right places. You can go to Christian/religious dating apps, church, religious events, religious educational institutions, small colleges, library, maybe even while you are walking in a nice park if you see a modest lady. You could venture off to another country that is conse…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:32 AM
2

Rich men can have it all, multiple wives, concubines, escorts, sex slaves, girlfriends.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 10:14 PM
3

Before I married my husband, I’d make sure to show off that I’d be a good wife. I’d come over to his place regularly to drop of meals, freshly baked pastries, clean his home, organize his room, and always texted him everyday. Since you are in college, you might not necessarily have all the time in the world but if you went over to his place at least twice a week to clean his room and pamper him I’m sure he’d appreciate that. You can clip his nails, give him a foot bath, lotion him, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/22 10:13 PM
7

He might have been scared away due to meeting your family so soon or maybe it could be something else. If he wants you, he will pursue you. Don’t chase after him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/22 10:08 PM
4

Multiple wives is for rich men.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 10:03 PM
-5

Chads always have the most women.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 09:25 PM
1

Let’s be honest though, feminists want to murder and rape all men.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 08:09 PM
-11

The part about marrying four wives is really cool in Islam, I like that part.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 08:07 PM
2

From all the posts I see about it, it sounds like it’s pretty common unfortunately. Especially after a woman has kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:33 AM
9

I see a lot of people stop trying by the time they reach 25. It’s unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:20 PM
2

Fell to the ground screaming and crying.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 08:52 PM
1

A whopping 257 people care, it’s so many people that the Ukrainian government will be forced to listen.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 07:58 PM
5

I’m a woman and I never really felt worshipped by men, but I think it’s because I always bluntly turn men down. Men simp only when they think they have a glimmer of hope to have a sexual interaction, if you shut that down, they don’t simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:12 PM
1

Hypergamy in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:07 PM
2

I think women who have sex with every dude that is into them is pretty rare. Most women that are promiscuous usually hop from chad to chad, rather than hopping from average Joe to average Joe. So even women that are promiscuous, are selective to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:28 PM
1

Most of the sex positive media I see is mostly glorifying sex work and casual sex. I’m sure there are plenty of individuals who are sex positive and not sleeping around, but a majority of the vocal ones are hyper sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:26 PM
2

I see posts on this sub and other manosphere subs shaming women for wanting ‘Chad’. Of course men get shamed too, I’m not sure who gets shamed more, but either way you can see plenty of posts like this. It’s not even just in the manosphere, even in female circles on Reddit women will get shamed if they have more traditional preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:52 PM
9

This petition is going to change the mind of the Ukrainian government
/r/MensRights23/03/22 12:48 PM
4

Both men and women put their best foot forward to get what they want out of a relationship, sex and/or commitment. I wouldn’t call this manipulation unless they have ill intent and are completely faking their personality. I think it’s actually pretty normal to do your best in life and in a relationship when you are initially courting someone, ideally, whatever good habits you started while courting someone you should try to keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:36 PM
1

I don’t know why women feel oppressed and don’t like hearing mens oppression. I’ve always felt privileged and perfectly happy with it.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 12:24 PM
2

I’ve seen humans be vanished by small rodents called squirrels. We are very domesticated.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 12:22 PM
7

Technically, all humans are domesticated. Over years we raise humans to have certain behaviors, remove certain behaviors, and we don’t live in the jungle anymore. Maybe it’s time to go back to monkee
/r/MensRights23/03/22 06:51 AM
1

I was discussing my agreements and disagreements with the the topic, the topic at hand being the individual in the article. So what exactly do you disagree with?
/r/MensRights23/03/22 06:41 AM
1

Yes, thank you for proving my point. So what exactly do you disagree about?
/r/MensRights23/03/22 06:37 AM
1

No one said NATO was just as bad.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 06:30 AM
1

So what exactly do you disagree with then?
/r/MensRights23/03/22 06:23 AM
5

The company needs to be liquidated and give all the money to the male victim, just to make an example out of them.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 05:44 AM
24

Just do what’s best for you. Society isn’t always going to advocate for your best interests.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 05:43 AM
7

Hopefully he presses charges and she goes to jail for a long time, he gets money due to the interference with his work, and she gets put on the sex offenders registry.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 04:21 AM
4

Telling guys I was waiting until marriage eliminated 90 percent of potential suitors. A lot do men want to to date virgins but not necessarily be obligated to commit to them long term. So, I do think that a lot of men want virgins for marriage but only on their terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:13 AM
2

Let’s be honest though, most people who identify as sexual positive are out here prowling the streets. I’m sure there are some, perhaps like myself, who are very reserved with their sexuality and sexually positive in the privacy of their bedrooms. But I think they are in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:09 AM
3

Actually the stats do support it. Frankly, I believe this is a larp since you are going out of your way to defend promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:41 PM
4

Depending on where you go, there are a decent amount of promiscuous women. Sexual behavior varies from place to place. You seem offended by the reality that most men don’t want promiscuous women, is it due to your own body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:08 PM
5

Yes I know, but my point still stands that a majority of men won’t commit to promiscuous women. Being promiscuous dramatically reduces a woman’s dating options for long term commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:43 PM
21

I was at Target yesterday, my husband bought me some gummy vitamins. I noticed lots of pictures of women in varies body sizes, colours, and ages. However, the mens section mostly had attractive, muscular, young white men. Of course, I don’t think it needs to be said, I have no issue with European gigachad, but I can’t help but notice the hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 08:05 PM
8

Most men aren’t super conservative trad men, but most men still don’t want to commit to a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:57 PM
0

Do you disagree that Russia is wrong to invade Ukraine?
/r/MensRights22/03/22 06:09 PM
2

I agree that Russia does plenty of bad things, but I also acknowledge the NATO doesn’t have their hands so clean either. An acknowledgment of the Wests mistakes isn’t me absolving Russia of their crimes.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 04:59 PM
28

Female sexual positivity is a positive for women who don’t need family and marriage for long term happiness, but a negative for women who wants these things. I’ve seen countless stories of women who have deep regrets over their promiscuous past because they struggle to find a man that will take them seriously for marriage and long term commitment. In my case, I waited until marriage but even for women like me who never engaged in sex positivity it did make it harder to find a husband. Why would …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:57 PM
10

It depends on how you personally define as intimate. Ideally, I’d like him to be emotionally vulnerable with me first but I have no issue if he’s just venting to a friend. Friends are meant to be emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:07 PM
7

No. As long as they aren’t doing anything intimate or disrespecting our relationship, I don’t care. I only had him cut off two friends during our relationship. One guy, because he made inappropriate comments about me. And one girl, because she didn’t approve of our engagement when we announced it and was very rude to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:56 PM
6

