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And yet my chances of banging Emma Watson are equal to or greater than your chances of banging this girl. You are developing a serious case of oneitis here and it’s not good. You need to move on and find someone who is interested in you.
/r/seduction02/07/19 10:29 AM
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I think Emma Watson is beautiful, but she's taken and 5 timezones away. Don't ever be afraid to aim high, but you have to be realistic. Obsessing over a taken girl is not healthy. Move the fuck along.
/r/seduction01/07/19 06:55 PM
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Don't waste your time.
/r/seduction01/07/19 06:35 PM
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Never attribute to malice what could be explained by ignorance. It's far more likely OP lost her interest than a manipulative woman is actually using Tinder to play people off each other. She would get much more satisfaction from Instagram or IRL.
/r/seduction03/04/19 12:30 PM
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I 100% see why you wrote this. I feel like a dick saying this, but some of the guys on here are so clueless that they need to be pushed to even act. They are like 1-2 steps removed from Incels or Forever-alones, and I'm not convinced a few of those snuck in to this sub & learned the lingo to try and seem like a player. Once you start to understand women, I think your algorithm completely falls apart, which is why I think you say... Older and more experienced guys may modify the algorithm. So I'm…
/r/seduction03/04/19 12:28 PM
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I swear a solid 70% of the advice on this sub is just "ask her out"
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:41 PM
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If you wait for the girl, it won't happen 99 times out of 100. Take charge.
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:39 PM
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I've been at the point where girls were grabbing my dick through my pants and telling me how much they want me to fuck them. Right here. This is where you peel off her clothes. Were you waiting for her to do it? If you get back to this point, this is the moment you take charge. What were you waiting for? My girlfriend and I are so lost as to how this fizzled out once it got to this point. I don't mean to be rude, but if I'm dying of thirst in the Sahara, and someone hands me a Gatorade and says …
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:08 PM
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Move on.
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:04 PM
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When women are on vacation they tend to take a much more cavalier attitude towards life. "Vacation calories don't count". Well apparently vacation dickings don't count either. They tend to be more adventurous and they drop a lot of their inhibitions. If you've ever worked a vacation spot or a bar near a work/convention center, you'll find women are a lot looser. ​
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:27 PM
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I'm legitimately confused, and please don't take this as disrespect. How do you get to "heavy makeout session" and not close? You are in the door at that point. How do you sprint back out the door? What are you saying to them?
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:22 PM
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Then you probably do fine with women.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:52 PM
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No I just meant it didn't make cohesive sense to me. Individually the points made sense, but it didn't read very easily at first. No condesencion intended or implied, I only meant it took me some extra effort to parse out what I thought you were saying. ​ This new presentation of your arguments seems like a complete departure from what we were talking about above. ​ I'm not "selling" anything unless you are referring to the metaphor of the sexual marketplace. I'm not a seduction coach. You absol…
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:51 PM
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Nope nope nope. There wasn’t a magic way to text her to make her interested. She moved on, but was trying to be polite when you texted. Move on to a new woman.
/r/seduction01/04/19 11:44 AM
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Just ask. This is the last time I’m saying this. I’m not gonna hold your hand anymore. Just ask. Ask her out. There’s no gimmick. She’s interested or she isn’t. Nuance might help in rare situations but 99.99% of the time you just need to ask her to do something (reasonable) with you.
/r/seduction01/04/19 11:42 AM
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Ok your points have a weird flow but let me see if I can piece them together because they aren’t wrong by nature, but we do have separate conclusions. An alcoholic, con, felon, etc. may get lucky with women in the short term. Anyone who tries enough times can find a weak or desperate woman. But 1) is that the type of woman we are pursuing? & 2) their destructive behavior will drive women away, and in their “squalor” for lack of a better term they will have a much harder time as they head down th…
/r/seduction01/04/19 11:40 AM
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Why’d you put a safety net out with the joke? That makes it more vague. Ask her out straight up. And if she doesn’t want to, move on and stop spending time on her.
/r/seduction31/03/19 10:34 PM
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Your statement is one of those things that looks good on paper, but doesn’t really apply to the real world. How many successful and competent men do you know that don’t have a good woman by their side? Be honest.
/r/seduction31/03/19 10:32 PM
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I just re-read this. ​ Did you actually ask her out on a date? Or did you say "if this doesn't get me a date..." and expect her to respond? ​ You have to actually ask, so if you haven't, text her "let's do X, at Y time". If you haven't done that, don't come back until you do.
/r/seduction31/03/19 07:41 PM
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If the flowers didn't generate any response, I wouldn't waste any more money on it. Not that flowers are a magical "get pussy" ticket, but she would have said SOMETHING if she were interested.
/r/seduction31/03/19 07:15 PM
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Again just not true. Most women nowadays have no issue paying. I've met hyper conservative women who don't mind paying. Charisma on Command, or a business communication program like Toastmasters. They focus on making PEOPLE attracted to you, not tell you how to bang women, but the same concepts apply. ​ 5 & your last sentence went way over my head. Something I said must have triggered the thought of an argument you heard before, and so you attributed it to me. But I didn't call you sexist, or sa…
/r/seduction31/03/19 07:02 PM
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I hate to be that guy, but I've got a few problems with how this question was asked. You are way overthinking this, and your info is wrong. Not sure where you got this stat, but it's distinctly not true. I've been approached for sex by women 3 times IN MY LIFE. And one of those times was in a long term relationship. Most women prefer to be approached. God bless the women that do approach, but let's be real. They are rare. The internet didn't reach widespread use until the mid 2000's. Are we real…
/r/seduction29/03/19 06:59 PM
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This is not true. In fact if you wait a date or two many women feel much more comfortable and respected.
/r/seduction29/03/19 06:43 PM
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If your co-worker said this to you, then you are being perceived as emotionally fragile.
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:58 PM
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You didn't say "Treat women well" or I wouldn't have said it's bad advice. It's vague advice, and probably not super helpful, but that's not "bad" advice per-se. No, you said "Send her a text that says 'I had a great time last night'". That's VERY DIFFERENT. The text is not a magical cure-all pill to prevent getting #metoo'd, and it shouldn't be used as such. I don't have time to go into all the ways not to get #metoo'd but as I said, it's a complex subject and you need to acknowlege it as such.…
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:56 PM
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Yeah mind the date, and also check the context to make sure you aren't repeating what 20 others have said. I will say you are dead wrong about the #metoo thing. You can't over-simplify a complex issue. Before birth control, the rules for sex were very simple. Women carried all the risk in sex and so they wanted to know the man would stick around to help with the kids after. Marriage was invented in response. In a post-birth control world, women can have as much sex as they want without the physi…
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:18 PM
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This is going to be long, but there's a complex distinction that I've wanted to talk about for a while, but didn't have a good chance before. ​ I know what you are warning against, but since this is written from the perspective of a female then we know this isn't how it's perceived. Let's look at the crucial sentence in your post. ​ You demonstrate value by... having the ability to be with more women than just her. ​ This is a correct statement, because you added the word ability. Women are not …
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:04 PM
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Bro this was a month ago.
/r/seduction30/01/19 03:15 AM
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But am I wrong?
/r/seduction20/01/19 04:31 AM
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The amount of info you are lacking is so astronomical that I can’t translate all of it into one post. I can’t tutor you on what women want, how to respectfully break down their barriers, how to approach and pursue women, the reasons women enjoy being chased, the reasons they put barriers up in the firstplace and the 4 dozen other topics that will come up as I seriously think about it, I don’t have that kind of time. Lebron will tutor his teammates. He won’t tutor high school freshman. You’ve got…
/r/seduction19/01/19 12:44 PM
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I had a hard time sticking with martial arts. I’ve tried three times and each time I get hit with something really hard that makes me wonder why I’m paying to get my ass kicked. I like it in theory, but getting overthr pain is a mental hurdle.
/r/seduction18/01/19 09:39 PM
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I think you've lost her as a sexual partner, you've clearly taken too long. I think you should move on and try and snag some other girls. I don't think salvaging this is the right way to go, but if I were to try and salvage it.... ​ Go off the grid with her for about 3 weeks ish. No contact, don't message her or respond to her messages. Get deep into a gym or running pattern, or even jiu Jitsu. Some physical activity that you can throw yourself into. About 3 weeks later (or more) if she starts t…
/r/seduction18/01/19 01:52 PM
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Drop 3 0's and you've got it perfect.
/r/seduction18/01/19 01:44 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LZ3ul8Lv6eM
/r/seduction18/01/19 01:32 PM
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Ugh everyone needs to read the context. I’m not saying fitness is bad. OP said women will INSTANTLY fall for you. Which is what I was responding to
/r/seduction18/01/19 02:47 AM
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No, ​ He said he's approached 100s of women, if this is true, then he's approaching poorly, not failing to approach. He needs to improve his approach, not approach poorly more.