Being a chad isn’t entirely defined by a man’s physical attractiveness. While physical attractiveness does play a part in whether a man is a chad or not, a chad is primarily defined as a man that can/does get with a lot of women. There are plenty of ugly men that can get with a lot of women, I’d imagine most of them probably attract women with their wallets. In fact, I’d say that for woman a man being hot isn’t a requirement but rather a nice bonus. Wome pursue men with status, power, and resour…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:51 PM
29

I’ve always texted my husband frequently, even before we were married. He’s always been a busy guy but he appreciates seeing that I’ve been thinking about him throughout the day, he gets back to me when he cans. I think everyone is a bit different when it comes to texting but I don’t think most men would mind seeing that a woman is sending them cute messages throughout the day. It makes someone feel appreciated.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/22 03:11 PM
9

It’s extremely important to be able to be open with each other and not need to always have a facade of being proper around each other. Sometimes, I want to have a water gun fight, or throw a snowball, or loudly making degenerate Rick and Morty references while my husband stares at me like I’m an alien.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:02 PM
17

To me, cheating is doing anything intimate with another person outside of our relationship that we didn’t both agree about. For example, secretly meeting up with a girl and having sex with her without my permission is cheating. Having my blessing to pursue a specific woman wouldn’t be cheating. Even if it’s emotional intimacy it’s still cheating if it’s without my knowledge or agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:00 PM
21

Some of the things he said about the conflict are true, but I also feel like there is some misinformation. I do agree that NATO has made Russia feel threatened quite a few times, but I disagree with him when he says that everything that Russia is doing is purely defensive. Invading Ukraine, and threatening other countries, even neutral ones, isn’t defensive.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 02:35 PM
3

Where do you think I changed my mind?
/r/MensRights22/03/22 02:27 PM
3

I’d like to add that I don’t exactly agree with trans women or anyone being forced to fight, I think people should fight for their country but it should be completely voluntary, never forced. I can’t fully be honest about my opinion on…the alphabet community but I’m Russian Orthodox so you can take a guess.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 02:25 PM
4

I just think it’s ridiculous for the left to be surprised that trans women are being told to go and fight. What is there to be surprised about? It’s barely news worthy.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 02:22 PM
4

I’m Russian.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 02:15 PM
4

Eastern Europe is notoriously anti LGBT. I don’t know why anyone is surprised that trans women are told to go to their country to fight.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 02:11 PM
1

🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:06 PM
27

As a woman who works in the tech sector, I can tell you that most women simply aren’t interested and if they are, they quickly realize they actually aren’t. Most women would rather have a job where their looks can be appreciated and they can interact with people, I don’t blame them for that, being in front of a screen all day isn’t fun. It’s not a hard job and it pays well, but it can drive me crazy sometimes.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 12:25 PM
1

It’s super cute and I highly recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:08 PM
1

I don’t think that confidence and honesty about one’s emotions are mutually exclusive. I’m pretty confident in myself and I’m also always very honest. Because I’m confident, I’m not usually feeling down but when I am I am confident enough to say how I’m feeling. Especially for a man, it’s a take a lot of confidence to be blunt about their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:07 PM
4

There isn’t a difference between a woman’s attraction and a man’s attraction, but one makes me uncomfortable and the other doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:59 AM
5

I don’t want or appreciate a man’s attraction. Especially from a friend. If you see it as misandry, then so be it, but it’ my boundaries that I enforce for my own comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:02 AM
3

I genuinely enjoy wearing makeup, my husband appreciates my natural look and the look with makeup. He says he doesn’t see a difference lol. Maybe he just appreciates the effort to look good for him. It’s kind of like lingerie, it’s just an accessory to look and feel pretty but men would rather just rip it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:00 AM
1

Well, a woman having attraction is fine but I can’t tolerate it from a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:24 AM
14

When I’m at the Gucci store buying makeup, I can assure you that I’m not thinking to myself “this is doing to assert my dominance and superiority over men gorilla chest beating”. If anything, I am trying to be more attractive and pretty to look at for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:21 AM
2

No, I don’t have female friends I find attractive. They are pretty, but I have no attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:18 AM
2

I don’t necessarily think I would have required him to be a virgin but certainly a man that embraces the concept of purity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:16 AM
2

My husband was a virgin, but definitely more experienced than me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:15 AM
2

I was just throwing a number out there, what I’m saying is that it just depends on what the men in your society defines as promiscuous. I’m a Christian, so I waited until marriage due to religious belief but also because most Christian men require a virgin. While a woman from… let’s say Miami, might be able to get away with sleeping with ten dudes without being seen as a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:24 AM
4

When I say a sexual past, I mean a promiscuous past. What defines a promiscuous woman is different from culture to culture, in North Korea being in the same room as your husband is promiscuous while in the US 50 guys and onlyfans in the bio isn’t promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:04 AM
3

There are all sorts of power imbalances in the world but as long as it’s two consenting adults, it’s ok. The only exception of course is teacher/student and boss/employee.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 10:50 PM
20

If a woman wants marriage and family, she shouldn’t be promiscuous. The reality is that men don’t take women with a sexual past seriously for long term relationships and marriage. Being promiscuous is the easiest way to epilate yourself as a potential for wife for a majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:11 PM
72

Feminists just like to bully men, they will find any reason to do so. Bullying someone due to their hobby is pretty low.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 08:54 PM
16

This is why I keep men at arms length. I don’t mind have male friends but I have certain boundaries with them that I wouldn’t have with female friends. Men aren’t bad people for having attraction towards their female friends but the reality is that the feelings are there usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:45 PM
3

I find men to not be sexually appealing, and I don’t think my husband would be ok with me having male concubines, I haven’t asked him though. We are focusing on ourselves and our relationship for now but in the future we are open to having a harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:38 PM
1

I didn’t address planned parenthood.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 08:36 PM
3

Most aren’t, but this one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:08 PM
-11

The draft exemptions are there, they are just not being enforced unfortunately.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 08:01 PM
1

If I’m a coward then I’m a rich coward.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 07:54 PM
0

They banned men who have less than three kids, aren’t disabled, and are of the ages of 18-60 from leaving the country. Edit: and not single fathers.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 07:47 PM
32

I sympathize with their anger but a lot of Russian boys are forced into the war. It’s unfair to castrate someone that didn’t even want to go to your country in the first place.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 07:46 PM
4

I don’t judge men for having kinks but I wouldn’t be willing to date them or participate in their kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:43 PM
1

Ok.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 07:42 PM
-1

I’m not justifying it, just guessing on what their intent could be. I’ll continue enjoying the Louis Vuitton store sips tea
/r/MensRights21/03/22 06:59 PM
-1

No, I never justified it.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 06:59 PM
1

Why can’t people not be drafted?
/r/MensRights21/03/22 06:29 PM
0

Yup.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 06:28 PM
0

I’m not obligated to do anything.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 06:18 PM
-1

I don’t think anyone should be drafted.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 06:17 PM
-8

No thanks, I’m not interesting in activism of any kind.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 05:31 PM
3

It makes me rethink the notion of dying for one’s country, it can be honorable but it is still honor when men are forced and just used as meat shields?
/r/MensRights21/03/22 05:11 PM
-1

I live in the US, how am I going to force anyone to fight in Ukraine?
/r/MensRights21/03/22 04:44 PM
-1

I’m just explaining the logic the Ukrainian government is using. If people think I’m justifying it, that is their error, I don’t care.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 04:43 PM
-6

When did I say it was justified?
/r/MensRights21/03/22 03:31 PM
2

Men demonstrate value by their physical fitness, success in their career, resources they have accumulated. Women demonstrate value by being very selective with the men they choose, domestic skills, and good friendships. The one thing that overlaps is that both men and women demonstrate value by their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:16 PM
22

I didn’t have a hoe phase and I turned out pretty good, in fact, I turned out better than some women who did have a hoe phase. I’m married, I waited until marriage, I graduated college, I married a successful and kind man, and I have a good friend group of lovely likeminded women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:14 PM
1

I like anything from skinny to muscular. Skinny guys may not be hot but they are cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:13 PM
4

No I’m not a Russian bot 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:12 PM
-6

You say that as if I can do anything about it.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 03:04 PM
-15

I’m guessing they want all the men to stay to rebuild the country even if they aren’t all accepted into the military. It also helps prevent too many Russian from just settling down and taking a home.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 02:54 PM
3

I’d imagine taking care of the elderly or adult handicap might even be more difficult than caring for a baby. I don’t have any babies or any adult I care for at the moment but at least with a baby you can easily pick them up and they don’t get aggressive. Some elderly and handicap adults can get aggressive or if they fall it’s harder to pick them up. My husband works in healthcare and busted his shoulder once due to picking up a patient, since he’s a surgeon, it did affect his work temporarily.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 02:52 PM
2

I’m very offended by what you are insinuating. I tolerate it from Westerners and correct their line of thinking but I don’t expect it from a fellow Russian.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:39 PM
3

I’m a stay at home wife, have been for a while but if the enemy comes to my doorstep I am defending my home.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 02:23 PM
-5

It’s a difficult situation. Ideally, no person should be forced to enter war even if it is to defend their homeland but if no one is forced a countries sovereignty can’t be maintained.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 02:23 PM
2

I waited until marriage, best decision I’ve made in life. There is nothing that compares to that closeness to have with a partner when you reserve your sexuality for them and only them. It builds strong bonds and strong families.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 02:12 PM
3

It makes me very sad and I hope it ends soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:46 PM
10

I watched that scene and wanting to punch the lady
/r/MensRights21/03/22 02:06 AM
1

I don’t think Americans are stupid, fat due to their own choices but certainly not stupid. You have wonderful education.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:19 AM
23

Most Russian women are slim, I haven’t seen any Russian with big boobs and butt. We are expected to maintain a slim figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:11 PM
4

I certainly wouldn’t do that nor would most women I know. Being bitter does not help you in life, I recommend you get out more and socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:10 PM
20

So many wars happen due to forcing men into them. I bet in almost all wars a majority of the soldiers didn’t volunteer. If politicians have beef with each other, they can beat each other up instead of dragging along innocents.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 10:48 PM
22

I will say, as a Russian woman one of the reasons I married my husband is because he is gentle and a genuinely kind person. Russian men are somewhat rough around the edges.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:41 PM
1

So no to unreasonable debt. Some debt can not be avoided for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:38 PM
3

Other than Reddit, I don’t pay attention to American media. I mostly watch Russian content.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:37 PM
0

I mean America primarily, the rest of the West seems to not have these issues or if they do to a much lesser extent. When I say East I was thinking of Eastern Europe but I think Asia might apply as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:37 PM
1

NYC
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:06 PM
2

I’d also like to add that I’ve visited another part of the Midwest, New York had a lot of obesity in comparison to the other part of the Midwest I visited, Idaho and Utah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:05 PM
5

Not to mention that it’s financially beneficial to take care of your men in your country. Men are the backbone of the economy so their health needs should be met.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 10:04 PM
3

I’ve visited parts of the Midwest, Idaho and Utah. The malls didn’t have too many fat people, I actually had trouble finding fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:03 PM
1

Meet a girl that is a virgin, or stay single. That is what I’d do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:01 PM
7

I currently live in the US and have been since my youth, I managed very well without debt. I do have some sympathy though, I do think that the system is rigged but I’ve seen plenty of immigrants manage without debt. Some people are victims of circumstances, I acknowledge it, but to a certain extent there is an element of choice. Saying no to debt and saying no to fattening foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:59 PM
5

I come from a middle class background, and currently somewhat middle-upper class and my husband is a surgeon. I assure you I’m not lower class but that’s besides the point. If you have ever ventured out of your community, you will notice fat people, everywhere and in every class. When my family came to the US, first thing we saw at the airport is many obese people. One of the places that I see less to no fat people regardless of class are places like the Midwest, or Idaho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:57 PM
5

Sure, not being fat doesn’t make someone hot but being fat does guarantee someone isn’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:46 PM
9

Anyone if any class can see that the US has lots of fat and debt. I’m not lower class and I see it, the world sees it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:44 PM
5

If a poor country and poor people can manage to not be fat and not have debt, people in rich countries have no excuse. Not being fat is one of the easiest things you can do in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:31 PM
7

I think you misspelled father and person who contributed half of the DNA.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 09:30 PM
6

Right when my family landed in America, first thing we saw was mostly obese people. It was shocking. Even in affluent areas it’s not uncommon to see at least one obese person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:29 PM
17

Anyone of any class can see that the US is full of debt and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:12 PM
1

I’ve seen this sort of discussion on numerous occasions in mens circles. I’ve seen it in this sub, I’ve seen it on anti feminists, I’ve seen it on Fresh and Fit, I’ve seen it in Kevin Samuels, I’ve seen it on redpill subs, I’ve even seen it on religious subs. I don’t mind men making complaints of their women, but when they embody the same negative qualities it sort of feels like right message but wrong messenger. Like Brittany Renner and her class on how to avoid gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:41 PM
2