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:42 PM
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I got that lie a lot before I realized Online dating gives people unrealistic expectations. When you can litterally pick the body shape/personality type of any date with just a few swipes, it really isn't a platform that benefits a slow approach. You NEED to make a move on these women DATE #1 if you are interested. If they've made out with you/fucked you they will feel more invested and be more willing to give you a second or third chance. Otherwise you risk not striking their fancy for date num…
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:37 PM
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A lot of the vocabulary used on this sub & peddled in these Youtube vids is weird, cultish, and half of the concepts don't work.
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:31 PM
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Anyone who claims they are looking for "the one" is on some Disney bullshit. ​ Evolutionary Psychologists & Moral Philosophers both agree, humans mate for life not because they found a magical "one" with whom they have no problems. It's long been understood that pairing for life is just the best environment to raise kids and it's the best model for tackling life's problems when you have a long term partner by your side that you can work shit out with.
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:27 PM
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We don't know any better than you dude, just talk to them and feel them out.
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:23 PM
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I think this is a joke?
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:20 PM
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Again, not what I was debating.
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:14 PM
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I firmly agree with everything here. I just think it’s a mistake to say women are instantly turned ln by muscles which is what I was responding to.
/r/seduction17/01/19 07:16 PM
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The inferior vibe is only a problem if it's repeated frequently over the course of a relationship leading to a bad power dynamic. It is good to think of yourself as a prize. It is good to think of yourself as worthy of admiration and respect. It's NOT something that needs to occupy your every decision and statement or you will come across as arrogant or conceited, which is often a turn off. ​ In reality, occasionally reminding a girl that you think she's a catch is a very good way to endear her …
/r/seduction17/01/19 04:27 PM
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A minor change. Weight training doesn't sexualize you to women in any way. Weight training stablizes you in their mind. I had a conversation with a couple of women the other day over the new Spiderman trailer. I said that Happy wasn't good enough for Aunt may because he was schlubby and the women rushed to his defense. They didn't care that he was schlubby, his other qualities made up for his lack of dedication in the gym. If you hit the gym regularly it shows a woman that you are dedicated to m…
/r/seduction17/01/19 03:31 PM
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That's really pedantic, and I don't think it matters that much. If she's interested enough that she's playing thumb war with you, then she's having fun, you are touching, and you know that she is at least willing to kiss you or she would walk off instead of playing. ​ The prize vs. consequence dynamic is pretty irrelevant at that point. MAYBE this is a consideration during texting, when she has minutes & hours to analyze each text and break them down, but in person she'll be swept up in the mome…
/r/seduction17/01/19 03:25 PM
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What? This stuff works all the time, what are you talking about?
/r/seduction17/01/19 03:22 PM
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Yes your approach changes based on age. In GENERAL women are much more forgiving about age and body type than men. So as long as you aren't a complete loser, they can get on board. That said you have to understand where you are in life, and where they are in life, and you need to understand how that's going to change the dynamic. ​ In general: Be mindful about what the woman wants. There's no need to lie or manipulate here, just understand she wants something out of a relationship and if you fit…
/r/seduction16/01/19 02:26 PM
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Gross dude. Be reasonable.
/r/seduction16/01/19 02:03 PM
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Ah the deep Frenchy and boob grab. ​ It's like the flea flicker. It's a trick play that works maybe one out of ten times. But that tenth time is so magical.
/r/seduction16/01/19 02:01 PM
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There is a difference between a "Kind Man" & a "Nice Guy". ​ A Kind Man is generally well regarded. He's a man of integrity, he's helpful to his community, and people enjoy being around him. A kind man can be kind without being a pushover, and that's the difference here. You can have your own personality, speak your mind and have a gentleman's disagreement, even if you don't default to douchebaggery. ​ The "Nice Guy" is a trope that guys can fall into quite readily. Nice Guy refers to needy men …
/r/seduction16/01/19 01:50 PM
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Yes, but that doesn't mean that there isn't a lot of bullshit on here.
/r/seduction14/01/19 06:55 PM
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Stay pathetic then. Just don’t write your bullshit down for others to see.
/r/seduction08/12/18 10:58 AM
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1) Don’t pretend to speak for all men when you have a disability. If it prevents you from acting normally, don’t pretend Tinder is biased against all men. You have no concept of what that means and you shouldn’t be writing from a position of authority. 2) I will speak brutally honest with you until you stop speaking horrible lies. The brutality is meant to get your attention because these ideals are horrible. Let me explain mathematically so that you can better understand. You are saying 2+2=5. …
/r/seduction07/12/18 04:00 PM
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What's your goal here? Are you after numbers? Or do you want sex? Statistically people in relationships have more sex. Are you leaving the area soon & don't want to be tied down? Or is it the variety you crave? ​ No judgements here, I just need to know because the strategy is different for both. ​ Edit: "I'm not going to fuck you" is 100% a shit test, but in a post #metoo world I perfectly understand why you want to play that safe. No judgement there.