Ah, it’s both. The average is indeed low value in the US. I seem to have underestimated poverty and fatness in the US. For us Russians, even low value doesn’t have much debt or fatness. Even out of people who do have debt I have never heard of a Russian with crazy amounts of debt like I’ve heard Americans have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:35 PM
15

The father should always have a say.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 07:21 PM
2

Women can be rapists and the idea that it is a crime that only men inflict is harmful to victims. Im not a male victims, but I do stand in solidarity with any victim regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 07:20 PM
3

But you just said it was average. So is it considered average or low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:09 PM
4

My post is clearly about low value men and low value women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:06 PM
5

Are those males obese, in debt, broke?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:59 PM
11

I see a lot of men that feel very strongly about being against universal healthcare, but honestly, women receive something akin to universal healthcare, so why block men from healthcare? There are lots of charities, financial aid from the hospital, government, and even families to help women with their medical expenses.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 04:06 PM
2

I just don’t agree that it’s the majority of women, it’s maybe 20 max.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:57 PM
1

I’m Russia, Greek/Russian but I live in the US. Even though American women have more casual sex than most places, I would say it’s only 20 percent of women max. Casual sex isn’t as common as people of this sub think and it’s easy to avoid that scene of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:56 PM
2

A school shooter isn’t a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:54 PM
1

Casual sex isn’t nearly as big as you would think it is. When I went to college, the party/hookup scene was 10-20 percent of women and maybe double for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:53 PM
1

A bad boy that is good? Isn’t that contradictory? A bad boy can never be good to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:31 AM
3

I’m a woman that never dated a bad boy, shouldn’t that be proof enough? And from my interactions with women, most healthy minded women want a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:31 AM
11

“They rejected me because I’m a nice guy” Said the school shooter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:17 AM
9

I’ve never dated or has sex with a ‘bad boy’ nor did most of my female friends. The women who actively pursue these kind of men are in the minority, perhaps a vocal minority because they like attention but still a minority. Women value a man that can take care of them first and foremost, a bad boy can’t do that usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:48 AM
11

I don’t agree. I enjoy doing small talk when I’m out and about, I don’t ever see it as flirting unless they are obvious about it. For example, a guy cashier talks to me just to be nice since I’m a customer, a guy just saying hi because I’m right next to him in line for coffee, or talking to my male professor about about an assignment. 90 percent of men talking to me I didn’t interpret as flirting. It’s possible for men to just simply talk to women with no other intent than to just talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:45 AM
1

The context does make it less worse but still, it’s not something you should ever ask a colleague even in the context of phrasing an argument. No one wants to feel sexualized at work.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 04:23 AM
16

It is wrong to assault someone, being a woman doesn’t give you the right to assault someone.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 01:54 AM
3

Even if a family is poor, kids function well when a dad is present and guides the kids in life. Good choices lead to good outcomes.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 01:53 AM
5

Having my nails done is nice until I take off my set. I wish there was a way to better maintain the health of my nails and also have them look cute.
/r/RedPillWives20/03/22 01:51 AM
1

I don’t think I’m talented enough to sell my art, I usually just do it for fun. Yes I paint on canvas but also at my computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:48 AM
7

I am interested in a relationship/sex because it makes my life much more enjoyable. I enjoy taking care of my husband, making him happy, and doing things together like going to the gym or taking a walk. I always feel like I have someone to rely on. If I get sick, he takes care of me and vice versa. It dramatically reduces stress and brings lots of joy. A relationship is very fulfilling if it’s with the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:47 AM
1

Usually flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:30 AM
2

Ah! You just gave me another reason to add to my list for why genetic testing should happen to kids. Doing maternity testing can help keep track of the women making kids out of wedlock so men don’t get scammed.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 01:29 AM
2

My husband is a provider and also physically attractive, 6”1’, good amount of muscle and when he was younger definitely had very defined muscle. Just because a man can be promiscuous doesn’t mean he won’t settle down. Most men do want kids and typically women require long term commitment in exchange for their womb. In the case of my husband, he’s Christian, so waiting until marriage is important to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:18 AM
13

Alpha fux vs beta bux is interesting to me. Why are these two categories treated as mutually exclusive? Plenty of physically attractive men can also financially doing well and willing to provide for a woman. In fact, men with means tend to have not only an attractive wallet but also an attractive physique. Women love height, and tall men tend to be afforded more economic and romantic opportunities. Men with more money have more time to go to the gym and work out, so they look better. Physically …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:45 PM
1

A lot of overweight people spend 20 dollars for themselves each time they eat fast food but then complain they lack money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:37 PM
2

I only have slept with one person, my husband, but I did court with a few other boys before my husband. 90 percent of them don’t interest me, but there were two that had good values, one of them earns too little money for me to consider, the other one has a career that is profitable but deadly. So, I wouldn’t have a romantic interaction with any of my past courtships. Anyways, hooking up isn’t something that interests me at all and never has.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:43 PM
2

My hobbies include going to the gym Monday - Friday, looking into which luxury bag I’ll buy next, I like to read, but paint, and sometimes I play videogames but I wouldn’t call that a hobby since I don’t game often.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:40 PM
0

Most women throughout the world are worth commitment but most women in the West are not worth commitment. I know if I were a man I wouldn’t date 90 percent of these broads. A majority of women are overweight, have debt, and probably have a feminist mindset which is not compatible with maintaining long term heterosexual relationships. Being overweight for both men and women is bad but for women it directly impairs their fertility. Men want a healthy woman to create children, to be attracted to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:38 PM
1

I’m Russian, it’s one of the reasons I’d want an Eastern European woman. To keep the culture going. Edit: If I were a man of course
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:53 PM
1

So…the joke is that they are masquerading as anti feminist stereotypes? To make the movement look bad?
/r/MensRights19/03/22 07:35 PM
3

I’m sure they steal DNA from women too but I didn’t see much info about it so I’d assume it wasn’t on a massive scale like the DNA they took from a bunch of men, maybe even millions.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 07:26 PM
29

I agree that sexual compatibly is important and some men require a woman with a low to no body count however, I think asking about someone’s body count outside of the context of a relationship with or courtship to be rude. In the same way asking someone’s salary is rude outside of the context of a relationship or business interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:23 PM
13

In my opinion, I think there is a difference between a virgin hunter and a man that prefers a virgin. I think it’s wrong to label guys that prefer virgins as virgin hunters and inherently predatory, I do think predatory men are out there and of course they go after women that seem/are more submissive. I tend to attract a lot of these kind of guys as a petite Russian that seems meek and weak. The difference between a virgin hunter and a man that prefers a virgin is for one, the latter actually tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:21 PM
1

No because I’m Christian and no because I think dating without purpose is a waste of time and money. I’d rather use my finances on myself to build myself up as a man then invest into my wife and family. Even outside of marriage men are expected to be the provider so I’d rather not waste time energy and money into a black hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:47 PM
4

I disagree slightly but understand your perspective. China has done something similar with taking a lot of dna info from males and arresting them when their dna shows up at crime scenes. I believe this makes society safer but I can see how it may seem like too much government control.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 06:46 PM
1

I admire someone who can succeed despite extreme circumstances, it is something to be praised. Financial success is a good indicator of other success too, mentally, physically, socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:43 PM
2

If I were a man, I would wait until I was around 35 and financially capable of having a wife or long term woman. I’d make sure to buy a nice house in a nice area and sign up for a Christian marriage arrangement or I’d get a nice woman from a village in Eastern Europe. My ideal first date would be meeting her parents and asking to marry her and bring her to my home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:39 PM
34

I think feminists got so caught up in inclusivity that they are now excluding women, biological women from their own sports. Sports are separated by gender due to the biological difference between men and women, it’s no secret that men are faster and stronger than women and it’s based on biology not identity.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 04:33 PM
10

I tried to Google it everywhere but I can’t seem to find male refugee organizations for Ukrainian men. At most, it seems like these organizations focus on women and kids and maybe the few lucky men that escape due to maybe a disability or they are too old to be drafted. I think if you want to help male Ukrainian refugees you can go on Tiktok, I’ve seen a few ask Tiktok for donations or you can donate directly to Ukrainian. I’m sure they use that money to help the men on the front lines.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 04:30 PM
17

Marital rape always existed but I hate the notion that feminists push that it was commonplace. Abuse against women has never been socially acceptable in any period of time. It has always been frowned upon and men who hurt their wives would be shunned if not lynched, simply being accused of abuse even with no evidence would get men killed, shunned, or sent away from their homes.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 04:27 PM
0

There are many men I respect/admire. My husband, who comes from an Asian immigrant home. He works in the medical field and earns a good living despite having faced extreme poverty and even homelessness at one point in his life. My father, who left his country in Europe to come to the US to earn lots of money. My grandfather, who experienced the horrific reality of war not once but twice. He was put in an interment camp for a year and was one of the few survivors of his camp. He has no education,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:00 PM
-3

Apparently he asked a colleague if she does sex work. It sounds like he might not have the best personality, regardless, I think attacking his appearance is low. He isn’t even ugly in my opinion, he looks quite normal.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 02:22 PM
48

We’ve talked about mens rights a few times. I’ve made it clear to my husband my stance on mens rights especially when it comes to the family courts. I told him in case of a divorce, if we have children, I’d let him have primary custody or 50/50 custody, if he wants a paternity test there won’t be pushback from me, and when it comes to child support I’d rather deal with that between us rather than at a court. Unless he is primary custody then I won’t pursue child support at all.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 02:15 PM
16

Yes, women work less so they earn less.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 02:08 PM
7

Nothing compares to the kind of love someone has when they were younger and had nothing, genuine attraction for each other. Once you get older, people start to want things from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:26 AM
18

Men have always been treated as disposable. That’s why.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 09:04 AM
8

I think if we advertise it as something that helps women too, it would be much more acceptable. For example, we could pass a law to do a paternity test, maternity test, and other genetic screening. That way women can’t feel like they are being accused of anything.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 08:46 AM
2

Im happier being a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:40 AM
4

My husband pays for basically everything but I only work part time. He significantly out earns me. I use my money for my (mine but technically ours, separate accounts) savings primarily, gifts for people on special occasions or hear and there, and sometimes I pay for dates, sometimes I buy the groceries, just depends on how much I earned that month. Assuming both people are working and both are gainfully employed, both should be contributing to bills. Most women earn less than men so I think mos…
/r/MensRights19/03/22 07:14 AM
27

I think it might be hard to get an accurate number of gay and bisexual men. Society tends to be harsh in male sexuality especially if the homosexual variety which leads to men being less honest and open about it. Out of those that are honest about it, I’d imagine that most aren’t highly vocal about it. Women on the other hand face little to no social consequences for displaying homosexual behavior, in fact, they might even be encouraged to do so. The lesbian category is very popular for men to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:55 AM
1

Physical strength is an advantage, I’ve made no other argument. Your just making up an argument.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 05:00 AM
15

Here is the thing though, I believe that mandatory paternity testing helps out way more women than it would ‘screw over’ (not really screwed over it’s just consequences of their actions). Women get to have peace of mind that the child is actually theirs, some babies get switched on accident.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 04:59 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:56 AM
2

Plenty of guys are high value, play video games, and also date high value women. Look at Snoop Dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:39 PM
2

I had a grandpa approach me once at a grocery store, it was funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:31 PM
3

Privilege a special right, advantage, or immunity granted or available only to a particular person or group. Let’s not argue about it ok
/r/MensRights18/03/22 11:28 PM
1

If I worked full time, I’d be able to live on my own and live decently. I have a B.S. in computer science. I simply choose to work part time and at my own pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:27 PM
3

I’ve noticed that I don’t always attract the best kind of men. I can’t exactly point out why they make me feel weird but they do. I’m kinda small, thin, dress modestly and Russian. I can already see them thinking certain things once I say I’m Russian and the assumption that I’ll go along with whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:20 PM
2

I always thought that dressing modestly helped to ward off men, I’ve been proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:11 PM
0

I didn’t pick my husband based on height, it was just a nice bonus that I appreciate. Much like how big boobs aren’t a requirement for men, just a nice bonus. I choose him based on him respecting my values first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:58 PM
3

Privilege can also be an advantage, not just something given to you. But it doesn’t matter that much really.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 10:57 PM
14

I roam outside of my house quite a bit, I go to the gym Monday-Friday, grocery shop once a week, and meet up with friends at a tea/boba/ coffee shop once a week. I’m not ugly, but I’m not a model either (although I did briefly model when I was 16). I’d rate myself a 6 honestly. It’s not unusual for me to have a man flirt with me once a week especially at the gym. I’m married so I always turn them down obviously. It doesn’t offend me at all to have men approach me so long as they are respectful a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:35 PM
1

Yes. He pays all the bills, I do work a bit as well. I use my income for my savings mainly but also use it for gifts or things here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:26 PM
1

I have no interest in other men. We support each other equally, just in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:13 PM
5