/r/seduction06/12/18 02:54 PM
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What's wrong with virgins? They are going to lose it to someone, why can't it be you? You can be open, honest, and even kind to a virgin. They are in University on Tinder dude, you do the math. They are looking for fun and exciting experiences that expand their minds. Give it to them.
/r/seduction06/12/18 02:03 PM
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Go knock on her door TODAY
/r/seduction06/12/18 01:59 PM
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Damn dude, no wonder you aren’t getting any. You sound like you wrote the manifesto for the world’s saddest cult. When was the last time you went outside? Nobody speaks like this in the real world. NO SHIT ITS SOCIAL EXCITEMENT!! Do you think women want to accept socially bored? Go tell your mother that women aren’t attracted to you because you aren’t socially exciting enough. I hope she slaps the shit out of you. “Oh woe is fucking me, these women want high value guys”. Real shit? Maybe instead…
/r/seduction06/12/18 11:07 AM
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Absolute bullshit. ​ I'm a 5 on a good day, a good sense of humor & not being an ass get you a long way guys, even on Tinder.
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:06 PM
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Some people are naturally more outgoing than others. Some are more forward, some are more friendly. You aren't more or less likeable because of shyness alone. ​ The key is meaningful interaction. My buddies & I have had moments where not a word was said, but we enjoyed the silence together. Women are more talkative in GENERAL, but they won't write you off if you are more quiet. The best way to participate in conversations while letting the other person do most of the talking is to ask explorator…
/r/seduction20/11/18 08:19 PM
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I think your last paragraph is right on the money, and it's missing from OP's breakdown. Teasing is not an opener. It's so mood dependent. If you're feeling like shit, and you are out to have a good time, teasing can come accross very poorly. As an opener, you also have no concept of her specific quirks. If she's self concious about her nose, and you tease her about her nose, YOU'RE DONE WITH THAT GIRL. (Yeah guys I hear you, it's a numbers game, you can shake it off and try again, but that igno…
/r/seduction12/11/18 03:05 PM
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It's important to realize that teasing's effectiveness is very mood-dependent. I've teased a woman at the wrong time and one instance ruined the relationship. It's hyper effective in certain situations, and it'll blow up in your face other times. Sometimes women have shit weeks and they go out to have a good time and feel better about themselves. If she's tired, frustrated, etc. Teasing may not be what she needs in the moment. We convince ourselves it's a numbers game when we fail (and sometimes…
/r/seduction12/11/18 02:55 PM
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Did you fail? You didn't trip over yourself apologizing. There were probably better answers, but this isn't the worst. Just set up a time to get that drink. Keep an eye out for more.
/r/seduction06/11/18 02:53 PM
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Buddy you realize that ​ 1) Acne doesn't ever go away completely 2) Most people get laid in their teens, a time of peak acne. At your age, her horomones are raging and their confusing, and she desperately wants a wild romance and experimentation. She cares way less about what you look like and far more about how you make her feel. Look on Tinder, a solid 10% of them are looking for "Dad Bod" they want the comfort you provide more than they want your body.
/r/seduction18/10/18 01:55 PM
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Clubs are not my thing, at least the ones around me. I can dance, but it doesn't really excite me. I don't like pounding music. I have a hard time pretending to have fun. I'm a little better at concerts. Plus my job starts earlier than most, so I'm used to waking up around 4:30 am. I could obviously do Friday evening, but I'm exhausted by 10 or 11. I just can't imagine clubs are my only option, I'd really prefer to find a different way.
/r/seduction20/09/18 01:22 PM
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1) My marriage was awful. My ex was controlling and didn't allow me to have any say over money, house choice, etc. She actually broke down into tears when I suggested buying a used car instead of new. She used sex as a weapon for manipulation. After 2 years of it, I got sick of it and started standing up for myself. She went off her pill without telling me & got pregnant. She left as soon as the baby was born. She lied to the courts & our friends saying I was abusive and was sleeping around. We …
/r/seduction20/09/18 01:07 PM
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None taken but what exactly are you trying to avoid?
/r/seduction19/09/18 11:35 PM
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That’s literally in my post dude. The single moms are easy to get, they’ve just all been crazy.
/r/seduction19/09/18 11:34 PM
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