I’m Orthodox. My religion helps me stay motivated to be healthy because treating my body poorly is a sin. Other than that, I think I’m relatively a regular woman.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 10:05 PM
2

I agree but what does it have to do with men naturally having more physical strength in average than women?
/r/MensRights18/03/22 10:03 PM
0

I’m focusing on myself but also him. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean one is neglecting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:02 PM
4

An advantage. It’s a neutral term. Everyone has different advantages.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 10:01 PM
1

I’m sure everyone has their definitions of high value, I don’t care whether he is or not, I just love him. I do think he might fit some peoples definition of high value, he is considered attractive, he works out, is tall, he makes a very good income (let’s say upper middle class), he works in healthcare, and has an attractive personality. My pets bonded with him way quicker than they did with me, he just has a way with people and animals. Most importantly, he took me seriously and treats me well…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:13 PM
2

It’s biology but it is also a privilege. Privilege isn’t a bad word.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 09:08 PM
0

Well, I do these things for him because I want to and because I love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:07 PM
0

My husband doesn’t have any concubines yet, we are focusing on our relationship for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:59 PM
1

Oh no, sex is only for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:39 PM
1

Why wouldn’t I be ok with it? As long as he can afford it. If he does get some concubines, I do prefer them to be virgins or at least low body count. I had to be a virgin to get him so they should work hard too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:02 PM
1

Everyone has time for video games :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:45 PM
9

It’s ok to give women vouchers on womens day as long as they give vouchers to men on mens day, of equal value of course.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 05:56 PM
28

Feminism has gotten so extreme that it is actively anti women. It’s been extreme for a while but now it’s even turning on itself.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 05:55 PM
16

I think the only privilege men have that is better is their physical strength. Other than that I love being a woman. My husband just got me two miu miu purses yesterday to expand my collection. I wouldn’t have it any other way.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 05:52 PM
28

If they know where she is, are you able to file a claim for custody or at least 50/50 custody?
/r/MensRights18/03/22 05:50 PM
5

I don’t think following one’s nature is a bad thing as long as you are honest and not abusive. My husband being taller, fit, and a decent earner makes me very attracted to him. I love his looks, personality, and appreciate him financing me. We can appreciate and be attracted to vain things about a person while also appreciating them as an individual with thoughts, feelings, and hobbies. Rich men with big boob wives must love their wives big boobs but I’m sure there are plenty of non vain qualiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:43 PM
1

Elden Ring is the best game in the world. Defy me and face the wrath of gamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:16 PM
2

Playing videogames with the man is always so fun, you should try. Men enjoy their women joining them for video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:15 PM
5

What why? 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:58 PM
16

Toxic Masculinity -some drunk methhead making sexual comments about everyone that passes, even other men High value man -A king who knows his worth and plays Elden Ring
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:43 PM
3

No, I could end up uglier. I think I’m ok looking, which is pretty easy to be ok looking when most women around me are obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:42 PM
1

Unfortunately I’m not educated on that topic so I can’t give an answer but I’ve seen plenty of successful relationships with men having multiple women. Like Muslim people and their four wives or the many kings throughout history that had many women. Most men always have that one lady that is always in their heart no matter how my women they have as sexual servants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:40 PM
1

I never said that my religion allows for concubines, just that we are Orthodox and we are ok with concubines.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:36 PM
-4

That guy was my favorite German politician, his ideas were quite revolutionary.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 02:25 PM
0

What about biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:24 PM
0

I’m confident in our bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:02 PM
0

Shrug 🤷🏻‍♀️ if he decides to replace me I’ll take half his stuff and money. I doubt that he will love me less but even if he did he has a financial incentive to not divorce me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:55 PM
5

I don’t care about other peoples body counts, I’m just not willing to have sex outside of marriage. Realistically, my odds of finding a guy ok on waiting for sex to a widow until marriage are slimmer, slimmer than when I was waiting until marriage as a virgin. I’m not gonna deal with the head ache of with hook ups or waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:54 PM
0

Yes, it’s ok as long as everyone is a consenting adult and she respects that I’m the wife so my kids and myself come first for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:51 PM
5

I waited three years before having sex with my husband. The waiting game does deter men who don’t have good intentions but also eliminates 90 percent of men. I’m not willing to have sex or play the waiting game, so I’d rather stay single if my husband died.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:45 PM
1

Really? Did she end up having a few concubines? How did it work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:43 PM
5

I just felt like it was a prank. He approached me with his shirt off and he was clearly a 10/10 dude, he could have approached any of the way more attractive girls but he went for a plain Jane that is modestly dressed. I didn’t trust that he honestly had attraction towards me or good intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:28 PM
17

I don’t understand how women can pursue young males. I don’t even look at males my age much less younger ones, especially no illegal aged males. It’s pedophillia.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 11:25 AM
-2

If he’s able to afford it, he can have concubines. I want them to be taken care of if he chooses this path. I’m not sure if I’d be willing to help raise the kids, it would have to be something I’d reflect on. Ideally, my husband would buy an apartment for her and she can live on her own and he’d visit from time to time to creampie her but if it’s a woman I got along with very well I’d consider promoting her to girlfriend and let her live with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:17 AM
4

My husband is tall. I don’t intend to leave him so no, I won’t be able to ‘go back’ to shorter men or any man regardless of height. If the worst were to happen and he died or divorced I’d just stay celibate the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:02 AM
-2

I’m an Orthodox Christian and love the Old Testament. We believe that marriage is between two people but it’s ok to have as many concubines as a man can afford. They of course don’t get the same privileges as the wife but they should of course be taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:06 AM
-3

Yes I’m his wife and fit his standards, but it also applies to the requirements of potential concubines.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:02 AM
-1

I decided to ask my husband this question, this is what he said. He requires a woman to be a virgin in every sense of the word (no loopholes), a woman that is pleasant to be around, cooks, cleans, has long hair, he prefers straight hair, he requires feminine attire but prefers dresses and long skirts, she must be Christian, she must be a homemaker although if she wants to work a bit it’s ok as long as it doesn’t interfere with the wifely duties, he requires a healthy body but prefers one slightl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:59 AM
17

I’m married but if I were to be single again, I think I’d remain celibate for the rest of my life. There is no satisfaction in casual relationships or hookups. Just drama and heartache.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:50 AM
0

Don’t get me wrong, I think the current dating market is harsh. Especially as a virgin who waited until marriage, I know that dating in a culture that is sex and money focused is difficult. However, I think you are also exaggerating some of the issues in the dating market. It’s never been easier to filter out people who you aren’t compatible with especially on dating apps, you can input what search results you want as if you are on Amazon. I think too many people aim for what they are unlikely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:47 AM
2

Go ahead and make the same argument about race, I’m not stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:46 AM
11

My off limits places to be approached is in a parking lot and I’m exiting or entering my vehicle, if I’m going in or out of the woman’s restroom, or I’m filling up the gas in my car. My ok places to be approached are places that are social functions, coffee or tea shop, book store, maybe the grocery store. I have never went on a date with a guy that approached me, most were not to my liking or I didn’t like their approach. There have been a couple of times that I considered it but decided not to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:29 AM
9

Number 3 is a beautiful man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:27 AM
2

I don’t care about being called honey/sweetie/sugar from strangers, it’s a bit flattering actually. It’s much better than how some men refer to women, in Seattle sometimes men will haggle you on the street. I’ve had comments made about my butt, my body, and it’s just gross. I dress very modestly btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:26 AM
9

I’ve always felt like promiscuous behavior of women is highly exaggerated especially by the media. Different places have different sexual practices but I’ve honestly rarely met promiscuous women. A good amount of my friends were Muslim girls in college so maybe my experience is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:23 AM
5

Women tend to commit less crimes, in particular violent crimes. So I think there is always going to be a bias in favor of women unless women start committing crimes at the same rates as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:08 PM
0

Men have a biological desire to spread their seed, this means they have a craving to hump different kinds of women. If watching porn is something that helps them get rid of an urge and doesn’t take attention or affection away from their woman, I don’t see the issue. I personally would accept either cheating or porn in my relationship, my husband and I both made commitments to God but if you don’t have a religious reason to abstain from porn I don’t really see the harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:42 PM
5

I think I’ll stay invested until I have less time on my hands. For now, I don’t work much and my days mostly revolve around taking care of my pets, cleaning, my husband, and taking care of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:39 PM
3

If the dad isn’t actively fulfilling his role, it’s a single mother household.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:24 PM
7

Lack of fitness, poor social skills, and lack of money makes a significant portion of men undateable in the West. The first two can be applied to most Western women as well. I think in general most people in the West are undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:22 PM
1

I think as women, we could never understand the plight of not having the possibility to pass on your genetics. By virtue of being a woman, we are basically guaranteed to be able to pass on our genetics unless we have something serious going on like a truly awful personality or a physical condition. Men have the face the very real reality that they could end up not passing on their genetics if they don’t work hard to be better than average. It’s an urge for survival, maybe not survivor for onesel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:12 PM
5

Having an abusive dad is more of less the same as an absent dad. Both end up with the mom being a single mom. So yeah, single motherhood is bad regardless of whether the dad is ‘there’ or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:08 PM
6

They seem to be doing better than most kids, they have lots of free government assistance, free college, free meals, good grades, they aren’t obese like most kids, and seem very well rounded. The only things that worries me are the guns. I personally wouldn’t choose that lifestyle but in some ways they are doing better than modern kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:58 AM
2

I’ve always preferred masculine men but I have a low body count. I can’t speak for other women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:24 AM
2

Do women actually rate masculine features to be lower? I do know a lot do women especially young women do prefer softer features on men but I would imagine that most women in average like manly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:14 AM
-2

Plenty of women who wait until marriage don’t deny their husbands when they want to do the deed. In fact, I think women who save their sexuality for their husbands have better and more satisfying sexual lives. I’ve never heard a woman who waited until marriage complain about sex but I’ve seen plenty of sexually liberated women complain that their husband isn’t as big as a previous boyfriend so they don’t have pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:08 AM
-1

It doesn’t have to be taxing, the kids took care of themselves and even helped on the farm. They were remarkably independent, I even saw the 6 year old use a stool to make themselves breakfast and then they worked on the farm without even being told to do so. At 15, even I didn’t cook for myself much less did intense labour tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:04 AM
8

If you don’t want it then you simply don’t want it, that’s ok, but those that do want this lifestyle need to Iunlearn the notion that it’s impossible to live this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:25 AM
3

Do Dutch women actually go Dutch on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:28 AM
17

Children are raised better with two parents no matter a woman’s income level. But I do think if single moms weren’t so poor on average maybe it would make a significant different on the statistics of their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:25 AM
10

I’ve seen plenty of poor people have kids. I knew a Mormon family that had a lot of kids and would only spend money on what they absolutely had too, everything else they would make themselves. They grew food, didn’t get legally married to collect government money, ask around the neighborhood for free stuff like half way used notebook, almost dry pens, leftovers, extra plates or silverware, hand me down clothes, extra candles and even used candles to light the house to save money on electricity. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:20 AM
13

Casual sex leads to less long term relationships, which leads to less healthy nuclear families. It’s important for our children to be raised with two parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:16 AM
126

Yes, it’s wrong to accept a date knowing you won’t give him a chance at a relationship. I want to make it clear that dinner doesn’t guarantee a relationship, but ideally you go one dates to see if you are compatible for a relationship. It also ruins dating for honest women because men will be less generous to future women they encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:15 AM
1

I’m not gonna lie, I definitely do not miss the horrible job part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:03 AM
2

In an ideal abs relatively fair marriage, both people should be getting and giving. Some people choose to work equally and do chores equally while others maybe choose to have the woman be the homemaker and the husband the breadwinner. Some are a bit more in between, with the woman being the primary home maker and working a little while the husband works and maybe does a little chores. I do think that our family and divorce courts do tend to be in the favor of the woman, so while a man may benefi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:58 AM
3

I would wait until marriage at most, if she is a virgin. If she’s not a virgin, I’d be willing to wait a few years assuming she’s a high quality woman with a low body count. I wouldn’t bother at all with women that wouldn’t be my standard, no hookups or courting at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:52 PM
4

For me, I waited three years to have sex. I was a virgin waiting for marriage. I am a believer in withholding sex to attain commitment especially if you are the kind of women that gets hurt emotionally from casual sex. If a man is serious about a woman, he should wait for as long as she is comfortable. Unless he is a man that needs a constant supply of sex then he should make it clear from the beginning to a woman that is more sexually liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:46 PM
1

I think it’s a mix of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:20 PM
10

He’s basically trying to say that there are more biological consequences to sex therefore women mate less and when they do they are selective with the men they choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:08 PM
3

I prefer someone with a clean past like mine but a preference isn’t a requirement. If the man truly repented then in the eyes of God he has been cleansed of his sins. If I see he is committed to purity than I’d definitely not hold his past against him and perhaps give him a chance if we get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:57 PM
0

There are ways to determine sexual compatibility without having sex. Even then, waiting until marriage isn’t asking for trouble at all. It is a beautiful and magical experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:04 PM
96

I’ve only met very few women in my life that don’t want a relationship. Most women do want relationships, they just aren’t willing to settle beneath their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:01 PM
1

I propose that people stop using dating apps and focus on irl interactions. If you struggle to get a relationship in real life whether male or female, work on yourself physically and mentally. Be the best you can be, I think 80 percent of people can get a relationship if they just put in the effort to be the best version of themselves and to be the best partner they can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:58 PM
1

Ok, I think I understand the analogy a bit bitter. What I meant by most options women are offered not being good quality, it isn’t to say that the men themselves are bad quality (objectively, some are) but rather that they are incompatible. My experience with dating showed me that not being willing to have sex before commitment eliminates 90 percent of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:39 PM
0

I was thinking less about finances are more about whether he is looking for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:29 PM
1

You are trying to make an argument when their is none. Just as you said, no all options of men are good and not all options of women are good. I’ll be blocking you after sending this reply because you aren’t arguing in good faith. You just want to call everyone sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:17 PM
2

I think both men and women are becoming less attractive as partners for casual sex and long term relationships. There is an obesity epidemic which makes most people unattractive prospects for a casual relationship and the health issues that come with being obese is unattractive for a long term partner as well, you want your wife or husband to live a long time. Men don’t earn enough to be a provider and most women seek someone who is financially equal or greater. Single motherhood is one the rise…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:01 PM
3

How is it misandrist? You yourself acknowledge my statement is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:24 PM
9

My husband was the only man I met that respected my choice to remain a virgin until marriage, and I mean a virgin in all aspects, no sexting, no French kissing, no sex loopholes. It can be difficult to find men willing to wait to have sex but the easiest thing to do is say no to sex and be firm with boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:14 PM
9

I used to struggle with good sex at first my husband but it was mostly due to me feeling guilt for experiencing pleasure. My husband has to reassure me over and over again that my reward for waiting until marriage is to be able to enjoy myself now, it was hard to let go of that feeling. I thought if I let myself feel anything I’d be losing even more of my purity. So really, my struggle to get good sex was all on me but things have gotten better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:11 PM
88

All a woman needs to do to be better than average is to simply not be fat in the US. I’ve seen very average women where I live get flocked with attention like you’ve never seen before while in Eastern Europe men wouldn’t even glance in their direction, since average is hot over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:08 PM
7

As a Christian, I do have a preference for a man that has the same morals as me. I kept my sexuality for marriage, that includes not masturbating, watching porn, or lustful kissing before marriage. I want a man that has done the same or at least tries too. I don’t practically care if other men especially non Christian men watch porn, I don’t believe in porn but I’m not going to do a holy crusade against it either. I don’t think it’s my place to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:06 PM
27

Sex worker, therapist/social worker, military. The last two are not red flags but I’d rather not date men in these career fields because they tend to have lots of stress and potentially mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:52 PM
2

One of the main things that attracts me to my husband is his outgoing personality. People like him, animals like him, he is a person easy to like and socialize with. Which is why he’s so great in the medical field.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:48 PM
3

This sounds more like you don’t care about the wall rather than a protection against it, except for the kids part. Not having kids does prevent stress both physically and emotionally which can help the wall stay away for a bit longer. Everyone gets slammed with the wall eventually but if you don’t care about it then that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:09 PM
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Yeah I’m up North in Washington State. Basically all guys did a hard pass when I would mention marriage, it’s ok, I save myself for the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:53 PM
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I acknowledge that women have a significant advantage in dating, that men routinely settle down below their SMV, and that the wall exists but I do also think that there is a lot of nuance as well. Women may have more options than men but those options aren’t necessarily all good options. Sure, more options is better than almost no options like what men face. As a Christian that was waiting until marriage and dating with purpose most guys overlooked me when it comes to dating, which I understand,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:35 PM
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I agree with this post, there is nothing wrong with these women wanting an upstanding man but the problem is that they don’t provide much in return. They want a man that suits their standards but aren’t interested in suiting the standards of the men they pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:17 PM
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I don’t think there is anything wrong with the term but it does tend to be used as an insult for women who are with a man or a woman that doesn’t hate men. I think that is why people have an issue with the term due to bitter single women throwing that word around at women who are in happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:14 AM
2

I’ve always wanted to learn Chinese and visit China, never got around to it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:26 PM
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I met my husband through a mutual friend, we both attended the same college. We met up at my highschool (I was a highschooler taking college classes) for him to pick me up for our date. I met him when I was 16, married him at 19, and now I’m 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:21 PM
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I like a man that works out, plays videos games, and also enjoys reading manga. It’s not a requirement for a partner to have the same interests as me but it is a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:26 PM
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I disagree. I think women that sleep around don’t care whether the men have no standards, all women know that men have no standards, they sleep around for their physical pleasure but perhaps also for male validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:34 PM
1

They wouldn’t intentionally do so but women are much less efficient for combat roles which would lead to less efficient army.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:10 PM
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Ideally, the biological grandparents would be the ones to take in the kids. But still, we need enough women to repopulate so drafting women is bad for after the war ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:18 PM
2

There will always be inequality because fundamentally no one is actually equal. The draft isn’t forced on women because most women would be useless in combat or worse actively sabotaging the efficiency of the team and also women are needed after the war to repopulate the population. I don’t agree with the draft and I do agree that some sexism is present against men, but to a certain extent I do understand why countries at war only draft men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:17 PM
4

Sounds like they were treating you like the black sheep, that is very unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:09 AM
6

My parents were similar. They never cared where my younger brothers went but even as an older teen they would hover over me like a helicopter. I needed to be accompanied to most places outside of my home.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:08 AM
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Sounds like the sisters are living well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:07 AM
4

I have two younger brothers. Growing up in a more traditional family structure and culture, my brothers would have things a bit more difficult when it comes to certain things. My brothers are expected to help with tasks that require more physical strength, they are expected to work, and although education is equally important among us there is obviously more imperative for my brothers to be educated because they will be expected to be the head and provider of the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:36 AM
1

Oh hahah heavens no! I waited three years and once married I offered my virginity to my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:05 AM
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It’s ok for others to choose to not be celibate, but for me, it was the right choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:53 AM
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It’s based, not cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:49 AM
1

Have you never had a wet dream? They are awesome. I don’t get them anymore since being married but they were my go to for sexual stress relief especially since I didn’t allow myself to masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:29 AM
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I waited 3 years before having sex with my husband. I’m not sure if that would be considered a dry spell since I was a virgin and staying abstinent by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:56 AM
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